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{ "description": "emailing a complaint to Burger King after I bought a homeless man some food", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for emailing a complaint to Burger King after I bought a homeless man some food.
So as the title says I bought a homeless man some food. Yesterday I was on the way home from work and decided to call in BK for a double cheeseburger (£1.49), I was approached by a homeless man inside the store whom asked me to buy him a meal. I am happy to buy people food or donate money, but usually on my terms and ...
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{ "description": "telling my mum no", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Telling my Mum no?
I'll try and keep this quick as it is my first post on reddit ​ Context: i work as security officer and get paid fortnightly (previous jobs i was paid weekly so it takes some getting used to). The week this took place i was very strapped for cash as it was a week after i had been paid and didn't receive a ...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my friend that kept me up at his place", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting pissed at my friend that kept me up at his place?
This happened a while ago, but I still wonder about it sometimes. Throwaway, yada yada, you know the drill. I have this friend. We'll call him C. I've been friends with him for close to 5 years now. I'm currently 19. We're still pretty close, considering that we live two-ish hours away from each other. He's a pretty g...
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{ "description": "not telling my sister about a pretty serious procedure", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my sister about a pretty serious procedure?
For some backstory, my sister and I weren’t super close growing up. We argued and fought over just about everything, and honestly there were days when I couldn’t stand her attitude. When I moved away to college, we started getting closer because there was that distance between us and we didn’t see each other every day....
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{ "description": "screwing over the entire class", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For Screwing Over The Entire Class?
It was 7th grade and my school had alot of students who misbehaved, I was not one of those students. I mean that in the least egotistical way possible. There was this one science class that everyone including myself hated. Mainly due to the amount of homework that would be given by the teacher. One day while we are wa...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mum over her not getting me a gift I wanted", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
aita for getting mad at my mum over her not getting me a gift I wanted.
so this happend when I was 13. I just got reminded of it and was curious as to what yall think. i really wanted this adventure time box set for Christmas (it came with a cup and a dvd if I remember correctly) I asked mum for it and she gave the "I'll think about it" response, a few weeks later I spotted her buying i...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from a friend because he looks up to me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for distancing myself from a friend because he looks up to me?
I have been friends with this individual for a couple years now. He was the new guy at my work and I was the first one to approach him. We bonded over similar interests and he quickly became a good friend of mine. As our friendship continued, I began to notice he was copying me quite a bit. He started listening to th...
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{ "description": "making a (decent) divorce joke in front of my friend with recently divorced parents", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making a (decent) divorce joke in front of my friend with recently divorced parents?
I was out bowling with 7 of my close friends the other night and it got to be really late. We were all having a close game going into the tenth frame and I had to go first. After getting a split, I pull out a "Hey, a split! Just like my parents!" Keep in mind that my parents have been divorced for plenty of years by no...
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AITA neighbours sharing a front lawn
So old neighbour who moved and I used to take turns cutting the front lawn. It takes about 30-45 minutes to do and it was a pretty good system (we'd also both go in on moss control and fertilizer which for the moss was more time consuming). He moved and I've been doing the whole thing for the past two years. I left it...
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{ "description": "not letting my boyfriend borrow my car", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my boyfriend borrow my car?
I have a car that I have purchased new and am paying off. On the weekdays, I usually don’t drive as I’ve been taking Ubers, the bus, or my bike to work. My boyfriend who I live with is, per my judgement, not good with cars. A few years ago, while he was carless, I let him borrow my car while I was at work and he got in...
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{ "description": "telling small lies to my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling small lies to my girlfriend?
Let me start by saying I don't ever lie to her about important stuff. I sometimes tell her small lies to lower her expectations. For example I told her I probably don't want to move in with her soon, while I might want to, but if I tell her and I change my mind she'd be disappointed. Same with that I don't really want...
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{ "description": "telling my hs quarterback not to slap my ass during practice", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my hs quarterback not to slap my ass during practice?
Im on my schools football team, I play center. I started football in my junior year and have been doing well at it as a senior. However since i haven't been playing long in comparison to the other guys I maybe dont know the football culture well? The quarterback constantly smacks everyones asses after a play. Especial...
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{ "description": "not liking my 5 year old niece", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not liking my 5 year old niece?
I'm gonna put this in a few sections: History, My Niece, My Parents, My Actions and My Reasons. *HISTORY*: My oldest brother is mentally disabled, he has all the working to make him a typical super villain. Charm, Smarts, Manipulation, Anger, Drug Abuse, Schizophrenia, Sociopathic, and Murderous Tendencies. He was th...
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{ "description": "tattling on my Ex to his family", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I tattled on my Ex to his family.
My Ex has been lying about the reason we got divorced. It ticks me off because I was the blind sided one. He was the bad guy in our situation. Considerations: If I tell his family, he may become a bit ostracized by some of them. If it gets out, he will be ostracized by the community and it may become difficult for hi...
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{ "description": "calling [friend] out in public over event management and ignoring my request", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling [friend] out in public over event management and ignoring my request?
I'm in charge organizing a biweekly board game night for our department. My \[friend\] wanted to organize a video/board game event, and the time slot I have is super convenient for this sort of thing. This \[friend\] reached out to me asking to combine the two events at some point in the future to both help get the wo...
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AITA when my ex-girlfriend says it's my fault that she's leaving her job?
Here's the background. I (26M) used to date at coworker on a different shift (26F) for around 6 months before she broke up with me. Yes I'm aware that you should never date your coworkers but I really liked her and at the time she liked me so we gave it a shot. When it didn't work out, I still had strong feelings for h...
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{ "description": "complaining about my workload", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for complaining about my workload?
So this is prompted from a *long* discussion I had with someone about workload. Background: Degrees in the UK are different to those in other countries in that we get a fair amount of money from our Goverment so we don't have to pay for everything in a similar way to students in the US. Because of this, students wit...
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{ "description": "abandoning a church", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA For Abandoning a Church
To clarify before I begin; I am an atheist, and I do not agree with most of the things that go on in a church, but that's besides the point. ​ Now to break it down; My grandfather is a Pastor, and I use to live with him. I'm an IT Specialist, so I (out of respect and nothing else) Have been their sound gu...
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{ "description": "being upset at my mom for disregarding my mental health", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my mom for disregarding my mental health?
My mom was recently diagnosed with MS. Ever since, she can't stop talking about it every single day. I have been telling her about my depression and suicidal thoughts since I was a young teen. I am 16 now. Whenever I bring it up, she gets really angry at me and says how she has it worse than I do therefore it doesn't ...
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{ "description": "not sharing my food", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not sharing my food?
Rewind one day: my mom asks me to do some meal prep so she doesn't have to cook for me (being vegan makes it a little complicated). Seeing this as a reasonable deal I agree to make my dinners for the next week. Fast forward to today: I spend 4 hours cooking Kroppkakor. It was quite difficult but I was very proud of m...
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{ "description": "being angry at my brother for not trying my beloved hobby", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for being angry at my brother for not trying my beloved hobby?
So I'm hugely into D&D right now. I want to play so badly, but I want to play with my one-year-younger brother. He's my best friend and I want to include him. We're both gamers, so I'm positive he'd love it. He's antisocial, so he's sure he'll hate it (even though we'd be playing with people we both know). He absol...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend for somebody she hates", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I left my girlfriend for somebody she hates?
My girlfriend is gorgeous and wonderful but some of the things she does really bother me. We have been dating for almost two years and there have been some details that have me rethinking. When around her friends, she’s a totally different person, she’s loud and abrasive and very annoying to listen to, which is such a ...
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AITA my mom's friend invited us for a New Years Eve dinner and I rejected
So my mom's friend invited us for a new years Eve dinner and I rejected because I just didn't want to take in more calories. I've been eating badly since Christmas and that's fine (I lost 73 pounds this year and now weigh 137) I plan to go back to normal after New year's day. I didn't plan on going to any restaurants...
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{ "description": "wanting my mother-in-law to plan events better", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my mother-in-law to plan events better?
My husband's mom has a history of trying to get the family (us, his brother and sister, and their spouses) together on less than a day's notice (context: we all live near to each other). I think this is pushing the bounds of reasonability--we are adults with lives. Additionally my husband and I are simply introverted a...
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{ "description": "throwing stones", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for throwing stones
Earlier today I was out on a cold walk with my wife in the countryside. The lake had frozen over, and I was absentmindedly throwing stones into it to make that weird sound that lakes make when you throw stones on them when frozen. A guy pulls up in his van, rolls down his window, and the following conversation happens:...
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{ "description": "'ruining' a project because Koreans find it offensive", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ‘ruining’ a project because Koreans find it offensive.
Im korean and on instagram i noticed a playing-card design including the old Japanese flag that was used during WW2. (the one with the red circle in the middle with red and white stripes around) That particular flag has to do with Japan’s wrong doings in the past and Koreans are very easily offended by that because Kor...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time with my family", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time with my family?
I am a 15 year old female with two parents who are still together and a 20 year old sister. I remember being younger and always wanting to spend time with my family and sister, and them always pushing me to the side because they were busy or just didn’t want an annoying little kid around. Now that I am older, all they ...
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{ "description": "being upset that I constantly get pulled for 'random' drug tests", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that I constantly get pulled for ‘random’ drug tests?
Every two months they do random drug tests for my part of the company. I’ve been here for over two years and have been drug tested at least 10 times. I don’t do anything. I don’t smoke weed, drink regularly, pills, etc. I have three theories. My first theory is that they think I’m on drugs because I am kind of a sk...
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{ "description": "wanting to Travel", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For wanting to Travel?
Stay with me now. I \[29 F\] have a job that is remote and allows me the flexibility to travel and the company that I hold my job with is very encouraging towards us to travel everywhere - and additionally, the people that work with me are very open to going and have the income to do so. I was never really given th...
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{ "description": "asking my mother to un-invite my abusive ex step-dad for christmas dinner", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my mother to un-invite my abusive ex step-dad for christmas dinner?
So my mother invited my abusive ex step-dad over for Christmas dinner, as kids he used to abuse me, my brother, and my mother both verbally and physically. He was an extreme alcoholic and my mother ended up leaving him after it went a little too far. (Chased us out of the house while we carried all of our belongings in...
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{ "description": "watching tv while I sleep", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for watching tv while I sleep?
A little background, I've grown up my entire life since I was a baby watching tv to fall asleep and because of that I absolutely cannot sleep without a tv on. I've tried headphones, radio, white noise machines etc... and nothing works quite like the tv does for me. Fast forward, im on a business trip out of state and...
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{ "description": "calling a girl out in front of the whole class for bleeding through her white pants", "pronormative_score": 41, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for calling a girl out in front of the whole class for bleeding through her white pants?
So it was freshman year and I was constantly roasted by the same girl in my math class. If I spilled something on myself at lunch or had a hole in a pair of pants, I and the rest of the class would hear about it. This went on for a long time and seemed that she took a liking to singling me out in front of the class for...
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{ "description": "getting hr involved because I think my new management is trash", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I get HR involved because I think my new management is trash?
This is a repost because some cool people helped me realize I needed an edit/reformat to fit this sub better. Long read—sorry! I work in retail in a very high volume fancy tourist mall/casino hybrid. I’ve been working there since Black Friday of last year and generally loved working there. Fast forward to new year an...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my family until I'm older", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to visit my family until I'm older?
This happened like about a month ago but it still bothers me because of how brought up my family is in my daily life. So the whole situation goes that last summer when I was visiting my family in Kansas, I stay with my cousins almost everynight for about a week (5 boys). I'm a female teen but I never felt uncomfortable...
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{ "description": "leaving Thanksgiving dinner and refusing to show up to my family Christmas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For leaving Thanksgiving dinner and refusing to show up to my family Christmas?
So I've never had that great of a relationship with my mother. Ha! Reason being she is just a mean and unpleasant person when it comes to organizing and attending special events. She got pissed and left my paternal grandfathers funeral because my brother didn't bring the boots for his kids that she had bought them. ...
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{ "description": "not volunteering to be the designated driver", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for Not Volunteering To be The Designated Driver?
On mobile so apologies for all that. Anyways I guess I should just jump into the story. I have two roommates who we’ll call M and L. We’re all in our early 20s. A few nights ago we were all hanging out and contemplating whether or not we wanted to go to a party, I should note that L had been pregaming before we’d eve...
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{ "description": "insisting my missing friend was \"obviously fine and busy\" to common friends when she was actually in a very very bad condition", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for insisting my missing friend was "obviously fine and busy" to common friends when she was actually in a very very bad condition
I'm a final year university student working part time and busy for most of my day like everyone else. Three weeks ago my friend, who lives around several hours away from the city we study in, went home to see her family. She was supposed to go for a week, but the next week she was nowhere to be found and did not go to ...
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AITA first this prank I pulled?
My first time here so sorry if this breaks any rules or anything. I played a prank on my friend yesterday. She applied for her first job at a local ski place. I thought it would be funny as a prank to text her, from a different number obviously, as someone from the ski lodge saying she got the job. They're not telling ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend's boyfriend she grinded with other guys on Spring Break", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I tell my friend’s boyfriend she grinded with other guys on Spring Break?
I went on Spring Break with my girlfriend’s friends this past week and we went out at night a few times. One of the friends has a boyfriend that went somewhere else for the week. When we were at a bar one night, the friend got pretty tipsy and when we were on the dance floor, I saw her grind with 5+ guys. She wasn’t ha...
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{ "description": "making a comment to someone who did not do their job", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making a comment to someone who did not do their job
It was definitely an asshole comment. More looking if my actions were justified. So I was at Costco. I was checking out with approximately ten items in my cart. Nothing was exceptionally large but there was more than a handful. I pay for all of my things and I noticed that the person at the end of the checkout line w...
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{ "description": "asking for new brushes", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for new brushes
Background: I paint miniatures 40k aos etc... as a hobby and my girlfriend has recently showed interest in painting with me so I let her borrow some of my good brushes and explained how to clean them after use. Today: Ive sat down to paint today to find that the brushes I let her borrow are ruined, caked in dried pain...
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{ "description": "forcing my way through a metro turnstile", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forcing my way through a metro turnstile?
I live in Los Angeles and ride my bike to the metro every day for my commute. To enter the platform area, there are 8 functioning turnstiles. All of them are the standard kind with the 3 or so metal arms that rotate as you push through them and one of them is a double wide that has doors that fold open so that bicycl...
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{ "description": "asking my dad to stop eating so loudly", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked my dad to stop eating so loudly?
I'm 24 and have lived with my parents for basically my whole life. I've graduated from college now and am looking for a full-time job so I can move out. My relationship with my parents is pretty good most of the time, but it's really the little, dumb things like this that make me wish I could move out right this second...
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{ "description": "not wanting my bf to be friends with an old partner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my bf to be friends with an old partner
So basically my partner and I have been dating for about 9 months now and I met an old college friend of his 2 months into dating. I want to clarify that I don’t care if he has female friends. If I cared, that would be toxic and unhealthy. She was not my cup of tea, but I didn’t care because she’s not my friend. They...
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{ "description": "going to see a movie with my brother instead of my husband", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for going to see a movie with my brother instead of my husband?
My husband and I go to see a movie every tuesday because of $5 movie days at a local theater. Last week we saw the trailer for the movie "Us" and automatically we thought, hey we should see that! Well today my little brother invited me to go watch a movie with him his treat, tomorrow, and he wanted to see the movie u...
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{ "description": "mocking a Girl with a height requirement", "pronormative_score": 105, "contranormative_score": 328 }
AITA for mocking a Girl with a height requirement?
Backstory, Im 19, 6ft1 and I use tinder frequently. I also used to be really short, like up until 17 I was sub 5ft7 and got rejected because of my height more than once. Anyway, I matched with this girl Sandy on Tinder and we started talking a bit. A few messages in she asked me how tall I was, and I pretty much instan...
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{ "description": "telling my baby's father his name ideas are idiotic", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I told my baby's father his name ideas are idiotic
I'm pregnant, me and my boyfriend have been thinking of baby names. I gave him this whole speech because we broke up and we were on a break while I found out. I said that I really want him to be apart of the baby's life and all of this. We already decided he could choose the name while I choose the middle name. Then, h...
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{ "description": "recoiling from my sister", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for recoiling from my sister?
This happened a month ago. I'm in my twenties, she's in her thirties. I hate being touched, even if it's something as innocent as getting a hug from a friend. I just usually deal with it politely. Like, I would smile and give a light hug back. My sister is cuddly. A week prior to the event, we went out. She kept cla...
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{ "description": "telling an unprepared kid to screw off on exam day", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling an unprepared kid to screw off on exam day?
tl;dr so it, today, was exam day. even worse, my first ever exam, so that was interesting, but not too hard. i, the day before, was really nervous about the chance that my stuff breaks, so i buy a bit of stuff beforehand. i enter the exam room, nervous, but not too worried. the exam gets handed out (15 pages, one sid...
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{ "description": "refusing to do a survey on the credit card reader while paying with cash at the Office Max", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to do a survey on the credit card reader while paying with cash at the Office Max?
I was making a CASH purchase because I am doing a twenty-one day "cash only" challenge that I heard can save me money of I only buy with cash. So... I need an SD card. Small one. I happen to decide to get the 32GB card because it only cost two more dollars than the 16GB card. I was at OFFICE MAX. Purchase was under $20...
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{ "description": "informing clients about my work resignation", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for informing clients about my work resignation.
Hello, A small background: I was working as a customer support in a company for 2 years. Reached dead end, no more raise and advancement possibilities seemed to be available so I was looking for a while to move forward and change the job. I found a new one with better conditions, they hired me on the spot (8 years o...
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{ "description": "not paying for my friend's food", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not paying for my friend's food?
A bit of background on my friend group: I'm a student (med proper), my two friends are unemployed, and one friend is employed. In our group of friends, we have an unspoken circular favor and debt thing going. For example, we all go out for the day, I'll pay for everyone's lunch, another friend will pay for everyone's d...
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{ "description": "letting my housemates dog sleep on my bed when shes supposed to sleep with her actual owner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my housemates dog sleep on my bed when shes supposed to sleep with her actual owner?
My housemates dog is an 11 month old boxer who has pretty reasonable levels of anxiety, shes not a dangerous nervous, shes just very visibly uncomfortable in certain situations. She doesnt like alcohol, in fact after my other housemates 21st, the dog wouldnt even step foot on the verandah to go outside to pee until af...
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{ "description": "saying \"chocolate nuts\" in a college class", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying “chocolate nuts” in a college class?
Today, in my kinesiology class, the professor is talking about how companies are required to put any of the top 8 allergens on food labels if their food contains any. She then asked the class if they can list any of them. At this moment, I’m recalling a friend from high school who was deathly allergic to nuts and choco...
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{ "description": "trying to get someone unblocked from a somewhat small youtuber", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for trying to get someone unblocked from a somewhat small youtuber?
So I follow a somewhat small youtuber on twitter (They have about 100 subscribers) and one day I get a random message from someone who also follows them (Let's call them Sherry). Sherry says she got randomly blocked by the youtuber (Which I will refer to as Daniel) on all platforms and wants me to to talk to him so he ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend his mixtape is trash", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friend his mixtape is trash?
I’ve known this guy since I was in elementary and sent me a link asking me what I thought about his song. I wouldn’t want someone to lie to me when I ask for their opinion on something but I feel like he took the criticism the wrong way.
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{ "description": "wanting to be the one who decides whos invited to my sons christening", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to be the one who decides whos invited to my sons christening?
I dont see the point in the invites because everyone thats coming Ive already told the date, time and place. I told her this and she said she’ll order 150 anyways, i explained the place the christening is being held only holds 120 and she still insisted on ordering 150, i said whatever and asked her to write a list of ...
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{ "description": "asking boyfriend to keep his fluids (and gasses) to himself", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking boyfriend to keep his fluids (and gasses) to himself?
My boyfriend has no shame when it comes to anything to do with bodily functions. Farting, peeing, picking his nose etc. At first, it was nice! It was kind of comforting I didn’t have to worry about grossing him out. He has expressed he’s totally ok with period sex for example, which I’m not comfortable with but I thou...
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AITA Visible self harm
So I was in the changing room of my gym today and I stripped down to my underwear so that I could go shower. Now I have some fresh self harm scars/cuts on the tops of my thighs, pretty clear they're from the past couple of weeks. I did not really think about it until a middle aged (maybe in her 50s) woman decided to ca...
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{ "description": "defending myself", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For defending myself?
[What happened](http://u.cubeupload.com/ellenate/redditscreenshot.jpg) ​ I get it, the artist who can't take criticism has become so rampant on the internet it's a cliche, but it's getting to the point where you can't question anyone. Or be faced with the label of asshole... ​ It may not mean ...
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{ "description": "never tipping", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 51 }
AITA for never tipping?
I dont tip ever. Doesn't matter where i eat or how good the service is. I dont think its my job to pay for an employees salary when that responsibility should be on the employer. I think tipping as a whole is extremely stupid and its extremely fucked up how society thinks its ok to have people work full time and get wa...
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{ "description": "not giving my colleague a lift to subway", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving my colleague a lift to subway?
A colleague of mine, who I have given many a lift to, doesn't drive. She came into work today after being off yesterday with a sickness bug. She still looks mega ill and says she feels it but had too much to do to take another sick day. She's just asked me to give her a lift to subway (I am going that way) however I've...
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{ "description": "expecting a specific gift", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting a specific gift?
Long story short - my gf an I exchanged gifts for Christmas. I gave her a doll house that I personally took ~36 hours to build from scratch. She gave me a scarf. She told me the actual gift she got me (google chromecast) didn't arrive yet, so she bought me a scarf as a last-minute gift, telling me she'll give me the "...
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{ "description": "cussing out my in-laws for going through my luggage", "pronormative_score": 655, "contranormative_score": 52 }
AITA for cussing out my in-laws for going through my luggage?
I recently got engaged and took some time off to visit our parents and start planning. First stop was mine and then his. I suffer from chronic pain and take a variety of meds which cause a decrease in appetite and nausea. I haven’t disclosed my illness to my in-laws, but a few nights ago I could hear her complaining a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone who won't pronounce my name correctly", "pronormative_score": 153, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone who won't pronounce my name correctly?
I met a girl through a volunteer group and lately we've been becoming closer friends. I also introduced her husband to my fiance and they became fast friends as well, so we've been hanging out a lot lately, going out to brunch, etc. My first name is Sara. I pronounce it like most people do, with the first syllable rh...
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{ "description": "freaking out after my same-sex friend kissed me in public", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for freaking out after my same-sex friend kissed me in public?
I'm gay and have no intention of ever coming out. I have a fake boyfriend who's also gay. I've had this friend since I was 14 and basically been in love with her since I was 16. I'm almost 20 now. I always knew she was gay too even though she never told me. Luckily, nobody ever suspected we were gay because we don't "...
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{ "description": "trying to change my grade", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for trying to change my grade?
I finished a writing class around 2 weeks ago where I had passed every assignment with near perfect scores, so I was caught way off guard when my final essay score came out to be a failing grade. I emailed my teacher to see if we could meet up and talk about it, and she explained that she was off-campus until the end o...
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{ "description": "not reporting this", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not reporting this?
Ok, so this happened about 25 years ago, but it's been kinda eating at me ever since. My friend Kevin was a bit of a dick to women (yeah, I didn't choose great friends at the time). He was never abusive and to my knowledge has never assaulted anyone. However, he was known to be *very* aggressive when it came to s...
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{ "description": "leaving my roommates clothes on the bathroom floor", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my roommates clothes on the bathroom floor
My roommate takes days to get his clothes out of the washer and dryer. He will leave his clothes in the dryer and just pick out what he needs each day until I take it out and put it on the bench (which is quite often dusty due to the dryer lint) and he will leave his clothes in the washing machine for days at a time wi...
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{ "description": "sending a long, hate rant to someone who used me and friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sending a long, hate rant to someone who used me and friends?
About 10 minutes go, I sent an ex-friend a decent length DM over Reddit that was very much hateful. This was because he used me and friends as his own ego charger and sent us all a doc titled, "I Used You All" which was him coming out and saying he used us all for his ego, he then blocked and unfriended my best friend,...
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{ "description": "wanting to focus on work while at work", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to focus on work while at work?
Title pretty much explains it, but am I the asshole for just wanting to just focus on work and not deal with personal stuff until my lunch break or after I get off? My boyfriend and I aren't necessarily on the same page when it comes to this. He thinks I should always put him first, like he does for me, however I feel ...
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{ "description": "making a police report on a seller", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I make a police report on a seller?
In my country we have this platform called Carousell, which is basically a more refined version of Craigslist. I bought a shirt there, and the seller told me to expect to receive it in 2-3 weeks due to shipping. I was fine with it. It’s been more than 3 months since then, and I’ve asked them personally for a refund....
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{ "description": "wanting my roommates to ask if they can use my parking spot", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my roommates to ask if they can use my parking spot?
TLDR at the bottom Ok, some background. I live in a major city and parking is a pain &/or expensive, with residential parking and no guest permits. The nearest public lot is pretty far away. When I first moved in, my roommate (1 of 3 roommates, the others don’t have cars) and I both had a car, and we rented “tande...
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AITA for distancing myself from my FWB because of his "fake" relationship and telling our friends?
The title is a bit misleading, since we're (best) friends first and lovers second, but I wanted to give as much information as possible. Before Tom met me, he was really close friends with a girl named Mary. Mary had obvious feelings for him, and at the time he thought he might also feel the same way about her, but the...
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{ "description": "deleting songs of the group spotify playlist", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for deleting songs of the group spotify playlist.
So later this week I'll be having a party and it's just a get drunk get together. I created a Spotify playlist and told everybody that was going to the party if they wanted to add 10 songs each to the playlist we're gonna have a decent amount of songs that everybody likes. I added that I would like nobody to be dick...
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{ "description": "contracting my ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Contracting My Ex
My ex-girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about 2 years ago she said that she needed to find herself and went radio silent, I was pretty broken up about it, I thought I had gotten over her however recently she had been brought up a lot everytime I was out I kept thinking about her. So I decided to try and get back ...
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{ "description": "cutting off toxic siblings", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off toxic siblings.
I come from a large Catholic family and am regularly degraded by them for my sexuality. I do have 3 other brother who are gay and that's about all I can deal with in my family anymore. At Christmas I was sitting with a couple of my nieces when one of them pushes me and says "that's cause you're gay". I didn't say anyth...
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{ "description": "wanting the women who is interested in dating me to go the gym", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for wanting the women who is interested in dating me to go the gym?
A few years back i met a really wonderful woman who quickly became a good friend. From the beginning i could tell she was into me but i was dating someone else at the time, and even though we were in an open relationship i wasnt really interested in anyone else so I made it clear i wanted to be friends. My ex broke up ...
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{ "description": "texting my friend who I came to a carnival with that I was going to get food at another stand rather than telling her in person", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for texting my friend who I came to a carnival with that I was going to get food at another stand rather than telling her in person?
This happened in Spain. I am an American who was driven to a carnival with another American friend by a Spanish friend of mine. I had gone out previously many times with just the Spanish friend, she was adventurous and fun and we would have tapas and go to concerts or just commiserate about our coworkers together. All ...
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{ "description": "wanting my roomate to go to bed earlier", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting my roomate to go to bed earlier?
This is more of a was I the asshole. I started freshman year with a new roommate and quickly realized that our sleep schedules aren't compatible. I liked to get all my work done and go to sleep from 12-1(2 ish at the latest). She liked to go to bed from 3-5 am ish. I woke up around 9:15 am except for 1 day on thursdays...
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{ "description": "asking for help with the house", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for help with the house?
Context: - I have been married to my wife for 8 years. - We have three children between the ages of 4 and 9. - My wife used to be in a gay relationship. - My wife has an auto-immune disease which can leave her bed-ridden for extended periods. - We each have our own businesses - I work from home - Her place of work is ...
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{ "description": "euthanizing a dying, injured dog by strangling it", "pronormative_score": 107, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA For euthanizing a dying, injured dog by strangling it?
On a double date. My girlfriend, her friend, and the friends date are in the other guys car. He runs over a stray border collie mix. This dog is mangled. Broken legs with bones sticking out, eviserated stomach. It was not gonna survive. You could see its ribcage. A few bystanders approach, and a crowd appears because...
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{ "description": "squandering my parents' college money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for squandering my parents’ college money
It sounds worse in the title than it probably is. Im 18. So I’m from a well-off family. Not exactly rolling in cash but we don’t ever have to worry about money and that’s all thanks to my dad who works his ass off. For the longest time I’ve never felt like a success, and that was due to me being a mediocre student si...
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{ "description": "not wanting to dog sit", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to dog sit
Hubby and I have two dogs of our own. A couple 'friend' has a dog of a similar age. We used to be tighter but over the last year or so we went our own ways except for a dinner or two. The ice of the couple is about 5 months pregnant and husband is gone for work for a month. We offered to take their pup sometimes becau...
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AITA: Mad at husband for messing up and not apologizing.
My husband and I have been arguing a lot. One of the things he says I do is I don't let things go, and keep whining. One of the things I say he does is not apologize or take responsibility for messing up. I work at home and my husband doesn't work far away, except when he travels which is 65% of the year. I told him t...
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{ "description": "getting my cats declawed", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 68 }
WIBTA if i got my cats declawed?
title says it. all my childhood i’ve had cats and my parents chose to declaw them as kittens. now that i’m old enough to have my own cats, should i get them declawed? everyone acts shocked when i tell them this saying how cruel it is, but my cats have always seemed fine. they’re indoor cats and don’t need to defend the...
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{ "description": "shouting at my mother because of her mess", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for shouting at my mother because of her mess?
We live in a small house it ain't the worst thing in the world but it's still not too great. For months I've been telling my mom to clean her cloth mess couches, sofas and chairs are covered in pants, shirts, jackets. Sometimes I say fuck it and clean them myself but it takes one maximum two days for her to ruin everyt...
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{ "description": "deciding to stop making an effort to hangout with friends and family", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA to decide to stop making an effort to hangout with friends and family?
I’ll try to keep this short, I am the one in the family / group of friends who ALWAYS is the one driving to their location, reaching out, trying to make plans to see each other etc. I’ve been like this for years, lately I’ve noticed my friends and family don’t even seem to care to make an effort, some of my friends won...
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{ "description": "refusing when my mom suddenly tried to teach me to drive", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing when my mom suddenly tried to teach me to drive?
I'm young, only 15 years old. I've yet to start professional drivers ed. This happened very recently. On our way home tonight, my mom pulled into the (empty) parking lot of my high school and told me to get into the driver's seat. I was confused, but did so. She started pointing out all the different parts of the car...
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{ "description": "not wanting to reconcile with an old friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to reconcile with an old friend
About 5 or 4 years ago I entered a dark age in my life where a lot of bad things happened, like my parents divorce, my grandps dying, getting severe depression and a fuck ton of bullying, most of it physical. I never had a lot of friends I could rely on, except X, I met him about 12 years ago and we were close friends,...
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{ "description": "not putting a group members name on a group project/presentation which resulted in him getting an 0 for the project", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not putting a group members name on a group project/presentation which resulted in him getting an 0 for the project?
In my history class, we had a group project about immigration policies. Every group had four people and we were supposed to research about ours and then proceed to present it to our other classmates for a class debate. One student, who we will call Andy, did not want to participate. He is one of the laziest people I k...
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{ "description": "forgetting to defrost shrimp and being considered \"on spectrum\" because of it", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forgetting to defrost shrimp and being considered “on spectrum” because of it?
Hey, I’m back. Last time I posted here was about my girlfriend wanting a face tattoo. So here I am with another AITA post to avoid blowing my brains out from frustration. My girlfriend has class 4 days a week, I have class two days a week. My week is significantly easier to manage then hers, and I do my best to accom...
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{ "description": "sleeping on the couch when I have to get up at 4am", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sleeping on the couch when I have to get up at 4am?
Wife has been guilt tripping me for the last two weeks because I’ve been sleeping on the couch during the work week. I love her, but she snores like a bear and frequently tosses and turns in her sleep. I’m a light sleeper and normally I just deal, but the last two weeks I’ve been on early mornings and have to be up a...
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{ "description": "going home", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going home?
I'm 20F, for reference. My great-grandmother lives with my grandmother, and has, ever since she had a heart attack like ten years ago. My great-grandmother was recently diagnosed with dementia, and now needs a lot more care than she used to. As my grandmother is retired/works from home, she is home most of the time a...
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{ "description": "giving advice", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving advice?
My friend from high school graduated with a BA in English 7 years ago. She hasn't had a job yet but I've heard her complain on facebook about how no one will hire her since she lacks experience. I've tried to help her out. I sent her resume to my office, connected her to friends who do copywriting and grading papers, ...
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{ "description": "not paying WiFi at a house I moved out of", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not paying WiFi at a house I moved out of?
I recently moved out of a house with two roommates to start a new job in a new city. I left before our lease was up, and verbally agreed to still pay rent and (perhaps stupidly) utilities until I found a subletter. That hasn’t happened and I’ve been paying for both. Recently, one of the roommates has asked me to also...
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{ "description": "telling a woman to back off at a nail salon", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling a woman to back off at a nail salon?
Once a month I have a standing appointment for a mani/pedi. It is my treat to myself. I work a demanding job and I use it to relax. Yesterday during my appointment a woman came into the salon. She was loud and kept coming over to the woman doing my pedicure and asking questions and just generally being annoying. Ea...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my girlfriend for not knowing how many minutes are in an hour", "pronormative_score": 85, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for getting upset with my girlfriend(24) for not knowing how many minutes are in an hour?
She wanted help with her astronomy homework and asked if I knew the conversion method for time. Days to hours, hours to minutes, etc. To help her understand I asked her how many minutes were in an hour, she smiled and said she didn't know. I gave her a confused look and asked if she was serious. I then asked how again ...
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{ "description": "making the decision of getting married and buying my engagement ring without telling or involving my father in any way", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making the decision of getting married and buying my engagement ring without telling or involving my father in any way?
So I (M25) just bought my engagement ring today. I've been searching for it for quite a while but hadn't found the right one. A week ago I finally choose one and decided to go and buy it before the end of the month (they had 20% off until March the 31st, lol). In all the time between starting the search and buying it I...
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{ "description": "skipping out on my family's Christmas party to hang out with a friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I skipped out on my family's Christmas party to hang out with a friend?
So Smash Ultimate is coming out tomorrow, and my friend prepurchased it. After school tomorrow he's gonna have me and a bunch of friends over until 11 or so at night. I've never hung out with my friend outside of school before, so I'm really excited. However, my family's Christmas party is also tomorrow night. I've n...
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