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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My (28f) long term boyfriend (36 m) is secretive about his gmail chats. Should I be worried?
POST: We live together so we potentially could access most of each others accounts but he is oddly secretive about his gchats. One time he left his computer on and I accidentally noticed ... | my long term bf chats over the Internet with mostly female friends. I caught him gossiping about our relationship to one of them and since he has hidden all chat records. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 F] may have acquired a stalker [23 M]
POST: I have a friend [24 F] who has for the past year had a guy doing some low-level stalking. He constantly messages her on every social media/game account he can find, gives her unsolicited gifts, butts into conversations to try and speak ... | My friend's stalker seems to be latching onto me and I would like advise about what to do if he starts stalking in earnest. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is there a way to make a man understand that it's ok to show his feelings?
POST: Hi, this is a broad question that is often on my mind.
My boyfriend [22] likes to be a "real" man. He doesn't want me to pay for dinner. He doesn't show his feelings (except the ones he has for me) and ba... | My bf doesn't talk about his problems and emotions because "men are strong". I can't get him to understand that he doesn't have to be like this in front of me. Any theory or solutions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Just a friendly reminder for those with nervous habits and making a good first impression in an interview.
POST: Hey everyone, I want to share a story that has really opened my eyes on my nervous habit: Nail biting.
When you are in a job interview either one-to-one or a group interview or an ... | BE CONSCIOUS OF YOUR NERVOUS HABITS! IT CAN MAKE OR BREAK WHETHER YOU GET A JOB. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have you ever witnessed police brutality?
POST: I don't mean if you've ever seen a video online, but rather first hand experiences.
When I was younger I was sitting outside of my apartments on the stairs with some friends. About 50 feet away in the parking lot there is this Mexican coupl... | drunk guy doing karate in the air got in his truck and started it. I called the cops and they pepper sprayed and punched him numerous times, even after he was handcuffed and on the ground. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Reddit, Tell me your stories about your experiences with someone who was/is overly attached to you or a friend.
POST: This may or may not have been done before. I searched, but didn't find any results so I figured I'd give another chance to those who may have missed it or just have new stories ... | – Friend plans a girls night to get away from her boyfriend, he ends up crashing and cutting our plans short. Your turn. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [21 F] 3 year, feel no longer attracted to her.
POST: Warning: Not so good english...
Hello Reddit,
I know this is a recurrent subject, but I really need a voice to tell how to proceed with this.
We've dating for 3 and a little more years, but lately (a month or... | I'm not longer attracted to my girl, and I need advice in how to break up, where and how to handle the consequences. |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Help with a bridesmaid with a drug problem.
POST: Hey Reddit, I need some advice. I'm getting married in June and one of my best friends who is one of my bridesmaids has a coke problem that's been getting worse. She always partied, and hell I used to party with her, but it has been g... | my best fiend has turned into a coke-head and I'm worried she'll ruin my wedding day, and her own life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I live with my soon to be ex?
POST: I am a 33yo male involved with a 25 yo female. We've been dating for 3 years. We both love or care for each other but our relationship has been fraught with problems. About a year ago we moved in with each other. It's been a less that happy ex... | living with my SO, need to move out but can't move out asap because of money. How do I best deal with the time we have to spend together? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (16M) am a little put off by my girlfriend's (16F) rare party habits. Help.
POST: We've been dating for around two months and very rarely she attends parties. I'm not much into the party scene (mostly because I haven't had the opportunity) but for some reason her going irks me a bit.... | girlfriend rarely partys, bothers me for some reason, what is a good way to think of it that makes me comfortable |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my gf [20 F] of a few weeks, wants to "hang" with other guys who have a thing for her.
POST: My new girlfriend keeps in touch with/ regularly spends time with other boys who have previously asked her out but she turned down. I talked to her about it and she assured me th... | gf hangs out with guys who have asked her out in the past. Is it cool if she spends time with them alone/ in a group? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by dyeing my hair brown
POST: Alright. I fuck with my hair a lot. I'm naturally blonde, but I've had anywhere from black to blue. Well, it was pastel purple up until yesterday, when my younger cousin and I decided to bleach it. With drug store dye. Yeah
It turned out orange and I wasn't t... | I dyed my hair after a breakup, which is always a bad decision. Ended up frying my hair and didn't even get the color I wanted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Had to use my emergency fund for the first time. So glad I have it.
POST: The short of it is I need(ed) to spend about $2100 on 2 days notice. I feel so "lucky" that I've been maintaining an emergency fund of 2 months income for nearly a decade. When I was extremely poor (food stamps... | I actually maintained an emergency fund and it's making a potentially life-altering financial situation into a mildly stressful event. |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: How do you sell a timeshare?
POST: While on vacation, my wife and I bought a timeshare. We were a bit on the fence about it, but the sales guy showed us a starter plan that seemed to make really good sense. There were also perks for members such as super discounted hotel stays with any hotels... | bought a timeshare and found out it wasn't all they presented it as. Now I'm looking to sell it and wanted some advice on how to do that. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] and a girl [21 F] ended things because she wanted to give ex another chance.
POST: Me [M 22] and this girl [21 F] who I have been seeing for the past 2 months just ended things because she wants to give her ex another chance.
I thought the relationship was going well but sh... | Girl I was seeing went back to her ex, finding it hard to get over it. Any suggestions on helping to get over a person? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I{21f} like this man{26} and he's just not trying.
POST: I've known him since I was 17. We had a thing back then for a month or so. He was a virgin at the time and didn't date anyone. We never had sex, but we did get really close. Eventually it started to scare me and I pushed him away... | Old friend and I hooked up again. I want to be his. He didn't know where he stands. It's getting exhausting. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My paranoia over events/situations is damaging me. Help Reddit.
POST: I have an interesting fear of things. Whenever I read something horrible someone has done (pedophilia, rape, being creepy etc) I realize how easy it is for someone to fall down the slippery slope and my mind begins to ch... | I am paranoid that I will become a monster and I panic when my mind "seems" to wonder and I beat myself up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] am separated from wife [26 F], but not allowed to legally divorce for 6 more months. Should I date?
POST: So my wife and I parted on friendly terms around 6 months ago, have agreed to all our division of assets, and she has moved back to her family in Europe. However, being i... | Separated but not allowed to legally divorce for another 6 months; what is the proper thing to do regarding getting back into the dating pool? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: You can judge me if you want but I made it through.
POST: Let me preface this by saying I'm sorry if this is messy, I hate when people put these kinds of disclaimers but I really want people to read this and hope my crazed, excited state doesn't put them off.
I know reddit is a pretty ac... | My homophobic parents have made my life hell over the past year and a half but I don't have to live with them anymore |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25/F] am going to be meeting my boyfriend's [25/M] parents for the first time tonight and I can't calm my nerves or insecurities!
POST: I talked to my boyfriend about how nervous I was and he was very sweet and said "Don't worry so much, I know they'll love you." However, I am a wor... | Completely in love with a guy and terrified of making a fool of myself in front of his parents because I'm so nervous and self-conscious |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Question for Reddit regarding workplace internet use and tracking usage from the server...
POST: Hey Reddit, question for you regarding monitoring activity on a work computer... I work at a small office, and we don't have an IT staff whatsoever. I do the minor stuff (I'm no professional,... | I'm not worried about others tracking me, I want to know *how to do the tracking myself*. I do have authority and access, just not know-how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [30/M] really scared to give my girlfriend [30/F] genital herpes
POST: I've gotten cold sores in my past. This is HSV1 and will come up on a full panel std test. I am HSV2 negative. I havent had a cold sore in probably 5 years that I was aware of. I have told my new girlfriend I ha... | Told my girlfriend I have HSV1 (along with 60+% of the population) - Should I educate her on every possible scenario associated with that or is my disclosure enough? |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Am I being a Bridezilla, or am I justified?
POST: I got engaged in March and my wedding is set for next February. We had the engagement party three week ago in the town where I just moved from, which is also where the wedding will be. Out of the bridal party, only ONE bridesmaid miss... | bridesmaid is a flake and I want to replace or remove her but don't want to be a bridezilla. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what is the proper way to call a potential employer about your application/resume?
POST: I have put my application in almost everywhere within 10 miles of my house. Some I did online and some I had to fill out a physical application and hand it in. But I haven't received any calls ... | I ain't got no job, people have told me to call and ask about my application, what do I say when I call? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: There's an autistic person I want to leave me alone.
POST: Listen man, I'm gonna come off as a douche. I apologize ahead of time for coming off as rude.
For the past year, this (We don't know if he has autism, but he shows a lot of signs) autistic guy has been following me and my friend's gr... | Autistic Kid won't leave me alone and I don't want to be mean but that's backfired and now he won't leave me and my friends alone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Exercise that won't kill me?
POST: Hi!
I've recently started the long adventure of losing weight. I'm male, and currently around 260lbs. I think I need to be around 150lbs for my height so I have a ~~nice~~ long way to go.
I'm also ridiculously unfit. Ideally I want to build muscle so th... | So, any advice for some exercise that will help improve my fitness levels and circulation that I can do at home, is suitable for someone 110lbs overweight and that won't kill me or my joints? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by looking for a comb in my parents' bathroom
POST: This just happened a couple of hours ago.
I was fixing myself up for a little day out with a few friends, and I went to comb my hair. I misplaced my comb somewhere, (I still don't know where it is) and my dad always has one or two in hi... | I went looking for a comb in my parents' bathroom. Picked up a tube of lube and it was covered with pube hair. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [32F] with my SO [45 M] together for over 2 years, won't move in with me.
POST: I am a single mom and my boyfriend of just over 2 years won't move in with me. I'm trying not to pressure him adn scare him away, but it's becoming really difficult to juggle the two worlds - him and my ... | My boyfriend of 2 years won't move in with me and I feel like I'm being selfish by pushing him because I have kids and I don't have any more extra time to go out and date him any longer. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [26 F] having an irrational response to widowed new bf [31 M] of six months, not sure if I should continue relationship
POST: Hi. I'll try to keep this short. My boyfriend's late wife died very suddenly and tragically seven years ago. They'd been together since they were young teen... | Feel overshadowed by my boyfriend's late wife, even though he's done nothing wrong, wondering if we should break up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] and my best friend [19 F] for 1.5 years, starting to gain feelings for her, but worried about ruining our friendship
POST: So I've known this girl for about a year and a half now, and we've been growing closer and closer as friends ever since we met. Recently though I've been... | Want to tell my best friend I have feelings for her, but don't want to screw up my living situation next year since we'll be housemates. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [29M]I'm having trouble dealing with recent break with long-term GF [29F]
POST: We've been NC for the past two weeks. I texted her every day, tried calling and IMing up until about a week ago, since she did not respond at all to any of my attempts at contact.
When she first initiated... | GF and I are on break, and I'm having trouble dealing with the knowledge that she has been partying and giving out her number to other guys--after she said she didn't want to date other people. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25] with my gf [27 f] 6m, found chat logs of gf talking to ex-husband, are they cheating on me?
POST: I am in a serious relationship with my girlfriend, however I met her whilst she was still married, in the middle of her separation with her husband, for which she is still technica... | found chat logs on laptop showing gf talking to ex husband about sleeping together, can someone spanish please help me and explain? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] nearly cheated on [21M], but we're both in the middle of finals. Do I confess?
POST: My boyfriend [21M] and I [20F] have been dating for six months. We attend different universities but they're nearby, and we see each other most weekends and generally call once each weekday. We... | I nearly cheated on my bf and the guilt's killing me. It's either confess now (he has a final in the morning) or confess in a month after I get back from abroad; what do I pick? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Can somebody suggest an easy to follow diet?
POST: Hello /r/loseit !
So lately I've been attempting to start a diet after having an issue with my family where they were against me dieting. I've pushed past the issue with them, but now I'm having the issue of selecting what foods I should be ... | Need help making a simple diet I can stick to. I dont mind eating the same things every day. Open to anything! |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Security guard on campus gets what's comin.
POST: As a university student, I never got the hang of sleeping on campus like I see many other people doing. I only did it a few times out of extreme need. However, there was a time where I would regularly sleep in my car after arriving to sc... | sleeping in car on campus, security guard wakes me up and is a dick, call my mom who works there, he gets fired (deservedly). Fucked with the wrong napper, bitch. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Lawyers of Reddit, Please Help Me Out On This.
POST: Hello there,
First of all, let me tell you that I am asking for help here because I am a 22 year old university student and I honestly can't afford to go talk to a lawyer on my own, so any help answering this would be great and I thank... | Have a misdemeanor on my record, still have summary probation for two years and I can't get rid of it, will it affect my green card renewal next year? Am I basically screwed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] with my Fiancee [22 F] of 9 months, doing ERP with other people on Guild Wars
POST: My fiancee and I live together with two friends, moved an hour away to be with her (mutual decision) and we've generally had a pretty solid relationship. She's been out of work for some time ... | Fiancee is having virtual in-character relationships/sex. I know about it, but it's killing me. What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Why should I pay off mortgage quickly vs saving the extra cash? [serious]
POST: I am aware how ridiculous the title sounds but here's my question. I currently have a second home in WA state (I rent an apt in nyc) with a 30yr loan at 4.875%. My mortgage works out to be a little less... | Should I pay more than the minimum monthly payment on my mortgage if i plan on selling the home in 5~10 years* |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [24/F] Tactfully ending a friendship with my friend with benefits[24/M] of more than 9 years
POST: There is a guy I met at 15 years old, and we started off having a lot in common. He revealed he had a crush on me from the very beginning, and I made it clear early on that it wasn't goin... | Ending a complicated friendship with a man I've had sexual relations with for years. Preventing him from telling private details. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I want to switch to a Credit Union, but there's a problem
POST: I want to join a credit union, but I move around a lot. Most credit unions that I see are not nationwide, so should I wait until I'm settled into a geographic region before switching? I live in Trenton, NJ and work in ... | I move around a lot. Most Credit Unions are local. My work is far from my home, and I don't know what credit union makes the most sense. Advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My boyfriend [25 M] doesn't tell anyone he has a relationship and he doesn't want me to go to his house (lives with his parents). I [20 F] live 4h away.
POST: Our relationship is a bit complicated because we met on a dating website in march, talked a lot on fb but didn't meet til... | long-distance relationship, nobody really knows about it from his friends/family, why is that? What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [30 F] miss my boyfriend [30 M] because he works a lot and needs to save up money to see his dying grandmother
POST: I am having a hard time being compassionate about this because I feel that when he isn't working, he should try to spend some of that time with me, and I get frustrate... | I am too attached to my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years, who needs a lot of space for himself to do all the things in life that he has to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [19/F] might have ruined multiple friendships by making out with a friend [19/M].
POST: I'm really good friends with this guy (let's say Joe). The type of friends where if I have a crisis he's the first person I turn to, where we spend far too long in 'cud-puds' (basically just... | I made out with my ex-boyfriend's best friend and might have messed up additional relationships in my life. Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Starting My Journey
POST: Hey guys! I've been quite the lurk for a while and have decided to make my first post. Two ears ago I used to volleyball and was in great shape, but I noticed till now. My mom used to call me obese even though I wasn't but I believed her. I quit my sport because I th... | I'm taking control of my life again and dropping 50 pounds so I can look smoking in a bikini. Any advice is welcome. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: does his [M23] affection mean anything for me [F22]?
POST: So I've been dating this guy for around a month and I'm starting to think I might actually like him. I'm at the point where I'm too much of a wuss to actually communicate this to him (for fear that he might consider me "clingy"... | When a guy is reeeally affectionate, does it mean he likes you? Or could he just be being "nice"? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M\] with my GF [23 F] 1 Year - Am having extreme trouble shifting to a monogamy mindset.
POST: I have been dating my GF for a little over a year. She has agreed to move across the country for me because I have been presented with an excellent career opportunity. I can see myself... | I think of straying often and am often tempted. I don't, and want to change so that I am not tempted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [19M] breaking up with my girlfriend [19F] of 1.5 years, how do I go about the recovery process?
POST: This is my first serious relationship, and I know that it has come to the point that it needs to end. We went to college seven hours away from each other and it's taken a huge tol... | Breaking up with girlfriend of 1.5 years, what can I do after the breakup to ensure I don't fall into some sort of perpetual sadness? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my husband[24M] I think he's upset that I didn't spend as much on him as he did me
POST: My husband loves Christmas. I didn't so much until we had kids.
He is pretty materialistic. He loves his things and is always wanting something new. He had a huge list of things he ... | I didn't spend as much on a gift as my husband did and he seemed disappointed. Am I a cheapo? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] with my best friend [24 M]; I've fallen for him, and he does not feel the same way. Where do we go from here?
POST: My best friend and I, though it's a relatively fresh relationship, get along like neither of us have experienced before, understanding each other shockingly wel... | I like my best friend as more than a friend. We have a sexual history but not a romantic one. How do we deal with the situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Postal Money Order Scam? Fraud? Need Advice.
POST: Reddit I need your advice!
I'll start by saying that I did call the police, but they were, *cough*, less than helpful. They didn't look at anything (they would only talk to me over the phone), and then only took down the destination citie... | Got 2 postal money orders mailed from my address to a different state for $962.00 with a different person's name on it. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[16 M] don't know whether I should keep the feelings for my [15 F] best friend
POST: So I made a post about my friendship with my best friend a week ago and so this is sort of an update / I need more advice.
So since the last time I had posted on here, I have skyped my friend 4 or 5 ... | Should I keep the feelings I have towards my best friend or should I drop them? and ~~what can I do on valentines day with her~~. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [18M] try to save relationship with [18F] GF
POST: My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year. We are both 18. We have had a very good relationship. Very open and communicative. Our one year anniversary went great and I've felt closer to her than ever over the ... | GF [18] says her and I [18M] should break up. Been in relationship for 1 yr. Everything seemed perfect up until this last week when she started becoming distant. Is it worth trying to save the relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [20 F] of 1 yr, won't trust me to go on bachelor party
POST: So I got a short notice about one of my old close friends bachelor party this weekend earlier this week. My GF has had some fidelity issues in the past (including one of our own where before we started da... | GF upset about strip club plans at bachelor party, which I told her I was skipping, and even told the fiancee about it without any warning. Doesn't want me to go. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19/F] with my boyfriend [21M] of one year, I have a hard time being intimate with him.
POST: So the title might be a little bit misleading, but I have a hard time not freaking out after having sex with him. I am on the IUD and we do use condoms but sometimes we will have sex withou... | I'm terrified of getting pregnant but I don't know how to talk to my boyfriend about it because he feels like he's doing enough on his part. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend [27 F] of 3 months wants to stay at my [27 M] apartment while between jobs. Am I wrong to be against it?
POST: So my girlfriend lost her job recently and asked me if she could stay at my place for the month of June. I told her I was hesitant--I've never lived with a girlfrie... | Girlfriend wants to stay with me for a month, but I'm against it. Should I stick to my guns or suck it up and let her stay? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22 M] crush [19 F] moved hours away; to go for, or not to go for?
POST: A mutual friend of ours introduced us at a show. Well, he was more than a friend to her at the time, call him mike. They had a brief physical (to him) thing, and it ended pretty quickly. He was her second kiss,... | dreamy dream girl moved hours away for school and cause my friend kinda played her. we hit it off with great chemistry but I've not been dating much in the last few years. should i go for it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23F] hatred of fish is causing a major rift between myself and the Spanish teachers at my school.
POST: I recognize the title may seem ridiculous, but that's genuinely the situation at hand. I am a recent college grad currently working as an English Teaching Assistant in Galicia, S... | I am served free meals at my school that consist of seafood half the time which I am incapable of eating without gagging. The other teachers are enraged by this and openly make rude comments in front of me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by volunteering to chug 5 Dixie cups of eggnog at my schools holiday meeting.
POST: So at my school every year just before we get let out for the holiday brake we have a meeting. It has challenges that are different things. One of them was for chugging 5 Dixie cups of eggnog. I decided wh... | Chugged eggnog for school event with whole school watching, gagged, Eggnog fucking everywhere as it pored out of my mouth as someone recorded it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21F) looking for a soft approach to tell (25M) I love him without saying it...
POST: I started working at my current place of employment 6 months ago. It's a huge place with 3,000 employees and it's easy to be lost in a crowd. On my first day of training I met this guy who works in ... | Dating a really great guy, I'm pretty sure I'm in love, but worried it's too soon to say that, so I'm looking for better alternatives to say it here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I think my cousin is anorexic. What should I do?
POST: I suspect that my cousin has been struggling with anorexia for a while now. It started out gradual; she would skip lunch here and there, but it wasn't anything to be alarmed about. During the summer of her junior year in high school sh... | My cousin has severe anorexia but her parents are in denial and refuse to address it let alone offer treatment. I want to know what I can do to help her without overstepping any boundaries. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm 15, and my mom is in a depression. What can I do?
POST: For the last several years, my mom has been completely devoid of joy and has admitted to being depressed. She is overweight, is a hoarder, and finds little joy in anything, even her hobbies. I believe her main problem is that s... | my mom doesn't find joy in anything and is extremely stressed for no reason, what can I do despite being 15? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (19F) on/off boyfriend (19M) of 9 months is messaging his ex suggesting to meet up for sex on his Facebook that i secretly logged into - don't know whether/how to end it.
POST: First post on reddit, I'll try to keep it short.
Bit of background - although we get on very well, me and... | boyfriend might cheat/be cheating on me, want him to admit to it without him finding out i was stalking his Facebook. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, what's the ballsiest pickup line/move you've witnessed?
POST: Reddit, what's the most awesome, creative, courageous pickup move you've executed or witnessed or been the target of?
10 or so years ago I was having dinner with some friends in a nice restaurant on a weekend trip t... | my buddy busted out a song with a mariachi's guitar in a restaurant in Mexico to pick up on a girl who turned out didn't speak any English. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: He (23m) and I (22f) have different love languages?
POST: I recently took the "Five Love Languages" quiz and my language is definitely "Words of Affirmation." Obviously this means that words hold a lot of importance for me, and I have always wanted to receive a love letter and ne... | Does anyone here have a different way of showing/receiving love from their partners? Does this imply long-term incompatibility? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is there a simple and reliable procedure for deriving the beat of music?
POST: One chronic frustration I have is that I am completely unable to dance, and my attempts to simply emulate the actions of others fall flat. I frequently get the same unhelpful advice of "just follow the beat."
W... | To find the beat, find the beat. Start by listening to the strong beats. It helps if you clap to the beat). |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Mom's of unruly children - can i fuss my wife's 3 yr old niece?
POST: edit: *Moms, not Mom's.... in advance.
My wife's 3 yr old niece is mean to our 18 month and 4 yr old.
My 4 year old is much more emotionally, socially, and mentally advanced than my wife's 3 year old niece - taking th... | girlfriend's niece hits/scratches/pushes/is mean to my 1 and 4 yr old. The mother doesn't fuss her all the time. Can i fuss when I see it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20M] interested in a girl [19] in my circle of friends
POST: I posted this in /r/relationships but didn't get much advice:
This gang has about a dozen people, all of whom only started hanging out together in the last few months. Before that, it was three different posses that o... | Interested in a girl in my circle of friends, not sure about her feelings, and I don't know how to get closer to her. Advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Male 17, I keep starting stupid fights with my 17 Female girlfriend.
POST: Dating 9 Months
I have this tendency to start VERY stupid arguments with my girlfriend, I do know that all of them are my fault. The amount we get into has recently risen quite a bit, like almost twice a day now... | me and my girlfriend fight a lot, how to stop me from starting fights and how to admit I am wrong in the middle of a fight. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Friend is going to pop the question, do I tell her first?
POST: Two of my college friends have been dating for ~3 years. T, the dude in the relationship, is currently deployed and is planning on proposing to A, the girl, when he gets back. He has asked me to find out what kind of ring A wa... | Friend A wants to propose to Friend B and has asked me to find out Friend B's ring preference. Friend B plans on breaking up with Friend A as soon as he's back from being deployed. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend (18) likes to joke about breaking up
POST: My girlfriend (18) of two years likes to joke about breaking up with me (m19). I have said some things in the past that may seem like I don't, but we have moved past this. I love her dearly and try to show so in everything I do. ... | girlfriend jokes about breaking up. This brings me to deep sadness and then she says she only does it so I can show my love for her. I just want to know what she really thinks |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: It's trial week for my new job. Day two and I want to quit.
POST: Hi, /r/jobs.
I started working for a law firm yesterday as a legal clerk. It's my second job along with my resturaunt job (which I love). I was told to complete a one-week full-time trial before I could be hired on as a part-tim... | New office job and I hate it after one day. Scared of HR lady. Need reassurance that quitting is a good move? Maybe I should stick it out for the whole trial week? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of 3 months, she dropped a medical bomb and I've had a rapid change of feelings.
POST: I have been dating a girl for three months, and the relationship had been going great until recently. We started dating in the winter when it was cold outside, and... | GF told me she suffers from an illness 3 months into the relationship, fundamentally alters my view of her and I'm now feeling guilt- what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I saved up 10k in my checking account... I want to invest/save it?
POST: I saved up 10k in my checking account. I don't have a savings (anymore), because I always never had spare money so it was always in my checking anyway. I saved up 10k just incase I go unemployed. I feel accompli... | Saved 10k. Never saved anything before. No savings account. Don't believe that interest will be helpful. I think paying off a portion of school would save me more money in the long run. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] and my "romantically inclined friend" [18 F] have been on and off for 6 months..
POST: My "romantically inclined friend" and I have been on and off for 6 months, her biggest reason for breaking it off is that she isn't ready for a relationship. So I started talking to another ... | Basically I'm trying to understand if my previous gf(ish) wants to be with me now that I have started talking to a new girl? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[20F] can't stop thinking of all the terrible things my ex[20M] did to me.
POST: My ex and I dated for 3 years in high school. It was a typical stupid relationship that got dragged out way longer than it needed to because of other drama. Things did not end on a good note. At one point... | my ex - first serious bf - did a lot of crap to me and I can't stop being bitter over it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm gay.[17] and I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year [18]. He's spreading lies about me. What do I do?
POST: Well, I'm 17 now, turning 18 in a month or two, but I was 16 when the relationship began. (He was 17). I originally lived in Austin, TX, but a couple months ago, I m... | Broke up with my boyfriend of a year, he decided to drag my name through the mud, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Why I can never go to Georgia.
POST: Not sure where to post this. Hopefully the right place.
A little background: I grew up in Pennsylvania with my mom and two younger sisters. Ones 20 months younger than me the other is 12 years younger.
When I turned 18 my mom decided to relocate to ... | younger sister is moving 800 miles so she doesnt get jumped, I will straight up mame the people that tormented her if I ever meet them. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: I was bit for the first time today. Was there something else I should've done?
POST: My wife and I frequent this off leash dog park in Washington and was approached by a pack. We've interacted with these guys before and were not concerned at all. Their owners are really friendly and always po... | I was bit by a dog (wasn't severe but did puncture) and didn't get contact information from owners. Was this the right approach? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF [18F] of 11mnths, saw a friend with history (who had confessed his love to her months before) [18M] and lied to me about it, what should I do?
POST: So she [18F who we'll call Sarah] and I [17M, we'll call Tim] have been going out for 11 months. During the summer her long term fa... | GF sees boy who she's slept with before me, and he confesses his love for her, months later she meets up with him and lies about it |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I'm a doctor and I'm broke. Help wanted.
POST: I don't like to ask for help. Like ever. I even hated asking my parents for anything all my life. I like being independent and self-sustained. I am a scientist, and have wanted to be one my whole life. I got my bachelors in microbiology ... | I'm a doctor, I have a job, I'm broke, I can't pay my student loans, can't make friends in a new city with no money, and maybe just need a hug. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] and [21M] BF have been together 3 years. My BF is still talking to a [22F] friend after we agreed he would not. I am not sure if their comments are normal or flirtatious?
POST: This is the link to the previous problem:
Now yesterday I noticed he texted her again after we agr... | BF continues to text a female friend after we agreed he wouldn't. I am not sure if their conversations are normal adult social conversations or I am being overly irrational and insecure. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, my employer has put me in a tough situation, what should I do?
POST: I work in the IT services industry, and for the past few weeks, I've had the opportunity to work exclusively for a local client, and I've loved the job. The team I'm a part of is great, the work is very rewarding... | I've been offered a job by one of my company's clients, but my employer wont allow me to take it. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] my boyfriend [28 M] 18 months. Vacation just the two of us?
POST: My boyfriend and I both climb and I've been telling him about this place I've wanted to visit for a long time. He finally got a day off work and suggested we spend a long weekend there.
I was really happy abo... | Weekend planned alone with my boyfriend but other people are coming. I'm extremely disappointed and he doesn't understand why I feel that way. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by asking a deaf person what kind of music he listens to.
POST: Had a mutual friend introduce me to his cousin during some dinner gathering. My friend disclaims that his cousin is deaf but I totally forget as I'm having a full on conversation with the cousin. I notice that he sounds kinda ... | Friend tells me his cousin is deaf, but I forget because I'm having a full-on conversation with the cousin. I ask the deaf cousin what kind of music he listens to, and thus looking like a jackass. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23M] with my Girlfriend [21f] of 2 months, She seems to go through these phases where she will needs space but then want to do things everyday, it's confusing me
POST: I've never really been in a relationship, this one being my first but I'm struggling to know what she wants. She s... | Girlfriend says she needs space but then wants to hangout all the time, now is back on the needing space kick and I'm worried it's something I did. Has anyone experienced something similar and do they have any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why is r/adviceanimals not made fun of as much as the other major subreddits?
POST: Usually, the larger karma-content subreddits bring in the dumbest people. However, after being banned from r/adviceanimals, I have to say that that subreddit takes the cake. The memes this summer are the ... | All that obnoxious subreddit does is generalize, slut shame, post 'edgy' opinion bears, post common sense/passive aggressive mallards, and go into detail about their masturbation habits. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24M] am going to confront my dad [59M] with his financial chaos in about 4 hours.
POST: Dear relationship advisors of Reddit.
First a disclaimer. My English may not be that good because I'm living in a country with doesn't speak English as a primary language. Yes, I know this has ... | My dad is a financial disaster and is dragging me and my mother with him. Thinking about confronting him with this tonight. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Concerned for my neighbor's dog
POST: I live in an apartment complex in a largely college town.
My neighbor doesn't take her dog for walks, she just lets him out and he runs all over the neighborhood. I don't think he's aggressive, but upon seeing anyone he'll run up to them barking and peopl... | dog has free run of the neighborhood and I think it's only a matter of time before it gets hit by a car or shot/maced by a pedestrian. |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Clog the toilet? Good luck getting toilet paper next time.
POST: I have two roommates. One is an easy going guy that I get along great with. The other is a complete douche bag(I'll call him db for short) who has no sense of hygiene or respect for others. He doesn't shower before going t... | Roommate clogged the toilet and left the apartment. I make sure he has to walk to get his next role. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not getting rid of the spider in my bathroom
POST: The FU itself happened a few days ago but I faced the consequences about 15 minutes ago.
A few days ago I noticed a spider on one of the walls while I was taking a shower. I'm not arachnophobic but I'm definitely scared of spiders to s... | Saw a spider in my bathroom but decided to leave it alone. It showed its gratitude by raising its family on my towel and I didn't find out till I used it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I[19F] wrong in feeling hurt that my friends [18-20 M/F] are planning a BDay party for another friend[19 F] and not me?
POST: Hey /r/relationships, sorry for the wall of text!
So for some background it is my second semester in college and a lot of my friends(there are around 10 of ... | Am I wrong to feel hurt that my friends are planning a birthday party for my friend that I introduced to them instead of me? Should I just suck it up and let it go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] don't understand what he [22M] means by, I love you but I don't want to date right now.
POST: We started talking online around spring, we both live in different states so we got close talking on the phone/texting/skyping/etc. We met up recently and had really good time. What I ... | A guy I have been physical/affectionate with says that he loves me but doesn't want to date. What does he mean by that? Am I someone just in between his actual relationships? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I really like this girl [20 F], and she really likes me [20 M], but there's this one problem...
POST: It's going to be extremely hard for me to word this without sounding superficial but here it goes...
So there's this girl who has a crush on me. I really like spending time with her, ... | We both like eachother and its awesome, but she is extremely out of shape and it's impossible for me to be physically attracted to her. Wat do |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the most awkward/embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in the bathroom? Public preferred...
POST: This just happened to me.
I am at the university I attend. I went to the bathroom as normal and was finishing up in my preferred stall which I know has an iffy lock. I s... | Punched a door in panic which rebounded and smacked me in the face. All with my pants around my ankles and a live audience to experience my self-inflicted trauma. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23 M] girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years says she doesn't love me as much anymore, please help
POST: Hello reddit, I have been a lurker in these subreddits recently hoping to read a post like mine but there doesn't seem to be any so here I go..
My girlfriend and I have been happily dati... | Girlfriend of 3 years feels like she loves me less than before but thankful(?) to have me and wants to end the relationship because she feels guilty when hanging out with other people. Can I fix this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I tell my gf's friend's husband that she cheated on him?
POST: Hi all, been sitting on this a few months.
So my[25/M] girlfriend[23/F](Anne) has had this friend since high school[24F?](Terry) whom has been cheating on her husband[27M?](John) for the past ~6 months. Age is irre... | = Should i tell this guy I hardly know his wife cheated on him, even though it could do more harm than good? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your worst/funniest medicinal accident?
POST: I have a disc out of place in my back so I've been on Percocet for about three weeks, which has kept me from having a productive shitting session in almost an entire full moon.
Anyway, my doc put me on a prescription laxative and my m... | took 7 years expired presciption laxative because I was too cheap to buy a new one and it caused me to paint a Jackson Pollock all over the toilet bowl of a popular bar/club in my neighborhood. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (27/m) hooked up with my best friend (26/f) and caught the feelings. She says she didn't but everything else says otherwise..
POST: A little background: I've known "S" since the 1st grade and we've been best friends for as long as I can remember. There has always been a ton of ... | I've been FWB with my best friend and I caught the feelings and even tho she says it's not mutual, her actions say otherwise and I have no fucking clue what to do |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your favorite passive-aggressive act?
POST: Ill start,
I take my breaks at work the same time every day, and I do what every other redditor does, I sit on the shitter and browse reddit.
Well everyday some guy walks in, sees that someone is in one of the stalls and leaves. Sometime... | I leisurely sit in the restroom stall knowing that the guy next to me wont leave until there is no one in the restroom |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I (24M) deal with my jealousy?
POST: I have been together with my girlfriend (22F) for a little over a year and I have recently moved away to another country to work for the rest of year, turning the relationship into a LDR.
The thing is, I keep on feeling very jealous towards ... | Been together with GF for over a year, but keep having jealous feelings without any good reason. What can I do to deal with it? |
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