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{ "description": "taking a Tinder date's $400 after he accused me of being a whore, even though I knew it was a sarcastic offer", "pronormative_score": 123, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for taking a Tinder date’s $400 after he accused me of being a whore, even though I knew it was a sarcastic offer?
Background: about a month ago met a guy on tinder and really hit it off. Met for the first and only time last night for dinner and it was instant chemistry and I really, really liked him. We went out and danced and he was so clumsy but cute and just went with everything which made him very endearing. He invited me bac...
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{ "description": "taking steal someone else's umbrella after someone stole mine", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA if I take steal someone else's umbrella after someone stole mine?
When it rains, the front lobby of a high traffic building is full of people's umbrellas and they're often stolen. Am I the asshole, if I steal someone else's umbrella after mine was stolen? On one hand, I didn't create a net loss. On the other, I shifted the burden and personally caused the misfortune of anoth...
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{ "description": "not letting my girlfriend being friend with my classmate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my girlfriend being friend with my classmate
It's a long story, but before this, they always go on date behind my back and I finally known it yesterday, and after I forgive her, today, she asked if she can go out with my classmate again and I tell her no, so am I the asshole for not letting her be friend with someone who she cheats me with?
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WIBTA 3000 Dollar Jewelry?
Okay, so this is really confusing me. So, I'm 13 almost 14 in middle school. This guy I DO NOT like in a relationship way kept asking me out. I didn't want to but said yes since I'm a pushover. This was totally my fault so feel free to shame me in the comments. Out of nowhere, the day I was going to break up with him (...
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{ "description": "not being \"enthusiastic enough\" on my first two days of work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being “enthusiastic enough” on my first two days of work
Not sure if this is the correct subreddit for this, but wanted some opinions. I recently got a job at Target working in the starbucks cafe. I have worked two days there so far, and thought it was going great. My trainer and I didn’t exactly click, but we were never unfriendly towards eachother and I did everything I wa...
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{ "description": "not wanting my s/o to start drinking", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my s/o to start drinking?
mobile user here, sorry if the format is wonky! ill try to keep this short for privacy. something rather awful has happened to my s/o, and their response to this was to drink alcohol. im horribly worried about them starting a bad habit, but i dont want to be a controlling girlfriend who doesn't let her s/o do what the...
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{ "description": "telling my friend's mom on him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend's mom on him?
To start off with some background, I'm Jewish, which all of my friends are aware of. Over the years, they've made jokes at my expense with that being the subject matter. Over time, these jokes have become more and more insulting, and I've had multiple discussions with them about how they make me feel. After these conve...
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AITA or my big sister?
It all happened on the same day. My mom texted my early in the morning. The grandmother of my brother in law died. So I texted my brother in law, that I am sorry for his loss. I live a few hours from my parents and my sister und her husband. So one hour later the family chat gets busy. My parents are going to have a ...
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{ "description": "calling the police on people holding the front door of my building open and gambling/smoking inside", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Calling the police on people holding the front door of my building open and gambling/smoking inside?
I posted on legaladvice about how in my project building, a crew/gang of 4-5-6 people (all males) will often hang out directly in front of the entrance of my building, which had a scaffold built recently above it, which contributes to this. They will hold the locked entrance (need a key) open so they can go in and out ...
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{ "description": "not being more upset that my friend sent me a video of him receiving a BJ? *NSFW", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being more upset that my friend sent me a video of him receiving a BJ? *NSFW*
So my best friend sent me a video over snapchat yesterday of his girlfriend giving him the aquatic sucky sucky. His girlfriend knew about it and it was all consensual on their part. He also blocked out all the "bits" so I didnt actually see anything but you could clearly tell what was going on (that was the point of th...
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{ "description": "taking tips from a volunteer position", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for taking tips from a volunteer position?
I volunteer for a local group that hosts monthly events. I work the coat check, and it being December, I was very busy at last nights event. A lot of people left tips on my table as I worked, which led to the volunteer coordinator saying "you need a basket! let me get you one." At the end of the night, I gathered my th...
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{ "description": "always being gone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For always being gone
What's up yall. Throwaway because my other account is obviously linked to me. Also on mobile so sorry for any errors. Yada yada. So some back story. I am a 25m and I work in a travel intensive industry. I'm gone from home anywhere from 4 to 8 weeks at a time. I usually have anywhere from 1 to 3 weeks off when I am hom...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my birthday with a younger cousin", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for not wanting to share my birthday with a younger cousin
My birthday is coming up on the 9th of March and my grandparents wanted to take me out to dinner for my birthday the day after. The problem I am facing is that they want to celebrate my younger cousins birthday (We will call him YC) the same day, at the same dinner, at the same time. Now I was not rude but I simply t...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my doctor", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my doctor?
So, I am a teenager and I do acting, dance, and singing in my spare time, it's practically my entire life. About 3 weeks ago I started to experience chest pains and they got worse over the course of a week so I went to the ER. After doing an ECG, blood test, and a chest x-ray they told me I could have an inflamed diaph...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate to drink less tea", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my roommate to drink less tea?
Lately, I’ve been drinking tea a lot, especially this granulated kind I get from my local European store. This is the kind of tea that’s made up mostly of sugar. Usually, I add 2-3 tea spoons in a cup and mix it with some hot or cold water. (It depends on my mood and the weather, mostly.) That was a little bit of a b...
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{ "description": "not telling my crush that I'm asexual before the first date", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for not telling my crush that I’m asexual before the first date?
Pretty self-explanatory. I read online that asexuality is a dealbreaker for some people, so they feel led on if their date is not upfront with it before the first date. However, previously I had a first date lined up with someone and when I told him I was asexual through text before the date, he ghosted me. I basically...
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{ "description": "not giving my roommate his share of the profit from our \"business\"", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for not giving my roommate his share of the profit from our “business”?
Before you jump the gun let me provide some background info: My roommate recently proposed an idea to buy returned amazon goods off a website to resell. It’s basically items that were returned to Amazon’s warehouse that were all stuffed in a box without checking the quality of the return. We decided to go through with ...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriends parents he used an egg donor", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for telling my boyfriends parents he used an egg donor?
My boyfriend has a kid which was born through an egg donor + surrogate combo so he's a single dad. We met at the tail end of the surrogates pregnancy and she gave birth and the my boyfriend asked me not to tell anyone that he used a surrogate etc. The weird timing has made people think i'm the mother and it's gotten a ...
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{ "description": "being cold to a person who walked up to me in between class", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being cold to a person who walked up to me in between class?
So I was just hanging out at a table before my psych class at uni and just surfing through my phone. A girl came and sat across me. This happens often (it is a public building after all) so I thought nothing of it. Then she was like hey how are you and introduced herself. I said my name too but I was a little reluctant...
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{ "description": "calling out my wife's parents plan to use us as their retirement financial fund", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my wife's parents plan to use us as their retirement financial fund?
I apologise in advance as I'm a bag of emotions right now as I'm writing this. As I just had an argument with my wife about this. To give background of how things are currently; my wife are a happily married couple with a 2 year old with my father-in-law whom is retired (but working a part-time job) all living in one...
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{ "description": "wanting to not be friends with my less ambitious friend", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to not be friends with my less ambitious friend?
I have been friends with this girl since 6th grade (im currently a junior in college). We dont see eachother a lot because i go to college an 18 hour drive away. She says she doesnt want a job she doesnt like so refuses to get any job. But then she complains that she has no money. Shes blames her parents for not teach...
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{ "description": "saying \"hey\" to a coworker to get his attention", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying “hey” to a coworker to get his attention
So I had a question for my coworker and I was having problems getting them before. I didn’t want to confuse customers, so instead of “sir,” I shouted, “hey.” He was walking away from my area that I couldn’t leave and I had forgotten to ask. He didn’t hear me, so I was just going to try to get him in another way. La...
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{ "description": "being upset my roommates girlfriend stays the night", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset my roommates girlfriend stays the night?
She's over 4/7 nights a week almost, showers here ,and keeps food in the fridge. She lives at home and claims the reason she likes staying over is because its close to work. So I'm wrong to be upset?
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{ "description": "asking a friend for her friend's number", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a friend for her friend’s number?
My (25M) good friend (21F) had some of her high school friends (two 21Fs) up to visit recently and I felt a strong romantic vibe with one of them, well call her H. My friend, who we’ll call L, told me that H “thought I was hilarious” and they all wanted to hang out again. Couple of nights later we spend time at the bar...
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{ "description": "serving meat to my vegan husband to save his life", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for serving meat to my vegan husband to save his life?
I know this sounds bad, but hear me out. My (33f) husband (35m) was diagnosed with a protein deficiency last year. He was hospitalized for a week and was given meds to counter his condition. Our doctor promised him a full recovery if he listened to his guidelines. Unfortunately, as he was getting better and better, he...
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{ "description": "using my medical power of attorney over my mentally ill mother to put my car title in my name", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I used my medical power of attorney over my mentally ill mother to put my car title in my name?
Okay, I know how this sounds already, but let me try to briefly explain the turbulent dynamic of my relationship with my mother. (I am an 18F and she is 42F) Both of my parents were emotionally abusive and extremely manipulative to my younger brother and me growing up. My dad was by far the worse of the two (so much s...
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{ "description": "realizing that we have too many animals too late", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for realizing that we have too many animals too late?
I'm not sure what kind of background is needed for this question so ask if something dosen't make sense So it started three years ago when we adopted our begale, she's 13 and amazing, fast forward to last year my boyfriend's cousin was going to put there dog down, and my boyfriend and I decided to take the dog in...
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{ "description": "breaking ties with a friend who broke a promise", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for breaking ties with a friend who broke a promise
Bit of a back story to this one: My (now ex) GF and I went to different universities, so we had very different circle of friends. There was a girl (we'll call her Mina) within my friend group that GF didn't like. It was mainly cause she believed that I had a crush on Mina, and that Mina and I had a lot of classes toget...
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{ "description": "not apologizing for working out without my so", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don’t apologize for working out without my SO?
Yesterday I went dress shopping, and noticed I should probably start lifting again as my booty is getting a little saggy. I come home, tell my BF, and he mentions wanting to workout again too. We decide we should workout tomorrow, but make no real plan. Today I wake up at 8:30am. He keeps sleeping in, which is typic...
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{ "description": "not disclosing my age when I look to be noticably older", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not disclosing my age (23M) when I look to be noticably older? (Mildly NSFW?)
I'll keep this short and sweet, I 23M, dont really look or sound 23.... I get a lot of people thinking early 30s....I guess I'm either ugly or doomed to not age well... Whatever, not concerned about it. I have had multiple people end up flirting with me at bars, some flirting,has ended up going further than words. Ho...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have sex with my ex/gf", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to have sex with my ex/gf
Throwaway bcos my gf follows my main account and looks at my posts to have a laugh from time 2 time. So my gf and I were together for 7 months but argument started to occur due to lack of communication. After about a week about more arguing/consolidating we decided that being friends with benefits (fuck buddies). Thi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be with my dad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be with my dad?
To summarise the issue my dad wants to move back to his hometown since he has no friends where we're living and is unhappy. He seems to think i need to come with him and i finally built up enough courage today to tell him i want to move out and stay here instead. I had already told my mom and it was well recieved by h...
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{ "description": "stopping being friends with my buddy for being friends with people who treated me cruelly", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stopped being friends with my buddy for being friends with people who treated me cruelly?
Me and my buddy, lets call him "Nick" have been great pals for the past 2 years. We were buddies as kids but recently reconnected in a group of mutual friends and have been great friends since. He is more than a friend to me, time and time again when I need it he's here to talk, hangout or whatever. The world doesn't d...
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{ "description": "not getting involved in my fiances sister and mothers fight over her troubled son", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting involved in my fiances sister and mothers fight over her troubled son
Me (29m) and my fiance (24f) have together 6 years. Her family is very dysfunctional her mom and sister are both in state aid for no reason. My fiances sister has a troubled son bipolor and off his meds (16m) in and out of juvenile lock ups. Recently was released to my fiances and her sisters mom for guardianship and i...
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{ "description": "telling a friend I'm annoyed she blew off my wedding", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if i tell a friend I’m annoyed she blew off my wedding?
I’m debating on how to respond to a message sent by a friend who missed my wedding. We have been friends now for about 5 years. We initially met because I needed a sitter for my dog and she answered my advertisement. But we became fast friends and even though she still dog sits for me occasionally, we chat and hang o...
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{ "description": "dumping my gf after going through her phone", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA For dumping my GF after going through her phone?
For the past year I’ve been going through an uphill custody battle for my son as his mother started withholding custody about 8 months ago and I haven’t seen him since then. I’ve been working a full time 9pm-5pm (Mon-Fri) IT job and a part time 11pm-7am (Fri-Sat) weekend job to help pay for my legal expenses. I’ve been...
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{ "description": "snapping at my friend calling me at 4:30 am", "pronormative_score": 90, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for snapping at my friend calling me at 4:30 am?
I get home from my bar job at 1 am, then the next day I work at 8 am. So sleep is very important to me, I also have sleeping issues, when something wakes me up its very hard for me to go back to sleep. The person who calls me knows both of these things. So when someone called me at 4:30 am I didn't regonize the numb...
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{ "description": "expecting to be invited to my girlfriend's suprise party", "pronormative_score": 105, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for expecting to be invited to my girlfriend's suprise party?
For some background, I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. It was my girlfriend's birthday on Friday. I had planned to suprise her that night with a dinner and cake at my place. She got off work early that day, and had made plans to catch up with one of her friends for a coffee to celebrate her...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend not to eat my bread", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend not to eat my bread?
Please tell me if I'm the asshole here, I'm trying to see my boyfriend's perspective. I made a loaf of banana bread a few days ago and today I put the last few slices in a bag so I can take them to work tonight. My work takes me to a remote location where I can't leave until the job is done and live out of my truck whi...
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{ "description": "getting my co worker fired", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I got my co worker fired
Hello. First of all, I work in a dental surgery as a dental nurse so sterilization and all is very important and integral. Me and my bosses (head dentist and his wife) are friendly to each other so we never really had a bad time and I enjoy going to work everyday. So today, I was the only dental assistant working and ...
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{ "description": "dying my hair blonde when my girlfriend told me not to", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dying my hair blonde when my girlfriend told me not to?
Dyed my hair blonde against my girlfriends wishes... I think it looks ridiculously awesome but now shes threatening to leave me if I dont dye it back AITA?
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{ "description": "having an argument in a comment section", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for having an argument in a comment section
Okay, so recently enough, I got into an argument on Instagram with a random on a post. It was kinda stupid and I believe we were both just arguing for the sake of it. It goes on for about 3 days and eventually moves to DMs. (I have a public Page) I message the person at about 10pm and they don't respond till 8PM the ne...
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{ "description": "asking my sis to stop saying \"you already asked me that.\"", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my sis to stop saying "you already asked me that."?
So I have an illness that causes some relatively severe memory and processing issues, like not to toot my own horn but I'm fairly smart, graduated college at 20 years old, but have bad memory issues that make a hell of a lot of things really hard. My boss bullies the hell out of me over because she thinks someone my ag...
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AITA or Is saying no to standing up in an old friend’s wedding okay.
Hi just like the title says, I had to say "NO" to standing up at a friends wedding who I have known since we were 11. Some of the reasons that I said no were that. \-I left for 2 and a half years to teach overseas. He and I never talked once that whole time. \-Always blew me off when I asked him to come visit me ove...
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{ "description": "being upset that my boyfriend told his family how much I am going to make", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for being upset that my boyfriend told his family how much I am going to make?
Recently got hired at a new place where I will be utilizing my degree. I graduated mid December and started looking for jobs mid January. I got an email, called for an interview, got interviewed and got job offer 2 weeks later. Was super excited because this was my first choice. I called my boyfriend to let him know. ...
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{ "description": "not saying good morning", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not saying good morning?
Im on mobile so sorry for any formatting issues! This happened earlier today. I was taking my dog out so he can do his business. Once I checked that no one was there I took off his leash because I wasn't gonna be home for most of the day. As my dog was prancing about, my neighbor happens to take her dog out as well....
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{ "description": "turning off my roommates computer", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For turning off my roommates computer?
So, I'm a freshman in college, and I share a room with two other people, and it's been pretty okay thus far. My roommate likes to fall asleep to the sounds of TV, and wears headphones while she sleeps. I think her Bluetooth headphones died while she was asleep, and the computer started playing shortly there after. She ...
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{ "description": "taking back things my stealing sister-in-law borrowed from me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking back things my stealing sister-in-law borrowed from me?
(English is not my first language so sorry for any mistakes. first post) This happened when i was about 14 yo, my sister in law was staying with us at the time because my brother was abroad for a couple weeks. Her phone broke so the person she would call couldn't hear her which means she can't talk to my brother (t...
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{ "description": "possibly wasting $200 because I want to drive instead of fly", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for possibly wasting $200 because I want to drive instead of fly
To preface this, I (26 F) am terrified of flying and always have been, but also love traveling. In order to combat this conundrum, I take about 2 mg of Xanax so I don't have a panic attack [Dr. approved] when flying. This means I try to avoid flying whenever I can. Everyone that knows me knows this. For Valentine’s da...
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{ "description": "not letting my sister stay with me after she made a racist comment about my bf and used pepper spray on him", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my sister stay with me after she made a racist comment about my bf and used pepper spray on him?
So I invited my sister to come up to my apartment and stay the weekend because we've drifted apart since she got married and I moved 3 hours away. We were very close growing up but we had grown distant and were barely involved in each others lives at all. She couldn't come in until later that night, around 11:30 PM. I ...
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{ "description": "canceling plans", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for canceling plans
My friend, let’s call her Sarah, always makes plans with me and every single time it never goes according to plan, she always changes what we’re doing or how long I’m staying last minute and most of the time we just sit at her house or go to the mall (which I hate) and I don’t get home until two days later. I also don’...
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{ "description": "not helping my parents clean up a party for me and blaming the for being too intrusive", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not helping my parents clean up a party for me and blaming the for being too intrusive?
So basically let me say this first. My mom and I have a very tough relationship that is in a tough spot. I'm 17 and I turn 18 tomorrow. So I'm in my schools musical production putting on a show in less than 2 weeks. As a lead in my schools musical, I am called slightly more often than most others. Today Everyone was c...
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{ "description": "putting the brakes on someone's initiative at work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for putting the brakes on someone's initiative at work?
\[throwaway account to protect my identity\] At my work, I manage three teams. Due to various M&A activity we are well under-resourced and I'm running at about 60% of the staff I need - but we are recruiting to fix this. The administration is aware of the situation. I work very closely with our IT department - bu...
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{ "description": "telling my wife to shush when she was laughing loudly", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for telling my wife to shush when she was laughing loudly?
My wife and I were on the couch watching funny things on YT. She was laying flat on her back on top of me and laughing with her mouth wide open. Because of this she was cackling loudly. I'm always concerned about being loud late at night in our apartment because of neighbors. So I said "shhhhh" to her. She jumps up and...
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{ "description": "firing my therapist", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for firing my therapist?
TL, DR at the bottom I was seeing a therapist for a few months, I have anxiety, depression and other issues concerning my family. I decided to go to see a therapist because although I do a lot of self therapy, reading and stuff, I still felt someone else’s perspective would help me as well as validation. I had had ar...
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{ "description": "ignoring my 'friend' after a hangout", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my ‘friend’ after a hangout?
One of my ‘friends’ is a pretty annoying all the time. She (we’ll call her SK) is very clingy and doesn’t know how to interact with people, and has no sense of personal space. She invited me over to her house, and was very excited about it. Her dad wasn’t responsible (didn’t respond to my dad’s texts [I am a minor]) an...
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{ "description": "reporting my mechanic to the Bureau of Auto Repair", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I reported my mechanic to the Bureau of Auto Repair?
Took my car in to get smogged. It failed. Mechanic said I need a new EGR valve. Failed. Said I need new catalytic converters. Failed. Said I need a new MAP sensor... and 2+ months and $1500 later... IT PASSED! I get it, fixing cars it hard. I don't blame him for all the repairs. But here's the thing: **afterward I ask...
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{ "description": "stealing someone's seat at lunch", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for stealing someone’s seat at lunch?
So I come from my yearbook class at lunch, and try to sit in my usual spot. However Ronak is already sitting there. So I sit in the spot directly to his right. Pierre comes over (angry). “Why’d you take my seat” I tell him that I cannot move since Ronak is in my seat. He goes to the end of the line and tells them all t...
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{ "description": "staying in my home after separation and making wife move out", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for staying in my home after separation and making wife move out.
Married almost 3 years with 2 young children. Wife came to me last month wanting a divorce. Since she does not work and has been struggling with her anger and dealing with the children, I said I would not feel comfortable leaving the kids with her in the home that I pay for. She’s living with her grandparents, not maki...
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{ "description": "tipping delivery drivers with food", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for tipping delivery drivers with food
To further clarify, I rarely carry any cash on me as I mainly use my debit card. So I try to think of a food that most people generally tend to enjoy and order it for them. I'm not a delivery driver and never have been so I don't specifically know how they'd like to be tipped. I'd like to know if I'm an asshole for ...
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{ "description": "breaking a promise with my ex to date a different girl", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for breaking a promise with my ex to date a different girl?
To clarify, the promise was made while I was dating my ex. When I was dating my ex my mental health declined quickly from the lies she told me. And I dont mean entirely traumatic, I mean supernatural beliefs. She threw me into such a state of psychosis over all of it. And it held us together. The forced fake feeling t...
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{ "description": "not allowing my Fiance's sister", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not allowing my Fiance's sister
AmI the asshole for not allowing my fiances sisters cats to move into our 3bed apartment . Her sister is dealing with an abusive, boyfriend, relationship and lives in PA. She wants to get away and move to FL and start over and get back on her feet. However, she also wants to move her 2 cats in as well. Our apartment co...
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{ "description": "getting mad at him, or is he because he ditched me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: for getting mad at him, or is he because he ditched me?!
I drove two hours to see an old friend. We go on a hike and he nearly ditches me the entire time (30 minutes into a 3-4 hour hike)!! My phone has no signal so he couldn’t have reached me even if he wanted to. I finally get to the top (2 hour hike to the top) and he is not there. Afraid we made different turns at the ...
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AITA got calling out my constantly tardy best friend?
So my best friend is always late I live an hour away from her so when I make plans I expect her to be ready on time for me to pick her up. Almost always she’s late the most common reason is cause she was still asleep. Today we made plans to hang out she fell asleep again and had me waiting for two hours no text or anyt...
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{ "description": "not telling my girlfriend's mother something I wasn't supposed to tell her... without talking to my girlfriend first", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not telling my girlfriend's mother something I wasn't supposed to tell her... Without talking to my girlfriend first?
TL:DR I told my girlfriend's mother about something that my girlfriend told me, without letting my girlfriend know first. Rose (not real names), my girlfriend, was complaining to me about her mother. Rose was talking to her mother about a sensitive topic and her mother was not showing a lot of support. Of course, I kn...
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{ "description": "indirectly calling my friend/coworker ugly", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for indirectly calling my friend/coworker ugly?
So this all happened yesterday/today and he says I'm an asshole for not understanding what he is saying nor apologizing. I think I should have nothing to apologize for. So backstory a bit I am 19, my friend (we will call Gary) just hit 40 and he looks around in his mid thirties. Gary has had a rough time finding love...
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AITA my boyfriend avoids all arguments
My boyfriend and I currently have a wonderful relationship and we love each other dearly but we never fight. I know this sounds crazy, like it seems like I’m asking to fight with him but that’s not the case. Every once in a while we will have a disagreement or an argument and as soon as it becomes a digger deal than w...
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{ "description": "calling my flakey friend out when she was having a bad day", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling my flakey friend out when she was having a bad day?
So I (20m) have this friend (23f) who I really love hanging out with. She's cool and we always have a good time smoking together and chilling. Unfortunately, she is really unreliable. She's got a really bad habit of saying "yeah let's hang out tonight" and having me smoke her out, then just not showing up. The last 4 t...
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{ "description": "pretending to be supportive", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pretending to be supportive?
My good friend has been Unlucky in love for years. She's 31 now and she has just entered a relationship with a man she met back in January. I have met him one time. She's constantly calling me and telling me things about their relationship that throw up huge red flags but she's not seeing them as red flags or looking f...
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{ "description": "not letting my neighbor park in the driveway I pay for", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my neighbor park in the driveway I pay for?
I live in a weird apartment complex where there are multiple small houses spread out surrounding a courtyard. There is a long narrow driveway that can fit multiple cars, but there is only room for one car to leave at a time. When I moved into my apartment, the landlord said that the driveway is included in my rent. ...
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{ "description": "washing my hands after petting someone's dog", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for washing my hands after petting someone’s dog?
I’m kind of a neat freak so I like to keep my hands clean at all times. Whenever I pet a random dog or even a friend’s, I wanna go wash my hands immediately after that before touching something else but I don’t unless they leave. I feel like me doing that is implying their dog is dirty which I know it isn’t but I just ...
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{ "description": "going any further down the Rabbit Hole", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If I Go Any Further Down the Rabbit Hole?
I have snap streaks with a person (sending a pic on snapchat every day), and I noticed that they hadn't sent a single picture for like 21 hours. So I sent a little message, saying it will die if they don't send a picture. I also, in the hopes of postponing it, sent an extra photo as opposed to my usual 2, making how mu...
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{ "description": "telling my mom to stop unloading on me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my mom to stop unloading on me?
I'm 14 and since my grandma passed earlier this year my mom has been unloading her feelings on me. Her parents are gone and my grandma was the last parental figure she had so she's been lonely. She also has depression and anxiety that she goes to therapy for. Anyways, my dad has a female friend (we'll call her Patty) ...
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{ "description": "using a Sking that looks like my Ex in a Video game", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Using A Sking That Looks Like My Ex In A Video Game?
I play League of Legends a lot. Love the game, it's a great game. Now I happen to main a champion in the game called Evelynn. For those of you who don't know LoL has different skins for their champions. Skins change the visual appearance of the champions you play. I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year. We ...
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{ "description": "not wanting this guy at my birthday party", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting this guy at my birthday party?
NOTE: I am posting this on behalf of my cousin, who does not have a reddit account. Any "I"s you see past this point are from her perspective. A family friend of mine, Judy, has a son, Jack, who is my age (15). Jack is special, and I think he has Asperger's on top of it. Judy always brings Jack with her when she visit...
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{ "description": "I get ridding of my wife's dog", "pronormative_score": 76, "contranormative_score": 48 }
WIBTA if I get rid of my wife’s dog?
My wife’s dog is old. Around 10. He’s always been a grouchy little bastard with me. My wife always thought it was funny that I was so cautious around him, but the fucker is mean. He will snarl if you sit too close to him on the couch. He growls when you get close to his food. He can’t be around other animals whi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to celebrate my birthday at work", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to celebrate my birthday at work?
We apparently missed someone's birthday recently in my office of over 25 people. That person did not complain, but a friend of theirs did. In response, one person took it upon themselves (and subsequently got approval from the office manager) to ask (pry IMO) for everyone's birthday so that we don't miss anyone's again...
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{ "description": "talking to a girl's service dog", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking to a girl’s service dog?
A bit of background: there is a girl in my biology class with a service dog in training; pup is maybe 8 months, not old enough to be trained fully. She said that eventually he will be able to warn her of seizure symptoms, but he is still learning and doesn’t listen to commands 100% of the time. He will sometimes bark a...
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{ "description": "fighting with my guest", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for fighting with my guest
I‘m having difficulty with a guest of mine at the moment and need some clarity. So a guy is staying in my flatmate’s room until Friday. He’s been here since last Friday (visiting her) but she’s left since Sunday so it’s just him there now. I didn’t really want to let him stay in the room while my flatmate wasn’t there...
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{ "description": "feeling I need to cut my mom out of my life", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling I need to cut my Mom out of my life
For those who don't know (mentioned it once here before)my Mom is going through an ugly divorce with my abusive step-dad. She is currently staying at my Grandparents and me to get her back on her feet. However while I am sorry for what is happening to my Mom, I'm sick her lying to my face and still drinking. She has be...
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{ "description": "canceling my trip with my family to go home", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for canceling my trip with my family to go home?
From the title, it might seem like I’m the asshole, but let me give you the story (sorry for formatting - on mobile). I’ve had a trip planned with my sister to visit my brother, where for the first couple days she’s gonna go to her boyfriends home town to stay with him, and I was going to have my friends come and meet ...
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{ "description": "\"shaming\" my friends for always wanting to take pictures", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for “shaming” my friends for always wanting to take pictures?
these are my friends from childhood and high school and we are currently freshmen in college. we don’t really see each other often besides breaks, birthdays, and other special occasions because most of us go to separate schools (but still in-state). Anyway, it has ALWAYS been like this but it really only started bothe...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my aunt for her dog's poor behaviour", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my aunt for her dog's poor behaviour?
Lurker first time posting Also throwaway account because i'm paranoid. So i got a possible job offer this week in a city different from the one i live in. Luckily my aunt lives in said city and she kindly offered her hospitality. She is over 70 and lives following a daily routine so accepting to let me stay is a pre...
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AITA, My ex likes a paedophile, I did not like him.
Initial information. Me and my ex are both British, living in Wales, she was 16 when we started dating, I am 18 (Both ages are legal in the UK.). We've known eachother for over a year, and started dating a few months after we met. The Paedophile is an American aged 21, but has the means to travel to the UK via 30k inh...
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{ "description": "demanding higher pay than a disabled colleague of mine", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 120 }
AITA for demanding higher pay than a disabled colleague of mine?
This morning, I found out that my co-worker and I have the same salary. My co-worker has a physical disability that affects her productivity, to a degree that is obvious to everyone in the office. This morning, I discovered that her salary is the same as mine. I was a bit upset because I’m way more productive and hav...
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{ "description": "wanting to meet Roman Polanski", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting to meet Roman Polanski?
I'm \[21F\] just beginning a career in film which I've wanted for a very long time. I aspire to be a film director. A neighbor of ours, retired old film producer, is not quite friends with but certainly friendly acquaintances with Roman Polanski. He said he might be able to organize a meeting for me. If you had asked...
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{ "description": "telling my co-worker \"don't talk to me\" early in the morning", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my co-worker "don't talk to me" early in the morning?
Some background: I have a coworker who is quite talkative. I am more of an introvert. He amazes me in the amount of questions he asks. He is also on the extra friendlier side of friendly. Think drop you a morning text asking how you are everyday sort of thing. I've been trying to be more...social and at first I'd reply...
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{ "description": "getting upset when my friend kind of humiliated me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset when my friend kind of humiliated me?
First, a little bit of context. I have depression and a bit of social phobia. Because of both, I gave up studying 3 years ago (meaning that I DO NOT do good in school). I previously told my friend that I was on antidepressants, but that they were useless, and that I was forced to go to a group therapy, which I hated. S...
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{ "description": "not letting my sister and her boyfriend move in", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not letting my sister and her boyfriend move in?
For context my sister and her bf are having issues getting a place to stay due to my sisters past criminal history (non violent). I live with my mom and stepdad in a tiny 3 bed, 2 bathroom house, and we split all rent and utilities 3 ways. My mom decided to take it upon herself to invite my sister (pregnant with twins...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be on a camera roll", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be on a camera roll?
Okay, first time poster so bare with me. I've been having a conflict with my father and would like to see your guys' opinion on who you think is in the wrong. I have been dealing with many mental disorders for years now. The most prominent of which would be my eating disorder and body dysmorphia. These things have obvi...
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{ "description": "displaying a heirloom confederate battle flag in my private office", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for displaying a heirloom confederate battle flag in my private office?
I have an antique confederate battle flag framed in my home office. The flag has quite a storied history. First carried into WWII by my grandfather, it was then carried into Vietnam by my uncle, who passed away a few years ago. They do not have any ties to white supremacy nor did they hold any racist views. The flag is...
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{ "RIGHT": 43, "WRONG": 20 }
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to fire his secretary", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for wanting my husband to fire his secretary
Note: this is not my story but my friends, who asked me to post this here for her to see what you guys think of this as she didn't want to make an account for this one post. I'll do my best to answer questions for her as I know much about the situation but anything directly to her may take a bit longer for a response a...
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{ "description": "not defending my ex in an argument he had with our son", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not defending my ex in an argument he had with our son?
Back story: ex and I are not together and have not been together for years. We have a son together who is 5, and he isn’t exactly the more active co-parent. However, as I hope most of you will agree, it is not my job to influence the relationship they have together, so I don’t tell my 5 year old degrading things about ...
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{ "description": "knowingly making out with a married woman", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for knowingly making out with a married woman?
So last night I was out a bar with some friends of mine and we got talking to a group of ladies and we were all laughing and having a good time. I’m single by the way, just thought I should get that out there. I got particularly close with one of them, we’ll call her Maria, who was easy to talk to and good fun. Me and ...
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{ "description": "telling my classmates what my teacher gave me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my classmates what my teacher gave me?
Last Christmas (2018) I gave some of my teachers Christmas presents in the form of plants (gardening is a hobby of mine). My art teacher also likes gardening and has a ton of plants in his room, so when I have him his present he gave me a little cactus. Fast forward to a few days ago. I didn’t know what type it was and...
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{ "description": "not deciding to pick my drunk sister at 2 am", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not deciding to pick my drunk sister at 2 am?
So today my sister is going to a party to go drinking with her friends at 11 pm. She wants me to pick her up at 2 am. I am going to a gaming tournament tomorrow and I'm leaving the house at 8:30 am. I told her I don't want to and told her she should get sober by then so that she can go home. She got mad because I am ch...
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{ "description": "refusing to take my time to listen to fundraisers", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to take my time to listen to fundraisers?
Every time I’m back in my hometown and have lunch or go shopping alone in the mall, I’ll get approached by fundraisers - especially in the holiday season. I’m not a fan of their method: they will come to you, ask for your time (with only several seconds for you to say no, and some of them can be super persuasive), let ...
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{ "description": "telling my Parent/Grandparent to be nicer to fast food workers", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Telling My Parent/Grandparent to be nicer to fast food workers?
So basically, I often eat out with my grandparent. At restaurants, they are polite and nice. But when it comes to fast food places, it goes the opposite way. During drive thrus, the worker will ask for the money, in which my family responds “Read my order back” in a very rude tone sometimes adding “because I know you g...
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{ "description": "wanting my sister to design me a tattoo without charging me", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for wanting my sister to design me a tattoo without charging me?
So my sister has just recently designed her own tattoo. Then, a few months later she designed her boyfriends. The topic of tattoos came up and I she asked me if i would ever get a tattoo. I said yes and began to explain what tattoo I would want. She offered to design the tattoo for me and I thought it would be lit for ...
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AITA Quit talking to my good friend because I fell in love with her but she didn't feel the same
I had a good friend I'd been friends with for a few years. She was my friends wife. Things went to hell between them, and they split up. I ended up on her side because he accused me of sleeping with her behind his back, which pissed me off royally because I was loyal to a fault to him. She and I did everything together...
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