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What do you do when you see a Mexican driving a Ferrari? Call the cops. | You're not implying that Mexicans are thieves, are you? I hope you're not. | [
"It's not right to think latino/latina people cannot own expensive things"
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"It's unethical to be racist.",
"you should not single out mexicans",
"It's rude to assume a Mexican could never afford a Ferrari"
] | sbic | 4,615 | 0 | false | |
Well if the shoe fits. | It's simply wrong to think that Latinos as a whole are thieves and will steal things. There's nothing inherently different about Latinos. They are human just like you and deserve to be treated with respect. Calling them thieves is rude. | [
"It's wrong to judge people based on their ethnic group."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
"They are continuing being offensive.",
"continues being rude",
"Speaker not accepting critique"
] | sbic | 4,615 | 1 | false | |
All Latinos are thieves. I don't care what you say. | That's an extremely offensive thing to say. Latinos are no more likely to steal than anyone of any other race. You should be more open minded and kind toward minorities. | [
"It's good to be open minded toward people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
"They are continuing to be racist.",
"calls all Latinos thieves",
"Speaker still characterizing latinos as theives"
] | sbic | 4,615 | 2 | true | |
If femcunts are REPULSED by my FACE, how will the GYM save me, normtards? | Do you think women find you unattractive? | [
"It's not right to think women are shallow",
"It's not right to think women are stupid"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
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"You shouldn't be sexist",
"You shouldn't use offensive terms to talk about women",
"You shouldn't' call women femcunts."
] | sbic | 4,616 | 0 | false | |
Yes, I have tested that out with my own life. Women are stupid and shallow. They don't care about real men they only go after fat ugly guys and rich cucks. | Just because women aren't attracted to someone doesn't make them stupid or shallow. Everyone has their own experiences and just because you feel no one has been attracted to you yet, doesn't mean no one ever will be. Try being more open minded to women and approach them with a better attitude, they may be more receptiv... | [
"It's not right to think women are shallow",
"It's not right to think women are stupid"
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"You shouldn't disparage women",
"They continue to insult women and fat people",
"Speaker calls women shallow and stupid. They are horribly misogynistic."
] | sbic | 4,616 | 1 | true | |
I once took so much adderall I remembered my birth my past life and my near death experience | so you experienced a near death situation ? | [
"It's bad to take too much Adderall."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
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"Speaker is relating an unsafe drug use.",
"Speaker describes overdosing on drugs.",
"talking about drug abuse"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ezukbd | 4,617 | 0 | false |
Yes, I was foaming at my mouth and breathing problems. | Adderall can be very addictive and can cause you overdose. You should be careful with it. | [
"You should be careful with drug dosages."
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"needs intervention"
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"Speaker is relating an unsafe drug use that put them in serious jeopardy.",
"Continuation of previous emergency label.",
"talking about dangerous drug abuse"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ezukbd | 4,617 | 1 | false |
I'm still doing it all the time. That stuff is so fun. | You could lose your life over adderall addiction, it can lead to overdose so you should stop doing it.You should take some professional help. | [
"Being addicted to drugs is dangerous.",
"It's smart to get professional help for drug problems."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
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"needs intervention"
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"Speaker is misusing drugs and does not want to stop.",
"Continuation of previous emergency label.",
"still abusing drugs"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ezukbd | 4,617 | 2 | true |
I'm losing patience waiting for my girlfriend to reach a more healthy weight. | Why are you losing patience with your girlfriend? | [
"It's understandable to want your partner to be in shape."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
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"More info is needed",
"It's hurtful to not be supportive when a significant other is trying to improve their health.",
"Impatient with girlfriend, but still civil"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/apvgi1 | 4,618 | 0 | false |
I don't like it when she's not looking at her best. | It's okay that you want your partner to be at a healthy weight and in shape, but it shouldn't be your sole focus. Rather than get frustrated at your partner, try doing activities together for exercise. Your partner is much more likely to participate when it is both of you working out rather than just her. | [
"You shouldn't get frustrated at your partner",
"You shouldn't focus on your partner's weight"
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"Speaker shows concern for their partner",
"speaker continued being rude and hurtful",
"Wants girlfriend to look her best, which is reasonable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/apvgi1 | 4,618 | 1 | false |
I want her to be healthy but I don't want to do the same. There are plenty of other things. | Getting into shape is not easy and often people need motivation to keep going. Instead of being impatient with your girlfriend, practice being empathetic and motivational. | [
"You shouldn't be impatient with your partner"
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"speaker showed no interest in changing their attitude",
"Wants girlfriend to change, but doesn't want to change themselves"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/apvgi1 | 4,618 | 2 | true |
I tried to put my pet rat out of its misery by bashing its head in as I had seen done at pet stores. It lived through it and suffered. | Why didn't you finish what you started? What made you want to bash your rat's head in? | [
"You should take your pet to the vet if it's dying so they can put it down humanely."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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"Speaker tried to kill pet",
"danger of more harm to that rat"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cw0wua | 4,619 | 0 | false |
I was trying to end its suffering. | Causing your rat to suffer is terrible. If your pet rat is sick and suffering then you should let a vet put it down in a humane way, not try to do it yourself. | [
"It's wrong to cause animals suffering.",
"You should take an animal to a vet and let them end it's suffering rather than do it yourself."
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"Speaker explains why they abused the animal.",
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"situation hasn't changed"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cw0wua | 4,619 | 1 | false |
I know, but I didn't have the money for an euthanasia. | Your pet should be given love and care. This act sounds like mercy but you weren't able to complete it. If you want to end your pet's suffering, the only reasonable route is to take it to the vet. | [
"You should love and care for pets.",
"You should be merciful but only if it doesn't cause more suffering."
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"needs intervention"
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"Speaker justifies their behavior.",
"Speaker purposely tried to kill an animal",
"situation hasn't changed"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cw0wua | 4,619 | 2 | true |
I stopped him and asked him what was in his nose | Did you ask him to ensure that he is taking care of himself? | [
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Yes, I care for him. I always want him to be healthy. | It seems you asked him about his appearance out of concern. It's okay to want someone you care for to be healthy. | [
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He's such an asshole. He said that I should mind my own business. | It sounds like he has something to hide. You should talk to him again when he calms down and confront him about his uses. | [
"You should wait until someone calms down before talking to them again."
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"This took a turn, but the speaker is now being insulting and profane.",
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I'm going to abandon my friend of 7 years | Why would you abandon your friend of 7 years? | [
"It's understandable that we don't like the same people we use to after extended periods of time."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1sl91 | 4,621 | 0 | false |
He was so old and boring to me, I don't need him anymore. | Friends can drift apart over time, but you shouldn't be ending a friendship so suddenly. At least tell the friend if something is wrong, and maybe you can work it out together. | [
"You shouldn't end a friendship for trivial reasons.",
"You should be open and honest with your friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1sl91 | 4,621 | 1 | false |
Nah. I'm going to cheat on him with his lover and tell him off. | What you are doing is inconsiderate here. Breaking up his relationship is needlessly harmful, since he has done nothing to you. | [
"You shouldn't end a friendship for no reason at all.",
"It's mean to sleep with your friend's partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"Speaking about cheating with someone's partner.",
"They are planning to betray friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1sl91 | 4,621 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to chase after the customers who forgot their wallets, sunglasses, and keys in the restaurant after they tipped me badly. | What do you think is going to happen now? | [
"It's rude to give a worker a small tip.",
"It's rude to not try to return an item someone lost."
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"It is rude for the speaker to not give the people their items back."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4lsqz | 4,622 | 0 | false |
I might lose people's respect and I might lose my employment that way. | Although it's rude of them to undertip you, you should give them back their things. Those things are their personal property. | [
"It's expected that serving staff will be upset if you don't leave a tip."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
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] | [
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"The speaker expresses they are violating work policy which is unethical."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4lsqz | 4,622 | 1 | false |
What are you talking about? Those people aren't coming back here. I am keeping their stuff. | If you have their wallet you should be able to find their address and give their stuff back. I know it's upsetting when you get a bad tip but you have to be the bigger person. | [
"You should strive to overcome petty desires for revenge.",
"It's noble to use someone's address to find them and return their property."
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] | [
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"The speaker is being unethical and rude by keeping the people's personal property."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4lsqz | 4,622 | 2 | true |
How do you start a riot? Have a food fight in ethiopia | That's insensitive of you to say. Why would Ethiopians start a riot? | [
"It's not right to think ethiopian people can't afford food",
"It's not right to think ethiopians are desperate"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"It's offensive to joke about starving people.",
"It's offensive to make fun of hunger in African nations.",
"It's not okay to make fun of people that are dying from hunger is places that are poor."
] | sbic | 4,623 | 0 | false | |
It's not me or you saying it, it's from an anthropology book I read. | Ethiopians have a rich history and culture and there are a lot of people that would say that with you joking about them making a riot diminishes their humanity and community. I suggest that you visit their country one day and focus on the beauty of their country or else others will believe you're just a spiteful person... | [
"It's not right to think ethiopian people can't afford food",
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"They are trying to justify their offensive joke.",
"Speaker insists they read it somewhere, but doesn't see harm in ways.",
"Speaker tries to justify itself and shifts the blame to scientific journal."
] | sbic | 4,623 | 1 | true | |
If you aren't an 8/10 with an 8 inch cock you will NEVER fully satisfy a woman | Do you really think that is the only thing women are looking for? | [
"It's not right to think women cant be satisfied"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
"you should not think women only want big penises",
"You shouldn't stereotype men.",
"It's rude to degrade people because of their physical characteristics."
] | sbic | 4,624 | 0 | false | |
I'm not sure but I don't have a physical body, let alone 8 inches. I meant to say that according to surveys many women think size doesn't matter. | If you treat a woman nice and with respect she will love you back. You need to just be a better person not every woman is superficial. | [
"It's not right to think women cant be satisfied"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"size does not matter according to women",
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] | sbic | 4,624 | 1 | true | |
How about I do something without my friends? | Why do you want to do something without your friends? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7dp7y | 4,625 | 0 | false |
I want to do something else because I really want to do something interesting by myself. | Yeah, I hear where you are coming from. Sometimes you just want that alone time and do stuff by yourself and relax. Otherwise, it's too much pressure and hard to breath when you are always with friends which can get exhausting. | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7dp7y | 4,625 | 1 | false |
I just want to do something alone because I feel they are too controlling. I want to feel free and be alone. I mean who cares. | It is fine to sometimes be alone and you are right that I don't think anyone would care. Doing interesting things by yourself can be fun, and I hope that you have fun doing it. | [
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"choosing solo outings is fine"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7dp7y | 4,625 | 2 | true |
I just tore up an 8 ball solo | Why did you do cocaine? | [
"It's bad to do an 8 ball on your own.",
"You shouldn't do drugs."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
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"You shouldn't do cocaine, especially that much of it.",
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"You shouldn't do drugs"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/7byyzv | 4,626 | 0 | false |
I did it to chop it up and make a yummy cocktail sauce. | You shouldn't do cocaine as it is both illegal and can have serious health effects on your cardiovascular system. It's especially bad to do an 8 ball's worth of cocaine by yourself since that is a very large amount and can cause heart arrhythmia or even cardiac arrest. | [
"You shouldn't use cocaine, especially so much of it at once to prevent cardiovascular issues of all kinds."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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"needs caution"
] | [
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"They continue to justify themselves.",
"Doesn't see anything wrong with doing large amounts of drugs"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/7byyzv | 4,626 | 1 | false |
I had it under control. | You can't have it under control if you're doing drugs. Drugs will negatively impact your health. You should seriously rethink this. | [
"It's good to realize how bad cocaine drugs are for you even if you think you're under control handling it."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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"They don't understand the danger.",
"Doesn't see the wrongdoing in doing a bunch of drugs"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/7byyzv | 4,626 | 2 | true |
Is it wrong that I thought that silent night was about an armored guy who wouldn't talk> I didn't know that knight begins with a k. | That is actually funny to think. How did you find out the truth about the silent night story? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
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"Speaker misunderstood a song."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a6ur7m | 4,627 | 0 | false |
My parents told me a weird story about it. | Kids make mistakes all the time. It is good to learn from those mistakes and get a funny story out of it. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
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"casual"
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"Speaker was misinformed by parents."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a6ur7m | 4,627 | 1 | false |
My parents told me it was a man who wouldn't speak at all. I didn't know why, I thought that there were no words to describe it. | Kids often make mistakes or misinterpret the meaning of something and that is okay. It only matters that you understand the truth as you get older. | [
""
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"Speaker made a mistake as a kid."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a6ur7m | 4,627 | 2 | true |
Why are catholic priests called father? Coz calling them "Daddy" would be too obvious. | Are you trying to say something about the Catholic Church? | [
"It's not right to joke about catholic priests abusing children",
"It's not right to joke about catholics ignoring child abuse"
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] | sbic | 4,628 | 0 | false | |
Yes, they ignore child abuse which is the worst thing people can do | I don't think joking about priests sexually abusing children and the Catholic Church turning a blind eye to it is a good thing. This can make the survivors of the abuse feel like what happened was not big deal, and that people won't support them if they come forward. I think it's important to help the people that were... | [
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"It is biased to think all priests ignore child abuse.",
"Details why they believe that way."
] | sbic | 4,628 | 1 | true | |
Is it okay to feel overwhelmed that I graduated from middle school? | What made you feel overwhelmed after graduating middle school? | [
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"Feeling overwhelmed at life changed is normal.",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bsgah5 | 4,629 | 0 | false |
I am looking forward to high school. High school is an interesting experience. | It is understandable to be overwhelmed from going to high school from middle school. It is a different place and mindset from middle school. You should look forward to the challenge. | [
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It sounds like a big step. | You should feel excited and enthusiastic about going into high school. There's nothing wrong to feel a little anxious about such a big change. Take it one step at a time and once you find your footing in your new school, it will be a breeze. | [
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I think I flashed someone on omegle | That's insane. Why do you think you did that? | [
"You shouldn't flash people.",
"You shouldn't show your naked body online."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
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] | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d4thc4 | 4,630 | 0 | false |
I'm not sure, however, I got up in the middle of the night and went straight to omegle. | You shouldn't go around flashing people online. That's really gross and could land you in trouble. | [
"It's wrong to flash people online.",
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] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d4thc4 | 4,630 | 1 | false |
I'm going to flash again. It's safe because I'm far away from anyone. | Just because you are only on the PC, doesn't mean you are safe from authorities or anyone undercover. How do you think minors or random people would think being violated like this? I think it would be better to try and talk to these people as normal strangers, you might find new friends that way. | [
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"It's good to talk to people online to make new friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d4thc4 | 4,630 | 2 | true |
I'm going to harass someone I don't like | I'm curious as to what ways you're going to harass them? | [
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] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e0op2g | 4,631 | 0 | false |
I'm going to text him so he feels like dying | It's wrong to harass someone just because you don't like them. Texting them until they want to die is cruel. If they did something to themselves you could be held responsible for pushing them that far. | [
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"You should consider whether your words can get you in trouble."
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] | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e0op2g | 4,631 | 1 | false |
He deserves it. | They don't deserve it, because very few people in life actually deserve any level of harassment and this seems a bit wrong to me. How would you like to be harassed just because someone finds you annoying? | [
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"Speaker doesn't admit mistake or change their mind.",
"intention expressed to go forward",
"They continue to believe in their actions."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e0op2g | 4,631 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my son it's got nothing to do with us that his girlfriend feels snubbed after he accused his father and I of being unwelcoming over Christmas | Why do you feel so displeased with your son's girlfriend? | [
"It's OK for parents to respectfully tell their side of the story in family disputes."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"You shouldn't act in a way that makes your son's girlfriend feel unwelcome",
"It's hurtful to be dismissive of others' feelings.",
"They want to discuss a problem with their son"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,632 | 0 | false | |
Because the girl can be so melodramatic at times. I mean, we are not snobs! | I can understand your motivations. Kids can be melodramatic at times. Hopefully over time she will see she misread the situation. | [
"Family disputes should be dealt with in a calm manner."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's wrong to call someone melodramatic",
"It's insulting to call someone melodramatic because they felt unwelcome.",
"They think the son's gf is overreacting"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,632 | 1 | false | |
I hope so, we love having her around as a family. | If she felt unwelcome, you should make an effort to be more welcoming in the future. I'm glad you enjoyed having her, but if she didn't feel that way, it's best to talk to her about what the problem was. | [
"You should be welcoming to family guests."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's good to love her as a family member",
"They should try to communicate about the issue rather than putting all the blame and responsibility on the girlfriend.",
"They claim to like the gf"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,632 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to call out a fatfish friend | Why would you say she's a "fatfish"? I never hear of this term. | [
"It's good to call someone out when they're doing the wrong thing."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker seems to want to be mean to a friend.",
"Speaker is going to call out a fatfish friend.",
"Insulting their friend and calling them \"fatfish.\""
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/axymj5 | 4,633 | 0 | false |
It's not becaue of her weight, it's because of her selfish behavior. | If your friend is behaving badly and hurting others with her behavior, then you should talk to her about it. You should sit down with her and speak privately, not call her out publicly, because that would be rude and she would be less willing to listen. | [
"It's good to confront others privately about their behavior."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is judging their friend negatively.",
"Speaker says friend is selfish and is going to call her out.",
"Justifying insulting someone because of that someone's behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/axymj5 | 4,633 | 1 | false |
How dare you call my friend fat. I will hunt you down and kill you. | I didn't call her fat at all, just scroll up and see what I wrote. I am impressed and surprised by your action though, because it seems to me you care a lot about your friend and are willing to commit murder on her behalf. That is some extreme loyalty there. | [
"It's good to show loyalty to your friends."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker threatens violence and murder.",
"Speaker threatens the advice giver and says they called their friend fat.",
"Misunderstanding towards the other person, threatens on murdering the advice giver."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/axymj5 | 4,633 | 2 | true |
I witnessed some crash their bike and didn't stop. | Do you think the person was injured? | [
"It's rude not to stop and help someone who might need it."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Not stopping when you witness a crash can mean that those who crashed could become more hurt.",
"Speaker should have tried to help the person.",
"They are describing something they witnessed."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b15kkt | 4,634 | 0 | false |
Probably, because it was a pretty bad crash. | You should have stopped to check if the person that crashed their bike was okay. If you think someone might be hurt, the right thing to do is stop and check on them. | [
"It's good to check in someone you saw get into an accident."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker lets it be known that the crash he didn't stop for was a bad one.",
"Speaker should have tried to help the person.",
"They are giving more details."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b15kkt | 4,634 | 1 | false |
Are you sure I should have did that? | Yes of course, they could have been seriously hurt and you could have called 911. Next time you really should make sure they are okay. | [
"It's expected that you call 911 when someone gets into an accident."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker seems willing to listen to what was being said.",
"Speaker should have tried to help the person.",
"They are just asking a question."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b15kkt | 4,634 | 2 | true |
I want to accept a job offer for a big opportunity and leave my friends company | How do you feel about possibly leaving your friends behind? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker indicates an intention to accept a better job offer, this is acceptable.",
"It's okay to change jobs like this.",
"The speaker is talking about accepting a new job and leaving their friend's company"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ayiek6 | 4,635 | 0 | false |
I'm ready to face it and hoping that won't lose my good friends. | It is nice to have a good job offered to you. You need to do what is best for your life. Hopefully your friend will understand your situation. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker indicates that help that changing jobs won't cause a conflict in a relationship.",
"It's okay to make this decision.",
"The speaker hopes they won't lose their friend over it"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ayiek6 | 4,635 | 1 | false |
Hahaha yah I also want to do it since I want to see what I can learn from the new team. | It is good that you are not weighed down by feeling like you need to be loyal to your friend. Sometimes you need to make tough decisions. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker continues, gives a reasonable reason for their intent to change jobs.",
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"The speaker says they want to learn from the new team. This is casual conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ayiek6 | 4,635 | 2 | true |
How about I talk about my friend behind her back and not be there when she needs me? | Are you joking? Why would you be so mean to a friend? | [
"It's bad to talk shit to a friend even if they're toxic."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to treat a friend poorly.",
"you shouldnt be mean to your friend",
"It's disloyal to gossip and abandon a friend in need."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aijamy | 4,636 | 0 | false |
She's a bitch who would gladly stab me in the back. | You are not a very good friend to treat her so badly. If you hate her so much just don't talk to her at all. | [
"You should treat your friends nicely.",
"If you don't like someone, you shouldn't talk to them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are trying to justify their behavior.",
"it's not ok to talk about someone behind their back",
"The speaker reveals they have an unhealthy relationship."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aijamy | 4,636 | 1 | false |
I never said I'm a good friend. She's a bitch and don't need people like that in my life. | Then why do you call her a friend. Friends respect each other and don't say mean things to each other or to other people about them. | [
"You should respect your friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are going to do this even though they've been told it's unethical.",
"you shouldnt try and get revenge on someone because you dont like them anymore",
"The speaker openly displays their hostility."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aijamy | 4,636 | 2 | true |
I've been eating badly these last two weeks | Why have you been eating badly? Were you sick? | [
"You shouldn't eat badly.",
"You shouldn't hold onto bad habits."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker laments eating unhealthily.",
"Speaker is admitting to unhealthy eating habits.",
"expressing displeasure with their choice of foods"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/duc5qz | 4,637 | 0 | false |
I saw a show and they were talking about bad relationships, I started eating greasy food to piss my girlfriend off. | You should not hurt yourself to try to annoy someone else. It is spiteful, and frankly pretty obnoxious to behave that way, since you are the one who will be hurt. | [
"You shouldn't eat badly if you're depressed.",
"You shouldn't hold onto bad habits."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker admits to eating greasy food to anger their girlfriend.",
"Speaker is eating unhealthily to upset their girlfriend.",
"eating unhealthy food to antagonize partner"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/duc5qz | 4,637 | 1 | false |
It's not like I'm putting poison in my food. I didn't do it on purpose to actually harm myself. | Well, that's good that your decision to eat badly was only temporary. But I have to advise against actively trying to annoy your girlfriend. I don't know if you're doing so just for fun, or if there is a deeper issue, but you don't want to upset her like that. | [
"You shouldn't deliberately annoy people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't like response and becomes defensive.",
"Speaker is not trying to self-harm but is changing their eating habits out of spite.",
"defending their attempt to antagonize partner"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/duc5qz | 4,637 | 2 | true |
So my theory is that if race doesn't exist then racism doesn't exist either. | What is your definition of race? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This seems like it is just a simple statement of a point of view. Not much context, though.",
"Speaker doesn't think racism exists.",
"They are speculating about a social issue."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/esd8sg | 4,638 | 0 | false |
I define races as different groups of different people with different characteristics. | It's nice that you think you have the solution to end racism but I am pretty sure if there was no racism and everyone was one race there would still be racism as long at there are countries. If the entire planet had only one country and everyone is the same citizen then that's how we can get world peace. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This is an inoffensive continuation of sentiment.",
"Speaker defines race a certain way.",
"They are harmlessly defining things."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/esd8sg | 4,638 | 1 | false |
Racism is bad and I hate it. | It's good that you dislike racism, and I think you're bringing up some very valid points here. I'm not sure how well it will work, but trying to end racism is a good yet lofty goal. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This is a healthy expression of attitude.",
"Speaker hates racism.",
"This is a good perspective to have."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/esd8sg | 4,638 | 2 | true |
I'm going to cause my roommate to get kicked out | Why do you want to get him kicked out? | [
"You should discuss problems with roommates before trying to get them in trouble."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Getting someone kicked out is offensive and potentially dangerous.",
"speakers will cause roommate to be homeless",
"Potential conflict and harm"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aodccd | 4,639 | 0 | false |
The house is dirty, he always forgets to pay the rent and he's really rude | He sounds like a terrible roommate. You should talk to him about it before trying to get him kicked out, but if you can't resolve it, it seems reasonable to do so. | [
"You shouldn't kick a roommate out without talking to them first."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"There are better ways of dealing with bad roommate behavior then getting them kicked out.",
"speaker explains the reason why",
"Petty and disrespectful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aodccd | 4,639 | 1 | false |
I can't just talk to him when I want to. I want to get him kicked out and live with a better roommate. | I get why you are upset, and he does sound like a bad roommate. I hope you get him to leave and are able to find a better roommate. | [
"You should try to resolve problems with roommates in a reasonable manner."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Getting someone kicked out is offensive and potentially dangerous.",
"speaker does not want to resolve issue and wants roommate to get kicked out",
"Unwilling to try more reasonable measures"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aodccd | 4,639 | 2 | true |
I want to run a knife from my neck all the down to my stomach to cut myself out of anger. | That would hurt a lot! Why are you thinking about that? | [
"It's expected that people with mental issues will seek psychiatric help.",
"It's wrong to harm oneself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker wants to cut themselves and that's dangerous.",
"This person appears to be in immediate danger.",
"They want to self harm"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dmscx8 | 4,640 | 0 | false |
Because I'm angry. | It would be terrible to harm yourself like that. It sounds like you're having some mental issues, I suggest you visit a psychiatrist. | [
"You shouldn't hurt yourself",
"It's wrong to self harm"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"There's no good reason to cut oneself.",
"The situation is the same, they're just describing how they feel.",
"They try to justify it"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dmscx8 | 4,640 | 1 | false |
Why? I'm a tough guy. I don't do things like this. | You are talking about doing it and that is bad enough. You need to get yourself some help! | [
"It's not ok to self harm",
"You should get help if you feel like harming yourself"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Tough guys don't hurt themselves like that, and no one should.",
"The still need some help right away.",
"They don't see a problem"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dmscx8 | 4,640 | 2 | true |
I was so angry that I punched my father. | What do you think caused you to have such a reaction? | [
"You shouldn't hit your parents."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker physically hit their father",
"speaker discussed violent behavior toward a family member",
"It's okay and normal to feel angry at a parent sometimes. We don't know why the speaker is mad at the father yet."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/43db0b4a-b12c-486b-bff3-0f4e4bce98af/sentence5 | 4,641 | 0 | false |
He was being very mean to me and I became very angry. | I understand that you were very angry with your father, but you should never hit your parents. You have to find ways to calm yourself down and not get so angry. Learning to control your temper will allow you to have a much better relationship with your family. | [
"We should never hit our parents.",
"We should learn to control our temper."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker physically hit their father",
"speaker elaborated on why they became violent with a family member",
"Speaker provides detail to why he/she is angry at the father. The father seems to be a bit difficult to be with."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/43db0b4a-b12c-486b-bff3-0f4e4bce98af/sentence5 | 4,641 | 1 | false |
He was mean to me and he deserved it. | Just because he is mean does not mean that he deserved to be treated like that. You should show more respect for your parents at the end of the day. | [
"No one deserves to be treated badly.",
"We should respect our parents."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker punched their father and felt he deserved it.",
"speaker showed no remorse about being violent and harmful",
"Speaker not receptive to feedback and doesn't care to make amends."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/43db0b4a-b12c-486b-bff3-0f4e4bce98af/sentence5 | 4,641 | 2 | true |
I still think about my ex bfs and what they've done. | What thoughts are you having about them? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is normal to have thoughts about people you used to date.",
"Speaker thinks about past boyfriends and what they have done",
"Think about past relationships but that's normal"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/agp5kw | 4,642 | 0 | false |
I felt really betrayed and used by just three of them | Remembering past trauma is understandable, but it can be bad to hold onto the past. Seeking out help in order to get past this trauma is a good option. Therapy can help you heal and move on. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is normal to remember things that have happened to you in the past.",
"Speaker says they feel betrayed and used by three of them",
"Feels badly about past relationships, but still civil"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/agp5kw | 4,642 | 1 | false |
Thanks 4 all the support. It's been tough, I'll try and live in the present now. | That's good for you. I'm proud to see you make the first step towards change. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker is polite and receptive to advice.",
"Speaker thanks Gray for all their support. This is a polite conversation.",
"Wants to make effort to live in the present. Accepted other speaker's advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/agp5kw | 4,642 | 2 | true |
I was 15 when I threw someone head first into a garage door | Why would you throw someone into a garage door? | [
"It is unacceptable to be violent.",
"You are expected to never hurt another human being out of anger."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker tells a time of when they seriously injured someone.",
"injuring someone, violent",
"Violet is Telling a story about past harmful behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e8x7jn | 4,643 | 0 | false |
He was being an asshole to me. | It's unfortunate that you weren't being treated well, but acting aggressively and physically injuring him was unacceptable on your part. Moving forward I hope you know to remove yourself from such situations and not behave violently towards others. | [
"It's wrong to physically attack other people.",
"It's good to walk away from potentially volatile situations."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"That's not a good reason to potentially kill a person.",
"violent behavior",
"Violet is justifying their bad behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e8x7jn | 4,643 | 1 | false |
I think you are demonizing me. Aren't you a bit harsh? | I'm sorry if you feel I was demonizing you but what you did was extreme. I only want to make sure you wouldn't do it again. | [
"It's important to recognize when you are behaving badly."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker believes that they are a good person even after assaulting another person.",
"violent actions",
"Violet is not taking the critique and instead trying to act like the victum"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e8x7jn | 4,643 | 2 | true |
I think it would be a good idea for me to remove his head and take a dumb down his throat. | What prompted you to want to rip off his head and defecate on him? | [
"You shouldn't do disgusting things to your partner."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's disturbing what this speaker wants to do.",
"It is wrong to want to take off someone's head",
"It's horrible to want to decapitate someone"
] | ethics_amt | 4,644 | 0 | false | |
He just makes me so mad. I have planned to do something like this for a long time. | Threatening to take off his head and shit down his neck is gross and cruel. Treat the people around you with dignity and respect instead. | [
"You should treat others with dignity and respect.",
"It's disgusting to threaten someone with pooping in their mouth."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"You shouldn't hurt people in this way even if they've made you upset.",
"It is bad to premediate murder",
"speaker explains why they want to do it"
] | ethics_amt | 4,644 | 1 | false | |
I'm going to do it, f* him up. | If you feel this angry with your partner then odds are there are some things that you two need to talk about. May be a good idea to try and let your feelings out to him so he can understand what is upsetting you. Killing him and shitting down his throat is not going to solve anything really. | [
"It's wrong to kill someone and then defecate in their throat.",
"It's good to have an open discussion with a partner when you're angry with them."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker seems like they're going to hurt someone very soon.",
"It is bad that you are not willing to stop from going through with your plan",
"speaker still wants to hurt this person"
] | ethics_amt | 4,644 | 2 | true | |
I love watching fat women shake their asses. | How do you know if someone is overweight or not? | [
"It's not right to be sexist about women's bodies"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't call other women fat",
"It's obviously rude and hostile to make these generalizations",
"It's hurtful to call women fat."
] | sbic | 4,645 | 0 | false | |
Have you seen fat women walking around with their big asses? Yes, that is overweight. | You should be more focused on the content of her character, not her ass. Women aren't just objects for your sexual gratification. | [
"It's not right to be sexist about women's bodies"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuing to call women fat",
"This is a continuation of the previous hostile attitude.",
"It is rude to make judgments about a woman's body."
] | sbic | 4,645 | 1 | true | |
I secretly hate my boyfriend for betraying me but I am staying with him pretending that I forgave him. Should I plot revenge against him? | Can you tell me what you're going to do? | [
"It's conniving to pretend to forgive someone and still harbor ill will.",
"It's immoral to seek revenge on someone who's wronged you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"plotting revenge is unethical",
"It is wrong to string someone along and to want revenge against them.",
"Speaker's intentions sound malicious"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/axxmww | 4,646 | 0 | false |
Sure. I'm not afraid to reveal this little secret. He will soon be thrown out of his job and also lose all of his friends. | It's not right to say that you've forgiven your boyfriend when you actually haven't, because partners should be honest with each other. It's also wrong to try to ruin his life for that. You should probably just leave him and forget about him. | [
"You should be honest with your partner.",
"You shouldn't try to ruin someone else's life."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker wants to hurt the other person which is wrong",
"It is wrong to want someone to be destitute.",
"Speaker is plotting real harm against her boyfriend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/axxmww | 4,646 | 1 | false |
I'm going to do it anyway. | I know it feels like this will make you feel better, but it won't Revenge is a scourge on your heart, and you're better off finding peace with the situation, but first you have to break up with him. | [
"You shouldn't try to get revenge on people.",
"You should break up in relationships that are toxic."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is not sorry",
"They are not listening to the advice and don't want to change their behavior.",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/axxmww | 4,646 | 2 | true |
How do you knock out a kid? With a sandy hook | Don't you think that joke is super inappropriate? | [
"It's inappropriate to make fun of school children who are victims of mass shooting"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's terrible to joke about ass shootings.",
"You shouldn't make light of school shootings.",
"It's inappropriate to joke about school shootings."
] | sbic | 4,647 | 0 | false | |
I'm just saying. Sandy Hook was a major event in the gun violence of America. Kinda funny, must admit. | I don't think it's amusing in the least, and I'm sure the parents of the murdered children feel the same. Put yourself in their shoes and try to relate. | [
"It's inappropriate to make fun of school children who are victims of mass shooting"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They think what happened at Sandy Hook was funny.",
"Explains why they told the joke.",
"It's wrong to trivialize school shootings."
] | sbic | 4,647 | 1 | true | |
I can't stop being angry at my mother and I hate myself for it | Why are you angry at your mom? | [
"It's not good to be hard on yourself over your beliefs or opinions."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Admits to being angry at their mother and hating themselves for it.",
"This is just a simple statement of fact. He's expressing discontent.",
"hating yourself and others is dangerous"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bl3lmt | 4,648 | 0 | false |
I feel that I'll never be as successful as my parents and I've always put up this front that I'm doing well. | While it is good that you are driven to be successful, it shouldn't be something that consumes you. You should learn to accept yourself and not compare your position in life with that of your parents. Talking with a therapist could be a good idea to help you get over your self-doubt and anger about your mother. | [
"It's wrong to pretend to be someone you're not."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They provide a civil explanation.",
"This seems like it is just a simple expression of opinion or position.",
"giving up is unethical and harmful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bl3lmt | 4,648 | 1 | false |
I should never have to suffer because of my parents. Fuck therapy. | Therapy could really help you. You seem to have a lot of unresolved anger and it is healthy to deal with it. | [
"It's wrong to mock treatment for something if you don't know the facts.",
"It's unhealthy to carry around anger."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are dismissive and rude while cursing out suggestions of therapy.",
"Now this has regressed into hostility and a little rage.",
"quitting therapy is dangerous"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bl3lmt | 4,648 | 2 | true |
I love the suffering of abusive people | What makes you happy about all the suffering? | [
"It's understandable to want to see an abuser have a rough time."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"While this is natural to feel this way it's still unethical.",
"They take pleasure in the suffering of others.",
"It's a bold opinion."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/56njhr | 4,649 | 0 | false |
They feel like it's okay to hurt you, but not them. | It's understandable that you would want to see an abuser struggle. This may be your way of receiving justice. | [
"It's wrong to take pleasure in another person's suffering.",
"It's ok to dislike people who act abusively."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"One should take the high road.",
"They're explaining themselves.",
"They are justifying their position."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/56njhr | 4,649 | 1 | false |
Wrong, I'm hoping they kill themselves. | That is a little harsh. I get that you want to see an abuser have a rough time, but I do think that it is wrong to wish death on them. | [
"Wanting a person to die is hurtful.",
"It's ok to want a criminal to receive punishment."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"This is a very unethical statement as one shouldn't wish that on someone.",
"They wish death on someone.",
"Pushing people to kill themselves."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/56njhr | 4,649 | 2 | true |
What's the difference between metal detectors and jews? Jews only detect gold | Why are you still making Jewish jokes? | [
"It's not right to think jewish people are money hungry"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is racist to make these kinds of jokes about people",
"It's rude to make racially insensitive jokes.",
"It's offensive and antisemetic to make jokes about Jewish people like this."
] | sbic | 4,650 | 0 | false |
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