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{ "description": "making my sister cry", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my sister cry?
Note: I don't speak english very well and this gets me worked up somehow, so there may be some faults. Also I don't really know how a TLDR for the story should be worded, so any tip would be nice and as soon as I have one, this will be updated. Backround: I have this weird issue that when I'm stressed or bored (or ...
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{ "description": "letting my dog pee on some guys car tire", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for letting my dog pee on some guys car tire?
walking my dog this morning around 5:30 am after a heavy snowfall and yeah, i'm listening to a podcast and my greyhound quickly lifts his leg on the tire of a big truck, apparently the owner of said truck is the guy shoveling his driveway across the street and he yells at me and says if he sees me around his street aga...
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{ "description": "being involved in my friend becoming homeless", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being involved in my friend becoming homeless?
I work for the government in housing. Part of my job is going over applications for housing subsidies and government housing rentals as well as following up, checking status of applications, outstanding accounts, etc. Along with a slew of other employees, I make decisions whether an applicant can get subsidized housing...
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{ "description": "always calling high schoolers out for PDA's", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
Aita I always call high schoolers out for PDA's (public displays of affection)
I go to a highschool that's pretty ghetto and everyday after school ends, I go on my way to practice. And on my way there I always see 2-3 couples making out, I always kinda call them out for it making them feel akward because that's what they do to other people, I usually do this as a joke thought Am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my husbands paternal father's house ever again", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my husbands paternal father’s house ever again?
My husband and I have been together for 14 years and have 3 children together, ages 8, 2, and 1. This is important info for the rest of my post. When we were planning our wedding (10 years ago), his Father and Stepmom completely ghosted us on arrangements for the wedding. We weren’t demanding anything from them at all...
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{ "description": "reporting my parents to the IRS for evading theri taxes for 8yrs", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA IF I REPORTED MY PARENTS TO THE IRS FOR EVADING THERI TAXES FOR 8yrs?
https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/ajcxnb/usa_al_im_pretty_sure_my_parents_have_been/?st=JRAZ3YS8&sh=bc409706 I posted this in r/legaladvice about a week ago but wanted to post here too because I’m having a moral dilemma. Since this post I’ve talked to my mom in an attempt to work things out but she ju...
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{ "description": "not apologizing my girlfriend for possibly infecting her with mononucleosis", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not apologizing my girlfriend for possibly infecting her with mononucleosis?
As in title, my girlfriend might be infected with mononucleosis (she will test for it tomorrow) and she is currently mad at me at infecting her. I was never diagnosed for mononucleosis, so I am not even sure if I've ever had it and I wasn't sick at all in the last few months. She is convinced that I am responsible for ...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my friend for using my laptop", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset with my friend for using my laptop?
So I was up in a study room and a friend came to join me. We chatted for a bit and I was using my laptop to look over some notes. I mentioned I wanted to go grab coffee and a snack and asked if he wanted something. I closed my laptop’s lid and left to grab something. When I came back, he was on my laptop and when he s...
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{ "description": "being sexually frustrated", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being sexually frustrated?
Okay so I (M21) have been with my girlfriend (20) for a year now. When we first started having sex it was pretty good, better than any sexual experiences I've had before. That lasted a few months, tops. Eventually I started noticing that I am the only one who ever initiates sex (except for one time, which I feel kind ...
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{ "description": "not making my partner use protection", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not making my partner use protection?
My partner is not experienced at all and is very insecure about it. I also think he generally doesn't know how to be safe given his incredibly conservative background. I decided that I was fine not using condoms with him because a) I have an IUD, b) I know I'm clean, and c) I'm his first/only. He kind of blindly went f...
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{ "description": "being impatient", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being impatient
With my bf. Disclosure, we haven't been together all that long in the grand scheme, but if soulmates existed he'd be mine. We both have our issues of course, and he's juggling things I can't ever fully appreciate. He's an amazing guy, but I can't help wanting him to get on with his hang-ups. They're mostly financial ...
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AITA 30th bday
My wife and I have been together for roughly 10 years (dating/marriage). I have told her throughout the course of our relationship I don't really like being the center of attention. We've been to several people's surprise birthday parties. I always express to her later how I would never want one since I would have to f...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be around my grandpa's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to be around my grandpa's girlfriend?
In December of 2017, my maternal grandmother passed away. I was very close to her. My mom was devastated as well, and so was my dad. My parents told me a month later that they were getting a divorce, and despite being in my twenties, this damaged me severely, adding to my depression. About a year ago, my mom disclosed ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I don't like her mediocre fiance? WIBTA if I don't", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I tell my friend I don't like her mediocre fiance? WIBTA if I don't?
A good friend of mine recently got engaged, and my friend group is collectively bummed out about it. They’ve been dating for 2 years, and have been living together for 5 months. I know the time to have said something was a long time ago, but nobody thought it would last. Her fiancé, “Mark,” (30M) isn’t awful but ther...
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{ "description": "snapping at and reporting a medical transport driver for listening to a graphic audiobook with clients in the car", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for snapping at and reporting a medical transport driver for listening to a graphic audiobook with clients in the car?
I should probably start this off by stating that I have PTSD from abuse. Over the years, this has gradually turned into conversion disorder, where my mind dissociates and I go into a non-epileptic convulsive seizure. Because of the seizures, I cannot drive, and so I rely on a non-emergency medical transport service to ...
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{ "description": "declining a rental with 5 kids", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for declining a rental with 5 kids?
So I have a static caravan on a holiday resort in the UK. I don't think the USA has quite the same concept, but to give some idea of value, the van cost me £55,000 and I pay £4,000/year site fees to keep it housed at the resort. To pay these fees, I rent it out in the school holidays at around £600-700 week. &#x20...
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{ "description": "not paying for a first date", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA- for not paying for a first date?
I recently met a girl through an audio engineering school that we both attend. She was smart and cute and totally my type. I invited her over for a party that I was having and she ended up spending the night in my bed with me. We decided that we should go out on a date to get to know each other better, which ended up b...
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AITA a friend of mine that that is a girl wants to be more than just friends
Some backstory: There is a girl that is slightly mentally challenged, a really kind person and i enjoy spending time with her both cause it feels good when i know that she is happy and she has her moments and can be really funny from time to time ​ so last summer did she ask if i wanted to join her and 2 ...
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{ "description": "roasting teen girls in Goodwill", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for roasting teen girls in Goodwill?
I was in Goodwill today and there were these two teen girls, they looked to be 15-17 and probably sisters. So there I was, minding my own business, when these two little girls start LOUDLY talking shit about my appearance. They actually said I looked homeless and questioned why anyone would choose to dress like me. I d...
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{ "description": "hitting someones car in the drive thru on purpose", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA For hitting someones car in the drive thru on purpose?
Ok, so I was trying to make a dash to McDonalds to grab some food before a show came on. I jumped in the car without even putting on my shoes and headed down the street. There is a McDonalds that has a shared parking lot with a grocery store. If you go in from the street side you have to drive around the back of the Mc...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girl to have buccal fat removal surgery", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for not wanting my girl to have buccal fat removal surgery. (Face surgery)
So my girlfriend(24) of 2 years randomly ask me if i was ok with her going to Peru( surgery is cheap) to remove her cheek fat. She’s a very pretty girl ,skinny, with chubby face cheeks. I think it’s cute. She always lingered around with the idea, but I never took her seriously till she ask for my opinion in a very seri...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend about my ex-girlfriends depression", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend about my ex-girlfriends depression?
So my ex was texting me saying she was “curious” about how much I told my girlfriend about our break up. I told her that I told my girlfriend we broke up because of the long distance and her extremely severe depression. She got really pissed off saying it was wrong for me to tell her that (my ex is much healthier now b...
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{ "description": "thinking nobody cares about my engagement", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking nobody cares about my engagement?
For some backstory - me (26F) and my fiancé (24M) have been together for 5 years. We live about 2 hours away from both of our parents, and have lived together for 4 years. My family loves him, and (I assume) his family loves me. My brother (24M) is in the Air Force, stationed on the other sides of the country. Him an...
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{ "description": "not telling a girl my condom fell off during sex, then finishing on her back", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not telling a girl my condom fell off during sex, then finishing on her back?
Obviously nsfw. I am having sex with a woman I have been seeing for maybe four months, and while I am fucking her doggystyle my condom tears and falls off as I'm thrusting. I do not have a spare. I notice, but keep in mind this is near the very end of the sex, she is in middle of her own orgasm and I am on the edge. I ...
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{ "description": "thinking that I'm too old for a babysitter", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for thinking that I'm too old for a babysitter?
I'm twelve, and in seventh grade. My parents are going on a full weekend trip next weekend and they told me they're going to find someone to come both nights when they're gone to "make sure everything's okay." The worst part is it's always a high schooler, as if there's any difference between 12 and like 17. I told t...
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{ "description": "saying sorry you feel that way", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying sorry you feel that way...
Background: my husband has severe depression. I know this. He is not doing well much of the time. 1. I asked him "how are you doing?" over text. 2. He responded that he was "eh" 3. I said "I'm sorry that you are feeling bad" 4. he said "why do you always do that?" He claims that I should have known that he was depres...
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{ "description": "believing a customer's ID was fake mostly because she was awkward", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for believing a customer's ID was fake mostly because she was awkward?
I work at a liquor store and have done so for a year and a half. In the time I've worked here I've never had an ID that I thought was fake. I know fake IDs are an issue for stores and bars, so I pay attention to that, but never really got a suspicious case. Until tonight... It was probably half an hour til clo...
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AITA
Okay well my S/O uncle passed away today, and he wasn’t such a bad guy. AITA for being happy he’s gone... now before I get crucified. Let me explain. His wife is a junky who steals our household items, food, money, and also our elderly mothers pain/anxiety pills, and he enabled her. Also to get them filled again befor...
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{ "description": "breaking up with this guy because of a comment he made at dinner with mutual friends", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I broke up with this guy because of a comment he made at dinner with mutual friends?
Some context - I’ve been dating this guy for about 2 months now, but he has been part of our friend group for about a year. Before we started to date I gave him a list of my yellow/orange/red flags as a human and warned him that it’s probably not a good time in my life to date me. He didn’t care and was okay with the...
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{ "description": "ignoring my mom/disobeying her because she lied to me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my mom/disobeying her because she lied to me?
So a little bit of background. I'm a 15yr girl who at the age of 14 started having depression/anxiety/self harm thoughts. It first started by my step dad (which had been in my life for 2 yrs now) leaving without me knowing why .at the time my mom didn't tell me anything about it, I just got some vague idea by eavesdro...
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{ "description": "rejecting guys with uncircumcised dicks", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for rejecting guys with uncircumcised dicks?
This is a throwaway account because I am a frequent /r/gonewild poster. I get a lot of dick pics in my DMs and I honestly get grossed out by uncircumcised dicks. They look like anteaters! I'm also concerned about hygiene because you can infections easier. There have been times where I literally kick guys out of my roo...
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{ "description": "faking my personality to a girl who seems to really like it", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for faking my personality to a girl who seems to really like it?
I met a girl at a party and I acted like I was not myself. I started to copy behaviors of guys I know that bang lots of chicks (these guys like to say the phrase ''real G'' a lot and act really ''gangsta'', they act really cocky and wear fresh blinged-out clothes). I also copied the way they dress...I wear jackets, ch...
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{ "description": "getting pissed with spontaneous change of plans", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting pissed with spontaneous change of plans?
So I was supposed to have a date tomorrow, but since we haven’t mentioned it yet today I ask around 10pm if we’re still on [for tomorrow]. Replies with a “no idea”, so I ask what’s that about. Tells me about some errands to run and not being sure anymore. So maybe yeah i get passive aggressive and I say so if i hadn’t...
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{ "description": "not standing up for someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Standing Up For Someone?
So... There is this troublemaker in my Graphics Design class who usually gets us extra time after school for his actions. But this time when someone yelled out Fuck, and it wasn't him with me knowing it wasn't him, I did not decide to stand up and tell the teacher. Now... I was in a adjoining room with the teacher when...
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{ "description": "telling a funeral director to frig off at a funeral", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling a funeral director to frig off at a funeral?
Recently, I attended a funeral. One mourner was wearing a backwards baseball hat. We all know him, he has major anxiety, and is beginning to lose hair, so he is never ever without hat, and he checked with the family first who obviously said "please come, wear your hat, you could come naked and we'd still be so happy to...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out on Christmas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out on Christmas
Whilst driving my friends to have dinner, one asked what my plans were for Christmas. I said I'd probably be sleeping as that's the day my plane lands from my one week trip. He asked me if I wanted to come over just for dinner, and i politely declined. He looked dejected and I said we can hang out with everybody some o...
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{ "description": "ordering something cheap at an expensive restaurant", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ordering something cheap at an expensive restaurant?
Pretty straight forward; My girlfriend’s mom and grandma took me and my girlfriend out to a nice restaurant. Dishes were on average $35-$40. I felt guilty about the prices so my girlfriend and I shared a $25 dish. The next day my girlfriend said her mom was kind of offended that I ordered something so cheap. She to...
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{ "description": "talking shit about someone in a private message", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for talking shit about someone in a private message?
I apologise in advance if this sound like your typical whiny teen drama but please bear with me, I just need to come to my sense because I'm on the verge of panicking if I am the asshole in this situation. So apparently I was having a conversation with my long time friend on Instagram about how I've just recently sto...
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{ "description": "being mad at my mom for living Pay Check to pay check", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for Being Mad at My Mom for Living Pay Check to Pay Check
First Reddit post! Let me start out by saying my mom is my rock. She is everything to me. She has been living pay check to pay check for her whole life. I am about to close on my first home and I dont feel very comfortable making this decision knowing my mother is one emergency away from not being able to survive. Sh...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive my boyfriend to the airport", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to drive my boyfriend to the airport?
Disclaimer: sorry if there are any typos/this is rambling....I’m *really* tired. I had to post here before I go to sleep because this is really bothering me. My bf had to be at the airport at 5:15 AM to catch a flight to see his family. He’ll be gone for 4 days. When he originally asked if I could drive him, I to...
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{ "description": "hanging out with an enemy of a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Hanging Out With An Enemy Of A Friend?
Here's a tad bit of context: One of my friends moved down south in 7th grade. 2 years later, we are all now in 9th grade. The enemy I'm referring to is in my gym class every day. I personally am a very timid person when it comes to confrontation; I can be talkative at times, but if I need to assert myself, I often get ...
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{ "description": "not letting my roommate's boyfriend sleep with her in the bunk above me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not letting my roommate’s boyfriend sleep with her in the bunk above me?
Context: I live in a suite of four people with a common room and two doubles with bunk beds. Sexy, I know. One of my suitemates has had an SO stay over (without having sex) in her bunk while her roommate (my other suitemate) slept in the same room. The latter had consented to this arrangement and there were no problems...
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{ "description": "not liking my girlfriends best friend and being uncomfortable when they hangout", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking my girlfriends best friend and being uncomfortable when they hangout?
Now let me start this off by saying I have never once told my gf that i dont want them hanging out or anything of the sort, but i have let her know that im not a fan of her best friend and tend to make a face or a huff if they go out drinking or whatever. The distrust I had with this girl began long before I even met ...
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AITA because my friend complained that I haven't initiated any ladies events with her for the past couple of months?
Hey Everyone: Posting at the request of my cousin (32F) who isn't exactly internet savvy. Just some background info first: My cousin (for this post, let's call her Clementine) is married, has a big family, works full-time and is doing continuing education studies. Thus, with all these commitments, her schedule is ve...
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{ "description": "saying no more substituting for someone who requested", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I said no more substituting for someone who requested?
Asking for my mom... So basically she is a substitute teacher and so one day, she got an assignment at a certain school because the teacher was going through leg surgery but only for a half day. Apparently the teacher liked her because she kept getting called back to sub during surgery stuff. So after 2 more assignm...
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{ "description": "calling the police on my neighbors", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I called the police on my neighbors?
I live in an apartment building and I live on the third floor. I have no idea how much noise travels to other apartments but no one has told me and my roommate that we are loud. In fact, we rarely hear anyone else in the apartment besides in the hallway. About a month ago some new neighbors moved in below us and it s...
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{ "description": "going to the police", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for going to the Police?
This happened a while ago, I was 17 at the time and I'm torn between thinking I was being a major c\*\*t and it just being me trying to help. I'm fully aware and ready to accept if I was in the wrong. ​ ​ We had been together for about a year and a half and it was a typical teen relationship, b...
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{ "description": "wanting my friend to stop being friends with another person", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my friend to stop being friends with another person?
So this chick hates me. Like had her friend come to our senior homecoming just to mess with me and push me all night. Not entirely sure what I did to her, to sum up my best friend Brendan (we were friends before this all happened) started dating this chick and they broke up, other stuff happened, she’s mad I’m still fr...
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{ "description": "wanting to celebrate mine and my sister's birthdays a day after her birthday so I can visit with friends on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to celebrate mine and my sister's birthdays a day after her birthday so I can visit with friends on her birthday?
So a little background, I turned 24 at the end of January and my family didn't offer to get together for dinner or a celebration until a week later when my mother texted me saying that her and my father would like to take me out for a late birthday celebration. This is normally quite difficult because my father and I w...
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{ "description": "not liking someone based on something that's not their fault", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not liking someone based on something that's not their fault?
My friends boyfriend has the exact same laugh as my former stepfather that I despised. As a result my brain is telling me to hate the boyfriend. AITA? if so, what do I do in order to not be?
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{ "description": "wanting to spend a day out with family before my nanas funeral", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to spend a day out with family before my nanas funeral?
My Nana has recently passed away and whilst talking to my cousin who I rarely see she mentioned she would take me to find a suit for the funeral. I have a young family and my mum died when I was 17 so until now I've had a tough time feeling a part of the wider family. I felt almost relieved for having a family member ...
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{ "description": "rejecting him because of his culture/religion", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for rejecting him because of his culture/religion?
So I'm Ethiopian and Muslim and there is this guy in one of my classes that I had became friends with and we would study together sometimes. I think he's attractive on a general level but I wouldn't be with him because we would just be incompatible imo (he's Portuguese and from a Catholic family). The other day he tol...
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{ "description": "telling off old man for cutting the line at a grocery store", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling off old man for cutting the line at a grocery store?
So, I'm 20F and fully abled body so, I have no problem waiting in line and would have happily given my spot (I was at the front of the line) to the elderly man, IF he had asked politely. However, the old man simply cuts in front of me and the 5 other customers behind me. I tell him that he doesn't have to be an ass, a...
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{ "description": "not letting a trans guy join me and my friends' all-girls dance group", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting a trans guy join me and my friends' all-girls dance group?
For background info; I'm a 16 year old cis girl, and I'm the vice-leader of a cosplay dance group one of my friends founded. We're currently 7 members, but we decided we'll be opening applications in January to fill up two spots in the group, so that we'd be a group of 9. Everyone currently in the group is a girl, and ...
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{ "description": "kicking out my best friend and cutting her off", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking out my best friend and cutting her off?
My friend broke up with her possessive and controlling bf and moved in with me. Before she broke up with him, she didn’t talk to me for about a year. She called me crying saying he threw all her shit on the side of the road. And he did. So I drove my naive ass over there and packed it all up and brought her back to our...
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{ "description": "wanting to play my instrument", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting to play my instrument?
Spring of 2018 I was a senior in college. I played bass for the school's marching band, which, for that semester, played for the basketball games. I was new to it because I had a lot of friends in the band who were pushing me to join and since I only had one semester left, I said why not? Because I played bass guitar,...
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{ "description": "driving the speed limit", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for driving the speed limit??
Recent traffic posts have me curious about something. Background: every other weekend I drive a total of about 3 hours to pick up my son. It's a 2 lane highway, speed limit is 65 until you get to a town (there are 2, the one I come from and the one I'm going to). This is not a busy highway, it's a straight, boring dese...
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{ "description": "telling a friend about a secret his girlfriend was keeping from him", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a friend about a secret his girlfriend was keeping from him?
For starters this is my first post, so I'm not familiar with formatting. So a little while back a friend of mine, we'll call C set me up with a girl from his second job. She will be B. Shortly after C started seeing another girl from same workplace called S. C and S aren't suppose to be together because S is a manag...
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{ "description": "buying a game on a different platform than my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for buying a game on a different platform than my boyfriend?
Not super familiar with this sub, using a throwaway, and on mobile, so forgive what you can. This sounds petty, right? Well this could destroy my relationship. My boyfriend and I had discussed buying a video game together when it was first announced, but as time has progressed it has gained a lot of negative publicit...
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AITA for the way I took my cheating husband’s jokes?
Recently found out that my husband has been cheating on me and more and that essentially our whole marriage was a lie. He was diagnosed with some mental health issues and is remorseful. However he is barely capable of functioning without his various addictions to numb him. He liked the attention and validation he go...
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AITA for my actions around my roomates when I am sick
I will try to keep this brief and objective as to not sound biased about myself. For the last 5 days I have been sick with a bad head cold with the real symptoms coming out the last 2 days. One of my roommates (I live with 3 others) has interviews this week and has repeatedly said "just don't get me sick" when the subj...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friends for making fun of me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my friends for making fun of me
So here's the story, about a year ago, I reconnected and rekindled friendships with a group of friends who I have previously been assholes to. A few years ago, I was a prick towards them and they made fun of me during the period for being a prick. I admit I did deserve it as a was a major asshole to them back then. Whe...
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{ "description": "going to my boss because I suspect my co-worker isn't showing up for work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I went to my boss because I suspect my co-worker isn’t showing up for work?
There are only a few people who work in my position. It’s a pretty “low on the totem pole” job, but it requires us to be at work early in the morning - there is a part of our job that literally cannot be sufficiently completed unless you’re there at a certain time. My co-workers and I rotate shifts between a few locat...
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{ "description": "not feeling anything, when my sister falls into a coma", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not feeling anything, when my sister falls into a coma
To explain this I have to elaborate: shortly after I was born my mother died, so my uncle and his wife adopted me. So they became my parents and my two cousins became my sisters( let's call them B and C). It was all good until they got a divorce and my "mom" took C. whith her. So I and B stayed with my dad. All this ha...
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{ "description": "making a girl cry when roasting each other? Pt. 2: then accidentally punching her in the face", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for making a girl cry when roasting each other? Pt. 2: Then accidentally punching her in the face?
So it was first period in school and we had met a few days ago. I was new to the school and didn't know many people, but she was nice to me and pretty funny. We roasted each other all the time. I would say things like when she sat on her boyfriends' lap (keep in mind she is 5'5" and he is 6'3") it looked like a kid on ...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from my best friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For distancing myself from my best friend?
Sparing the details, I suffer from some "issues" per-say, one being serious trust issues. Reason is still unknown really. Something tied with depression. Long story short, my best friend and I have a good relationship and they know everything about me and what I'm struggling with. Even through all of this, I still fee...
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{ "description": "making my friend take a contraceptive", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for making my friend take a contraceptive?
On an alt here So, me and this girl have been hanging out all summer. We started just being friends, then her boyfriend broke up with her because he didn’t trust her. We quickly became friends with benefits. We used to have sex about 3-4 times a week. I was always adamant when I told her that I didn’t want a relati...
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{ "description": "going on a cruise", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for going on a cruise?
Years before I was born my mom had an extremely traumatic experience on a cruise ship. I can’t go too into detail to protect her privacy, but I’ll try to tell it as clearly as I can. She went into labor ~3 months early and was declined medical attention. She gave birth as the on board doctor ate his sandwich and told...
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{ "description": "wanting to visit my hometown over the holidays", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to visit my hometown over the holidays?
My fiance and I are spending the entire Christmas week with her extended family about a 3 hour drive from where we live. I'm from interstate and suggested I visit my friends and family back home for one night when we get back from being away, then come back to where we live so we can spend NYE together. A lot of people...
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{ "description": "not letting a autistic kid play my switch", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not letting a autistic kid play my switch?
So I usually play me switch at lunch and lately this autistic kid started to play with me, and he gets to play everyday. So today I don’t let him play and then he gets mad, and starts asking me, Anon we can’t I play?, Anon are you mad at me?. So I just ignore him and eventually he throws a fit because I won’t let him ...
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ackyl1
{ "description": "finding joy in watching negative things happen the people who treated me badly in the past", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finding joy in watching negative things happen the people who treated me badly in the past?
So I know what Schadenfreude is and that it’s common reaction in people, but does it make me an asshole? Especially when it happens to people who treated me badly/bullied me in the past? Just a few examples: • Ex boyfriend getting a divorce • The stuck up bitch who was always mean to me and actively spread rumors a...
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{ "description": "not going to my brother's wedding", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not going to my brother's wedding?
My brother and I used to be really close growing up. All his life he's suffered with various mental health issues (mostly depression) and I've tried to be there for him. About 10 years ago he got divorced, and it was a bad time in his life; I was there for him to talk to, listen, cry with etc. Over time however I began...
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{ "description": "not wanting a kid at school to play video games with me and my friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not wanting a kid at school to play video games with me and my friends?
So sometimes I bring my Nintendo Switch to school because me and my friends like to play Smash, whenever we play though there’s a kid in our class who always comes over to the group of us and asks to play. I don’t want to call him mentally challenged, but at the very least he’s quite socially inexperienced, abnormally ...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut ties with my close friend of 4 years because I don't want to deal with his drama anymore", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut ties with my close friend of 4 years because I don't want to deal with his drama anymore?
This is kind of a long story, so there's a tldr at the end. So the context of my situation is that I'm a 16-year old girl in high school, and I have been friends with this guy, "Kevin", also 16, for almost 4 years. We've always been pretty close. We tend to play-flirt with each other as a joke, but neither of us had f...
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{ "description": "breaking the kitchen glass door", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking the kitchen glass door?
*sorry for any Grammer or spelling mistakes English isn't my native language* So this is my first post on reddit and the reason why I even made an account I will try to keep this post unbiased and not bring my opinion in to this post because I'm very curios if I maybe have a wrong view point. So today I had dispute w...
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{ "description": "quitting ski because I am too scared or my husband who judges me for being a quitter", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting ski because I am too scared or my husband who judges me for being a quitter?
My husband (M 26) and I (F 24) got married last March. He loves to ski, but I only skied once and it was horrible. This January he planned a 5-day ski trip with a few of our friends and invited me. I knew I was scared of gravity and deep slope, but I would love to try to take lessons and hopefully I would be ok. The fi...
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{ "description": "cutting a child soccer ball in half", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 76 }
AITA for cutting a child soccer ball in half?
A kid across the street from me got a soccer ball for christmas, and he and his little friends are always playing ball in the street. Every day since he got it, his ball comes over my fence, and bounces off my wall. I have asked the kids to be careful, I've asked thier parents to watch them, because I have a small chil...
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{ "description": "not liking my girlfriend's fake pregnancy April Fools joke", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not liking my girlfriend’s fake pregnancy April Fools joke?
I’m 24, girlfriend is 20. So obviously I’m an idiot for believing her. I just thought this was one of those things everyone knows not to do as a joke, so I thought surely my normally smart and caring girlfriend wouldn’t do something like that. Right now I’m pretty furious with her and she doesn’t seem to think it’s ...
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{ "description": "ruining my friends' facebook satire/prank when it seemed like too many gullible people were getting legitimately upset over it", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ruining my friends’ Facebook satire/prank when it seemed like too many gullible people were getting legitimately upset over it?
My friends created a fake Facebook page, claiming to be the mayor of a nearby city. The mayor had deleted their real Facebook page last year. They then started posting claims about ridiculous budget spending and crazy bylaw plans. They were really stupid, like claiming to spend over $20 million dollars on repainting ...
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{ "description": "going to a concert without my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I go to a concert without my boyfriend?
I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. He introduced me to this really great band called Rainbow Kitten Surprise. I had never heard of them before. I thought RKS was so great, I made my friend listen to them. She really liked them, too. Turns out, they have a concert on the 15th of February. My boyfriend is...
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AITA ,so my bf (18) got tickets to a concert , the tickets were cheap (£13) each , I really wanted to see them with him , when we got there , I didn't have id with me ( this was the first concert I've been to , so I didn't know ) so I got stamped underage , he had I'd, so he got the overage stamp , I was really thirsty...
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{ "description": "not wanting to teach my BF's sister how to wax her own eyebrows when that's what I do for a living", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not wanting to teach my BF’s sister how to wax her own eyebrows when that’s what I do for a living?
I’m a licensed esthetician and my main focus at my job is doing eyebrow waxing. My boyfriends mom and 12 year old sister have been coming to me to get their brows waxed for quite a while now, but for Christmas their mom wanted to get his sister a wax pot because she doesn’t want her daughter to be “high-maintenance” ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for lying to me about using vapes", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for lying to me about using vapes?
Throwaway. My girlfriend and I have been dating for close to a year now, but we had been good friends for a couple of years before that. Before we started dating, I made it very clear to her how I was totally against cigs and vapes (lost grandfather to heart condition due to smoking). When we started dating last year,...
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{ "description": "cutting all contact with an autistic person who has considered me her only friend in the city", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for cutting all contact with an autistic person who has considered me her only friend in the city
TL;DR my breaking point is rape apologists There's a girl who has been in my grad program for 3 years. From the get go she had major issues. In undergrad her parents spoiled her so much that they drove her from class to class. This is the first time she's been independent from her parents and it really shows. She's ve...
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{ "description": "being upset (and possibly vengeful) because my boyfriend is being inconsiderate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being upset (and possibly vengeful) because my boyfriend is being inconsiderate?
A brief background - I have been working in my career since graduating college 5 years ago and have lived comfortably thanks to my hard work. My boyfriend went to college a little later in life and is currently working on getting jobs in his field. Though we live in the same city, being in different places in our lives...
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{ "description": "not wanting to listen to documentaries while working", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to listen to documentaries while working
As soon as all coworkers leave and there is only me and one other coworker. He immediately starts to watch documentaries and all kind of videos (with loud sound). I don't mind when people don't work here, but it's just annoying to listen to the videos for 30 minutes / 1 hour until he goes home. Sometimes i have much to...
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{ "description": "going to the ER , pretending to be sick , to get a doctors note for work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA For going to the ER , pretending to be sick , to get A Doctors Note For Work
So basically I didn’t feel like going to work , actually I didn’t want to go to work today at all . So basically this morning I called my supervisor for this XYZ Bullsh**t job , to tell him that hey I’m sick , got the flue , another supervisor called, I told what’s the deal , exaggerated a bit , god knows why , told I...
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{ "description": "taking a stray kitten to", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I took a stray kitten to
I found a kitten in front of my condo at 9pm last Thursday. I stood outside for 20 minutes and let her climb trees hoping I’d find somebody searching for her but nobody else was outside. She followed me into my house and I got her food and a litter box. I just didn’t feel comfortable leaving her out to be eaten by ...
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{ "description": "saying an Elderly Woman's Wig looks stupid", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Saying an Elderly Woman's Wig Looks Stupid?
Last night, I was visiting my aunt in the assisted living facility she's been staying at temporarily. We were in her room watching TV when she mentioned that she is considering getting a wig. She was struggling with a condition that made her hair brittle and thin. That has been resolved but she is self conscious about ...
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{ "description": "making a sarcastic, fatalistic statement about height", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a sarcastic, fatalistic statement about height?
Some background knowledge here: My friends and I are all very short — I’m about 1.55m, the tallest of us it at most 1.64m. Being teenagers, most of our humour comes from hyperbole and exaggeration in a sarcastic (and often fatalistic) manner. My friends and I tend to tease each other a lot, including height-related r...
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{ "description": "calling someone out for claiming they have OCD", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I called someone out for claiming they have OCD?
I've had pretty bad OCD my whole life so it really bugs me when people use it as a synonym for being organized, particular, anal, etc. but I usually don't say anything. I do feel like using OCD in this way takes away from how destructive and debilitating it can be, but I generally prefer to avoid conflict. However, a k...
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{ "description": "not going to my brother's wedding", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my brother's wedding?
So, some context. To put things lightly, my family relationships are strained. There's a lot of history that I don't feel like I need to get into, but my parents are both narcissists with substance abuse issues (mom in recovery, dad in denial), and because of that, the family dynamic has always been rough enough that m...
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{ "description": "leaving my prom group and not going (and everything it would mean) since it is falling apart", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for leaving my prom group and not going (and everything it would mean) since it is falling apart?
I’ll try to give a quick explanation of why it’s falling apart, and a bit of background Our junior prom group consists of 8 people, 4 guys and 4 girls (me, Alex, John, and Pete are the guys, and Sara, Lucy, Madeline, and Lily are our dates, respectively(not our real names). Alex used to date Lily a couple years ago, ...
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{ "description": "deleting awful pictures of me from my friends phone", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for deleting awful pictures of me from my friends phone?
A while ago I was sending my mum some prom photos of me in a suit, which I hate. I accidentally sent them to my friend’s group chat, and whilst I deleted them when I realised my mistake, her phone must have saved them to her camera roll. These photos were pretty awful so she teased me about it a lot, which I laughed a...
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{ "description": "claiming my friend as a dependent and using the return for bills/debt", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
Aita for claiming my friend as a dependent and using the return for bills/debt
Okay, first time posting. So back story is my wife and I have my childhood friend living with us to watch our son while we're at work, he doesnt pay any bills we have and we pay him 75 a week for whatever needs we can't/don't accommodate. He streams on twitch on my computer with an Xbox we bought him. We pay for food, ...
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{ "description": "commenting favorably on a short colleague's height", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for commenting favorably on a short colleague's height?
I was chatting with a colleague at work. He's a much younger guy. (If it matters, I'm a woman.) He was talking about working on camera as a double. I told him he's got a great build for that kind of work because so many A-listers are really short. Then I babbled for a bit about my theory that smaller people have more s...
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{ "description": "telling my someone studying translation that they job won't exist in a few years", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my someone studying translation that they job won’t exist in a few years?
On my morning commute, I met up with an old friend from high school. After catching up, he mentioned how he studies translation at university (English/French). I told him that translation is a dying industry will little job prospects and that rapidly advancing technology will make his domaine obsolete in a few years. T...
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{ "description": "asking my husband to stop looking at porn", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking my husband to stop looking at porn? (NSFW)
Some background: ​ I consider myself (31F) to have a high libido, but my husband's (31M) is even higher. We do the nasty quite often, but I can understand that even with a lot of sex, you might need some alone time. I don't mind that he looks at porn and jacks off. I do notice on the days that he does...
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{ "description": "asking my fiancé's Maid of Honor to not bring her son to our wedding", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA for asking my fiancé’s Maid of Honor to not bring her son to our wedding?
I (32m) and my fiancé (31f), are planning a wedding. We want it to be small, family and the closest of close friends. We’ve got it down to about 30 people. I have a 9 yo nephew, and she has 2 nephews, 8 and 4. These are all well behaved little dudes that I consider family. Her MOH has an 8 yo son. This is where it get...
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{ "description": "not talking to her more", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not talking to her more?
So I met this girl online we kinda hit it off and went out a few times. She invited me to stay the night and we made out a bit and kind of had sex??????? I didn't fit... So we still met a few times but she kept being angry that I didn't seem invested enough, because I didn't Snapchat her enough or ask her out as much a...
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