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I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.
4
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I don't know what do with my life. I can't seem to decide anything with my life. Does that really help? How do you start? What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious? I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes.
That sounds about right. I recognize it but I don't know how to deal with it. I'm so afraid of failing, I end up not doing anything.
I can feel your anxiety just through this chat conversation.
I can feel your anxiety just through this chat conversation.
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I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.
4
2
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I don't know what do with my life. I can't seem to decide anything with my life. Does that really help? How do you start? What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious? I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes. That sounds abo...
I tend to expect the worse or nothing at all.
In my experience, even if we were to fail, we are bestowed with a valuable life lesson which we can use in future decisions. Approaching the problem with positive mindset will help a lot! Is that something you'd be willing to try?
In my experience, even if we were to fail, we are bestowed with a valuable life lesson which we can use in future decisions. Approaching the problem with positive mindset will help a lot! Is that something you'd be willing to try?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.
4
2
4
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I don't know what do with my life. I can't seem to decide anything with my life. Does that really help? How do you start? What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious? I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes. That sounds abo...
I suppose so, but it's hard to break habits and a mindset that I've cultivated.
That's true. However, research shows that any habit can be broken or formed if you put your mind to it everyday for 5-10 minutes for 3 continuous weeks. Perhaps, replacing your negative thoughts with happy ones might help.
That's true. However, research shows that any habit can be broken or formed if you put your mind to it everyday for 5-10 minutes for 3 continuous weeks. Perhaps, replacing your negative thoughts with happy ones might help.
Information
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depression
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I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.
4
2
4
4
I don't know what do with my life. I can't seem to decide anything with my life. Does that really help? How do you start? What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious? I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes. That sounds abo...
I guess it's a start. I can do three weeks, and hopefully move on from there.
Awesome. I am glad I was able to get you started towards a positive mentality. Is there anything else that I can assist you with today?
Awesome. I am glad I was able to get you started towards a positive mentality. Is there anything else that I can assist you with today?
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depression
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4
2
4
4
I don't know what do with my life. I can't seem to decide anything with my life. Does that really help? How do you start? What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious? I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes. That sounds abo...
That's all for now. Thanks for listening.
You're welcome! Have a wonderful week ahead!
You're welcome! Have a wonderful week ahead!
Others
Others
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,324
sad
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283
2
depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
Question
Question
3,325
fear
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283
3
depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me. Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,326
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me. Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it. NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to ...
Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard. I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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sad
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me. Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it. NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to ...
If he died it would be OK, I would mourn him and move on. But I have never had to give up a pet before. I just think most people. wont take care of him like I do. Because he is still alive, I will worry about him
I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together.
I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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283
6
depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me. Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it. NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to ...
Yes, I was depressed for 6 months after my parrot died, but eventually we move on. I dont know that I can move on after giving him up
Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him.
Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him.
Others
Others
3,329
sad
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0.000083
0.000108
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0.000381
0.998849
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283
7
depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me. Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it. NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to ...
No, except a seeing dog
I am concerned that if you don't have a pet to care for you may have a more difficult time to recover and thrive. Mourning is a process and it might be easier if you can hare your ;love with another pet.
I am concerned that if you don't have a pet to care for you may have a more difficult time to recover and thrive. Mourning is a process and it might be easier if you can hare your ;love with another pet.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,330
neutral
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0.000083
0.000388
0.000204
0.983795
0.001316
0.00859
283
8
depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me. Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it. NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to ...
No other pets. I need to move and cannot take him with me.
A seeing eye dog is a great idea. You are trying to think of ways to help yourself and that is really important. You are also reaching out and sharing your feelings. Do you have any friends with pets that you can visit with from time to time?
A seeing eye dog is a great idea. You are trying to think of ways to help yourself and that is really important. You are also reaching out and sharing your feelings. Do you have any friends with pets that you can visit with from time to time?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,331
neutral
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0.000197
0.616044
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283
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me. Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it. NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to ...
It isn't about a new pet it is about worrying that he will not be taken care of. I contacted a rescue place to get him a new home.
I am sorry that makes a lot of sense. I am really thankful that you are sharing your feelings and expressing them.
I am sorry that makes a lot of sense. I am really thankful that you are sharing your feelings and expressing them.
Information
Information
3,332
fear
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283
10
depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me. Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it. NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to ...
Contacting a rescue place has helped me.
Rescue centers usually make people apply to adopt to insure a good home for them. You have made him into a wonderful pet.
Rescue centers usually make people apply to adopt to insure a good home for them. You have made him into a wonderful pet.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,333
sad
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0.004022
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0.12548
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283
11
depression
ongoing_depression
I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.
5
2
4
4
I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me. Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy. I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it. NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to ...
I think that will be best for him Thanks for listening
You are welcome. You are doing what is right and i am proud of you for listening to your heart and providing the best all these years.
You are welcome. You are doing what is right and i am proud of you for listening to your heart and providing the best all these years. Thank you for your time today and please come back whenever you need to talk. I am happy to listen and do my best.
Information, Information
Information
3,334
neutral
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0.000282
0.007236
0.797215
0.004665
0.033506
285
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up
its normal to feel sad when you break up
its normal to feel sad when you break up i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
Affirmation and Reassurance, Self-disclosure
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,347
sad
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0.000116
0.000041
0.000027
0.000284
0.999322
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2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up
Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i ...
Information, Self-disclosure
Information
3,348
surprised
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0.000415
0.000215
0.03567
0.006861
0.008346
0.942986
285
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,349
sad
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0.009865
0.000222
0.000055
0.002214
0.95567
0.000349
285
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened? Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
what will that do in the long run though?
what will that do in the long run though?
Question
Question
3,350
sad
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285
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened? Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
i've made that mistake too honestly
i've made that mistake too honestly
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,351
angry
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6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened? Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me I h...
I thought that she would look out for me the same way i did for her.How wrong i was!
im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either
im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either people can be selfish!
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,352
angry
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7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened? Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me I h...
I think it is,that way one will not be hurt that bad when a friend or a partner decides to be disloyal
true
true
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,353
sad
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285
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened? Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me I h...
Some people are very selfish and do not care about friendships Did you forgive your partners from the past?
it seems like that is becoming quite a trend these days
it seems like that is becoming quite a trend these days
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,354
angry
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285
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened? Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me I h...
The world is becoming more shallow and unjust by the day
i've learned its better jut to forget the past and move on. dwelling on it only auses more paind and heartache and take longer to get back to happy
i've learned its better jut to forget the past and move on. dwelling on it only auses more paind and heartache and take longer to get back to happy i think you will be okay though : you seem to have your head on straight!
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
3,355
angry
0.88817
0.032942
0.000429
0.000139
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0.04898
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285
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened? Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me I h...
I agree,i will just forget and move on to a better and more prosperous life Thank you for such insightful remarks
you are welcome!
you are welcome!
Others
Others
3,356
happy
0.000052
0.000017
0.00003
0.998822
0.000914
0.000077
0.000087
285
11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner was seeing someone else on the side
5
4
5
5
I am sad because my partner and i broke up Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened? Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me I h...
Have a good day
you too!
you too!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,357
happy
0.001012
0.000136
0.000035
0.975962
0.021646
0.000441
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287
1
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you?
good how are you
good how are you can you talk more about your feelings at this time?
Question, Question
Question
3,368
happy
0.00292
0.000045
0.000036
0.993731
0.003055
0.000039
0.000173
287
2
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you?
Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed and hopeless. ha...
it sounds like you're really anxious and stressed about this situation let's try to figure out a path to move foward
it sounds like you're really anxious and stressed about this situation let's try to figure out a path to move foward Yes I have also struggled with depression and anxiety
Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
Reflection of feelings
3,369
sad
0.001698
0.000801
0.056293
0.000213
0.004982
0.895027
0.040987
287
3
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
absolutely I am sorry that you too, know what that is like how are you coping with that now?
I try to do yoga and meditate in order to deal with stress
I try to do yoga and meditate in order to deal with stress it's great that you are trying to find solutions
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Providing Suggestions
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depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
That is awesome! Meditation is my go to. I love nature, crystals and meditation. Thank you I am trying my best.. it is challenging Im good at helping others, but I have neve been able to help myself or listen to my own advice for some reason.
I have struggled with the same, have you considered counseling or another form of therapy ?
I have struggled with the same, have you considered counseling or another form of therapy ?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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happy
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287
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depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
I have, but I haven't followed through because of money constraints. It also makes me very nervous to open up and talk face to face about my struggles HAve you done that, if so, did it help you?
I have tried different methods of therapy, and have found low cost options in my area
I have tried different methods of therapy, and have found low cost options in my area
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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287
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depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
That is good! Can I ask what state you are from? I am in Tennessee
I am from connecticut
I am from connecticut
Others
Others
3,373
happy
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287
7
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
nice, I have never been there before. How was the weather there today? It was 65 degrees and sunny here today.
around 40 degrees and windy and there is still snow on the ground
around 40 degrees and windy and there is still snow on the ground
Others
Others
3,374
happy
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depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
Oh wow! We rarely get snow, but a couple weeks ago we got snowed in. The mos snow my kids have ever seen!
I miss the sun we have been snowed in for months
I miss the sun we have been snowed in for months
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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287
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depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
Thank you for talking to me, it has been a nice distraction from my own brain
you're welcome!
you're welcome!
Others
Others
3,376
happy
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287
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depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
I can understand that! I love the sun and hate gloomy days Do you have any children?
No im in college
No im in college
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Others
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depression
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I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
thats cool, what are you studying?
Economics and Geography
Economics and Geography
Others
Others
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job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
thats awesome!
Thank you!
Thank you!
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Reflection of feelings
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13
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
I was horrible in my high school economics class, I could have used your help for sure lol
trust me the first economics test I took I got a 55% it did not come naturally to me
trust me the first economics test I took I got a 55% it did not come naturally to me
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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disgusted
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287
14
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
It is not easy! What kind of work are you wanting to do when you are finished with college?
Urban planning, what do you do for work?
Urban planning, what do you do for work?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,381
angry
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15
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
that is cool! I was a vet tech for 8 years before having children, Then once my kids started elementary school, I was the child nutrition manager and ran their schools cafeteria. Since covid, I have not worked and I home school them. I miss working with animals!
I love animals I have a cat! His name is lucky
I love animals I have a cat! His name is lucky
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,382
sad
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287
16
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
That is a cute name! I have a dog named Mamoa, he was a rescue from the Nashville Tornado that happened a year ago!
Wow do animals help with your stress?
Wow do animals help with your stress?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,383
happy
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0.000111
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0.015229
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287
17
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
he is a pitbull mix, we are not sure what he is mixed with, id guess a lab yes very much so I see him as my therapist lol
I have never had any dogs before but I see my cat as a therapist too
I have never had any dogs before but I see my cat as a therapist too
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,384
surprised
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287
18
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
he also has anxiety from all he has been through so we are clingy to each other I am glad you have Lucky for that!
You should take him on walks it would probably reduce anxiety for the both of you!
You should take him on walks it would probably reduce anxiety for the both of you!
Others
Others
3,385
happy
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287
19
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
That is a great idea! I take him to state parks on trails sometimes when the weather is nice. I really need to make it a daily thing Should we end this convo? Ive never done one of these before
me either but i think we have enough data
me either but i think we have enough data you have to end it because you're the peer
Self-disclosure, Restatement or Paraphrasing
Self-disclosure
3,386
happy
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287
20
depression
job_crisis
I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.
5
3
5
5
hi, how are you? Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression I feel overwhelmed...
okay, well I really appreciate your time and your input. it did cheer me up good luck in college!
no problem nice talking to you too!
no problem nice talking to you too!
Others
Others
3,387
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288
1
anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better.
Sorry to hear. What's going on?
Sorry to hear. What's going on?
Question
Question
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neutral
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anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better.
i'm having difficulty dealing with a coworker that doesn't take constructive feedback on standard work procedures well and is now starting her own investigation.
Sorry to hear that. An investigation on who? you?
Sorry to hear that. An investigation on who? you?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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angry
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anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better. i'm having difficulty dealing with a coworker that doesn't take constructive feedback on standard work procedures well and is now starting her own investigation.
Me and my manager. She feels that we are targeting her.
That's unfortunately. Have you talked to someone in upper management about this?
That's unfortunately. Have you talked to someone in upper management about this?
Information
Information
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anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better. i'm having difficulty dealing with a coworker that doesn't take constructive feedback on standard work procedures well and is now starting her own investigation. Me and my manager. She feels that we are targeting her.
I have talked to him about past issues with her but not this most recent. I'm trying to give myself some time to talk to him because I'm still very angry and don't want to talk with so much emotion
That is understandable. People can be hard to deal with at times. What did the co-worker do that upset you?
That is understandable. People can be hard to deal with at times. What did the co-worker do that upset you?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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angry
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288
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anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better. i'm having difficulty dealing with a coworker that doesn't take constructive feedback on standard work procedures well and is now starting her own investigation. Me and my manager. She feels that we are targeting her. I have talked to him about past issues with her but not this most recent. I'm tryin...
We have a set process of how we are to screen employees as they enter the workplace. She doesn't follow the procedures or makes up her own way to do them because she is lazy to either stand up or greet them. She is also rude at times to customers and has an attitude that is not friendly.
Oh, that's unfortunate. Have you brought this issue to upper management in the past?
Oh, that's unfortunate. Have you brought this issue to upper management in the past?
Question
Question
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anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better. i'm having difficulty dealing with a coworker that doesn't take constructive feedback on standard work procedures well and is now starting her own investigation. Me and my manager. She feels that we are targeting her. I have talked to him about past issues with her but not this most recent. I'm tryin...
I have and so my manager sent a general memo reminding employees about our standard operating procedures. And from that memo, she thinks it's only about her and that we are discriminating against her.
Sorry to hear. Has upper management done anything about this issue?
Sorry to hear. Has upper management done anything about this issue?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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angry
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anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better. i'm having difficulty dealing with a coworker that doesn't take constructive feedback on standard work procedures well and is now starting her own investigation. Me and my manager. She feels that we are targeting her. I have talked to him about past issues with her but not this most recent. I'm tryin...
I haven't taken it past my immediate manager but I may have to at this point if she is looking to file a grievance or submit a statement that we are discriminating her.
Well, in my opinion, I think you did the right thing. Has anyone else mentioned her rudeness in the past?
Well, in my opinion, I think you did the right thing. Has anyone else mentioned her rudeness in the past?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better. i'm having difficulty dealing with a coworker that doesn't take constructive feedback on standard work procedures well and is now starting her own investigation. Me and my manager. She feels that we are targeting her. I have talked to him about past issues with her but not this most recent. I'm tryin...
Thank you. Yes others that have worked with her share say the same thing about her rudeness and laziness on the job. I am probably going to submit some kind of report or statement to upper management.
I was wondering, how long has she been an employee at your work?
I was wondering, how long has she been an employee at your work?
Question
Question
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anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better. i'm having difficulty dealing with a coworker that doesn't take constructive feedback on standard work procedures well and is now starting her own investigation. Me and my manager. She feels that we are targeting her. I have talked to him about past issues with her but not this most recent. I'm tryin...
I'm just unsure because I have not documented the incidents that I have had with her. She's been employee for approximately 5 months.
No, I think you did the right thing.
No, I think you did the right thing. Wow, 5 month and she's still there.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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anger
job_crisis
A coworker feels that I am discriminating against her because I give corrective feedback on procedures she is doing wrong. There have been numerous occasions of her wrongdoing.
4
3
5
5
I could be better. i'm having difficulty dealing with a coworker that doesn't take constructive feedback on standard work procedures well and is now starting her own investigation. Me and my manager. She feels that we are targeting her. I have talked to him about past issues with her but not this most recent. I'm tryin...
Thank you. With everything going on in the world right now, it's frustrating to have to deal with this person also...
Well, I hope everything works out for you.
Well, I hope everything works out for you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sadness
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Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad.
I'm sorry to hear your sad. Is there anything I can do to help you?
I'm sorry to hear your sad. Is there anything I can do to help you?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sad
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2
sadness
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Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad.
Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through.
Sure, let's talk it out
Sure, let's talk it out
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
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1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through.
My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have her die and being left with kids.
That's a valid concern and overwhelming to think about I'm sure. What is her prognosis?
That's a valid concern and overwhelming to think about I'm sure. What is her prognosis?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,402
fear
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sadness
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Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Maple Syrup Urine Disease Basically she can only have 7 grams of protein a day. If she gets more. That could result in severe brain damage.
And is this something that she will die early because of?
And is this something that she will die early because of?
Others
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Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
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5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Not exactly. It just means her liver can't metabolize three amino acids.
So if she manages it she can live a relatively normal life?
So if she manages it she can live a relatively normal life?
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Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
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I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Yes, for the most part. She still gets very clumsy and can is very prone to sickness getting very bad. So it has it's challenges. I just keep hearing about gene therapy for that I'm just at the point where I'm not I could go on if something horrible happens.
Sure, I can see where it would be challenging and pregnancy would be scary. But I'd suggest discuss it with her doctor to see what they suggest.
Sure, I can see where it would be challenging and pregnancy would be scary. But I'd suggest discuss it with her doctor to see what they suggest.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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0.001093
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289
7
sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Her doctor said for her. She has to give blood work all the time... Which for me is insane.
As hard as it is to think about, you'd also have a piece of her
As hard as it is to think about, you'd also have a piece of her
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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0.000193
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289
8
sadness
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Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
I would probably be a shell of a person if something happens. I just always been terrified of children. I keep telling her but she wants like 3 kids
Do you simply not want kids? Because if she does and you don't, you can't blame it on her condition, that would be making her give up something that wouldn't be fair.
Do you simply not want kids? Because if she does and you don't, you can't blame it on her condition, that would be making her give up something that wouldn't be fair.
Others
Others
3,407
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9
sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Yeah. I try making that clear. But no one wants her to die.
I understand, you may need to have a hard conversation with her.
I understand, you may need to have a hard conversation with her.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,408
neutral
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0.00306
0.003397
0.000297
0.610798
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10
sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
I don't really have an interest for them. Maybe I'll be there and love them the same at the time. But currently. I just don't see me being feeling any sort of way later Yeah. I've told her like 20 times. I'm starting to think she can't process normally.
Maybe you're not right for each other if you have such different views on this subject. Neither one of you should have to give in to something they don't want.
Maybe you're not right for each other if you have such different views on this subject. Neither one of you should have to give in to something they don't want.
Others
Others
3,409
angry
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289
11
sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Well it's not like I actively don't want kids I just don't want her to die. Or for the kids to die from something I can't control I had so many siblings die Seen what it did to my father. And he is not the same I've been to so many funerals as a kid for young children in my family. I just don't see kids the same way an...
Unfortunately it sounds like you've had a lot of experience with that, and I can understand that. I've been to my fair share as well. But you also can't live your life in fear or you're not really living.
Unfortunately it sounds like you've had a lot of experience with that, and I can understand that. I've been to my fair share as well. But you also can't live your life in fear or you're not really living. Unfortunately it sounds like you've had a lot of experience with that, and I can understand that. I've been to my f...
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
3,410
sad
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12
sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
I suppose that helps me cope. I want her to do what she likes. My mom had me out of the feeling of being lonely. And to be honest. It kind of feels like a worthless existence. She literally made me stay silent about going to a baby brother's funeral when I was a kid.
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. It sounds like you have someone who cares about you and wants a part of you to exist in another living being. I know you're scared and that's valid, but you have an opportunity to do things differently than what your mom did for you.
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. It sounds like you have someone who cares about you and wants a part of you to exist in another living being. I know you're scared and that's valid, but you have an opportunity to do things differently than what your mom did for you.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,411
sad
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0.000035
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289
13
sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Yeah. I guess that is a better way to think. I don't want to extend that sadness to my own flesh and blood. Especially the person who values me so much. The doctors trust she can do it and I know medicine is getting better.
But having gone through that yourself, you know exactly what NOT to do.
But having gone through that yourself, you know exactly what NOT to do.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,412
sad
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289
14
sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Everyone tells me that. Haha
Then it must be good advice lol
Then it must be good advice lol
Others
Others
3,413
happy
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0.000234
0.000015
0.992835
0.00513
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289
15
sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
I really appreciate the advice. I won't make someone else sad off of those experiences. I think people deserve better.
You deserve better than thinking your feelings don't count for something. There are people that love you and want to listen and be a part of your life.
You deserve better than thinking your feelings don't count for something. There are people that love you and want to listen and be a part of your life.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,414
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289
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sadness
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Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Yeah. My grand mother and older sister actively support me. I had an uncle that passed sadly but I know that feeling of love and support will never leave me.
Good, I'm glad you have that support.
Good, I'm glad you have that support.
Others
Others
3,415
happy
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sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Well you have been an excellent support system.
Thank you, I'm glad I was able to chat with you and wish you the best!
Thank you, I'm glad I was able to chat with you and wish you the best!
Others
Others
3,416
neutral
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0.00006
0.000128
0.000552
0.98082
0.002923
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289
18
sadness
ongoing_depression
Girlfriend has an illness that keeps me guessing all the time
5
1
5
5
I'm doing alright. Just a little sad. Yeah, maybe just make a little sense of this craziness I'm going through. My girlfriend has this condition where she needs to drink formula everyday just to keep her brain working properly. And she keeps talking about the potential of kids. I freak out thinking that I could have he...
Of course, may you have a happy holiday.
You as well!
You as well!
Others
Others
3,417
happy
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0.000048
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0.998358
0.001184
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0.00013
290
1
anxiety
academic_pressure
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1
4
4
I cannot seem to focus on online learn. FU covid
It must be very difficult to be a student during this time.
It must be very difficult to be a student during this time.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,419
angry
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0.000397
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290
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4
I cannot seem to focus on online learn. FU covid
It is so weird. I am a hands on. teacher talking to me kinda person. what the F
I understand that completely. It's very helpful to speak with people face to face. However, have you sought other ways, such as through Zoom, to interact with peers having the same difficulties?
I understand that completely. It's very helpful to speak with people face to face. However, have you sought other ways, such as through Zoom, to interact with peers having the same difficulties?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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4
I cannot seem to focus on online learn. FU covid It is so weird. I am a hands on. teacher talking to me kinda person. what the F
zoom is not the same. I am in a techincal trade and need my hands
Classes that involve hands-on work must be very challenging to do online. It sounds like this is a real dilemma. What ways have you already sought to overcome it?
Classes that involve hands-on work must be very challenging to do online. It sounds like this is a real dilemma. What ways have you already sought to overcome it?
Question
Question
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anxiety
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4
I cannot seem to focus on online learn. FU covid It is so weird. I am a hands on. teacher talking to me kinda person. what the F zoom is not the same. I am in a techincal trade and need my hands
trying to stay sane (patient) that the vaccine works and we get back to normal soon. FU lockdown
I feel very much the same way. I am also a student taking online classes this semester. I can't wait until we get back to normal classroom settings, and I also hope fervently that the vaccine process is quick, efficient, and effective. I find that making regular online meetings with my professor, while it might not hel...
I feel very much the same way. I am also a student taking online classes this semester. I can't wait until we get back to normal classroom settings, and I also hope fervently that the vaccine process is quick, efficient, and effective. I find that making regular online meetings with my professor, while it might not hel...
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I cannot seem to focus on online learn. FU covid It is so weird. I am a hands on. teacher talking to me kinda person. what the F zoom is not the same. I am in a techincal trade and need my hands trying to stay sane (patient) that the vaccine works and we get back to normal soon. FU lockdown
honestly its all a shit show right now. Everything is tied up in logistics and stop and starts. this year has been almost a wash
It's been the same way at my school. At least there is some solace in knowing that a large group of students is also struggling right now. Having a source of community support/commiseration is at least emotionally helpful.
It's been the same way at my school. At least there is some solace in knowing that a large group of students is also struggling right now. Having a source of community support/commiseration is at least emotionally helpful.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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4
I cannot seem to focus on online learn. FU covid It is so weird. I am a hands on. teacher talking to me kinda person. what the F zoom is not the same. I am in a techincal trade and need my hands trying to stay sane (patient) that the vaccine works and we get back to normal soon. FU lockdown honestly its all a shit show...
true, I guest if the ship goes down we all go down
If there's only one thing to take from this, it's knowing you aren't alone. I have confidence that you, and this entire country, is going to get through these difficult times.
If there's only one thing to take from this, it's knowing you aren't alone. I have confidence that you, and this entire country, is going to get through these difficult times.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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7
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4
I cannot seem to focus on online learn. FU covid It is so weird. I am a hands on. teacher talking to me kinda person. what the F zoom is not the same. I am in a techincal trade and need my hands trying to stay sane (patient) that the vaccine works and we get back to normal soon. FU lockdown honestly its all a shit show...
I believe that too. thanks for the reassurance. I just have a hard time sitting still
I definitely get that. It's especially hard because we've had to sit still for so long. It's almost been a year since things were normal. It's kind of like we're just waiting for real life to start again.
I definitely get that. It's especially hard because we've had to sit still for so long. It's almost been a year since things were normal. It's kind of like we're just waiting for real life to start again.
Others
Others
3,425
neutral
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I cannot seem to focus on online learn. FU covid It is so weird. I am a hands on. teacher talking to me kinda person. what the F zoom is not the same. I am in a techincal trade and need my hands trying to stay sane (patient) that the vaccine works and we get back to normal soon. FU lockdown honestly its all a shit show...
imagine when it happens. when everything is the way it was a year ago. a beer. at a bar.
That sounds incredible. Or just to be able to go into a store without a mask and hand sanitizer and constantly monitoring how close you are to people. It's almost impossible to imagine, to be honest. But when that day finally comes, it'll be one of the best days of my life. We can finally start putting all of this behi...
That sounds incredible. Or just to be able to go into a store without a mask and hand sanitizer and constantly monitoring how close you are to people. It's almost impossible to imagine, to be honest. But when that day finally comes, it'll be one of the best days of my life. We can finally start putting all of this behi...
Others
Others
3,426
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0.003125
0.000807
0.976886
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anxiety
academic_pressure
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4
I cannot seem to focus on online learn. FU covid It is so weird. I am a hands on. teacher talking to me kinda person. what the F zoom is not the same. I am in a techincal trade and need my hands trying to stay sane (patient) that the vaccine works and we get back to normal soon. FU lockdown honestly its all a shit show...
thanks fo the chat. i feel better. stay safe. im hitting the books
Thanks! I hope this helped relieve some stress, at least. You stay safe, too.
Thanks! I hope this helped relieve some stress, at least. You stay safe, too.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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0.000043
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0.001429
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1
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5
4
5
5
Hello. Not so good
I'm sorry to hear that. What is on your mind?
I'm sorry to hear that. What is on your mind?
Question
Question
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0.908294
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5
4
5
5
Hello. Not so good
Thank you. On top of losing my job, my electric/water about to be turned off, my car was repossessed last night.
I lost my job too during the pandemic. Sounds like you are going through a similar situation due to Covid and are struggling with your finances. Did I understand your concern correctly?
I lost my job too during the pandemic. Sounds like you are going through a similar situation due to Covid and are struggling with your finances. Did I understand your concern correctly?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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I lost my job, my car was just repossessed and my bills are all behind.
5
4
5
5
Hello. Not so good Thank you. On top of losing my job, my electric/water about to be turned off, my car was repossessed last night.
Yes, exactly. I have 4 kids I am trying to provide for so I am really feeling at a loss right now
There are a lot of people like us going through this difficult time. Are you talking with friends or family about your situation?
There are a lot of people like us going through this difficult time. Are you talking with friends or family about your situation?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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0.000086
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0.999124
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292
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I lost my job, my car was just repossessed and my bills are all behind.
5
4
5
5
Hello. Not so good Thank you. On top of losing my job, my electric/water about to be turned off, my car was repossessed last night. Yes, exactly. I have 4 kids I am trying to provide for so I am really feeling at a loss right now
Honeslty, I don't have friends. I just spoke with my Uncle, he understands but can't help.
I'm certainly glad your uncle is there to talk to. I know family can be a source of strength. Have you been able to find any assistance from local organizations?
I'm certainly glad your uncle is there to talk to. I know family can be a source of strength. Have you been able to find any assistance from local organizations?
Information
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5
4
5
5
Hello. Not so good Thank you. On top of losing my job, my electric/water about to be turned off, my car was repossessed last night. Yes, exactly. I have 4 kids I am trying to provide for so I am really feeling at a loss right now Honeslty, I don't have friends. I just spoke with my Uncle, he understands but can't help.
I got approved for food stamps but other than that I don't know where to start looking.
Food stamps is a good start. My parents just applied and were approved for a small amount, which is a start. You might want to check your local government website or for local charities. Does that sound like something you'd be interested in researching?
Food stamps is a good start. My parents just applied and were approved for a small amount, which is a start. You might want to check your local government website or for local charities. Does that sound like something you'd be interested in researching?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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292
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I lost my job, my car was just repossessed and my bills are all behind.
5
4
5
5
Hello. Not so good Thank you. On top of losing my job, my electric/water about to be turned off, my car was repossessed last night. Yes, exactly. I have 4 kids I am trying to provide for so I am really feeling at a loss right now Honeslty, I don't have friends. I just spoke with my Uncle, he understands but can't help....
Yes I will. I need all the help I can get right now.
I am really sorry you are having to go through this. You sound like a very strong person that will find the right solution. It took a lot for you to seek support.
I am really sorry you are having to go through this. You sound like a very strong person that will find the right solution. It took a lot for you to seek support.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,444
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0.00005
0.000681
0.000234
0.988487
0.003987
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292
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I lost my job, my car was just repossessed and my bills are all behind.
5
4
5
5
Hello. Not so good Thank you. On top of losing my job, my electric/water about to be turned off, my car was repossessed last night. Yes, exactly. I have 4 kids I am trying to provide for so I am really feeling at a loss right now Honeslty, I don't have friends. I just spoke with my Uncle, he understands but can't help....
Thank you. I just don't know what else to do. Thank you for listening to me.
I'm here as long as you need to chat. I'd recommend reaching out to the electric and water companies to get those turned back on. They likely have special programs to help during the pandemic. Once you have a chance to review the local government and charity options, you can look to get your car back. Take it one step ...
I'm here as long as you need to chat. I'd recommend reaching out to the electric and water companies to get those turned back on. They likely have special programs to help during the pandemic. Once you have a chance to review the local government and charity options, you can look to get your car back. Take it one step ...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,445
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I lost my job, my car was just repossessed and my bills are all behind.
5
4
5
5
Hello. Not so good Thank you. On top of losing my job, my electric/water about to be turned off, my car was repossessed last night. Yes, exactly. I have 4 kids I am trying to provide for so I am really feeling at a loss right now Honeslty, I don't have friends. I just spoke with my Uncle, he understands but can't help....
I really hope so. I am going to look for government help now. Thank you
That's great. Is there anything else that would be helpful for us to discuss?
That's great. Is there anything else that would be helpful for us to discuss?
Others
Others
3,446
neutral
0.002094
0.00004
0.000226
0.000171
0.994457
0.000999
0.002012
292
9
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ongoing_depression
I lost my job, my car was just repossessed and my bills are all behind.
5
4
5
5
Hello. Not so good Thank you. On top of losing my job, my electric/water about to be turned off, my car was repossessed last night. Yes, exactly. I have 4 kids I am trying to provide for so I am really feeling at a loss right now Honeslty, I don't have friends. I just spoke with my Uncle, he understands but can't help....
No, but thank you for listening and giving me ideas.
Glad I could be of assistance. I wish you the best during these trying times.
Glad I could be of assistance. I wish you the best during these trying times.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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0.000229
0.000207
0.557217
0.017453
0.000433
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1
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hi
How are you this evening?
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hi
not good stressing about next exam
What class is your exam in?
What class is your exam in?
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hi not good stressing about next exam
economics
So just to make sure I understand, you have an exam coming up in economics and you are very stressed about it.
So just to make sure I understand, you have an exam coming up in economics and you are very stressed about it.
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hi not good stressing about next exam economics
that is correct.
Do you have any study groups set up for the class? Often times it helps to study with people who are in the same situation you are in.
Do you have any study groups set up for the class? Often times it helps to study with people who are in the same situation you are in.
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hi not good stressing about next exam economics that is correct.
Study groups don't help me. I find them distracting. I am not able to focus. Adds to the stress
Have you made any flash cards for the class?
Have you made any flash cards for the class?
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hi not good stressing about next exam economics that is correct. Study groups don't help me. I find them distracting. I am not able to focus. Adds to the stress
Yes I have flash cards. That helps with the study but not with the stress
I used to stress out a ton over tests too, but I found that distracting myself every once in a while with a movie or a tv show helps me to reduce stress.
I used to stress out a ton over tests too, but I found that distracting myself every once in a while with a movie or a tv show helps me to reduce stress.
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hi not good stressing about next exam economics that is correct. Study groups don't help me. I find them distracting. I am not able to focus. Adds to the stress Yes I have flash cards. That helps with the study but not with the stress
that sometimes work for me, but that is like a band aid fix after two hours i am stressing again
I would recommend mixing it in while studying, maybe study for an hour and then take a break for an hour and the study again. This way it breaks up the monotony of studying
I would recommend mixing it in while studying, maybe study for an hour and then take a break for an hour and the study again. This way it breaks up the monotony of studying
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