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It was because he couldn't accept no as an answer
It's understandable to have your life be disrupted to the point where you can't do anything due to fear from a stalker. You should report him to the proper authorities in order to get protection against him. You never know what someone is capable of or how dangerous someone can be.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "They are describing someone else treating them poorly.", "The speaker reveals more reasons about it.", "They share why they were forced to leave college." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cau5g0
3,516
1
false
I think you're right, I should go report him.
If he's doing it to you he could be doing it to others. The sooner you file a report the sooner the police can look into it and potentially save someone's life.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It's good they'll be reporting the person.", "The speaker accepts the advice given to them.", "They heed the advice and decide to take just action." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cau5g0
3,516
2
true
I'm going to yell at my son.
Do you have a reason for yelling at your son?
[ "It's bad to raise your voice at your children." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "The speaker hasn't given clear reasons", "Speaker advocates for screaming at child.", "It's bad to yell at your child." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/a5ktra
3,517
0
false
Yes, he doesn't come to help me with cleaning up the mess I made
You should never yell at your children. You should come to a more peaceful solution.
[ "It is wrong to yell at your children.", "It is good to think of peaceful solutions to problems with your kids." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "The speaker is punishing their son for the mess the parent made", "Speaker explains advocating for screaming at child.", "This is an absurd justification for their behavior." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/a5ktra
3,517
1
false
I don't care, he's a slave and I can yell at him anyway I'd like to.
It's awful to refer to your child as a slave. You should be more loving towards him.
[ "It is wrong to think your children are slaves.", "It is expected to be loving towards your child." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs caution", "needs intervention" ]
[ "The speaker calls and treats their child as a slave", "Speaker advocates for forceful measures against child.", "Potential child abuse situation." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/a5ktra
3,517
2
true
I'm not going to offer money for my friend to see his grandfather in the hospital.
Why don't you want to offer money for your friend to see his grandfather in the hospital?
[ "It's understandable to not want to be burdened by other peoples problems." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is withholding help from their friend.", "Speaker is not obligated to offer money, and hasn't been asked", "Circumstances are unclear" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9vw5xs
3,518
0
false
He's always trying to get me to pay for things and give him money.
I'm sorry that your buddy's grandpa is hospitalized, and you don't really have any obligation to see them or help them. But it should still be done in good faith as he is your friend, and no quarrel like that should get in the way of something important.
[ "It's expected of friends to help friends in their time of need.", "Friends should be straight forward with each other when they have issues." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is withholding help because they feel taken advantage of.", "Speaker's friend is a freeloader", "Violet's attitude is needlessly selfish, given the situation" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9vw5xs
3,518
1
false
I think he needs to ask someone else to lend him money, I don't want to do it.
Lending money to friends all the time can be very tiresome. You should explain to your friend that you can't help him right now and he needs to look for another way to get the money he needs.
[ "It's okay to refuse to allow someone to borrow money.", "Friends should not take advantage of other friends generosity." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is withholding help because they feel taken advantage of.", "Speaker is doing nothing wrong", "Continuation of previous label" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9vw5xs
3,518
2
true
I'm not going to give my boyfriend what he wants for his birthday
What did he specifically ask for this year?
[ "It's okay to set boundaries on gifts" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's okay depending on the situation", "It's okay to not give your partner the exact gift they want.", "It’s hurtful not to give someone something they want" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9tajyn
3,519
0
false
He wanted to go out on a boating trip.
Sometimes you cannot give what your partner wants. It's okay to set expectations and give smaller gifts.
[ "You should try to make your partner happy", "It is good to remember your partner's birthday" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "If they don't have enough money, then this is okay", "Explains how the gift the person wants is extravagant.", "Talking about what boyfriend wanted" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9tajyn
3,519
1
false
I just want to prove a point that he is not the strongest man in the sea. I'll take him instead and do it right.
I think that you should not go if it is not a feasible gift at this time. It is okay to put a limitation on how much you can spend on a gift for him.
[ "It is mean to act rude on your partner's birthday", "It is good to put a spending limit on gifts" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "It still is okay if the speaker does not have enough money for this", "Speaker may give their partner the gift anyway.", "Still talking about what boyfriend wants" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9tajyn
3,519
2
true
These bitches aint playin'. A jealous woman does better research than the FBI.
I think that comment sounds pretty harsh towards women. Did you mean it to sound that way?
[ "It's not right to call women \"bitches\"", "It's not right to think women get jealous easily" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's wrong to call women names", "It's a little bit sexist to say this.", "You shouldn't demean women." ]
sbic
3,520
0
false
Look, I don't give a shit about women. I'm just trying to tell you how they behave.
Calling women "bitches" and assuming that they all get jealous is really disrespectful. I don't think that women are any more jealous than men. Perpetuating these stereotypes can be really harmful, so I think it would be better if you didn't say things like that anymore.
[ "It's not right to call women \"bitches\"", "It's not right to think women get jealous easily" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Justifying sexism", "Now this has escalated into hostility and a little rage.", "Speaker doesn't care about women and calls them bitches." ]
sbic
3,520
1
true
I've went ahead and skipped my second class of the day for 2 months and my school doesn't even care.
That's a little too much. Do you think your teacher wants you to skip class?
[ "It's wrong to skip classes and ridicule your teacher." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is skipping class and their school doesn't care", "the behavior is a bad idea but not very harmful", "admitting to skipping school" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8nyjny
3,521
0
false
I swear at him and also ridicule him for being old. He brings up me skipping class once in a while though.
Attending all your classes is important for your academic success and your ability to graduate school. It's wrong to skip classes and antagonize your teacher by ridiculing and swearing at him. You should stop skipping classes and bullying your teacher or otherwise you will future will be jeopardized since you won't be ...
[ "You should not skip classes because it will hurt your chances of success in life.", "It is wrong to treat your teacher with disrespect." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is abusive and rude to their teacher", "speaker admits to being rude and offensive towards a professor", "being disrespectful toward teacher by swearing and ridiculing him" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8nyjny
3,521
1
false
Fuck the world with its rules.
I believe it's best to stop your behavior and learn to be a little more polite to your teacher and school. How do you think he feels to be put down like that? Your education will really matter in the future, so it would be great to try and attend again.
[ "It is good to be polite to your teacher and respect them.", "It is expected to attend classes that will benefit you." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is rude and arrogant", "speaker doubles down on being offensive to people.", "rudely rejects feedback" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8nyjny
3,521
2
true
John's cock is like a popcorn "Mommy, John's cock is like a popcorn!" Says Billy to his mother. "Why do you say that? Is it so small?". " No, it's salty."
Has this happened to you? Are you ok?
[ "You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's insulting to joke about pedophilia.", "It's offensive to make a sexual joke like this", "It's wrong to joke about incest." ]
sbic
3,522
0
false
It happens all the time. People like you can't keep their dirty cocks clean.
I don't see a reason why joking about hygiene would be funny. It seems a bit strange to accuse a woman of having male genitalia.
[ "You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker becomes hostile and insults the other speaker.", "Speaker used offensive language and stated a rude joke", "Speaker is justifying their joke about incest and turning it back on someone else." ]
sbic
3,522
1
true
What do you think about me preparing tea using half drank bottles of water.
Are you sure you want to drink so much half drank water?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "This is ill advised, but not unethical.", "speaker is not saying anything socially inappropriate", "wants to prepare tea in half bottles" ]
ethics_reddit
3,523
0
false
I think it's fine.
I think that's a bit nasty. I think using the best water you can find would be the best option.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The situation is the same, they're just describing how they feel.", "speaker is making casual conversation", "think it will be ok" ]
ethics_reddit
3,523
1
false
I mix the half drank bottles with other water and I have a new tea.
While that's a good way to use up your bottled water, you should probably just stick with using fresh water. Tea tastes at its best with the freshest of water that you can possibly find, maybe feed your plants with your old bottled water instead?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "They haven't done anything unethical here.", "speaker is making casual conversation", "explains how the process will work" ]
ethics_reddit
3,523
2
true
How should I try to get my older brother with Tourette's to quiet it down
Why do you want your brother to quiet it down?
[ "You have to be understanding with some conditions." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "It's rude to treat someone with a disability with a blase attitude like this.", "they want their brothers to not be ill", "Speaker wants to know how to get brother to quiet down." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b3nw71
3,524
0
false
Because I'm tired of listening to his endless complaints about me not being nice to him.
Your brother has a condition, tourettes, that he cannot control easily. Forcing him to "quiet down" is cruel and impositional and lacks understanding of his situation. Find compassion for your brother and treat him with patience.
[ "It's wrong to tell someone to stop doing something that they can't help.", "You should be compassionate of people with medical issues." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "He's the one not being nice to someone who is disabled.", "they want their brothers to not be ill but in a mean spirited manner", "Speaker should be more nice to their brother who has a condition and maybe they would stop complaining." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b3nw71
3,524
1
false
Why should I put a good effort on this and help him? My brother is a mean bully.
I doubt that he intends to be a bully. With tourettes people sometimes say things that they don't really mean. Maybe when you feel overwhelmed by it you could try putting some space between you.
[ "It's ok to get space from someone if they're upsetting oyu.", "You should be understanding of people with impulse control disorders." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They are going to do the behavior even though they've been told it's unethical.", "they want their brothers to not be ill but in a mean spirited manner", "Speaker things his brother is a bully when they are probably not being nice to them." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b3nw71
3,524
2
true
I want to ask my cousin if she has been going to the gym every time I see her
Why ask that of her?
[ "You should mind your own business and not bring your family into it", "You shouldn't ask your family questions about their fitness." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "It's a bit rude to ask if people are going to the gym - it comes off as though you think they are fat.", "It's nosy and rude to ask about someone's gym habits persistently.", "unclear situation" ]
ethics_reddit
3,525
0
false
I don't believe her when she says she works out.
You should mind your own business and not insert yourself into peoples business. She might get offended and spread rumors about you to the family.
[ "It's wrong to stick your nose into someone else's life.", "You should try to work on yourself." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's rude and unnecessary to assume someone's lying , especially about going to the gym. Commenting on someone's weight can lead to unnecessary conflict.", "It's none of their business and nosy to call her a liar.", "You shouldn't question if others work out." ]
ethics_reddit
3,525
1
false
She's not going to talk shit about me, I'm her favorite cousin.
You don't know that. Better to keep your business to yourself.
[ "You shouldn't take things for granted.", "You should leave people alone and live your own life." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is ignoring advice and cursing.", "It's arrogant to call yourself the favorite.", "ignoring the feedback" ]
ethics_reddit
3,525
2
true
I help my smaller dog play with her bigger brother sometimes
That sounds nice of you. Do you do it for safety?
[ "It's good to get a playmate for your pet." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "Helps their dog play.", "Speaker states he helps his smaller dog play with her bigger brother sometimes.", "The speaker isn't being immoral." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/ca24qi
3,526
0
false
Yes and They enjoy each other, so I let them play together.
That's great to have a pet and a companion for it. You should do what makes it happy.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "More talk about speaker's dogs.", "Speaker states they enjoy each other, so he lets them play together.", "The speaker isn't being immoral." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/ca24qi
3,526
1
false
I think it's sad that she's the alpha dog. I would have made her the puppy and have the big one be the alpha.
I think it is great you let them play together. You should just make sure to be extra careful so she doesn't get hurt. Sometimes dogs can get pretty rough and not realize their own strength.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "More talk about their dogs.", "Speaker states that he thinks it's sad she's the alpha dog, that she would have made her the puppy and have the big one be the alpha.", "The speaker isn't being immoral or rude." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/ca24qi
3,526
2
true
I dated a girl I didn't even like for about two months
I'm saddened for you, but why even date her if you did not like her?
[ "It's wrong to make someone think you have feelings for them when you don't." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's rude to date someone you don't like and lead them on.", "speaker lead someone on", "Speaker Violet misled a girl into dating him for two months, even thoug he didn't like her." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/a847r8
3,527
0
false
I guess I hated myself for doing it
It's wrong to make someone think that you care about them when you really don't. You could really have hurt this girl's feelings. And if you weren't happy either, that was a clue that it was time to end the relationship.
[ "You shouldn't lead someone on by faking emotions.", "It's ok to end relationships." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.", "speaker does feel regret", "Speaker Violet justifies dating someone he wasn't interested in by saying he hated himself for doing it." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/a847r8
3,527
1
false
I am a loser.
You may feel that way, but only if you continue to do things that you are not happy about and keep self-sabotaging, you will feel like a loser for a very long time. I hope you get better by talking to your friends and families, and better managing yourself and doing things that would make you happy and not self-sabotag...
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "They seem to feel bad about what they did.", "acknowledges what they did was wrong", "Speaker Violet calls himself a loser, which isn't really offensive and seems like a possible moment of accepting critique." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/a847r8
3,527
2
true
I think I mistook the shoulder of my shirt that was sticking up for a demon at the foot of my bed.
How would you even make a mistake like that?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Casual conversation", "speaker scared himself with his shirt", "Speaker is simply mistaken over what they saw." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/2w63ye
3,528
0
false
I think the shoulder was sticking up making it looked like a face, but it's just a regular looking shirt.
It's a little fun that you have an active imagination like that, but you have to realize that fantasy doesn't mix with reality. Things like these shouldn't be such a spook.
[ "It's okay to have an active imagination.", "It's bad to get so wrapped up in fantasy that you lose track of reality." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "Casual conversation", "speaker thought shirt was demon", "Speaker explains being simply mistaken over what they saw." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/2w63ye
3,528
1
false
I'm not trying to be scared next time; It actually freaks me out.
I hope you can overcome your fears then, it can be something funny to joke around with in the end!
[ "It's good to be able to overcome personal fears and phobias." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "Casual conversation.", "speaker will try not to be scared next time", "Speaker explains further being simply mistaken over what they saw." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/2w63ye
3,528
2
true
I think for years I blamed myself for my ex becoming a bad girl
That sounds rough. Why do you blame yourself for that?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "They are just describing how they feel about their life.", "Speaker admits to negative feelings towards partner.", "casual conversation" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/am7deg
3,529
0
false
I wasn't supportive enough when she was in trouble.
You shouldn't blame yourself for other people's issues. You need to understand that you did the best you could.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "They are appropriate expressing regret.", "Speaker explains why they blamed themselves.", "understandable views" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/am7deg
3,529
1
false
I don't think I did the best I could. I should have stuck out with her.
You can't change the past, and it's great you see the errors in your ways. But I believe it's not healthy to continually beat yourself over what you couldn't do. How about using this as a learning experience, so you can enjoy your next relationship to its fullest?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "They are appropriate expressing regret.", "Speaker still rues on the relationship but doesn't seem to be harmful.", "casual conversation, nothing wrong" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/am7deg
3,529
2
true
Is it weird that when I'm hungry I look at the menus of fast food restaurants online in other countries. Then I get upset I'll never be able to order them...
What do you want to order from other countries?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker seems to be doing something silly here.", "Speaker likes to look at fast food menus from other countries.", "explaining strange but not harmful activity they do" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9nvexj
3,530
0
false
I want to try their french fries and other things.
If this behavior makes you upset, you should quit doing it. You are only harming yourself in the long run by doing so.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "No harm that I can see yet.", "Speaker wants to try their French fries.", "explaining strange but not harmful activity they do" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9nvexj
3,530
1
false
The menu choices here are really limited.
It's unfortunate that you have limited options, but if looking at menus from other countries is making you feel bad you should stop. It might be a good idea for you to look for new places in your area to eat, if you want to try something different.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker is just using their imagination.", "Speaker says the menus are limited.", "explaining why they do the strange but not harmful activity" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9nvexj
3,530
2
true
Is there any country that I can move to where there are no blacks or Asians ?
What do you mean by that? Now I'm thinking you have an awful issue with the races again.
[ "It's not right to think black people and asians are poor neighbors" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't hate on blacks or Asians.", "You shouldn't express clear racist thoughts", "you shouldn't look down on other races" ]
sbic
3,531
0
false
Asians are poor neighbors and they should live in their own country. Blacks are equally problematic so I want to move to a country that is not populated by either of these.
I have no idea where you get this understanding about two of the races, these people have done nothing to you. I am sure you would enjoy them only if you actually talked to them on a mature level of acceptance and tried to understand their cultures. All cultures should be embraced for who they are and not generalized a...
[ "It's not right to think black people and asians are poor neighbors" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Continues making racist comments.", "Speaker makes more racist comments", "they ignore critique and make racist stereotypes" ]
sbic
3,531
1
true
I want to crash my car on the highway
What is your reason for thinking of doing this?
[ "You shouldn't intentionally crash your car." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs intervention", "needs intervention" ]
[ "Threatens to crash their car on the highway.", "Speaker plans very dangerous behavior.", "speaker intends a dangerous behavior that could seriously harm self and others" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/7csja1
3,532
0
false
I was thinking about the accident I had the day before
You should never try to intentionally crash your car. If you are having bad thoughts you should seek therapy.
[ "It's wrong to try and harm yourself.", "You shouldn't try and cause an accident on purpose." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs intervention", "needs intervention" ]
[ "Tries to justify wanting to crash because of another accident.", "Speaker continues to make dangerous plans.", "dangerous intention is not resolved" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/7csja1
3,532
1
false
Nahtherapy is only for losers
Many normal people need therapy. Regardless of what you thunk about therapy, it is imperative that you do not crash your car and get yourself and others hurt.
[ "You should try and seek out therapy for your problems.", "It's wrong to try to hurt yourself and others." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs intervention", "needs caution" ]
[ "Doesn't seek help for their destructive thoughts.", "Speaker disregards the advice and is very rude.", "speaker dismisses advice to seek help rudely" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/7csja1
3,532
2
true
What is the difference between Asians and racism? Racism has many faces.
Are you implying that Asian people all look similar?
[ "It's not right to think all asian people look the same" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "you should not make racist jokes", "It's racist to imply that all Asian people look the same.", "You shouldn't be racist towards Asians and claim that they look similar with one another." ]
sbic
3,533
0
false
Yes, I am. All asian people look alike to me, they all have slanted eyes and small eyes. They only care about their own family, they are not friendly and quite annoying overall.
It's wrong to stereotype Asian people as all looking similar. You should try to make some friends that are Asian and learn about them and their culture. I think you would really learn to like and respect them.
[ "It's not right to think all asian people look the same" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They continue to be racist", "The speaker tries to explain their comment.", "Describes their racist belief against Asians by claiming that they all look alike." ]
sbic
3,533
1
true
What do you think about this? Having sex like my first football game? I was all bruised and bloody after , but at least my dad came .
That is very dark, did you really mean to say something like that?
[ "It's not okay to joke about rape" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It is bad to joke about violent sexual assault", "It's offensive to make jokes about sexual assault of children", "It's terrible to joke about molesting children" ]
sbic
3,534
0
false
No, I was just joking.
Rape is a serious and traumatic experience, it is not right to simply joke about things. If someone heard that, it could be very triggering to them and can cause a lot of trauma to come back. We need to believe and listen to rape victims instead of joking about their problems.
[ "You shouldn't make jokes about rape.", "You shouldn't cause trauma for other people." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "offensive jokes", "Continuation of previous label", "It's terrible to joke about molesting children" ]
sbic
3,534
1
false
All I did was joke, if you don't like my sense of humor then you can shove it up your ass.
It's important to learn what you should and should not joke about. Joking about rape is wrong and should be avoided.
[ "You shouldn't joke about inappropriate things.", "You should avoid doing things that make others upset." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "offensive jokes, rude", "Speaker's intentions are unchanged", "doesn't understand their joke was wrong" ]
sbic
3,534
2
true
Guys There is no joke here, I jews wanna say please stop reposting any jokes or I'll turn you to dust.
Why are you using the word jews instead of just?
[ "You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims" ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs intervention", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't make jokes about people because of their religion.", "You shouldn't threaten people with harm.", "You shouldn't joke about the Holocaust." ]
sbic
3,535
0
false
What I'm saying is jews will punish you if you don't stop reposting any jokes. That's just how they are.
The jews have gone through a lot of things throughout history so it is not good to make light of it. You should learn more about by reading some history books.
[ "You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims" ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs intervention", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is making fun of anyone who's Jewish.", "You shouldn't threaten people with harm and blame Jewish people for it.", "Speaker dislikes Jews and says they will punish people." ]
sbic
3,535
1
true
I had an obnoxious person troll me, so I downvoted everything they've ever posted.
Why did you decide to downvote everything as a reaction to them?
[ "It's understandable to want to get even with someone who has been unkind to you." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "It's petty to down-vote someone's entire post history.", "You shouldn't downvote everything someone says just because you don't like them.", "Speaker was trolled and downvoted them." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9its55
3,536
0
false
I hope that I made them feel worse by this. This seemed like it was the only thing that I could do.
I understand how you feel. I would be tempted to do the same thing. But it might be good to ask, what are you really accomplishing, ultimately?
[ "It's good to ask before you do something that you are tempted to do that is wrong." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.", "Explains why they did this.", "Speaker got revenge on them and feels good about it." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9its55
3,536
1
false
Ugh, I can't believe you would try to make me feel bad.
I'm not trying to make you feel bad, I'm sorry. I'm just trying to understand exactly what goal this accomplishes. Perhaps it is better to devote your energy into something else productive?
[ "It's good to want to know what your actions accomplish.", "It's good to put your energy into productive things." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It probably didn't even register on the person's mind, but it's still a bit rude to do this.", "Gets a little rude with the other speaker.", "Speaker thinks advice giver is guilt-tripping them." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9its55
3,536
2
true
Intense preoccupation with a narrow subject, one-sided verbosity, restricted prosody, and physical clumsiness are typical for people with autism.
Is this how you feel about all people who have autism?
[ "It's not right to think people with aspergers are clumsy", "It's not right to think people with aspergers get distracted by specific subjects" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's wrong to make generalizations about a group of people.", "It's rude to consider people with mental illness the same.", "You shouldn't demean the mentally ill." ]
sbic
3,537
0
false
Yes, but at least I'm not saying they should be killed or anything.
Pointing out all the negative characteristics of someone that struggles of autism is hurtful towards them. There are many accomplishments the people of autism have made. I feel we should look into those and focus on that and that would give us a better outlook on them.
[ "It's not right to think people with aspergers are clumsy", "It's not right to think people with aspergers get distracted by specific subjects" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "The speaker retracts a prior claim.", "Speaker thinks people with autism should be killed.", "Speaker demeans people with mental issues and people with autism." ]
sbic
3,537
1
true
People are always trying to make me feel bad for what I believe. I'm not a homophobic but I feel I should be able to have my own opinion as well
Well you kinda have that right. Why are you so upset about having your own opinion?
[ "It's wrong to be homophobic." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "nothing wrong here so far", "They appear to be homophobic by saying this.", "At this point it's not clear that the speaker's beliefs are harmful or offensive" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cuqdsi
3,538
0
false
Because I'm 25 goddamit, I can have my own opinions.
You can have your own opinions. But engaging in ignorant homophobia is always wrong.
[ "You shouldn't dislike someone simply for being gay.", "It's offensive to be homophobic for no reason." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "nothing wrong here so far", "The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.", "They are being a little standoffish but they are not rude at this point" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cuqdsi
3,538
1
false
So I'm not allowed to think homosexuality is wrong?
You're allowed to think whatever you want, but that doesn't make what you're thinking right. You shouldn't be homophobic at this point in your life. Does it really matter to you who other people are sleeping with?
[ "You shouldn't be worried about other people's sexual preferences.", "It's ignorant to be dislike someone just for their preference." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "nothing wrong here so far", "They are indeed homophobic if they think this.", "Now the speaker has made it clear that they are prejudiced against gay people." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cuqdsi
3,538
2
true
I just need someone to talk to..I miss having someone around
Have you normally had someone around that you could talk to when you needed it.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker is expressing feelings of loneliness.", "Speaker expresses being lonely", "They are just expressing their loneliness." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/a858kk
3,539
0
false
I used to have people to talk to
You should have other people to talk to. Isolation can lead to depression.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The discussion is casual.", "Explains they used to have people to talk to", "They are talking casually about their life." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/a858kk
3,539
1
false
I try to talk to people but I can't find anyone to listen.
Well it may be a nice idea to try and get involved in some groups or hobbies. This would put you around different people with similar interests where talking will flow much more fluently. Here you will have opportunities to make friends and voice your emotions.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker continues to discuss their feelings.", "Speaker explains they are making active efforts to talk to people but that they don't listen", "They are chatting normally." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/a858kk
3,539
2
true
what is pink , very small and my girlfriend cry every time i put inside her mouth ? her miscarriage
Why would you make a joke about miscarriage?
[ "It's not right to joke about women experiencing miscarriages" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's a sick joke to make", "It is lewd and disgusting", "You shouldn't make insensitive jokes about miscarriages." ]
sbic
3,540
0
false
In normal situations, its not funny, It was in this case. Yes
It isn't ok to make jokes about miscarriages. It wasn't funny and it is a situation that is painful for a lot of people.
[ "It's not right to joke about women experiencing miscarriages" ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs intervention", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's a sick joke to make, not funny in any situation", "It shows psychological torture was done", "Rationalization given for insensitive jokes about miscarriages." ]
sbic
3,540
1
true
I give random toddlers a death stare when their parents aren't looking to make them cry and then I innocently walk away as if nothing happened
Are you being serious? Why do you want to give toddlers a death stare?
[ "It's wrong to make children cry." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's wrong to scare small children with a mean face to make them cry.", "You shouldn't give kids death stares and make them cry.", "It's awful to intentionally make babies cry." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9dyk2c
3,541
0
false
I don't know why I do it.
It is very wrong to make children cry by giving them a death stare. You should give them a smile and say hello to them.
[ "It's cruel to intimidate a child.", "You should be kind to children." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker doesn't know why they are mean to toddlers.", "Speaker makes kids cry.", "Speaker has no answer for why they do it." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9dyk2c
3,541
1
false
I am not sure. I think I would prefer just to make the kids cry instead.
There is no reason to make a child cry. Surely people notice this and then you look like a jerk too.
[ "Your behavior is socially inappropriate.", "Others will notice this behavior." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker accuses the other speaker of being a hypocrite.", "Speaker doesn't care.", "Speaker not making any sense." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9dyk2c
3,541
2
true
I enjoy ignoring street salespeople since they are often too pushy.
I sometimes ignore them too, but why are you enjoying doing it?
[ "It is okay not to interact with people if they are too pushy.", "It is rude to ignore people." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "unclear if this is rude or not in this situation", "It's rude to ignore people.", "You shouldn't enjoy ignoring people even if they are salespeople." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8302sw
3,542
0
false
Then I don't have to listen to the same sales pitch over and over again
Pushy people are not that tolerable to be around. Be more accepting and at least tell them you're not interested. They might finally recognize you after awhile and then leave you alone which will increase your chances of not wanting any interacting faster than just ignoring them.
[ "It is fine to ignore vendors if you are not interested" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't ignore people.", "They are still being rude.", "Justifies ignoring people by claiming that the salespeople's pitches are repetitive." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8302sw
3,542
1
false
I have no problem telling them I'm not interested. I just hate the way they push their products on people and make them uncomfortable.
I agree, but I think you should at least try once to tell them that you don't want to be pushed about what they're selling so that they would know. They will be wasting less of your time and they will also waste less of their time pushing someone that's clearly not interested.
[ "It is good to be honest about your intentions", "You should avoid wasting other people's time" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "ignoring the feedback", "They kind of have a legitimate concern.", "Continues to describe why they enjoy ignoring salespeople." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8302sw
3,542
2
true
I'm writing a Gatsby argumentative essay from the opposite side
Is this for an English class? What do you mean?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is just talking about a project they are working on.", "Speaker brings up writing assignment.", "They're discussing the topic of their essay" ]
ethics_reddit
3,543
0
false
I write the essay as if it were written by a person who hates Gatsby
It is good to write creatively from a different perspective. You should be open to criticism to help edit your story.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is making a creative piece of work.", "Speaker explains writing assignment.", "They're discussing the topic of their essay" ]
ethics_reddit
3,543
1
false
Just because you can't think of anything negative about it doesn't mean it's not there.
I guess it's extremely creative indeed to try and force an argument out of something. As long as it's done for recreation and academics, I don't see any harm in it. Hope you can create some cool writings with this.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is talking about their project.", "Speaker is set in ways, no harm done.", "They're still just discussing the topic of their essay" ]
ethics_reddit
3,543
2
true
There was a blackout in my neighborhood yesterday Don't worry the police got him
Are you making a joke about black people?
[ "It's not right to think all black people are criminals" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's offensive to make racist jokes and police brutality.", "It's offensive to make racist jokes.", "You shouldn't make anti-black jokes." ]
sbic
3,544
0
false
You've got that right. Black criminals should be behind bars.
Not all black people are criminals. Spreading this idea around damages an entire cultures reputation and gets uninformed individuals to fall for a lie. Many black people are successful individuals who are merely living a criminal free life and shouldn't be lumped in with others just due to the color of their skin.
[ "It's not right to think all black people are criminals" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They are continuing being offensive.", "Speaker continues expressing racist views.", "Continues making racist comments." ]
sbic
3,544
1
true
I think my best friend's fiance is insane, but nobody will tell him.
How long have you thought he was insane?
[ "It's wrong to talk badly about a friend's fiance" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker brings up issue with friend's fiance.", "has a problem with friends partner", "Thinking a friends fiance is insane." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/7z85b8
3,545
0
false
Now for very long. I tried to give the guy a chance, but it turns out he's nuts. He's always trying to control everyone.
If you really think this about your friend's fiance, you should talk to them about how you are feeling. You need to be careful about how you bring this subject up since it's a sensitive subject.
[ "You should be open and honest about how you feel.", "You should address touchy topics in a polite manner." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker explains why there's an issue with the fiance.", "explaining what is going on", "Saying how the person in controlling." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/7z85b8
3,545
1
false
He should be in a mental institution.
It's a good idea to bring up the subject with your friend since it seems like you think they are an in abusive relationship. However, don't use phrases like you think their fiance should be in a mental institution. Try to be calm and nice about this so your friend is more likely to take your view into consideration.
[ "You should try to remain calm when discussing a touchy subject.", "It's important to not be condescending when having a discussion." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker talks about what he thinks they should do to the fiance, but nothing harmful.", "accusing someone of needing a mental lockup", "Saying the person should be in an institution." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/7z85b8
3,545
2
true
I would be really into it if men casually wore eyeliner
Why do you like when men wear eyeliner?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "would love if men wore eyeliner", "They state their attractive preferences.", "it's an innocent comment" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/bc9fuq
3,546
0
false
There is something very attractive about the manliness of the guy combined with the feminine beauty
I sounds like you like a feminine quality in men, which is totally okay. You are able to express your preferences for whatever you are attracted to, as long as you don't exclude others.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "loves manliness mixed with femininity", "They state more reasons about their personal attractive preferences.", "that's ok if they like it" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/bc9fuq
3,546
1
false
Men should wear more makeup.
That's fine to have that preference. Just don't expect a lot of men to fit that mold.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "thinks men should wear more makeup", "Continuation of the previous label.", "personal harmless opinion" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/bc9fuq
3,546
2
true
I want to tell my gf to bond with my parents
Why do you think that they need to bond?
[ "It's good to let your significant other bond with your parents." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "It is reasonable for someone to want their partner to bond with their family.", "Speaker wants girlfriend to form a good relationship with speaker's parents", "It is rude to tell your girlfriend what to do." ]
ethics_reddit
3,547
0
false
I want them to be closer so that there won't be any troubles
Wanting them to bond is nice of you. It is good to have family and partners getting along.
[ "It's good to want your partner to bond with your parents." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker has good intentions.", "Speaker does not want domestic strife between their parents and girlfriend", "They shouldn't force something just because they want it." ]
ethics_reddit
3,547
1
false
I just want her to spend less time with her friends and more date time with me.
You lost me a little bit there. It is good to have your girlfriend bond with your parents. Just make sure it is for the right reason.
[ "You should have your girlfriend bond with your parents for the right reason." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's rude to try to keep your partner from their friends.", "Would like girlfriend to spend less time with friends", "They are trying to control their girlfriend." ]
ethics_reddit
3,547
2
true
I have a bachelor's degree in accounting and plan to become homeless and drink myself to death in the woods because I can't stand society.
Why do you want to do that?
[ "If you hate yourself and want to die, you should get some help." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's vital that you talk to someone if you think that you can't go on living", "you shouldn't plan on trying to ruin your life", "It's awful to want to intentionally become homeless and an alcoholic." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/4672s6
3,548
0
false
I'd rather be homeless and dead than work in accounting.
I'm sorry that you are feeling this way. You should try to get some help from a doctor or therapist. Your friends and family will miss you very much if you are not around anymore.
[ "You should get help from a therapist if you are feeling depressed.", "You should think of your friends and family before you make bad decisions." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Continuation of previous label", "speaker explains they hate their career", "Speaker continuing talking about hating their job." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/4672s6
3,548
1
false
I'm not staying in this world forever.
Would you like me to give you the number for the crisis hotline? If you are feeling suicidal, these people can help you.
[ "It's good to talk to a counselor if you're depressed or suicidal." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs intervention", "needs intervention" ]
[ "Speaker's suicidal intentions are unchanged", "they ignore critique and commit to self-harm", "Speaker is possibly being suicidal." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/4672s6
3,548
2
true
I don't want to stay with my girlfriend if she is unwilling to get an abortion
Why do you have that thought?
[ "It's bad to give a partner an ultimatum.", "It's wrong to tell women what to do with their body." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't force your gf to get an abortion if she doesn't want one.", "It's hurtful to hold a relationship hostage based on a personal decision.", "It's unethical to leave pregnant girlfriend" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/aw1wmi
3,549
0
false
I don't want a kid.
It is your gf's choice to get an abortion or not. It's not your body.
[ "It's wrong to force somebody to end a pregnancy.", "You should support a partner's choice to have a baby." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It is your gf decision to make about her pregnancy", "Speaker is trying to control their girlfriend.", "It's unethical to not take responsibility for kid" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/aw1wmi
3,549
1
false
She is having an abortion. I'm going to force her to get one.
You cannot force somebody to have an abortion. It is her choice and no doctor will give her one if she doesn't want one. I can understand not wanting kids but you don't carry the kid so abortion is not up to you, it is up to her and you cannot tell her or any other woman what to do with her body.
[ "It's wrong to tell someone what to do with their body.", "You should allow people to choose if they want to have medical procedures." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "speaker persists in thinking they can force their gf to have an abortion", "Speaker continues to be highly controlling and wrong.", "It's harmful to force someone to have an abortion" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/aw1wmi
3,549
2
true
I fell for it again
Did you really fall for it?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker discusses falling for something they shouldn't have.", "this is just casual conversation", "We don't know what the speaker did yet." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/uedu5
3,550
0
false
Yes, I think it's my fate to be scammed.
You should really be more careful. You should never fall for the same thing twice. You should think before you act.
[ "It's bad to be scammed.", "It's good to think about the consequences before you act." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs intervention" ]
[ "Speaker provides detail about what they fell for.", "this is just casual conversation", "The speaker talks about an illegal activity." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/uedu5
3,550
1
false
Okay, okay. Stop nagging me.
Not trying to nag you. I'm trying to say that falling for the same scam twice isn't normal. Be more careful.
[ "It's good to be extra cautious when giving someone money." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs intervention" ]
[ "Speaker understands the response but tell the person to leave them alone.", "this is just casual conversation", "Continuation of the talk about illegal activity." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/uedu5
3,550
2
true
you know what they say about muhammad ali: he floats like a butterfly and stinks like death
Who said that, and why?
[ "It's not right to think Muslims are gross" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It through to point out how someone smells then make fun of him for it", "It's rude to insult people", "It is disrespectful to mock athlete's conditions." ]
sbic
3,551
0
false
The Muhammed Ali wiki pages said that he smelled like death.
Wikipedia pages can easily be vandalized by people who insert false information, sometimes as a prank, but other times to spread malicious lies. Muhammad Ali's catchphrase was that he would float like a butterfly and sting like a bee when he was boxing, but I think that someone edited that page to imply that Muslims h...
[ "It's not right to think Muslims are gross" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Continuation of previous label", "They continue to insult someone", "They try to confirm their illegitimate biased thinking." ]
sbic
3,551
1
true
Considering the recent events in Vegas, one would expect low plane ticket prices from different airlines. Even airlines hate incels.
Why do you think that?
[ "You shouldn't joke about mass shootings" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's rude to call people incels.", "It's rude to accuse people of being incels.", "You shouldn't joke about tragedy." ]
sbic
3,552
0
false
It breaks my heart to see the government and corporations hating incels.
Mass shootings are very tragic events that cause many people a lot of hurt. You would not like it if people made fun of something that really caused you pain.
[ "It's a tragic when school shootings happen.", "It's painful to have to remember a tragedy." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's also unethical to defend murderers.", "People shouldn't be grouped in these kinds of categories.", "speaker elaborated on their feelings" ]
sbic
3,552
1
false