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{ "description": "giving my friends blanket to an injured woman", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving my friends blanket to an injured woman?
Yesterday I witnessed an incident where an older woman (at least 65+ years old) slipped on the wet floor outside a fuel station and seriously injure her leg. It was during a massive storm and it was raining hard, which is why the concrete was wet and she slipped. Several people ran to help her and call an ambulance. Sh...
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{ "description": "asking my flatmate to sweep their pubes in the bathroom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my flatmate to sweep their pubes in the bathroom?
Now, I know in a shared bathroom I should expect some hair and some pubes, it's just how it is. But the thing is there are only three people using this bathroom, flatmates A and B, and me. I know the pubes are not mine, or flatmates A's. Regardless, it's like a pube-nado ran through the bathroom. My feet are often tu...
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{ "description": "ignoring this girl", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring this girl?
Long story short, there is this girl who has special needs won't stop spamming me, when I respond to her messages she starts and ALWAYS starts saying "hi I check you out, do you check me out?". I made it very clear to her multiple times that I am not looking for a relationship and we could still be friends.
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{ "description": "getting angry at my art teacher", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting angry at my art teacher.
A while ago I got pretty angry at my art teacher and lately its been popping up in my mind and making me feel horrible. It was a normal day at school and lately I had been feeling extremely tired and all aound crappy. I decided to go to the bathroom during art class and noticed that I was peeing blood. After that I w...
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{ "description": "saaying this to my wife's daughter", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saaying this to my wife's daughter?
Im on mobile and english is not mh native language so sorry if something seems odd with my text. I live with my wife and we share a flat with her daughter (22F).Lets call her D. The girl claims she has depression ,and bipolar disorder. My wife is always trying to help D but she is very rude all the time , shit talking...
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{ "description": "standing up at a football game", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for standing up at a football game?
I went to an (American) College Football bowl game today (for non-Americans it's a football game between two teams who normally never play against each other at a neutral site stadium as a reward for a 6 win season, gets the schools more money). And I stand during games at our home stadium, anyways a lady comes up beh...
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{ "description": "watching a movie with gay characters with 11-year-old I babysit without asking her parents", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for watching a movie with gay characters with 11-year-old I babysit without asking her parents?
The movie is Love, Simon, and there's nothing but one or two kisses in the whole movie. The 11-year-old was the one who brought it up and she was really excited to see it, so I watched it with her. She watches Riverdale and other stuff with gay characters. However, her family is Christian and doesn't agree with gay peo...
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{ "description": "telling my wife that upcoming guys night out is still for guys when another wife was invited", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for telling my wife that upcoming guys night out is still for guys when another wife was invited (but is unable to go)?
4 of us have a regular monthly guys night out. We know each other's wives but have never hung out all together. The 4 of us use group text to communicate. Monday night one of the guys sends the following text message: Hey \[SAM\] why don't you leave your kids with a sitter and invite \[SANDY, sam's wife\] to drink wi...
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{ "description": "getting another engineer kicked off a freelancing project", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting another engineer kicked off a freelancing project?
I can't talk much about the project (NDA), I don't want to name the client, or give too much away about the other engineer, so we'll give the engineer the name Bob. I'm a recently graduated engineer with a passion for what I do. I chose to go to a school that offered me a full ride, despite the school not being known ...
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{ "description": "going off on my ex", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for going off on my ex?
AITA? A little backstory first: I (17M) broke up with my ex of around 9 months about 2 weeks ago my feelings had been going away slowly for a while but I still cared about her a great deal and wanted her to be happy so I let her down as easily as I possibly could. A week later she went to a sports game with a new guy...
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{ "description": "feeling angry at my gf because of this", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling angry at my gf because of this?
This will be the third MONTH I be together with my girlfriend. She's been um... a bit overreacting about my friends. By her logic I should stop talking to other girls that I've been friends with for years. Once a classmate of mine texted me saying "I'm lonely". Gf said that I should've sent her to fu*k off. Which I did...
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{ "description": "not paying more than half in bills in a relationship when I make more money", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not paying more than half in bills in a relationship when I make more money?
So back story, I have been with my SO for about 5 years. When we first moved out together, I was paying significantly more than him because I had a full time, average paying job. For example, he paid half of rent, I paid all utilities, food, health insurance, and household items. Red flags started coming up like him co...
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{ "description": "talking at a normal volume late night if my neighbor is also loud", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking at a normal volume late night if my neighbor is also loud?
Basically, my significant other and I always end up arguing over the volume of our voices and TV because a couple times now our neighbor (we live in apartments) has pounded on our wall randomly. My s/o always says “shhh” or “turn it down” which irritates the hell out of me because Monday-Friday our neighbor will have s...
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{ "description": "being angry at my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 169, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for being angry at my boyfriend ?
My boyfriend and I have been living together for several months. About a week ago, I had a biking accident which left in pretty rough shape- the worst of it being a broken arm. My boyfriend has been incredibly supportive- driving me to all of my doctor’s appointments, helping me to get dressed, and generally helping ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I won't work on her car unless she pays me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend I won’t work on her car unless she pays me
This is kinda long but has important details TL:DR at the bottom So I’m decently skilled with cars and engines. I love watching toturials and learning about cars and bikes, I’ve taken a few classes and a very close friend who is a mechanic helps me out with questions or any problems I have. But by no means am I prof...
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{ "description": "not feeding my son dinner the past 3 days", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not feeding my son dinner the past 3 days
NOTE: i am the son in this story. Context: 3 days ago, my mom calls me out to prepare dinner, but i ask to eat off a smaller bowl instead. my mom went batshit crazy on me and told me that the original bowl my mom is gonna give me is the same size as the “smaller” bowl i ask for. i simply wanted to eat off a small bowl,...
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{ "description": "not attending a Saturday morning work holiday party that was announced 10 days in advance", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not attending a Saturday morning work holiday party that was announced 10 days in advance?
So the Wednesday before thanksgiving, I walked out of a staff meeting at 5:00 pm (heading out for the day/holiday) and saw a flyer on my desk that read: “company holiday party Saturday, December 1st, at 11:00 AM. Attendance mandatory.” AITA for 1- thinking a 11 am Saturday morning holiday party is ridiculous and 2 - th...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my long distance girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for breaking up with my long distance girlfriend?
We started dating in High School and I'll admit that I pushed for the relationship to continue through college even though it would be long distance. Through the years, there's been a lot of ups and downs, mostly due to not being able to spend that much time together. I started to have doubts over whether or not this i...
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{ "description": "not hanging out with my friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not hanging out with my friends?
Okay, so this is starting to happen quite regularly now. ​ I'm a student at university and I also work part time to support myself so needless to say, my schedule is pretty tight. I try my best to keep a social life and hang out with people. The thing that bothers me is that every time I make arrangements ...
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{ "description": "confronting a friend after tracking their location and seeing that they lied about being stuck at work and skipping my birthday dinner party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 13 }
WIBTA for confronting a friend after tracking their location and seeing that they lied about being stuck at work and skipping my birthday dinner party?
It’s a little long and this is my first time posting here, so bear with me. Also on mobile so sorry for formatting. TL;DR: my boyfriend’s roommate / best friend lied to me on my birthday about being stuck at work but was actually at his new girl’s place instead of my small dinner party. We discovered this by tracking...
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{ "description": "reporting a potential dui", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for reporting a potential DUI?
This isn’t as clear cut as the title may suggest and is different enough from other DUI reporting stories that I don’t know how to feel. I’m good friends with some people who often hang out with this guy named “John” (names changed), one of my friend’s brother. To me, John is exactly the kind of person I hate. He’s v...
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{ "description": "believing that my mom is trying to guilt me into pleading the fifth", "pronormative_score": 70, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for believing that my mom is trying to guilt me into pleading the fifth?
Hi there r/AITA, I’m a 14M here. A few days ago, my dad called the police on my mom for assault. In a nutshell, a discussion about money became a fight, and my mom mainly started it but my dad was the one who called. After my dad called, my mom continued it instead of calming down. I witnessed most of the fight as I w...
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{ "description": "rejecting a girl because she's in a Wheelchair", "pronormative_score": 113, "contranormative_score": 298 }
AITA For Rejecting A Girl Because She's in a Wheelchair?
My friend said she had a single friend that was really cute and asked if I wanted to go on a blind date with her, she shows me face pics of her and she's really pretty. So she gives her friend my number and we start texting we're both 22 and lets call her Sara, after a day or two of texting we meet up for coffee and sh...
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{ "description": "accidentally abusing my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for accidentally abusing my girlfriend?
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2.5 years. We have a very healthy relationship, other than one part. She SCREAMS at me over the smallest things. These stories are crucial, I gotta make you understand. So here are some examples: ​ 1. She got mad at me for telling her parents a secret o...
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{ "description": "being upset over our cancelled trip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for being upset over our cancelled trip?
(Sorry I’m on mobile) TL;DR at the bottom So I’m on spring break right now with my younger sister and my dad had planned for us to go away to Indiana for 2 days to do some hiking. Honestly I wasn’t overjoyed with what we were doing but I was pretty exited to go away and do some swimming since we hadn’t gone on vacat...
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{ "description": "not responding to any ex girlfriends text when she may have needed a friend most", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not responding to any ex girlfriends text when she may have needed a friend most
So I’m gonna keep it anonymous for the sake of her, so let’s call her Gwen. So Gwen and I dated for about a year until she cheated and I dumped her. The relationship was extremely toxic for me due to her battling with various mental illnesses that caused her to snap at me and physically hurt me occasionally. Me, also...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend he doesn't need to always correct me or tell me I did something wrong", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend he doesn’t need to always correct me or tell me I did something wrong (in stories)?
I feel like because he’s older than me, he thinks he knows more than me. It can get irritating. He takes me literally a lot too, and he gives me these weird semi-lectures/rants when I make jokes. We were out eating and I was telling him a story of when an old coworker asked me out, the coworker and I are both girls. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to draw while I read to her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITAH For not wanting my girlfriend to draw while I read to her
So this is not a major issue, but it is something that has come up several times. Sometimes I read to my girlfriend (she is a willing participant and says she enjoys it). However, she is an artist, and she sometimes likes to draw while I read. I am the kind of person who is mildly (ok, maybe mildly is putting it lightl...
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{ "description": "avoiding one of my gf's dogs because I think it has pink eye", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for avoiding one of my gf's dogs because I think it has pink eye
I notice the dog yesterday because she couldn't fully close one of her eyes upon closer inspection the eye was bloodshot and throughout the day I saw her trying to scratch/itch her eye on the floor and blankets. I've had pink eye before so I'm avoiding all contact except petting her, while my gf is hugging her letting ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that we're done if she doesn't want another kid in the future", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 44 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that we’re done if she doesn’t want another kid in the future?
obligatory throwaway because friends know my real account. background: I’m 28 with no kids. My girlfriend is 26 and has an 8 year old son from her previous relationship. She was with the guy since they were kids but when she got pregnant, he dropped the ball. She had it pretty hard during the early years and it was a ...
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{ "description": "having friends over two days after my grandpa's surgery", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I had friends over two days after my grandpa’s surgery?
I feel like I would be the asshole so I’ve already cancelled but I’m hoping against hope. First I’ll go over what the living conditions are like. We have a two-story house. Upstairs I have two rooms (my bedroom and a second bedroom that I’ve turned into “my living room” + a bathroom) I have the upstairs to myself and...
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{ "description": "moving to the other side of the world mainly to be closer to a girl I like", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for moving to the other side of the world mainly to be closer to a girl I like?
So I've got a job and living arrangements all squared away in a country far distant to my own and I'm pretty excited about it. However, my reasons for doing so are admittedly somewhat... shallow (if that's the right word). The truth is that it's (mostly) because I want to be in closer proximity to a girl that I have a ...
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{ "description": "wanting my sister to visit me while she was in town for a funeral", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting my sister to visit me while she was in town for a funeral?
Back Story: My sister moved to another state 7 hours’ drive away 4 years ago. Before that she lived in the same city as me. We were very close and saw each other often. She was my best friend. After she moved I visited her as often as I could- 2 or 3 times per year. Things were still good, we texted and called on...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to work sooner against my parents wishes", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go to work sooner against my parents wishes?
I (21M). Would normally be in school right now but due to a really bad accident in September and it’s complications, I’ve had to take the year off and am currently living with my parents. I have a vacation coming up with my parents and a friend (alternating my time between the two and after that, I am going to work th...
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{ "description": "refusing to let my girlfriend stay with until she gets rid of lice", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to let my girlfriend stay with until she gets rid of lice ?
Throwaway as my girlfriend knows my reddit user. My girlfriend of 8 months has been going through a rough patch mental health wise and has become rather depressed and has gotten Lice somehow from somewhere and she refuses to let me touch her hair to comb them out. Its worth noting i'm a bit of a clean freak but this h...
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{ "description": "freaking out on my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for freaking out on my grandmother?
This is my first time posting here, and English is not my first language, so sorry for any mistakes. For some context: I was diagnosed with celiac disease about 2 years ago. Since then, I follow the diet religiously . I live with my grandmother ( I attend university and don't have enough money to move out.), and it was...
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{ "description": "selling a necklace that my friend left behind at my house and never came to get back after 4 years", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I sold a necklace that my friend left behind at my house and never came to get back after 4 years.
So I had an extremely flakey friend who was really hard to get to show up to hang out all the time. When she did she was super spacey and kind of out of it. I later found out that she had a pretty bad pill problem. Anyway the last time we hung out was 4 years ago. My husband and I were having a small party at our place...
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{ "description": "telling my mom that I don't want to help her with her volunteer projects at her church anymore because it makes me uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my mom that I don't want to help her with her volunteer projects at her church anymore because it makes me uncomfortable?
Ok a little backstory: my mom has been going to this church for basically my whole life. I was raised in this church and a lot of the people there are like my second family. The church pretty much entirely makes up my mom’s social circle. ​ She is the volunteer treasurer and the volunteer high school yo...
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{ "description": "going on vacation without my so", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went on vacation without my SO?
I’ve wanted to travel to a popular destination for most of my life. I met my SO about 5 years ago and we’ve been together for 4 of those. We’ve talked about going there, and she wants to join me, but she has a hard time saving money (due to things out of her control like her car needing unexpected repairs and surprise ...
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{ "description": "leaving a 2 year \"best friendship\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a 2 year "best friendship"?
Okay this is a tad lengthy.. Backround: Myself (29f) and a friend (25f) of mine at the time were pretty inseparable. We did almost everything together and even though I have a 9 year old and a husband I always made time for her. Hell she was really good friends with my husband too! Not just to go out but every late ...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my mom after she tried to shoo away my 4 month old kitten", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my mom after she tried to shoo away my 4 month old kitten?
So around 3 months ago someone dumped 1 month old kitten infront of my house and I with approval of my parents took care of it. I paid for the food and they only paid for 1st vet visit that was around 25 euros. Now problems rose when I found a tick on her 2 days ago. My mom wouldn't let me get the tick off or take cat ...
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{ "description": "telling my dad to stop talking about politics", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I tell my dad to stop talking about politics?
Recently my dad has become very interested in politics, specifically right-wing and he talks about it constantly, he watches Jordan Peterson and Ben Shapiro videos without headphones in the middle of the living room even if we are watching tv at the time. I am gay (closeted) and some of the stuff he says really hurts m...
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{ "description": "not wanting husband and toddler son to go away for BILS wedding the week I'm due with our baby", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting husband and toddler son to go away for BILS wedding the week I’m due with our baby?
My husbands brother is due to get married in Italy in August, the plan is for everyone (except me because I’m due to have our baby) to travel to Italy from England for a weeks holiday and to attend the wedding. The following week there is a second reception being held in the UK for family. When I first found out I wa...
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AITA: Lost my shit because my girlfriend kept me up when I had work the next day
She went out last night with some friends from work, I stayed home. She said she'd be back around 11 but when it turned midnight and she still wasn't home I sent her a quick message to check everything was ok and she messaged straight back letting me know she was fine. So I thought if she's still enjoying herself, ther...
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{ "description": "telling a girl I didn't feel a connection when in reality her weight put me off", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for telling a girl I didn't feel a connection when in reality her weight put me off?
I saw a somewhat similar post recently and it inspired me to share this story. Basically we matched on Tinder, had a first coffee date which lasted hours and went quite well. About a week later she suggested we meet again and told me she was open to the idea of having sex that day. We met for lunch and then went to...
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{ "description": "having a drink with my pregnant gf", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for having a drink with my pregnant GF?
As title. Story goes we are going into town for a meal, a short ten minute drive with a large parking lot on arrival. We are about to leave and she looks at me puzzled as to why I've not got my car keys. I say 'what's wrong, aren't you driving?' She usually avoids driving when I'm around but in this situation it's a...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed with my friends for obsessing over Kpop", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting annoyed with my friends for obsessing over Kpop?
Some backstory: My friend Anna (20F) and I (20F) have been best friends for 8 years and started liking Kpop 5 years ago or something like that. We were both around 15 when we started liking Exo but it only lasted half a year to a year for me because I just don't like obsessing over artists the way that I need to see e...
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{ "description": "declining to hang out with a guy I tried to be friends with in the past", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for declining to hang out with a guy I tried to be friends with in the past?
I tried to make friends with this guy a couple of years ago. Granted, I did have a crush on him, so it might have seemed like I was trying to get with him, but I also wasn't opposed to us becoming platonic friends if we weren't a match romantically. I asked him to hang out about 6 times over the years, and he only act...
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{ "description": "ignoring a construction workers instructions", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for ignoring a construction workers instructions?
So at uni the other day I was walking along a path where they were doing construction work nearby. On the path there was a straight road leading to an 90 degree right turn which I needed to go through to get to my class, about a half a meter before this turn was a construction worker of sorts standing guard of a gap be...
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{ "description": "convincing friend to Travel but having to cancel cuz flight cancelled", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Convincing Friend to Travel but having to cancel cuz flight cancelled
I (23 M living in NY) somewhat convinced a friend of mine, who I met in South America and who lives in Germany, to travel Iceland with me. I suggested to him Iceland, and he was on board with it. I didn't have to beg him, but there was a period a few months ago where we didn't know which country would work best for bot...
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AITA friend post pictures of me
good morning people of Reddit! So, I have an Instagram account dedicated for saving material of my favorite artists there. I’m not really a stan account but naturally you’re probably folllwing a few. One day, as I‘m skipping through the stories, I see an intriguing text. It’s the owner off the account venting, how...
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{ "description": "wanting \"New Year, New me\" gym-goers to give up and fail already so I can have the gym to myself again", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for wanting "New Year, New Me" gym-goers to give up and fail already so I can have the gym to myself again?
January the worst time to go to the gym. All these randos show up, not enough equipment. Just stay home ppl.
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{ "description": "telling her I didn't want to talk to her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For telling her I didn't want to talk to her?
I'm 16 years old (High School Junior), and have always been what I like to call a "bipolar extrovert", where I'm super social at school and love being surrounded by people, but when I get home, I'm just exhausted and want to spend the whole day left to my own devices. Don't get me wrong, I love my mom to death, but con...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend because someone he used to hook up with texted him today", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being upset with my (19f) boyfriend (21m) because someone he used to hook up with texted him today?
My loving boyfriend (LBF) And I just recently moved in together and it’s been a whirlwind and I thought it’s been going well. I’ve been having some anxiety about him being faithful because of some shit that happened in the past between him and an ex which- long story short, she cheated on him and he cheated back. I don...
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{ "description": "cutting off mentally unstable husband", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off mentally unstable husband?
I met my current spouse (JERK) after a peaceful divorce from my prior husband. I had to move two states away for work shortly after meeting so I kept two homes: one for work during the week and the other to see my kids from the first marriage on the weekends. Early in my relationship with Jerk I was on the fence about ...
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{ "description": "threatening to sue former-friends to get back money they owed me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for threatening to sue former-friends to get back money they owed me?
In the past, I've had to threaten former friends on two seperate occasions to get money that they owed me and I feel like an asshole. The first time, I was living with a best friend in an apartment but he got unofficially fired (dropped his hours to 1/hr a week to avoid paying unemployment and expected him to quit). H...
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{ "description": "sending my nurse flowers with my phone number attached", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sending my nurse flowers with my phone number attached?
This happened months ago, so I’m a little fuzzy on the details, but I still think about it. It all started at the gym when I almost passed out. I’ll spare the medical details because they’re not important. Anyway I end up with this really cute nurse(pretty sure she was a resident though), and I’m head over heels, we’re...
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{ "description": "smoking when my girlfriend doesn't want me to", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I smoked when my girlfriend doesn’t want me to?
My girlfriend and I are both 18 and have been dating for 6 months, and she’s extremely against weed and alcohol. Before I started dating her, I smoked pretty often and drank often too. The reason she says she’s against it is because of her ex boyfriend of 4 months, who was mentally abusive towards her, and wou...
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{ "description": "not giving up a parking spot", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving up a parking spot?
As I was looking for a parking spot next to school, I see a guy in a black Beetle parked in the middle of the street. I’ve seen this guy a few times now. He’s parked in the middle of the street with his hazard lights on and waiting for a parking spot. All incoming traffic had to circle past him just to keep going dow...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get married at the courthouse", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to get married at the courthouse?
Background: My fiance and I started dating earlier in May. We have an date set at an actual venue to get married at the end of May. He wants to go to the courthouse and get married on the day we started dating. I do not want to do this because I will always remember the day we were all dressed up and surrounded by fami...
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{ "description": "making obscenely heavy furniture for friends and family and not sealing it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making obscenely heavy furniture for friends and family and not sealing it.
I’ve been getting a lot of shit off my friends and family after making in my opinion a beautiful piece, like really top class. But when they are together they rip into me about either the weight or paying for a professional painter. I’ll try to post an image in the comments of an example. But I’ve been doing this f...
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{ "description": "getting furious when someone nearly destroys my drawing", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting furious when someone nearly destroys my drawing
This happened a little less than a year ago, but recently one of my friends brought it up, so I decided to post what happened on here and see if I was the asshole in this situation. Also, I apologize for any formatting issues, I am on mobile. So, I consider myself an artist. I'm not professional in the slightest, and ...
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{ "description": "expecting sex on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting sex on my birthday?
My girlfriend (26F) and I (30M) have been dating for nearly 5 years. Our sex life started strong and has gradually declined over that time. The last two year or so, I’ve expressed concern for this trend because I think it’s important to the relationship to have a “healthy” sex life. I’d say we have sex around once eve...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my referral bonus", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to share my referral bonus
My friend was asking me about potential jobs where I work to which I was happy to talk to her about. She mentioned that where she currently works offers a referral bonus if someone you refer gets hired and I mentioned that yeah we have one too and it is quite a nice amount of money. As soon as I said this she mentioned...
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{ "description": "snitching on my drug dealer who played me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA if I snitched on my drug dealer who played me?
Disclaimer: First time posting and on mobile. I had no idea where else to put this. Back ground: So I (M18) am a college student working my butt off to stay in school. I pick up extra shifts all the time to try to make ends meet. I have a scholarship but I can not get free room and board until my sophomore year (for b...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to touch me anymore", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to touch me anymore?
Short and quick. My partner (33) and I (20) are living together and for the most part. Everything is perfect, except he touched me. So much. I'm talking, when I wake up, he's fondling me, when we lay in bed his hand is in my pants. Like. A normal hug or whatever always ends with his hands on my chest. And I just. Hate ...
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{ "description": "thinking he shouldn't keep talking to her", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking he shouldn’t keep talking to her?
Tw: self harm/suicide About a week and a half ago a younger girl messaged my partner with offers of sex, he informed her that he had a partner but continued talking to her, while this made me uncomfortable I saw no reason for anything to happen since she didn’t know he was taken. Recently my partner was talking to her...
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{ "description": "cutting someone off", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting someone off
Been on reddit for about a month or so at this point and this will be my first post so forgive me if I'm doing anything wrong as far as formatting goes or typos. Also a long post so sorry for the long read, just needed to vent. To start, a little bit of back story is necessary to understand everything in the sto...
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{ "description": "not letting someone come to my party without paying for food", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not letting someone come to my party without paying for food
So this Halloween I wanted to invite some friends at my place, nothing too serious, just a small party with a bunch of close friends and some less close guys they wanted to come with. Me and said close friends decided to buy some junk food, candy (what Halloween would it be otherwise) and drinks, mainly beer. My best f...
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{ "description": "smacking cars that park in crosswalks", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for smacking cars that park in crosswalks?
When I'm a pedestrian approaching a stoplight and a car is parked in the crosswalk, I always slap the back of it a few times real loud as I'm walking behind it. Then I say to the driver, "You're not supposed to park in the crosswalk, buddy!" AITA?
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{ "description": "\"firing\" my therapist", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for “firing” my therapist?
For the past 6 mnths I have been going to a therapist and when I started my treatment, we went over some of the policies and I agreed to the cancellation policy of giving >24 hours notice. At the beginning, I wanted to schedule frequent sessions as I had a lot of availability. He had limited availability and could...
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{ "description": "not helping a friend who refuses to help himself", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping a Friend who refuses to help himself?
A friend constantly messages me for help regarding Uni work. I try to give him some guidance and all but it's getting really obvious that he just want direct answers for his questions. What's even worse is he barely comes in to Uni so it's obvious why he's struggling so much. So for once, I responded that he should ha...
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AITA for calling someone out?
This happened just recently so I apologize if I give unimportant details. I found a video made by a small content creator I have been watching for the better part of a year that I think is incredibly racist. I left a comment about how disappointed I was, but it was an ancient video and I wanted to see if they stood b...
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AITA for not feeling like just because I’m pregnant doesn’t mean I should be my boyfriends designated driver?
I (19f) am currently 22 weeks pregnant. During this time my boyfriend turned 21 and is overly excited about drinking. Not that he didn’t have access before, but now it’s ramped up because he can buy it himself. I don’t care that he drinks, but I find it extra irritating that’s it’s ramped up while I’m pregnant. I’m no...
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{ "description": "not eating the food my coworkers wife made", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not eating the food my coworkers wife made?
My coworker got everyone together to let us know his wife was bringing lunch for everyone, she came in at lunch time with beans, rice, and some dish made with goat, I wasn't feeling it so I went out to my car, now everyone is asking why I didn't eat anything. I feel like I kinda disrespected his wifes cooking, but I do...
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{ "description": "hating my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my Dad
Apologies for formatting and length. Background: Me: 39M, Dad 82 Hoarder. Our relationship has always been “complicated”. As a kid, he was outright abusive. Physically, mentally, and verbally. Just to the kids, he was a devoted and loyal husband. And, he’s an ok grandpa now. As an adult, he mellowed and I started to ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to speak with my aunt", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to speak with my aunt?
She is becoming old. Acts like a child and is very annoying. Has drinking problems which caused our family a lot of issues a year ago. She lives alone, doesn't have a family of her own. When talking to me, it's either her nagging about the government, about life, about someone being an asshole or best case scenario,...
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{ "description": "not wanting my Fiancé's brother to be one of his groomsmen", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my Fiancé’s brother to be one of his groomsmen?
My fiancé and I recently got engaged, and we’ve started talking about who we would like as groomsmen and bridesmaids. He was originally thinking about having both of his brothers as groomsmen, however his mother said to us to only have one, because the other has schizophrenia. His behaviour is very unpredictable, he’s ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk with my friend about her sex life", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to talk with my friend about her sex life?
I had a pretty big argument with one of my best friends, who I’ve known since middle school (we’re both 19). She recently downloaded tindr and had me help pick out the pictures for her profile. Fine so far. About a week into her experience with the app she started telling me -in vivid detail- of her encounters with var...
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{ "description": "wanting to share the bathroom with my brother while he cleans his teeth", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to share the bathroom with my brother while he cleans his teeth?
My brother went into the bathroom to clean his teeth and locked the door. Now, my brother takes his phone into bathrooms with him, understandably, but this mean he takes AGES cleaning his teeth and washing his face. I asked my brother to unlock the bathroom door while he washed his face/cleaned his teeth, so that I co...
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{ "description": "not wanting to make plans on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to make plans on my birthday?
Hey guys, Need your opinions on something, because I've gotten a few people annoyed at me over this. I turn 21 in a few days. Its very, very close to Christmas. My birthday was always overshadowed by Christmas, my friends would always be away or busy and I honestly just never formed the attachment to birthdays most ...
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to apologize", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my boyfriend to apologize
Me and him just had some kind of quarrel before over something that happened a long time ago. He insulted my grandpa shortly after his died. I got angry and well, insulted his grandpa back. It was terrible of me. His grandpa had just died and I said something awful about him. Well, back there it seemed obvious that I...
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{ "description": "being upset with my parents", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For Being Upset With My Parents?
For background, I'm 17, and I have chores. I have also been sick for the past week. I am also prone to getting hang nails. I also am rarely asked to be hung out with due to refusing so many times due to having to "babysit" my grandmother despite her other son living with her. I asked to go see a movie with a...
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{ "description": "trying to get my best friend to eat", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to get my best friend to eat?
My best friend is severely depressed after a bad breakup. I learned the other day that she hasn't been eating for days now. I delivered a pizza to her house without her knowledge, left it by the door, and texted her to tell her it was there when I was leaving. She was extremely mad and yelled at me over the phone for i...
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{ "description": "reporting someone for cheating", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I reported someone for cheating?
My university has a strict no cheating policy with a set guideline for rules and punishments. It's told to us every year in a mandatory meeting and in every single class syllabus but some professors are no the brightest and either don't see it happening or are super lenient about it and choose not to make it a big deal...
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{ "description": "telling a friend's girlfriend that she's spoiled", "pronormative_score": 443, "contranormative_score": 238 }
AITA for telling a friend's girlfriend that she's spoiled?
Several days ago we invited a friend and his girlfriend over for dinner. Before we start, some background about my friend: I've known him for almost 15 years, he never had a lot of money, but he never let that get in the way. He worked hard, saved hard, and bought things if he decided he really wanted them, but was not...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my long term partner over fb messenger", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my long term partner over fb messenger?
I know that this sounds very much like I am indeed the asshole but please hear me out. Break ups are never easy and I understand that but me (22F) and this guy (23) have had a pretty unhealthy relationship from the beginning. He has a bad temper, will occasionally self harm by doing things like punching walls or doors...
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{ "description": "making a video trying to cheer up my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I made a video trying to cheer up my friend
Hey! So, my friend has been kinda depressed lately. He's basically convinced himself that he has no good qualities and nobody wants to be his friend. We talked about for a while, and after he went to sleep, I had the idea of going to the people who are in our mutual friend group and saying, without going into specifi...
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{ "description": "not being more sorry", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being more sorry?
So I’m in class, we’re all ready to (finally) leave, it’s the end of the day. I say something to my friend who sits across the aisle from me, and another teacher- the head of the subject- is in here now. (She’s not my teacher, and it notorious for being a piece of shit.) she tells me and my friend to sit down, and ever...
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{ "description": "intentionally ditching my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for intentionally ditching my friend?
Backstory; I've known my best friend for 11 years. Not a day goes by we don't talk, or at least it *used* to be that way. Over the last couple of years, he's become more and more flaky as he goes through girlfriends and starts ditching me and his other friends to go be with them. And I don't mean he's making plans as a...
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{ "description": "not letting a young child cut in line and use the toilet", "pronormative_score": 242, "contranormative_score": 48 }
AITA for not letting a young child cut in line and use the toilet?
This happened years ago on a Ryanair flight and is obviously not a big deal, but to this day I wonder if how I acted was okay or assholish. So I was sitting in my seat during the flight and got up to pee and change my pad (as - TMI - I was on a heavy day of my period and worried about leakage). I wait in line in front...
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{ "description": "purposely making my friend cry", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for purposely making my friend cry?
When I was younger (about 12 years old), I would stay up until 3AM on my laptop, mostly just playing video games. I had this friend who could usually take me to midnight, but she was a bit of a jerk. The main reason I still talked with her was for a video game buddy. Anyways, it was summer when this takes place. It wa...
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{ "description": "not showing up for my friend's 40th birthday", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I don't show up for my friend's 40th birthday?
Here's the deal: my friend's 30th birthday is going to be within a few days and his wife is throwing him a party at their place. She invited me and all of his friends to a facebook group in order to invite us. I agreed enthusiastically to her proposal because I really wanted to be part of his 30th birthday. It was onl...
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{ "description": "speaking Spanish to spanish lawn care workers", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for speaking Spanish to Spanish lawn care workers?
This happened a couple of years ago, and I still occassionally think about it. In high school, I had a friend who I walked home with from the bus stop every day after school, since we were neighbors. I'd known her since I'd moved to that small neighborhood some ten years prior; we were never really close friends, but ...
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{ "description": "selling my Ex-BF/EX-Roommates things 1+ years after he moved out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I sold my Ex-BF/EX-Roommates things 1+ years after he moved out?
Title sums it up. My ex boyfriend moved out of my apartment July 2017, to another state, he gave notice to vacate to the landlord. I resigned my lease in January 2018, now I’m moving and don’t plan on moving his stuff. I plan on sending irreplaceable pictures and things to his sister. Would I be an ass hole if I ...
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{ "description": "not giving my friend rent money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my friend rent money?
So I've known this guy for years. He was considered a brother to me and my brothers. He joined the Navy and fell out of contact with them. I stayed in contact and we would game on a consistent basis. Texting and some phone calls, but he lived in a different state. Fast forward to recently. He works at a delivery job an...
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{ "description": "not loving my stepdad", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for not loving my stepdad
My mom got remarried when I was in eighth grade. At first I liked my stepdad but then when he started living with us I started not liking him. He’s not abusive or anything but he is obsessed with cleaning and a control freak with no imagination. He says he loves me which is fine but whenever he talks, my blood boils fo...
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{ "description": "asking my so to eat like a normal human being", "pronormative_score": 56, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for asking my SO to eat like a normal human being?
So my SO and I are both a little bit messy and I'm not nitpicky but sometimes he goes overboard with that. Like throwing a wet towel on the floor after the shower and not picking it up for hours. We don't live in a fucking hotel and I hate stepping on a wet towel. If I tell him to pick up after himself a bit he sometim...
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{ "description": "telling a girl I'm seeing about my inner darkness", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for telling a girl I'm seeing about my inner darkness?
so i (19M) am sexually seeing a girl (19F), we are thinking of taking it further into a relationship. we both agree on this, however i told her that i wanted to talk to her. she asked what's up, and i said it flat out, we need a serious convo. That i have an ''inner darkness'' about me. She didn't understand what i me...
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{ "description": "asking my roommates to pay equal shares of the electric bill", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my roommates to pay equal shares of the electric bill?
I live in an apartment with two other roommates while we are all going to college. They are both out of state students so during the winter break, they go home to their parents' houses. Last week, we got the bill for the period of break and they told me they didn't feel comfortable paying 1/3 shares (which was only $35...
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