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I've got a bad feeling on how this is going to turn out for us Americans who are sick of illegal and legal immigration. | So you consider yourself racist? I am trying not to be as appalled as possible but it is really not that easy. | [
"It's not right to think immigrants ruin countries"
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"It's wrong to make statements that diminish the value of others.",
"You shouldn't hate immigrants."
] | sbic | 3,062 | 0 | false | |
Yes, I am a racist. | This is a generalization about foreigners who just want to seek peace from being in a bad country, nothing more. Have you ever watched a documentary about what they go through to get here? I have seen them and it will change your mind quickly! | [
"It's not right to think immigrants ruin countries"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"speaker admits to being racists",
"Saying they are racist.",
"Speaker is racist toward migrants."
] | sbic | 3,062 | 1 | true | |
I want to drop out of high school | What makes you want to drop out of high school? | [
""
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9oxlrs | 3,063 | 0 | false |
The feeling of being cornered all the time is killing me | You should try to finish your high school education so things aren't harder for you in life. You can decide not to go to college if further education doesn't suit you. | [
""
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"speaker explains the stress they feel"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9oxlrs | 3,063 | 1 | false |
What will I do if I drop out of high school? How can I get a job that pays good money? | Those are very good questions, and they underline the importance of finishing high school. While you may not need, or desire, to go further and get a college degree, the fact is that not having a high-school diploma will hurt you in the long run. You could always talk to the school counselor if you are feeling troubl... | [
""
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"casual"
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"speaker listens to advice and asks further questions"
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I don't want to repay my ex the money that I owe her. | Is there some reason that you don't want to repay her? | [
"You should always pay people back."
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She's blackmailing me to be her friend on facebook. | I understand that your ex is blackmailing you, and that is the reason that you should pay her back. You should always pay people what you owe them. Then there will be nothing for a person to hold over you. | [
"You should always honor your debts",
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That's a really good point. If I pay her back she'll probably leave me alone. | That's exactly what I'm trying to say. If you give her the money she's asking for, then she'll have no reason for her to keep contacting you. I think it would be better for both of you if you gave her the money. | [
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I won't scoop my own poo out of the toilet | Do you just leave it in there? | [
"You should clean up your own mess."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
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Yes I do, I worry that someone will smell it and find out. | I don't know what kind of toilet that you are talking about, but you don't need to scoop it out. Pushing down on the metal lever on the back will automatically flush it all away for you. | [
"It's helpful to use the lever when trying to flush the toilet.",
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I just don't care. It's a problem for someone in the future to take care of | I think you actually do care, which is why it is important for you to learn about how bathroom appliances work. | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2nsus | 3,065 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of leaving my husband. | Is there a reason you want to leave him? | [
""
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] | ethics_reddit | 3,066 | 0 | false | |
He doesn't treat me like a queen anymore. | You may not feel the same as you did when you were first married, but dropping your husband because he doesn't pay the same attention to you anymore is not right. Marriage is a process and you need to work on developing yours not ending it. | [
"You shouldn't end a marriage over not being treated like queen."
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] | ethics_reddit | 3,066 | 1 | false | |
Life is too short to be with people I don't love. | Is there a deeper reason you say you don't love him or is it because he's not treating you like a queen? If you don't love one another any more than a divorce is fine, but don't end it over something petty and minor. | [
"It's ok to divorce someone if you don't love them anymore."
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] | ethics_reddit | 3,066 | 2 | true | |
I dreamt that my brother had cancer and now I feel like I should reach out to my family before it's too late. | Was it reality or a dream? | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ona8b | 3,067 | 0 | false |
I'm not sure, i woke up after finding out he had cancer. | That sounds like a scary dream but if it gets you to reconnect with your family then it's great you had it. Losing touch with family can lead to regret later on. | [
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"casual"
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ona8b | 3,067 | 1 | false |
Oh I agree on that. I got so distracted by school and work stuff the last year. | I hope he doesn't have cancer after all. We can get so busy with life we miss the little things and connections with people. I hope you can make stronger bonds with your family this year. | [
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My lifestyle will not change just because of climate change | You do not feel it is necessary to alter your behavior for the environment? | [
"It's bad to not think about the environment."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
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"casual"
] | [
"It's wrong to ignore climate change",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ajml3c | 3,068 | 0 | false |
My lifestyle is created from my own efforts. I do not plan on changing it for anything in the world. | Climate Change is one of the biggest problems happening today and it needs to be addressed by everyone. Climate Change is a serious situation that requires behavior change in everyone and you are behaving selfishly by thinking that you do not have to change. | [
"It's good to address climate change."
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ajml3c | 3,068 | 1 | false |
I am not changing. I feel like the world is always trying to force me to do stuff. | You should really try to keep the environment in mind with what you do. This does not require a ton of effort to make big differences in your carbon footprint. | [
"It's good to keep your environment in mind when you do things that could affect it.",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ajml3c | 3,068 | 2 | true |
I thought all was safe and I got up and called the police. | What made you call the police? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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] | socialchemistry | rocstories/a28b89c6-ffd3-417b-974a-41420a8923e9/sentence4 | 3,069 | 0 | false |
I saw a black man walking around. | If you have witnessed a crime or you feel that you or someone else is in danger, you absolutely should contact the police. Calling the police on someone just because they're black is not right, though. | [
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] | socialchemistry | rocstories/a28b89c6-ffd3-417b-974a-41420a8923e9/sentence4 | 3,069 | 1 | false |
I am sure that the black person is a criminal. Why else would he be here? | It is very rude to call the police just because you see a black man walking around. He could live in the neighborhood, or he could be visiting someone. | [
"It's rude to racially profile a person"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | socialchemistry | rocstories/a28b89c6-ffd3-417b-974a-41420a8923e9/sentence4 | 3,069 | 2 | true |
I'm selfish and vain. | I am surprised to hear you say this. How are you selfish and vain? | [
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] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
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"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
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"Nothing offensive written here",
"Speaker is selfish and vain."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/79e1hn | 3,070 | 0 | false |
I'm so effortlessly good when it comes to games. | It's good to have confidence in yourself. But don't be too vain and proud of it. | [
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"It's wrong to be vain."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
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"Don't see any problems",
"Speaker is a braggart."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/79e1hn | 3,070 | 1 | false |
Are you saying I'm wrong? | Usually people try not to be too into themselves. You need to be able to care about others in life. | [
"It's good to care about others in addition to yourself."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
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] | [
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"Speaker doesn't want to admit they are wrong."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/79e1hn | 3,070 | 2 | true |
I'm going to criticize the way my mom homeschooled me | Do you think that the reason why she homeschools you is that she loves you? | [
"It is ok to criticize homeschooling if your mom did it poorly."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
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] | [
"It's unknown why the speaker wants to criticize their mother homeschooling them",
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"you shouldn't criticize your parents"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9x1gce | 3,071 | 0 | false |
No, she just want to show off in front of her friends at school from when she was young | It's fair to make such a criticism if she didn't do a very good job. Just be an objective judge. | [
"It is bad to question the way that your parents taught you",
"It is wrong to brag to your friends"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9x1gce | 3,071 | 1 | false |
There is no need to be an objective judge. If you think your mom is the best you should move out and forget your family. | It makes sense to be upset with your mom for not doing a great job home schooling you. I can only imagine being deprived of going to school and also not getting a quality education simply because of your parents decision. | [
"It is okay to be upset about a bad education",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9x1gce | 3,071 | 2 | true |
I am a white conservative, and even I would have voted to acquit OJ. | What is your reason for claiming you would have voted to acquit? | [
"You shouldn't acquit someone who clearly broke the law."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
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"Speaker would have voted to acquit OJ."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bzsgcf | 3,072 | 0 | false |
I just think he should have gotten off because he was a well-known, rich ex-athlete. | People should not get away with crimes just because of who they are or how much money they have. It is wrong to support law-breaking. You should reconsider your ideas of lawfulness if you think it is fine for certain people to get away with murder. | [
"It's wrong to let someone get away with a crime because they are a rich athlete"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bzsgcf | 3,072 | 1 | false |
Nah. | If someone clearly broke the law then you should definitely not be acquitting them. This is just putting a dangerous person back out in society. | [
"You should convict someone guilty of a crime"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
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"Speaker won't listen to advice and thinks murderers should get away with it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bzsgcf | 3,072 | 2 | true |
I like my women like I like my golf scores In the eighties with a slight handicap | I find your taste in women a bit disturbing. What your general thoughts on women? | [
"It's odd to target women that have disabilities"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's ageist and sexist to make jokes like this.",
"It's rude to joke about people being disabled",
"It's rude to joke that you like old handicapped women"
] | sbic | 3,073 | 0 | false | |
Women should always be handicapped to keep things interesting and competitive. | I find it odd to go after women that specifically have disabilities. We should do our best to treat all women equally regardless of any disability they may have. Being all-inclusive is the best way to go about things in my opinion. | [
"It's odd to target women that have disabilities"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
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"explaining their inappropriate joke",
"thinks they keep things interesting"
] | sbic | 3,073 | 1 | true | |
I've never been in a relationship or had any contact with the other gender | Do you want to have a relationship? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
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"casual"
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"Speaker talks about relationship woes.",
"It's not wrong for speaker not to have had sexual experience."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/anji9g | 3,074 | 0 | false |
I want to see what's like to be with a bisexual. | Not everyone gets to have a ton of relationships so it's fine that you've never had one really. Have you tried going out and dating people? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
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"casual"
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"Speaker is entitled to explore their sexuality."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/anji9g | 3,074 | 1 | false |
I've noticed that every time I date someone that I get very bored and then lose contact. | I see, it sounds like like you just haven't found the right person. It is okay to take your time and find the right person. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"Everybody has their own ways of relating to people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/anji9g | 3,074 | 2 | true |
I drank a lot of beer in my younger days | Why did you drink a lot of beer in your younger days? | [
""
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I just felt like it at the time. | Looking back on your youth can be a good way to lift your spirits. It can remind you of good times if you are not feeling so good in the present. | [
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I agree. | I'm sure you do. I bet you had a lot of adventures in your younger days. | [
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How do you give a child a pedicure? With a pedo-file | Why would you say that? | [
"It's not right to marginalize assault victims for a joke"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
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] | [
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] | sbic | 3,076 | 0 | false | |
I'm saying that using my pedo-file will help them grow nails and a fresh pedicure | I really don't think it's funny to marginalize assault victims just for a joke. These people have gone through real horrors and it's mean to trivialize them. You should put yourself in their shoes before you make such jokes. | [
"It's not right to marginalize assault victims for a joke"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution"
] | [
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] | sbic | 3,076 | 1 | true | |
I'm thinking of trolling tinder and talking to the losers on the app. I want to get their attention then just ghost them and destroy whatever self esteem they had left just for fun. | Why would you want to mess with people like that for fun? | [
"It's mean to purposely hurt people's self esteem."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"It's rude to mess with people online."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bbym71 | 3,077 | 0 | false |
I really enjoy the way the losers act when someone cuts their cords | I get that you want to have fun but don't do it at someone else's expense. It's pretty messed up that you would consider hurting someone's self-esteem to be fun in the first place but you and I both know you shouldn't do that. Try finding a hobby to keep you entertained instead or something. | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bbym71 | 3,077 | 1 | false |
I don't care about others. I only care about myself. | I don't think you really believe that. I think you would feel hurt if someone did that to you. Try being a little more kind. | [
"It's good to be kind to people."
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bbym71 | 3,077 | 2 | true |
I snitched on my best friend for smoking. | Why did you snitch on your friend for smoking? | [
"It's disloyal to tell on your friends."
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/hudpn | 3,078 | 0 | false |
I did it because I want her to quit smoking. | It's good that you're concerned about your friend but you betrayed her by telling on her. You have to find more supportive ways of convincing her to stop smoking. | [
"It's wrong to snitch on a friend",
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I'm making her a better person. She can't make it without her friends. | I know you meant well, but you'd be better off talking to her about this rather than "turning her in." She's unlikely to quit smoking unless she wants to herself. | [
"It's good to talk to your friends when you're concerned about them"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
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"it's wrong to tell on friends just because"
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Can I yell at a kid over sauce packets? | That's mean. What's the deal about sauce packets? | [
"It's wrong to harangue children over nothing because you don't like them."
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"It is not nice to yell at kids.",
"Speaker asks if they can yell at a kid"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ba0uy7 | 3,079 | 0 | false |
It's simply because I don't like kids | I know sometimes children can be annoying, but it's wrong to yell at them for no reason. You should probably avoid going to Chuck E. Cheese or Disneyland. | [
"You shouldn't yell at children for no reason.",
"You should avoid going to kid-centric places if you hate kids."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"It is not nice to treat children badly just because you don't like them.",
"Not liking kids is not a good reason to yell at them"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ba0uy7 | 3,079 | 1 | false |
What's wrong with yelling at kids. It's natural for a kid to recognize that yelling means they are being bad. | But they are not being bad just by being loud. You should stop harassing children because you don't like them. Their parents will get upset for you messing with their children. | [
"It's wrong to think children are bad just for being loud.",
"It's wrong to harass children."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It sounds like they regularly yell at kids, which is unethical.",
"They are still justifying yelling at children.",
"Speaker feels yelling at kids is a good way to teach kids, when there are better ways for kids to learn that are not harmful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ba0uy7 | 3,079 | 2 | true |
I'm going to expose my mom as a racist bigot to all of her liberal dinner guests | Is there a reason you're being so mean to your mom? | [
"You shouldn't expose your parents."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is rude to embarrass your mother in front of her guests",
"They pick an inappropriate time to confront their mothers bigotry.",
"seems rude, initiating conflict"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asg2lj | 3,080 | 0 | false |
Yes, they're not actually my real parents and they're not really my real family. | I know you're upset, but you shouldn't just expose your parents at dinner. You're just gonna create a big fight. | [
"It's wrong to expose other people at events.",
"You should avoid creating big fights."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"keep label, no improvement",
"They reveal why they don't care about their family.",
"initiating conflict, mean intent"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asg2lj | 3,080 | 1 | false |
It's what they deserve. They've been living a lie and all of their friends deserve to know the truth about my mom. | Even if they are racist, perhaps you can talk to them about it instead of ambushing them at a dinner party. It seems like this could cause a permanent rift between you and your parents. I really encourage you to handle this privately and not in front of your parents' friends. | [
"You shouldn't confront someone about something at a party in front of others.",
"You should handle private problems privately."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"keep label, no remorse",
"They give a self righteous justification for their intent.",
"bad intent, rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asg2lj | 3,080 | 2 | true |
I don't want to fill in for my friend for a prom assembly | Why don't you want to fill in for their prom? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to not want to do something like this.",
"Speaker may have a good reason for not wanting to fill in",
"Doesn't want to do the prom assembly, but not sure why"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atmsf4 | 3,081 | 0 | false |
It's too much work for me. I'm not his slave | It can be a lot of work to do that. But be a good friend and help out, don't back out on your commitments. | [
"You shouldn't back out on commitments to friends."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It seems reasonable to not do something you don't have time for.",
"Speaker is being a bit weird here and just seems rude",
"Thinks it would involve too much work, which is reasonable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atmsf4 | 3,081 | 1 | false |
He's lucky for having me. I'm such a good person. Just kidding, I'm not. I'd do anything for the best cause. | Try to follow through on your promises unless you absolutely cannot. Your friend is depending on you and I am sure you will depend on them in the future. Helping them out will strengthen your bond. | [
"It's good to be a friend someone can count on."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Although they seem a little like a jerk, what they've done isn't unethical.",
"Speaker is being very egotistical and rude",
"Seems to want to help out in the end anyway"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atmsf4 | 3,081 | 2 | true |
I feel like I lost the life I had after a brain injury | Why do you feel like you lost your life? | [
"If you have a brain injury, you should get some help from a doctor."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"they feel like they are in medical need",
"Speaker feels like they are lost after their brain injury.",
"Expresses their struggles with a major injury."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bfeeez | 3,082 | 0 | false |
I feel like missing something that is not about physical abilities. | A brain injury is hard to recover from, if you are still having problems, you should seek help. The doctors might be able to fix and help you lead a more normal life. | [
"You should seek help with medical conditions that are long-lasting."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"they feel like they are in medical need and not well",
"Speaker feels they are missing something.",
"Describes how they feel about the injury."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bfeeez | 3,082 | 1 | false |
I don't think it's primarily the brain injury itself, but how my family pressures me about different things. | I don't think that it is healthy to let the brain injury make you suffer, if it is continuing being a problem then I suggest you have your surgery as soon as possible as it may get worse over time. | [
"You shouldn't let yourself suffer unnecessarily.",
"It's good to stop illnesses from getting worse."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"they feel like they are in medical need and want to get it fixed",
"Speaker feels pressured by family.",
"Ponders on what else can possibly make them feel unwell."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bfeeez | 3,082 | 2 | true |
Harvey Weinstein must have been really good because now the ladies are all shouting | Please help me to understand what you mean by saying that he must have been good to the victims of his assaults? | [
"It's not right to think assault victims wanted the assault"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to make jokes about rapists.",
"It's a bit insensitive to make a joke like that.",
"You shouldn't make light of sexual assault or sexual harassment."
] | sbic | 3,083 | 0 | false | |
That they wanted to get assaulted. | No woman wants to be assaulted by anyone, and the women who are now speaking up are doing so because people are finally willing to listen. Harvey Weinstein forced himself upon women by using his power over them in the workplace, and this should not be celebrated. | [
"It's not right to think assault victims wanted the assault"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker clarifies that they don't believe the victims, which is hurtful.",
"This is an escalation of the previous attitude.",
"The speaker is saying that the women wanted to have their lives upended by being physical harmed through assault."
] | sbic | 3,083 | 1 | true | |
I don't want to sacrifice my easter holidays to take care of our kitten | Why wouldn't you want to take care of your kitten? | [
"It's expected that you take care of your pet."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker implies they don't care about their pet",
"That sounds very lazy and wrong, give the kitten to someone else to care for it permanently then. I don't get why the harmful carelessness.",
"the speaker doesn't want to miss out on a holiday to take care of a cat"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ba2r26 | 3,084 | 0 | false |
Because it's just a stupid animal. | I'm sorry you feel that way, and that tells me you probably shouldn't be a pet owner. If you plan on keeping the kitten, however, you need to take care of it! | [
"You should take care of your pets.",
"You shouldn't feel your pet is just a stupid animal."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker shows they have hate for their pet",
"They have a kitten and think it is stupid, makes no sense. They want it to suffer? That is very crude and cruel at the same time.",
"they don't like cats"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ba2r26 | 3,084 | 1 | false |
I am but you need to face it, cats can take care of themselves. I don't like them so losing the cat is fine. It can go on its own without me. | An animal is a huge responsibility, just like a child! Taking care of a cat can lead to many wonderful memories, experiences, and talent. Who knows if you'd come warm up and love the cat one day, give it a chance. | [
"It's understood that pets are a big responsibility.",
"You should give pets a chance for you to love them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker has a pet but doesn't want to care for it and could cause harm for the animal",
"Kittens can't take care of them self always, the speaker is ignorant about the care of kittens and cats. I suspect they are not going to care for a child any better and therefore I deem this speaker to be borderline crim... | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ba2r26 | 3,084 | 2 | true |
I'm going to spilt gin all over my friend in a lesson then not say anything as the teacher notices | Why would you want to be so mean to him? | [
"It's bad to get your friend in trouble."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's mean to spill things onto your friend and mess them up.",
"It's rude to spill things on people and potentially get them in trouble.",
"It's wrong to spit alcohol on someone, as this is a form of assault, and you could both get in trouble for drinking during class"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9z8j40 | 3,085 | 0 | false |
Yes, for some petty reason I do it. And I have no reason behind it | You shouldn't try to be getting your friends in trouble. They'd be really upset. | [
"You shouldn't cause trouble for your friends."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker is giving an unreasonable excuse for messing up their friend.",
"They don't even have any reason why they want to do this.",
"No change to speaker's intentions"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9z8j40 | 3,085 | 1 | false |
What does it matter as long as I'm having amusement. | Your friend is going to feel so betrayed by you. It is bad to get your friend in trouble for your own amusement. | [
"You shouldn't betray your friends.",
"You shouldn't find amusement in your friends misfortune."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker is not receptive to feedback.",
"They are going to do this even though they've been told it's unethical.",
"This harmful situation is likely to continue unimpeded"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9z8j40 | 3,085 | 2 | true |
I'm going to insist my partner that she should get rid of a kitten she's in love with. | Why would you make her get rid of something she loves? | [
"It's wrong to force someone to get rid of a beloved pet."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is being too controlling in a relationship.",
"Trying to control people is rude.",
"This is needlessly insistent and likely to cause real emotional harm"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3gavl | 3,086 | 0 | false |
I want her to be more upset than I am. | It's cruel to force someone to get rid of something they love. They will resent you for an incredibly long time and likely suffer emotionally from being separated from their pet. | [
"It's traumatizing to force someone to part with a pet they love.",
"Forcing someone to do something can create resentment."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Forcing emotions onto others is socially unacceptable.",
"Forcing people to get rid of their pets is unethical.",
"Speaker's attitude is openly malicious"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3gavl | 3,086 | 1 | false |
It's a family pet and I'm going to take it, pay for an air ticket to fly it to the same place where my last one died. | How would you feel if someone does that to you? If you planning on something like that i'm sure your partner will leave you for good. You should leave her alone with her pet. | [
"Forcing a partner to choose between you and a pet can ruin a relationship.",
"You should mind your own business when it comes to others and their pets."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is threatening harm.",
"Rude behavior",
"Speaker seems to intend imminent harm to an animal"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3gavl | 3,086 | 2 | true |
I'm going to make my sister pay for my broken switch controller. | Is there a reason you think she should pay for your broken controller? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is describing a personal matter",
"speaker indicated being in conflict with a sibling in a casual way",
"conversation about their sister breaking a Switch controller"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahgfr9 | 3,087 | 0 | false |
Because she broke it when she borrowed it and brought it to her house. | It's understandable that you would want her to pay for something of yours that she broke. You should ask her to pay you back for it in a polite manner. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker's reason for wanting their sister to pay for their controller is reasonable.",
"speaker elaborated on their situation",
"explaining why they want their sister to pay for it"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahgfr9 | 3,087 | 1 | false |
Hopefully she doesn't try to get out of paying for it. | I'm sure she'll have no issue paying for it as long as you talk to her about it politely. It also might be a good idea to think twice about letting her borrow something of yours again. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Casual response.",
"speaker continued conversation in a polite vein",
"further conversation about the Switch controller story"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahgfr9 | 3,087 | 2 | true |
I'm pretending to be a christian for the better part of five years now | Okay, but why do you need to pretend you're a Christian? | [
"You should not pretend to be something you are not."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to pretend to be a christian",
"Pretends to be a Christian.",
"You should not pretend to be something you're not."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/80ga05 | 3,088 | 0 | false |
I don't know, It all happened in the past. I needed something to be proud of | It is good to want to make up for the past, but it is not good to pretend to be something that you are not. People will feel betrayed when they find out. | [
"It's wrong to pretend to be something you're not"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to pretend to be a christian",
"Explains vaguely why they are doing this.",
"You should not pretend to be something to raise your self-esteem."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/80ga05 | 3,088 | 1 | false |
There is nothing wrong with me lying about something that happened to me in the past. | Even if it has happened in the past and if no one was really harmed by your actions, you know for your own good that you have lied and that alone makes it something that is morally wrong. I do suggest you don't pretend who you are and make sure that you are honest with all of your dealings in the future. | [
"It's wrong to pretend to be someone else",
"It's good to be honest with others about who you are"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't think it's wrong to lie",
"Says there is nothing wrong with what they are doing.",
"Speaker excuses lying, which is wrong."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/80ga05 | 3,088 | 2 | true |
I can't believe that I'm in love with a married woman. | Why are you in love with a married woman? | [
"You shouldn't cheat on your spouse.",
"You shouldn't confess your love to someone if they are married."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker has immoral thoughts of being with a married woman",
"nothing odd was said",
"they are in love with someone who is married"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8mzxtl | 3,089 | 0 | false |
I don't just love her because she's married. There are also certain aspects of her personality that I really like. | We don't have much control over who we fall in love with, but we can control the actions we take. If you feel like you're in love with someone who is married, then you need to keep your feelings to yourself. Cheating on one's partner is wrong, and if you confess your feelings you may be encouraging her to stray from he... | [
"It's okay to feel affection for someone else",
"It is wrong to do anything to break up another marriage"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker has immoral thoughts of being with a married woman",
"opinion shows no signs of issue",
"they are in love with someone who is married"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8mzxtl | 3,089 | 1 | false |
You must not have ever loved someone. You don't understand how much it sucks to love someone who is married to someone else. I'm going to confess my love and live my life. | I think that's a bad idea, if you confess your feelings to her then you're only going to make your relationship more uncomfortable. I know you feel very strongly about this woman, but confessing to someone who is married to only bring problems for you. Take a step back and try to get some perspective. | [
"You should not try to break up another marriage",
"Feelings for someone who is already in a relationship should be kept private"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker has immoral thoughts of being with a married woman, and plans on acting on those thoughts despite knowing it could ruin her marriage",
"strong but common feelings",
"they are in love with someone who is married"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8mzxtl | 3,089 | 2 | true |
I drank "too much" milk at work | Too much? How much is too much? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This sounds like they accidentally drank too much milk.",
"Speaker drank too much dairy",
"There's nothing wrong with drinking too much milk"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,090 | 0 | false | |
I got symptoms flare up from my disease. | It is wrong to drink too much milk if you know you will have a bad reaction. You could become sick and offend people from the smell. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Having a disease flare up on you is out of your control.",
"Speaker drank too much dairy despite their lactose issues",
"Speaker not necessarily creating harm for others"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,090 | 1 | false | |
I drank 1.5 liters. | That's way too much if you know you react badly to dairy products. Be more responsible in the future. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They explain how much milk they drank.",
"Speaker drank too much dairy despite their lactose issues",
"Oh boy that's a lot of milk. Speaker did nothing wrong."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,090 | 2 | true | |
Ugh, I'm tired of people treating me like trash. I think I am a coward who allows people to walk all over me. I hate myself | Why do you feel this bad about yourself? Did something happen in your past? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker admits to feelings of insecurity.",
"They share their depressed mood and social difficulties.",
"Speaker hasn't said anything bad"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bh1fxo | 3,091 | 0 | false |
Yes, I regret it so much. I would want to change so many things about myself. | You shouldn't let people walk over you, but if they mistreat you in this manner, that is their fault. It doesn't make you a coward if they are disrespectful, but if you hate yourself, you could benefit from talking to someone about your reasons. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker admits to wanting to change faults.",
"They share their desire to change themselves for the better.",
"Speaker seems reasonable and thoughtful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bh1fxo | 3,091 | 1 | false |
I know, I just really hate myself. | Have you ever tried counseling or life coaching? Either of those things could be beneficial in helping you be more assertive and have more self respect. | [
"If you hate yourself, you should get some help.",
"You shouldn't let people walk all over you."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker admits self-loathing, could potentially be suicidal.",
"They refuse to acknowledge the steps needed to improve themself and continue self loathing.",
"Speaker seems a little depressed but hasn't said anything bad"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bh1fxo | 3,091 | 2 | true |
I'm going to throw organic waste (chicken bones orange peels etc.) out the window while I'm driving | What you crazy? Why would you throw it out that way? | [
"Littering is wrong."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is going to throw waste out window while driving",
"Speaker wants to litter",
"Speaker is going to litter."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3ltwa | 3,092 | 0 | false |
I don't want to pick it up anyway, so I throw it out of my window | Regardless of what you want to do, you should know it is not okay to litter. Besides the chicken bones can splinter and severely injure the animal that ingests them. | [
"You should not leave litter for others to deal with",
"Some litter can be harmful to wild animals"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Talks more about throwing waste out their car window",
"This does not justify littering",
"Speaker wants to litter while driving."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3ltwa | 3,092 | 1 | false |
I just want to throw things out the window. | It is far easier to just throw those kinds of things into the garbage anyway. You could hurt someone throwing food out of the car while driving and besides, if someone sees you littering you could be fined. | [
"You should just follow standard disposal practices for your waste",
"There can be consequences for littering"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Does not want advice",
"Speaker is unwilling to reconsider",
"Speaker wants to litter."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3ltwa | 3,092 | 2 | true |
What's the difference between a pregnant woman and a light bulb? You can unscrew a light bulb. | That sounds like a crude joke. What do you mean to say, with this statement? | [
"It's not right to think pregnant people are sex objects"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to joke about screwing pregnant women.",
"You shouldn't compare women to objects",
"You shouldn't compare humans to lightbulbs."
] | sbic | 3,093 | 0 | false | |
Just fucking with you. It's not a real thing. Go away liberal retard. | Reducing women to the punchline in a sex joke is degrading to women. There is more to a woman that her ability to please a man sexually. You should show more respect toward women, especially pregnant ones. | [
"It's not right to think pregnant people are sex objects"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's insulting and ableist to call people retards.",
"its rude to disparage women",
"You shouldn't stereotype people who disagree with you."
] | sbic | 3,093 | 1 | true | |
Don't you think having a college football mascot at your wedding is an asshole move? | What makes it seem too tacky to you? | [
"Weddings are expected to be personal for the bride and groom."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it’s wrong to judge what other people do at their wedding",
"It's okay to believe this.",
"It's rude to be judgmental of another person's wedding."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/as789v | 3,094 | 0 | false |
I'm not sure if I want to be at this wedding if it's going to be that silly. | It may seem odd for a wedding to have such extravagances. The wedding of others is a personal matter and it is entirely up to them how they want to decorate it. If you can't look past their way of doing things, then you shouldn't go. | [
"It's ok to let others do things their way"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"judging what makes other people happy at their event is rude",
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"It's rude to be judgmental of another person's wedding."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/as789v | 3,094 | 1 | false |
I'm going to diss this wedding on social media and tell the world about how horrible that wedding is. | Saying horrible things about someone's wedding is really uncalled for. To be honest it sounds like you might have some jealousies to deal with. You should probably try setting those aside, so you can go enjoy the wedding and reception with everyone else. | [
"It's wrong to say bad things about someone's wedding",
"It's good to set your jealousy aside"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its rude to post meanly about someone’s wedding when you could just choose not to attend",
"It's rude to be mean about such a trivial thing and not go to a wedding because of it.",
"It's rude to be publicly critical of someone's wedding."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/as789v | 3,094 | 2 | true |
Last year, I was into a girl that was in kindergarten. | Holy hell, seriously? Do you think it is appropriate to be into a girl that young? | [
"It's wrong to be attracted to children."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"You shouldn't be romantically interested in children.",
"it's wrong to sexualize children",
"You shouldn't be attracted to someone that is underaged."
] | sbic | 3,095 | 0 | false | |
I only mean that I thought that she was cute. I'm not saying that I would assault her. | Even if your intentions aren't malicious, being attracted to an underage girl is inappropriate, especially when that girl is in kindergarten. Children don't know how to handle being the object of someone's attraction, and putting a child in that position is predatory. You should seek out therapy to handle your attracti... | [
"It's wrong to be attracted to small children.",
"You should get therapy if you're a pedophile."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Pedophilia is wrong.",
"they try and rationalize their confession",
"Justifying their reason being attracted to an underaged person."
] | sbic | 3,095 | 1 | false | |
It was only an opinion. Let's put an end to this conversation. | If you are attracted to children in kindergarten, then you need to see a therapist. It is not a good opinion to have, and people will believe that you are a disgusting pedophile. | [
"You should see a therapist if you are attracted to inappropriate people."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Dodging a conversation to avoid getting help for a potentially harmful condition is wrong.",
"they reject critique and change subject",
"Did not accept the advice of the other person, will continue to be attracted to the underaged person."
] | sbic | 3,095 | 2 | true | |
Do you think I was rude to ask a local waitress to pick something up for me in town. | I guess it depends on why you asked. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker makes a socially acceptable comment",
"It's unknown what the speaker asked them to pick up",
"it is not clear what the speaker did"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/545eba7e-fad9-4744-b713-99575c692186/sentence1 | 3,096 | 0 | false |
I need this really thing quickly and she works there. | If the waitress can help, that's great to get help. It's efficient. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker makes a socially acceptable comment",
"Doesn't seem to be an issue if they work there",
"it is okay to ask others for help"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/545eba7e-fad9-4744-b713-99575c692186/sentence1 | 3,096 | 1 | false |
She wouldn't help, but I'm going to ask other waitresses until someone says yes. | It's okay if you want to ask around, but make sure you're not pestering everyone. If they don't want to get it for you, don't try to pressure them into it. | [
"You shouldn't pester people trying to get them to do you a favor."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker makes a socially acceptable comment",
"The speaker is approaching this in a way that could be annoying to other people that are working there",
"it is okay to ask people for help when they can help you"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/545eba7e-fad9-4744-b713-99575c692186/sentence1 | 3,096 | 2 | true |
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