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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: No, I don't need to learn Spanish. You need to learn English.
POST: I'm sick of being told that I should learn Spanish so I can communicate with native Spanish-speakers, mainly at my job. And thankfully I've already had this job for 8 years, because lately the requirements for similar pos... | I live in America. Our primary language is English. *You* decided to move here, so *you* should be the one who learns how to communicate. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (M/30) hates that I (F/25) smoke.
POST: But he smokes too?
We've been on and off for 6 years. On again for over a year now and it's pretty darn good. However, he hates that I smoke. I never gave it much thought in the past and continued smoking about a pack a day. Howeve... | Boyfriend hates that I smoke. Tried to quit multiple times and having a hard time with it. He's a social smoker and sometimes chain smoker too. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [30F] don't know how to approach my husband [35M] of 10 years about his cross dressing. Help!
POST: A few years ago after moving I (30, female) came across an unmarked box of items that were questionable in nature. Shoes, dresses, skirts, panties, bras, stockings.
At first I conside... | I found out my husband cross dresses, it doesn't bother me, and I don't know how to approach him about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Motorcycle accident, I need your help Reddit, story inside. (First)
POST: I was cruising home from my first day on a new job, riding at close to 50mph, I cleared a changing light, not trying to outrun it, I had plenty of time, the light changed "yellow" when I was passing the second inters... | I was almost killed in a motorcycle accident, don't know what to do next as far as finding out who did it, reaching the officer on the scene or getting compensation. Thank you for any help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: NACA, FHA loan advice for a first time home buyer [Housing]
POST: hello, i have a few questions that I was not able to find on the official NACA website and through the forums here
About me. 26. single. no kids. 1st time buyer. Working for a fortune 500 company. I make 44k a year en... | 44k a year salary looking to buy a cheap home to fix and rent out. safety net establish. 7k debt |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (28f) had such a confusing argument with my husband (26m)- would like advice.
POST: This morning when mu husband picked me up from work, he mentioned he and some of the other guys might not get to a task in my area that hadn't been done in three weeks already. It's kind of a big deal... | Got into a confusing argument with my husband, it seems to be a thematical thing, I'd like to know what to do better in the future, so I would like advice please. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 F] want my SO [26 M] to talk about how he feels and communicate with me. (~9 mo) Gentlemen, any advice?
POST: I am interested in men's perspectives on what I can do to make it easier for my SO to feel comfortable talking about his feelings, emotions, and desires.
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I am very... | I want to improve our relationship by talking about how we feel, what bothers us, etc, but he is unresponsive and will not try to communicate. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [Help]New dog aggressive toward cat. Is it possible to achieve civility between them?
POST: We just adopted a dog from my friend. My SO and I had been talking about getting a dog for at least a year, and were planning on getting a small puppy, thinking that our somewhat shy/anxious cat could ge... | Adopted co-workers dog, dog attacked cat in my bed. Not expecting best friends, but hoping to figure out how to proceed to at least get them comfortable in the same house. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] duration, he wont stop playfully slapping my butt
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. He playfully slaps my butt constantly no matter how many times I ask him to stop, he keeps doing it every day! I get pretty mad at him and sometim... | My boyfriend of 7 years playfully slaps my butt a lot and wont stop even if It annoys me a lot, what should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: 30(m) Dating 24(f) made out with his friend 28(f)
POST: The backstory is as such. I have been dating this girl for a year, and I really like her. I have requested that we make our relationship open, but she is afraid. I knew a bartender at a local bar had a crush on me. We have h... | I want to have an open relationship my GF doesn't want an open relationship. Despite knowing this, I made out with a friend of mine. What do I say to both of them to repair things? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20 F] boyfriend [20 M] is going through a tough time and I don't know how to help him
POST: I've been dating my boyfriend for just under a year. I went away for three months for work and when I got back last month, it became apparent during the first few weeks of me being back that... | My boyfriend has been very down lately and I don't entirely know why. Is there anything else I can do to help him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Morally wrong, but feels right. Please help!
POST: So after turning 21 in January my buddies and I would always go to the bars. We end up usually going to the bar closest to our college, and have become pretty good friends with the bartenders there. So close that we went out with them ... | Girl has been with her boyfriend for 2 years now, we both really like each other and made out me this weekend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [24 M] likes girl best-friend [25 F] but wants to distance myself from her, good idea?
POST: Hi all, I am a male [24] and I am starting to develop feelings for one of my best friend female [25]. We've known each other for almost two years.
We started talking more and more recently. N... | Developed feelings for girl best-friend. Timing is not good. Thinking of distancing myself to lose feelings for her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19, M] with my ex girlfriend [19, F] 4 years, should I stay or should I go?
POST: My exgirlfriend and I broke up around 3 years ago. We have had a love/hate friendship since. We both go to different colleges, but we hung out over christmas break. Over that time we started talking a... | Everything was back to the way it used to be but now she is showing apprehension. She is scared of me hurting her I think. What do I need to do? Stay? Go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 F] with my boyfriend [18 M] for 1.5 years, is angry with me because I can't go away for a weekend alone with him.
POST: It all started when I mentioned I'm planning going on a ski trip for a weekend over winter break. I'm on the board for this club at school, and we have an annu... | My boyfriend is angry because I'm going on a weekend skiing trip with friends but I'm not allowed to go out with him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [M 35] unsure on whether to pursue potential dating with [F 35] way out of my league , due to warning signs.
POST: But of a strange one this, so bear with me. Got chatting to a woman, let's call her Z, on a dating site two days ago. She's amazing, stunning, we share so many likes an... | Met incredible woman with a past online. She's jittery and extremely forward but assures me she's looking for something more than casual. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated
TITLE: [Question] How to be tough?
POST: Hello wolfs!
I hope that I ask in a correct subreddit. What I found out from observing highly motivated people around me, those who motivates themself just because they want more from their lifes, or those whose life is pretty (sorry, I couldn't find a... | So how to be tough? Or is that something that you can't learn, and you either born with it or not and should prepare yourself for failure in life? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Best friend's [25F] boyfriend [23M] just died. Do I [25F] go to the funeral?
POST: My best friend of 10 years has been in a relationship with this guy for about 3 years. He just died a couple of days ago at 23. What I know is that he was found unresponsive in his room after a night of ... | my friend's boyfriend died. She doesn't always talk about her feelings. Did not tell me about the funeral or invite me. Should I go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [18 F] get over my boyfriend's [19 M] past decisions?
POST: We've been together for 5 months but we dated a month before making things official.
I recently self-reflected and figured out that I have some difficulty in completely trusting my boyfriend. My instinct is to trust ... | My boyfriend has left a previous girlfriend for another girl when things got rough and part of me is afraid of what will happen if things ever get rough between us. What are some ways for me to expel these negative thoughts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with (18M) who I've hooked up with twice. Don't know what I want.
POST: So basically, I hooked up with this guy at a party two weeks after my long term relationship ended and it felt really good. I thought we connected extremely well on a physical level but on other levels he ... | Amazing sexual feelings for a guy, I want it to develop into something beautiful but he doesn't seem to want that. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My GF [24/F] was grabbing her friends SO's bum last night. I [27/M] am very annoyed. Is this behaviour out of line? She thinks there is nothing wrong with it.
POST: I am in a tricky point in my life and cannot tell whether what I'm feeling is fair or not. Please advise.
My girlf... | My GF [24/F] was grabbing her friends SO's bum last night. I [27/M] am very annoyed. Rightly so? |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: What speed should I jog for a marathon?
POST: I have been jogging for a while now to get myself ready for a marathon in September, and my time has been getting better and longer. The issue I have is that I don't know if I'm going fast enough to complete the marathon. You have 6 hours to comp... | What running speed do you need to have to complete a marathon in 5 hours and 30 minutes, in km/m per hour? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20m) cought my gf (18f) kissing her 2 bfs (19f,20f) i don't know wether i should be upset or not.
POST: Hello internet,
Once again i have to come up to you. Well, long story short. I(20m) have been with my gf (18 f) for like 3 and a half months. Yesterday se were at a party, she w... | i just would like to know if i'm making a big dwal about the issue here and wether i should give my GF another chance or not and let this one pass |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] Just got dumped by my girlfriend [20] what should I do?
POST: My girlfriend comes back after being away for six months (Work related) and after avoiding really talking with me for about three weeks dumps me.
I helped her unpack and things seemed fine but she seemed distant ... | Girlfriend of 9 months dumps me, I want to try and talk to her/do something to show her it could work. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (22/m) am growing apart from my gf (23/f) of 7 years.
POST: **Quick Background**: As the title states, we've been together for 7 years dating back to High School. She's also my first and only girlfriend. I'm currently a 5^th year senior studying Economics and she's an online gr... | I like being with my friends more than my gf of 7 years. I still love her dearly and want to do whatever I can to save our relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Friend (18m) is probably cheating on his girlfriend (18f) of 8 months again. Should I tell her?
POST: I found out my friend, who had cheated on his girlfriend with his ex once already, is talking to his ex again on snapchat. His girlfriend (a good friend of mine) initially told me abou... | Friend cheated on his girlfriend once, is probably doing it again and I'm the only one who knows about the second one |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: It's shit like this, Human beings.
POST: My best friend hosted a house party for our band and another a few weeks ago. Before the next morning, it was one of the best nights of our lives. Everybody was smiling, dancing, and having a great time. We invited everybody personally and truste... | Is theft getting worse and has the economy forced people to steal and sell shit in order to support and feed their families? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's one awesome thing to do in NJ that isn't too pricey?
POST: Hello reddit, so basically my girlfriend is leaving for college in 2 months and I'm not gonna be seeing her for a pretty long time. We're in Nj, and I'm looking to do something awesome with her that would leave behind good m... | what's something awesome my musician girlfriend and I could do before she goes away to college? Preferably nothing too expensive :) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [26 M] has been completely ignoring me [23 F] all day after I told him I wasn't in the mood.
POST: My boyfriend tried to initiate sex and I told him I wasn't in the mood. As soon as I told him though, he completely shut down and has been ignoring me all day. He hasn't even... | Wasn't in the mood for sex and told my boyfriend after he tried, hasn't talked to me all day and decided to skip out on plans he's been looking forward to for weeks. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My long-distance girlfriend is forcing me to do something I don't want to do.
POST: I don't know if this is serious enough to post in this subreddit, so excuse me if you find it trivial...
About 3 years ago I found a very kind, funny and pretty girl on the internet. I'm 22, she is nea... | Long-distance gf wants me to make a video in shower, I don't want to do it out of shyness |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: PLEASE HELP! I can't afford my bills, do I go into collections? Bankruptcy??
POST: I need help, I am so overwhelmed with bills and I don't know what to do! Do I let them go into collections or just declare bankruptcy and get my credit, which is currently over 700 just get ruined?
Br... | should I let some things fall into collection so I can pay down debt? Should I just declare bankruptcy and be ruined? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [16/M] really want to ask a girl [16/M] out, but I have no clue how to do so...
POST: Hello guys, I'm a 16 year old male in school and I really like a girl who's the same age as me. She seems to be the perfect girl, having good character and by no means a person who wants to ha... | I'm a shy guy who wants to ask out a simple girl for a date and be the most caring FIRST boyfriend she's had, but have no clue how to do so... |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My experience with "long-term" marijuana use. An unbiased story. What has your experience been like (if you smoke)?
POST: Here's my story..I waited to finish 1st year of university to smoke weed after high school ended. I was not a smoker, but would occasionally indulge. Ever since I smoke... | Long term weed use has changed me into someone I'm not too confortable being so I'm slowing down and quitting soon. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20F) am in great relationship with (24M) but am having feelings for another (24M)
POST: Four months ago I started dating this wonderful (24M) named "Chris." He had just started at my job and after a little talking and a few nights of hanging out, we became official (fast, I know, bu... | In a relationship with a terrific, loving guy but I have a lot of chemistry with another guy that has feelings for me as well. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Who can find me the best picture for my life right now (bad timing)?
POST: So, I dated someone for over 2 years. We broke up and there was this chick who liked me and I liked her, but I knew I wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I wanted to wait to date until I wasn't fucked up from the... | I was finally ready for relationship with a girl who liked me (and I liked her) after I was getting over a previous breakup. She just started dating someone else so I'm too late. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25m] brother [28m] wants to celebrate my mothers [15 years deceased] birthday this month and I don't know how to tell him "no" without starting a fight
POST: We never had the best childhood. Our parents fought a lot, being a mixed family my father wasn't allowed to discipline my ol... | my brother wants to celebrate my deceased moms birthday after 15 years and it's not something I see worth acknowledging, let alone celebrating. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [25F] be concerned that my bf [25M] frequently looks up his exes on Facebook?
POST: My bf and I have been together for a year and a half and we live together. We love each other a lot. We got together under somewhat unusual circumstances. I had just gotten out of a 6 1/2 year ... | My bf looks at 2 of his ex gfs pictures about twice a month on Facebook. Is this normal or even ok? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (23f) with my best friend (22) of 8 years. Her hypochondria and anxiety disorder is slowly becoming worse and worse. How can I help?
POST: So my best friend, we'll call her Emily, has always had some sort of difficulty in her life. She has had issues with eating disorders, mainly an... | my best friend is a hypochondriac, she won't leave her house some days because of it, and works herself into a panic often about miniscule things. I want to help her, but don't know how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: He asked if we could be friends after 16 days of no contact
POST: I broke up with a guy a little under 2 months ago. It did not end well, He lied and used me and I cussed him out and said some pretty hurtful stuff about some personal stuff about him.
A week after he sends me a email ... | I don't know what to think. Do you thing he really just wants to be friend or if he's trying to get back together and starting slow? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [26/M] broke up with me [24/F] after two years due to his depression. I have had my own issues in the past. Tips for dealing with this in a healthy way?
POST: I will try to keep this as brief as possible.
My boyfriend and I were together for just shy of two years, after ... | The man I thought I was going to marry broke up with me due to his depression; I need coping tips to combat my own depression in a healthy way |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm in love with my best friend, and I need some advice please.
POST: I've known her for about 4 years now. I had dated her best friend for years 2 and 3 (they stopped being friends around beginning year 3). We became "best" friends about mid year 2. I realized I started having some kind o... | I'm in love with my best friend. She doesn't seem like she has or ever will ever have feelings for me. What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Help! I want to keep our new cats!
POST: I've got a pretty serious problem on my hands. My family has recently adopted two brother cats from an old family friend. We already had an enormous beast kitten that I rescued about 8 years ago. The brothers are cute as can be, and very loving. At first... | adopted two new boy kitties, already had one older boy cat. New cats are pissing everywhere, wife is about to put them up for adoption. Halp. Please.. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Sallie Mae says I owe them $4700 for a student loan that was distributed when I was not even a student. Please help.
POST: In March 2015 I was enrolled at Oregon State University online and had accepted $4700 in a federal student loan to pay for my tuition. In May 2015 my student loa... | Sallie Mae is trying to collect payment on a student loan that was never distributed to me that was sent to a school I was not enrolled in and the school is not being helpful in resolving the matter. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] Could do with advice on how to proceed with my girlfriend.
POST: To keep the long story short, the relationship has became complicated, she told be that things had changed between us but wouldn't tell me what.
She says she still loves me and cares about me and we havn't actu... | things" have changed, still loves me, says i wont lose her,doesn't know what to say or what she wants from me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my ex GF [18 F] have been in a LDR for a year now. She broke up with me because of distance.
POST: My SO broke up with me yesterday because she couldn't bear a LDR any longer. She craves physical closeness and being in a relationship with me has caused her to feel pain b... | Gf broke up with me because of distance, says I would be perfect if I was physically there and she wouldn't have any problems with the relationship. Going to visit her December. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: First blow job with girl I like didn't go so well because I told her to stop. [18M]
POST: This girl and I have been going back and forth for about 9 months. We both admire each others motivation and intelligence greatly, but we both hate commitment. We don't hate it because we don't th... | Told girl I like to stop blowing me because I didn't want to be that kind of couple yet and she feels absolutely awful. How do I let her know that it really isn't that big of deal to me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [20F] and I [20M] had a near-breakup conversation yesterday and I decided to stay with her. One day later I feel like I made an impulsive decision due to romanticizing the situation and I am starting to regret it.
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little ov... | My girlfriend and I of 7 months almost broke up due to lack of love on my side, I decided to stay with her and almost immediately regretted it, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21m] girlfriend [21f] talks negatively of my friends and family
POST: I've been dating this girl for about 3 months and we've now been living together for about a month. I'm really crazy about this girl, but we got into an argument today.
We were having just another normal conver... | Girlfriend talked a lot of mess about my family and friends, didn't give a good apology, expects everything to be normal. How do I continue from here? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [M23] Asked a girl on a second date, am slightly confused by response. Help?
POST: Went on a date with a girl (22) from OKC on MLK day last week, and it felt like all went really well. Laughs were had, common interests shared, and it certainly seemed like there was a connection. Gav... | Girl sent a vague text back, unsure if she still wants me to try asking her out in her free time or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: If you [20, F] fell in love with a man [20, M] before, could you fall in love with him again?
POST: Please answer if you were in the girl's shoes, in the situation below, would you think it's still possible to fall in love with that guy again?
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Suppose you liked this guy, who rea... | If a guy you used to like came back into your life, is it possible that feelings for him will rekindle? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Confused and seeking help
POST: My girlfriend (21) and I (19, M) have been together for nearly three years, I know I love her and I've become increasingly insecure... which is why I'm here.
Her parents are incredibly strict; no sleepovers, no closed doors, no PDA, and I've dealt with ... | Relationship was fine, then suddenly something "clicked" and we're both worried, but neither of us really know what it is (please read last 3 par.) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I think I'm breaking down, intellectually. I see trolls everywhere. Help.
POST: Reddit, I can't help but see the benefits wrought by injustice and it's starting to worry me.
I'll start off with a less serious example: Firefly. Firefly was/is wonderful. But, like all good things, Fox kil... | Is it possible that those in power are doing the right thing for the wrong reasons (or the right reasons?), or have I lost my marbles? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] 2 years, he's always tired and refuses to do anything about it.
POST: Ive been dating my fiancé for about two years, and we recently got engaged. Since even before we've been dating he's been a bit overweight, and the both of us have only gained *more... | Fiancé and I are both overweight, I want to make us healthier because he's always saying he's tired, but he doesn't want to. |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Squeaky clean revenge at the laundromat
POST: I was doing my laundry as per usual at my school's residence laundry room today. When it comes to folding my clothes, I fold them on top of one of the 20-something washers and put them in my basket, which in total takes up around 1.5 washers... | Washer hog takes up 3 machines and tells me to move my clothes piles. She leaves and then gets a huge pile of clean, wet clothes over her washers. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [32 F] with my boyfriend [29 M] five months, worried about the future
POST: Hi, so I know my post title sounds ridiculous BUT I'm thinking about the future. I'm 32, my sweet, lovely, wonderful, I see a future with boyfriend is 29. Big deal, right?
Except that he will most likely... | Do I dump my great boyfriend because if he becomes rich and successful, he'll probably dump me for someone much hotter and younger? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22 M] have been frustrated with my [21 F] of 10 months because she doesn't talk to me
POST: For the past few weeks my gf has been acting extremely strange. This is the 2nd "bout" of what I can only describe as depression. Several days in the week she'll tell me that she's sad but th... | Girlfriend's going through a depressive like state for the 2nd time. I'm feeling frustrated and helpless. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [19 F] 3 Years, is it time to break up?
POST: Don't usually go to the internet for advice, but figured I'd try it just to get some opinions.
I am a 22 M who just recently graduated college and moved across the country at a new job with some guys I met from interni... | Been in relationship for 3 years and we are both very different, enjoy eachothers company and I love her but not feeling a relationship is right for me right now... time to break up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: 25yo M: I am trying to avoid becoming a Nice Guy(TM). I do not want to hurt people. How to I remain good?
POST: Hello everyone.
I've been reading the AskWomen subreddit for some time. I'm looking at the posts and I'm starting to get concerned.
I'm single, straight, 25yo M, never kis... | neurotic inexperienced male feels like joining TRP, but understands that doing so will hurt those he cares about, and thus needs help staying out of the cesspool |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my gf [23 F] of one year, need advice on how to break up
POST: Me and my girl friend have been dating for just over a year. Since summer things have not been going good. I'm at the point in the relationship where I know this isn't who I want to spend my life with.
We st... | I want to break up with my gf of a year. She does suffer from depression and I don't know the best way to break up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 F] waited three months for my boyfriend [24 M] of 10 months and he called it off after two weeks. Need advice.
POST: So 5 weeks ago I went through my first break up. My then boyfriend of 10 months had been overseas for the past 3 months and things were kind of rough.
He was dis... | waited 3 months for my boyfriend of 10 months to return from an overseas trip. He broke up with me 2 weeks after he got back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I feel isolated at school because I am athletic, pretty, and get good grades. Advice?
POST: 24F here. I feel very isolated and almost condemned by the girls in my class at medical school. The class is small - only 150 people. I work hard to get good grades, and people come to me to ask que... | I feel like girls hate me because I take care of my body, I work hard for good grades, and a by stroke of luck I have a pretty face. I have to work very hard to keep friendships. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] with my friend [20F] 2 years, certain she isn't interested how do I move on?
POST: There's this girl I really like, I don't think I've ever had a bigger crush on someone, but there's a few issues.
Firstly, she's from a very religious family, so she'll likely settle with some... | girl I have a huge crush on, no chance of being with her, same group of friends, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Friend of a friend [F23] matched me on Tinder, not sure how to approach.
POST: So I [M25] met this girl a couple months ago hanging out with a shared group of friends. At the time she had a boyfriend so I never really talked to her too extensively and was just nice. I haven't seen her ... | friend of a friend tinder matches me, likely just got out of a relationship. how do i approach the situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: I want to pursue a career in photography. I've graduated from college and I've finished my photo internship, but I don't know what to do next.
POST: Hi r/jobs. I'm a 21 year old photographer from California who just finished college (degree in Journalism) and has been studying and working in ar... | I am a college graduate who recently finished his photo internship and had nothing planned afterward. I would like to work as a professional photojournalist and seek advice to make the leap. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Best way to transition out of a job
POST: I've been working in a software development job in a fairly small (6-developer) group within a university for about 4 years, and it's now time for me to move on. I generally like my clients, coworkers, and boss, so I want to make this as smooth and ami... | How can I best prepare my coworkers/employer to transition my responsibilities when I leave? Should I warn them that I'm looking for jobs, and they need to get serious about hiring a replacement? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Coming out of a bad time in my life, seeking advice
POST: Ok reddit, since you solve everyone's problems take a swing at mine. I Just turned 20 exactly one month ago today, and I recently had alot of things happen to me that have made my life seem more complicated. Last year I was enrolled... | Lost girlfriend, gained 50 pounds, and dropped out of a honors degree and almost died within the span of a few months need advice to move on with my life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: me [22F] with my boyfriend [21M] of 3 months. i'm having issues with intimacy following his performance issues in bed
POST: Let me start by saying i am INCREDIBLY attracted to my boyfriend. I think he's the most attractive man on the planet.
But on to the problem. We have had 'sex' a... | boyfriend has performance anxiety and it has resulted in MANY MANY failed sex attempts. I need sex. And i want it with him. pleease help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [22/F] Am Not Sure If My Anxiety Disorder Is Getting in the Way of My Relationship with My Bf {22/M}
POST: I was diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder earlier this year and thankfully I have been feeling much better since I've been taking meds and I'm in therapy. Even my bf s... | I really love my bf of a year and a half, but I've suddenly got urges to screw other guys. I have an anxiety disorder, which might have something to do with it..... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] been dating a year. She has a job offer across the country.
POST: Hey, guys.
So my girlfriend and I have had a really solid relationship for this past year. We've know each other for years before but just recently got serious. And I mean serious- we... | girlfriend that I'm madly in love with got a job offer far away and wants to do long distance. I'm against long distance and I'm against her taking the job (though I want to be supportive). |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Uncomfortable with the way my [25/m] girlfriend [23/f] was acting around my more attractive friends
POST: I took my girlfriend out for the first time really with my friends for a couple of drinks. I've been dating this girl for a few months now and am starting to integrate her into my ... | Girlfriend was being flirty with my more attractive friends when we were out, now I'm concerned how she might act when I'm not around. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25M] with my GF [26 F] of 2 years, Not sure how to say no to her without getting a bad response
POST: Occasionally I will have to say no to plans or sometimes cancel plans, it happens and I figure it's something that most people don't take to heart. Well my GF seems to.
Example fr... | GF gets annoyed if I am busy or have to cancel plans, gets a bit guilt trippy and moody about other plans - how do I deal with this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] have been broken up with my ex [19F] (Just over a year) for 2 months, feeling she was the one...
POST: To put it shortly, me and my ex have been over for 2 months now, i initiated NC after 3 weeks of us being officially over and as of where i stand right now i cant help but thi... | Certain ive lost the one, it was caused by me and now wondering if there's a chance i can redeem myself and get back with her despite her already being in a new relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [23/f] my ex boyfriend [35/m] wants to stay friends and roommates... what do I do?
POST: Hey Reddit, I'm in a shitty situation - here's the deal:
My boyfriend of 8 months, who I am still completely in love with, broke up with me because he changed his mind about wanting to be in ... | boyfriend broke my heart, but we're both poor so should we live together for the financial betterment of both our lives even though it will suck for me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by confessing my love to a friend
POST: So this happened a few years back when i was in grade 6. So i liked this girl a lot and we had been talking for quite a while around maybe 8 months. So we were talking during recess and she told me how she loved gaming and couldn't wait to attend hig... | Proposed to a girl in grade 6 to be my girlfriend to find out she's gay and threw away a $580 ring |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 F] dating [31 M] the past few months, cultural differences or just not that interested?
POST: I (American) recently moved to Germany and started talking to this German guy I met online at the beginning of the year. We have a lot in common (languages, education, interests, etc). ... | Dated a guy for a couple months long-distance and he acted differently in person after visiting. (American girl-German guy) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [16/f] My crush [18/m] seems to be losing interest in me.
POST: I've known this guy for months. We're friends, but not very close. We text on rare occasions and we've hung out (in a group) a handful of times.
Back in the summer, I was trying to figure out my feelings for him, an... | My crush used to like me, and I think he still does, but he's also showing interest in another girl. Move on, or fight for him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 F] and my boyfriend [20 M] of over 2.5 years have a very unstable relationship...advice?!
POST: My boyfriend is very emotional, very dramatic, much like the stereotypical "girl" in the relationship. But this is not just with me, it's with everyone, including his family. He has a... | My boyfriend is a dick, but I feel bad when I'm sort of a dick back. Want general advice please! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 33/f with my 38/m husband, he was cheating emotionally i screwed up and I am worried we are doomed overall **tl;dr**: Are we completely doomed?
POST: I found out my husband was having a serious emotional affair and also found out he was trying to talk to his ex again. And then I als... | On a scale of 1-100, how screwed are we? Is there hope? Knowing that I will not tell him, but I am willing to do individual and joint counseling.. thanks reddit |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [21 M]. Is it stuck up of me to tell my boyfriend that I won't visit unless he cleans his room?
POST: I feel ridiculous posting this, but I just want some second opinions please. My boyfriend is an amazing guy. We've been dating for a year. He's sweet, carin... | Boyfriend has an extremely dirty room, is it out of my place if I tell him to clean his room or else I won't visit? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my crush [16 F] I'm a nice guy, but I want to let her know I am down to have fun.
POST: I have had a crush on her for months. I asked her to homecoming, got a yes, and hoped more would come after(relationship, sex, or even just an easy kiss or hug.) Nothing happened so I... | My crush is into bad boys. I am a nice guy, but I want to let her know I can do bad boy things. how? |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Bridesmaids dragging their feet?
POST: My wedding is 12-3-16, so almost 2 months away. Neither bridesmaid has ordered a dress. Am I in deep poo here? One is getting married next week and so has completely ignored my wedding for months (she's the MOH for mine, and so while I understan... | My bridesmaids still haven't bought their dresses and it is almost 2 months until the wedding. What are my options? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Try and succeed in writing/acting and possibly (probably?) fail, or take a safer route and get a good steady job with my physics degree?
POST: I'm just coming to the end of my BSc in Physics. I should get a pretty decent classification, probably a 2:1. I'm a 22 year old woman.
But I reall... | Degree in physics but would like to be a writer/actress. Go for it or forget it and get a steady job using degree. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I [24/f] politely say 'no' to an over-sensitive, moody friend [24/f]?
POST: SO and I have been living together for almost 8 months now and we are in the midst of planning a wedding, dealing with work (we both frequently work from home, even on vacations), and balancing our... | Friend is always making plans that involves hanging out at my place, even when I do not want to have people over. How do I tell this person no without hurting their feelings? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I don't want to come off as an evil b***h, but how do I tell other girls that they cannot sleep with my boyfriend? I'd especially love to hear from poly folks, because I'm not very familiar with poly relationships and how to appropriately understand such.
POST: I (F36) am trying to be ... | Boyfriend's former partners tend to assume our relationship is open. I feel disrespected and don't know if I should be the person to tell them to back off. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Extra Student Loan Payments vs. Fun
POST: Hi guys, so I'm trying to figure my finances out here and get some opinions.
So I am going to be graduating from college this year and I will have a little over 90k of student loan debt.
Fed Loans- around 28k @ 2-4.5% interest
Sallie Mae ... | should I grow my emergency fund >1.5k and should I use half of the signing bonus towards a vacation and then any extra put towards a loan? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18m] feel like I'm losing my [18f] girlfriend to my anxiety, help!
POST: How do I deal with my anxiety appropriately around her? It ranges from seeing her active on messenger at the same time as another guy she hung out with the other day to her feeling the need to hide things from ... | I'm very anxious about stupid things, and I want to take action towards it. I love her and she loves me but I feel like she's being pushed away and toward other people. Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23,F) am very confused about expectations for my bf (22,M) of 1.5 years
POST: We've been dating for a year and a half. This is my third relationship in my life and my longest was 2.5 years so I have been in serious relationships before.
It's nice to have my boyfriend around, but n... | I had to lower my expectation for my boyfriend to be happy with him, I had to initiate and do everything for him to do something and I want him to care about this relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my GF [21 F] nearly 3 years, I pushed her away
POST: My ex and I were wonderful together for much of our relationship, albeit with ups and downs. We were each others first loves, and lived together for the last half of our relationship.
I've struggled with depression a... | Absolutely amazing woman broke up with me. I was too clueless to realize my negativity and failure to change was becoming too much for her. How do I move on knowing I've lost this amazing person? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24F] boyfriend [28M] of 6 months constantly acts like I'm stupid.
POST: I'm apologizing before you read this. This just happened so I'm angry.
I love my boyfriend. I really do. He's perfect in every single way. Intelligent, kind, romantic, cooks, cleans, and has good job.
We both... | Boyfriend constantly acts like I'm stupid when it comes to technology problems. I have a bachelor's in computer science. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23M] new roommate's [21F] parents are coming over to scope out my house this afternoon and not really sure how to present myself.
POST: Hi everyone, thanks for looking at this. I've been lucky enough to be a homeowner since I moved out a few years ago. As a way to make some spare m... | New roommate is wanting to show her parents where she is living. As the homeowner, I'm not sure what to do, and how I should conduct myself. Advice wanted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Grad student looking to buy engagement ring, no income over 100k in school loans please advise
POST: 24y/o grad student here. I know I'm not the first to ask this question, but this seems like the most appropriate subreddit. You could say it has a little /r/relationships sprinkled in... | I'm a grad student over 100k in debt in school loans that wants to propose to my gf but neither of us will have income for at least 3 years and I don't know whether to wait or yolo it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Friend [F25] who once rejected me [M25] now says she likes me - Now that I have money.
POST: Three years ago in university, I told one of my best friends that I was in love with her. After pouring my heart out, she told me that she "like[s] tall guys." Being told that I wasn't tall eno... | Friend [F25] who once rejected me [M25] now says she likes me - Now that I have money. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being in a bad mood and missing out on a free 3 day festival
POST: So this was actually last week that I fucked up but I didn't find out till today that I fucked up. So came in to work not feeling the greatest and right when i walked in the door i knew it was going to be a bad day. My b... | came in to work feeling very melancholy since I wasn't going to event and told boss I'd be indifferent if I did go only to hear two days later I would have gotten free tickets if I was in better mood. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Someone stole my girlfriend's laptop. I have the thiefs IP. The local police have been entirely useless.
POST: Reddit,
A few months ago my girlfriend's laptop was stolen at a party her roommates threw when she wasn't there.
The dropbox app on her macbook has shown me where it is a few twi... | My girlfriend's laptop got stolen and I have the IP address of it's location. Local police were not responsive in the slightest. The laptop is a state away. How do we bring this to justice and get that laptop back? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I have paranoid thoughts and panic attacks about my girlfriend manipulating me. help!
POST: 26M, 20F. 1.5 Year relationship.
My girlfriend has been good to me. However she is very insecure (exBF cheated on her) and is constantly questioning me about my female friends, even stalking... | 26M, 20F, 1.5Y. She was cheated on. She's insecure. I'm insecure. Is she manipulating me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by saying "You are most welcome."
POST: I met a cute girl at school and we went on a date to the art museum. As the date progressed she told me more about her ex-boyfriend who apparently followed when she moved out of state and has a bad drug habit (opiates). I have dated another girl with... | I said "You are most welcome." when a girl thanked me for a ride home, now she thinks I want to sleep with her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (18F) step-dad (42M) and I argue so much I don't think I can take it much longer
POST: My mother married my step-dad about 3 years ago and I've known him for a total of about 5 years.
We have always argued with each other but a little before my HS graduation we began arguing much ... | My step-dad is kind of a dick and I don't know what to do anymore. Move out or just give in to anything he says. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [18F] 4 month duration, some advice in how to deal with this situation of me being over overworrying.
POST: I'm usually the type-guy who acknowledges the little details very quickly of a relationship but sometimes I can overworried too much that I start cre... | Maybe I'm over worrying about the whole situation and she's just on her period cause she told right when I met her that she's kinda bipolar. What do u readers think? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Does anyone have experience losing weight on medications associated with gaining weight? After dieting for over 2 months I haven't lost anything.
POST: Just like the title says, I'm really not seeing results. This is what I've been doing:
Weeks 1-5: I did Weight Watchers for this period of t... | Have tried various diets for 9 weeks with insignificant weight-loss, which I highly suspect is due to medication I am taking that is known to cause weight-gain. Am 24F, 191lbs, 5'7". Any suggestions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: I don't know if I should pay off an outstanding balance
POST: Hi everyone,
So I have to preface that I am terrible with finance.
About 9 months ago, my girlfriend and I went to a time share resort because they were offering free stuff. We didn't plan on actually getting a time share bec... | I (stupidly) signed up for a trial membership at a timeshare resort. I owe ~$500 and I don't know what happens if I do not pay. |
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