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{ "description": "telling my parents that I am moving out only a week prior to put them on spot", "pronormative_score": 98, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I told my parents that I am moving out only a week prior to put them on spot?
Bit of background. My family has been extremely abusive and neglecting of me and my siblings which I was blind to until recently. Our family is in bad relationship with all of our relatives so I had no point of reference. We were flat out denied to learn simple human skills like cooking because “you don’t need that w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay with my GF following a serious chronic health diagnosis", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not wanting to stay with my GF following a serious chronic health diagnosis?
Sorry if I'm not abiding by some rules, this is my first post on Reddit. My understanding of the site and this subreddit's culture is new to me. ​ Background: I've previously been in a relationship with someone who had serious chronic medical issues (bipolar, depression, Asperger's, and MS-like degenerativ...
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{ "description": "requesting neighbor not to honk their horn in my driveway past 8:00pm", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for requesting neighbor not to honk their horn in my driveway past 8:00pm?
So my neighbors don't like me. I get it. But i understand we need to live together peacefully. I live in the front apartment in a 4-plex. I had just put my daughter to sleep, and the neighbor's boyfriend came up and parked in the driveway and honked his horn multiple times for the girl to come out. When she came out, I...
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{ "description": "sarcastically telling a straight a that they don't need to attend a review session", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For sarcastically telling a straight A that they don’t need to attend a review session
So I was at a review session for an upcoming exam when I saw someone I knew who had scored 95+s on the past exams enter. I sarcastically said “What are you doing here? You don’t need this!” To them and they gave me a smile then turned around and left. I was a bit shocked and wondered if I should run out and get them bu...
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{ "description": "telling a 28 year old woman she doesn't get a birthday week", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a 28 year old woman she doesn't get a birthday week
My lady's birthday is coming up on Tuesday, and justifiably, she wanted to celebrate over the weekend. The problem is: she's doing multiple different celebrations with different groups and the only person required to attend all of them is me. Here's a rough schedule: Saturday: Birthday dinner and game night with frien...
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{ "description": "standing up to my dad about my life choices but making him violent towards my mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for standing up to my dad about my life choices but making him violent towards my mom?
So: some background before I begin. I’m 19 and I’m that kid who hasn’t really had a rebellious phase and usually does what my parents say. I wouldn’t say I’m an angelic kid, I just don’t really like arguing because my father can get violent when he’s mad and I don’t have the energy to enter into debates either. (My ...
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{ "description": "spreading around my \"friend's\" crush after he started dating my crush", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA - I spread around my "friend's" crush after he started dating my crush (He knew he was my crush)
So, I told my friend my crush around a year ago. They, in return, told me theirs for a fair exchange. They would sometimes ask if I still liked them, and I would do so in return. She eventually asked me once and I responded the same again, saying that I may actually ask them out soon. Two days later, they began dating ...
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AITA went out for dinner with family. Husband upset at how much dinner cost.
My brother recently graduated high school so we went to dinner with family at his favourite restaurant (a sushi joint). My toddler became overwhelmed so my husband took her outside to calm her down and go for a walk since he was done. I ordered a drink and 2 more plates, then chatted with my family for a bit as I hadn’...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that I need space", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that I need space?
My girlfriend and I are both first-years attending the same university. We both take a pretty heavy course load as we plan on at least double majoring and potentially even graduating early. I say this because the amount of work we do puts us both under a lot of pressure and sometimes it feels to me like there is too mu...
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{ "description": "rage quitting on my boss", "pronormative_score": 114, "contranormative_score": 111 }
AITA for rage quitting on my boss?
I have been working as a Legal Assistant with a law firm for just over six years and walked off the job yesterday in a fit of a rage. For these six years, it has been a wonderful relationship -- my employer is a solo practitioner and I was his first and only Legal Assistant until yesterday's events. My employer recen...
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{ "description": "cuddling with someone else while on break with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for cuddling with someone else while on break with my boyfriend?
I (23F) and my boyfriend (46M) have been dating for about 4 years. It hasn’t always been the smoothest ride. He has three kids, one of them is young enough where I spend my time taking care of her during the day. I was upset for feeling under appreciated for all that I do around the house. I started a fight with him on...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my dad for calling me out as gay in front of the entire extended family and friends", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my dad for calling me out as gay in front of the entire extended family and friends?
Long story short, my called me out at dinner while everyone was silent and asked me if I was gay. Then everyone looked at me. I got very angry and tried not to cry. I then called him out for being extremely rude and saying how it was entirely inappropriate that he would ask that. Then I sat there as everyone joked abou...
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{ "description": "ghosting her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting her?
Well I guess I should start from the top, this all happened about a year ago when I was in high school, I started talking to this girl my friends new over snapchat. This started around September. One day she approached me at lunch and recognized me from pictures from me with my friends. We talked a bit and exchanged so...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend that he might have an STD", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I didn’t tell my friend that he might have an STD?
This is a fucking story (literally!), so allow me to explain. And for sake of clarity, I’m gonna be using fake names. I met Olivia in middle school, and we have been friends through college (we both graduated as well). In high school, Olivia started a relationship with Roger. They lasted 5 years, up through our last ...
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{ "description": "looking into my friend's skype account", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for looking into my friend's skype account?
This is an old story, it's been a long time it happened but at the time I was very concerned about what I did. I noticed my best friends were avoiding me, and sometimes they were saying things behind my back, but I wasnt sure of what it was about. And I happened to have the password to the skype account of one of them,...
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{ "description": "wanting to give my sister and her husband a lease", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to give my sister and her husband a lease?
Long story short, we're moving and planned to rent our side of the duplex while we're away for a year or two. My parents think I'm being rude by requiring my sister and her husband to sign a lease. When we announced to the family that we're leaving my sister and her husband immediately expressed interest in renting t...
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{ "description": "for thinking my boyfriend and me shouldn't pay more rent because we share a room", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 77 }
AITA for for thinking my boyfriend and me shouldn’t pay more rent because we share a room....
I live with 3 other girls and recently my boyfriend has moved into my room with me. We’ve always split the rent 4 ways and I personally think it should still be that way because it should be per room not per person, but the girls are now saying that we should pay more... I said we’d split the bills 5 ways obviously be...
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{ "description": "slapping the shit out of a good friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for slapping the shit out of a good friend?
TLDR at the end Okay so context: last year of high school, finished exams, and this is our first party in a long time where we can just let loose. A girl friend of mine had been working so hard for these exams and really sent it this night. She usually handles her alcohol well, better than most, but she was really, re...
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{ "description": "going on a date with someone who I am not sure I have feelings for", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I went on a date with someone who I am not sure I have feelings for?
Alright, I confess that I have no idea when it comes to romantic relationships. It's just that so far I have always been comfortable with doing my thing, so it came as a surprise when someone asked me out. At least, I think someone is asking me out. She asked me if I was free sometime soon, because she was bored and w...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to introduce me to her parents", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend to introduce me to her parents?
Hello all, I posted this in another r/ place or whatever it is called (sorry I'm new to this). I want to get as many perspectives as I can because I am between a rock and a hard place and it is giving me some heartache. I have been dating my Chinese (this is relevant) girlfriend for 3 years. We have a great relationsh...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my grandfather", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my grandfather?
Sorry if formatting is wrong, I'm on moblie. For the past year-year and a half, my grandfather has been in and out of the hospital because of heart/breathing issues. This is caused/made worse by the fact that he won't stop smoking. He has been told many times if he does not stop he will die. He says he will and then...
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{ "description": "not watching my sister in laws kids", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not watching my sister in laws kids?
AITA for my wife and I not agreeing to watch my sister in laws kids? ​ A little back story.... My sister in law has 3 kids from 3 different fathers. She has poor relationships with each of the dads. She is now in a relationship with another guy. My wife is a SAHM and I work from home. My mother in law ha...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my gf for asking a favor while Im at work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my GF for asking a favor while im at work?
While at work, my gf asked me if i could put prepaid load on her number. And i got irritated, i said that "Cant you do it yourself? I'm at work". She said that "Your mother sells prepaid load, why don't i just ask her. If you can chat with me at work, you can do it with your mom." But its not the fact that i can do i...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend I am bored and unhappy at my job", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend I am bored and unhappy at my job?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 years. We bought a house two years ago and have been evenly splitting the bills. We both work full time— he works on medical equipment and I work at a call center. A little back story, I graduated from college in December of last year and applied for grad school and g...
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{ "description": "telling my mother that her extension of an invitation to a friend of a distant family member for our wedding was inappropriate", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mother that her extension of an invitation to a friend of a distant family member for our wedding was inappropriate?
Hi AITA, Today we had a family lunch with myself, my parents, my fiance, and her parents. It was brought up that my godmother will be attending our wedding but her husband can't make it. My fiance and I were informed that in his place, a close friend of hers and my mother's side of the family will be coming. Since th...
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{ "description": "not paying to upgrade a tv I accidentally broke", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - for not paying to upgrade a tv I accidentally broke
I accidentally broke my partners six year old television and it is smashed. He has been talking about purchasing a new one anyway, but this has obviously brought that forward slightly because of my clumsiness and temper. I feel terrible about this and have offered to purchase a new one for him. ​ He is ...
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{ "description": "emailing my classmate", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for emailing my classmate
Context: Today in my college speech communications class we had a guest speaker tell us about the opportunity of using the Toastmaster program to improve our public speaking ability. The organization does not require payment and is an optional way to help yourself in the class, as was stated by the speaker, a member of...
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{ "description": "expecting my wife to do chores around the house", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my wife to do chores around the house?
Both my wife and I work full time, but I can’t help but feel like She doesn’t help around the house. We divided the chores but it seems like I must still be asking to much of her. She unloads the dishwasher and I load it, Mostly because she is grossed out by the dirty dishes. It takes days of me asking her to unload it...
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{ "description": "not having any memories of my grandfather for his funeral and trying to pay my sister to make one up for me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not having any memories of my grandfather for his funeral and trying to pay my sister to make one up for me?
My grandfather just passed away over the weekend. To give some background, I have not seen him in about 8 years due to my mother and her parents getting into a fight over a disagreement on how she was raising us.    About a year or two ago, Mom and her parents started making amends. I do not know ...
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{ "description": "not being happy when a girl grinded on me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being happy when a girl grinded on me
Background: so me and this girl were good friends and talked until 11 pm most nights and we talked a lot in cross country which we had after our college classes. And we would always laugh but one day we were talking and joking around and then she got a little bit touchy she sat next to me and started leaning on me, and...
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{ "description": "not cutting my son's hair", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not cutting my son’s hair?
Long story short; before my son was born I always said I didn’t want to have his hair cut short. I really like the idea of allowing my son to chose when he wants to have his hair cut, and how short he likes to keep it. I work as a receptionist at a men’s hair salon, and I constantly see parents bring in their 1-2 year...
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{ "description": "pointing out the defect in my new headphone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pointing out the defect in my new headphone?
First of all im sorry for my bad english. Now yesterday i got a new headphone but since then it makes a kind of cracking noice in the left pair and it was really disturbing although it wasnt loud. Now today i pointed it to my father and he first of all said it wasnt there and things like it aint noticable and all. Then...
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{ "description": "scaring people who run red lights", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for scaring people who run red lights?
I’ll be first in row, stopped at a red light in a major intersection. My side, as well as the opposing side is making a left turn. Light turns green for me as a car or two still pass by “catching” the left turn from the opposing side... but that last car who clearly ran the red a second or two after is pretty wild. Min...
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{ "description": "wanting to go cheap on fixing my shared fence", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go cheap on fixing my shared fence?
So my GF and I bought our first house at the end of December(barely 2 months ago). The second weekend there, we had a bad storm and it knocked down a large section of our backyard fence. Apparently, the wood back there didn't get replaced during the renovation probably because it was shared with 2 other houses. One of...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my girlfriends roommate/best friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with my girlfriends roommate/best friend
I know a lot of posts on this subreddit are obviously YTA or NTA, but I'm really not sure about this one so here it goes. I started seeing this girl recently. She has been great and it has been going fine, but here roommate isn't exactly the coolest. She is super NYC fake rich white girl, a vibe that I know well as an...
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{ "description": "calling out girlfriend about her best friend and how close they are", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out girlfriend about her best friend and how close they are
Girlfriend has been best friends with her female friend for 6 years now, they met in high school and have been very close since. For a little context, I understand she can be close to friends and this also includes male friends, she's a hugger a typically very friendly. The thorn in my side is due to my girlfriends o...
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{ "description": "making my Friend Sleep in the Garage", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Making My Friend Sleep in the Garage
So tonight my friend invited me out for drinks and she was going to be staying at my house afterwards. Before we were able to get into the club, she ended up getting sick so we decided to go back to mine instead so she could go to bed. After we had to get the taxi to pull over on the way home I decided that instead of...
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{ "description": "wan'ting to leave my bf because I'm not attracted to him anymore", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA I wan't to leave my bf because I'm not attracted to him anymore.
We've been dating for about 2 years. I love him, he is my best friend. Sexually I just don't want him. He tries a lot and I have to lie to him.
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{ "description": "being angry that my friends went on a trip without me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry that my friends went on a trip without me?
I made some good friends at my old work place. We bonded really well through some tough times. Even after many of us subsequently left the company we stayed in touch. I've always had a tad of social anxiety so I'm really grateful to feel so welcomed and encouraged to be myself in that office. In some ways, we were a cl...
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{ "description": "wanting to decide between two tattooists", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to decide between two tattooists?
I have been planning to get a tattoo by an artist in a country I'm traveling to soon. As things go, I messaged of my favorites, but ended up having to only pick one due to the extea expenses of money transfer and thus my budget. The guy whom I did not pick messges me and is not pleased by my decision even though I ha...
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{ "description": "reporting my neighbors to the Front Office", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for reporting my neighbors to the Front Office?
I moved in to these apartments 9 months ago, and these were the nicest apartments I’ve ever lived in. I got a new puppy 4 months ago. He’s getting potty trained, so I have to walk him often. We’re usually outside 6-8 times per day. This is where my problems with my neighbors occur. First, some background on them: Two...
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{ "description": "not donating to my BFF's Dog's gofundme", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Not Donating to My (31F) BFF's (32F) Dog's (M2) GoFundMe?
HI Reddit! Burner account because my (31F) friend (32F) / husband (36M) and sister (28F) know my real reddit name. My husband and I married at age 22. We wanted to have children right away - some people know that they are just meant to be Moms, and that is how it was always with me. From a young age, I was always the...
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{ "description": "not wanting to draw things for my husband", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to draw things for my husband?
Context: I have a full time job during the day, and when I'm not working that job I have a side job I do with art. My husband's the main reason I started my side business, he kept encouraging me to do it, and it worked out for the best, because I can get commissions and help keep our finances in check. However, at time...
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{ "description": "not wanting my child to learn about horse racing", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my child to learn about horse racing?
We were at a family event on the weekend when I noticed a family member showing my 5-year-old the betting form guide. The family member was explaining how it all worked. I stopped it pretty quickly because I don't want my child to learn about gambling. Now the family member is upset because "horse racing is a sport. It...
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{ "description": "hooking up with my best friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hooking up with my best friend
A couple weeks ago, I was watching a movie alone with one of my best female friends, "Mary." We started cuddling (which wasn't out of the ordinary) but she soon became more touchy than normal and I kissed her. After a brief pause, she kissed me back and things progressed from there. We've been physical since. Original...
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{ "description": "not believing that there is a cure for MS", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not believing that there is a cure for MS?
(Submitting from my phone, sorry for formatting!) My girlfriend’s sister suffers from MS. She is currently undergoing a diet which seems to be helping with her symptoms, but isnt taking any other medications. However, her mother has mentioned that a man named Tim White has found a cure for MS (to which i tried looking...
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{ "description": "stealing a parking space", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for stealing a parking space?
Not too dramatic here. It’s more of a driving etiquette question. I was driving down a two-way street in a downtown with limited parking, and saw a perfect angled back-in parking spot on the other side of the street. So I drove to the next intersection to u-turn so I could back in to it on the turn around. When I g...
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{ "description": "not going to get sushi with my friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to get sushi with my friend?
So, my friend and I are both in university, and hang out after class every week on Thursdays because our classes end at the same time. He loves going to this sushi place that has really cheap sushi that's about a twenty minute walk away from our school (round trip). I've tried it, and I don't like it at all. The sushi ...
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{ "description": "telling a girl to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Telling A Girl To Fuck Off
I’m starting to feel really bad about this now. So I was in class with my friends playing super smash just chilling when this girl who I somewhat know comes up to me I don’t realize that she is next me because I was playing and I thought it was just some kid who wanted to watch so before I could turn around I feel...
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{ "description": "not responding to my mil messages", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not responding to my MiL messages?
So, to give some background I've been with my husband for around 13 years \[high school sweethearts\] and I'm 8 months pregnant with our first child. My BIL and SIL have a 6-month-old \[the first grandchild\] and have been together for 3 years. BIL + SIL moved close to us and his mom still lives where we're all origina...
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{ "description": "not wanting to babysit my little sister and brother every other weekend while my mom works", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA If I don’t want to babysit my little sister and brother every other weekend while my mom works?
So here’s the situation, I’m 22 and still live with my mom while I’m finishing up school. She’s amazing and we usually get along just fine. My little siblings are age 14 and 15. My boyfriend works far away so the only time we can see each other is on the weekends. So almost every weekend I go to his place and spend F...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend time with my boyfriend over break", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to spend time with my boyfriend over break?
For context, my boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year. Last year I did not see him at all over Christmas break, which is 5 days short of a month for our university. I asked him if we could try to see each other over break, as we have been dating longer and I think it would be nice to do fun holiday stuf...
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{ "description": "being alarmed that ex-wife got engaged to an unknown guy that hasn't met our three kids we have joint custody of", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being alarmed that ex-wife got engaged to an unknown guy that hasn’t met our three kids we have joint custody of
I (37m) just recently found out that my ex (37f) got engaged to a guy that hasn’t met our kids. We share 50/50 custody and our divorce was final about three weeks ago. I found out initially from facebook via friends that are still friends with her on there. Apparently she’s known him for a few months, they are building...
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{ "description": "microwaving a ham sandwich", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for microwaving a ham sandwich?
At work, I microwaved my ham sandwich for lunch. The microwave smelled like pork afterwards. Just after I grabbed my food, a coworker walked up and stuck his mug of tea in the microwave. Visibly distraught, he immediately removed the mug, and walked away without microwaving it. I feel guilty that I made him uncomfo...
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{ "description": "being annoyed my mother purchased a brand new car for my daughter without consulting me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed my mother purchased a brand new car for my daughter without consulting me?
My daughter is a full time university student without a job. I support her, pay for her school, housing , insurance, gas etc. I allowed her to use my 2013 car and purchased a new one for myself when she graduated high school. It has high mileage now ( about 100k miles) and was having some mechanical difficulty so la...
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{ "description": "feeling like a personal therapist to my friend? I don't want to talk to him anymore", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling like a personal therapist to my friend? I don't want to talk to him anymore.
Since about May, I have been feeling as though I have been acting as my friend's personal therapist. He's currently realised he's going through depression, anxiety and body image issues and, as I have also been through these three similarly, I have been offering insight when he has asked for it. Over the months, I hav...
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{ "description": "not stopping wandering toddlers from leaving the play area at the mall", "pronormative_score": 55, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not stopping wandering toddlers from leaving the play area at the mall?
I know this already sounds bad but hear me out. At our local mall, we have a play place I like to take my 2 year old son to so he can let his energy out. The play area is an open area with large soft decorations the kids can climb on. It's enclosed in a square but there is no door or gate to prevent kids from leaving ...
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{ "description": "being offended at my wife of now 27 years", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 50 }
AITA for being offended at my wife of now 27 years
Wife and I just celebrated 27 years of marriage last week. I've known her since 1985. I do all the cooking for the family. Son is on the spectrum and is very particular of what he'll eat (hates pizza, cheese, pasta). We found out 2 years ago my wife is Gluten Intolerant, she has Celiac's Desease and gets very ill ...
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EVERYBODY
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{ "description": "not wanting to cater to my cat's every need", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to cater to my cat's every need?
I'm slightly exaggerating here but hear me out please. Kitty is well taken care of - regular vet checkups, toys and playtime, cuddles, dry food with a snack every once in a while (rice, tiny bits of cooked chicken/fish without (fish) bones), but when it comes to being let in our (tiny) garden, he can be a bit of a twat...
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{ "description": "being upset that my girlfriend left me in a hotel all day when I came to visit her", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my girlfriend left me in a hotel all day when I came to visit her?
Well I had a bunch of backstory planned for this but it would have been to long so I will skip straight to the point. Right before the holidays my girlfriend and I were on shaky ground. The relationship was starting to fall apart but not quite. We were originally planning on her spending the holidays with me but th...
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{ "description": "blocking and dumping my gf after she messaged me on snap about her bullying a mentally challebged person and laughing about it", "pronormative_score": 45, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for blocking and dumping my gf after she messaged me on snap about her bullying a mentally challebged person and laughing about it?
I couldn't fit it in the title, but I also ripped into her about it. I sent her about five paragraphs about how her life is sad and she needs to rethink everything and how I regretted dating her
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{ "description": "leaving class unexpectedly during a class project", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving class unexpectedly during a class project
In class we were in groups having a mock debate for class. One of the arguments someone brought up was suicide, which has no logical relation with what we were debating about. Class awkwardly laughs. Some other person added to it and laughed and everyone else laughed more. I felt panic coming so I left the classroom an...
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{ "description": "wanting to boast about my new job", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to boast about my new job
AITA for wanting to boast about my new job to everyone? A little bit of back story; I started working in a contact centre about 6 months ago and the main role is to answer phones. The majority of my collegues are in their late teens/early twenties so there is a reletivly high staff turn over. A role for the Social Medi...
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{ "description": "asking him to take care of dinner", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking him to take care of dinner?
I’m a single mom of 2 kids who are in school from 8:30-5:30 every day I have them (50% of the time). I’ve been in a relationship for about two years and my boyfriend (BF) has been pretty present with my kids. Recently, I started a new job that’s about 30 min away from where I live and 7 min away from my kids’ school....
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{ "description": "not wanting to sit at the kids side of the table at Christmas dinner", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sit at the kids side of the table at Christmas dinner?
This happened two years ago I had just turned Eighteen as my birthday is within two weeks of Christmas. So, my family live nowhere near eachother and it's often hard for my side of the family to travel up north to see my Aunt and her family every year so we often go every other year, or sometimes once every three years...
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{ "description": "insisting that my boyfriend's house is redone in certain ways", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I insist that my boyfriend's house is redone in certain ways?
My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, lived together for over a year. We're both in our 30s. We laugh at my joke that we should never go to ikea together, but at the same time, it's probably true. I want to repaint the walls new colors, rearrange rooms, etc. They are the same color as when he boug...
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{ "description": "asking/telling my stepdad to not interrupt me when I'm talking", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For asking/telling my stepdad to not interrupt me when I'm talking?
I'm 19 for reference, nearing 20. Yesterday morning, my stepdad, mother and I were having a conversation about chores. My stepdad was already irate about me having left some dishes in the sink the night before. I apologized for that, and didn't realize I left such a mess. I was saying something to my mother, I don't r...
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{ "description": "leaving my wife before Christmas", "pronormative_score": 93, "contranormative_score": 34 }
AITA for leaving my wife before Christmas
My wife and I have been together just over five years total (3 dating, 2 married) with our 2nd wedding anniversary coming up in December. She's prepping the house for the holidays and is in an overall happy mood. She also has a trip to her grandparents this weekend, she usually visits them once a year around this time....
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{ "description": "ruining a girls chance to getting a date with her crush", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA by ruining a girls chance to getting a date with her crush?
So college has begun a few months ago and I met this two girls „Mary“ and „Jane“ and we started to hanging out and study together. Jane got a crush on a guy relatively quick. I’ll call him „guy“. Somehow we managed to get a drink all together after class. And guy was so annoying! He just kept bragging about himself an...
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{ "description": "just trying to help", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for just trying to help?
Context: I'm a 19 year old female in a strained "relationship" with my on and off again "boyfriend" of 1.5 years who is 21 years old. We are currently broken up but we still continue to see each other and act like a couple and do couple things which honestly makes everyone I know absolutely furious. This makes it impo...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut my crazy friend out of my life", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut my crazy friend out of my life
So I've know this girl for about 3 years, let's call her C. C and I became friends in school, we were very similar cause we both had terrible family lives and both struggled with mental illness. We where best friends and even dated for a while, she had a hard time making friends cause she was akward and weird like me. ...
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{ "description": "not saying thank you", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not saying thank you
As I was exiting the banks double doors one day, a gentleman was approaching from the outside. He reached the door first, opened it and then held it open when he saw me approaching. I didn't have anything in my hands, not carrying any heavy boxes. I fully intended to open the door myself, so I pushed open the other sid...
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{ "description": "repossessing my ex's car", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for repossessing my ex's car?
My ex asked me to cosign a vehicle because he had no credit. I wasn't comfortable with that, but I was ok with putting a used vehicle 100% in my name so that I had control and if it went bad I would just wind up with a spare vehicle. The agreement was that once paid off I would just sell it to him for $1. ...
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{ "description": "making a joke that could be considered anti-semitic", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For making a joke that could be considered anti-semitic?
Let me preface this by saying I'm a non-practising Jew. Ok, so I was on a Discord server, drunk and feverish at the time, and we were discussing the game it's about(not going to name the game, otherwise tracking down the server would be easy), I reacted to a comment with the letters J E W, then I asked jokingly who di...
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{ "description": "not buying my coworker cigarettes, and buying them for another coworker", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not buying my coworker cigarettes, and buying them for another coworker?
I work at a restaurant. I am sometimes a delivery man and sometimes waiter. Today I was driving deliveries and one coworker asked me to buy her some cigarettes on the way back. At the same time, one other coworker asked me the same thing. I told her, that I won't buy them for her, but I told coworker B that it's not a ...
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AITA sold a cellphone to a guy knowing it wouldnt work
I was selling an old phone today on Facebook because we upgraded. Guy messages me, offers me something acceptable, but is insistent I have to meet him tonight. It's almost 11pm here, and I am a tiny female, so it was sketchy, but we agreed upon a safe spot. I get there and he asks for the IMEI, which he Google's and ...
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{ "description": "being upset", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being upset?
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. We get along great and are living separately although he spends majority of his nights at my place. For the last 6 months I have been laid off and on unemployment, and a full time student. I manage to still run my household but I am barely making ends meet. My boyfriend ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give up 1/4 of a personal pizza", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to give up 1/4 of a personal pizza?
Firstly, I am aware this is an immature argument, but my sister is still acting like she was justified so I thought I’d ask y’all. Some context, my sister and I are both in college and home for the holidays; my brother is in high school. My mom buys these really good microwaveable personal pizzas. Two days ago, my b...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to lunch with my mom", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to lunch with my mom?
My mom is negative and judgemental, too much to go in to in one post, and I (F54) am just done. I will logistically do what is needed to get her through the end of her life but other than that I'm just done Current Situation: she doesnt like my boyfriend, has made that very clear and she has been passive aggressively ...
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{ "description": "thinking celebrating birthdays is for kids", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA if I think celebrating birthdays is for kids?
I adopted a Ron Swanson attitude about my birthday in my teens and I have not told anyone about it since. I have had multiple experiences over the years where people have gotten extremely upset and offended that I have asked for others to ignore my birthday. Some girl who fancies herself in charge of birthday celebrati...
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{ "description": "telling a manager what I really think of her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For telling a manager what I really think of her?
TL:DR - I'm leaving my job and want to tell one of the managers she's a bag of shit. I'm leaving a job tomorrow and have been trying to decide whether or not I should email one particular manager and finally be honest about what I think of her. To put it in context, she's selfish, rude and insulting, lazy and more. ...
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{ "description": "not attending my good friend's wedding", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not attending my good friend's wedding?
One of my better friends since high school is getting married to a girl whose family I've known even longer than him, she is batshit crazy, as well as her entire family. I was very clear with him that he should've never started dating her given everything I fucking know about her and her family, but what does my numbn...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my boyfriend would revenge-cheat on me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for getting upset that my boyfriend would revenge-cheat on me?
My first post and I'm on a mobile so apologies if the formatting is wrong. So I'll start off by saying that I have never and would never cheat on my boyfriend, so in a way this whole thing is pointlessly hypothetical, but it's still been bothering me. We've been together for over a year and are both in our early twent...
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{ "description": "refusing to put my dog in the cage for my step father over my dog coughing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to put my dog in the cage for my step father over my dog coughing?
My dog, who I'll refer to his name (Max), has been sick for a few years. Before I say anything else...yes, he's been to the vets and we make sure to give him the medication she gave him. As well as get more of it when necessary, or near out of meds for him. Max has been coughing during changes in weather more so th...
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{ "description": "taking someone's puppy while they're (presumably) at work", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For taking someone’s puppy while they’re (presumably) at work
Okay so I know the title doesn’t sound great, but I’m mostly just not sure what the better option would be. While I was dropping my girlfriend off at the train station, I found a dog in the street, he had no collar but was friendly and seemed well fed so I assumed he wasn’t a stray, after knocking on all the doors of h...
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{ "description": "letting the football(soccer) team I coach win 19-1", "pronormative_score": 163, "contranormative_score": 46 }
AITA for letting the football(soccer) team I coach win 19-1?
To preface, I coach an U15's boys Sunday League football team in the UK. Over the weekend we played another team and proceeded to win 19-1. Today I received an email from the coach of the other team. He stated that we exhibited unsportsmanlike behaviour by allowing the score to get so big and that one of his players w...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend I hate doing something that she loves to do together with me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my friend I hate doing something that she loves to do together with me?
I was asked to attend like a group meeting kind of thing that my friend had planned It’s for uni students, I don’t like meeting new people but I am going. I feel like if I tell her the truth she will be mad at me. I’ve been doing things like this with her for a while now and I don’t like them, but I do it because ...
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{ "description": "letting my broke roommate break the lease but then being selective on who moves in", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my broke roommate break the lease but then being selective on who moves in?
Sorry for the book -- TLDR at the bottom. So, for some context -- I found my current flat mate (26F) via craigslist. She moved into my (30M) apartment at the end of September and signed a lease that goes through August of the following year. Everything is great and we get along pretty well -- we enjoy similar music, b...
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{ "description": "wanting my hypothetical kids with my girl friend to take my last name", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my hypothetical kids with my girl friend to take my last name.
So me, a male and my female girl friend were having a hypothetical conversation about if we got married and had kids. Keep in mind this isn’t serious at all and kind of a joking conversation. But she insisted if we got married that she would keep her last name and if we had kids that they would also take her last name....
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{ "description": "wanting my sister to pay half of the household bills not half of the rent", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting my sister to pay half of the household bills not half of the rent?
So, my sister (24F) and I(25F) moved into an apartment together in December 2018. The agreement was she would pay the rent ($890) and I would pay everything else. This was because I had just started working at a stable job (12/hr) while she already had one (15/hr). However, in January 2019 she decided to quit her job...
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{ "description": "expecting my fiancé to invite me to her bosses party", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for expecting my fiancé to invite me to her bosses party?
A little background on us – I am a 35 year old male and my fiancé is a 34 year old female. We both have professional careers that sometimes spill into our personal lives. The work doesn’t stop at the door kind of jobs. We’ve been dating for a little over 2 years. We just recently had a son together 2.5 months ago. ...
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{ "description": "not saying hi each time I goto my Aunts House", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not saying hi each time I goto my Aunts House
\[Background\] When I was younger, 13-15 or so, I would go over to my Aunt's house across the street almost everyday after school. My Aunt said it was fine to me and my parents. I came by regularly because my grandma often cooked dinner and my cousins were fun to hang with. ​ After a while, I heard some c...
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{ "description": "being upset with MIL for going back on paying our down payment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with MIL for going back on paying our down payment?
My husband, infant daughter, and I were happily living in a rental home that we planned to stay in for several years. We had painted and made the house our own. My MIL lived close to us but wanted to move 2 hours away to be near my BIL and his daughter, so she stayed with us while her house was being built. She asked u...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to be more helpful with the baby", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to be more helpful with the baby?
Quick fact; My son is a month old, and he’s pretty hard to get to sleep, and doesn’t like to stay asleep if you try to set him down. So my boyfriend works full time doing IT work, then he comes home and wants to play on his computer the rest of the night until he goes to bed. I do not work, and I stay home with the b...
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{ "description": "trying to get with my exes close friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to get with my exes close friend?
This happened yesterday. Me and my ex are still friends so when I matched with one of her closest friends on Bumble, out of her respect for her I asked her if it would be ok if I pursued things with her romantically. While she did say she was worried about me coming in between them and ruining their relationship (which...
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{ "description": "knowing my partner struggles with mental health problems and letting her know that she was the culprit to the downfall of our relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for knowing my partner struggles with mental health problems and letting her know that she was the culprit to the downfall of our relationship?
We met on an online mobile app game known as PUBG mobile. Out of hundreds of thousands of people that play, we ended up coming across one another. Turns out, we lived 20 minutes away from one another. Not seeking love nor nothing, we ended up falling for one another. The connection was unreal, never had I ever connecte...
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{ "description": "leaving a visit to my gf's family early", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I leave a visit to my gf’s family early?
Thursday night gf and I drove over 3 hours to go visit her family for the weekend. I’ve met her parents and sisters before, but this is the first overnight night visit. It’s been fucking miserable. We got there kinda late. I was really tired from driving and just wanted to go to bed. Gf slept most of the way ...
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{ "description": "telling a girl she didn't age well", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA for telling a girl she didn't age well?
I randomly bumped into a girl I had a crush on in high school (8 years ago) and we caught up and made small talk and stuff and we went and had dinner and reminisced or whatever. I have no attraction towards her anymore and she texts me the day after the dinner to ask if I wanted to do something again and I said no and ...
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{ "description": "considering ending a 16 year friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For considering ending a 16 year friendship?
Backstory: So my friend and I have been best friends since we were kids. Most of our friendship has been long distance since her family moved out of state. We have been there for each other through everything...well up until recently. As adults, our friendship went from talking every day to maybe once a week at most....
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{ "description": "calling my cast member a mixed baby", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for calling my cast member a mixed baby
I’m in a local community theatre play. I am Caucasian. My cast member is also Caucasian. On the night of our first dress rehearsal that involved makeup, my cast member came up to me and said, “I think my makeup is too dark for my skin tone” or “I think I put on too much makeup”, something like that. And I said, “No, yo...
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