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621
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anxiety
problems_with_friends
no specific event to describe
4
1
4
5
Hello I don't have close friends because I don't trust people people in general, I do trust certain family members no, I have a hard time trusting people i don't know in order to make friends i think it feels like a problem because I never let anyone too close in order to make friends and have an external support syste...
Does one have to travel far to participate in building houses?
No, Habitat fir Humanity has car pools.
No, Habitat fir Humanity has car pools.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,349
neutral
0.00362
0.000081
0.000494
0.000231
0.96494
0.001459
0.029176
621
14
anxiety
problems_with_friends
no specific event to describe
4
1
4
5
Hello I don't have close friends because I don't trust people people in general, I do trust certain family members no, I have a hard time trusting people i don't know in order to make friends i think it feels like a problem because I never let anyone too close in order to make friends and have an external support syste...
do you know if it requires a person to be away from home a long time?
They are a good group to help you build meaningful relationships.
They are a good group to help you build meaningful relationships. I used to do a hour at a time; maybe one or twice a week.
Providing Suggestions, Self-disclosure
Providing Suggestions
7,350
surprised
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0.00033
0.00026
0.000211
0.099576
0.001533
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621
15
anxiety
problems_with_friends
no specific event to describe
4
1
4
5
Hello I don't have close friends because I don't trust people people in general, I do trust certain family members no, I have a hard time trusting people i don't know in order to make friends i think it feels like a problem because I never let anyone too close in order to make friends and have an external support syste...
oh! so a person could just choose how often and how long they participate?
Would you be interested in something like HFH?
Would you be interested in something like HFH?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,351
neutral
0.010191
0.000388
0.000165
0.07092
0.732652
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621
16
anxiety
problems_with_friends
no specific event to describe
4
1
4
5
Hello I don't have close friends because I don't trust people people in general, I do trust certain family members no, I have a hard time trusting people i don't know in order to make friends i think it feels like a problem because I never let anyone too close in order to make friends and have an external support syste...
thank you for sharing with me, i might like to participate in it in the future
Yes, you can sign up online to join a project.
Yes, you can sign up online to join a project.
Information
Information
7,352
neutral
0.001015
0.000186
0.000551
0.194898
0.800507
0.000289
0.002554
621
17
anxiety
problems_with_friends
no specific event to describe
4
1
4
5
Hello I don't have close friends because I don't trust people people in general, I do trust certain family members no, I have a hard time trusting people i don't know in order to make friends i think it feels like a problem because I never let anyone too close in order to make friends and have an external support syste...
ok i will look that up, thank you for all your help
Yes, you can volunteer locally; HFH is nationwide.
Yes, you can volunteer locally; HFH is nationwide.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
7,353
happy
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0.000684
0.82666
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18
anxiety
problems_with_friends
no specific event to describe
4
1
4
5
Hello I don't have close friends because I don't trust people people in general, I do trust certain family members no, I have a hard time trusting people i don't know in order to make friends i think it feels like a problem because I never let anyone too close in order to make friends and have an external support syste...
ok thank you
Any other questions? I am glad to assist.
Any other questions? I am glad to assist.
Question
Question
7,354
angry
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0.000405
0.333664
0.031348
0.000275
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621
19
anxiety
problems_with_friends
no specific event to describe
4
1
4
5
Hello I don't have close friends because I don't trust people people in general, I do trust certain family members no, I have a hard time trusting people i don't know in order to make friends i think it feels like a problem because I never let anyone too close in order to make friends and have an external support syste...
no other questions, you have been most helpful, thank you!
I have done volunteer work; people want to be friends with those who care and know how to use a nail and hammer. :)
I have done volunteer work; people want to be friends with those who care and know how to use a nail and hammer. :)
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
7,355
happy
0.000713
0.000013
0.000045
0.998816
0.000186
0.000031
0.000195
621
20
anxiety
problems_with_friends
no specific event to describe
4
1
4
5
Hello I don't have close friends because I don't trust people people in general, I do trust certain family members no, I have a hard time trusting people i don't know in order to make friends i think it feels like a problem because I never let anyone too close in order to make friends and have an external support syste...
LOL good to know! Thanks for the chat and I hope you have good holidays!
It may also help to contribute some money to keep the organization going.
It may also help to contribute some money to keep the organization going. I felt great after making friends and building homes for low income people.
Providing Suggestions, Reflection of feelings
Providing Suggestions
7,356
happy
0.000118
0.000018
0.000006
0.99975
0.000055
0.000021
0.000031
622
1
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today
I'm sorry to hear that. What is causing you these feelings?
I'm sorry to hear that. What is causing you these feelings?
Question
Question
7,358
angry
0.874637
0.000585
0.000262
0.001573
0.001464
0.120668
0.000811
622
2
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today
Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly .
I'm sorry to hear that. That sounds like a difficult situation. Have you tried any personal exercises to help you cope with the situation until you find a resolution?
I'm sorry to hear that. That sounds like a difficult situation. Have you tried any personal exercises to help you cope with the situation until you find a resolution?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,359
angry
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0.000074
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0.000109
0.002867
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622
3
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly .
I do go to a quiet place and try some deep breathing, but my grandson always comes walking in
That's certainly a difficult situation. Is there no resolution possible with the father of your grandson? I want to make sure that th e cause of the depression has properly been addressed by you or someone else.
That's certainly a difficult situation. Is there no resolution possible with the father of your grandson? I want to make sure that th e cause of the depression has properly been addressed by you or someone else.
Question
Question
7,360
neutral
0.0008
0.000186
0.004871
0.001381
0.978123
0.005732
0.008906
622
4
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly . I do go to a quiet place and try some deep breathing, but my grandson always comes walki...
I try talking to him, but due to my grandson having some disabilities his dad does not really want to be bothered. I just want my grandson to succeed and be the best he can be
I think it's great that you have such care and concern for your grandson. That shows how incredible you are and on behalf of your grandson, I think you are doing a tremendous job. I think you should continue to support him however you can, but it's also important to take care of yourself. Do you have time available for...
I think it's great that you have such care and concern for your grandson. That shows how incredible you are and on behalf of your grandson, I think you are doing a tremendous job. I think you should continue to support him however you can, but it's also important to take care of yourself. Do you have time available for...
Question
Question
7,361
angry
0.992034
0.001951
0.000091
0.000063
0.003115
0.002601
0.000145
622
5
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly . I do go to a quiet place and try some deep breathing, but my grandson always comes walki...
Thank you for saying that it means alot having someone tell me I am doing a good job. I recently purchased a hot tub and have been thinking that maybe when he goes to bed I could go out and relax, but have not done that yet
That sounds like a great start. Self care is vitally important in this difficulty time with COVID and the pandemic. I recommend any little bit of time that you can contribute to yourself, this includes reading, relaxing, meditating, exercise, or just resting. Anything that can help you repair so you are better prepared...
That sounds like a great start. Self care is vitally important in this difficulty time with COVID and the pandemic. I recommend any little bit of time that you can contribute to yourself, this includes reading, relaxing, meditating, exercise, or just resting. Anything that can help you repair so you are better prepared...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,362
happy
0.000066
0.000018
0.000017
0.999154
0.000357
0.000207
0.000181
622
6
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly . I do go to a quiet place and try some deep breathing, but my grandson always comes walki...
I will try my best to get more time for myself and try to relax more often that I currently am. I am also trying to accept that my medical issues are getting worse and I can not do all that I use to, and that truly frustrates me as well.
Do you think the anger you are feeling is directly a result of the situation? Do you feel the anger is manifested from somewhere else? I think it is important to get to the underlying source of the anger and take care of that first and foremost.
Do you think the anger you are feeling is directly a result of the situation? Do you feel the anger is manifested from somewhere else? I think it is important to get to the underlying source of the anger and take care of that first and foremost. That's concerning, but very understandable. Are you able to financially se...
Question, Providing Suggestions
Question
7,363
angry
0.889963
0.000516
0.000303
0.000376
0.000784
0.107921
0.000136
622
7
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly . I do go to a quiet place and try some deep breathing, but my grandson always comes walki...
I feel that I am having trouble dealing with the fact that I am not able to do all the things I want to do. It is not an easy thing to lose your abilities when you feel so young but your body says otherwise. I was in physical therapy but could not afford it any longer. So instead I purchased my own hot tub to be able t...
I think that's a normal way to feel and a frustrating part of growing older. I think focusing on positives and things you enjoy will help keep your mind away from thinking about "what used to be" or "what once was" - finding passions and joys in new things could help revitalize you. Can I help you find new hobbies or p...
I think that's a normal way to feel and a frustrating part of growing older. I think focusing on positives and things you enjoy will help keep your mind away from thinking about "what used to be" or "what once was" - finding passions and joys in new things could help revitalize you. Can I help you find new hobbies or p...
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,364
sad
0.001818
0.0001
0.000971
0.000097
0.000605
0.996306
0.000103
622
8
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly . I do go to a quiet place and try some deep breathing, but my grandson always comes walki...
That is a great idea, I may even have some here that I could use. I am lucky that I do have two dogs that keep me going as well and am trying to get out and take them on walks more, but not easy when is so cold out lately.
Totally understandable. I'm a little younger and even I am sick of sub 50F weather, so that's not age holding you back! I think it's important to maintain positivity and find any outlet that keeps that going for you.
Totally understandable. I'm a little younger and even I am sick of sub 50F weather, so that's not age holding you back! I think it's important to maintain positivity and find any outlet that keeps that going for you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,365
neutral
0.0028
0.000349
0.000374
0.334528
0.637416
0.014092
0.010441
622
9
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly . I do go to a quiet place and try some deep breathing, but my grandson always comes walki...
Thank you I will definalty do that and will look for some additional exercises to do.
You're welcome. Is there anything else I can help you with today, even if it's something as simple as providing suggestions for new things to try?
You're welcome. Is there anything else I can help you with today, even if it's something as simple as providing suggestions for new things to try?
Question
Question
7,366
neutral
0.019342
0.000097
0.001387
0.015137
0.958372
0.000821
0.004845
622
10
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly . I do go to a quiet place and try some deep breathing, but my grandson always comes walki...
I would love some additional suggestions!!
Meditation has worked wonder for my best friend. The app Headspace is fantastic. I'd also recommend podcasts, using either and app or your computer, and find a series on a topic that you enjoy, weather it's mindfulness, or self-care. There are plenty to choose from and you can go at your own pace.
Meditation has worked wonder for my best friend. The app Headspace is fantastic. I'd also recommend podcasts, using either and app or your computer, and find a series on a topic that you enjoy, weather it's mindfulness, or self-care. There are plenty to choose from and you can go at your own pace.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,367
happy
0.00024
0.000052
0.000013
0.996391
0.002838
0.000071
0.000395
622
11
depression
ongoing_depression
Raising grandson and he is being very difficult and not listening. I also have a lot of medical issues that limit my abilities. And my grandson's father is no help, he just drops him off and leaves, never asks if need anything or how I am doing.
5
2
4
5
Hi to be honest I am very depressed and angry today Since helping to raise my grandson and his dad is not helping, or cares how I am feeling. My grandson has been really difficult lately and I find myself losing my temper quickly . I do go to a quiet place and try some deep breathing, but my grandson always comes walki...
Those sound like great ideas, thank you again!!
You're welcome. I hope you find peace within and happiness again. Your grandson will improve with time, it's inevitable! But stay positive, stay focused, and be sure to not take anything out on him as he relies on you and your input. Have a wonderful day!
You're welcome. I hope you find peace within and happiness again. Your grandson will improve with time, it's inevitable! But stay positive, stay focused, and be sure to not take anything out on him as he relies on you and your input. Have a wonderful day!
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
7,368
happy
0.000312
0.000019
0.000008
0.999531
0.000061
0.000025
0.000045
623
1
anxiety
job_crisis
the uncertainty surrounding the corona virus pandemic. the unavailability of jobs. lack of success get jobs applied for. No ease or comfort of end being in sight
5
4
4
4
could be better
I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about anything specific?
I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about anything specific?
Question
Question
7,370
neutral
0.023025
0.000972
0.001311
0.008076
0.714399
0.232286
0.019931
623
2
anxiety
job_crisis
the uncertainty surrounding the corona virus pandemic. the unavailability of jobs. lack of success get jobs applied for. No ease or comfort of end being in sight
5
4
4
4
could be better
thank you, I just don't know what else to do to get a job?
So you're unemployed? I am sorry to hear that. Are you prepared to take jobs that are below your usual level just to get by for a while?
So you're unemployed? I am sorry to hear that. Are you prepared to take jobs that are below your usual level just to get by for a while?
Others
Others
7,371
angry
0.472168
0.000239
0.017016
0.007566
0.037285
0.015422
0.450304
623
3
anxiety
job_crisis
the uncertainty surrounding the corona virus pandemic. the unavailability of jobs. lack of success get jobs applied for. No ease or comfort of end being in sight
5
4
4
4
could be better thank you, I just don't know what else to do to get a job?
have tried that but don't even get an interview
It's a very difficult time to be out of work, I know. I hope that there is something out there for you. Have you tried employment agencies?
It's a very difficult time to be out of work, I know. I hope that there is something out there for you. Have you tried employment agencies?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,372
sad
0.13974
0.001723
0.003949
0.001124
0.097308
0.750657
0.005498
623
4
anxiety
job_crisis
the uncertainty surrounding the corona virus pandemic. the unavailability of jobs. lack of success get jobs applied for. No ease or comfort of end being in sight
5
4
4
4
could be better thank you, I just don't know what else to do to get a job? have tried that but don't even get an interview
yes, I do not qualify for unemployment because I have savings above the min threshold and I also have rental property, which is currently loss making and I can't sell it because it's 30% below market value
Well, on the plus side at least you do have savings .. hopefully this can give you some security for a while
Well, on the plus side at least you do have savings .. hopefully this can give you some security for a while Are your family being supportive of your situation?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,373
neutral
0.218815
0.000475
0.000813
0.00029
0.748141
0.018073
0.013393
623
5
anxiety
job_crisis
the uncertainty surrounding the corona virus pandemic. the unavailability of jobs. lack of success get jobs applied for. No ease or comfort of end being in sight
5
4
4
4
could be better thank you, I just don't know what else to do to get a job? have tried that but don't even get an interview yes, I do not qualify for unemployment because I have savings above the min threshold and I also have rental property, which is currently loss making and I can't sell it because it's 30% below mark...
it's almost depleted, been out of work now for nearly 9 months but still can't get unemployment support because of the property that I cannot get rid off else I will declared bankrupt by the mortgage lender
Perhaps bankruptcy might not be a bad option? You would be eligible for some help then at least.
Perhaps bankruptcy might not be a bad option? You would be eligible for some help then at least.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,374
sad
0.18517
0.001617
0.154085
0.000265
0.18929
0.463471
0.006102
623
6
anxiety
job_crisis
the uncertainty surrounding the corona virus pandemic. the unavailability of jobs. lack of success get jobs applied for. No ease or comfort of end being in sight
5
4
4
4
could be better thank you, I just don't know what else to do to get a job? have tried that but don't even get an interview yes, I do not qualify for unemployment because I have savings above the min threshold and I also have rental property, which is currently loss making and I can't sell it because it's 30% below mark...
family is not being fully supported compared to when I had full time job. had to get rid of one car and other things just to get by but the cost is 7 years of my future???
So you feel as though you have been working hard all your life and now you need help and support and are not getting it
So you feel as though you have been working hard all your life and now you need help and support and are not getting it
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
7,375
sad
0.249607
0.001379
0.001323
0.000203
0.035607
0.697356
0.014526
623
7
anxiety
job_crisis
the uncertainty surrounding the corona virus pandemic. the unavailability of jobs. lack of success get jobs applied for. No ease or comfort of end being in sight
5
4
4
4
could be better thank you, I just don't know what else to do to get a job? have tried that but don't even get an interview yes, I do not qualify for unemployment because I have savings above the min threshold and I also have rental property, which is currently loss making and I can't sell it because it's 30% below mark...
very well put. seems i am being penalised for working hard, saving and investing? I should have been on more holidays and lived all the way above my means!
I know how you feel .. I sometimes feel I would have been better off if I'd just not bothered working!
I know how you feel .. I sometimes feel I would have been better off if I'd just not bothered working! Anyway thank you for talking and I really hope things go better for you in the future :)
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
7,376
angry
0.917124
0.003898
0.00036
0.001516
0.01323
0.032341
0.03153
623
8
anxiety
job_crisis
the uncertainty surrounding the corona virus pandemic. the unavailability of jobs. lack of success get jobs applied for. No ease or comfort of end being in sight
5
4
4
4
could be better thank you, I just don't know what else to do to get a job? have tried that but don't even get an interview yes, I do not qualify for unemployment because I have savings above the min threshold and I also have rental property, which is currently loss making and I can't sell it because it's 30% below mark...
thank you for your help.
You're welcome :) You need to press quit first and take the survey before I can :)
You're welcome :) You need to press quit first and take the survey before I can :) hello? :)
Information, Others
Information
7,377
neutral
0.139675
0.000578
0.001889
0.283899
0.529043
0.006325
0.038592
623
9
anxiety
job_crisis
the uncertainty surrounding the corona virus pandemic. the unavailability of jobs. lack of success get jobs applied for. No ease or comfort of end being in sight
5
4
4
4
could be better thank you, I just don't know what else to do to get a job? have tried that but don't even get an interview yes, I do not qualify for unemployment because I have savings above the min threshold and I also have rental property, which is currently loss making and I can't sell it because it's 30% below mark...
say i can't quit until we have exchanged 10 messages or spent 15min. I think that has all been done, yes?
Please can you quit and take the survey. I cannot do it till you do and neither of us will get paid if I have to quit.
Please can you quit and take the survey. I cannot do it till you do and neither of us will get paid if I have to quit. Yes it's been done :) Please can you quit. I have other things to do and if I have to leave because you did not end this neither of us gets anything. It can only be ended your side.
Others, Information, Others
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My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend.
I am sorry, when did this happen?
I am sorry, when did this happen?
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My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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3
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5
I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend.
It happened two days ago. I can't believe he led me on for almost a year knowing that I had two children and all of a sudden decided that he didn't want to deal with kids.
I can understand the pain you must feel and the betrayal, that is absolutely awful.
I can understand the pain you must feel and the betrayal, that is absolutely awful.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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3
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5
I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend. It happened two days ago. I can't believe he led me on for almost a year knowing that I had two children and all of a sudden decided that he didn't want to deal with kids.
I do. I don't understand why he was fine with my kids for almost a year and all of a sudden it changed. I'm completely blindsided.
How are your children doing through this?
How are your children doing through this?
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My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend. It happened two days ago. I can't believe he led me on for almost a year knowing that I had two children and all of a sudden decided that he didn't want to deal with kids. I do. I don't understand why he was fine with my kids for almost a year and all of a...
They don't know yet. I didn't want to upset them right before Christmas.
What a terrible thing for him to do. I agree with you not to upset them right before Christmas.
What a terrible thing for him to do. I agree with you not to upset them right before Christmas.
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Reflection of feelings
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My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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3
5
5
I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend. It happened two days ago. I can't believe he led me on for almost a year knowing that I had two children and all of a sudden decided that he didn't want to deal with kids. I do. I don't understand why he was fine with my kids for almost a year and all of a...
I'm not really sure how to break it to them when I do finally tell them.
That is always a tough one. My suggestion is to not put him in a bad light since they do not have the angry feelings toward him that you do. Maybe tell them that he has made some choices in life that doesn't involve you, and unfortunately, we cannot control people and their feelings.
That is always a tough one. My suggestion is to not put him in a bad light since they do not have the angry feelings toward him that you do. Maybe tell them that he has made some choices in life that doesn't involve you, and unfortunately, we cannot control people and their feelings.
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Providing Suggestions
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My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend. It happened two days ago. I can't believe he led me on for almost a year knowing that I had two children and all of a sudden decided that he didn't want to deal with kids. I do. I don't understand why he was fine with my kids for almost a year and all of a...
That is a good idea. That would be good so they don't think it has anything to do with them because I'd never want them to feel bad about it!
Exactly, that is a burden that children should never have to endure. They are always the innocent victims in our personal problems.
Exactly, that is a burden that children should never have to endure. They are always the innocent victims in our personal problems.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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3
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I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend. It happened two days ago. I can't believe he led me on for almost a year knowing that I had two children and all of a sudden decided that he didn't want to deal with kids. I do. I don't understand why he was fine with my kids for almost a year and all of a...
Hopefully they don't ask me what choices he made and want details.
True! How old are they?
True! How old are they?
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My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend. It happened two days ago. I can't believe he led me on for almost a year knowing that I had two children and all of a sudden decided that he didn't want to deal with kids. I do. I don't understand why he was fine with my kids for almost a year and all of a...
They are 6 and 8 years old
They should hopefully be young enough not to want details. Maybe if they ask say he didn't give you details because he apparently doesn't know himself what he wants. You sound like a very caring mother who wants the very best for her children.
They should hopefully be young enough not to want details. Maybe if they ask say he didn't give you details because he apparently doesn't know himself what he wants. You sound like a very caring mother who wants the very best for her children.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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3
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I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend. It happened two days ago. I can't believe he led me on for almost a year knowing that I had two children and all of a sudden decided that he didn't want to deal with kids. I do. I don't understand why he was fine with my kids for almost a year and all of a...
thank you! Knowing someone thinks I'm a good mother makes me feel a little better about the situation!
I have a daughter and we have went through something similar in the past so I can relate. The truth is, I have found over time that it is our children who get us through these tough time.
I have a daughter and we have went through something similar in the past so I can relate. The truth is, I have found over time that it is our children who get us through these tough time.
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My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship with someone who had kids.
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I'm really upset about a break up I just had with my boyfriend. It happened two days ago. I can't believe he led me on for almost a year knowing that I had two children and all of a sudden decided that he didn't want to deal with kids. I do. I don't understand why he was fine with my kids for almost a year and all of a...
Yes, seeing their faces tomorrow when they open presents will help get me through this sad time!
You will get through this and come out ahead in the long run, just stay strong!
You will get through this and come out ahead in the long run, just stay strong!
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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the event that put in this mood was a big gathering of people of all sorts and kinds
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Hello
Hello there, how is life for you right now?
Hello there, how is life for you right now?
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Hello
I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though
Well, that sounds vaguely positive but is there something you'd like to talk specifically about?
Well, that sounds vaguely positive but is there something you'd like to talk specifically about?
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though
sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes.
Have you been having some problems with your friends lately? This can be a very stressful time of year, I know.
Have you been having some problems with your friends lately? This can be a very stressful time of year, I know.
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes.
all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyone else I feel like I am clothed from head to toe in it
So you are feeling worried deep down about something right now? Would you like to tell me more about ti?
So you are feeling worried deep down about something right now? Would you like to tell me more about ti?
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
I dunno if its worried so much as feeling so little compared to it. worr worried might not be the right emotion you are really supportive btw 8o)))
Do you think that perhaps you feel numb to things that are going on even though you should be worried about them?
Do you think that perhaps you feel numb to things that are going on even though you should be worried about them?
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
No i think i feel dumb but its not numb. one time i went to the dentist and he gave me a shot in my mouth that was numb this is kinda of a prickley feeling its not numbness.. something close but a stutter mayber
I see - that is interesting, I have never heard of anything like that before. Do you think that there might be some sort of physical problem going on?
I see - that is interesting, I have never heard of anything like that before. Do you think that there might be some sort of physical problem going on?
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
Thank you for clearing it up you are the greatest bestest clairvoyant mturk supporter I have ever met.. Really I mean you have made me see things as they really are. your the first mturk supporter i ever met.. But dont let that discourage you.. you still the best!! merry christmas O nvm it says we have to do this for 1...
Well, erm, thank you and a very Merry Christmas to you too. Yes fifteen minutes :D. Have you thought of making a list of goals for the New Year to motivate yourself?
Well, erm, thank you and a very Merry Christmas to you too. Yes fifteen minutes :D. Have you thought of making a list of goals for the New Year to motivate yourself?
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Providing Suggestions
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
Yea I have been smoking cigarettes for to long all bs aside.. Im going really try to get out of the habit of it this year. hopefully get out of where im staying to.. to a bigger place
I smoke too much too. It costs a lot and it's really bad for my health. I think I am gonna try and quit - again, sigh - in January too
I smoke too much too. It costs a lot and it's really bad for my health. I think I am gonna try and quit - again, sigh - in January too
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
try not to shame my friends or enemies any. do something good for someone this year I hope to.. try to at least.. hehe i said on my birthday which was the end of november i was quitting i really need try harder and do it
Maybe try saving the money you save on cigarettes for a few months and then treat yourself to something really nice?
Maybe try saving the money you save on cigarettes for a few months and then treat yourself to something really nice?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
ya cigarettes they getting up much a pack they really are a waste of money. especially if you dont have alot of money like me ya Im really going to try total waste of money make you smell bad
Nearly ten pounds a pack here (UK). I am gonna try and save up for a new handbag!
Nearly ten pounds a pack here (UK). I am gonna try and save up for a new handbag!
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Self-disclosure
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
hope you kick it to. ya im in the us they about 8 to 10 dollars here in the usa
Everything is cheaper there than here :D. Do you have any fun plans for Christmas Day?
Everything is cheaper there than here :D. Do you have any fun plans for Christmas Day?
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
you can get some generic ones for like 6 bucks a pack.. its questionable if they tobacco though or recycled newspapers i was thinking about hiding everyones christmas presents after they put em under the tree tomorrow night.. but it seems like to much effort and i have stay up after they put em up lol.. other then that...
It will be nice to have a couple of stress free days ... assuming that they are stress free!
It will be nice to have a couple of stress free days ... assuming that they are stress free!
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
hehe i got get over my dumbness i mean my numbness that my real new years resolution
I hope you have a really nice Christmas and New Year too. Let's face it, hopefully 2021 cannot be worse than 2020 (touch wood)
I hope you have a really nice Christmas and New Year too. Let's face it, hopefully 2021 cannot be worse than 2020 (touch wood)
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
hehe hopefully if no more covid outbreaks
Anyway thank you for talking and I hope you feel a little better.
Anyway thank you for talking and I hope you feel a little better.
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Hello I suppose its Life right now anyways at some point in time I suppose it wont be though sure we could talk about the holidays and friends and all the mess it causes. all of it and I seem so little compared to everyone else like im just walking and wearing a ton of shame around me ya I feel so drowned out by everyo...
im ready get out of my little corner
Hit the button and take the survey ;). I can't end it from my side
Hit the button and take the survey ;). I can't end it from my side
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I lost my job.
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I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one.
I'm so sorry to hear that, this has been a hard time for so many.
I'm so sorry to hear that, this has been a hard time for so many.
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I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one.
Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost.
What type of work were you doing if I can ask?
What type of work were you doing if I can ask?
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I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one. Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost.
Project Coordinator.
What field?
What field?
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I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one. Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost. Project Coordinator.
Construction
I'm so sorry. Is there any side work you can get into?
I'm so sorry. Is there any side work you can get into?
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Providing Suggestions
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I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one. Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost. Project Coordinator. Construction
Maybe. I'm looking for work from home jobs in the meantime while looking for jobs
That's a great idea, I'm glad you're looking into things to do in the meantime.
That's a great idea, I'm glad you're looking into things to do in the meantime.
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I lost my job.
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I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one. Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost. Project Coordinator. Construction Maybe. I'm looking for work from home jobs in the meantime while looking for jobs
I'm going to miss the people I worked with as well.
Unfortunately, this is such an isolating time and losing some of that contact is going to be an adjustment. I can completely understand that.
Unfortunately, this is such an isolating time and losing some of that contact is going to be an adjustment. I can completely understand that.
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I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one. Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost. Project Coordinator. Construction Maybe. I'm looking for work from home jobs in the meantime while looking for jobs I'm going to miss the people I worked with as well.
Yes. it is. I know that we'll get through this whole thing, but in the meantime it's just so crazy making and anxiety inducing.
I can definitely relate to that. The amount of anxiety this has all caused is more than I could've ever imagined. The important thing is that we reach out and talk about things in order to help reset and deal with what's going on.
I can definitely relate to that. The amount of anxiety this has all caused is more than I could've ever imagined. The important thing is that we reach out and talk about things in order to help reset and deal with what's going on.
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I lost my job.
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I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one. Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost. Project Coordinator. Construction Maybe. I'm looking for work from home jobs in the meantime while looking for jobs I'm going to miss the people I worked with as well. Yes. it is. I know that we'll get through...
For sure, these times are so scary.
We'll get through it. You seem motivated to find a new job which is half the battle. And construction is a good field to be in, everyone needs the services you can provide.
We'll get through it. You seem motivated to find a new job which is half the battle. And construction is a good field to be in, everyone needs the services you can provide. Even if temporarily this means finding different things to do to get by.
Reflection of feelings, Restatement or Paraphrasing
Reflection of feelings
7,424
fear
0.00017
0.000103
0.998408
0.000096
0.000384
0.000352
0.000487
627
9
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job.
4
3
5
5
I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one. Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost. Project Coordinator. Construction Maybe. I'm looking for work from home jobs in the meantime while looking for jobs I'm going to miss the people I worked with as well. Yes. it is. I know that we'll get through...
Yes. it's just being in the middle of it that's frightening. Thank you for talking to me, it's been helpful
I'm glad we could chat as well.
I'm glad we could chat as well.
Others
Others
7,425
fear
0.000061
0.000094
0.99805
0.000671
0.00016
0.000278
0.000687
628
1
depression
ongoing_depression
I was fired.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I'm not doing very well. I feel very depressed.
Are you aware of things that may have cause your depression?
Are you aware of things that may have cause your depression?
Question
Question
7,427
sad
0.000424
0.000222
0.000085
0.000029
0.000727
0.998432
0.00008
628
2
depression
ongoing_depression
I was fired.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I'm not doing very well. I feel very depressed.
I recently got fired.
I'm sorry to hear, that can be really straining on someone, sounds like you're stressed about the situation
I'm sorry to hear, that can be really straining on someone, sounds like you're stressed about the situation
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
7,428
sad
0.03769
0.000557
0.000733
0.000158
0.05588
0.900691
0.004292
628
3
depression
ongoing_depression
I was fired.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I'm not doing very well. I feel very depressed. I recently got fired.
I guess, I mostly just feel really depressed, like I didn't do a good job.
I often feel the same way when I'm unable to achieve something However I talked to a close friend about the issue to get some feedback
I often feel the same way when I'm unable to achieve something However I talked to a close friend about the issue to get some feedback
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
7,429
sad
0.000214
0.000181
0.000032
0.000031
0.000293
0.999186
0.000064
628
4
depression
ongoing_depression
I was fired.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I'm not doing very well. I feel very depressed. I recently got fired. I guess, I mostly just feel really depressed, like I didn't do a good job.
That sounds like a good idea, I could talk to my best friend about this.
It's great that your willing to speak to someone about it.
It's great that your willing to speak to someone about it.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,430
neutral
0.024545
0.000175
0.000126
0.001425
0.937015
0.001953
0.034761
628
5
depression
ongoing_depression
I was fired.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I'm not doing very well. I feel very depressed. I recently got fired. I guess, I mostly just feel really depressed, like I didn't do a good job. That sounds like a good idea, I could talk to my best friend about this.
I think it might help, maybe I won't feel so sad afterward or so useless.
It sounds like being fired has made you more self negative. Does that sound right?
It sounds like being fired has made you more self negative. Does that sound right?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
7,431
sad
0.000445
0.000151
0.000226
0.000146
0.00639
0.991518
0.001124
628
6
depression
ongoing_depression
I was fired.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I'm not doing very well. I feel very depressed. I recently got fired. I guess, I mostly just feel really depressed, like I didn't do a good job. That sounds like a good idea, I could talk to my best friend about this. I think it might help, maybe I won't feel so sad afterward or so useless.
Yes.
What are some ways you might express this to your best friend when seeking valued feedback?
What are some ways you might express this to your best friend when seeking valued feedback?
Question
Question
7,432
neutral
0.00581
0.000086
0.000198
0.003482
0.982986
0.000957
0.00648
628
7
depression
ongoing_depression
I was fired.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I'm not doing very well. I feel very depressed. I recently got fired. I guess, I mostly just feel really depressed, like I didn't do a good job. That sounds like a good idea, I could talk to my best friend about this. I think it might help, maybe I won't feel so sad afterward or so useless. Yes.
I guess I could say that being fired has made me feel useless and very depressed.
That's a good place to start and hearing feedback can sometimes be hard to hear but I think you can do it !!
That's a good place to start and hearing feedback can sometimes be hard to hear but I think you can do it !!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,433
sad
0.000225
0.000151
0.000053
0.000018
0.000256
0.999254
0.000043
628
8
depression
ongoing_depression
I was fired.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I'm not doing very well. I feel very depressed. I recently got fired. I guess, I mostly just feel really depressed, like I didn't do a good job. That sounds like a good idea, I could talk to my best friend about this. I think it might help, maybe I won't feel so sad afterward or so useless. Yes. I guess I could say...
Thank you, I think that this might help me.
You're very welcome and I know will start to feel better soon.
You're very welcome and I know will start to feel better soon.
Others
Others
7,434
happy
0.014736
0.000391
0.003678
0.595617
0.320327
0.005077
0.060173
628
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I was fired.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I'm not doing very well. I feel very depressed. I recently got fired. I guess, I mostly just feel really depressed, like I didn't do a good job. That sounds like a good idea, I could talk to my best friend about this. I think it might help, maybe I won't feel so sad afterward or so useless. Yes. I guess I could say...
Thank you very much. I think this will really help.
Is there anything else you have on your mind?
Is there anything else you have on your mind?
Question
Question
7,435
happy
0.000603
0.000019
0.000014
0.998679
0.000326
0.000116
0.000243
630
1
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning.
Something unexpected happened today?
Something unexpected happened today?
Question
Question
7,447
neutral
0.002278
0.000135
0.000156
0.003811
0.955741
0.004967
0.032911
630
2
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning.
No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard
Holidays can add pressure to our "normal" situations.
Holidays can add pressure to our "normal" situations. Did you find that your normal coping mechanisms were not as helpful today?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,448
neutral
0.022646
0.000248
0.000175
0.001638
0.949372
0.01541
0.010511
630
3
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard
Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positivity when I feel so negative.
Sounds like your support is not appreciated.
Sounds like your support is not appreciated.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
7,449
sad
0.000981
0.000087
0.000176
0.000739
0.001482
0.996368
0.000167
630
4
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
Usually coping is either eating a ton of food or smoking marijuana, but with the holiday money is tight. I am listening to emo pop music from the 2000's now to help.
Music definitely helps!
Music definitely helps! I have a list of songs that I like to sing to. I can't really sing, like, at all. But I love to do it. And it makes me forget about whatever is going on.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Self-disclosure
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,450
neutral
0.007447
0.000551
0.013428
0.001381
0.510247
0.45764
0.009306
630
5
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
Honestly, in the past I have been a lot lower than I am now. I really just hope I am able to stay strong for as long as i can right now Honestly i do the same thing a lot. Songs with a lot of emotion that i can belt out
You are certainly self-aware. Better off than most people!
You are certainly self-aware. Better off than most people!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,451
neutral
0.002757
0.000303
0.001264
0.007561
0.764014
0.222004
0.002096
630
6
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
i will have to find somewhere i can properly exercise my awful vocals lol
Ah! I like pop songs from the 60's :-)
Ah! I like pop songs from the 60's :-) Ha! The car is always good!
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
7,452
happy
0.025164
0.132446
0.000855
0.816074
0.019295
0.004064
0.002102
630
7
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
honestly its because i have been hospitalized due to my mental state. i try to be as self aware as possible now. i just hate the feeling of being blindsided.
Have you tried The Smiths? Band from the 80's. They are my go to for when I am feeling low.
Have you tried The Smiths? Band from the 80's. They are my go to for when I am feeling low.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
7,453
surprised
0.271076
0.009154
0.00601
0.000562
0.02046
0.077228
0.61551
630
8
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
i will give the throwbacks a try today. I do get down with a few of the older bands thats for sure
To be blindsided is a violation of trust.
To be blindsided is a violation of trust. Have you spoken to her about it at all, or is that not your jam? It's ok. A lot of people are non-confrontational. Society tells us we should be able to express our boundaries. Not everyone is comfortable with that and that is ok.
Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions, Information
Reflection of feelings
7,454
neutral
0.000734
0.000047
0.000047
0.001658
0.992682
0.000511
0.004323
630
9
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
we literally just talked about it an hour ago. she says she doesnt know what she wants and she doesnt know how long but she doesnt want to be away from me right now. which i feel just isnt fair. i feel like no one can just pick and choose when they want someone around.
But that puts more responsibility on you for your feelings. Sounds like you have coping skills for that.
But that puts more responsibility on you for your feelings. Sounds like you have coping skills for that.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,455
angry
0.993924
0.001062
0.000033
0.000104
0.002952
0.001747
0.000178
630
10
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
i know. with COVID this is so much harder. i may just take a long walk and try to focus on myself, because it seems like our future is in flux and it seems like it could go either way.
You're right. That is not fair. You are feeling conflict and abandoned/not-abandoned.
You're right. That is not fair. You are feeling conflict and abandoned/not-abandoned. Could you make the decision?
Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions
Reflection of feelings
7,456
neutral
0.004858
0.000151
0.002195
0.001122
0.890846
0.020393
0.080436
630
11
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
i feel like what i may do, is just sleep on the couch for now and give her as much space as possible, at least for now i think
Only you are responsible for you. I was with someone who, although we had great fun together, he couldn't be with me as much as I wanted him to. And it made me feel bad. Because it brought up feelings from when I was growing up and neglected.
Only you are responsible for you. I was with someone who, although we had great fun together, he couldn't be with me as much as I wanted him to. And it made me feel bad. Because it brought up feelings from when I was growing up and neglected. It took a long time, and it ...wasn't a clean break. I just got tired of feel...
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
7,457
neutral
0.0017
0.000063
0.000074
0.001333
0.982658
0.001432
0.01274
630
12
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
Right, it just feels crappy right now. literally yesterday her mom was telling me how happy she is that i take such good care of her daughter. I will have to just prioritize myself and hope it all works out. after 5 years its just hard
You said it, prioritize yourself. The rest will fall into place. It always does.
You said it, prioritize yourself. The rest will fall into place. It always does.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
7,458
sad
0.001292
0.000478
0.000053
0.000484
0.003638
0.993818
0.000237
630
13
depression
breakup_with_partner
Its not even a break up, my girlfriend wants space after 5 years, she wants to rent a room on her own without me, and it feels over.
3
2
5
5
Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning. No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positiv...
thank you. i really appreciate it. i will do the best i can i promise.
I know you will ;-)
I know you will ;-)
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,459
happy
0.002609
0.000028
0.000061
0.996937
0.000185
0.00013
0.00005
631
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello
Hello. How are you doing today?
Hello. How are you doing today?
Question
Question
7,460
neutral
0.004226
0.000116
0.000071
0.00422
0.989792
0.000161
0.001414
631
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello
I have had better days.
Would you like to talk about it?
Would you like to talk about it?
Question
Question
7,461
happy
0.000598
0.000223
0.00003
0.983206
0.01021
0.004557
0.001177
631
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello I have had better days.
I could use someone to talk to.
I would love to listen. Where would you like to start?
I would love to listen. Where would you like to start?
Others
Others
7,462
neutral
0.001019
0.000076
0.000281
0.000401
0.994501
0.001973
0.001748
631
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello I have had better days. I could use someone to talk to.
Ive been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years.
I'm so sorry to hear that. Breakups are never an easy thing. I've also gone through those and they can make you feel awful.
I'm so sorry to hear that. Breakups are never an easy thing. I've also gone through those and they can make you feel awful.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
7,463
sad
0.000139
0.000079
0.000036
0.000037
0.000158
0.999528
0.000023
631
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello I have had better days. I could use someone to talk to. Ive been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years.
Im just trying to pick up the pieces and look to be positive.
That's an excellent place to start. It's hard but I believe that you can do it.
That's an excellent place to start. It's hard but I believe that you can do it. Do you have any family or friends that you've been speaking to about this?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,464
neutral
0.001303
0.000083
0.000177
0.009525
0.983877
0.001442
0.003592
631
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello I have had better days. I could use someone to talk to. Ive been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years. Im just trying to pick up the pieces and look to be positive.
Thanks for the encouragement. That means a lot. Any suggestions on how I can get my mind off of it?
Do you have any hobbies? I found that refocusing my energy into something I love doing really helped to bring my mood up.
Do you have any hobbies? I found that refocusing my energy into something I love doing really helped to bring my mood up.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,465
happy
0.020825
0.000403
0.002331
0.462082
0.451838
0.022886
0.039634
631
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello I have had better days. I could use someone to talk to. Ive been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years. Im just trying to pick up the pieces and look to be positive. Thanks for the encouragement. That means a lot. Any suggestions on how I can get my mind off of it?
Great advice. I think Im going to start up taking yoga again and catch up on some books Ive been wanting to read.
Yoga is an amazing stress reliever. I practice myself! I like your game plan and I think you'll start feeling the results sooner than you think.
Yoga is an amazing stress reliever. I practice myself! I like your game plan and I think you'll start feeling the results sooner than you think.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
7,466
happy
0.000774
0.000312
0.002455
0.670095
0.316216
0.003698
0.006451
631
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello I have had better days. I could use someone to talk to. Ive been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years. Im just trying to pick up the pieces and look to be positive. Thanks for the encouragement. That means a lot. Any suggestions on how I can get my mind off of it? Great advice. I think Im g...
I think Im going to lay low on dating for a while.
I completely understand. You'll know when you're ready again and it's great to take things at your own pace. All that matters is to do things when you're ready to.
I completely understand. You'll know when you're ready again and it's great to take things at your own pace. All that matters is to do things when you're ready to.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,467
neutral
0.00492
0.000289
0.000241
0.000862
0.959315
0.014949
0.019424
631
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello I have had better days. I could use someone to talk to. Ive been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years. Im just trying to pick up the pieces and look to be positive. Thanks for the encouragement. That means a lot. Any suggestions on how I can get my mind off of it? Great advice. I think Im g...
How long do you think I should take a break for?
Honestly, that will end up being up to you. With my last big breakup, I didn't date for almost a year until I met someone. I would suggest at least a month or so to take some time for yourself and focus on yourself and what makes you happy so when you are ready to date again, you have a stronger sense of self.
Honestly, that will end up being up to you. With my last big breakup, I didn't date for almost a year until I met someone. I would suggest at least a month or so to take some time for yourself and focus on yourself and what makes you happy so when you are ready to date again, you have a stronger sense of self.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
7,468
neutral
0.005288
0.000049
0.000111
0.00021
0.980371
0.000574
0.013396
631
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello I have had better days. I could use someone to talk to. Ive been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years. Im just trying to pick up the pieces and look to be positive. Thanks for the encouragement. That means a lot. Any suggestions on how I can get my mind off of it? Great advice. I think Im g...
Thanks. That is great advice. I wouldnt want to go into something just for the sake of dating.
Agreed. Taking the breather definitely helps.
Agreed. Taking the breather definitely helps.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,469
angry
0.881767
0.001776
0.00042
0.001788
0.091551
0.008552
0.014146
631
11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I broke up with my girlfriend.
4
2
5
5
Hello I have had better days. I could use someone to talk to. Ive been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years. Im just trying to pick up the pieces and look to be positive. Thanks for the encouragement. That means a lot. Any suggestions on how I can get my mind off of it? Great advice. I think Im g...
Sounds good. I will take your advice.
I'm glad. I really wish you the best and I know that you're going to come through this stronger.
I'm glad. I really wish you the best and I know that you're going to come through this stronger.
Affirmation and Reassurance
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im am under alot stress
Would you like to go into the reasons you are feeling stressful?
Would you like to go into the reasons you are feeling stressful?
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im am under alot stress
i feel like i am letting my students down
Oh no, are you doing remote teaching now?
Oh no, are you doing remote teaching now?
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im am under alot stress i feel like i am letting my students down
yes and it is hard to feel like i am adequately reaching them
I can see how that is really tough right now. I have a daughter whose 10 so im seeing it from the other side.
I can see how that is really tough right now. I have a daughter whose 10 so im seeing it from the other side.
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im am under alot stress i feel like i am letting my students down yes and it is hard to feel like i am adequately reaching them
I also have kids so i have the added pressure of trying to teach my own kids and teach 80 others.
I hear you on that. I would just try to keep on going, unfortunately for everyone's safety we have to make these sacrifices. Hopefully we will be able to get back on track soon.
I hear you on that. I would just try to keep on going, unfortunately for everyone's safety we have to make these sacrifices. Hopefully we will be able to get back on track soon.
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im am under alot stress i feel like i am letting my students down yes and it is hard to feel like i am adequately reaching them I also have kids so i have the added pressure of trying to teach my own kids and teach 80 others.
i hope so , i know that everyone has to sacrifice but that doesnt make it easier. Knowing that some kids have no one to help them or even take care of them can take a toll on you
Yeah even i can see that when i see my daughters class. It is a bad situation all around. The thing is though you cant focus on that or it will bleed out into your job. You have to try to stay positive and promote positivity even with how hard it can be.
Yeah even i can see that when i see my daughters class. It is a bad situation all around. The thing is though you cant focus on that or it will bleed out into your job. You have to try to stay positive and promote positivity even with how hard it can be.
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