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What you see is what you get. I'm so aggressive it's awesome. | Thinking highly of yourself doesn't mean you have to be arrogant or elitist, despite how others may judge you. You enjoy yourself and a lot of other people can't say that, so you're doing something right by living your life as positively as possible. | [
"It's okay to think highly of yourself.",
"It's good to live your life positively."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Being really aggressive can be rude. It sounds like they're a little narcissistic.",
"civil conversation about the speaker thinking they are good",
"They take pleasure in being mean to others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1he0e5 | 4,826 | 1 | false |
It's funny how someone like you who has never met me can say that. I never met you and you are just some chick on the internet. | That may be true, but I'm just trying to say that there are limits in expressing yourself to others. Don't you want to be seen as great as well as modest in your humor? More people like come to like you that way! | [
"It's good to have limits when expressing yourself.",
"It's good to be seen as modest."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are being rude to the assistant.",
"speaker si simply self loving",
"They won't own up to their bad behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1he0e5 | 4,826 | 2 | true |
I hate my body | I am sorry to hear you are feeling this way. Why do you hate your body? | [
"It's wrong to dislike yourself."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Negative view of themself.",
"Speaker hates their body but hasn't said why yet",
"Self hate is not great!"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/3yqhyj | 4,827 | 0 | false |
I don't know I just started hating my body 2 days ago | Sometimes feelings about your body can be difficult to explain but it is not good to hate your body. You should talk to somebody to figure out what happened and what made you start thinking that way. | [
"You should respect your body.",
"You should get professional help for issues with image."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuing the negative view of themself.",
"Speaker hates their body for no reason but no intent to harm themselves",
"Hating yourself is not good!"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/3yqhyj | 4,827 | 1 | false |
Fuck it I'm already over my body. Maybe I will just live like a hermit and just take care of myself. | In time these feelings will pass but you need to love yourself first in life and acceptance of your body is important. | [
"You should take a compassionate approach to yourself."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Rude response and doesn't accept the advice.",
"Speaker is sending mixed messages but I think overall they want to take care of themselves which is good.",
"Wanting to live like a hermit is not good."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/3yqhyj | 4,827 | 2 | true |
lost the HOR, The Senate, The Whitehouse and 1,000 state level seats.But after last night the is winning.$100 per vote, transportation and fried chicken | What did you mean with reporting the election results? | [
"It's not right to think blacks are impressionable or being used as pawns"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to assume that people of a certain race can be controlled by a particular political party.",
"You shouldn't make racist jokes",
"It's offensive to stereotype black people."
] | sbic | 4,828 | 0 | false | |
________, I was implying that blacks are impressionable and they are being used as pawns by the democrats. | Blacks being bought off is not a good thing to say, they might just be voting for the people they believe will do a better job representing them. You don't want people to think that you voted just because your vote was bought instead of because you voted for who you believed. | [
"It's not right to think blacks are impressionable or being used as pawns"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker tries to justify their beliefs by claiming that black people are nothing more than pawns.",
"its rude to dismiss other people concerns",
"It's offensive to stereotype black people."
] | sbic | 4,828 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to lick my food that I know my roommates been eating | Why on earth would you lick that food then? | [
"It's bad to do things that are disgusting.",
"It's bad to use things that don't belong to you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to spread your germs on purpose.",
"You shouldn't be rude and disgusting and create conflicts with roommates.",
"You shouldn't lick food your roommates are eating even if it's your food."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aw5p4s | 4,829 | 0 | false |
I'm going to do this because I know it will make them really mad. | Well, I think there are probably less disgusting ways to get your point across. I understand that you don't want to have them eating stuff that doesn't belong to them, but have you tried just confronting them about it? | [
"You should just let people know when they have upset you",
"You should not be contaminating other people's food"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's bad to try making someone mad.",
"speaker elaborated on their intentions",
"wants to make them mad"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aw5p4s | 4,829 | 1 | false |
Nah, I'm not going to do that. | You are starting unnecessary strife between you and your roommate. If you don't like them why not just ignore them entirely? | [
"You should not cause needless conflicts",
"Avoid people who upset you, if necessary"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker continues to plan on starting a conflict with roommate.",
"speaker rejected criticism and will go on being rude and disgusting",
"doesn't want to take advice"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aw5p4s | 4,829 | 2 | true |
How do you starve a nigger? | I don't think that's an appropriate question to ask or a good word to use. Why would you ask that question? | [
"You shouldn't say racist things."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It racist to use the N word.",
"Foul language used by the speaker to describe black people.",
"It's disturbing to use racial slurs against blacks and want to hurt them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eoqqw8 | 4,830 | 0 | false |
It was a setup to a joke, but you ruined it because you're no fun. Just like those niggers are no fun when they are alive. | Sometimes it is hard to understand others who have had a different life but you should still not say racist things. People will say you are a racist and it could affect your future and your relationships. | [
"It's racist to wish death on an entire race.",
"It's understandable to not be able to relate to different cultures."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker dialogue continues with no retreat of N word.",
"Speaker further explains racist joke.",
"Denies any harm they will do."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eoqqw8 | 4,830 | 1 | false |
Well then I'll just have to live with being called a racist because I'm not gonna stop spreading the word that blacks should be starving. | Referring to a black person using a slur is super disrespectful. You will be labeled a racist as soon as you use the n word in this manner. Hopefully you understand how terrible that word is when said to a black person by someone who is white. | [
"You shouldn't be using racial slurs on people."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker seems to be okay with being a racists.",
"Speaker admits they want to be seen as racist.",
"Knows the implications of what slurs they said."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eoqqw8 | 4,830 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my friends bf to break up with her while secretly dating him | Do you like your friend's boyfriend and that's why you want to do that? | [
"It is rude to get involved in other peoples relationships."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is wrong to go behind your friend's back",
"Trying to ruin a relationship to date someone is messed up.",
"This is a sneaky attempt to get a person to keep you as their lover."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay73jq | 4,831 | 0 | false |
I just feel like bossing other people around and taking their boyfriend. | You shouldn't get involved in other people's relationship. Especially if you're just doing so to be bossy and feel like you have power. If you ruin their relationship over nothing, they may hate you. | [
"It's wrong to involve yourself in other people's relationships."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is wrong to boss people around",
"Speaker illustrates a want to ruin someone's life.",
"That is not a good thing to do, it will infuriate many and make conflicts galore."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay73jq | 4,831 | 1 | false |
It is fun to ruin other people's relationship | Why is it fun? How would you feel if someone were to ruin your relationship? | [
"You should consider how your actions make other people feel."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is very wrong to destroy other people's relationships for fun",
"Speaker finds it amusing to hurt someone.",
"Their idea of fun is out of control, they need to tone this down so everyone gets along."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay73jq | 4,831 | 2 | true |
It is bullshit that men need the guts to ask women out, make the first move and get rejected yet girls don't even have the guts to reject you without making tons of fake excuses. | That's interesting. Do you think women should make the first move? | [
"It's not right to judge a woman's choice in how she responds to a man."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You should never make sexist comments about women.",
"You shouldn't put down women.",
"It is offensive to think women don't get rejected."
] | sbic | 4,832 | 0 | false | |
I think women should have the guts to be honest when they aren't interested in a man. | Women have resulted to making up reasons to avoid being insulted after they say no. It's important to avoid judging a woman negatively because of how she chooses to respond. Avoiding this negative judgement will help you to approach the situation differently. | [
"You shouldn't take it personally if a woman declines a date.",
"You shouldn't mock women for having different ways of saying no."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker makes a sexist comment by indicating that women are gutless.",
"Speaker is judging women negatively.",
"They are blaming the women for rejection."
] | sbic | 4,832 | 1 | false | |
Well they should stop saying no. Women should feel insecure because of all the pressure to get married. | Women are not a monolith so they will all be different when they respond to men. Not all of them will respond the same way, some make a choice to respond a certain way for their own reasons. You shouldn't judge them since you don't know why she chose to respond that way. | [
"You should understand that everyone is different and will react to situations differently."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker believes it's okay for women to feel insecure, and should not say no to marriage proposals.",
"Speaker is a misogynist.",
"They are being very sexist towards women."
] | sbic | 4,832 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to joke with a straight face to an acquiantance that he doesn't mix with peace and quiet | Why would you joke with an acquaintance about this? | [
"It is rude to make fun of those you do not know."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This might be okay, it's hard to tell.",
"A little casual joking is ok.",
"that could be hurtful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1rj47 | 4,833 | 0 | false |
It's funny to see him uncomfortable. | Joking with someone you don't know could backfire. Everyone has a different sense of humor. What you see as humorous may be harmful in their eyes. | [
"You shouldn't make potentially uncomfortable jokes with someone you don't know well.",
"You should tell jokes that are within the boundaries of others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Making someone uncomfortable on purpose isn't nice.",
"It isn't cool to make people feel uncomfortable for your own satisfactions.",
"that's not funny"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1rj47 | 4,833 | 1 | false |
No, I think he'll find it funny. | He might find it funny, but he might think it's offensive. I think it would be better if you waited until you knew him longer before joking around with him like that. | [
"You should wait until you know someone before you make jokes that could hurt their feelings."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"If they really think this, it's okay.",
"Continues with the behavior contrary to the advice.",
"ignoring the feedback"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1rj47 | 4,833 | 2 | true |
I paid PS21 just to watch a 1 minute clip of avengers end game. | How did spending that money on the movie clip make you feel? | [
"You shouldn't waste your money."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"You shouldn't spend more than you need to on certain things.",
"You shouldn't waste your money.",
"Friendly conversation about a movie"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/azi6ss | 4,834 | 0 | false |
I was shattered to see spiderman die. | Paying 21 pounds just to see a 1 minute movie clip is a big expenditure. Wasting your money on movie clips is not proper. Look for better ways to invest your money. | [
"You shouldn't waste money on minor experiences."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Explains why they spent the money.",
"Speaker wasted their money and got ripped off.",
"Still friendly conversation about movie"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/azi6ss | 4,834 | 1 | false |
I just wanted to spend some money on a movie clip, who cares how much it costs. | I just don't think it's wise to spend such a large amount of money for something so short. Next time I recommend spending the money to buy the whole movie, then you can watch the whole thing. | [
"You should think about the cost effectiveness of your purchases."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Disagrees with the advice and says they were okay with spending a large amount of money.",
"Speaker doesn't care about wasting money.",
"It's their right to spend money as they see fit"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/azi6ss | 4,834 | 2 | true |
How do you count the Indians in your neighborhood? Put on a six - arm elephant costume and monkey dance down the street yelling " free's my children! " | Umm, what are you trying to say? Do you say these things often? | [
"It's not right to make fun of their gods",
"It's not right to make sweeping generalizations about their religion"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make a joke about this",
"It's wrong to tell racist jokes",
"It's offensive to tell jokes about native Americans."
] | sbic | 4,835 | 0 | false | |
I always say things like this about Indians. | We should be tolerant of peoples differing beliefs. Would you like to learn more about Hinduism with me? I think it could be really interesting. | [
"It's wrong to be intolerant of other cultures.",
"It's good to learn about other cultures."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They do this often which is rude",
"Speaker evidently says racist things about Indians often",
"It's offensive to always make jokes about other cultures."
] | sbic | 4,835 | 1 | false | |
Maybe you are right. I do enjoy discussing other cultures and maybe I could learn something. | I am glad that you are open to learning more about Indian and Hindu culture because poking fun at this religion and culture is not right. The library would be a great place to start so that you can know more. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They are starting to learn what the other speaker has to say",
"Speaker seems willing to consider learning about different ethnicities",
"They admit they should learn more."
] | sbic | 4,835 | 2 | true | |
During the family Christmas, I'm going to tell my grand kids to be excited for their present from me, since I put a lump of coal in shoe boxes and wrapped it for their presents. | Wow that seems pretty cruel. | [
"It's wrong to lie to children."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is mean to give people coal as a Christmas gift",
"You shouldn't disappoint kids by giving them coal for Xmas.",
"It's cruel to give coal to your kids for Christmas."
] | ethics_amt | 4,836 | 0 | false | |
I'm not trying to offend them. I just wanted to do something funny. | Lying to children is hurtful since they don't understand. They will feel betrayed and hurt and might not want to forgive you. | [
"You shouldn't betray the confidence of people who trust you",
"It is good for people to like you"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"rude, mean behavior",
"Speaker wants to lie and play pranks on kids.",
"Speaker thinks what they are doing is funny."
] | ethics_amt | 4,836 | 1 | false | |
So, I shouldn't make jokes with them? | If they are really young it is very inappropriate. Maybe if they are teenagers they can handle the emotions better but it is still a cruel joke because only "bad" kids get coal. | [
"You should consider your audience when telling jokes"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"rude, mean behavior",
"Speaker wants to play mean pranks on kids.",
"Speaker still thinks what they are doing is funny."
] | ethics_amt | 4,836 | 2 | true | |
Should I tell my gf that she wasn't traumatized? | That depends. How did you come to the conclusion that she wasn't traumatized? | [
"It's wrong to judge how traumatized someone else is"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it's wrong to tell others how they feel",
"It's hurtful to not believe someone is traumatized",
"It's hurtful to insist someone is not traumatized."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,837 | 0 | false | |
She filled the criteria for PTSD and it was I who overcame her fears for her by showing her that nothing can harm her and by slowly and patiently helping her to overcome her negative thoughts. | It was kind of you to help her through this, but you really can't be the judge of how traumatized she was. If you try to diminish what she went through she will only resent you for not believing her. Just continue to support her while she recovers. | [
"It's good to help you partner through trauma."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"same as before",
"They are very arrogant saying they fixed her PTSD",
"Speaker explained why they think their girlfriend is not traumatized."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,837 | 1 | false | |
Look, I will make a decision on how to handle this situation with my girlfriend. | I understand that, but I hope you will make the decision to be sensitive and kind. Think about how you would feel to find out she is traumatized and you dismissed that. Caring for your girlfriend means treating her in a thoughtful and gentle way. | [
"It's good to be sensitive about your partner's troubles."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its wrong to make decisions for others",
"They feel they have a right to control their gf",
"Speaker does not want to consider critique and think they are right."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,837 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to hook up with a girl that I know my friend is interested in | What makes you think that your friend is into them? | [
"It is inconsiderate to sleep with someone your friend is interested in."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to hook up with someone you know your friend is interested in",
"You shouldn't try to take the girl your friend likes.",
"It's disrespectful to chase after a girl your friend wants."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/azflf0 | 4,838 | 0 | false |
He told me about it and he was acting so erratically. He kept texting her and even invited her to different places. I just want to show him who's the boss. | It's pretty rude and inconsiderate to want to get involved with a person that your friend is romantically interested in pursuing. If you end up hooking up with that person, your friend's emotions will be hurt and your friendship will suffer. Rather than go behind your friend's back and hurt him, it would be better to f... | [
"You should be respectful towards your friends"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wants to steal a girl from his friend",
"It's hurtful to want to put your friend down after they are honest with you.",
"Desires to impose power and dominance over the friend which is super disrespectful."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/azflf0 | 4,838 | 1 | false |
W/e. She's mine now. | I think that this is going to end badly. I think that you should consider your friend, it is not kind to sleep with some one that your friend has expressed interest in. | [
"You shouldn't disrespect your friend by going behind their back"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wants to steal a girl friend his friend and doesn't care about his friend's feelings",
"It's wrong to treat a girl like property.",
"Ignores the critique and still wants to pursue the girl."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/azflf0 | 4,838 | 2 | true |
How do you feel about me being mad at my parents? | Wait, why are you mad at your parents? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker asks a reasonable question.",
"problem with parents",
"Nothing socially unacceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b85l15 | 4,839 | 0 | false |
They constantly tell me I need to visit my aunts, uncles and cousins. | It's wrong to get angry at your parents for petty reasons. You should learn to let the small stuff slide. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker describes the situation.",
"reason for being mad",
"Nothing socially unacceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b85l15 | 4,839 | 1 | false |
They try to control my life, I like to live my life my way. | Wanting to live your life your way is fine but there's no reason to get mad about what they're asking. They just want you to be more involved with your family. Whether you do it or not is up to you, but you shouldn't get mad about it because it isn't even that big of a deal. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker continues polite conversation.",
"explaining feeling controled",
"Nothing socially unacceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b85l15 | 4,839 | 2 | true |
My friend was having a hard time walking on crutches so I'm going to push him down the stairs. | Is this some sort of joke that you think is funny? Why would you do a thing like that to a friend who is on crutches? That is so bad. | [
"It is expected to be helpful to friends.",
"It is rude to physically harm someone."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's harmful to push someone on crutches down the stairs",
"It's immoral and dangerous to push someone on stairs",
"You shouldn't push your friend down the stairs."
] | ethics_amt | 4,840 | 0 | false | |
I heard about this game online. I like to test the game out in action to see what would happen. | Sounds like a dangerous game that no one should be playing. It's not always a good idea to follow what others do online, as they are not being responsible or good role models. People can get seriously injured. | [
"It's wrong to push someone down a set of stairs.",
"You should not try to incorporate online games into real life."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker wants to push their friend who is on crutches down the stairs",
"Continuation of previous label",
"Says they think pushing someone down stairs is a game."
] | ethics_amt | 4,840 | 1 | false | |
Hey I'm just trying to have some fun here. It's just a game so no need to take it so seriously. | You'll hurt him once he is pushed down the stairs, and that is something that you should never want to do to a friend. Try helping him instead, because this doesn't seem like a good idea. | [
"You should help a friend who needs it.",
"It's harmful to push someone down the stairs."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker wants to push their friend who is on crutches down the stairs, which will harm him even more",
"Speaker does not seem to recognize the consequences of falling on stairs",
"Explains that they don't want to hurt him, just have fun."
] | ethics_amt | 4,840 | 2 | true | |
I'm thinking of kidnapping the baby. | Is that something you should do? | [
"It's wrong to kidnap a child."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's illegal to kidnap a baby.",
"You shouldn't kidnap people.",
"You shouldn't kidnap anyone."
] | ethics_amt | 4,841 | 0 | false | |
I'm only fantasizing about it. I just think that kidnapping wouldn't be so bad. | Kidnapping a child is bad and you could end up in jail because of it. You would cause the parents a lot of grief doing something like that. | [
"You shouldn't kidnap.",
"You shouldn't cause parents to worry about their children."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You should not even fantasize about kidnapping children.",
"Speaker is thinking of kidnapping a kid.",
"Admits to only fantasizing about kidnapping."
] | ethics_amt | 4,841 | 1 | false | |
It's just a game I play online. | Is the baby real or are stalking the family? | [
"You shouldn't stalk people online."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker does not seem to be serious, but is obsessing about kidnapping a child.",
"Speaker says it's just a game.",
"Admits that it's only a game."
] | ethics_amt | 4,841 | 2 | true | |
Why were the parents so upset over columbines bookfair? They didnt even have books, it was mostly just magazines. | Why would you make light of a mass shooting? | [
"It's not right to joke about their deaths"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is very inappropriate, offensive and hurtful to joke about a mass tragedy like a school shooting.",
"it's wrong to make jokes about shootings",
"It's hurtful to make jokes about mass shootings"
] | sbic | 4,842 | 0 | false | |
lol because i really think fucking reading is more important. | It's in poor taste to make fun of people dying. Have you considered that your words could be hurtful? | [
"It's not right to joke about their deaths"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker's response is unapologetic and reiterates offensive view.",
"it's wrong to make jokes about shootings and guns",
"It's offensive to joke about a mass shooting"
] | sbic | 4,842 | 1 | true | |
I don't want to share with my friend | But you still want to be friends? | [
"It is okay to have reasons for not wanting to share",
"You should always share."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker does not wish to share something.",
"They share a problem with a friendship.",
"speaker is being rude by not wanting to share"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,843 | 0 | false | |
No, I'd rather choose not to share anything than to be friends with her. | You shouldn't be so stubborn, especially with your friends. It's okay to want to keep things to yourself, but you should share good things with your friends, and they will do the same for you in return. | [
"You should not too selfish with others",
"It is expected that friends will share with one another"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker would rather not be friends than share.",
"They share more details of this friendship problem.",
"speaker does not want to be friends if they have to share"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,843 | 1 | false | |
Screw you, friends are a dime a dozen. I can just get another one. | That's such a horrible thing to say. People have feelings and care if you throw them away. You should be more considerate of others. | [
"You should not make dismissive comments about others",
"You need to be more considerate of others' feelings"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't insult someone.",
"They rudely reject any advice and choose to ruin their friendship.",
"speaker is rude and offensive"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,843 | 2 | true | |
I made an indie game that saw some success on Steam. All the sounds in the game are just me using some variation of the word n**ger. | How did you make this game? | [
"It's wroong to use racist language."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Made a racist game online",
"that's racist",
"That are racist using the N word."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c4t2y5 | 4,844 | 0 | false |
I made it for Android and was inspired by my distaste for blacks. | Using the n-word as part of the soundtrack for your game is racist and wrong. The n-word is offensive and hurtful for many people to hear. You should revise your game so that it does not use the n-word for its soundtrack or otherwise you will be banned from Steam. | [
"It's wrong to be racist.",
"It's wrong to use the \"n\" word."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"is racist against black people",
"that's racist",
"They continue to be racist toward black people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c4t2y5 | 4,844 | 1 | false |
I just don't like blacks and I thought that it would be a great game to express that. | It is never great to express prejudice against another human being especially when it involves hateful language like this. Take a good look inside and question this hatred that you are harboring for others. | [
"You should educate yourself rather than being racist.",
"You should learn to understand other races."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"continues their racist views on black people",
"that's racist",
"They continue their racist vitriol against black people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c4t2y5 | 4,844 | 2 | true |
I'm going to flake out on a film club meeting | Is there a reason for not going to the meeting? | [
"You should always attend your club meetings."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are going to blow off a meeting",
"Speaker doesn't want to attend club meeting",
"It's rude to flake on people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avvzgw | 4,845 | 0 | false |
I don't want to go. I feel like watching a movie in the cinema would be so stupid and ordinary. | It is not good of you to do something like that. You should always attend your club meetings. People are counting on you and this is something you signed up for you, so you should honor that. | [
"You should attend the meetings of a club you belong to.",
"You should honor your commitments."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They want to blow off a meeting",
"Speaker thinks the group meeting will be boring",
"They're calling someone's choices stupid."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avvzgw | 4,845 | 1 | false |
I feel like it's too much effort and I don't really like going out. | If you told people you were going to be there you should show up or call and let them know. If you do go you might actually enjoy the film. | [
"You should let people know if you are going to be absent."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"they are blowing off a meeting because they dont want to put in the effort",
"Speaker doesn't want to go out",
"They're explaining themselves."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avvzgw | 4,845 | 2 | true |
There are really only two oppressions. I'm not sexist, but I just remembered why I hate feminists. Unless you're Black or Jewish please stop whining. | Are you implying that feminists are always whining? | [
"It's not right to think feminists should be quiet"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to decide that women aren't oppressed.",
"It is wrong to marginalize the plight of others.",
"It's wrong to deny the oppression of women."
] | sbic | 4,846 | 0 | false | |
Yes because they are always complaining about the small things and not the real problems. | Personally, I think that they have a lot to say. I do not think that we should try to quiet them, it is just proving a point even more. | [
"It is unfair to try to silence people who you disagree with.",
"You should listen to people who have opposing views."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are explaining what they meant more.",
"They share their disgust for the unfortunate circumstances of others.",
"Speaker shouldn't deny the discrimination that women face in society."
] | sbic | 4,846 | 1 | false | |
Shutting up about your problems doesn't make it go away. | But everyone in this country has a right to air their grievances, so neither of us can judge if a group of people should be quiet or not. You need to allow all people to have their chance to speak. | [
"You should encourage all people to express their point of view.",
"It's wrong to silence people who are trying to explain their problems."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They don't think they've said anything wrong.",
"Continuation of the previous label.",
"Speaker shouldn't deny the discrimination that women face in society."
] | sbic | 4,846 | 2 | true | |
I almost got my friend fired | Why would you almost get your friend fired? | [
"You cannot be responsible for your friend's work performance.",
"You should be careful so that you don't almost get someone fired."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"situation is unclear",
"Speaker almost harmed their friend.",
"admits to causing problems for a friend with their job"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9v6zoc | 4,847 | 0 | false |
I can't let them do anything on their own at work; they are too stupid. | If your friend can't work well on their own, you shouldn't cover for them or help them do their job; they need to be able to do the work they're hired for alone. But if your carelessness in trying to help them got them almost fired, then you should apologize, and still let them stand on their own two feet at work. | [
"You shouldn't do someone's job for them.",
"You should apologize when you make something difficult unnecessarily."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is rude to call friend stupid",
"Speaker is being insulting toward their friend.",
"belittling friend's ability"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9v6zoc | 4,847 | 1 | false |
You're just a fucking jerk. | I am sorry, but I think you are enabling him and I was just trying to help. If you continue to help him, then it could backfire on you. | [
"It's wrong too give too much help to a person."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is also being rude about advice",
"Speaker violet is also now insulting speaker gray.",
"rejects advice in a mean way"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9v6zoc | 4,847 | 2 | true |
I sometimes eat my dog's fur | What makes you want to eat fur? | [
"You shouldn't eat things that aren't meant to be eaten."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"this is very strange and socially unacceptable behavior",
"Speaker violets behavior may be harmful to their health.",
"They discuss eating fur which warrants mental health care"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/chva40 | 4,848 | 0 | false |
It tastes like cheese to me and I like it. | Eating dog fur doesn't seem very healthy. You shouldn't eat things that aren't food. You might want to see if you have some kind of nutritional deficiency that's making you do this. | [
"It's unhealthy to eat things that aren't food.",
"You should visit a doctor if you feel like eating non-food items."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"the speaker does not express regret for doing it",
"Continuation of conversation.",
"They talk about the taste"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/chva40 | 4,848 | 1 | false |
It's fine, it's just fur. It will be out before long. | You should not eat it because it is not meant to be eaten. I think that it could actually get stuck in your digestive tract. | [
"You shouldn't eat things that aren't meant to be eaten."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"the speaker does not want to stop eating fur",
"Continuation of conversation.",
"They continue to justify the odd behaviour"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/chva40 | 4,848 | 2 | true |
I'm going to cut in front of someone in line, | Why would you cut in front of them? | [
"It's wrong to cut in front of people in a line."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is rude to cut the line",
"should wait your turn",
"Stating they are going to cut in line"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a89k7f | 4,849 | 0 | false |
They are not paying attention and they are holding up the line. | It is bad to cut in front of people in line. You should ask permission before moving. | [
"You should respect people who were waiting ahead of you"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"keep label, no remorse",
"cutting in line is bad",
"Not a valid reason to cut someone in line"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a89k7f | 4,849 | 1 | false |
But I'm late for work and the line should roll over in order to be fair. | Can you let them know the line has moved so they will move up. That is a much more polite way to get what you want. | [
"You should just calmly let others know if they are distracted",
"You shouldn't take advantage of people who aren't paying attention"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"keep label, no willingness to change",
"reasons for wanting to cut",
"Does not listen to reason and believes they are in the right"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a89k7f | 4,849 | 2 | true |
I'm full of fear | Do you think you can disregard those fears and live a happy life? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"expressing emotion",
"Speaker says they're scared of something.",
"describing their mindset"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9p5x5h | 4,850 | 0 | false |
I feel I'm a coward and I can't let go of my fears alone | I see that you know that you would like to get rid of your fears, but you may be unwilling to do so. In order for you to start, you should get help from people you know and that you are sure of having the ability to help you get rid of your fears so that you would feel free of them. | [
"It's good to seek help if you have a lot of fears"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs intervention",
"casual"
] | [
"expressing emotion is okay",
"Speaker seems to be having extreme trouble with fear, and asks for help.",
"further insight into how they feel, nothing inherently wrong so far"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9p5x5h | 4,850 | 1 | false |
I can't do it alone, you need to teach me how to overcome my fears. | I can teach you things that I know, and I will surely help you overcome your fears, but you can also get help from other professional people who can help you train for the better. I will support you along the way, whenever you need me. | [
"You should speak to a professional if you want to overcome your fears"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs intervention",
"casual"
] | [
"no bad intent",
"Speaker wants advice on how to overcome fear.",
"this is a cry for help in acknowledgement of their issues. healthy!"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9p5x5h | 4,850 | 2 | true |
I plan on keeping my young daughter from accepting a gift from my son's girlfriend. | Is there a reason why you do not want her to accept the gift? | [
"It's wrong to buy expensive gifts for your children"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The gift might be inappropriate.",
"It is rude to make someone refuse a gift",
"It's okay to choose who your daughter gets a gift from."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,851 | 0 | false | |
It's too expensive. | I think that's acceptable. Why don't you speak with your son's girlfriend about getting a more acceptable gift? It would hurt your daughter to see the gift and then have it taken away. | [
"It can be hurtful to see a gift and have it taken away.",
"It's understandable to not want your child to receive a overly expensive gift."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's understandable to feel an overly pricey gift is inappropriate.",
"It is rude to refuse a gift because you feel it is too expensive",
"They explain why."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,851 | 1 | false | |
I don't care what my daughter feels. I'm her mother and I can't let her accept more expensive gifts. | May just be a good idea to have a discussion about it. It kind of stinks to not give the gift to your daughter if your son's girlfriend meant for her to have it. In the end, it is ultimately your decision to decide on what to do though. | [
"It's good to talk things out with others when you disagree on a situation.",
"It's understood that a parent ultimately makes decisions regarding to their children."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Not caring about your daughter's feelings is wrong.",
"It is offensive that you do not care how your daughter feels in this situation",
"It's her choice."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,851 | 2 | true | |
So, will the French terrorists be heading to Turkey where Erdogan can protect them and send them safely to ISIS? | Do you think that Turkey is to blame for terrorist attacks? | [
"It's wrong to think all Muslims are terrorists"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's not good to blame terrorist attacks",
"You shouldn't assume that Erdogan is aiding ISIS without evidence",
"You shouldn't assume people are terrorists."
] | sbic | 4,852 | 0 | false | |
I blame them for harboring terrorists. | It isn't fair to blame an entire country for harboring terrorists, because majority of people do not support terrorism. Terrorists can also be from any country and isn't specific to any religion or region. Why not do more research on the topic to better educate yourself so you can have a better understanding? | [
"It's wrong to think all Muslims are terrorists"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are being rude to all of the good muslims",
"harboring terorists is wrong, and the other speaker is responding to things that this speaker did not say about Muslims",
"They continue to explain themselves."
] | sbic | 4,852 | 1 | true | |
I want to buy a replacement car my wife doesn't approve of | That sounds pretty neat! Why wouldn't your wife approve of the car? | [
"It's rude to buy things your wife doesn <rare> t approve of."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to buy a replacement car that you know your spouse doesn't like.",
"It's okay for two spouses to not agree on a purchase.",
"You shouldn't make big purchases that you and your spouse don't agree with."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,853 | 0 | false | |
She's crazy. She doesn't know what I'm going through. | It would be disrespectful to buy a car that your wife doesn't like. A car is a big purchase so you both should approve of the car. | [
"You should make big financial decisions with your spouse instead of alone"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's not okay to call your wife crazy.",
"This is harmless venting by a person about their spouse.",
"Insults wife to justify their purchase."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,853 | 1 | false | |
She knows I'm going through a lot and she shouldn't say that to me. | Just because you are having a mid-life crisis, doesn't mean you are allowed to spend recklessly. Your wife is just trying to look out for you, so maybe you should try listening to her side instead of ignoring her and buying it. | [
"You should listen to your spouse's side before making a big decision",
"It's wrong to ignore your spouse and be impulsive"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's not okay to justify your rude/disrespectful actions based on feeling unheard.",
"The speaker is being quite dramatic about their wife not understanding them, but it's not rude.",
"Gives more details to justify their actions."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,853 | 2 | true | |
There is a woman who got promoted over me and I feel resentful towards her. | You've been an employee there for how long? | [
"People might think you're just jealous if you get upset over someone else's promotion."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is feeling resentful towards someone because they got a promotion, which some people will find rude.",
"the woman might feel offended at this",
"Nothing offensive written here"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b215kh | 4,854 | 0 | false |
Been there 2 years now. | Instead of getting jealous, why not use that energy to improve yourself. Just pouting and getting upset will not help you. | [
"It is harmful to be jealous of others",
"You should work to improve yourself"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is answering questions with speaker gray, but has not backed down on the fact that they resent a woman for getting a promotion.",
"speaker does not revert their stance",
"Don't see any issues"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b215kh | 4,854 | 1 | false |
Nah, this is a good scheme for me. This bitch will fall on her face soon enough. | Getting jealous over someone's promotion isn't a good look and people will find your reaction to be petty. Harming her employment won't benefit you and it's disrespectful. I'd reconsider and focus on your own goals and how you can achieve them in the workplace. | [
"It is never okay to sabotage someone else's efforts",
"You should not be jealous of others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is cursing about a woman who got a promotion, calling her names. Speaker isn't listening to advice.",
"speaker calls the woman a bitch",
"Vulgarity and justifying scheming towards woman"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b215kh | 4,854 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to be a standby translator for my roommate | Why don't you want to be a translator for your roommate? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker makes a reasonable claim.",
"Speaker does not want to help their friend with something.",
"I am not certain if they are going back on something they said they would do previously."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ass77z | 4,855 | 0 | false |
I believe he is self-centered and selfish. | It is understandable not wanting to do favors for your roommate, especially if you don't get along at all. It will probably not make your relationship better if you help him if he is self-centered. | [
"It's easy to comprehend why you wouldn't want to help a selfish person"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains their feelings.",
"Explains why they don't want to help their friend.",
"seems rude, not sure if they already told them they would do it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ass77z | 4,855 | 1 | false |
I am angry at him. I want revenge. | Now you taking it too far. You don't have to be best friends, but revenge? For what? | [
"Seeking revenge against someone doesn't help anything"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker expresses vindictive feelings.",
"Speaker says they want to get revenge on their friend.",
"Seems harmful, perhaps talking to their roommate could help."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ass77z | 4,855 | 2 | true |
I'm going to kick people out of my life out of nowhere | Is there a reason to remove these people from your life? | [
"You should be loyal to the people close to you."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to kick out friends",
"They express a desire to get free from others.",
"Speaker is planning to cut people off."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/axw7ys | 4,856 | 0 | false |
I don't have to tell people why. They're just going to know it | It is okay that you do not want to be around certain people and have your reasons for it. But you should not kick out people from your life who are close you you. You should be loyal to them. | [
"It's ok to not want to be around certain people",
"It's rude to kick close friends out of your life"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to kick out friends",
"They want to rudely ghost others with no concern.",
"Speaker is planning to cut people off and not thinking of their feelings."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/axw7ys | 4,856 | 1 | false |
All friendships have a time limit. | That is not true, some people are going to be friends forever. I think that you should remain loyal to those that you are closest to. | [
"It's good to remain loyal to those closest to you"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to kick out friends",
"They fail to take into account other's feeling and lack empathy.",
"Speaker is planning to cut people off and not thinking of their feelings."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/axw7ys | 4,856 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my wife she needs to be more interesting | I hope that's not true. Why do you want her to be more interesting? | [
"Telling someone they are boring will probably be taken offensively."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to tell your spouse they need to be more interesting",
"They are planning a fight with their wife",
"They share their desire to criticize their wife."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asochu | 4,857 | 0 | false |
I'm tired of always having to ask her if she's doing ok. | She's your wife and it's rude to tell her that she's boring. You are expected to get along with her. Don't try to change what she is. | [
"It's rude to tell your spouse they are boring.",
"It's good to get along with your spouse."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is unconcerned with spouse's feelings",
"They have no empathy for their wife",
"They share their callousness towards their wife."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asochu | 4,857 | 1 | false |
She's so boring and I bet if I get someone new I'll be happier. | It seems like you are quite unhappy with your relationship. Don't you think your wife would be saddened from how you think of her? How about trying out couple's counseling, with communication you can improve your relationship with her. | [
"It's good to have couple's counseling to work on your marriage.",
"It's good to communicate with your spouse."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker speaks negatively and rudely about their spouse.",
"They insult their wife",
"They treat their wife heartless and contemplate leaving them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asochu | 4,857 | 2 | true |
Did you know that I am extremely self-conscious about my size in bed? | What does your size have to do with anything in bed? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Talking about their issues.",
"Speaker is expressing concern about size.",
"speaking about being self-conscious in bed."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9tz732 | 4,858 | 0 | false |
I feel like people can tell I'm not a great lover | You are a size that is unusual to you, some people feel awkward when making love in this case. Embrace the real you, and if anyone complains then you have to look elsewhere. People can be replaced all the time if they don't understand you, be more secure about that and you will always win in life no matter what it is a... | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Describing their insecurities in bed.",
"Speaker explains why they feel size is important to them.",
"describing why they are self-conscious"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9tz732 | 4,858 | 1 | false |
That's easy to say when it doesn't involve you. | Trust me, I've been worried about a lot of the same things that you are and it is normal. Judging yourself is sadly one of the most common parts of being a person, and you are not alone in this struggle at all. | [
"It's bad to be so insecure about yourself in bed.",
"It's ok to wonder about your bedroom performance."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Seems to ignore advice.",
"Speaker is dismissive of critique and doesn't want to consider it.",
"didn't accept critique, still self-conscious"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9tz732 | 4,858 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my mother my sister got a second job | Why would you tell her that? | [
"It's rude to tell other peoples secrets."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's not anyone's business to tell someone this except the person with the job.",
"This seems like it is just a simple statement or even gossip.",
"Don't have details on why this could be harmful yet."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a7r97w | 4,859 | 0 | false |
She doesn't pay for anything and always claims she's broke. | If she doesn't want your mom to know you shouldn't tell. It's a secret and she expected you to keep it. | [
"You should not betray others' trust"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's still not their business to tell.",
"It sounds like a gossipy, retaliatory attitude.",
"It's rude to disclose the information."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a7r97w | 4,859 | 1 | false |
My mom will find out anyway, since my sister was talking loud to her friends about it. | Well, it's fine if your mom finds out on her own. But, if your sister doesn't want to tell her, that's her business not yours. | [
"You should not tell other people's secrets without their permission"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are making excuses for their behavior.",
"No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued",
"The speaker intends to tell which is rude behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a7r97w | 4,859 | 2 | true |
I like my beer like I like my women. 9 years old and in my basement. EDIT: Fixed a spelling mistake. | Don't you think that's a pretty nasty thing to say? | [
"You shouldn't belittle the severe pain that molestation victims feel"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you should not joke about sex with underage kids",
"It's very offensive to make jokes about child sexual abuse.",
"It's offensive to make pedophilia jokes."
] | sbic | 4,860 | 0 | false | |
No. I'm totally kidding. I was just stating my preferences on this subject. | Even if your kidding, it's wrong to belittle the pain that molestation victims have to go through. That's a real life problem that some people have had to go through. Put yourself in their shoes. | [
"You shouldn't belittle the severe pain that molestation victims feel"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is making excuses that it was only a joke",
"It's very offensive to make jokes about children being sexually abused by adults.",
"Speaker makes excuses."
] | sbic | 4,860 | 1 | true |
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