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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Personal finance input
POST: I'm reaching out to Reddit for input on some financial decisions. I'm about to refinance my mortgage and while filling out the application realized that I'm pretty far in debt (about 48% of gross income).
**So here's background:**
I'm about to refinance into ... | I could sell my car, get out of credit card debt in a year, be out of a mortgage in 6 and be rolling in cash by 7. What would you do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: need to confess something: I signed up to online dating isn't for sex, but because I'm lonely
POST: after lover-of-long term relationship broke up with me over a text (yes, he didn't want to discuss in person, guess I'm not worth his time), and lately I have been diagnosed with bpd (borde... | I don't have a friend after ended long term relationship, and been diagnosed with borderline is unbearable. so signed up for tinder because I'm so lonely and need a friend. it was a terrible idea. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (18/M) don't know what to do about my girlfriend (18/F) of 2 months
POST: We haven't been together long and we've only known each other since this summer. She was in a relationship at the time. Eventually they broke up over me (jealousy) and we got together. I don't know why. We are ... | not motivated in relationship. I want to work on myself and spend more time with myself doing things I like. I do not see a future in the relationship but she really likes me and I do love her. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Bridesmaid's sister might want to be bridesmaid too?
POST: Okay weddit, so I need some help with what to say :(
I've been friends with a set of four siblings for my whole life (3 sisters and one brother), and I've been meaning to ask the two eldest sisters who are closest to me in a... | Asking 2/3 sisters to be bridesmaid, how do I let the last sister know she isn't in the party? :( |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Throwing myself a bachelorette party?
POST: I am getting married at the end of May and there was a lot of miscommunication regarding wedding showers and bachelorette parties from my friends and family.
The groom's family offered to throw a bridal shower so I told my friends and fam... | Turns out nobody is throwing me a bachelorette party. I might throw one for myself a few weeks after the wedding. I just want to get drunk and wear phallic shaped tiara. :( |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend (18, F) might be pregnant, I (17, M) am terrified, and she wants to keep the kid if she is, despite our relationship problems and situation.
POST: I really just don't know what to do. For the longest time, we both thought she was infertile because of her past experiences, an... | girlfriend might be pregnant, and is determined to keep it if she is, disregarding our still being in highschool and not having the resources to support it if we did, on top of our relationship problems. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Please Help: I gained a lot of weight, should i put my job search on hold and lose weight first to increase my odds of getting a job?
POST: Hi Ladies,
I'm in need of advice. I'm a 26 year old female from who finished graduate school this past January. I went through a terrible depres... | ! - I gained weight, I feel like I need to lose it in order to be taken seriously as a job applicant in a competitive health & science industry. Should I put job search on hold until I drop 30 pounds? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 31F doesn't know whether to divorce 32M husband of 4 year/partner of 12 years or move on
POST: My husband and I have been together for 12 years, married for 4- no kids. We've been separated on and off over the past year. Our relationship has had its ups and down and has included major ... | Husband and I have been separated for a year. He's been dating the woman he cheated on me with. I'm falling for another guy. Is it time to end it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO [14 F] and I [18 M] trying to be together, highschool age difference problems.
POST: There's this girl I like, right?
Well, she's seemingly great for me, and likes me back. We have a lot of feelings for each other actually. But she's a Freshman and I'm a senior (both in High Sch... | Alpha male of the family of the girl I like (her brother in his 20s) doesn't have custody of the girl, but thinks our age difference is too huge. What do i do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Exboyfriend [21M] wants a casual relationship with me [19F]. What does that mean?
POST: My ex and I have been through a lot and care a lot about each other. We were together 2 years and just began seeing each other 3 months ago. We originally decided to be friends with benefits, which,... | ex boyfriend acts like he loves me, then says he can only do a casual relationship with me. What should I do and what does that mean? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: F(21) Started dating a new guy M(26). Texting problem on my end.
POST: I started seeing a new guy a month ago, and I really like him! Great guy, really polite and sweet, we always laugh a lot together, I could go on. I have a great time with him when we're together, but I guess I just ... | Don't text as often with the current guy I'm seeing and I'm realizing that some problems from my last relationship may have rubbed off more than I'd realized :/ |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My drug plan and child support will be cut off by my father on my birthday in April. I am sick with Chrons, and can't afford my medication. What do I do?
POST: Hey everyone. I am looking for advice as what I am to do. To start, I live in Canada so we do have OHIP. However, as part of the s... | Dad is ending my drug plan and child support on my birthday in april. I am sick with crohn's and I am in university. Can I take him to court to force him to pay until I am done school? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making my wife cry
POST: Happened like an hour ago an d wife just left for work. So this all starts on me swinging into the furniture store on a whim. We've been looking for a couch for some time now and I finally found one we can afford (broke and in college). So I try calling for a ho... | looked at a couch on whim, also saw new (to me) turn table. Instead having a happy wife I made her cry by being an asshole. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 2 months, she broke up with me after a nice evening out together and wont tell me why. She's now not talking to me.
POST: So, I need some advice on how to get back in touch with my girlfriend as I dont want to make things worse.
In a nutshell, ye... | GF impromptu broke up after a perfect day out. blocks my number and facebook - im trying to reconnect with her without making things worse. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16F] am being forced to go to church by my father [54M]
POST: I am the only atheist in the house with his fiancee [46F] and her two kids [18F] and [15M]. He's known since I was in middle school that I wasn't religious and didn't make me go to church. Now that we live with his fiance... | Basically the title. My dad is making me go to church when I don't believe in that, I need advice on what to say to him as to not offend him but so he sees where I'm coming from. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: LDR-He[19M] pressures ME[18F] to go visit...
POST: My SO and I have been together for almost 2 years now and we have always talked about meeting someday. We have always been happy together and love each other very much, but lately I have been very pressured about us meeting.
I live in... | Boyfriend wants me to visit him this winter, but it is unlikely that I will get my visa approved, but he refuses to come to Mexico to visit me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20M] I want to have sex yet don't want to force my girlfriend [18F]. She gave me a timeline for when she'd be ready "before our junior year." I don't think I can wait that long.
POST: So my girlfriend and I have been talking about when we are going to have sex. A little background fir... | SO doesn't want to have sex. I do. She gave me a timeline. I don't know if I can do it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [21M] I really want to tell [25F] how I feel... but she's leaving and we'll probably never have a chance together.
POST: Brief backstory: I'm a college junior. I started dating this other girl back freshman year, she studied abroad sophomore year, we tried things again junior year and ... | Is it better to say goodbye to someone without ever telling them how you feel, or tell them and *then* have to say goodbye? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: So I [20F] went on a date today with [28M] and we saw his ex [21F]..
POST: I've been messaging a ex work colleague for a few days now, and today we decided to go for a drink together. Everything was going great, up until we saw his ex girlfriend.
Where we were drinking was fairly quie... | Went on a date and saw his ex gf while out. Checked her Facebook and saw she'd been slandering me on there, even though I haven't even met her before. How to proceed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] don't know how to tell a girl [18M] I recently started dating that I suffer from depression.
POST: As the title would suggest I am currently undergoing treatment for major depressive disorder as well as anxiety. It is working to an extent and I am continuing with the process. T... | My depression is improving from treatment and I met a really great girl about a month ago because of that. She is starting to notice symptoms of it and I need to tell her eventually. How and when do I tell her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19] M and my girlfriend [21] F are in a rocky relationship
POST: Next month marks four years of us being together. The relationship started going downhill last year when i went to college, she was jealous of me possibly going to parties and doing things with other girls, presumably... | Me and my gf of 4 years are having trouble making it work due to uni i advised we go on a 'hold' until talking irl. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, my newly ex-girlfriend has admitted to cheating on my for the past year and is now pregnant with the guys kid. I own everything in her apartment, and I want it back, but I feel like a dick to take it all. What do?
POST: Reddit I dated my ex-girlfriend for ~1 year. 2 weeks ago she d... | Recently ex-girlfriend admitted to cheating during our entire relationship, I own everything in her apartment, I kinda want my stuff back, but I can't bring myself to get it. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Need your help on how I should break up with her.
POST: I started seeing this girl (for ref. I'll call her lauri) back in the beginning of November. Things escalated quickly and we had sex within the first week of finding out we had mutual feelings towards each other. Lauri had helped ... | Want to dump lauri for charli, but on a month long school break, both want to hang out when I get back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I need help. I'm an asshole, and I enjoy this about myself a little too much... How do I fix this?
POST: First off, just let me say I never (willing) express my asshole thoughts towards anyone. I'm always nice towards everyone, even if I'm mentally talking shit to them in the same moment.
... | I'm looking at world through blood-red lenses, and it's starting to rip apart my sanity. Some insight would be fantastic. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Keep waking up
POST: Hey Reddit.
A couple of weeks ago, I accidentally overcharged a battery in the night, and to make a long story short, I wound up snapping awake to discover my carpet on fire. Not a big fire, but as you can imagine it freaked me out pretty bad, and it left a few nasty ... | a couple weeks ago I awoke to my room on fire. Now I'm paranoid and keep thinking I smell it again, making it hard to sleep. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: 16 month old with bad allergies, help?
POST: My 2nd child, a 16month old boy, is apparently dealing with his first bout of allergies due to the unseasonably warm weather. He really has a great attitude about it, but his eyes are very swollen and the sheer volume of eye-boogers is creepy.
... | 16 month old has bad allergies. he's around 28 lbs, or about 2 stone for you limeys. Got any tips to make his life better? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19F] roommate [18F] isn't showering and smells up the room, but gets defensive when I bring it up.
POST: My roommate, who I have signed a lease with for next year living in the same bedroom, smells awful.
Earlier in the semester she started dating somebody, and would shower every ... | My roommate smells really bad, stopped showering, and leaves stale cigarette smell in room. She's sensitive about the topic, and gets angry/passive aggressive if I bring it up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 23 M and ex 21 F of 4 yrs, mother is sick and want to be there for her
POST: We were engaged, a little while ago her mother came down with an incurable and unknown disease that is slowly killing her mother. She said she wanted a break which she said meant that we split and there is... | Gf said wanted a break, her mom is sick. want to be there for her, but don't know if I'm capable due to shortcomings. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being on the Internet
POST: I just realized I do have a reddit account to submit stuff but this happened about 2 years ago.
I have a great job but before that, I was a male escort on backpage. I did it for about 5 months and I thought it would be a good chance to to make a little extra... | Was a male escort. A year after being hired full-time, HR googles my phone number. Boss finds out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [28M/24F] Can a relationship go on if the sexual attraction stops between the two?
POST: I met this girl last year and we both decided to get married. We hit it off really well. Everything was going on fine. Although the physical intimacy started a little late. But when it starte... | We stopped getting sexually attracted to each other. And we have friendzoned each other. Is this normal? Can we undo this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I get my dad to divorce my mom?
POST: Background: I am the middle of three siblings in my family. Since I was younger I watched my older sister receive extremely unjust punishments from my mom, as much as I tried to learn how not follow in her footsteps I had no choice. There are an... | Mom is crazy and tearing my family apart while making my committed dad unhappy. How do I help my dad? Talking to her does not work. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what is your best bad situation turned good story?
POST: Here's mine;
I have to older brothers, 7 and 9 years older than me. I always tried to fit in with them/hang out with them and their friends but I was always kind of denied, understandably. Well one day when I was about 10, I ... | When I was ten, I beat my oldest brother in NFL Blitz, got a pizza, Saw tits, thought I was going to die, and instead got a movie and another pizza. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU a road trip and wasted $400 by not checking the basics
POST: So, I went on a trip for a few days, driving from Florida to Indianapolis and back. On the way up, I had a tire crack due to dry rot (and proceeded to drive over 900 miles with a severely left-pulling car, thinking the alignment ... | Spent $400 and panicked the whole way home from a vacation to find my car wasn't accelerating because the fucking floormat was crammed under the gas pedal. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: It's been seven months, but I find I think about her more than ever
POST: Basics: 26 year old male
The break-up happened in October, about seven months ago now. First two months were soso, not happy, not unhappy about how it happened. January things started sliding down hill, ... | If you ever had a really painful thought that you couldn't get out of your head, how did you eventually get it to go away? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Today was productive
POST: IMPENDING WALL OF TEXT, I USED THE SPEECH OPTION ON MY PHONE. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.
Yesterday I was very upset that I want to have a background on my mobile and my tablet and I could find one that fits my personality quite right. I wanted one that, you know ref... | I drew my own background for my tablet and phone, and I realized I want to draw, and animate for a living. I also didn't have to struggle with to focus. (I have some severe ADHD) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Post college redditors. Do you think the "college experience" was necessary?
POST: Before anything let me give you a quick background. I'm just shy of turning 24 and didn't finish school (2 years community college) because I was dumb and decided being in a touring band (metalcore screamo t... | I didn't go to college but am curious if the whole "college experience" is worth considering going back for? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [21M] buy my friend [21F] a sneaky, special birthday/christmas present. When is it okay to give presents to the opposite gender?
POST: So I've been thinking about giving my very good friend a special present for her birthday/christmas. Her birthday is on the 24th of December. ... | Want to give my female friend (whom I like) a present for her birthday. When can you give gifts to friends of the other gender, and would this be more weird than sweet?? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[20M] Girlfriend[19/F] keeps paying attention to another guy[19/M]
POST: Hello, community,
this has been on my mind for a couple of days now.
Basically, what happened, is that my girlfriend met a new guy in class and regularly talks to him, we'll call him John. They text almost ev... | having bad feelings of my gf and her newly founded friendship with a classmate. Need advice on how to approach the matter |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need advice on dealing with my [18M] girlfriend's [18F] somewhat overprotective Greek parents who want their daughter to have a Greek boyfriend
POST: For a bit of background, everything is fine between me and her, but her parents are somewhat protective, not letting us see each other o... | how do I deal with and create a friendly relationship with my girlfriend's greek parents who want her to have a greek boyfriend? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: BF mad because of my (always) hidden relationship status.
POST: My boyfriend and I (23, F & M) have been dating for 6 months. Today he realized that my relationship status on facebook is hidden. Not "single", but hidden and he's really pissed off. It's been like this since I've joined ... | Boyfriend mad because of hidden relationship status on facebook, how can I get him to understand that this is completely silly and he need not worry? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Crazy Sh*t you did, where you thought you were screwed...but weren't?
POST: When I was a young and crazy University student of first year, my best friend at the time got some easy money. We had a brief period of coke usage and she wanted to celebrate.
Naturally I wished to partake in the ... | Had crazy coke fiesta night before final exam. Attempted to study briefly before it, whilst buzzing like a pink glittered vibrator. Aced it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my SO [20 F] of a year. My SO has been having issues with my dorm mate.
POST: My girlfriend has been having some issues with me hanging out with my dorm mate downstairs, as i hang out with her often since she is usually around and is always down to smoke weed. Though for... | My girlfriend is unhappy with how i can see my friend from my dorm so much and so easily, it is hurt our relationship together a lot. Suggestions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [20F] getting weird vibes from the female roommate [19F] of my boyfriend [20F]. How to proceed?
POST: I'll try to keep this short, but I get really weird vibes from one of my boyfriend's female roommates. Before I met her, he was telling me about how cool she is and how she l... | Weird vibes from boyfriend's female friend/roommate. He says it's nothing. How to tell if I'm making something out of nothing? What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Should I Get Back on the Horse? (And Some Post-Breakup Issues) [24m]
POST: Preface:
Recently ended what was a pretty bad relationship about a month ago. I made every effort to cut all contact with her in an effort to just get on with my life. Unfortunately, she aggressively trie... | ex screwed me up and i don't want to be alone, but i don't want to hurt anyone else in the process |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 F] have a crush on my coworker [18 M] but I am worried about sexual harassment.
POST: So I've worked at my current job for about 10 months and recently got a promotion (dishwasher to prep/banquet cook). For 7 of those months, I had a boyfriend (R); a relationship that was recentl... | I don't want to engage in a relationship with a coworker unless I can avoid the possibility of being charged with sexual harassment. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Need some advice with my SO and flirting..
POST: Hey Reddit, obvious throwaway here. I'll try and keep this short and sweet.
Me (25) and my girlfriend (26) have been living together about almost 2 years and for the most part, things have been perfect. However we had a rough patc... | SO seems to be flirting with a married guy/married guy is flirting with her. Either way its not cool. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by dating someone i met on facebook.
POST: yeah, so this one is a fresh one. happened just a few hours ago..
so i was checking my facebook today, and as i was talking to my friend that girl added me as a friend. so i had 1 mutual friend with her but i had to check it out.. so we start spe... | fuck it i'm not gonna pay for this and i'm not a goddamn cell technician. sent it.. blocked him and her. now idk what to do because i'm afraid of this little piece of shit. FUCK. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21M] gf [22F] of 3 years, is having trouble coping with depression from our LDR
POST: We have been in a LDR for about a year now since she moved away from our home town to pursue a career in ballet. Since she left, she has hated almost all aspects of the school she is in and gets v... | gf is not happy with life in an LDR, using escapist strategies which result in her becoming even more depressed later what to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [M/21] need some advice with a girl [F/21] I want to be more than just friends with
POST: Not completely sure I'm posting this in the right place, apologies if I'm not.
I've had a class with this really cute/cool girl all semester. We were both in a group project together and ... | Trying to preemptively make sure I don't get in the friend zone with a girl I don't know that well, how do I go about doing so? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Been with my gf for 16 months thinking shouting breaking up
POST: Well I have been dating this girl for 16 months. She is 29 and I'm 34. I enjoyed spending time with her. She is smart but 13 months into it I was using here iPad and she had her email opened on it. I was about to close ... | been with my gf for 16 months and she is really controlling. I want to breakup but can't. Plus found out she's a prostitute. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Just typing this makes me sick, but I [19M] don't find my girlfriend [19F] attractive anymore.
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating since we've been 16, and through it all we've had a great time. We've never had a fight that we weren't able to stop, sit down, and talk it through... | I don't find my girlfriend of 3 years very attractive anymore, and I'm worried if these feelings would hurt a long term relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Could I have handled this situation better?
POST: Here's how things went down:
I study Aikido, a martial art that is, compared to others, relatively laid-back, peaceful, and harmonious. My dojo has classes for kids, young people (middle and high schoolers basically) and adults. People... | was put in a kinda awkward situation in martial arts training with a young girl. Didn't say anything about it to avoid embarrassing her, but still felt kinda wrong. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO [22M] openly looks at nude pics of other girls online, collects porn etc while I [21F] am over. Am I right to be bothered by this?
POST: My SO and I have been together for about 4 months. It's been wonderful for the most part - we have sex often, he gets along with all my friends... | SO is always looking at porn on his computer, even when I am over. Am I right to be bothered? How do I bring it up? I want this to stop. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [22/m] Broken up for a year, from a 5 year relationship, and can't get over it
POST: Throwaway:
My GF [22/f] and I have been dating since we were 16, we broke up last year because of stupid fights we have been having, I don't want to get into it to much, but I need help getting o... | 5 year relationship, been broken up for a year, still in love with her, chest pains every time I see her name, picture, or username, and want to get over all of this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] with my GF [24F] of 3 years, took a week long "break." I want her back, but am scared to call and "beg"
POST: GF and I were having problems, and kinda mutually broke up. We left it at, we will talk in a week or two.
Its only been 3 days and I am dying inside. I want her bac... | GF and I half brokeup, are on a "break." But I feel the need to rekindle now, show some sign I love her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I handle a peer that has no idea what she is doing and causing strife in the workplace?
POST: Nearly 5 months ago I was given the task of training a new girl that I actually voted against hiring based on the fact that she has no industry experience. Well, she was hired anyway based ... | Boss hired someone inadequate for the job, I have to train her, she'll never get it, now she is causing un-needed drama. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 18M Confused and Not Sure What To Do About 18M I've Known A Few Weeks
POST: So my group of friends got connected to another group of friends about a month ago, and since the two groups have really meshed. One of the members of the other group is gay, he is a very cool person, and I am ... | A gay friend started getting handsie, and I don't know what to do about it. I thought I was straight, but at this point, I have no clue, and I don't know how to act around him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18 F/N] 7th grade crush [19 F] is living with us and I think I'm falling for her again.... but I can't!
POST: There is a bit of a story to this so hold on to your hats, fellas. It all started back in 2011, when I was 13/14.Let's call her Dee. She came from Chicago to visit her fami... | Big time crush returns to my home state 5 years later and my heart beats with romance, can't submit to feelings due to religion, need help urgently before I lose control and become ostracized. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [18f] selfish for not forgiving my family of being unsupportive? [Long]
POST: For the past two years I have been struggling greatly with depression and anxiety. Not being from a very open faculty I struggled to tell them until a teacher offered to tell them for me. I agreed and as... | my family have not suppored me as I have struggled with depression and bad mouthed while they knew I could likely hear them and is now calling me selfish |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (20m) with my two female friends (19f). I hooked up one and now there's trouble.
POST: Throwaway bc friends know my username.
So I'm in university and am really close friends with two females, who I'll call Sarah and Emily. We're all good friends and hang out, study, etc together... | I hooked up with a friend and things are confusing and have escalated when I thought we were just gonna move on. HELP. Apologies for any mistakes, am on my mobile. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [21/f] w/ bf (22/m) that values communication and the truth, but should I bring up things that have the potential to break things off when it may just be me being too sensitive?
POST: It's the first time I believe my boyfriend and I are actually having serious issues. We've been togeth... | How do I know if the little things that used to only slightly bug me but are now recurring more frequently and causing more serious thought are actually major deal breakers? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: F[28] gf of 2+ years pushing (& manipulating?) M[29] to marry.
POST: My SO of 2+ years has been pushing hard for a ring. We'd been talking about getting married & then moving in together, but some issues led me to wanting to delay that. She then tells me that she missed her lease renew... | f[28] gf seems to be trying to manipulate me into "til death do us part" rather than just talking to me & I'm a little concerned. Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Unable to Stick with choices, need some advice.
POST: I'm 22 (male), and she is 23. We met in first year of university, two and a half years ago and started dating early in the year. First year went really well, and about halfway into our second year of the relationship I felt it was t... | Not feeling very natural with current relationship...Do I love her too much to let go? Is It time to move on? Or do I wait it out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why won't this girl [18F] look at me [19M] when I talk to her?
POST: So me and this girl are coworkers and I have a crush on her. She has a boyfriend but about 3 months we started texting and eventually I asked her to hangout and she agreed but I never followed up and told where when a... | This girl and I were kind of "talking" and stopped. Now she hardly looks at me when I talk to her |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22 F] broke up with my serious bf [27 M] recently. Tried to start rebounding and I have no sex drive.
POST: It's like it depresses me. I have slept with many many people in my life and only two of them have ever gotten me off. Now I just don't feel close enough to anyone to have a g... | Avoiding the possibility that I could be earth-shatteringly heart broken and realizing that I despise sex and cannot ever reach orgasm. What the hell. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Nothing holds my interest anymore. I spend most of my days in front of a screen and can't commit to anything. Any advice?
POST: It's not just me - my girlfriend has the same problem. We have a lot in common, actually. Everything from taste in movies and humor to personal disorders (like an... | My GF and I are extremely capricious and can't keep our attention on anything long enough to see it through. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Men: If/when you masturbate while in bed, do you come all over your sheets?
POST: Provocative title, I know. Basically, I need some data to settle an argument between me and my boyfriend.
I found out that while I was away at school, my boyfriend had masturbated while lying in my bed. Tha... | I'm pissed off that my boyfriend jerks off in my bed while I'm away and soils the sheets with impunity. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Absolutely pissed at life right now
POST: Fuck, first let me just get this off my chest. I was born in India and raised here in New Jersey since I was 4 years old. My whole life I have been going to mosques, reading Quran and being a regular ole American citizen that just so happens to be Musli... | Most of my family are Muslims, they are just normal people , why can't we live a life full of happiness and discovery rather than hatred and fear :( |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (28/F) date a man (35/M) that will not support me, financially, nor provide in other areas.
POST: My boyfriend is extreemly unmotivated. When I talk to him about it he says I don't give him a chance. It's been a year and a half. He cannot provide for me financially, if anything... | as the woman in our year and a half relationship I do the providing . I am sick of it and mentioned it before to no avail. Should I try to work on this or abandon it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: 5'7" ~175lbs help?
POST: So, I'm 5'7" and I'm not 100% sure on my weight, but last time I remember it was around 175 lbs. I'm not sure how much would be a good amount of weight to lose, but everyone tells me I look like I weight more like 150 instead of 175, but my goal weight would be to wei... | What exercises should I be doing/foods should I be eating to lose weight in my gut and thighs when nothing seems to be working? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Should I pay off my credit card debt after it's been charged off?
POST: I lost my job last year and suddenly couldn't afford to pay my monthly credit. It charged off, which from what I understand is one of the worst things that can happen to your credit. I just received a letter from... | should I pay off credit account which has been charged off or should I just say "fuck em" and buy magic cards? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my old friend [20 F], She sent drunk texted last night saying she wanted a friend with benefits.
POST: So an old friend of mine who just recently started talking to me again, drunk texted me last night as i was asleep. Her text said she wanted a friend with benefits. I t... | old friend [F,20] said she wanted a FWB through adrunk text, but will not discuss it with me. How can I talk to her about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] am up for a job that would put me out of town for a month, just started seeing a new guy [24M], what should I do?
POST: Hi r/relationships. Throwaway because I'm easily identifiable on my main account.
This feels rather silly, but I'm just curious as to what your advice would ... | I have a job opportunity that will put me out of town for about a month as well as make me very busy throughout the fall. Should I tell the new guy I'm dating, or just worry about it when I have to? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (F27)Sleeping in separate beds/ rooms? No sexual desire for him (32) anymore... Help.
POST: We've been dating/ together for 4 years. We live at his moms place as I was finishing college. The past 3 of our 4 years together have been spent sleeping in separate rooms. Before it was becaus... | sleep in separate rooms, live with his mother, lost sexual drive, was t to move out,but fear its too late to rekindle romance. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by ripping a hole in my arm on my first day of work.
POST: So like many tifu this didn't happen today but someone at work commented on my scar so I thought I'd share.
So when I was 16 I worked for a week for a family friend who was a general contractor, he needed a little extra help finis... | Went to my first day on a job, fell in a hole, ripped a hole my arm, busted the wound open a week later at school. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [29M]I'm having trouble dating two women at once [26/F] and [30/F]
POST: I met two women online around the same time. Most of my first dates don't pan out, so I usually schedule a 1-2 dates a week. In this instance I had a really great time with both women, and I've had 3-4 dates... | Beyond 3 dates with two women, I'm not ready to decide because I still don't know either well enough. How do I handle conversations about sex and dating other people? What are the rules and expectations? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] needs to get my Girlfriend [18F] to finish with me
POST: Hey.. Basically, I've been seeing this girl for a few months and at the start it was fine. But the further into the relationship I've gotten, I've noticed things that are off-putting; namely being that she's slightly psy... | Going out with a girl for about 2 months, Lo and behold - crazy. Need her to end things on her terms so she doesn't hurt herself or me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: So I (32M) asked my mother (60'sF) to quit trash talking me to my wife.
POST: As the title says, I recently asked my mother to quit sending derogatory text messages to my wife regarding me and she responded simply with "You're on your own." I did this because my wife and I both were ge... | Am I overreacting by cutting my mother out of my life, and how do I explain to my daughter, when the time comes, what happened |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: "Spoiled" Child
POST: I have a three year old daughter. Recently people (a coworker, best friend, mother in law) have commented that she is spoiled. It really pisses me off and I have to defend myself.
The reason is because she has a lot of toys, I spent a lot of time designing her playr... | people think my kid is spoiled because of the abundance of toys she has, but is not showing signs of being a brat. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (Just want some advice from more mature/older people) Me [15 M] with my [15F] Teenager problems
POST: So many of you most likely disregarded this post due to my age. That's fine. It happens and I completely understand. But anywho...
I'm 15 [M] and about to be a junior in highschool... | I seem to be the only teenager who wants a long term relationship/ At my age is it worth going for long term relationships? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Anyone else have experience breaking up over finances?
POST: So finances are not our only issue, but because of his depressive tendencies and possible other mental issues (denial, rage when intoxicated [not at me ever], and not remembering incidents accurately... I'm talking really twi... | Boyfriend will be losing job. He has a poor work history after 4 years. Just looking for stories of breaking up with someone over poor work performance/depression who was still really in love with their SO. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] dating [23M], 3 months in and still doesn't want to use the word "boyfriend"
POST: I've been dating a really great guy for about 3 months now. We pretty much hit it off on the first date and have been seeing each other often.
We were sitting down one night and I brought up th... | Guy I've been seeing for 3 months says things are going well but doesn't want the label of "boyfriend", despite acting like a couple, could this be to do with issues surrounding his sexuality? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by eating crisps (mildly nsfw?)
POST: Throwaway account. This happened earlier today.
So last night, my sister invited her new boyfriend round. We have this hut at the bottom of the garden that has a sofa-bed in it, so they stayed in that overnight.
The next morning, after my sister had... | sister and her boyfriend used half-empty bag of crisps to hide used condom, I unknowingly ate a couple of the crisps, and am beginning to feel sick as I write this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: What to ask for in Discovery when fighting Radar Speed Ticket.
POST: Hey guys, just got a speeding ticket and I believe I actually have a pretty good defense using time speed and distance calculations to prove obstacles that would prevent officer from getting an accurate radar reading.
... | I reduced my $90 speeding ticket to a $67 Failed Windshield Wiper ticket by filing Discovery and then talk with the Prosecuting Attorney. Didn't even have to go to court and no Points to my record. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (22/F) has been seeing a (23/M) for four months and he may have never ended his previous relationship. Do I tell her?
POST: Ryan and me were friends in highschool, and randomly reconnected after we had an amazing night at a bar in college. About a week in I saw on facebook that he had ... | Became emotionally invested in my SO, only to find out he may still be in a relationship with his "ex." Should I tell her, or just move on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My 23F SO has broken up with me (24M) by simply ignoring me for weeks. Not sure how to deal with it.
POST: We'd been dating for several months and all was going very well until we had an argument just over 2 weeks ago via text. It wasn't a big argument and admittedly I started it, but ... | GF seems to have broken up with me by ignoring me till I take the hint. How do I deal with this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have I destroyed myself financially? Someone please give me some advice. I'm 23 and I don't know where to turn.
POST: A few months ago, I had an overdraft on my checking account. I did not notice that I'd done it, and as I wasn't working except for an under-the-table cash-only job, I wa... | I'm an idiot and I let an overdraft fee fester for too long, and now my name is not welcome in most banks. WHAT can I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my Mother [60 F], have been living at my Aunt's [60s F] apartment for the last 2 months or so. Aunt seems to have gotten really upset about things. I'm not sure what to do.
POST: The title sums up the situation. For the last 2 months or so, ever since my dad [60M] in a f... | Currently living with my mum and aunt at aunt's house, aunt seems unhappy a lot, not sure if it's my fault or not. looking for an outside perspective on this, though a possibly solution would be appreciated as well. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with the guy I'm dating [33 M], asking to make time without being needy
POST: I've been dating this guy for a month and a half now, and despite our age difference, we get along really well and fell for each other really hard and really quickly, as we share so many of the same... | What is the appropriate amount of alone time/group time you should spend with someone you've just started dating, and at what point does asking someone to spend more time with you become needy/unfair to ask someone to change? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (17m) just found out that my ex(17f) and her long time crush(17m) are getting closer...I need help
POST: I've been single for five months now and I am comfortable with the idea of not having her in my life; in fact, I welcome it and can't wait to go to college next year where I won't... | Ex and her long time crush who is also a friend are about to date; I end up stalking their twitter and think about hacking their facebook just to find out for sure... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [25/F] High maintenance and my boyfriend [21/M] for [10months] is Low maintenance, how can we compromise?
POST: He courted me for only a week after meeting me, and asked me to be his girlfriend the moment when I was flying to Singapore for a weekend vacation, everything feels rushe... | I want to be courted again, properly, sweetly, sincerely and not those hipster bullcrap, How can I get him to court me again and get him to talk about compromising? |
SUBREDDIT: r/books
TITLE: New York Public Library: A Rant
POST: So, after working in NYC for close to 8 years, I finally got around to getting myself a library card. Great, I thought - the perfect Christmas present to myself.
Except that it's not.
Start with the fact that "one does not simply walk into a library" and... | Looks like I'll be sticking with my regular library system, unless there's something I just really can't find there. So disappointed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Need Advice on Seeing Ex Almost-Daily
POST: Hey everyone,
My Girlfriend (20) and I (21) just broke up last week after 2 and a half years.
However, she told me she is not sure if it is forever, and she is seeing a councilor about some things in her life, and about us possibly getting back ... | How do I act when I see my ex nearly daily, and what can I do to help my case for her to get back with me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: building non "credit card" credit
POST: I've generally been quite good with credit cards but I've never understood the different types of credit. I've been good with my money, built up a good credit score (780+) and am now ready to buy my own car (first was a hand me down).
I have e... | Would I be better off buying a car with cash or should I take out a loan to make some (how many?) payments on a car in order to establish this mysterious "installment" credit that I've never touched? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Say a group of your University's students are circulating a petition to allocate funds to equip each classroom with larger desks for obese students. Why would you either sign, or not sign that petition? (backstory)
POST: Today in one of my classes an obese young woman circulated a heavily... | obese woman wants other students to help supply classrooms with larger desks- and I'm far too ambivalent to NOT discuss it... |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Depressed friend. I'm his sole confidante, but I can't do this alone. Help?
POST: Friend is very (dangerously?) depressed and I'm his sole confidant. Help?
A friend of mine is going through a very rough patch. He's a good guy, and very smart. But very lonely, and increasingly hostile, depres... | Friend is very depressed. Won't see a therapist. Is relying on me to play therapist. I'm not helping much. I live half a country away. Worried he may become a danger to himself. What to do? :( |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [24M] confused by physical responses of [25F] to light touching
POST: I've been on two dates now with a women I met on OKC. We've talked a lot online and via text before the first date, and between the first and the second date (which was yesterday) and briefly last night after the dat... | The woman I am dating does not seem comfortable with light physical contact, and I have no idea how to proceed in that department with her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My younger brother is a dick and I'm in love with his GF
POST: My younger brother(23) brought his girlfriend(22) of one year to a family event. Little background on my little brother he is a douche and a complete snake. He repeatedly cheats on his girlfriends all while pretending to be... | My brother is a douche and is cheating on his girlfriend who I have feelings for, do I tell her he is cheating and that I have feelings for her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17/F] with my boyfriend [20/M] of 3 years. Got caught snooping his browser history, feel really guilty, he just thought it was funny. What do, if anything?
POST: Long story short, he was hanging out with his family while I was in his bedroom playing some games. Match finished, I go... | got curious about my bf's fap material, got caught redhanded. how big of a deal is it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23 F] ex [26 M] of 5 Years wants closure 3 weeks after breaking up
POST: I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years 3 weeks ago after a slow realization that I was no longer in love with him. I had spent the past year of our relationship trying desperately to see if I could fall back ... | Ex wants closure after I broke up with him 3 weeks ago. I do not want to, and if I must I want to talk on the phone and not in person. |
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