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{ "description": "not liking the Hobbes poster my girlfriend got me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not liking the Hobbes poster my girlfriend got me?
So my girlfriend got me a Hobbes from Calvin and Hobbes poster for me, which was very nice of her but which I don't like. One of my earliest memories is of reading in the paper when Bill Watterson retired, saying that he didn't want there to be Calvin and Hobbes memorabilia and a show and all of that and to let the cha...
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{ "description": "wearing vanilla to work despite my coworker's apparent aversion to it", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 68 }
AITA for wearing vanilla to work despite my coworker’s apparent aversion to it?
I work at a restaurant with a woman who, when I started working there nearly a year ago, approached me and told me I was going to make her throw up because I smelled like vanilla. Nearly everything I own is vanilla scented (subtly, like lotions etc., not drowning myself in body sprays or anything like that). She told m...
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{ "description": "not telling people who flirt with me I have a so", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 38 }
AITA for not telling people who flirt with me i have a SO?
So sorry if this is confusing; i have mild dyslexia and my thoughts get all jumbled! I(24f) tend to do this when meeting new people I find attractive. I dont usually bring up my partner of 4 years (25m) in conversation unless im trying to gtfo or if they prompt me. It could be something like them asking if im seeing s...
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{ "description": "not wanting to invite a friend of mine to dinner because of his limited diet", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AItA for not wanting to invite a friend of mine to dinner because of his limited diet?
Long story short is that this one guy in my friend group only wants to go to either Diners, Chicken Wing joints, or Americana-style comfort food because he (in his words) can only eat \- Hamburgers \- Steak \- Chicken wings \- Fries Seriously, I've never seen this dude touch a piece of fruit or a salad. Some of t...
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{ "description": "being disgusted, any time I see a basketball player stunt-dunking (360 dunks, etc) during a game", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA For being disgusted, any time I see a basketball player stunt-dunking (360 dunks, etc) during a game?
It's the most old-man thing that I catch myself doing. I feel a wave of fury and disgust, whenever I see players doing this. I don't like basketball in general, but stunt-dunking during games is something that will always prevent me from watching becoming an avid basketball fan. Am I an asshole for seeing it as revolt...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend a wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to attend a wedding?
Less than a year ago, one of my roommates (M, 29) met a girl (F, 29) from a different country on a dating website. After 5-6 months of face timing everyday, M travels to meet F in person. It seems like they hit it off, but it just doesn't feel right to me. Not long after, M proposes to F and fills out paperwork for F t...
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{ "description": "saying my girlfriends grandma should just do the world a favor and die", "pronormative_score": 90, "contranormative_score": 59 }
AITA I said my girlfriends grandma should just do the world a favor and die.
So, it sounds really horrible and it is. Me and my girlfriend planned to visit her grandmother and stay for the weekend. My girlfriend said she had found a stray labrador a few weeks ago and was taking care of it. I was super excited because labs are my favorite and I have had nothing but them since I was a kid. It se...
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{ "description": "finding it odd that a friend wants to invite another friend of hers to the Christmas party we invited her to", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for finding it odd that a friend wants to invite another friend of hers to the Christmas party we invited her to?
So some context here. I have a friend who we (my wife and I) like and enjoy hanging out with. However, lately she seems to be double booking all her social engagements with us. For example, we will invite her over for dinner to hang out and talk. But she will arrive and then say she has to leave in an hour or so to go ...
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{ "description": "wanting my so to go over to her make friends house", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting my SO to go over to her make friends house?
I’ll try to keep this brief. My female SO has scheduled a plan to go over to her male friends house without even asking me about it. I may be being unreasonable but she knows I’m insecure about things like that. I don’t like the guy, I think he doesn’t see her as a friend but is trying for something else.
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{ "description": "not wanting my husbands nephew to come", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - for not wanting my husbands nephew to come?
Sorry for the format, im on mobile. A little backstory - my husband and I bought airplane tickets for my mother in laws bday so her and his little sister can come visit us for the first time since we moved back to my hometown. ( we’ve been living here for 4 years). I’m pretty excited to see them. Later on that week, m...
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{ "description": "ignoring my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my girlfriend
okay buckle up cause this is a long one and im gonna do my best to do justice to both sides of the story even I do feel im in the right, anyway it started earlier today my gf and her family are getting evicted from there house even tho they were paying rent the landlord wanted to tear down the house for some reason and...
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{ "description": "being upset at my psych", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being upset at my psych?
I went to refill my prescription at CVS the other day, and they told me my doctor denied the refill and said I’d have to call the office to get one. Mildly peeved, but whatever. It’s nobody’s fault. Yesterday, I called my doctor and asked for a refill on my prescription, and I thought all was good. Until I checked my W...
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{ "description": "denying my ex friend a penny for his dad's birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for denying my ex friend a penny for his dad's birthday
Ok so way way back when I was like maybe 8 I was walking down the train tracks with my ex friend we lived right next to the train tracks and I would sometimes put pennies on the tracks so that they would get squashed and look cool. so Anyway we were talking and he thought that it was super cool and his dads birthday wa...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable by someone else doing kink stuff as a coping tactic in public", "pronormative_score": 102, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being uncomfortable by someone else doing kink stuff as a coping tactic in public?
I'm at college in the UK, so my friendship group is made up of teens between ages of 16 and 19. I'm kinda friends with a girl, we'll call her M, as we have some mutual friends. She has some form of anxiety disorder to the point where she has a panic attack every 1/2 days. From very brief discussions I know that it was ...
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{ "description": "harassing my ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for harassing my ex?
The title may lead you to jump to conclusions, but please read the whole thing. So this is a pretty long situation and it might get confusing, but seeing as this has been on my mind and I recently discovered this sub, I decided to make a post on here. So about a year ago I was dating this girl I had known for a while...
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{ "description": "leaving low tips", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for leaving low tips?
So there was an event at a bar/club I bought a ticket for online, *pre-paid* - but when I got there, even though I had a ticket, they were unable to let me in due to "max capacity". I mean, normally I don't take it to heart and either wait or find somewhere else, but this was something that I paid for, so I figured it...
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AITA for workplace disagreement
I'm 19, I work at a pizza place as a driver. Also there is a pizza maker and his adult son who makes deliveries, they have been there longer than I have. The adult son is a little bit odd and definitely has something mentally wrong, nothing extreme. Nov- boss told me I was getting a raise. night that I was supposed t...
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{ "description": "kicking my girlfriend out my house kinda", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking my girlfriend out my house kinda?
So I'll try keep this as short as possible, me and my gf have been dating for half a year, she now spends everyday at mine and sleeps over, I don't ask her for rent and she does not contribute to bills. I live in relative luxury compared to her rented room (which is a reason why we are always at mine). Top of line appl...
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{ "description": "not responding", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not responding?
Hello everybody, I was lonely so I made a psot to r/penpals. It went quite good, found few new friends and loneliness is rather gone now. But I have a struggle with one guy. We switched quite fast to Whatsapp, because both of us find reddit chat/messages bit uncomfortable. We talked quite a lot, had laugh, had troubles...
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{ "description": "continuing to volunteer with worship activities for my university's christian group, while secretly no longer believing in god", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for continuing to volunteer with worship activities for my university’s Christian group, while secretly no longer believing in god?
I became a Christian almost two years ago, however recently I have realized that I don’t really believe that anymore. I haven’t told any of my Christian friends from the campus ministry yet. However, I still volunteer with worship activities such as singing or playing guitar in the worship band, running sound, lighting...
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{ "description": "exposing a friend's semi-secret social anxiety in front of our colleagues", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for exposing a friend's semi-secret social anxiety in front of our colleagues?
I have a friend who is generally quite talkative and "high". A few weeks ago, she casually said that she has social anxiety during a conversation of ours. I think I changed the subject to something more lighthearted and the issue was not brought up for about a month. However, yesterday, whilst she was having a small g...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my girlfriend for getting dinner with another guy", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset at my girlfriend for getting dinner with another guy?
So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now. We’ve had our ups and downs (As all relationships do) but things have been going really well lately. Today I left for vacation with my family and asked my girlfriend what her plans were for the evening. She told me that she was meeting up with her friends ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend how I really feel about her abusive actions towards me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for telling my friend how I really feel about her abusive actions towards me?
Hi all :D I was just wondering if I would be the asshole if I told my former friend how her actions made me feel; I'm a victim of child abuse, and as a result, I developed some issues with anxiety and depression. My friend is very aware of this and has even attempted to help me when I needed it, however as our friends...
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{ "description": "having a female friend on instagram", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having a female friend on instagram?
I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years now, I wouldn't say weve had the easiest relationship but we've made it this far so I think that's saying something. There is a woman I met at the gym(let's call her Jen) that I have been friends with since I started going there about 2ish years ago (it's a crossfit type facil...
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{ "description": "leaving work early on my last day to watch football", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving work early on my last day to watch football
This might be a shp idk, but I suddenly feel guilty about it. So today was my last day at a job as I started a new job this week. I put in my two weeks notice, but told my now former boss if he needed more time then that I could helpon the weekends for another week or two. He asks if i could work this weekend to train ...
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{ "description": "not feeling guilty for giving someone herpes", "pronormative_score": 205, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not feeling guilty for giving someone herpes?`
So I (22f) slept with someone about a year ago. They gave me genital herpes. I later learnt that they knew they had herpes but didn't think it was important to tell their partners. So fast forward to a few weeks ago. I met a guy (25m) and we start talking, we flirt over text a bit and we decide to meet up. Before any...
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{ "description": "wrecking an autistic girls romance", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I wrecked an autistic girls romance?
This is complicated so please hear out the back story, tldr at the end. My boyfriend and I [both 25] live in a big apartment complex with a dog park that allows for a bit of a social life within the community. We get to know some of our neighbors. A girl started showing up with her dog and she was pretty obviously some...
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AITA in this situation between my sister and me?
My sister always has something to say whenever me and my mom are arguing, and she always has something bad to say about me and takes my mom’s side regardless of whether she heard what we were arguing about or if I was right. She always does this, and one time she kicked me for no reason. So one day I called her a fucki...
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{ "description": "dropping bags of dog poop in the street", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for dropping bags of dog poop in the street?
First off, I've never owned a dog. I live in a relatively densely populated and popular walking area. Every week on trash day I wheel my trash can out in the morning and in the evening when I get back from work, there will usually be at least one bag of dog shit at the bottom of my empty trash can. For the first few we...
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{ "description": "taking the parking spot", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking the parking spot.
Ok normal scene. PACKED parking lot on a Saturday. Driving up and down aisles and 100% of the spots are occupied. Bingo, I see someone 5 spots ahead shut their hatchback. Stop the van with just enough room for hatchback to reverse out and wait for the free spot. I see a white sedan coming from the opposite direction a...
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{ "description": "selling gift card for face value", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for selling gift card for face value
My grandparents bought me a $40 gift card for a shop i haven't shopped at in a while for Christmas. While I appreciated the gift I just don't really like that shops stuff anymore. So instead of wasting the money by not using it or buying something I don't like I sold it on Facebook. I still got $40 and I got myself s...
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{ "description": "not cuddling my gf because I'm scared of sleep paralysis", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not cuddling my gf because i'm scared of sleep paralysis?
If I sleep on my back or side I almost always get sleep paralysis and it scares me so I force myself to sleep on my stomach. Sometimes that doesn't even help because I sometimes still get sleep paralysis but at least I don't have to look at whatever is on me. My gf thinks it's bullshit
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{ "description": "wanting my gf to shave", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for wanting my gf to shave.
Simple question. My girlfriend enjoys recieiving oral but if I do it and she hasn't shaved down there in a while it makes my tongue sore. Sometimes she'll shave of her own accord but I feel like I might come off as a huge jerk if I bring it up. So my question is do you think it'd be ok to bring up?
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{ "description": "pushing an abortion on my ex gf", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for pushing an abortion on my ex GF ?
Sorry if there are big mistakes, english is not my first language. All of this happenned in the span of 5 years but I still feel guilty deep down. ​ I dated my best friend for 7 years (from 16 to 23yo) before we broke up and went our separate ways because even though we loved each other, things didnt work...
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{ "description": "respecting authority, even though I'm black", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for respecting authority, even though I'm black?
Ok, first time poster here, and I've been having this thought in the back of my mind for a few days now, ever since I've have this conversation with a black co-worker of mine. Some backstory before I start though. I was bullied though out my middle school and high school life by other black people for how I walk, talk,...
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{ "description": "telling fiancée that my first kiss was with her, when in reality it was with my close friend the night before our first date", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling [24m] fiancée [24f] that my first kiss was with her, when in reality it was with my close friend [21f] the night before our first date?
The night before my first date with the girl who is now my fiancée, my best friend (a girl) gave me my first kiss ever, as "practice" and to give me a "confidence boost" (quotes because those were her words) before the date. I used to have a big crush on my friend, but by the time of our kiss, I had long moved on, and...
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{ "description": "leaving my trans boyfriend right after I found out he was", "pronormative_score": 464, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for leaving my trans boyfriend right after I found out he was ?
Alright so before you get on and yell at me for anything. It's not exactly as harsh as the title might suggested it. So I was dating this guys let's call him John. John and I were an happy couple, I lived everything about him. His personnaility was amazing his physique was a tad feminine but I actually liked it a lot...
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{ "description": "feeling hurt about this", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling hurt about this?
This is some basic teenage bs and now that I read it its chaotic and some stuff may be irrelevant but idk, even few judgments would be great. Last summer I was on holiday at my godfather's . I liked one girl whom i ve kind of known from last year when i visited the same place. I didnt fall for her on first sight, but ...
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{ "description": "reporting a wierd teacher", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i (f15) reported a wierd teacher?
Okay so my biology teacher is a male about 50 or so and he's said some really sketch things but I'm not sure if I would be overreacting if I reported him because if it. One time a few months ago we were talking about genetics and he said that one person (when it comes to procreating) can change everything. He then used...
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{ "description": "not accepting an old keyboard", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not accepting an old keyboard?
So my mom bought a keyboard off some website from a guy, and offered to give it to me, though she said she bought it for herself. I rejected it since (I didn't tell her this) I was kinda planning on buying my own. She looked a little sad, and my brother seems angry at me and kept saying "I don't see why you don't want ...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "buying my wife a switch", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 48 }
AITA for buying my wife a Switch
Throwaway because my wife knows I’m active on reddit and knows my handle. So, due a recent lapse of judgment, I am unemployed. My wife is a night shift LPN. She makes okay money, we’ve been getting by. She’s been babysitting on the weekends recently for a friend of a friend which has helped. So the other day she ca...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "taking my wii that my sister gave my niece without asking me first", "pronormative_score": 148, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for taking my wii that my sister gave my niece without asking me first
So basically I came down to visit my sister, and found my wii I have been looking for for the last year. I bought it in 2016 for $150 at gamestop. I heard my niece talking about it and asked is that my wii? My sister told me it was but I couldnt take it because niece plays with it all the time. I offered to let her buy...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "being frustrated that my Boyfriend won't move", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Being Frustrated That My Boyfriend Won't Move?
Background: I (21f) foolishly married a man I only knew for three months (before you ask - yes, he's military) and let him whisk me away across the country. As I should have expected they would, things went poorly and now I'm stuck halfway across the country from my family. While we were married, we adopted several (...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to show me the lease of the appartment", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my roommate to show me the lease of the appartment?
Allright so here goes, I've been living with a woman for three months now and paid $495 monthly for rent and internet access. I mean I have a full time job so paying it isn't really an issue but I just have this weird vibe about the whole situation. First off i moved in the middle of December because living with my dad...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "telling my wife she is expected to cook, clean dishes, and do the laundry", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 52 }
AITA for telling my wife she is expected to cook, clean dishes, and do the laundry
Now, for all of you women out there that are ready to jump all over me and call me a male chauvinist pig, hear me out for a second... It was just a few weeks prior where my wife told me: “ *Yes, I expect you to fix things around the house, mow the lawn, and take care of the ca*r” ​ Fast-forward to l...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "getting upset with my boyfriend for refusing to go on holiday with me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend for refusing to go on holiday with me
So we went on holiday last year in July with a group of friends which was great but I'm wanting to go away just the two of us this year. We're both quite young, at 19, and still live at home with our own parents and don't have to pay anything apart from food. He has his car insurance to pay for but other than that, he ...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "telling my sister not to bring her boyfriend to sleep over anymore", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling my sister not to bring her boyfriend to sleep over anymore?
So I (18F) and my sister (25F) both live in my mothers house and my mom doesn’t come home mon-friday and hates when she sees my sisters boyfriend at her house so she tells her not to bring him here, especially when she isn’t there. It really all started with me because before my sister would have sex (very loudly) whi...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "supposedly intimidating a girl that thought I was gay", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for supposedly intimidating a girl that thought I was gay?
Ok, so I (20M) went to a pre-drinks recently. In the UK, a ''pre drinks'' is what you do before you got a nightclub. You drink before going to the club at uni. Not sure its the same in America as you can't go nightclubs until you're 21. Anyway, a bit about myself. I am 6''1 and dress really well. I don't consider myse...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not trusting my husband with our baby", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not trusting my husband with our baby?
My husband and I have a 7 week old baby. We’ve worked out a schedule so that we both get at least 6 hours of sleep a night by alternating shifts. I owe him a huge amount of credit as I know it’s not something all Dads do. I have dealt with post partum anxiety since giving birth and my he believes that I am irrational...
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{ "description": "not being ok with my mom inviting herself to my apartment and saying she's taking my bed for a couple of days", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not being ok with my mom inviting herself to my apartment and saying she’s taking my bed for a couple of days.
I go to school a few hours away from home and am graduating with my master’s this May. So, a lot of my family who're coming up for the commencement need a place to stay for a night or two. So far everyone who's coming up is just getting a hotel, but then the other day my mom decided to inform me she was staying at ...
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{ "description": "telling my bff why her choices are wrong", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I tell my BFF why her choices are wrong?
We will call my best friend Anna. Anna is always struggling with life. It seems like everything she does turns back around and bites her in the ass. It’s usually for good reason too. Anna found out the man she was dating was married. Instead of leaving his lying ass, she just kept trying to get him to admit it. When...
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{ "description": "putting my bag next to me on the bus", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for putting my bag next to me on the bus?
I catch the school bus every morning and afternoon and i always put my bag next to me on the seat. If people want a seat then i assume they'll ask but no one ever asks, even when the bus is full. I always have my earphones in and am often staring down at my phone so maybe i seem unapproachable? I've also been told i lo...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "being extremely angry at my friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being extremely angry at my friend?
I don't really know where to begin, i'll just start somewhere i guess and i'll try my best to explain both sides of the story. I have this good friend, let's call him Sam, for over a year now. We bonded over a common interest, which is Pokemon GO (if you're about to leave after that, don't, because it's not about the...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "recovering photos off a broken drive without first telling the customer the price first", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for recovering photos off a broken drive without first telling the customer the price first
Hey guys, ​ I had this one girl write to me asking if I can reinstall her broken Windows. I told her sure and that I charge X amount of money for it - she agreed. Few days later I finally get her laptop and start working on it. Turns out the HDD is broken and since it was a pretty old laptop she decided it...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "resenting my wife for gaining weight", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for resenting my wife for gaining weight?
Me and my wife have been together for 5 years, married for 3 and had our first kid about a year ago. Before she got pregnant we were both workout/fitness junkies. We worked out every day we eat right (though admittedly had at least our fair share of cheat days) and kept ourselves in great shape. It might sound vain b...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "never covering shifts at work", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for never covering shifts at work?
To give more detail, ive worked here for about 1.5 years and for thee first 6-7 months id always cover shifts no big deal. as time went on i realized people were calling out nearly every other day and i got tired of never really having days off or having to cancel plans so i began just telling the person i could not c...
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{ "description": "refusing to sign up for DoorDash", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i refuse to sign up for DoorDash?
So, my sister owes me a somewhat large sum of money due to not paying her phone bill (something that falls back on myself as I'm the one who offered to put her on my plan). She hasn't held a steady 9-5 job in years, and has resorted to jobs like Uber, Instacart, DoorDash.. Shes drives a ton and has been able to earn a ...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on my sister in law", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the cops on my sister in law?
My sister in law is 24 and has three kids. Two have already been taken away, but the third is only a couple weeks old so she still has that one. In the past she’s been neglectful and chosen men and drugs over the other children. Right before thanksgiving, she went to a rehab program instead of jail for a child abuse ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not wanting people stay every weekend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting people stay every weekend?
Am I the asshole for this? Backstory: My best friend, my sister and I decided to all move in together. Shortly after, my best friend and I began dating. (I can feel the judgement waves, cringe, I know). So it went pear shaped, we broke up. Amicable. Spent time apart. I moved on with my life as soon as possible so that...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my grieving father", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my grieving father?
So 18 months ago my older brother passed away. It's been really tough on us and we've all had to find ways to cope, except my father. My father deals with it by drinking. He drinks then he goes on these days long tantrums about how he's depressed and hates his life. He lost his job one time because of these episodes....
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not telling my brother his gf is cheating", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not telling my brother his gf is cheating
Ok, obligatory I'm on mobile so excuse any errors bla bla... This is gonna be a long one. My brother (23) has been dating this girl on and off for 3 years now. I will refer to my brother as Ryan and his girlfriend as Allie. I never liked Allie because when they first started dating she pushed Ryan away from all of his ...
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{ "description": "letting my hair loose", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for letting my hair loose
This happened just now and I’m still mad I like to grow out my hair so I can get that saske look to it. So normally I’d comb it to the side and it would stay like that. I intended to keep it that way until I could drop it down to my neck. Then yesterday, I let it loose because it was warm and I felt like it. Enti...
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{ "description": "telling my bf's best friend to stop coming to me with his problems", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my bf's best friend to stop coming to me with his problems?
A little background, I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and have met his best friend about 10 times. He recently broke up with his long term girlfriend and keeps coming to me for advice and to talk about it. It honestly makes me feel weird, because we don't know each other very much an he rather talks to me than ...
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{ "description": "not letting an ex friend of my wife talk to her and interposing myself between them", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting an ex friend of my wife talk to her and interposing myself between them?
Tl;dr: wife had an emotionally draining friend she cut off after she admitted to being in love with my wife. AITA for not letting this ex friend talk to my wife? Some of you may remember a post I made a while ago asking if I was the asshole for threatening a restraining order on an ex friend of my wife who’d admitted ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "telling my husband to stop referring to my sister as 'babe'", "pronormative_score": 71, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my husband to stop referring to my sister as 'babe'?
This is so fucking stupid. Throwaway because both know my account. ​ Some months ago my husband, my sister, and I were shopping together. Someone assumed my sister and my husband were married and instead of correcting it they played along. I was annoyed but thought it was a one-time thing so I didn't co...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "skipping a planned dinner with a friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for skipping a planned dinner with a friend?
I have this good friend, call her A, who can be a little annoying sometimes. She'll keep me up all night when she gets too drunk and then doesn't apologize for putting me through that, is late to a lot of things, doesn't understand sarcasm (which is big for me since I use it all the time lol), and doesn't get a lot of ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "whispering in the theater", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for whispering in the theater?
I'd like to start off by saying I don't go to movie theaters or live theaters very often, because I have serious auditory processing problems. I'd usually rather wait and watch something at home with subtitles, because otherwise I can barely understand what is being said, ESPECIALLY if there's singing. My boyfriend is...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "telling my sister I don't want to hang out, after she walked almost 6 miles in the cold to get here and she brought me a donut", "pronormative_score": 52, "contranormative_score": 84 }
AITA for telling my sister I don’t want to hang out, AFTER she walked almost 6 miles in the cold to get here and she brought me a donut?
So. Everyone in my family knows that I’m a night owl. I’ll wake up around 7am on weekdays to say bye to my husband before he leaves for work, and then usually go back to sleep until 12-1 (I’m disabled and so do not work). On weekends, my husband wakes me up with a quick breakfast so I can take my meds, and then I go ba...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "skipping a really good friend's birthday because I would have felt uncomfortable if I went there", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for skipping a really good friend's birthday because I would have felt uncomfortable if I went there?
(before you read I have to apologize if there are grammatical errors in my post. It's not my first language and feel free to correct me because I'm trying to become better.) So the thing is that I became part of a quite large friend group. The most loud people in this group were born in February so one guy decided to ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my coworker slept with my brother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being upset that my coworker slept with my brother?
Background information: I’m M18, she’s F18, bro is M17. I have a child with my ex. To clarify, I am upset/annoyed with both of them Me and the girl “Sarah” were originally “talking”, flirting pretty hard core and had traded some nudes .had We ended up going to my place(I had previously discussed this with my brothe...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friends for not sending me some work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad at my friends for not sending me some work.
I was sick for a topic we did at school and I have been asking for ages for someone to send me what I missed, today someone agreed too but I’ve been waiting nearly 4 hrs whilst they, ‘just do one more thing’ and tbh I’m kinda getting pissed would i be an asshole if I got really mad at them because I always send them an...
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{ "description": "wanting to quit", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to quit?
This is a long, sorry!* * am Canadian Around this time last year, a coworker ('X') left the team and I was tasked with learning their job and training a replacement who joined us 2 months later. Oh and I'm still maintaining my regular fulltime job, except now I'm not taking breaks, eating lunch at my desk and logging...
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AITA: Dinner
We made dinner. A beef stew of sorts. Everything was going perfect. Husband takes a spoon out of the dirty water (bacon, fish, and shrimp), four plus hours of sitting there, and stirs a portion of the stew. I refuse to eat this. He tells me he scooped the contaminated part out. Am I the asshole for not wanting to e...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for stalking my spotify", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for stalking my spotify
So discord has this feature where it publicly shows what you are listening to on Spotify. My friend always looks at it and makes comments on the music I listen to, for example: "you listened to that 10 mins ago find a new song" Then I got mad at him saying why are you always monitoring me and such. So AITA here?
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{ "description": "staying at his place", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For staying at his place?
We have been dating ~2 years. In the beginning i had my own place and we never hung out at his place. he spent 5/6 nights a week at mine and still paid them rent even though he was never home (I was even doing his laundry) . Due to circumstances, i moved an hour away to live with my stepmom and drove down on my days...
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{ "description": "wanting to date someone so he doesn't get hurt again", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting to date someone so he doesn't get hurt again?
AITA- I've known this kid (let's call him Aidan) for a couple months and we've talked on occasion. More recently we've gotten close enough to discuss his past relationships and how he's been taken advantage of in multiple ways (nothing physical) and has been just falling in with worse and worse people. This dude needs ...
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{ "description": "wanting to still be friends with him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Wanting To Still Be Friends With Him?
My best friend is a guy, 18 years old, and I'm a girl, 17 years old. We worked together and basically were inseparable. Last spring, I started to develop a bit of a crush on him, and it honestly felt mutual. Summer came, and I was traveling tons and not working much. He completely stopped talking to me, there wasn't ev...
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{ "description": "keeping my toxic friend away from our mutual friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for keeping my toxic friend away from our mutual friends? (Reposted to abide by rules)
I have a friend in school who is pretty rude and downright insults me throughout the day (I’ll call her Kristine), but I kinda just deal with it so as to not make things awkward between our entire friend group. Today, one of my teachers presented me with the option of creating my classes seating chart rather than her...
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AITA or is my friend being a bus/train nazi? Passenger etiquette question.
My friend was ranting on Facebook with a photo he took of some guy in a train seat sitting next to a "reserved for handicap" spot. The guy had his backpack on the seat. I asked him if the train was empty or full. He told me that it doesn't matter and to stop trying to play devils advocate. I told him that that wasn't ...
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{ "description": "not inviting my fiance's mother to the wedding", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not inviting my fiance's mother to the wedding?
This is my first time posting and I really need to know if I'm the asshole here. Im engaged to my wonderful fiance after being together for two amazing years. Our family and friends are happy but his mother. His mother is a christian which I don't have a problem.She raised her two children religious. ((My fiance l...
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{ "description": "sticking up for my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I stuck up for my mom?
Before I start this I need to say that I love my mother with all my heart and appreciate everything she has ever done for me and apologize ahead of time for all the text, theres a lot of things that needs to be accompanied by context. ​ So this kid of started my senior year of high school. I moved to ...
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AITA because a guy tipped me and then left, but came back and wanted his tip back???
Basically like the title says. I was at work and waited on this guy. He says thanks and leaves without wanting his change. He literally leaves, like in his car and left; drives off onto the road towards the highway. I assume because of this the change is mine. He comes back a bit later after I’ve pocketed the cash a...
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{ "description": "reporting people to the cops", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for reporting people to the cops?
They were Black Lives Matter racists and doing weed so I reported them (I don’t like virtue signalling)to kill two birds with one stone. One got arrested and the others got police warnings and cautions.
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{ "description": "hating my mother now", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my mother now
I don't even know where to begin but I guess I'll try to make it short and sweet, or not. Back in June, I decided to do music full time even tho prior too this has always been a passion of mine, something that makes me extremely happy and fulfilled since I was about 4 years old I knew I wanted to be a singer! Growing u...
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{ "description": "not wanting a traditional wedding", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting a traditional wedding?
Even before I was officially engaged, I made it explicitly clear I and my fiance didn't want a traditional wedding. My family says that's fine, have a non-traditional wedding. Well, cut to now when we're about to get married, and my family is constantly hounding me for doing traditional aspects of a wedding. For sta...
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{ "description": "not leaving a friend of 6 month staying at my home until he got another house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not leaving a friend of 6 month staying at my home until he got another house ?
I've meet this guy because he sells weed, and the rural rules here is, at least, to offers some drink to your guest and talk a bit (I live deep in the moutain). Due to this and the fact I don't have any social contact here (only mu husband), we became friends, and I helped him a lot. Basicaly, he is just a pot smoker ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend she is a \"cat whisperer\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend she is a "cat whisperer"
So apparently she is very mad at me now, but I still don't understand what exactly happened. AITA for telling her the joke? So to put everything in perspective, she is very shy, and I'm also shy. We have known each other for several months. She likes biology and topics related to animals, and her family also has a lot...
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{ "description": "telling my Uni Project members that I don't want to meet at nights anymore", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I told my Uni Project members that I don't want to meet at nights anymore.
I'm on a team project with a few other people and our schedules don't really line up very well. We have a set time during an afternoon for meeting but we often need to meet more than once a week. I have classes late at night MWF and since I work all morning, I don't really get anytime to myself before I have to get t...
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{ "description": "yelling at my depressed sister for not doing housework", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for yelling at my depressed sister for not doing housework?
throwaway in case she sees my account. My sister (19F) and I (22F) both live with our parents who are currently on a two-month vacation. She studies full-time and works two-part time jobs, and I work full-time. Recently she’s become so lazy. Her room is an absolute mess, she only sweeps/vacuums when I tell her to, and...
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{ "description": "leaving my sister-in-law's wedding early", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I left my sister-in-law’s wedding early?
My husband’s sister is getting married Saturday, and wants no kids at the wedding except her own. I have an 8 year old, a 6 year old, and a 4 month old who is exclusively breastfed. My mom is watching all three of them, and I will be leaving pumped milk for the baby. I work full time and pump while I am at work, so ...
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{ "description": "wanting a relationship with my wifes sister", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for wanting a relationship with my wifes sister?
I know this question has been asked before and I know the typical responses, but try to hear my point of view. My(M31) wife(F33) and I have been married for 11 years, together for 14. We have always had our differences, I am very driven, up early and ready to go/ she sleeps until noon. I move quickly to get things done...
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WIBTA if I got angry at my friend because of stuff she always brings up
Ok so some background context before we get into this I(17 mtf) have a friend (also 17 mtf) for the record mtf is the acronym people use for trans women. Anyway so my and my friend who we will call j have known eachother for a time, almost 4 years. But recently as I talk to her it feels like se concentrating on the thi...
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{ "description": "not being able to feed my sister's cats twice a day", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being able to feed my sister's cats twice a day?
Haven't posted here before, but hey, here goes. It's a simple issue, but with a whole lot of background, and probably not all that interesting. Please ask if something is unclear, as I am emotional while writing this and probably glossed over some things. Background: My older sister and I have always had a relationsh...
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{ "description": "playing a video really loud in a quiet space so the other person would leave", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 76 }
AITA for playing a video really loud in a quiet space so the other person would leave?
So I’m a student at a pretty big university. I have a couple of hours in between my first two classes of the day, so I usually try and snag this small sound proof study room to get some work done in between classes. So this particular day its empty, so I rush in and shut the door and unpack my stuff. This study room is...
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{ "description": "not wanting to try a new food when I'm at a restaurant with my mom", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to try a new food when I’m at a restaurant with my mom.
hi! Some background info is that I have an issue with sensory processing. My main issue with my senses is that certain textures make me gag and feel sick. I don’t like it either, I want to be able to eat everything and I have been broadening my horizons, but its difficult in a public environment while I have food in th...
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{ "description": "not giving my friend a different reason for declining her bachelorette party invitation", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my friend a different reason for declining her bachelorette party invitation?
In a couple of months, I will be a bridesmaid for an old friend "Sarah". This isnt about Sarah, but here's some more background info. Sarah's bachelorette party and wedding are across the country (about 10 hours round trip flight, each time), in the same month. Another friend, "Callie" is also getting married the wee...
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{ "description": "not encouraging my 6yo to have a relationship with her bio dad and 4 half siblings", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not encouraging my 6yo to have a relationship with her bio dad and 4 half siblings?
I was married for 4 years and had a child. Biodad (BD) raised daughter for 2.5 years and did not work, despite my pleading for him to get a job and put her in daycare. He refused on the grounds he didnt want strangers raising her or risk her being abused. BD has 4 other children with 2 different women, prior to our rel...
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{ "description": "hating a friend for a grudge 1 year ago", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating a friend for a grudge 1 year ago
I’m on mobile. I am English. I am not sorry. Blah. This is a somewhat petty hatred. T (her name from now on) has always been loud and obnoxious. In our friendship group there is the close 4 people, her being included in this. She has always acted as if everyone loves her and to the extent, they do. I started disliking ...
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{ "description": "offering a tissue to a sniffling woman", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for offering a tissue to a sniffling woman?
Pretty simple situation, I was in public and a random stranger sat down beside me and had a wicked case of the sniffles. Every 30 seconds, *sniff*. In case it is relevant, they appeared to be 70+ years old and were accompanied by what appeared to be their granddaughter. I didn't have the option of leaving my position a...
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{ "description": "not wanting people to look over my shoulder while drawing", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting people to look over my shoulder while drawing
So I am a university which a large art program, there’s a lounge dedicated for people in the arts to chill out (watching T.V. and drawing and stuff). For some reason, there are a lot of people that will walk in, and look over your shoulder to see what you are drawing. I am generally an anxious and private person, I onl...
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