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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] got played by a girl [20 F].
POST: So I am in college and I have never dated anyone before. This was up until a couple weeks ago, where I met her (Let's call her A). A was the first girl i have ever come close to having a relationship with. We went to breakfast everyday, went... | Girl used me, developed feelings, then threw me away. She does the same to other men. Now I am hurt and confused. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Friends nudes got leaked, im tied in. need help
POST: okay, lets go back in time to a few months ago, maybe like.. 6, if not more. I'm in HS and there's this senior who i always thought was bomb asf. through super super shady means that i am in no way proud of i got a few full nude pics of he... | got girls nudes, sent them to 3 trustworthy people. deleted them, months later she confronts me about it saying people have em and its ruining her |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[18M] got drunk and cheated on my gf [18F] (3 months) by kissing 2 other women
POST: Hi
I had a wild day a few days ago and don't even remember most of what happened that day. So my friends refreshed my memories and I then I started to panic.
Apparently I kissed with 2 random girls,... | I kissed with 2 random women and don't remember it. I am feeling guilty towards my gf, but don't want to hurt her by telling her what I did. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Routine spaying went wrong. Any tips on how to keep a sore cat calm and reasonably comfortable over the weekend?
POST: This isn't a medical question, or anything needing a veterinarian's advice, although if you are one feel free to chip in! Bess has a vet who is competent and is seeing her regu... | Bess needs tips on not being a pain in the butt patient. Any cat whisperers out there want the job? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: m[17] dating f[15] 8 month duration. My girlfriend has a huge problem with me talking to my close friend from middle school (whom i dated once for a week about 3 years ago, and realized being friends was more reasonable). Is my girlfriend being reasonable?
POST: I[m17] have been dating... | Girlfriend wanted me to cut off relationship with close friend I dated for a week 3 years ago, and have been friends since middle school because she says we are too close. Is she being reasonable? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (25F) Best Friend (25F) of 20 years is selfish and doesn't even realize it...
POST: We have been best friends for almost 20 years. I have been warned many times by my own parents, my SO and others that she is, and always will be, selfish... Is, and always will, take advantage of me ... | My BFF is selfish and manipulative and it's really starting to take a toll on me, I don't know what to do or say... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [16/M] I did something stupid and it hurt my girlfriend [16/f]
POST: I posted this to teen relationships advice but this subreddit seems much more active.
So this happened last Friday night. My girlfriend and I had only been dating for about 4 days, and I was at a party with my friend... | I kissed my bestfriend when I had just got together with my gf now, what should I do other than say sorry? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [24F] not ruin everything with my amazing new boyfriend [26M]?
POST: Hey dudes.
Met this great guy two months ago. A month later, we were official and exclusive. He's a kind, handsome, funny, patient, loving, empathetic, down-to-earth (omg check out that honeymoon talk) pers... | Met an awesome dude who I greatly care for. How do I get over my insecurities so I can believe he's genuine about his feelings, believe in myself, and not sabotage everything?! |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: [Advice] Need help with approaching FSIL about not being a bridesmaid and not making our cupcakes.
POST: My FSIL is pregnant and is due 3 weeks after our wedding date, yay babies! We are very excited for her and her husband, this is also the first grand baby for my future in-laws (so... | Not close with FSIL who could be mega-prego during wedding or have a brand new baby. How do I tell her she can skip out on being a part of the wedding party? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 F] with my friend [21 M] I've known for a year, have no idea how to navigate this.
POST: Sorry for the cringey post.
He and I hung out alone a few times over the past month, and I think we fancy each other but I'm not sure. Seems like he's been kinda hanging around me. The last... | Got stood up by a friend who might be interested in me. He apologized and I don't know how to respond. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Me [27M] with my ex-girlfriend [20 F] of 3 months suddenly left with no explanation
POST: I was dating this girl for 3 months but I met her last year. We started out as just friends with benefits until she said that she loved me. A few weeks after that she said she wanted to have... | After 3 months girl falls wildly in love with me, out of the blue says she doesn't see a love future with me anymore. How do I proceed? Stay friends? Give up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: My friend is suffering from a bout of depression, and I've been there myself, but I'm unbelievably hurt and sore that she'll probably bail on my 20th birthday party.
POST: I'm turning 20 years old next Friday. Here in Iceland, 20 is the legal drinking age, so it's a pretty big birthday.
... | = My friend is depressed and will probably bail on helping me host my birthday get-together. I'm a selfish fuckhead because I feel unbelievably hurt about it.*** |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Need help for my Canadian sister who is in the middle of a divorce and custody battle with her American husband.
POST: I've seen some great advise here on Reddit and when my baby sister asked me for advise, you guys were the first I thought of for help...
My sister (Canadian) met a guy i... | Canadian Wife wants to divorce American husband and have full custody of kids and for him to pay child support. Can it be done? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [19 F]. Different expectations? Lack of communication?
POST: We used to date some time ago. She broke up with me 4 months ago and 3 weeks ago we got back together. I guees? We're dating, nothing serious though... we don't make plans together, we don't spend... | Got back with ex and we have no sex. Wait or come up with the topic? Plus, how do I make things a little more serious? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [18/F] I'm into this guy..but all of his friends are into me.
POST: Okay so basically I hang out with this group of friends, and I don't know that they actually consider me a friend because every guy in this group tries to get w me.
Long story short, I ended up meeting one of them and... | I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on this guy I really like or should I keep hanging out with his friends who I'm not even interested in because then I'll get to see him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Has anyone else ever had a crush on someone for eternity and forever? Me [19 F] him [20 M]
POST: Gosh, I feel like I just need to talk about this, okay so I'm a female and there was this one guy I met at a party a few years ago (I was in high school at the time) and he was absolutely b... | have had a huge crush on someone for the past couple years even though I know I would never want to pursue a life with some like him. Has anyone had an experience like this!? Stories encouraged! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Meeting girls in college isn't what I [19 M] expected
POST: Well, I don't even know exactly what I expected. I mean, I had heard that college is supposed to be the optimal time to meet and talk to girls, but it's just not happening for me. I'm almost half-way through my 2nd year of c... | I want to take advantage of college as an optimal time to meet girls, but I'm very introverted/analytical, and I have no idea where to even start. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my coworker [26 F] Office flirting, now confused?
POST: I spend about 6 months trying to get my cowoker to agree to go on a date with me to have a few drinks, finally she did and it was amazing. We had a great time and talked about everything but work, she told me she li... | Went on a date with coworker and it went amazing, two days after she stopped talking to me because she felt I was being to intense because I left a note on her car after work. How do I fix it?? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by putting my arm around a random man at Heathrow
POST: This happened while traveling back from a week-long business trip to London. I was in the rental car drop off "shack" with my fellow American travelers trying to help sort out some issues with the car when I spotted someone from the b... | Arm around random stranger whom I mistook for my friend at Heathrow made me feel less sure about my ability to make decisions. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I (23/f) justified in ignoring my (m/56) father?
POST: So I was living with my father a couple of months ago, and during an argument he became incredibly physically aggressive towards me (squaring up to me whilst yelling, crashing in to my room unannounced). First time he's ever dis... | Father was physically aggressive towards me, I've now gone no contact but feeling conflicted about what the right thing is to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] am in love with this girl [19 F]. Who is sadly a lesbian.
POST: so, I've been in love with her for about 5 months now. I've tried my hardest to let it just pass as to not upset her by making any attempts but I just can't hold it in any longer and I need help.
We talk a fair a... | I love a lesbian, she's pretty fan-fucking-tastic, please for the love of all that is holy help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [21M] and I [21F] are considering getting engaged and saving the wedding till after grad school.
POST: My boyfriend [22M] and I [22F] have been together for three years now. We were best friends who fell in love, and I swear, we have one brain.
This summer we are both app... | Boyfriend and I considering getting engaged now, but waiting on the wedding for 4-5 years until after we are both out of grad school. Is a long engagement a bad idea? Or is it beneficial/ nothing wrong with it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I feel like a total shithead - High School Junior(s)
POST: Okay, so a little bit of background, I've never had a real girlfriend and am almost always pretty wimpy when it comes to girls. I can't read them, and so I have no way of knowing whether they are interested or not.
I'm on the ... | I like this girl, but when I like girls I act like a total dumbass and so I'm unsure of what to do about her and about this problem in general |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 F] with my husband [29 M] of a year (together for 6 years), he's going through a midlife crisis or similar and I'm not sure how to help
POST: My husband is a very intelligent man and is very well educated. The problem is that he is having trouble finding work in his field. He we... | Husband going through possible mid-life crisis concerning his career, doesn't know what to do, doesn't seem to want to try, how do I help and support him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: After 2 years of deep love she's [19/F] suddenly in love with someone else. I'm [20/M] feeling destroyed.
POST: We've been dating for 2 years now. We had our ups and downs, but at the end we loved each other. We could trust each other so much that jealousy fights never ever happened.
... | My girlfriend of 2 years suddenly fell in love with someone else. I can't understand what I did wrong or what the hell happened. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: His mother doesn't want us to date!
POST: I've been dating for my boyfriend a little longer than a year now. I love him; he's my everything. Although we are really really young, I know I want to be with him for a long time. About 8 months ago, I cheated on him with my best frien... | kissed another boy and now my boyfriends mother doesn't want me to be with him anymore. How do I fix things? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I successfully pull off "bros before hos" in this situation?
POST: This is probably one of the weirdest situations I have ever been in. One of my close friends started dating an ex-girlfriend of mine. Neither of them have mentioned it to me, or even mentioned that they eve... | My close friend started dating my ex-girlfriend who has a history of infidelity. How do i get this information across to my friend without sounding petty and ruining my friendship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU and now have a large scar on my tailbone
POST: I am about 125-130 pounds and my height is I suppose 5 foot 9 or 10.
I wanted to start getting in shape to gain some weight and muscle so I have been recently been working out every other day. My reason for working out was I was sick of being ... | Wanted to work out my abs, ignored pain in lowerback, hit 100 situps and burned a hole on my ass cheek. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] unsure about whether this is the right time to tell [19F] I like her
POST: So, this girl I've been talking to recently stopped talking to her ex, that she probably still kind of likes. She stopped talking to him because he apparently blocked her for another girl. This guy is c... | Girl I like recently stopped talking to guy she likes. School is about to start soon, so I would be temporarily doing a long distance relationship with her assuming everything goes well. Should I tell her I like her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My FWB's [22,M] father just died and I [19, F] am worried about how it will affect us emotionally
POST: I started a new job in January as a server. A coworker and I began flirting and it was pretty innocent. We went to a coworker's 21st birthday and I got drunk for the first time. He h... | I started a fling with a coworker for casual sex. His father died suddenly and he is turning to me for emotional support. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 F] with my boyfriend [27 M] of 1 month, and I want to sleep with him every night
POST: My boyfriend lives with his brother.The brother is not very nice.
I live in a shitty small apartment about half a mile away.
I want to sleep with my boyfriend almost every night even if we d... | I told my boyfriend i need to sleep with him almost every night; a few weeks later he told me he needs to not sleep with me every night. I love him. How to approach?? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19F]. My guy friends [22M] asked to be monogamous, but doesn't want to be 'dating' or to call me his girlfriend, is this normal?
POST: Also, if there's a better sub for this, please let me know! I just really need advice.
I've known this guy only for a few weeks, and we've (more li... | guy doesn't want us to fuck other people anymore, but also doesn't want to call me his girlfriend, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my best friend [18 M], he admitted feeling for my gf [18F] of 1 1/2 years. admitted feelings for her. I don't know what to do?
POST: My best friend, lets call him Ricky, has just admitted feeling for my gf, lets call her Sammy. I have been best friends with Ricky for ove... | My bestfriend admitted feeling for my gf, and we are stuck on a vacation together and everytime they are in the same room it drives me crazy. How/Can I salvage my friendship and my relationship??? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18F] with my Mother [40sF], she is acting suspicious?
POST: Not sure if I should be posting here, but recently my mother has been acting very suspicious. Now i don't want to come to any conclusions but she has been on her phone non stop, when previously she would only use it for wo... | Mother texting someone 24/7, making calls in her car and sending heart emojis to someone on whatsapp. Suspicious? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Fuck working on Sundays
POST: My shift started at 10:00 AM and I woke up at 10:08 AM, so once I saw the time I was immediately induced into a state of panic while being half-asleep.
I grab the first pair of clothes I could find and rush to the shower, and at this time I receive a phone c... | Woke up late for work, could've gone back to sleep and avoid a stomach ache, and a trip to Walmart if I had just picked up the phone |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [21F] with her best friend [20F] of 5 years, friend agrees she puts no effort into friendship but won't change
POST: My girlfriend was recently told by her best friend (G) that since they are no longer flatmates G won't have time to visit gf even though they only live abo... | My gf is no longer flatmates with her best friend who told her she could not be bothered to put in the effort to visit and is too busy to see my gf for at least the next year. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My best friend (30F) is dating and living with my ex husband, tried to be cool about it but can't.
POST: So the description says it all mostly.
Backstory;
I was married to my ex for 3 years, and divorced bc I found out he was cheating on me. We have a little girl who is 6 years old n... | My best friend and ex-husband (and baby daddy) are dating, have been for months after my permission, things have just started to get weird... What do I do?? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] of 9 months, need help with mediating best friends.
POST: Before you say *I'm just a teenager, and that I probably have hormonal complications which are triggering the effects I am experiencing now* please just hear me out.
The two of us have issues... | Girlfriend talks to another guy for comfort/advice instead of me (50% of the time) and doesn't see anything wrong with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F24) boyfriend (M26) of 5 years constantly tells me that he isn't good enough for me
POST: Hi reddit!
Thank you in advance for your insight and advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 5 years, and have lived together for the past year. We have grown up so ... | My boyfriend regularly tells me that he is not good enough for me, and I need some advice for how to encourage him |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Do dogs NEED dog beds?
POST: In my head, it's already a yes. But I need help convincing my dad.
My mom died a few months ago and now I have to live with my dad, bringing my 15 year old yellow lab and my two cats.
My yellow lab was the runt of the litter. She is now the longest surviving dog f... | dad doesn't want to buy my 15 year old dog a dog bed and I need help convincing him to get one. |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: PSA: Just because you like a subject and/or want explore it in college does not mean you need to major or minor in said subject.
POST: Any upperclassmen or graduates reading this will have given a resounding "**Duh!**" at reading my title, but I all the time (both on reddit and in talking wi... | You don't need to try and major or minor in every subject you think might interest you. You should take classes that interest you and, if you find yourself especially drawn to a subject, then think about adding a major or minor. |
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated
TITLE: [Discussion] Looking for resources. I utterly lack whatever it is that drives intrinsic motivation. I need constant (healthy) external motivators -- Help!
POST: I've done the 'hard work.' I've been through counseling, I've upped my self-awareness, I've traced unhealthy patterns in my fa... | I utterly lack internal motivation on my own. External reminders help me motivate. Looking for a consistent structure to stay motivated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Me[24/f] with ex-bf/kind of friend [28/m], not sure how to proceed with friendship
POST: Need advice! I have an ex from the very beginning of high school; I didn't take the relationship seriously but he definitely did. I was fifteen, he was eighteen. We had talks about getting ma... | My ex from high school keeps trying to reconnect. I don't want to, partly out of respect to my bf and partly because he's my ex. What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why isn't there a summer camp reddit?
POST: I'm looking for other redditors who have summer camp backgrounds (as staff or campers) who would share stories, games, songs, and everything that makes camp awesome.
I've noticed that camps can get entrenched in their own traditions. but having ... | is there a reddit for residential summer camps? Not about hiking or travelling, but campfire games and capture the flag type games etc. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [40 F] with my friend/coworker [50 M/F] of two years. How do I tell her I think the "doctor" she took me to is a quack?
POST: I have a shoulder issue, and I had the same thing a few years ago and it went away on its own. My friend insisted on taking me to her chiropractor and I deci... | My friend took me to a quack and will be pissed if I don't keep going/taking his "meds." |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21M] won't see my girlfriend [21F] on my birthday. I feel a little disappointed
POST: We've been dating for a year now. She normally works 9-5, as do I, so I told her there's no point in taking my birthday off and that we'll just see each other once were both finished work. About a ... | Girlfriend worked late on my birthday. I had to ask her to see if she could switch her shift - feeling hurt she didn't try in the first place. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: M(18) thinking about breaking up with girlfriend(18), but I'm clueless with relationships?
POST: I have very little experience with relationships, so that's why I come to you Reddit. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and things have been going pretty smooth until recent... | I feel like I have changed dramatically since dating this girl. She's picking up a demanding summer job, in which I'd barely see her. We're both leaving for college far apart from each other this fall. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F22] somehow found myself fully financially supporting my long-distance boyfriend [M32], who is a full-time student. Am I wrong to feel upset?
POST: We have been together for a year, halfway-through which I graduated from college and got my first-ever job, making 68K. I had to move ... | My boyfriend makes about 1/4 the money I do, and uses a credit card that I pay 3/4 for, for everything. Do I have a right to be upset? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by mumbling "dat ass" when my teacher turned his back to me
POST: Throwaway time. (This happened a few years ago when I was 17.)
It was a boring history lesson and we were reading a short extract. Our history teacher was good looking but I wasn't attracted to him. Some girls were obviousl... | Mumbled "dat ass" as my teacher had his back turned to me. He heard and made me stay behind. Ended up with a weeks detention with another teacher (and I'm not sure if they knew what happened.) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some of the awesome stories about your parents?
POST: I was around 8 when this happened. At that time, I was going to a private school and my mom, as usual, was driving my sister and I to school in the morning before work. We were at a crowded intersection and we were turning left... | got in a serious car crash where the car was totalled. Pretty much saved my sister and I from worse injuries and got sent to school less than an hour later. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Military member here, looking for some advice.
POST: First of all, I've been subscribed to this sub for a few years now and I use this and /r/militaryfinance as wonderful resources. Several people over the years have had similar stories as mine, but I was hoping for some personalized... | my wife just got a new job, and I'm not sure what to do with the money. Please help out! Any advice would be welcome. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How can we fairly split the cost of the car with a faulty transmission?
POST: So 4 years ago my brother in law got in an accident with his 2005 Saturn Vue. Well insurance fixed the car all up but he never felt safe driving it again. He bought a new car without trading it in leaving them ... | Took over payments from my brother in law for a car with a faulty transmission, because I'm not the owner I don't qualify for the settlement. Should I still be responsible for the whole cost of repair? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mother[40F] is a chain smoker, she bakes delicious gifts for me [25F] and other family/co-workers...Her stuff is beautiful and would taste great but smell like smoke. Not sure how to break it to her gracefully.
POST: My mother has found a new passion in baking and I am super happy f... | Mother is a chain smoker who loves to bake, has serious potential, but doesn't realize her goodies tastes like an ash tray. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[M]23 and about to graduate college while my girlfriend [20] still has 2 years.
POST: We have been dating one year and she is 100% convinced that I am the love of her life and love her very much as well (not 100% convinced that we are soul mates though). I am moving about 3 hours away... | I'm graduating and moving 3 hours away. Girlfriend still has 2 years of college and is insecure. Need any advice about how to handle this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Not sure if this stray cat we picked up is going to make it :(
POST: My brother and his girlfriend found a stray cat in the our parents shed. It was real sweet and friendly so she began to feed it and keep it company for a couple months. Eventually we think a neighbor who isn't fond of cats tur... | Bro and his GF found really cool stray cat. It got sick and they're literally putting all of the little money they have into getting him better but can't afford much more. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Dog with stage 4 Kidney failure... suddenly better?
POST: About a month ago, we noticed our dog, Bounder was acting as if he had the flu so we took him to the vet to get some tests done and they showed us that his creatinine levels were around 10 where a normal dog's is around 2. He's only 5 ye... | Dog with Stage 4 Kidney failure is suddenly back to his normal self after a month of being diagnosed. Should I be happy or worried still? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30F] mother [54F] is on a downward health spiral, and she won't accept the least bit of advice or help. I'm in between a rock & a hard place. Help?
POST: As the title suggests, I (30F)am having a very hard time dealing with my mother (54F) whose lifestyle is only going to lead her ... | My mother is working hard towards an early grave, and I'm not sure what I can do to intervene. Help!?! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18F] feeling like I don't exist and am not good enough to my parents.
POST: So idk if anyone will see this and care but I'm an 18+ year old female who lives in New Zealand and I live with my parents and am currently having some family trouble …yay :/. ( I have no job or anywhere to... | Help. 18 f in NZ. Getting really sick of my hypocritical parents but I have no job or anywhere else to stay. Having trouble getting a job, I have applied like crazy. Any suggestions ? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] want to go travelling this time next year. Is it worth dating in the meantime?
POST: EDIT: That title is bad grammar - it should be "I", not "me". I bloody sound like a caveman.
I'm planning on travelling round the world from next February until December. I have it all mappe... | Started dating a girl, but im leaving on a jet plane in a few months either way. Wondering if i should just put my dating life on hold for a year. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Help me get fired.
POST: I am currently working at a grocery store while I wait to go graduate school next fall. I dislike this job very much, mostly because I feel that every minute I spend there is an utter waste of my time. It kills me to think of the books I could be reading or movie... | I want to frame myself or create a situation where I get fired from my job at a grocery store without actually doing anything wrong. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18M] future is in jeopardy because my father [40sM] is withholding money from my family.
POST: I don't know how to start this off, so I'll try to convey as much information as possible.
I'm currently in university, and I am completely financially independent from my parents. I hav... | Financially independent from parents, dad is funneling money from his job into a personal bank account, loans will be reduced and will possibly have to drop out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] concerned about my roommate [19F] and her new boyfriend [29M]
POST: I've lived with my roommate for about a year now and I figured out fairly quickly that she's someone who always *needs* to be dating someone. She has a new boyfriend that is coming over 3+ times per week, usu... | how should my expectations change, now that she's in a serious relationship? how can I bring up to her that i'm concerned about her change in demeanor? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Just got out of my longest relationship, 3 years (I'm 21), and I'm having trouble telling if a woman is interested or just being friendly.
POST: I guess this is probably a common question, I just haven't really seen a good answer.
I mean the first girl I sort of saw after my long rel... | I'm finding it hard to tell if there is a mutual attraction with women, what are some obvious ways to tell/ find out, I guess? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by attempting to install Windows Server 2012 R2 DC
POST: Here we go. This is the only time I've ever pictured myself writing something like this. I am an idiot for doing this, possibly.
I am a tech guy. Programmer, hardware tinkerer, and overall smart-ass on the computer. I know my shit w... | Tried installing Windows Server 2012 R2 Datacenter, turned computer off during installation, panic ensued, luckily backed up, much struggle to get bootable USB from semi-broken old Macbook, finally got it working. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Trhowaway. Boyfriend broke up because of the distance. He was crying. He lives in Nz and I'm in France. i feel empty and desperate.
POST: I was gonna celebrate our 2 years anniversary in 2 months. My boyfriend loves me and i love him back. But he is a New Zealander and I am French. I met him in... | New Zealander boyfriend, crying, broke up with French me on skype after 2 years, because of the distance. I feel empty and heart broken. Don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Sexually frustrated after leaving sexless relationship, need advice
POST: I am a 22 female who ended a 5 year long relationship 3 months ago. It was our first stable relationship and we both had our first sexual experiences together. Things started to fall apart about 2 years into the re... | Boyfriend of 5 years lost sex drive, leaving me sexually frustrated. Now that I've left him, I'm still sexually frustrated, advice please? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [22m] not sure what to make of my situation with someone [19f] I really care about.
POST: A little backstory. I met this girl last summer and we dated for about a week or two before she left to school a good 800 miles from where I live and she grew up.
We started talking again ab... | got emotionally involved with a fling I had last summer and now she is 800 miles away. We don't really believe in long distance and now I'm feeling lost and empty. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [f/19][m/19]We have been together about 3 years and I just don't know what he is feeling towards me anymore.
POST: We lost our virginity together and this is both of our first real relationships. We have went on dates/kissed other people before we got together but this is our fir... | My bf has lied. He was horrible to me last year. Idk what to do. Is our relationship dying or is it just fixing up from last year? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [22 M] 2 years, he wants time to cool down after we crossed each other boundaries. I'm lost.
POST: Throwaway because I don't want people to identify me yadda yadda.
Without going too much into details, the main issue that triggered this break is that my boyf... | Boyfriend and I crossed each other's boundaries. He got pissed, wants time to cool down. What should I do to keep me sane? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[25/F] don't know if my boyfriend[23/M] has the capacity for empathy.
POST: My boyfriend's a sweet guy and I know his heart is in the right place. We've been going out a few months now and lately we've just been fighting and it's very frustrating from both sides. He's one of those guy... | I want to pierce through my boyfriend's annoying defence mechanisms and get him to evaluate my emotions before doing things I've told him hurt my feelings. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: He [28m] got over his depression, and is talking to me [24m] again, but we ended it anyway.
POST: [Original post, made when my "SO" was in the throes of major depression earlier this month.](
He went on medication, he's signed up for therapy, and he's steadily getting back to his old ... | He's overcoming his depression, but we broke up anyway because he was never really into me. At a loss for what to do and how to find a silver lining. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Can you guys make any sense or relate these three sentences together?
POST: -Dopamine -Grey Quote -On the edge
The story behind this is that in the early hours of this morning I woke up from an amazing dream with a brilliant plot that I, at the time, felt could be made into a story or pos... | I had an awesome dream that I wrote down extremely vaguely and am very curious how creative Reddit can be about wrapping a story around only three statements. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's your true story that you no longer tell because you're afraid people will think you're making things up?
POST: Here's mine: After crashing my motorcycle in baja mexico I took the ferry across the Gulf of California to mainland mexico where I was going to contenue my trip by bus and ... | Got too drunk the night before so skipped out on a trip to the hot springs I'd been planning on. Saved my life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [21M] wants advice on asking out [18? or 19? F] new friend
POST: I met this girl a while ago at my apartment complex during undergrad...She 'worked' in the front office, it's a long story...But anyway, I started to get to know her and then I realized how much like me she was. I haven't... | What should I say in a text to make sure that she knows I am asking her out romantically and not just as friends? |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: I'm scared that I'm going to fail the last class I need before graduating. Somebody tell me something to calm me down, please.
POST: I am taking two classes right now. They are the last two classes I need before graduating next month. The problem is one of these classes is Spanish II and it is ... | I'm about to graduate, need two more classes. Spanish II is one of them and I SUCK and am terrified of failing and not graduating. Advice, please. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (25M) girlfriend (22F) wants to go to a strip club with a guy friend as a last hurrah
POST: We have been dating awhile, have a great relationship, and she's moving with me across the country in a month for my new job.
She wants to go out with a guy co-worker / good friend to a str... | gf wants to go to strip club with a guy friend (he's engaged) before she moves across the country with me as a last fun Friday night, is this ok? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22M) told my best female (23) long-distance "friend" (5+years) that I have a girlfriend...and she thinks we need to stop talking. Thoughts?
POST: This girl and I went to college together, and developed a relatively close relationship (never physical), although we've flirted almost c... | Thoughts? Can I keep talking to my long-time, long-distance female "friend" now that I have a girlfriend? Need help with this situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24M) was super clingy after going on a few dates with a girl (24F) a few months ago and she stops returning my texts (duh). I'm older and wiser and realize I was an idiot, how should I re-establish contact and admit my faults/restart? Is it even worth it?
POST: A few months ago, I m... | I went a little crazy throwing around terms like boyfriend/girlfriend WAAAY too soon and scared her off. The girl is awesome and still around how to I re-establish contact without being creepy? Is it even worth it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Question about a roofie story my 19 yo gf told me [22 yo m]
POST: so my friends just broke the news to me last night that my gf cheated on me during a new years party, they only knew because my gf had told a mutual friend about it.
when i confronted her about it last night, she freake... | Gf cheated on me with her ex at a new years party, but said she was roofied and was afraid to tell me. should i believe her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by ordering an antique authentic haunted doll.
POST: So this actually happened today, an hour ago in fact and I can't believe how this went down. I am writing this on mobile so I apologise for any formatting errors or whatever.
Bit of background, I am currently moving from my hometown to... | purchased an antique, authentic haunted doll, mum lost it, kicked me out. Me and my demonic death doll need to find a new place to reside and worship satan. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22M] have a crush on a [22 F] in my school, her birthday is in a week but we don't know each other that much
POST: My relationship with my crush has being very awkward from the very beginning.
I'm friends with one of her close friends, so I asked my friend if she could introduce m... | weirdly introduced to my crush, she ignored me, than started smiling when she sees me, and now she vanished but she'll comeback a couple of days before her birthday |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: 27 year old guy here. I've never had a girlfriend. What am I doing wrong?
POST: I recognize that this is a difficult question for a stranger to respond to but I figured I have nothing to lose. I'm 27 years old and have never had a girlfriend. Frankly, I have become desperate by this p... | single my entire life, "be yourself" hasn't worked for me, hoping that by sharing some details about myself I can elicit some introspective questions or advice that will assist me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I think I[23F] have anxiety issues. I also always get extremely uncomfortable and anxious if things don't go how I expected them to (good or bad)
POST: As the title says, I think I have anxiety issues, but don't know what to do about it. I know people will suggest seeing a therapist, a... | I ruminate over things that cannot be changed and are unimportant, and feel anxiety when things don't go how I predict. Ways to cope or try to modify my mindset and thinking? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Ladies, what do you think about dating bisexual men?
POST: I'm a 22 yo bisexual male who is mostly gay. I haven't quite really accepted my sexuality yet. I hate being gay. I want to marry a girl and have a traditional family. I love making love to women as well as men but am not ... | If a guy is bisexual and has had more intimate experience with men how much would that affect your opinion of him if you were considering dating him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update 2] I [24M] lied to my current gf [24F] of 4 months about a past relationship and I don't know what to do..
POST: First update and original story:
So, I went to her again apologizing and wanting to work on things. This time she brings up before we were even together how we had... | round 2 started with accusations of betrayal and basically cheating when she wouldn't commit to me and we weren't together at that point. |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Family Beach vacation recommendations
POST: I've been researching family beach vacation destinations, but coming up short. I was looking at Captiva, Florida, but apparently this year's slow season is pretty well booked up. I'm looking for a family destination (hence, Captiva) where I can fi... | Family beach destination with a semi-private pool for under $4k, direct flights from the midwest US, that's not already booked this summer. Ideas? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Why does it seem like everyone around me is "triggered" and why does it stress me out so much?
POST: Some background, I'm 29yr old male and work with people mostly older than I am. I'm in a technical field and feel that I'm your average middle class white guy living in southern CA.
I feel l... | I'm different than those around me and feel stressed because I have no friends or people who think in a similar way that I do. I feel like people don't like me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my [20 F] have been dating for 2 months, how can I avoid a one sided relationship?
POST: Basically, we've been dating for about 2 months, almost 3. I just want to know how to avoid a one sided relationship. That is, I don't want to be more into her than she is me. I like... | I want to know how to avoid a situation where my girl sees that I am more interested than she is and starts to become comfortable and lose interest. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [26M] checked my Facebook friend requests - had a bad reaction?
POST: Throwaway because my boyfriend Reddits.
We've been together for almost two years now.
I left my house to go out with my mom and aunt while my boyfriend was visiting. My boyfriend wanted t... | My boyfriend saw I had a friend request on Facebook. Turned out to be his ex's current boyfriend. He got mad. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] My [22F] boyfriend [25M] thinks our house is haunted.
POST: Hello everyone! I am pleased to say this is a happy update for once.
Here's the original post, guys!:
After my original post, I went to my boyfriend full of ideas on how to help put his mind at ease. As it turns ou... | Communication is the key. He doesn't want to get rid of the house. A little ritual, a fluffy puppy and a very minor adjustment to the house has set his mind at ease. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Company relocating & offering commuting stipend. Need negotiation advice.
POST: My company is relocating and is offering an unsaid fringe benefit for those whose commute will be affected. They simply said, it will be on a case by case basis.
Right now, I already commute ~40 miles, ... | My company is moving & my new commuting cost will range from $380-525/month. How should I play my cards when asking for commute reimbursement? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 8 months, cheated on me
POST: I'm so lost. I don't even know how to feel.
We've been together on and off for about 2 years. We've had a very good relationship in the last 8 months, I put my heart into this relationship, and so did she. She is a gre... | She went to a bar with a guy, he kissed her, she kissed back. She told me about it, said she was very sorry. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Please help- received a $1500+ bill for damages done to a pole in a city I haven't been to in years.
POST: This is in Oklahoma.
I go visit my mom over the weekend and as I'm leaving she tells me there's some old mail she's been forgetting to tell me about. It's an invoice from Claims M... | Received a bill for damages to a pole that I didn't damage in a city I haven't been to in years. Waiting to hear back from the company charging me and needing advice on how to resolve this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: How do you make someone feel sexy who's put on a fair bit of weight??? Its really affecting our sex life
POST: So yeah, basically me and my partner (M23) and (F23) have been together a couple of years now. Things used to be very very good, particularly in the sex life, however they ha... | My girlfriend of two and a bit years has slowly been putting on weight, and I don't know how to make her feel sexy/confident/attractive. Plz Help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can we deal with her crazy ex/stalker? [m21, f23]
POST: First of all, I am 21, she is 23, we have been together for just over a year now.
She has dated her fair share of crazy men, and I often hear from her friends things like "you are the first decent guy she's dated". I also ha... | GF is being hassled by her ex, and she doesn't seem comfortable talking about it. What can I do to help? What's the best way to work through this together? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [21M] am receiving mixed signals from her [22F]
POST: We had mutual attraction around new years and have been on a few dates since. The dates went really well (conversation flowed easily, mutual interests etc.).
She said that she wasn't particularly comfortable with being physical ... | Dating a girl who wasn't comfortable with being physical. I think I messed up by not 'making a move'. Said she just wants to be friends but is sending mixed messages. Got another shot or just move on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by checking my voicemail at work.
POST: So this has been an ongoing TIFU that just came to a head today. First a little background on where I work. I'm a teacher at a small country school on a Hutterite Colony. I've been here for 5 years and been using the school phone for personal things ... | Used my work phone for personal things. Shithead students figured out my VM PW and have been listening to my VM's for about a year now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23/f] got the courage to tell my boyfriend about my anxiety and it didn't go like I hoped.
POST: Yesterday, I posted the question "should I tell my BF about my anxiety;" got some really supportive answers and worked up the courage to tell him.
So last night we were laying (lying?) ... | I told BF about my anxiety and he made the whole conversation about himself. How much to take that into consideration as we/I move forward. |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Is my cat depressed?
POST: About a month ago we had a new addition to our family, a kitten who we got so that our first cat (1yo) would have a companion when we're at work and stuff, so she's not lonely.
Anyway, the kitten got a lot of attention at the beginning and im starting to think that ... | I think my cat is depressed because of less attention due to new kitten, what can i do to make her happy again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20/M] Update on a post I made 10 months ago, an ex and an unfulfilling relationship
POST: [The old post](
Hi /r/relationships, I figured I'd update you all on a post that I made a while ago (though hardly anyone looked at it). A lot has changed since then. I got accepted into a great... | Was in an emotionally abusive relationship for about a year and a half while still in love with an ex, currently the happiest I've been in a very, very long time. |
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