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He never listens to me, which is annoying. | Helping family is important because of all the love and support it provides. Talk with your brother and find out if you can come to an agreement so that he's not left to his own devices. | [
"You should be supportive of family members"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"casual conversation",
"Speaker finds their brother annoying."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aq1bef | 3,939 | 1 | false |
That's what siblings do, they fight. | Siblings never have to fight. I think it's best to just talk to him and sort out your differences. | [
"If you have a disagreement, you should talk it out"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This seems to be a regular everyday problem. They haven't done anything unethical.",
"Fighting with a sibling can cause unnecessary conflict",
"Speaker thinks fighting between siblings is fine."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aq1bef | 3,939 | 2 | true |
I'm going to sit in the wheelchair reserved area when there's no one disabled waiting | Why is there no one in the reserved area? | [
"It's okay to be in a space you aren't supposed to be if nobody else is there using it."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to sit in the wheelchair reserved area",
"It is wrong to take space meant for others.",
"Speaker indicates intent to act rudely."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ayo16l | 3,940 | 0 | false |
I don't know there is just no one here currently. Maybe they aren't that busy. | I suppose as long as you move if someone comes in who needs the space. It might be acceptable. | [
"You should be willing to let others use public amenities"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to sit in the handicapped area even tho they arent",
"It is wrong to use disabled spaces if when you don't see a disabled person.",
"Speaker provides unreasonable justification for acting rudely."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ayo16l | 3,940 | 1 | false |
Nah, it's too inconvenient to move the wheelchair after claiming a seat in the reserved area. I'm taking it! | It is very wrong to take the resources from disabled people. They have a hard time trying to find accommodation and it is awful that you would use what they need when you are fully capable of moving on your own. | [
"You should not prevent others from using necessary amenities",
"You need to be considerate of people with disabilities"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to sit in an area for handicapped people and not move if someone who needs it shows up",
"They are taking up other's spaces just because they don't want to be mildly inconvenienced.",
"Speaker does not indicate they will change their behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ayo16l | 3,940 | 2 | true |
What do you think about using someone's hulu account? | What do you want to use it for? | [
"You shouldn't use other people's things without asking them first."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"It's unethical in general to use someone's Hulu account.",
"You shouldn't use an account if you don't have permission for it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ajkgoi | 3,941 | 0 | false |
I just want to stream a show | Have you asked this person yet? If not, you need to. You shouldn't use things that aren't yours without asking first or you're liable to get into trouble with them. | [
"You shouldn't use someone's online account without their permission."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is fine if they have permission.",
"Speaker indicate why they want to stream.",
"You shouldn't use an account if you don't have permission for it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ajkgoi | 3,941 | 1 | false |
I am going to stream a show without their permission. Since they are not using it right now, I'm going to do it anyways. | Whether they are or aren't using the account is irrelevant. How would you like it if someone used your things without asking you first? It's wrong. | [
"You shouldn't use someone's possessions without their permission."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to use someone's Hulu account without permission.",
"Speaker decides to go against advice and stream without permission.",
"Speaker has confirmed they are doing something wrong and is going to continue."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ajkgoi | 3,941 | 2 | true |
I saw the commercial for the laptop and decided to steal one | Did you mean you got it at a good price as though it was a steal? | [
"Its good to get things you need at a good price",
"You shouldn't steal things."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to steal.",
"It's wrong to steal.",
"You shouldn't steal"
] | ethics_amt | 3,942 | 0 | false | |
Yes, I have to get it now since it's on sale at a discount. | You mentioned stealing but I am confused on the real meaning. Stealing physically without paying would be criminalistic so you would need to return it if you did that. On the other hand stealing as in grabbing a good deal is fine and continuing to do that is smart and saves you money. | [
"It's wrong to steal something with out paying for it.",
"It's good to get a good deal on an item your after."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Now they seem to mean they want to buy it for a good price.",
"Speaker mentions stealing in a way that describes the low price of a laptop",
"bc it's on sale"
] | ethics_amt | 3,942 | 1 | false | |
I was asked by a friend if I can get the laptop from Dell as though it was an order from him. | I would just worry about yourself and let your friend buy their own laptop for now. If you find something that you think is at a steal of a price, then buy it up right away, as deals that good won't last long. | [
"It's understood deals sometimes don't last long.",
"It's alright to worry about your own needs before a friend sometimes."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same.",
"The speaker is picking up a laptop for a friend.",
"a friend wanted it"
] | ethics_amt | 3,942 | 2 | true | |
My motto to live live by when it comes to chicks: If you're not feeding me, fucking me, or financing me, don't worry about wtf I'm doing. | I think that sounds extreme. Is that what you think all women are about? | [
"It's not right to think women should be taking care of a man"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive to have sexist views.",
"You shouldn't be unrespectful towards women",
"it is wrong to hate women"
] | sbic | 3,943 | 0 | false | |
That's all they're good for. | I think that's a pretty myopic viewpoint, women are good for much more than taking care of men. Women are people with their own lives and agency, and suggest that they're only good for taking care of men reinforces harmful traditional gender roles. Try to be more respectful of women if you want to have quality women in... | [
"It's wrong to suggest women only exist to support men",
"You shouldn't reinforce harmful gender stereotypes"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker further explains views on women.",
"Speaker doesn't like women",
"it is wrong to hate women over and over again"
] | sbic | 3,943 | 1 | false | |
You're worried about these broads but you don't care about my rights as a man. | Your rights don't extend to dictating the role of women in society, especially one so limited. How would you like it if your partner said something like that to you? | [
"You should treat others the way you want to be treated"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is intent in ways, will cause conflict for women.",
"Speaker doesn't like women",
"it is wrong to hate women again and again"
] | sbic | 3,943 | 2 | true | |
I honked at a runner who was running into oncoming traffic at night next to the sidewalk even though he had a headlamp on | What were you trying to do when you were honking at this runner? | [
"You shouldn't be rude to other people in traffic."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker honked at a jogger to warn them",
"this is rude and very unethical",
"The runner sounds safe, and honking is obnoxious."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9wuhpm | 3,944 | 0 | false |
I was trying to distract the runner so he would go into the traffic | Purposely trying to injure someone is so horrible that you need immediate help. You tried to cause a bad accident and this is unforgiveable. You should not even have a license to drive a car because you could do too much damage to others. | [
"It's wrong to use your vehicle to purposefully cause harm to others."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"The speaker indicates they want the jogger to run into traffic",
"this is rude and very unethical",
"Trying to cause someone to run into traffic is awful."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9wuhpm | 3,944 | 1 | false |
They didn't end up hurt so it's okay. | It's not okay if you're doing that though. The point is you shouldn't do that in the first place. | [
"It's wrong to justify dangerous behaviors just because no one got hurt.",
"You shouldn't use your vehicle to cause harm to others."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker thinks it was okay since they didn't get hurt",
"this is rude and very unethical",
"They take no responsibility."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9wuhpm | 3,944 | 2 | true |
Do you know how Chris Brown's girlfriend found out that he had been cheating on her? She found another girl's lipstick on his fist | I can't believe you would make jokes about domestic violence. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is offensive and harmful to joke about domestic violence.",
"It's never funny to joke about domestic violence .",
"You shouldn't be making jokes about domestic violence."
] | sbic | 3,945 | 0 | false | |
It's not hard to read about stuff. It happened in a club. | There are women who are beaten everyday and can't escape their relationships. How would you feel if your mother was beaten? | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is explaining why they think it's ok to joke about abuse.",
"Speaker defends himself by saying domestic violence happens and is written about everywhere.",
"Speaker showing no remorse for what they said."
] | sbic | 3,945 | 1 | true | |
Being unwanted by femoids makes me hate them, and I want to hurt them because of it. Physically and/or mentally and/or emotionally. | Is this a joke or do you really believe what you are saying about women? | [
"It's wrong to think women are vein and only date attractive men"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It is repugnant to desire to harm others.",
"You shouldn't threaten to harm women.",
"You shouldn't hurt women just because they don't like you in a romantic way."
] | sbic | 3,946 | 0 | false | |
Women are just fucking overrated. I mean if you don't fit their standard then they will just ignore you and go for the next tier. That's what makes me hate them. | Some women (and men) are quite shallow indeed. But that comment applies that to all women, which is a hurtful stereotype. | [
"It's wrong to think women are vein and only date attractive men"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"They share their intense hate towards women.",
"It's wrong to be hostile towards women.",
"Says they hate women people they ignore men they don't like."
] | sbic | 3,946 | 1 | true | |
I wish I could just stab someone and get away with it. | Why would you want to hurt someone? There are no good reasons I can find. | [
"It's not healthy to fantasize about killing somebody",
"It's not normal for society to condone killing people"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker has dangerous wishes.",
"Harm to others",
"Speaker wants to stab someone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/etwqml | 3,947 | 0 | false |
I have my reasons, but you don't need to know about them. | It is wrong and disturbing to want to stab people for no reason and get away with it. You should seek mental help before you hurt someone. | [
"You should get professional help if you're thinking of hurting others.",
"It's wrong to want to be violent towards others."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker's response is somewhat unclear and doesn't make much sense.",
"Casual conversation",
"Still seems okay with stabbing someone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/etwqml | 3,947 | 1 | false |
What? Why would I go get help for this? I'm going to stab someone. | If you don't find help and go through with it, then your life will be changed in a very negative way forever. Your friends and family will stop supporting you and you will be alone for the rest of your days. | [
"It's ok to stop supporting someone who is violent.",
"You should get help if you have violent thoughts."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker rejects critique.",
"Casual conversation",
"Speaker is unwilling to get help"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/etwqml | 3,947 | 2 | true |
TIL that in 2009 OkCupid statistics showed that women rate 80% of men "below average" | Do you believe that? | [
"It's not right to think women are shallow"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's risky to judge women based on a dating site.",
"You shouldn't believe things that you read online without researching it completely.",
"It can be deceiving to believe statistics at face value."
] | sbic | 3,948 | 0 | false | |
Not good enough for a woman to date, not good enough to live. | I don't think it's nice to assume all women are shallow. Of course I acknowledge some are, but so are men. That is born from a false stereotype. | [
"It's not right to think women are shallow"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's sexist self-pity to imply women don't think men are good enough to live.",
"The speaker is suggesting that all women are shallow minded.",
"Takes stats to heart and believes women are very high maintenance which is hurtful."
] | sbic | 3,948 | 1 | true | |
I think I have a crush on my boss and that makes me a terrible person | How does that make you a terrible person? | [
"It's wrong to think you're a terrible person."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They are having inappropriate feelings about a superior at work.",
"The speaker is expressing feelings about a crush.",
"Speaker believes their feelings for their boss is wrong."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a7km8n | 3,949 | 0 | false |
I always want to impress her in every way possible | You can't really help who you like. It definitely doesn't make you a terrible person regardless. | [
"You shouldn't feel bad about being attracted to another adult."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"They are not behaving appropriately at work if they only want to impress their boss to be noticed romantically.",
"The speaker is behaving differently around their boss due to the crush which is rude.",
"Speaker believes wanting to impress someone makes them a bad person."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a7km8n | 3,949 | 1 | false |
The fact that I like her means that I have a crush on her. | Crushes can happen to you when you least expect it. As long as you don't act on an inappropriate work related crush you shouldn't feel bad! | [
"It's wrong to act on an inappropriate crush.",
"It's understandable to sometimes develop inappropriate romantic feelings towards another adult."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"They are not acknowledging that it isn't appropriate to be having these feelings in the workplace.",
"The situation has not changed.",
"Speaker thinks their actions mean their feelings are romantic."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a7km8n | 3,949 | 2 | true |
I'm going to avoid my stinky niece | Why are you trying to avoid her though? | [
"You shouldn't avoid your family members."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's okay to avoid smelly people, thought it would be better to talk to her or her parent (if she's a minor).",
"It's mean to avoid a relative because they smell bad and it's mean to call someone stinky.",
"It shouldn't outright avoid your niece"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3hpyq | 3,950 | 0 | false |
Because I'm a sensible person, I can't stand her smell anymore | That is your cute little niece. You should not avoid her just because she smells bad. Maybe you can help her so that she won't stink anymore. | [
"It's rude to avoid your own family for superficial reasons.",
"It's good to help people practice good hygiene."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"speaker's justification doesn't consider acting helpfully instead",
"The speaker is being overly critical and should have a conversation with the niece"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3hpyq | 3,950 | 1 | false |
She is not cute and why I should help her with her smell. I'm just trying to stay away from her. | It's insensitive to talk about babies in this way. It's normal for them stink. As I said you should clean her up so she won't stink. | [
"You should be gentle when speaking to children.",
"It's good to help children."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to think this way about a baby.",
"speaker insults relative and dismisses critique and advice to be helpful",
"The speaker refuses to see reason and is being ignorant towards their niece"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3hpyq | 3,950 | 2 | true |
I wish I could forget my dad's birthday every year | Why do you want to forget his birthday? | [
"It's okay to not remember someone's birthday every year."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is rude to forget parent' birthdays",
"It's hurtful to want to forget a parents birthday.",
"The speaker is being hurtful to their dad."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,951 | 0 | false | |
Just because I can, and to get back at him for not caring about me at all I guess | It can be hard to feel happy for his birthday if he wasn't always there for you. You shouldn't feel that you need to be glad about the occasion, but you should at least remember the date. | [
"You should not ignore people's birthdays"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker wants to get back at father",
"Saying they want to do it for revenge.",
"It's hurtful to do something mean just because you can."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,951 | 1 | false | |
It's fine. I'm going to forget his birthday and listen to my mother tell me how awful I am every year. | You are aware that forgetting your dad's birthday will cause your mother grief as well, and I hope that isn't your intention. Perhaps your mother also didn't give you the care you needed, but deliberately forgetting birthdays is just worsening the situation. You should just be polite and civil, even if you don't make a... | [
"You should not try to cause grief for your close family members",
"Family members should at least be civil with one another"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker shows no remorse or will to change",
"Saying they are going to do it.",
"It's going to cause conflicts with the speakers parents if he acts this way."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,951 | 2 | true | |
I am going to hate the family I'm going to marry into | Are you planning to do something to ruin the family? | [
"It's bad to hate family members."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"there could be a good reason not to like the family",
"they are musing about hating their family",
"It's unfortunate for a person to hate their extended family."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/979qse | 3,952 | 0 | false |
Yes, I plan to do something bad to the family, but I also want to keep my wife happy. So there's that. | You should not hate your gf's family. She loves you and wants you to care about your new family. | [
"It's hurtful to hate your partner's family whom your partner expects you to love."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"planning to hurt the family in some way",
"they want to harm their family",
"Doing something bad to a family is wrong."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/979qse | 3,952 | 1 | false |
I will just not stay in contact with her family. | But family is family, wouldn't you agree? How is your wife going to think if you already hate the people that she loves? I think it would be nice to try to get along with your wife as a mediator between all of you! | [
"You shouldn't hate your partner's beloved family.",
"You should try to be a nice in-law and be considerate of your partner's feelings."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"decides to stay away from family to avoid conflict maybe",
"they want to ignore family",
"Speaker seems confused about the family and has said they plan on doing something bad to it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/979qse | 3,952 | 2 | true |
Why is beer like violence? I like both of them domestic. | Are you implying that you support domestic violence? | [
"You shouldn't think women deserve to get hurt"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it's terrible to joke about domestic violence",
"You shouldn't even joke about being in support of violence against women",
"You shouldn't make jokes about domestic violence"
] | sbic | 3,953 | 0 | false | |
Both of them are awesome and worth spending hours and slurring my words to. | I don't think it's okay to joke around about violence towards women. What if someone you loved had violence acted upon them, wouldn't you be upset? | [
"You shouldn't joke about violence",
"You should consider how things would feel if they happened to people you care about"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker continues with their disturbing joke",
"Continuation of previous label",
"still trying to joke about domestic violence"
] | sbic | 3,953 | 1 | false | |
This was just a joke, and I think my metaphor was perfect! Don't you think so? | I think it's a hurtful metaphor that shouldn't be used. Supporting domestic abuse is wrong, and trivializing the experiences of women is rooted in ignorance. You should try being more supportive instead. | [
"You should educate yourself",
"It is wrong to ignore the trauma of others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker thinks they aren't saying anything offensive",
"Speaker now announces that he actually thinks these things",
"still trying to joke about domestic violence"
] | sbic | 3,953 | 2 | true | |
I couldn't really move my elbow after a few days | Why couldn't you move your elbow? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It sounds like they had an injury.",
"not sure what happened",
"Speaker states they couldn't move my elbow after a few days."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/38ee1e91-d95b-4130-a8ad-0a4eb012aa39/sentence3 | 3,954 | 0 | false |
I injured it, then I was sleeping on it, that's why it's so sore. | You should always visit a doctor if you are having elbow pain. You need to make sure to take care of yourself. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"explaining how it happened",
"Speaker states they injured it by sleeping on it, which is why it's so sore."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/38ee1e91-d95b-4130-a8ad-0a4eb012aa39/sentence3 | 3,954 | 1 | false |
I don't think it would be such a big deal if I hadn't slept on it. | Maybe so, but it sounds like you can't really be sure. Injuries can become a lot worse if they aren't treated promptly. I'd suggest getting it checked out, just to be safe. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This just seems like a benign conversation.",
"understands why it might have happened",
"Speaker states they don't think it would be such a big deal if they hadn't slept on it."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/38ee1e91-d95b-4130-a8ad-0a4eb012aa39/sentence3 | 3,954 | 2 | true |
I wish I had a new wax tech | Is there something wrong with your current waxing tech? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Ok to seek new tech",
"the speaker wants a new waxer",
"They want a new wax tech"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,955 | 0 | false | |
She's so slow. I don't have time to wait for her to be finished. | Wanting to get your waxing done in a timely manner is completely understandable. You're paying for a service and it's your money so of course you should be able to chose who you want for your waxing. I hope a person suitable for you is available. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"OK to switch to faster one",
"their current waxer is too slow for their liking",
"The person they have now is too slow"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,955 | 1 | false | |
I really think that you should need to be licensed to do this and someone isn't reliable or skilled we should get a different one. | Yeah, it would be really risky to have someone wax you that isn't certified! Always be sure to check one's credentials so you can get the best service. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is perfectly acceptable",
"they believe the job should require a license to operate so the waxer would be reliable",
"They still think they need to be replaced"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,955 | 2 | true | |
Destiny's Child song "Say My Name" is the insecure bitches anthem. | Do you not like their music? Why do you think this? | [
"It's not right to think women are bitches"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to call women bitches.",
"It's offensive to call women bitches.",
"it's offensive to use derogatory terms for women"
] | sbic | 3,956 | 0 | false | |
Because they are bitches, they think they are fucking superior to all men. | I don't see a reason why a song would make a woman a bitch. Many people like their music and live normal lives. Do you think you should meet new people? | [
"It's not right to think women are bitches"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker has anger towards women.",
"It's offensive to call women bitches.",
"speaker admits to having misogynistic viewpoints about women"
] | sbic | 3,956 | 1 | true | |
Can I yell at my mom for not making any dish for the weekend? | That sounds extreme. Why do you want to yell at your mother for not making any dish for the weekend? | [
"It is rude to yell at others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to yell at a parent",
"It's not nice to be mean toward your parents.",
"You shouldn't yell at parents."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awnlmp | 3,957 | 0 | false |
She is such a bitch and she doesn't care about my best friend who just came from abroad. | Even though you may have a good reason for not liking what your mother has done, you should not yell at her. It is inconsiderate and rude to yell at someone just because you do not like what they did. | [
"It's bad to yell at your parents."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Justifying the conflict",
"Speaker has very strong and mean opinions of their loved ones.",
"Speaker calls her a bitch and yells at her."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awnlmp | 3,957 | 1 | false |
Who cares? She will be fine if I yell at her since she can take it. | It is just rude to yell at somebody, especially if your friend was there. She might have been embarrassed to hear people yelling at each other. | [
"It's bad to yell at someone when there is another person there."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Rejecting the advice",
"Speaker rejects the advice wholesale.",
"Speaker is going to yell anyway."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awnlmp | 3,957 | 2 | true |
No lie, I'd have some big ol tiddies if I was a girl | What makes you think that you would have such large breasts? | [
"Objectifying women's body parts is disrespectful"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker thinking about their breast size if they were a girl",
"Speaker is okay for wanting this",
"The speaker is talking about sexual topics in a lewd way"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/az0iaz | 3,958 | 0 | false |
I don't know, but they'd be some big ol tiddies. Definitely a bit under 30D | I guess thinking about something like that isn't too weird but the way you're talking about it is pretty disrespectful. You could have used some more appropriate language at least so it didn't sound so bad. | [
"You shouldn't talk about things in a disrespectful way.",
"It's good to use language that's appropriate."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuation of previous label",
"Continued from past dialogue",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/az0iaz | 3,958 | 1 | false |
I'm not trying to be a fucking cunt, it's just a fact. | I get that you are saying how you feel but I think that there are kinder ways of saying that. It is not very kind to objectify body parts like that, it can come off a little vulgar. | [
"It's good to find a kinder way to say things.",
"You shouldn't be vulgar."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker becomes defensive and uses profanity",
"Speaker is being rude by saying curse words here",
"The speaker comes off as ignorant and is not listening to reason"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/az0iaz | 3,958 | 2 | true |
I'm going to call someone who brought up how depressed they are without prior context. What an attention whore. | why do you think they are an attention whore? | [
"People will think you're cruel if you nitpick someone who's depressed."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is hurtful towards someone who's depressed.",
"Speaker is calling someone names",
"Insensitive to someone dealing with depression"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ar071d | 3,959 | 0 | false |
I think attention whores are annoying, this person is probably acting sad since everyone likes to hear about other people's misery. | People who are always seeking attention can be annoying but it is not good to think they are on just because they said they were depressed. People will think you are mean if you are mean to somebody that is depressed. | [
"It's wrong to think that depressed people are just seeking attention.",
"You shouldn't be mean to a depressed person."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is convinced someone is pretending to have depression for attention.",
"Still talking about the person they don’t like",
"Still insensitive to someone with depression"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ar071d | 3,959 | 1 | false |
What is mean in that. If I feel like reacting this way, I will. | You should be more understanding and considerate to people. I'll help you in a long run. Try to get t know such people better, definitely it will change your perspective. | [
"You should be understanding when people are ill."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Not receptive to advice, speaker won't change their opinion or hear otherwise.",
"Speaker seems not to want to change their attitude",
"Doesn't see anything wrong in insulting someone with depression"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ar071d | 3,959 | 2 | true |
I'm going to give him the talk | Why do you think you need to give him the talk? Do you think it is just because of his age? | [
"It's good to have a talk about responsibility with a child."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's okay to talk to someone about sex.",
"They are going to talk to someone",
"they want to give a lewd talk"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3i06o | 3,960 | 0 | false |
I think that's a personal question to ask. | While discussing sex with a family member going through puberty can be awkward, it's something that should be done so that person can become more responsible and not risk contracting an STD or getting someone pregnant. It's good to be open and frank with your family members so that they know can come to you with any pr... | [
"You should have open communication about sex with your children."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They just don't want to talk about it anymore.",
"They aren't giving details",
"they want to give a lewd talk and be rude about it"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3i06o | 3,960 | 1 | false |
I take this seriously and I don't think I have time for this. Let's talk about something else. | I am glad you are taking it seriously. That is really the most important thing is that you are involved. | [
"It's important to take conversations with your children seriously."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same.",
"They still aren't clear",
"they want to stop talking"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3i06o | 3,960 | 2 | true |
I retract - always . Always because an animal lacks the skills to properly raise a human child . | I really don't care for what you're saying about black people. | [
"It's not right to think black people are like animals"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make racist assumptions about someones child rearing.",
"You shouldn't equate black people to animals.",
"You shouldn't be racist."
] | sbic | 3,961 | 0 | false | |
It's my opinion and I'm entitled to it. | Whether one has a particular entitlement or right is irrelevant to whether one's assertion is true or false. The assertion of the right to an opinion side-steps the usual steps of discourse of either asserting a justification of that belief, or an argument against the validity of the objection. | [
"It's not right to think black people are like animals"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker stubbornly refuses to think otherwise.",
"Says their entitled to their opinion.",
"Says it's just their opinion."
] | sbic | 3,961 | 1 | true | |
She started spreading rumors about me after that. | Why has she been spreading rumors about you? | [
"You shouldn't let someone spread rumors about you."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker indicates they are being harmed by rumors.",
"Knowing someone gossiped about them.",
"Friendly conversation so far."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/56277b3e-1122-434f-b460-eee4936f84ef/sentence4 | 3,962 | 0 | false |
She must be crazy. She was always very abusive and was doing things like this that never made sense to me. | You should confront her about these rumors. It's not okay to let someone talk badly about you to everyone or they might think it's true. you should be careful if you think she is dangerous. | [
"You should not allow others to spread false rumors"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker further explains harm that was done.",
"Seeing someone for who they are.",
"Friendly and honest conversation."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/56277b3e-1122-434f-b460-eee4936f84ef/sentence4 | 3,962 | 1 | false |
She started bullying me first and I just wanted to defend myself, so I bullied her back. I'm not okay with getting pushed around like that. | It is good to stand up for yourself but it is wrong to bully others. If you are having problems it might be good to tell someone else what is going on. | [
"You should never resort to bullying someone",
"You should try to settle disputes calmly"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker does not seem to resolve but rather accept bad situation.",
"Not being afraid of bullies.",
"This is just friendly and honest conversation."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/56277b3e-1122-434f-b460-eee4936f84ef/sentence4 | 3,962 | 2 | true |
I want to wake up from the nightmare of my ex-wife having a new boyfriend. | How do you feel about your ex-wife having a boyfriend? | [
"It's good to move on when you get out of a relationship.",
"It's understandable to be jealous of your ex's new partner."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"talking about their nightmare.",
"Expresses reasonable emotions to a big breakup.",
"Being unhappy about an ex who has a new relationship."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1jg7vi | 3,963 | 0 | false |
It makes me feel so down. I'm feeling so depressed. It's so hard to be in this situation. I'm not coping very well with it at all. | It's understandable that you still have some feelings for your ex-wife and that her new relationship is making you feel jealous. However, you have to realize that your marriage is over and you have to move on and stop thinking of what your ex-wife does or doesn't do. If you need help coping with the situation, you shou... | [
"It's good to move on from old relationships.",
"It's good to seek professional help for dealing with difficult emotions."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"not able to move on from the previous relationship.",
"Admits to being in a bad place emotionally, may be at risk.",
"Feeling very down with the news of an ex having a relationship, being depressed."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1jg7vi | 3,963 | 1 | false |
Why are you shaming me? | There is no shame in having lingering feelings or seeking outside help to get over them. Divorces can be traumatic to all parties involved. Sometimes we need others to help us understand out feelings about these events so that we can heal. | [
"It's okay to struggle emotionally after a breakup."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker seems to be offended by the critique.",
"Believes that speaker gray's advice is hostile and not helpful which is rude.",
"Accusing the advice-giver to be shaming the speaker, not accepting their advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1jg7vi | 3,963 | 2 | true |
I've been starving myself | Why are you doing that? | [
"It is bad to starve yourself"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't starve yourself.",
"it's dangerous to engage in disordered eating",
"You shouldn't starve yourself."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ezkoym | 3,964 | 0 | false |
Probably because I am annoyed with myself | It is okay to feel annoyed at yourself if you've done something wrong, but taking it out on your body by not eating is overreacting. You could get really sick and end up in the hospital. | [
"It is dangerous to starve yourself",
"You should not punish yourself too harshly"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't starve yourself.",
"speaking is talking about having an eating disorder/self-harm",
"Explains why they're starving themselves."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ezkoym | 3,964 | 1 | false |
Maybe I'm hoping to get a boyfriend out of the deal. Did that seem sensible? | I'm afraid that I don't find that sensible. Your body is a natural shape, and you need a certain amount of nourishment to survive. Trying to get too skinny will only attract shallow men, and the costs to yourself are way too high. | [
"You should not try to change your body's natural shape",
"You need to make sure that you get enough food each day"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"ignoring the feedback",
"speaker is still alking about having an eating disorder/self-harm",
"Continues conversation without mentioning stopping starving themselves."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ezkoym | 3,964 | 2 | true |
We need to amplify the White Supremacy meme. Basically, constantly start calling every Alt Liter, Libertarian, and Normie-Con a White Supremacist. Create fake accounts on Twitter to harass normie right-wingers. Twitter won't ban you cause they protect Leftists | I really don't find your views on race relations to be very comfortable. Why are you saying this to me? | [
"It's not right to think whites use \"white pride\""
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't assume that twitter is taking sides by comparing white supremacists to leftists.",
"you shouldn't harass people",
"It's wrong to harass people based on their political beliefs"
] | sbic | 3,965 | 0 | false | |
I am saying White Supremacists are being disarmed and unable to defend themselves because they fear being labeled a White Supremacist. | Whiteness is an artificial sociological construct which has been used throughout history to exclude certain groups of people from the rights guaranteed others and to justify bigoted attitudes. It's perfectly OK to celebrate your heritage without being a racist. | [
"You shouldn't think artificial sociological constructs are valid.",
"It's good to celebrate your heritage if you can do it without being racist."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains they believe white supremacists are not able to defend themselves because they are afraid of being labeled as such.",
"you shouldn't defend white supremacists",
"seems to be expressing sympathy for racist beliefs"
] | sbic | 3,965 | 1 | false | |
Whiteness is just a bunch of white people. Also explain how "Whsitle Supremacists" are racist towards whites. | They are not, that is the opposite. But I think you need to rethink how you talk about white supremacy. | [
"You should rethink opinions if they're wrong."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker tries to explain they believe that white supremacists are incapable of being racist towards white people.",
"speaker has not changed their mind",
"still seems to be expressing sympathy for racist beliefs"
] | sbic | 3,965 | 2 | true | |
I told my parents a kid stabbed me in the face with a pencil during recess. It was a lie and probably ruined his life for a bit. | Are you serious? why would you lie about something like that? | [
"It's wrong to turn in people for actions they didn't commit."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the speaker lied about someone stabbing them and acknowledged that lie probably ruined this persons life",
"It is harmful to lie about being stabbed in the face",
"Because the speaker admits to spreading a lie that could get someone else in big trouble."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cb6672 | 3,966 | 0 | false |
Because I want to get attention. I'll feel so much better after I told a lie. And it's a sweet revenge for a while. | Stabbing someone is a crime, and lying about it could harm them. It is very long to lie about something so serious. | [
"You should never make false accusations against others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the lie was told to gain attention and for revenge",
"It is rude to lie about getting injured in order to get attention",
"The speaker continues to speak about the merits of harming someone else's life unnecessarily."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cb6672 | 3,966 | 1 | false |
So what, I have no idea how the kid will react to it. | It will probably be very hard on him and his parents. It is wrong to turn in people for actions that they didn't commit. You should apologize and come forward about what you said. | [
"You should make amends for any deception you have engaged in in the past"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they trivialize their actions as no big deal",
"This is rude because the kid is probably going to get in trouble for something that he didn't do",
"Speaker is still explaining how the situation will work out for him."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cb6672 | 3,966 | 2 | true |
I am going to submit this piece of work on my own behalf instead of giving my partner credit. | Did your partner and you do equal amounts of work? | [
"It is dishonest to take credit for work that you did not do on your own."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to do this.",
"this is unethical to not give other people credit",
"Not giving partner credit for work."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b0a5uf | 3,967 | 0 | false |
Well they actually did most of the work. | If your partners did most of the work on your project, then taking credit without them will upset them greatly and make you look like a bad person. You should instead go back and revise your work to reflect everyone's contribution on the final product. | [
"Taking credit for someone else's work is unethical.",
"It's appropriate to give all contributors credit."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's especially wrong if they did all the work.",
"this is even more unethical if the other person did most of the work",
"Having partner do most of the work."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b0a5uf | 3,967 | 1 | false |
They didn't give me credit in the first place. I'm getting passive aggressive with them. | While it is annoying that they weren't giving you credit in the first place, does that not upset you? Why would you want them to feel that same anger and disappointment? | [
"It's stupid to be passive aggressive to make a point.",
"You shouldn't treat people in ways you wouldn't want to be treated."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are making excuses for their behavior.",
"speaker is not sorry",
"Saying they are being passive agressive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b0a5uf | 3,967 | 2 | true |
What's do alcoholics and necrophiliacs have in common. They both like opening a cold one. | Are you talking about having sex with dead people? | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its rude to joke around about necrophilia",
"It's lewd and hurtful to joke about sex with the dead.",
"You shouldn't make jokes about necrophilia."
] | sbic | 3,968 | 0 | false | |
I'm just joking dude. I assume that you know that's a joke, right? | Sexual assault is damaging to a person and joking about it can trigger a person. Making light about it even by making fun of having sex with a dead person who cannot consent can be hurtful, just like you would be hurt if people made a joke about something that caused you pain. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker admits its a joke",
"speaker thinks joking about necrophilia is funny",
"You shouldn't use jokes to excuse saying something offensive."
] | sbic | 3,968 | 1 | true | |
Should I tell my friend's parents about her relationship as revenge? | I'm certain your friend would be miserable if you told on her. Why do you want to do that? | [
"It's bad to take revenge on someone."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to try to get revenge on people.",
"It's passive/aggressive to be this way",
"It's rude to expose a friend to their parents."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,969 | 0 | false | |
I want to see her miserable because she got me unhappy on purpose | Even though your friend is in the wrong for intentionally trying to make you unhappy, it isn't right to seek revenge on her by telling her parents about her relationship. Two wrongs do not make a right. | [
"It's wrong to tell on a friend in order to get revenge.",
"It's expected that friends treat each other well even when they have a disagreement."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains why they're trying to get revenge.",
"Now this is escalated into hostility",
"Speaker explains why they want to expose friend."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,969 | 1 | false | |
It wouldn't bother me as much if I never got angry. I can't talk to her. | If you are upset at your friend's behavior, you should talk to her and try to resolve the issues that have come up between you two and make a sincere effort to be on good terms again. | [
"It's good to communicate with a friend in order to resolve a disagreement."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't apologize for desire to seek revenge.",
"No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued.",
"Speaker explains why they can't talk to friend."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,969 | 2 | true | |
why did the redneck cross the road ? he could n't get his dick out of the chicken . | Are you joking about southerners hurting their farm animals? | [
"It's not right to joke about rednecks fornicating with animals"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive to joke about a redneck having sex with a chicken.",
"It's rude to perpetuate a cultural stereotype.",
"You shouldn't make jokes about bestiality."
] | sbic | 3,970 | 0 | false | |
No, it's just a joke about rednecks having some fun on the farm. | It's not okay to assume southerners approve of having sex with animals. People of that region aren't inherently immoral of deviants. They'd be upset and insulted to hear such stereotypes being passed around about them. | [
"It's not right to joke about rednecks fornicating with animals"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Hard to tell what the speaker means with this comment.",
"The speaker tries to justify their previous statement.",
"You shouldn't make jokes about bestiality or regional groups of people."
] | sbic | 3,970 | 1 | true | |
I spread the disease because there was no cure | That's a horrible thing to do. Did you enjoy spreading the disease? | [
"If you are very sick, you should get a second opinion."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to spread the disease to make other people sick.",
"You shouldn't spread disease.",
"You shouldn't spread diseases."
] | ethics_amt | 3,971 | 0 | false | |
I like it. It's exciting and fun. | It is not good to want to spread a disease because you feel helpless, you should get more opinions to see if somebody else can help. Otherwise you might die. | [
"It is wrong to spread illness around",
"You should get medical help if you are sick"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to get excitement from harming other people.",
"don't spead disease.",
"Speaker talks about enjoying spreading diseases."
] | ethics_amt | 3,971 | 1 | false | |
I am already a vampire so I can't die. | Vampires don't exist. You need to get medical help and stop spreading what you have. | [
"If you are having delusional thoughts, you should seek help",
"It is wrong to willfully harm others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's ridiculous to believe that you are a vampire and it makes you immortal.",
"ignoring the feedback",
"Speaker expresses the belief that they are a vampire."
] | ethics_amt | 3,971 | 2 | true | |
Being a semi-professional photographer, I took a picture of my friend and post processed it for free. She then edited the picture without my permission and posted it on her social media so I got angry at her. | Why did you postprocess the picture for free? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker describes a reasonable social situation.",
"If you gave it to her you gave her permission to use it",
"Speaker is upset their friend stole their photo and put it on social media."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,972 | 0 | false | |
I wanted to be nice. | That was kind of you to process them without charge and your current frustration is understandable. The edits alter your work and are no longer a true representation. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker shows consideration for others.",
"You gave her the picture you anticipated she would display it",
"Speaker wanted to be nice."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,972 | 1 | false | |
I have ignored her multiple times. I think I should just let the situation go. | You can let the situation go if you want, but removing the post is fine, too. She did it without your permission when it was your property, so it is up to you what you do. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker intends to take a reasonable response to situation.",
"Good prosocial decision",
"Speaker ignored her and will just let it go."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,972 | 2 | true | |
He's crying and I can't stop laughing. | Did you think this would be funny? | [
"It's understandable that some people over react to things."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't laugh while someone else is crying.",
"Speaker states her while her friend cried over a movie, she couldn't stop laughing.",
"It's cruel to laugh at someone's misery."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e74vso | 3,973 | 0 | false |
No, I wasn't. I thought the film was a sad one. | I hope you enjoyed the movie. It's okay that you had a different reaction to the movie as your friend. Just understand that his reaction is a valid one also. | [
"It's normal to have different reactions than others when viewing a film"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It seems hurtful to laugh when someone else is experiencing pain.",
"Speaker states she thought the film was sad.",
"The context actually seems innocent enough now."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e74vso | 3,973 | 1 | false |
I really hope I don't get murdered after this. | Why would you get murdered? Just talk to you friend, explain that you weren't trying to make fun of him, you just thought the movie was funny and not sad. | [
"It's good to let your friend know how you feel"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker seems worried that there is a chance that they'll be murdered.",
"Speaker states she hopes she doesn't get murdered after this.",
"Speaker is just being hyperbolic."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e74vso | 3,973 | 2 | true |
Wow! I completely lost track of time and I haven't actually washed my calves in years. | Are you serious about not washing up for that long? Why don't you wash your calves? | [
"It's important to take care of personal hygiene."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's wrong to not at least keep minimum hygiene.",
"This probably wasn't causing any harm or offense",
"It's wrong to neglect hygiene which can cause health problems."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/7ypliu | 3,974 | 0 | false |
You won't understand, but you could come wash my calves | You should be doing that for yourself. Washing yourself properly is something everyone should do. | [
"You should take care of your hygiene"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's not right to not only wash your calves but ask random people to do it for you.",
"It's rude to proposition someone in this way",
"Wants gray to come wash for them, which is inconsiderate and lazy."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/7ypliu | 3,974 | 1 | false |
I asked you to wash them for me. | You should be able to take care of washing yourself on your own. I would suggest a good soak to get everything cleaned up. Then remember how great it feels to be so clean if you start neglecting yourself again. | [
"It's good to take responsibility for yourself and your wellbeing",
"It's good to reflect on the positive reasons for continuing good behavior"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is being kind of creepy.",
"Continuation of previous label",
"Tries to assert an authoritative stance, which is conceited and rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/7ypliu | 3,974 | 2 | true |
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