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{ "description": "taking advantage of an older woman\"s insecurities", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking advantage of an older woman"s insecurities?
I (19M) have a fuckbuddy situation with an older woman (33F) only been seeing each other for 4 months but I can tell she is super insecure. She keeps asking me "Do you find me as good looking as younger women?" and she keeps showing me pictures of when she was my age. I keep telling her that I do find her as attractiv...
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{ "description": "refusing to visit my grandfather one last time in hospital", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to visit my grandfather one last time in hospital?
I am relatively new to the subreddit and decided I should participate more than just by casting judgement on others. I guess it is my turn to be judged. This happened some time ago. My grandfather and I were super close. Essentially he played the role of my father. We were best friends. He worked as an operator at a...
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{ "description": "ending things with a girl the way I did", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ending things with a girl the way I did?
I (20M) have had a thing with a girl (24F) for the past two weeks, and while she's great, and someone I would normally go nuts over, there where just a things that I honestly felt made everything a bit boring. In light of realising this I decided to bring this up. Since she was busy and it was unlikely I was going to...
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{ "description": "not talking to my bestfriend for kind of ditching me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not talking to my bestfriend for kind of ditching me
I have a bestfriend and 4 common friends with him but he knows them better than I do. A week ago me and my bestfriend decided to meet up in a bar. He called me one day before the meeting and told me that he wants to go somewhere with all 4 of his (and kind of mine too) friends for a tabletop RPG night and asked if I ca...
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AITA didnt let my friend play with my dog
So my friend came over and i knew what was about to happen,which was him trying to play with my dog despite him barking at my friend.so i told him no because I don’t like stressing my dog out but then my “friend” insulted me so many times for not letting him play with MY dog AITA
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{ "description": "\"spoiling\" the ending to MiB III", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for “spoiling” the ending to MiB III?
So, years back my friends and I were all hanging out at one of the crews’ apartment. So we decide we’re going to throw on MiB III a movie we can all relate as we grew up with the series. Mind you the film had been out for 2+ years. So we’re watching it and one friend goes aww the end is so sad My heart breaks for Will ...
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AITA - was I right to cut my friend off?
Me and my ex best friend (I'm 16 she's 15), we'll call her H stopped being friends a while back (I met her at school btw). Now H is what you would call the "mean" friend - she'd make fun of stuff she knew I was insecure about and say I was sensitive if I ever called her out. She'd lie a lot for example she lied abou...
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AITA Canceled plans with friend last minute which resulted in her having an anxiety attack
Made plans to go to a friend’s farm this weekend. Let’s call her Susie. We’ve done this trip a few times before and she nor her friend, Mary, who usually goes with us, ever offered to help with gas or driving. Besides always making a mess in my car. Whenever we hang out, Susie only talks about herself and her problem...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend over how she spent her money", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off a friend over how she spent her money?
I babysit my friend's 8 year old daughter 2-3 afternoons a week. (she has a 2-2-3 custody set up with her ex-h) I pick her up from school and she hangs out at my house and does her homework for about 2-3 hours before my friend gets off work and picks her up. ​ We agreed (in writing) that she'd pay me $20/...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my dad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to leave my Dad
My dad is a depressed, hyper active, short tempered person. He has no job and he never tried hard enough to get one. For the smallest of things he screams at us like really badly. And for some reason I get really emotional at that. Especially when its at my mom. He was yelling at my mom and my sick grandmom. My grandpa...
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{ "description": "blocking an acquaintance on social media for trying to use me for personal gain", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking an acquaintance on social media for trying to use me for personal gain?
Let’s call this person Rod. I met rod on a PC video game about a year ago, and roughly 6 months ago we exchanged instagrams (I didn’t give him my personal). Shortly after, we started talking a bit and everything seemed fine. A day later Rod sends me paragraph after paragraph about a sob-story of his about how a fema...
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{ "description": "breaking up with her over our sobriety", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with her over our sobriety?
So I was with a seriously troubled girl for around 18 months. She was lovely and kind, but came with a lot of baggage that I couldn’t really handle in the long run. That being said, I had my baggage too. We both met in Narcotics Anonymous, and had gotten sober at around the same time. Eventually we started going to NA ...
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{ "description": "yelling at a friend for being stupid and disrespectful", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA? I yelled at a friend for being stupid and disrespectful.
Background: my "friend" is nearly 500 pounds, is on oxygen, and has type two diabetes. His A1C is between 11-12 even though he is on two different types of injectable insulin and metformin, plus he turns down the oxygen output on his tank from 5 (where the doctor said it needs to be at), to 2 or 3 to make it last longe...
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AITA Did I take getting even with a bully too far?
This was almost 10 years ago, but I’d like to hear others opinions on the matter. When I was in middle school one of my siblings friends, who was almost 3 years older than me, lived right down the street from me. Due to how close we lived we were around each other a lot. We were friends but at the same time he would a...
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{ "description": "feeling left out of gaming sessions", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling left out of gaming sessions?
A few of my friends have played some of my favorite games, The Division and Ghost Recon: Wildlands. The Division is easily one of my favorite games, to the point where I commissioned two pieces of fan art of the game and have 700+ hours in it. I made the offer to help, but Friend A and B never asked me to join. We’ve a...
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{ "description": "not telling my housemate I want to transfer", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my housemate I want to transfer?
Hi guys I’m in college (f21) and the school i’m currently going to wasn’t what I expected so I applied to transfer to other schools late last year. I told as few people as possible because I didn’t want to make a big deal out of it in case I don’t get in and have to stay in this school. i’m living with three other girl...
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{ "description": "\"being triggered\" by my boyfriend setting rules for my pregnancy weight gain", "pronormative_score": 1687, "contranormative_score": 42 }
AITA for “being triggered” by my boyfriend setting rules for my pregnancy weight gain?
Hello, long time follower, first time poster. So my boyfriend knows that I have a lot of body image issues. I am a little overweight, and I struggle with it. I’ve tried a myriad of different diet plans and exercise routines over the years, but nothing seems to stick. My boyfriend and I both really want to have a big fa...
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{ "description": "telling my friend/coworker I don't think she's ready to have a dog", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I told my friend/coworker I don’t think she’s ready to have a dog?
Today my friend told me that last night she bought a puppy, a 7 week old cocker spaniel to be exact. My friend is in her late 30s, has never owned a dog, lives alone in her condo (no yard) and is one of the most particular and picky people I know. For example, one night she declined a dinner invitation before a show w...
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AITA Navy dating not too bright marine
So I’m in the military (Navy) and my current bf was prior military (marine). We’ve been dating for a few years, lived together for 2, then I PCS’d across country (he had to stay behind to finish his contract before getting out). He got involved in some pyramid scheme/brainwashing cult, cancelled our flights and cruise ...
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{ "description": "letting classmates get excluded from an activity", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for letting classmates get excluded from an activity?
Some girl in our senior class is planning a cookout at a lake for senior skip day in a couple of weeks. She’s rented pavilions , will provide some of the food (you have to bring something if you want to attend) and is doing most of the planning for it along with her friends. This is not a school sanctioned activity it ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed how much someone is being glamourised after their death", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for being annoyed how much someone is being glamourised after their death?
For starts I don’t want this person to be dead and I am sad this person (x) is dead at a young age. X and I had a bad relationship. I trained x in work and x was lazy and at times abuisve about being lazy. X wasn’t from here and used that to their advantage plenty of times. I say that because x put down their abusive ...
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{ "description": "breaking the trust of my best friend even though I had good intentions", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking the trust of my best friend even though I had good intentions?
(Possibly NSFW?) So, the backstory for this is that my best friend of a few years recently became really good friends with this guy. He's a bit older than us and he's been dating this girl who's another friend of ours since last summer. They're very in love and they're very different people. He's always been known as s...
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{ "description": "not sleeping on the couch with the baby everyday so husband sleeps all night", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sleeping on the couch with the baby everyday so husband sleeps all night?
Sorry for the throwaway but this story has many identifying details as it is and he knows I reddit.  For the first two months after our baby was born I've been sleeping on the living room couch with the baby on a bassinet, or sometimes we'd fall asleep breastfeeding on the recliner, not ideal but oh well. Our room is...
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{ "description": "disliking my GF's best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For disliking my GF’s best friend?
TL;DR at the end. Don’t worry So a little context; my gf and I were really close friends before we started to date. One of her other good friends is her neighbor. She has known him for about 7 years. I didn’t really know him just that they were friends. Eventually we all started playing video games together over the i...
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{ "description": "taking my breaks", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking my breaks?
I work in a very busy lab and I almost always take all of my breaks. My co-workers made a few jokes about me not missing a break and it sounded a bit like they were sore about it. Personally I think if we are legally allowed two 10 minute breaks on the clock we should take them. I tend to schedule what I'm doing in su...
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{ "description": "eating the food we bought", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for eating the food we bought?
Me and my girlfriend of about 3 1/2 years moved in together about 8 months ago. We each pay part of the bills and my parents pay for our rent while I'm in school. About two weeks ago we went to the store and bought groceries, among those groceries was some snap pea crisps, and we split the cost. If you don't know what ...
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{ "description": "asking someone for half of the bill for vehicle repairs after an accident", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for asking someone for half of the bill for vehicle repairs after an accident.
Earlier this week I was leaving work and another person at work who I'm very good friends with backed into me and caused enough damage to my car to rip off my bumber and destroy most of my back drivers door ( still opens and closes fine just broke the panel and caused a huge dent). We both drive late 90s vehicles and o...
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{ "description": "feeling defended and not wanting to continue my manager duties", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling defended and not wanting to continue my manager duties?
This is going to be a LONG one guys. I'm a 22 year old who runs a small poke (think subway with rice and fish). I have no shift leads or assistant managers. I solely run the store on my own. I do scheduling / ordering / deliver to storage / work on the line and kitchen / etc. I work 6 days a week 95% of the time on m...
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{ "description": "making my dog lay down in his kennel instead of letting him stand right next to me every time I go to the bathroom, go to the kitchen for a drink of water, or even just move from laying down to sitting up", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 50 }
AITA for making my dog lay down in his kennel instead of letting him stand right next to me every time I go to the bathroom, go to the kitchen for a drink of water, or even just move from laying down to sitting up?
I get that he loves me. I get that I *chose* to adopt him. But I feel like I'm at the end of my rope. I can't move 2 feet without him wanting to be right there next to me - and it's starting to drive me out of my mind. So I point to his kennel, and he goes and lays down and pouts (heavy sigh, staring at me with those...
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{ "description": "choosing not to attend a rafting trip with coworkers because I don't want to bring my spouse along", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I choose not to attend a rafting trip with coworkers because I don't want to bring my spouse along?
For context, I work at a company with about 80 employees, and a coworker is planning an overnight white-water rafting trip that's first-come-first-serve with spots for about 24 people (invite is extended to all coworkers and their plus ones). ​ I was really looking forward to attending the trip (and initia...
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{ "description": "not taking my Kcup out", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA For not taking my Kcup out?
I work in an office with a bunch of people. We have a keurig machine, and all of us drink coffee. After I use the machine, I leave my old Kcup in it. This means the next guy has to take it out and throw it away when they make a cup. I don't mind, at all, when other people do this. Taking out the old Kcup, IMO, is jus...
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{ "description": "buying myself a christmas present", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for buying myself a christmas present?
So here's the situation. I'm 17 and got a studentjob a while ago so I started earning a bit of money. And recently I bought a PS4 with it. I bought this for myself as a christmas present, but I'm thinking about putting it under the christmas tree, so that when we are giving the Christmas presents to our family (me, mom...
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{ "description": "leaving the country without telling my mother, whom I have not spoken with for more than 10 years", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I leave the country without telling my mother, whom I have not spoken with for more than 10 years?
When my parents got divorced, I stayed with my mother. I was 16 at the time and we didn't get along very well, she was (and still is) very religious (like long skirt wearing religious) and she would judge me for everything. She was never violent to me, but I just didn't feel loved by her and remember being a very very ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a old friend for taking my new friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at a old friend for taking my new friend?
So to begin lets call my old friend L and my new friend J so i stopped hanging out with L and he just left me alone so now i find J and we hang out alot so during PE i was gonna play Yu-gi-oh with him and we where gonna do a free for all with two other guys so we plan it and when the day comes he says L is gonna take m...
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AITA my mother wants grandkids
Background: So, I've always been afraid of pregnancy and just younger children in general. Infact, getting pregnant is probably my greatest fear. I don't think I could live with myself if I ever was. I don't hate children or anything I'm just adverse to them and a bit afraid. Anyways, my brother came out to my mother (...
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{ "description": "suggesting to my friend for moving out with me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for suggesting to my friend for moving out with me?
Hi guys, ​ So I (23M) suggested to my friend (26M) that if he's interested in moving out of his parents' place with me to an apartment. He was open to the idea and was looking forward to it. I told him that he needs to make sure that it's okay with his parents. ​ He talked to his stepdad and ...
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{ "description": "trying to Balance Love & Family", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Trying to Balance Love & Family?
My partner and I have known each other for a year, and we have been in a relationship for approximately half that time period. He is a very sweet dude, a huge fan of Star Wars and superheroes. I myself am a bit of a geek person who enjoys watching anime, reading Manga and building model kits. We both come from a simila...
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{ "description": "snitching on my manager for very shady/fishy practices", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I snitched on my manager for very shady/fishy practices?
So basically, yesterday was a huge day for our store... it was insanely busy, and a perfect time to hit some quotas for us. However, we were struggling a lot to hit the quota of our memberships. To break it down, my store has two different types of memberships; a lower price, and a higher price (the higher price allow...
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AITA - Neighbor's passive-aggressive remarks and mockery about that I smoke
Please keep your opinion on smoking out of this. Please focus on civility and decency. So, when I moved in, I went and introduced myself to my neighbors - a couple in their 60's. Just a cordial "Good morning" type relationship. I hardly know them other than that. One day I was on my patio, about 20 feet from theirs...
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{ "description": "cutting out a toxic friend when she was alone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting out a toxic friend when she was alone
I became friends with a girl and long story short we became pretty close and I opened up to her about things I hadn't told anyone about. This was a hard time for both of us. She had just gone through an abortion, I was in an all around bad place but the biggest thing is that my best friend went to prison for possession...
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{ "description": "trying to call out my friend's \"Prank\"", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for trying to call out my friend's "Prank"
This is the first time I'm posting a story on Reddit so forgive me if i do anything wrong. Context: This story has a long set up so tl;dr at the end. it involves me, my ex friend Kim and her friend James but these aren’t their real names and the ending takes place a few years ago. I also tried to post this a little ea...
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{ "description": "getting upset about my friends moms decision", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset about my friends moms decision?
I'm expecting to be an a-hole because it seems VERY petty and I feel like I need to hear it from someone else to validate my feelings. A bit of background: I'm staying at her house until I get enough money saved up to move out and do whatever it is I want to do. We get along exceptionally well, me and the family, and ...
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{ "description": "not greeting the security guard at my office", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not greeting the security guard at my office?
This morning I was walking into work in a bit of a rush, in the midst of a handful of other people walking in at the same time. The security guard gave a joyous "Good Morning!" in our general direction and she and I made eye contact. I gave a half smile and kept it moving. She then called me out with "I said good morni...
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{ "description": "criticizing my mothers way of raising her children", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For criticizing my mothers way of raising her children?
So, buckle in, this should be a long one (also, I'm typing this on mobile, so sorry if theres any typos) So, the family was eating dinner (my step-dad [sorta], mom, and twin brother) and my brother, who I dont think the highest of, started to make racist jokes. Just to clarify, my brother was clearly joking, however, ...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my wife didn't do the dishes", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting upset that my wife didn't do the dishes?
I know this sounds like another cliche gender stereotype joke but it's not. My wife and started a blended family two years ago. We both have children, from previous marriages, and have both been divorced 5+ years. On thanks giving, we had my parents and her parents over for dinner. I did the majority of the cooking...
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{ "description": "telling my parents to divorce", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my parents to divorce?
I'm 30, and have always been called hard-hearted and cruel by my family. I hate drama and don't hesitate in telling off a family member if they're being stupid, which is why I've removed myself from them for the most part and live quite far away. I also am extremely empathetic and very sensitive to situations. Sorry th...
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{ "description": "reading a unpurchased book in a book store", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For reading a unpurchased book in a book store?
Hello all, The other day I was at a Barnes and Nobles book store looking through their stuff. While glancing in the young adult section, I found a book that intrigued me ("Fault in our Stars", YES I've never read it before). I decided to take it and sit by a nearby chair and flip through a couple of the pages. I was pr...
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AITA minecraft world
ok so basically my brother wanted a chunk of land smack dab in the middle of my minecraft city which i have put my heart and soul into for the past 5 years. i told him no and he started crying. my dad yells at me saying I need to give my brother a chunk of land in MY world or else he would take my computer which i buil...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be constantly watched", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be constantly watched?
I am a 16 yo Male living with a grandparent. For the past few months since we moved to a new town, my grandmother( and only legal guardian) has been growing more and more strict about every facet of my existence. It's not nearly as bad as some kids for sure, but there's one thing in particular that's been starting to b...
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{ "description": "not telling my Boyfriend's Mom Information about her Son", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Telling My Boyfriend’s Mom Information About Her Son?
Ok so I’ve been with “A” for six years. Love him, we click on all levels, this is the relationship I want for the rest of my life. His parents are another story. His parents don’t like me, are mean and weird, and only really talk to me when they want me to pick up their younger children or dog sit. His mom has given m...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to watch a tv show with me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to watch a tv show with me?
I'm on Mobil so yada yada yada. Also first time poster on this subreddit so let me know if I do something wrong. So, my boyfriend and I have almost been together for a year now. We are both students and in our early twenties. After I knew him for a while I told him how I really want to watch Veronica Mars with him so...
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{ "description": "insisting that my husband not engage in his cross dressing activities within our home while we work on getting divorced", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for insisting that my husband not engage in his cross dressing activities within our home while we work on getting divorced?
I will keep this very short but can add info if anyone needs more. Husband of 3 year and I have not gotten along at all for about six months. We are on the verge of divorce. He hid from me that he’s a cross dresser before we got married which I feel was very deceptive. In December, He engineered a scenario where I wo...
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{ "description": "not giving this woman $5", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving this woman $5?
This is came out longer than expected, sorry for that. There's a TL;DR at the end. I'm 22, studying on uni, and I sometimes make use of a lasercutter in my mom's store to make some extra money. A friend of mine commissioned me a lasercut clock with a special shape. I designed the model, cut it, paint it, adapted ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my sister's fiancée constantly sleeping over our house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my sister’s fiancée constantly sleeping over our house?
I’m 19f, sister is 27f, fiancée is 30m. My sister and I live with our parents. Other things to know: I have really awful sleeping problems. Right now it’s a good period but still if I am woken up by people a few times before actually falling asleep I do not sleep for hours. I have work and school so this causes trouble...
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{ "description": "talking to another girl", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking to another girl?
I (19M) have been seeing a girl (20F) I've known for 3 weeks. We've pretty much been hanging out sometimes when neither of us have classes, about half the time with her friend there too. We started taking naps together while cuddling because she asked too. Also kissing, because she asked me to kiss her. However, we tal...
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{ "description": "giving black kids more candy than white ones", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA, for giving black kids more candy than white ones.
I mean, they have to deal with racism all their lives so why not give them some reverse racism. So, AITA here?
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{ "description": "loudly announcing that a customer's credit card was declined after he ran me ragged while serving he and his date and \"posse\"", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 58 }
AITA for loudly announcing that a customer's credit card was declined after he ran me ragged while serving he and his date and "posse"
Posting from throwaway as I guess this piece of shit is some sort of local rapper and on the off chance he's legit, I don't want this back to my real Reddit life. Keep this short. Work at an upscale restaurant, Friday's are usually huge. Some little nerd I've never heard of came in and caused some commotion with the I...
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{ "description": "not letting an old acquaintance join my Teamspeak server", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting an old acquaintance join my Teamspeak server?
I host a private Teamspeak server which is an application for talking to other people over the internet (VOIP) like Skype or Discord that my \~15 friends and I have used for communication while playing video games or collaborate on homework or just hang out for several years now. I've known one the longest, Cameron (no...
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{ "description": "forcing my 5 year old to sleep in her own bed", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I forced my 5 Year old to sleep in her own bed
Throwaway account as you never know who’s reading. ​ After my daughter was born she slept in her own room in her crib just fine for the first 2 years. Once she figured out how to climb out of her crib the trouble began. We tried taking her back into her room when she would come to ours. Countless hours...
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{ "description": "speaking my mind all the time against opinions my group of friends agree on", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for speaking my mind all the time against opinions my group of friends agree on?
Sometimes my group of friends will have a collective same opinion I disagree with or ask for my input and I’ll be in disagreement. I can’t just simply disagree and state my opinion though they think I’m always an argumentative person. We get along for the most part but over the last five-ten years my taste in music, my...
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{ "description": "contacting my ex to check in on her after she promised she wouldn't ghost", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for contacting my ex to check in on her after she promised she wouldn't ghost?
So my ex and I broke up about 5 months ago. It was a volatile relationship and the last 8 months were long distance. We had some issues between us, there was physical abuse on my part and I feel emotional abuse on her part. I think we were both relieved when it was over. I met someone like a week after and we started d...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick my ex off my family plan", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting to kick my ex off my family plan?
Throw away account since my regular is fairly obvious. Its been months, since my ex and I broke up. I thought it was mutual at the time, but looking back I likely wanted it a little more than she did. Long story short everything was going fine and then it wasn't. She moved out without seeing me and we haven't really ta...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my so", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Breaking up with My SO?
A little background. I am 23 and my boyfriend just turned 21. We have known each other since August and become official since Thanksgiving. I recently got a full ride scholarship to a University of California campus in my home state so I moved away from my SO at the beginning of January. The long distance has been ver...
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{ "description": "telling my Girlfriends daughter, that her dad kinda sucks because he and his new family went to Disneyland without her", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 32 }
AITA for telling my Girlfriends daughter, that her dad kinda sucks because he and his new family went to Disneyland without her?
I’m currently in a relationship with my Gf of 4 years, and she has a daughter (we’ll call Susie) who is 7 years old, who we share with her Dad every other week. Recently we found out through the new Gf of the dad (through social media, mutual friend who makes shirts) that they had “Family shirts” done for a Disneyland ...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to stop talking with her dead husband's family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend to stop talking with her dead husband's family?
We've been together for a year and it's been an issue ever since we got together. My girlfriend used to be married to a guy who died 2 and a half years ago but she retains a lot of contact with his family. Like, a lot. She goes over to their house at least 3 times a week and spends more time with them than she does wi...
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{ "description": "having cars in my Apartment's Garage Towed", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I Had Cars In My Apartment's Garage Towed?
My apartment has assigned parking in an underground garage. Being that space is at a premium in such a garage, obviously the spaces and aisles are a little tight. Recently 2 people have been parking in the aisles of the garage. I know they're residents of the apartment complex because I recognize the vehicles. They us...
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{ "description": "staying @ bros apartment for the night and he says his booty call is coming over. I tell him no", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA Staying @ bros apartment for the night and he says his booty call is coming over. I tell him NO.
I (female/26) am visiting my brother on vacation for the weekend with a female friend of mine. We're staying in the living room at his apartment with his room about 10 feet from us. My brother does not have a girlfriend and has been open about his sex life/hookups. It's our last night here and he turns to us around 9pm...
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{ "description": "leaving my boyfriend because he believed his friend over me", "pronormative_score": 230, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for leaving my boyfriend because he believed his friend over me
My boyfriend has this friend, let's call him Steve. Steve has always given me weird vibes and I tend to avoid him at get togethers. He never did anything blatantly inappropriate, but I noticed him staring at me a lot and he made off color jokes at times that were never bad enough to get upset about but were enough to g...
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{ "description": "pushing hard on my friend who's addicted to pot", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for pushing hard on my friend who's addicted to pot
Let's call my friend Jack. Jack is avg smart. Jack's been in a bit of depression. Jack didn't look for a job for 2 years. He was smoking up every day. Sometime 40 bong shots in a day. (Yes jacks friends have had some competition) but then Jack moved in with me. Jack reduced consumption, but was always high. Minimum 4-...
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{ "description": "buying a 1983 item that was originally $1000, that is sold for $60-200 today, for $10 from an italian seller who does not know WTF it does", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I bought a 1983 item that was originally $1000, that is sold for $60-200 today, for $10 from an Italian seller who does not know WTF it does?
So yeah, it's a 1983 camera that sold for $1000, and sells for $60-200 on eBay today. However this seller is selling it for $10 on eBay, and doesn't even "know its use and operation". However, it is not tested. There is no battery charger, however.
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{ "description": "asking my friend who's going abroad to get something for me", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask my friend who's going abroad to get something for me?
So, this may be something silly compared to the other things I saw during my lurking period. Be warned that English is my secondary language. For the question itself, my friend recently told me that they're going abroad to take complementary classes, in an university summer program, for ~a month (we are in high school...
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{ "description": "dropping a dog off on the side of the road", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for dropping a dog off on the side of the road.
TL;DR at the bottom. This happened a few years ago but still feel guilty. Basically what happened is that I was in college and was driving to get some food. After I got my food I saw a stray dog wondering around in the parking lot. It was winter and super cold out so I felt really bad for the dog. I tried to approach ...
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{ "description": "licking a kids hand", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for licking a kids hand?
This wasn't me but my sister. She messaged me today saying she felt shamed. She was joking around with her boyfriends kid (not hers) 7 year old boy. The kid was pinching her. She felt she didnt have the right to repremand or punish the kid for pinching her so he licked his hand. She just panicked. The kid told his mom...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend that her POS husband molested me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not telling my friend that her POS husband molested me?
As some background I grew up with my friend and her husband both of which I was friends with and her husband I once considered my big brother. Hes always been an asshole but everyone just tolerates him. He didnt seem like that great of a husband. To this day they always fight when they go out together with us. And my ...
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AITA - Kicked My Roommate/Good Friend Out of My Car When He Wouldn’t Stop Talking Shit
I’ve been friends with my roommate for a bit over three years now. We’ve done a lot and been through a lot together. One of his flaws is he that when he drinks he’ll just insult you relentlessly (jokingly). Our friend group jokes that he’s an asshole, but he’s our asshole. I was giving him and his gf a ride to their c...
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{ "description": "trying to finish what I started", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to finish what I started
This is more of a whos the asshole. For background I am 19 and my father is disabled but still able to walk and function pritty normally for a man who is in his late 50s. So I was playing a round of Tetris 99 on my switch, when my dad calls for me I yell back "give me a minute." After a a bit he calls again and soun...
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{ "description": "being mad at my gf over an iPad", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my gf over an iPad
So I was talking with my girl shooting shit and one conversation lull leads to another and I ask her what I should do with my signing bonus of a new job I'm going to start in a couple months. I have a very busted iphone 6s (which she busted by dropping btw) and a laptop that isn't in the most mint condition that I woul...
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{ "description": "turning down a full ride to college", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I turned down a full ride to college?
I'm seventeen and planning on attending college this fall. I've heard from all my prospective colleges and received nearly all my final financial aid packages. Most offered me decent aid, but not enough to avoid taking on major debt/loans (cheapest college is asking for about $35,000 a year). Aside from their price, ho...
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{ "description": "finding out I was being cheated on", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finding out I was being cheated on
A little back ground to the story. We will call the person A. I met A through a mutual friend and after awhile began a friends with benefits situation. We agreed that we could talk to other people but sleep with each other exclusively. We became much closer friends , started spending all our time together and even talk...
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AITA in this weird exchange?
Context: I work in tech support as a Lvl 1 tech in an open office with a few other techs; one of them is a Lvl 2 (will be called James) and has been with the company I work at for about 15 years whereas it's my 6 months. It's also worth of note that I'm autistic, and it's pretty god damn hard for me to pick up social q...
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{ "description": "not telling my classmates about an assessment coming up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA for not telling my classmates about an assessment coming up?
So the other night I was in the library, going over and double checking what assessments I had coming up and I noticed that there was something due next week - it’s an assessment worth about 20% and it’s a small presentation on work placement we did last year for our course. The class I’m referring to is incredibly s...
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{ "description": "not enjoying a family trip to Las Vegas", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not enjoying a family trip to Las Vegas?
Some context--I'm a freshman in college and went to visit my parents for winter break. All I wanted was to spend some time with family and chill after my first semester. My parents don't believe in relaxing by doing nothing, however, and so they decided that the family would be driving down to Las Vegas for the remaind...
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{ "description": "telling my parents about my younger brothers binge drinking", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my parents about my[f21] younger brothers[m17] binge drinking?
My brother is in highschool and has been excessively drinking and smoking weed. We both live in the same house as our parents (im in college). I wouldn't have an issue with his behavior in moderation, but I found him recently passed out in the guest bedroom in a pile of his own puke still sleeping. This is the second t...
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{ "description": "interferring in a flirt that was about to happen between a random girl and my husband right in front of me", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for interferring in a flirt that was about to happen between a random girl and my husband right in front of me?
Basically we were standing in front of the counter at a bar and this random girl just pops up out of nowhere, found a way to stay between my husband and the counter, looked at him and shooked her head doing a "yes". Like, clearly flirting and showing interest. I interrupted and said "he's married, honey" and she said "...
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{ "description": "not wanting to vote", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to vote?
Everyone around me, Democratics and Republicans alike keep harping on about how important voting is, especially in this political climate. I told one person that I didn't plan on voting because I felt like neither side reflects my values, and that choosing the lesser of two evils was still choosing evils. That didn't g...
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{ "description": "not committing to caring for an older relative with Down's syndrome", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not committing to caring for an older relative with Down's Syndrome?
Hi all Just a bit of context recently i lost my nan who was the primary carer for my uncle whose 37 and has Down's Syndrome. In response to this my mom has had to pick up the pieces and start caring for my uncle, she has always maintained the position that should something ever happen to my Nan she would always take...
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{ "description": "snapping on a coworker for spilling my drink", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for snapping on a coworker for spilling my drink?
Ok so I'm probably going to over explain this but I feel the context is necessary. Scroll down for the tl;dr. I work at a bank as a teller and I have this co-worker that sits next to me. Let's call her Lucy. Now my station has a direct line of sight to Lucy's computer as she sits right next to me and our computers ar...
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{ "description": "destroying a girl in a game of rugby", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for destroying a girl in a game of rugby?
A few years ago, I was playing rugby in a physical education lesson, and the teams were mixed, because the girls wanted to play with us A small (5’3 ish) girl ran at me, and I spear tackled her just as she caught the ball. I winded her quite badly and she sat out for the rest of the lesson. All of her friends had a m...
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{ "description": "quitting my job of 8 years over text", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for quitting my job of 8 years over text (link to texts inside)
The reason I am posting this here is because I do have a mental illness and my rationale and judgement has been impaired at times. So what better place to turn to than the internet, where a million strangers will tell it to you straight! I have worked as a waitress/manager at a cafe for 8 years. The owner and I are f...
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AITA because my friend and I both took alcohol without asking?
Okay so pre-context here, my friend (let's call her Beth) and her family just recently moved houses but still own their old one and rent it out to their son (Beth's brother), let's call him Mark. So to the main story, my friends and I have annual friendsgiving at someone's house. Upon arrival my friends tell me what ...
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{ "description": "making them leave the house", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making them leave the house?
Sorry for format. On phone. My aunt and her husband recently got married. She's very close to me age wise and we grew up very close. Recently her and her husband came back to our hometown from where they lived and worked together to have their marriage ceremony and all. While they were here, they asked me if they co...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to stop eating more than me", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 218 }
AITA for asking my wife to stop eating more than me
Sorry for length but there needs to be some context. My wife and I are ex-athletes and both over 6 feet. She works an office job and hits the gym about once a week. I have a physically demanding job and lift weights 3x a week. At the end or the day I'm tired and super hungry despite eating all day. It's no problem for...
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{ "description": "showing my brother my sisters message", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Showing my brother My sisters message.
For context my father recently had a motor bike accident and me and my brother wanted to go see him, but I was on my way to the airport so I could not bring him back. My brother and I agreed that it was better for him to stay behind and then when I got back I would take him to see my dad 3 hours (each way). But my sist...
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{ "description": "not wanting to celebrate my birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to celebrate my birthday?
AITA? Okay so quite simply I hate my birthday and receiving gifts, Christmas, holidays ect. I have never liked it, even as a child. I'm not quite sure why but I'm happy when no one gets me anything or remembers my birthday. It's just awkward to me and I don't feel good getting gifts or being the center of attention wit...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work with my dad today, given that the entire city is closed down and the place where I work should also be", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to work with my dad today, given that the entire city is closed down and the place where i work should also be?
To give more context, my dad owns a store and i work for him. The 1st and 2nd day of january we were supposed to be closed down along with most of the city. So i made plans and had already stuff scheduled to do today. But today i wake up, and he randomly tells me we are going to be open, because he is "bored" of stayi...
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{ "description": "changing the answers on the study guide", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA: for changing the answers on the study guide.
Okay. So this is what's going on. Most of my Organic Chem class is really struggling except for myself and my friend. To help out we created study sets on Quizlet which saved half of the classes ass in the last 2 exams. But every time me and my friend put together a study group everyone vamps. Cool, I get it, sched...
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{ "description": "feeling cut off by one of my best friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling cut off by one of my best friends?
My friend (24f) and I (24m), who also work together, had been sleeping together and hanging out a lot over the past 4 months and had become extremely close as we both went through tough times (family illness etc). We were both two total pillars of support for each other and talked constantly. Due to circumstances of wo...
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{ "description": "starting to get mad that my civil complaints to restaurants/service places are ignored and temper tantrums are rewarded", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - I'm starting to get mad that my civil complaints to restaurants/service places are ignored and temper tantrums are rewarded
So, this is a compilation of experiences in the past couple weeks in which I think I complained in 'proper' way and was ignored - I guess my frustration is, that I feel like people who make scenes get rewarded, and people who are polite in expressing frustration get brushed aside, but maybe I need to chill 1. Our offi...
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{ "description": "wanting to have female friends when I have a girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to have female friends when I have a girlfriend?
So I (20M) have been dating my SO (20F) for 5 months now. I’m having a couple issues that I’ve been battling with. When we first started dating, things were great. As the relationship developed, she started to get more strict on things that she didn’t want me to do. The thing that is bothering me the most is that she ...
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{ "description": "telling my ASD brother not to go out of his way to help an older, socially aggressive lady shovel", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my ASD brother not to go out of his way to help an older, socially aggressive lady shovel
I live in an area of Canada that regularly gets snowstorms from early December to mid April. Shovelling is a very normal activity to have to do here and since snowblowers are so expensive most people just wake up an hour early on nights when we get 30+ cm (12 inches) of snow and brave the storms to clear out their driv...
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