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632
6
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to adapt to teaching students online and feeling like I am failing them
5
2
5
5
im am under alot stress i feel like i am letting my students down yes and it is hard to feel like i am adequately reaching them I also have kids so i have the added pressure of trying to teach my own kids and teach 80 others. i hope so , i know that everyone has to sacrifice but that doesnt make it easier. Knowing that...
yes but my job is the kids, turning that of me off would be turning the teacher in me off
Oh sorry i guess it came off wrong. I meant try not to let it overwhelm you so you can focus more on the kids.
Oh sorry i guess it came off wrong. I meant try not to let it overwhelm you so you can focus more on the kids. I know my kids school has had issues with parents not being there or helping and they were able to intervene. Is that not available at your school?
Others, Self-disclosure
Others
7,477
angry
0.808517
0.00168
0.000603
0.000301
0.166858
0.007846
0.014195
632
7
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to adapt to teaching students online and feeling like I am failing them
5
2
5
5
im am under alot stress i feel like i am letting my students down yes and it is hard to feel like i am adequately reaching them I also have kids so i have the added pressure of trying to teach my own kids and teach 80 others. i hope so , i know that everyone has to sacrifice but that doesnt make it easier. Knowing that...
We do what we can but when we can not be in school we are lomited on what we can do not enough staff for all that need help
I am sorry to hear that i really am
I am sorry to hear that i really am
Others
Others
7,478
sad
0.054965
0.00207
0.012739
0.000127
0.026827
0.901886
0.001385
632
8
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to adapt to teaching students online and feeling like I am failing them
5
2
5
5
im am under alot stress i feel like i am letting my students down yes and it is hard to feel like i am adequately reaching them I also have kids so i have the added pressure of trying to teach my own kids and teach 80 others. i hope so , i know that everyone has to sacrifice but that doesnt make it easier. Knowing that...
it just gets to me that the kids are the ones that are being affected the most by everything
Yeah i know, and schools have had since march of last year to really prepare but it feels like they left everything to the last minute. I know my distract didnt even have a plan for remote until the last week of august.
Yeah i know, and schools have had since march of last year to really prepare but it feels like they left everything to the last minute. I know my distract didnt even have a plan for remote until the last week of august. Sometimes its good to just vent like this though. Get a bit of perspective.
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
7,479
sad
0.001534
0.001918
0.0012
0.000106
0.008744
0.893954
0.092544
633
1
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today.
Ohh, sorry to hear that. Any partucular reason?
Ohh, sorry to hear that. Any partucular reason?
Question
Question
7,481
sad
0.000208
0.00015
0.000038
0.000055
0.00042
0.999074
0.000056
633
2
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today.
Yes I feel like my friends just don't care about me much at all.
You saying that your friend does not care about you any more. Is that correct?
You saying that your friend does not care about you any more. Is that correct?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
7,482
angry
0.469771
0.006903
0.000365
0.028955
0.078713
0.400198
0.015096
633
3
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today. Yes I feel like my friends just don't care about me much at all.
Yes, when we get together all they want to do is talk about themselves. When I raise something that is bothering me they just ignore what I say and go back to what they want to talk about.
That's not good. You must be feeling left out.
That's not good. You must be feeling left out.
Others
Others
7,483
angry
0.985485
0.007451
0.000072
0.000084
0.003874
0.00291
0.000124
633
4
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today. Yes I feel like my friends just don't care about me much at all. Yes, when we get together all they want to do is talk about themselves. When I raise something that is bothering me they just ignore what I say and go back to what they want to talk about.
Yes I feel left out and unsupported by them.
Any particular reason they are doing such thing?
Any particular reason they are doing such thing?
Question
Question
7,484
sad
0.003988
0.000406
0.001154
0.00006
0.010165
0.983421
0.000806
633
5
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today. Yes I feel like my friends just don't care about me much at all. Yes, when we get together all they want to do is talk about themselves. When I raise something that is bothering me they just ignore what I say and go back to what they want to talk about. Yes I feel left out and unsupport...
Well I think they don't care about me and are just selfish about their needs.
In that case, should you consider them as your friends?
In that case, should you consider them as your friends?
Question
Question
7,485
angry
0.940378
0.020493
0.000126
0.000375
0.03057
0.006406
0.001651
633
6
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today. Yes I feel like my friends just don't care about me much at all. Yes, when we get together all they want to do is talk about themselves. When I raise something that is bothering me they just ignore what I say and go back to what they want to talk about. Yes I feel left out and unsupport...
Well they are the only friends I have and I have known them a long time. Do you think I should stop being friends with them ?
If someone is not friendly they are not real friend. You need to find someone who will stand by you no matter what..
If someone is not friendly they are not real friend. You need to find someone who will stand by you no matter what..
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,486
angry
0.934465
0.001287
0.000149
0.000228
0.055797
0.002752
0.005321
633
7
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today. Yes I feel like my friends just don't care about me much at all. Yes, when we get together all they want to do is talk about themselves. When I raise something that is bothering me they just ignore what I say and go back to what they want to talk about. Yes I feel left out and unsupport...
Oh well that makes me feel sad too. I will be saying goodbye to some long friendships. Do you think that is the only answer ?
Ok.. how about hosting them in your place for a gettogether..
Ok.. how about hosting them in your place for a gettogether..
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,487
sad
0.000663
0.000358
0.000063
0.000041
0.001598
0.99594
0.001337
633
8
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today. Yes I feel like my friends just don't care about me much at all. Yes, when we get together all they want to do is talk about themselves. When I raise something that is bothering me they just ignore what I say and go back to what they want to talk about. Yes I feel left out and unsupport...
Ok how do you think that would help me ?
They might open up if you are hosting .. people are generally nice to the host..
They might open up if you are hosting .. people are generally nice to the host..
Information
Information
7,488
angry
0.888003
0.000244
0.000291
0.001111
0.069795
0.001089
0.039467
633
9
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today. Yes I feel like my friends just don't care about me much at all. Yes, when we get together all they want to do is talk about themselves. When I raise something that is bothering me they just ignore what I say and go back to what they want to talk about. Yes I feel left out and unsupport...
Yes that is true, it's a good idea. I could also take the opportunity to tell them how I am feeling.
Good.. let's try that.. Anythign else I could help you with?
Good.. let's try that.. Anythign else I could help you with?
Question
Question
7,489
neutral
0.007502
0.000081
0.000166
0.00025
0.984741
0.001494
0.005767
633
10
sadness
problems_with_friends
I feel like my friends don't care about me at all. When we get together all they want to do is talk about their lives. When I raise something that is bothering me they just make some trite response and then move back to what they want to talk about.
3
2
5
5
Hi I am feeling quite sad today. Yes I feel like my friends just don't care about me much at all. Yes, when we get together all they want to do is talk about themselves. When I raise something that is bothering me they just ignore what I say and go back to what they want to talk about. Yes I feel left out and unsupport...
No you have been very helpful and I feel much better now I have a plan of action to address my problem. Thanks.
Thank you .. have a good day.
Thank you .. have a good day.
Others
Others
7,490
happy
0.000123
0.00002
0.000009
0.999493
0.000117
0.000195
0.000043
634
1
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello
Hello
Hello
Others
Others
7,491
neutral
0.004226
0.000116
0.000071
0.00422
0.989792
0.000161
0.001414
634
2
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello
Hi
How are you doing today?
How are you doing today?
Question
Question
7,492
neutral
0.003783
0.000183
0.000154
0.031973
0.960893
0.000259
0.002756
634
3
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello Hi
selling all my stuff to move out of the house. Trying to get some short term cash Couldn't pay my rent
I know that moving due to a lack of funds can be extremely hard. I'm sorry you are going through that.
I know that moving due to a lack of funds can be extremely hard. I'm sorry you are going through that.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
7,493
sad
0.000741
0.000105
0.000874
0.000054
0.00013
0.998082
0.000015
634
4
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello Hi selling all my stuff to move out of the house. Trying to get some short term cash Couldn't pay my rent
I am not moving I won't have a home in 2 days
I apologize. That is much harder situation. Are you unable to fight it due to the COVID-19 moratorium on evictions?
I apologize. That is much harder situation. Are you unable to fight it due to the COVID-19 moratorium on evictions?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
7,494
neutral
0.040598
0.000124
0.000374
0.000239
0.949457
0.003477
0.005731
634
5
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello Hi selling all my stuff to move out of the house. Trying to get some short term cash Couldn't pay my rent I am not moving I won't have a home in 2 days
No, since too much time has passed
Have you tried any local churches or agencies? findhelp.org is also a great resource.
Have you tried any local churches or agencies? findhelp.org is also a great resource.
Information
Information
7,495
neutral
0.150905
0.000586
0.000815
0.000186
0.781779
0.023504
0.042224
634
6
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello Hi selling all my stuff to move out of the house. Trying to get some short term cash Couldn't pay my rent I am not moving I won't have a home in 2 days No, since too much time has passed
I am just glad I don't have any children...too hard for them to live on the streets I am going to go out looking today. my Internet gets cut off today
There should be funds to provide you with a hotel. Please check into that as well.
There should be funds to provide you with a hotel. Please check into that as well.
Information
Information
7,496
neutral
0.005286
0.000553
0.000928
0.048928
0.876695
0.062627
0.004984
634
7
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello Hi selling all my stuff to move out of the house. Trying to get some short term cash Couldn't pay my rent I am not moving I won't have a home in 2 days No, since too much time has passed I am just glad I don't have any children...too hard for them to live on the streets I am going to go out looking today. my Inte...
Where can I get those?
I would call the local social services department. The money was allocated to try to stop the spread of the virus. findhelp.org may have information as well.
I would call the local social services department. The money was allocated to try to stop the spread of the virus. findhelp.org may have information as well.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,497
surprised
0.025175
0.000386
0.000687
0.001315
0.388686
0.002341
0.58141
634
8
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello Hi selling all my stuff to move out of the house. Trying to get some short term cash Couldn't pay my rent I am not moving I won't have a home in 2 days No, since too much time has passed I am just glad I don't have any children...too hard for them to live on the streets I am going to go out looking today. my Inte...
Do you know how much it is?
There should not be a cost to you.
There should not be a cost to you.
Information
Information
7,498
surprised
0.008205
0.000265
0.00017
0.000561
0.332942
0.000925
0.656932
634
9
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello Hi selling all my stuff to move out of the house. Trying to get some short term cash Couldn't pay my rent I am not moving I won't have a home in 2 days No, since too much time has passed I am just glad I don't have any children...too hard for them to live on the streets I am going to go out looking today. my Inte...
I mean, how much money do they provide?
I'm not sure.
I'm not sure.
Information
Information
7,499
neutral
0.034432
0.000379
0.000299
0.000328
0.509295
0.002298
0.452969
634
10
sadness
ongoing_depression
lost my job and will be living on the streets in 2 days
5
4
4
4
Hello Hi selling all my stuff to move out of the house. Trying to get some short term cash Couldn't pay my rent I am not moving I won't have a home in 2 days No, since too much time has passed I am just glad I don't have any children...too hard for them to live on the streets I am going to go out looking today. my Inte...
I will start researching it now. Thanks for the info.
My pleasure. I hope you can find some assistance. If nothing else, call you local health department and/or local church.
My pleasure. I hope you can find some assistance. If nothing else, call you local health department and/or local church.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,500
neutral
0.003727
0.000097
0.000491
0.001099
0.979566
0.000412
0.014607
637
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. He left me for a younger girl.
5
3
4
4
I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me!
what is your problem?
what is your problem? explain to me?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
7,525
sad
0.000339
0.000111
0.000042
0.00005
0.000356
0.999052
0.00005
637
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. He left me for a younger girl.
5
3
4
4
I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me!
I just need someone to talk to because I am so sad.
i am with you ,share your problem to me.
i am with you ,share your problem to me.
Question
Question
7,526
sad
0.000745
0.000232
0.000505
0.000103
0.007385
0.990576
0.000453
637
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. He left me for a younger girl.
5
3
4
4
I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me! I just need someone to talk to because I am so sad.
My boyfriend broke up with me today. We have been together for 4 years He left me for a younger girl. I cant believe it!
don't feel past is past.
don't feel past is past. what happend ?
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
Providing Suggestions
7,527
sad
0.000226
0.000086
0.000047
0.000143
0.000188
0.998911
0.000399
637
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. He left me for a younger girl.
5
3
4
4
I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me! I just need someone to talk to because I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me today. We have been together for 4 years He left me for a younger girl. I cant believe it!
I thought I was going to marry him He sent me a TEXT that said he didnt want to be with me anymore I had to find out threw social media that he has a new girlfriend
you don't feel about anything.
you don't feel about anything. he was fake. believe your self and change your mind .
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
7,528
sad
0.031791
0.009445
0.008404
0.026059
0.054696
0.768505
0.101099
637
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. He left me for a younger girl.
5
3
4
4
I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me! I just need someone to talk to because I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me today. We have been together for 4 years He left me for a younger girl. I cant believe it! I thought I was going to marry him He sent me a TEXT that said he didnt want to be with me anymore I ha...
Its going to be so hard. I dont think I can make it threw this
obay your parents advice.
obay your parents advice.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,529
sad
0.015934
0.00033
0.012773
0.000225
0.015819
0.953647
0.001273
637
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. He left me for a younger girl.
5
3
4
4
I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me! I just need someone to talk to because I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me today. We have been together for 4 years He left me for a younger girl. I cant believe it! I thought I was going to marry him He sent me a TEXT that said he didnt want to be with me anymore I ha...
I havent told them yet
you should tell them .they give a great solution .
you should tell them .they give a great solution .
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
7,530
neutral
0.012139
0.000083
0.000191
0.000224
0.972759
0.001968
0.012636
637
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. He left me for a younger girl.
5
3
4
4
I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me! I just need someone to talk to because I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me today. We have been together for 4 years He left me for a younger girl. I cant believe it! I thought I was going to marry him He sent me a TEXT that said he didnt want to be with me anymore I ha...
I will try that.
okay, good
okay, good
Others
Others
7,531
neutral
0.004619
0.00007
0.000212
0.000403
0.990836
0.000472
0.003388
637
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. He left me for a younger girl.
5
3
4
4
I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me! I just need someone to talk to because I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me today. We have been together for 4 years He left me for a younger girl. I cant believe it! I thought I was going to marry him He sent me a TEXT that said he didnt want to be with me anymore I ha...
thank you for talking with me. I will reach out to my parents tomorrow and hopefully they will give me some advice.
yes ,definitely you ask them next you make very peacefull moment.
yes ,definitely you ask them next you make very peacefull moment. god grace to you.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,532
neutral
0.00071
0.000064
0.001816
0.001254
0.994026
0.001137
0.000992
637
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. He left me for a younger girl.
5
3
4
4
I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me! I just need someone to talk to because I am so sad. My boyfriend broke up with me today. We have been together for 4 years He left me for a younger girl. I cant believe it! I thought I was going to marry him He sent me a TEXT that said he didnt want to be with me anymore I ha...
thank you
i will pray them.you don't feel any thing
i will pray them.you don't feel any thing you are a such a good person so you make good life.
Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance
Self-disclosure
7,533
angry
0.5255
0.001122
0.001474
0.040831
0.392514
0.000757
0.037803
638
1
nervousness
academic_pressure
About to take a licensure exam for my field. I get 1 try a year to pass at a 90% rate. I deal with a lot of test anxiety and the current COVID-19 crisis has amplified my worries. How can I put myself at ease in the testing center and ace this exam?
4
1
5
5
I have a licensure exam coming up that I must pass at a 90% score. I have dealt with test anxiety all my life (mind goes blank, difficulty concentrating with noise) and I have to take my exam in a testing center around other people next week. I am extra worried due to COVID. This is a 6 hour exam - what are ways I can ...
First of all, you can bring some snacks and water. having an empty stomach will distract you from the exam
First of all, you can bring some snacks and water. having an empty stomach will distract you from the exam
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,535
fear
0.000077
0.000053
0.997094
0.000203
0.000074
0.002419
0.00008
638
2
nervousness
academic_pressure
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I have a licensure exam coming up that I must pass at a 90% score. I have dealt with test anxiety all my life (mind goes blank, difficulty concentrating with noise) and I have to take my exam in a testing center around other people next week. I am extra worried due to COVID. This is a 6 hour exam - what are ways I can ...
If you were about to take the most important test of your life (ha!) what would you suggest I do to organize my review the days before the exam? Do you have any study suggestions that have worked for you?
I have been in that situation many times. From my own experience, yes you should review as much as you can. However, relax the last 2-3 days to not overwhelm yourself. You should also do image training, imagine yourself in the test room, plan ahead what you will do like write your name, open the exam booklet...
I have been in that situation many times. From my own experience, yes you should review as much as you can. However, relax the last 2-3 days to not overwhelm yourself. You should also do image training, imagine yourself in the test room, plan ahead what you will do like write your name, open the exam booklet...
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About to take a licensure exam for my field. I get 1 try a year to pass at a 90% rate. I deal with a lot of test anxiety and the current COVID-19 crisis has amplified my worries. How can I put myself at ease in the testing center and ace this exam?
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I have a licensure exam coming up that I must pass at a 90% score. I have dealt with test anxiety all my life (mind goes blank, difficulty concentrating with noise) and I have to take my exam in a testing center around other people next week. I am extra worried due to COVID. This is a 6 hour exam - what are ways I can ...
You give good advice, how have you grown into a calm, cool person? :) What obstacles did you have to overcome to get to this level of chill?
It takes alot to grow into that kind of person, I'm not there yet. I find it vital to understand this, you cannot control everything. As long as you try your best, whatever the outcomes are, they all serve a purpose. When one door closes, the others will open
It takes alot to grow into that kind of person, I'm not there yet. I find it vital to understand this, you cannot control everything. As long as you try your best, whatever the outcomes are, they all serve a purpose. When one door closes, the others will open
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About to take a licensure exam for my field. I get 1 try a year to pass at a 90% rate. I deal with a lot of test anxiety and the current COVID-19 crisis has amplified my worries. How can I put myself at ease in the testing center and ace this exam?
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I have a licensure exam coming up that I must pass at a 90% score. I have dealt with test anxiety all my life (mind goes blank, difficulty concentrating with noise) and I have to take my exam in a testing center around other people next week. I am extra worried due to COVID. This is a 6 hour exam - what are ways I can ...
That is really helpful advice. I think part of my problem is that I still think I can control every detail and need to learn to let things happen once the ball is in motion. For an exam, I want to do so well because so much is riding on it and that freezes me into trying to control for all outcomes... when really, I ca...
You are right, I also want to be in control of my life. However, as I grow older, I realize that is impossible. Whenever you feel stressed over life issues, I would recommend taking a walk in the park or anywhere with a lot of trees to clear you mind
You are right, I also want to be in control of my life. However, as I grow older, I realize that is impossible. Whenever you feel stressed over life issues, I would recommend taking a walk in the park or anywhere with a lot of trees to clear you mind
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About to take a licensure exam for my field. I get 1 try a year to pass at a 90% rate. I deal with a lot of test anxiety and the current COVID-19 crisis has amplified my worries. How can I put myself at ease in the testing center and ace this exam?
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I have a licensure exam coming up that I must pass at a 90% score. I have dealt with test anxiety all my life (mind goes blank, difficulty concentrating with noise) and I have to take my exam in a testing center around other people next week. I am extra worried due to COVID. This is a 6 hour exam - what are ways I can ...
I will definitely arrive early to the test center and walk the campus before going in. Get enough to eat beforehand and bring my snacks so I can focus just on the exam. I'm writing all of this down so I don't forget. It is a shame we can't save the chat. Thank you for being my peer-supporter, today. You have been a hug...
sounds like a great plan, i believe you will do well
sounds like a great plan, i believe you will do well Is there anything I can help you with?
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I have a licensure exam coming up that I must pass at a 90% score. I have dealt with test anxiety all my life (mind goes blank, difficulty concentrating with noise) and I have to take my exam in a testing center around other people next week. I am extra worried due to COVID. This is a 6 hour exam - what are ways I can ...
Do you have any ideas on what I should about sanitizing my workstation at the exam center? I will be around other people and someone will have used my computer before me. I don't think they are cleaning the stations before the next user.
Buy some alcohol wipe, you can find it at the grocery store, make sure to come in early enough to do that
Buy some alcohol wipe, you can find it at the grocery store, make sure to come in early enough to do that
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About to take a licensure exam for my field. I get 1 try a year to pass at a 90% rate. I deal with a lot of test anxiety and the current COVID-19 crisis has amplified my worries. How can I put myself at ease in the testing center and ace this exam?
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I have a licensure exam coming up that I must pass at a 90% score. I have dealt with test anxiety all my life (mind goes blank, difficulty concentrating with noise) and I have to take my exam in a testing center around other people next week. I am extra worried due to COVID. This is a 6 hour exam - what are ways I can ...
Alright. I think the proctors will allow it as long as I don't have a bulky bag with me. Maybe some I can just slip into my pocket. Anything too fussy might be cause for them thinking I am bringing answers in with me. I don't have much else to ask about, these were my main concerns.
I believe they sell individual packs of 10 wipes too.Good lick with your exam!~
I believe they sell individual packs of 10 wipes too.Good lick with your exam!~
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About to take a licensure exam for my field. I get 1 try a year to pass at a 90% rate. I deal with a lot of test anxiety and the current COVID-19 crisis has amplified my worries. How can I put myself at ease in the testing center and ace this exam?
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I have a licensure exam coming up that I must pass at a 90% score. I have dealt with test anxiety all my life (mind goes blank, difficulty concentrating with noise) and I have to take my exam in a testing center around other people next week. I am extra worried due to COVID. This is a 6 hour exam - what are ways I can ...
Thanks to your help, I believe I will do well next week. :) Maybe you should be a counselor, if you aren't already. :)
I would love to do that, I like talking with people and listen to their stories
I would love to do that, I like talking with people and listen to their stories
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well.
I have been in that same situation before! I had the exact feelings you are! But after realizing how much I studied it helped me relax.
I have been in that same situation before! I had the exact feelings you are! But after realizing how much I studied it helped me relax. Have you talked to your teachers about your worrying?
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well.
I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to waste a lot of time doing other things, and procrastinating. So I am catching up and I know I can finish them, but just that I could have done better, so there's an element of guilt and shame invol...
From what I have seen, people who have noticed they are having issues tend to come out ahead! Its great that you are thinking about how to get through this.
From what I have seen, people who have noticed they are having issues tend to come out ahead! Its great that you are thinking about how to get through this. I also get into slumps with being productive and motivation, I was told when that happens that I just need to take a step back and relax for a little bit.
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well. I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to was...
I see. I do see a problem and just last week I kind of started to prioritize things and take things more seriously, as the deadlines wind down. I am a little behind schedule, but not severely. yes I do that too. I understand what you mean. The problem with me is I alternate with relaxation with studying too much, and b...
That's really great! I bet you are closer than you think to finishing those deadlines.
That's really great! I bet you are closer than you think to finishing those deadlines.
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well. I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to was...
the stress and panic of the last minute crunch has worked in the past for me in becoming more conscientious Thank you. I appreciate your input so far.
When you are usually in a last minute crunch, what do you do to get past it?
When you are usually in a last minute crunch, what do you do to get past it?
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well. I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to was...
I really really try to focus and just put all distractions away. Drink coffee, sleep less, and just get it done with less distractions with only the outcome and goal on my mind. It usually works and I did that for example, yesterday. So most of my day at home yesterday was spent on studying, and not so much on other pr...
I know some people look for tutors, or others taking the same classes for inputs on work that has to be turned in.
I know some people look for tutors, or others taking the same classes for inputs on work that has to be turned in. Is there an easy way for you to put the other preoccupations to the side so they are not so distracting?
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well. I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to was...
yes I understand that too. I tend to be more solitary in nature. For me, I talk to my friend for help, a really close friend for advice and my troubles. But most of the time, I get through these logistical and existential problems myself. Not so much that I don't know how to do them or understand the courses or how to ...
Thats good! I bet that would help out a lot, that tends to be the case for me!
Thats good! I bet that would help out a lot, that tends to be the case for me!
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well. I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to was...
It's harder now though because I am just trapped at home, and plus a lot of my course materials are on the internet and on my laptop (distance education), and so I need to kind of focus on not clicking other stuff (including this website, etc). yeah that's good to hear but I think you asking these questions does make m...
Thats good, research has shown that moving our distractions to the side allows us to focus more on the task at hand!
Thats good, research has shown that moving our distractions to the side allows us to focus more on the task at hand!
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well. I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to was...
Also, with being at home all the time, time is warped for me, such that time passes really fast even though it's been many hours. And I then realize the time wasted, etc, just some observations. ok, will do. I think our conversation so far has been fruitful in that I have a better idea on what my priorities ought to be...
I am glad to hear that! I bet you can get those deadlines finished no problem.
I am glad to hear that! I bet you can get those deadlines finished no problem.
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well. I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to was...
sure. I will do that and I hope you're right. like passing, I could, but at the same time I don't want to just pass the courses barely. I am not a terrible student, but just disappointed because I ought to know and do better. But yes, I think I am ready to take on the challenge and burden again and thanks a lot
I am glad I was able to help, You got this, I bet you don't have this issue again.
I am glad I was able to help, You got this, I bet you don't have this issue again.
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well. I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to was...
for reassuring and pointing out certain things for me. thank you. I really appreciate your help and understanding , even though we just met. Alright, I think I am good to go then, but your input is much appreciated
Well thank you! Let me know if you need help with anything else!
Well thank you! Let me know if you need help with anything else!
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Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well. I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to was...
no this is something I have to take on from here. But thank you very much for everything! Have a good day then!
You as well!
You as well!
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It has been a most interesting week across the board. Been some challenges and hurdles but that makes life the better. Tell me any challenges you are facing right now?
It has been a most interesting week across the board. Been some challenges and hurdles but that makes life the better. Tell me any challenges you are facing right now?
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the loss of the of my job has been really difficult, possibilities of losing my home and family is really dire
So it sounds like you lost your livelihood and your concerned of losing everything you have built. It seems like you are lost on what to do now.
So it sounds like you lost your livelihood and your concerned of losing everything you have built. It seems like you are lost on what to do now.
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exactly, my confidence is gone so is my self worth and self esteem.
Wow. So this was a real punch to the gut for you. Out of curiosity; what work were you doing and how long were you doing it?
Wow. So this was a real punch to the gut for you. Out of curiosity; what work were you doing and how long were you doing it? Wow. So this was a real punch to the gut for you. Out of curiosity; what work were you doing and how long were you doing it? Wow. So this was a real punch to the gut for you. Out of curiosity; wh...
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not bad and you the loss of the of my job has been really difficult, possibilities of losing my home and family is really dire exactly, my confidence is gone so is my self worth and self esteem.
I used to work in IT and did it for 14 years
14 years? Wow. That is really impressive. It is a very difficult field and it take serious talent to work in IT. Takes real talent and brainpower to work in IT.
14 years? Wow. That is really impressive. It is a very difficult field and it take serious talent to work in IT. Takes real talent and brainpower to work in IT.
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not bad and you the loss of the of my job has been really difficult, possibilities of losing my home and family is really dire exactly, my confidence is gone so is my self worth and self esteem. I used to work in IT and did it for 14 years
been doing it long enough for it to be 2nd nature
So I also take it that not doing it now must feel like you lost part of yourself as well besides the financial risk. Double whammy.
So I also take it that not doing it now must feel like you lost part of yourself as well besides the financial risk. Double whammy.
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not bad and you the loss of the of my job has been really difficult, possibilities of losing my home and family is really dire exactly, my confidence is gone so is my self worth and self esteem. I used to work in IT and did it for 14 years been doing it long enough for it to be 2nd nature
yes it does
This is a large cross to bear. So what do you think your next steps are going to be?
This is a large cross to bear. So what do you think your next steps are going to be?
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not bad and you the loss of the of my job has been really difficult, possibilities of losing my home and family is really dire exactly, my confidence is gone so is my self worth and self esteem. I used to work in IT and did it for 14 years been doing it long enough for it to be 2nd nature yes it does
I have no idea
May I throw some ideas out at you?
May I throw some ideas out at you?
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not bad and you the loss of the of my job has been really difficult, possibilities of losing my home and family is really dire exactly, my confidence is gone so is my self worth and self esteem. I used to work in IT and did it for 14 years been doing it long enough for it to be 2nd nature yes it does I have no idea
please
It sounds like your really down right now about your job, family, and your home. It sounds like from what you have mentioned finding work would likely be the best goal to work on right now. What are your thoughts?
It sounds like your really down right now about your job, family, and your home. It sounds like from what you have mentioned finding work would likely be the best goal to work on right now. What are your thoughts?
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not bad and you the loss of the of my job has been really difficult, possibilities of losing my home and family is really dire exactly, my confidence is gone so is my self worth and self esteem. I used to work in IT and did it for 14 years been doing it long enough for it to be 2nd nature yes it does I have no idea ple...
seems a fair suggestion so getting straight back in the game. thanks for the advice
IT right now is highly marketable line of work. Given the need for networking and teleconferencing right now you are in demand. And 14 years experience you probably have a competitive advantage in the job market. What do you think your odds of finding a new job are from 0% to 100% right now? I'd bet pretty high. What d...
IT right now is highly marketable line of work. Given the need for networking and teleconferencing right now you are in demand. And 14 years experience you probably have a competitive advantage in the job market. What do you think your odds of finding a new job are from 0% to 100% right now? I'd bet pretty high. What d...
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Hi, how are you today?
Hi, how are you today?
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Due to this pandemic, I've been feeling more depressed than ever. I am fearful for my job and my financials. Not a day goes by I don't think about my financial situation. If this pandemic keeps going on, my financial situation will worsen.
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Hi.
Good, and you?
I am good, how can I help you?
I am good, how can I help you?
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depression
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Due to this pandemic, I've been feeling more depressed than ever. I am fearful for my job and my financials. Not a day goes by I don't think about my financial situation. If this pandemic keeps going on, my financial situation will worsen.
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Hi. Good, and you?
This pandemic has my stressed and depressed.
It appears that you are stressed about the pandemic and it is making you feel depressed, is that correct?
It appears that you are stressed about the pandemic and it is making you feel depressed, is that correct?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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depression
ongoing_depression
Due to this pandemic, I've been feeling more depressed than ever. I am fearful for my job and my financials. Not a day goes by I don't think about my financial situation. If this pandemic keeps going on, my financial situation will worsen.
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Hi. Good, and you? This pandemic has my stressed and depressed.
Yes, I am worry for my job stability going into the future.
That's a really hard thing to worry about, but I know you can make it through this!
That's a really hard thing to worry about, but I know you can make it through this!
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depression
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Due to this pandemic, I've been feeling more depressed than ever. I am fearful for my job and my financials. Not a day goes by I don't think about my financial situation. If this pandemic keeps going on, my financial situation will worsen.
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Hi. Good, and you? This pandemic has my stressed and depressed. Yes, I am worry for my job stability going into the future.
When do you think this pandemic will end? I'm very worried.
From what I have seen, the vaccine will be coming soon to the United States and after we get that we will be in much better shape.
From what I have seen, the vaccine will be coming soon to the United States and after we get that we will be in much better shape.
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depression
ongoing_depression
Due to this pandemic, I've been feeling more depressed than ever. I am fearful for my job and my financials. Not a day goes by I don't think about my financial situation. If this pandemic keeps going on, my financial situation will worsen.
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Hi. Good, and you? This pandemic has my stressed and depressed. Yes, I am worry for my job stability going into the future. When do you think this pandemic will end? I'm very worried.
Oh, ok. It is getting worse from where I live. Just the other day a Walmart closed due to 10 COVID-19 cases. Hopefully it will work out.
I completely understand where you are coming from. I also work in a grocery store and with being around a lot of people all day I also worry at times about COVID-19.
I completely understand where you are coming from. I also work in a grocery store and with being around a lot of people all day I also worry at times about COVID-19.
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depression
ongoing_depression
Due to this pandemic, I've been feeling more depressed than ever. I am fearful for my job and my financials. Not a day goes by I don't think about my financial situation. If this pandemic keeps going on, my financial situation will worsen.
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Hi. Good, and you? This pandemic has my stressed and depressed. Yes, I am worry for my job stability going into the future. When do you think this pandemic will end? I'm very worried. Oh, ok. It is getting worse from where I live. Just the other day a Walmart closed due to 10 COVID-19 cases. Hopefully it will work out.
Does your store take extra safety measures due to this pandemic. Does customers have to wear a mask before entering?
Yes, in my store all employees and customers must wear masks and our store provides masks to those who don't have them.
Yes, in my store all employees and customers must wear masks and our store provides masks to those who don't have them.
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depression
ongoing_depression
Due to this pandemic, I've been feeling more depressed than ever. I am fearful for my job and my financials. Not a day goes by I don't think about my financial situation. If this pandemic keeps going on, my financial situation will worsen.
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Hi. Good, and you? This pandemic has my stressed and depressed. Yes, I am worry for my job stability going into the future. When do you think this pandemic will end? I'm very worried. Oh, ok. It is getting worse from where I live. Just the other day a Walmart closed due to 10 COVID-19 cases. Hopefully it will work out....
Oh. Is your state in a lockdown currently?
Yes, is yours?
Yes, is yours?
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depression
ongoing_depression
Due to this pandemic, I've been feeling more depressed than ever. I am fearful for my job and my financials. Not a day goes by I don't think about my financial situation. If this pandemic keeps going on, my financial situation will worsen.
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Hi. Good, and you? This pandemic has my stressed and depressed. Yes, I am worry for my job stability going into the future. When do you think this pandemic will end? I'm very worried. Oh, ok. It is getting worse from where I live. Just the other day a Walmart closed due to 10 COVID-19 cases. Hopefully it will work out....
Yes, same. I feel like the economy is going to take a toll. I can't stop worrying. Thanks again for the conversation!!
I understand that, I would suggest anytime you get too overwhelmed to try and take your mind off of things by watching a video or doing something you enjoy doing in your spare time.
I understand that, I would suggest anytime you get too overwhelmed to try and take your mind off of things by watching a video or doing something you enjoy doing in your spare time.
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depression
ongoing_depression
Due to this pandemic, I've been feeling more depressed than ever. I am fearful for my job and my financials. Not a day goes by I don't think about my financial situation. If this pandemic keeps going on, my financial situation will worsen.
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Hi. Good, and you? This pandemic has my stressed and depressed. Yes, I am worry for my job stability going into the future. When do you think this pandemic will end? I'm very worried. Oh, ok. It is getting worse from where I live. Just the other day a Walmart closed due to 10 COVID-19 cases. Hopefully it will work out....
Oh ok. Genre of movies you like watching?
I like comedy movies.
I like comedy movies.
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My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me.
So you think she may, have started a relationship with someone else?
So you think she may, have started a relationship with someone else?
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My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me.
Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working.
Ok, well that doesn't sound pleasant and must be difficult to hear. Perhaps her feelings have changed and there isn't necessarily another person involved?
Ok, well that doesn't sound pleasant and must be difficult to hear. Perhaps her feelings have changed and there isn't necessarily another person involved?
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My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working.
She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than me. I can't believe she is doing this to me!
Ok so it seems like you are quite angry at the moment at the thought of her with someone else, is that true?
Ok so it seems like you are quite angry at the moment at the thought of her with someone else, is that true?
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My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
Yes I suppose it is true. The thing is I thought things were going well and she is stressed out at work with her new job but we were getting on great!
I had a similar experience myself. My partner was stressed and I was busy myself. It turns out that I wasn't paying him enough attention and this made him feel like I didn't think he was important to me any more.
I had a similar experience myself. My partner was stressed and I was busy myself. It turns out that I wasn't paying him enough attention and this made him feel like I didn't think he was important to me any more.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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anger
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My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
I haven't thought of it like that before but still I want to talk to her about it not just text me randomly and hint at ending things.
From my experience, when I actually talked to my boyfriend we agreed to make more time for each other and things did improve.
From my experience, when I actually talked to my boyfriend we agreed to make more time for each other and things did improve.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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anger
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
Okay what do you think I should do about it because the text seemed very final? Looks like she has made her mind up already about things.
Sometimes people say one thing but actually mean another. They are complicated and don't always say what they really mean.
Sometimes people say one thing but actually mean another. They are complicated and don't always say what they really mean.
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anger
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
Do you think that she wants to talk rather than end the relationship?
I cannot say for certain however I think you should talk to her but also prepare yourself for the fact that she may actually want to spend some time apart or end the relationship. it would be wise to prepare for that outcome as upsetting as it may be.
I cannot say for certain however I think you should talk to her but also prepare yourself for the fact that she may actually want to spend some time apart or end the relationship. it would be wise to prepare for that outcome as upsetting as it may be.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
That makes sense but it is not what I want to hear. After all we have been through together, we were even talking about getting our own place together and now all that will be for nothing!
I think you are reflecting on your plans together and the thought of the relationship ending is making you upset and angry.
I think you are reflecting on your plans together and the thought of the relationship ending is making you upset and angry.
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breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
Yes that's right. I know getting angry doesn't help but I want things to go back to the way they were.
Ok so based on what you have told me I think that your girlfriend has got a new job and you are planning on moving in together is that correct?
Ok so based on what you have told me I think that your girlfriend has got a new job and you are planning on moving in together is that correct?
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anger
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
Yes that's right but that's what couples do isn't it?
It is but that is a lot of change all happening at once. Perhaps she is getting a little bit scared and rather than dealing with the situation she is running away, perhaps you should talk about this and see how she responds?
It is but that is a lot of change all happening at once. Perhaps she is getting a little bit scared and rather than dealing with the situation she is running away, perhaps you should talk about this and see how she responds?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anger
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
I still think there is someone else that has come between us.
Have you got any evidence of this like seen a text message or has she behaves strangely?
Have you got any evidence of this like seen a text message or has she behaves strangely?
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anger
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
No I haven't, it is just a feeling.
Ok well it is natural to feel like this sometimes. People tend to fear the worst.
Ok well it is natural to feel like this sometimes. People tend to fear the worst.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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anger
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
So do you think I should try and talk to her and ask her outright if she has met someone else?
I think rather than ask her that question directly, you could start the conversation and ask her why she is feeling this way. This would show you care and are prepared to listen without jumping to conclusions.
I think rather than ask her that question directly, you could start the conversation and ask her why she is feeling this way. This would show you care and are prepared to listen without jumping to conclusions.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anger
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
I think I do need to calm down a bit and maybe talking to her would be the best way to start. I don;t know what I'd do though if she ended it.
The best thing to do would be prepared to have the conversation, stay calm and listen. She may just want to talk but also be prepared as it may not go the way you plan.
The best thing to do would be prepared to have the conversation, stay calm and listen. She may just want to talk but also be prepared as it may not go the way you plan.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
Ok well maybe if I show her that I can stay calm and strong then she will stay with me?
Be prepared that she may end the relationship but getting angry is likely not to change her mind. Getting angry does not improve difficult conversations.
Be prepared that she may end the relationship but getting angry is likely not to change her mind. Getting angry does not improve difficult conversations.
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breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
I suppose I could go into it and listen as you have said, there could be other reasons like the new job or maybe morning in that is causing some of it. I'll try and keep calm but it is hard when emotions run high.
Take a deep breath and try to relax beforehand. Staying positive and allowing her to speak will make for a better conversation. She will be more likely to open up to you.
Take a deep breath and try to relax beforehand. Staying positive and allowing her to speak will make for a better conversation. She will be more likely to open up to you.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
That is actually pretty good advice. I hope we stay together and there is nobody else though.
I hope you manage to work it through and can at least talk about your feelings
I hope you manage to work it through and can at least talk about your feelings
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My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.
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I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working. She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than m...
Hey thanks for the words of wisdom. Not sure I'll like the chat but I'll try and stay calm.
You are very welcome and take care
You are very welcome and take care
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I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was ge...
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been better how are you?
I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
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I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was ge...
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been better how are you?
That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?
I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?
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I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was ge...
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been better how are you? That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me. you there?
That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now!
That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now!
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was ge...
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been better how are you? yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already. My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me. you there?
That's good.
With the holidays coming up, maybe that's a good opportunity to reunite and spend some quality time with her?
With the holidays coming up, maybe that's a good opportunity to reunite and spend some quality time with her?
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was ge...
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been better how are you? That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already. My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me. you t...
By law though I don't think that my ex husband can keep her from me? I feel like I have a right to see my child. I have 4 kids altogether. My other 2 daughters are older and have already moved out and my son is still at home. I've dealt with teenagers and it's not easy but this is too extreme. I asked about the holiday...
Does she have a good relationship with her siblings? Maybe they can help convince her to spend some family time at home?
Does she have a good relationship with her siblings? Maybe they can help convince her to spend some family time at home?
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I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was ge...
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been better how are you? That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already. My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me. you t...
She did but not so great anymore. I sure hope so. It's been hard on everybody. especially her little brother.
Maybe she just needs some time to decompress. Being a teenager is a stressful time, especially this year with everything with COVID. I'm hopeful that she will come out of this phase.
Maybe she just needs some time to decompress. Being a teenager is a stressful time, especially this year with everything with COVID. I'm hopeful that she will come out of this phase.
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Providing Suggestions
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I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was ge...
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been better how are you? That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already. My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me. you t...
I'm gonna keep praying. Thank you. You made me feel better. very true. been a tough year. you've been very helpful. thank you. you have a good day.
I'm glad I could help! Keep your chin up
I'm glad I could help! Keep your chin up You too
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I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was ge...
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been better how are you? That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already. My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me. you t...
bye
Have a great day!
Have a great day!
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Hello ,y day was good though stressed
Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
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Question
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Hello ,y day was good though stressed
i have been auctioned
I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
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Question
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Hello ,y day was good though stressed i have been auctioned
my properties have been auctioned by the bank
it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Hello ,y day was good though stressed i have been auctioned my properties have been auctioned by the bank
Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
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Self-disclosure
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