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785 | 3 | anxiety | problems_with_friends | my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | hello i am worried about my friend he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help | i am not sure....but he has gone manic, super hyper, and says he doesn't need his mads any more, he just doesn't want them so i can't help him get a refull no... i'm not sure how to help him, i've told him my concerns but he says he is just fine (he is not) | If you are that worried about him, it does sound pretty severe, it may be time to call someone to get him help. Like his doctor or someone from the hospital. | If you are that worried about him, it does sound pretty severe, it may be time to call someone to get him help. Like his doctor or someone from the hospital. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 9,230 | surprised | 0.005726 | 0.000589 | 0.000431 | 0.000306 | 0.020841 | 0.001132 | 0.970974 |
785 | 4 | anxiety | problems_with_friends | my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | hello i am worried about my friend he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help i am not sure....but he has gone manic, super hyper, and says he doesn't need his mads any more, he just doesn't want them so i can't help him get a refull no... i'm not sure how to help him, i've told him my concerns but he... | i don't know who his doctor is...i tried talking to his sister, she said the hospital can't help him unless he goes there, and he does not want to | We definitely don't want him to hurt himself or someone else. | We definitely don't want him to hurt himself or someone else. We definitely don't want him to hurt himself or someone else. | Information, Information | Information | 9,231 | surprised | 0.164796 | 0.002629 | 0.001701 | 0.000452 | 0.124576 | 0.012445 | 0.6934 |
785 | 5 | anxiety | problems_with_friends | my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | hello i am worried about my friend he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help i am not sure....but he has gone manic, super hyper, and says he doesn't need his mads any more, he just doesn't want them so i can't help him get a refull no... i'm not sure how to help him, i've told him my concerns but he... | for sure i'm not sure how to help someone who doesn't want help, you know? so basically i am just stuck with all this worry, i care about him | Has his sister seen this kind of replace before? And if so how did they address it then? | Has his sister seen this kind of replace before? And if so how did they address it then? That is a really hard place to be. His doctors phone number is probably on his prescription bottle. | Question, Affirmation and Reassurance | Question | 9,232 | sad | 0.05925 | 0.000938 | 0.013271 | 0.00032 | 0.02636 | 0.86758 | 0.032281 |
785 | 6 | anxiety | problems_with_friends | my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | hello i am worried about my friend he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help i am not sure....but he has gone manic, super hyper, and says he doesn't need his mads any more, he just doesn't want them so i can't help him get a refull no... i'm not sure how to help him, i've told him my concerns but he... | she told me she doesn't want anything to do with him, apparently he goes off his meds a lot, and it has been super hard on the family...they can't handle it hey that's a good idea! I'd have to be sneaky....go visit him and hunt around....but I could try that its got me so worried it is affecting my sleep | The doctor may not be able to get him in the office, but they would have his records and also be able to connect you to a facility to could maybe help him since the hospital can't | The doctor may not be able to get him in the office, but they would have his records and also be able to connect you to a facility to could maybe help him since the hospital can't | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 9,233 | fear | 0.003017 | 0.000357 | 0.988147 | 0.000149 | 0.006353 | 0.001703 | 0.000273 |
785 | 7 | anxiety | problems_with_friends | my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | hello i am worried about my friend he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help i am not sure....but he has gone manic, super hyper, and says he doesn't need his mads any more, he just doesn't want them so i can't help him get a refull no... i'm not sure how to help him, i've told him my concerns but he... | hmm okay, i can try that | I can imagine, I'm worried now too and I don't even know your friend. I really hope you keep me updated on how things go. | I can imagine, I'm worried now too and I don't even know your friend. I really hope you keep me updated on how things go. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,234 | neutral | 0.033183 | 0.000142 | 0.000162 | 0.007094 | 0.941404 | 0.001214 | 0.0168 |
785 | 8 | anxiety | problems_with_friends | my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | hello i am worried about my friend he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help i am not sure....but he has gone manic, super hyper, and says he doesn't need his mads any more, he just doesn't want them so i can't help him get a refull no... i'm not sure how to help him, i've told him my concerns but he... | i will try to! I think you're right though that the doctors office is the best place to call, thankyou for that suggestion its tricky....with human rights they don't just haul people to hospital any more against their will lol | You're so welcome. So it sounds like you'll call the doctor office (once you get the number) but please let me know if I can help any other way. | You're so welcome. So it sounds like you'll call the doctor office (once you get the number) but please let me know if I can help any other way. lol, very true they do not. :) | Restatement or Paraphrasing, Affirmation and Reassurance | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 9,235 | happy | 0.001294 | 0.000369 | 0.000047 | 0.952699 | 0.044257 | 0.000231 | 0.001103 |
785 | 9 | anxiety | problems_with_friends | my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | hello i am worried about my friend he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help i am not sure....but he has gone manic, super hyper, and says he doesn't need his mads any more, he just doesn't want them so i can't help him get a refull no... i'm not sure how to help him, i've told him my concerns but he... | hmm i can't think of anything....but it really helps to get this off my chest and to have a plan of action, thank you its sad his family has given up on him but i guess everyone has their limits | you're so welcome. glad I could help. | you're so welcome. glad I could help. It's really sad, your friend is lucky to have you. | Others, Affirmation and Reassurance | Others | 9,236 | sad | 0.000384 | 0.000152 | 0.000041 | 0.000089 | 0.000615 | 0.9985 | 0.00022 |
785 | 10 | anxiety | problems_with_friends | my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | hello i am worried about my friend he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help i am not sure....but he has gone manic, super hyper, and says he doesn't need his mads any more, he just doesn't want them so i can't help him get a refull no... i'm not sure how to help him, i've told him my concerns but he... | aw thankyou i hope you have a good evening, thanks again, bye | you as well | you as well | Others | Others | 9,237 | angry | 0.998535 | 0.000047 | 0.000043 | 0.001046 | 0.000188 | 0.000081 | 0.000059 |
786 | 1 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? | All's well with me thank you :) | All's well with me thank you :) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen. | Others, Question | Others | 9,239 | happy | 0.001365 | 0.00003 | 0.000009 | 0.997971 | 0.000459 | 0.000041 | 0.000124 | |
786 | 2 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? | have some issues on life matters !! | Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening? | Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening? | Question | Question | 9,240 | happy | 0.021857 | 0.001138 | 0.007552 | 0.632157 | 0.04387 | 0.286351 | 0.007075 |
786 | 3 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! | I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? | What sort of carrier? | What sort of carrier? | Question | Question | 9,241 | fear | 0.000054 | 0.000054 | 0.999591 | 0.000048 | 0.000111 | 0.000086 | 0.000056 |
786 | 4 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? | IT!! | Or did you mean to say career | Or did you mean to say career | Others | Others | 9,242 | happy | 0.001917 | 0.000138 | 0.000044 | 0.984522 | 0.007361 | 0.000211 | 0.005805 |
786 | 5 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? IT!! | Sorry!! yes it career!! | And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please? | And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please? It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that. | Question, Reflection of feelings | Question | 9,243 | happy | 0.214512 | 0.002 | 0.000218 | 0.760651 | 0.009426 | 0.007724 | 0.005469 |
786 | 6 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? IT!! Sorry!! yes it career!! | COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts | I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was | I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off? | Self-disclosure, Question | Self-disclosure | 9,244 | sad | 0.003709 | 0.000535 | 0.000431 | 0.000032 | 0.001413 | 0.993762 | 0.000117 |
786 | 7 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? IT!! Sorry!! yes it career!! COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts | Its not permanent. Thanks for listening to my problems. | I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure. | I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure. You're welcome Have you started looking for your next job? | Reflection of feelings, Others, Question | Reflection of feelings | 9,245 | angry | 0.893088 | 0.001114 | 0.000441 | 0.001015 | 0.015687 | 0.085935 | 0.00272 |
786 | 8 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? IT!! Sorry!! yes it career!! COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts Its not permanent. Thanks for listening to my problems. | Yes. | Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do. | Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 9,246 | neutral | 0.00581 | 0.000086 | 0.000198 | 0.003482 | 0.982986 | 0.000957 | 0.00648 |
786 | 9 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? IT!! Sorry!! yes it career!! COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts Its not permanent. Thanks for listening to my problems. Yes. | I'm looking forward to start a own business. Yes i hope so. i'll start planning | Oh that's exciting! What sort of business? | Oh that's exciting! What sort of business? It's very liberating being your own boss. I used to have a small housecleaning business. I loved being in charge of my own destiny. | Others, Self-disclosure | Others | 9,247 | happy | 0.000999 | 0.000217 | 0.000586 | 0.718446 | 0.278049 | 0.000501 | 0.001203 |
786 | 10 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? IT!! Sorry!! yes it career!! COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts Its not permanent. Thanks for listening to my problems. Yes. I'm looking forward to start a own business. Ye... | small scale business like taking up projects from outsourcing. | What sort of projects? What field do you work in? | What sort of projects? What field do you work in? | Question | Question | 9,248 | neutral | 0.003524 | 0.00006 | 0.000108 | 0.000256 | 0.991366 | 0.000635 | 0.004051 |
786 | 11 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? IT!! Sorry!! yes it career!! COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts Its not permanent. Thanks for listening to my problems. Yes. I'm looking forward to start a own business. Ye... | Information technology. | I have a small business centre in my city that was very helpful when I was starting up. I wonder if you have that in your city. | I have a small business centre in my city that was very helpful when I was starting up. I wonder if you have that in your city. What a great field to be in, so many opportunities. | Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance | Providing Suggestions | 9,249 | neutral | 0.009933 | 0.000144 | 0.000299 | 0.000735 | 0.966855 | 0.00087 | 0.021164 |
786 | 12 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? IT!! Sorry!! yes it career!! COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts Its not permanent. Thanks for listening to my problems. Yes. I'm looking forward to start a own business. Ye... | Yes i would like to search it in my place. Thank you for the information Yes. | You're welcome :) Whereabouts do you live? I'm in Canada. | You're welcome :) Whereabouts do you live? I'm in Canada. | Others | Others | 9,250 | neutral | 0.00879 | 0.000089 | 0.000266 | 0.004522 | 0.960536 | 0.000442 | 0.025354 |
786 | 13 | fear | sleep_problems | It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | good, how are you doing? have some issues on life matters !! I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID? IT!! Sorry!! yes it career!! COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts Its not permanent. Thanks for listening to my problems. Yes. I'm looking forward to start a own business. Ye... | I'm in West Virginia USA Thank you it helped talking to you. | Oh I'm glad, it was a pleasure speaking with you. I wish you all the best in your venture. I have faith you will get through this. | Oh I'm glad, it was a pleasure speaking with you. I wish you all the best in your venture. I have faith you will get through this. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,251 | happy | 0.000716 | 0.000029 | 0.000012 | 0.998137 | 0.000825 | 0.000069 | 0.000213 |
787 | 1 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello | How r u today | How r u today | Question | Question | 9,253 | neutral | 0.004226 | 0.000116 | 0.000071 | 0.00422 | 0.989792 | 0.000161 | 0.001414 | |
787 | 2 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello | Not really. I have been sad for a while. | What seems to be the issue | What seems to be the issue Can you talk about what is going on | Question, Restatement or Paraphrasing | Question | 9,254 | sad | 0.000285 | 0.000193 | 0.000033 | 0.000044 | 0.000566 | 0.998778 | 0.000102 |
787 | 3 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. | I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. | Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago | Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago I can assume you had been together for awhile | Question, Restatement or Paraphrasing | Question | 9,255 | sad | 0.001566 | 0.001478 | 0.000157 | 0.000333 | 0.000056 | 0.996358 | 0.000052 |
787 | 4 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. | It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. | Had you been together for awhile | Had you been together for awhile | Question | Question | 9,256 | surprised | 0.003405 | 0.000938 | 0.000518 | 0.007364 | 0.05052 | 0.019872 | 0.917384 |
787 | 5 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. | We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage. | So he wanted you and made you feel special | So he wanted you and made you feel special Was the other person someone you knew as well | Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 9,257 | neutral | 0.011444 | 0.001385 | 0.000464 | 0.048121 | 0.846711 | 0.011027 | 0.080848 |
787 | 6 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl. She was actually his ex but he told me they were done. | Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well | Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well Did he have children with his x I can understand your sadness | Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question, Reflection of feelings | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 9,258 | neutral | 0.024455 | 0.000353 | 0.00009 | 0.000355 | 0.944513 | 0.002222 | 0.028012 |
787 | 7 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | He was. Except she still doesn't know about me. No children. | Has he been contacting you lately | Has he been contacting you lately | Question | Question | 9,259 | neutral | 0.034795 | 0.000578 | 0.000215 | 0.000397 | 0.910415 | 0.005779 | 0.047823 |
787 | 8 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do. | was he your 1st love | was he your 1st love | Question | Question | 9,260 | sad | 0.000158 | 0.000042 | 0.000086 | 0.00005 | 0.000172 | 0.999449 | 0.000043 |
787 | 9 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year. | How did you meet each other | How did you meet each other He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x | Others, Others | Others | 9,261 | sad | 0.018096 | 0.001635 | 0.002122 | 0.006375 | 0.071677 | 0.887644 | 0.012451 |
787 | 10 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | His family member was a friend of mine. I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex. | Has the COVID interfered with you | Has the COVID interfered with you There is another way to look at this | Question, Others | Question | 9,262 | neutral | 0.033935 | 0.000554 | 0.000105 | 0.000976 | 0.954609 | 0.003049 | 0.006772 |
787 | 11 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him. | You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r | You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you | Affirmation and Reassurance, Others, Question | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,263 | neutral | 0.016617 | 0.000118 | 0.000101 | 0.000385 | 0.975634 | 0.001464 | 0.00568 |
787 | 12 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse. I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much. | It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break | It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,264 | sad | 0.000491 | 0.000064 | 0.000128 | 0.000178 | 0.005152 | 0.99368 | 0.000306 |
787 | 13 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | True. At least I can rely on my family. | Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting | Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,265 | neutral | 0.001227 | 0.000084 | 0.00044 | 0.010811 | 0.981168 | 0.004343 | 0.001926 |
787 | 14 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | Yes thank you for the encouragement. | Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating | Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating Step out and be patient. Don't allow feelings to control u but let your heart tell you it is real Hope this helped | Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,266 | happy | 0.000149 | 0.000011 | 0.000012 | 0.999456 | 0.000194 | 0.00003 | 0.000149 |
787 | 15 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | It did. I needed to talk to someone about it and I needed some encouragement. Thank you for listening to me and thank you for your help. | Just be yourself. | Just be yourself. Have a Merry Christmas | Providing Suggestions, Others | Providing Suggestions | 9,267 | happy | 0.010686 | 0.000145 | 0.000801 | 0.89308 | 0.086047 | 0.002396 | 0.006845 |
787 | 16 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello Not really. I have been sad for a while. I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else. It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week. We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he ... | Will do. Thanks again, you have yourself a Merry Christmas too. | ok. Bye | ok. Bye | Others | Others | 9,268 | happy | 0.000288 | 0.000026 | 0.000012 | 0.998817 | 0.000675 | 0.000046 | 0.000136 |
788 | 1 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today | Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you? | Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you? | Question | Question | 9,269 | sad | 0.007794 | 0.000299 | 0.016157 | 0.001602 | 0.029109 | 0.939915 | 0.005125 | |
788 | 2 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today | A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now | I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone. | I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone. You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you. | Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance | Reflection of feelings | 9,270 | sad | 0.000202 | 0.000065 | 0.000041 | 0.000173 | 0.000448 | 0.998997 | 0.000075 |
788 | 3 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now | It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. I am not mad at him, he's a good guy. He was separated when we met. But as all life, it's complicated | I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now. | I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now. Each person is put in our life for a reason or season. This may just be t... | Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance | Self-disclosure | 9,271 | sad | 0.350987 | 0.001985 | 0.000644 | 0.021466 | 0.089034 | 0.512156 | 0.023728 |
788 | 4 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. ... | Yes, I had my eyes wide open during the process and he and I were very open with our communication. I can see lots of blessings but I am just so sad. Each day is a challenge to focus I can't imagine a relationship right now | Sounds like you really but your heart in to this and I'm sure it hurts. No need to rush relationship. Falling back in love with yourself is the key first. Finding your inner happiness will make the next relationship that much better and stronger! | Sounds like you really but your heart in to this and I'm sure it hurts. No need to rush relationship. Falling back in love with yourself is the key first. Finding your inner happiness will make the next relationship that much better and stronger! Treat yourself to a few solo dates to find joy in the day to day life you... | Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 9,272 | sad | 0.000112 | 0.000054 | 0.000046 | 0.000534 | 0.000399 | 0.998757 | 0.000097 |
788 | 5 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. ... | I have heard the idea of dating ones self I haven't been out to eat for over a year due to the pandemic situation | It can be fun! No decisons on who wants to go where. It is all about you enjoying the moment and your own company! | It can be fun! No decisons on who wants to go where. It is all about you enjoying the moment and your own company! No need to go out if you feel uncomfortable. Find a movie you have been wanting to watch and order some take out! Or do some online shopping while enjoying your favorite dessert or adult beverage! | Others, Providing Suggestions | Others | 9,273 | neutral | 0.006513 | 0.001349 | 0.000384 | 0.000705 | 0.921112 | 0.018135 | 0.051802 |
788 | 6 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. ... | During this time with the affair, I had the strength to leave a narcissistic spouse that abused me emotionally. I am proud of myself for that. | That is a lot to handle! I am proud of you for that as well! No one ever deserves to be abused. Some solo time to rebuild your independance may do you wonders and give you back your strength and self confidence! Seems like the past year has been emotionally draining. | That is a lot to handle! I am proud of you for that as well! No one ever deserves to be abused. Some solo time to rebuild your independance may do you wonders and give you back your strength and self confidence! Seems like the past year has been emotionally draining. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,274 | happy | 0.002215 | 0.003481 | 0.000223 | 0.695129 | 0.024855 | 0.272454 | 0.001642 |
788 | 7 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. ... | It has been. You are right about me focusing on solo time. | I think you know yourself better than anyone else and are about to leap in to a new chapter of your life. You received lessons from both the past relationships and can take that forward knowing what you wish for and deserve. | I think you know yourself better than anyone else and are about to leap in to a new chapter of your life. You received lessons from both the past relationships and can take that forward knowing what you wish for and deserve. | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 9,275 | neutral | 0.009013 | 0.000048 | 0.000133 | 0.000206 | 0.981062 | 0.001298 | 0.00824 |
788 | 8 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. ... | Thank you for letting me talk about this. It is a touchy topic, affairs. My heart was so loved during that time but I always told him that if he needed me to step back, I would. It has been difficult on both of us. Being a parent, having the families meshed together, homes, work, etc.... I can understand why he feels h... | Sometimes talking about why you are feeling is the best way to find closure. Keep the memories of the love and good times but know that in the end you were destined for something so much more. As adults we try so often to find happiness in others. He is a good person for wanting to try to resolve the situation for his ... | Sometimes talking about why you are feeling is the best way to find closure. Keep the memories of the love and good times but know that in the end you were destined for something so much more. As adults we try so often to find happiness in others. He is a good person for wanting to try to resolve the situation for his ... | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,276 | sad | 0.027138 | 0.001637 | 0.004913 | 0.004007 | 0.066211 | 0.887545 | 0.00855 |
788 | 9 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. ... | thank you so much for saying that. It really means a lot to me and grounds me you are correct, that I need to move forward for me. I deserve it. That's a concept I have been learning. | You deserve peace through this transition. It will take some time but I think you will come out even stronger and happier on the long run. Journaling may be a great outlet for your emotions as well. | You deserve peace through this transition. It will take some time but I think you will come out even stronger and happier on the long run. Journaling may be a great outlet for your emotions as well. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 9,277 | happy | 0.00196 | 0.00004 | 0.000024 | 0.991965 | 0.003478 | 0.000119 | 0.002413 |
788 | 10 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. ... | thank you for that idea. He was my muse in that relationship and I would write beautiful stories and poetry for him. Writing out my journey to the next stage of my life would be beneficail | I think so! It may also let you heal while building your creativity even more! You seem like a very passionate and loving person. | I think so! It may also let you heal while building your creativity even more! You seem like a very passionate and loving person. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,278 | neutral | 0.001977 | 0.00017 | 0.000327 | 0.020907 | 0.967985 | 0.001023 | 0.007611 |
788 | 11 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | 7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. ... | You made me heart smile... thank you.. !! I am glad that I got to speak with you today! | You are so very welcome! You were a pleasure to talk to and I wish you all the best! Let this year be YOUR year! | You are so very welcome! You were a pleasure to talk to and I wish you all the best! Let this year be YOUR year! | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,279 | happy | 0.000072 | 0.000014 | 0.000007 | 0.999828 | 0.000032 | 0.000019 | 0.000029 |
789 | 1 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy. | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello? | Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster. | Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster. How can I help? How can I help? | Others, Question, Question | Others | 9,280 | neutral | 0.012807 | 0.000084 | 0.000221 | 0.003639 | 0.976341 | 0.000222 | 0.006686 | |
789 | 2 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy. | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello? | It's okay. Thank you for replying. So I have some issues with time management. | I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management? | I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management? I have also struggled with time management. I have found that reminders on my phone, and a planner have been most beneficial to me personally. I understand every situation is different. Do you have a deadline you're trying to meet? | Question, Self-disclosure | Question | 9,281 | angry | 0.848196 | 0.000995 | 0.00098 | 0.000962 | 0.038434 | 0.073653 | 0.036781 |
789 | 3 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy. | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello? It's okay. Thank you for replying. So I have some issues with time management. | I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much. I have used those tools. With the current environment in the world, I feel like dealines are a waste of time. I'm trying to g... | I can see how this would be very overwhelming. I have a child learning virtually as well. Similarly, I am a student. I am not working on my masters degree... I can't even imagine. | I can see how this would be very overwhelming. I have a child learning virtually as well. Similarly, I am a student. I am not working on my masters degree... I can't even imagine. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,282 | sad | 0.156731 | 0.00099 | 0.000074 | 0.002252 | 0.003686 | 0.83522 | 0.001048 |
789 | 4 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy. | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello? It's okay. Thank you for replying. So I have some issues with time management. I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much. I have used those tools. With the curre... | So you understand how the virtual learning has affected the day to day goals? I used to work during the day, complete my school work when the kids are in bed, but now everything seems so stressful. | Is your child old enough to do some of it on their own? I have "independent" or "together" next to each task. I purchased a large magnetic chalk board for our fridge. If your child is to young to do this I could see how this would be much more challenging for you. | Is your child old enough to do some of it on their own? I have "independent" or "together" next to each task. I purchased a large magnetic chalk board for our fridge. If your child is to young to do this I could see how this would be much more challenging for you. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 9,283 | sad | 0.415536 | 0.000618 | 0.008244 | 0.000765 | 0.014788 | 0.529594 | 0.030455 |
789 | 5 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy. | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello? It's okay. Thank you for replying. So I have some issues with time management. I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much. I have used those tools. With the curre... | That's a great idea! Two of my kids are old enough to work independently most of the time, they are 11 and 8. However, I also have a 3 year old that requires constant attention. Unfortunately, her daycare is closed. Even more, I had to take on my nephew because his mother could not handle the virtual learning. | I completely understand how you feel. Virtual learning has affected our daily goals, though we are doing prerecorded lessons. That does make it easier I am sure. I have a 10 and 2 year old at home with me. One thing that has helped me is support groups. There are so many moms going through the same thing we are at this... | I completely understand how you feel. Virtual learning has affected our daily goals, though we are doing prerecorded lessons. That does make it easier I am sure. I have a 10 and 2 year old at home with me. One thing that has helped me is support groups. There are so many moms going through the same thing we are at this... | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,284 | sad | 0.002481 | 0.000377 | 0.000305 | 0.000159 | 0.002228 | 0.994122 | 0.000328 |
789 | 6 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy. | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello? It's okay. Thank you for replying. So I have some issues with time management. I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much. I have used those tools. With the curre... | I never even thought of support groups. It would help to connect with other moms, just to remind myself that I am not alone in this. Thank you so much. You also have a busy bee on your hands! | You are not alone in this. You could take the 3 year old to another room if possible and work on phonics/numbers, then help the older children during naptime. Then maybe they could help entertain the 3 year old while you work on your own schoolwork? This is similar to my daily schedule... but as you know with kids you ... | You are not alone in this. You could take the 3 year old to another room if possible and work on phonics/numbers, then help the older children during naptime. Then maybe they could help entertain the 3 year old while you work on your own schoolwork? This is similar to my daily schedule... but as you know with kids you ... | Information | Information | 9,285 | neutral | 0.001024 | 0.000072 | 0.000336 | 0.009093 | 0.978491 | 0.004201 | 0.006783 |
789 | 7 | anxiety | academic_pressure | I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy. | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hello? It's okay. Thank you for replying. So I have some issues with time management. I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much. I have used those tools. With the curre... | Definitely have to go with the flow. They make life wondefully unpredictable. Thank you and those are fantastic ideas. I'll have to create a naptime, that would be the most helpful. | It helps so much to talk to other moms who understand. Being a mom is hard enough without all the added extra stress of 2020. It sounds like you're doing the best you can, and your kids will remember that in the long run. You can do this! | It helps so much to talk to other moms who understand. Being a mom is hard enough without all the added extra stress of 2020. It sounds like you're doing the best you can, and your kids will remember that in the long run. You can do this! | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,286 | happy | 0.00059 | 0.000037 | 0.000029 | 0.996822 | 0.001797 | 0.000061 | 0.000664 |
790 | 1 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. | Sure. What can I help you with? | Sure. What can I help you with? | Information | Information | 9,288 | neutral | 0.002359 | 0.000042 | 0.000331 | 0.001302 | 0.990651 | 0.00123 | 0.004085 | |
790 | 2 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. | Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice? | Im understand how hard ending a relationship can be. | Im understand how hard ending a relationship can be. What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on? | Affirmation and Reassurance, Information | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,289 | sad | 0.00134 | 0.000237 | 0.000197 | 0.000061 | 0.00441 | 0.992375 | 0.00138 |
790 | 3 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice? | Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her. | Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative? | Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative? | Information | Information | 9,290 | neutral | 0.001825 | 0.003373 | 0.001068 | 0.005578 | 0.745603 | 0.10264 | 0.139914 |
790 | 4 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice? Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain s... | They are a mix of both because at one point they were positive and now when I think about it, it brings me down in a negative way. What have you done in the past to help you move on from a break up? | Its hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered. | Its hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 9,291 | neutral | 0.022573 | 0.000597 | 0.000439 | 0.00033 | 0.798718 | 0.10389 | 0.073453 |
790 | 5 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice? Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain s... | Yeah I agree that's what I have been doing too, and it's nice to know that you do the same. | In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didnt. I have them used this as a tool for the future. | In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didnt. I have them used this as a tool for the future. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 9,292 | happy | 0.00058 | 0.000067 | 0.000007 | 0.996591 | 0.002109 | 0.00008 | 0.000567 |
790 | 6 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice? Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain s... | That's a good way to look at it. | You are making good steps to rethink the situations. Is there anything else contributing to the heat rack you still feel? | You are making good steps to rethink the situations. Is there anything else contributing to the heat rack you still feel? Heartbreak | Question, Others | Question | 9,293 | angry | 0.74776 | 0.001721 | 0.000119 | 0.000587 | 0.172459 | 0.00633 | 0.071023 |
790 | 7 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice? Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain s... | Well I have also not met anyone since and fear that I will not fall in love again. | That is difficult. I understand how it feels to be lonely. Something Ive done when Ive felt that way was to learn to fall in love with myself. I like to do self care and make time for things I might not have time for if I were in a relationship. | That is difficult. I understand how it feels to be lonely. Something Ive done when Ive felt that way was to learn to fall in love with myself. I like to do self care and make time for things I might not have time for if I were in a relationship. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 9,294 | fear | 0.000089 | 0.000077 | 0.998816 | 0.000088 | 0.000426 | 0.000452 | 0.000052 |
790 | 8 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice? Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain s... | hmm interesting I have never thought about falling in love with myself..maybe I will give it a try. Thanks. | Its so important to love yourself. Self love breeds confidence and confidence is not only attractive, but powerful in so many ways | Its so important to love yourself. Self love breeds confidence and confidence is not only attractive, but powerful in so many ways | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,295 | happy | 0.001405 | 0.00012 | 0.000168 | 0.9797 | 0.002793 | 0.002789 | 0.013026 |
790 | 9 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice? Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain s... | I appreciate the feedback and support, you have helped me take the next step to move on with my life. | Im glad I could help. You will overcome this. | Im glad I could help. You will overcome this. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,296 | happy | 0.000244 | 0.000038 | 0.000084 | 0.973226 | 0.025238 | 0.000243 | 0.000926 |
790 | 10 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there I was hoping you can help me. Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice? Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain s... | Thank you and hope to talk to you again. Have a good night. | You too. | You too. | Others | Others | 9,297 | happy | 0.038474 | 0.000083 | 0.000088 | 0.960027 | 0.001006 | 0.000122 | 0.0002 |
793 | 1 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! | Hi, what did you love about the State Fair? | Hi, what did you love about the State Fair? | Question | Question | 9,321 | sad | 0.000634 | 0.00009 | 0.000026 | 0.000146 | 0.000174 | 0.99883 | 0.000099 | |
793 | 2 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! | I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. | I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen | I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 9,322 | happy | 0.000128 | 0.000023 | 0.000014 | 0.998877 | 0.000657 | 0.000076 | 0.000224 |
793 | 3 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. | Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time. | Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then | Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then | Others | Others | 9,323 | angry | 0.832033 | 0.022155 | 0.002177 | 0.093431 | 0.019397 | 0.02734 | 0.003468 |
793 | 4 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhi... | Yes. It helped me to get away from some of the a-holes that I went to high school with. | It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime | It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,324 | neutral | 0.022518 | 0.003626 | 0.000436 | 0.001193 | 0.962451 | 0.00802 | 0.001756 |
793 | 5 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhi... | Thanks. That gives me hope. O | You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you | You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,325 | happy | 0.0004 | 0.00005 | 0.000029 | 0.997479 | 0.001607 | 0.000164 | 0.000272 |
793 | 6 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhi... | , A lot of things this year have taken their toll on me. One of my cats died earlier this year; a former co-worker whom I respected died, I'm tired of wearing masks--I'm 53 years old, and I have more acne now than I did when I was a teenager. I'm tired of politics, and I'm tired of hearing my husband talk politics! | Wow, I know how you feel as I have had some really traumatic things happen to me over the past few months as well. I understand all too well especially since I had to cancel my trips that were already paid for this year. | Wow, I know how you feel as I have had some really traumatic things happen to me over the past few months as well. I understand all too well especially since I had to cancel my trips that were already paid for this year. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 9,326 | sad | 0.00445 | 0.000496 | 0.000111 | 0.000093 | 0.004055 | 0.990488 | 0.000306 |
793 | 7 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhi... | That sucks. I hope you got your money back. | Yes I did | Yes I did | Others | Others | 9,327 | angry | 0.967381 | 0.012747 | 0.000794 | 0.000117 | 0.013105 | 0.004936 | 0.000919 |
793 | 8 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhi... | Good. | Based on what you described, you can find new ways to distract you from the missing State Fair and the fun it brought to your life | Based on what you described, you can find new ways to distract you from the missing State Fair and the fun it brought to your life | Information | Information | 9,328 | angry | 0.33333 | 0.023625 | 0.000624 | 0.237581 | 0.091353 | 0.237298 | 0.076188 |
793 | 9 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhi... | I have learned to be more resourceful this year. I went full-on serious about my vegetable garden. | Create your own fun, head to the beach, go to the park, take a drive to the countryside and enjoy the fall. And of course spending more time in your garden will be a great distraction. | Create your own fun, head to the beach, go to the park, take a drive to the countryside and enjoy the fall. And of course spending more time in your garden will be a great distraction. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 9,329 | happy | 0.015549 | 0.001879 | 0.00176 | 0.792245 | 0.115775 | 0.036222 | 0.03657 |
793 | 10 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhi... | Yeah...at least the park's still open ! | Yep, Well it was great that I can provide a short distraction | Yep, Well it was great that I can provide a short distraction | Others | Others | 9,330 | happy | 0.000982 | 0.000204 | 0.000044 | 0.979762 | 0.015916 | 0.000505 | 0.002587 |
793 | 11 | sadness | ongoing_depression | This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore! | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled! I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc. Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhi... | Thanks for your help. | Take care, It will get better. | Take care, It will get better. | Others | Others | 9,331 | neutral | 0.05362 | 0.000285 | 0.001297 | 0.031369 | 0.854213 | 0.007376 | 0.05184 |
794 | 1 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you | How can I be of service to you | How can I be of service to you I am well despite the virus | Question, Restatement or Paraphrasing | Question | 9,333 | happy | 0.002446 | 0.000051 | 0.000036 | 0.991527 | 0.005581 | 0.000045 | 0.000314 | |
794 | 2 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you | I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong | Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse | Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse | Question | Question | 9,334 | sad | 0.001611 | 0.000576 | 0.004692 | 0.003089 | 0.000439 | 0.983718 | 0.005875 |
794 | 3 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong | a boyfriend/fiance | Sorry about that. How long ago | Sorry about that. How long ago | Question | Question | 9,335 | neutral | 0.059404 | 0.017367 | 0.003822 | 0.185933 | 0.53234 | 0.165725 | 0.035409 |
794 | 4 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance | Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me | That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year | That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,336 | sad | 0.00026 | 0.000259 | 0.000098 | 0.005145 | 0.000175 | 0.993402 | 0.000661 |
794 | 5 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all | Was the other person someone you knew | Was the other person someone you knew | Question | Question | 9,337 | surprised | 0.002478 | 0.000446 | 0.009514 | 0.001122 | 0.003555 | 0.000966 | 0.981919 |
794 | 6 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on | Any idea how long he was dating this other girl | Any idea how long he was dating this other girl | Question | Question | 9,338 | sad | 0.000095 | 0.00009 | 0.00003 | 0.000037 | 0.000068 | 0.999615 | 0.000065 |
794 | 7 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me | He definitely did not give you any clues | He definitely did not give you any clues Were you living together | Reflection of feelings, Question | Reflection of feelings | 9,339 | surprised | 0.213507 | 0.002077 | 0.008047 | 0.000895 | 0.060065 | 0.149237 | 0.566172 |
794 | 8 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together | Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also | Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 9,340 | neutral | 0.013773 | 0.000281 | 0.000074 | 0.000405 | 0.920501 | 0.005252 | 0.059713 |
794 | 9 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this | It always hurts both partners when it happens. | It always hurts both partners when it happens. | Others | Others | 9,341 | neutral | 0.006785 | 0.000098 | 0.001441 | 0.000286 | 0.958344 | 0.004719 | 0.028327 |
794 | 10 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | Yes it does | Let me ask if you are involved with a church | Let me ask if you are involved with a church | Question | Question | 9,342 | neutral | 0.013149 | 0.000058 | 0.000119 | 0.000426 | 0.978166 | 0.001002 | 0.007079 |
794 | 11 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation | You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you | You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,343 | neutral | 0.001638 | 0.000515 | 0.004724 | 0.052098 | 0.887175 | 0.034055 | 0.019794 |
794 | 12 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | It is possible | That is good you are involved with a church. | That is good you are involved with a church. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,344 | neutral | 0.003127 | 0.000032 | 0.000175 | 0.000433 | 0.982472 | 0.000726 | 0.013036 |
794 | 13 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed | Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew. | Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 9,345 | sad | 0.000186 | 0.000126 | 0.000123 | 0.000048 | 0.001205 | 0.998181 | 0.00013 |
794 | 14 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | Yes i will definitely try that Thank you for your advice | What bright spots do you see in all this | What bright spots do you see in all this | Question | Question | 9,346 | happy | 0.00245 | 0.000081 | 0.000388 | 0.94744 | 0.046912 | 0.000169 | 0.00256 |
794 | 15 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth | Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded | Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,347 | neutral | 0.001246 | 0.000092 | 0.000176 | 0.015932 | 0.974808 | 0.001357 | 0.00639 |
794 | 16 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | Thank you , I will definitely try that | Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse | Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse | Question | Question | 9,348 | happy | 0.006689 | 0.000051 | 0.000119 | 0.986763 | 0.005252 | 0.000053 | 0.001073 |
794 | 17 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce | The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome | The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,349 | neutral | 0.03056 | 0.00145 | 0.000693 | 0.031677 | 0.847572 | 0.065223 | 0.022825 |
794 | 18 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | I do believe that but because of this break up I feel I can trust nobody | I understand about the pains of divorce | I understand about the pains of divorce | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 9,350 | happy | 0.00013 | 0.000014 | 0.000011 | 0.999666 | 0.000064 | 0.000079 | 0.000035 |
794 | 19 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | I could imagine the pain i would feel if it was when we were married | Don't let yourself become the victim. | Don't let yourself become the victim. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,351 | sad | 0.000215 | 0.000207 | 0.000132 | 0.000092 | 0.001063 | 0.998103 | 0.000188 |
794 | 20 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | True Well i appreciate your time and help | He may have found what he thought was better but then again you will be the better. He may come back but the seed has been planted | He may have found what he thought was better but then again you will be the better. He may come back but the seed has been planted | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,352 | happy | 0.000617 | 0.000023 | 0.000008 | 0.998553 | 0.000449 | 0.000103 | 0.000247 |
794 | 21 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | I will not let him come back. I deserve better | You can find better because he will want you for you | You can find better because he will want you for you | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 9,353 | neutral | 0.008297 | 0.000137 | 0.000196 | 0.000061 | 0.989717 | 0.001203 | 0.000389 |
794 | 22 | depression | breakup_with_partner | I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Good afternoon How are you I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong a boyfriend/fiance Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out h... | I agree! It will just take me some time | And you will find better because he will want both of you. Remember you have child that will help you as well | And you will find better because he will want both of you. Remember you have child that will help you as well | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,354 | happy | 0.002621 | 0.000109 | 0.000104 | 0.928679 | 0.064255 | 0.000682 | 0.003551 |
796 | 1 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My (ex)fiance and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. ... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating... | I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else? | I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 9,369 | sad | 0.014565 | 0.003831 | 0.001126 | 0.008472 | 0.007439 | 0.943827 | 0.02074 | |
796 | 2 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | My (ex)fiance and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. ... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating... | To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known. | You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship. | You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 9,370 | sad | 0.000994 | 0.000594 | 0.000021 | 0.000102 | 0.000654 | 0.997157 | 0.000477 |
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