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I'm a hostess and if someone keeps staring at me to be seated quicker I always move their name lower on the list | Why do you do that? | [
"It's unethical to try to take revenge on people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's petty to make people wait longer because you don't like how they're looking at you.",
"Speaker admits to treating customers unfairly",
"It is unfair to punish people who you are making wait."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aol8bc | 3,097 | 0 | false |
I hate people staring at me, thinking that it will make a difference. | I know it can get annoying with people staring at you waiting to be seated. But taking revenge in that way may only exacerbate the problem. | [
"It's rude to retaliate against customers when you are at work."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Justifying their reasons for being petty",
"Speaker admits to treating customers unfairly",
"It is rude to mistreat people because of your insecurities."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aol8bc | 3,097 | 1 | false |
You think I should just seat them normally? I'll do it, but damn I don't like it. | Yeah you know if you put them down the list they will be there longer staring at you more. You should just accept it is first come first serve and seat them in the order they come in. If you are uncomfortable you can ask for a different position. | [
"It's ok to look for a different position if your current one doesn't suit you."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Accepted advice I believe?",
"Speaker at least seems to have changed their tone a bit and is open to treating people fairly",
"Continues to be rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aol8bc | 3,097 | 2 | true |
I've insulted one of my dearest friends | How do you feel about having insulted your friend? | [
"You shouldn't insult others.",
"You shouldn't insult your friends."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't insult your friends.",
"This seems like it's just a simple statement.",
"You shouldn't insult a close friend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avw4m5 | 3,098 | 0 | false |
I feel pretty bad about it. But she is so thick-skinned | I am glad you are having such remorse and regret over you nasty actions. No friend deserves to be insulted and disrespected, and instead of feeling sorry for yourself why don't you own up to her too and apologize? | [
"It's good to self-reflect after behaving poorly.",
"You should say sorry for acting badly."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is explaining they feel bad about insulting their friend.",
"This seems like it's just a simple statement of a sentiment.",
"Speaker feels bad for what they did."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avw4m5 | 3,098 | 1 | false |
My friend don't take insults seriously, plus she has PMS, so she's angry at everyone, even her husband and children. I bet she was stressed out, which is why she acted like a bitch. | Even if she acts like she's not taking it seriously it's not nice to insult her. You should try to understand if she's stressed out and think about her feelings even if she doesn't seem upset about the insults. | [
"You should treat your friends with care."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker didn't agree with the advice and instead is being rude to their friend by calling them a derogatory name.",
"Now this has escalated into hostility and a little rage.",
"Speaker being rude towards friend and calling them names."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avw4m5 | 3,098 | 2 | true |
I'm going to discuss relationship problems with classmates | Is there a reason why you are going to discuss relationship problems with classmates. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"nothing wrong so far",
"speaker expresses intention to have a discussion about a difficult topic",
"It's only rude if the classmates don't want to get involved."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ae7ef0 | 3,099 | 0 | false |
I figure that the I'm not the only person that had this issue and might as well just talk about it with them | I think it is best not to disclose your personal issues with your classmates like that. Kids can be cruel so you want to protect yourself from bullying. You don't want to give some kids ammo to use against you or make fun of you. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"nothing wrong so far",
"speaker seems like they're trying to be helpful toward their classmates",
"Nothing unethical about sharing thoughts with classmates."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ae7ef0 | 3,099 | 1 | false |
Even if I don't tell them about it they make fun of me. WHy does it even matter? | If they already make fun of you now, giving them even more ammo can't do you any good. It'll just make it worse, and you don't want that. If you really think you need to discuss your personal problems with someone, make sure it's someone close to you rather than your classmates. | [
"It's best not to discuss personal issues with classmates."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"laughing at the expense of others is wrong",
"speaker talks about negative experiences with the kids that she wants to help",
"Friendly and honest conversation and nothing unethical."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ae7ef0 | 3,099 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to get out to pump gas for my mother | Why won't you pump gas for your mom? | [
"It is considered rude not to pump gas for your mother."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"start of a conversation in a civil manner",
"will not help mother",
"The speaker was refusing to help their mother pump gas"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ba88mi | 3,100 | 0 | false |
It really just bugs me. She is so annoying that I just ignore her. | You should always pump gas for your mom if you are with her. It is just a nice gesture and easy to do. | [
"You should help your parents with daily tasks."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"civil disagreement",
"finds mother annoying",
"The speaker is rude about how they feel towards their mother"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ba88mi | 3,100 | 1 | false |
Psh, I don't like doing it. I'd rather be doing something more productive, it's useless when she can do it herself. | If you are in the same car as your mother, it would be rude not to help her since she is taking you somewhere. Also she is your mother and it is nice to help the person who raised you. | [
"It's rude to not help your parents with daily tasks."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"civil disagreement, nothing harmful is being done",
"thinks mother should do it herself",
"It is rude to not pump gas for those that are more elderly"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ba88mi | 3,100 | 2 | true |
So this woman doesn't understand why her husband is mad that she sucked off a black guy. | This story sounds like it's going to be pretty offensive. | [
"It's wrong to use negative gender or racial stereotypes."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't talk about other people's sexual experiences like this, it's lewd - and it's coming off like this is going to be a race issue.",
"you shouldn't judge people on their race",
"It's offensive to tell jokes based on white women engaging in a sex act with a black man."
] | sbic | 3,101 | 0 | false | |
I wonder who is offended. Black people are too dumb to realize the joke anyway. | Do you realize how rude your words are? You should stop trying to offend others with your tasteless humor and try to come up with jokes that can make everyone laugh. | [
"It's wrong to use negative gender or racial stereotypes."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is saying that black people are stupid and being incredibly racist.",
"speaker dehumanizes Black people",
"Speaker states the black people are too stupid to be offended, anyway."
] | sbic | 3,101 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to lie about myself online for 10 years. | Why lie for 10 years? | [
"It's bad to lie about yourself on online forums."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is talking about lying to others for 10 years.",
"This is strange but not necessarily dangerous or harmful.",
"Lying to people online is rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/3ug6ni | 3,102 | 0 | false |
I've already been lying to people for 10 years and I can't really stop lying. | It can be tempting to lie about yourself online, especially if you're not satisfied with your real life. However, lying about yourself online isn't a good idea because you can mislead people who are looking for genuine advice. Also, if you lie about yourself online, then there is a chance that people will be able to tr... | [
"You shouldn't lie about who you truly are.",
"It's rude to mislead people purposely."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is confessing he has already been lying to people for 10 years and can't stop.",
"Speaker suggests they may be a long time compulsive liar.",
"Constantly lying is not a good trait."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/3ug6ni | 3,102 | 1 | false |
I'm bored with myself. It's a new year and I want to change for maximum profit. | I just think there are better ways to spend your time then lying to people online about yourself. | [
"It's helpful to try and be productive in your life."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker talks about being bored with themselves and wanting to change.",
"Speaker seems unwilling to change and delights in their sociopathic tendencies.",
"Wanting to change yourself for the positive is good."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/3ug6ni | 3,102 | 2 | true |
No one knows this, but I only "go on a diet" when I'm eating with friends. | Why all the cloak and dagger to your diet? | [
"It's understandable that some people put on a false front in front of their friends."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"lies about being on a diet",
"Need more info.",
"It is wrong to lie about your health."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/860nzt | 3,103 | 0 | false |
Only when I'm with my friends do I diet. Otherwise, I binge and eat whatever I want. | If you're bingeing when you eat alone, that's a sign of an eating disorder. You need to get help because eating like that is not good for you. | [
"It's good to seek professional help when dealing with eating disorders."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"binge eats at times",
"Speaker has erratic eating habits.",
"They are being unhealthy and that is harmful to them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/860nzt | 3,103 | 1 | false |
I guess it is kind of weird. | I'm glad to hear you see you have a problem. Knowing you need help is the first step to dealing with an eating disorder. The next step is to pick up the phone and call a therapist. | [
"It's good to acknowledge when you have a problem."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"understands there is a problem",
"Speaker accepts perspective on actions.",
"They agree it's not good, but don't say they'll change."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/860nzt | 3,103 | 2 | true |
I'm not sure what to do. I'm so mad he won't consider a vasectomy | What about that makes you mad? | [
"It's unfair to try to control what another person does with their body."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't be mad if your husband doesn't want a vasectomy.",
"You shouldn't be mad your partner refused to get himself sterilized, what if he wanted kids after awhile if your relationship fizzled out? Use other ways of contraception to make sure you both have ways to have kids later if you ever change yoru m... | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ayzb89 | 3,104 | 0 | false |
I'm afraid of getting pregnant | You shouldn't try to control a permanent decision on someone's body. There are many forms of birth control that can stop a pregnancy. | [
"It's wrong to force someone to make an irreversible decision affecting their body.",
"You should realize that different options of birth prevention are available."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker reasonably gives their reasons for wanting their husband to get a procedure.",
"Its not just his problem then, you should just use another form of birth control and be smart with it.",
"if you're worried about pregnancy, take matters into your own hands"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ayzb89 | 3,104 | 1 | false |
Yes, but I want to control his decision since I don't want another kid. | Well that's certainly understandable, but isn't a bit unfair to be mad at him for not getting a vasectomy when you clearly haven't gotten a tubal ligation? You would be in total control of that decision. | [
"Not wanting more kid in your family is ok.",
"You should treat others the way you want to be treated."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker says he wants to control the decisions.",
"Its wrong to control others with this, be more open to other things you can do and life will be happier. Hurtful controlling things make a relationship go sour.",
"seeking to control others decisions for your own personal gain is wrong"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ayzb89 | 3,104 | 2 | true |
I like to catfish guys. Hope I don't get caught | That is terrible. Why would you catfish guys? | [
"You shouldn't catfish people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is rude and unethical to catfish people.",
"Speaker likes to deceive men.",
"Dishonest online behaviour engaged in by speaker."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/54c5eg | 3,105 | 0 | false |
I love to gull men who are interested in my appearance. | I can understand you wanting men to pay attention to you, but catfishing them is not correct. Apply honesty to all your relationships or men will distrust you for not being truthful. | [
"It's wrong to catfish people.",
"You should be honest in your relationships."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker justifies unethical behavior.",
"Speaker explains their situation.",
"Speaker revels in dishonesty with others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/54c5eg | 3,105 | 1 | false |
Trust is whack. You'll trust me when you see the whole thing. | Trust is important for any real relationship. Catfish starts off relationships with dishonesty. You're just manipulating people based off a false image of yourself and its unfair to them. | [
"It's unfair to manipulate people by catfishing them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker does not show intention of changing behavior.",
"Speaker shows no remorse and ignores advice.",
"Speaker looks to justify dishonesty."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/54c5eg | 3,105 | 2 | true |
Some texts just don't seem to need a response. I just don't reply to those. | Why wouldn't you at least reply to let them know you saw it? | [
"It is rude to not respond to messages."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker admits they ignore texts from people sometimes.",
"That seems fine to do.",
"Speaker doesn't respond to all texts."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahixdm | 3,106 | 0 | false |
I don't want to waste my time replying if I don't have to | If you are not responding to messages, then people will eventually stop messaging you. It is rude and neglectful not to respond to messages. | [
"It's rude to not respond to text messages.",
"You should let people know you have received and read their messages."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is explaining why they ignore texts from people.",
"It seems like they just don't want to reply, not that it's unnecessary, so this is rude.",
"Speaker doesn't want to reply to all the text messages."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahixdm | 3,106 | 1 | false |
So? I shouldn't have to make time for my friends. | You don't have to make time for your friends, but if you really care about them as friends, you should want to make time for them. It's not that hard to send a short text back when they take the time to message you. | [
"You shouldn't make your friends feel like you don't care about them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker was not receptive to the feedback and instead says they shouldn't have to make time for their friends which is very selfish.",
"They haven't been swayed from being rude.",
"Speaker feels they shouldn't have to make time for their friends."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahixdm | 3,106 | 2 | true |
Should I go yell at someone else's kid for playing in my yard? | What do you hope to accomplish by yelling at this kid? | [
"You should never yell at someone else's child."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't yell at kids for playing",
"Speaker is asking for advice on how to deal with someones kids",
"You shouldn't yell at other people's kids."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/amwniq | 3,107 | 0 | false |
The parents would have been very pleased if I had been yelling at their own kid. I know because it has been done to me so many times. | Even if the kid is in your yard playing, it doesn't make it right for you to yell at him. Screaming at children causes serious trauma to sensitive young people. | [
"It's wrong to scream at children."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wants to yell at their neighbor's kid for playing",
"speaker is still discussing yelling at kids",
"Speaker admits they've yelled at them many times."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/amwniq | 3,107 | 1 | false |
I only got angry because people think I'm just a bother when all I wanted to do was help people, what am I a bad person now. | I'm not saying you're bad, I'm just trying to tell it's not a good idea to yell at children. It could traumatize them, they are just trying to have fun. How about trying to join in on their play, you might find yourself having fun too! | [
"You should consider a child's motivation before yelling at them."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wants to yell at their neighbor's kid which can be harmful to the kid",
"speaker wants to help",
"Speaker doesn't understand what they are doing is wrong."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/amwniq | 3,107 | 2 | true |
What do you think about the fact that I'm that guy that farts in public stores? | Why would you fart in a public place? | [
"It's wrong to do things others find disgusting."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to fart in public on purpose.",
"its gross to fart in public",
"you shouldn't do rude things in public"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ee1zbd | 3,108 | 0 | false |
Because nobody can blame it on me with all the people around. | If you feel the need to fart, it is most polite to go to the restroom to do so. That way you don't annoy or disgust others in public. Even if they don't know it was you, it is an unkind thing to do on purpose. | [
"You should go to the restroom to fart if you have to instead of in public.",
"It's disgusting to fart in public around others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"You shouldn't be rude to others",
"speaker is justifying their actions"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ee1zbd | 3,108 | 1 | false |
What are you talking about? Farting is natural and everyone does it. I'm just spreading some love to the world. | Farting in public is gross to the people around you and it is disrespectful. Keep your flatulence to yourself until you can find a restroom or a private place. | [
"It's disrespectful to fart right around people in public.",
"You should try to find a private place to release your flatulence."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They don't think they did anything wrong.",
"farting is normal",
"speaker is ignoring advice"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ee1zbd | 3,108 | 2 | true |
I've tried to be nice with femoids all my life, now i dont give a fuck. Fuck all the roasties of the world. | I am not sure I understand what you are saying. Do you think that all women are rude? | [
"It's not okay to think women are rude"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't hate on women.",
"it's rude to hold a prejudiced viewpoint against all members of a movement",
"It's rude to talk about women in a degrading way."
] | sbic | 3,109 | 0 | false | |
Yes I mean "women". By the order of gods it's us men who are the ones to take charge. Same thing goes to roasty, wishy washy, flakey, feminist, manhating bitches. | You shouldn't think that all women are rude. I doubt that you really mean that and your statement is unfair to a lot of caring women. | [
"It's not okay to think women are rude"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker falsely suggests that men are superior to women.",
"this is extremely misogynistic",
"Speaker continues to be offensive towards women."
] | sbic | 3,109 | 1 | true | |
Should I feed people onions on purpose to prove my point in the past? | That depends. Why do you have to prove your point about something as trivial as onions? | [
"It's always good when you can prove your point.",
"It's not okay to make someone eat something they don't want to."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"A bizarre statement.",
"bad to poison people",
"Forcing someone to eat something is rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cpwufg | 3,110 | 0 | false |
You won't know if onions are good for health if you don't try it. | Proving your point can be most satisfying to see happen. Forcing people to eat onions or something they dislike to make them believe your point seems to be irrational, so just feed them what they want so they think you are a sane person. Only crazy people prove points in this way, regardless of health reasons. | [
"It's wrong to make people do something they do not want to."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Force-feeding onions to people is wrong.",
"wrong to force people",
"Again, forcing food choices on others is wrong."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cpwufg | 3,110 | 1 | false |
OK thanks for the advice. I will think about it. | Think about it a lot. You can make people hate a food if you force them to eat when they don't want to. They can also start refusing to eat anything you cook. | [
"You shouldn't make people eat things if they don't like it."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Gray is right: \"irrational.\"",
"willing to change",
"Speaker accepts the advice and is willing to change."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cpwufg | 3,110 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of getting in arguments with people on facebook then reporting them for verbal harassment when they swear | What makes you think you can get away with this? | [
"It's frowned upon to argue.",
"It's wrong to bait others into doing things so that you can get them into trouble."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Wants to get people in trouble online for petty reasons.",
"Wants to report people for swearing on Facebook after goading them into arguments.",
"Trolling people online"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dbmsti | 3,111 | 0 | false |
It will depend on who the judge is. | Its rude to bait people and make them upset. Your whole plan could backfire on you and get you banned from the site. | [
"You shouldn't bait people into arguments.",
"You should expect to get banned from social media if you upset people on it."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Thinks what they are doing is fine.",
"Continues their conversation about this.",
"Trolling people online to bait them into bans"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dbmsti | 3,111 | 1 | false |
I don't care. The people on facebook aren't my friends. | Even if they're not your friends you should not insult them. You yourself may get reported for verbal harassment. | [
"It's wrong to verbally harass others online."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Seems to do this for fun.",
"Doesn't care about the consequences of their actions.",
"Trolling people online to bait them into bans"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dbmsti | 3,111 | 2 | true |
Can I punch some middle-aged man and his wife in the face in revenge for their plotting? | Why would you choose to punch them in the face? | [
"It is wrong to hit people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wants to assault people and has a weird reason.",
"punching someone is not ethical and is harmful",
"Speaker fantasizing about violence"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cmv4n6 | 3,112 | 0 | false |
I want revenge for them being nosey and having a lot of money. | It is wrong to hit people for any reason. It is assault and you could go to jail. | [
"It's wrong to be violent towards another person.",
"One must understand that assaults can result in legal ramifications."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This sounds like a horrible reason to assault people.",
"this is a terrible reason to punch someone",
"Speaker still expressing ill intent"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cmv4n6 | 3,112 | 1 | false |
I'm feeling good that I'm probably going to get arrested. Pretty soon I'm going to have a charge on my record. | Hitting people is a bad idea and having a record will make it hard to find the best jobs in your life. | [
"Having a record can follow you through your life."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker seems to relish the fact they'll go to jail over assault.",
"speaker is not sorry",
"Speaker showing clear intent to commit violent act"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cmv4n6 | 3,112 | 2 | true |
My bad. That was about Why bitches act like I CAN'T READ or like words don't have a meaning. | What were you thinking when you made these comments? | [
"It's not right to think women are not intelligent"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to make insinuations, especially -ones about people because of their gender.",
"You should not be calling women \"bitches\"",
"It's rude to call women 'bitches\""
] | sbic | 3,113 | 0 | false | |
My point was to express how stupid women are and how idiotic their behavior is. | Women shouldn't treat you like you can't read. But in turn, others shouldn't treat them as unintelligent as well. | [
"It's not right to think women are not intelligent"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains they believe that women are stupid and idiotic, which is hurtful.",
"They are calling women stupid and being rude",
"Speaker is sexist by nature"
] | sbic | 3,113 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to ask my boyfriend if he's gay | That may offend him. Why do you need to ask him if he's gay? | [
"It's rude to ask someone what their sexual orientation is."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's rude to question a person about their sexual orientation.",
"Nothing immoral.",
"might have a good reason"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a4wqxk | 3,114 | 0 | false |
I don't trust him. I'm very self-conscious about it | Just because you have a suspicion about something does not entitle you to be rude. You should trust your boyfriend more because if you don't he will not want to be your boyfriend anymore. | [
"You should trust your boyfriend"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are justifying their actions now.",
"Commenter is wrong. The speaker is realizing an important issue.",
"seems they have trust issues"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a4wqxk | 3,114 | 1 | false |
You are not helping me. I'm just going to ask him since I think he's gay. | I feel like you thinking that he's gay is something that making you distrust him and I do not think that's healthy. If you can't trust him in your relationship, then I do not think that it is fair of you to keep him as your boyfriend and it is better for both of you to find other people that you can fully be happy with... | [
"It's ok to end a relationship if there's no trust"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are maintaining their original plan.",
"The speaker is not wanting to be offensive to her boyfriend, she just wants to know if he's gay. No immorality.",
"not giving a good reason"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a4wqxk | 3,114 | 2 | true |
I teased my friend by asking him embarrassing questions. | What do you mean by embarrassing? | [
"You shouldn't let your friends embarrass themselves."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is picking on their friend",
"It's rude to tease your friend",
"Speaker teased their friend with embarrassing questions."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9q8thh | 3,115 | 0 | false |
Questions he wouldn't want to answer but by not answering it made it seem like the answer was yes. | Pushing your friends to embarrass themselves may seem funny to you, but you don't know how they are reacting to the incident. Bad memories can last a long time and hurt feelings down the line. Apologize to your friend for pushing them. | [
"It's wrong to purposefully try to embarrass someone.",
"You should apologize to someone who's feelings you have hurt."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is now going into more detail about how they picked on their friend.",
"Teasing a friend can lead to unnecessary conflict",
"Speaker likes to embarrass their friend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9q8thh | 3,115 | 1 | false |
Why do I have to apologize when he embarrassed himself? | You shouldn't let a friend embarrass themselves in the first place, and especially not instigate it. How would you feel if they did the same thing to you or even worse, if those questions brought up something painful in their memories? Try to consider those things before oyu tease someone like that. | [
"You should consider other people's feelings before you make a joke about them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is not remorseful about picking on their friend.",
"Deliberately embarrassing friends is rude.",
"Speaker won't say sorry."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9q8thh | 3,115 | 2 | true |
I'm going to leave my friend's name out of a school project | Why would you leave his name off the project? | [
"It is not okay to take credit for someone else's work.",
"You should give credit where credit is due."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker talks of wanting to not give credit to their friend for their work",
"Speaker is acting unfairly",
"Speaker wants to academically harm a friend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agatyx | 3,116 | 0 | false |
Because I don't want to share the credit to my friends | I understand wanting to be successful, but it's wrong not to share credit with those that deserve it. If they don't get credit for their work they will get a bad grade for the teacher thinking they didn't do the the work. | [
"You should always give credit where it's due.",
"You shouldn't mess with someone else's grades."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker talks of wanting to not give credit to their friend for their work",
"Speaker is acting unfairly",
"Speaker is being selfish."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agatyx | 3,116 | 1 | false |
I'm mature and I don't need to focus on others at all times. | I'm just saying that not allowing someone to get credit for their work is wrong. You should do the right thing and leave his name on there. | [
"You should try to make sure that everyone gets credit for the things they do."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker appears determined to wrong their friend by not giving them credit.",
"Speaker doesn't care about other people",
"Speaker does not consider advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agatyx | 3,116 | 2 | true |
I'm going to hang up on my friend for being a sexist douche | Why? What did he say that made you think he's a sexist? | [
"It's rude to hang up on a friend."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker calls their friend a sexist douche. Very mean thing to call a friend.",
"It is not nice to call your friend names.",
"being rude by hanging up on friend and calling them a nasty name"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ace4tp | 3,117 | 0 | false |
I'm tired of his pussy ass attitude and I'm tired of his shit. | Its pretty mean to hang up on a friend, but it makes sense that you are angry. Just by how you are talking it is apparent that your friend is getting on your nerves. Talking to your friend about this seems like a good idea, but if they continue to do it then you may need to distance yourself a little for your own sanit... | [
"You should talk to someone who is upsetting you",
"It is okay to distance yourself from negative people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"calls friend a pussy and says that they are tired of their shit.",
"They are using vulgar language toward their friend.",
"referring to friend with very foul language"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ace4tp | 3,117 | 1 | false |
Me talking to him about this isn't going to resolve anything? I want to show him how bad it feels. | I do not recommend you retaliate and be rude towards him as the only result of that would be him also being rude to you. I would tell him that he shouldn't say sexist remarks but also try and tell him why it is hurting the people that he is saying those remarks to. | [
"You should not seek revenge on others",
"You should tell people when and why they are upsetting you"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is dismissive of advice and feels talking will not help anything.",
"They are not wanting to resolve the situation amicably.",
"rejects advice and seems to want revenge"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ace4tp | 3,117 | 2 | true |
I want to call the police on my kid. Are you on board with me now? | What will happen to your kid if the police called her? You have got to be joking, and it's a bad joke at that. | [
"You shouldn't call the police if someone is misbehaving."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker brings up needing to call cops on kids.",
"It's passive/aggressive to be this way.",
"Don't know why they need to get the police."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,118 | 0 | false | |
She is so bad it might not end well. | You should try to talk with your kid or get them behavioral therapy. If you call the cops it could end bad and they might shoot your child and kill her. | [
"It's good to get your child help if they need it.",
"It's wrong to call the police on your child."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker further explains situation.",
"This is a continuation of the previous attitude.",
"Desires to call cops on kid's bad behavior, which could waste police resources and harbor resentment."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,118 | 1 | false | |
I want them to take her away and lock her up. | She is just a kid. You are using tough love quite too seriously, and it's not going to benefit her as much as you think. Therapy helps more people than locking them up, try it with her first. | [
"It's good to have your child attend therapy.",
"You shouldn't use police to parent your child."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is intent on getting rid of kid, will cause harm for the kid.",
"No apologies here. The previous attitudes are continued",
"Desires to have their child punished like an adult, which is very cruel."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,118 | 2 | true | |
What do you call 5 black people having sex? A threesome | Dang, what a messed up joke. | [
"It's not right to think black people are less valuable"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive to make racist jokes.",
"You shouldn't think that black people are worth less than whites.",
"You shouldn't joke about slavery."
] | sbic | 3,119 | 0 | false | |
I don't care or think about it. | Joking about black people being less valuable to other people is really low. Black people are equal to anyone else, and people's worth should not be in any way connected to their race. | [
"It's not right to think black people are less valuable"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They don't appear to think they've said anything wrong..",
"the speaker doesn't care about what they say.",
"ignoring the feedback"
] | sbic | 3,119 | 1 | true | |
I want to make my dad mad | Did your dad do something to make you mad? | [
"It's bad to make a parent mad."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Wishes to anger father",
"Speaker wants to intentionally upset their parent.",
"Admitting to purposefully making their parent mad."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2jzm2 | 3,120 | 0 | false |
I saw his inappropriate pics on Facebook and it made me angry. | Parents can do things without thinking sometime. Just talk to him about what he's posting on Facebook, and make sure he knows that it's upsetting to you. Making him mad will just lead to problems in your relationship with him. | [
"It's normal for people to remember what made them upset.",
"You shouldn't try to make your parents upset."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Claims their father is boring",
"Explains that a normal thing their parent did made them mad.",
"Justifies making their parent mad because they think they are boring."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2jzm2 | 3,120 | 1 | false |
He's an old man, he's going to die soon anyway. I'm tired of everything he does. I think I'm only going to make my life better by making him really mad, so he stops bothering me. | Trust me, your life won't be better without your father in it. Just try explaining how you feel about what he's posting, and then if he still wants to post offensive pictures block him and stop looking at his page. You can't control what he posts, but you can choose not to look at it. | [
"It won't improve your life to make those in it upset.",
"You shouldn't tell people how they should use their own social media accounts."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Claims father is old and speaker plans to anger them",
"Insults their parent and says they will feel better when their parent is angry.",
"Did not agree with the advice, reiterates reason why they would purposefully make their parent mad."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2jzm2 | 3,120 | 2 | true |
Do I really have to wash my hands? | Why don't you want to wash your hands? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker asks a reasonable question.",
"The speaker is questioning hygiene standards.",
"Asking a question in conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cb6k0d | 3,121 | 0 | false |
Because i'm lazy | You should not neglect personal hygiene. You should make sure you are as clean as possible. | [
"You should take care of your own personal hygiene"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker's response is rude.",
"The response is out of place.",
"Being standoff-ish"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cb6k0d | 3,121 | 1 | false |
i've heard some people not doing it though | Usually people make an effort to be sure they are clean. | [
"It is customary to practice proper hygiene practices"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker backpedals over whether or not they washed their hands.",
"The speaker admits to following hygiene standards but doesn't know why they do so.",
"Polite disagreement"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cb6k0d | 3,121 | 2 | true |
I want to break up with my long-distance gf | What makes you want to break up with your long distance bf? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"You should end a relationship if you're not happy.",
"Speaker wants to break up with their long distance gf",
"It's alright to feel this way."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/anvrin | 3,122 | 0 | false |
I've been through a lot with her. I want some time off from the relationship. | If things aren't working out, consider breaking up with a phone call or a video chat. It's important to express your feelings as personally as possible so that your partner can get the closure that he needs. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"If you're not happy with your relationship, you deserve to take a break.",
"Speaker says they have been through a lot. Wants some time off.",
"It's understandable to feel this way."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/anvrin | 3,122 | 1 | false |
I hope that I don't make her too sad. | Well it's always better to call off a relationship if it's not working out then leading him on. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's best not to be mean when ending a relationship, which the speaker intends to do.",
"Speaker hopes their gf isn't too sad. This is a polite conversation.",
"They seem to care about the other person."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/anvrin | 3,122 | 2 | true |
Would you be upset if I told you I've been having homicidal and suicidal thoughts for months now? | Wait, seriously? Why are you having homicidal and suicidal thoughts? | [
"People are expected to seek professional help when their thoughts become overwhelmingly harmful."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This person is showing signs of self harm and harming others.",
"Speaker acknowledges desires to physically harm people.",
"Troublesome question."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/em17us | 3,123 | 0 | false |
I don't know, I just feel so desperate | If you have been experiencing homicidal and suicidal thoughts for months you are having a mental health crisis and should contact a mental health professional as soon as possible before you commit an act that you will regret later. It's okay and expected to get support for your mental health, especially when you have t... | [
"It's bad to feel homicidal and suicidal.",
"You should get help for violent thoughts."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This speaker is explaining why they may harm people.",
"Continuation of previous emergency label.",
"Subject is harm."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/em17us | 3,123 | 1 | false |
I don't want to talk to my family doctor; they will only say the same thing. | It's understandable not to want to talk to your family doctor about something like this. There are people more specialized and qualified out there that can help with the issue. I'll help you get in touch with one any way I can. | [
"You should talk to a professional if you're having mental problems."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"They are rebuffing the advice and still show signs of a crisis.",
"Continuation of previous emergency label.",
"The speaker might need assistance."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/em17us | 3,123 | 2 | true |
I'm going to trash my coworkers mugs and dishes when they leave them soaking in the community sink. | How rude. Why trash their dishes if they leave them soaking in the community sink? | [
"You shouldn't destroy someone else's property.",
"You shouldn't leave dirty dishes in a shared sink."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't destroy your co-workers dishes.",
"It's rude to trash someone else's property.",
"It's wrong to throw out other people's stuff, even if they are also being rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avlpg1 | 3,124 | 0 | false |
It's not like I trash their mugs and dishes intentionally. Usually the damn things on the sink won't dry and it drives me crazy. | While it's understandable to be upset at a coworker for not removing their dirty dishes promptly from the sink in a shared kitchen, it isn't appropriate to damage their dishes because of it. Those mugs and dishes are your coworker's property and damaging them is wrong. You should talk to your coworker about being more ... | [
"You shouldn't destroy someone's property.",
"You should talk to your coworker if they're being disrespectful."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker talks more about their co-workers dishes.",
"Speaker is making excuses for why the items would be harmed.",
"They are trying to justify their behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avlpg1 | 3,124 | 1 | false |
Shit, I didn't mean to damage their dishes. | Whether you intended to or not doesn't matter. If you've already done so then you should apologize and offer to replace their property. If you do this they may be willing to forgive you. | [
"You should apologize if you've done something wrong."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker acknowledges their behavior.",
"Speaker still damaged someone else's stuff and doesn't seem to have regret.",
"They're seem to want to make things right, which is good in this case."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avlpg1 | 3,124 | 2 | true |
Why are there no doctors in Africa? They cant afford to sneeze or vomit | Your joke about people from other countries is a bit disturbing to me. | [
"It's not right to think African folks don't have medicine",
"It's not right to think all African folks are poor"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make jokes about people living in poverty.",
"It's harmful to claim Africa is full of diseases.",
"It's awful to make racist jokes about people in Africa."
] | sbic | 3,125 | 0 | false | |
I don't know. Just trying to be sarcastic. | Black people victimized by insults and stereotypes affect their self-confidence and it makes matters worse. Using an insulting, offensive or degrading remark based on an identity group only serves to breed hate and discontent. | [
"It's not right to think African folks don't have medicine",
"It's not right to think all African folks are poor"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't admit their joke is offensive.",
"Speaker makes excuses.",
"Speaker thinks their joke is fine."
] | sbic | 3,125 | 1 | true | |
Kanye West is such a disappointment to black people even Martin Luther King would tell to him to sit at the back of a bus. | This is a weird statement. Do you find Martin Luther King admirable? | [
"It's not right to joke about segregation on transportation"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's insulting and offensive to make a statement like that.",
"You shouldn't mock the difficulties Black people have endured.",
"You shouldn't stereotype black folks."
] | sbic | 3,126 | 0 | false | |
Martin Luther King was a sellout himself, he looked down at black people like me and thought we didn't deserve anything because of our skin color | Segregation was awful to black people and treated them like second class citizens. It would hurt you if others did not consider you worthy of even drinking the same water as you or they didn't want you to sit with them. | [
"You should treat all people as equals."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker holds hateful and disrespectful thoughts",
"They share their false and contemptable views of Blacks.",
"You shouldn't stereotype black folks."
] | sbic | 3,126 | 1 | false | |
Shut up dude. I'm sick of hearing about racism | You're saying a lot of things that sound racist, so I am sure that you hear a lot. People will always think you're racist if you keep making jokes about segregation and things of that nature. | [
"You shouldn't say racist things."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is being ignorant and rejects the advice.",
"They are dismissive of their ignorant views being corrected.",
"ignoring the feedback"
] | sbic | 3,126 | 2 | true | |
I like hanging out in a certain coffee shop to relax, but I don't order anything from their menu. | This seem suspicious. Why didn't you order anything, do you not have money to pay for something? | [
"You shouldn't go to a coffee shop and sit around and not buy something"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker describes a normal social action.",
"It's rude to take up seating at a coffee shop and never order anything from their menu.",
"It's rude to take up space in a coffee shop but not order anything."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,127 | 0 | false | |
No, no money is the only minor reason, I don't like coming to this coffee shop for coffee, because it tastes bad. | Well it can be fun to sometimes just window shop and not buy anything from a store, I do not think that it is a right behavior to constantly just go sit around in a coffee shop and not pay for anything. I would recommend that you find something that you want to try in this coffee shop, and try to maybe buy that instead... | [
"It is wrong to take up space in a shop if you are not buying anything"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker provides reasonable justification.",
"The speaker is loitering at a coffee shop without being a customer, this is rude behavior.",
"It makes no sense that they would want to hang out in a coffee shop if they don't like the coffee."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,127 | 1 | false | |
Sitting around here doing nothing isn't that bad, when I want to relax I just come here. People like me don't care about the morals of people who suck at life. | A coffee shop really is a great place to relax, but they provide seating for paying customers. You should reconsider purchasing something in order to support the store. | [
"You should be willing to support a store that you get benefit from"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is justified in their behavior.",
"The speaker is judging other people and being entitled which is offensive and rude behavior.",
"They refuse to take advice and now they're just being rude."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,127 | 2 | true | |
Is it wrong that I wish I didn't give my extra pair of earbuds to someone who lost his? | Why did you give them to him then? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker makes a socially acceptable comment",
"regrets giving something away",
"it's reasonable to regret giving something valuable away."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a53xc6 | 3,128 | 0 | false |
Because he is a moochie and he usually makes problems on the bus with noise | It is okay to feel bad to have given something to somebody who is normally a mooch. But it seems you did it for a good cause. | [
"It's generous to give your headphones to someone who probably won't give them back.",
"It's risky to trust a mooch to pay you pack."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker insults the other person for no reason",
"explaining why they gave something away",
"It seems the recipient was kind of annoying."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a53xc6 | 3,128 | 1 | false |
Well probably not | It's normal to feel regret for giving something away that you may have needed. All you can do is use this as a learning experience and try not to feel too bad. | [
"It's normal to want your personal possessions back.",
"It's good to learn what not to do again in the future."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker is not sorry for feeling this way",
"still just regrets giving something away",
"The reaction is mild and normal"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a53xc6 | 3,128 | 2 | true |
I have my gay friend listen in my phone as "Buttfucker Bobby". | How did you came up with the name buttfucker Bobby? | [
"People should be kind to their friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to call a friend this.",
"This probably won't offend anyone, but it is ill-intentioned",
"Person uses profanity, and is showing disrespect for their gay friend, by giving him, a degrading nickname."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/anya2c | 3,129 | 0 | false |
I got the idea from Takisha Shiro's "Hanging on to Bobby". | That's a bit offensive and not nice to your friend. You should be kinder to your friend because you shouldn't use his sexual preference as a joke. If he finds out, it will probably cause some tension in the friendship. | [
"It's rude to call people homophobic names.",
"You shouldn't joke about someone's sexual preference."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Continuation of previous label",
"Person is explaining where they got the rude nickname, for their gay friend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/anya2c | 3,129 | 1 | false |
Relax, I just wanted to create an offensive but funny name. I think it was appropriate and my friend hardly cares about it so he won't mind. | It doesn't matter if you think he will mind or not. Its just rude to make jokes and make fun of people who you consider friends. | [
"It's rude to make fun of friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The person doesn't care that they're being rude.",
"Continuation of previous label",
"Person thinks mocking gay people, is humorous."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/anya2c | 3,129 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of posting a tribute of my late-girlfriend onto Facebook. She died during the 9/11 attacks. | I'm so sorry. What's making you want to post a tribute to her? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker wants to make a tribute.",
"This seems like a nice thing to do.",
"It's okay to honor your girlfriend that passed away."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,130 | 0 | false | |
I want people to respect her like they respected the victims of 9/11 | Be aware that posts on Facebook have consequences. You may want to keep your private moments private. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker wants to girlfriend to be respected.",
"Again, this is kind and generous.",
"Speaker wants to honor his girlfriend that died during 9/11."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,130 | 1 | false | |
She shouldn't be kept private. My girlfriend was more important than the people who died in 9/11. | Your girlfriend was definitely important, and I'm sorry you lost her. That doesn't make her more important than other victims of 9/11, though. Everyone was important to someone like she was to you, and a tribute to her shouldn't make others lesser. | [
"Everyone is important to someone."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker hold personal connections in higher regard than other victims and therefore degrades them.",
"It's rude to claim that your girlfriend was more important than other 9/11 victims.",
"This person is devastated about his girlfriend that died during 9/11."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,130 | 2 | true | |
What do you think about me taking 150 grams of taxus baccata leaves? | Why would you ingest such a toxic plant? | [
"It's wrong to ingest poisonous plants."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"casual"
] | [
"Sounds like the speaker wants to take drugs.",
"Ate a poisonous plant.",
"They pose a question about food consumption."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9ht5rn | 3,131 | 0 | false |
I feel like my neurons are on fire, the amount of energy is so much, I feel like I could do anything. | You may think that this is smart to do, but you may be creating a health emergency for yourself by doing this. | [
"It's wrong to do something that endangers your health"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"casual"
] | [
"From the sounds of it they took too much of a toxic plant.",
"Explains why they did that.",
"They express their personal motivation."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9ht5rn | 3,131 | 1 | false |
Haha nah, I feel great. I went for a run almost for an hour. | While it feels good now, a lot of professionals would agree that ingesting so much of a plant could kill you. I hope that you will reconsider. | [
"You should avoid ingesting things that could kill you"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is going through a bad high with this toxic plant.",
"Continuation of emergency label.",
"They are feeling quite energetic and positive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9ht5rn | 3,131 | 2 | true |
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