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shame
problems_with_friends
My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.
3
1
5
5
Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today? For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking. Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman. Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands ...
Yes, they are all very upset with her. I am being the most patient but I don't like it.
As the saying goes, good things come to those who are patient! Time heals almost everything
As the saying goes, good things come to those who are patient! Time heals almost everything
Information
Information
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shame
problems_with_friends
My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.
3
1
5
5
Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today? For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking. Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman. Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands ...
I agree. I just feel like the behavior is so destructive and erratic.
Maybe your friend doesn't realized the affect her actions has had on the people around her. Have you tried talking about your feelings with her personally?
Maybe your friend doesn't realized the affect her actions has had on the people around her. Have you tried talking about your feelings with her personally?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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7
shame
problems_with_friends
My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.
3
1
5
5
Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today? For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking. Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman. Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands ...
I have. She's very dismissive.
If she doesn't care about how you feel maybe it would be best if you ended your friendship with her
If she doesn't care about how you feel maybe it would be best if you ended your friendship with her
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,063
angry
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0.000296
0.000284
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8
shame
problems_with_friends
My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.
3
1
5
5
Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today? For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking. Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman. Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands ...
I have considered that. My husband said the same. It's tough.
Yes I understand. I believe in you and your strength to overcome this!
Yes I understand. I believe in you and your strength to overcome this!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,064
neutral
0.010434
0.00011
0.001246
0.000623
0.961559
0.018861
0.007166
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9
shame
problems_with_friends
My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.
3
1
5
5
Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today? For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking. Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman. Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands ...
Thank you for the encouragement! I know my family is what is important but this all just threw me for a loop.
Try focusing on your family then, rather than other people. Maybe that will help you
Try focusing on your family then, rather than other people. Maybe that will help you
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,065
surprised
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0.00136
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259
10
shame
problems_with_friends
My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.
3
1
5
5
Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today? For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking. Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman. Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands ...
I think that's what I have to do. Thank you for the advice.
Other than that, are you okay?
Other than that, are you okay?
Question
Question
3,066
neutral
0.021392
0.000121
0.000781
0.015423
0.930437
0.000823
0.031023
260
1
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help.
Hi there! How can I help you today?
Hi there! How can I help you today?
Others
Others
3,067
neutral
0.005972
0.000167
0.001504
0.003753
0.975983
0.003425
0.009195
260
2
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help.
I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
Question
Question
3,068
sad
0.001193
0.000165
0.000155
0.00012
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0.997451
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260
3
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help. I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,069
sad
0.442284
0.00118
0.001853
0.000804
0.022234
0.51684
0.014806
260
4
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help. I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work. I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough. Do you work in the mornings?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,070
sad
0.208818
0.003117
0.000928
0.000557
0.009629
0.772803
0.004147
260
5
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help. I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work. I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry. I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is jus...
Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day. Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
3,071
fear
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0.000118
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260
6
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help. I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work. I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry. I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is jus...
Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting. Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month. For a small getaway.
Ah, that could be exactly what you need!
Ah, that could be exactly what you need! I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,072
neutral
0.014675
0.000438
0.006088
0.049442
0.816939
0.106019
0.0064
260
7
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help. I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work. I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry. I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is jus...
Yes, I think that will help. And time spent reading. What do you suggest until then?
Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to
Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,073
neutral
0.005706
0.00005
0.000273
0.00046
0.98192
0.000788
0.010803
260
8
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help. I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work. I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry. I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is jus...
Yes, that does help me feel good. I wonder if morning exercise might help?
For example, packing a bit of clothes each night or planning which places you'll visit
For example, packing a bit of clothes each night or planning which places you'll visit Yes! Morning exercise will definitely help eliminate stress and make you feel better about your health and more comfortable Take it slow and don't forget to breathe :)
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Providing Suggestions
3,074
happy
0.000134
0.00006
0.000077
0.992641
0.002357
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0.004457
260
9
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help. I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work. I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry. I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is jus...
Yes, that sounds nice. Breathing is great! I have been doing breathing meditation, which helps. THank you for the support.
No problem! Is there anything else I can help with today?
No problem! Is there anything else I can help with today?
Others
Others
3,075
happy
0.000184
0.000015
0.000018
0.999089
0.000499
0.000034
0.000162
260
10
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help. I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work. I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry. I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is jus...
No, I think that is all! Thank you for everything!
Have a great day and no problem!
Have a great day and no problem!
Others
Others
3,076
happy
0.000437
0.000019
0.00001
0.999402
0.000055
0.000028
0.000049
260
11
depression
job_crisis
I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.
5
3
4
4
Hello, I hope you can help. I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work. I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry. I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is jus...
You too!
I will, thanks
I will, thanks
Others
Others
3,077
happy
0.00049
0.000046
0.000009
0.998015
0.001207
0.000043
0.000191
261
1
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello?
Hi
Hi
Information
Information
3,078
neutral
0.012807
0.000084
0.000221
0.003639
0.976341
0.000222
0.006686
261
2
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello?
I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
What can I help you with tonight>
What can I help you with tonight>
Question
Question
3,079
sad
0.001399
0.000815
0.000317
0.019991
0.029815
0.945363
0.002299
261
3
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,080
sad
0.000155
0.000089
0.000047
0.000045
0.000216
0.999404
0.000045
261
4
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
Yeah
I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,081
neutral
0.008014
0.000139
0.000164
0.007107
0.975777
0.001023
0.007776
261
5
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time. Yeah
I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,082
sad
0.000261
0.000064
0.000098
0.001198
0.000461
0.997721
0.000197
261
6
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time. Yeah I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
How did you start to feel better?
I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.
I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,083
happy
0.000218
0.000108
0.000039
0.981182
0.014106
0.000299
0.004049
261
7
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time. Yeah I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past. How did you start to feel ...
I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't want to do anything right now.
I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this!
I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,084
angry
0.876498
0.002054
0.001622
0.000536
0.028686
0.071705
0.018899
261
8
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time. Yeah I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past. How did you start to feel ...
Thanks, I appreciate it. What do you suggest I should do to begin with?
Have you talked to her since she broke up with you? Sometimes it helps to talk with your ex so you can get closure on the situation.
Have you talked to her since she broke up with you? Sometimes it helps to talk with your ex so you can get closure on the situation.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,085
happy
0.029036
0.000161
0.000364
0.92336
0.042222
0.00014
0.004717
261
9
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time. Yeah I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past. How did you start to feel ...
No I haven't talked to her. I think that would only make me feel worse right now.
I understand that, have you tried to talk to a friend or family member who has gone through the same thing?
I understand that, have you tried to talk to a friend or family member who has gone through the same thing?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,086
sad
0.049052
0.009392
0.001039
0.000296
0.024827
0.91087
0.004524
261
10
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time. Yeah I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past. How did you start to feel ...
No, I haven't yet but that is a good idea.
Doing that definitely helped me too!
Doing that definitely helped me too!
Others
Others
3,087
neutral
0.058957
0.000242
0.000185
0.00081
0.877635
0.002788
0.059384
261
11
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time. Yeah I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past. How did you start to feel ...
I was thinking about going to a gym.
I think that would definitely help too!
I think that would definitely help too!
Others
Others
3,088
neutral
0.002036
0.000181
0.006318
0.009615
0.965735
0.006924
0.009192
261
12
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time. Yeah I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past. How did you start to feel ...
I want to start dating in the future but I am afraid.
I felt the same way for a while after my breakup as well, but after I took my time it was good to get back into the dating game.
I felt the same way for a while after my breakup as well, but after I took my time it was good to get back into the dating game.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,089
fear
0.00004
0.000059
0.999032
0.000098
0.000258
0.000423
0.00009
261
13
depression
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.
4
2
4
4
Hello? I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well. My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time. Yeah I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past. How did you start to feel ...
I appreciate the help.
No problem! I am glad I was able to help you tonight,
No problem! I am glad I was able to help you tonight,
Others
Others
3,090
neutral
0.03181
0.000481
0.000649
0.081926
0.759547
0.013641
0.111946
265
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.
4
2
4
4
Hello there.
Hello, how can I help you today?
Hello, how can I help you today?
Others
Others
3,120
neutral
0.004513
0.000117
0.00008
0.005315
0.988543
0.000168
0.001263
265
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.
4
2
4
4
Hello there.
I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
Question
Question
3,121
sad
0.000398
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I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.
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Hello there. I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
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I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.
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Hello there. I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life About three months ago. I have started to miss her ...
Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
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I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.
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Hello there. I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life About three months ago. I have started to miss her ...
I must admit it was only when I saw her with someone else that I started to really miss her. do you think I'm just feeling jealous because we were so close and now I've seen her with someone else?
I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.
I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.
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I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.
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Hello there. I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life About three months ago. I have started to miss her ...
I think you might be right actually. I didn't really miss her until I saw her with someone else. is this normal I don't know what to do about this?
I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times.
I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times.
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Hello there. I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life About three months ago. I have started to miss her ...
Well that's good to know. I'm not normally the jealous type but I suppose we did have good times and I want her to be happy I suppose. I do think I've made a mistake though now I've thought about it!
I can tell you are a caring person and really do care about your ex-girlfriend happiness. I'm sure you will do the right thing but you need to think of yourself.
I can tell you are a caring person and really do care about your ex-girlfriend happiness. I'm sure you will do the right thing but you need to think of yourself.
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Hello there. I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life About three months ago. I have started to miss her ...
do you think I should try and get in touch with her and tell her how I feel?
I think you need to think carefully about what you really want. If you feel like this then I would suggest you do talk to her about it, however you may be best talking it through with a friend or family member first
I think you need to think carefully about what you really want. If you feel like this then I would suggest you do talk to her about it, however you may be best talking it through with a friend or family member first
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I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.
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Hello there. I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life About three months ago. I have started to miss her ...
That's not a bad idea. I think I will speak to one of my friends about this ,he's normally pretty good with that kind of thing.
yes it's really good to talk it through with someone first just really understand if trying to restart your old relationship is the right thing to do for you.
yes it's really good to talk it through with someone first just really understand if trying to restart your old relationship is the right thing to do for you.
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Providing Suggestions
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I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.
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Hello there. I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life About three months ago. I have started to miss her ...
I think I conversation has actually helped me understand my motivations a little better. you have also given me some good suggestions so thank you for that
I'm happy to hear that.
I'm happy to hear that. you seem like a really decent person and I'm sure you will make the right decision and I'm positive you can get past this!
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I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.
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Hello there. I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life About three months ago. I have started to miss her ...
Thanks for the conversation. It really helped.
You are very welcome.
You are very welcome.
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Hello
Hi there, how are you doing?
Hi there, how are you doing?
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Hello
Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
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Hello Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
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Hello Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today. yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.
Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.
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Hello Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today. yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop. It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked.
I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help.
I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help.
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Hello Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today. yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop. It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still. Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked.
It is just hard, waking up in the middle of the night with pain and not being able to go back to sleep. It drives me nuts some days and I just stay away from everyone.
from what I can tell you have tried many Solutions. I can see that you are committed to finding something that can work for you. personally I think it is only a matter of time until you find the right combination for you if you can stay positive.
from what I can tell you have tried many Solutions. I can see that you are committed to finding something that can work for you. personally I think it is only a matter of time until you find the right combination for you if you can stay positive.
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Hello Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today. yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop. It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still. Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked. It is jus...
I try to hide the pain from my family because the man of the house is suppose to be strong and provide for his family. I have a very loving wife and a set of twin boys that just turned 13. I am blessed in so many ways but I still seem to have to suffer to enjoy it.
if I'm being honest I can relate to this. I have a young son and a small family myself. I have had problems with my hearing and tinnitus that is manageable at the moment but constant. in feels like nobody understands just how difficult this can be.
if I'm being honest I can relate to this. I have a young son and a small family myself. I have had problems with my hearing and tinnitus that is manageable at the moment but constant. in feels like nobody understands just how difficult this can be.
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Hello Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today. yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop. It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still. Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked. It is jus...
I feel your pain, I have came a long way in managing the pain mentally. I try to block it out and keep my mind busy to not think about it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
ok so I assume you spoken to many medical professionals about this. have you had a diagnosis?
ok so I assume you spoken to many medical professionals about this. have you had a diagnosis?
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Hello Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today. yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop. It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still. Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked. It is jus...
I have sever spinal stenosis and a deteriorating bone disease. The surgeon said it was worse than he thought and he done all he could. He was afraid to go any deeper because I might not walk again if he did.
you have clearly been through a really tough time and my heart goes out to you at how well you are dealing with this. you seem like a very positive person and I appreciate how hard this must be a times. you also care great deal for your family and they're helping you to get through this. I think you are strong and can ...
you have clearly been through a really tough time and my heart goes out to you at how well you are dealing with this. you seem like a very positive person and I appreciate how hard this must be a times. you also care great deal for your family and they're helping you to get through this. I think you are strong and can ...
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Hello Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today. yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop. It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still. Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked. It is jus...
Thanks for the words of encouragement. It makes me feel better knowing that people in the real world still care about others and how they feel.
if I am being completely honest I think you are incredibly strong. Have you seen a pain management specialist that can help you block out pain? also there may be new advances in pain relief so it would be a good idea to keep up with advances in managing pain. You may be able to take part in studies for new developments...
if I am being completely honest I think you are incredibly strong. Have you seen a pain management specialist that can help you block out pain? also there may be new advances in pain relief so it would be a good idea to keep up with advances in managing pain. You may be able to take part in studies for new developments...
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Hello Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today. yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop. It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still. Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked. It is jus...
Sounds great, I will check into it with my doctor. Have a nice day.
take care it was nice talking to you
take care it was nice talking to you
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when did you start having these feelings?
when did you start having these feelings?
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about 3 months ago
is there something specific that began around that time?
is there something specific that began around that time?
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i am unsure if my marriage will work we fight and argue all the time and don't get along about 3 months ago
i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.
That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.
That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.
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im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you
No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.
No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.
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i am unsure if my marriage will work we fight and argue all the time and don't get along about 3 months ago i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online. im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you
yes its crazy but i am praying my way though it all
have you considered discussing your feelings with your husband?
have you considered discussing your feelings with your husband?
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i am unsure if my marriage will work we fight and argue all the time and don't get along about 3 months ago i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online. im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you yes its crazy but i am praying my way thoug...
i have but i feel like he does not care enough to change
I have done a lot of soul searching over the past months and i found small changes in my perspective helped diffuse my stress. I set aside some time to talk to friends and we all share some laughs and some tears and it truly helps.
I have done a lot of soul searching over the past months and i found small changes in my perspective helped diffuse my stress. I set aside some time to talk to friends and we all share some laughs and some tears and it truly helps.
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that is a really good idea. i could especially use some laughs during this time. thank you for that advice you have been helpful god bless you
There is no need to thank me. you are doing what many are trying to do. I pray it all works out for you and your family.
There is no need to thank me. you are doing what many are trying to do. I pray it all works out for you and your family.
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thank you so much. its been a very rough year. its like things just keep happening and i have no control
Please consider trying to reconnect with your husband. Simple little kindnesses do so much for the spirit.
Please consider trying to reconnect with your husband. Simple little kindnesses do so much for the spirit.
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yes i can try and do that. i admit i have not been that nice to him recently
Every day is a fresh start. kindness from you will be returned.
Every day is a fresh start. kindness from you will be returned.
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i am unsure if my marriage will work we fight and argue all the time and don't get along about 3 months ago i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online. im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you yes its crazy but i am praying my way thoug...
i like that. today is a fresh start and a new day
Friends, family and faith are what keep us grounded. It sounds like you have all of those. Please remember that each is there to support you.
Friends, family and faith are what keep us grounded. It sounds like you have all of those. Please remember that each is there to support you.
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hello
Hi how are you ?
Hi how are you ?
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5
5
hello
Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
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I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out
4
1
5
5
hello Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
What do you recommend i do?
I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out
4
1
5
5
hello Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason. What do you recommend i do?
Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
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anxiety
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I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out
4
1
5
5
hello Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason. What do you recommend i do? Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you might recommendo?
OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .
OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out
4
1
5
5
hello Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason. What do you recommend i do? Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back. Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you migh...
Thank you!! im going to look him up . Has your anxiety come back?
Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority.
Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority.
Self-disclosure
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anxiety
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1
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5
hello Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason. What do you recommend i do? Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back. Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you migh...
Thank you for everything .I am now motivated to get going.
You are welcomed i am glad i was able to help out. Stay positive and healthy.
You are welcomed i am glad i was able to help out. Stay positive and healthy.
Others
Others
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out
4
1
5
5
hello Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason. What do you recommend i do? Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back. Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you migh...
What kind of teas do you drink to help with anxiety?
I drink a lot of chamomile tea with honey which has a great flavor good to calm done, i drink mint tea very refreshing and tilo tea which helps me sleep.
I drink a lot of chamomile tea with honey which has a great flavor good to calm done, i drink mint tea very refreshing and tilo tea which helps me sleep.
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Information
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9
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out
4
1
5
5
hello Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason. What do you recommend i do? Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back. Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you migh...
I never tried tea , this new for me . I will definitely order some online. DO you have any other suggestions?
Yes of course. If you worried about some kind of sickness i would recommend you go to the doctor get yourself a full checkup it will help calm you mind down and reassure you that you are healthy.
Yes of course. If you worried about some kind of sickness i would recommend you go to the doctor get yourself a full checkup it will help calm you mind down and reassure you that you are healthy.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out
4
1
5
5
hello Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason. What do you recommend i do? Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back. Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you migh...
That a greay idea. My health anxiety its at all high levels everything i see about a sickness i get worry especially with this covid -19. I barely go out and get nervous. Has that happened to you?
Yes, once in while i get nervous about but i try to keep positive and take the right precautions and wear my mask, clea my hands and stay my distance. you shouldnt have a issues .
Yes, once in while i get nervous about but i try to keep positive and take the right precautions and wear my mask, clea my hands and stay my distance. you shouldnt have a issues . Do you workout?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out
4
1
5
5
hello Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason. What do you recommend i do? Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back. Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you migh...
No, i havent felt motivated . What kind of workout do you recommend for my anxiety?
What really worked for me was cycling. Since its a great cardio workout and its fun. You would enjoy it. Maybe you can get a friend and try it out.
What really worked for me was cycling. Since its a great cardio workout and its fun. You would enjoy it. Maybe you can get a friend and try it out.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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1
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Hello
how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
Question
Question
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fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Hello
I am not good at all
you are not good, why
you are not good, why
Others
Others
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fear
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Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Hello I am not good at all
I am scaring about layoff from job
oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job
oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Hello I am not good at all I am scaring about layoff from job
You are very correct Pandemic is giving us problems
yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back
yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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5
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Hello I am not good at all I am scaring about layoff from job You are very correct Pandemic is giving us problems
I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff
i was furloughed my self and now i am working part-time, its not s lot but it is better than nothing
i was furloughed my self and now i am working part-time, its not s lot but it is better than nothing
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Hello I am not good at all I am scaring about layoff from job You are very correct Pandemic is giving us problems I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff
Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure another job
i can feel your pain just by chatting with you
i can feel your pain just by chatting with you i was scared at first too before but now that i gat something i am doing it feels better a bit
Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
Reflection of feelings
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1
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5
Hello I am not good at all I am scaring about layoff from job You are very correct Pandemic is giving us problems I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure another job
It is not easy my friend! I don't even dream about this at all I don't believed it is happening
yea, it soo surreal, but even though there is a lot lost jobs, there is still a lot of job you can get to keep things balance
yea, it soo surreal, but even though there is a lot lost jobs, there is still a lot of job you can get to keep things balance
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fear
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Fear of layoff from job
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Hello I am not good at all I am scaring about layoff from job You are very correct Pandemic is giving us problems I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure another job It is not easy my friend! I don't even dream about this at all I don't...
That is it my friend! A lot of people are losing their jobs every day by day that one a lone is caring
first of all, polish your resume, go online and ask around
first of all, polish your resume, go online and ask around
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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fear
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Fear of layoff from job
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Hello I am not good at all I am scaring about layoff from job You are very correct Pandemic is giving us problems I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure another job It is not easy my friend! I don't even dream about this at all I don't...
Thanks friend! That what I was thinking about You are too good friend, it is time to go thanks
from what i have heard and seen, there is job somewhere around, you just have to ask the right person
from what i have heard and seen, there is job somewhere around, you just have to ask the right person
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i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.
5
4
4
4
not so happy
In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.
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not so happy
i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
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depression
breakup_with_partner
i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.
5
4
4
4
not so happy i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
breakup_with_partner
i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.
5
4
4
4
not so happy i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner. yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
yes it wont work at all
What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
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i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.
5
4
4
4
not so happy i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner. yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only. yes it wont work at all
there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
Question
Question
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depression
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i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.
5
4
4
4
not so happy i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner. yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only. yes it wont work at all there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i...
i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
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i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.
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4
4
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not so happy i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner. yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only. yes it wont work at all there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i...
but i cannot face them in this sutiation
Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.
Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.
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4
not so happy i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner. yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only. yes it wont work at all there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i...
they will accept me but i am not willing to share my negative mood with them.
I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?
I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?
Question
Question
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not so happy i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner. yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only. yes it wont work at all there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i...
i am trying to overcome but i couldnot
I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it.
I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it.
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i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.
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not so happy i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner. yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only. yes it wont work at all there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i...
yes this seems a good idea i will try doing this things.
In the past when I have dealt with depression following a breakup I have taken up a new hobby. I found I liked crochet. I made a blanket that I still have today.
In the past when I have dealt with depression following a breakup I have taken up a new hobby. I found I liked crochet. I made a blanket that I still have today.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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i will try a new hobby are some other things.
That is good to hear. Is there anything else you would like to talk about?
That is good to hear. Is there anything else you would like to talk about?
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nothing else is there
It was nice talking to you.
It was nice talking to you.
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i think this enough for me to overcome my depression. thank you for the suggestion
It is a good place to start.
It is a good place to start.
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not so happy i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner. yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only. yes it wont work at all there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i...
thank you so much it is good talking to you. bye
bye
bye
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I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.
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I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months.
So it sounds like you've been struggling with finding a new job. It's never easy looking for a new job during these times. Why do you think you're having trouble?
So it sounds like you've been struggling with finding a new job. It's never easy looking for a new job during these times. Why do you think you're having trouble?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.
4
1
5
5
I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months.
Getting a job is not that difficult. But I try to find a job in my locality to avoid distant from family and having food issues.
It sounds like you're motivated and dealing with a lot. Is there a specific job that you had in mind or are you applying to different kinds of jobs?
It sounds like you're motivated and dealing with a lot. Is there a specific job that you had in mind or are you applying to different kinds of jobs?
Information
Information
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I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.
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1
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5
I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months. Getting a job is not that difficult. But I try to find a job in my locality to avoid distant from family and having food issues.
Any kind of job, probably managerial. But to be in my locality since to look after my aged mom also.
It sounds like you really care to want to be close to home. Have you talked with someone locally about jobs that would allow you to stay close to home?
It sounds like you really care to want to be close to home. Have you talked with someone locally about jobs that would allow you to stay close to home?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.
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1
5
5
I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months. Getting a job is not that difficult. But I try to find a job in my locality to avoid distant from family and having food issues. Any kind o...
I have been talking to some people who my friends knows also. They show interest but cannot help me on the issue. Surely they will refer to some people. But it will take some time.
Stay motivated. If one opportunity doesn't get your desired response you may be even closer to finding the right job for you. Keep pushing on and know that if one opportunity doesn't work out a positive attitude will make all the difference. Just because you haven't found one yet doesn't mean you won't.
Stay motivated. If one opportunity doesn't get your desired response you may be even closer to finding the right job for you. Keep pushing on and know that if one opportunity doesn't work out a positive attitude will make all the difference. Just because you haven't found one yet doesn't mean you won't.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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