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Government and corporations need to do something about the shooters. | They do try to do things to prevent mass shootings like this. Regardless about how you feel about their procedures, you should not try to make jokes about mass shootings. | [
"It's hurtful to make light of tragic situations.",
"Wanting to stop mass shootings is expected."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't apologized for what they said.",
"The speaker is equating a shooter to an incel.",
"speaker continued discussion but showed no contrition"
] | sbic | 3,552 | 2 | true | |
What's the hardest part about rape? Admitting it was a woman who did it. | Are you trying to say that you were raped by a women? | [
"It's wrong to think men can't be raped if it's by a girl"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to joke about rape.",
"You shouldn't joke about women being rapists.",
"It’s hurtful to joke about rape"
] | sbic | 3,553 | 0 | false | |
Yes, I think so! Women can't rape men, or you didn't realize it's not hard because it's soft and pliable? | A man can be raped just as a women can. There are men who may be raped while drunk or drugged, or even sober. It is not nice to be insensitive about a man being raped by a women since it can affect them negatively just as much as it would a women being raped. | [
"It's wrong to think men can't be raped if it's by a girl"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't joke about rape.",
"Speaker says women can't rape men.",
"Explaining their joke"
] | sbic | 3,553 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to tell my dad his dog is not my responsibility. Do you think I'm right in doing so? | Why would you tell your dad his dog is not your responsibility? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"they are upset at their dad over his dog",
"It is okay to do this",
"Speaker doesn't' want to take responsibility for dad's dog."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a54pwb | 3,554 | 0 | false |
I've told him several times to clean up his dog's mess, but he didn't seem to do it. | Pet's are generally shared by the family in the entire house hold. It's nice to do a favor for someone and help with a family pet. They may not feel like you care about the pet if you don't. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"they are talking about their problems with their dad's dog",
"Speaker has the right to do this",
"Speaker's dad is an irresponsible dog owner."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a54pwb | 3,554 | 1 | false |
But I still want a dog of my own, I love animals. | Although it's not your dog taking care of it and pitching in is the right thing to do for a family member. If you get a dog I'm sure they will help as well. | [
"It's kind to do a favor for another person if you can."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"they dont want to take care of the family dog, but want to have their own dog",
"continuing good conversation",
"Speaker loves dogs. It's not their dog."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a54pwb | 3,554 | 2 | true |
I want a relationship with my daughter | How would meeting your daughter help build a relationship with her? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker wants a relationship with their daughter.",
"It's good to have a relationship with your daughter",
"its good to care for your kids"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,555 | 0 | false | |
I want her to know the reasons why we haven't met up before. | As a parent, it's important for you to have a relationship with your child so that they can come to you if they need help and support with the problems that they have in life. If you haven't met your daughter before for whatever reason, it is never too late to try to build a relationship and get to know her as a person... | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker continues to discuss their daughter.",
"It's okay to be honest",
"honesty is good"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,555 | 1 | false | |
I want to go back in her life because she has a lot of money though and not because I want to spend time with her. | That's a horrible reason to go back to her life. She will already be suspicious so you will not likely get any money from her and you shouldn't. | [
"You shouldn't go back into people's lives for money."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is greedy and has selfish reasons for wanting to reconnect with their daughter.",
"It's wrong to use your daughter for money",
"its wrong to go after people for money"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,555 | 2 | true | |
I sometimes tell my boyfriend I'm going to sleep so I can watch youtube uninterrupted | Why would you lie to your boyfriend like that? | [
"It's bad to lie to your boyfriend.",
"It's normal to want to watch videos uninterrupted."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker lies to boyfriend instead of setting boundaries",
"lying is rude",
"Admits to lying to boyfriend to get more personal time."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ar78zy | 3,556 | 0 | false |
I like to watch gay porn, I feel like its cheating on him. | It is normal to want to watch private things alone. You should not lie to your partner because you might get caught. | [
"It's ok to want to watch private things by yourself",
"You shouldn't lie to your partner"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is being dishonest about watching porn",
"situation hasn't changed",
"Admits to indulging in porn secretly from boyfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ar78zy | 3,556 | 1 | false |
I can't help it. I will stop for now but I won't promise I wont do it again. | You really should consider neve lying to him again. Telling the truth is the key to a long-lasting relationship. | [
"It's good to be honest in a relationship"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker chooses not to communicate with boyfriend and be honest about their desires",
"situation hasn't changed",
"Decides to continue their secret habits and lying."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ar78zy | 3,556 | 2 | true |
I'm pissed at my friends | Why are you mad at your friends? | [
"Its understandable to be upset with friends when they do something wrong.",
"Your friends have their own lives to deal with as well."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to be mad at people.",
"It's harmful to be angry at friends.",
"Details are too unclear to judge"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a25780 | 3,557 | 0 | false |
Because they never support me in bad times, they're always busy with their own lives. | I understand you are upset that your friends are not there for you when you need help and are sad. But they have things in their own lives that could be causing them strife at the same time. | [
"It is okay to be upset at uncaring friends.",
"You should get all the details before jumping to conclusions."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing how they feel more.",
"Speaker is upset friends are selfish.",
"It's okay for the speaker to be upset, as long as they don't act too harshly on it"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a25780 | 3,557 | 1 | false |
I'm willing to lose them for their behaviour. A lot of things need to be changed so it's worth it. | You have all the rights to get mad at your friends. They're not your true friends if they can't be there when you're in need of support. I'd suggest you to part with them on amicably. | [
"It is understandable to end toxic friendships.",
"You should find friends that support you."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't done anything unethical here.",
"Speaker is still angry.",
"It's wrong to end a friendship in a moment of (temporary) anger"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a25780 | 3,557 | 2 | true |
I think it's good that I've been working on my mental health lately. | Wow that's great, why have you been working on your mental health? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker engaged in friendly conversation about their situation",
"Speaker expresses resonably that they have been working on their mental health.",
"They are doing something positive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aa0k1u | 3,558 | 0 | false |
It was time to start focusing on my wellness. | Working on your mental health is good but in order to do so you should reach out and get help and support from others. Keeping your illness to yourself is not an effective strategy and could very likely make your mental health worse. It would be a good idea to start regular sessions with a therapist to help you work ef... | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker continued the conversation in a friendly and positive vein",
"Speaker continues to explain they are trying to work on their health.",
"They are being polite and civil."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aa0k1u | 3,558 | 1 | false |
I don't want my friends to know about my mental illness. I am a very private person. | I know you want to keep this private, but you shouldn't be embarrassed of it. Tell other people so that they can help you and understand your mental health struggles. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker went on talking constructively",
"Speaker expresses their reasonable desire to not have some people know about their health issues.",
"There is nothing unreasonable about this."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aa0k1u | 3,558 | 2 | true |
I want to keep the strangers wallet after he drops it | Why would you want to keep it instead of returning it? | [
"It is rude to keep someone else's things."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"wants to keep wallet they found",
"You shouldn't steal",
"It's wrong to keep another person's wallet"
] | ethics_amt | 3,559 | 0 | false | |
I plan to give it to the police. | If you see a stranger drop their wallet, then you should immediately return it to them. Keeping someone else's wallet is stealing, and it will cause them distress once they realize their wallet is gone. | [
"You should return an item you see someone misplace"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"plans to give found item to police",
"it might be seen at stealing",
"plans to give found wallet to the police"
] | ethics_amt | 3,559 | 1 | false | |
But my daddy told me to never trust anyone. | That's not really relevant in this situation, as this isn't a matter of trust. I am just saying that you should do the right thing. You know exactly who the lost wallet belongs to, so you should give it back to the stranger. | [
"You should resolve minor issues in the most direct way possible"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker does not trust people",
"You shouldn't steal",
"just talking about trust"
] | ethics_amt | 3,559 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to tell my girlfriend that she needs to lose weight. | What happens if your girlfriend doesn't lose weight? | [
"People are expected to accept their loved ones as they are."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's rude to do this.",
"Speaker explains they want their girlfriend to lose weight.",
"Don't know why she needs to lose weight."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5lrzn | 3,560 | 0 | false |
I'll end our relationship and find a new girlfriend. | You shouldn't demand that your girlfriend loses weight. You should accept her how she is and support her if she wants to lose weight. | [
"It's mean to demand that your partner loses weight."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They don't care about their girlfriend's feelings.",
"Speaker plans on giving their girlfriend an ultimatum if they don't lose weight.",
"Desires to impose their desires onto girlfriend, which is controlling and discriminatory."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5lrzn | 3,560 | 1 | false |
I don't care, if she doesn't loose the weight our relationship is over. | Losing weight is very difficult and it cannot be done on command. You need to help her understand that you're concerned for her health and offer your support. A relationship is based on many things and not just appearance. | [
"It's okay to be concerned for your partner's health.",
"It's bad to base a relationship solely on appearance."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't been swayed from being rude.",
"Speaker is being unfair in wanting their girlfriend to lose weight or the relationship ends.",
"Continues to be selfish and shallow about their girlfriend's weight."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5lrzn | 3,560 | 2 | true |
I am thinking of putting the dinner that my girlfriend cooked last night in the blender | What about your girlfriend's food makes you want to blend it up? | [
"It's rude to criticize your partner's cooking.",
"You should not ruin food that someone else made"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its rude to put something that someone worked hard on in the blender and destroy it",
"it is wrong to damage food",
"It's rude to ruin someone's hard work at cooking."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,561 | 0 | false | |
It just doesn't taste right to me. | You should be grateful that your girlfriend took the time to cook a nice meal for you. You are being insulting to your girlfriend by putting the dinner that she made in the blender. | [
"It's expected to be grateful toward your partner when they cook for you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is rude and offensive to do this",
"it is wrong to damage food and be gross",
"Speaker should eat something else rather than ruining food cooked for them."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,561 | 1 | false | |
I know, I was being pushy with her. | If you know you were being mean then you should change your ways and start being nicer to your girlfriend. We should always be grateful to the people that cook for us. | [
"It's good to change your ways when you acknowledge you are being offensive."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the speaker is continuing rudeness",
"it is wrong to damage food as payback",
"Speaker agrees they acted badly but has not stated they will change their actions."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,561 | 2 | true | |
I hate posts that are more than a few sentences long and I usually down vote them. | What is the basis for your thinking? Why do you down vote long posts? | [
"It's rude to purposefully antagonize another person."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"down voting a post because of length is very rude and not nice",
"This is violating social norms and rude.",
"Speaker is just talking about a dislike"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cncskj | 3,562 | 0 | false |
Long posts mostly bore me. | You could just not read them. It's not nice to downvote something and upset someone else like that on purpose. | [
"It's bad to downvote someone on purpose.",
"It's okay to not read all posts."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"just because something bores someone does not mean it is not of use to someone else",
"It's harmful to downvote posts due to boredom.",
"Still no threat"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cncskj | 3,562 | 1 | false |
It's fine, I can do whatever I want, and I'm not a mean person. | People that make long posts just have something they need to say. You should not try to upset them for no good reason. | [
"It's bad to upset people who are sharing posts."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker thinks their behavior is ok to continue doing",
"The speaker isn't receptive to feedback.",
"Speaker is not really being socially unacceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cncskj | 3,562 | 2 | true |
What do you think of this situation? I met a girl who changed my life. Now I wish I never met her. | That is unbelievable! What changed during the time you met her? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's unclear why the speaker wishes they hadn't met someone.",
"Violet wishes they never met someone which could be considered a polite disagreement as opposed to being rude.",
"Speaker is sharing problems with person."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/6clrph | 3,563 | 0 | false |
I got to know her better. | Sometimes when you get to know someone a bit longer you stop liking them. It's a normal part of dating. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's normal to change your opinion of someone after getting to know them.",
"Violet continues to express their feeling without acting out harmfully.",
"Speaker explains what happened."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/6clrph | 3,563 | 1 | false |
I'm glad we changed our relationship status. | If you grew apart in some way then that was meant to be. Even if someone changes your life at one point, things can take a turn for the worse too eventually. There's no guarantee things stay the same. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is satisfied with their relationship status.",
"Violet broke up with this person but still has not said anything rude about them.",
"Speaker expresses their feelings about what has happened."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/6clrph | 3,563 | 2 | true |
I'm going to name my next cat "autistic" because that's actually funny. | Have you ever been in a situation where you had to deal with people with autism? | [
"It's not right to make fun of autistic people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's ableism to say autism is funny.",
"It's wrong to name your pet after a mental or physical disability.",
"It's wrong to make fun of people with autism."
] | sbic | 3,564 | 0 | false | |
No, I haven't. But my family friend's son was diagnosed with autism and I often have fun joking about it. | I don't think he found that funny. Making fun of autism usually makes people feel dejected. How about naming your pet something more creative and trying to demonstrate some compassion for those less fortunate. | [
"It's not right to make fun of autistic people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't joke about autism.",
"Speaker states his family friend's son was diagnosed with autism and he often had fun joking about it.",
"Speaker advocates that jokes about autistic persons is okay."
] | sbic | 3,564 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to have a heated argument with my housemate's controlling girlfriend. | I feel this is a bad idea. Why are you going to argue with your housemate's girlfriend? | [
"It is rude to fight in front of others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"planning on getting in an argument.",
"Speaker intends to argue with their roommate's partner about her behavior.",
"planning to start an argument"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b88n9l | 3,565 | 0 | false |
She's very controlling and has taken over the house. She doesn't live here and it's not right for her to act like this. | I'm sure her behavior is very frustrating for you, but you should sit down with your housemate and his girlfriend and discuss your issues calmly. If you start an argument with them, you'll have a difficult time making your points. Discuss your issues and find common ground that you can all agree on. | [
"It's best to try to communicate and avoid bad arguments when you can."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"expressing their anger.",
"Explains that the person is acting inappropriately in their home.",
"explaining why they want to start an argument"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b88n9l | 3,565 | 1 | false |
She's a bad person and I hate her. | I understand that but arguing and being angry is not going to solve your problems. Being the calm and rational person will most likely win when talking to your housemate. | [
"You shouldn't be irrational with people you have to live with.",
"It's not good to try and solve problems with anger."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"continues the criticism",
"Disregards the advice and makes negative remarks about the person.",
"expressing hatred for someone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b88n9l | 3,565 | 2 | true |
Why did Moses walked trough the sea with the jews? He didn't want to be seen around town with that scum | Would you mind explaining what you mean by this? | [
"It's wrong to believe to denigrate the Jews in the false belief that they are responsible for all the negative events that occur throughout the world."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make jokes about people's religion or ethnicity.",
"You shouldn't make anti-Semitic jokes.",
"It's awful to make such racist jokes towards Jewish people."
] | sbic | 3,566 | 0 | false | |
I don't think this is offensive at all. Jews are responsible for all the shit thats happening in the world. They should have all been killed by the Nazis during the holocaust. | I don't know how you can think your words not offensive: Religious and ethnic slurs? Racist rants about how the Jews run the world and are responsible for all our problems? They're not only offensive and unfounded, they're deeply hurtful and destructive. | [
"It's wrong to believe to denigrate the Jews in the false belief that they are responsible for all the negative events that occur throughout the world."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Defends their joke and advocates for the killing of Jews.",
"Continues making anti-Semitic comments.",
"Speaker continuing to say incredibly hurtful things about Jewish people."
] | sbic | 3,566 | 1 | true | |
What if I start to joke around about my kid's soccer coach at the game? | Is this for real? Is there an actual reason you're going to joke about the coach? | [
"You shouldn't say bad things about a child's coach."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"it is rude to joke about others",
"Speaker states they're considering joking around about their kid's soccer coach at the game.",
"It's okay to joke around as long as the joke is not harmful in any way. We don't know what kind of jokes the speaker is alluding to yet."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/au29d5 | 3,567 | 0 | false |
Yes, I hate his coaching style. | It's inappropriate to make jokes about your child's soccer coach. He's just doing his best to try to teach the kids about the game. You should be supportive of him and the team so that everyone has the best chance to succeed. | [
"You shouldn't make fun of your kid's soccer coach"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"keep label, doubling down",
"Speaker asserts they hate the soccer his coaching style.",
"The speaker provides reason to why it wants to joke around with the coach."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/au29d5 | 3,567 | 1 | false |
I think he's just another coach on the field trying to bring me down. I don't respect that kind of person. | This coach is just not even thinking about you, he only wants to do well for the kids. Maybe you should just back off of it all and just watch the game. I would not let the coach bother me either way. | [
"You should enjoy your kid's sport game instead of causing a disturbance"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"keep label, no willingness to change behavior",
"Speaker states he's just another coach on the field trying to bring me down and that they don't respect that kind of person.",
"Speaker does not agree with the feedback and making assumptions about the coach for no valid reason."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/au29d5 | 3,567 | 2 | true |
Knock Knock Who's there . 9/11. 9/11 who . I thought you'd never forget | I'm not sure if you meant it as joke or making fun of the victims of this tragedy; is that what you're meaning? | [
"You shouldn't trivialize terrorism"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You should not joke about 9/11",
"It's distasteful to make jokes like that.",
"It's rude to make knock knock jokes about 9/11"
] | sbic | 3,568 | 0 | false | |
Yep, I thought it would be funny. | I do not think that this is something that we should joke about. Have you watched the movie about 9/11? It was terrifying for everyone involved, I am sure you would want to take it back after seeing that movie. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize terrorism"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"same as before",
"This is a continuation of the previous hostile attitude.",
"Speaker does not apologize for joke"
] | sbic | 3,568 | 1 | true | |
I hate parking cops | Well now you've piqued my interested, why are you so upset with parking cops? | [
"It's impolite to disrespect authority figures."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker hates cops, which is disrespectful.",
"Hatred for cops.",
"Speaker hates a group for their actions, which is at least understandable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9cf7fv | 3,569 | 0 | false |
Maybe if they don't do any work I won't hate them. | It is a bad idea to disrespect authority figures. This will just make your life complicated. | [
"It's wrong to disrespect authority figures"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker still doesn't like the parking cops.",
"Continues to hate cops.",
"Speaker makes unreasonable demands, but is not being offensive or harmful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9cf7fv | 3,569 | 1 | false |
Nobody is listening to me, I'm going to do what I want. | You shouldn't do what you want, because if you did then everyone else would. Imagine if there was a fire and the fire trucks couldn't get to where they needed to be because a car was parked near the hydrant, or if someone was double parked and so you couldn't find a parking spot. Sometimes parking cops can be good and ... | [
"You shouldn't be able to park wherever you want if it's against city laws"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is still being disrespectful about parking cops.",
"Disregards advice, argues with other speaker.",
"Speaker seems to admit their intention to commit minor crimes"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9cf7fv | 3,569 | 2 | true |
So how about literally nothing will happen tomorrow, except for maybe a few minor chimp-outs involving smashing windows and turning over trash cans. | Are you trying to compare black people with animals? | [
"You should not copy opinions that you do not agree with."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to compare black people to animals.",
"It's wrong to make assumptions about black people.",
"It's racist and crude to talk about Blacks like this."
] | sbic | 3,570 | 0 | false | |
They are just violent animals, nothing more, so it's not really a generalization is it? | Black people have a difficult time already with a lot of injustice just based on their skin color and the way they tend to be portrayed by the media and by society, so it is hurtful to think people think that you are less than human. You would not like it if people implied that you are an animal based on your skin colo... | [
"It's wrong to make generalizations about other races",
"You should treat others the way you want to be treated"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains what they think about black people.",
"Speaker still making racist comments about black people.",
"They continue to think they're in the right."
] | sbic | 3,570 | 1 | false | |
My bad was just a comment I saw on a youtube video, it had nothing to do with black people. | You should get to know people and not generalize based on the actions of a few. Every race has people that take unnecessary extreme measures just to prove a point. It's best to form your own opinion and not mimic that of ignorant people you see commenting on YouTube. | [
"You should form your own opinions and rely less on youtube"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker makes excuses for making that comment about black people.",
"Speaker admits to their mistake.",
"They admitted they were wrong and didn't understand."
] | sbic | 3,570 | 2 | true | |
I hate my boyfriend of 5 years | Why do you hate your boyfriend? | [
"It's bad to continue relationships that are toxic to everyone involved."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Hating their own boyfriend will make the relationship messy.",
"You shouldn't be in a relationship with someone you hate.",
"It goes against social norms to hate your boyfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/f223bj | 3,571 | 0 | false |
He never cares about the feelings of others. | Communication is the key to a successful relationship, so sit down and talk with your boyfriend. If you cannot come to an understanding with each other, you should remove yourself from the toxic relationship for both of your sakes. | [
"You should talk to your partner if you're upset with their actions.",
"It's ok to leave a toxic relationship."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"People should be expected to care about other's feelings.",
"Someone being uncaring isn't a good reason to stay with them if you hate them.",
"Hating a relationship partner is harmful and rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/f223bj | 3,571 | 1 | false |
Why do I have to give up my life because of his? | That's not giving up your life. You are only having a normal conversation with him. | [
"You should talk to someone if you're upset with them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker makes some good points and the boyfriend is clearly in the wrong.",
"Keeping someone you hate as a boyfriend is being a user, taking part their life, not giving up part of yours.",
"The speaker is unwilling to have a conversation or change their behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/f223bj | 3,571 | 2 | true |
What's green and bloody and sleeps in my backyard? My nigger and I'll paint him any color I want. | Are you making a racial joke towards black people? | [
"It's not right to joke about black people being slaves and called the n word"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't imply that you own a black person as that's very racist.",
"It's offensive to make racist jokes. You shouldn't use racial slurs.",
"It's racist to use the n-word."
] | sbic | 3,572 | 0 | false | |
Even if I am, what of it? | There really is no place for racism in this country. The days of slavery are over and it's no longer right for people to make such an insensitive statement especially using the N-word. Equality is were it's at now, and it's no longer cool to discriminate. | [
"It's not right to joke about black people being slaves and called the n word"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't seem to know why they said the hateful thing but didn't apologize for it.",
"Speaker does not admit their comment was offensive.",
"Speaker does not acknowledge their joke is wrong."
] | sbic | 3,572 | 1 | true | |
I tried to hang my sister | I'm very horrified to hear about this. Why would you hang your sister? | [
"It's bad to attempt murder."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker claims to have tried to hang their sister.This is dangerous and could have killed their sister.",
"Life in danger",
"admits to trying to hang their sister"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/235cis | 3,573 | 0 | false |
Yes, because the bitch is always teasing me. | That is a terrible thing for you to do. It is bad to attempt murder. You should end up in jail for doing something to her, next time bring up issues to your family before you resort to violence. | [
"You shouldn't attempt murder",
"You should communicate issues with your family"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker talks about how their sister always teases them. Also calls their sister a bitch.",
"Crude language",
"gives poor reason for trying to kill sister"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/235cis | 3,573 | 1 | false |
What? Why would I get in trouble for that? | Because as I have said, it's an attempted murder and murder is something that is punishable by law, and it's actually one of the worst offense you can do as a human being. I suggest that you don't go harming your family members and try to get treatment so that you will not have any more violent tendencies. | [
"It's not ok to attempt murder",
"You should get treatment if you want to harm others"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker asks the ignorant question of why they would get into trouble for murder. This shows that the speaker sees no issue with trying to kill someone.",
"Casual conversation",
"doesn't see why trying to hang someone is wrong"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/235cis | 3,573 | 2 | true |
I'm ignoring my friends calls because they don't seem to understand when I told them I am busy. | Why are they trying to call you even if you told them you're busy? | [
"It is expected that sometimes friends will not be able to talk at times."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"need more information",
"ignoring others is rude",
"It's okay to ignore friends phone call if they are constantly bothering you."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1w5km | 3,574 | 0 | false |
I don't know, I feel like they are being unfair to me. | Friends might not always have a lot of time to talk so if you don't have the ability to it's okay to not always answer their calls. Have you thought about talking to them about not feeling like they are fair towards you? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"need more information",
"its okay to stand up for yourself",
"Speaker provides detail to how he feels about the situation."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1w5km | 3,574 | 1 | false |
I wanted to get them back so they will think twice before they call me. | You are doing what they are doing to you. Two negatives doesn't make it right. | [
"You shouldn't try to get revenge on friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"ignoring the feedback",
"retaliating against others is rude",
"Speaker is not receptive to feedback and has a revengeful train of thought."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1w5km | 3,574 | 2 | true |
What do you call two black people high fiving? Gang violence! | That is unheard of! Do you think it is okay to say that about black people? | [
"It's not right to think all black people are criminals"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is unethical to be a bigot and make jokes",
"It is racist to say black people participate in gang violence.",
"You shouldn't make jokes about blacks"
] | sbic | 3,575 | 0 | false | |
I've made it clear that I hate all humans who are black. | Black people have a difficult time already with a lot of injustice just based on their skin color and the way they tend to be portrayed by the media and by society, so it is hurtful to think people think that you are a criminal. You would not like it if people implied that you were a criminal based on your skin color. | [
"It is wrong to stereotype people",
"You shouldn't tell offensive jokes"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is unethical to be a bigot and make a joke",
"They say outright that they hate black people.",
"says hates all blacks"
] | sbic | 3,575 | 1 | false | |
It's not a problem. I just care about my safety and I don't really feel bad about it since I don't like them. | But black people are human too, are they not? It seems really unfair to not like them for their skin color and think they are all bad like that. I know some really fun and talented black people, would you like to meet them and try to understand that they are amazing people? | [
"It is good to try and broaden your cultural horizons",
"It is good to recognize the basic humanity in others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is unethical to be a bigot and joke",
"They are perpetuating stereotypes and prejudice against black people to support their ignorance.",
"not backing down"
] | sbic | 3,575 | 2 | true | |
Do you know what the workers said in the 2nd twin tower when the 1st one got hit? "Glad we missed a bullet there." | Do you think it is okay to say that? It's horrible to make fun of 9/11. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you shouldn't make crude jokes about 9/11",
"It's offensive to joke about 9/11.",
"You shouldn't make jokes about the people who died in 9/11."
] | sbic | 3,576 | 0 | false | |
You're thinking way too much into it. It's just a joke. | I understand it may be a joke to you but there are survivors and families who had to go through 9/11. They would be hurt by the jokes you make. | [
"It's wrong to joke about a terrorist attack."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker tries to say it was just a joke",
"You shouldn't trivialize tragedy.",
"Says that it's okay to make jokes about 9/11."
] | sbic | 3,576 | 1 | false | |
So I can't be free to do whatever I want? I have freedom of speech. | You do but choosing to use that freedom of speech to hurt people who suffered due to that tragedy is awful. You can see why people would be upset with you deciding that it is okay to joke about that. | [
"You shouldn't joke about a tragedy."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"freedom of speech does not mean freedom from consequences and judgment",
"It's wrong to joke about tragedy for entertainment.",
"Claims that it's their right to say what they want."
] | sbic | 3,576 | 2 | true | |
I want to exclude my friend's boyfriend. | What did his boyfriend think about this? | [
"It is rude to exclude people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The person wants to exclude their friend's boyfriend.",
"excluding someone, without justification given, seems hurtful and wrong",
"It is rude the speaker wants to exclude certain people"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2ta8d | 3,577 | 0 | false |
He is not the type of person who would become upset by me doing this. | Excluding people is not a very nice thing to do. People have the right to talk to whoever they want to talk to, and if you dont have a good reason for excluding them it will come across as immature. | [
"You shouldn't exclude others.",
"You should let people talk to whoever they want."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker feels what they are doing is fine.",
"speaker's explanation shows lack of consideration for other person's feelings",
"The speaker thinks that their friend will not be upset"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2ta8d | 3,577 | 1 | false |
It doesn't matter, I'm excluding him because I don't want him there. | It is rude to exclude people but understandable if you are hosting a limited event. It would be rude to ban one persons BF if other people were allowed to invite theirs. | [
"It's wrong to exclude one person's partner in an event if you let others come."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't take advice and wants to do it because they want to.",
"response is dismissive but also confusing and contradictory",
"The speaker still thinks that the boyfriend should be excluded"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2ta8d | 3,577 | 2 | true |
I have a history of torturing animals. | Do you still torture animals? | [
"You should get help if you torture animals.",
"You shouldn't torture animals."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Someone who tortures animals needs help from a real person.",
"They admit to animal abuse.",
"Speaker admits to torturing animals"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/58la0a | 3,578 | 0 | false |
No I used to all the time, but these days I'm tying to make a change for the benefit of nature. | Animal abuse is a pretty serious crime to commit. Even though it sounds like you aren't doing it as often, it is still very important to get help. | [
"It's wrong to hurt animals.",
"You should get help for violent behavior."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It sounds like they want to change, but they still seem dangerous.",
"They claim to have changed their ways.",
"Speaker claims they no longer torture animals"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/58la0a | 3,578 | 1 | false |
I just try to do it for fun sometimes. | There's nothing fun about making a helpless animal suffer -- not sometimes, not ever. It's important to get to the bottom of your feelings about this. It would be good to make counseling a priority. | [
"It's good to get counseling for violent tendencies.",
"You shouldn't want to hurt living things."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"They admit that they still do it on occasion.",
"It seems like speaker still tortures animals and admits they do it because it is fun"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/58la0a | 3,578 | 2 | true |
I plan on telling off my friend. | What has been going on between you and your friend? Is it going well? | [
"It's understandable that sometimes we get irritated at others."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"sometimes a friend deserves to be told off",
"Speaker wants conflict with their friend.",
"It is rude to tell someone off."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahmue3 | 3,579 | 0 | false |
It hasn't been positive. I did speak to others about him. | I'm sorry you aren't getting along well with your friend. But I don't think it's necessary to try and start more drama and let others see such things. Just keep it private to a few who you think can help you. | [
"It's rude to cause drama with friends.",
"It's good to talk about your feelings with someone who upset you."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"if there are issues in a friendship it is a good idea to discuss them",
"Speaker responds to question, says things are not positive.",
"They are talking behind the friend's back as welll."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahmue3 | 3,579 | 1 | false |
I don't like people who won't speak their minds and leave things unsolved. | It's totally understandable that you are irritated at your friend and I support you confronting him about the issue, but that doesn't mean you have to tell him off. Telling him off has a great potential for the friendship being ruined permanently. | [
"It's understandable to get annoyed with your friends."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"communication is important, especially when their are issues",
"Speaker does not listen to advice.",
"They are pushing for a fight with a friend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahmue3 | 3,579 | 2 | true |
I allow my roommate to have sex with me when he sleepwalks. | That sounds horrible. Who is he? I want to know which one! | [
"Is expected that you not take advantage of your roommates"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"lewd term that sounds like nonconsensual sex, so it should be reported to authorities",
"This sounds like a potentially harmful situation",
"Speaker is talking about something terrible that happened to them"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ecggfp | 3,580 | 0 | false |
I'm not telling you his name because I don't want him to know I told you about this. | This whole situation seems weird. Are you sure he's even sleepwalking, and that you consent to this? If he's not conscious while having sex with you, it's rape. It's wrong to have sex with someone without their consent. | [
"It's wrong not to consent to sex.",
"You should talk to your roommate about things that happened."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker doesn't want to disclose identity of perpetrator, which would leave him free to violate others",
"They are not being cooperative and not giving more details",
"Speaker wants to protect the person who did the terrible thing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ecggfp | 3,580 | 1 | false |
People can choose to sleep with me for fun, and if I'm getting something out of it, then I don't understand why this would be a problem. | You definitely have all the rights to sleep with anyone in the world but it has to be consensual. You're not supposed to force yourself on people for sex. It's just wrong. | [
"It's okay to sleep with whomever you want."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker has an unhealthy attitude about sex so could be an easy target for rape",
"This is an unhealthy situation and they are not willing to change or take the advice",
"Speaker doesn’t value their dignity"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ecggfp | 3,580 | 2 | true |
I feel like just being mean to my depressed friend | Is your friend always mean to you? | [
"It's wrong to be rude to a friend."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Being mean towards a depressed friend may make them even more depressed.",
"Being mean to others is rude.",
"wants to be mean towards a depressed person"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afn2yj | 3,581 | 0 | false |
No, it's actually the opposite, he always looks for me for comfort. | It's wrong to be rude to a friend when they look for you for comfort. If you are mean to them then they will be depressed even more. | [
"You should be willing to support friends in need"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This sounds even worse if the friend wants comfort.",
"Disrespecting people you are close to is wrong.",
"doesn't give a reason for being mean"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afn2yj | 3,581 | 1 | false |
I guess. It's mostly just joking around and it helps my depressed friend to be more active again. | It's great that you can spend time with him and get him involved in things. I'm sure he really appreciates having you around. | [
"It is good to try to get friends through tough times"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Joking around in a mean way probably isn't good for a depressed friend.",
"Joking around with friends is normal behavior.",
"seems to be joking around with the friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afn2yj | 3,581 | 2 | true |
Can I just tell someone that I kind of wish I was dead right now? | Oh no, so you really feel this way? Is there anything specific making you feel like you want to die? | [
"You should get help if you're feeling suicidal."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker admits to possible suicidal thoughts.",
"Speaker expresses a wish to be dead. This could indicate they are suicidal.",
"Seems to indicate interest in self-harm"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/enghcm | 3,582 | 0 | false |
It's hard to say, it's just something I want. | If you are feeling like you want to die, you should reach out for help from a mental health professional. Suicide ideation is a sign of depression and it can be resolved through working with a therapist. | [
"You should get help if you feel suicidal."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains why they want to say what they said.",
"Speaker expresses they want to die.",
"Wants to harm self"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/enghcm | 3,582 | 1 | false |
I will, don't worry. | That is relieving to hear, no one should feel like they should be dead. It is unhealthy and needs to be rectified quickly before it's to late. Getting help is going to be epic for you. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker admits they will get help if they need it.",
"Speaker agrees to seek help from a professional.",
"Agrees to at least talk to a therapist first"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/enghcm | 3,582 | 2 | true |
Do you think I should throw my new assistant manager under the bus to our district manager | Is there a particular thing your manager did to make you would do that? | [
"You shouldn't try to get your boss in trouble for silly things."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is planning to sabotage their assistant manager.",
"Speaker suggests using assistant manager to blame.",
"Wants to throw someone under bus"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/az5s7n | 3,583 | 0 | false |
Apart from her making mistakes, she walks like a robot. | Everyone feels annoyed by their boss at some point, but trying to get her in trouble for petty things is mean. Try to look past her small mistakes, or figure out a way to help her. Telling on her will only make you look petty in front of the district manager. | [
"You shouldn't do things that jeopardize your career",
"You shouldn't let small things bother you"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is planning to sabotage their assistant manager based on superficial reasons.",
"Speaker degrades assistant manager.",
"Justifies throwing someone under bus"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/az5s7n | 3,583 | 1 | false |
Nah, I'm getting good at throwing my coworkers under the bus. | Are you sure that's something to be proud of? My workplace is a lot more fun when everyone gets along. Aren't you worried that your coworkers will hate you? | [
"You shouldn't sabotage your coworkers",
"It's good to have a positive work environment"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker seems to have a habit of sabotaging coworkers.",
"Speaker arrogantly enjoys being cruel to coworkers.",
"Brags about throwing others under bus"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/az5s7n | 3,583 | 2 | true |
Do you think I'm being very stubborn about a school project? | Why do you think you're being stubborn about the project? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is just asking a question",
"Speaker questions their attitude towards school.",
"Speaker is asking an opinion about a school projetc."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ajwvpv | 3,584 | 0 | false |
My group members want to finish it early and I want to wait until the last minute to complete my part. | I know you feel like you can be independent, but when working with a group you need to follow the group's wishes. Completing your part and getting the assignment done is important. You need to work well with others and consider their needs, it's not all about you. | [
"It's encouraged to participate in a work group rather than trying to be independent.",
"It's selfish to make every assignment all about you."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's not good to wait until the last minute to finish a school project",
"Speaker explains their attitude towards school project.",
"Speaker did not stated the reasons for the delay of the project"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ajwvpv | 3,584 | 1 | false |
But I don't have time to do it right now. I have other things going on. | I understand that you have a lot of things going on, but it's important for you to finish your part on time. Your group members are counting on you to get it done, so making them wait is pretty rude. | [
"It's expected that you complete work projects by their deadline.",
"You shouldn't let people who are counting on you down."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's not good to wait until the last minute even if you are busy, school should come first",
"Speaker begins to make excuses for not completing work on school project.",
"It's is unethical of the part of the speaker the attitue towards the project"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ajwvpv | 3,584 | 2 | true |
I can't stand when people show up randomly. | Why don't you like people showing up unexpectedly? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Talking about their dislike of surprises.",
"It's normal not to like when people show up unannounced.",
"Speaker expresses a normal annoyance."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cbjqv3 | 3,585 | 0 | false |
I just get so angry. I work 3rd shift, so they always wake me up. | I don't blame you. I like people to at least call first, and to not expect me to be available late at night or early in the morning. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Annoyed at being woken up unexpectedly.",
"It's normal to get annoyed when someone wakes you up when you're sleeping.",
"Speaker clarifies reasonable frustration."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cbjqv3 | 3,585 | 1 | false |
I wonder if that advice would really work. | If you really need to sleep, then perhaps pretending to not be home could be a solution. However, it would be best to just be honest with the people who are visiting, and let them know that you need to know in advance before they come, and that they should only call at certain times. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Saying they will depend on their locks for peace and quiet.",
"Speaker is being a bit incoherent, but they are not doing anything unethical by being annoyed when people wake them up.",
"Speaker is reasonable and justified in their behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cbjqv3 | 3,585 | 2 | true |
I like my girls like my wine. Aged 10 years, in a basement. | I hope you're kidding. | [
"It's not right to think that underage girls are sex objects."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make sex jokes about kids",
"It is wrong to joke about kidnapping and pedophilia",
"You shouldn't joke about sexually abusing minors and kidnapping them."
] | sbic | 3,586 | 0 | false | |
It means I prefer underage girls. Because they are beautiful objects. Not my fault that stupid laws exist here. | Even though some countries have different ages for people to have sex, none of them are okay with children having sex. You should consider visiting a therapist to get some help with your desires. | [
"You should not be seeking intimacy with minors",
"You should get help if you are having inappropriate desires"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"You shouldn't be a pedophile",
"gross, unethical, offensive",
"Admits to liking underaged girls, possibly doing something illegal against minors."
] | sbic | 3,586 | 1 | false | |
Someone who has some knowledge about human nature should understand that using and forcing children is okay. If a lot of people disagree with me it's okay, but it's how life works. | Nobody would agree, there are many men sitting in prison who thought he same way you do. Leave the kids along and please talk with a professional. Children need to remain innocent and not have their lives destroyed. | [
"Sexual assault against children is a serious and immoral crime",
"You need to get help if you are having impure thoughts or desires"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"pedophilia is never right",
"gross, unethical, offensive",
"Justifying sexually abusing kids by saying that forcing children is okay."
] | sbic | 3,586 | 2 | true | |
I get irrationally angry when people stare at me | What makes you angry about people staring at you? | [
"You shouldn't get irrationally angry at others."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"it's rude to stare at people",
"It's wrong to get irrationally angry for someone staring at you.",
"They share their discomfort over other's behaviors."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ijr93 | 3,587 | 0 | false |
I was falsely accused of being a stalker, which made me very upset. Staring reminds me of that. | If you feel that you are being singled out, then you should remove yourself from the toxic situation. Get to a safe place where you know you will be accepted. | [
"It's wrong to be irrationally angry.",
"You should take yourself out of toxic situations."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker has a valid explanation as to why they get upset at being stared at",
"Speaker still gets very angry over people straing at them.",
"They explain why other's behaviors make them uncomfortable."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ijr93 | 3,587 | 1 | false |
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