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They always make me feel guilty even though I didn't do anything wrong.
If your friend makes you feel guilty for no reason, then it's expected that you would speak up for yourself. You should talk to your friend and explain to them how their behavior makes you feel. If their behavior doesn't change, then it's best to move on from the relationship.
[ "You should let your friend know their behavior is bothersome", "If your friend doesn't change, you should end the relationship" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker explains why they called their friend this name.", "speaker explains how the other person is being manipulative", "Speaker called friend emotionally manipulative." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b9h0m6
6,649
1
false
Ok, I'll do that.
I think you'll feel better about yourself once you do that.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker heeds advice, no harm done.", "speaker accepts advice", "Speaker will talk to them about it." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b9h0m6
6,649
2
true
I hacked my uncle accidentally.
What was your reasoning for hacking your uncle?
[ "It is wrong to invade the privacy of others." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Hacking people is wrong.", "Talks about harmful action committed against his uncle", "How does one hack someone accidentally? Seems immoral." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/ap7nq2
6,650
0
false
I hacked him as punishment for not loving me as much as his son.
It's unethical to hack into anyone's personal data and doing so might cause you to get into legal trouble. You should instead sit down with your uncle and make amends with each other rather than resorting to revenge.
[ "It's wrong to hack someone.", "You should apologize if you've done something wrong." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Hacking people is wrong.", "Shows no remorse about hacking his uncle", "Speaker is trying to punish their uncle." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/ap7nq2
6,650
1
false
He is too big for his own britches, he deserves to be grounded.
I understand that your relationship with your uncle is strained, but it's not your job to punish him and invading his privacy is wrong and unhelpful. You should talk to your uncle and let him know how you feel, as having a dialogue will help start the process of mending your relationship.
[ "It's wrong to invade someone's privacy to punish them.", "You should tell people how you feel if you're upset with them." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Hacking people is wrong.", "Doesn't listen and seems happy about decision to hack", "Continues to talk about getting revenge on uncle." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/ap7nq2
6,650
2
true
I'm going to tell my friends parents about her boyfriend they don't know about
Why would you tell your friends parents?
[ "You shouldn't spill someone else's secrets." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's harmful and rude to share a friends secret with their parent.", "You shouldn't give information about people that they don't want others to know.", "It's unethical to snitch on your friends." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/atlqaq
6,651
0
false
I want them to accept my friend's boyfriend.
It is wrong to out your friend if she is not in danger. You might lose you friend if she doesn't want her parents to know.
[ "It's wrong to tell a friends secret to their parents.", "It's wrong to potentially ruin a friendship." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't tell on your friend to her parent, it's hurtful and rude.", "You shouldn't give information about people that they don't want others to know.", "Their reasoning seems caring but it's still not something they should get involved in." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/atlqaq
6,651
1
false
She will thank me in the end. I just know it.
Whether you think the situation will turn out fine or not, you should not go behind your friends back and tell her parents about a secret she may have.
[ "It's wrong to go behind a friends back." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's offensive and rude to make decisions about your friends life.", "Speaker should not assume this and should ask their friend before revealing this information.", "They don't see why this is a bad way to go." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/atlqaq
6,651
2
true
I'm confused about myself and mood-swings.
Why are you confused about your mood?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Says they have mood swings.", "expressing natural feelings", "speaker is describing their emotions" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/1w6ny1
6,652
0
false
I have my good moments and my bad moments.
Mood swings can be confusing and it's natural to sometimes feel that way. You need to make sure you can manage your emotions. Otherwise, you might end up being irrational and do things that you will end up regretting.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Continues on about their mood swings, doesn't mention anything really inappropriate, yet.", "nothing bad", "speaker is still describing their mood" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/1w6ny1
6,652
1
false
But I don't like feeling this way.
It's understandable, but everyone is confused sometimes. If you really feel like you need help then you can talk to a therapist, who is trained to deal with this sort of thing.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Continues to explain they don't like feeling this way.", "normal emotions", "this is a casual conversation about mood/emotions" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/1w6ny1
6,652
2
true
How can you tell if somebody is Jewish Measure how long it take for there nose to arrive before them
What is the joke here regarding how long it takes Jewish people to arrive?
[ "It's not right to think jewish folks have big noses" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's racist to make anti-Semitic jokes.", "You shouldn't stereotype Jews.", "You shouldn't make stereotypical jokes about Jewish people." ]
sbic
6,653
0
false
Just look at their nose.
It's not okay to joke about one race's physical features. Everyone has their own specific features that come from their ancestors. Drawing attention to these features in order to shame them is inappropriate and hurtful.
[ "It's not right to think jewish folks have big noses" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker explains their racist joke.", "You shouldn't stereotype Jews.", "Speaker continuing to push stereotype." ]
sbic
6,653
1
true
It was still weird that we were video chatting each other.
What's weird about video chatting?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is expressing their feelings", "Nothing wrong with video chatting.", "Speaker was video chatting." ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/0903a471-0383-492e-bb30-d1086c81b4e7/sentence4
6,654
0
false
I don't know what to say sometimes.
I also am unsure of what to say at times when video chatting, it's normal to be uncomfortable while video chatting. If it was too comfortable it would be no different then talking face-to-face.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is expressing their feelings", "Nothing wrong with trouble communicating.", "Speaker doesn't know what to say sometimes." ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/0903a471-0383-492e-bb30-d1086c81b4e7/sentence4
6,654
1
false
I'm still a bit uncomfortable while talking to them, but I'm starting to get over it.
That's good! It just takes some time and finally you will be comfortable 100%.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is expressing their feelings", "It's common to have trouble communicating in various ways.", "Speaker is going to get over being uncomfortable about talking to them." ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/0903a471-0383-492e-bb30-d1086c81b4e7/sentence4
6,654
2
true
I want my children to develop a relationship with my fiance, and attend our wedding
Do you know how they are feeling about your fiance?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker is expressing his/her thought and it is reasonable", "No moral harm here.", "speaker casually discussed a situation" ]
ethics_reddit
6,655
0
false
They met her briefly but haven't spent much time with her.
It's only natural to want your children to spend time with and develop a relationship with your fiance. She'll be part of their life and much as you are so of course you would want that. I hope they end up liking her!
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It is understandable so they have a good relationship in the new family.", "Just trivia.", "speaker elaborated on their situation" ]
ethics_reddit
6,655
1
false
How am I supposed to know?
You could always ask them about how they are feeling about her. It is nice that you want them to spend some time together before the wedding.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It's a polite and the speaker is trying to work with the children and fiance", "A non-moral issue.", "speaker continued polite conversation" ]
ethics_reddit
6,655
2
true
I'm thinking of perjuring myself to protect an animal abuser
What are you trying to protect them from?
[ "It's wrong to commit perjury.", "People will look down on you if you help someone cover up a particularly nasty crime." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Unethical and harmful speech", "Speaker may be causing self harm by perjury.", "The speaker wants to do something unethical to protect someone who is also doing something unethical." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/d79pn9
6,656
0
false
They have been charged with animal abuse
Knowingly commiting purjury just to protect someone that has committed a crime is immoral and unjust. You should honor your oath to tell the truth and let justice determine what happens to the animal abuser.
[ "You should never lie in legal matters", "You should let justice prevail" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Wants to protect an animal abuser", "Speaker wants to protect a person causing harm.", "The second sentence is normal, but the overall conversation is still unethical and harmful." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/d79pn9
6,656
1
false
I think it's unfair that he's on trial.
It's not up to you what is fair. The courts will go over the evidence and provide a ruling.
[ "You should not decide someone's guilt or innocence", "Trials need to be based on evidence and truthful testimony" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Won't listen to advice; committed to doing wrongs", "Speaker continues to want to protect an animal abuser.", "Again, the speaker plans on doing something unethical, illegal, and potentially harmful." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/d79pn9
6,656
2
true
I will always hate my life and my personality
Are you hoping your life gets better?
[ "It's acceptable to change what you don't like about yourself." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It seems they might need mental help, but it's not an emergency yet.", "It's harmful to have such a negative opinion of oneself.", "You shouldn't keep putting yourself down." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9vdplf
6,657
0
false
Hope is a waste of time. I need to make my life better.
Making your life better is a good goal, if you don't like something and want to change it, you should. It could lead to a happier life.
[ "It's good to want a better life", "You should change something if you are unhappy" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They just seem to be venting.", "Continuing the yellow label, but seems motivated to change their life.", "Wants to try and take action to their life." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9vdplf
6,657
1
false
I don't have time for that.
I believe that there is always a way to make room for important things! Working on yourself is really important to make sure that you are happy and healthy for a long time. How about scheduling a work vacation so you can get started?
[ "It's good to pursue a happy and healthy life" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They haven't done anything unethical here.", "Says they don't have time to make their life better.", "But doesn't want to put in the time and effort it takes." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9vdplf
6,657
2
true
Because of the treatment my family and I received, I'm going to report the waiter to the restaurant manager.
Can you tell me about the bad service your received at the restaurant?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "they are talking about reporting bad service", "Its okay to report things if the service was terrible", "They share a bad restaurant service story." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/audpac
6,658
0
false
We asked for spoons and forks with our main course, but we got mediocre cutlery.
Getting subpar cutlery is not your waiter's fault. Reporting them to their manager for something not under their control is improper. Talk to the manager about your issue, but leave the waiter out of it.
[ "It's bad to blame the waiter for the cutlery.", "It's good to talk to the manager when you have an issue." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "they want to report the waiter for the restaurant's cutlery", "I am not sure what kind of cutlery they got without seeing it but maybe it was dirty? But evenso, the waiter wasn't the one to do it.", "They explain why their restaurant service was so poor." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/audpac
6,658
1
false
I can't stand the thought of her getting away with this. It's not right.
The waiter isn't getting away with anything as the cutlery is something out of their control. It is wrong for you to complain about them to a manager because doing that could truly harm the career of the waiter. How would you feel if that happened to you?
[ "It's bad to complain about things the waiter has no control over." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "they want to punish the waitress for the restaurant's cutlery", "They refuse to believe it wasn't the waiter's fault.", "They want to make things right and be compensated for the mistreatment of restaurant staff." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/audpac
6,658
2
true
I want to talk about what's going on in my head but don't want to burden those close to me.
Do you think they might judge you? Can you help me understand?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Nothing harmful, speaker is seeking help", "It seems they might need mental help.", "Speaker doesn't want to burden others." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/a0kj8d
6,659
0
false
Yes, they would start to hate me
Friends are supposed to be there for you when you are in of need help, so you shouldn't be afraid or seeking their support and comfort. If they judge you, then obviously they are not friends worth keeping.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is having mental health issues, but isn't acting harmfully", "They seem to be insecure and depressed.", "Speaker is worried about other's thoughts." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/a0kj8d
6,659
1
false
I've been sick and wanted to talk to someone but I did not want to bother anyone.
You are not a burden. If you feel you might cause them trouble you can see a therapist.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Continuation of help-seeking behavior", "They haven't done anything unethical here.", "Speaker is sick but doesn't want to be a burden." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/a0kj8d
6,659
2
true
It should be mandatory for all boys to stfu 200x a day It should be mandatory for all girls to do 20 squats a day
Why do girls need to exercise?
[ "It's not right to think women must stay thin" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's offensive to make sexist jokes.", "You shouldn't tell what people should do", "You shouldn't stereotype men or women." ]
sbic
6,660
0
false
girls must stay thin because some of them are not that thin.
We are all human, we eat to survive. Some people think looks is the only way to get what they want and others just love their body for what it is. Thin or fat.
[ "You should not judge women's bodies" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They are doubling down on their biased comment.", "It's offensive to call some girls fat", "You shouldn't advocate sexism." ]
sbic
6,660
1
false
Sometimes fat people really offend me.
It is wrong to think a woman's thin ness is her worth. Nobody would say the same thing about a fat man. It is really unfair how people are treated based on their sex don't you think?
[ "It is wrong to judge people on their appearance" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They are also being mean to fat people now.", "Speaker is fatphobic", "ignoring the feedback" ]
sbic
6,660
2
true
I'm not going to move in with my gf
Is there a reason you aren't going to move with her?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "This is casual conversation, we don't know the reason they don't want to move.", "Speaker may have good reason", "Speaker won't move in with gf." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/aci7xg
6,661
0
false
Yes, she lives so far away from me and getting up to her house takes me 2 hours.
Living apart is difficult in a relationship but sometimes it is acceptable. It has to be discussed with your partner so that you both agree. You don't want to have to break up over this.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "This sounds like a normal reason to not want to move (it is too far away).", "Speaker is being reasonable", "Speaker says gf lives 2 hours away." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/aci7xg
6,661
1
false
She really wants me to live with her and I agreed too, but I want to take it slow. I know I can't always be away from her, but we only just got serious.
I'm sure if you explain that to your girlfriend then she will understand.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "There's nothing wrong with taking things slowly, this is an acceptable conversation.", "Speaker is conflicted, hasn't done anything wrong", "Speaker wants to take things slow." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/aci7xg
6,661
2
true
I'm going to distract my friend from his girlfriend
How do you plan to do that?
[ "It's rude to get in the way of a friend's romantic relationship." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "We need more information to judge what's happening here.", "Could potentially cause conflict with the friend and his girlfriend.", "This could be rude because it could upset the girlfriend" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9wm0t9
6,662
0
false
I know some girls he doesn't like at all, I'm going to call them and invite them for a drink
I see you've put a lot of thought into this. I'm not sure why, however, because friends shouldn't get in the way of the romantic relationships of their friends. I'm sure your friend wouldn't appreciate this meddling!
[ "You shouldn't do things to change friend's romantic interests up" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They seem to be wanting to cause trouble for their friend.", "Likely to create conflict with the friend.", "This is rude, the speaker should not invite people that are not liked" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9wm0t9
6,662
1
false
We are great friends, I want him to know how I feel.
Part of being a great friend is supporting them in their relationships. Getting in the way of their relationships is mean and could ruin your friendship.
[ "It's rude to try to mess up friend's affairs in any way", "You should support a friend in a positive way" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They are still planning on trying to cause problems for their friend.", "While this sounds positive on its own, the speaker is not taking advice and is going to create a conflict with their friend.", "The speaker should know not to invite the girls if they are such great friends" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9wm0t9
6,662
2
true
I'm going to disregard fish tank size
Is there a reason for disregarding the size?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Violet begins to state an opinion but we don't yet know why.", "It's okay to be selective when buying a fish tank.", "Speaker is talking about a fish tank" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ar5tll
6,663
0
false
Engineers are working on ways to make fish tanks larger.
It's expected that people take care of their pets. Therefore, you should always get the correct sized fish tank for fish.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Violet states something they learned about fish tanks.", "Speaker explains that newer and better fish tanks are available in the future.", "Still talking about fish tanks" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ar5tll
6,663
1
false
I've learned that smaller tanks allow you to feed your fish more, so they like it.
Even if you can feed them more it would be better to give them enough space to swim. How would you like it if you had to live in a tiny world with no way to escape?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Again violet mentions something else they learned about fish and fish tanks.", "The speaker seems to be receptive to feedback by giving more knowledge to the gray speaker. Overall, the topic and dialogue are very causal.", "Still talking about fish tanks" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ar5tll
6,663
2
true
What do you call interracial marriage? Beauty and the Beast.
Seriously? Are you saying that interracial marriage reminds you of a monster?
[ "It's not right to think all non-whites are ugly" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't make racist jokes.", "You shouldn't discriminate against interracial marriages.", "It's awful to make such jokes about interracial marriage." ]
sbic
6,664
0
false
Yes the white partner is the beauty and the other one is the beast.
People of all races are attractive and should not be compared to beasts. Everyone has the right to love and happiness and they can marry someone from any race that they fall in love with. Calling non-white people ugly beasts is offensive.
[ "You should not insult people based on their race.", "All people should have a right to be happy." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Continues making racist comments.", "They explain their racially charged joke.", "Speaker is calling the black person in the relationship a beast." ]
sbic
6,664
1
false
Are you one of those politically correct, SJW type of person? Could have fooled me.
I'm just a person who believes that you shouldn't believe that minorities are ugly. You could be missing out on a great relationship with a wonderful person by just disliking them for the color of their skin.
[ "It's wrong to judge a person based on their skin color.", "Judging people based on their appearance can rob you of a future friend." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Tries to insult the other speaker based on their advice.", "Continuation of the previous label.", "Speaker not taking critique seriously." ]
sbic
6,664
2
true
I have a problem with the real reason my best friend doesn't use the n word
What do you think is your friend's reason for not wanting to use the N-word?
[ "Friends should respect how each other chooses to behave.", "Using racial epithets is culturally insensitive." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "the n word is a slur", "Needs more information.", "explaining issue in friendship about using a racial slur" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ahflo8
6,665
0
false
I'm his token black friend, he's scared to use the word in front of me.
But you have to understand from his perspective that he chooses not to use it as a form of respect for you as a friend. He knows well that using the N-word is culturally insensitive and does not want to make you uncomfortable. You should respect his choice and right or he might feel too much pressure from you.
[ "You should respect the personal choices of your friends." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "it is not appropriate to use slurs", "Speaker mentions a friend, but does not create conflict.", "believes friend is only holding back on using racial slur around them" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ahflo8
6,665
1
false
I can't respect him, I'm going to use it as much as I want to prove he's a fake ass nigga.
Surely using it around him all the time is going to make the situation all the more uncomfortable right? Do you really think using that word so frequently is the best solution? Why don't you just talk to him about how you feel?
[ "It's good to share your feelings with your friends." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "you are expected to respect your friends", "Speaker wants to create conflict for their friend.", "speaking negatively about friend and using racial slur" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ahflo8
6,665
2
true
I think I'm going to look through my boyfriend's phone.
Why are going to look through his phone?
[ "It's bad to spy on your significant other." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It would be wrong to do this, but they are just thinking about it.", "Spying on your partner is wrong.", "privacy violation" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ba677l
6,666
0
false
I want to be sure that he's not cheating on me with someone else
That is not a good things to look through your bf's phone. It could end damaging your relationship if he finds out.
[ "You shouldn't invade your partner's privacy.", "It's detrimental to your relationship to not have trust." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "This is an unethical way to go about finding out if someone is cheating.", "Justifying their actions.", "situation hasn't changed" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ba677l
6,666
1
false
I don't care. It is my lover and he should not be hiding anything from me.
But shouldn't you learn to just trust him instead? That way you wouldn't have to live in fear of him cheating on you all the time.
[ "You shouldn't constantly fear that your partner is cheating.", "It's possible for lack of trust to indicate self esteem issues." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They haven't been swayed from being rude.", "Rejects critique.", "situation hasn't changed" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ba677l
6,666
2
true
I've been eating my boogers since I can remember and can't force myself to stop
What caused you to have that habit?
[ "You should not do disgusting things." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It is weird to eat your own boogers.", "Speaker admits to unhygienic habits.", "speaker is doing something that could cause health problems" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cafbec
6,667
0
false
I started eating them in childhood and its stuck ever since.
You should try to end that habit as it is considered disgusting. If you continue, you may accidentally carry out that habit around others. If this happens you will be looked at negatively, which can affect your self-confidence.
[ "It's wrong to continue disgusting habits" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker shows no remorse for doing something disgusting.", "Speaker cops to origins of unhygienic habits.", "speaker should know to stop by now" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cafbec
6,667
1
false
I'm finding it harder to stop, but I know you are right.
I am glad you can see it is bad. It might be hard at first but you can try to carry some issues with you at all times and remember to use them when you need.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker sounds like they are willing to stop.", "Speaker agrees to address unhygienic habits.", "speaker seems to know they should stop" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cafbec
6,667
2
true
What do you think about me sharing my ex-girlfriends nudes that she sent me?
Why would you share a nude picture with others?
[ "You should never share nude photos of an ex with your friends." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs intervention" ]
[ "They are thinking of sharing intimate photos without permission.", "Speaker should not have shared these, it's not righ", "Speaking of sharing photos that are private and revealing." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/aejsfo
6,668
0
false
She thinks I won't and I intend to prove her wrong.
It sounds like you are very upset with your ex but you should never share naked pictures of your ex. This is actually against the law and there could be severe legal consequences.
[ "It's illegal to share someone else's intimate photos.", "You shouldn't let anger guide your actions." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs intervention" ]
[ "They want to deliberately break that persons trust in them.", "Speaker should not share them because its rude and will harm the girl", "Saying the person doesn't think they will but they intend to." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/aejsfo
6,668
1
false
You are over analyzing this; this is just a nude picture, who cares.
I'm not over analyzing, it's just childish and could potentially have legal ramifications.
[ "You should think things through." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs intervention" ]
[ "They dismiss any concerns raised.", "Speaker does not understand that they are in the wrong", "Not seeing the issue." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/aejsfo
6,668
2
true
I hate those girls who get annoying as hell when they're drunk.
Can you tell me why? Also, what do you mean by "annoying as hell?"
[ "It's not right to think women are annoying when drunk" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't hate on any specific group of people, even if you find their actions annoying.", "It's wrong to express hatred towards people who are intoxicated.", "its rude to make comments about people you do not know" ]
sbic
6,669
0
false
Obv, when they're drunk they can be a fucking pain in the arse. They say the most idiotic stuff, end up breaking stuff and of course start fighting with their boyfriends ALL THE TIME :D
I think it's stereotypical to assume that women become annoying when they're drunk. All people can be annoying when they're drunk, so picking on women isn't really fair.
[ "It's not right to think women are annoying when drunk" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is continuing to speak bad about certain groups of people and justifying their words.", "Speaker continues, explains what they believe women are like when they are intoxicated using vulgarity and offensive stereotypes.", "speaker is making judgments based on people he does not know" ]
sbic
6,669
1
true
Do you know I remained patient and treated him with respect?
That is great. What were you trying to get out of it?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker just poses a question.", "Speaker expressed they were patient and respectful.", "Casual conversation" ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/1e8c9e0e-b9e9-4be1-b359-3192a92a6065/sentence4
6,670
0
false
Expectation of an equal treatment, I treated him with respect because I expected equal courtesy.
I agree with what you are saying. Treating others with respect should result in you being treated with respect in kind.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker explains why they acted how they acted.", "Speaker reasonably explains why they were respectful.", "Casual conversation" ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/1e8c9e0e-b9e9-4be1-b359-3192a92a6065/sentence4
6,670
1
false
How was I supposed to know he didn't respect me?
You couldn't have known, but the fact that you are treating him with respect, I think it will likely reciprocate. It is about looking ahead and not back, so hopefully things will work out as you want them to. You are amazing for doing what you did because it takes a lot of effort to sidestep your ego.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker poses a reasonable question.", "Speaker continues the polite conversation about respect.", "Casual conversation" ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/1e8c9e0e-b9e9-4be1-b359-3192a92a6065/sentence4
6,670
2
true
I'm thinking of after I had a bad weekend, photos of my abusive ex showed up on a mutual acquaintances facebook page. Apparently he had a great weekend.
why do you care about your ex?
[ "One should move on after a break up." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "explaining what happened", "speaker indicated thinking about a harmful and bothersome situation", "statement of past event" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/25ydf9
6,671
0
false
I don't. I don't give a fuck.
He's your ex now so you should not let his personal life affect you anymore. You need to move on.
[ "You should move on with your life after a break up" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "ok to not care about an ex", "speaker carried on the conversation in an offensive and rude manner", "offensive language" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/25ydf9
6,671
1
false
He still pisses me off, though.
You need to move on. It does you no good to dwell on him.
[ "It's good to forget about people from past relationships" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "can be hard to get over an ex", "speaker showed no sign of receiving advice", "offensive language" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/25ydf9
6,671
2
true
Can I not shower for a month?
That seems gross. Why would you not shower for a whole month?
[ "It's expected that you keep your body clean." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "this is a socially acceptable conversation", "Speaker inquires about unhealthy behavior.", "Speaker wants to not shower for a month which goes against social norms" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/af2u0b
6,672
0
false
My girlfriend hates it when I stink.
You don't sound like you treat your girlfriend well. Proper hygiene is important and it's expected that you shower daily. If you begin to small bad, she may kick you out.
[ "It's rude to smell bad on purpose.", "You should treat your girlfriend well." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "this is a socially acceptable conversation", "Speaker gives more details.", "Speaker is trying to be rude to girlfriend by not showing for a month" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/af2u0b
6,672
1
false
I'm trying to make her angry at me.
Well she definitely will be angry at you and so will other people who have to smell you. People need to keep their body clean otherwise they will shun by others because of their stench.
[ "It's understandable to shower to prevent odors.", "It's okay to bathe to prevent shunning." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "trying to upset someone is not right", "Speaker is trying to antagonize their girlfriend.", "Speaker wants to get girlfriend angry" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/af2u0b
6,672
2
true
I'm going to ask the girl I'm dating to change her bra
Are you really going to do that? Why would you?
[ "Asking a woman to change her bra is rude.", "It is distasteful to ask your partner to change her underclothes." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It can be rude to tell people what to do.", "rudely telling the girl their dating what to wear", "Desires to take control of what their girlfriend wears, which is abusive." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b3j3fc
6,673
0
false
Because it irritates me. She looks better without it
It's very rude, and disrespectful, to ask any woman to change her underwear just to please you. You should allow your girlfriend to dress in a way that she finds comfortable and pleasing.
[ "You shouldn't be disrespectful toward women.", "You shouldn't be controlling of what your partner does." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Violet justifies telling girlfriend what to wear.", "being petty and mean towards this girl", "Is being very aggressive to have her dress how he wants, which is abusive." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b3j3fc
6,673
1
false
I'm going to ask her to change it. She doesn't need to wear it. Maybe she will look cuter.
I understand you want to be very intimate with your girlfriend, but don't you think she would feel uncomfortable being demanded to change to your needs? How about just letting her wear what she likes, and you can gift her something the both of you might like.
[ "You should accept your partner for who they are." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Violet doesn't accept critique and continues to be rude.", "still trying to tell this girl what to wear", "Is set on their preferences, which can make her feel vulnerable being forced to do it." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b3j3fc
6,673
2
true
I think my parents found out that I smoke
How did they find out you smoked?
[ "Parents typically get angry when they find out their children smoke." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "they are talking about their life", "It is harmful to smoke and to do it behind your parents' back.", "Says they smoke." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/e7kzjl
6,674
0
false
I was using their account to buy cigarettes.
You should know smoking is dumb, and using their account and expecting them to not notice is just stupid.
[ "You shouldn't smoke.", "You shouldn't use other peoples accounts." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs intervention" ]
[ "they used their parents money", "It is wrong to spend your parents' money on cigarettes without them knowing.", "Was buying cigarettes with their account, presumably too young to get their own legally." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/e7kzjl
6,674
1
false
It's only one cigarette a day.
Even if it's only one cigarette a day, you are opening yourself up to getting lung cancer. You should just quit smoking altogether.
[ "You shouldn't do things that risk your health.", "You should quit smoking if you do it." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs intervention" ]
[ "they stole to smoke", "They are justifying smoking.", "Minimizes their behavior." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/e7kzjl
6,674
2
true
Oh, and they're not Henry VIII powers by the way. Stop trying to make dictatorship sound quaint. Christ, the English are fucking drab.
Do you have a problem with the english people?
[ "It's not right to think English people are stupid" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "it's wrong to generalize about an entire country", "It's rude to have predjucide against the English people.", "It's rude to belittle people based on their country of origin." ]
sbic
6,675
0
false
the fact that the english literally rejected their crown. They deserve what they got
The English people have been some of the most successful people on the planet. They have made many contributions to science and technology that everyone around the world uses today.
[ "It's not right to think English people are stupid" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "it's wrong to hate an entire country", "Speaker is still predjudiced against the English.", "They double down on their disrespect of the English." ]
sbic
6,675
1
true
I'm annoyed with a friend because of the guy she's seeing
Why does this make you feel annoyed?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It's okay to feel annoyed at someone.", "It is not clear what is happening yet", "Speaker is expressing how they feel about a person their friend is dating." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ar0arg
6,676
0
false
If they are in my friend circle then I would avoid them.
It can be hard to be annoyed with a friend and a friends new boyfriend. But, talk things out with her before this situation turns into a bigger issue.
[ "It's good to talk about your feelings." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "They haven't done anything unethical here.", "you should try to accept the partners of your friends", "Speaker explained more about the person they don't like." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ar0arg
6,676
1
false
Fuck that, I can just not be friends with them. Who do you think you are telling me what to do?
If it's continuing to be a struggle to maintain the friendship, try to sit down with both of them and have an honest conversation
[ "You should talk about how you are feelings with your friends." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They are being rude to the assistant.", "people do not like to be told what to do", "Speaker is cursing and is defensive about critique." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/ar0arg
6,676
2
true
I'm not going to expect my best friend to make time for me.
Do you want him to make time for you?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker is casually talking about their friend.", "Speaker has an issue with a friend, but no details given", "Reasonable attitude taken towards friendship." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/awtbi6
6,677
0
false
I don't want to bother him with all my problems, I can deal with them on my own.
There's no need to be prideful. You don't think your best friend would make time for you if you asked?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker confesses they don't want to be in the way.", "Speaker seems sad over friendship issues but it is polite", "Speaker shows consideration for friend." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/awtbi6
6,677
1
false
Close friends are a waste of time and I would rather use that time doing other things.
If you don't ask, the answer is always no. Drop the pride and ask your friend to lend their ear.
[ "Don't be stubborn and ask your friend to lend their ear." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker explains that close friends are not needed.", "They are protecting themself and don't seem like there is potential for escalation", "Speaker takes resentful stance towards friendship." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/awtbi6
6,677
2
true
Which incels here are obviously socially retarded and not bad looking ?
I don't really agree with you on the way you view mentally ill people.
[ "It's wrong to think mentally disabled people are unlovable" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's rude to make fun of mentally ill people.", "It is impolite to address others with such derogatory terms.", "You shouldn't refer to people as mentally ill slurs and incels." ]
sbic
6,678
0
false
It's just a joke, I don't want to hurt anyone.
Putting down the mentally ill the way you are is not fair to them at all. People with these disabilities do well and function in society and can also be loved just as any other human. I would try to put yourself in their shoes and see how you would feel about that comparison being made.
[ "It's wrong to think mentally disabled people are unlovable" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's rude for the speaker to think it is ok to joke about the mentally ill.", "They admit to their inappropriate sense of humor.", "Claims it's a joke which already probably harmed some." ]
sbic
6,678
1
true
I changed my clock settings to military time because it's a slight inconvenience to anyone that uses my phone to check the time.
Do you think it would help them out?
[ "It's good to let someone use your things." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "There's nothing really harmful here", "It's rude to make a choice just to inconvenience others.", "Changed clock settings to avoid inconvenience" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/964igf
6,679
0
false
I think it is very logical.
It is thoughtful to consider what would be most helpful when others used your devices. They would appreciate the hard work you put into it.
[ "It's good to help make tasks easier for others." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "Continuation of previous label", "They are proud of their choice to be rude to others.", "Takes logical actions" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/964igf
6,679
1
false
Yeah, it is important for them to stay on schedule and they don't bother with the traditional ways of doing things.
It's very nice of you to change your clock to help them out. They probably really appreciate it.
[ "It's good to help others." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "Continuation of previous label", "They are wanting others to do things their way.", "Wants to help people stay on schedule" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/964igf
6,679
2
true
Sex sells and sexy girls are needed to boost the rating of a programme or product. That is what shared by a marketing officer to me.
Are you sure sex is needed to sell?
[ "It's not right to think women are to be used as sex objects" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's sexist to objectify women for money.", "It is wrong to see sex as good way to sell a product.", "its wrong to joke about sex" ]
sbic
6,680
0
false
Can you stop making fun of me?
Wanting to sell a product is understandable, but women should be considered as more than sex objects. A product should be able to stand out on its own merit without objectifying one gender to make it stand out among the rest. Would you be open to seeking an alternative route focusing on advertising on the products meri...
[ "It's not right to think women are to be used as sex objects" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's rude to accuse people who disagree of making fun of you.", "The speaker is being rude to other speaker and not willing to understand their comments as wrong.", "its wrong to joke about sex and women" ]
sbic
6,680
1
true
I think we should just leave all the anti vaxxers alone At least they can't train a new generation of dumb cunts
Is that what you really feel about anti-vaxxers?
[ "You shouldn't joke about anti-vaxxers shouldn't raise kids" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't use such a terrible word to talk down to a group of people.", "It's rude to call people names that do agree with you.", "It's rude to attack the family of people you may not like." ]
sbic
6,681
0
false
I don't care about them, I just wish they couldn't have kids because their kids would be idiots.
You have the right to disagree with people but don't you think it's a little unfair to hope they don't reproduce? I think it would be more beneficial to teach these people why vaccines are really effective instead.
[ "You shouldn't joke about anti-vaxxers shouldn't raise kids" ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs intervention", "needs caution" ]
[ "Believing that any group of people shouldn't have children is pretty harsh.", "Speaker continues to have ill words toward anti vaxxers.", "It's wrong to make fun of children." ]
sbic
6,681
1
true
I don't give a shit about Nazis.
Yeah, Nazis were horrible. Do you not have a problem with Nazis?
[ "You shouldn't joke about Nazis." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't dismiss a particular group for their behavior.", "You shouldn't like the Nazis.", "It's rude to use cuss words." ]
sbic
6,682
0
false
No, this is just a joke. I'm just being stupid.
The holocaust was a traumatizing event for many people and it can be hurtful to be reminded of it even by mentioning parts of it. You should go to a holocaust museum to understand what happened there and why it can be hurtful.
[ "It is wrong to make light of the holocaust.", "You should educate yourself about tragic historical events." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "The speaker puts themselves down saying it was a joke.", "Speaker joked about Nazis.", "They are being nonsensical." ]
sbic
6,682
1
false
It's not even that serious.
I believe it is, because even today Nazis exist and they are causing a lot of trouble. Don't you think trying to mention or joke about them would give them more exposure and desensitization? Maybe it would be more wise to just never give them the attention.
[ "You should not make insensitive jokes about nazis.", "You should ignore deplorable people." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "the speaker doesn't believe these events are serious.", "Speaker sees the holocaust as not serious.", "They don't seem to understand." ]
sbic
6,682
2
true
May they just need to turn these savages loose , justice will take care of itself .
I suspect you're implying blacks are savages?
[ "It's not right to think black folks are dangerous" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't call people savages", "It's wrong to speak of black people in an offensive way.", "It's rude to assume black people are savages." ]
sbic
6,683
0
false
Yes I think Blacks should be free to do whatever they want.
I don't know how you came to the conclusion that all blacks are dangerous. It's wrong to generalize their race because it's immoral.
[ "It's not right to think black folks are dangerous" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker considers black people savages", "Speaker is still racist againts blacks.", "Speaker makes racist generalizations about black people." ]
sbic
6,683
1
true
I'm thinking of selling the rings, is that wrong?
It depends, do you need the money that badly?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It's fine to sell something of yours if you need money.", "It's unknown if the speaker would be in the right of selling the rings", "We don't know what rings the speaker is going to sell or why they want to sell them." ]
ethics_reddit
6,684
0
false
Yeah I have to, otherwise we will not be able to eat.
If you need to sell the rings for food, you should. Material things should not take precedent over your health.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The speaker is explaining more about why they want to sell some rings.", "The speaker seems to be focusing on their health over material things", "It's reasonable to sell the rings since the speaker badly needs money." ]
ethics_reddit
6,684
1
false
I'm going to sell one of the rings to help pay her dentist. I'm going to sell the other one to help pay a bill.
Who ever purchased the rings will understand that you need the money for more important things, so do not feel bad for selling the rings.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It's understandable to sell jewelry to be able to pay for bills.", "Understandable that the speaker needs to let go of these material possessions to pay for health and bills", "Speaker reasonably explains why they want to sell the rings." ]
ethics_reddit
6,684
2
true