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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21f] asked my SO [22m] to join me for Christmas but I feel guilty about it.
POST: My so and I have been together for 4 years and we're pretty much in a LDR. We are both from the same hometown [4hrs away] but go to different universities. We try and see each other once a month and s... | asked so to join me for Christmas, he said yes but now I'm feeling guilty and selfish for having asked him to sacrifice his time with his family for me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [27 M] told his friend he's falling in love with me [27 F], but it's not the right time so he wants to stop it all
POST: I met a guy in September. We didn't communicate a lot but saw each other from time to time in a bar. Went to a concert together in December, just friends.
Last wee... | A guy told his friend he is falling in love with me after a couple of awesome dates, but thinks it's not the right time so he wants to dump me. Is there anything I can do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24M] read on my girlfriend's [24F] facebook chat that she had been making out with some guy she knows this summer. She never told me. What do I do?
POST: For the first time since we've been together( and we live together), I snooked on her facebook as she left it open before she wen... | Girlfriend and a friend of her talked on facebook about how she made out with another guy when she was super drunk. I'm not sure how to respond.. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [20/m] like her [18/f] friends more than I like her.
POST: Honestly she's one of the best persons I've ever met. I've known her for a long time and she's always had an interest in me and was never afraid to say it. She ended up coming to the same university as me and we finally... | My gf is almost perfect, but there's no spark. If we break up I will lose a lot of friends. I think I'm interested in one of her friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my friend [27 M] of a few months, I don't understand our interactions.
POST: I have a friend I sit next to 3 times a week in grad school. He's a nice, funny guy. I might have a little bit of a crush on him, but I figured that the romantic attraction is not returned, so I'... | I have a guy friend who I interact great with online, but he clams up in person. What's going on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30 F] recently-ish divorced, ready to give up on dating and people entirely
POST: I was married for over 10 years, it ended in a pretty fucking shitty way several months ago. I'm ready to start dating, and unfortunately have been hurt a few times and having difficulty figuring out ... | Divorced, back in the dating pool, having shit luck, ready to give up. What the fuck do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (31/f) married to my husband (37/m) for two years. What can I do without his participation to help?
POST: We have a volatile relationship which can be alright on its own but he has gotten overwhelmed. He dumped me two weeks ago during a fight and then eventually retracted. He doe... | Husband overwhelmed and has an internal story that I am always being a bitch even when I am not. What can I do alone to help this story start to change? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Not entirely sure where to go from here. Unbiased advice greatly appreciated.
POST: So I (16f) have been with my boyfriend (17) for about a year and six months. Things were better in the beginning. But lately, our relationship has really flatlined. When we have text conversations... | bf is great but not. Genuinely cares but isn't as thoughtful as man friends. Lackluster relationship. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've been talking to this girl [both 21] for a few weeks and she just posted a picture with her ex kissing her cheek. What do?
POST: I met her about a month ago, she had recently broke it off with her bf of 4 years because he cheated on her. We hit it off and I got her number and have ... | girl I've been talking to has been leading me on and now posted a picture with her ex, not sure how to proceed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How to clean up my laptop to run games effectively again?
POST: Hey,
I have been lurking Reddit for a while now and finally decided to start an account as I have read and seen some helpful things on ask Reddit.
Anyway, I've had my laptop for about 2 and a half years now and it is starti... | Laptop running slowly, wondering if I can clean it up to run L4D2, TF2, SC2 until i get new gaming comp in about a months time. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [16/M] too into the Relationship with my Girlfriend [16/F]?
POST: Hey guys, sorry to plague this subreddit with your stereotypical teenage questions, but I honestly can't stop thinking/worrying about this question.
Things got serious a few weeks ago. We started hanging out, kiss... | I want to spend more time with my girlfriend, does this come off as clingy, needy, or an invasion of space? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Looks like I have to take out student loans.. HELP!
POST: For a number of reasons that are out of my control, my financial situation has tightened significantly in the last couple of weeks. I'm a student at LSU, and I'm currently meeting the criteria for a 100% tuition coverage schol... | Newly broke college student needs help with student loans; how to get them, where, and what they're gonna cost me |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (M17) am trying my best to help my girlfriend (F18) of 11 months through her mental health issues, but it's so hard to deal with sometimes
POST: So essentially my girlfriend struggles with OCD and psychosis, and I have been trying my best to be supportive and help her through tough t... | I need my girlfriend to understand that my patience can wear thin, and that I'm losing it because of her constant upheavals. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [31M] chatting with [31F]
POST: A few weeks ago I started texting with this girl I met over okcupid. She is really nice to chat with and we have a lot in common. She was a in relationship for over 10 years, and hasn't dated since, and she has a little extra weight on her, so she is ver... | shy girl is always posting to facebook, and I feel like I am getting ignored. she is too shy to meet in person, how do I help her get over that? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She [31F] is grieving over her dead ex boyfriend, I [22M] need help figuring out how to console her.
POST: I have been talking to Danielle for over a month now. She disclosed early on that her last boyfriend died 6 months ago and that she loved him deeply.
I haven't asked about detai... | Girl I'm talking to is depressed and withdrawn after ex's death and is scared she won't ever feel normal again. I'm not sure if I'm helping her as best as I could be. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18/f] have a problem with infidelity in that I do not have a problem with it.
POST: My last two relationships have been quite different from each other. My current relationship with [18/m] is so far very good. We like each other, we talk all the time and do a lot of things with one ... | I cheat in relationships and do not see a problem with it apart from the fact that my partner may become enraged if he were to discover I did so. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Would it still be worth going for an engineering degree if I only did the bare minimum in high school?
POST: Like the title says, I slacked off in high school and only did what was required. I just started my first year of college as an education major and I'm really starting to second gue... | I'd need to do 4 math classes, a physics class, and basic chemistry before I can even start the major. It may take almost 2 years to do that. |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Can you bring alcohol back to the US from abroad if you are not 21?
POST: I'm going to Scotland in April and I am 20 years old. I thought it might be kind of fun to find some sort of alcohol there that they don't sell in the US for some friends, but I don't know the policy for transporting it... | I'm 20 going to a country where I can legally buy alcohol. Can I bring it back to the US in my checked bag, if not, what will happen if they find it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 F] dating [28 M] for a month - exhibiting manchild behavior I think, am I right and should I shut it down or give him a chance?
POST: So I've been dating a guy for about a month and he's sweet and I do like him and am attracted to him a lot - the physical connection is great - bu... | Dating a guy I like who may very well be a manchild - should I shut it down or give it a chance? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: So stupid of me
POST: My girlfriend, 22, of 3 years and I keep fighting about things I've done in the past. Approximately 2 years ago. She keeps asking questions about those times, and I answer them but the questions keep piling up and I have no clue what to do. I know it's my fault, I... | girlfriend of 3 years have been fighting about things that happened two years ago. Should I drop it and let it go or should I continue to try to make things up to her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/f] Dealing with Homophobic Parents
POST: So I came out to my parents over a year ago. My mom was fine with it. Completely fine with it. My dad wasn't.
About 3 months after coming out to them, I started dating a boy though. Which my dad was happy about since he had said, "ju... | lesbian, came out to parents, one was fine, dated a boy, unhappy, now dating a girl, both parents are completely upset and hate it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Help I'm being treated unfairly at work.
POST: Hi I'm using a throw away account since some of my friends know my account.
So let me start off by saying I'm a 19 y/o female and work at McDonalds. Ive been working here for about 4 months now. When i just started working I noticed I was being tr... | Work at McDonalds. I am being treated unfair since I got hired. Now am suspended for a week for not greeting a customer nicely. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, have you ever done something wrong (any which way) when you were very horny and despised your choice later and have from then on preferred to believe it never happened?
POST: It was one crazy tiring night and my best friend had decided to crash at my place, with his girlfriend. We ... | Friend and his girl crashed at my place. End up making out with her in sleep. Pretend that nothing ever happened. Still feel shitty about the whole thing. None but I and her know about this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My boyfriend 22[m] of 9 months is celibate and now he won't even make out with me 22[f]
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. He's very strict in following a spiritual path and many of the followers of the tradition he follows are celibate. I have known this sin... | boyfriend is celibate and now he doesn't even want to make out with me. What to do **besides** breaking up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: "Assholes get all the girls". What is the meanest thing you've ever done to someone a SO?
POST: This girl and I have broken up, but before we started dating, I thought I was madly in love in love her, but I was on my way to being put in the "friend zone". One night when she was out, she ... | Was a gentleman, got treated like crap. Endangered her life, and she loves me. Wtf. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my best friend [22 F] 1 year, asked out my best friend she stopped talking to me after a month
POST: Long Distance Friendship
I broke up with my gf because I felt like I loved my best friend (we were friends from more than 1½ year) i asked her out,She said no and said s... | broke up with gf to ask out bf , she said no and said she loves someone else and we can be still friends like before.stops talking to me after 1-2 months |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I have to come up with almost 2 grand in the next month, or I have to move back in with my (fundie, right-wing) parents and put off my college education. How can I go about doing this?
POST: Backstory: I'm seventeen. I went to college early through a program for people like me who ... | I don't want to move back in with my parents, and I don't want to go back to highschool. How do I raise two grand in a month? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: USPS Lost My Package - possible steps?
POST: So, I placed an order on Amazon (which included a 2TB Hard Drive, which to me expensive enough to not be taken lightly).
I put in my shipping address as my office. This past Tuesday, I check the status of the order and it says that it was deli... | USPS lost my package from Amazon and I need to know if I have any options for retrieval or reimbursement. Thanks! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Dating] How do I [20M] approach a guy [21?M] I'm attracted to in my lecture?
POST: Hey everyone,
I'm a third-year transfer student, and this is my first quarter at my new university. I'm also attracted to someone (let's call him J) in one of my major courses. It's been a while since ... | I'm attracted to a guy in my lecture, and I want to get to know him better. How do I do this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do I [20F] have a right to get pissed off due to the flakiness of my date [22M]?
POST: Well, long story short, I met this guy on his second night in my city. He had moved here from one state over and he was out at a bar with some buddies. We talked, had a few beers and the rest of our ... | Flakey guy took me out, had a great time. Stood me up today, asked for a second chance, is intentionally ignoring me. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Going in for a Lumbar Puncture (Spinal Tap) in a few days and am pretty terrified. Is it that bad?
POST: On a scale from 1 to 10, my fear is at 11. (Sorry, had to get that out of the way.)
I've had severe balance and dizziness issues for over two months now. I walk like I'm drunk all t... | Have had balance issues for over two months. Neurologist ordered a bunch of tests including a spinal tap. I am squeamish of anybody or anything touching my spine. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Car payment issues. Trying to help a friend in need.
POST: My best friend contacted me last night needing help. He asked me If I knew how to lower the cost of auto registration/insurance in CA or if I knew where to get a loan with "not the best credit". I believe he needs to come up ... | 22 year old working two jobs to pay for school and family can't afford auto registration/insurance thus threatening his job/school security. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [19/M] wants to buy an apartment and live with me [17/F]
POST: My boyfriend of 1 year is going to college next year, and so do I. He lives in another state, and we can only see each other in at least every 3 months. He began to make plans to earn money so we could buy an a... | My boyfriend [19/M] of 1 year wants to live with me [F/17], but I think we're too young for that. Now he won't take our relationship seriously anymore. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: I had a run-in with the police last night but I wasn't arrested or cited, what should I expect? (Ft Myers, FL)
POST: Hi guys,
I was recently in FL for spring break, but was flying out last night. I had been drinking for most of the day but I got an uber to the airport and got to my gate... | the gate manager wouldn't let me on my flight but he got me a later one and a hotel bed, an officer looked at my licence but didn't say I was being cited, what can I expect (if anything)? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Need help figuring out a costume. Homeless Mustard or Epic Beard Guy? Or...?
POST: I'm having trouble thinking of a costume. While all you thin bastards have a plethora options to choose from for characters, a fat person like myself just can't do that as it will always be seen as "A fat ve... | I'm having a hard time thinking of a character I can go as. Preferably, its someone with a beard, as I don't like shaving. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Realtor stole our 2400 deposit, what to do?
POST: Hey everyone, so we were shown this place by Rapid Realty in NYC (everyone seems to have a story about Rapid..) and it turned out not to have the legal utilities by move in (even though we were promised they would be there). Landlord could ... | Realtor stole $2400 and refuses to refund it even though the apt they showed us was literally illegal to inhabit - what next, legal action? Internet justice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I am not sure how to deal with my ex, if you could even call him an ex.
POST: So a little more than a year ago, I started seeing this guy who I worked with at a gym. He was 23 and I was a few months away from being 18. He came on to me, he was a lifeguard, while I was swimming at our gym. He ... | a sort of ex came back into my life through texting on a fake number, I want nothing to do with him but blocking his number has not helped. Not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Need advice regarding mortgages deposits and exchanging foreign currencies (UK)
POST: Ok, so my personal finances are stressing my out to an extreme.
Where to begin, my fiancée and I are planning on buying our first home together this year. We are looking at a house at around 100k ... | money scattered around the globe, need advice on when best time to collect money and should I go mortgage free if I can? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My ex [19 F] Dropped Me Like a Fly Once She Lost Interest in Me [18 M]
POST: We had a really good thing going, as all relationships go hahaha however after Emily went camping with her friends 3 weeks ago she began to act differently, like the signs you get before they break up. This w... | She avoided me until I asked whats going on, annnd broke up with me, got dropped like a fly once she lost interest in me. Don't really know how to continue as of yet. Rock climbing? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Help me reddit. I have to become financially independent in less than a month.
POST: My boyfriend and I recently separated (his decision). It's been exactly one week since I moved out of my boyfriend's apartment with our daughter. I have since been looking for jobs, but I have a big proble... | My boyfriend dumped me, I moved out with our 1 year old daughter, and am trying to figure out if I should drop out of school to go to work, or get on welfare to finish my last year of school. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my Roommate [21 F] boyfriend has been staying at our place most of the summer and she did not tell me and refuses to make him pay for anything.
POST: So I left to stay at home for the summer and will I go back visit apartment but have not been able to go back yet because ... | Roommate bf been living at our place and she refuses to help him pay when I'm basically paying for him to live there. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the funniest practical joke you've successfully carried out? (Possibly NSFW)
POST: I'll start...three years ago, my (now ex) gf and I were in the middle of an intense missionary style kama sutra when the idea of scaring her half to death came upon me. During the our sexy times, i s... | Faked finishing inside my gf - kept my composure all the way till we were in line for the morning after pill |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my ex [F19], been broken up a while, finally being friendly again, but still so many unanswered questions/confusion...what do I do?
POST: We dated for a brief but very intense 6-7 months. Admittedly we went against our better judgment and fell madly in love with one anot... | We broke ambiguously. Now an odd atmosphere has arisen between us, one of uncertainty. And there I'm still utterly confused by her. What do I have to do? (Besides grow a spine and move on). |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by watching buzzfeed
POST: Maybe the real FU is not using headphones
so I come from a very religious family and they don't take kindly to being gay. I am straight, but my mom had accused me of being gay several times.
Earlier I was [watching Buzzfeed] and at around 4 minutes in they sta... | today I fucked up by watching Buzzfeed, getting a lesson on how to come out, and convincing my mom I'm gay. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26M] found out that my father [55M] is currently having an online relationship with a woman [40ish F] that lives in another continent. Should I tell my mother [55F] about this?
POST: They have been married for around 27 years now. Things have been shaky for a long time since they do... | Father [55M] is currently cheating on my mother [55F] with some woman [40ish F] that lives in another part of the world. Don't know what I should do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Friends(19) with an ex(23). (4mh) Why does he lie about seeing other people?
POST: Throw away since he knows my UN.
So I have dated this guy for 4 months. We broke up but decided to go ahead and stay as friends. We go to same university. We hang out a lot. He is also my lab/projects p... | ex and I are friends. Work together, study togrther etc. he is seeing someone and lying about it. I can't see why. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (32) obsessed with my boyfriend's (34) ex-mistress (34)
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, lived together for two years, and we had what I thought was a happy life together. We had our normal share of ups and downs until I found out a year ago that he'd be... | My boyfriend had an affair. Now I'm obsessed with his ex-mistress's social media/life and it's making me crazy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hit rock bottom this weekend. Advice on side income?
POST: Reddit, I hit rock bottom this weekend. A little background – I work in IT and have a good job. I have a large family to support and the bills are becoming overwhelming. I'm not behind on any payments, but it's been progressivel... | I'm broke and had to leave my childs Birthday cake at the register. Advice on side jobs and ways to save money? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (30m) was planning to break up with (36f) after 4 months, but now find out she gave me an STI...
POST: I met this woman on okcupid in April. We had dinner and then ended up in bed. I wasn't really into her, but I'd been single a long time and I was lonely. We got together a few m... | how can I still end the relationship and make it clear that I'm just not into her, rather than have her think I'm dumping her because of an STI? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (16 M) am starting to develop very strong feelings for one of my very good girl friends (16 F), who has a boyfriend. I have no clue where to go.
POST: So as the title says, i am hopelessly falling for my very good friend. I know you probably get a ton of these posts, but i have no cl... | I am deeply attracted to one of my good girl friends, and we are very close. Problem is she has a boyfriend. Do i tell her, or wait until the time is right? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] don't see the point in putting effort into relationships in high school
POST: So I bit the bullet and asked a girl out, and we've gone on 2 dates so far. One very late night, when I usually get depressed and existential, I realized that there is pretty much nothing positive th... | Are my friends right when they joke that I'm a robot, or is there actually any sense in my thought process? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] was dating a [23 F] and would like to again.
POST: Essentially what happened is 6 months ago I was dating this girl, she was fantastic, had a lot of fun, really looked to go the distance. The only issue was that I met her at a time when I was unemployed and becoming severely... | Ended a short(but nice) relationship with a girl due to personal problems. Now would like to rekindle such relationship(as I've solved the personal problems), but not sure how to approach. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Which one of your memories stands out to you as the moment your childhood ended? I'll start.
POST: When I was 6 I started the daunting task of reading a chapter book. The title was, Harry Potter and the Sorcerers Stone. Ever since the day I stated my life was wrapped up in Harry Potter. Po... | I read the Harry Potter series throughout my childhood. When I finished it I cried and realised Harry, Ron and Hermione moved on from their childhood adventure and that I had to also. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/f]I suggested an open relationship and I'm not sure if I can stomach my boyfriend[24/m] perusing other women.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for three years now and six months ago we decided to try an open relationship. It was something that had been brought up i... | Boyfriend and I are in an open relationship and he's finally taking advantage of it but I'm not as okay with it as I thought I would be. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: Untraining a former hunting dog
POST: I have a Bluetick Coonhound who is about 4 or 5 years old according to the shelter we adopted her from. She's such a sweet, docile and calm dog when she's around humans. She is very tolerant of little kids petting her and loves attention from adults.... | Bluetick Coonhound likes to tree cats, follow her nose on walks, and doesn't play with toys. How do I undo her former hunting training? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [19/M] want to date a friend of a friend, how can I get her to notice me?
POST: A bit of relevant context - I'm a 19y/o male with pretty much no experience of relationships or dating. The reason being that I don't tend to notice that I like a girl until it's too late to try anything ... | I'm going out with some friends and a girl I would like to date will be there - how can I get her to notice me and notice that I'm interested? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my best friend/ex [29M] He came out as gay years ago but I'm still in love with him. Should I tell him?
POST: We've been friends since right after college and we also dated briefly (3 months). We broke up, he came out, and we stayed friends. I haven't dated anyone since t... | Best friend is gay and I'm in love with him. I don't know how to tell him or if I even should. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: This is probably it...tell me I'm doing the right thing.
POST: 26 male / 22 female
Hey, been with this girl for just over three months...we have a good time together and the sex is great. However, she doesn't include me in her social life outside of us. She has many guy friends, and... | Gonna tell her I don't want to see her anymore because I deserve fucking better. Sorry this is more of a rant...but I just need support. Also, am I being possessive? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Family relative is sick/in the hospital but won't stop doing drugs, what do?
POST: My uncle has been in the hospital for at least 3 months now. If I understand correctly from my mom, he is currently in rehab and still unable to walk.
He beat testicular cancer a few years ago and has alwa... | My stubborn uncle is going to die if he doesn't stop doing drugs, we've tried to intervene but he won't listen to anyone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [17/M] and really unsure on what to do with my crush [17/F]
POST: So, we know each other for about 7 years now but started talking more for about 1 year when we've met again at some class reunion.
Since we started talking so much I developed a crush on her, but I was never quite ... | I have a crush on a girl for 1 year or so and she started giving me signs of interest. I don't know what to do next. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me & my friend drifted apart. Haven't seem him in a year. Do I go to his wedding?
POST: He (M39) and me (F36) were strictly no-sexy times close friends for 5 years. At least I thought we were close friends. He got a girlfriend about 1.5 years ago who he became engaged to a few months l... | He has ignore his friend (me) for over a year. Do I go to his wedding, even if he's not really a friend anymore? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: I have never felt so bad and used in my life. I really need someone to hear [m]e out and give me advice or just sympathize.
POST: Both 20, male female, 8 months
She just broke up with me because I was trying to tell her something about a past relationship that I thought was true. Ive had a... | I have been lied to completely and fucked over by the person I seriously thought about a future with. I feel so used and terrible. I need sympathy or support. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19F] bf [20M] of 3 weeks wants me to meet his parents. Too soon?
POST: I've known Sam for over a year now and we had a brief on/off relationship before summer where I was in a difficult place emotionally so I kept breaking things off. When we were together I'd see him about 3/4 tim... | Bf wants to meet my parents and vice versa and is seeing everything in a long-term fashion. I am very happy with the idea of long term but isn't 3 weeks too soon? |
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated
TITLE: But I don't want to do /anything/...
POST: I spent a lot of my life doing nothing. My reason for this, other than being lazy, is because I really felt no purpose. I looked at life, saw none of us is granted some grand quest, there is no "right" path in life (in my humble opinion) and al... | Today I read [this] comment by another redditor about passion and motivation. I also read [this] detailed plan on how to get from the bottom of a rut to the peak of a self-created motivational mountain. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My roommate wants me to replace a couch because she thinks a friend peed on it, but that's false.
POST: I had a party at my house last week. It was a lot of fun, and a couple friends got too drunk to drive home. One of them, who had gotten his pants wet in the hot tub, slept on this couch ... | My wet friend slept on a couch, 3 days later it started to smell funny, roommate think it's piss but it is not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19M] with my girlfriend [20F], 3 months, I lied about something stupid, promised I wouldn't and did again. Worried she's going to break up with me for it
POST: We have been dating just short of 3 months and everything is great except for 1 little thing. When we first started dating ... | I lied, said I wouldn't again, did again about something small. gf is really annoyed and probably wants to break up |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [21M] Asked my GF [21F] about sexual history and don't know what to do. Need help ASAP
POST: Never posted here before so please let me know if I do something wrong, I just want to be honest because I need so much help right now.
I've been dating my girlfriend for a few months, close t... | GF told me about the guys she's had sex with. I think I'm going to ask her more but I don't know if I should |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Toxic, jobless and drug-abusing sister [30F] won't leave household and causing serious issues
POST: Basically, she is squatting at home burning parent's money so she doesn't have to work while abusing drugs and acting like a total asshole. Her personality is probably the worst I've see... | drug-abusing, toxic, inconsiderate, mentally unstable and jobless sister squatting at home burning parent's money and bumming around. what do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: is derogatory credit fixable?
POST: Had no idea that $400 would screw me so hard.. here is my dilemma-
I had a gym membership over 3 years ago that went into collections due to non-payment as a result of being an idiot and not having a job, then paid off as soon as i got a job; fast... | $400 gym membership dues that got paid off caused derogatory mark on credit, 3 years later still cannot open new lines of credit |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Alternative to GoogleMaps for saving a map of your (long) trip?
POST: Hey guys!
I've been traveling for eight months now and I was using GoogleMaps to keep track of where I've been/where I'm going next, so that my family & friends could see my progress. I went into edit today and, Ta Da! I'... | GoogleMaps' new editor is horrible and useless to me now; is there a different map editor I could use to save a map of my travels |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (27f) great grandmother (90f) doesn't know she's dying, and I'm visiting her for what may be the last time today.
POST: I'm not sure if this belongs here, but I'm not quite sure how to approach today and could use some advice.
My nan has recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer... | want to be able to have final conversation with great grandmother who is unaware that she's dying, but unsure how to approach it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My ex (30m) and I (28f) broke up about 8 months ago after a 5 year relationship. I want to get back together but need advice.
POST: My ex and I were together for 5 years. We got along amazingly well, never fought, lots in common and genuinely really loved each other.
We had a few s... | I still love my ex and want to get back together. He's really introverted so I need to tred slowly and carefully. What things can I do to encourage us to get back together and build something better? |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: 17 year old, given the opportunity to travel. Need some advice!
POST: Hey everyone, I'm a 17 year old that has never travelled before. My cousin has invited me to a 1 week trip to Las Vegas, all expenses would be paid for. But, the catch is that the trip will be a mix of work/conventions, as we... | Been invited to 1 week trip with cousin and cousin's work members(All expenses paid). Will feel terribly uncomfortable, because I don't know anybody or anything. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (18f) wondering if it would be too personal to ask my gf(17f) of suicide attempts
POST: Several months ago my gf had calmy mentioned in a conversation that she had tried to kill herself before. I never thought she would be the type to do something like this and I didn't want to ask... | GF has tried to kill herself and I'd like to know why, to make sure she has not tried it anymore since then. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Women of Reddit; do any of you not like to kiss?
POST: Reddit, I am a 17 yr old male and she is soon to be 17 as well. Our relationship history has been great - started as best friends, moved to a high school relationship (now in 11th grade). When we hang out or have a movie night, p... | GF of 1.5yr isn't interested in being romantic/passionate anymore, what should I make of this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [23F] 2years, who sometimes talks about her gay bestfriends sexual encounters during foreplay, is this weird?
POST: So i love my girlfriend and think she is amazing and very beautiful but there is no doubt she is a bit of a faghag, (has 4 close gay friends and 2 th... | Finding my girlfriends talking about her gay friends sex life off putting while we are making out, which sometimes stop that going elsewhere. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/m] Early dating awkwardness. Should I pursue it or not?
POST: Upfront, I'm a gay dude.
I went on a date with this guy, and it went about as well as you could expect. He kept making references to things we should "do sometime", and even asked me if I was busy the next day, ca... | after a great first date, the guy is cagey about future plans. And even though we're still texting every couple of days, he hasn't made any moves to set a second date. Should I move on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I need some assurance that I truly dodged a bullet with my decision. Having some doubts :-/
POST: I was with a girl earlier this year I had known years prior. Back then in 2011, we went out together, etc but things just never got to the BF-GF stage. I then heard some things about... | Has anyone moved in with their significant other that they had reservations about (including her past, only dating for a few months) and everything work out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do I (24f) break up with the love of my life (26m) for a lifetime of traveling or do I stay for a lifetime of stability?
POST: I'm sure many of you have had the same question. I've been with my SO for 2.5+ years, I love him to death. He's the love of my life, and I can see myself livin... | SO sees traveling as a bad way to spend money, that's all I want to do right now, should I stay or should I go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Does ability cause responsibility? Philosophers and Logical thinkers wanted...
POST: I think responsibility is two-fold, I believe you can only be responsible for something if you have elements of control over outcomes through your choices, and if you choose to accept said responsibility. ... | Where does responsibility come from and what warrants it? Looking to avoid "God" or anything circular (e.g. It's the right thing to do because it is, you have responsibility because you do etc) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: GF [25F] of 2 years left me [25M] abruptly but still wants to stay friends. Is it worth it?
POST: I was not expecting the breakup at all. We have always gotten along really well and could talk for hours on end with no difficulty. Admittedly it wasn't a perfect relationship, but I thoug... | She left me for someone else but really wants to stay friends. I wish I knew more about why she left, but ultimately I think we could work as friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How did you help your relationship survive?
POST: I was listening to This American Life when I heard an interesting thought. The story was about an American man who traveled all over Beijing to find this girl he fell in love with a few years earlier. He finds her and they end up marrying. ... | People romanticize the story of a couple coming together, but never the more important story of *staying* together. How did you help your relationship survive? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[20M] with someone I'm seeing [19F] 1 month, I'm heading off to university, she is not.
POST: Hello, I've currently seen this person for a month now and it's going pretty well! Especially as this is my first time. We're not serious.
But I've got a bit of a problem. I've got into uni... | Off to university. 2 hours away. She really likes the idea of visiting me. Is distance really a big factor in dating? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21/M] am unsure if i should comit to a relationship with a girl [20/f] because of my high sex drive
POST: Hey Guys
My last relationship was very sexual, we'd sleep together whenever we'd meet, this caused me to get quite a strong sex drive for me to be able to keep up with her
I s... | I've got a high sex drive and the girl i'm talking to doesn't, i'm not sure if i should take the relationship any further in case the lack of intimacy is a problem for me |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: How do I calm down?
POST: Let me preface this by stating that I'm a hypochondriac. I'm the guy that reads WebMD with a chest ache and assumes it's terminal cancer.
But recently, it's really been eating at me. If I go to the restroom every 2 hours or so (even with active water drinking), I as... | I'm a hypochondriac that can't chill out and is being taken over by crushing fear of having EVERYTHING even though I'm fairly healthy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you catch a thief? (Details inside)
POST: Was at a bar with friends and only had 2 drinks. The 4 of us left and I realized I left my backpack 15 minutes later. When I got there our server informed us he had remembered seeing it and the person sitting behind us chimed in letting us... | What do I do with photos of thieves and knowledge of the goods they'll be selling in a city of 2.7 million people? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Married, but seperated, Great White Buffalo [29/f] is back in my [28/m] life, what do I do now?
POST: So some interesting things have happened to me this weekend. The one that got away in college has resurfaced in my life and we have been talking for about 5 days straight non sto... | Great White Buffalo from college is married, but marriage is on the rocks, she is back in my life, do I take the second chance or wait for the possibility of them ending it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to small talk
POST: This actually happened yesterday but whatever, so I'm a lab tech at a doctor's office. I draw blood and run tests etc. I don't really talk to people much, even patients just the generic "how are you doing" kind of stuff. Well anyways I was looking through the ... | saw a girl was in a fight. Made light of the issue, found out later it was her mother beating her. Should've stayed quiet |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by Looking at TIFUs At School
POST: TIFU because I read TIFUs at school.... Me and my friends *love* TIFUs. We literally can't get enough. However, during school, it's a little hard to pull out your phone and just start reading, which is why my Photography class comes in handy. Most days w... | Reading a TIFU in school, teacher finds out, accidentally shows entire class, I have a new nickname :) . |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25F] know my mom [63F] is in denial of being catfished
POST: Help fellow Redditors! My mom is a very lonely, widowed, desperate, kind of a spacey older woman who is in total denial of being catfished for the last 10 months. I love her dearly. This needs to stop though.
This man nam... | my mom has it bad romantically for a fake person online and is funneling money into them.... while I watch helplessly and I want to take matters into my own hands before she does something even more dumb. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] insecure in my romantic relationships in general
POST: I hope this kind of general question is ok!
I consider myself to be a pretty confident person when it comes to most areas of my life. This hasn't always been the case, as I have suffered from intense anxiety most of my l... | I am insecure in my relationships and I don't want to be. What are some things I can do so that I don't feel so insecure? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [21 F] not sure if my bf of almost four years [21 M] is the one I want to be with
POST: In short, I fucked up badly. I'm a horrible person, I know that. I emotionally cheated and told my boyfriend about it because he deserves to know and really, deserves someone better than me. He ... | Emotionally cheated on bf, even before that I was not sure if he is 'the one' for me - how do I make a decision? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25f] mom died unexpectedly the other day and I have no idea what to do.
POST: Sunday morning, I wake up to a frantic phone call from my moms boyfriends daughter saying that my mom died. She went to sleep and never woke up.
This came so suddenly and I am so fucking lost and devasta... | my mom died unexpectedly and I have no idea what to do. This is the worst pain in the world I've ever experienced. how do I erase this pain? I don't think it'll ever go away. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19 F] sub landlord [21 F] of three months wants me to pay a ton of money for an exterminator
POST: I have a question regarding my sublease for this summer. I am a college student. This summer I decided to attend summer session and needed a place to stay. I found a room in an apartm... | Rented a room. Brought my cat. Place had fleas. Gave my cat fleas. Sub landlord wants me to pay to exterminate the fleas, new furniture and a month's rent. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Took in a cat for the night--any extra precautions?
POST: Walked in from a night out with the lady to find a big fat fluffy cat in our apartment hallway. He seemed to be trying to get into a neighbors unit, but when we knocked no one was home... so we're pretty sure he's super local and by his... | Other than being in a well stocked kennel, what can we do to keep 2 cats from harming each other tonight? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18m] and my friend [17f]
POST: Last night me [18m] and six of my friends had a little get-together, a party if you will, and everything was going fine. We were drinking, as usual, enjoying the fun. Then me and my ex's best friend [17f] started talking [we are kind of close].
A few... | at a party i made out with my ex's best friend and she likes me but doesn't want anything to do with me because we might hurt my ex... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 F] am irrationally afraid of my boyfriend [21 M] cheating on me
POST: I am almost absolutely positive that my SO is not cheating. We have been together for a year and we spend a lot of time together cuz we're clingly like that. As a working student, he's trying to balance family,... | My boyfriend has given me no reason to suspect cheating, but I can't help but feel suspicious. Any suggestions to help diminish this thought that's been growing in the back of my head? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My friends have expressed a concern over my boyfriend... thoughts?
POST: I'm a late 20s female and I've been dating the same guy for 2 years now (in his late 20s as well). It's been a rocky road - we're both pretty emotional people and we tend to get into fights every few weeks - but ... | My friends worry I'm with the wrong guy. I'm happy, but I want to heed my friend's advice... what should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] one year, very close but I may want to see other people.
POST: I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and we have gotten very close. We do the 'I love you's and even sometimes bring up the idea of living with each other someday. I ... | In a pretty serious relationship. Having feelings that I want to be with other girls. Not sure if I should break up or keep going. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I develop feelings for women as soon as they show any interest in me. How do i stop this?
POST: So I'm a 19 y/o male, also a virgin, and every time a girl who is even slightly attractive seems like they like me, i can't stop thinking about them even if i don't actually like them. I thi... | I start liking girls too much too quickly and i want to control those feelings so i can get the girls that i know i can get instead of getting the girls that come to me. |
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