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773
5
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a final in my class tomorrow, and if I don't get at least a B on the exam I might not pass the class.
5
3
5
5
I'm ok I guess, but I'm pretty stressed out. I have a final exam tomorrow, and it has me really stressed out. If I don't get at least a B I'm not going to pass this class. I do. There is a study group of people in my class. I am preparing really well but I've struggled with this class so much that I still get really wo...
I have tried that. And it does kind of help in the moment. It's when I get back to studying that all of the anxiety sets in. And it gets worse as it gets closer to the test. If I'm not studying, I feel guilty that I'm taking a break.
I understand that. I have felt the same way before. But I realized I don't have to feel guilty for taking a break. It's important for my mental health.
I understand that. I have felt the same way before. But I realized I don't have to feel guilty for taking a break. It's important for my mental health.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,086
sad
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0.000169
0.000072
0.000053
0.000458
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773
6
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a final in my class tomorrow, and if I don't get at least a B on the exam I might not pass the class.
5
3
5
5
I'm ok I guess, but I'm pretty stressed out. I have a final exam tomorrow, and it has me really stressed out. If I don't get at least a B I'm not going to pass this class. I do. There is a study group of people in my class. I am preparing really well but I've struggled with this class so much that I still get really wo...
And I try to remember that, too. And I know that's right. But in the moment I feel guilty, so it's so hard for me to relax taking a break.
Just in the conversation I can see how stressed out you are and struggling with how to handle that.
Just in the conversation I can see how stressed out you are and struggling with how to handle that.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,087
sad
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0.000167
0.000035
0.000256
0.001485
0.99738
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773
7
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a final in my class tomorrow, and if I don't get at least a B on the exam I might not pass the class.
5
3
5
5
I'm ok I guess, but I'm pretty stressed out. I have a final exam tomorrow, and it has me really stressed out. If I don't get at least a B I'm not going to pass this class. I do. There is a study group of people in my class. I am preparing really well but I've struggled with this class so much that I still get really wo...
Yes. Once my head is in this stressful mode, it's hard to break free.
Sometimes talking with a close friend can help. Have you tried that?
Sometimes talking with a close friend can help. Have you tried that?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,088
sad
0.052491
0.001132
0.146449
0.000854
0.379991
0.406701
0.012382
773
8
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a final in my class tomorrow, and if I don't get at least a B on the exam I might not pass the class.
5
3
5
5
I'm ok I guess, but I'm pretty stressed out. I have a final exam tomorrow, and it has me really stressed out. If I don't get at least a B I'm not going to pass this class. I do. There is a study group of people in my class. I am preparing really well but I've struggled with this class so much that I still get really wo...
I have. And that does help in the moment. It's always when I get back into the actual studying that it's a problem. I think getting the test over with is the only thing that will help.
It sounds like the actual studying is what is causing you to be stressed. Does that seem to be true?
It sounds like the actual studying is what is causing you to be stressed. Does that seem to be true?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
9,089
sad
0.034731
0.001358
0.065943
0.002972
0.190854
0.690646
0.013495
773
9
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a final in my class tomorrow, and if I don't get at least a B on the exam I might not pass the class.
5
3
5
5
I'm ok I guess, but I'm pretty stressed out. I have a final exam tomorrow, and it has me really stressed out. If I don't get at least a B I'm not going to pass this class. I do. There is a study group of people in my class. I am preparing really well but I've struggled with this class so much that I still get really wo...
Yeah, definitely. I'm just worried about the test.
I think you have done everything you can to be prepared for the test. And know a few strategies to help you cope with your stress. I think you will feel much better once it's over!
I think you have done everything you can to be prepared for the test. And know a few strategies to help you cope with your stress. I think you will feel much better once it's over!
Others
Others
9,090
fear
0.000091
0.000041
0.998373
0.000176
0.000538
0.000587
0.000194
773
10
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a final in my class tomorrow, and if I don't get at least a B on the exam I might not pass the class.
5
3
5
5
I'm ok I guess, but I'm pretty stressed out. I have a final exam tomorrow, and it has me really stressed out. If I don't get at least a B I'm not going to pass this class. I do. There is a study group of people in my class. I am preparing really well but I've struggled with this class so much that I still get really wo...
I agree \.
Ok! It sounds like this helped!
Ok! It sounds like this helped!
Others
Others
9,091
neutral
0.020943
0.000083
0.000093
0.000775
0.965475
0.00076
0.011871
773
11
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a final in my class tomorrow, and if I don't get at least a B on the exam I might not pass the class.
5
3
5
5
I'm ok I guess, but I'm pretty stressed out. I have a final exam tomorrow, and it has me really stressed out. If I don't get at least a B I'm not going to pass this class. I do. There is a study group of people in my class. I am preparing really well but I've struggled with this class so much that I still get really wo...
It did - thank you.
You're welcome.
You're welcome.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,092
happy
0.286076
0.000477
0.000556
0.445727
0.225878
0.001246
0.040039
775
1
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me?
hello, my name is Sue, how can I help?
hello, my name is Sue, how can I help?
Question
Question
9,109
neutral
0.006568
0.000232
0.001938
0.009679
0.970985
0.003305
0.007292
775
2
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me?
I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore.
How is the friendship related to the break up can you please explain?
How is the friendship related to the break up can you please explain? Breakups are such a challenging thing to go through.
Question, Reflection of feelings
Question
9,110
sad
0.334379
0.002255
0.000632
0.0002
0.003632
0.658515
0.000388
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3
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore.
We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me.
So you went through a breakup, and feel that the friends you had in common prefer her to you, so you don't want to see your firends any more, am I understanding correctly?
So you went through a breakup, and feel that the friends you had in common prefer her to you, so you don't want to see your firends any more, am I understanding correctly?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
9,111
happy
0.048313
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0.738182
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4
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore. We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me.
I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean?
do you have any evidence they are laughing at you or not liking you? or is it a feeling you have?
do you have any evidence they are laughing at you or not liking you? or is it a feeling you have? I know sometimes I think someone feels a certain way about me, but if I ask them, it turns out not to be true, and it clears the air. Sometimes it's just in my own head.
Question, Self-disclosure
Question
9,112
fear
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0.000083
0.998971
0.000068
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0.000114
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775
5
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore. We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me. I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean?
I don't know how to explain. I have a feeling everybody even on the street are laughing because of my breakup with partner.
i see
i see but HAS anyone laughted at you? or told you they don't like you? or not responded when you have talked to them?
Others, Question
Others
9,113
sad
0.001929
0.001542
0.000247
0.458937
0.007137
0.521961
0.008247
775
6
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore. We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me. I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean? I don't know how to explain. I hav...
No, not really. I think it's just my feelings about it. Because you know my ex on a public was so perfect but nobody knows how she acted when we were alone...
i can relate to this. I went through a breakup a couple of years ago, and left town. Part of me is relieved I don't have to see those friends we had in common any more. I didn't want to be jiudged for leaving him. So I have experienced some similar feelings.
i can relate to this. I went through a breakup a couple of years ago, and left town. Part of me is relieved I don't have to see those friends we had in common any more. I didn't want to be jiudged for leaving him. So I have experienced some similar feelings.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,114
neutral
0.294871
0.006677
0.000565
0.00169
0.54599
0.046987
0.103221
775
7
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore. We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me. I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean? I don't know how to explain. I hav...
Good you understand me
Ah yes, the public and private can be quite different sometimes for sure
Ah yes, the public and private can be quite different sometimes for sure have you reached out to any of these friends to test the waters? maybe called or texted just to touch base and have a chat that's not emotionally loaded, about light topics? This might be a non-threatening way to test out how they are feelng about...
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,115
angry
0.962571
0.000088
0.000198
0.032298
0.003328
0.000288
0.001228
775
8
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore. We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me. I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean? I don't know how to explain. I hav...
One friend offered me to go for a drink tonight but I haven't replied yet. And also I don't want to talk about my ex at all, that's what I am afraid he can ask.
the other thing is these common friends might feel a bit awkard too about the situation. They have to figure out how to relate to you both on your own, it's a change of dynamics, so might take a bit of time to settle out. Can you tell your friend that you'd like to go out for a drink but that you don't feel comfortable...
the other thing is these common friends might feel a bit awkard too about the situation. They have to figure out how to relate to you both on your own, it's a change of dynamics, so might take a bit of time to settle out. Can you tell your friend that you'd like to go out for a drink but that you don't feel comfortable...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,116
fear
0.000111
0.000079
0.998919
0.000077
0.000188
0.000578
0.000048
775
9
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore. We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me. I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean? I don't know how to explain. I hav...
Yes that's true. I believe he might understand me and accept my request. Would be quite challenging if we will meet my ex wth other friends in same pub. I live in a small town.
oh I see, yes that could be awkward for sure.
oh I see, yes that could be awkward for sure. i think it's important you go out with your friend, but can understand your reluctance to run into your ex. Could you go out for coffee or lunch instead?
Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions
Reflection of feelings
9,117
neutral
0.015545
0.000224
0.001359
0.001647
0.968617
0.002881
0.009727
775
10
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore. We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me. I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean? I don't know how to explain. I hav...
Well that's would be quite strange as we usually meet only for drinks.
Ah gotcha. So do you think you will accept or not? Or still need time to think about it?
Ah gotcha. So do you think you will accept or not? Or still need time to think about it?
Question
Question
9,118
surprised
0.232491
0.016339
0.001412
0.000692
0.131567
0.00673
0.610769
775
11
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore. We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me. I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean? I don't know how to explain. I hav...
I will give it a go and see what happens. I will text you tomorrow to let you know how it went
i hope if you go that you have an enjoyable time, and that your friend respects your boundaries. And worse case scenario, if your ex is there, you could leave early...if it were me I'd warn my friend that I might have to
i hope if you go that you have an enjoyable time, and that your friend respects your boundaries. And worse case scenario, if your ex is there, you could leave early...if it were me I'd warn my friend that I might have to I'm glad you are going! Take care of yourself and have a good time. Was there anything else?
Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
9,119
neutral
0.005673
0.000107
0.010145
0.005837
0.968865
0.004818
0.004557
775
12
fear
breakup_with_partner
After breakup with partners I have a fear to meet with my friends
3
2
5
5
Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me? I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore. We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me. I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean? I don't know how to explain. I hav...
That's good tip, thanks I think that's it for today. have a lovely afternoon
you're very welcome. and you as well! Bye.
you're very welcome. and you as well! Bye.
Others
Others
9,120
happy
0.000336
0.000017
0.000007
0.999494
0.000078
0.000031
0.000038
777
1
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend
HI, how are you?
HI, how are you?
Question
Question
9,133
sad
0.001159
0.000503
0.004658
0.000087
0.004931
0.987666
0.000995
777
2
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend
I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated.
Its very sad but try to come out from depression
Its very sad but try to come out from depression because its not good for your health
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Others
Restatement or Paraphrasing
9,134
sad
0.000225
0.000137
0.000059
0.000019
0.000232
0.999292
0.000035
777
3
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated.
I can't sleep at night proverly as well. Feels like all my friends are talking about me
Oh!, please don't feel like this try to do some yoga before sleeping
Oh!, please don't feel like this try to do some yoga before sleeping
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
9,135
sad
0.17806
0.012664
0.01253
0.002175
0.084479
0.704114
0.005978
777
4
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated. I can't sleep at night proverly as well. Feels like all my friends are talking about me
I've never tried yoga before, how exactly does it helps?
yoga make you feel relax try this
yoga make you feel relax try this yes try it make you feel better Yoga is relaxing tool
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
9,136
surprised
0.000903
0.000122
0.000802
0.000979
0.011681
0.000388
0.985126
777
5
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated. I can't sleep at night proverly as well. Feels like all my friends are talking about me I've never tried yoga before, how exactly does it helps?
I can try tonight but don't know where to start. Do you know ny resources where to get instructions for yoga to make depression go away?
try to watch some videos and follow some yoga trainer
try to watch some videos and follow some yoga trainer Just from your chatting i feel how much you are in depression
Others, Reflection of feelings
Others
9,137
surprised
0.003503
0.000224
0.011678
0.00118
0.389853
0.011658
0.581902
777
6
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated. I can't sleep at night proverly as well. Feels like all my friends are talking about me I've never tried yoga before, how exactly does it helps? I can try tonight but don't ...
Ah ok I will try thanks. Anything I can do at work? As I feel unfocused all the time and thinking about betrayal and divorce.
Try those things that make you feel happy before work like funny videos
Try those things that make you feel happy before work like funny videos I hope i can help you
Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
9,138
sad
0.000951
0.000104
0.000195
0.000502
0.00029
0.994745
0.003214
777
7
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated. I can't sleep at night proverly as well. Feels like all my friends are talking about me I've never tried yoga before, how exactly does it helps? I can try tonight but don't ...
Unfortunately I have no time, I wake up at 5 AM and my shift starts at 6. I just feel that all my colleagues have talks about me all the time behind my back.
Long time age I'm in same situation so i try those things so those help me to come out from this
Long time age I'm in same situation so i try those things so those help me to come out from this
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,139
angry
0.961496
0.002706
0.000098
0.000148
0.000345
0.035143
0.000064
777
8
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated. I can't sleep at night proverly as well. Feels like all my friends are talking about me I've never tried yoga before, how exactly does it helps? I can try tonight but don't ...
Should I try to date somebody or it is too early how do you think? I know one woman is really into me at work but I am quite not into her, only consider as a friend
Yes its too early try to fix your old relationship before move on new
Yes its too early try to fix your old relationship before move on new
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,140
angry
0.71681
0.002741
0.000496
0.001879
0.212005
0.018368
0.047701
777
9
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated. I can't sleep at night proverly as well. Feels like all my friends are talking about me I've never tried yoga before, how exactly does it helps? I can try tonight but don't ...
My wife already moved out and divorce probably will take few month, I guess I still love her
Oh! so than i think you need to move on from this
Oh! so than i think you need to move on from this
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,141
neutral
0.00728
0.000192
0.000273
0.00115
0.501666
0.481154
0.008286
777
10
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated. I can't sleep at night proverly as well. Feels like all my friends are talking about me I've never tried yoga before, how exactly does it helps? I can try tonight but don't ...
ok, thank you very much for you help and assistance. Will try yoga today
Try do relaxing thing that make you come out from this
Try do relaxing thing that make you come out from this Thanks that you share your problem with me
Others, Others
Others
9,142
happy
0.000885
0.000017
0.000065
0.996384
0.002422
0.000049
0.00018
777
11
depression
breakup_with_partner
My wife cheated on me with my friend and now we are in process of divorce
3
2
4
4
Hello, I need some advice as I have a depression as I found out my wife cheated on me with my friend I am depressed a little bit, feel devastated. I can't sleep at night proverly as well. Feels like all my friends are talking about me I've never tried yoga before, how exactly does it helps? I can try tonight but don't ...
Thanks gain.
Your welcome
Your welcome
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,143
neutral
0.037624
0.000312
0.0003
0.030083
0.91705
0.00153
0.013101
778
1
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work
So your work load is giving you stress and you cannot change your job. Right?
So your work load is giving you stress and you cannot change your job. Right?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
9,145
sad
0.378259
0.000611
0.009976
0.000314
0.00072
0.609873
0.000247
778
2
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work
yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything
It is really hard time to find a job and work load is increasing due to less hiring.
It is really hard time to find a job and work load is increasing due to less hiring.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,146
sad
0.1389
0.001118
0.01321
0.002335
0.008516
0.830233
0.005687
778
3
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything
absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 departments at once
It is really a lot of work. You might not have any spare time for yourself and family. Situation is really drastic. You should talk to your boss.
It is really a lot of work. You might not have any spare time for yourself and family. Situation is really drastic. You should talk to your boss.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,147
angry
0.835116
0.001226
0.002655
0.002173
0.076117
0.043937
0.038776
778
4
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 depart...
My boss believes that I should just take the workload as it is. I dont know what to do.
I can understand your situation very well as it happened with me in past. In this scenario you should take small breaks to relax your body and mind. You will feel better.
I can understand your situation very well as it happened with me in past. In this scenario you should take small breaks to relax your body and mind. You will feel better.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,148
surprised
0.328965
0.003931
0.002153
0.000667
0.098439
0.034171
0.531674
778
5
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 depart...
I hope so, I am very scared to lose my job, as my boss says I am not capable to do my work if i get stressed out so easily
Time is running bad for all of us. We have to take care of our health at this time. Stress can lead to so many disease and it will be hard to afford that extra burden in terms of time and money.
Time is running bad for all of us. We have to take care of our health at this time. Stress can lead to so many disease and it will be hard to afford that extra burden in terms of time and money.
Others
Others
9,149
fear
0.000089
0.000054
0.999292
0.000053
0.000108
0.00037
0.000034
778
6
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 depart...
Do you think I am better off finding something else or at least try ?
Yes, you should keep looking for it with your current job. There is no harm in being prepared.
Yes, you should keep looking for it with your current job. There is no harm in being prepared.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,150
neutral
0.00557
0.000059
0.000239
0.000167
0.974088
0.000957
0.01892
778
7
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 depart...
oh absolutely ! Do you think I should try out medication to help with stress?
You should consult a doctor for that. You can try yoga or meditation if you can take little time for yourself.
You should consult a doctor for that. You can try yoga or meditation if you can take little time for yourself.
Others
Others
9,151
neutral
0.018022
0.000215
0.000902
0.130722
0.787437
0.00267
0.06003
778
8
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 depart...
I will give this a go! Are there any home remedies I can try ? I can barely get hold of my doctors, it is so hard to get an appointment!
You should try to give bit time to yourself. Try to talk to friends and family over the weekend. All these things always work for me.
You should try to give bit time to yourself. Try to talk to friends and family over the weekend. All these things always work for me.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,152
sad
0.155769
0.000603
0.132076
0.00472
0.006811
0.692629
0.007392
778
9
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 depart...
sadly we are not alowed to go out in this pandemic , it is so hard to keep social .
That's true ! Still you can go and relax in your backyard with family or talk to them on phone. We will feel good.
That's true ! Still you can go and relax in your backyard with family or talk to them on phone. We will feel good.
Others
Others
9,153
sad
0.000842
0.000256
0.000073
0.000088
0.00298
0.995613
0.000148
778
10
anxiety
job_crisis
Working four departments at once
5
3
4
4
i am extremely stressed outat work at * I can barely switch off from work yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 depart...
Thank you for your advice, very halpful ! Thank you
It is my work to help you out. Hope you are feeling bit relaxed. Take care
It is my work to help you out. Hope you are feeling bit relaxed. Take care
Others
Others
9,154
happy
0.00059
0.000016
0.000019
0.999255
0.000037
0.000029
0.000054
779
1
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately
I'm sorry to hear this. Is there something specifically bothering you?
I'm sorry to hear this. Is there something specifically bothering you?
Question
Question
9,155
sad
0.000271
0.000162
0.000075
0.000031
0.000433
0.998963
0.000066
779
2
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately
I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me
You don't think people like you or care about you at work? What specifically have they done to make you think this?
You don't think people like you or care about you at work? What specifically have they done to make you think this?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
9,156
sad
0.450211
0.002498
0.000368
0.059297
0.010893
0.471567
0.005166
779
3
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me
I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive
I can understand that might make you feel uncomfortable.
I can understand that might make you feel uncomfortable.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,157
angry
0.998169
0.000391
0.000012
0.000108
0.000824
0.000429
0.000068
779
4
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive
I feel like I go out of my way to help people and I remember their birthdays and I try and be nice to them but no one ever does the same for me
I have been in many work situations and even social situations where I did not feel as if I fit in, I'm rather an unusual person. I had to learn to not focus so much on BEING accepted. I had to learn what God think of me (he loves me) and try to be kind to all I meet, other centered. That is, I also had to make sure I ...
I have been in many work situations and even social situations where I did not feel as if I fit in, I'm rather an unusual person. I had to learn to not focus so much on BEING accepted. I had to learn what God think of me (he loves me) and try to be kind to all I meet, other centered. That is, I also had to make sure I ...
Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,158
happy
0.00667
0.000561
0.000043
0.803174
0.004919
0.184133
0.000499
779
5
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive I feel like I go out of my way to help people and I remember their birthdays and I try and be nice to them but no one ev...
I think from now on Im just going to focus on myself and my family, Im not gonna out of my way to be nice to my coworkers, Im just going to treat them as coworkers not as friends and just keep to myself
I think you can be kind to them, but I think perhaps your expectations are that they reciprocate, and they aren't which hurts. Perhaps be kind without expecting anything in return, and know that God sees your kindness.
I think you can be kind to them, but I think perhaps your expectations are that they reciprocate, and they aren't which hurts. Perhaps be kind without expecting anything in return, and know that God sees your kindness.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,159
neutral
0.008827
0.000179
0.000095
0.000237
0.987165
0.001995
0.001502
779
6
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive I feel like I go out of my way to help people and I remember their birthdays and I try and be nice to them but no one ev...
I always feel like you have to be a friend to have friends, but Im tired of being the only one putting effort in and getting taken advantage of
I also had this happen, I had no friends and at first I thought it was me, then I realized it was an opportunity for personal growth. Which wasn't easy.
I also had this happen, I had no friends and at first I thought it was me, then I realized it was an opportunity for personal growth. Which wasn't easy. How do you feel they take advantage? Being ignored is one thing, having someone take advantage of you is a different story.
Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings, Others
Self-disclosure
9,160
angry
0.962684
0.000967
0.000078
0.002706
0.001297
0.032103
0.000165
779
7
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive I feel like I go out of my way to help people and I remember their birthdays and I try and be nice to them but no one ev...
I just feel like they just expect me to do things for them now and when I do it, its no appreciated because they just know I will do it.
I understand. Yes, then they definitely are taking advantage. Have you read anything on setting boundaries and learning how to say no?
I understand. Yes, then they definitely are taking advantage. Have you read anything on setting boundaries and learning how to say no?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,161
happy
0.000344
0.000038
0.000006
0.997709
0.001084
0.000614
0.000205
779
8
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive I feel like I go out of my way to help people and I remember their birthdays and I try and be nice to them but no one ev...
Yeah, Im working on taking care of myself more than worrying about everyone else. I think the holidays make it even harder to set the boundaries
I had learned once that it is so important to be able to easily say no because then we are free to say yes. Because if we say yes because we CAN'T say no, then we feel resentful. So If I can freely say no to you, then i am free to say yes, if that makes sense. Although for me, it was hard to say no, but it gets easier,...
I had learned once that it is so important to be able to easily say no because then we are free to say yes. Because if we say yes because we CAN'T say no, then we feel resentful. So If I can freely say no to you, then i am free to say yes, if that makes sense. Although for me, it was hard to say no, but it gets easier,...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,162
neutral
0.007791
0.000151
0.000828
0.000584
0.955408
0.026633
0.008607
779
9
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive I feel like I go out of my way to help people and I remember their birthdays and I try and be nice to them but no one ev...
Thank you! You have been very helpful. I think that will be my goal! Start learning to say no and dont feel guilty about it. I think I am going to lower my expectations from other people and just start treating people as they treat me!
If I always say yes, because I can't say no, I feel obligated and resentful, when really, it's me with the problem, I had a hard time saying no because I didn't want to hurt people. Now, I do the right thing in my heart, if I want to help, I help, if I want to say no, I say no even if it is hard, I don't care if they g...
If I always say yes, because I can't say no, I feel obligated and resentful, when really, it's me with the problem, I had a hard time saying no because I didn't want to hurt people. Now, I do the right thing in my heart, if I want to help, I help, if I want to say no, I say no even if it is hard, I don't care if they g...
Information, Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Information
9,163
sad
0.002257
0.000813
0.000128
0.067733
0.036975
0.889797
0.002296
779
10
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive I feel like I go out of my way to help people and I remember their birthdays and I try and be nice to them but no one ev...
I think I just need to learn a new approach to how I handle my dealings with other people.
Might be on youtube too. Good stuff on how to say no and set boundaries! :D
Might be on youtube too. Good stuff on how to say no and set boundaries! :D I think you have identified your problem and looked at it and you seem intelligent and caring! I'm sure you will be able to figure this out. You seem like a nice person to me, and I just met you. You seem emotionally mature, able to discuss you...
Information, Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Information
9,164
neutral
0.003494
0.000144
0.000303
0.000487
0.974784
0.0132
0.007588
779
11
depression
job_crisis
I just feel very alone at work lately. I dont feel like anyone at work really likes me and no one ever really talks to me or invites me to hang out with them anymore.
2
1
5
5
Hi. Im feeling really depressed lately I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive I feel like I go out of my way to help people and I remember their birthdays and I try and be nice to them but no one ev...
Thanks for your help
You are welcome! Have a nice evening!
You are welcome! Have a nice evening!
Others
Others
9,165
neutral
0.07336
0.000294
0.001409
0.147691
0.720132
0.005789
0.051325
781
1
depression
ongoing_depression
I'm so sad all the time.
5
2
5
5
I'm so sad all the time.
Is there something that you think is causing this?
Is there something that you think is causing this?
Question
Question
9,178
sad
0.000601
0.000271
0.000044
0.000062
0.000921
0.998002
0.000099
781
2
depression
ongoing_depression
I'm so sad all the time.
5
2
5
5
I'm so sad all the time.
Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad.
Have you any history of depression before?
Have you any history of depression before?
Question
Question
9,179
sad
0.000324
0.000243
0.000037
0.000024
0.000453
0.998858
0.00006
781
3
depression
ongoing_depression
I'm so sad all the time.
5
2
5
5
I'm so sad all the time. Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad.
I do have some family members with depression.
Have you seen any physicians about the problem?
Have you seen any physicians about the problem?
Question
Question
9,180
sad
0.000586
0.000345
0.001413
0.00011
0.013406
0.98367
0.000469
781
4
depression
ongoing_depression
I'm so sad all the time.
5
2
5
5
I'm so sad all the time. Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad. I do have some family members with depression.
Maybe I should make an appointment.
Getting help from a trained professional can often help to solve problems
Getting help from a trained professional can often help to solve problems
Information
Information
9,181
neutral
0.001772
0.000037
0.000855
0.000336
0.993489
0.000744
0.002767
781
5
depression
ongoing_depression
I'm so sad all the time.
5
2
5
5
I'm so sad all the time. Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad. I do have some family members with depression. Maybe I should make an appointment.
You make a good point. What type of doctor could I see?
You could try going to your primary care physician and ask for recommendations.
You could try going to your primary care physician and ask for recommendations.
Information
Information
9,182
neutral
0.028498
0.000164
0.000322
0.00029
0.802803
0.001293
0.16663
781
6
depression
ongoing_depression
I'm so sad all the time.
5
2
5
5
I'm so sad all the time. Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad. I do have some family members with depression. Maybe I should make an appointment. You make a good point. What type of doctor could I see?
I can do that. Are there any doctors that deal with emotions?
I've help take a family member to a psychiatrist for help and it's been a tremendous support to help their lives be full again after great hardships.
I've help take a family member to a psychiatrist for help and it's been a tremendous support to help their lives be full again after great hardships.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,183
neutral
0.031899
0.000284
0.000902
0.000362
0.734814
0.005633
0.226106
781
7
depression
ongoing_depression
I'm so sad all the time.
5
2
5
5
I'm so sad all the time. Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad. I do have some family members with depression. Maybe I should make an appointment. You make a good point. What type of doctor could I see? I can do that. Are there any doctors that deal with emotions?
I'm worried about the stigma of going to a shrink.
Under HIPPA your visit is confidential.
Under HIPPA your visit is confidential.
Information
Information
9,184
fear
0.000152
0.000102
0.995782
0.0001
0.002366
0.001065
0.000433
781
8
depression
ongoing_depression
I'm so sad all the time.
5
2
5
5
I'm so sad all the time. Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad. I do have some family members with depression. Maybe I should make an appointment. You make a good point. What type of doctor could I see? I can do that. Are there any doctors that deal with emotions? I'm worried about the stigma of going to a shrink.
Well in that case, if it can help it may be worth a try.
You deserve lots of credit for taking care of yourself and seeing a doctor.
You deserve lots of credit for taking care of yourself and seeing a doctor.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,185
neutral
0.002399
0.000036
0.00014
0.000225
0.993603
0.000851
0.002746
781
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I'm so sad all the time.
5
2
5
5
I'm so sad all the time. Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad. I do have some family members with depression. Maybe I should make an appointment. You make a good point. What type of doctor could I see? I can do that. Are there any doctors that deal with emotions? I'm worried about the stigma of going to a shrink. Wel...
Thank you for the encouragement.
You are very welcome. Is there anything else I can help you with?
You are very welcome. Is there anything else I can help you with?
Question
Question
9,186
happy
0.000262
0.000016
0.00002
0.998462
0.000915
0.000039
0.000287
782
1
sadness
job_crisis
Trying to find a job
3
2
5
5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it
I feel bad for you.
I feel bad for you. There are many openings for Uber and Uber Eats. What were you doing before you were looking for a job? Were you in college?
Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions, Question
Reflection of feelings
9,188
sad
0.008322
0.000359
0.002073
0.000873
0.000658
0.987491
0.000223
782
2
sadness
job_crisis
Trying to find a job
3
2
5
5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it
I am not a good driver
What do you find are your top skill sets?
What do you find are your top skill sets?
Question
Question
9,189
angry
0.974166
0.009062
0.000195
0.000072
0.006315
0.009343
0.000847
782
3
sadness
job_crisis
Trying to find a job
3
2
5
5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver
I was working in an IT company as a program analyst
That is good that you have a good skill set that allows you to find something in the same field of IT.
That is good that you have a good skill set that allows you to find something in the same field of IT.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,190
angry
0.372401
0.029715
0.069069
0.05723
0.348212
0.090052
0.033322
782
4
sadness
job_crisis
Trying to find a job
3
2
5
5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver I was working in an IT company as a program analyst
I am really having hard time to get one
How so? What is the specific difficulty? Is it with your resume?
How so? What is the specific difficulty? Is it with your resume? Are you feeling nervous? Anxious?
Question, Question
Question
9,191
sad
0.001886
0.000205
0.00231
0.000077
0.000598
0.994802
0.000123
782
5
sadness
job_crisis
Trying to find a job
3
2
5
5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver I was working in an IT company as a program analyst I am really having hard time to get one
The reason is recession or might be COVID.
Any other questions or concerns that you may have for me?
Any other questions or concerns that you may have for me?
Question
Question
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Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver I was working in an IT company as a program analyst I am really having hard time to get one The reason is recession or might be COVID.
I am stressed
Well, how do you adapt to the work issue? Do you like dogs? There are opportunities for dog walkers.
Well, how do you adapt to the work issue? Do you like dogs? There are opportunities for dog walkers. I made good money in the past walking my neighbors and friends dogs.
Question, Self-disclosure
Question
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Trying to find a job
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5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver I was working in an IT company as a program analyst I am really having hard time to get one The reason is recession or might be COVID. I am stressed
I don't have any pet so no experience with it
When I get stressed, I try to do vigorous exercises with pushups, chin ups, sit ups or walking fast.
When I get stressed, I try to do vigorous exercises with pushups, chin ups, sit ups or walking fast. Do you have a place that you can walk briskly in your area of town?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
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Trying to find a job
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5
5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver I was working in an IT company as a program analyst I am really having hard time to get one The reason is recession or might be COVID. I am stressed I don't have any pet so no experience with it
I am not worried financially . I am feeling depressed by trying again and agian, never happened with me before
Losing a job? It never happened for you before?
Losing a job? It never happened for you before?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Trying to find a job
3
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5
5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver I was working in an IT company as a program analyst I am really having hard time to get one The reason is recession or might be COVID. I am stressed I don't have any pet so no experience with it I am not worried financiall...
There are recreational parks, and trails near by
I would join a support group for those people who need support and want to change careers.
I would join a support group for those people who need support and want to change careers. There are support groups online to help with job loss who can advise you on where to use your interests and skills to have a more fulfilling life.
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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Trying to find a job
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5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver I was working in an IT company as a program analyst I am really having hard time to get one The reason is recession or might be COVID. I am stressed I don't have any pet so no experience with it I am not worried financiall...
I love my career just getting bit demotivated
Well, what other questions or concerns do you have for me?
Well, what other questions or concerns do you have for me?
Question
Question
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Trying to find a job
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5
5
Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver I was working in an IT company as a program analyst I am really having hard time to get one The reason is recession or might be COVID. I am stressed I don't have any pet so no experience with it I am not worried financiall...
Thanks for letting me know. I would definitely do search That was all! Thanks for all your support
I feel that you have really expressed the important things in your life that you need to. I am proud of you.
I feel that you have really expressed the important things in your life that you need to. I am proud of you. I have been down, but I reached out to support groups.
Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
Reflection of feelings
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Trying to find a job
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Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it I am not a good driver I was working in an IT company as a program analyst I am really having hard time to get one The reason is recession or might be COVID. I am stressed I don't have any pet so no experience with it I am not worried financiall...
Have a wonderful New Year ahead! Bye
I felt good to help you in December 2020.
I felt good to help you in December 2020.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there?
I'm good. sorry I stepped out.
I'm good. sorry I stepped out.
Others
Others
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there?
Well, can you help me? Why did you step out?
Are you a veteran? I am happy to help. I am sorry to hear that.
Are you a veteran? I am happy to help. I am sorry to hear that.
Question
Question
9,202
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out?
Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran.
No I quit smoking 10 years ago
No I quit smoking 10 years ago
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran.
Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco
I can only imagine your suffering but I used to date a Veteran and he had nightmare often so I could relate to you
I can only imagine your suffering but I used to date a Veteran and he had nightmare often so I could relate to you
Question
Question
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco
I just keep having flashbacks of the war zone. Oh, that is good that you can relate.
Thanks, I agree. Health is important. Does that happen recently a lot?
Thanks, I agree. Health is important. Does that happen recently a lot?
Question
Question
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depression
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
They called me "Camouflage.' I was a bold Marine, but now my head is in the war....still
Thank you for serving our country. You are worth so much respect.
Thank you for serving our country. You are worth so much respect.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
Yeah, I just need to get over my depression somehow. I need to shake my thoughts of the Hot Zone. Yah know?
Yes yes Marine is the toughest people in military. Wow. I think this is PTSD. I have been to Adult Hospitalization program where people who have depression, PTSD and anxiety disorders etc get together and talk to therapist. It helped a little bit. You might be intererested in that.
Yes yes Marine is the toughest people in military. Wow. I think this is PTSD. I have been to Adult Hospitalization program where people who have depression, PTSD and anxiety disorders etc get together and talk to therapist. It helped a little bit. You might be intererested in that.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
Ok I am glad to talk with you.
I could only see that in movies. wow, so scary.
I could only see that in movies. wow, so scary.
Others
Others
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
Lots of my Marine buddies have had PTSD. Women and men alike. Women are also joining the Marines....
I think your minds have deep scar. It needs healing.
I think your minds have deep scar. It needs healing. Wow I cannot imagine becoming a Marine. It requires a courage.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
I know.....but do you recommend anything? Meditation or some other form of therapy?
yes I recommend playing some instruments if you are intersted
yes I recommend playing some instruments if you are intersted yes I recommend playing some instruments if you are intersted
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
How does that help? I am interested in learning more....
I've tried meditation while I was at Adult Hospitalization program. It was calming too. Yoga is good too.
I've tried meditation while I was at Adult Hospitalization program. It was calming too. Yoga is good too.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
Wow. Have you worked with Veterans at all?
For example, playing drums, learn piano, or use Diginal Music software to create music. If you are a music person
For example, playing drums, learn piano, or use Diginal Music software to create music. If you are a music person No i have only dated one
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
Well, that sounds like a great way to help with my deoression. Thanks.
Good, something to free your mind and heal your mind.
Good, something to free your mind and heal your mind.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,213
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
Well, I think your conversations have given me hope with my depression. I can see myself listening to good music. Nice talking to you.
Taking care of your self is important. Stay happy and make sure you and your people around you are both happy.
Taking care of your self is important. Stay happy and make sure you and your people around you are both happy. Nice talking to you too. Stay safe.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD from war in Iraq. I am depressed and need help to get through the days.
3
2
4
4
Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there? Well, can you help me? Why did you step out? Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran. Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco I just keep hav...
Merry Christmas.
Merry Christmas
Merry Christmas
Others
Others
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breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today?
Very well, thank you.
Very well, thank you. What's on your mind?
Others, Question
Others
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happy
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I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today?
My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school.
That's tough. How long have you been together?
That's tough. How long have you been together?
Question
Question
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breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today? My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school.
We have been together for 5 years, but lately we have been distant. A few text here and there but I feel like we don't enough effort and it feels weird between us.
Five years is a long time, and to make a relationship work in the long term, you used the magic word..."effort."
Five years is a long time, and to make a relationship work in the long term, you used the magic word..."effort." Do you live together?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,219
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breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today? My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school. We have been together for 5 years, but lately we have been distant. A few text here and there but I feel like we don't enough effort and it feels weird ...
We live apart, I think thats the issue. She lives with her family and is closer to her school. Also due to covid and schedule, we are not able to meet in person. We tried virtual, but it takes time and its not really intimate.
It sounds like you are basically living in a long distance relationship, given the circumstances.
It sounds like you are basically living in a long distance relationship, given the circumstances. It's very hard to make a relationship work when you can't see each other in person. It takes a lot of effort.
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Information
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today? My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school. We have been together for 5 years, but lately we have been distant. A few text here and there but I feel like we don't enough effort and it feels weird ...
I think thats the main issue, I'm trying to make it work and I think she is as well; but its hard. I'm not sure what to do. How to cope?
Do you think she shares your frustration and concern, and if so, have you talked about it with her?
Do you think she shares your frustration and concern, and if so, have you talked about it with her?
Question
Question
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today? My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school. We have been together for 5 years, but lately we have been distant. A few text here and there but I feel like we don't enough effort and it feels weird ...
We talked about it briefly, but havent spoke about in great detail. I'm just scared, that if we do, maybe we realize its not worth it and breakup.
How much of this distance between you do you think is related to COVID measures?
How much of this distance between you do you think is related to COVID measures?
Question
Question
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today? My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school. We have been together for 5 years, but lately we have been distant. A few text here and there but I feel like we don't enough effort and it feels weird ...
It is a major issue since we live in NY and NJ, they are strict about lockdown and closing everything. I think its mostly work schedules , we become to tired to video chat. I feel video chatting takes more effort than just being together naturally.
Video chatting definitely isn't the same, or natural. It does take more effort, certainly.
Video chatting definitely isn't the same, or natural. It does take more effort, certainly. How much did you see each other before COVID?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today? My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school. We have been together for 5 years, but lately we have been distant. A few text here and there but I feel like we don't enough effort and it feels weird ...
A few times a week. Do you recommend anything? Just have the talk and accept whatever happens. I just dont want to keep on wondering.
A lot of relationships right now are in "survival mode" due to the pandemic. The only way to make it through is with a lot of effort. This lockdown isn't going to last forever. You just have to make it through.
A lot of relationships right now are in "survival mode" due to the pandemic. The only way to make it through is with a lot of effort. This lockdown isn't going to last forever. You just have to make it through. I would definitely suggest you talk to her and make sure you're on the same page, even if that's scary. If sh...
Information, Providing Suggestions, Information
Information
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today? My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school. We have been together for 5 years, but lately we have been distant. A few text here and there but I feel like we don't enough effort and it feels weird ...
Yeah I understand, maybe I should put in more effort because I have less of the crazy schedule. Maybe send her things or send her messages. I feel that she is just working too hard, and maybe is tired and cant make the effort. i should be there and support her virtually if thats what it takes.
I know you can just about anything delivered out there. I think a gesture of something tangible would be a good idea, whatever it might be. Maybe delivery of flowers and a pizza?
I know you can just about anything delivered out there. I think a gesture of something tangible would be a good idea, whatever it might be. Maybe delivery of flowers and a pizza?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,225
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
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Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today? My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school. We have been together for 5 years, but lately we have been distant. A few text here and there but I feel like we don't enough effort and it feels weird ...
I think thats a good idea, I can do that. Maybe be make her day and feel better. Thank you for helping, I probably thought too much of the situation and I'll put in the effort to make it work! Feel a lot better now.
Just look for ways to stay connected and you'll make it through!
Just look for ways to stay connected and you'll make it through!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I feel very distant with my girlfriend, we haven't spoke in a few days and feels weird when we do.
4
1
5
5
Hey, I'm good. Doing well, how are you today? My girlfriend and I have been very distant from one another, we do have crazy work schedules and she also goes to school. We have been together for 5 years, but lately we have been distant. A few text here and there but I feel like we don't enough effort and it feels weird ...
Thanks, have a good day!
You too!
You too!
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Others
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anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly.
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5
hello
Hello, how are you today.
Hello, how are you today.
Others
Others
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anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly.
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5
hello
i am worried about my friend he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help
Do you know how long he has been off his meds? Does he need help getting a refill? It can be hard to no our "normal" things when we don't feel; that's for sure.
Do you know how long he has been off his meds? Does he need help getting a refill? It can be hard to no our "normal" things when we don't feel; that's for sure.
Question
Question
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