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725 | 9 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I am okay, thanks. Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress fo... | That's good. It seems this crisis is either a divider or a unifier. There's no in between. | Have you considered new activities, like hobbies? | Have you considered new activities, like hobbies? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,563 | neutral | 0.041931 | 0.000197 | 0.00046 | 0.000399 | 0.911307 | 0.016362 | 0.029345 |
725 | 10 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I am okay, thanks. Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress fo... | Yes, I have been going to the gym more. I am training to run a 7 minute mile. | I learned how to how to bake sourdough bread for instance. | I learned how to how to bake sourdough bread for instance. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,564 | neutral | 0.003545 | 0.000293 | 0.01092 | 0.439324 | 0.510026 | 0.018341 | 0.017552 |
725 | 11 | sadness | problems_with_friends | Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely. | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | I am okay, thanks. Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress fo... | I love sourdough bread. I should learn how to do that too. Well thank you for the friendly chat. I appreciate your suggestions and support. | One other thing, many insurance companies are providing chat via computer with counseling. | One other thing, many insurance companies are providing chat via computer with counseling. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,565 | happy | 0.000589 | 0.000043 | 0.000009 | 0.998174 | 0.001036 | 0.000032 | 0.000118 |
726 | 1 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. | That's terrible. How awful he is | That's terrible. How awful he is | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 8,567 | sad | 0.000186 | 0.00011 | 0.000044 | 0.000056 | 0.00014 | 0.999439 | 0.000024 | |
726 | 2 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. | Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. | I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most | I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 8,568 | sad | 0.000198 | 0.000234 | 0.000072 | 0.00008 | 0.000578 | 0.998645 | 0.000192 |
726 | 3 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. | I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. | It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of | It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,569 | sad | 0.010405 | 0.000281 | 0.00099 | 0.00062 | 0.472768 | 0.511729 | 0.003207 |
726 | 4 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. | Thanks for the encouragement. | You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed | You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,570 | happy | 0.000612 | 0.000038 | 0.000058 | 0.987347 | 0.010169 | 0.000127 | 0.001648 |
726 | 5 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. Thanks for the encoura... | I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now. | yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want. | yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,571 | neutral | 0.157644 | 0.00263 | 0.001183 | 0.000371 | 0.526918 | 0.101104 | 0.210151 |
726 | 6 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. Thanks for the encoura... | Do you think someone else will love me for who I am? | Of course, you will find the right one soon. | Of course, you will find the right one soon. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 8,572 | neutral | 0.00573 | 0.000047 | 0.000145 | 0.000262 | 0.983357 | 0.000967 | 0.009493 |
726 | 7 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. Thanks for the encoura... | How can I move forward? Should I try to get him back and get him to realize he is not looking at my heart? | Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually | Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually | Others | Others | 8,573 | neutral | 0.006183 | 0.000118 | 0.000558 | 0.000122 | 0.97077 | 0.003764 | 0.018485 |
726 | 8 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. Thanks for the encoura... | Can I invest my time in anyone from outside my neighborhood? | No, there is no reason trying to win that guy back, Even if he comes back after you get successful, he's after your status, not you yourself. | No, there is no reason trying to win that guy back, Even if he comes back after you get successful, he's after your status, not you yourself. Of course, however, the best person will come in your life when you're not looking | Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure | Reflection of feelings | 8,574 | neutral | 0.003921 | 0.000059 | 0.000233 | 0.000125 | 0.986529 | 0.001473 | 0.007659 |
726 | 9 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. Thanks for the encoura... | That sounds like good advice. | As I said, good things will eventually come to you | As I said, good things will eventually come to you | Others | Others | 8,575 | angry | 0.983778 | 0.000969 | 0.000072 | 0.000134 | 0.009723 | 0.002286 | 0.003037 |
726 | 10 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. Thanks for the encoura... | Thanks so much. That is reassuring. I'm starting to feel better. | If you feel lonely, talk to your friends and share your feelings with them | If you feel lonely, talk to your friends and share your feelings with them | Others | Others | 8,576 | happy | 0.000067 | 0.00003 | 0.000009 | 0.999471 | 0.00024 | 0.000044 | 0.00014 |
726 | 11 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. Thanks for the encoura... | That sounds like it will be helpful. | I hope you feel better | I hope you feel better | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,577 | neutral | 0.054941 | 0.000255 | 0.000679 | 0.000312 | 0.899291 | 0.006594 | 0.037928 |
726 | 12 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from . | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. Thanks for the encoura... | I am feeling so much better. Thanks! | I'm glad I could be a bit help for you | I'm glad I could be a bit help for you | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,578 | happy | 0.000063 | 0.000027 | 0.000005 | 0.999563 | 0.000185 | 0.000045 | 0.000113 |
727 | 1 | anxiety | job_crisis | I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake. | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward. | I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons! | I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons! Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic? | Reflection of feelings, Question | Reflection of feelings | 8,580 | surprised | 0.000274 | 0.000239 | 0.066237 | 0.001357 | 0.00221 | 0.001817 | 0.927866 | |
727 | 2 | anxiety | job_crisis | I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake. | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward. | I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made. It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired. | Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem? | Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem? | Question | Question | 8,581 | surprised | 0.007447 | 0.001931 | 0.024917 | 0.003909 | 0.004952 | 0.076144 | 0.880701 |
727 | 3 | anxiety | job_crisis | I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake. | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward. I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made. It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my ... | Thats ok! We had been given a deadline for end of day this upcoming monday to have a number of projects completed. Some projects take only part of day to complete while others take multiple. I made the mistake of prioritizing the ones that take less time to be sure I was able to get as many done as possible. I in turn,... | Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct? | Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 8,582 | sad | 0.009045 | 0.000695 | 0.000153 | 0.000055 | 0.000793 | 0.988826 | 0.000434 |
727 | 4 | anxiety | job_crisis | I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake. | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward. I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made. It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my ... | Yes essentially. They all had to be done the same day, but I prioritized the work that took less time in order to get more of them completed. So now these ones that take longer (with the same deadline) wont be finished in time. I'm worried about talking to my manager about this. I know the mistake I made, but I'm afrai... | We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired. | We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired. The way you feel bad about it while chatting with me, I am sure you are a great employee that wants to make things right. | Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,583 | fear | 0.000458 | 0.000116 | 0.990909 | 0.000065 | 0.000593 | 0.007754 | 0.000104 |
727 | 5 | anxiety | job_crisis | I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake. | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward. I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made. It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my ... | We do, and its my first mistake in the 8 months I've been working here. | I am sure it's a honest mistake and let your manager know that you will be better at time management and prioritization moving forward. | I am sure it's a honest mistake and let your manager know that you will be better at time management and prioritization moving forward. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,584 | sad | 0.112661 | 0.010618 | 0.001399 | 0.000279 | 0.144497 | 0.675618 | 0.054928 |
727 | 6 | anxiety | job_crisis | I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake. | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward. I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made. It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my ... | Oh thank you thats kind of you to say. That is good advice. | You tell him that this has been a valuable lesson and you have learned a lot from it. And that this mistake would not happen again. | You tell him that this has been a valuable lesson and you have learned a lot from it. And that this mistake would not happen again. If your manager is a leader and not a boss, he would appreciate your honesty and give you chance to rectify. Otherwise, at least, you now know what type of manager you are working for! | Providing Suggestions, Information | Providing Suggestions | 8,585 | happy | 0.434711 | 0.000212 | 0.000138 | 0.557705 | 0.005426 | 0.000353 | 0.001454 |
727 | 7 | anxiety | job_crisis | I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake. | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward. I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made. It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my ... | you are so right!! thank you for putting this all into perspective | I have been in similar situation a lot. All the best :) | I have been in similar situation a lot. All the best :) | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 8,586 | happy | 0.000301 | 0.000024 | 0.000012 | 0.99845 | 0.000414 | 0.000036 | 0.000763 |
727 | 8 | anxiety | job_crisis | I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake. | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward. I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made. It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my ... | Thank you again, have a great evening :) | You're welcome. Take care! | You're welcome. Take care! | Others | Others | 8,587 | happy | 0.000101 | 0.000016 | 0.000007 | 0.999785 | 0.00004 | 0.000018 | 0.000033 |
728 | 1 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello | hi there! how are you doing? | hi there! how are you doing? | Question | Question | 8,588 | neutral | 0.005735 | 0.000112 | 0.000059 | 0.001189 | 0.9879 | 0.000243 | 0.00476 | |
728 | 2 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello | I feel ashamed thinking of my future career | Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about? | Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about? | Question | Question | 8,589 | sad | 0.00012 | 0.000323 | 0.000033 | 0.000035 | 0.000213 | 0.999238 | 0.000038 |
728 | 3 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career | whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad | So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential? | So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential? | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,590 | sad | 0.023918 | 0.026797 | 0.000135 | 0.000126 | 0.001437 | 0.947513 | 0.000074 |
728 | 4 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad | yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either | I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree! | I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree! | Others | Others | 8,591 | angry | 0.837959 | 0.018194 | 0.000282 | 0.000501 | 0.118584 | 0.018088 | 0.006391 |
728 | 5 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either | What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings. I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive | I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know! | I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know! | Others | Others | 8,592 | surprised | 0.113649 | 0.000953 | 0.006829 | 0.001255 | 0.199861 | 0.043162 | 0.63429 |
728 | 6 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays | Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be? | Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be? Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be? | Question, Question | Question | 8,593 | angry | 0.579451 | 0.002638 | 0.001761 | 0.000942 | 0.208056 | 0.171373 | 0.035779 |
728 | 7 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice | I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well. | I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well. | Others | Others | 8,594 | happy | 0.000058 | 0.000018 | 0.000009 | 0.999746 | 0.000056 | 0.000039 | 0.000075 |
728 | 8 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn | Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems | Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems | Question | Question | 8,595 | fear | 0.000543 | 0.000139 | 0.840897 | 0.000236 | 0.00096 | 0.156406 | 0.000819 |
728 | 9 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | I don't really want to talk to them, I'm not very close to them and rarely tell them my problems | Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much? | Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much? | Question | Question | 8,596 | angry | 0.996446 | 0.000769 | 0.000038 | 0.000046 | 0.00207 | 0.000545 | 0.000086 |
728 | 10 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | it still affects me nonetheless | I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them | I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 8,597 | sad | 0.066954 | 0.001906 | 0.002195 | 0.000087 | 0.055029 | 0.868388 | 0.005442 |
728 | 11 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | thank you for understanding | You are very welcome. Please know that this is a very common problem and a lot of people feel the way that you are feeling now. | You are very welcome. Please know that this is a very common problem and a lot of people feel the way that you are feeling now. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,598 | happy | 0.018092 | 0.000079 | 0.000166 | 0.979203 | 0.001173 | 0.000152 | 0.001134 |
728 | 12 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | it's tough when I look around and everyone seems to do better than me | Do you think that you might benefit from some counselling to help you overcome your self esteem issues? | Do you think that you might benefit from some counselling to help you overcome your self esteem issues? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,599 | sad | 0.000385 | 0.000117 | 0.000132 | 0.000092 | 0.000523 | 0.998693 | 0.000057 |
728 | 13 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | I've thought about thaat but I'm not in a financial situation to afford that | I can provide you with a list of places that will offer a few counselling sessions for free. I think you need to be able to talk this out with a professional. | I can provide you with a list of places that will offer a few counselling sessions for free. I think you need to be able to talk this out with a professional. | Information | Information | 8,600 | sad | 0.099409 | 0.002819 | 0.00054 | 0.000189 | 0.042432 | 0.838064 | 0.016547 |
728 | 14 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | that would be great | I think that you need to accept that your parents' opinion should not colour your whole life | I think that you need to accept that your parents' opinion should not colour your whole life | Others | Others | 8,601 | happy | 0.005884 | 0.000092 | 0.000022 | 0.989678 | 0.002403 | 0.000231 | 0.001688 |
728 | 15 | shame | academic_pressure | I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | hello I feel ashamed thinking of my future career whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either What's good if it... | yeah I should start doing that and not let others affect me Thank you very muchh for talking with me | Once your self esteem picks up a little I think that you will find that it's very much easier to ignore other people's input. | Once your self esteem picks up a little I think that you will find that it's very much easier to ignore other people's input. You are very welcome! I wish you well in the months to come. | Others, Others | Others | 8,602 | angry | 0.998403 | 0.000046 | 0.000038 | 0.000924 | 0.000422 | 0.000115 | 0.000051 |
729 | 1 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi | hi there, is there anything troubling you today? | hi there, is there anything troubling you today? I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind. | Question, Others | Question | 8,603 | neutral | 0.001593 | 0.000041 | 0.000138 | 0.002226 | 0.994251 | 0.000245 | 0.001506 | |
729 | 2 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi | I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington | Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them? | Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 8,604 | happy | 0.000748 | 0.000068 | 0.000067 | 0.985114 | 0.011365 | 0.002006 | 0.000634 |
729 | 3 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington | i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones | I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing | I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 8,605 | neutral | 0.002411 | 0.000081 | 0.000181 | 0.000076 | 0.995686 | 0.000886 | 0.000678 |
729 | 4 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones | yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash | Would you consider relocating with you? | Would you consider relocating with you? they consider, sorry. | Question, Others | Question | 8,606 | neutral | 0.005082 | 0.00006 | 0.000078 | 0.000356 | 0.991675 | 0.000778 | 0.001971 |
729 | 5 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash | and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO | It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place | It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place | Others | Others | 8,607 | angry | 0.767704 | 0.001874 | 0.010532 | 0.000453 | 0.11378 | 0.070422 | 0.035236 |
729 | 6 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO | IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME DEFINITELY | How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings? | How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings? | Question | Question | 8,608 | neutral | 0.001188 | 0.000052 | 0.00008 | 0.00009 | 0.997996 | 0.000243 | 0.000351 |
729 | 7 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | I do do that often | I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are | I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,609 | neutral | 0.027871 | 0.00025 | 0.000116 | 0.000123 | 0.952959 | 0.00379 | 0.014892 |
729 | 8 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | but they will definitely need me | Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving? | Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving? | Question | Question | 8,610 | neutral | 0.003484 | 0.000042 | 0.000125 | 0.000151 | 0.99441 | 0.000574 | 0.001216 |
729 | 9 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | no for now | I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though? | I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though? | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,611 | neutral | 0.004587 | 0.000039 | 0.000185 | 0.000312 | 0.989712 | 0.00082 | 0.004345 |
729 | 10 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | I am not sure of that men | Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents? | Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents? | Question | Question | 8,612 | surprised | 0.001606 | 0.000409 | 0.000133 | 0.000856 | 0.006873 | 0.000292 | 0.989832 |
729 | 11 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | like, I am seriously worried yes | It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay | It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though? | Others, Question | Others | 8,613 | fear | 0.000133 | 0.000054 | 0.998187 | 0.000091 | 0.000485 | 0.000458 | 0.000593 |
729 | 12 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | no only worried most about my mother, she will not leave dad | Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them | Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them | Information | Information | 8,614 | fear | 0.003323 | 0.000404 | 0.709413 | 0.000375 | 0.265171 | 0.019233 | 0.002081 |
729 | 13 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | she feels more happy while seeing me | I am sure that she'd not want you to sacrifice your happiness and financial security though | I am sure that she'd not want you to sacrifice your happiness and financial security though | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,615 | happy | 0.000024 | 0.000018 | 0.000005 | 0.999768 | 0.000079 | 0.000056 | 0.00005 |
729 | 14 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | ok | It is good that you love your mum so much and are worried about her happiness. | It is good that you love your mum so much and are worried about her happiness. | Others | Others | 8,616 | neutral | 0.012345 | 0.000087 | 0.000109 | 0.001277 | 0.971145 | 0.000864 | 0.014173 |
729 | 15 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | let what organization can do that? | I am not sure to be honest. You could try contacting your local Citizen's Advice Bureau? | I am not sure to be honest. You could try contacting your local Citizen's Advice Bureau? | Others | Others | 8,617 | neutral | 0.204589 | 0.000265 | 0.000426 | 0.000423 | 0.72534 | 0.004847 | 0.064109 |
729 | 16 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | okay, I will do that right now, I will be happy if I can see such | I hope that I have been able to be of some help to you | I hope that I have been able to be of some help to you You need to press quit now ... I can't do it from this end : ) | Others, Others | Others | 8,618 | happy | 0.000136 | 0.000029 | 0.000006 | 0.999327 | 0.000275 | 0.000145 | 0.000081 |
729 | 17 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I have anxiety to leave my families, | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California NO IT IS ONLY MY W... | yes thanks a lot | you're welcome, have a lovely day | you're welcome, have a lovely day | Others | Others | 8,619 | happy | 0.004787 | 0.000035 | 0.000047 | 0.99348 | 0.001073 | 0.000042 | 0.000537 |
732 | 1 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. | So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly? | So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 8,646 | sad | 0.249202 | 0.000865 | 0.007656 | 0.000275 | 0.000884 | 0.740814 | 0.000303 | |
732 | 2 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. | Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think. | I remember being in your position | I remember being in your position I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed. | Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance | Self-disclosure | 8,647 | neutral | 0.016464 | 0.000467 | 0.002126 | 0.001239 | 0.924095 | 0.011562 | 0.044047 |
732 | 3 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think. | I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better. | I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there! | I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there! | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,648 | sad | 0.027281 | 0.000788 | 0.002113 | 0.000356 | 0.005655 | 0.963201 | 0.000606 |
732 | 4 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think. I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better. | I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home. | It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are! | It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are! | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 8,649 | sad | 0.011264 | 0.000681 | 0.003562 | 0.000582 | 0.4576 | 0.525119 | 0.001192 |
732 | 5 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think. I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better. I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last... | Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever. | I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself? | I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself? | Information | Information | 8,650 | fear | 0.000034 | 0.000053 | 0.999386 | 0.000117 | 0.000066 | 0.000238 | 0.000106 |
732 | 6 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think. I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better. I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last... | I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying. | When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air? | When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air? Is there anything else that you do in any other situation that would normally help you relax? | Providing Suggestions, Others | Providing Suggestions | 8,651 | sad | 0.002725 | 0.000254 | 0.000078 | 0.000084 | 0.001166 | 0.995073 | 0.00062 |
732 | 7 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think. I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better. I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last... | I could try deep breathing. Fresh air is hard because we're in the middle of a snow storm! I like to go to a spa when I'm really stressed. | Oh wow that would make things complicated! But yes the deep breathing would definitely help, I'm sure! | Oh wow that would make things complicated! But yes the deep breathing would definitely help, I'm sure! | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,652 | sad | 0.064162 | 0.000722 | 0.022838 | 0.030497 | 0.379983 | 0.491673 | 0.010126 |
732 | 8 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think. I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better. I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last... | I will try the deep breathing more often. | Maybe you could reward yourself with a spa trip ever so often, since you enjoy it? | Maybe you could reward yourself with a spa trip ever so often, since you enjoy it? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,653 | neutral | 0.000596 | 0.000056 | 0.000468 | 0.000547 | 0.996315 | 0.000959 | 0.001059 |
732 | 9 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think. I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better. I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last... | That's a good idea. Maybe I could make it a reward for a good grade on a test. | Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you! | Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you! | Others | Others | 8,654 | neutral | 0.033997 | 0.00092 | 0.002869 | 0.233281 | 0.607338 | 0.016149 | 0.105446 |
732 | 10 | sadness | academic_pressure | I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal. | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year. Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think. I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better. I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last... | I think it might too! | Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you! | Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you! | Others | Others | 8,655 | happy | 0.000952 | 0.00013 | 0.000026 | 0.980771 | 0.015015 | 0.000151 | 0.002954 |
733 | 1 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. | Hello, how are you today? | Hello, how are you today? | Question | Question | 8,656 | sad | 0.006862 | 0.000921 | 0.092593 | 0.000194 | 0.001454 | 0.897456 | 0.000518 | |
733 | 2 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. | I've been better. How are you? | I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety? | I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety? | Question | Question | 8,657 | neutral | 0.186663 | 0.001252 | 0.000392 | 0.162789 | 0.569582 | 0.029957 | 0.049364 |
733 | 3 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? | Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for. | Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done. | Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,658 | sad | 0.050594 | 0.012946 | 0.00475 | 0.009745 | 0.090241 | 0.828856 | 0.002867 |
733 | 4 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be. I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that. Unless I badger him for it. | It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task. | It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,659 | neutral | 0.130815 | 0.001687 | 0.000503 | 0.00021 | 0.84842 | 0.012746 | 0.005619 |
733 | 5 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that. | Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks. | Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,660 | angry | 0.809229 | 0.005355 | 0.000479 | 0.000497 | 0.034602 | 0.142362 | 0.007476 |
733 | 6 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well. | For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time. | For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time. I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow? | Self-disclosure, Question | Self-disclosure | 8,661 | neutral | 0.016852 | 0.000452 | 0.000408 | 0.001 | 0.902204 | 0.066505 | 0.012579 |
733 | 7 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | That's very smart on your part. I really need to learn to actually follow through and do that. That is true and a very strange reference. | Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference. | Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference. | Others | Others | 8,662 | neutral | 0.38792 | 0.001973 | 0.000608 | 0.000919 | 0.532546 | 0.002848 | 0.073186 |
733 | 8 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | No, I appreciate the different references. I was just surprised by it. One piece at a time makes more sense than allowing myself to be bogged down by everything at once when I can only accomplish one thing at a time. | You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me. | You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,663 | surprised | 0.000783 | 0.000198 | 0.000073 | 0.000407 | 0.007078 | 0.000284 | 0.991177 |
733 | 9 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | You've made some very good points and I just need to get better at taking things one thing at a time. | This is a strange new world. Sometimes we have to try strange new things to cope. | This is a strange new world. Sometimes we have to try strange new things to cope. | Information | Information | 8,664 | neutral | 0.003863 | 0.000047 | 0.000139 | 0.00036 | 0.990548 | 0.002222 | 0.002821 |
733 | 10 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | That is definitely true. No one could have possibly been prepared for what has been happening. Covid has been disrupting so many people's lives in so many different ways. | I'm glad I was able to help. | I'm glad I was able to help. | Information | Information | 8,665 | sad | 0.134175 | 0.001115 | 0.003539 | 0.000486 | 0.065745 | 0.750835 | 0.044106 |
733 | 11 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | It's just nice to be able to talk to someone else who is experiencing some of the same things. | I think you will find that a lot of your friends are in the same place. | I think you will find that a lot of your friends are in the same place. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,666 | happy | 0.000077 | 0.000047 | 0.000009 | 0.998826 | 0.000682 | 0.000177 | 0.000182 |
733 | 12 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | That is probably true, but everyone has been so busy that I've only really been communicating with my husband. | And that adds to stress beyond the ad-hoc homeschooling. It is important to purposefully socialize by phone or chat with friends. We humans are social creatures, and you are not an island. We all need friends. My wife has been an amazing support, but I still make time to facetime with my buddies. | And that adds to stress beyond the ad-hoc homeschooling. It is important to purposefully socialize by phone or chat with friends. We humans are social creatures, and you are not an island. We all need friends. My wife has been an amazing support, but I still make time to facetime with my buddies. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,667 | angry | 0.386622 | 0.001843 | 0.000593 | 0.001209 | 0.173437 | 0.080876 | 0.355419 |
733 | 13 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | That is a very good point and I should really try to talk to my friends more than I do. Thank you for the help today. It was nice to talk to someone else. | I'm grateful to be of help. | I'm grateful to be of help. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,668 | happy | 0.003502 | 0.000231 | 0.000041 | 0.966839 | 0.026393 | 0.001721 | 0.001272 |
733 | 14 | anxiety | academic_pressure | Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with... | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that. I've been better. How are you? Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork. It's a lot that is on my plate on top... | I hope you have a nice day. | You also. | You also. | Information | Information | 8,669 | happy | 0.000953 | 0.000124 | 0.000025 | 0.986185 | 0.012253 | 0.000151 | 0.000309 |
735 | 1 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this? | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope. hello by the way....:) | How long have you lived with depression? | How long have you lived with depression? | Question | Question | 8,675 | neutral | 0.003135 | 0.001943 | 0.005397 | 0.425005 | 0.447064 | 0.083595 | 0.03386 | |
735 | 2 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this? | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope. hello by the way....:) | For two weeks now. | Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it? | Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it? | Question | Question | 8,676 | neutral | 0.036568 | 0.000658 | 0.000354 | 0.000626 | 0.927608 | 0.003926 | 0.030261 |
735 | 3 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this? | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope. hello by the way....:) For two weeks now. | I have never experienced depression until now. Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone. | It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand | It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat | Restatement or Paraphrasing, Affirmation and Reassurance | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 8,677 | sad | 0.025752 | 0.002489 | 0.001004 | 0.18302 | 0.035754 | 0.74428 | 0.007703 |
735 | 4 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this? | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope. hello by the way....:) For two weeks now. I have never experienced depression until now. Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries ... | I am not confused. I just need suggestions on overcoming a death like this. All my happiness is wrapped up in this corona virus.9 Friends, family, coworkers, outings.) How do you deal with death? | I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking | I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking However, the best way to cope with death and depression in general is stay outdoor, be closed tothe nature | Self-disclosure, Others | Self-disclosure | 8,678 | surprised | 0.004174 | 0.000701 | 0.005639 | 0.007243 | 0.253708 | 0.241687 | 0.486849 |
735 | 5 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this? | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope. hello by the way....:) For two weeks now. I have never experienced depression until now. Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries ... | This is true and I have noticed that crying over this is something I have not done much. I do workout intensely 4 times a week but that has fallen off too. I do workout inside with a home gym. Maybe running outside wouls be more beneficial and help me feel closer spiritually towards her. I thi nk I'm still shocked a li... | I have noticed that whenever I'm depressed, I feel better staying outdoor so try doing that more often. | I have noticed that whenever I'm depressed, I feel better staying outdoor so try doing that more often. I understand. I also experience sudden lost a few years ago, I still haven't overcome completely but I now can be at ease thinking of him | Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings | Self-disclosure | 8,679 | surprised | 0.000385 | 0.000293 | 0.000144 | 0.000497 | 0.001622 | 0.000747 | 0.996311 |
735 | 6 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this? | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope. hello by the way....:) For two weeks now. I have never experienced depression until now. Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries ... | I like these suggestions and I will try this! Thanks for great advice! | every emotion that you experience will be messy and confusing, but it's totally normal. Dealing with death is never easy. | every emotion that you experience will be messy and confusing, but it's totally normal. Dealing with death is never easy. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,680 | happy | 0.000186 | 0.000016 | 0.000008 | 0.999667 | 0.000062 | 0.000019 | 0.000042 |
735 | 7 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this? | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope. hello by the way....:) For two weeks now. I have never experienced depression until now. Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries ... | Your so right but I already feel better after chatting with you. Thanks again! | I'm gladd I could be help to you | I'm gladd I could be help to you | Others | Others | 8,681 | happy | 0.00014 | 0.000023 | 0.000005 | 0.999558 | 0.000171 | 0.000034 | 0.00007 |
735 | 8 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this? | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope. hello by the way....:) For two weeks now. I have never experienced depression until now. Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries ... | Bye now! | Bye | Bye | Others | Others | 8,682 | happy | 0.046619 | 0.000139 | 0.000044 | 0.950479 | 0.002307 | 0.000183 | 0.00023 |
736 | 1 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? | Hi How may I help you today? | Hi How may I help you today? | Question | Question | 8,683 | neutral | 0.124351 | 0.000438 | 0.02413 | 0.00173 | 0.799807 | 0.008051 | 0.041492 | |
736 | 2 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? | Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you. | sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for. | sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for. | Others | Others | 8,684 | happy | 0.001008 | 0.000043 | 0.000026 | 0.994646 | 0.004047 | 0.000041 | 0.000189 |
736 | 3 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you. | Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends. But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it. | You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right | You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 8,685 | angry | 0.978161 | 0.004199 | 0.000246 | 0.000565 | 0.00195 | 0.014483 | 0.000396 |
736 | 4 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you. Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends. But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it. | Yea kind of. They sort of drifted away. I was breaking up the fights really. I guess they weren't that good of friends to begin with... | Sorry for poor internet connection | Sorry for poor internet connection | Others | Others | 8,686 | angry | 0.684255 | 0.013424 | 0.00064 | 0.001055 | 0.079384 | 0.202371 | 0.018872 |
736 | 5 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you. Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends. But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it. Yea kind of. They sort of d... | THat is ok What do you have to say? | It must be tough time for you. Things keeps on changing. there may be some sort of misunderstanding. | It must be tough time for you. Things keeps on changing. there may be some sort of misunderstanding. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 8,687 | angry | 0.998958 | 0.000026 | 0.000041 | 0.000289 | 0.000545 | 0.000057 | 0.000083 |
736 | 6 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you. Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends. But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it. Yea kind of. They sort of d... | It has been tough. | I can feel how bad or lonely you might be. It must be a stressful. | I can feel how bad or lonely you might be. It must be a stressful. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 8,688 | sad | 0.002669 | 0.000294 | 0.004864 | 0.000084 | 0.005072 | 0.9868 | 0.000216 |
736 | 7 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you. Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends. But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it. Yea kind of. They sort of d... | There's always ways to get over it but it is hard not to care. | When I have fight with friends, I try to clarify the things I where I went wrong or they made mistakes. | When I have fight with friends, I try to clarify the things I where I went wrong or they made mistakes. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 8,689 | neutral | 0.034157 | 0.000407 | 0.000878 | 0.012865 | 0.741249 | 0.204597 | 0.005848 |
736 | 8 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you. Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends. But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it. Yea kind of. They sort of d... | It would be nice to get something going where people could apologize. | From past I have learnt that, friendship should be very transparent. There should be any space for thank you and sorry. It should be straight forward. If my friends doesn't like anything which I did, she should say that straight to me. I should respect her saying. Then it stays there for ever. | From past I have learnt that, friendship should be very transparent. There should be any space for thank you and sorry. It should be straight forward. If my friends doesn't like anything which I did, she should say that straight to me. I should respect her saying. Then it stays there for ever. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,690 | neutral | 0.002311 | 0.000566 | 0.000534 | 0.00073 | 0.922966 | 0.067128 | 0.005765 |
736 | 9 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you. Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends. But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it. Yea kind of. They sort of d... | That's a nice personal anecdote. I should try to initiate contact at some point. I feel like most people are shunning each other. | Yes, I would say that is human nature. Only thing is to do self realization. | Yes, I would say that is human nature. Only thing is to do self realization. | Others | Others | 8,691 | sad | 0.138818 | 0.012771 | 0.000402 | 0.001232 | 0.177823 | 0.660895 | 0.008057 |
736 | 10 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me? Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you. Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends. But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it. Yea kind of. They sort of d... | Thank you. | You are most welcome! it you are feeling much better now. Is there anything else that I can help you with? | You are most welcome! it you are feeling much better now. Is there anything else that I can help you with? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 8,692 | neutral | 0.325652 | 0.000976 | 0.001078 | 0.007061 | 0.622909 | 0.000728 | 0.041595 |
737 | 1 | fear | academic_pressure | I fear disappointing my parents. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi, can I discuss an issue with you? | Yes please. What has been bothering you? | Yes please. What has been bothering you? | Question | Question | 8,694 | angry | 0.985804 | 0.000134 | 0.000209 | 0.000264 | 0.012313 | 0.00026 | 0.001017 | |
737 | 2 | fear | academic_pressure | I fear disappointing my parents. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi, can I discuss an issue with you? | My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's. | oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that. | oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that. | Question | Question | 8,695 | neutral | 0.094943 | 0.001355 | 0.000777 | 0.00028 | 0.893322 | 0.006672 | 0.002652 |
737 | 3 | fear | academic_pressure | I fear disappointing my parents. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hi, can I discuss an issue with you? My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's. | It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect. | I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that. | I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that. Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say? | Self-disclosure, Question | Self-disclosure | 8,696 | fear | 0.001302 | 0.000704 | 0.810807 | 0.000261 | 0.000779 | 0.185868 | 0.00028 |
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