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147 | 15 | depression | sleep_problems | I am having real trouble sleeping and it's bring me down so much. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Tired, very tired!! Because I can't sleep... I don't know what's wrong with me I just lay there awake for hours! Yes please, I'm desperate, I'll try anything! I have to always get up for work so I am sticking to the same routines, I just lie in bed with so many thoughts racing around my head and I just can't get off to... | Thank you for your support :-) | My pleasure, I've enjoyed talking with you. | My pleasure, I've enjoyed talking with you. | Others | Others | 1,778 | happy | 0.000107 | 0.000016 | 0.000007 | 0.999754 | 0.00006 | 0.000017 | 0.00004 |
148 | 1 | sadness | job_crisis | recently i lost my job | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I lost my job recently that's why I'm very sad. | Hello | Hello So you lost your job that is why you are sad right? | Others, Restatement or Paraphrasing | Others | 1,779 | sad | 0.000186 | 0.000104 | 0.000046 | 0.00003 | 0.000209 | 0.999399 | 0.000026 | |
148 | 2 | sadness | job_crisis | recently i lost my job | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I lost my job recently that's why I'm very sad. | I'm very sad about my situation | Okay so what kind of job was it? | Okay so what kind of job was it? And why do you think you lost your job? | Question, Question | Question | 1,780 | sad | 0.000334 | 0.000242 | 0.000039 | 0.000034 | 0.000552 | 0.998747 | 0.000052 |
148 | 3 | sadness | job_crisis | recently i lost my job | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I lost my job recently that's why I'm very sad. I'm very sad about my situation | I'm very sad because in this coronavirus situation its very difficult to get new job because of this coronavirus situation | Okay yes I agree with you I was also trying to find a new job since I had more time after graduating. | Okay yes I agree with you I was also trying to find a new job since I had more time after graduating. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 1,781 | sad | 0.000368 | 0.000089 | 0.00012 | 0.000053 | 0.000159 | 0.99919 | 0.000021 |
148 | 4 | sadness | job_crisis | recently i lost my job | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I lost my job recently that's why I'm very sad. I'm very sad about my situation I'm very sad because in this coronavirus situation its very difficult to get new job because of this coronavirus situation | yes i now its very difficult time for everyone Now I'm looking for new job | Okay since you are trying to find a new job you could try to learn some new techniques online. So you could put that on your resume to keep you from feeling sad. | Okay since you are trying to find a new job you could try to learn some new techniques online. So you could put that on your resume to keep you from feeling sad. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,782 | sad | 0.10463 | 0.00206 | 0.046671 | 0.00337 | 0.174197 | 0.6461 | 0.022971 |
148 | 5 | sadness | job_crisis | recently i lost my job | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I lost my job recently that's why I'm very sad. I'm very sad about my situation I'm very sad because in this coronavirus situation its very difficult to get new job because of this coronavirus situation yes i now its very difficult time for everyone Now I'm looking for new job | Now I'm waiting for to when government will opening all business Thanks, Yes i will hope i can come from this situation yes I'm taking some trainings online | Oh that is good. That will make you different from other people so when government opens up it will be easier for you to get in. | Oh that is good. That will make you different from other people so when government opens up it will be easier for you to get in. So I would say to keep your hope up by trying to learn new things so you do not feel sad. | Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,783 | angry | 0.464759 | 0.000885 | 0.056586 | 0.266429 | 0.184823 | 0.004206 | 0.022312 |
148 | 6 | sadness | job_crisis | recently i lost my job | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I lost my job recently that's why I'm very sad. I'm very sad about my situation I'm very sad because in this coronavirus situation its very difficult to get new job because of this coronavirus situation yes i now its very difficult time for everyone Now I'm looking for new job Now I'm waiting for to when government wil... | Yes I have hope and i'm thinking positive Thanks for giving me support | Yeah that is the best medicine for right now. Your welcome. | Yeah that is the best medicine for right now. Your welcome. Thank you for giving your time to talk to me. | Others, Others | Others | 1,784 | happy | 0.000089 | 0.00001 | 0.00002 | 0.999143 | 0.000628 | 0.000041 | 0.000069 |
148 | 7 | sadness | job_crisis | recently i lost my job | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I lost my job recently that's why I'm very sad. I'm very sad about my situation I'm very sad because in this coronavirus situation its very difficult to get new job because of this coronavirus situation yes i now its very difficult time for everyone Now I'm looking for new job Now I'm waiting for to when government wil... | I'm still struggling to get new job that's why I'm sad | Yeah in this economy right now not that many places are hiring right now so it is hard. Or they are hiring but a lot of people are applying so they are looking at everybody and choosing the best canidate. | Yeah in this economy right now not that many places are hiring right now so it is hard. Or they are hiring but a lot of people are applying so they are looking at everybody and choosing the best canidate. | Information | Information | 1,785 | sad | 0.000317 | 0.000087 | 0.000073 | 0.000055 | 0.000337 | 0.999101 | 0.000029 |
148 | 8 | sadness | job_crisis | recently i lost my job | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I lost my job recently that's why I'm very sad. I'm very sad about my situation I'm very sad because in this coronavirus situation its very difficult to get new job because of this coronavirus situation yes i now its very difficult time for everyone Now I'm looking for new job Now I'm waiting for to when government wil... | yes its very difficult time i know, Thanks for your support | Your welcome. | Your welcome. | Others | Others | 1,786 | happy | 0.021975 | 0.000204 | 0.000784 | 0.914209 | 0.002962 | 0.058254 | 0.001612 |
148 | 9 | sadness | job_crisis | recently i lost my job | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I lost my job recently that's why I'm very sad. I'm very sad about my situation I'm very sad because in this coronavirus situation its very difficult to get new job because of this coronavirus situation yes i now its very difficult time for everyone Now I'm looking for new job Now I'm waiting for to when government wil... | good to having you | You too | You too | Others | Others | 1,787 | happy | 0.000984 | 0.000092 | 0.000012 | 0.992865 | 0.005628 | 0.000048 | 0.000371 |
149 | 1 | anxiety | job_crisis | My job is based on demand and the current economic state makes less demand. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | I am worried about the security of my job in this economic climate | I understand. We are in a time of change and uncertainty. Why are you worried about your job security? Is something going on with your job that makes you feel this way? | I understand. We are in a time of change and uncertainty. Why are you worried about your job security? Is something going on with your job that makes you feel this way? | Question | Question | 1,789 | fear | 0.000121 | 0.000069 | 0.998585 | 0.000046 | 0.000582 | 0.000505 | 0.000092 | |
149 | 2 | anxiety | job_crisis | My job is based on demand and the current economic state makes less demand. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | I am worried about the security of my job in this economic climate | I am a gig worker paid by the job and recently I have not had as many gigs as normal. | Understood. Your feelings are definitely valid. Do you have a plan in place for supplementing your work? | Understood. Your feelings are definitely valid. Do you have a plan in place for supplementing your work? | Question | Question | 1,790 | sad | 0.186751 | 0.004374 | 0.003219 | 0.001146 | 0.049629 | 0.745248 | 0.009633 |
149 | 3 | anxiety | job_crisis | My job is based on demand and the current economic state makes less demand. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | I am worried about the security of my job in this economic climate I am a gig worker paid by the job and recently I have not had as many gigs as normal. | I have put a lot of effort to get to my position. I do not know where to begin in a new position. | Well I'm not sure what type of gig work you do, however, just the fact that you are a gig worker for a long time tells me a few things....1, you are a self starter 2. You have great pritoritizing and time management skills 3. You learn new things easily and with little instruction. All of these things are skill sets th... | Well I'm not sure what type of gig work you do, however, just the fact that you are a gig worker for a long time tells me a few things....1, you are a self starter 2. You have great pritoritizing and time management skills 3. You learn new things easily and with little instruction. All of these things are skill sets th... | Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,791 | surprised | 0.003504 | 0.001046 | 0.190128 | 0.001211 | 0.002891 | 0.07751 | 0.72371 |
149 | 4 | anxiety | job_crisis | My job is based on demand and the current economic state makes less demand. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | I am worried about the security of my job in this economic climate I am a gig worker paid by the job and recently I have not had as many gigs as normal. I have put a lot of effort to get to my position. I do not know where to begin in a new position. | Yes, I guess these are helpful qualities. I just don't know if I can find another gig to fit my schedule that I am excited about doing | Perhaps thats where networking may help. If you are able to find employment that is similar to gigwork, you may be able to have a schedule to works for you. | Perhaps thats where networking may help. If you are able to find employment that is similar to gigwork, you may be able to have a schedule to works for you. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,792 | surprised | 0.008037 | 0.000668 | 0.021951 | 0.12101 | 0.02153 | 0.147617 | 0.679187 |
149 | 5 | anxiety | job_crisis | My job is based on demand and the current economic state makes less demand. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | I am worried about the security of my job in this economic climate I am a gig worker paid by the job and recently I have not had as many gigs as normal. I have put a lot of effort to get to my position. I do not know where to begin in a new position. Yes, I guess these are helpful qualities. I just don't know if I can ... | Unfortunately I have been so focused on my current position I have no network to speak of. I am alone in my new search. | I am not too familiar with gig work, but perhaps you know of a site that is similar to Indeed.com but specifically for your line of work or for gigwork . | I am not too familiar with gig work, but perhaps you know of a site that is similar to Indeed.com but specifically for your line of work or for gigwork . What kind of work do you do? | Providing Suggestions, Question | Providing Suggestions | 1,793 | sad | 0.000829 | 0.000214 | 0.000123 | 0.000027 | 0.00122 | 0.997503 | 0.000086 |
149 | 6 | anxiety | job_crisis | My job is based on demand and the current economic state makes less demand. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | I am worried about the security of my job in this economic climate I am a gig worker paid by the job and recently I have not had as many gigs as normal. I have put a lot of effort to get to my position. I do not know where to begin in a new position. Yes, I guess these are helpful qualities. I just don't know if I can ... | Online teaching. I have developed a strong foundation with the company I work for, unfortunately they are actually doing less business at this time | Maybe you can develop your own courses ? Or, you can also become an online trainer for a variety of organizations. Since many companies are transitioning to a work from home environment, this is a great time to offer your training services to various companies. | Maybe you can develop your own courses ? Or, you can also become an online trainer for a variety of organizations. Since many companies are transitioning to a work from home environment, this is a great time to offer your training services to various companies. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,794 | sad | 0.000346 | 0.000165 | 0.000061 | 0.000165 | 0.000827 | 0.99837 | 0.000067 |
149 | 7 | anxiety | job_crisis | My job is based on demand and the current economic state makes less demand. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | I am worried about the security of my job in this economic climate I am a gig worker paid by the job and recently I have not had as many gigs as normal. I have put a lot of effort to get to my position. I do not know where to begin in a new position. Yes, I guess these are helpful qualities. I just don't know if I can ... | Yes, I guess there ar emany opportunities that might work. Thank you for your help. | You are very welcome! | You are very welcome! | Others | Others | 1,795 | neutral | 0.011506 | 0.000074 | 0.002093 | 0.07672 | 0.888967 | 0.004866 | 0.015773 |
149 | 8 | anxiety | job_crisis | My job is based on demand and the current economic state makes less demand. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | I am worried about the security of my job in this economic climate I am a gig worker paid by the job and recently I have not had as many gigs as normal. I have put a lot of effort to get to my position. I do not know where to begin in a new position. Yes, I guess these are helpful qualities. I just don't know if I can ... | I appreciate your help. I will take a look at what my options are. Have a nice day. | Great! Feel free to come back if you need additional help! | Great! Feel free to come back if you need additional help! I wish you much success! | Others, Others | Others | 1,796 | happy | 0.00487 | 0.000202 | 0.000404 | 0.72267 | 0.263461 | 0.001492 | 0.0069 |
150 | 1 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey | hi, how are you? | hi, how are you? | Question | Question | 1,797 | happy | 0.005968 | 0.000777 | 0.000066 | 0.821769 | 0.168097 | 0.00027 | 0.003054 | |
150 | 2 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey | not good | oh! what happen? | oh! what happen? Everything is ok | Question, Others | Question | 1,798 | angry | 0.968032 | 0.008193 | 0.000202 | 0.000119 | 0.008958 | 0.01221 | 0.002287 |
150 | 3 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good | I have been feeling really depressed lately | oh! what is the reason of depression please can you share with me | oh! what is the reason of depression please can you share with me you can share your problem with me freely | Others, Self-disclosure | Others | 1,799 | sad | 0.00014 | 0.000111 | 0.000048 | 0.000022 | 0.000158 | 0.999492 | 0.000029 |
150 | 4 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately | Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well | engage yourself in other activities that make you happy | engage yourself in other activities that make you happy | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 1,800 | angry | 0.554563 | 0.000618 | 0.003174 | 0.000229 | 0.000638 | 0.440555 | 0.000224 |
150 | 5 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well | only sport seems to make me happy but the pandemic is not helping me with that | did you try for any new job | did you try for any new job | Information | Information | 1,801 | sad | 0.356899 | 0.003838 | 0.001401 | 0.027671 | 0.022487 | 0.582027 | 0.005677 |
150 | 6 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well only sport seems to make me happy but the pandemic is not helping me with that | Yes but it didn't work out as most jobs need job experience and I only have a small amount of that | you have talent so you can get job easily | you have talent so you can get job easily | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,802 | sad | 0.004465 | 0.000341 | 0.000228 | 0.000053 | 0.003466 | 0.991189 | 0.000259 |
150 | 7 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well only sport seems to make me happy but the pandemic is not helping me with that Yes but i... | It's hard to get a job these days, I was thinking of doing entrepreneurs work | i also went through this situation but now finally i get new job | i also went through this situation but now finally i get new job | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 1,803 | neutral | 0.005497 | 0.000156 | 0.001131 | 0.001531 | 0.883986 | 0.089185 | 0.018514 |
150 | 8 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well only sport seems to make me happy but the pandemic is not helping me with that Yes but i... | But now i guess I have to get through school first before I think about that | did you try any new course . Try to do some online courses that help you get new job | did you try any new course . Try to do some online courses that help you get new job | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,804 | neutral | 0.002303 | 0.00005 | 0.00026 | 0.000271 | 0.984831 | 0.000932 | 0.011354 |
150 | 9 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well only sport seems to make me happy but the pandemic is not helping me with that Yes but i... | Yeah, thats a good idea, but i don't think I will do well because school is also stressing me out a lot | its very hard to get new job but i think you can do it | its very hard to get new job but i think you can do it try to do those courses that you enjoy . | Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,805 | sad | 0.250659 | 0.002437 | 0.002728 | 0.000439 | 0.011212 | 0.729659 | 0.002866 |
150 | 10 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well only sport seems to make me happy but the pandemic is not helping me with that Yes but i... | Yeah. thanks i hope I can and I will try and I do enjoy the college course I do but it is very hard | did you ever try to go in sports ?because you like that | did you ever try to go in sports ?because you like that | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,806 | happy | 0.041956 | 0.00013 | 0.000307 | 0.948505 | 0.000925 | 0.007826 | 0.000352 |
150 | 11 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well only sport seems to make me happy but the pandemic is not helping me with that Yes but i... | I will try though thank you | your welcome | your welcome | Others | Others | 1,807 | neutral | 0.007515 | 0.000117 | 0.001056 | 0.001254 | 0.986119 | 0.000618 | 0.00332 |
150 | 12 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well only sport seems to make me happy but the pandemic is not helping me with that Yes but i... | But im not good enough to actually go professional in sport | take some caching classes of sports | take some caching classes of sports | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,808 | angry | 0.785795 | 0.004275 | 0.000654 | 0.000248 | 0.010458 | 0.196238 | 0.002331 |
150 | 13 | depression | ongoing_depression | I was really depressed for a really long time as I couldn't find a job whilst I was in college and this really effected me | 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hey not good I have been feeling really depressed lately Thank you and I am really stressed out with college and I really don't have a job so it is causing me stress as I college is difficult as it is now I don't have a job as well only sport seems to make me happy but the pandemic is not helping me with that Yes but i... | ok i will, anyway thanks for the help, now i feel much better :) | thanks for sharing your feelings .Thanks | thanks for sharing your feelings .Thanks | Others | Others | 1,809 | happy | 0.000115 | 0.000018 | 0.000006 | 0.999722 | 0.000067 | 0.000029 | 0.000044 |
151 | 1 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | Yes hi | Hello! How are you? | Hello! How are you? | Question | Question | 1,810 | neutral | 0.002847 | 0.000135 | 0.000187 | 0.051973 | 0.941009 | 0.000344 | 0.003505 | |
151 | 2 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | Yes hi | fine what about you | I'm doing great, thank you for asking! | I'm doing great, thank you for asking! Is there anything you would like to talk about today? How was your week? | Others, Question | Others | 1,811 | angry | 0.998538 | 0.000069 | 0.000023 | 0.000148 | 0.001013 | 0.000131 | 0.000077 |
151 | 3 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | Yes hi fine what about you | nice currently what doing | I'm currently at home, relaxing. Thank you for asking! Did you have a relaxing day today? | I'm currently at home, relaxing. Thank you for asking! Did you have a relaxing day today? | Question | Question | 1,812 | neutral | 0.012685 | 0.000289 | 0.000148 | 0.075147 | 0.787623 | 0.003807 | 0.120301 |
151 | 4 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | Yes hi fine what about you nice currently what doing | Yes, i'm stressed but my pets are given relaxation for me. do you have a pet ? | It sounds like you have had a stressful time! Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel that way? | It sounds like you have had a stressful time! Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel that way? Yes, pets are proven to expand your lifespan! | Restatement or Paraphrasing, Information | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 1,813 | neutral | 0.088043 | 0.000497 | 0.005198 | 0.001058 | 0.756937 | 0.127972 | 0.020295 |
151 | 5 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | Yes hi fine what about you nice currently what doing Yes, i'm stressed but my pets are given relaxation for me. do you have a pet ? | Relaxation and play do my pets | Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel stressed? | Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel stressed? | Question | Question | 1,814 | neutral | 0.002287 | 0.000399 | 0.000439 | 0.220371 | 0.766527 | 0.005056 | 0.004921 |
151 | 6 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | Yes hi fine what about you nice currently what doing Yes, i'm stressed but my pets are given relaxation for me. do you have a pet ? Relaxation and play do my pets | I'm pet lover like mostly Dog. I'm having Husky Yes I'm fight with my friends some bad conversation started in between | It sounds like you and your friends had an argument. This sometimes happens between friends who are very close with each other! When I had an argument with my friend, we both knew it was because we cared deeply for each other. | It sounds like you and your friends had an argument. This sometimes happens between friends who are very close with each other! When I had an argument with my friend, we both knew it was because we cared deeply for each other. I'm sure you are a very loyal and honest friend who just feels comfortable enough to disagree... | Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance | Self-disclosure | 1,815 | angry | 0.775422 | 0.022253 | 0.000933 | 0.00034 | 0.004367 | 0.196016 | 0.000669 |
151 | 7 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | Yes hi fine what about you nice currently what doing Yes, i'm stressed but my pets are given relaxation for me. do you have a pet ? Relaxation and play do my pets I'm pet lover like mostly Dog. I'm having Husky Yes I'm fight with my friends some bad conversation started in between | Yes. Some movie talks going on starts with and then going to personal think touch my ego again going to talk normal only but my mind is not support to talk | That is a great idea, and it shows how mature you are! Sometimes, it is a good idea to move on and continue to communicate normally. | That is a great idea, and it shows how mature you are! Sometimes, it is a good idea to move on and continue to communicate normally. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,816 | angry | 0.934971 | 0.006988 | 0.001227 | 0.000244 | 0.004273 | 0.05078 | 0.001516 |
152 | 1 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. | Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? | Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 1,818 | happy | 0.002994 | 0.000129 | 0.000039 | 0.9522 | 0.042339 | 0.000538 | 0.00176 | |
152 | 2 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. | I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with | I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. | I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. Do you live alone? | Self-disclosure, Question | Self-disclosure | 1,819 | sad | 0.000249 | 0.000061 | 0.000052 | 0.000054 | 0.000271 | 0.999292 | 0.00002 |
152 | 3 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with | Yeah I do | One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. | One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 1,820 | neutral | 0.00985 | 0.000057 | 0.000102 | 0.000642 | 0.982035 | 0.001133 | 0.006181 |
152 | 4 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with Yeah I do | How did you meet them online? | On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. | On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,821 | neutral | 0.002143 | 0.000044 | 0.000082 | 0.000829 | 0.982542 | 0.000388 | 0.013972 |
152 | 5 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with Yeah I do How did you meet them online? | I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face | I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? | I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to m... | Providing Suggestions, Information | Providing Suggestions | 1,822 | sad | 0.003704 | 0.000538 | 0.017644 | 0.003887 | 0.134151 | 0.836861 | 0.003215 |
152 | 6 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with Yeah I do How did you meet them online? I feel like I would strugg... | Sadly most people here spend Christmas with their families and are quite private about not inviting outsiders. Last year I spent it with a friend but he is going to his family this year I can find out about churches, I have no idea | I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too. | I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,823 | sad | 0.000437 | 0.000564 | 0.00013 | 0.000025 | 0.00043 | 0.99829 | 0.000125 |
152 | 7 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with Yeah I do How did you meet them online? I feel like I would strugg... | Yeah I'll give that a go | There always seems to be people in the same boat I am in, it is just a matter of thinking outside the box and perhaps even calling friends and asking for suggestions. | There always seems to be people in the same boat I am in, it is just a matter of thinking outside the box and perhaps even calling friends and asking for suggestions. I will definitely say a prayer that you find some people to share a meal with. | Self-disclosure, Others | Self-disclosure | 1,824 | neutral | 0.002345 | 0.00007 | 0.000125 | 0.006034 | 0.988072 | 0.000271 | 0.003084 |
152 | 8 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with Yeah I do How did you meet them online? I feel like I would strugg... | Thanks for listening and for your suggestions | You are welcome. Don't give up, keep trying. It is hard. I've been alone a few times in my life and while I like to be alone, sometimes I really want some people in my life! :D | You are welcome. Don't give up, keep trying. It is hard. I've been alone a few times in my life and while I like to be alone, sometimes I really want some people in my life! :D | Others | Others | 1,825 | happy | 0.000332 | 0.000023 | 0.000034 | 0.996174 | 0.002606 | 0.000047 | 0.000785 |
152 | 9 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with Yeah I do How did you meet them online? I feel like I would strugg... | Yeah I do enjoy my alone time, just not around the holidays haha | I totally get it. | I totally get it. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 1,826 | happy | 0.001023 | 0.000124 | 0.000014 | 0.996215 | 0.002039 | 0.000336 | 0.00025 |
152 | 10 | sadness | problems_with_friends | I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with Yeah I do How did you meet them online? I feel like I would strugg... | Thanks and have a good night! | You are welcome! You have a blessed afternoon and evening! | You are welcome! You have a blessed afternoon and evening! I believe you have to end the conversation and then we are done! :D | Others, Others | Others | 1,827 | happy | 0.000137 | 0.00002 | 0.000006 | 0.999701 | 0.000075 | 0.000021 | 0.000041 |
153 | 1 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there | Hey, how's it going? | Hey, how's it going? | Question | Question | 1,828 | neutral | 0.002589 | 0.000099 | 0.000085 | 0.010052 | 0.985363 | 0.000186 | 0.001627 | |
153 | 2 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there | Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! | What is it about your job that you don't like? | What is it about your job that you don't like? | Question | Question | 1,829 | sad | 0.146344 | 0.001878 | 0.112035 | 0.002773 | 0.005084 | 0.730536 | 0.00135 |
153 | 3 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! | I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. | Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. | Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,830 | sad | 0.194163 | 0.001304 | 0.001362 | 0.00016 | 0.00621 | 0.7959 | 0.000901 |
153 | 4 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over ... | Have you had a similar experience? | Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. | Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goa... | Restatement or Paraphrasing, Self-disclosure | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 1,831 | neutral | 0.001806 | 0.000118 | 0.001036 | 0.000576 | 0.900593 | 0.001087 | 0.094784 |
153 | 5 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over ... | It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? | For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. | For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? | Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 1,832 | fear | 0.000279 | 0.000083 | 0.997388 | 0.000059 | 0.001305 | 0.000451 | 0.000435 |
153 | 6 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over ... | That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it? | Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? | Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? | Question | Question | 1,833 | neutral | 0.023533 | 0.000281 | 0.000477 | 0.002154 | 0.657588 | 0.011329 | 0.30464 |
153 | 7 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over ... | I think maybe consider what I actually enjoy and how could I make that profitable. | Nice! That's a good first step. | Nice! That's a good first step. And it's a step that doesn't cost anything to do. Just some time, maybe. Do you think you have enough time nowadays to start looking into that? | Affirmation and Reassurance, Question | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,834 | neutral | 0.002541 | 0.000131 | 0.000187 | 0.001746 | 0.978872 | 0.001267 | 0.015256 |
153 | 8 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over ... | I think maybe I could do something on the side while I'm still working until I'm sure of what I want to so. Finding time with a family and a full time job is hard though. That's why so many people get trapped. | Yep, for sure. It's not going to be easy. | Yep, for sure. It's not going to be easy. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 1,835 | neutral | 0.006356 | 0.000088 | 0.001474 | 0.000508 | 0.94517 | 0.0321 | 0.014303 |
153 | 9 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over ... | Do you think it's even possible? | Most likely! The only thing keeping me from saying definitely is because I don't know all the info. But sure. | Most likely! The only thing keeping me from saying definitely is because I don't know all the info. But sure. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,836 | neutral | 0.024538 | 0.000177 | 0.000216 | 0.000387 | 0.751272 | 0.0015 | 0.22191 |
153 | 10 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over ... | At least that's positive. I need to do something about this because I think it's starting to affect my mental health! | I gotta believe that switching careers is much more common nowadays than it was one or two generations ago. People you meet along the way will understand. | I gotta believe that switching careers is much more common nowadays than it was one or two generations ago. People you meet along the way will understand. Absolutely. Work can affect mental health particularly when it seems like your efforts aren't going towards anything meaningful. Is that how it feels at your job now... | Affirmation and Reassurance, Restatement or Paraphrasing | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,837 | neutral | 0.005892 | 0.000204 | 0.001899 | 0.01657 | 0.951561 | 0.009311 | 0.014564 |
153 | 11 | depression | job_crisis | I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know. | 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 | Hi there Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over ... | That's true actually. Yes that's how I feel right now. You get it. It's like I'm part of a meaningless machine. I think I'm definitely going to do something about it now. Thanks for your input today it has helped | Good to know. Because maybe that's something you could keep in mind when you think about new jobs. Does this job allow me to see meaningful outcomes from my effort, and so on. | Good to know. Because maybe that's something you could keep in mind when you think about new jobs. Does this job allow me to see meaningful outcomes from my effort, and so on. That's cool, thanks for saying that. It was nice talking with you! | Information, Others | Information | 1,838 | sad | 0.119405 | 0.001141 | 0.000566 | 0.045152 | 0.207317 | 0.437782 | 0.188638 |
154 | 1 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. | Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? | Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? | Question | Question | 1,840 | sad | 0.202799 | 0.009585 | 0.000303 | 0.00091 | 0.014894 | 0.758645 | 0.012865 | |
154 | 2 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. | I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. | That sounds really stressful | That sounds really stressful | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 1,841 | fear | 0.000043 | 0.000058 | 0.998993 | 0.000116 | 0.000035 | 0.00073 | 0.000024 |
154 | 3 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. | It really is hard to manage | Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? | Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? | Question | Question | 1,842 | sad | 0.049039 | 0.000688 | 0.005658 | 0.000217 | 0.003762 | 0.939522 | 0.001114 |
154 | 4 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. It really is hard to manage | Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. | Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. | Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. | Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions | Self-disclosure | 1,843 | sad | 0.00084 | 0.000841 | 0.000099 | 0.000037 | 0.001758 | 0.996259 | 0.000167 |
154 | 5 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. It really is hard to manage Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. | I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. | It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you | It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date. | Restatement or Paraphrasing, Information | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 1,844 | sad | 0.164439 | 0.000777 | 0.001204 | 0.000189 | 0.00092 | 0.83226 | 0.000211 |
154 | 6 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. It really is hard to manage Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it ... | That sounds like a great idea but I am not sure if they will have any sympathy for me. | You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think. | You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,845 | surprised | 0.029292 | 0.000836 | 0.000415 | 0.000548 | 0.091485 | 0.005376 | 0.872048 |
154 | 7 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. It really is hard to manage Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it ... | You're right. I guess it would be worth the time and effort to at least ask. That is probably better than just suffering. | I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to. | I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to. Are you feeling any external pressure from your family or advisor to... | Self-disclosure, Question | Self-disclosure | 1,846 | neutral | 0.014724 | 0.000249 | 0.000924 | 0.000261 | 0.943923 | 0.030708 | 0.00921 |
154 | 8 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. It really is hard to manage Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it ... | I don't really have much of a support system. I really am just trying to self motivate. | That sounds so hard, I think it's awesome that you're trying so hard on your own. Just the fact that you're in a program in the first place is really impressive. | That sounds so hard, I think it's awesome that you're trying so hard on your own. Just the fact that you're in a program in the first place is really impressive. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,847 | sad | 0.082087 | 0.001389 | 0.001391 | 0.00019 | 0.023196 | 0.889627 | 0.002121 |
154 | 9 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. It really is hard to manage Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it ... | Thank you. | I hope you're able to find a support system through your friends, even if you don't have one at home. | I hope you're able to find a support system through your friends, even if you don't have one at home. | Others | Others | 1,848 | neutral | 0.325652 | 0.000976 | 0.001078 | 0.007061 | 0.622909 | 0.000728 | 0.041595 |
154 | 10 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. It really is hard to manage Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it ... | I hope so too. Thanks for talking with me. | I know it's hard, but I think you're going to do a great job! And even if you fail a test, it really doesn't matter in the long run. | I know it's hard, but I think you're going to do a great job! And even if you fail a test, it really doesn't matter in the long run. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,849 | happy | 0.000883 | 0.000067 | 0.000032 | 0.990237 | 0.008463 | 0.000043 | 0.000275 |
154 | 11 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. It really is hard to manage Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it ... | You are absolutely right. | It was great talking with you | It was great talking with you | Others | Others | 1,850 | neutral | 0.039942 | 0.000102 | 0.000151 | 0.000371 | 0.932203 | 0.000984 | 0.026247 |
154 | 12 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Not too great, honestly. I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. It really is hard to manage Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it ... | Thanks again! Bye. | Bye! | Bye! | Others | Others | 1,851 | angry | 0.998238 | 0.000061 | 0.000041 | 0.000763 | 0.000662 | 0.000076 | 0.000159 |
157 | 1 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! | How may I help you today? | How may I help you today? | Question | Question | 1,874 | happy | 0.000594 | 0.000087 | 0.000015 | 0.996381 | 0.002531 | 0.000057 | 0.000334 | |
157 | 2 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! | What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? Yelling does not work. | Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? | Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? | Question | Question | 1,875 | angry | 0.9968 | 0.000565 | 0.000051 | 0.000068 | 0.001907 | 0.000486 | 0.000123 |
157 | 3 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? Yelling does not work. | I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. | Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, | Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,876 | neutral | 0.326922 | 0.00252 | 0.001239 | 0.002984 | 0.620961 | 0.029411 | 0.015963 |
157 | 4 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? Yelling does not work. I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. Talking i... | I almost feel like crying. I hear you but.... | Everything will be okay | Everything will be okay Try to talk to them and be very firm with them | Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions | Self-disclosure | 1,877 | sad | 0.000966 | 0.000268 | 0.000189 | 0.000162 | 0.004377 | 0.993177 | 0.000863 |
157 | 5 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? Yelling does not work. I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. Talking i... | I feel that is abusive when I know how bad they are being affected psychologically. I actually feel like just locking them in their rooms until we get done working. Kind of like being grounded.... I will try to talk with them again. I know I will probably be tearful which I know bothers them. | How about reward them with something if they listen and behave | How about reward them with something if they listen and behave | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,878 | sad | 0.296167 | 0.013002 | 0.001162 | 0.000431 | 0.021046 | 0.667008 | 0.001185 |
157 | 6 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? Yelling does not work. I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. Talking i... | Maybe they will react to that... I'm so glad the vaccine is here \ Thats a better idea.... | Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay | Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 1,879 | happy | 0.000548 | 0.000207 | 0.000084 | 0.966349 | 0.016532 | 0.000498 | 0.015782 |
157 | 7 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? Yelling does not work. I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. Talking i... | I appreciate your support and maybe I will take them to the park where we all play family games but just with us four. They really love to do that. I think that they want attention from us more because we are right here. Or maybe we'll have a picnic together. It has been awhile since we have done something outside of t... | Yes maybe that will work for them and probably want to be outside | Yes maybe that will work for them and probably want to be outside | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,880 | neutral | 0.00066 | 0.000068 | 0.000072 | 0.003443 | 0.993739 | 0.000435 | 0.001583 |
157 | 8 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? Yelling does not work. I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. Talking i... | I feel it is like pent up frustration. They were very very busy before Corona | I understand the corona has messed everything up this year | I understand the corona has messed everything up this year | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 1,881 | angry | 0.936569 | 0.00024 | 0.000178 | 0.000716 | 0.001007 | 0.060995 | 0.000295 |
157 | 9 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? Yelling does not work. I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. Talking i... | Do you have kids? | are they having a good Christmas | are they having a good Christmas No i have no kids but want some one day | Question, Others | Question | 1,882 | neutral | 0.018384 | 0.00008 | 0.000161 | 0.000285 | 0.940955 | 0.001054 | 0.03908 |
157 | 10 | anxiety | job_crisis | My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work,... | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | Hi! What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? Yelling does not work. I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. Talking i... | They are SUPER happy today of course. Luckily they have received the same amount of presents they get any other Christmas because our income has stayed the same. These kids do not know how lucky they are right now. Maybe I can stress that to them a well. They need to know they have a lot to be grateful for. Thanks for ... | Right i understand that. Just talk to them and be firm with them that will get them to listen more. | Right i understand that. Just talk to them and be firm with them that will get them to listen more. Your welcome. Have a awesome Christmas to and stay safe to. | Others, Information | Others | 1,883 | happy | 0.001151 | 0.00021 | 0.000089 | 0.914374 | 0.077388 | 0.001421 | 0.005368 |
159 | 1 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Ive been trying to get with some of friends to hang out maybe just for a couple hours just to catch up. But no-one seems like they want to be bothered due to covid. But the other day I called this particularly person and she said that they were all out having lunch, So why wasn't I included? | 5 | 3 | 4 | 4 | Hello Is there anyone online | Yes, what can I do for you? | Yes, what can I do for you? | Question | Question | 1,894 | neutral | 0.010159 | 0.000099 | 0.00096 | 0.00076 | 0.924532 | 0.001298 | 0.062191 | |
159 | 2 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Ive been trying to get with some of friends to hang out maybe just for a couple hours just to catch up. But no-one seems like they want to be bothered due to covid. But the other day I called this particularly person and she said that they were all out having lunch, So why wasn't I included? | 5 | 3 | 4 | 4 | Hello Is there anyone online | Im trying to get a little advise about a situation that has me down. Are you having some issues responding because I didnt hear from you until almost 3mins into the chat | It's fine here, I just got your message. Please tell me more about your issue | It's fine here, I just got your message. Please tell me more about your issue | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 1,895 | neutral | 0.026661 | 0.000546 | 0.012702 | 0.000419 | 0.736509 | 0.076228 | 0.146935 |
159 | 3 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Ive been trying to get with some of friends to hang out maybe just for a couple hours just to catch up. But no-one seems like they want to be bothered due to covid. But the other day I called this particularly person and she said that they were all out having lunch, So why wasn't I included? | 5 | 3 | 4 | 4 | Hello Is there anyone online Im trying to get a little advise about a situation that has me down. Are you having some issues responding because I didnt hear from you until almost 3mins into the chat | Im having some issues with friendships. It has me down. The other day I had called a couple of friends to go have lunch together since we havent seen each other in a while and everyone said No due to covid But today I called another friend and everybody were out together but didnt include me | that really sucks how they pulled that excuse on you | that really sucks how they pulled that excuse on you did your other friend tell you why they did that? | Reflection of feelings, Question | Reflection of feelings | 1,896 | sad | 0.002716 | 0.000142 | 0.000082 | 0.000189 | 0.00014 | 0.996707 | 0.000024 |
159 | 4 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Ive been trying to get with some of friends to hang out maybe just for a couple hours just to catch up. But no-one seems like they want to be bothered due to covid. But the other day I called this particularly person and she said that they were all out having lunch, So why wasn't I included? | 5 | 3 | 4 | 4 | Hello Is there anyone online Im trying to get a little advise about a situation that has me down. Are you having some issues responding because I didnt hear from you until almost 3mins into the chat Im having some issues with friendships. It has me down. The other day I had called a couple of friends to go have lunch t... | No they just said they just thought I was busy and couldn't attend so im bitter sad about the situation and don't how to address it | It's understandable for you to feel doubtful. I would give them another chance, suggesting a virtual happy hour and see what they say now hat they no longer have covid excuse | It's understandable for you to feel doubtful. I would give them another chance, suggesting a virtual happy hour and see what they say now hat they no longer have covid excuse | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,897 | angry | 0.995399 | 0.000227 | 0.000027 | 0.000168 | 0.000604 | 0.003481 | 0.000094 |
159 | 5 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Ive been trying to get with some of friends to hang out maybe just for a couple hours just to catch up. But no-one seems like they want to be bothered due to covid. But the other day I called this particularly person and she said that they were all out having lunch, So why wasn't I included? | 5 | 3 | 4 | 4 | Hello Is there anyone online Im trying to get a little advise about a situation that has me down. Are you having some issues responding because I didnt hear from you until almost 3mins into the chat Im having some issues with friendships. It has me down. The other day I had called a couple of friends to go have lunch t... | I was actually thinking about that just wasn't sure about it I really thought we were better than this but I guess not | you can never know people until something happens | you can never know people until something happens | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,898 | surprised | 0.000572 | 0.000544 | 0.00019 | 0.001229 | 0.003537 | 0.004299 | 0.989628 |
159 | 6 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Ive been trying to get with some of friends to hang out maybe just for a couple hours just to catch up. But no-one seems like they want to be bothered due to covid. But the other day I called this particularly person and she said that they were all out having lunch, So why wasn't I included? | 5 | 3 | 4 | 4 | Hello Is there anyone online Im trying to get a little advise about a situation that has me down. Are you having some issues responding because I didnt hear from you until almost 3mins into the chat Im having some issues with friendships. It has me down. The other day I had called a couple of friends to go have lunch t... | Im needing to bring some new people in my life. | Just give it a try, if all of them have some excuses again, it's time to stop socializing with those friends | Just give it a try, if all of them have some excuses again, it's time to stop socializing with those friends exactly, it's frustrating but at the same time, a blessing in disguise. Through this you know who actually care about you | Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance | Providing Suggestions | 1,899 | neutral | 0.001066 | 0.000044 | 0.000121 | 0.000537 | 0.996605 | 0.000569 | 0.001058 |
159 | 7 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Ive been trying to get with some of friends to hang out maybe just for a couple hours just to catch up. But no-one seems like they want to be bothered due to covid. But the other day I called this particularly person and she said that they were all out having lunch, So why wasn't I included? | 5 | 3 | 4 | 4 | Hello Is there anyone online Im trying to get a little advise about a situation that has me down. Are you having some issues responding because I didnt hear from you until almost 3mins into the chat Im having some issues with friendships. It has me down. The other day I had called a couple of friends to go have lunch t... | Im going to do observing of myself and think so over but thank you for your advice, Some observing of myself and think this over | yeah, if they don't care about you, why waste your time on them? Spend that time on treating yourself a good meal or a great movie | yeah, if they don't care about you, why waste your time on them? Spend that time on treating yourself a good meal or a great movie | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 1,900 | neutral | 0.041404 | 0.00414 | 0.024543 | 0.010673 | 0.7876 | 0.078754 | 0.052885 |
159 | 8 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Ive been trying to get with some of friends to hang out maybe just for a couple hours just to catch up. But no-one seems like they want to be bothered due to covid. But the other day I called this particularly person and she said that they were all out having lunch, So why wasn't I included? | 5 | 3 | 4 | 4 | Hello Is there anyone online Im trying to get a little advise about a situation that has me down. Are you having some issues responding because I didnt hear from you until almost 3mins into the chat Im having some issues with friendships. It has me down. The other day I had called a couple of friends to go have lunch t... | Thanks will do have a good day | you too, i hope you feel better | you too, i hope you feel better | Others | Others | 1,901 | happy | 0.00086 | 0.000021 | 0.000012 | 0.998879 | 0.000148 | 0.000025 | 0.000055 |
160 | 1 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ | That sounds really hard! Does that mean things tend to escalate quickly in your home? | That sounds really hard! Does that mean things tend to escalate quickly in your home? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 1,903 | angry | 0.509456 | 0.001906 | 0.002375 | 0.021445 | 0.284632 | 0.15874 | 0.021446 | |
160 | 2 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ | I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break as soon as my son gets mad he screams and calls for me no mater where i am or where he is I don't wanna yell i wanna get my points across. I also homeschool them all ... | That sounds really challenging. I grew up in a home with a lot of yelling, and after a few years it just became our default for communicating with each other. I really regret that we didn't do anything to change the pattern sooner. | That sounds really challenging. I grew up in a home with a lot of yelling, and after a few years it just became our default for communicating with each other. I really regret that we didn't do anything to change the pattern sooner. What have you tried to break the pattern so far? | Self-disclosure, Question | Self-disclosure | 1,904 | angry | 0.967931 | 0.002206 | 0.000198 | 0.001628 | 0.022299 | 0.004242 | 0.001497 |
160 | 3 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break ... | yes i can not have that become the normal. I want to feel proud of their beviors they need to learn manners which i think is someting they really missed out on in public schools. the need to conform wouldve taught them manners without them even noticing. So far i try to keep myslef calm and communicate simply i still g... | That sounds like you're trying really hard to set a good example. | That sounds like you're trying really hard to set a good example. It also sounds like you think they may have learned that yelling is okay from their schools. Is that right? | Affirmation and Reassurance, Restatement or Paraphrasing | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,905 | angry | 0.904652 | 0.00021 | 0.000331 | 0.092783 | 0.000443 | 0.001099 | 0.000483 |
160 | 4 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break ... | i am trying but i was not raised with the best habits so teaching myself and my kids to be good and consotant has been a challenge no i thnk they wouldve learned why not to yell at peopel if they went to public school they are homeschooled with me, my daigther went to preschool briefly but that was it | I understand that - I've spent a lot of time trying to teach myself to be better than the home I grew up in | I understand that - I've spent a lot of time trying to teach myself to be better than the home I grew up in | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 1,906 | sad | 0.204611 | 0.005112 | 0.002282 | 0.000794 | 0.365219 | 0.387634 | 0.034347 |
160 | 5 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break ... | darn parents, lol | Ahaha exactly! | Ahaha exactly! I don't have kids of my own, but I've been trying to learn from my friends who do have kids | Affirmation and Reassurance, Self-disclosure | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,907 | happy | 0.005385 | 0.000439 | 0.000022 | 0.98922 | 0.004221 | 0.000362 | 0.00035 |
160 | 6 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break ... | i do hope they learn to be kind and strive to learn and be smart. games and devices have also become somewhat of the enemy, and savior somedays good plan, learn before you have your own, thats what my plan was, i was supposed to have life figured out before they got here | One of my friends who has a really peaceful household maintains a high standard of speaking to her kids like adults and only engaging in conversation when they're speaking respectfully | One of my friends who has a really peaceful household maintains a high standard of speaking to her kids like adults and only engaging in conversation when they're speaking respectfully | Information | Information | 1,908 | neutral | 0.001129 | 0.000079 | 0.000049 | 0.000208 | 0.997745 | 0.000279 | 0.000511 |
160 | 7 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break ... | but ya know they have been the best teachers this far in my life good tips i will try to do that more and talk to them like adults | I really like how she does that - only engaging in respectful conversation and not letting the yelling escalate | I really like how she does that - only engaging in respectful conversation and not letting the yelling escalate I work with kids sometimes, too, and it seems like they all just want to be big kids and be treated that way, too | Providing Suggestions, Information | Providing Suggestions | 1,909 | neutral | 0.001703 | 0.000051 | 0.000143 | 0.000691 | 0.993408 | 0.000965 | 0.003038 |
160 | 8 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break ... | i try not to engage in harmful destructive communication yes that is important, i am so emotional it is hard to stay calm when i am not liking what's happening | It's so hard! Who can be a full-time parent and best friend and take care of your own life, too | It's so hard! Who can be a full-time parent and best friend and take care of your own life, too It sounds like you have the best intentions, and you're working really hard on it | Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 1,910 | sad | 0.093726 | 0.001132 | 0.011583 | 0.000798 | 0.015321 | 0.87376 | 0.00368 |
160 | 9 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break ... | well me hopefully lol | It can be so hard, so frustrating, and so easy to revert to those habits we both grew up with | It can be so hard, so frustrating, and so easy to revert to those habits we both grew up with | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 1,911 | happy | 0.000413 | 0.000145 | 0.000015 | 0.9947 | 0.004248 | 0.000138 | 0.00034 |
160 | 10 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break ... | thanks i guess i make it sound ok, i am ok they are good kids at the core thewy kjust need to work on not freaking out yes it can i get loud too much and my mom always yelled i hated it and told myself I hated it growing up | I have a co-worker who has kids with special needs, and she has this great phrase for working with her kids | I have a co-worker who has kids with special needs, and she has this great phrase for working with her kids | Information | Information | 1,912 | angry | 0.992479 | 0.000623 | 0.000065 | 0.000514 | 0.004695 | 0.000999 | 0.000626 |
160 | 11 | anxiety | issues_with_children | my kids wont listen to me | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | The struggle is real my kids act as if they dont hear me which causes me to become overwhelmed and loud then they dont wanna listen anymore. I am well today and you/ I am loking for ways to communiate better specifically with my 5 year old son. well i always get yelling as a response which is what i cant seem to break ... | what is it i must know lol any and all advice taken here | She says, "is this a small feeling or a big feeling?" and then, "Are you having a big reaction, or a small reaction?", and it really helps her kids self-soothe | She says, "is this a small feeling or a big feeling?" and then, "Are you having a big reaction, or a small reaction?", and it really helps her kids self-soothe | Information | Information | 1,913 | happy | 0.000538 | 0.000052 | 0.00001 | 0.997804 | 0.001359 | 0.000074 | 0.000164 |
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