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I find her plain and dull, she doesn't know anything I really care about | If you think you're not attracted to your gf anymore you shouldn't continue your relationship. It's ok to break up with her if you're not happy. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"polite discussion",
"They are just giving their reason for no longer feeling attracted",
"Speaker shares about their girlfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bzarhv | 4,544 | 1 | false |
I'm ready to break up with her. | I think breaking up with her may be the best thing. You should let her move on and have a chance to find happiness and someone that truly wants her. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"they had a civil discussion",
"They are acknowledging the advice",
"Speaker accepts critique and will break up with girlfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bzarhv | 4,544 | 2 | true |
I'm attracted to my cousin | What has made you realize that you are attracted to your cousin? | [
"It is bad to have incest relations."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's lewd to be attracted to your cousin.",
"Incestuous thoughts engaged in by speaker.",
"Person is describing how they feel about their cousin."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ca4mb1 | 4,545 | 0 | false |
Well, there is nobody else I am attracted to. | I understand your feelings and it may be that you just haven't met the right person yet. It is bad to have incest relations, but maybe what you have is just a crush because you are around each other so much. | [
"It's bad to be interested in a relative sexually.",
"It's good to meet someone else to be with."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker provides unreasonable justification for lewd thoughts.",
"Attempts at justification of incestuous thoughts made by speaker.",
"Person is only attracted to their cousin, which could lead to unacceptable behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ca4mb1 | 4,545 | 1 | false |
I'm going to have sex with my cousin. | This is not really a good idea. You should keep from having sex with members of your family as it can be dangerous to reproduce. | [
"It's bad to have sex with a member of your family."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker does not indicate they will change their behavior.",
"Speaker suggest incestuous sexual relations.",
"Person indicates they want to have improper relations, with their cousin, which is unacceptable behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ca4mb1 | 4,545 | 2 | true |
I have a penpal on death row and only a couple of people know about it because I just can't be bothered with dealing with the reactions when I tell them. | How did you end up with a penpal in jail? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to have a secret pen pal.",
"The person is not hurting anyone",
"Doesn't seem too worrisome"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8aa14s | 4,546 | 0 | false |
He made me laugh and he could tell stories that really got to me. | It is strange to have a penpal who is on death row but not wrong, but if you think people will misunderstand it is okay not to tell them. Maybe you could tell them if you explain your reasons. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to have a secret pen pal.",
"although something that might cause others to feel negative, this is harmless",
"Still seems fine"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8aa14s | 4,546 | 1 | false |
I don't really want to explain myself. The whole point of me having a penpal is to vent and complain. The rest of the world won't understand how I feel. | If you are so sure that you want to keep the pen pal to yourself, then you do not need to tell people about it. It is none of their business who you write to. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to have a secret pen pal.",
"this is not common, but ok",
"Reasonable response"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8aa14s | 4,546 | 2 | true |
What does it mean if I hate most people? | Do you want to hurt them? | [
"If you hate most people, you should get some therapy.",
"You shouldn't hate people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's not okay to hate most people",
"hating people is not healthy",
"Speaker is expressing broad negativity toward people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/632ta2 | 4,547 | 0 | false |
No, I just want to keep distance away because it's pleasant and easy. | Get some help if you hate people. That's wrong to go through life hating others. It destroys you. | [
"It's not good to dislike people."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's okay to keep your distance from people you dislike",
"speaker is not regretful for hating people",
"Speaker is expressing broad negativity toward people and is self-isolating."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/632ta2 | 4,547 | 1 | false |
Like anger management? Or any other self improvement stuff. | You just need to go speak to some sort of therapist to find out your issues with others, because it isn't normal to hate most people. Typically there's a reason for that and they may be able to help you. | [
"It's good to talk with a therapeutic person who will figure things out.",
"It's wrong to hate on most people."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Engaging in getting help",
"speaker seems open to getting help",
"Speaker is asking for advice but hasn't shown any indications of change."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/632ta2 | 4,547 | 2 | true |
I want to focus on work while at work | Where do you work and what type of work do you do? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker wants to focus on work while at work",
"It's good to focus on your work when it's time for you to be at work.",
"Speaker is stating a work goal."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1iqqa | 4,548 | 0 | false |
I work in an office doing billing for a big company. | Being dedicated at work is good. If you want to focus, you should eliminate distractions in your workplace. You'll be able to focus better and be more productive. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker says they work in an office",
"It's good to work hard and be a responsible employee.",
"Speaker is stating a work goal."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1iqqa | 4,548 | 1 | false |
I can multitask. I can manage to play online, listen to music and do my work at the same time. | While you might be able to multitask, it's not good to play around online while you're supposed to be working. While at work you should do your best to concentrate on your responsibilities. | [
"You should not goof off at work."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker says they can multitask. This is a polite conversation.",
"At work you're expected to perform work tasks. Doing tasks unrelated to your job is unethical and disrespectful to your employeer.",
"Speaker is stating a work goal but may not take the steps to achieve it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1iqqa | 4,548 | 2 | true |
How about I eat my lunch at my desk at work so I can use my 30 minute lunch break to search for a new job on my phone. | Do you prefer to eat your lunch at your desk? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Just a normal complaint",
"They are using their own time to search for a job. Nothing really dangerous or unethical about it.",
"Seems causual. We don't know why they would want to search for a new job."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bg5qh1 | 4,549 | 0 | false |
No, I eat at my desk because I can't stand eating near my coworkers. | It's understandable that you want to be able to eat your lunch away from people you do not get along with. And It's wise to look for other career opportunities when your disatisfied with your job. | [
"Doing things you don't enjoy can have a negative impact on your happiness.",
"It's okay to search for a new job on your free time."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Reason was rude towards coworkers",
"It is reasonable that they don't like their coworkers, but could be rude.",
"They show bias against their coworkers."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bg5qh1 | 4,549 | 1 | false |
Great, there's no way I'll be able to find another job around here but at least I can eat my lunch in peace. | Even though it may be hard to find other jobs in your area, there is nothing wrong with looking. It may help you discover what you really want to do. | [
"Stay optimistic in life to avoid becoming depressed.",
"Keep searching for the things in life that make you happy."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker will continue with the behavior",
"wanting to eat lunch in peace is fine.",
"The content is not offensive in any way, it is just causual and polite."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bg5qh1 | 4,549 | 2 | true |
I want to take the carpool lane every day over the bridge as a solo driver. I really hope I don't get caught. | That seems unfair. Why are you doing this? | [
"It's wrong to use a carpool lane solo."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They express their desire to break the laws of traffic.",
"that's breaking the law",
"Immoral action."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/89bmu5 | 4,550 | 0 | false |
Because it is a quicker way to get to work | The carpool lane is designated for two or more people and your behavior is selfish. If everyone behaved as selfishly as you did then the carpool lane would not benefit anyone. Taking the carpool lane with one person in the car is against the law. | [
"You shouldn't break traffic laws.",
"You shouldn't try to get away with illegal activities."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They reinforce their illegal driving with selfish reasons.",
"and illegal",
"Immoral action."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/89bmu5 | 4,550 | 1 | false |
Uh, no. I'm sure I'm fine. | Well there is a high chance you will get caught and might have to pay a fine. Worst case scenario you have to do drivers ed again. The carpool is mean to help reduce traffic for people going to the same location. | [
"You should respect why a law is made.",
"You shouldn't do things that can get you in trouble with the law."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They ignore common sense and take no feedback.",
"ignoring the feedback",
"The speaker is being immoral."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/89bmu5 | 4,550 | 2 | true |
On my last day in the country my ex sneezed a bunch of mucus on me while we were kissing. Luckily I closed my mouth fast enough so nothing went in. | Have you thought about doing anything about what happened? | [
"You should cover your mouth when you sneeze."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's gross to sneeze on someone",
"speaker makes a socially acceptable comment",
"This was probably just accidental"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9t08rm | 4,551 | 0 | false |
I've thought of doing nothing about it and I let it go. | Though sneezing can be difficult to control, it was inappropriate of your ex to have sneezed on you and spread mucus on your face. People should always cover their mouths when they sneeze. It was good for you to have forgiven your ex and not hold what happened against them -- if it was an accident. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to let an accident go",
"speaker makes a socially acceptable comment",
"Violet acted responsibly"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9t08rm | 4,551 | 1 | false |
I was going to make a joke about strep throat. | It's important to clarify what happened. Before joking about it, you should make sure he wasn't being negligent. And if it wasn't an accident, you need to let him know how his behavior made you feel. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to joke about an accident",
"speaker makes a socially acceptable comment",
"Violet does not appear to have done anything wrong"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9t08rm | 4,551 | 2 | true |
I sometimes waste minutes trying to think of a good confession, find an okay one, then wonder why I'm so desperate for internet points. | Why do you need internet points? | [
"It is normal to want other people to approve of you",
"You shouldn't depend on other people's approval"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker may be inventing stories to get attention on the Internet.",
"speaker discusses a seemingly normal and not serious situation",
"Saying they try to think up good confessions and are desperate for internet points."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ec5pws | 4,552 | 0 | false |
It feels like something I need to constantly strive for, but never quite attain. I try the same thing over and over again, with no result. | Many people feel this way. It is not something you should waste your time on, there are better things to be doing. | [
"You should not spend too much time on things that are of no real benefit to you"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker admits to wasting their time and energy striving for the attention of others, which is harmful to their well-being.",
"speaker engages in polite conversation about a seemingly non-serious situation",
"Saying the won't be successful and what they keep trying to do."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ec5pws | 4,552 | 1 | false |
How can I live my life the way I want when I have to spend time to make all these confessions just to please others? | You do not have to spend time pleasing others like this. It is a never ending cycle that you cannot win. Try and find more ways to take up your time. | [
"You should not worry too much about pleasing strangers",
"You should find a truly rewarding hobby for yourself"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't seem to accept a critique, but they may be open to hearing more.",
"speaker continued discussing their confusing and odd predicament",
"Saying they don't know how to live their life doing what they do."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ec5pws | 4,552 | 2 | true |
I don't fit in my age group. Do I have to fit in? | Why do you feel you don't fit in? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker admits to having a hard time fitting in.",
"normal/standard",
"It's okay to not feel like you fit in to your age group. Everyone is mental age can be different."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bbv95p | 4,553 | 0 | false |
To be honest I'm sick and tired of being around immature people | If you think every one is immature you might be judging people too harshly. There are many kinds of people you can hang out with who are not immature. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker explains why they feel they don't fit in.",
"normal/standard",
"Provides further detail to why speaker feels the way speaker do"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bbv95p | 4,553 | 1 | false |
Well I am tired of being around retarded people. | People do not always fit in with all of the people of their life. It is fine to not be good friends but do try to get along. | [
"It's ok to not always fit in."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker calls people an insulting term.",
"ignoring the feedback",
"Speaker is somewhat pushing back and sticking to the idea that people in speakers age group are dumb. Also called people retarded which is insensitive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bbv95p | 4,553 | 2 | true |
How about I try to watch a movie in peace! | What movie were you planning to watch? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker makes casual conversation.",
"Good plan for an evening",
"They want to watch a movie"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5pjv2 | 4,554 | 0 | false |
I have found a movie called 'Penis Boy' that I really want to watch. | I can understand why you not want to be interrupted during your movie. It sounds risque you might not want others to know you are watching it. | [
"It is okay to enjoy explicit content in private"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's inappropriate to make lewd conversation.",
"As long as you are an adult you can watch porn as long as it is not child porn",
"They get lewd with the movie title"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5pjv2 | 4,554 | 1 | false |
Yeah, I don't want them to interrupt me for some silly reason. | Certain entertainment should be watched privately so it is best to make sure you alone for this. | [
"You shouldn't watch sensitive material in the presence of others"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't seem to understand the advice.",
"Makes sense",
"They are being passive aggressive about watching the movie"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5pjv2 | 4,554 | 2 | true |
I was startled and I slapped at it and it stung me. | Do you mean that a bee stung you? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"socially acceptable and casual conversation",
"Explaining a situation that happened to them",
"Seems like they got stung by a bug"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/764a36d0-2666-4471-9b98-546e2a23a311/sentence4 | 4,555 | 0 | false |
I was startled I didn't even know what kind of a bug it was. | It is not good to fight with a bee because they can sting you. You should try to identify a bug before slapping it. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"socially acceptable and casual conversation",
"Explaining why they try to swat the bug away",
"Friendly conversation about a bug"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/764a36d0-2666-4471-9b98-546e2a23a311/sentence4 | 4,555 | 1 | false |
Shit, I didn't know they could do that. | Of course it can and you need to steer clear of possible bees all of the time now. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"socially acceptable and casual conversation",
"Admits that they did not know it could cause themselves more harm",
"Still friendly conversation about bees"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/764a36d0-2666-4471-9b98-546e2a23a311/sentence4 | 4,555 | 2 | true |
Stupid fucking nigger LeBron. You flopping stupid jungle bunny monkey faggot. I can't stand that guy! | Does saying this make you feel better about yourself? | [
"Does using that language give you relief?"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't go wild with insults and slurs against others.",
"You shouldn't use racial slurs",
"You shouldn't use racial and offensive slurs like this."
] | sbic | 4,556 | 0 | false | |
Yeah it does a little bit. I just really hate that guy. | Dislike the man all you'd like, but please refrain from using such hateful, vulgar language. Would you want others to hear you saying that? | [
"Hate on him all you want, but ease up on the racist language."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Hating someone doesn't mean that you can speak about them in that way.",
"its wrong to call people names",
"They are justifying their poor language."
] | sbic | 4,556 | 1 | false | |
It makes me feel better when I use the NBA to vent. | You're free to vent, but if you want to use those words, I think it's best you keep it to yourself. | [
"I wouldn't vent like that to other people if I were you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"While it is okay to vent this was a very poor and racist way to do so.",
"You shouldn't use racial slurs to make a point",
"They are still making excuses."
] | sbic | 4,556 | 2 | true | |
I would much rather be high than sober. | Is there a reason that you would prefer to be high rather than sober? | [
"It is bad to be high all the time."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker violet is mentioning harmful behavior",
"Being high and doing drugs is an illegal activity.",
"Mention of drugs"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9gqbqp | 4,557 | 0 | false |
I'm distracted from the reality when I'm high. | You shouldn't disassociate from the reality. It's dangerous. Drugs will make your life miserable. | [
"You should avoid taking drugs that will make you feel removed from reality."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker violet is mentioning harmful behavior",
"Continues talking about an illegal activity.",
"Mention of drugs"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9gqbqp | 4,557 | 1 | false |
It's not like you are going to stop me, aight? | Well being high every now and then may not be the worse thing in the world, but if you do it too often than you will most likely negatively effect your life. You will start to rely on getting high as that will be your new normal. | [
"You should not do drugs so much that you become dependent on them."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker violet seems resistant to stopping harmful behavior",
"Continues talking about doing drugs.",
"Polite disagreements"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9gqbqp | 4,557 | 2 | true |
I'm ending my life in a month | Are you sure you want to end your life? | [
"If you plan to commit suicide, you should get some therapy.",
"You shouldn't give up on yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Plans to commit suicide.",
"Speaker is talking about killing themselves in the near future.",
"wants to commit suicide"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bk3sjq | 4,558 | 0 | false |
I haven't felt alive since my mother died, seven years ago | I'm sorry for your loss, I know losing someone you love can be very painful. Have you thought about how devastated your mother would be to know you took your life because of her? Have you considered counseling? | [
"It's wrong to commit suicide.",
"It's good to seek counseling if you are feeling suicidal."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Explaining why they want to end their life.",
"Speaker explains why they feel sad.",
"explaining why they want to do it"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bk3sjq | 4,558 | 1 | false |
Nah, I'm going to make my mother proud. She said I was perfect even though I was nothing. | I think that fighting through it is going to make her proud though. Don't give up on your fight, don't let the demons win. | [
"It's good to keep trying when you are feeling down and discouraged."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's unclear what they are trying to say here so continuing the red label.",
"Speaker seems to change their minds to make their mother proud, crisis averted.",
"still wants to go through with suicide"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bk3sjq | 4,558 | 2 | true |
Is it rape if we're both crying? Don't worry, I'm asking for a friend. Well, um, lawyer. In case you didn't get it, it's a joke. Do you think it was a good joke? | You do realize that people could be offended by that? It's a bit in poor taste and I don't really get it. | [
"It's not right to joke about women being raped"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Its in very poor taste to make a joke about being raped",
"You shouldn't make rape jokes.",
"It's wrong to tell jokes based on a woman being raped."
] | sbic | 4,559 | 0 | false | |
It's a British joke, don't you get how British humour works? I mean yea I'm British and ye Americans suck anyways. | I know you're just trying to be funny. However, you need to understand that rape is a serious topic and there are people who could be hurt or offended by you joking about it. Try practicing a bit more empathy! | [
"It's not funny joke about rape.",
"You should be more empathetic towards people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"tries to justify it by poking fun at another nation of people",
"It's demeaning to British people and rape victims to joke about rape and say it's British humor.",
"Speaker claims it's a British joke."
] | sbic | 4,559 | 1 | false | |
Meh I'm a guy, I don't know what empathy feels like. Can I ask another question about rape? | Sure, ask whatever you like about it and I will kindly explain and help you understand my perspective. I just want to make sure you understand that not all jokes are appropriate and should be said, especially when it's a sensitive topic. The last thing I want is for you to get in trouble because someone took it too ser... | [
"You should make sure that your jokes are appropriate."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"does not try to improve their lewd thinking",
"It's sexist to defend lack of empathy as a male trait.",
"Speaker states he's a guy and therefore doesn't know what empathy feels like."
] | sbic | 4,559 | 2 | true | |
I'm a waitress and I'm going to purposely flirt with older male customers for extra tips even if they have a wife. | How would you flirt with the customers? | [
"It's wrong to hit on somebody with a significant other"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to flirt with people for financial reasons.",
"It's unethical to flirt for tips",
"It’s disrespectful and abusive to do this."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dmqxqc | 4,560 | 0 | false |
I would smile a lot and make suggestive comments. | I know that you rely on your tips as a waitress but flirting with married people is wrong. Just be friendly and provide good service and you should get decent tips. | [
"It's good to do a good job",
"You shouldn't flirt with married people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You should never make suggestive comments to somebody simply for pursuing money.",
"Speaker is willing to harass customers for tips",
"This is an excuse for the previous attitude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dmqxqc | 4,560 | 1 | false |
I don't want to mess with married people but I'm just doing what I can to make ends meet. | It is okay to want to make more money but you can do it by doing a good job and being friendly. It would be better to do that than to hit on somebody who is married. | [
"It is good to succeed via honest work"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is sad that somebody feels the need to be flirtatious in order to make money to live.",
"Speaker ignores advice to just provide good service",
"This is a continuation of the previous offensive attitude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dmqxqc | 4,560 | 2 | true |
If I had a dollar for every gender there was. I'd have 1.75 and a shit ton of counterfeits | How do you decide between one gender or another and what does that have to do with money? Can you explain it? | [
"It isn't right to degrade all other non-male genders"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is rude to marginalize different genders.",
"It's offensive to make jokes about people who have different genders.",
"It's offensive to say there are counterfeit genders, and then to say that the two genders speaker does believe in only one counts as a whole person."
] | sbic | 4,561 | 0 | false | |
Men are the only worthwhile gender, and women aren't worth as much as a man. | That's a terrible way to view people. Judge people by their character, not what's between their legs. | [
"It isn't right to degrade all other non-male genders"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They express their misogynistic views towards women.",
"Speaker now puts down women as inferior to men.",
"It's offensive and biased to say that men are the only worthwhile gender."
] | sbic | 4,561 | 1 | true | |
Is it okay if I tell my girlfriend that I don't want her sister to come over to our apartment? | Is there a reason for not wanting your girlfriend's sister coming over? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They're asking for advice.",
"asking for feedback on what to tell girlfriend",
"unclear why the speaker doesn't want them to come over"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b751z6 | 4,562 | 0 | false |
I'm getting sick of having her over constantly! | It is understandably not wanting your girlfriend's sister always coming over, but you should respect your girlfriend's feelings about who can come over. You should talk to you girlfriend and set some rites about who can come over and how much. | [
"You should talk to your partner and establish boundaries.",
"It's understandable not wanting someone in your house all the time."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They have a legitimate concern.",
"expressing frustration no harm",
"potentially unnecessary conflict"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b751z6 | 4,562 | 1 | false |
Why should I listen to her? I don't feel like we are in a relationship anymore. | Don't give up on your relationship before you at least sit down with her and talk about your issues. Let them know that the visitations are too much and to set some limits. I suggest you work through it and stay together for now. | [
"You should talk about your issues before giving up on a relationship.",
"You should set boundaries with your partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This sounds like it will create conflict with the girlfriend.",
"choosing to now handle situation in a rude way and create conflict",
"should break up with someone if you're not willing to listen"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b751z6 | 4,562 | 2 | true |
Listen, I admire you for wanting to make the negroes feel better about themselves , but the evidence FOR race is overwhelming . | I can't believe what I am hearing from you. Are you actually saying that black people are not intelligent? | [
"It's not right to think blacks are intellectually inferior"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong and hurtful to hold racist views.",
"You shouldn't use derogatory slurs about people.",
"You shouldn't make eugenicist statements about black people."
] | sbic | 4,563 | 0 | false | |
I am pretty sure black people are not smart or are equal to animals. | It is unfair to make such a hasty generalization as this one. It is not right to think that blacks are intellectually inferior which is an assumption. It would be better to learn more about different black people and get to know them before saying things that could hurt them. | [
"It's not right to think blacks are intellectually inferior"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker clarifies that they believe black people are like animals, which is wrong and offensive.",
"Speaker is comparing black people to animals.",
"You shouldn't compare black people to animals."
] | sbic | 4,563 | 1 | true | |
When I was a kid I went fishing with my dad. | That sounds lovely. What happened on these trips that you wanted to talk about? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"good to spend time with family",
"Speaker states that when they were a kid they went fishing with their dad.",
"Talking about fishing with their father."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/54209d82-6895-4995-93dc-4ac71a01f283/sentence1 | 4,564 | 0 | false |
I was hearing voices of angels back then. | Fishing trips with family can be fun, but if you were hearing voices, it might be best to talk to a professional. It can be disruptive in your life and indicative of a larger issue. | [
"It's good to seek help from a mental health professional if you are hearing voices.",
"Spending time with family is good."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"not sure what is going on",
"Speaker state they were hearing voices of angels back then.",
"Previously hearing voices."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/54209d82-6895-4995-93dc-4ac71a01f283/sentence1 | 4,564 | 1 | false |
The voices don't really bother me anymore. | It's good that they don't bother you, but if you're hearing voices at all then you should seek help from a doctor or counselor. Hearing voices isn't a thing that should happen and there might be a problem that needs to be addressed. | [
"Hearing voices that aren't there is not normal."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"hearing voices rejects help",
"Speaker states the voices don't really bother them anymore.",
"Saying they aren't bothered buy the Voices."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/54209d82-6895-4995-93dc-4ac71a01f283/sentence1 | 4,564 | 2 | true |
I posted about my husband going to rehab on Facebook | Will posting about his private matters cause problems for him? | [
"You should be more careful about the information you post online.",
"You should respect someone's privacy when it comes to their personal matters."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"If they husband doesn't mind then this is fine.",
"it's not okay to talk about husband's private life on social media",
"It's rude to share personal information with someone else."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,565 | 0 | false | |
Maybe but we are broken up right now. | If the intent is to demean, propagate lies or half truths about people, or designed to hurt, denigrate and destroy reputations behind people's backs, then spreading this news has crossed a line into harassment. Keep your private maters off of Facebook and try to work through things with your husband in peace. | [
"It is wrong to blast private matters all over facebook",
"It is expected that you will respect your spouse's privacy"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't spread things online that your husband doesn't want people to know about.",
"even if speaker is broken up, they shouldn't share personal info",
"They justify why they shared it."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,565 | 1 | false | |
He did it to himself, I can post about whatever I want. | Posting these kinds of things reflect poorly on you too. Even if you are separated you should still try to act civil and hope he gets better from his addictions. | [
"It looks bad when you post everything up on facebook",
"It is good to be civil with your exes"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is a terrible way to look at the situation and the speaker sounds very self-serving.",
"speaker doesn't care about husband's feelings",
"I don't care they're being rude."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,565 | 2 | true | |
Did you know that I dislike the autistic kid at my school? | What is wrong with him? | [
"It's okay to not like someone no matter who they are."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker dislikes a group of children with a mental condition.",
"Speaker state they dislike the autistic kid at their school.",
"The speaker uses the term the autistic kid which is rude and offensive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b97pc7 | 4,566 | 0 | false |
He makes me feel uncomfortable and he doesn't know how to treat people, | You cannot be expected to like someone who treats you badly. You should also be respectful of people with learning disabilities. | [
"You need to treat people with disabilities with respect"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker gives reasons for disliking this group.",
"Speaker states he makes them feel uncomfortable and doesn't know how to treat people.",
"The speaker is being bias against people who have autism."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b97pc7 | 4,566 | 1 | false |
I wish a bully would beat him up. | I know you are having a hard time with the autistic kid, but it is unkind to wish violence on them. How about you cut them some slack and try to see things from their perspective? | [
"You should never wish harm on others",
"Try to imagine how the world looks to other people before you judge them"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wishes violence on this group.",
"Speaker state they wish a bully would beat him up.",
"Hoping harm on the kid is unethical, bias and offensive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b97pc7 | 4,566 | 2 | true |
I'm on the top of my class and in the National Honor Society. I've been tutoring my friends without my gpa ever dropping below a 3.8 as well. But in reality I've just been bullshitting my way to where I am. | I don't know it sounds impressive. How have you been bullshitting your way through school? | [
"It's not okay to not try your hardest to do your best."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"talks about past accomplishments",
"It is unethical if they are not putting forth their best effort and getting by at school",
"Speaker feels they are BSing their way through life."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bcnao1 | 4,567 | 0 | false |
I just thank the system I live in for making it easy to get ahead without actually doing the work, | I'm glad you're doing okay but I just have to think about how amazing you would be if you put in the effort rather than being lazy. You should give it your all and see how far that takes you because you're just cheating yourself by not doing your best. | [
"You should put forth your best effort in school.",
"You should try to reach your full potential."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"does not put in effort for work",
"Continuing to show a lack of work ethic",
"Speaker is abusing the system to get ahead."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bcnao1 | 4,567 | 1 | false |
I'm fine with my gpa being 3.8 since it's good enough to get me into whatever college I want to get into. Maybe I am cheating myself by taking the easy way out, but who cares? It's worked so far. | You could really do whatever you want in life with just a little bit of effort. Wouldn't you want to have all of those options open for you? | [
"You should try to open up opportunities for yourself.",
"You shouldn't take the easy road if you're able to do more."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"does not put in effort on important things",
"They are not willing to change their thinking or behavior and not listening to the advice",
"Speaker just wants to cheat the system and get ahead while being lazy."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bcnao1 | 4,567 | 2 | true |
I sort of feel about that I've thrown away so much of my grandmother's food | Wow! Why are you wasting food like that? | [
"It's bad to waste food."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"it is bad to waste food",
"You shouldn't waste food.",
"hasn't said why"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/btxilh | 4,568 | 0 | false |
I don't like to eat things that she made, and she ends up making so much of it and sometimes I don't touch them for weeks | You should be more considerate of your grandmother's cooking, you are very wasteful and ungrateful. She spends hard work and time on your food only for you to be a brat and throw it away. Show some more consideration and eat it. | [
"You should be grateful to someone cooking you food.",
"It's rude to talk trash about the food someone makes you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is bad to let food go to waste",
"Speaker explains why he wastes so much food.",
"should tell grandmother to make less food"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/btxilh | 4,568 | 1 | false |
My plan was to make her frustrated by wasting her food and get her to stop making so much. | Why don't you just tell her you don't like the food. Maybe she has some other recipes that you would like. At least she can stop wasting her energy and money making food for nothing. | [
"It's helpful to be up front and honest about how you feel."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you should show respect to your grandparents when they do things for you",
"Speaker details a poorly thought out plan.",
"wants to make her frustrated"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/btxilh | 4,568 | 2 | true |
My teen nephews are staying with me and they are cheap as fuck. They hide soda and don't share things with anyone. | How do you feel about your family behaving like that? | [
"It's okay to be frustrated with others who violate social norms."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's wrong not to share things",
"speaker is cursing at family members",
"Speaker can't stand their nephews being cheap and hiding soda."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/7fx0wx | 4,569 | 0 | false |
I'm frustrated. I can't stand seeing my teen nephews be so cheap. | Family members are supposed to share things and help each other out and so it's understandable that you're so frustrated with the behavior of your teen nephews. They should know better and be more conscientious towards others. You might be able to get them to share more by sharing things yourself and emphasizing how go... | [
"Family members should be generous with one another",
"You should encourage sharing by setting a good example"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's wrong to be overly cheap",
"this is not a really good reason to be mad at them",
"Speaker is annoyed with their nephews being cheap."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/7fx0wx | 4,569 | 1 | false |
I'm going to punish them. It's not my fault that they are poor. They should not be so selfish. | I don't think it's right for you to punish them for not sharing, especially because they don't have much money. Punishing them for that might only make them resent you, which would lead to them being even less likely to share. I think you should show them how good it feels to share with others. | [
"You should never punish someone for hoarding their own belongings",
"You should encourage more generous behavior in others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to punish other people's kids",
"speaker wants to continue to hurt them",
"Speaker is going to punish them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/7fx0wx | 4,569 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of surrounding myself with hate | Why would you want to make life even harder? | [
"It's wrong to surround yourself with hate."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"We don't know why the speaker wants to surround him or herself with hate yet.",
"You shouldn't intentionally surround yourself with hate.",
"It's harmful so surround oneself with hate"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ic9t8 | 4,570 | 0 | false |
I'm tired of people making life harder for me. | Even if you feel others are making life harder for you, it's wrong to surround yourself with hate. Surround yourself with hate will result in a lot of negativity. | [
"It's unhealthy to succumb to hate when having problems with others."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker prefers to be in control of his or her life rather than being controlled.",
"Explaining why they want to do it.",
"It's harmful to blame others for one's difficulties"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ic9t8 | 4,570 | 1 | false |
It's gonna be sick. | I think that you will feel better if you change your mindset. It is not okay to just surround yourself with hate. | [
"You should practice the power of positive thinking rather than hate."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is not receptive to feedback and wants to be surrounded with hate. He or she does not care about the consequences of his or her action.",
"Speaker still wants to surround themselves with hate.",
"It's harmful to find joy in hate"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ic9t8 | 4,570 | 2 | true |
I got these airpods but honestly I don't even want them anymore. | Why do you no longer want your airpods? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Nothing wrong here",
"nothing wrong",
"expressing regret about a purchase"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ame5f8 | 4,571 | 0 | false |
They don't match my style of clothing | It's okay if an accessory doesn't match your style anymore, or that you've outgrown it. Declutter you life by getting rid of things you will no longer use and put them to better use somewhere else. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Civil conversation",
"nothing wrong",
"explaining reason they regret purchase"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ame5f8 | 4,571 | 1 | false |
I did just get them, I should be able to get a full refund hopefully. | Since you no longer have a need for them I would highly recommend you try to get a refund. Like I said something wrong with not liking something if it doesn't match your style. Maybe you'll find something there that does. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Nothing wrong here",
"nothing wrong",
"thinking of returning purchase that they regret"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ame5f8 | 4,571 | 2 | true |
The other day I was caught beating my wife. I got charged $3000 in property damages. | I feel disgusted reading that. Do you know that this kind of joke can be disturbing to people who have suffered domestic abuse? | [
"It's not right to think women are property",
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is sexist and offensive to compare a woman to property",
"It's rude to joke about wife beating.",
"It's not okay to make light of domestic abuse."
] | sbic | 4,572 | 0 | false | |
Yes, but I do not mean it really. Only my wife will tell | That joke is inappropriate and wrong to say since it trivializes harm done to domestic abuse victims and equates women as property to be controlled by men. You wouldn't want the women in your family to be abused nor treated as property so it would be good to extend that respect to all women everywhere. Being more respe... | [
"It's not right to think women are property",
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is sexist and offensive",
"Speaker makes excuses.",
"The speaker confirms that he was not serious. However, he did not apologize so it's still inappropriate to say such remarks."
] | sbic | 4,572 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to deny my biological father contact with his grandchildren | Why would you deny him a chance to see his grandchildren? | [
"It's okay to want to protect your children from someone that could hurt them."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"lacking justification, denying someone contact with their grandchildren seems cruel",
"We don't know why Speaker violet doesn't want their kids to see their grandfather.",
"they want to exclude their father"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9zm3jn | 4,573 | 0 | false |
Because he's a huge asshole and his wife is awful. | I am sorry you are feeling that way. It's okay to want to protect your children from someone that could hurt them. People can change though so you should be open to second chances. | [
"You should protect your kids from harm.",
"You shouldn't expect people to always be the same."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker uses insulting, profane language when trying to justify his behavior",
"It's okay to not let them see their grandparents if the grandparents are bad people.",
"they want to exclude their father"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9zm3jn | 4,573 | 1 | false |
Yeah, they're both terrible people that my kids don't need to see. | I think it's fine that you're not letting your kids see them if they aren't good people. It's important that they have good role models. | [
"It's okay to keep your kids away from bad people.",
"You should make sure your kids have positive role models."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker doesn't show receptivity to advice to be open to giving a second chance",
"Speaker violet has a right to protect their children from bad people.",
"they want to exclude their father"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9zm3jn | 4,573 | 2 | true |
Is it wrong that I'm 17 and have made over $80,000 from fraudulent schemes? | What makes you want to make all that money from stealing? | [
"You shouldn't commit fraud."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Unethical and illegal behavior",
"fraud is illegal",
"Mention of illegal activity"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e2fifi | 4,574 | 0 | false |
I want to impress my friends | Trying to impress your friends by conning others for money is a bad way to get their attention. Committing fraud will land you in jail not make you impressive. | [
"You shouldn't try to impress people by conning other people."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Explanation as to why person engages in unethical behavior",
"fraud is illegal",
"mention of committing crime"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e2fifi | 4,574 | 1 | false |
What the f? I've got to keep going. I'm almost at $100.000 | The amount of money that you make does not make a difference when you are commiting fraud to get it. This will catch up to you. It would be wise to stop before you find yourself in prison. | [
"You shouldn't try to justify conning people.",
"You should stop illegal activities before it gets you in trouble."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Unethical behavior, no intention of stopping.",
"not caring about their crime makes it worse",
"The money mentioned is from stealing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e2fifi | 4,574 | 2 | true |
Lately I have been having the urge to rig my company's ticket giveaway so one particular employee does not when it | Why would you want to make sure that employee doesn't win? | [
"It's wrong to tamper with a lottery."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't cheat someone out of ever winning.",
"It's unethical to try and influence the results of a contest",
"You shouldn't cheat at things."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,575 | 0 | false | |
To remind him he's not as lucky as he thinks he is. | Not sure what your issues you have with that employee, but it's unethical and probably illegal to fix a lottery so that one person is more or less likely to win. That's lot of risk to take on just to prevent an outcome that is already highly unlikely. | [
"It's wrong to rig a competition so that someone can't win."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is explaining why they don't want the person to win.",
"speaker wants to punish coworker",
"Speaker wants to fix a lottery to get back at someone."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,575 | 1 | false | |
That's my business and I'll do what I like | I highly recommend that doing this, it could get you in trouble within your company. If you're trying to teach the employee a lesson, there are many other ways you can go about doing this. | [
"You shouldn't take part in actions at work that will lead to disciplinary actions."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is defensive and plans to carry on with their idea.",
"speaker doesn't care about the ethics of their actions",
"Speaker will do what they want."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,575 | 2 | true | |
What do you think dating/relationships would be like if women actually practiced what they preach and selected men based on their personality instead of just looks? | Are you serious about your comment on women just now? | [
"It's not right to think women are shallow"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's biased and rude to think women are liars and only think about their own benefit.",
"You shouldn't assume all women hold the same views about men.",
"It's wrong to make generalized statements about women."
] | sbic | 4,576 | 0 | false | |
They just don't care about men's personality, they only care if the man is sensebly good looking and they always go for looks over the personality. | Women aren't as shallow as yo think they are. Plenty of women have passed on good looking guys because they were creeps or had some other personality flaw. | [
"It's not right to think women are shallow"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is trying to justify the mistake and doesn't feel regretful.",
"They continue to make generalities based on gender.",
"Speaker continuing to make generalizations."
] | sbic | 4,576 | 1 | true | |
I feel like my reasons for being a vegetarian are pretty selfish, but I still want to do this. | What makes the reasons selfish? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's good to be a vegetarian for any reason.",
"speaker casually discusses their situation",
"Needs more info."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d2y4ej | 4,577 | 0 | false |
I just use it to make me feel better about myself | Most people I know do something to make them feel better about themselves. You chose a pretty good and healthy one so I see nothing wrong with it. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's good to make a positive change for yourself.",
"speaker elaborates on their feelings",
"Speaker is not harming others with their reason."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d2y4ej | 4,577 | 1 | false |
Maybe. I just feel like people judge me for it but I'm glad there are people like you who don't. | No problem, I am here for you. Your lifestyle choices should not be influenced by anyone else, because your morals and what you want to do should be most important to yourself. You aren't harming anything, so keep on saving animals by being vegetarian! | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They are doing what is important to them and accepting that not everyone will judge them for it.",
"speaker continued having casual and constructive conversation",
"Speaker is accepting of advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d2y4ej | 4,577 | 2 | true |
Jennifer Ringer, as the Sugar Plum Fairy, looked as if she'd eaten one sugar plum too many | Are you calling her fat? | [
"It's not right to think being overweight is ugly"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to make fun of someone's weight.",
"It's rude to say things about a person's appearance.",
"It's rude to make fun of people's weight"
] | sbic | 4,578 | 0 | false | |
Yes, all fat people are grotesque and they shouldn't be the subject of art. | We all have different definitions of beauty and just because you don't find overweight people attractive doesn't mean that other people think like you do. Making fun of her weight is very hurtful. You should try to put yourself in her shoes before making fun of her. | [
"It's wrong to make fun of overweight people",
"You should try to have some empathy"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't call people names because they are overweight.",
"Being biased and hurtful.",
"They continue to be offensive"
] | sbic | 4,578 | 1 | false | |
It's a joke but she should try to lose some weight since she is too fat. | It is still very rude to comment on peoples weight. You are not in a relationship with them so you should ignore it and move on. | [
"It's rude to make comments about someone's weight"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make comments about people's weight.",
"Being hurtful.",
"Now they say the person should lose weight"
] | sbic | 4,578 | 2 | true |
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