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"description": "ghosting a friend",
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} | AITA for ghosting a friend | My friendship with "rachel" has been tumultuous over the 10 years we've been friends. She makes very poor decisions and expects me to either help her out of whatever mess shes in or listen to her whine and complain.
Example: she decided to furnish her home with "rent to own" furniture and electronics. The type of s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "yelling at a rapist's enabler bff",
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} | AITA for yelling at a rapist’s enabler bff? | So big trigger warning if you can’t hear about sexual assault or abuse of victims.
But am I the asshole here?
The short of the story is that I dated this dude for a year, we’ll call him Jake. And I started figuring out pretty quickly that Jake was problematic as fuck. And the longer we were together, the more I had... | HISTORICAL | {
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nMz0JxFHMJsxz29oZCwdQxgweyjn4X4f | 9thswh | {
"description": "friend zoning a girl without any warning",
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} | AITA For friend zoning a girl without any warning? | A few months ago I started drivers ed (sophomore) and next to me was one of the more popular senior girls at my school. Naturally, I was nervous and rarely would ever speak to her. However, we started to become closer and closer, to the point that we would talk to each other on the phone constantly at night. Things see... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "saying no to working as a photographer for my dad's company",
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} | WIBTA If I said no to working as a photographer for my dad's company? | So, a little bit of context here: I just turned 17, and I currently am and have been unemployed for all my life. My dad's been pushing for me to get a job since I was 15 because of my fierce spending habits(I have been incredibly spoilt by both parents for my entire life. I know, I'm a spoilt shit blah blah blah, but t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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hPlkhSvp1gThhuZyPH8gCjToUyoJIIN8 | ayg74g | {
"description": "thinking my roommate owes my friend an apology",
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} | AITA because I think my roommate owes my friend an apology? | I had some friends over and we were having some wine. My roommate was holed up in her room as usual. She came out and asked us to keep it down, which was fine! One of my friends asked her to join us. She said she doesn't drink. We were all pretty tipsy at this point and kind of teasing her, inviting her to have a drink... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being grossed out by a video game system covered in a porn skin",
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} | AITA for being grossed out by a video game system covered in a porn skin? | Coming up with a good title for this one was hard tbh. Apologies for poor grammar
A friend of mine has a Nintendo Switch with an ahegao face skin on it (if you don't know what that is, look it up) and he brings it into school (high school) all the time and plays on it constantly where everyone can see. I frankly find i... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting us to park on a disabled spot despite me technically being disabled",
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} | AITA for not wanting us to park on a disabled spot despite me technically being disabled? | So this argument between me and my friend F. actually happened a little over a week ago but I had no idea this sub existed until today. To understand the issue we had you need to know that I'm technically considered disabled, both due to various chronic illnesses as well as due to being blind on one eye and visually im... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "getting my friend kicked out the bus",
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} | AITA for getting my friend kicked out the bus? | This has been on my conscience ever since I feel really bad. This happened a few weeks ago and I need some opinions. I don’t want anyone close to actually know so that is why I am posting this here.
Backstory: My friend and I have been like best friends ever since middle school and I have seen his house and the condit... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "shaking a water bottle at a kid",
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} | AITA for shaking a water bottle at a kid? | There's a kid (Edward) who sits next to me and brings salad to class every single day in a plastic container. And everyday, he takes a little packet of the ranch, drizzles it on top, closes the lid, and ... begins shaking. Edward goes to town on that salad like it's a maraca and it's LOUD. He won't stop for at least 10... | HISTORICAL | {
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BSZR3pyYxc6ZhSXYBiFuW8hyU4L9s3De | 9yvtpz | {
"description": "not wanting my gf to marry someone else",
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} | AITA for not wanting my GF to marry someone else? | Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and a couple days ago she asked me if she could marry someone else. Naturally I needed more context because though we have our issues (see my r/relationships post for more info) we are in a good place right now.
Now for the context. Her friend's r... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not letting my best friend go through my texts with my other friend",
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} | AITA for not letting my best friend go through my texts with my other friend? | I know this seems like a shitpost but my friend keeps bothering me about it so I wanted an opinion.
I (M14) have a friend (F14) and we met in January. Over the course of a few months we've grown were close and we've told each other some very personal things.
My friend says I'm being an asshole for not showing him be... | HISTORICAL | {
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iMIwaSSOKtaM3rF36ydlllKzsF44LUEI | b8qoy7 | {
"description": "still being mad at my dad for giving me an ear condition",
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} | AITA for still being mad at my dad for giving me an ear condition. | So basically, my dad likes to scare us/ startle us and one day he woke me up from a nap by slamming pots and pans together over my head. He's a strong person, and it was excruciatingly loud. Ofc I woke up and took out the trash (he woke me up cause i needed to roll out the bins). Later in the day i noticed my ears were... | HISTORICAL | {
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l547yFpHLRr3ZwSvmvpiC2njtT5LmjvZ | ayzesk | {
"description": "expecting her to pay",
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} | AITA for expecting her to pay | First post, also on mobile. LONG POST.
So she gets us to babysit her cat for 2 weeks.
We told her that she'd have to deflea and deworm him b4 he came over, all of her animals have fleas because she usually had barn animals in her apt, she told us that she did and so kitten comes over to stay with me.
2 weeks turns i... | HISTORICAL | {
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GGrfGI0Gr9W6s8lLek8ESTLKls89pvyA | 9unr99 | {
"description": "getting upset at my wife for blow drying her hair 40 minutes before my alarm goes off",
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} | AITA for getting upset at my wife for blow drying her hair 40 minutes before my alarm goes off? | My wife is a morning person. She gets up early and likes to workout and slowly get ready. I love her dedication, and it's never bothered me. We have two kids and with our schedules working out in the morning is the best time for her. I support this and it's never been an issue because she wouldn't start getting ready t... | HISTORICAL | {
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s2w1H235usu4CTvKA6wbIHDbaWykBBaK | azflf0 | {
"description": "hooking up with a girl my friend is interested in, while I knew he was interested",
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} | AITA for hooking up with a girl my friend is interested in, while I knew he was interested? | This happened yesterday.
I went out clubbing with my usual group, and Friend A decided to bring a girl along, and specifically asked me if Friend B was present, who is known for snatching (taken) girls away.
I say no, she's his to pursue, we won't interfere.
During the evening I learn from him that he tried his luck... | HISTORICAL | {
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nLJhq8FBX12IPv936vIhzztjKqBl5pgB | amz9tq | {
"description": "not wanting my abuser near me",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not wanting my abuser near me? | I will preface this by saying I am upset and on mobile so I am sorry for the grammar/formatting issues.
So let's start at the beginning, when I (24f) was younger (around 7 or 8 I believe) my mother married my stepdad and I went from an only child to having 2 older (step)brothers. One of them is 4 years older than me, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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CUaT3z3eNHMbifu1fQNBL9Nld2aYQ4SV | a9hvz8 | {
"description": "calling the police on my noisy neighbors",
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} | AITA For calling the police on my noisy neighbors? | Merry Christmas Everyone!
​
I guess I am writing this to validate my predicument for calling, and continuing to call, the police on my noisy neighbors. A little background, we both live in homes separated by a street, so there is roughly 50-70 feet between our homes. The neighbor in question has a really g... | HISTORICAL | {
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7KkeBvGeldFHOej97O56qSGbw3Z6CMQY | afl60w | {
"description": "getting annoyed at my friends calling dibs on rooms",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for getting annoyed at my friends calling dibs on rooms | A few weeks ago my group of friends rented a cabin for a vacation trip during winter break. 4 different couples were going plus a few single people. Most of us were coming from different cities as we were all home for break, so like 4 different cars all met there at different times.
My girlfriend and I drove by ourse... | HISTORICAL | {
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uzChOSXEY4UkTsCs5H7mLDvE4DInRcVT | a6k4n5 | {
"description": "going to hang out with my friend without another friend who said she didn't want to go",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for going to hang out with my friend without another friend who said she didn't want to go? | So my friend N and I planned to go to the carnival together like a month prior to day-of and since our other friend A had been feeling down, we invited her.
She told us she didn't want to go and that she felt sick anyway so we were like oh alright and we went without her.
Then all of a sudden once the time we met up/... | HISTORICAL | {
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DY7YMBYRuWTARI0uoulLbP6hEmc0gRBM | avf4q9 | {
"description": "getting a whole bunch of kids suspended and one kids expelled",
"pronormative_score": 98,
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} | AITA For getting a whole bunch of kids suspended and one kids expelled | So about a month ago my high school had to close down one of the male restrooms because they kept catching students (mostly freshmen) vaping in that specific bathroom. So instead of severely punishing the students who kept getting caught they just shut down that restroom permanently for the rest of the school year. Now... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 98,
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f4hAR42G6okJwZn0KjXyuq7ZORsPvyfa | b67en5 | {
"description": "telling my best friend she's reached an unhealthy weight",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA If I told my best friend she's reached an unhealthy weight? | Lindsey and I have been best friends for a decade. She's a lovely girl inside and out, and unfortunately has some self-esteem issues due to an emotionally abusive mother.
Throughout our friendship, Lindsey's weight has consistently yo-yo'd. She would go on diet and exercise kicks for a few months, lose 15-20 pounds, ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rcMfHKxa51SgPYsNxfNgKFWJDzkXF8mN | b9jb96 | {
"description": "telling my mom that I wont be talking to her about my personal life anymore",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for telling my mom that I wont be talking to her about my personal life anymore? | In advance, sorry for the formatting I'm on mobile (also throwaway because friends know my account)
So first off here's some background information. I'm a high school student and around the last couple of weeks of December last year I came out to my parents as bisexual. They did not take it well to say the least and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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wdmmDcJ0S7kviqaoYRaeNbYlAXgcuV6d | aowxy9 | {
"description": "cutting off one of my closest friends in college",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for cutting off one of my closest friends in college? | So some backstory. There are 5 friends in this friend group. We've been together for 6 months. We all love each other, and Me, Friend A, B, and C, who are all boys, 18. Then there is the Friend F, who is a female, also 18. Friend F comes from a traumatic background, as she had a five year-boyfriend who broke up with he... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
J1hwNyg7LMx4bLnfzLJ2AXD6dogz5Jhp | azu649 | {
"description": "not inviting a lifelong friend to my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for not inviting a lifelong friend to my wedding? | Definitely a bit of backstory required here.
As I'm sure you can tell by the title, a lifelong friend of mine (we'll call him Jack), isn't being invited to my wedding. Jack has always been extremely nice to me, almost to a fault, but has made some really poor decisions over the last 3-5 years or so. This has in turn h... | HISTORICAL | {
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8hSdJBMhOsZQJUCH9wbii3Q0QZQK2Xqg | awlcbp | {
"description": "taking back my swimming goggles",
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} | AITA for taking back my swimming goggles | this happend a few years back in a hotel´s swimming pool,
I lost my goggles in the pool because i had them too big and they fell off, i found the exact same goggles (my name on them) on another kid´s head, i tried to give him another pair in exchange he declined. Later on he broke them (fixable) and threw them on his... | HISTORICAL | {
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crZ1IdKnGptyuLHUOIZaxyqbB9quwr7O | a1pd7l | {
"description": "getting a tattoo against my mothers religious believes",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | WIBTA if I got a tattoo against my mothers religious believes? | So, my mother and father are both Jewish. They’ve never been very strict at all, we eat shellfish and pork and don’t observe Shabbat, but as far as beliefs, they’re all in. Over the years as a young adolescent, I did some thinking of my own, and decided that it’s just not for me, so I don’t have the same beliefs as the... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
LS9zVGyCYmN2uRoMhiwNoSU9UpYHuAkk | atcxd5 | {
"description": "talking too much about my parents' divorce",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for talking too much about my parents' divorce? | On mobile so please excuse any spelling or grammatical errors you find.
Awhile ago when my parents first decided to go through a divorce I decided to tell my two good friends about it on the way home from school. Since we were close I thought it might be important for them to know and I wanted someone to tal... | HISTORICAL | {
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E4ncAlTeNV9T9NcRncjj67eiE1kKIyy0 | a9xu7u | {
"description": "cutting off communication with my stepbrother",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for cutting off communication with my stepbrother? | I stopped talking to him since September after a short outburst (basically me telling him how selfish he is) and I plan to not talk to him at all anymore.
I cannot really process why I just got so fed up with him. He is just so fucking narcissistic to a fault. Even though he has work of his own it’s like his earning i... | HISTORICAL | {
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S6v02bHOjI080QXUCiHXcEH7B7yFhEAU | a9uhgp | {
"description": "telling my family to find her their own house",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | Wibta for telling my family to find her their own house? | My brother and sister in law have recently moved into my rental house with the promise of finding their own house. That was three months ago. Since then they've suddenly started up a compensation case because sil was in a car accident three years ago. They have a young baby (1). But they're basically taking over my hou... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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VyxxSipmbTxi2YlVuU9H6OLWwJg05LsC | a92ebh | {
"description": "telling my step-father that my mother has been cheating on him right around Christmas",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA if I told my step-father that my mother has been cheating on him right around Christmas? | [Backstory from another thread to keep this focused, tl;dr near the bottom of linked post](https://np.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/a7ne4x/advice_just_found_out_that_my_mother_53_devoid_of/)
I was originally going to try to anonymously inform the guy's wife and let it resolve on its own, but as time has go... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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x554cf4RBH6DIJgOwlI90tusaTKMQHf0 | azumtb | {
"description": "telling my landlord what is going on with my roommate",
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} | WIBTA If I tell my landlord what is going on with my roommate? | Alright I live in a shared apartment with 3 other strangers. All the rooms are rented separately on different leases. That being said I am at the wit's end with one of my roommate's behavior. I won't go into full detail because we would literally be here all day but what I'm dealing with right now is she has moved two ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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futaehNbPlK084euHvqvTGL7q4FNctst | aw34ta | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend when she's not allowing me to have contact with an ex",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA for breaking up with my girlfriend when she's not allowing me to have contact with an ex? | I (17m) have been together with my SO (19f) for like 3 months right now. I'm having so much fun with her and love spending time together, but this week we've had one of our biggest arguments yet. I was telling her about my plans for the night: my friends and I were planning to go clubbing and they invited some girls th... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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EBdVdhuEqiLL5ADAdGKxvXCpC8EK1zob | b1e4fw | {
"description": "serving a guest a mug with tea stains",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | WIBTA if I serve a guest a mug with tea stains | Maybe you can settle this debate. I have a white mug with tea stains on the inside. I know the stain can be completely removed with baking soda, just haven't done it.
My wife's claim is that the mug looks disgusting and it would be wildly inappropriate to serve a guest a mug like that.
My claim is that the mug is cle... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 12,
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} | WRONG |
qq27DzOnP5sDmUlJvcbyoPhbRj2k90lr | af88u3 | {
"description": "going to the game tomorrow",
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} | AITA for going to the game tomorrow | I was born and raised in San Diego and moved to NE in my teens. I’m a huge Chargers fan but also have grown to love the Pats in the 20+ years I’ve lived here.
I’ve been to a dozen Patriot games including the AFC Championship in 08 against the Chargers.
Anyway, I wanted to go to tomorrow’s game with my wife but my n... | HISTORICAL | {
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9JWc55zQQOnZ3QTpGzJzomuMT45uLMT7 | at4e37 | {
"description": "ending a friendship with a girl I have romantic feelings for after being rejected",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | WIBTA if I ended a friendship with a girl I have romantic feelings for after being rejected? | I developed strong romantic feelings for a girl I've been friends with for a few years now. After a couple months of this I asked her out and she turned me down. I thought ok no problem. We'll just stay friends no big deal. Well its been about a month since she turned me down and honestly the feelings haven't faded... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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nWlT8ODwcqH8sWceQmbrYzkNXqC75tfl | b4uso5 | {
"description": "leaving a friend out of a Hearts of Iron game",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for leaving a friend out of a Hearts of Iron game? | It's a specific scenario, but my only friend that uses reddit was the one I was playing with, and he's on my side so here goes.
Me and my friend were playing a Hearts of Iron game (which can last an excessively long time) together without our other friends who play the game.
When I had last played with them, I had j... | HISTORICAL | {
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kd1QMYLKZ25FisizsncW3ZdbYKNLMCgU | 9u9wnm | {
"description": "calling my friend a attention whore",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for calling my friend a attention whore? | Three primary people: P, C, N, and me (I'm a guy btw)
My (used to be) group was chatting with each other in a voice channel on discord and for almost the whole time one of my friends (she is P) was doing makeup. Left a little earlier than everyone else and when I came back the call ended and everyone transitioned to t... | HISTORICAL | {
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mkTClGqmIq9SNcffi1Rs9SVjQahsWg7U | arq6h6 | {
"description": "wanting my car back at a 'reasonable time'",
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} | AITA for wanting my car back at a 'reasonable time'? | My GF's brother is hard pressed at the moment, his car has broken down and needs to be sent to a shop to be repaired.
​
We have 3 cars at home, 2 of them being mine. (I don't really need 2 cars, the 2nd one is a manual I'm trying to learn and practice on.)
We agreed to let him borrow the manual car for 1 ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nAoJVnT1wMwAzqcn4SyOVhr5eBH7Hjmg | ac6aeo | {
"description": "not getting back with my ex after she dumped me for getting a dui",
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} | AITA for not getting back with my ex after she dumped me for getting a DUI | Back story: So I got charged with a DUI 6 months ago. I had to go to jail until my aunt paid my bail. My charges got dropped because the police arrested me at my house an hour after the initial complaint and they had no proof other than an anonymous witness. While I was in jail I called my gf and told her how sorry I... | HISTORICAL | {
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RpJNTdRE51h4JG7nDDYM3IHdHmFcOp43 | 9tm7eo | {
"description": "being upset at my friend who pretended to throw a rock at me motorcycle as I drove by",
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} | AITA for being upset at my friend who pretended to throw a rock at me motorcycle as I drove by? | I was driving down the road at 70 kp/h and hour and saw my friend and waved to him and then he clocked his arm out and pretended to throw something. I immediately pulled over and stomped towards him and started yelling at saying, "why would you throw anything at me?!" "getting hit with pebbles at 70kph hurts, let alone... | HISTORICAL | {
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hwzv6PjaFd0eJD8CntWYi0VyZOEvD1Ck | b1x038 | {
"description": "breaking up with my boyfriend for not working on a couple issues",
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} | WIBTA if I broke up with my boyfriend for not working on a couple issues? |
I (M26) and my boyfriend (M26) have known each other 2 years, together 1.5. Shortly after we first met he was diagnosed with HIV. I've been on PrEP for years already and he started treatment/became undetectable very quickly so \*for me\* it's not a huge issue and his status isn't a factor in how I see him/how much I... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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wg63KiE3lwujAATTNQe1n9IJekMxwHPY | 9yuull | {
"description": "trying to get on a different flight because mine is delayed 5+ hours",
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} | AITA trying to get on a different flight because mine is delayed 5+ hours? | Got on a flight this morning out of a local airport, Bellingham, that’s would connect in SEATAC, only an hour and a half drive, 30min flight, then continue to Burbank. Well we’ve been sitting on the flight since 5:30 am, it’s now 10:30. We’ve been told we can get off the plane, but will not be allowed to get back on. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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mdnbwqo3umPc2a0AmvEklD9jnyPsYWya | a6ljnq | {
"description": "asking back the money I lend",
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} | Wibta for asking back the money i lend | WIBTA
So, a lil background,
I(21M) lend my best friend (21M) 2k€ for his business last year.
I lend him the money because he had asked me & after questioning him about why/how he was gonna use it it seemed just fine & clear.
He told me he's obv gonna pay me back in full, & i know he is going to. The thin... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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WUNq0AjYhWNKYaySDmJpPcFKjRGSH4Nc | avf44z | {
"description": "finding my coworkers bathroom habits disgusting",
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} | AITA for finding my coworkers bathroom habits disgusting | Hello all,
Posting this on an alt account for obvious reasons.
I work as a research chemist in a large research center. As you can maybe guess, people here aren't always the best with social cues, hygiene, etc
One of the older chemists that works with me on my floor seems to frequently make trips to the bathroom. F... | HISTORICAL | {
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wJwx6ulQdnP6PojdvpBKXnOEQwQUADFn | b00uyb | {
"description": "going behind my closest friend's back to warn his girlfriend about some red flags I saw",
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} | AITA for going behind my closest friend's back to warn his girlfriend about some red flags I saw? | I need to use throwaways and different names for this. I'm friend with Vik who is an Indian American and one of my closest friends through college. Vik is in an LTR with Kat, who I know for the past six months or so, mostly hanging out with Vik.
Right away I thought they were different people. Vik is definitely a guy... | HISTORICAL | {
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MzKkr6sKLANqWoZz95NrCHrj2FhWtZjH | a1ylui | {
"description": "not letting my sister get a toy because it weirds me out",
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} | AITA for not letting my sister get a toy because it weirds me out? | Now, you may think “No, that’s completely reasonable” but i have trypophobia, so things with holes weird me out. The toy was a stress ball where when you squeezed it, it poked through the holes to show little balls, and they poked onto the plastic to make it look like it had so many tiny holes on it, and that disgusts ... | HISTORICAL | {
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QjXv20CyyTNzFhv6eP7FwR06QBWiCHZZ | ai2o85 | {
"description": "telling my friends to fuck off",
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} | AITA For telling my friends to fuck off? | So this happened not long ago. Maybe an hour ago I’d say. I was playing video games when my phone starts BLOWING up. Like 28 texts in 5 seconds. I check it and it appears that 2 of my friends put me in a group chat. They are just saying my name over and over and just demanding that I FaceTime them because they ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zxzwO4rPI5QJXai9EXZzkG7ITZWOYTGW | a7v6m6 | {
"description": "not supporting my S.O's desire to stay in an abusive household",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not supporting my S.O's desire to stay in an abusive household? | I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 6 years (we're both 18 atm). I loved her to pieces at the very beginning, and my love has only grown as time progressed. Admittedly, there's been some bumps along the road, but I'd like to believe our relationship is steady and happy. However, we've taken... | HISTORICAL | {
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RiV0tnCZVoTwjrsqZlb2vNDLrM8WNzHG | ak1hr2 | {
"description": "being mad that my long distance girlfriend didn't text me goodnight after a night getting drunk",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for being mad that my long distance girlfriend didn't text me goodnight after a night getting drunk? | A bit of back story. I met Jane online over a year ago and we saw each other once about 6 weeks after talking online for the first time. It seems like we've been tentatively planning a trip since the last one. As of next Friday, I will have enough $ to pay for the entire trip, so she'll have no more excuses.
We still ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TTyrv9aIFP8X7UKq4JbRwFl9seTe2zdd | a2jp0f | {
"description": "not wanting my stinky smoke infested father in law to sleep on our couch",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not wanting my stinky smoke infested father in law to sleep on our couch? | Father in law wants to stay the night because he's been drinking too much. My husband agrees. We are arguing where to put him. We have an air mattress but no clue where it is in our garage. Father in law is a chain smoker and literally reeks up our house every time he comes over. Thankfully the guys stay in a designate... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZRdwUKLeNL7odJxuhiaScert2ogzmRdl | a1e6ky | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend she can't visit her best friend",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend she can't visit her best friend? | Long story short, my girlfriend knows a guy who lives in the UK, she lives in America. I also live in Canada. Lots of long distance shit going on here. A few years back she was in a relationship with this guy, but it only lasted a couple weeks as they weren't really feeling it. However, to this day, they're still best ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TbU7ecrNmFRCQoDfuJ4EKtLtoDEA5n0U | b46lb3 | {
"description": "telling my roommate he can't use our kitchen",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA for telling my roommate he can't use our kitchen? | I (21) have been living with my best friend (19) for about 8 months now. It's been decent for the most part, always pays his rent, doesn't complain about noise, doesn't have random people over at all, and we're pretty good friends. My main gripe is he REFUSES to do the dishes. I am not exaggerating when I say he has do... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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vM31sL9f9lebrwK2oPFoO5AmGTmKjvcu | b3ljvj | {
"description": "wanting telling my boyfriend I want to cut my hair",
"pronormative_score": 20,
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} | AITA for wanting telling my boyfriend I want to cut my hair? | I’m a tomboy, and I always have been. I’ve never worn a dress willingly in my life, I wear boxer briefs, men’s jeans, men’s shirts. I don’t carry a purse, never have, I just keep my wallet and cellphone in my pockets. I don’t like being forced to be feminine.
The only hugely feminine thing about me is my hair. It’s ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nDxJs4PvbGgCeacX1KR9FRklOqVxZ1xd | ad91eq | null | AITA: Nephew is always crying and sick, and I have an opinion | My nephew is almost 2 and is the first child to a 24M and a 20F. They don’t live together but visit each other often enough. The father spends all of his free time gaming and if he isn’t gaming he is working. The mother lives with a roommate and has many visitors due to the roommate inviting men over about ever other w... | HISTORICAL | {
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89cbzDr76H4ggkbwCi70MFC0KgTat7OL | b9uxl7 | {
"description": "loudly shaming someone for their poor hygiene during a Magic the Gathering event",
"pronormative_score": 60,
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} | AITA for loudly shaming someone for their poor hygiene during a Magic The Gathering event? | I was playing MTG a couple weeks ago at the card shop with my friends and about a dozen other people like I always do. After the first round my friends and I all noticed a pretty foul body odor. I get that MTG players have a stereotype of bad odor, and sometimes someone might have a little funk but this was pretty na... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
ZrhvIlGyV0Rujy40PdRLXviYDdUlVRLB | aay71n | {
"description": "being angry at my dad",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for being angry at my dad? | so today i was sitting a little away from everyone because i wasn’t feeling well and wanted to sit on a comfy chair. my dad offered me a less comfy chair near him and i said i was fine where i was. he then offered again, and i said i was comfortable. then he got really mad and said “i am giving you ONE MORE CHANCE to s... | HISTORICAL | {
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k2G8QoWF6wypkQ976q14v5EsaiQ8TNkY | b9sb1l | {
"description": "not visiting family while in town visiting my best friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA for not visiting family while in town visiting my best friend? | I needed a break from work because it was getting to be really stressful ( I work in a hospital for burn victims). Like I would even have dreams of still being at work to paint the picture. I felt so drained. I decided to see my best friend who lives 3.5 hours in our hometown. Had a great time. Went to the mall, boxing... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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4PZ5axfKKWHHzqLZyu3vx5LfBBhV8IjQ | ajl5cm | {
"description": "wanting to label a relationship with a guy who doesn't like labels",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA for wanting to label a relationship with a guy who doesn't like labels? |
I (20F) have been flirting with this guy (24M) for just under two months now. The flirting is definitely mutual. We both are have low-key petnames for eachother, kinda more like possessive things, where he'll call me his girl casually or vice versa.
He lives in Europe while I live in the US, and we have an 8 hour tim... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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UePJFo9ovq85ed1d3jPOLvm9hQ2dvVtM | b8dcyv | {
"description": "wanting my in-laws to change their investment",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for wanting my in-laws to change their investment? | I (34 F) have two sons born 2 years apart. When my oldest son was born my in-laws insisted on opening a life insurance policy for him. This made me a bit uncomfortable, but my husband wasn't concerned, so we gave them his SS# and signed off on it. They claim it will continue to grow like an investment and he will be ab... | HISTORICAL | {
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iSjzQ6Nde17f37UZ9iWl4kykwvR7okO3 | aaf7n2 | {
"description": "not wanting a relationship with my family anymore",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not wanting a relationship with my family anymore | Throw away account. Lots of moving parts here so bear with me. Starting with background, originally from an Asian country brought up by a catholic faith. Lived there till I was 22 then got the fuck out of there to the land of the free and the home of the brave. Mom was a stay at home mother and dad worked in an oil fie... | HISTORICAL | {
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agBJRCt5VZI1x9SQx9nLfvvHS5WtJ3XS | 9x4rm2 | {
"description": "hating my dad for buying me a car",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for hating my dad for buying me a car? | I know it sounds that I am... But read fully.
I am a 20 M who is 99% of the time at home. I never liked cars or driving. I even got my license pretty late (unlike most people who get it asap).
I work/play/rest etc in my room. I work alot, I am a programmer. I play video games when I don't have work. And I obviously c... | HISTORICAL | {
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crUmd4U4QVY5WUQIDlHZZJFb9H977Len | b4e3n7 | {
"description": "wanting to leave my mentally ill friend",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For wanting to leave my mentally ill friend?? | My friend (Fake name will be Amelia) has multiple diagnosed mental illnesses. Looking back at it, my reasons for not wanting to be her friend, coincide with her mental illnesses
I met Amelia 3 years ago and I thought that we were somewhat good friends. She acted like a good friend and put effort into our friendship. N... | HISTORICAL | {
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aLYUMmjM9vcOzlKr7jptbljXKtsA0rmI | am40ta | {
"description": "getting pissed at people for choosing to sit near me on the train",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for getting pissed at people for choosing to sit near me on the train. | So I commute to work everyday on the train, takes me an hour and 40 minutes each way, and costs me £5000 a year (that’s UK Rail for you). So I’m already pretty miffed about being on the train at all.
I’m also a pretty big guy, 6’3” and broad shouldered, so I make a beeline for priority seating if I can. Purely becaus... | HISTORICAL | {
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7XEGMttQac3z2bnFDxZfWLreWyGRKxMF | a3euf2 | {
"description": "ingoring my neighbors",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for ingoring my neighbors? | I live in a rural area and mostly my neighbors and myself keep to ourselves. There's one couple who are the exception. They don't work, they live in a ramshackle trailer and rarely have a functioning car. About a year ago when their car broke down they started asking me for rides. At first only when they really needed ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Tt5KZukkbIRWMnWGGvJCv1AFsmJ7JLoB | b1p32n | {
"description": "telling him to be quiet",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for telling him to be quiet | So this happened in high school but has stuck with me to this day.
I was part of a student leadership group and we were supposed to be going class to class and asking people for their suggestions on improving the school. We led these discussions in groups of three. In high school, I was a small, nerdy girl. My two t... | HISTORICAL | {
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KtdurNvtskiXURACtV4cQ0CTBHuaaFVh | b2p0yj | {
"description": "abusing induction loops at left turn lanes in traffic just to go first",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for abusing induction loops at left turn lanes in traffic just to go first? | So for those that aren't aware, left turn lanes in my area have induction loops embedded into the roads. There will be one at the front near the crosswalk, and another one several car lengths behind. The idea is that if it detects there are lots of cars in the left turn lane, the advanced left turn light will go on. So... | HISTORICAL | {
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1rHf4Mfqds0zTLq9DSme0FSE8xRNUgfO | al2m7d | {
"description": "getting 2 women at my office fired",
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} | AITA For Getting 2 Women at my office fired? |
I'm 22 and been a sales rep at a software company part time since about 2017, after I graduated in June I was brought on full time to be a Account Executive (salesman). Which basically means I close deals and get a commission from said closed deals + a base salary. Honestly its a very lucrative career and I recommen... | HISTORICAL | {
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fRgpX1Ih9xM3vFPqd1ZeDVYM6tW4nOU7 | a4fblk | {
"description": "making my room mate pay for gas money",
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} | AITA for making my room mate pay for gas money? | So my room mate needed to get to the closer airport (fifty miles away) during the week to get home early for Thanksgiving break. He asked me if I could give him a ride, and I said yes because he had no other way to get home. I was frustrated because I had to cancel a meeting I planned a week earlier, and I asked him if... | HISTORICAL | {
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LNQencQrc6FnyvuFHL2VVDif1ECOTqDX | a2hz57 | null | AITA in my friend group | AITA I'm in high school and there's a group of my friends, there's about 6 of us. There's this one guy who is in the group and no one really likes him, but he has no other friends. Nobody really minded him being there until one day he decided to follow one of the girls in the group home. That happened a couple months a... | HISTORICAL | {
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dZv8b1eq6OdyNz0YLlhkyeO0vQS5Jd3T | a3r6vs | {
"description": "cutting my best friend of from myself",
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} | WIBTA If I cut my best friend of from myself? | My best friend currently goes a college that is far away from myself. We keep in contact a lot and are frequently talking to each other. However, this past year they went through a bad breakup and which resulted in them developing large drinking and partying habits that has also caused them to loose focus of their stud... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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1T4HFIj5oytlrRTgBSDM40zdzKsHWxUO | a9tbe8 | null | AITA for how I deal with tailgaters. | This is based on a border line argument with a mate of mine just the other day. Apparently I was the way I acted was extremely passive aggressive and dangerous for every body.
So on a multi lane highway. I was taking my family on a small holiday. I was driving in the slow lane at the speed limit (100km/h). Some bloke ... | HISTORICAL | {
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K8ajbUQ7Slh23WTSJoX4IEN7kCvLWKcy | ayag3m | {
"description": "not wanting to cook separate meals for my husband",
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} | AITA For not wanting to cook separate meals for my husband? | I want to eat healthier, and I love vegetables. My husband, however, loves heavy meals. Burgers, steak, potatoes, fried chicken, fast food, etc. He once accused me of making broccoli just because I like to watch him suffer (he makes disgusting faces when he eats broccoli) He eats like a 5 year old and isnt really ad... | HISTORICAL | {
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MGE9SBbYwFa20FmoJ5aDd65vdas389FA | b56gq1 | {
"description": "not hiring my friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not hiring my friend? | Many years ago I worked in a company with 2 people, let's call them Co-worker and Friend. Friend and I were senior employees and knew each other outside of work. Co-worker was junior and we didn't know each other well.
Co-worker and I were laid off years ago and found new jobs.
Last November the company gave remaini... | HISTORICAL | {
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1vG9abuSTr5JcyBBpRh8e3G68kqN3vwx | a6bl9p | {
"description": "being annoyed at my dad",
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} | AITA for being annoyed at my dad? | A little bit of background...
I have an older sister who is married. The two of them, my parents, and my fiancé and I all live relatively close to each other. My parents have a bad habit of treating my sister differently than they treat me (taking her to dinners, buying her a car, etc) despite the both of us being res... | HISTORICAL | {
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4iXCnB9dDs4NlgpDwHZWPEb77oxs9O1S | a31ml6 | {
"description": "thinking she doesnt give a shit / is up to something",
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} | AITA For thinking she doesnt give a shit / is up to something? | So i met this girl abroad 5 months ago, we instantly hit it off and fell in love, we stuck together until 2 weeks ago when i had to return to my home country. We both want her to move to me and live here after we have sorted out her visa and i have gotten confirmation about my next job assignment. We agreed that freque... | HISTORICAL | {
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7qSPtSD6cpxtJwIjO1LG4E1qQGdK5mq0 | aujy72 | {
"description": "saying there's nothing I want from my parents in their will",
"pronormative_score": 60,
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} | AITA for saying there's nothing I want from my parents in their will | Hello, I'm forty y/o for the last few months my Step dad and my mom (both in their 70's) have been creating their wills. They have been actively polling the rest of the family about what they would want when they die. Stepdad specifically is acting like he's going to die next week like it's on the calendar. My step-sib... | HISTORICAL | {
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No4ohfWfZbUl02DSM0ghHoQb6Zt11HUb | apbelj | {
"description": "telling my mom's gay friends she rejected me when I came out",
"pronormative_score": 60,
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} | AITA for telling my mom’s gay friends she rejected me when I came out? | Hello all, as the title says, I came out as gay to my mother a few days ago, and she did not take it well. She told me I was going to Hell (she’s very religious) and that she was so disappointed that this is the life I have chosen for myself. She also made it very clear that she would never accept me or any partner tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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gVX3YPC4DIne2uVPmZTX7035z8GA9Ipw | a4hcmf | null | AITA because he didn't make the team? | Throwaway because paranoia.
Okay, so basically here's some context. We're both 19 (I am female, he is male), complete 'nerds', go to university, live in the UK and are in the same uni game society (basically like a club). He originally introduced me to them because I'm too socially awkward to meet new people and he wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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c96vJMdOEhHl38nURiU285JjIELU3aRo | a09fm0 | {
"description": "yelling a very rude and pushy( as in GO GO GO!! kind pushy) man to stop and slow down in front of his friends n fam",
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} | AITA for yelling a very rude and pushy( as in GO GO GO!! Kind pushy) man to stop and slow down in front of his friends n fam? | Characters, me a shy 16y.o male who works at WalMart, Rude and pushy man(RPM) probably 30-35 y.o maybe around 6’’0, RPM’s wife (WPR), And my manager (MM) who knows I have Social Anxiety Disorder. So, this all happened during the BLACK FRIDAY, so I was pretty anxious/restless, I was only a hour into my shift, 10:45 AM-6... | HISTORICAL | {
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6W684V01hjZRm62wKXKk1Wq3MGJKkLlU | b90zx4 | {
"description": "giving myself a discount on sunglasses",
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} | AITA for giving myself a discount on sunglasses? | I was in a clothes store in the mall when I saw a small table set up with a sunglasses display. Most of them were around $30, but the glasses I wanted had no price tag. I took them to the cashier, who said that I could bring her another pair of sunglasses and she would just use that price. When I returned to the displa... | HISTORICAL | {
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IuDX4VQwYSu7uE4vQ7O50ztt8iJGlgVd | b7mk74 | {
"description": "calling a girl an attention whore",
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} | AITA for calling a girl an attention whore. | On my Snapchat a few months ago, I sent a message on my story for about 150+ people to see saying “Rb (reply back) for a brutal roast” then a girl replied back asking for one. I then thought about it for a bit and realised that she dated my friend for a bit and was kind of annoying after they broke up. She would always... | HISTORICAL | {
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hfhnzub1tTdYwFUsZI3V2JIWCj678pQQ | arhn5g | {
"description": "not wanting to be around someone with down",
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} | AITA - For not wanting to be around someone with down? | My wife and I have a couple of friends, and our youngest and their youngest get along really well and play together a lot. But so often they invite us over, or we invite them over, and they're early 20's son with down syndrome is there. He's so hard to understand, he makes me uncomfortable, he'll ask the same question ... | HISTORICAL | {
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XfP3J1wdTlXeV1wxrsIIbQL58GPsltcb | akscd1 | {
"description": "being resentful of my grandparents for not inviting my gf to their anniversary meal",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | Aita for being resentful of my grandparents for not inviting my gf to their anniversary meal? | So this March my grandparents on my dad's side of the family will be having an anniversary meal and on the list of those invited are: me, my mum, my dad, my sister, my aunt, my uncle, my cousin and his gf, my other cousin and her bf, my other aunt, my other uncle, and their daughter (my third cousin) and her bf.
Now ... | HISTORICAL | {
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8WH43yKesmJGfcrkSO7kuYjOOhyYzwTp | awigja | {
"description": "not inviting my (ex)friend to my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not inviting my (ex)friend to my wedding? | Okay so, in college, first year I started dating my husband, he wasnt serious back then at all. He cheated on me with my friend (he more than made it up to me, 4 years later we’re married, very happy). That friend just happened to fall in love with him (he’s really charming, tbh everyone wanted him). So that friend hid... | HISTORICAL | {
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LM9WgNXPzS0nafkOgIPeRNkJtWK6Wg3k | avenv6 | {
"description": "letting my girlfriend know that her family members will be at the same party",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I let my girlfriend know that her family members will be at the same party? | So basically, my gf has a pretty big family with a lot of cousins etc. She wants to go to a “party/club” and I heard from one of her cousins (a very good friend of me) that he might go as well. Now that wouldn’t be a problem, the problem is that they both probably will end up drunk and if they see each other drunk they... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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QZWgcCq2g1ScZXyLqOfSM7v8GHgO7TYm | a7y5wu | {
"description": "quickly leaving the room whenever my family moves conversation to topics that I know will get uncomfortably heated",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for quickly leaving the room whenever my family moves conversation to topics that I know will get uncomfortably heated? | I'll be honest. I don't think I am an asshole at all for this, but several family members have started to give me shit for this so I figured I'd check in with you guys.
During the winter holiday season my family gets together a lot. Like we have a mini Christmas party every weekend between Thanksgiving and Xmas, and... | HISTORICAL | {
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ssD8vmXdjwXBqEepnLn6HkqTjg9wy26I | ars4bb | {
"description": "not talking to my girlfriend about things I'm upset about in the moment they happen and for how I handled our argument",
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} | AITA - For not talking to my girlfriend about things I’m upset about in the moment they happen and for how I handled our argument? |
TLDR at the bottom.
This was all articulated horribly and I apologize. If you have any questions ask, I’m sure I can answer them much better than what I have typed here.
Also if I sound one-sides let me know and I’ll try and explain her side of it better.
Had an argument with my gf today regarding my tone, attitu... | HISTORICAL | {
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0GPlyAqRvNYc4crIWhldNpsA0ip6y4OH | b2vp6a | {
"description": "not being willing to pay on dates",
"pronormative_score": 21,
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} | AITA for not being willing to pay on dates. | I find the idea that I am expected to pay for a womans time demeaning. My time is just as valuable as my dates. I want someone that I can respect as an equal not someone that expects me to treat them like a child when it is convenient to them. For me a woman expecting me to pay is a dealbraker as I instantly lose respe... | HISTORICAL | {
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3hPV2YfLjioSQl6OvGogWeYfaenWttHR | abnffw | {
"description": "getting mad when people compliment my rings",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA for getting mad when people compliment my rings? | So, a bit of backstory:
I am a violinist, and I have played since before I can remember. I also have arthritis, the first major episode of which occurred when I was 14. Since then, it has only gotten worse, with occasional flares that sometimes leave me unable to walk, but it was always fine, because I had my violin.... | HISTORICAL | {
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EEKdE31b6ly4HvsdvnWjKRBkxOhhO2OD | auavc5 | {
"description": "wanting my ex to stop talking to her friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting my ex to stop talking to her friend? | So my ex and I have recently started talking to who wanted to try again after about 4 months, two of which were spent dating a mentally abusive boyfriend, one that she was seeing before I dated her. I was under the impression she wanted nothing to do with him, however her “friend” (lets call him J) is always tryi... | HISTORICAL | {
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JZJqd1lT3cH5vOYIXQPGHdc6pZ8oVYXx | avzgme | {
"description": "confronting a student who walks into classroom 10 minutes before class ends, to wait for his class afterwards",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for confronting a student who walks into classroom 10 minutes before class ends, to wait for his class afterwards? | This guy has been walking into our class 10 minutes before our class ends. The guy is not in our class, he is there for the next class after ours. I made a comment as he walked by, something along the lines of "you really can't wait for our class to finish?". Professor just said anybody is welcome and some of the other... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
1t8WRJF3ja2iHXJk6TC6Qwtehrgnf8D7 | aqw7va | {
"description": "getting rid of a friend who did nothing but complain about Valentine's Day and bitched about me shoving my relationship in his face",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 37
} | AITA for getting rid of a friend who did nothing but complain about Valentine’s Day and bitched about me shoving my relationship in his face? | I noticed I had not seen a male friend of mine and my husband’s on any social media since the start of the week. No post, no comment, no likes since Sunday. He wouldn’t respond to texts either. My hubby is the one who primarily talks to him since I don’t talk to male friends without my hubby around. It’s my rule and my... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 37
} | WRONG |
GSjinE1foH1DVMU0AFfU7RQI2zyChnEa | avxfvp | {
"description": "blowing up my friend's castle in minecraft",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for blowing up my friend's castle in minecraft | It all started when me and a friend(Ronny) started a minecraft server. We had our own town named Pallet town and we made our houses together as one "colony". Other friends joined but more specifically a guy named "7".
7 is in his own colony and is constantly mining the ground to have a massive underground base. Diamon... | HISTORICAL | {
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VcOaQy7FvaJALa2uRatGkA44aLPiBb5z | 9wiu1j | {
"description": "picking up my wife's paycheck so that a bill will be paid on time",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA, For picking up my wife's paycheck so that a bill will be paid on time. | TLDR. We have a bill coming out tomorrow and I stopped by my wife's place of work to pick up her paycheck from her. Now she is mad.
Background. My wife doesn't have direct deposit set up on her paychecks. Even though she wants to set it up, she hasn't yet and still gets pay checks directly from her employer.
I made a... | HISTORICAL | {
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6pvqFsFZcPmACbOR0QE0g9m7F7JAkPuN | ax29uk | {
"description": "taking a phone from the recycling bins at Target",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for taking a phone from the recycling bins at Target? | Today my family was eating at a resctruct and there was a Target nearby. So I decided to dumpster dive. I found a Panasonic phone from the 1990s, a Fidbit or something, and a Kyocera Android phone. I took the phone out of the bin and was there for maybe 5-10 minutes. I pretended to have a panic attack to a worker who ... | HISTORICAL | {
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PNAmbRxGnxFhrJz2rIZAXoLx8bh5X7Te | b83npx | {
"description": "expecting compensation from the company for 3 false deliveries",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for expecting compensation from the company for 3 false deliveries | I placed an IKEA order for a couch, table, and 2 chairs, and paid for truck delivery (since we live in the city and do not own a car) for Saturday between 5-9 pm.
I received a voicemail call from the delivery service on Friday confirming the delivery time and my address. They said I would be called 30 mins before the... | HISTORICAL | {
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Yxv59ZKGokehf0MMwCLt0InrkYQsvFHp | aulb6x | {
"description": "cutting off contact with my dad",
"pronormative_score": 20,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for cutting off contact with my dad? | for some background information:
I’m 23m, have 2 other siblings(25m, 27m)
my mom(50’s F) and my dad(50’s M) were happily married for a long time until my dad up and left us(while my siblings and i were still in late elementary/early middle school) for another woman who he dated in like eighth grade, and apparently they... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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88X1troHwVdJfaUeFCBYwKIy1wQBnaxE | an9or4 | {
"description": "telling a kid to shut the hell up for cheating in dodgeball",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling a kid to shut the hell up for cheating in dodgeball? | So for some context guys
The kid was about…lets say 10 (even though I was 14 at the time)and his mom was the lead staff of rockin jump. My friend and I went to the Saturday night rockin jump thing, had a good trip overall, and this kid shows up in the middle of the line. Cutting everyone waiting for the game to end. So... | HISTORICAL | {
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X7hAmpN1ets0pqTO1e4A2o0FP3wp3NM5 | av7jd2 | {
"description": "inviting another guy over when my regular buddy is always late",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for inviting another guy over when my regular buddy is ALWAYS late? | Ugh. So annoying. I have an F buddy who lives maybe 15 minutes away by car. Whenever we meet up at my place (I prefer my place because it’s clean and tidy), he is always 30min to an hour late no matter the time of the day or the day of the week.
This afternoon I got super annoyed after waiting an hour, so I called up... | HISTORICAL | {
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GcHNd4QCLKgRKk9adz8oyPzfnyQebkrn | ak8e0a | {
"description": "getting upset over helping a friend out because it's giving me bad memories",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for getting upset over helping a friend out because it’s giving me bad memories? | AITA?
Ok so for two years I’ve dealt w some relationship issues w this one dude and we ended it plenty times and I recently just cut him out of my life bc I was just being manipulated.
Long story short,a friend wanted relationship advice and I helped him out. But he’s reminding me of what that guy was doing to me a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
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