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172
3
anxiety
job_crisis
I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.
5
1
5
5
Hello I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well
I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting
Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation?
Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation?
Question
Question
2,037
sad
0.000231
0.000191
0.000091
0.000031
0.000207
0.999232
0.000016
172
4
anxiety
job_crisis
I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.
5
1
5
5
Hello I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting
I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted
But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run.
But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,038
neutral
0.017852
0.000217
0.000573
0.000056
0.946752
0.032088
0.002462
172
5
anxiety
job_crisis
I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.
5
1
5
5
Hello I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted
That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first
I can understand that.
I can understand that. Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,039
neutral
0.010246
0.00013
0.000068
0.000768
0.974351
0.004932
0.009505
172
6
anxiety
job_crisis
I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.
5
1
5
5
Hello I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted That ...
Probably not. I was with the same company for a long time and I consistently get a bonus every year
Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations?
Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations?
Others
Others
2,040
neutral
0.010283
0.000075
0.000158
0.00282
0.930678
0.004572
0.051414
172
7
anxiety
job_crisis
I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.
5
1
5
5
Hello I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted That ...
I could try. It mostly gets to me at the end of the day
Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people
Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people
Information
Information
2,041
neutral
0.001294
0.000024
0.000132
0.000245
0.995089
0.001551
0.001665
172
8
anxiety
job_crisis
I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.
5
1
5
5
Hello I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted That ...
That is also true. Sometimes I wonder if it really is for me though
I've had to deal with collections before when I was in bad financial condition. The person on the other line was really helpful though. She was understanding,
I've had to deal with collections before when I was in bad financial condition. The person on the other line was really helpful though. She was understanding, It may not be for you. I think you should think about the pros and cons of keeping your position. It might make things clearer for you.
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
2,042
surprised
0.000896
0.000192
0.001126
0.000512
0.006497
0.001249
0.989528
172
9
anxiety
job_crisis
I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.
5
1
5
5
Hello I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted That ...
That is true. Maybe I just need to sit down and really think about it
I wouldn't stay if it really impacts your mental health in a negative way. Still, you may need to zoom out and see the bigger picture: that you provide a needed service and you do it compassionately
I wouldn't stay if it really impacts your mental health in a negative way. Still, you may need to zoom out and see the bigger picture: that you provide a needed service and you do it compassionately
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
2,043
neutral
0.009032
0.000222
0.000667
0.00031
0.769916
0.010022
0.20983
172
10
anxiety
job_crisis
I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.
5
1
5
5
Hello I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted That ...
It really is a big decision Thank you for the different perspective
No doubt, but you know in your heart what is right for you.
No doubt, but you know in your heart what is right for you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,044
surprised
0.017263
0.000129
0.000491
0.093441
0.315089
0.002759
0.570827
172
11
anxiety
job_crisis
I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.
5
1
5
5
Hello I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted That ...
That is true. Thanks again Bye
It's no problem. I hope you can make a decision about this situation and then be at peace with it
It's no problem. I hope you can make a decision about this situation and then be at peace with it Ok, take care
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,045
angry
0.999202
0.000061
0.000023
0.000095
0.000462
0.00008
0.000077
173
1
depression
ongoing_depression
I am feeling very depressed due to work load
4
2
5
4
Hello
Hi, how are you doing?
Hi, how are you doing?
Question
Question
2,046
neutral
0.004226
0.000116
0.000071
0.00422
0.989792
0.000161
0.001414
173
2
depression
ongoing_depression
I am feeling very depressed due to work load
4
2
5
4
Hello
I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation
I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about it?
I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about it?
Question
Question
2,047
sad
0.000181
0.000112
0.000055
0.000025
0.000142
0.999466
0.000021
173
3
depression
ongoing_depression
I am feeling very depressed due to work load
4
2
5
4
Hello I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation
Yes, due to COVID life is messed up. Work load has increase and more responsibility of household.
COVID has really changed a lot of stuff. I understand your frustration. Has your work increased because of COVID conditions. Meaning you have to take extra work, or doing tasks that you dislike to do?
COVID has really changed a lot of stuff. I understand your frustration. Has your work increased because of COVID conditions. Meaning you have to take extra work, or doing tasks that you dislike to do? If you don't feel comfortable elaborating, we can always talk about how you feel and how you can maybe feel a bit bette...
Question, Affirmation and Reassurance
Question
2,048
sad
0.053615
0.002603
0.001957
0.000158
0.017827
0.920309
0.003532
173
4
depression
ongoing_depression
I am feeling very depressed due to work load
4
2
5
4
Hello I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation Yes, due to COVID life is messed up. Work load has increase and more responsibility of household.
Due to the furlough Company has increased my my work load three times. I am not able to take rest. Getting depressed everday.
That sounds really bad. I once worked in a company that placed unnecessary pressure on me, with a low pay. I can relate to how you feel. Do you have to depend on this company for work?
That sounds really bad. I once worked in a company that placed unnecessary pressure on me, with a low pay. I can relate to how you feel. Do you have to depend on this company for work? Sometimes it's really not worth working somewhere if it's really affecting your mental health.
Question, Reflection of feelings
Question
2,049
sad
0.000503
0.000092
0.00019
0.000045
0.000226
0.998911
0.000033
173
5
depression
ongoing_depression
I am feeling very depressed due to work load
4
2
5
4
Hello I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation Yes, due to COVID life is messed up. Work load has increase and more responsibility of household. Due to the furlough Company has increased my my work load three times. I am not able to take rest. Getting depressed e...
They are paying me well but It is hard to take the load beside I have family and kids responsibility. I don't have time for them.
I understand. But I want you to think about this. Your mental health is more important right now because it is affecting you. And how you feel really affects those around you, especially the ones who love you. If you take some time to think about what is more important to you in life right now can help you make a decis...
I understand. But I want you to think about this. Your mental health is more important right now because it is affecting you. And how you feel really affects those around you, especially the ones who love you. If you take some time to think about what is more important to you in life right now can help you make a decis...
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Providing Suggestions
2,050
angry
0.620879
0.006203
0.001105
0.000228
0.008514
0.362046
0.001026
173
6
depression
ongoing_depression
I am feeling very depressed due to work load
4
2
5
4
Hello I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation Yes, due to COVID life is messed up. Work load has increase and more responsibility of household. Due to the furlough Company has increased my my work load three times. I am not able to take rest. Getting depressed e...
I can understand that. But my job is really important right now as my partner lost his in COVID. and he is not doing anything right now not even helping at home. It makes me more low and it is hard to take care of 3 younger kids who are staying at home full time.
Ok, I understand better now. Thank you for explaining. What you are telling should to be something you need to discuss with your partner. Do both of you communicate well with each other? Maybe he is not aware of your situation or how you feel.
Ok, I understand better now. Thank you for explaining. What you are telling should to be something you need to discuss with your partner. Do both of you communicate well with each other? Maybe he is not aware of your situation or how you feel.
Question
Question
2,051
sad
0.003153
0.000353
0.000251
0.000032
0.001433
0.994542
0.000235
173
7
depression
ongoing_depression
I am feeling very depressed due to work load
4
2
5
4
Hello I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation Yes, due to COVID life is messed up. Work load has increase and more responsibility of household. Due to the furlough Company has increased my my work load three times. I am not able to take rest. Getting depressed e...
Nowadays he is so frustrated doesn't like to talk even. Whenever I bring household responsibilities or kids topic, he gets frustrated.
Oh no. I can see from his part he feels upset and frustrated because he may feel useless at the moment. But that's not an excuse to neglect responsibilities. You can maybe make him feel more useful around the house by starting to assign him small tasks. Encouraging him to do stuff and rewarding him with words of encour...
Oh no. I can see from his part he feels upset and frustrated because he may feel useless at the moment. But that's not an excuse to neglect responsibilities. You can maybe make him feel more useful around the house by starting to assign him small tasks. Encouraging him to do stuff and rewarding him with words of encour...
Providing Suggestions, Question
Providing Suggestions
2,052
angry
0.997305
0.000715
0.000065
0.00003
0.000798
0.001032
0.000056
173
8
depression
ongoing_depression
I am feeling very depressed due to work load
4
2
5
4
Hello I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation Yes, due to COVID life is messed up. Work load has increase and more responsibility of household. Due to the furlough Company has increased my my work load three times. I am not able to take rest. Getting depressed e...
Nobody lives near by. Kids are to young to understand. I felt bit good after talking to you. Thanks
I'm sorry if this did not help the situation. But I'm always glad to listen if you want to talk more.
I'm sorry if this did not help the situation. But I'm always glad to listen if you want to talk more. It's a really tough situation, but you're a really strong individual. You've made it this far : )
Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance
Self-disclosure
2,053
happy
0.001337
0.000086
0.000017
0.996703
0.000699
0.000955
0.000203
173
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I am feeling very depressed due to work load
4
2
5
4
Hello I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation Yes, due to COVID life is messed up. Work load has increase and more responsibility of household. Due to the furlough Company has increased my my work load three times. I am not able to take rest. Getting depressed e...
Talking to you made me feel good. Thanks for listening to me. I am feeling light now. You are agreat help. Thank you so much Hope all will come back on place soon
No problem. I really wish you the best and I hope everything works out!
No problem. I really wish you the best and I hope everything works out! Crossing my fingers COVID ends soon.
Others, Others
Others
2,054
happy
0.000052
0.000014
0.000005
0.999779
0.000085
0.000031
0.000034
174
1
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job.
I am really sorry to hear that - it is a terrible time to be out of work isn't it? Unfortunately it is happening to a lot of people
I am really sorry to hear that - it is a terrible time to be out of work isn't it? Unfortunately it is happening to a lot of people
Others
Others
2,056
sad
0.028801
0.000415
0.001856
0.000085
0.000581
0.968184
0.000077
174
2
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job.
Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either.
Yeah, I know an awful lot of people who have been made unemployed and there is very little work out there.
Yeah, I know an awful lot of people who have been made unemployed and there is very little work out there. Have you considered doing gig work online? You can make a bit of money there.
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
2,057
angry
0.606397
0.008903
0.001571
0.000425
0.083764
0.282864
0.016076
174
3
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either.
I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk.
Me too! It's one of my main sources of income these days. Are you looking for other work?
Me too! It's one of my main sources of income these days. Are you looking for other work?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
2,058
neutral
0.003629
0.000933
0.000384
0.007935
0.970362
0.011461
0.005297
174
4
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk.
Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are scams out there right now too.
Happily I have found it to be good and honest work in general so I'd not worry too much :)
Happily I have found it to be good and honest work in general so I'd not worry too much :)
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,059
neutral
0.21086
0.002705
0.001925
0.000908
0.360387
0.142027
0.281188
174
5
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
Yes, I am as I have over 15 years of warehouse experience as well as forklift experience.
What sort of field would you like to move into after the pandemic?
What sort of field would you like to move into after the pandemic?
Question
Question
2,060
neutral
0.005349
0.000056
0.000137
0.001377
0.98785
0.000668
0.004563
174
6
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
I would like to getting back into the warehousing or forklift operator field.
So you feel that your life is just on hiatus at the moment and you want it to get back to the way it was as soon as possible?
So you feel that your life is just on hiatus at the moment and you want it to get back to the way it was as soon as possible?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
2,061
neutral
0.002251
0.000062
0.000234
0.000448
0.995416
0.000345
0.001244
174
7
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
Yes as I am getting behind on bills and its Christmas time so that makes it even tougher when I feel that I am letting my family down by not working currently.
Please do not feel like that! A lot of people are in the same position and it really is not at all your fault.
Please do not feel like that! A lot of people are in the same position and it really is not at all your fault.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,062
sad
0.001142
0.000183
0.000049
0.000078
0.000515
0.997966
0.000067
174
8
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
It's tough not to as underneath the tree, there isn't much.
Have you considered contacting charities that might be able to help with Christmas presents and food?
Have you considered contacting charities that might be able to help with Christmas presents and food?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
2,063
neutral
0.080152
0.000859
0.006078
0.001144
0.493509
0.411279
0.006979
174
9
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
I have but they are strapped at this time and really don't have much to help with currently
(I am so sorry I had to leave the room temporarily, just let me catch up :))
(I am so sorry I had to leave the room temporarily, just let me catch up :))
Others
Others
2,064
sad
0.031445
0.000916
0.001092
0.000083
0.042439
0.92173
0.002295
174
10
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
No worries...as I understand.
Ah yes I hear you , I know that there are a lot of people out there in trouble right now. I think though that you should be able to access some food help?
Ah yes I hear you , I know that there are a lot of people out there in trouble right now. I think though that you should be able to access some food help? I have had to do that myself in the past and I do know that I felt ashamed about it.
Information, Self-disclosure
Information
2,065
neutral
0.007581
0.000044
0.000235
0.001721
0.968607
0.004446
0.017366
174
11
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
I am waiting for some help currently
What sort of help are you waiting for if you do not mind my asking?
What sort of help are you waiting for if you do not mind my asking?
Question
Question
2,066
neutral
0.01053
0.000628
0.121736
0.001781
0.497113
0.359923
0.008289
174
12
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
Yes, it is a hit to the mindset, that's for sure.
Yes, especially if you've never had to rely on that sort of help before. But there is no shame in it!
Yes, especially if you've never had to rely on that sort of help before. But there is no shame in it!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,067
neutral
0.011778
0.000072
0.000205
0.000254
0.946528
0.002103
0.03906
174
13
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
I have talked to charities, gotten together with my church pastor...
I am glad that you have someone outside the family that you can talk to and I hope that they are sympathetic!
I am glad that you have someone outside the family that you can talk to and I hope that they are sympathetic!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,068
neutral
0.002015
0.000704
0.000856
0.007419
0.971776
0.007761
0.009469
174
14
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
True, there is no shame but it is emotionally hard to deal with.
Have you considered any sort of counselling to help you with your situation?
Have you considered any sort of counselling to help you with your situation?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
2,069
sad
0.036778
0.001124
0.001827
0.000317
0.008566
0.949926
0.001462
174
15
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
They are...and thank you for your concern as well.
You are more than welcome. We all need to come together at this time! It's been a very bad year.
You are more than welcome. We all need to come together at this time! It's been a very bad year.
Others
Others
2,070
neutral
0.011142
0.000182
0.000253
0.000483
0.982247
0.000903
0.00479
174
16
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
Not really, although I do talk to my family about this matter.
I hope that I have been able to help you and it was nice to talk!
I hope that I have been able to help you and it was nice to talk!
Others
Others
2,071
neutral
0.120456
0.001857
0.001694
0.000354
0.780463
0.077066
0.018109
174
17
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
It has been and I hope and pray that 2021 is better for us all.
I hope so too. Best wishes!
I hope so too. Best wishes!
Others
Others
2,072
neutral
0.000756
0.000047
0.000098
0.000914
0.997116
0.000466
0.000604
174
18
fear
job_crisis
I have been unemployed for the last month or so and I don't see any real job opportunities out there right now.
4
2
5
5
not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job. Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either. I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk. Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are sc...
You have...thanks for the chat...take care and God Bless....thank you...
you too :)
you too :) (you have to end from your side as I can't :))
Others, Others
Others
2,073
happy
0.000775
0.000017
0.000026
0.999064
0.000041
0.000024
0.000053
175
1
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response.
I'm sorry you're feeling blue. I can understand, the job market is really tough right now.
I'm sorry you're feeling blue. I can understand, the job market is really tough right now. You're not alone in feeling this way, but that doesn't change how hard it can be.
Others, Affirmation and Reassurance
Others
2,075
sad
0.000353
0.00005
0.000092
0.000239
0.000046
0.999208
0.000013
175
2
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response.
Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore
Yeah, sometimes job postings feel fake. In the past, I've found various jobs online. Sometimes it takes a while but if you keeping putting out applications, something good will come your way eventually
Yeah, sometimes job postings feel fake. In the past, I've found various jobs online. Sometimes it takes a while but if you keeping putting out applications, something good will come your way eventually
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
2,076
angry
0.538113
0.001583
0.00054
0.00091
0.186026
0.023674
0.249156
175
3
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore
Thanks for listening and your kind encouragement
It sounds like you're worried about your skillset. Is there any way you can improve or learn new things?
It sounds like you're worried about your skillset. Is there any way you can improve or learn new things?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
2,077
happy
0.00011
0.000011
0.000007
0.999703
0.000097
0.000021
0.00005
175
4
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
I was in physical retail before But now and even after the pandemic will all shift to ecommerce I am not sure if I can acquire new skills
You seem like a bright, open minded person. I think you could learn a lot in a new role. There are many online retailers that could be a great opportunity.
You seem like a bright, open minded person. I think you could learn a lot in a new role. There are many online retailers that could be a great opportunity.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,078
fear
0.000435
0.000191
0.55387
0.000716
0.000983
0.004341
0.439465
175
5
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
My sister works for Amazon and tried to put me forward twice but just no luck.
There are still many brick and mortar stores that will open after the pandemic is over, hopefully that will bring opportunity.
There are still many brick and mortar stores that will open after the pandemic is over, hopefully that will bring opportunity.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
2,079
sad
0.001877
0.000386
0.000146
0.000092
0.00031
0.99716
0.00003
175
6
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
I tried to stay hopeful. how about you? why did you pick to be a supporter? You are very nice by the way.
Are you interested in taking any classes to improve your skillset? There are many free courses available online.
Are you interested in taking any classes to improve your skillset? There are many free courses available online.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
2,080
happy
0.006878
0.000787
0.00009
0.908981
0.077909
0.001838
0.003516
175
7
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
Yes, I used coursea and also learning French.
Thank you, I enjoy talking with people and helping them in any way I can
Thank you, I enjoy talking with people and helping them in any way I can Wow, learning french must be fun. If you can learn another language, I have faith you can learn new skills for a job. That's really great, good for you!
Others, Affirmation and Reassurance
Others
2,081
happy
0.000423
0.000896
0.003001
0.963815
0.00031
0.03133
0.000226
175
8
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
Yes, the Duolingo app is quite good. I worked for a French company for 8 years, just never really get to pick up until now I am unemployed.
Learning new languages can open up new opportunities for work. It is unique to be bilingual. Make sure to put all your unique attributes, such as learning french, on your resume. It might help!
Learning new languages can open up new opportunities for work. It is unique to be bilingual. Make sure to put all your unique attributes, such as learning french, on your resume. It might help!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
2,082
sad
0.000439
0.000081
0.000151
0.000347
0.000196
0.998634
0.000152
175
9
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
Thats a good suggestion, I can't really hold a conversation in French yet. But when I do, I would put that into my skillset. I don't want to fake any skills
Are there any other fields of work you are interested in working besides retail?
Are there any other fields of work you are interested in working besides retail?
Question
Question
2,083
angry
0.644641
0.002221
0.000555
0.000604
0.309272
0.015653
0.027055
175
10
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
I know a lot of people do and basically AI are screening all the resume which I don't think I did a very good job in catering to that. But integrity is very important to me. I am also close to L&D, HR.
I would recommend calling the company or searching for a contact via LinkedIn or just google and trying to make a connection there. LinkedIn has helped me many times in the past when I'm applying for jobs.
I would recommend calling the company or searching for a contact via LinkedIn or just google and trying to make a connection there. LinkedIn has helped me many times in the past when I'm applying for jobs.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
2,084
neutral
0.054531
0.000361
0.000231
0.000201
0.923266
0.005938
0.015473
175
11
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
I am thinking may be I should learn an loan or real estate licenses Thats wonderful to hear for your great experience. I do use LinkedIn but not much on job applications. Did you pay for the premium package on LinkedIn?
Earning a license for loans or for real estate sounds like a great way to add to your skillset.
Earning a license for loans or for real estate sounds like a great way to add to your skillset. No, I do not have the premium package
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Self-disclosure
Restatement or Paraphrasing
2,085
happy
0.00557
0.000286
0.000324
0.733198
0.217739
0.002079
0.040803
175
12
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
I didn't want to pay for it either especially I did the trial before and didn't make too much of a difference
Typically I will search for a company and then look at the employees based on that search. If I see anyone who I have a common connection with or just something similar, I reach out.
Typically I will search for a company and then look at the employees based on that search. If I see anyone who I have a common connection with or just something similar, I reach out.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
2,086
angry
0.838551
0.002855
0.002512
0.000462
0.021162
0.126114
0.008343
175
13
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
Great advice, I am a bit shy to do that. I usually only just reach out if the job listed a HR person contact But so far I haven't get any reply from these people. Perhaps they got a lot of messages.
There is also a site called UpWork. I do not have personal experience with it but have heard it's a good way to make a bit of money while unemployed. They have small jobs for people to complete.
There is also a site called UpWork. I do not have personal experience with it but have heard it's a good way to make a bit of money while unemployed. They have small jobs for people to complete. Yes that may be the case. Hopefully as the vaccine becomes more widespread, the job market will improve.
Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
2,087
sad
0.007725
0.008161
0.266556
0.00325
0.093457
0.572424
0.048427
175
14
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
Yes, I signed up for that too but it was so difficult, most expect you have already earned the "qualifications" in points in order to bind for the job. Yes, will have to stay hopeful. Super nice talking to you. Wishing you a wonderful holiday.
Thank you, it was very nice chatting with you as well. Stay hopeful, I believe you will find an opportunity. Happy Holidays!
Thank you, it was very nice chatting with you as well. Stay hopeful, I believe you will find an opportunity. Happy Holidays!
Others
Others
2,088
happy
0.001646
0.000191
0.000132
0.993007
0.002274
0.002335
0.000414
175
15
shame
job_crisis
Used to have a high paid job but quitted and moved right before pandemic. Now that I couldn't find any job even if I lower significantly my expectations in salary.
4
1
5
5
Feeling blue in my situation Not sure when the situation of job searching would be improved I have applied every week but haven't have a single response. Sometimes I don't even think the job postings online are even real And the pandemic has shifted the markets a lot and i don't think my skills are relevent anymore Tha...
Thanks again.
You're welcome. I hope you are feeling less blue and less anxious about the job market.
You're welcome. I hope you are feeling less blue and less anxious about the job market.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
2,089
neutral
0.244121
0.001357
0.001262
0.017972
0.662995
0.001326
0.070966
177
1
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling
I hear you, it's difficult to feel good when we are struggling. What are you struggling with?
I hear you, it's difficult to feel good when we are struggling. What are you struggling with?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
2,101
sad
0.000275
0.000042
0.000971
0.004123
0.001447
0.992527
0.000614
177
2
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling
I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it
I'm sorry you're sad. Do you know what is making you feel so sad?
I'm sorry you're sad. Do you know what is making you feel so sad?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
2,102
sad
0.00018
0.00007
0.000047
0.000068
0.000191
0.999383
0.000061
177
3
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it
No, there doesn't seem to be any real reason, it's just a general feeling. I think that's why I'm finding it so hard to understand what to do to make myself feel better
I hear you, sometimes life gets overwhelming. What has made you happy in the past?
I hear you, sometimes life gets overwhelming. What has made you happy in the past?
Question
Question
2,103
sad
0.067785
0.002051
0.004265
0.022098
0.214832
0.411082
0.277888
177
4
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it No, there doesn't seem to be any real reason, it's just a general feeling. I think that's why I'm finding it so hard to und...
I guess maybe having something to do in my spare time, I used to go to the gym a lot but now I don't. Maybe I should try doing some exercise in the evenings
Yes sometimes if you focus on a goal, you will feel accomplished, so you can focus on another goal.
Yes sometimes if you focus on a goal, you will feel accomplished, so you can focus on another goal. Do you have a place where you can exercise safely in the evenings?
Providing Suggestions, Question
Providing Suggestions
2,104
sad
0.002383
0.000326
0.000945
0.001462
0.227624
0.744158
0.023101
177
5
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it No, there doesn't seem to be any real reason, it's just a general feeling. I think that's why I'm finding it so hard to und...
Yeah maybe. I think that's part of the problem, I have no goals, I feel like my life has no real purpose or meaning. I do... I luckily live quite close to a nice cycle path that is surrounded by fields and woods
I bet if you try one goal, like exercise, you will be able to start on other goals and start to feel better
I bet if you try one goal, like exercise, you will be able to start on other goals and start to feel better
Information
Information
2,105
sad
0.00268
0.000104
0.000303
0.043733
0.006387
0.944454
0.00234
177
6
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it No, there doesn't seem to be any real reason, it's just a general feeling. I think that's why I'm finding it so hard to und...
Yeah maybe, I'm not very good at running though, I do worry if I find it hard I will feel like I've failed and then won't want to do it again
You don't have to run, you could walk, that's good exercise. The cycle path sounds like a great place to do it at.
You don't have to run, you could walk, that's good exercise. The cycle path sounds like a great place to do it at.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
2,106
sad
0.00019
0.000055
0.001099
0.000074
0.000172
0.998378
0.000033
177
7
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it No, there doesn't seem to be any real reason, it's just a general feeling. I think that's why I'm finding it so hard to und...
Yeah that's true. I do tend to go straight for the most difficult option sometimes! A walk is probably a nice thing to do, especially now the flowers are all starting to come out
And being out in nature has a way of restoring something basic in us.
And being out in nature has a way of restoring something basic in us.
Information
Information
2,107
happy
0.000679
0.000128
0.000018
0.990317
0.007602
0.000342
0.000913
177
8
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it No, there doesn't seem to be any real reason, it's just a general feeling. I think that's why I'm finding it so hard to und...
Yeah, I do like being outside. Sometimes I can go days without leaving the house so it will probably help to go outside
Do you meditate?
Do you meditate?
Question
Question
2,108
neutral
0.002528
0.000067
0.000183
0.004044
0.987988
0.002627
0.002563
177
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it No, there doesn't seem to be any real reason, it's just a general feeling. I think that's why I'm finding it so hard to und...
I don't, it's not something I have ever tried. Do you think it might help?
Yes, it's great to take a few minutes to quiet your mind and appreciate being in the now.
Yes, it's great to take a few minutes to quiet your mind and appreciate being in the now.
Information
Information
2,109
neutral
0.124691
0.000375
0.000582
0.000227
0.753449
0.007961
0.112715
177
10
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it No, there doesn't seem to be any real reason, it's just a general feeling. I think that's why I'm finding it so hard to und...
Maybe I'll give that a try this evening, see if it can help calm me before bed
That sounds like a fantastic plan, another goal. Do you need more advice?
That sounds like a fantastic plan, another goal. Do you need more advice?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,110
neutral
0.000637
0.000041
0.00041
0.00051
0.995771
0.000579
0.002052
177
11
depression
ongoing_depression
I just feel really depressed all the time, I feel like my life has no meaning
4
3
5
5
Not so great today to be honest, have been trying to think of things I can do to make my life having meaning but I am struggling I just feel so sad all the time, I don't know how to snap out of it No, there doesn't seem to be any real reason, it's just a general feeling. I think that's why I'm finding it so hard to und...
No I think I have a lot to think about for now, thank you for your help. I think I will try meditating and go for a nice long walk!
Glad to have helped! Have a great day!
Glad to have helped! Have a great day!
Others
Others
2,111
happy
0.0003
0.000016
0.000018
0.99913
0.000392
0.000079
0.000065
178
1
disgust
problems_with_friends
A friend keeps talking lies
2
1
5
5
good thanks. you?
Doing well it's a bit cold here
Doing well it's a bit cold here
Others
Others
2,113
angry
0.570328
0.000322
0.000224
0.407923
0.016862
0.000277
0.004063
178
2
disgust
problems_with_friends
A friend keeps talking lies
2
1
5
5
good thanks. you?
Oh well, it is a xmas time
Was there anything I can help you with today?
Was there anything I can help you with today?
Question
Question
2,114
neutral
0.048547
0.00263
0.001116
0.012847
0.507218
0.393255
0.034389
178
3
disgust
problems_with_friends
A friend keeps talking lies
2
1
5
5
good thanks. you? Oh well, it is a xmas time
I like cold weather well i have a small traumatic experience my friend was crazy
I am so sorry you had a traumatic experience
I am so sorry you had a traumatic experience If you don't mind me asking what happened?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question
Restatement or Paraphrasing
2,115
sad
0.035324
0.014604
0.045024
0.00227
0.017118
0.882507
0.003153
178
4
disgust
problems_with_friends
A friend keeps talking lies
2
1
5
5
good thanks. you? Oh well, it is a xmas time I like cold weather well i have a small traumatic experience my friend was crazy
she tried to she texted me every morning and started sharing what happened to her. she tried to make me break up with my ex She kept telling lies, something that does not exists
Really what?
Really what?
Question
Question
2,116
angry
0.880478
0.101411
0.00201
0.000071
0.010973
0.004625
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178
5
disgust
problems_with_friends
A friend keeps talking lies
2
1
5
5
good thanks. you? Oh well, it is a xmas time I like cold weather well i have a small traumatic experience my friend was crazy she tried to she texted me every morning and started sharing what happened to her. she tried to make me break up with my ex She kept telling lies, something that does not exists
most things she tells is lie she creates stories
I am so sorry I am sure you did what was right
I am so sorry I am sure you did what was right
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,117
neutral
0.321177
0.00175
0.00036
0.000248
0.660937
0.007325
0.008204
178
6
disgust
problems_with_friends
A friend keeps talking lies
2
1
5
5
good thanks. you? Oh well, it is a xmas time I like cold weather well i have a small traumatic experience my friend was crazy she tried to she texted me every morning and started sharing what happened to her. she tried to make me break up with my ex She kept telling lies, something that does not exists most things she ...
One day I took her to my friends party and thank you One of them said " is she really your friend" " I don't think she is telling truth" it is really scary to have a friend like her
I think we all have one of those friends I know I had one who no matter what happened she had something better happen or something worse.
I think we all have one of those friends I know I had one who no matter what happened she had something better happen or something worse. I mean the only thing you can do is make a choice is her friendship worth anything toxic that comes along with her? Do you know what causes her to be that away? Sometimes there is an...
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
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disgust
problems_with_friends
A friend keeps talking lies
2
1
5
5
good thanks. you? Oh well, it is a xmas time I like cold weather well i have a small traumatic experience my friend was crazy she tried to she texted me every morning and started sharing what happened to her. she tried to make me break up with my ex She kept telling lies, something that does not exists most things she ...
good point. I think she told me how she grew up and such but I think that is a lie as well
Oh, that's not good
Oh, that's not good
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,119
angry
0.50433
0.002642
0.000197
0.000483
0.377274
0.009553
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178
8
disgust
problems_with_friends
A friend keeps talking lies
2
1
5
5
good thanks. you? Oh well, it is a xmas time I like cold weather well i have a small traumatic experience my friend was crazy she tried to she texted me every morning and started sharing what happened to her. she tried to make me break up with my ex She kept telling lies, something that does not exists most things she ...
So it is hard for me to tell what is the underlying cause I think it is a kind of personality problem
I hate to say it but maybe it is time to make a choice if her friendship is worth the problems it brings. Maybe it is just time for a break from each other while you make up your mind.
I hate to say it but maybe it is time to make a choice if her friendship is worth the problems it brings. Maybe it is just time for a break from each other while you make up your mind. Was there anything else I could help you with?
Providing Suggestions, Question
Providing Suggestions
2,120
surprised
0.001304
0.000374
0.002324
0.000372
0.007792
0.009002
0.978833
178
9
disgust
problems_with_friends
A friend keeps talking lies
2
1
5
5
good thanks. you? Oh well, it is a xmas time I like cold weather well i have a small traumatic experience my friend was crazy she tried to she texted me every morning and started sharing what happened to her. she tried to make me break up with my ex She kept telling lies, something that does not exists most things she ...
I agree yes Well I no longer hang with her so that is good I am good, it was good to talk about it thanks for your advice
It sounds like the right choice.
It sounds like the right choice. Your so welcome it was great talking to you. Have a great day
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,121
happy
0.002502
0.000033
0.000011
0.997127
0.00018
0.000084
0.000062
179
1
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Not having enough money to pay my bills.
4
2
5
5
Hi, I'm stressed and anxious today
Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. What's going on?
Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. What's going on?
Question
Question
2,123
sad
0.045327
0.000496
0.205978
0.010508
0.041178
0.694136
0.002378
179
2
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Not having enough money to pay my bills.
4
2
5
5
Hi, I'm stressed and anxious today
Just financial problems
There's a lot of that going on these days, it can be rough. I know how you feel. Do you have any plans you want to put into play to solve the problem?
There's a lot of that going on these days, it can be rough. I know how you feel. Do you have any plans you want to put into play to solve the problem?
Question
Question
2,124
sad
0.012945
0.000416
0.002768
0.000222
0.074606
0.904521
0.004522
179
3
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Not having enough money to pay my bills.
4
2
5
5
Hi, I'm stressed and anxious today Just financial problems
I'm attempting to sue money and pay off my debts and hopefully everything will get sorted out save*
It seems like you've got some good plans in the making. So you're trying to save and reduce your debts as much as possible right?
It seems like you've got some good plans in the making. So you're trying to save and reduce your debts as much as possible right?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
2,125
neutral
0.001423
0.000042
0.000526
0.000374
0.99462
0.002454
0.000561
179
4
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Not having enough money to pay my bills.
4
2
5
5
Hi, I'm stressed and anxious today Just financial problems I'm attempting to sue money and pay off my debts and hopefully everything will get sorted out save*
Yes
That's great to hear. Do you have anyone close to you that can help you out in a bind?
That's great to hear. Do you have anyone close to you that can help you out in a bind?
Question
Question
2,126
neutral
0.005823
0.000065
0.000159
0.002749
0.984578
0.000858
0.005769
179
5
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Not having enough money to pay my bills.
4
2
5
5
Hi, I'm stressed and anxious today Just financial problems I'm attempting to sue money and pay off my debts and hopefully everything will get sorted out save* Yes
My mom has helped loan me money to pay bills that are about to be cut off. Just a small bit though. It has helped a lot though
That's excellent! It's always great to have someone you can depend on. I feel like that gave you some relief.
That's excellent! It's always great to have someone you can depend on. I feel like that gave you some relief.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
2,127
sad
0.001964
0.000324
0.008329
0.002306
0.005308
0.980824
0.000944
179
6
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Not having enough money to pay my bills.
4
2
5
5
Hi, I'm stressed and anxious today Just financial problems I'm attempting to sue money and pay off my debts and hopefully everything will get sorted out save* Yes My mom has helped loan me money to pay bills that are about to be cut off. Just a small bit though. It has helped a lot though
It has for sure. Another thing that's bothered me is my dad passed away 3-almost 4 years ago. He was my rock and would help me out in any situation. So in hard times like I'm in right now, if he was still here I know he would help me.
Oh I'm so sorry to hear that. I bet that makes things tougher. I have no doubt you'll overcome these hurdles in due time. Nothing lasts forever, that includes bad times.
Oh I'm so sorry to hear that. I bet that makes things tougher. I have no doubt you'll overcome these hurdles in due time. Nothing lasts forever, that includes bad times.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,128
sad
0.000241
0.000045
0.000695
0.00014
0.003077
0.995347
0.000454
179
7
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Not having enough money to pay my bills.
4
2
5
5
Hi, I'm stressed and anxious today Just financial problems I'm attempting to sue money and pay off my debts and hopefully everything will get sorted out save* Yes My mom has helped loan me money to pay bills that are about to be cut off. Just a small bit though. It has helped a lot though It has for sure. Another thing...
Yes exactly, thank you :)
Are you working right now? And if so is the job secure and pay pretty well?
Are you working right now? And if so is the job secure and pay pretty well?
Question
Question
2,129
happy
0.000121
0.000017
0.000006
0.999726
0.000062
0.000018
0.00005
179
8
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Not having enough money to pay my bills.
4
2
5
5
Hi, I'm stressed and anxious today Just financial problems I'm attempting to sue money and pay off my debts and hopefully everything will get sorted out save* Yes My mom has helped loan me money to pay bills that are about to be cut off. Just a small bit though. It has helped a lot though It has for sure. Another thing...
Yes, I am working right now. Thankfully it is secure and pays alright. My boyfriend lives with me and does side work. So he helps when he can.
Oh that's good! I'm in the same situation. My job pays pretty well and my boyfriend helps. We're both working from home right now with everything going on.
Oh that's good! I'm in the same situation. My job pays pretty well and my boyfriend helps. We're both working from home right now with everything going on.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
2,130
happy
0.003652
0.000346
0.000972
0.631727
0.348432
0.00803
0.006841
179
9
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Not having enough money to pay my bills.
4
2
5
5
Hi, I'm stressed and anxious today Just financial problems I'm attempting to sue money and pay off my debts and hopefully everything will get sorted out save* Yes My mom has helped loan me money to pay bills that are about to be cut off. Just a small bit though. It has helped a lot though It has for sure. Another thing...
Yes, that's another reason Im on MTurk. Trying to make some extra! I wish I could find a part time job working from home. I did work for the Census but its ended
Well I have no doubt everything will work out great for you, just keep your head up. It's been so nice talking to you, I hope I've been of some help.
Well I have no doubt everything will work out great for you, just keep your head up. It's been so nice talking to you, I hope I've been of some help.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,131
neutral
0.000647
0.000055
0.000067
0.000467
0.997755
0.000625
0.000383
180
1
anxiety
job_crisis
Work is extremely stressful. I work 12 hour days and I feel like I have no time to do the things I like.
5
4
5
5
HI
Hi there! How are you doing?
Hi there! How are you doing?
Question
Question
2,132
neutral
0.002236
0.000093
0.00027
0.002066
0.993641
0.000249
0.001444
180
2
anxiety
job_crisis
Work is extremely stressful. I work 12 hour days and I feel like I have no time to do the things I like.
5
4
5
5
HI
I'm doing good, hbu?
I'm good! It's a beautiful evening where I am. What's on your mind?
I'm good! It's a beautiful evening where I am. What's on your mind?
Question
Question
2,133
happy
0.000844
0.000028
0.000014
0.998492
0.000423
0.00013
0.000069
180
3
anxiety
job_crisis
Work is extremely stressful. I work 12 hour days and I feel like I have no time to do the things I like.
5
4
5
5
HI I'm doing good, hbu?
Work is becoming a burden. I've just graduated college and my first ever job is stressful!
Oh wow! Well first of all, I want to say that I definitely empathize with you. My first job out of college was one of the most stressful times of my life. It does get better though.
Oh wow! Well first of all, I want to say that I definitely empathize with you. My first job out of college was one of the most stressful times of my life. It does get better though. What is stressful about your job?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,134
sad
0.0227
0.0004
0.035437
0.000985
0.00086
0.939184
0.000435
180
4
anxiety
job_crisis
Work is extremely stressful. I work 12 hour days and I feel like I have no time to do the things I like.
5
4
5
5
HI I'm doing good, hbu? Work is becoming a burden. I've just graduated college and my first ever job is stressful!
Everyone I've reached out to has said the same. There are several factors that make my job stressful. The biggest issues are working from home and unrealistic deadlines.
Oh wow, that sounds really hard, and I can only imagine it is so difficult to be breaking into a new career entirely working from home. Even people I know who have been in their jobs a long time are struggling with remote work. It is hard if your company is not being flexible on deadlines during this time.
Oh wow, that sounds really hard, and I can only imagine it is so difficult to be breaking into a new career entirely working from home. Even people I know who have been in their jobs a long time are struggling with remote work. It is hard if your company is not being flexible on deadlines during this time. Have you fou...
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
2,135
sad
0.379187
0.000806
0.00591
0.000363
0.002482
0.610889
0.000363
180
5
anxiety
job_crisis
Work is extremely stressful. I work 12 hour days and I feel like I have no time to do the things I like.
5
4
5
5
HI I'm doing good, hbu? Work is becoming a burden. I've just graduated college and my first ever job is stressful! Everyone I've reached out to has said the same. There are several factors that make my job stressful. The biggest issues are working from home and unrealistic deadlines.
It has been very hard in general, training has been a nightmare! I've tried to develop some coping strategies but they seem to fly out the window when i'm really stressed. I tend to over eat in these situations aswell.
I totally feel that! I think that has been a struggle for me during quarantine too - the "quarantine fifteen!" I have had to look for other forms of comfort to keep that at bay ... but I did bake cookies tonight :)
I totally feel that! I think that has been a struggle for me during quarantine too - the "quarantine fifteen!" I have had to look for other forms of comfort to keep that at bay ... but I did bake cookies tonight :) I know I'm just an mturk rando, but the one thing I know that has helped almost everyone I know with care...
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
2,136
sad
0.059205
0.001488
0.130809
0.003617
0.003567
0.800229
0.001085
180
6
anxiety
job_crisis
Work is extremely stressful. I work 12 hour days and I feel like I have no time to do the things I like.
5
4
5
5
HI I'm doing good, hbu? Work is becoming a burden. I've just graduated college and my first ever job is stressful! Everyone I've reached out to has said the same. There are several factors that make my job stressful. The biggest issues are working from home and unrealistic deadlines. It has been very hard in general, t...
Haha you're a good rando. I would love to have someone to be a guide in my career but most of my family are blue collar workers. Whenever I vent they think its a joke because my job is cushy and pays extremely well. I'm honestly the snowflake in the family.
Oh say no more! I totally get that just based on my own background as well. The only thing I could recommend is to cast a wide net when thinking about mentorship... maybe even a former professor in your field could recommend a former student who graduated a few years before you. Just a thought, but I know for myself, i...
Oh say no more! I totally get that just based on my own background as well. The only thing I could recommend is to cast a wide net when thinking about mentorship... maybe even a former professor in your field could recommend a former student who graduated a few years before you. Just a thought, but I know for myself, i...
Providing Suggestions, Question
Providing Suggestions
2,137
neutral
0.005506
0.001605
0.000111
0.209029
0.779388
0.00082
0.00354
180
7
anxiety
job_crisis
Work is extremely stressful. I work 12 hour days and I feel like I have no time to do the things I like.
5
4
5
5
HI I'm doing good, hbu? Work is becoming a burden. I've just graduated college and my first ever job is stressful! Everyone I've reached out to has said the same. There are several factors that make my job stressful. The biggest issues are working from home and unrealistic deadlines. It has been very hard in general, t...
You definitely given me some food for thought, I didn't think this would go so well lol Makes me feel a little less lonely today :)
I really enjoyed talking with you! Also, I just have to say, we are all having such a hard time with this pandemic. It's not just you - you aren't broken. You are doing your best as we alll are :)
I really enjoyed talking with you! Also, I just have to say, we are all having such a hard time with this pandemic. It's not just you - you aren't broken. You are doing your best as we alll are :)
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,138
sad
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0.000025
0.002347
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0.000098
180
8
anxiety
job_crisis
Work is extremely stressful. I work 12 hour days and I feel like I have no time to do the things I like.
5
4
5
5
HI I'm doing good, hbu? Work is becoming a burden. I've just graduated college and my first ever job is stressful! Everyone I've reached out to has said the same. There are several factors that make my job stressful. The biggest issues are working from home and unrealistic deadlines. It has been very hard in general, t...
omg don't make me cry, I'm tearing up rn. I just want to thank you for the tips!
You are totally welcome! I've been where you are (minus the pandemic). You will make it, and you really will adjust to the stress and also find better jobs over time.
You are totally welcome! I've been where you are (minus the pandemic). You will make it, and you really will adjust to the stress and also find better jobs over time.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
2,139
happy
0.045877
0.000895
0.000577
0.720833
0.024062
0.181514
0.026241
180
9
anxiety
job_crisis
Work is extremely stressful. I work 12 hour days and I feel like I have no time to do the things I like.
5
4
5
5
HI I'm doing good, hbu? Work is becoming a burden. I've just graduated college and my first ever job is stressful! Everyone I've reached out to has said the same. There are several factors that make my job stressful. The biggest issues are working from home and unrealistic deadlines. It has been very hard in general, t...
Thank you so much! Maybe our paths will cross again on Mturk. Have a goodnight/day where ever you are!
I hope so! Best of luck to you... straight outta Austin, TX :)
I hope so! Best of luck to you... straight outta Austin, TX :)
Others
Others
2,140
happy
0.000088
0.000017
0.000058
0.998741
0.000966
0.000034
0.000096
181
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk
4
2
5
5
I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk.
I'm sorry to hear things aren't going to well. What's the problem in a nutshell?
I'm sorry to hear things aren't going to well. What's the problem in a nutshell?
Question
Question
2,142
neutral
0.002371
0.000182
0.00013
0.008615
0.978548
0.002659
0.007495
181
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk
4
2
5
5
I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk.
I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/
Breakups can be hard, I can understand your frustration. Five years is a long time to have a relationship and then end.
Breakups can be hard, I can understand your frustration. Five years is a long time to have a relationship and then end.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
2,143
sad
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0.000051
0.000038
0.00005
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181
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk
4
2
5
5
I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk. I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/
I caught her cheating on me.
I'm sorry to hear that. That's hard to forgive and move on from that.
I'm sorry to hear that. That's hard to forgive and move on from that.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
2,144
sad
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0.001316
0.000136
0.00265
0.985261
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181
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk
4
2
5
5
I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk. I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/ I caught her cheating on me.
I'm trying to just move on but I feel so insulted. I'm mad then sad back and forth, over and over.
I find that when I have a very painful situation, I try to only thing about it for a certain amount of time. Then I make a list of things to do so I can be occupied to not think about it.
I find that when I have a very painful situation, I try to only thing about it for a certain amount of time. Then I make a list of things to do so I can be occupied to not think about it.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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angry
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181
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk
4
2
5
5
I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk. I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/ I caught her cheating on me. I'm trying to just move on but I feel so insulted. I'm mad then sad back and forth, over and over.
Yes, but my whole life was upended. My living situation, my friend circle is broken up over this. I don't know how to move on. Any suggestions?
Getting over a breakup will take time? Have you ever heard of DABDA? Denial (I can't believe this happened!) Anger (we all know that) Bargaining (If only I had done that, or if only - trying to make it FEEL better by imagining other scenarios - doesn't really work) Depression - sadness, then Acceptance -- we go in and ...
Getting over a breakup will take time? Have you ever heard of DABDA? Denial (I can't believe this happened!) Anger (we all know that) Bargaining (If only I had done that, or if only - trying to make it FEEL better by imagining other scenarios - doesn't really work) Depression - sadness, then Acceptance -- we go in and ...
Information
Information
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0.059362
0.795695
0.108727
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I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk
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I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk. I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/ I caught her cheating on me. I'm trying to just move on but I feel so insulted. I'm mad then sad back and forth, over and over. Yes, but my whole life was upended. My living situation, my friend circle is broken up over t...
No, but those sound like the typical stages of grief. I guess I'm in anger. I have no interest in barbagining.
I would make a list of things you have always wanted to do and then just BRAINSTORM any idea, no idea is too out there -- learn to ice skate, learn to play the ukulele, sign up for dance lessons, join the gym, go to a singles group at church, visit the elderly, volunteer somewhere.
I would make a list of things you have always wanted to do and then just BRAINSTORM any idea, no idea is too out there -- learn to ice skate, learn to play the ukulele, sign up for dance lessons, join the gym, go to a singles group at church, visit the elderly, volunteer somewhere.
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I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk. I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/ I caught her cheating on me. I'm trying to just move on but I feel so insulted. I'm mad then sad back and forth, over and over. Yes, but my whole life was upended. My living situation, my friend circle is broken up over t...
I think I need to focus on exercise. Just get my body and mind healthy and full of energy. What do you think?
I also find it helpful not only to limit how much I dwell on my pain, but make sure I reach out to help someone else. I will tell you, that is the secret to happiness. Maybe help a neighbor with groceries or hanging lights. Old people (me) love help, bake something or call your aunt or uncle.
I also find it helpful not only to limit how much I dwell on my pain, but make sure I reach out to help someone else. I will tell you, that is the secret to happiness. Maybe help a neighbor with groceries or hanging lights. Old people (me) love help, bake something or call your aunt or uncle.
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I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk
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I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk. I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/ I caught her cheating on me. I'm trying to just move on but I feel so insulted. I'm mad then sad back and forth, over and over. Yes, but my whole life was upended. My living situation, my friend circle is broken up over t...
True, but it's hard not to dwell. It's not like I have a choice. It overcomes me.
I agree, get healthy and try to help others. One thing about feelings is that if you change your mind, you can change your feelings, it might happen slowly, but if you put your mind off of it, it will help. Not saying NEVER feel the emotions, but feelings are the tail of the dog, not the dog itself, You do not have to ...
I agree, get healthy and try to help others. One thing about feelings is that if you change your mind, you can change your feelings, it might happen slowly, but if you put your mind off of it, it will help. Not saying NEVER feel the emotions, but feelings are the tail of the dog, not the dog itself, You do not have to ...
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I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk
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I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk. I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/ I caught her cheating on me. I'm trying to just move on but I feel so insulted. I'm mad then sad back and forth, over and over. Yes, but my whole life was upended. My living situation, my friend circle is broken up over t...
It's hard not to just drown myself in booze and cannabis.
A healthy balance of self care, and other centered behavior and know this will take time. I just takes time.
A healthy balance of self care, and other centered behavior and know this will take time. I just takes time.
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I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk
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I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk. I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/ I caught her cheating on me. I'm trying to just move on but I feel so insulted. I'm mad then sad back and forth, over and over. Yes, but my whole life was upended. My living situation, my friend circle is broken up over t...
Time heals all wounds for sure
I understand, but those are choices that really, long term, are not for your benefit. Her cheating was a reflection on HER bad character, not yours. You have to love yourself and try to fight this.
I understand, but those are choices that really, long term, are not for your benefit. Her cheating was a reflection on HER bad character, not yours. You have to love yourself and try to fight this.
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I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk. I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/ I caught her cheating on me. I'm trying to just move on but I feel so insulted. I'm mad then sad back and forth, over and over. Yes, but my whole life was upended. My living situation, my friend circle is broken up over t...
Are you Ai or a human mturker?
I'm a human. I live in KY, retired counselor! hhahaha I prayed for someone to encourage.
I'm a human. I live in KY, retired counselor! hhahaha I prayed for someone to encourage.
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