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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to leave", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to leave?
We've been together for a few months, he stays over 6/7 nights a week. I have a panic disorder, twice now I've had to ask him to leave due to an oncoming panic attack and needing some time alone. I've never straight up just told him to leave, I usually hint and ask when he has class etc, but he gets the idea. It's usu...
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{ "description": "telling a teacher about something that my friends did", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling a teacher about something that my friends did?
This is my first post here, and hopefully my last. Most people know me as an honest and nice person, because I really try to be in most cases, sadly my teachers know that. I have never in my life "ratted" someone out but this was something I thought was justified by me. For context purposes, there was an exam recent...
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{ "description": "thinking my girlfriend wasn't actually getting raped", "pronormative_score": 228, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for thinking my girlfriend wasn’t actually getting raped?
Backstory, my girlfriend has been talking to this guy let’s call him Rick. Now I’m totally cool with having friendships with the opposite sex, but I started seeing some red flags. The first was when I noticed my girlfriend would enter the room I’m in and casually yet kinda frantically be searching for her phone. She wo...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for eating my food", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For getting mad at my boyfriend for eating my food?
Let me preface this post by saying i know getting upset over food is ridiculous and i probably am the asshole here. So me and my boyfriend are 20 years old and have been together for about 2 years. And over those two years he has probably gained somewhere between 20-30 pounds. Hes 6'3 and if you knew him you'd mostly ...
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{ "description": "taking away and hiding my toilet paper from my college roommates", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking away and hiding my toilet paper from my college roommates?
I’m in a 6 man apartment, and share food and other costs with a good friend of mine to save money. The last two weeks, we’ve been the only ones stocking toilet paper. 2/3 of a toilet paper roll was used since noon today, and my friend and I decided that we shouldn’t be contributing toilet paper for everyone. Especial...
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{ "description": "wanting to live at my dad's house instead of my mom's", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to live at my dad’s house instead of my mom’s?
Note: this isn’t validation seeking or anything, I’m genuinely worried that I may be in the wrong in this situation. So my parents divorced when I was at a really young age. I’ve been living with my mom ever since, seeing my dad every other weekend, if that. It was fine when I was younger, but now my mom is startin...
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{ "description": "not entertaining my guest 24/7", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not entertaining my guest 24/7
Three months ago I moved to a Caribbean island for an amazing job opportunity and so far I really like it. As soon as I announced this opportunity to friends, some of them stated that they would love to visit me when I’m there. Fun! The first friend is here now and on day three I am thinking about canceling other frien...
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{ "description": "scheduling a trip during my SO's \"family reunion\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for scheduling a trip during my SO's "family reunion"?
So backstory: we visit SO's family twice a year for family get togethers, sometimes more if life leads us that way. We live roughly ten hours away and the location of SO's family is pretty much in the middle of nowhere and we stay in an old and dilapidated barn. Recently one of SO's grandparents have died and this year...
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{ "description": "deciding to rescind my sisters plus one to my wedding because we cannot stand her new boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA: I (27M) have decided to rescind my sisters (24F) plus one to my wedding because we cannot stand her new boyfriend
First time posting on this sub, but this has been a point of contention between my sister and I and need some advice. I am getting married early April and we are all traveling down to the Caribbean for the ceremony (destination wedding). We originally gave my sister a plus one because we enjoyed her old boyfriend. Once...
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{ "description": "not letting my GF know my password", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my GF know my password
Now I have this girlfriend who wants to know my password and have a fingerprint to open my phone. I don't naturally give her that and every time she asks me about it she gets angry. I want to know what you think about this. (I am new to this so mods, delete this if this doesn't belong here)
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{ "description": "ignoring this classmate's texts", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring this classmate's texts?
We've never talked in class except for exchanging greetings. Whatever interaction we've had makes it pretty obvious that she's really fixated on the fact that I have pretty good grades. ​ She does this thing where she just comes up to me, asks my grade and then leaves. She has done this two times and it k...
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{ "description": "inturrupting my ex gf while she's on the phone with her prison fiance", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for inturrupting my ex GF while she's on the phone with her prison fiance? [NSFW]
On mobile sorry for any formatting errors. So we still live together and have been fairly cool for the two months after I broke up with her. (Long story surrounding that, I can go into it needed but I don't think it's relevant.) I broke up with her because I wasn't comfortable being the secondary relationship to someo...
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{ "description": "not attending my cousin wedding", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not attending my cousin wedding?
I live in a joint family and have lots of cousins in my house. I have always found myself to be the weird one among my cousins, as I don't like attending to parties or dancing like they do and I don't have a problem with that. So I have been living in a hostel for around 1 and a half year. In this time I have already ...
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{ "description": "dumping my depressed girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Dumping my Depressed Girlfriend
I know it sounds fucked up but let me explain. (I don’t often write things like this so please excuse grammatical errors and poor punctuation) So I’ve known this girl for about 2-3 years now and we’ve only been dating for about a month now, I know about her failed suicide attempts and I decided it was best to try to h...
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{ "description": "wanting to turn captions on when everyone else hates them", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to turn captions on when everyone else hates them?
basically, i have an Auditory Processing Disorder that (sometimes) makes it difficult for me to process spoken word. I can hear perfectly fine and I understand that words are being said, but sometimes I am unable to understand spoken word as anything more than a jumble of noises. I’m totally fine 80% of the time, but s...
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{ "description": "not letting new roommate get the master", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not letting new roommate get the master? (UPDATE)
Original Post:/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/a5k50s/aita_for_not_letting_new_roomate_get_master/ So Reddit, you were right. After agreeing on $900 a month in rent and signing the lease, my roommates are trying to force me into paying $1200 for the larger room. I have multiple screenshots of them turning down my offers to p...
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{ "description": "telling my friends the story of my cousin's death", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friends the story of my cousin’s death?
They were over for dinner and told us their 19 year old daughter got a motorcycle. Everyone I know who has had a motorcycle is either dead or came pretty close. My cousin died when he was 21 in a motorcycle accident so that’s the first thing that comes to mind when I hear that some young person got a motorcycle. Should...
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{ "description": "choosing not to spend Christmas with my girlfriends-exes-parents", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I chose not to spend Christmas with my girlfriends-exes-parents?
My girlfriend and I are in a long lasting relationship. We live together, have a kid on the way, the whole shebang. She is very close with her exes parents. They are the grandparents of their daughter. They take the two of them on vacations with them, include them to social dinners, etc. She and her ex were “on and ...
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{ "description": "buying my Secret Santa that I have never met a $2 mug", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for buying my Secret Santa that I have never met a $2 mug?
Yes, I know Christmas is far past us. But I can't stop thinking about this. So, I'm in 11th grade and my orchestra teacher decides to host a Secret Santa with a $1 - $10 range limit. This beign my first time doing this hopes to get one of friends, of course I end up getting a guy that I've never met before. He isn't i...
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{ "description": "skimming my mum on payments after she destroyed my preserved Rose", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA the asshole for skimming my mum on payments after she destroyed my preserved Rose?
Sorry for formatting on mobile So recently with Valentines day my girlfriend decided to get me a preserved rose (for those who don't know this is a rose that doesn't die and doesn't need watered). While I was out this morning my mum decided to spray the rose with some water, despite having been told that it's preserv...
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So I'm new to this Reddit. Hi assholes. I just purchased Dragon ball Z movie tickets. Only thing is they are wheelchair seats cuz it was sold out. Like completely. No free spots. Now I get not parking in wheelchair spots but what about businesses where you pay money. I will have to bring lawn chairs as the spots are o...
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{ "description": "telling my hispanic girlfriend that our children should learn to speak English first", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for telling my Hispanic girlfriend that our children should learn to speak English first?
I was born and raised in Kansas, and my girlfriend and her family immigrated here from Central America about 18 years ago. We've been together for a few years now. Recently, we've started the talks of children. Everything was fine, until she told me she wanted our children to learn English and Spanish 'at the same ti...
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{ "description": "sending back a meal at a restaurant and having it blow totally out of proportion", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sending back a meal at a restaurant and having it blow totally out of proportion
So a little background. There’s this restaurant in Malibu that I love and go to often. Most times I go I order these steak and shrimp tacos that are delicious. But tonight I took a small bite and realized something was wrong. I just did not like them and my stomach hurt. I felt bad, and my mom suggested I tell the wait...
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{ "description": "calling out my ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling out my ex?
I was dating this guy for about four months before he broke it off after a really bad fight that we had. After that, I made it clear to him that I wanted nothing to do with him, and last month, he tried to come back into my life. He was saying things like “I miss you,” and “You’re the only thing I need”. I told him I w...
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{ "description": "not staying for eight weeks", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't stay for eight weeks?
My mom recently stress fractured her foot. She needs to surgery to correct it and then she will be non-weight bearing for eight weeks. I'm currently a stay-at-home mom to my 15 month old, however I am going to start school again in the fall. ​ Immediately after she suspected she'd broken it she called and...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that my birthday was snubbed by a family member", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being annoyed that my birthday was snubbed by a family member?
Now i should clarify that the family member in question is 7 months old called Jordan. I recently turned 19 and I've never wanted a large birthday party or anything so i decided that i'd like for my family to go for a Sunday lunch meal in a local pub near where I live. I'd invited my brother and his fiance, my sister ...
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{ "description": "not asking my best friend to prom even though she wanted me to", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not asking my best friend to prom even though she wanted me to?
For clarification I'm a boy and my friend is a girl. We've been best friends for about 7 years now and are always honest to each other, even when it's harsh. We were talking about prom and she asked if I was going to ask her. I asked her if she wanted me to and she said yes. My friend has never been asked to a dance t...
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{ "description": "being upset that my bf missed my birthday cake", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset that my bf missed my birthday cake
Tl;dr on the bottom because this is kind of long I am 18/F and he is 18/M Yesterday was my birthday and my boyfriend and I made plans to spend the whole day together. The first thing we planned to do was go out for lunch and in the morning, he called me and told me that someone wanted to buy his Apple Watch he was ...
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{ "description": "repeatedly turning off the central heater", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for repeatedly turning off the central heater?
So there are four people in this house. I'll refer to other three as A,B,C. A is rarely home and has no preference. B likes it warm all the time. C likes it cold at night, warm in mornings D(myself) likes it cold all the time. The central heater is frequently turned to 70 degrees. It says 70 but it actually goes ...
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{ "description": "leaving a suicidal girl", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a suicidal girl?
Please read before you judge me. I help people and I normally wouldn't do that, but this is a different case. It all started innocently on one of my post that I made on subreddit lonely. It said that I seek friends and anyone that will talk about themselves. They just have to reply and sometimes write me first. And so...
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{ "description": "not giving my future bedroom to my older brother", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my future bedroom to my older brother
White people problem ahead, proceed with caution. Sorry for any mistakes, I hope it's understandable, because english is not my main language. I'm 19 and he's 27yo. We're both at the same public university (and course). I'm entering my second year and he's on his last. Our course lasts 4 years and he's on his 7th (I...
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{ "description": "trying to convince my gf that her family doesn't love her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to convince my gf that her family doesn't love her?
Obvious throwaway account. Also, this will be very long. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. She has a clinical anxiety condition that has prevented her from leading a normal life. As a result, she needed to depend on her mom and sister. Growing up, my gf didn't realize she had anxiety and this o...
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{ "description": "warning this guy about his date", "pronormative_score": 95, "contranormative_score": 199 }
AITA for warning this guy about his date
I'm a waiter at a sports bar. There's this girl who comes in with a different guy almost every week. Very rarely does she bring the same guy twice, and she's always pulling the same moves with these guys. She went to the bathroom and I just went over to her date and let him know that his date was here all the time wit...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my brother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my brother?
Last night my brothers (8 and 6 years old, I am a 15 y/o) were playing simon says, they had asked for me to be simon and I said sure. I was sitting in their gaming chairs in their room, a basketball sized rubber ball in my lap and holding a cup of sparkling red grape juice, which I was drinking while they did the stuff...
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{ "description": "questioning what my money will get me at an open bar", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for questioning what my money will get me at an open bar
Throwaway account and on mobile. Apologies. Not going specific in case they browse reddit? But happy to answer any questions. Basically I have a friend who is throwing a birthday party for herself. Rather than invite people to a bar she is having everyone pitch in to get a private room at a bar with pool and giant Je...
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{ "description": "blocking my best mate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my best mate
Found this sub on accident figure its good place for this story. TLDR: Best mates not GF spammed group chat. I called her out on her behaviour and left, she spams me in dms i block her. She spams Me on my mates number so i block his number too. So me and my mate have been friends for nearly 10 years. We traveled half...
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{ "description": "not wanting my MIL to move in with us to get weight loss surgery she got denied for in Puerto Rico", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my MIL to move in with us to get weight loss surgery she got denied for in Puerto Rico
Let me start of by saying sorry for just overall bad writing. I tend to leave words out of sentences so I’m sorry about that A little backstory about this situation, my mother-in-law has been trying to get this surgery to help her with weight loss. She tried to get where she lives in Puerto Rico but was denied because...
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{ "description": "lying to my friends about them not being able to come over anymore", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For lying to my friends about them not being able to come over anymore
So a little background, I’m 16 and my dad lives in a nice house and behind it is a guest house. I have the guest house all to myself and so I always have friends over. Well, some of my friends always seem to want to get high or drunk or whatever just because they can. I’ve allowed it a few times because I wanted to smo...
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{ "description": "giving little sympathy for someone who throws pity parties all the time", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving little sympathy for someone who throws pity parties all the time?
My sisters boyfriend constantly comes over with something wrong. He always has headaches or something. I don’t give him attention or sympathy. He just sits there on coach either asleep or curled in a ball. Also my sister seems to drop everything to help him. Sometimes I feel like I am being a jerk because I find it ann...
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{ "description": "telling off my sister", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Telling Off My Sister?
I have a younger sister who essentially has never had to work for anything in her life. She’s going to an extremely expensive university and does not have a job because my mom sends her money. All she does with her life is go to her classes (which are all music classes since she is a vocal performance major, not the it...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my husband for repeatedly bringing up his inability to drink after he told me he would stop", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting pissed at my husband for repeatedly bringing up his inability to drink after he told me he would stop?
Apologies in advance for the length, but I think it's important to have some backstory with this... (Also for formatting, I'm on mobile). So, as long as I've known him, my husband has been a heavy drinker. I always saw it that as long as it doesn't impact his health or our relationship, I can deal with it because I l...
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{ "description": "asking my mom for respect", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my mom for respect?
I'm a 21 year old female living with her parents. My relationship with my mother isn't good due to our vastly different personalities, she is very loud and stuff while I'm in the quiet side like my dad. My mom likes to announce every single thing she does while I just do it without making a big fuss about it, be it gre...
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{ "description": "not marrying him over his hair", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA For not marrying him over his hair?
This is a throwaway obviously... ​ To add some background I have been with a guy, from here on out we will call him G, for 6+ years now. During the 6 years I have caught him cheating through facebook, sexting and sending nudes while requesting them. Now stupid me stayed with him and kept falling for the wh...
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{ "description": "thinking about not apologizing to my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking about not apologizing to my friend?
This is really long but I wanted to put as much info as possible: University has been very busy for me, but I try to make time for my friends when the schedule fits. Sometimes I have to postpone a hangout to a later hour or reschedule for a different date, but majority of my friends understand as we have work, school,...
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{ "description": "getting fed up when my girlfriend asks questions that can be easily googled", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting fed up when my girlfriend asks questions that can be easily googled?
So many times each day I'm asked questions that the answer is found very easily with a quick google. Most of the time I see the question and don't know the answer so I decide to Google it and basically type out word for word the answer to her. I've brought it up to her but she always gets mad, especially if I'm occupie...
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{ "description": "not letting my bf have a game room", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my bf have a game room?
My bf and I live together in my mom’s old house. She moved 3 hours away for work and let us move in. It’s still technically her house though. There’s an extra room that is set up as a guest room. My bf wants to turn it into a game room. I’m against it. My mom visits usually once a month and stays in there. When...
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{ "description": "making my soccer teammate throw up", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making my soccer teammate throw up?
Alright, let me try to repair some of the damage the title already did to my case. I'm a captain of my high school soccer team, and during the offseason, I'm responsible for running practices for the people who are interested in staying in shape and getting to know the team. The practices have been going well for month...
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{ "description": "cancelling an AirBnB 26 days before the reservation date", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cancelling an AirBnB 26 days before the reservation date?
Here's the verbatim conversation between the HOST and ME: ​ \----- Hi HOST! Unfortunately I've had to cancel my trip and I'm no longer in need of accomodation. Is there any way I'd be able to get more of a refund? If not, I totally understand! Thanks! \- ME \----- HOST: Yeah I will give you your mo...
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{ "description": "asking my roomate to kick out their sick uncle", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my roomate to kick out their sick uncle?
Read everything for full context: Here's the deal: Me and my wife room with another couple and we have a 4bedroom house. It's great and we have great synergy with them so it's a very ideal situation for us. Roomates uncle is in town and ends up in the hospital while he's here. Long story short, he can't fly home unti...
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{ "description": "not wanting a part in my child's life", "pronormative_score": 104, "contranormative_score": 103 }
AITA for not wanting a part in my child's life?
7 years ago I impregnated my girlfriend at the time. I have never wanted children in my life so I offered to pay for an abortion. She wanted to have the child. We stayed together for about 4 months after that and then we broke up. I offered to pay for child support and we got something settled through the courts. Never...
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AITA for reaction to MIL?
My wife (W) & I have an 8 month old son (B). He's our first, & the first grandkid for W's parents. W is an artist and has returned to work already. Not a financial decision, my income would more than enough to support us. MIL is retired & has volunteered to watch the B regularly. The schedule varies but...
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{ "description": "wanting to date a trans guy against my dads wishes", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to date a trans guy against my dads wishes?
Im female and im pretty sure im straight. When I met the guy in question I didnt know he was trans until he told me but by then I already liked him. We're not dating right now or anything but he's my best friend and I only see him as a guy. I accidentally told my dad today and he went off at me even for the idea. He ca...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that there's no point in arguing with him because he's so entitled to his own opinion that he doesn't care about anyone else's", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend that there's no point in arguing with him because he's so entitled to his own opinion that he doesn't care about anyone else's?
Hi. ​ My friend, we'll call him Jason, is a very kind person with a good sense of humor. He and I like to play video games together, along with our big group of friends who play games too, so we all have a big group chat to talk about our games. However, whenever somebody has a different opinion than him a...
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{ "description": "not inviting my friend to a vacation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't invite my friend to a vacation?
Some buddies and one of their families and I went on a spring break trip recently and one of my other friends did not get invited and was kind of bummed out. It was not a "you cannot go" reason because it came down to space as we were driving about eight hours. Friend A (whom invited us and parents were driving), Frien...
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{ "description": "\"ruinining\" two events in a row", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for "ruinining" two events in a row?
To understand where I'm coming from here, I'm gonna need to tell you a bit about myself, so here goes: I'm a girl under 20 with rather low self esteem, REALLY socially awkward and tend to get emotional very quickly. Great combination, I know. This usually leads me into relationships that aren't exactly what you'...
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{ "description": "being mad that my boyfriend doesn't give me gifts", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being mad that my boyfriend doesn't give me gifts?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years, and this past year he gave me my birthday present 2 months late and did not get me a Christmas present. I am not materialistic, I would be happy if he made me a nice dinner (we both love to cook) or we just went out on a nice date of something I like to do like dancing o...
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{ "description": "not helping my friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For not helping my friend
I help my friend run a small t-shirt company. My friend is the brains behind the operations and uses me to create the designs on the computer. Today he asked me to make a design saying, "Beautiful Transexual". I refused to make the design because I felt like this would reflect poorly on the brand he's trying to create ...
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{ "description": "banning someone from one of my subreddit and he started telling me that I was abusing my mod powers. who's in the wrong here", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA I banned someone from one of my subreddit and he started telling me that I was abusing my mod powers. Who's in the wrong here?
For context, here's the post that got the person concerned banned: [https://i.imgtc.com/zowK6l1.png](https://i.imgtc.com/zowK6l1.png) For additional context, my subreddit is a clone of [r/yiffinhell](https://www.reddit.com/r/yiffinhell), but for a different demographic of people and I followed the rules I made compl...
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{ "description": "not supporting my suicidal friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not supporting my suicidal friend?
So a bit of context, my close friend lives a pretty stressful life. He's a single dad to a 5 year old boy, doesn't have any family support, works full time at a shitty fastfood chain and studies part-time to try and better his situation. I know he struggles with anxiety at times and can get overwhelmed, which in the pa...
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{ "description": "asking my ex to start paying me back now", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my ex to start paying me back now?
I dated this guy for a couple years. Near the beginning of our relationship, he had some financial struggles. I wasn’t hurting for money (and he knew that but never asked) so I let him know that he can ask to borrow money from me if needed. He declined at first but ultimately ended up borrowing some money from me (a co...
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{ "description": "not selling my couch to my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not selling my couch to my friend?
Last week, I bought four couches from Amazon because they were on sale. I purchased two of them for my parents for their new renovated room and planned on selling the other two. When I was buying them, I sent the link to many people notifying them of the great sale. One of my friends jumped on the sale a little too la...
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{ "description": "getting black out drunk with a friend who didn't drink", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting black out drunk with a friend who didn’t drink?
Alright so first if I feel myself like I didn’t do anything wrong but from my friend’s attitude I’m starting to wonder if maybe I actually did?? Anyways Im (19/F) at my last uni year and so far I’d never managed to make any real friends at my school (I tend to be more friendly w my sports buddies) but this year I met ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my boyfriend's house", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to go to my boyfriend's house?
Context: Last time I was at his place, the first thing his mom said to me was "Hey! We haven't seen you in a long time! We were starting to think you were a bad girlfriend." I told her why I was busy- my grandfather has ALS and him and my grandmother recently had a slip and fall incident, which my grandmother is now...
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{ "description": "telling my brother that his \"relationship\" with a cam-girl isn't real", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my brother that his "relationship" with a cam-girl isn't real?
Every bit as strange as it sounds. My brother is in his mid-twenties, and I recently found out that the long-distance "girlfriend" that he's been mentioning in passing for a few months now is, in fact, a model on a popular cam site. A model that he hasn't spent an obscene amount of money on gifts for. A model that live...
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{ "description": "not being attracted to my girlfriend's body", "pronormative_score": 122, "contranormative_score": 937 }
AITA for not being attracted to my girlfriend’s body?
I made an ALT account to ask this, since a bunch of my family follow my primary one. I’m also.. not completely sure of the rules here, so I’ll try to keep it as PG as I can. So, me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 3 years. We have fun together, and we really care about each other. (just to keep it simple....
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{ "description": "not giving my girlfriend a ride home", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving my girlfriend a ride home?
So I had plans with my roommates to hangout and drink and my girlfriend had plans to go hangout with some of her friends. She asks if I can take her and pick her up and I said I can drop you off but I'll be pretty buzzed by the time you leave so you'll have to get a ride back from someone else. She says okay and the ...
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{ "description": "making my friend cry", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making my friend cry
handicapped bully: jamie friend: zoe crying friend: anna let me set the stage; Anna and Zoe were sitting near me in class and suddenly Zoe brought up how I got bullied by Jamie in grade school. I started thinking about how difficult her life was as someone who is in a wheelchair, so we began the conversation about var...
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{ "description": "answering the Door for the Pizza Guy in my boxers", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 79 }
AITA for Answering the Door for the Pizza Guy in my Boxers
I've answered the door in my underwear a few times before, when I don't have a pair of pants ready, because I would feel rude to keep them waiting. I've never really noticed much of a reaction before, but tonight the pizza guy was clearly very uncomfortable, even physically taking a couple steps back when I opened the ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "feeling cheated that my parents won't help me pay for college", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for feeling cheated that my parents won't help me pay for college?
I started college last fall and found out that my parents are not willing to help me at all, nor did they put any money aside at all for me or my brother. My family did struggle financially up until about 5 years ago. My parents now, combined, make over $150,000 a year. This completely destroys any chance of me getting...
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{ "description": "being mad when someone called an asshole", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad when someone called an asshole?
I was kinda talking to this guy and I intentionally left him on read because he does it to me occasionally. He texted me again and said, “ok asshole” to which I said “don’t call me an asshole” (I don’t allow name calling and degrading terms like that in a friendship/ relationship. If you’re joking, that’s fine. But if ...
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{ "description": "wanting to party without my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to party without my girlfriend?
So I've been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half now and things have been great, except for partying with her. Whenever she gets drunk, she gets emotional and starts to cry, which is ok, but it gets annoying at times So I told her that next time I party, I want to go with just the boys. Just for one night...
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{ "description": "feeling snubbed by my boyfriend's family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling snubbed by my boyfriend’s family?
Backstory: Me (22F) and my boyfriend (M25) have been dating around a year. We live around 100+ miles from his family. We go and visit his family as often as we can, but it is still sometimes several weeks before we can go see them. When we do get together, we have a great time and everyone gets along. The only person I...
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{ "description": "not telling someone's fiancée her boyfriend tried to cheat on her", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not telling someone’s fiancée her boyfriend tried to cheat on her
I was a shy 17 year old girl going to College in Texas. I was dealing with a lot of anxiety problems back then, and couldn’t talk. Speaking to people almost hurt. If I was spoken to, I only responded in short 1-3 word replies. Being around people gave me a lot of anxiety. I made a friend with a guy in my political sc...
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{ "description": "being annoyed by someone with a mental disability", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being annoyed by someone with a mental disability?
Generally, anyone with a mental disability that impairs their social functions annoys me a lot. Story time: There’s this one kid in a club for an engineering challenge thing, and while I was sharing my idea with my group, he just walks over and sits on the chair about 2 inches from me and starts talking about some id...
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{ "description": "believing student's should pay back their loans", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA because I believe student's should pay back their loans?
I must be the asshole because most people I've come across feel they shouldn't repay their loans. Discuss.
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{ "description": "getting mad at roommate for not telling me that there would be strangers sleeping in our house", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at roommate for not telling me that there would be strangers sleeping in our house
First Poster here- LONG READ So I live together in a big house with five other people (so 6 people in total). Each of us has his/her separate bedroom and we have an extra spare bedroom if friends come over. So this has been going on for great for year and a half now. This week however my roommates were on ski-holi...
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{ "description": "not letting people in my lane if they don't use a blinker", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for not letting people in my lane if they don’t use a blinker?
I hate when people don’t use their blinker when changing lanes. So I’ve had a habit of speeding up if I see someone trying to get in my lane if they’re not using one. Honestly how hard is it to use? It’s literally a switch.
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{ "description": "getting offended by my SO's refusal to let me snowblow our driveway", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting offended by my [26F] SO’s [26M] refusal to let me snowblow our driveway?
AITA for getting offended by my [26F] SO’s [26M] refusal to let me snowblow our driveway? My SO and I just purchased a home and are spending our first winter in it. We were graciously gifted a John Deere TRS 32 snowblower by his father. The other day while driving home from grocery shopping we were talking about how ...
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{ "description": "not taking my twin's feeling into account", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking my twin's feeling into account ?
For a bit of context, we are twenty years old female fraternal twins. We are really close, though we argue a lot, partly because "she doesn't know how to express her feelings so she becomes agressive, that's how she is" (according to my mother). I'm going on a trip to Australia for five months in a few weeks. My siste...
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{ "description": "getting irritated when my boyfriend wants attention while I'm busy", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting irritated when my boyfriend wants attention while I’m busy?
Let’s start with that I (17F) love my boyfriend (17M) very much. We’ve been together for 1.5 years. We’re planning to get our own apartment and everything. He currently lives with me and my family so that’s definitely important for my questions. I bought him a TV and PS4 so he wouldn’t be bored sitting on the phone a...
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{ "description": "yelling at a drunk girl to get fuck out of my campsite", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for yelling at a drunk girl to get fuck out of my campsite
‘Twas’ NYE of 2018, around 5-6pm and a good 7-8 of my close friends were in our marquee at a festival inside our campsite area. Tunes are pumping and the drinks are flowing, a great time. When out of nowhere wonders up this stranger to us and insists we sing a song with her, I begrudgingly agree given it’s within the s...
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{ "description": "not writing a paragraph about how much I love my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not writing a paragraph about how much I love my friend?
I was really depressed, and so my best friend worked super hard to throw a surprise birthday party for me with all my friends. Me and him have never had a fight and I loved him so much for it. Yesterday, we got the pictures back and I uploaded them on Instagram, tagged everyone and wrote how grateful I was. Not intenti...
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{ "description": "not speaking Spanish to hispanic customers", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not speaking Spanish to Hispanic customers?
A little backstory; six or seven years ago, I took two years of Spanish as a fine arts credit, for high school. I loved it, but my Spanish is broken at best. Sometimes, Hispanic customers will come in and I default to English. They reply back in Spanish and i will reply in English, usually one word or two word response...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with my dad?
I'm recently 18 and my parents split a month before my birthday, which was completely fine to both of them. They're happier apart. This isn't my point. My parents had me late and my dad is currently in his late 50s, early 60s. He asks me every Friday if I can go to hang out at his house. I suspect this is because he'...
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{ "description": "sending a BPT mod an \"apology for being white\"", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sending a BPT mod an “apology for being white”?
Obligatory apology for mobile formatting So a couple days ago r/blackpeopletwitter made a statement that [“BPT is now for black folks only.”](https://www.reddit.com/r/BPTmeta/comments/b82dks/announcements_blackpeopletwitter_is_now_for_black/). Many people, as did i, thought this was an april fools joke. However, as of...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for repairs to my car made without my permission", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for repairs to my car made without my permission?
Hi, I’m not a frequent poster but I’ve been really questioning this situation for awhile. Over the Summer I worked at a camp, and I lent one of my coworkers my car last minute because his ride to an event he had the weekend off for flaked last minute. I was friends with the guy and trusted him, so I told him to just b...
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{ "description": "blocking my little cousin on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For blocking my little cousin on Instagram?
Here's a little backstory: I am currently visiting my home country Uzbekistan from the US, Having the opportunity to even go to the US from my country is considered a big deal here.,. I haven't seen my little cousin in around 4-5years. He is 14 years old and once he found out I had an instagram he immediately made one....
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{ "description": "wanting my coworker with autism to do his job", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting my coworker with autism to do his job?
I work in the dietary department at a hospital. We deliver food to patients, pick up their dirty meal trays, wash dishes, and more. I work with a young man with autism. Which wouldn’t pose an issue, except everyone keeps using it as an excuse for why he “can’t” do his job. He’s perfectly capable, it’s just that they ...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ending a friendship?
Around a year ago I met a girl on Tinder and we started talking; she shared a lot about herself and her personal life in the month I knew her for (the fact that she was a trans woman and polyamorous, that she used to self harm etc); she seemed to be using me as her personal therapist- I kept telling her to see someone ...
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AITA: punched a cop more than I probably needed to
I’m (24f) hearing impaired. I have an Auditory Processing Disorder (APD), which is something like dyslexia for sounds. Everything sounds jumbled unless I’m super focused, and sometimes even then I can’t sort out spoken language from things like road noise. If you’re curious about what it’s like, try downloading one of ...
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{ "description": "emailing my teacher asking about last-Minute Grade adjustments", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA- Am I the Asshole for Emailing My Teacher Asking About Last-Minute Grade Adjustments?
Ok, first some background for the teachers out there who might think this sounds ridiculous. This professor (let’s call her B) is a known NIGHTMARE. I have been in her class for only a semester (with another to come) and I’ve been through hell and back trying to stay on her good side. Here are a list of incidents (jus...
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{ "description": "not buying the books versions that my professor requires", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not buying the books versions that my professor requires?
So basically, I'm taking a political philosophy class right now where we're reading Machiavelli, Rousseau, Locke, Hobbes, and Hume. It's been pretty interesting, but my professor has been a massive stickler with me about this one point. I come from a very poor background, and I'm very lucky to be at this school but mo...
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{ "description": "outing my friend to my parents", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I outed my friend to my parents?
To preface this: I haven't seriously thought about this that much, and I know I probably would be the asshole, I just want some outside input. I'm also using an alt account as to not out anyone in this post. I (M, 16, bi) have kept consistent contact with my friend (F, 17, lesbian, we'll call her Anna) since middle sc...
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{ "description": "not including my girlfriend in my fantasies after she looked through my computer and found my pornography", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not including my girlfriend in my fantasies after she looked through my computer and found my pornography?
My girlfriend just moved into my home. This is the first time I have ever been in a live in situation with a woman, but we both felt that after dating for eight months it would be a nice next step. There have been several bumps. For one, I am used to living alone. I realize however that some things would change, but I...
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{ "description": "telling hr about a potential hire having a history of embezzling", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told HR about a potential hire having a history of embezzling?
This is a weird question I know that, but I have talked to a couple of people and we're all conflicted. To render a much longer story short, about 10 years ago when I was getting back into the work force after having kids I was briefly an admin assistant at a college. Part of my job was reconciling expenses for my supe...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend over Minecraft sheep", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend over Minecraft sheep
This is my first post here, so sorry in advance if this doesn't read well So firstly, I'm a bit of a casual gamer. I normally just play Minecraft alone or with my boyfriend. So, when a couple of my friends invited me to play, I prewarned them that I wouldn't be very much help, but came on with them anyway. Straigh...
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{ "description": "telling my sister to get over a breakup that happened over a year ago", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 70 }
AITA for telling my sister to get over a breakup that happened over a year ago?
For context, my sister lives with me. It's a situation I can't do anything about because my parents own the house and rent it out to me. There is no formal lease, or rental agreement, so I'm kind of stuck with her. Since she moved in last summer, she just mopes around the house, like a dark cloud. Her fiance broke up w...
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{ "description": "getting frustrated with how little my boyfriend decides to tell me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I'm getting frustrated with how little my boyfriend decides to tell me?
Me and my boyfriend have known each other for 6-ish years, and have been together in a long-distance relationship for about 6 months. The problem is that recently he's started to put a lot less effort in, never texting me first, never replying to my texts with more than a couple of words, etc. I've obviously been extre...
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{ "description": "finally telling my dad to back off", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For finally telling my dad to back off
Context: I had a post before on this sub where I explained that my father has yelled at me for everything and has blamed me for everything ever since I could remember. I wondered if cutting ties with him after high school would be an a-hole move. In the comments, people suggested that I talk with my father heavily abou...
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{ "description": "sending a dick pic", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sending a dick pic?
While snapchatting with a girl during the early evening, she sent me a «coupon for 1 free nude». I jokingly responded that i’d send one later. While i drank with a couple of my friends, she asked me «where did the nude go?». I kinda laughed the question off, while continuing on with the conversation. After my friends ...
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