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737
4
fear
academic_pressure
I fear disappointing my parents.
5
1
5
5
hi, can I discuss an issue with you? My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's. It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious That's okay to feel that way!
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
8,697
neutral
0.025065
0.000261
0.001795
0.000895
0.963678
0.004738
0.003567
737
5
fear
academic_pressure
I fear disappointing my parents.
5
1
5
5
hi, can I discuss an issue with you? My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's. It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect. They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
Thanks, I just don't want to disappoint them. They work so hard and want the best for me.
Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best.
Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best. Have you talked to them about the pressure/expectation?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,698
neutral
0.026007
0.000339
0.000955
0.001949
0.889273
0.07628
0.005198
737
6
fear
academic_pressure
I fear disappointing my parents.
5
1
5
5
hi, can I discuss an issue with you? My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's. It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect. They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best. Thanks, I ju...
I am, I told my sister to not get straight a's or they will always expect it. I h ave not talked to them
I would suggest talking to them about the expectation. You could say something like, "I want you guys to realize that I am trying my best but when you put this expectation on me and makes me even more stressed out"
I would suggest talking to them about the expectation. You could say something like, "I want you guys to realize that I am trying my best but when you put this expectation on me and makes me even more stressed out"
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,699
angry
0.860479
0.038194
0.002197
0.000259
0.019948
0.077351
0.001572
737
7
fear
academic_pressure
I fear disappointing my parents.
5
1
5
5
hi, can I discuss an issue with you? My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's. It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect. They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best. Thanks, I ju...
Okay, I can try that, it makes me very anxious. Would writing a letter be okay?
That is a scary conversation to have. I think the letter idea is a great idea!
That is a scary conversation to have. I think the letter idea is a great idea!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,700
fear
0.000101
0.000069
0.997333
0.000116
0.000564
0.001018
0.0008
737
8
fear
academic_pressure
I fear disappointing my parents.
5
1
5
5
hi, can I discuss an issue with you? My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's. It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect. They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best. Thanks, I ju...
I am better at expressing my feelings that way.
I'm better writing things down too.
I'm better writing things down too. Writing that should hopefully let them see what is going on. I think it will work.
Self-disclosure, Information
Self-disclosure
8,701
neutral
0.09328
0.001449
0.00048
0.004088
0.788473
0.071097
0.041134
737
9
fear
academic_pressure
I fear disappointing my parents.
5
1
5
5
hi, can I discuss an issue with you? My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's. It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect. They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best. Thanks, I ju...
I hope it will work, maybe I will write it and leave it in the morning for them to find after I go to school. That way they can think about what I said and not just react.
That's an even better idea. Great thinking!
That's an even better idea. Great thinking!
Others
Others
8,702
neutral
0.002384
0.000053
0.000149
0.000124
0.995499
0.000689
0.001102
737
10
fear
academic_pressure
I fear disappointing my parents.
5
1
5
5
hi, can I discuss an issue with you? My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's. It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect. They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best. Thanks, I ju...
Thanks, you have made me feel a lot better.
I'm glad. I hope it all works out for you!
I'm glad. I hope it all works out for you!
Others
Others
8,703
happy
0.000112
0.000029
0.000005
0.99945
0.000242
0.000051
0.000112
738
1
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day.
How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
Question
Question
8,704
sad
0.004754
0.000719
0.00009
0.000078
0.002294
0.991737
0.000329
738
2
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day.
It is not a good day....
I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
8,705
angry
0.57308
0.006468
0.001563
0.00034
0.01836
0.395983
0.004205
738
3
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day....
Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
8,706
sad
0.048649
0.002194
0.004826
0.000499
0.113514
0.814161
0.016156
738
4
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect.....
Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
Others
Others
8,707
angry
0.992306
0.001654
0.000041
0.000074
0.002993
0.002709
0.000223
738
5
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect.....
Yeah, it is.
Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,708
neutral
0.015903
0.000081
0.000093
0.000867
0.971046
0.001197
0.010812
738
6
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is.
I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,709
disgusted
0.142457
0.855173
0.000191
0.000084
0.001402
0.000467
0.000227
738
7
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure, We had been together over 2 years....
Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
8,710
disgusted
0.046044
0.95249
0.000171
0.0001
0.000713
0.000318
0.000164
738
8
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society. Very uncivil method of breaking up....
It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
8,711
angry
0.861774
0.05818
0.000302
0.000202
0.060246
0.012146
0.00715
738
9
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,712
disgusted
0.018422
0.979526
0.000063
0.000039
0.001412
0.000345
0.000194
738
10
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think? Have you ever had someone dump you??
Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.
Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,713
neutral
0.207497
0.002181
0.000139
0.001062
0.695637
0.005011
0.088472
738
11
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
Yeah, I hear you.
Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman.
Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
8,714
neutral
0.016841
0.000069
0.000114
0.001047
0.967555
0.00063
0.013744
738
12
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
I feel disgusted so much that I got played "like an old fiddle." It sucks.....
I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy?
I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,715
angry
0.974375
0.024667
0.000161
0.000138
0.000295
0.00028
0.000084
738
13
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
I haven't thought about getting therapy. What would help?
Well, I think it could be really beneficial to let your anger out
Well, I think it could be really beneficial to let your anger out
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,716
surprised
0.008362
0.000562
0.001576
0.000355
0.158363
0.015559
0.815223
738
14
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
I am glad to be able to vent to you about my girl's actions. I hope she is not going to hook up with my "wing man,' Rick. I would be filled with even more disgust.
That would be an absolutely terrible thing to do. Do you really think that your friend would do a t hing like that to you?
That would be an absolutely terrible thing to do. Do you really think that your friend would do a t hing like that to you?
Question
Question
8,717
disgusted
0.016692
0.581645
0.00031
0.001197
0.398752
0.000915
0.000488
738
15
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
I have seen Rick eyeballing my girl at times. I think he is an agressive guy when it comes to the ladies. Rick thinks that he is a "playah."
Do you think that perhaps you should talk to him before anything happens? You do not want to ruin your friendship by having him do that
Do you think that perhaps you should talk to him before anything happens? You do not want to ruin your friendship by having him do that
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,718
neutral
0.001633
0.000234
0.000044
0.000091
0.997765
0.000105
0.000128
738
16
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
I might just have to do that. I think that he has been eyeballing my firl a little too much over the last two or three months, actually.
Well you do not want to let that situation escalate any further. I hope I have been able to be of some help to you and I urge you to look for professional therapy if you can. All the best to you for Christmas and the year 2021!
Well you do not want to let that situation escalate any further. I hope I have been able to be of some help to you and I urge you to look for professional therapy if you can. All the best to you for Christmas and the year 2021!
Others
Others
8,719
neutral
0.003394
0.000076
0.0001
0.000483
0.987461
0.000845
0.007642
738
17
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.
3
2
4
4
Not a great day. It is not a good day.... Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now. I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message, I get no respect..... Yeah, it is. I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F--- My friends came up to me in the bar and...
I will talk to Rick and see what he knows about my girl breaking up with me by text. I need to find out more.
Yes you really should. All the best and thanks for talking.
Yes you really should. All the best and thanks for talking.
Others
Others
8,720
neutral
0.07159
0.004144
0.002514
0.000162
0.89484
0.020692
0.006058
739
1
depression
breakup_with_partner
my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi
Hi! What can i help you with today?
Hi! What can i help you with today?
Others
Others
8,721
neutral
0.001593
0.000041
0.000138
0.002226
0.994251
0.000245
0.001506
739
2
depression
breakup_with_partner
my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi
my girlfriend breakup me
How does that make you feel?
How does that make you feel?
Information
Information
8,722
sad
0.000577
0.00014
0.000061
0.000044
0.000623
0.998503
0.000051
739
3
depression
breakup_with_partner
my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi my girlfriend breakup me
it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
8,723
angry
0.810192
0.072151
0.000553
0.000091
0.006413
0.110196
0.000404
739
4
depression
breakup_with_partner
my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi my girlfriend breakup me it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
Information
Information
8,724
angry
0.72734
0.009235
0.000373
0.000238
0.257513
0.002972
0.002329
739
5
depression
breakup_with_partner
my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi my girlfriend breakup me it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?
Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,725
happy
0.000109
0.000017
0.000009
0.999679
0.00005
0.000116
0.00002
739
6
depression
breakup_with_partner
my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi my girlfriend breakup me it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
no defnetly not
What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again?
What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again?
Question
Question
8,726
neutral
0.0991
0.000322
0.000388
0.000308
0.882123
0.002966
0.014793
739
7
depression
breakup_with_partner
my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi my girlfriend breakup me it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books no defnetly not
i just want to belive that she left me so im going to travel it and going to concentrate on my job
That sounds like a great plan! When I was having a difficult time after breaking up with someone I also decided to concentrate on something else and it really helped.
That sounds like a great plan! When I was having a difficult time after breaking up with someone I also decided to concentrate on something else and it really helped.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
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hi my girlfriend breakup me it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books no defnetly not i just want to belive that she left me so im go...
really thanks that you were spending time with me
No need to thank me, that is what I am here for :) I hope I was able to help you with.
No need to thank me, that is what I am here for :) I hope I was able to help you with.
Others
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depression
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my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
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5
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hi my girlfriend breakup me it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books no defnetly not i just want to belive that she left me so im go...
thanks can i finish the conversation
Yes of course! I hope you have a good day! :)
Yes of course! I hope you have a good day! :)
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depression
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my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi my girlfriend breakup me it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books no defnetly not i just want to belive that she left me so im go...
you to have a good day you have doing great work my friend
Thank you!
Thank you!
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depression
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my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi my girlfriend breakup me it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books no defnetly not i just want to belive that she left me so im go...
is this any kind of social work
Yes it is. Just a way to help people
Yes it is. Just a way to help people
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Information
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depression
breakup_with_partner
my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me
5
1
5
5
hi my girlfriend breakup me it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books no defnetly not i just want to belive that she left me so im go...
how many people did you handle per day
You have been my first person
You have been my first person
Others
Others
8,732
neutral
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0.000113
0.960482
0.00202
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741
1
depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
How so?
How so?
Question
Question
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depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol. I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks. I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol. I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before. A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks. I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
How do we do that?
I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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neutral
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5
depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol. I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before. A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks. I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop. How do we do that?
Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
What do you do for work?
What do you do for work?
Question
Question
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depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol. I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before. A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks. I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop. How do we do that? Work has be...
I work in finance at a large corporation.
Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface
Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
8,750
neutral
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741
7
depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol. I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before. A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks. I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop. How do we do that? Work has be...
Hmm. I never thought of it that way. I guess maybe I need to look into how such events affect me.
Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way lik...
Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way lik...
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol. I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before. A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks. I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop. How do we do that? Work has be...
Yeah, that makes sense. I think I understand the problem I have much better now.
That is great, please share with me your findings
That is great, please share with me your findings
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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741
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depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol. I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before. A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks. I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop. How do we do that? Work has be...
Honestly, I don't feel like I fit in at my job. I get concerned that my coworkers like me better after I've had a few drinks and loosened up a bit. But there's been more stress lately and I've been pushing it a lot more.
It is easy to get side tracked by ego especially in that field. Try to stay focused and remember why you are there. You aren't there to impress Jim. You are there to make money and achieve your goals. As long as your eyes stay on the goal, the rest will follow.
It is easy to get side tracked by ego especially in that field. Try to stay focused and remember why you are there. You aren't there to impress Jim. You are there to make money and achieve your goals. As long as your eyes stay on the goal, the rest will follow.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,753
fear
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741
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depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol. I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before. A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks. I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop. How do we do that? Work has be...
Yeah. That makes sense. Thanks for your support.
You are a strong individual and I am here for you. You inspire me to do better!!
You are a strong individual and I am here for you. You inspire me to do better!!
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
8,754
neutral
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741
11
depression
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.
4
1
4
5
Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol. I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before. A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks. I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop. How do we do that? Work has be...
I don't know how I inspire anyone, but I appreciate it. Thanks for your help.
You inspire me because rather than allowing it to consume you, you are actively seeking help. That is very commendable.
You inspire me because rather than allowing it to consume you, you are actively seeking help. That is very commendable.
Others
Others
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fear
problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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fear
problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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fear
problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money yes , he should not , another friend family suf...
i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party thank you for ur time,
It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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fear
problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money yes , he should not , another friend family suf...
my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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fear
problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money yes , he should not , another friend family suf...
sure, can i tell to my friend wife .? her hubby is all doing this
it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own
it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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angry
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fear
problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money yes , he should not , another friend family suf...
oh yea , i forgot that .
you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby
you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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743
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problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money yes , he should not , another friend family suf...
yea will discuss both , first will tell to my hubby , what ever happen what will do if he don't trust?
he will trust you more only if you confide in him
he will trust you more only if you confide in him
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,776
neutral
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743
9
fear
problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money yes , he should not , another friend family suf...
ha may be , will try then once
with telling him you can be free from all guilt
with telling him you can be free from all guilt with telling him you can be free from all guilt
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money yes , he should not , another friend family suf...
yea this guilt feeling so bad inside what will do with this physco friend , he torturing all other friends too.what is the end solution for this
please do, and make sure you stay clear of the friend
please do, and make sure you stay clear of the friend
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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743
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fear
problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money yes , he should not , another friend family suf...
yes will talk to my hubby first and will take any advise from him to save all of my friends too
he isn't a friend worth keeping, you can report him to the appropriate bodies, the cops will do.
he isn't a friend worth keeping, you can report him to the appropriate bodies, the cops will do.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,779
neutral
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12
fear
problems_with_friends
my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues
4
2
5
5
hii could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money yes , he should not , another friend family suf...
yes nice idea ..will report
That will be great, and make sure you stay off party till the matter is resolved
That will be great, and make sure you stay off party till the matter is resolved
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
Question
Question
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
Question
Question
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to. I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot rea...
I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
Do you live in the US>?
Do you live in the US>?
Question
Question
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to. I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot rea...
No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
Have you placed your name on the lists?
Have you placed your name on the lists?
Question
Question
8,785
neutral
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0.001714
0.004465
0.000659
0.509422
0.198436
0.015996
744
6
depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to. I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot rea...
The trouble is also that I have tried a variety of medications and none has really been all that helpful. Yes, I am on some waiting lists but I do not know how long it might take to get to the top of them.
Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.
Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,786
sad
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0.002276
0.024357
0.000778
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0.806464
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744
7
depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to. I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot rea...
Why do you say that medication is not the best idea? I am aware that it is not a panacea but it can help to take the edge off, as it were.
It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill.
It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,787
angry
0.989843
0.000665
0.000045
0.000091
0.007349
0.000758
0.001247
744
8
depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to. I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot rea...
I think that there are some conditions where medication is necessary but I do take your point that there are other things that we can do to alleviate symptom. Maybe it is best to do these things in tandem?
You're absolutely right that sometimes there is a need for medication. My mother suffers from depression as do I. She has to take Effexor everyday for her condition. I, however went through COUNTLESS combinations and never found a relief as helpful as when I write and talk to people.
You're absolutely right that sometimes there is a need for medication. My mother suffers from depression as do I. She has to take Effexor everyday for her condition. I, however went through COUNTLESS combinations and never found a relief as helpful as when I write and talk to people.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,788
neutral
0.00383
0.000056
0.000125
0.000196
0.981861
0.00059
0.013342
744
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to. I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot rea...
I also went through a lot of different combinations before ending on on Prozac. I think that different things work for different people. I do not find it very easy to talk to people.
Have you explored other theraputic avenues to synchronize with the medication?
Have you explored other theraputic avenues to synchronize with the medication?
Question
Question
8,789
sad
0.204214
0.005575
0.005407
0.001137
0.194238
0.509395
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744
10
depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to. I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot rea...
No, I am rather way of 'natural' or homeopathic medicine. Are there any kinds that you could recommend?
You're doing VERY well talking to me! Had you not said anything, I would have assumed that to be the best choice! But if you're an introvert, then my first suggestion is to journal.
You're doing VERY well talking to me! Had you not said anything, I would have assumed that to be the best choice! But if you're an introvert, then my first suggestion is to journal.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,790
neutral
0.003717
0.000072
0.000199
0.000189
0.9851
0.000895
0.009827
744
11
depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to. I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot rea...
I do do a lot of that but I would feel too shy to show anyone my journal. Your help has been invaluable though and I do feel more receptive to other forms of treatment now.
That way you can reflect on what you've written and possibly learn patterns, triggers, moodswings and other information that would help the problem.
That way you can reflect on what you've written and possibly learn patterns, triggers, moodswings and other information that would help the problem. Journaling is for YOU. No one else has to ever see it if you don't want them too. Glad I can help.
Question, Affirmation and Reassurance
Question
8,791
fear
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744
12
depression
ongoing_depression
I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.
4
2
5
5
Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do? Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to. I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot rea...
I often do go over things that I've rewritten but there can be long periods where I just feel that I have nothing to say. Thank you so much for your help though, I do feel a lot better! I hope to see you again soon.
Anytime
Anytime
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,792
happy
0.000228
0.000024
0.000011
0.998997
0.000184
0.000483
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746
1
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
Whats been going on?
Whats been going on? Oh no, that's not good
Question, Others
Question
8,801
sad
0.000157
0.000064
0.000046
0.000045
0.00027
0.99939
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746
2
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
Ain't that the truth.
Ain't that the truth.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,802
disgusted
0.007207
0.989231
0.00006
0.000053
0.003083
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0.000206
746
3
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home.
I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together? California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
Question, Affirmation and Reassurance
Question
8,803
sad
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746
4
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home.
We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
Are you still working?
Are you still working?
Others
Others
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0.930942
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746
5
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself. I contributed to the marriage for sure. I love my wife and my great kids
It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that. Had things been pretty rocky?
Others, Question
Others
8,805
neutral
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0.000471
0.00017
0.473453
0.515514
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746
6
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids. The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect. Is that a big problem out there?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
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746
7
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person. I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
Others
Others
8,807
neutral
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0.003927
0.000295
0.000439
0.647316
0.008624
0.010628
746
8
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
Does she have family there?
Does she have family there?
Question
Question
8,808
neutral
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0.000112
0.000066
0.000499
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746
9
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
Yes, she does. Both her parents live in Laredo.....big spread, too.
Have you spoken with her since she left?
Have you spoken with her since she left?
Question
Question
8,809
neutral
0.002198
0.00015
0.000082
0.000537
0.995032
0.000741
0.00126
746
10
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
Well, she left two days ago. I came home and the furniture and my widescreen TV were all gone. We lived in a small apartment in LA.
That's mid-boggling..
That's mid-boggling..
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
8,810
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11
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
I am D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D to the Nth degree.
Do you have any hobbies?
Do you have any hobbies?
Others
Others
8,811
neutral
0.002174
0.000084
0.000091
0.000908
0.994763
0.000457
0.001522
746
12
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
Any help to get her to come back would help. My hobbies are on hold.....I need to get "un-disgusted" first.
Well, I can't make her come back, but I can provide you with some information on how to get through these tough times.
Well, I can't make her come back, but I can provide you with some information on how to get through these tough times.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,812
neutral
0.004565
0.006452
0.000155
0.000047
0.987503
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746
13
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
ok. I am all ears.....
I understand, it can be good to help get some stress out in other ways. Do you excercise?
I understand, it can be good to help get some stress out in other ways. Do you excercise? What kind of hobbies do you have?
Others, Providing Suggestions
Others
8,813
neutral
0.004625
0.000063
0.000155
0.001967
0.986205
0.000398
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746
14
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
I have a gym membership....if they are even open with the COVID-19. Maybe I can just jog or speed walk every day. Perhaps pushups can help?
I like to run every morning, and it seems to help make alot of stress evaporate.
I like to run every morning, and it seems to help make alot of stress evaporate.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
8,814
neutral
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0.000023
0.000556
0.000794
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746
15
disgust
breakup_with_partner
Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.
4
2
4
4
Well, it has been a hard week. My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids. I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks. It just isn't my fault. My wife had no right to leave California without me. I made a mistake making California my home. We were together 10 ...
Oh, that may just help me relax and think about other things besides my wifey and twin kiddos. Well, your input has helped.
I have found for me anyway, that running is an amazing stress reliever.
I have found for me anyway, that running is an amazing stress reliever.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,815
neutral
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0.000181
0.00037
0.04337
0.939938
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748
1
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend!
Hi. I see that you are upset. I have been at times as well.
Hi. I see that you are upset. I have been at times as well. What about your friend is making you upset?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Affirmation and Reassurance
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748
2
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend!
I was completely betrayed by him!
What about him has made you feel betrayed?
What about him has made you feel betrayed?
Information
Information
8,824
angry
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3
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend! I was completely betrayed by him!
I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward
I have been in situations where similar comments have been made.
I have been in situations where similar comments have been made.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
8,825
disgusted
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748
4
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend! I was completely betrayed by him! I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward
My friend has been drinking a lot and he cant keep his drunk mouth shut. I'm like ready to completely dump him as a friend in a minute I mean, it's covid. He should just stay tf home
Could you tell him that he could see a professional that could help him quit drinking?
Could you tell him that he could see a professional that could help him quit drinking? What ways could you find some support groups for your friend regarding his issues?
Question, Restatement or Paraphrasing
Question
8,826
angry
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748
5
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend! I was completely betrayed by him! I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward My friend has been drinking a lot and he cant keep his drunk mou...
I mean, I have sort of said it before in a really joking way. But now i'm worried it may be a problem I feel like if he wants help he should find it himself
It might be worthwhile to recommend him look into getting some counseling about his issues that you seem to think are a real issue.
It might be worthwhile to recommend him look into getting some counseling about his issues that you seem to think are a real issue.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,827
neutral
0.008338
0.003484
0.034622
0.3433
0.391274
0.07002
0.148962
748
6
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend! I was completely betrayed by him! I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward My friend has been drinking a lot and he cant keep his drunk mou...
he has completely isolated me from ppl i care about
How long has this isolating been occurring?
How long has this isolating been occurring? I know that your friend has a lot of issues to address, but you can give him an impetus to look at changing for the BETTER.
Question, Affirmation and Reassurance
Question
8,828
neutral
0.323357
0.007224
0.002829
0.000112
0.60195
0.059661
0.004867
748
7
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend! I was completely betrayed by him! I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward My friend has been drinking a lot and he cant keep his drunk mou...
Well, one time he got drunk and kept calling me ugly in a joking way while we were at a party with a group of new ppl. He seems to have an agenda to embarass me.
There is a group like AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) that could be a great support for your friend.
There is a group like AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) that could be a great support for your friend. I have dealt with friends like this, but the sooner he can get help for his alcohol issues, it could better your relationship with him.
Information, Self-disclosure
Information
8,829
disgusted
0.018636
0.97702
0.000127
0.000103
0.001758
0.00221
0.000145
748
8
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend! I was completely betrayed by him! I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward My friend has been drinking a lot and he cant keep his drunk mou...
I think I have to ask him to get help and withdraw my friendship, completely if he chooses to continue the way he is.
I am glad to provide suggestions like AA and other support groups.
I am glad to provide suggestions like AA and other support groups.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,830
neutral
0.094552
0.003543
0.00338
0.000118
0.794868
0.094593
0.008946
748
9
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend! I was completely betrayed by him! I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward My friend has been drinking a lot and he cant keep his drunk mou...
Thank you very much
What else can I help you with?
What else can I help you with? Were my suggestions helpful?
Question, Question
Question
8,831
happy
0.28922
0.000591
0.000698
0.682121
0.018492
0.000507
0.008371
748
10
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend! I was completely betrayed by him! I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward My friend has been drinking a lot and he cant keep his drunk mou...
Yes, I guess I just wonder if I should include our other friends
I feel that the right suggestions can help. Alcohol can be a real issue with maintaining meaningful relationships.
I feel that the right suggestions can help. Alcohol can be a real issue with maintaining meaningful relationships.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
8,832
surprised
0.000193
0.000263
0.00239
0.000763
0.009569
0.000663
0.986158
748
11
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.
5
1
5
5
I'm sooo pissed at my friend! I was completely betrayed by him! I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward My friend has been drinking a lot and he cant keep his drunk mou...
Is it betrayal if i tell them that he has been drinking excessively?
You could also be part of his support group if he agrees to AA.
You could also be part of his support group if he agrees to AA. No, I don't feel it is betrayal. You care about him. Do you have any more questions or concerns for me to reflect on?
Providing Suggestions, Information, Question
Providing Suggestions
8,833
neutral
0.327185
0.002981
0.000558
0.000178
0.423293
0.00998
0.235826
749
1
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I feel anxious all the time about covid and trying to make money.
3
1
5
5
Hi
Good afternoon, how are you doing today?
Good afternoon, how are you doing today?
Question
Question
8,834
neutral
0.003783
0.000183
0.000154
0.031973
0.960893
0.000259
0.002756
749
2
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I feel anxious all the time about covid and trying to make money.
3
1
5
5
Hi
i am feeling ok, how about you
I am well thank you, how can I help you this afternoon?
I am well thank you, how can I help you this afternoon?
Others
Others
8,835
happy
0.000023
0.000013
0.000006
0.999857
0.00005
0.000021
0.00003
749
3
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I feel anxious all the time about covid and trying to make money.
3
1
5
5
Hi i am feeling ok, how about you
I am feeling depressed
Oh no, I am so sorry you are feeling like this. What is bothering you?
Oh no, I am so sorry you are feeling like this. What is bothering you?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
8,836
sad
0.000196
0.000224
0.000044
0.000019
0.000381
0.999085
0.000052