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{ "description": "reneging on money", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for reneging on money?
I am away on a business trip. Yesterday my roommate’s toaster caught fire and burned my oven mitts and potholders. I told him I would replace the items out of my pocket. This trip put a nice dent in my finances and now I’ve asked for $15 to replace the items. AITA?
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{ "description": "agreeing to still be with my cheating girlfriend and still getting mad at her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for agreeing to still be with my cheating girlfriend and still getting mad at her?
Throwaway for obvious reasons Background: Last year i found out my girlfriend was texting two other guys while we were in a committed relationship. I was busy that summer and arguably wasn’t present. The messages were very flirty and she never mentioned she was in a relationship. The manner in which these guys got...
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{ "description": "wanting to conceive via sperm donor than adopt with my husband", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting to conceive via sperm donor than adopt with my husband (he’s infertile)?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. I’ll try to keep this short and vague to protect both our identities. Husband and I have been trying to conceive on off for the past three years to no success. We finally had tests and he’s infertile due to an underlying genetic condition that none of us knew about (esp not before getti...
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{ "description": "being angry at my grandmother and not helping her", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry at my grandmother and not helping her?
To begin, I (21M) love my grandmother. She's always been very supportive and kind to me and I really don't believe she has any malicious intentions. However, she also has an uncanny ability to make situations about her, even by accident. For example: my friend was taken off life support after an accident and, when she...
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{ "description": "not checking food we bought and leaving without a part of our order", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not checking food we bought and leaving without a part of our order?
Like the title says. My family and I went to a fast food place and ordered. When we got our food, my mother asked me to check the food just in case but I thought, "it'll be fine, it's probably all there." Instead, when we got home it turns out her food wasn't there to which she loudly clapped in my face and shouted "We...
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{ "description": "not telling my mom I love her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my mom I love her?
As a kid it's hard to see anything wing with your parents except in extreme cases. My parents were never exceptionally abusive, but it's hard to say whether or not I really did feel love for my parents, or it was dependence and the habit of saying I love you. A few years ago I started to examine my relationship with m...
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{ "description": "telling my mom to leave her dog at home for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom to leave her dog at home for Christmas.
Alrighty folks so three years ago when I left for college my mom got a poodle. Since then she’s done nothing to train him making him a 60 pound ball of destruction. We are doing Christmas in my apartment this year because my oldest sister is coming home because her FIL is very sick and I live 20 minutes from the inlaw...
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{ "description": "beginning looking for another job after the holiday season", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I began looking for another job after the holiday season?
A bit of backround to this inquiry, i've been working for a black car service for going on 2 years now. It's somewhat of a dying industry but there is still a need for it New York. It's taken me a year to get fully acclimated to the work environment and now i'm seen as one of them, highly relied upon, all the drivers...
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{ "description": "pursuing a relationship with a married woman, that isn't happy with her situation", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for pursuing a relationship with a married woman, that isn't happy with her situation?
About a month and some change ago, I met a girl here on reddit. For the first week or so we were friends, and she was really flirty with me. We played Overwatch and other games all night, and went to bed at the same time we basically spent every waking moment together over the internet. It was great, we clicked and w...
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{ "description": "being upset at my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset at my friend
So I used to have a friend I knew her thought my whole school life, until about grade 9-10 where she was starting to ignore me whatever she told me that she was just busy, that's cool its highschool it happens. it keeps going I don't think much of it and she was making new friends which I was happy for her and everythi...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for admitting to snooping through my phone", "pronormative_score": 75, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for admitting to snooping through my phone?
So the other night I come home from a hard day at work, and while decompressing, my then girlfriend comes into the bedroom looking upset. I asked her what was wrong, and she apologizes to me. She seemed pretty upset. Now, a sidebar, I'm a very private and reserved guy. I take my privacy very seriously, and as such, I ...
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{ "description": "reporting my \"friend\" for trying to give me a swirly", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for reporting my “friend” for trying to give me a swirly?
This friend, we’ll call Alex, and I have always playfully made fun of each other. I’d call her ugly, she’d call me an idiot. We never did anything that would offend the other. Later, we start debating about the technical definition of a stereotype. Our debates have never had a conclusive ending to them before, but for ...
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{ "description": "playing with a dog", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for playing with a dog
Some family friends asked if somebody could watch their dogs while they went on vacation for a week. They have three dogs. We have 10 people total in our house, 8 kids and two parents my mom and my cool stepdad Antonio but only two of us kids which were me and my brother Nathan had to go to the people’s’ house after sc...
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{ "description": "calling someone a bint", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling someone a bint
Obviously the title makes it seem like I'm the asshole straight away but I'm not really sure judging by the context. Basically, in a maths class I go to I sit next to a girl who dates a trans guy (ill call her K), a gay guy (GG), and a bisexual guy (BG) and I'm gay as well so people make jokes about us being the fag ta...
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{ "description": "being upset/hurt at my so for faking orgasms", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being upset/hurt at my SO for faking orgasms?
TL;DR at bottom. So this is a bit complex, let me fill you in on background- we are both non-confrontational people. The disputes prior to this were minor. Let me also add that I absolutely **despise** lying. This has been difficult at times, as she was abused, emotionally and physically, in past relationships, and li...
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{ "description": "moving my room-mate's clothes from the washing machine to the dryer", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: I moved my room-mate's clothes from the washing machine to the dryer
I live in an apartment with three other girls who are good friends. These girls sort of run the apartment's resources, like the kitchen, the bathrooms, and the laundry machine and dyer (naturally, as they are 3 people and I am only one). All three of them do their laundry at least once a day. It's cool you do your la...
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AITA close friend I confided in kissed my ex and then lied to me about it
21m, quick summary, close friend who I confided in after breakup kissed my ex, chose not to tell me about it and then lied to me about it, said it was a one time heat of the moment thing, ex told me about it and showed me messages of him trying with her on more than one occasion after the kiss, felt disrespected and st...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend I found out was abusing his gf", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for cutting off a friend I found out was abusing his gf
Basically what it says in the title. I've been friends with this guy since high school, but I found out he's treated his gf (also my friend) horrifically. Cheating on her, emotionally abusing her, etc. He relied entirely on her financially too. She broke up with him last year and I found out about the abuse. He also h...
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{ "description": "wanting to turn someone down over appearance", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? I want to turn someone down over appearance.
Ok, let me start off by saying that I’m well aware my title sets off some alarms, but let me explain. I’m looking for a very sex-oriented relationship. Sex and sexual attraction matter very much to me in a relationship. Recently, my friend set me up with a guy. We start talking, and he’s really nice. We hit off, and ou...
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{ "description": "watching Captain Marvel but with a movie ticket for Alita", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for watching Captain Marvel but with a movie ticket for Alita?
Want to watch Captain Marvel but all controversies and agendas surrounding the movie are really off putting. So ill buy a ticket for Alita instead but sit in the CM screen.
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{ "description": "playing white noise to sleep and bothering my neighbours", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for playing white noise to sleep and bothering my neighbours?
This is my first post here so I hope this is the right way to do it! ​ Basically a few months ago new tenants moved in above me. There were/are super loud (thinking stomping loudly, throwing stuff, banging cupboards shut) at all hours of the day and night. They're new parents so they have an odd sleeping s...
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{ "description": "asking BF to buy me a Christmas gift off my list this year, instead of making one", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked BF to buy me a Christmas gift off my list this year, instead of making one?
We are both in our late twenties. Been together for 4 years. BF is not really a good gift giver. I kind of understood it when he was in college, but as we have gotten closer and moved in together I have seen his finances, and he has a lot of disposable income. He buys games on Steam like it's going out of style. Th...
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{ "description": "not including my coworker", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not including my coworker?
I'm a mid-20s female who is a long-time fan of a certain popular Monday night dating show. When I was in college and grad school I would find other fans of the show and we would get together at someone's place and drink wine, hang out, etc. while watching. I graduated last fall and moved to a new city for my job. Whe...
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{ "description": "forcing another driver to miss their exit", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA for forcing another driver to miss their exit?
This occurred yesterday while driving home from work. Now a little back story. I’m driving in the left lane with the flow of traffic doing roughly 78 MPH. As we were passing an on-ramp, another driver (let's call them Otter) wanted to get over to the left lane as quick as possible, but without getting up to speed firs...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get in my friend's car", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to get in my friend’s car?
My friend has one of the grossest cars I’ve ever seen. I know I’m kind of overreacting as I have OCD and clutter anxiety, but my other friend has said she agrees that it’s nasty. I feel bad for always declining her invites to go off campus (I don’t have a car and I don’t have my license yet) with excuses like “Oh I ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with my ex
my ex and i had a very toxic relationship. He was extremely manipulative. When we first broke up, he didn’t want to let me have my time off to move on. He insisted that we had to stay friends because i “promised” to. Eventually he let me have some space to myself although he would call me up or text me out of the blue....
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{ "description": "being angry at my mother because my horse died of old age", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being angry at my mother because my horse died of old age?
My horse has been with my mother on the family farm since I finished high school and moved to the city for work. He is/was a 27 year old Thoroughbred, so it was remarkable that he has lasted this long in the first place. In November, I got a call from my mother that he was unwell and starting to lose weight. We discuss...
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{ "description": "refusing my friend's request to stay", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing my friend's request to stay?
Basically my friend and me have been playing some video games at my house, for around about 5 hours, and then midnight came, since we are both 15, he needed someone to get him back as it was already almost midnight. He called his dad and his dad said he can't take him back home, so my friend had told me he is planning ...
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{ "description": "telling a chef he can't cook", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for telling a chef he can't cook?
I am visiting Milan for 3 weeks to meet my girlfriends boss and potentially get a lucrative job. He invited me to a restaurant near Borgo degli Ortolani, and I really wanted to make a good impression with him. I ordered Zighini and so does my GF's boss, he looks like he is having difficulty eating it (I found it averag...
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{ "description": "not giving away the last of a very expensive scotch for my friend to make a hot toddy", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving away the last of a very expensive scotch for my friend to make a hot toddy?
To clarify, she wasn't overly bothered but I feel a little like an asshole. Basically the scotch is £100+ in price and I can't usually afford such stuff (it was a gift) and I can't replace it. She has a cold and wants a hot toddy but I have only got enough for one more drink out of it. Am I a dick for saying no? P.s....
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{ "description": "dropping the F-bomb", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dropping the F-bomb?
Ok, so this happened yesterday and I'm getting treated like shit by my family over it. I am the youngest in the family at 25, and in this family you learn to curse at a pretty young age, that said it was always understood that those words weren't appropriate for public places, and should be used sparingly, or in jest....
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{ "description": "being mad at my helicopter parent", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my helicopter parent?
For starters, I'm a sixteen year old and my parents have been divorced for almost all my life. They aren't hostile to one another and are usually very civil. My dad remarried and my mom is still single. This week is spring break for me, so I was at my dad's for almost the entire week. Yesterday I went to a friend's (...
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{ "description": "moving someone's cones so I could park there", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving someone’s cones so I could park there
I was visiting family in an area I visit a few times a week and parking is always pretty tight there (all on street parking, no private parking) Basically I noticed this guy had traffic cones there on the street all week, but other times I had managed to get a space elsewhere. Today, I couldn’t find a space elsewhere...
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{ "description": "speaking out about who I want and don't want to live with", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for speaking out about who I want and don't want to live with?
Context: I'm (18M), a student in a popular english city, and I live in student accommodation with 9 other people. Of us 10, 8 of us had planned to move in together. Our first problem arose when we realised 8 bedroom houses for 2nd year accommodation were all gone, so we would have to split into 2 houses of 4. Those in...
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{ "description": "not moving in with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not moving in with my boyfriend?
I was pregnant and he was an alcoholic. I refused to move in unless he became sober. AITA in that situation?
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{ "description": "wanting my wife to smell my underwear", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for wanting my wife to smell my underwear? (posting for my stepdad)
Disclaimer: First, I'm not 100% sure this is allowed since I wasn't directly involved and second if the title isn't clear enough, this is my stepdad. ​ So my stepdad lost his sense of smell in his teens when he jumped off a 3 story parking structure to catch a frisbee and split his head open (yes, I didn't...
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{ "description": "waking my sleeping friend and making her get out my bed when my so comes home", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I woke my sleeping friend and made her get out my bed when my SO comes home?
Title pretty much says it. My best friend spent the night last night. We both stayed up late, and ended up falling asleep in my bed at around 3.30a. I woke up around 7:30a to feed my pets, and have been awake since then. I thought she’d be awake by now, but it’s currently 10a and she’s still asleep. My fiancé gets of...
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{ "description": "ignoring my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ignoring my ex?
Background: (I’ll try and make this quick) 24(F) and I broke up with my ex 25(M) a year ago. During the time we were together we never progressed as a couple, never celebrated an anniversary, never spent the holidays together or birthdays together etc. I felt I was kept at arms length but I couldn’t see past him and c...
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{ "description": "being mad at my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my girlfriend?
There was a farewell party for one of my colleagues. I was heading there on my motorcycle. Car came from the other direction with the high beam on, I couldn't see anything for a moment. One of the pedestrian decided to cross the road without even stoping and checking. All of his clothes were completely black, so I coul...
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{ "description": "not telling my friends/gf about a sibling that I've cut ties with", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I dont tell my friends/gf about a sibling that I've cut ties with?
I have an exceptionally emotionally abusive brother which and I will cut absolutely all ties after moving out. Would that be rude if i don't tell my girlfriend or anyone that I have a brother at all? And if so, what should I do?
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{ "description": "lying to someone that I wasn't home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying to someone that I wasn’t home?
So there’s this guy who I can’t say I’m particularly close with. We used to be, but I ended up trying to get him out of my life because they are the type of person that just sucks the life out of you. He has also made me feel like a bad person for things out of my control for multiple occasions so I’m already biased as...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive our son to my MIL's", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to drive our son to my MIL's?
My mother in law drives, she drives to work, to the store, but never wants to drive to our house, she wants him to be brought to her. It's a 15-20 minute drive. Now my mother is trying to guilt trip me into driving him over there, and apparently I'm in the wrong. Am I the asshole for not wanting to deliver my kid to he...
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{ "description": "being upset about my roommates family visiting for a month", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset about my roommates family visiting for a month?
My roommate and I are currently sharing a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apartment. We both work full time. She just told me that her family (mom and 2 sisters) are coming from very far away to visit her for 3 weeks around Christmas. We each have our own bedroom and bathroom, but her room is small so at least 1 person will have ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she needs to sort out her priorities", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my girlfriend she needs to sort out her priorities?
After I went out to dinner with my girlfriend, we sat in the car at her place and talked about how life has been going. I'm currently a high school senior, and take pride in getting good grades. So when I asked her how she was doing in her classes, she just said she stopped trying. I continued to question her, asking w...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mom in my dad's hospital room", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my mom in my dad's hospital room?
History: My mom and dad have been divorced for around 28 years. When they first split and my siblings and I were little, they fought like cats and dogs, and there was much shit talking from both sides. Never any details, but always screaming that led to more screaming. There was a period of around 10 years where they s...
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{ "description": "considering cancelling my wedding with my fiance", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for considering cancelling my [33m] wedding with my fiance [31f]
Throwaway cause this account would be easy to find. Also sorry for formating, I'm on mobile. So this all happened today. I'm currently in a hotel thinking everything through and I decided to turn to reddit for advice. My fiance got engaged two years ago, and we've been together for eight. At this point it honestly fee...
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{ "description": "dating a 'friends' ex boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA if I date a ‘friends’ ex boyfriend...
I moved to a new school in September and obviously when you move it’s kinda hard making friends at first. I’ve made friends with a group of girls but there’s a few in the group who I’m not really close with because we don’t have any classes together and we just haven’t really bonded. One of the girls I’m not close with...
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AITA? My friend is kinda dumb.
I've been friends with this guy for about one and a half years. Let's call him Jim. During that time, I realized that he was a minipulative asshole that (I think, and some of my friends) used me. We met through football, but really only hung out by Xbox. He always got mad at me for doing simple mistakes in a game, left...
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{ "description": "not wanting to listen to my friends (suicidal and depressing) problems", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to listen to my friends (suicidal and depressing) problems
So I’m always up to listening to my friends problems or rants but when it comes to sad problems of theirs and I mean sad where they go back to cutting and other things I don’t like listening to them because it affects me emotionally and mentally I get sad for no reason (Some context) I was on the phone with a friend ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give money to my mom's parents", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to give money to my mom's parents?
Mom suggested, because I now have a job, I should consider giving money to her parents as a goodwill gesture for Chinese New Year. Traditionally, money is given in a red envelope from married couples to young children/adults, who aren't married. I'm not married nor am I planning to get married for years to come. And ...
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{ "description": "asking an old friend of mine what everyone at my school thought after I transferred schools", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking an old friend of mine what everyone at my school thought after I transferred schools?
Back in spring, I decided to get social media to get in contact with friends that I hadn't seen since 5th grade because I had moved schools (I'm in 9th grade now). I found a friend's Instagram (let's call her A) and I've known her since Kindergarten. Her account was private, so I had to attempt to follow her a couple t...
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{ "description": "cutting someone off because they seem to be involved in an mlm", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I cut someone off because they seem to be involved in an MLM?
Usually this is something I’m 100% comfortable with, but this is weird for me. I met a girl at work the other day that I REALLY liked. Kids around the same age as mine. Really sweet woman. We started talking about one of our common interests and she invited me out for coffee and I was elated. I’m a social person but it...
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{ "description": "being disgusted at smoking and obesity after losing family members to both of them", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for being disgusted at smoking and obesity after losing family members to both of them?
Everyone in life has encountered someone/body with bad habits, and, though we may not want to admit it, we're guilty of a few ourselves. Knowing this, I've never been one to be too critical of other people's flaws. However, there are two bad habits in particular that I've always felt strongly about: smoking and overeat...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "giving my boyfriend an ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA for giving my boyfriend an ultimatum
My boyfriend and I met online and we've been together for almost four years and have yet to meet in person. We're both in our late 20's(Both of us are 27). We both have jobs and live by ourselves. I love this man and I'm sure he loves me as well and the only issue I have is when it comes to our future. I've brought up...
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{ "description": "yelling at kids for destroying my bushes and lights", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for yelling at kids for destroying my bushes and lights?
Hello, a frequent poster here with another AITA story. This happened yesterday in the evening. I was sitting at home after school got out and the neighborhood kids were playing at usual. This time they were playing hide and seek. A kid hid in my bushes but the bushes had my Christmas lights on them. He ruined my bush a...
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{ "description": "wanting my D&D Player to be someone else", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For Wanting My D&D Player To Be Someone Else?
So this conflict has been resolved amongst ourselves but it's been at the back of my mind about whether I was in the wrong, hopefully that doesnt break the sub's rules. Im the DM (Dungeon Master) for a group of 5 players from my friend group. We recently finished the Lost Mines of Phandelver campaign after that sort o...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend after she, um, literally shat herself", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for breaking up with my [M15] girlfriend [F15] after she, um, literally shat herself?
As much as I really wish it was, I swear to fucking god this isn’t a shitpost. Alright, so I’m sitting next to her during lunch, I smell something horrible and as I look around for the source, she tells me she shat herself. My friends sitting to the left of me thankfully didn’t hear her. Now I (assuming that, gene...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut this friend off", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut this friend off?
So I've got this friend, met him in a class kinda funny alright guy overall at first, we play a game or two and code together at the start (blah blah). Here's why I'm considering ghosting the dude and just like 100% gtfo. He messages me in the middle of the day to play video game, the dude has no job, and he still liv...
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{ "description": "refusing sex on health grounds", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for refusing sex on health grounds?
My wife and I have been married for 10 years, dated for 6 before that, have 2 kids together. No marital issues (the occasional fight, but nothing drastic). I had a vasectomy 5 years ago and have had no complications. ​ Here's the rub: she has been getting UTIs (Urine Tract Infections) for the past 3 yea...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with a depressed person", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with a depressed person?
So, little bit of backstory, I met this guy around grade 7. We've been friends for 5-6 years now, but not really...great, friends. The kind of friend that's in your general group, but you're not super personal friends with, and we rarely to never hang out. Recently, he's been open about depression, and I understand h...
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{ "description": "not going home for all of winter break", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going home for all of winter break?
I am currently a student at a large university located nearly five hours away from where my family currently resides and am the oldest child and the first to be sent away to university. My family is very close knit and prioritizes familial connection over pretty much anything else. However, recently there has been much...
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{ "description": "making a small joke", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a small joke?
So this girl that I've been talking to online for three years now has recently told me that she has begun to cut her wrists because of things that have been happening in real life. After she told me about it, I instantly became very sympathetic towards her as purposely conflicting pain upon yourself is something that I...
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{ "description": "getting into an argument with my gf's mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for getting into an argument with my gf’s mom?
So my girlfriend of 2 years has invited her mom and 15yo brother to spend Christmas together (this was last year). We live in a different country, so she thought it’s be nice to celebrate festive season all together as she doesn’t see the family very often. My gf didn’t really consult this with me, and bought the flig...
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{ "description": "not disclosing my autism at work", "pronormative_score": 63, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not disclosing my autism at work?
I was diagnosed with autism from an early age. My parents made it seem like this was something I should be ashamed of, so they told me I should never tell anyone else. I started this job 6 months ago. Right from the beginning my manager stressed how much our team was "like a family". I thought that if I didn't tell he...
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{ "description": "wanting to defend myself", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for wanting to defend myself?
A few months ago a friend and I had a falling out. It's been over 6 months since I've seen them but I still feel bad about what happened. I sent them a text the other day just for some closure and to apologize. They responded a weekish later being incredibly hurtful and accusatory. They didn't accept my apology or apo...
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{ "description": "msging my Boyfriends Ex friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Msging My Boyfriends Ex Friend?
My boyfriend has been visibly upset still about losing his friend, though it's been almost a year. I told him if he wanted I could contact him, and talk with him for him. He gives me his # and I type up a little thing as politely as I can manage asking him why he left and that it was all I needed of him. He replies ha...
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{ "description": "ghosting someone because they're in a mlm", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for ghosting someone because they’re in a MLM
I’ve been talking to this girl for like a week and we’ve gone out together a couple times. Initially she seemed really cool and funny and she seemed to be interested in me too. I never really use Facebook anymore but I was thinking of searching her up, low and behold I found her. Anyway I kinda continue to lurk and cl...
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{ "description": "making out with my friend's ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making out with my friend's ex?
This happened a while ago, but in some ways my friend group is still dealing with the emotional fallout, so I wanted to get some unbiased opinions. Some background: I (24F) met my friend Frank (28M) about six years ago, when I was going through a really rough time. he was there for me when I needed him, and we started...
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{ "description": "not stopping debating/arguing", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA because I can’t stop debating/arguing?
I recently started playing a game with a friend and we play all the time. But every time we do play and he somehow dies, he starts complaining that the guy was hacking and he complains things are completely messed up when he really just doesn’t know how the mechanic works. When I try to explain what happened, he tells ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to not stay with her day", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling my friend to not stay with her day?
Ok so I I'm more asking if my friend wbta if she decided to tell her dad she doesnt want to live with him. She is 17 and lives with 50/50, her dad and step mom half of the time, and her bio mom the other half. She loves her bio mom and her dad, but hates her step mom. She is constantly rude to her and tells her, her p...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that the girl he was talking to over discord was transgender", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for telling my friend that the girl he was talking to over discord was transgender?
I’m gonna be honest and say that I have little to no idea what trans people go through, looking to be accepted or just talked to like a regular person. That said, I have this friend I play video games with and she’s transgender(male to female) and I had no idea that she was until I figured it out when she said she was ...
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{ "description": "putting my family on a plane to go home after my son tested positive for flu", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for putting my family on a plane to go home after my son tested positive for flu?
We had been greatly looking forward to a vacation with another family. Both couples have kids the same age (5-8). The wives are total besties. We had a house rented in Hilton Head with a small pool, bike paths, the works. Great set up. In the few days leading up to the trip, my son was not feeling himself. Took him to...
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{ "description": "planning on going out when my smil is coming to visit after years of my house being a no go zone", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I’m planning on going out when my SMIL is coming to visit after years of my house being a no go zone?
So long story short, I hate my SMIL. I find her rude, obnoxious, fake, controlling and she’s the type of person who will insult you with a smile and is a master of passive/agressive denigrating comments. About 5 years ago I snapped and sent her a text basically telling her to fuck off. Since then, my FIL has been comin...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend
I (18M) have been with my GF (18F) for about a year now. At first things were great, it was my first relationship and I was excited to finally have all these moments and share experiences with a girl that I really liked. However, things started to change around the last month or so. Hanging out started to feel like a j...
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{ "description": "passing a group of women waiting in line", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for passing a group of women waiting in line?
So I was in Paris at a theater showing of a famous french play and during the intermission everybody went out to smoke/eat/use the bathroom. As always, there was a huge line for the women's bathroom. As I walk in to the men's bathroom; I see three women waiting inside the MEN'S bathroom for stalls. When the first perso...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a funeral", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to a funeral
My uncle's mother passed away and the funeral is on Monday morning. The visitation is this Sunday so I figured I would go for a few hours and call it good. My relatives implied that it would be rude if I didn't also go to the funeral mass on Monday. The thing is: it's a Catholic mass and I have big problems with the Ca...
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{ "description": "wanting to ask why a big artist deleted their comment from my soundcloud page", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to ask why a big artist deleted their comment from my soundcloud page?
I'm not trying to shill for my page so I won't share it, but especially in these early times of trying to get a fanbase going, every comment helps no matter how short and sweet. The comment in question was by a much bigger name who just posted "vibes" on my song and i was so happy they checked it out. Then recently the...
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{ "description": "not switching seats with this mother on a plane", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not switching seats with this mother on a plane?
Recently took a trip to Portugal and was about to embark on my first leg of a journey back to the west coast of the United States. My first flight was from Lisbon to Atlanta so keep in mind this was going to be a very long flight (\~8hrs). ​ I boarded the plane and took my seat which was in the third row o...
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{ "description": "putting my baby sister in timeout, and refusing to listen to my father", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for putting my baby sister in timeout, and refusing to listen to my father?
For context, my baby sister is three years old. She has bad habits due to the rest of my family, same as me, which I have identified, and am trying to correct in myself, as well as her so it never happens to her. Today, she continuously smeared my shirt with spit covered toys and wiped her nose on/licked me repeatedly...
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{ "description": "not hanging out with my friend even though she drove two hours", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not hanging out with my friend even though she drove two hours
Background: I live about two hours from my friend. She used to come visit me pretty regularly and stay at my house before summer started and I started my summer job as a lifeguard. A couple times she visited me she got overly drunk and I ended up taking care of her. Which is fine, it happens to the best of us but it st...
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{ "description": "getting mad about my Mom always expecting me to wait while she smokes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad about my Mom always expecting me to wait while she smokes?
Ever since I’ve been little (I’m 22 now), I’ve always had to wait with my Mom outside of stores and restaurants so she could smoke. I’d always get so annoyed, especially in winter, but I never said anything because I never knew any different. Yesterday me and my Mom were at the airport to catch a four hour flight to g...
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{ "description": "having sex with my then girlfriend the same day I broke up with her", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having sex with my then girlfriend the same day I broke up with her?
Based on the title I would clearly be an asshole but there is a lot more to this situation, so bare with me. I had been with this girl around 11 months when this happened but we had been falling apart for several months prior. She was a very sweet girl, but she really bottled her emotions and she knew I could tell. ...
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{ "description": "wanting to help my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to help my friend?
I learned today that my best friend of 4 years has been an active drinker for who knows how long. His girlfriend told me about it today, and I was absolutely shocked. He is not the kind of guy to do that kind of stuff, considering his personal beliefs. (We are both 17 btw). He’s supposedly gotten wasted on multiple occ...
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{ "description": "telling my wife to get over her fear of talking on the phone", "pronormative_score": 53, "contranormative_score": 9 }
Aita for telling my wife to get over her fear of talking on the phone?
My wife and I have been married since July but have been together since high school. She brought up the idea of buying a house, telling me that she was talking to her best friend about it and this friend referred a realtor to us. I have my own concerns with buying a house, especially at our age (26) and with me not ma...
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{ "description": "telling my wife I don't want a dog", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my wife I don't want a dog?
My wife and I have been married for 2 years now. I have about a year left before I am ready to graduate from college, while she is still in her first year (for context, I'm 24, and she is 23). ​ Because we are students and live on incredibly limited income, I told her I didn't feel comfortable to start hav...
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{ "description": "expecting my ex boyfriend to pay his share of the rent (I'll pay 100% of utilities) until HE finds a suitable sublet or lease is up", "pronormative_score": 45, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for expecting my ex boyfriend to pay his share of the rent (I’ll pay 100% of utilities) until HE finds a suitable sublet or lease is up?
Background: in rapid succession boyfriend asked for open relationship, didn’t like my answer, cheated with coworker, expected me to forgive him and broke up with me and moved out. We co-signed a lease about 7 months ago and have 5 months left. I have given him that I will pay 100% of utilities since he’s not using th...
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{ "description": "wanting to use protection while having sex with my gf", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to use protection while having sex with my GF
First: TL:DR at the bottom Second: Sorry for my bad english. Third: Sorry format. Posting from my cellphone So is valentines day, we haven't seen each other for 2 weeks (because Work) and i just want to see her, hug her, etc... we went out to eat something and then went to her place get some sexy time. She used to be...
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{ "description": "not paying a post-tailgate invoice", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying a post-tailgate invoice?
I went to a football (American) game over the weekend and my friend invited me to his tailgate beforehand. I informed him that I was planning on going to a different tailgate hosted by another friend and he said to just come to the game a little earlier and stop by his. I said ok I will stop by for an hour or so no big...
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{ "description": "not staying at my boyfriends house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not staying at my boyfriends house
Background: Me and my boyfriend G have been together for 3 months bit we've been friends for a couple years. So, I get severe migraines. Like really bad. And I have for around and a half years. My migraines cause me to be basically useless; can't go out, can use a computer etc. I was meant to stay at his house tonight...
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{ "description": "taking my bully's phone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I took my bully's phone.
Sorry for crap formatting. Im on mobile and this is my first post. Anyways I'll keep it short. This kid bullies about 20 people including me. Would I be the asshole if I took his phone? He doesn't need it, but other kids have taken it and he nearly cried. He has made so many suffer so I feel it would be justice for hi...
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{ "description": "feeling superior over people who are more unfit than me at the gym", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for feeling superior over people who are more unfit than me at the gym?
I had this arguement with my friend. She thinks I will go to hell for feeling this way because people are there to get in shape and they are putting in effort etc. Etc... But theres this side of me that says I put in more work before them and I should feel good about myself being more lean and being able to lift heavi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date someone with anger issues", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to date someone with anger issues
Two years ago I got out of an emotion al abusive relationship with someone. I have now been dating a new guy for a while now, probably about a month. Hes very sweet to me and treats me really well but I have noticed that he gets inordinately angry over things. For an example, earlier today he messaged me telling me he...
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{ "description": "ignoring my father after he lied to me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ignoring my father after he lied to me
About a year and a half ago, my old car got totaled while it was parked in front of the house. A neighbor had a handyman type person over with a truck and he must've hit the gas instead of the brakes and demolished my car by backing into it. After being told I shouldn't have parked there and how this is somehow my faul...
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{ "description": "telling my ex-best friend''s \"baby daddy\" he's not the father", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I tell my ex-best friend''s "baby daddy" he's not the father?
Basically I'm facing a bit of an ethical dilemma and I'm pretty deep into this emotionally so who better to ask than the internet? At the core, my question is WIBTA if I were to tell the "baby daddy" of my ex-best friend that he is most likely not the father, and at the very least he needs to get a DNA test done to con...
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{ "description": "not wanting my grandpa at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for not wanting my grandpa at my wedding?
He has Alzheimer’s and regularly smells like pee. He has no idea who I am or who my fiancé is, but my mom and grandma insist he needs to come. He hits on younger women (such as my bridesmaids) and he gets easily confused. I don’t think it would be good for him and I really don’t want to babysit him on my wedding day. E...
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{ "description": "forgetting my papers to get my Learner Permit", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA For forgetting my papers to get my Learner Permit?
So I am 15 years old and a twin brother. The DMV opens at 8 AM and we plan to get there around that time on a Thursday. The night before we leave my brother says I should put my papers in my bookbag so I don't forget. I reply with an "ok" but forget to put them in there. Fast forward to the morning, I tell myself to re...
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{ "description": "telling these kids to cut it out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told these kids to cut it out?
WIBTA? The children who live in my apartment building, probably aged 7-12, play football on the floor of my flat and the ball continually hits my door and makes very loud bangs that reverberate through my apartment. I want to ask them to stop as it's very annoying and disruptive to have these noises at all hours of th...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my best friends' close friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for sleeping with my best friends’ close friend?
Let’s call my best friend Sarah and her close friend Jess. (I am a male, they are both female) Let me also preface this by stating that I am also now a good friend with Jess, but I did meet her originally through Sarah. Sarah has stated in the past that she feels uncomfortable with her friends sleeping together. ...
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{ "description": "confronting the guy who cheated on my sister", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA (14M) for confronting the guy(17M) who cheated on my sister (17F)
Okay let me start by saying this person and i were really close. he was like a older brother to me and was always welcome to any family events he was family. him and my sister were best friends since the 5th grade and started dating in 10th grade and they are now in 12th grade. this asshole cheated in like the worst wa...
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{ "description": "not helping my family cleaning up my grandparents basement", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not helping my family cleaning up my grandparents basement?
So, to make thing short my mother recently made some comments about how when i get home the next time we could ,as a family ( my mother, my stepfather, my sister, her husband and my uncle and me), clean up the complete basement of my grandparents. She said it would !only! take a week to do. ( large house 30 years of wo...
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