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809
4
fear
job_crisis
I feel like my employees are working against me.
4
2
5
5
Hi, how are you? I feel like one of my employees is gossiping and seeking attention of my bosses. I am not sure. She is telling me things that by supervisor should tell me. She is saying "He told me this...".
Not yet. It just started last week. I am thinking about asking this week. He usually calls me.
i can understand how you are feeling i have been through some situations like that before
i can understand how you are feeling i have been through some situations like that before
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,502
neutral
0.007256
0.000063
0.000195
0.000505
0.983233
0.001232
0.007516
809
5
fear
job_crisis
I feel like my employees are working against me.
4
2
5
5
Hi, how are you? I feel like one of my employees is gossiping and seeking attention of my bosses. I am not sure. She is telling me things that by supervisor should tell me. She is saying "He told me this...". Not yet. It just started last week. I am thinking about asking this week. He usually calls me.
Thanks. Have you tried anything that has been helpful?
what i did is just talk to the person about the situation and let them know how i was feeling
what i did is just talk to the person about the situation and let them know how i was feeling
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,503
neutral
0.043286
0.000713
0.004729
0.001099
0.784546
0.043485
0.122142
809
6
fear
job_crisis
I feel like my employees are working against me.
4
2
5
5
Hi, how are you? I feel like one of my employees is gossiping and seeking attention of my bosses. I am not sure. She is telling me things that by supervisor should tell me. She is saying "He told me this...". Not yet. It just started last week. I am thinking about asking this week. He usually calls me. Thanks. Have you...
Should I talk with my employee first or my boss?
i would talk to your boss first that would be best
i would talk to your boss first that would be best let him know everything you are feeling just don't worry to much about the situation and don't let it stress you out everything will be okay
Providing Suggestions, Others, Affirmation and Reassurance
Providing Suggestions
9,504
neutral
0.019308
0.000258
0.000543
0.000157
0.929383
0.004943
0.045407
809
7
fear
job_crisis
I feel like my employees are working against me.
4
2
5
5
Hi, how are you? I feel like one of my employees is gossiping and seeking attention of my bosses. I am not sure. She is telling me things that by supervisor should tell me. She is saying "He told me this...". Not yet. It just started last week. I am thinking about asking this week. He usually calls me. Thanks. Have you...
That sounds like a good plan. I am only stressed because it is hurtful and my employee likes to beb the center of attention.
I understand what you mean about that just do not worry about people like that your main focus is doing your job
I understand what you mean about that just do not worry about people like that your main focus is doing your job people are going to talk but you have to just ignore them and move on do not worry about what people say or think about you
Self-disclosure, Information
Self-disclosure
9,505
angry
0.726515
0.003723
0.001421
0.000498
0.010762
0.255098
0.001982
809
8
fear
job_crisis
I feel like my employees are working against me.
4
2
5
5
Hi, how are you? I feel like one of my employees is gossiping and seeking attention of my bosses. I am not sure. She is telling me things that by supervisor should tell me. She is saying "He told me this...". Not yet. It just started last week. I am thinking about asking this week. He usually calls me. Thanks. Have you...
Yeah. I am trying to detach from it but my ego is getting hurt, which usually doesn't happen.
you will be okay no matter what
you will be okay no matter what
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,506
sad
0.285082
0.003805
0.001761
0.000642
0.065132
0.634512
0.009067
809
9
fear
job_crisis
I feel like my employees are working against me.
4
2
5
5
Hi, how are you? I feel like one of my employees is gossiping and seeking attention of my bosses. I am not sure. She is telling me things that by supervisor should tell me. She is saying "He told me this...". Not yet. It just started last week. I am thinking about asking this week. He usually calls me. Thanks. Have you...
That means a lot. That was a nice thing to say!
the only way the situation will be solved is by communicating and expressing your feelings
the only way the situation will be solved is by communicating and expressing your feelings
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,507
happy
0.000248
0.00002
0.000007
0.999583
0.000064
0.000023
0.000056
811
1
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed
Is there a specific incident that caused you to feel this way?
Is there a specific incident that caused you to feel this way?
Question
Question
9,517
sad
0.000478
0.000275
0.000108
0.00003
0.000647
0.998365
0.000098
811
2
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed
it was the incident that is break up with my partner.
When big life changes come, it is natural to feel sad or upset.
When big life changes come, it is natural to feel sad or upset.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,518
sad
0.001875
0.000438
0.000066
0.000041
0.001158
0.996298
0.000124
811
3
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner.
but i feel very stress ful in that suitation
Since the breakup, have you found a safe place to live?
Since the breakup, have you found a safe place to live? Have you reached out to any friends to talk about how you're feeling?
Question, Question
Question
9,519
angry
0.514216
0.000612
0.00168
0.000404
0.00055
0.482405
0.000133
811
4
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner. but i feel very stress ful in that suitation
i have rented seperately i reached to my friends but no use of that.
Knowing you have a safe place to live is one positive aspect of your life!
Knowing you have a safe place to live is one positive aspect of your life!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,520
angry
0.523776
0.005295
0.000691
0.000183
0.009545
0.459554
0.000955
811
5
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner. but i feel very stress ful in that suitation i have rented seperately i reached to my friends but no use of that.
yes i am safe
I know it is hard right now, but seeking out others will bring small moments of joy to the day.
I know it is hard right now, but seeking out others will bring small moments of joy to the day. Exercise can help clear your mind. Do you enjoy going for a walk?
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions, Question
Providing Suggestions
9,521
neutral
0.001293
0.000045
0.000404
0.004703
0.990975
0.000593
0.001988
811
6
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner. but i feel very stress ful in that suitation i have rented seperately i reached to my friends but no use of that. yes i am safe
yes ,but hard to over come that problem i enjoy going to walk
I love to walk too!
I love to walk too! The park by my house has some incredible fall leaves right now!
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,522
happy
0.000933
0.000086
0.000024
0.994994
0.002221
0.001385
0.000357
811
7
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner. but i feel very stress ful in that suitation i have rented seperately i reached to my friends but no use of that. yes i am safe yes ,but hard to over come that problem i enjoy going to walk
it is a nice climate too
Let's focus on accomplishing one small goal for the day.
Let's focus on accomplishing one small goal for the day. I know you have the ability to accomplish your goals! What one task can you succeed at today?
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Providing Suggestions
9,523
neutral
0.004184
0.000398
0.000119
0.144245
0.832719
0.00223
0.016104
811
8
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner. but i feel very stress ful in that suitation i have rented seperately i reached to my friends but no use of that. yes i am safe yes ,but hard to over come that problem i enjoy going to walk it is a nice climate too
i have to divert my mind by focusing my thought from other suitaion only i am thinking of going out for shopping.
Wonderful! I hope you enjoy the fresh air and change of scenery.
Wonderful! I hope you enjoy the fresh air and change of scenery.
Others
Others
9,524
sad
0.048167
0.003635
0.005898
0.002492
0.102587
0.827982
0.00924
811
9
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner. but i feel very stress ful in that suitation i have rented seperately i reached to my friends but no use of that. yes i am safe yes ,but hard to over come that problem i enjoy going to walk it is a nice climate too i have to divert my mind...
yes really .
Make the most of your beautiful day!
Make the most of your beautiful day!
Others
Others
9,525
neutral
0.055318
0.000293
0.000165
0.001189
0.884768
0.003202
0.055066
811
10
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner. but i feel very stress ful in that suitation i have rented seperately i reached to my friends but no use of that. yes i am safe yes ,but hard to over come that problem i enjoy going to walk it is a nice climate too i have to divert my mind...
yes it is really wonder ful day
Knowing that you are seeking to have a great day makes me confident that you are going to overcome your challenges and thrive!
Knowing that you are seeking to have a great day makes me confident that you are going to overcome your challenges and thrive!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,526
happy
0.000087
0.000016
0.000007
0.999724
0.00006
0.000024
0.000084
811
11
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner. but i feel very stress ful in that suitation i have rented seperately i reached to my friends but no use of that. yes i am safe yes ,but hard to over come that problem i enjoy going to walk it is a nice climate too i have to divert my mind...
yes i will and have to over come
Take care!
Take care!
Others
Others
9,527
neutral
0.002265
0.000036
0.000219
0.000307
0.992807
0.002618
0.001747
811
12
depression
breakup_with_partner
breakup with the partner made me very depressed,i was really had very bad mood ,i cannot tolerate my stress mood at all ,i am completely lost my mind.
5
3
5
5
i am really very depressed it was the incident that is break up with my partner. but i feel very stress ful in that suitation i have rented seperately i reached to my friends but no use of that. yes i am safe yes ,but hard to over come that problem i enjoy going to walk it is a nice climate too i have to divert my mind...
you also take care bye
bye!
bye!
Others
Others
9,528
angry
0.961402
0.000523
0.000087
0.000125
0.036383
0.00058
0.000899
813
1
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore.
That must be hard to not be with friends so much. Being social is human.
That must be hard to not be with friends so much. Being social is human.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
9,541
sad
0.002499
0.000151
0.000129
0.000131
0.000299
0.996744
0.000046
813
2
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore.
I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect.
Have you tried calling them to express your concerns?
Have you tried calling them to express your concerns?
Question
Question
9,542
sad
0.000385
0.000068
0.000151
0.000073
0.000542
0.998518
0.000264
813
3
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore. I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect.
I did but they want to meet in person and I just can't
It sounds like you are trying. Have you expressed to them why you feel the way you do?
It sounds like you are trying. Have you expressed to them why you feel the way you do?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,543
sad
0.04561
0.001162
0.001206
0.000143
0.011392
0.938918
0.001568
813
4
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore. I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect. I did but they want to meet in person and I just can't
I've tried to but I don't think they take the COVID seriously.
That can be hard when there are different viewpoints on such a big issue.
That can be hard when there are different viewpoints on such a big issue.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,544
angry
0.94729
0.009788
0.000169
0.000158
0.028319
0.009615
0.004662
813
5
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore. I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect. I did but they want to meet in person and I just can't I've tried to but I don't think they take the COVID seriously.
It sure is. Do you have any suggestions?
Do you think that having a friend intervene and having a third party help out could help?
Do you think that having a friend intervene and having a third party help out could help?
Question
Question
9,545
neutral
0.003593
0.000076
0.000141
0.00072
0.934169
0.000562
0.060738
813
6
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore. I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect. I did but they want to meet in person and I just can't I've tried to but I don't think they take the COVID seriously. It sure is. Do you have any suggestions?
That could possibly work. My friend is so much more receptive to my other friend in hearing her out. Maybe she could assist.
That sounds like a great idea.
That sounds like a great idea. It sounds like you are thinking of alternate paths to work through the friendship. Your friend will appreciate all the efforts you are making to show you care.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,546
neutral
0.010696
0.000305
0.00046
0.000995
0.977652
0.004295
0.005598
813
7
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore. I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect. I did but they want to meet in person and I just can't I've tried to but I don't think they take the COVID seriously. It sure is. Do you have any suggestions? That could possibly work. My friend is so much more recept...
Yes, I'm trying my best
Do you think your friends would like a card?
Do you think your friends would like a card?
Question
Question
9,547
neutral
0.008025
0.000387
0.000406
0.003493
0.958752
0.024686
0.00425
813
8
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore. I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect. I did but they want to meet in person and I just can't I've tried to but I don't think they take the COVID seriously. It sure is. Do you have any suggestions? That could possibly work. My friend is so much more recept...
I think that might show I care too and be helpful.
My mother-in-law often sends cards for each holiday because she can't leave her home due to illness. I know deep down she cares even though she is not in person.
My mother-in-law often sends cards for each holiday because she can't leave her home due to illness. I know deep down she cares even though she is not in person.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,548
neutral
0.011749
0.000072
0.000212
0.001874
0.97326
0.002637
0.010197
813
9
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore. I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect. I did but they want to meet in person and I just can't I've tried to but I don't think they take the COVID seriously. It sure is. Do you have any suggestions? That could possibly work. My friend is so much more recept...
You make a good point.
Sometimes patience can make the difference in a relationship. Do you feel like you have any other concerns?
Sometimes patience can make the difference in a relationship. Do you feel like you have any other concerns?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,549
neutral
0.088487
0.000164
0.00015
0.000345
0.887215
0.002167
0.021472
813
10
sadness
problems_with_friends
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
5
1
5
5
I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore. I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect. I did but they want to meet in person and I just can't I've tried to but I don't think they take the COVID seriously. It sure is. Do you have any suggestions? That could possibly work. My friend is so much more recept...
I think I'm starting to feel better about the situation and trying to be more positive.
I'm happy to hear that. Keep positive as you are trying hard to go down the right path and your friends will appreciate that.
I'm happy to hear that. Keep positive as you are trying hard to go down the right path and your friends will appreciate that.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,550
happy
0.000027
0.000017
0.000006
0.999705
0.000113
0.000075
0.000057
814
1
shame
academic_pressure
School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
3
1
5
5
Hi, how are you today?
I am okay. What is going on with you?
I am okay. What is going on with you?
Question
Question
9,551
happy
0.000513
0.000026
0.000013
0.998467
0.000893
0.000024
0.000065
814
2
shame
academic_pressure
School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
3
1
5
5
Hi, how are you today?
School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
It sounds like it must be overwhelming to keep up with all of your school work.
It sounds like it must be overwhelming to keep up with all of your school work.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
9,552
sad
0.000711
0.000357
0.000131
0.000071
0.001974
0.996624
0.000132
814
3
shame
academic_pressure
School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
3
1
5
5
Hi, how are you today? School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
Im majoring in computer engineering. Its really #%$& hard! Everyone else is way smarter than I am.
That does sound very difficult, but I think you can do it! Just getting into a program like that shows how smart you are!
That does sound very difficult, but I think you can do it! Just getting into a program like that shows how smart you are!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,553
angry
0.990322
0.000915
0.000053
0.001324
0.004753
0.001829
0.000804
814
4
shame
academic_pressure
School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
3
1
5
5
Hi, how are you today? School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major. Im majoring in computer engineering. Its really #%$& hard! Everyone else is way smarter than I am.
It's kinda late to switch. I'm at the end of my third year. My parents keep bugging me about getting a job.
To be honest with you, I switched majors a lot in college. I eventually let go of what my family thought and pursued a career I would truly enjoy for myself.
To be honest with you, I switched majors a lot in college. I eventually let go of what my family thought and pursued a career I would truly enjoy for myself.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,554
angry
0.865933
0.00496
0.011625
0.0009
0.02572
0.086492
0.00437
814
5
shame
academic_pressure
School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
3
1
5
5
Hi, how are you today? School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major. Im majoring in computer engineering. Its really #%$& hard! Everyone else is way smarter than I am. It's kinda late to switch. I'm at the end of my third year. My parents keep bugging me about getting a job.
I wish I were in your shoes! If I change majors now, I have to redo at least a year of school, maybe more. I don't think my parents want to pay for that.
Personally I took three years longer than it should to get my degree and accrued some debt because of it. Although I feel it is worth it now.
Personally I took three years longer than it should to get my degree and accrued some debt because of it. Although I feel it is worth it now.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,555
neutral
0.384067
0.005176
0.002436
0.006097
0.481565
0.106623
0.014035
814
6
shame
academic_pressure
School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
3
1
5
5
Hi, how are you today? School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major. Im majoring in computer engineering. Its really #%$& hard! Everyone else is way smarter than I am. It's kinda late to switch. I'm at the end of my third year. My parents keep bugging me about getting a job. I wish I were in your ...
That's good to know. Maybe I can convince my parents to let me borrow some money. I don't want to be a computer engineer.
I'm hearing its difficult for you knowing that you are on a path that you don't really want to be on.
I'm hearing its difficult for you knowing that you are on a path that you don't really want to be on.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,556
angry
0.799781
0.002272
0.001432
0.003134
0.120178
0.055065
0.018139
814
7
shame
academic_pressure
School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
3
1
5
5
Hi, how are you today? School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major. Im majoring in computer engineering. Its really #%$& hard! Everyone else is way smarter than I am. It's kinda late to switch. I'm at the end of my third year. My parents keep bugging me about getting a job. I wish I were in your ...
That's a good way to put it. I've thought a lot about my options. I've thought about take a leave of absence, switching majors, going to trade school, traveling abroad...
A lot of people I know benefited from talking to an advisor or counselor for some direction. Have you done that recently?
A lot of people I know benefited from talking to an advisor or counselor for some direction. Have you done that recently?
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School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
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Hi, how are you today? School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major. Im majoring in computer engineering. Its really #%$& hard! Everyone else is way smarter than I am. It's kinda late to switch. I'm at the end of my third year. My parents keep bugging me about getting a job. I wish I were in your ...
I talked to the school counselor. They laid out some options. It's really about money and time. If those weren't concerns, I would switch in a heartbeat.
What about meeting with the counselor with your parents, since it seems they would need to support you financially over any extra time it might take?
What about meeting with the counselor with your parents, since it seems they would need to support you financially over any extra time it might take?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
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Hi, how are you today? School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major. Im majoring in computer engineering. Its really #%$& hard! Everyone else is way smarter than I am. It's kinda late to switch. I'm at the end of my third year. My parents keep bugging me about getting a job. I wish I were in your ...
That's a good point. Maybe we could have a Zoom meeting, even for just 15 minutes. I need to get my parents to understand my feelings. The counselor might help me with that.
It's been shown that healthy communication can help people listen and respond more considerately when things seem difficult at first.
It's been shown that healthy communication can help people listen and respond more considerately when things seem difficult at first.
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School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.
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Hi, how are you today? School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major. Im majoring in computer engineering. Its really #%$& hard! Everyone else is way smarter than I am. It's kinda late to switch. I'm at the end of my third year. My parents keep bugging me about getting a job. I wish I were in your ...
I hadn't thought of it that way. I'm so worried about schoolwork that I hadn't stepped back from the whole situation of school itself.
I definitely can understand that, but it is important to think about your future happiness and security too!
I definitely can understand that, but it is important to think about your future happiness and security too!
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Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time
Hello, and good afternoon yourself. How are you?
Hello, and good afternoon yourself. How are you?
Question
Question
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Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time
Doing pretty good. Struggling a little
What is making you struggle?
What is making you struggle?
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Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time Doing pretty good. Struggling a little
My situation involves our Daughter and Son-in-Law. He is not treating her well, rude, gaslighting and treating the dog better. He is also not very nice to our grandaughter This is confidential, Right?
Yes, of course it is :). So we are talking about your daughter and her husband and their child together, right?
Yes, of course it is :). So we are talking about your daughter and her husband and their child together, right?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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MY Son-in-Law is treating our daughter and Grandaughter indifferent, gaslighting and treats the dog better.
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Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time Doing pretty good. Struggling a little My situation involves our Daughter and Son-in-Law. He is not treating her well, rude, gaslighting and treating the dog better. He is also not very nice to our grandaughter This is confidential, Right?
Yes, He is a nice guy to others. At home he is so different.
I understand, people can often show different sides depending on who is around. Do you have any reason to think your daughter or granddaughter are in physical danger?
I understand, people can often show different sides depending on who is around. Do you have any reason to think your daughter or granddaughter are in physical danger?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time Doing pretty good. Struggling a little My situation involves our Daughter and Son-in-Law. He is not treating her well, rude, gaslighting and treating the dog better. He is also not very nice to our grandaughter This is confidential, Right? Yes, He is a nice guy to others. A...
No, they are safe. He's, like I said, a nice guy. Our Daughter, we are very close and she would tell us.
That's great news! It sounds as though you are just concerned about how she is sometimes being treat. Have you had any conversation with your daughter about their relationship?
That's great news! It sounds as though you are just concerned about how she is sometimes being treat. Have you had any conversation with your daughter about their relationship?
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MY Son-in-Law is treating our daughter and Grandaughter indifferent, gaslighting and treats the dog better.
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Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time Doing pretty good. Struggling a little My situation involves our Daughter and Son-in-Law. He is not treating her well, rude, gaslighting and treating the dog better. He is also not very nice to our grandaughter This is confidential, Right? Yes, He is a nice guy to others. A...
Yes, numerous. Like I said we are close to our daughter. She wants to stay together and talks with him. He stays for whatever reason. I wish he would talk to me, to us. We have offered. He knows that we care about him.
And that is so important and good to know there is trust from his side, to me it sounds as though that could be an olive branch for you to try and establish a conversation with both of them. An open and positive communication is always the first step in resolving anything.
And that is so important and good to know there is trust from his side, to me it sounds as though that could be an olive branch for you to try and establish a conversation with both of them. An open and positive communication is always the first step in resolving anything.
Information
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MY Son-in-Law is treating our daughter and Grandaughter indifferent, gaslighting and treats the dog better.
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4
Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time Doing pretty good. Struggling a little My situation involves our Daughter and Son-in-Law. He is not treating her well, rude, gaslighting and treating the dog better. He is also not very nice to our grandaughter This is confidential, Right? Yes, He is a nice guy to others. A...
We have tried this before when we visit and he appears receptive. Treats he well and then when we are gone. He falls back into he behaviour.
I recently went though a similar exercise with a friend and her boyfriend. We sat down in a room and spoke about our feelings. We had ground rules first and everyone knew they could talk without being judged or escalating.
I recently went though a similar exercise with a friend and her boyfriend. We sat down in a room and spoke about our feelings. We had ground rules first and everyone knew they could talk without being judged or escalating. Maybe you could suggest follow up conversations, re-cap about what was spoken about previously an...
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
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MY Son-in-Law is treating our daughter and Grandaughter indifferent, gaslighting and treats the dog better.
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Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time Doing pretty good. Struggling a little My situation involves our Daughter and Son-in-Law. He is not treating her well, rude, gaslighting and treating the dog better. He is also not very nice to our grandaughter This is confidential, Right? Yes, He is a nice guy to others. A...
Thats sounds like a good idea. We have talked with them individually. Now the next step. We shall see. Yeah consistency leads to accountability. I like the idea. Thank you.
I believe you have both their interests in mind. You sound like a positive person and you are just concerned for all 3 people involved.
I believe you have both their interests in mind. You sound like a positive person and you are just concerned for all 3 people involved.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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MY Son-in-Law is treating our daughter and Grandaughter indifferent, gaslighting and treats the dog better.
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Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time Doing pretty good. Struggling a little My situation involves our Daughter and Son-in-Law. He is not treating her well, rude, gaslighting and treating the dog better. He is also not very nice to our grandaughter This is confidential, Right? Yes, He is a nice guy to others. A...
For sure, she is our daughter and our granddaughter needs her daddy.
I hope they will be well receptive of your suggestion for a follow up.
I hope they will be well receptive of your suggestion for a follow up.
Others
Others
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MY Son-in-Law is treating our daughter and Grandaughter indifferent, gaslighting and treats the dog better.
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Hi and good afternoon Thank you for your time Doing pretty good. Struggling a little My situation involves our Daughter and Son-in-Law. He is not treating her well, rude, gaslighting and treating the dog better. He is also not very nice to our grandaughter This is confidential, Right? Yes, He is a nice guy to others. A...
Thank you. I have some good ideas after chatting with you.
No worries, I'm grateful for your time as well. If there is nothing else, I hope it all goes well and you have a wonderful weekend :)
No worries, I'm grateful for your time as well. If there is nothing else, I hope it all goes well and you have a wonderful weekend :)
Others
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5
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Hi there
Hello :)
Hello :)
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment
5
3
4
4
Hi there
This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment
5
3
4
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Hi there This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!
I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better! Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Information
Affirmation and Reassurance
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Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment
5
3
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4
Hi there This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others? that is certainly part of it however I also feel l...
that's nice of you to say but I also don't feel as organised. I suppose that's to be understood in a new job scenario. Yes there are a few really nice co-workers
Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started.
Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment
5
3
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4
Hi there This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others? that is certainly part of it however I also feel l...
I think what I do is so complicated I sometimes wonder if I've been off more than I can chew. is this something you can relate to?
That certainly is something I can relate. There was a period of time in school where i signed up for way too many classes and had to drop out of a few. If you feel like you are in over your head it is ok to take a step back. It is important that you take care of your self and know your limits. :)
That certainly is something I can relate. There was a period of time in school where i signed up for way too many classes and had to drop out of a few. If you feel like you are in over your head it is ok to take a step back. It is important that you take care of your self and know your limits. :)
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment
5
3
4
4
Hi there This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others? that is certainly part of it however I also feel l...
I suppose it's difficult to know when something is too much for you or if you need to give it more time.
I would say if you are showing signs for several weeks of being overwhelmed (tired, stressed, snappy etc.) That is probably is too much
I would say if you are showing signs for several weeks of being overwhelmed (tired, stressed, snappy etc.) That is probably is too much
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment
5
3
4
4
Hi there This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others? that is certainly part of it however I also feel l...
Thanks he problem is I've worked really hard to get a better position and if I wasn't successful and feel like a failure. maybe I should look at it like this job just isn't for me if, like you say, I can't seem to get on after several weeks.
I would say thats the right option if this persists. I am sure there are other jobs that would fit you well!
I would say thats the right option if this persists. I am sure there are other jobs that would fit you well!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment
5
3
4
4
Hi there This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others? that is certainly part of it however I also feel l...
Yes I suppose that is true actually. Just because I'm not good at this job, doesn't mean I wouldn't be great others. I suppose it's best to give it a go and see at least then you can say you tried. have you ever put too much pressure on yourself?
Yes i have and it did not end well I burned out and couldn't do my job at all.
Yes i have and it did not end well I burned out and couldn't do my job at all.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment
5
3
4
4
Hi there This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others? that is certainly part of it however I also feel l...
Ah, so you have suffered with a similar situation. it is comforting to know the others face similar challenges and it's not just me
Of course you are not alone!
Of course you are not alone!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
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Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment
5
3
4
4
Hi there This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others? that is certainly part of it however I also feel l...
I think I'll give this a good few weeks and ask myself how I think I'm doing then go from there. Thanks for the chat and your suggestions.
I think that is a great idea I wish you luck! Remember no matter what you will find somewhere you belong!
I think that is a great idea I wish you luck! Remember no matter what you will find somewhere you belong!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.
3
1
5
5
Hello What do you think of my problem?
what is the problem you are facing
what is the problem you are facing what is the problem you are facing
Question, Question
Question
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I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.
3
1
5
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Hello What do you think of my problem?
The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you
so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.
3
1
5
5
Hello What do you think of my problem? The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
yeah pretty much he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation
that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to
that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.
3
1
5
5
Hello What do you think of my problem? The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything yeah pretty much he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation
Nope, I ended up learning from the situation and accepting that there are thing I just cannot change
i had an issue like that with my supervisor. He wouldn't schedule a meeting or reply my mail, not until i went to a lecturer they all know
i had an issue like that with my supervisor. He wouldn't schedule a meeting or reply my mail, not until i went to a lecturer they all know i can feel your stress, just take it easy with your self
Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings
Self-disclosure
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I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.
3
1
5
5
Hello What do you think of my problem? The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything yeah pretty much he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation Nop...
Yes you're right I think i have to accept that it's okay to go to the higher ups because thats what they are there for
yes, should mail or call him, leave a voice note if need be, tell him that you will take it up if he didn't respond to you
yes, should mail or call him, leave a voice note if need be, tell him that you will take it up if he didn't respond to you
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.
3
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Hello What do you think of my problem? The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything yeah pretty much he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation Nop...
I agree I will do it after the holidays are over because right now everything is closed the outcome will not matter because whatever comes from it I will know that I tried everything I could
yes, it is holiday season. Have a nice holiday first and face the issue head on after
yes, it is holiday season. Have a nice holiday first and face the issue head on after
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I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.
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Hello What do you think of my problem? The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything yeah pretty much he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation Nop...
I agree thank you for the help your messages gave me reassurance that I am not in the wrong
once everyone sees that you have been trying to get in touch with him but he refuse to respond, then your case is already favored
once everyone sees that you have been trying to get in touch with him but he refuse to respond, then your case is already favored
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I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.
3
1
5
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Hello What do you think of my problem? The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything yeah pretty much he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation Nop...
you're right i just have to voice my concern and the rest will be up to how they want to deal with it
you are welcome. you are doing the right thing because this involves your future
you are welcome. you are doing the right thing because this involves your future
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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5
3
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I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you?
I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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5
3
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5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you?
Yes I would
I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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depression
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I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would
I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
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Question
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5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
No it is hard finding one
Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one
Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
Question
Question
9,603
neutral
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0.000095
0.000418
0.00019
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819
6
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
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5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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7
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
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5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
oh that is wonderful
But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
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5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
Question
Question
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819
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
I live in America and he live in France
Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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10
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
Information
Information
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neutral
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819
11
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
u live in europe?
I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
Information
Information
9,609
neutral
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819
12
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
yeah I heard it is another strain there
Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now.
Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now.
Others
Others
9,610
neutral
0.002682
0.000059
0.000108
0.001443
0.978989
0.000659
0.01606
819
13
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
he understands that im not meeting him no time soon but when the pandemic is over I do not know if I should continue to pursue him or not I dont even have a passport and i care about my health and others im not traveling for a long time
So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world?
So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
9,611
neutral
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0.000644
0.000107
0.968101
0.002954
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819
14
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
Yes because I do not have experience with Turkish men and I am scared of him being controlling and abusive I guess its due to sterotypes i read about and heard
Turkish people are lovely and welcoming - you should not worry about that :). But don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't feel ready for
Turkish people are lovely and welcoming - you should not worry about that :). But don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't feel ready for
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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819
15
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
Yes I agree with u have u met any turkish people?
Yes I know a few Turkish people. They're very nice people, don't listen to any stereotypes!
Yes I know a few Turkish people. They're very nice people, don't listen to any stereotypes!
Information
Information
9,613
neutral
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0.000321
0.988782
0.000275
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819
16
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
I think its also due to me being hurt before but scared of trying something new giving a new person a chance I have major trust issues
I do understand how trying new things can be very difficult - this is something that I struggle with myself. But - if you don't take a chance, how can you know what might have happened?
I do understand how trying new things can be very difficult - this is something that I struggle with myself. But - if you don't take a chance, how can you know what might have happened?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,614
sad
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819
17
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
Yes I agree with u there
I really hope that I have been able to reassure you a little bit and help you to try to think things through. I wish you a very happy holiday season!
I really hope that I have been able to reassure you a little bit and help you to try to think things through. I wish you a very happy holiday season!
Others
Others
9,615
neutral
0.031398
0.000086
0.000088
0.00066
0.950419
0.000628
0.016721
819
18
depression
ongoing_depression
I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.
5
3
4
5
I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed How are you? Yes I would I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met No it is hard finding one Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help Well I met him on a dating site and h...
thank you so much and happy christmas eve:)
It's Christmas Day here now but you too!
It's Christmas Day here now but you too! Can you hit quit and take the survey? :)
Others, Providing Suggestions
Others
9,616
happy
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1
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are always leaving me out of activities.
4
2
4
4
I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
why is that? because of covid?
why is that? because of covid?
Question
Question
9,618
sad
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820
2
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are always leaving me out of activities.
4
2
4
4
I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
No it's always been like that. They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you? have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question, Question
Restatement or Paraphrasing
9,619
angry
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3
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are always leaving me out of activities.
4
2
4
4
I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group. No it's always been like that. They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited. That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends?
that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends? it sounds like you are a great person and you deserve a lot better than that.
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
9,620
angry
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4
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are always leaving me out of activities.
4
2
4
4
I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group. No it's always been like that. They will make plans in front of me and not invite me, Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited. That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
I have always been shy and have a very hard time making friends. My hisband is also in the military so we move a lot and it's a constant struggle of trying to fit in with new people. Thank you for saying that.
i understand that, i am an army veteran
i understand that, i am an army veteran
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
9,621
sad
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0.002879
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0.0007
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0.956556
0.006463
820
5
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are always leaving me out of activities.
4
2
4
4
I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group. No it's always been like that. They will make plans in front of me and not invite me, Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited. That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume. I have always...
Yeah it can be very hard.
what about having a dinner for some other couples in his unit? have him plan a get together? even drinks and bowling or something
what about having a dinner for some other couples in his unit? have him plan a get together? even drinks and bowling or something
Others
Others
9,622
sad
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0.001756
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820
6
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are always leaving me out of activities.
4
2
4
4
I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group. No it's always been like that. They will make plans in front of me and not invite me, Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited. That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume. I have always...
Unfortunately we can't do that right now because his base is under strict rules for covid. But normally that would be a good idea.
fair enough. well maybe you can just hang in there till this stupid virus thing is over i heard the fda has approved a vaccine for emergency purposes . i bet military will be some of the first to get it.
fair enough. well maybe you can just hang in there till this stupid virus thing is over i heard the fda has approved a vaccine for emergency purposes . i bet military will be some of the first to get it.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,623
sad
0.244048
0.008361
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0.652433
0.012657
820
7
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are always leaving me out of activities.
4
2
4
4
I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group. No it's always been like that. They will make plans in front of me and not invite me, Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited. That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume. I have always...
Yeah that is true.
i bet once they get the soldiers vaccinated the rules on get togethers will get less strict!
i bet once they get the soldiers vaccinated the rules on get togethers will get less strict!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
9,624
neutral
0.165149
0.000398
0.000212
0.000612
0.770491
0.006078
0.057059
820
8
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are always leaving me out of activities.
4
2
4
4
I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group. No it's always been like that. They will make plans in front of me and not invite me, Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited. That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume. I have always...
You're probably right about that.
just hang in there till 2020's over, we don't much longer till 2021, and then its a whole new year!
just hang in there till 2020's over, we don't much longer till 2021, and then its a whole new year!
Others
Others
9,625
neutral
0.020047
0.000075
0.000122
0.000249
0.944573
0.001154
0.033781
820
9
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are always leaving me out of activities.
4
2
4
4
I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group. No it's always been like that. They will make plans in front of me and not invite me, Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited. That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume. I have always...
I hope so!
the whole world hopes so! lol
the whole world hopes so! lol
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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happy
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1
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.
5
1
5
5
Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
Question
Question
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fear
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821
2
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.
5
1
5
5
Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
That definitely would make someone anxious.
That definitely would make someone anxious. Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
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fear
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821
3
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.
5
1
5
5
Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
can you give me an advice?
Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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neutral
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0.004653
0.083914
821
4
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.
5
1
5
5
Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not can you give me an advice?
I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
9,631
happy
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821
5
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.
5
1
5
5
Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not can you give me an advice? I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
talking to a friend sometimes it help too Yes, it's true but I always paid attention on the class
Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind. You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best
Information, Affirmation and Reassurance
Information
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821
6
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.
5
1
5
5
Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not can you give me an advice? I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax talking to a friend sometimes it help too Yes, it's true but I always paid attention on the class
well, I tried to do good, but not all the times. Thanks for the advice
I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok.
I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok. Of course! If you're done talking, feel free to end the session
Reflection of feelings, Others
Reflection of feelings
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sad
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821
7
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.
5
1
5
5
Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not can you give me an advice? I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax talking to a friend sometimes it help too Yes, it's true but I always paid attention on the class well, I tried to do good, but not all the times. Than...
Yes, but at least I do everything that I can do. No, it's ok Probably I will try to listen to a music before the test
Okay, whenever you're ready.
Okay, whenever you're ready. I know you'll try very hard! Relax so you can do your best
Others, Affirmation and Reassurance
Others
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neutral
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