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{ "description": "wanting to tell our College President about my girlfriends professors behavior", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to tell our College President about my girlfriends professors behavior?
On mobile sorry and will add tl;dr. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over three months but have known each other for a couple months prior. She is an education major and her professors are insane. Today one of them quoted an article of some sort in which she dropped the N word with a hard r. Not once...
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{ "description": "swearing and \"threatening the life\" my boyfriends coworker after I told her not to touch my hair. she did anyways", "pronormative_score": 134, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for swearing and "threatening the life" my boyfriends coworker after I told her NOT to touch my hair. She did anyways.
**I wasn't actually going to kill her.** Strangers touching your hair is something that people with natural hair gotta deal with all the time. I've been experiencing it since I was a little kid. I'm not a dog and I don't want to be pet. Regardless, no one likes being touched without their permission. Especially when...
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{ "description": "calling my wife out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my wife out?
I'll do my best to keep this simple and unbiased. Our cat is old and in poor health. One of her important meds was running out, and my wife did research and found a place to order it online. We used my name and email, but her phone number, at her insistence. Meds ran out, and she got a bit mad at me for not keeping o...
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{ "description": "ruining my Alcoholic/Addict from potential relapse after being 90 days sober", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ruin my Alcoholic/Addict from potential relapse after being 90 days sober?
The Alcoholic-Addict (37M) in my life has graduated from a 45 day rehabilitation program(second round in rehab) and is now 90 days sober. I am a huge cannabis advocate and have been smoking for more then half my life (29F) His 12 step program in NA is totally against any kind of mind altering substance. We have been s...
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{ "description": "reclining my plane seat without asking the person behind me first", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for reclining my plane seat without asking the person behind me first?
Just yesterday, I was called rude for not asking the people behind me if I could recline my seat on a 3 hour flight. I fell asleep early in the flight and about halfway through, I groggily reclined my seat a bit in attempt to get more comfortable and the person behind me proceeded to push my chair over and over while t...
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{ "description": "not holding up my offer to pay half of girl's rent", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not holding up my offer to pay half of girl’s rent
TLDR at the bottom My boyfriend is a military vet that lives off of the GI bill of school. We recently decided to move in together so he opted to have his lease taken over (not subleased). We advertised the lease as $5 less than it actual was. This was not intentional. The leasing office had messed up his lease amoun...
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{ "description": "feeling hurt when my friend doesn't wait for me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for feeling hurt when my friend doesn't wait for me?
My friend and I are both students in the same major and so we ended up having a lot of the same classes, which was nice at first because most of our classes are on the opposite end of campus as the dorms and we'd often walk there together. Recently, however, we've been going together less and less because she always g...
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{ "description": "wanting my brother and his girlfriend, who are visiting, to sleep on a pull out couch in the living room", "pronormative_score": 134, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for wanting my brother and his girlfriend, who are visiting, to sleep on a pull out couch in the living room?
I live in Boston and my brother, who's two years younger and a senior in college, has decided to visit with his girlfriend for a few days later this month. This past Christmas we were both home with our parents and he brought up that he would be visiting Boston come March. I said he was free to crash at my apartment wi...
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{ "description": "pushing my son into social situations", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pushing my son into social situations?
I don't know how to condense this properly, it's a *long* story and I'm frustrated even as I write it, but I'll do my best: My parents think that I'm pushing my son too hard to be social. He's 7 and not uncommonly complains about not playing with other kids in the neighborhood. We have it pretty easy now considering w...
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{ "description": "only going to one of my coworker's two baby showers", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for only going to one of my coworker's two baby showers?
My coworker is pregnant with her first. She's having a "main" baby shower with friends and family, and a "work" baby shower for people she's worked with past and present. She's close to a lot of former and current employees at the company I work for. I've been invited to both showers. We've worked together for 7 years...
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AITA Ex caught me with new girl
I know logic should say... she’s your ex- who cares? Anyways, my ex was a not a very good person... narcissistic, petty, generally unstable. I was with her for almost 1.5 years and it was draining. We broke up in between for a couple months and then - maybe because I was settling? Maybe because I thought I left somet...
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{ "description": "getting mad at an acquaintance-friend who I was helping out with a place to stay who disrespected me and my home and then held them to the previously agreed upon rent agreement", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at an acquaintance-friend who I was helping out with a place to stay who disrespected me and my home and then held them to the previously agreed upon rent agreement?
FYI, this is kind of a long one. So, I have an acquaintance-friend (we'll call her AF; she lies somewhere between just an acquaintance and my closer-but-not-inner circle of friends. AF was moving back to my town, after having left for a couples weeks due to being forced out of a bad living situation, and so I said tha...
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AITA at work?
So my boss hired me at $11/hr, full time, M-F. Then she tells me I need to work seven hour days M-F and five hours on Saturday. I tell her no, I have chronic illnesses, I can’t do that. So she cuts my hours to hire someone else. (At this point, the business was only a few months old, so I find it reasonable to not to a...
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{ "description": "standing in front of a shorter person at a concert", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for standing in front of a shorter person at a concert?
I went to a concert last weekend and had an interaction that is still nagging at me. I truly don't know if I was the asshole. Sorry for the length, I want to include all the details. ​ tl:dr A shorter guy at a concert tried to prevent us from standing 4 feet in front of him to protect his view, but we stoo...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my gf for not texting me she was going to be late when she knew I was preparing a meal for her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being annoyed at my GF for not texting me she was going to be late when she knew I was preparing a meal for her.
Girlfriend and I had been texting all day and I had told her that I'd be making her a meal ready when she got home from babysitting. She leaves the same time every week. However, tonight half hour had gone by and she had not arrived home so I text her and she said she hasn't even left yet, she's talking to her brother ...
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{ "description": "not wanting anything to do with my dad after he cheated on my mom with a guy", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting anything to do with my dad after he cheated on my mom with a guy...
A few months ago my mom found out my dad was cheating. She was obviously extremely hurt, but then to make matters worse she found out it was with a guy who was half my dads age and not much older than me. We’re not homophobic but my mom felt even more betrayed and like he had been lying to us about who he was all this ...
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WIBTA to tell my girlfriend I don't want her to get a nose ring
brief background, We've been dating for just over a year and she just now wants a nose ring, she's had a little sticker type thing on her nose, and it gave her the idea that getting a pericing would be a good idea. I personally don't think it'd be a good look on her but I don't want to feel like an asshole telling her ...
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AITAH Or being sexist?
My wife and I were watching a video of Alexandria Ocasio-Cortex asking questions in an overview committee and I made a comment that she seriously disagreed with. It made me think about whether it was a sexist thing to say so I’d like to check here so I can understand if that’s something I need to work on. I said that...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to stop singing in the car", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For asking my girlfriend to stop singing in the car?
My girlfriend, if she knows the lyrics, will sing to every song along to every song that is played. And she learns the lyrics quickly. When we started dating she wasn't into the same music as me at all (80's new wave) but since I've been playing music on my phone she's learned the lyrics to my favorite songs and sings ...
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{ "description": "making my friend cry after making a short joke", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making my friend cry after making a short joke
My entire family is Jewish and we’re proud of it. My friend has one jewish grandmother, and to me that doesn’t count. She would always make pretty edgy Jew jokes around me and I told her I didn’t like her doing it, because I don’t see her as Jewish. I am 6’1 and she is 5’2. I don’t remember what prefaced the conver...
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{ "description": "distrusting my gf/colleague", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for distrusting my gf/colleague?
Hi AITA friends, to cut the chase short, I started working in the auditing field (tax) a couple of years ago. I met my current GF when I first crossed the threshold to our (soon-to-be) shared room at work and fell in love. She was stunning and we fell for each other when we got to know each other. Things got steamy and...
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{ "description": "trying to avoid my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to avoid my friend?
So, my friend is REALLY annoying and we both have this class together we learn geography, history and politics and when ever im reading the board he obnoxiously laughs so loud the whole class can hear him and he sits next to me so he audibly interupts me with laughing causing me slip up while reading. while im reading...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend he couldn't watch a football game", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend he couldn't watch a football game?
My boyfriend and I went on a trip over a long weekend (3 days, 2 nights). Throughout the entirety of the trip planning, I asked for his input - what kind of activities he would like to do, what kind of food he would like to eat, etc. He had a few opinions here and there but for the most part left the planning to me (wh...
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{ "description": "not wanting to eat my wife's dinner", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to eat my wife's dinner?
so my wife made the family a meatloaf and i really don't like it. I thought it smelled awful so i didn't eat it. She claims that i embarrassed her in front of the family by not eating it and it made her feel bad and i was insulting her culinary skills.
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{ "description": "asking our oldest son to stop bringing his dog over during dinner", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask our oldest son to stop bringing his dog over during dinner?
Our oldest son, G (27), lives about 2 miles down the road and joins us for dinner often. He's a single guy and we enjoy having him. He has a young German Shepherd dog (male, neutered, about 1 year old) that he has been training pretty rigorously. The dog is good, for the most part, and we enjoy him. To give an idea...
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{ "description": "getting my wife nothing for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I got my wife nothing for Christmas.
I'm terrible at gift giving, so every year I ask my wife what she wants for Christmas. This year she keeps saying "nothing." We've been married for 7 years, known eachother for almost 20 years, we have a fairly good marriage. I'm not doing it out of spite, I'm doing it because she keeps saying she wants nothing. We n...
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{ "description": "thinking my brothers friend is a leech", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for thinking my brothers friend is a leech?
So, a little background, I don't live at home with my parents, I live abroad but all three of my brothers , 11, 17, 18 years old all still live at home. Even since before I moved out in the mid-end of 2017, my youngest brother's best friend (He's the same age as my youngest brother) has been staying at my parents a lot...
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{ "description": "ignoring my friend's texts or chats or calls because she doesn't listen to my advice", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I ignored my friend's texts or chats or calls because she doesn't listen to my advice
My friend has been in a long term relationship with a guy. They have been together since we were freshmen in college. And now that we have graduated, my other friend and I found jobs. Other friend recommended a job for her boyfriend and I gave some tips in acing the interview to my friend to relay to her boyfriend. He ...
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{ "description": "wanting my wife to go to a bar quarterly-ish", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my wife to go to a bar quarterly-ish?
My wife is a morning person. I’m a night person. We’re both in our 30s. Every now and then, after a party, I want to keep the fun going by ending the night at a bar. Every time she says (in a super sad, pathetic voice) “oookay, yeah. We can go, I don’t want to disappoint you...”. Which doesn’t really make me excited to...
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{ "description": "breaking up over text", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for breaking up over text
I recently broke up with my now ex girlfriend over text. I mainly broke up with her becuase she had a lot of mental health issues ( she was bipolar and had a lot of panic attacks). She would also lose her shit completed if I talked with other girls or if I didn’t text her enough ( despite texting her everyday) thus I s...
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{ "description": "hiding my friendship from my gf", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA For Hiding My Friendship From My GF
So i have this one friend that i knew 2 yeara ago. me and her became super close, i tell her everything and vice versa. Before i got into a relationship with my gf, i used to kinda like my friend but i didnt do anything and after i got into a relationship with my gf, i totally dropped the feeling for my friend. fast ...
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{ "description": "being harsh to my Coworker in Public spaces", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Being Harsh to My Coworker in Public Spaces?
AITA for being rude in office spaces to my coworker/friend who has (and a series of previous mishaps) have given me a ton of extra work? Some necessary background on this: 1. We work in education, so a day missed or a day late is a BIG deal, because we have to cancel class or shorten it. 2. This coworker is my direct ...
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{ "description": "correcting my mom when she misgenders me", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For correcting my mom when she misgenders me?
So a few months ago I came out as a trans woman, meaning I was born a man and now identify as a woman. My mom has been having a hard time dealing with my transition. She keeps calling me my deadname and says "he" instead of "she" like I prefer. My instant reaction when anyone does this is too correct them, doing so hel...
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{ "description": "not warning a tinder date about my weight", "pronormative_score": 1039, "contranormative_score": 98 }
AITA for not warning a Tinder date about my weight?
I've been using Tinder for a few weeks now. My profile picture is a picture of me at the store that I used to work at. A customer came in with a pet pigeon and let the bird sit on my arm, and then I asked him to take the picture with my phone. I didn't use any filters. You can see me from my midriff up to the top of my...
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{ "description": "making a comment on a customers purchase", "pronormative_score": 41, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making a comment on a customers purchase?
So for a bit of context, I work at a grocery store in a small town where you know everyone’s name, and even if you don’t, you recognize the face. I’m a cashier, and to break up the monotony of the day I try my best to make each transaction a little different and personal rather than saying the same script over and over...
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{ "description": "being depressed", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being depressed
I've (18F) been depressed for few years because I don't have friends and also because I got bullied in middle school. I only told my mother about my problem this year and she sometimes is supportive but other times we fight because of she saying how ridiculous my problem is and that I should focus on my studies and sho...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have a joint account with my fiancé", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to have a joint account with my fiancé?
My fiancé (31) and I (32) have been engaged for a few months and together for 3 and a half years. I love him to death and can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him... which is exactly what I thought with my ex husband. In my previous marriage my ex husband suddenly emptied out our joint bank account and left me...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "continuing to park at my school", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for continuing to park at my school?
The parking lot for the school wasn't large by any means, but everyday there would always be about 20 spots no one would use, always the same spots since teachers have assigned parking. I had just got my license and my first car, a little Kia, so of course i was pumped to drive it to school. A few of my older friends a...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my GF's sister engagement", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my GF's sister engagement?
We've been dating for about three years and this is the girl I intend to marry. Her sister's BF is about to propose to her in a few weeks. Initially, when she wanted me to come, my reaction was "what am I going to do there?" (I could've reacted better). But I warmed up to it and was excited to go. I know her sister, bu...
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{ "description": "not doing any of \"my\" work ahead of time and leaving my coworkers to flounder while I'm on vacation", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not doing any of “my” work ahead of time and leaving my coworkers to flounder while I’m on vacation?
So I work shift work- 12 hr days and nights from 6-6. As is the nature of most shift work there are different daily/weekly/monthly tasks for each shift. These tasks are not employee specific, whoever is working that shift that day is responsible for completing the task and signing off on it. There is a general underst...
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{ "description": "trying to get my boyfriend to have sex last night when he said he was busy", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for trying to get my boyfriend to have sex last night when he said he was busy...
Last night he came home from work and I was in the shower. When I came downstairs he was sitting at the table on his laptop and he seemed really stressed. I said hi and went and gave him a kiss and he said hi and kissed me back but he carried on doing whatever he was doing and didn’t really acknowledge me. I sat on his...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "feeling off about her drinking with her guy friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling off about her drinking with her guy friend?
My live in partner(female) has a guy friend who she drinks with, almost on a weekly basis, and it bothers me. I was once invited to hang out with them, but turned it down because I was not feeling upto it on that day. I have since not been invited. Background info: she canceled Christmas dinner, which was to be with m...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "telling my stepdad to \"man up and get a job\"", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my stepdad to "man up and get a job"?
So here's my story. My mom divorced my father about 10 years ago. She then married my step-father, who seemed like a good guy for the first few years. My mom and him had my step-sister. It was after my mom's maternity leave end that things starting going downhill. He left his job to start up his company (it may or may ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "giving my sister an ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for giving my sister an ultimatum
Our father is living with me due to his age. He doesn’t require physical help but more company and reminders to take his meds etc. My daughter and I will be touring several colleges out of state this summer. I have sold my fathers house went through decades of items to move him in with me plus all the work required to ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "being upset on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset on my birthday?
So it’s my 16th birthday today and to sum it up it’s been a bit shit. It started with me waking up at 9 while my parents are at work (of course this is all good, I like my alone time anyway) I don’t see my mum till 11. I go into the lounge and she’s set a nice array of gifts on the table with balloons and a banner an...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend
So some back story, I was in Ecuador for school for 2 weeks. It was kinda stressful and definitely took a lot out of me. When I was coming home, my girlfriend asked if she could come over, I said yes, but I don't want to do anything crazy I just want to relax and have some downtime since I'd basically been doing thin...
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{ "RIGHT": 12, "WRONG": 1 }
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WIBTA If My Friend and I Arranged a Sleepover Without my Brother?
For some context, my brother has been friends with someone for years before me, but this year I also became friends with him since we now go to the same school. He has talked to me about his friendship with my brother, and how he often feels like he isn't supportive. My brother says these little small things like "you'...
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{ "description": "not going with my family to NYC", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going with my family to NYC?
So my family wants to take a trip to New York City. However, I’ve never been much of a traveling person. Am being an asshole for not wanting to go?
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{ "description": "making my girlfriend pay half the bills", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for making my girlfriend pay half the bills
My girlfriend and I have been together for one year. We recently just moved into a new home together. I make roughly $2500 a week after taxes while she makes $350 a week. The house is in her name because I don't have the greatest credit. She is obviously living at the house 365 days of the year with her 5 year old whil...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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AITA if after not responding to my messages or talking to me/hanging out for almost a year now I cut neglectful friends out of my life?
Okay so context I’m a guy who was best friends with two girls all throughout high school (and arguably college/uni), they were there for me all of the time as I was for them and I had a lot in common with them as did they me. Basically I would’ve done anything for them and they would have for me, typical ride or die be...
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{ "description": "trusting the words of two different t-mobile representatives, the result being (another) major hassle", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trusting the words of two different T-Mobile representatives, the result being (another) major hassle?
I ordered -- or tried to order -- a new iPhone over the phone with a representative only to, according to her, have the computer glitch, so she cancelled the order...or so I thought. We ordered a second iPhone on the spot, only to have the first order end up going though. I used my boyfriend's credit card with his perm...
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{ "description": "stopping inviting my friend over to my house", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I stopped inviting my friend over to my house?
Throwaway account because my friends know my real account. Me(17M) and my group of friends(17M) hang out a lot, and whenever we hang out it usually happens at my house (It might be important to note that whenever we hang out we're usually high). My mom works two jobs so she isn't around often which is why my house is ...
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Aita wife(32f) of 5y wants a new engagement ring with bigger solitaire.
Context - We have been married for 5years now. When I asked her to marry me I got her an engagement ring with a solitaire and the whole 9 yards. Our lives have changed for the better in the last few years and we have both moved to a more developed country and also with better jobs. My wife now wants a better ( more ex...
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{ "description": "cutting my friend out my life because she doesn't want anything more", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for cutting my friend out my life because she doesn’t want anything more?
So we had this girl start at our work about 8 months ago now and I was immediately attracted to her but I didn’t want to be too forward Incase things got awkward at work. I decided I’d try and become friends with her whilst flirting and see what happened down the line and she seemed into it. We really hit it off and we...
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AITA My [24M] friends/colleagues are making me feel bad for agreeing to a holiday without my girlfriend [23F]
My parents found an amazing deal to travel to Canada for a week's holiday in the arctic. It's a limited time offer, but it's considerably cheaper than it would be normally, and \*way\* cheaper than peak tourist season. I'd love to go and experience it, however my girlfriend is a teacher, and therefore can't get time o...
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OTHER
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AITA over piercing and inviting friend instead of SO
To preface this I love ear piercings and have several, however my SO does not like them. He has made rude comments in the past but because I love them I just say that I like them and that's what matters. I wanted to get one recently and had asked him to come with and he grumbled about it and never gave me a straight an...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "criticizing my vegan mother", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for criticizing my vegan mother?
My mom is vegan. She’s been vegan for a year, and she’s really grown to fit the stereotype. She tells everyone that she’s vegan, and asks them to try her vegan foods. She has a friend who called her recently. Her friend told her that she’s recently got into “meat jelly” (I know it’s very strange) and that meat jelly ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "cheating in Poker", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for cheating in Poker?
So every week me and my friends always meet up for poker. We usually play around 4 hours of Poker, the buy in is $4.00 with a minimum bet of $0.02. Lately one of my friends has been losing a lot. He has been losing so much that he has stated that he has considered dropping poker night. I certainly don't want this to ha...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 5 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "being to cut off and ghost my crush (who sees me as her best friend) after she got into a relationship with another person", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I were to cut off and ghost my crush (who sees me as her best friend) after she got into a relationship with another person?
I'll start of with some context. I (23year old living in The Netherlands) got a job which requires me to travel to the UK every once in a while. About a year ago I met this girl (22 yo) there. We get to talk, we enjoy our time together, create a friendship and exchange contact information to stay in touch while I was b...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "scattering up my sons toys in retaliation after he scattered the cards I was playing with after I told him not to", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA: I [32m] scattered up my sons [2m] toys in retaliation after he scattered the cards I was playing with after I told him not to.
This is probably better in r/parenting but here it is anyhow. My son is 2 and a half, and he likes to arrange his toy cars in a neat row. He gets VERY angry when you move a car out of line, and so I generally try to respect “his” toys and leave them be. Anyway, he had a bunch of flash cards (numbers, alphabet, etc) a...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "being upset with my mom for not being able to cover her half of the rent", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being upset with my mom for not being able to cover her half of the rent?
I moved back in with my mom in October to help her cover her bills as she has been suffering from some illnesses and has no insurance. She has been effected by the government shutdown as a contractor and told me that I would have to cover more than my half of the bills. Honestly I expressed my frustration with this. ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my brother if he doesn't go to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for cutting ties with my brother if he doesn't go to my wedding.
Backstory: I saw my brother cry for the first time not over death when I left for college in 2013. He has been in drugs and such since then but I think he has his life straighter at this point. Ever since I left he has a hatred towards me because I would side with my mom (single parent of 3 boys) and show her respect. ...
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OTHER
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not doing my dishes straight away", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not doing my dishes straight away?
Context: I've been living in my apartment for about a year and a half now. About 3 months ago one of my roommates' (A) girlfriend moved in with us. She brought 3 guinea pigs and a rabbit. I didn't want the animals, but A really wanted her to move in, so I okay'ed it on the condition that they stay in their room 100% o...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "selling furniture that was given to me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I sold furniture that was given to me?
So, I wasn't actually involved in this apart from being a bystander. But basically, my parents gave my brother a couch when he moved out, and he sold it. Or rather...his girlfriend sold it. They moved out together, so I suppose it was given to both of them. I don't know if it makes a difference. They didn't have it to...
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{ "description": "calling out my ex boyfriend for something that I thought was pretty scummy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling out my ex boyfriend for something that i thought was pretty scummy?
So about a month and a half ago, my boyfriend (21M) and I (19F) broke up. We'll call him EB for Ex-Boyfriend. It was a pretty good relationship and we decided we wanted to try and stay friends, but first we decided to give each other space in order to heal up and move on. Before this point, I sometimes messaged him t...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "removing a feral cat community", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA For removing a feral cat community?
Two months ago my girlfriend and our dog moved into a new apartment complex. We selected the unit that was adjacent to the dog park and were very excited about our new venture. On move in day we noticed a cat and food dish besides our stairs. I dismissed it thinking the cat belonged to a neighbor but our dog did not di...
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AUTHOR
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "kicking my cat outside the bedroom", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for kicking my cat outside the bedroom?
Excuse my formatting, on mobile. I live in a one-bedroom apartment with my fiance and my cat. Every night, before we go to bed, we close our bedroom door, making sure she's outside of the bedroom. The heater and her bed are out there, as well as her food + water dish. So there's nothing we're depriving her of in ter...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "ghosting my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ghosting my girlfriend
I fell completely in love with a girl. She was real nice at first. She'd listen to everything I had to say and would make me feel better when I was feeling like shit. We had absolutely no secrets. But she started to become... clingy. I'm talking thirty messages about how mad she is that I'm not texting back... when she...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "finally speaking up and telling my friend that I don't approve of her on again off again boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finally speaking up and telling my friend that I don’t approve of her on again off again boyfriend?
She’s been through a lot and I want her to always feel she can talk to me so that she never feels completely alone, but today I lost it when she told me that she’s back (AGAIN) with her *occasionally* abusive, way older than her, not-yet-divorced boyfriend. Did I break the friend code, or is it cool to tell her I think...
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{ "description": "not talking to my friend for not wishing me a happy birthday", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not talking to my friend for not wishing me a happy birthday?
My best friend and I (we’ll call her A for short) have been super close over the two years we’ve known each other. We’ve been through a lot of things, blah blah blah. Anyways, it was my birthday today. I got a lot of happy birthday wishes from people, close friends and even people I don’t talk to that much... but I d...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 2 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not wanting to do more than my job description says", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to do more than my job description says?
So I work in a Lowes, have now for a year. I recently left and came back from collage and changed my position to pickup desk from being a cashier. My job is to look at the internet orders and gather them or find them for the delivery crew and put them in the spots they need to go for pick up etc. Occasionally Ill hel...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "not wanting to shave my genitals", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to shave my genitals?
Forgive formatting and spelling issues-- on mobile. Im (22f) in a relationship with a guy (26m) who is by all accounts awesome, caring, thoughtful, etc. We have a great relationship of about 5mo, the best i've ever been in. A few months ago he started asking me to shave my pussy. This is something i havent done sinc...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 14, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "telling my gf that she can be too dominating in social situations", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my GF that she can be too dominating in social situations?
Hey guys, gals & all in between. My GF and I have been going out for 3 years, its been great for the most part dotted with the usual few tiffles every couple experiences once in a while. The other night I was out in the company of an older couple who I know (I'm in my was, they their 50s), but she didn't yet. They ...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my girlfriend got drunk and slept at a guy friend's apartment", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting upset that my Girlfriend got drunk and slept at a guy friend's apartment?
Full disclosure this happened about a month ago and resulted in us breaking up. I recently discovered this subreddit and want some honest feedback for how i handled the situation and how to better go about things in the future. Constructive Criticism is always a good thing. ​ Essentially this girl and i s...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take my boyfriend to the airport", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to take my boyfriend to the airport?
We are both in our late 40s, been together three years. He visits his elderly parents every year over Christmas, and in the time we've been together, I've driven him to and from the airport for these trips. I don't really like driving, and find situations like airports, where there's lots of traffic and lane changes an...
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{ "description": "not giving my friend a vape and saying it was a dumb idea later", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving my friend a vape and saying it was a dumb idea later?
I have a good friend J. Me and J have been friends for a few years now. I moved houses about 6 months ago. While we were cleaning it out (messy house) I found my sisters confiscated vape pen. I (teenage male) decide to throw it in a dumpster and post it to my snap story as a joke. I get about three replies asking if th...
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{ "description": "wanting to call in when I havent had a day off in a month", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to call in when I havent had a day off in a month? (posted from mobile app)
My last day off was the 7th of February. I'm a Marine corps reservist, and I had drill Feb 8-10, and since then I've worked every day at my regular job (I work nights as a security officer), besides one shift where I called in right before the shift. I was sick (*very* sick). Any PTO I've tried to request has been deni...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend time with my girlfriend without her kid around", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to spend time with my girlfriend without her kid around?
First, I’d like to say that my girl friend’s kid is great. She’s a sweet kid, who accepts me, so no problems there. My girlfriend and her ex share 50/50 custody of the kid, so she’s only around half the time as it is. The problem is that recently my girlfriend took a new job that requires her to travel out of town ever...
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{ "description": "dumping my bf because he's not a feminist", "pronormative_score": 88, "contranormative_score": 55 }
AITA For dumping my BF because he's not a feminist?
Been with my BF for about 6 months now and he's an amazing guy to be honest and We're both 23. But there's always been this one thing that bothers me is that he's not a feminist and none of his friends are. I get that most guys aren't but when I do jokingly press him on feminist ideas like say "you believe men and wome...
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{ "description": "getting offended by my family throwing a 1 year old party for my son", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting offended by my family throwing a 1 year old party for my son
Alt account. This happened a couple of months ago but I’m still annoyed. So my partner and I decided that we didn’t want a big first birthday party for our daughter because over the years we have been to many parties and they aren’t something we ever really enjoyed going to let alone want to host. So we decided to ju...
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{ "description": "snapping at a friend because I'm tired of people telling me \"you'll find your person?\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for snapping at a friend because I’m tired of people telling me “you’ll find your person?”
Look, so for starters no one is mad at anyone, but I’m trying to avoid people bugging me for it. So basically I’ve dated maybe 2 or 3 people, it never works out (not anyone’s fault, I just kill attraction because I don’t know how to stop coming off as “the safe dude” well a friend (who has a lot of self confidence hims...
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AITA? Been avoiding Nana because shes fatphobic but she's coming for Christmas dinner with family.
This is long and I'm so sorry in advance! So here's the deal, most of my family is overweight in some way or another, through shit diets from poor income, depression, medication etc. Not the epitame of health at all and something that bothered me growing up, i was always average/curvy growing up, I start having body ...
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{ "description": "refusing a sentimental gift", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing a sentimental gift?
A family member of my husband tried to give me a sentimental, but fragile gift for our new baby. We also have a toddler going through the house. She gave me a long speech about how special this was, and lots of things that honestly made me scared of it. She also asked if when we were done with it, if we could give it b...
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{ "description": "waiting till after vacation to break up with my fiancée", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA if I wait till after vacation to break up with my fiancée
I am pretty much checked out of the relationship already. Fights every other day, she shouts at me, belittles me, disrespects me and her parents don't like me much either. In fact at Christmas she and I fought because I didn't want to do something that she and her folks wanted to do, I was made the villain because I di...
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{ "description": "not visiting my grandmother in the hospital or going to her funeral", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not visiting my grandmother in the hospital or going to her funeral.
It’s a long story, so please bare with me. My father has always been very possessive, manipulative, and materialistic. When I was young he would say things to me like, “You better come to lunch with your grandparents, because they’re very wealthy and if you don’t spend time with them they won’t put you in their will....
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{ "description": "getting upset when my dad brought a random lady to our hotel room", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting upset when my dad brought a random lady to our hotel room?
I'm gonna try to keep it short as possible here. My dad finally divorced my horribly abusive/neglectful mother after 16 years of hell and removed me from her custody. Shortly after the divorce is finalized he arranges a trip for the both of us to go to Vegas. I thought that it was awesome and would allow the both of ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my friend for being nosy about a dinner bill", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For yelling at my friend for being nosy about a dinner bill
I took my work friend out to dinner last night to celebrate her birthday and I paid the bill. When the waiter sat the bill on the table she says "How much is it?" and picked it up to see. She picked it up before I had the chance to. Then when we got up to leave she asked me how much I tipped the waiter. She pressed me ...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to communicate more", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my friend to communicate more.
Had an argument with a close friend of mine this evening and I just feel conflicted about the whole thing. For some background, we are both 24 I'm female and he is male. We dated for a few years but our breakup last year was mutual. We both suffer from depression and that was the major catalyst in the end of our rela...
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{ "description": "becoming best friends with a friend's crush and now he's having a hard time because he feels I'm a better match for her than he is", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for becoming best friends with a friend’s crush and now he’s having a hard time because he feels I’m a better match for her than he is?
Please don’t answer this solely based on the title, I’ve rewritten it so many times and it still doesn’t quite portray what I’m trying to say. So the story is basically this: Half a year ago, I started working in a new place, and generally people were very welcoming, and in them 2 in particular, we’ll call them John a...
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{ "description": "encouraging a family unit", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for encouraging a family unit?
Why don’t we give significant tax credits to married parents who each work 40 hours a week? At the same time reduce the amount of tax credits given to single parents who don’t work full time.
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{ "description": "not giving \"updates\" to my wife", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving “updates” to my wife?
Alright. This is quite a simple AITA. But still, I’m confused. Went out for an office holiday dinner/night out. I told my wife that me and my workers are having dinner out and going to go back to my manager’s condo unit to get drinks afterwards. My manager lives in the same condo as I do so it’s pretty much a convenien...
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AITA for (as a white woman) touching a black woman's hair?
To start, the cast of characters is me and my older coworker (late 50s). As background, she is not in the same department as me, but we work on some projects together. In our shared projects, she is technically my subordinate - but I try to view it as a collaboration. We are friendly and laugh together and get along...
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{ "description": "not waking my boyfriend up for the Super Bowl", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not waking my boyfriend up for the Super Bowl?
Sorry if the formatting sucks, I’m on mobile. My boyfriend (23M) and I (22F) have been deciding what we want to do for the Super Bowl for the past couple days and we decided on going to my dads house. I’m super laid back so I didn’t really care what we did. After we decided, we hung out all morning and had a fantasti...
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{ "description": "not letting my boyf talk to the book seller longer", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my boyf talk to the book seller longer
Me and my boyfriend were hanging out at a book store before I had to get home and do something planned with a friend t my house. She got off early and said she was on her way, as I hadn't planned for her to get off early we weren't there. She said it's fine, her boyfriend who was going to drop her off had somewhere to ...
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{ "description": "getting mad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad?
So I auditioned for my school play. It was fun. I got an extra role but that's on me for not showing up to rehearsals last year. I know a few special kids, being one myself, who really wanted to audition but didn't show up to any of the workshops, which was required for you to audition no matter what (I even had to sta...
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{ "description": "being done with my friends problems", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being done with my friends problems
This is my first post here so excuse poor formatting but to be perfectly honest I find myself constantly as the shoulder to cry on. It’s not really a problem most of the time but recently two of my best friends have really been laying some baggage on me for like 3 months straight. Is it selfish of me to just kinda wa...
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{ "description": "asking to split the check after this girl tells me we are not going to work out because our \"auras\" are different (after 5 mins)? *insanity ensues", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking to split the check after this girl tells me we are not gonna work out because our "auras" are different (after 5 mins)? *Insanity ensues*
I (**23M**) match with a girl (**20F**) on Bumble near my town, she has a pixie cut and it seems like we have things in common and she’s cute. Turns out she’s actually from Pennsylvania and doesn’t have a car. Eventually we agree on a night I can drive the (1 hour 15 minutes to her house) to pick her up to go to her “...
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{ "description": "not taking back cat I rehomed", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not taking back cat I rehomed?
Yesterday, I rehomed our cat online due to our baby's allergy test coming back with high reactivity to cats. The person who took our cat emailed me tonight and asked for us to take the cat back because the cat is "uncomfortable", but I think it's just an adjustment period because it's been literally one day. AITA for s...
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{ "description": "pausing the tv or trying to share opinions about stuff on tv", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for pausing the TV or trying to share opinions about stuff on TV?
I am a talkitive person who loves to hear other peoples ideas/opinions and to share my own. My boyfriend is more reserved in the communication department. When we watch YouTube/TV together I often comment on things that are happening in the show - I despise talking over the TV so sometimes I will pause it to ask for...
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{ "description": "demanding an apology from my boyfriend's friend for pressuring me into professing my feelings", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for demanding an apology from my boyfriend's friend for pressuring me into professing my feelings?
My boyfriend of six months has this friend (we'll call him Joe) who has always had an affinity for pushing my buttons. Not an issue in the least; I am not sensitive to that kind of thing, and I enjoy the banter every once in a while. One habit Joe has gotten into recently that I like much less is that he likes to put m...
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