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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my gf over a cup of coffee", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my GF over a cup of coffee?
So, I’ll try to keep it simple. I make more money than my GF. Albeit that, I am also more “money conscious” if that makes sense. So to recap, we went out for a $70 dinner which I paid for. No worries. Then we grab some Starbucks, I ALWAYS buy her coffee almost every day tbh. She ordered herself coffee and just paid f...
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{ "description": "demanding to go through my partner's phone", "pronormative_score": 66, "contranormative_score": 65 }
AITA for demanding to go through my partner’s phone?
For context: we’ve been dating for 1.5 years. Also for context, we’re both pretty private with our phones, her more than me. Her notifications don’t go to the lock screen, and she has a complicated password I’d never guess (not that I’d normally care; I barely even noticed until now). This happened last night and I c...
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{ "description": "accusing my neighbors of shovelling snow brhind my car", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for accusing my neighbors of shovelling snow brhind my car?
I live in a building with a parking lot, all owned by my rental agency. There is a house along one side that shares the lot and has a parking spot, but they do not own their spot. When I moved in I did not own a car, so I allowed the neighbors to use my allocated spot for themselves or their friends. After I got a c...
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{ "description": "threating to never let my mom see her grandkids", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For threating to never let my mom see her grandkids.
On mobile so screw formatting right? So this happened when I was 16 at the time. My brother was deported for having an drunk underage girl with an almost empty bottle of gin and a baggy of weed in her hoodie and having his pipe out and another baggy of weed in his trunk. My mom spent well over 40k on an attorney ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a friend without asking her if she effectively left her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA sleeping with a friend without asking her if she effectively left her boyfriend
I'm kinda torn about this and think I fucked up. A week ago a friend of mine tells me she will break up with her boyfriend. I assume she did it and we meet on friday as planned some time before. After a few hours of hiking with her and me being quite tired due to having partied a bit too much the previous night (hango...
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{ "description": "not correcting my coworker on how much he tipped", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not correcting my coworker on how much he tipped?
So my coworker took me out to dinner one night since we’re both here on a project and he paid with a company credit card. He makes a joke about how his boss got onto him for spending too much at restaurants while traveling some time and he mentioned it’s because he usually tips around 20% which I thought no big deal. ...
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AITA in a very serious fight I got in with my dad for laughing/giggling on the phone?
This morning, we were supposed to go to my grandpa's house (which is an hour drive away) with my dad to help them move some couches. The day before, he told me about this, and I told him okay and asked him around what time we would leave. He said "I don't know, maybe 10-11 in the morning?" At 9:00 I was already up, but...
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{ "description": "being pissed at my family for forcing a birthday celebration on me", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed at my family for forcing a birthday celebration on me?
I don't know if I can still post this here because this happened on my 18th birthday 2 years ago. I just remembered this because my sister showed me my reaction during this time on her phone. ​ You guys know that thing restaurants do when you tell them it's your birthday? I specifically asked my family NO...
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{ "description": "quitting my job", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for quitting my job?
Okay, the reason I’m posting this is because I have mixed results from my coworkers and friends. I’m on mobile, so sorry for any issues. TLDR @ bottom Some backstory; I’m a 16 y/o shift manager at a fast food chain. Over the summer I was working 50-60 hours a week, and when school started I said I can only work Friday...
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{ "description": "not spending christmas with my SO's family even though I'm free that day", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not spending christmas with my SO's family even though I'm free that day
For starters I've been with my SO for 3 years, and we are very much in love. Despite the 3 years we have never spent Christmas together, as we usually spend it with our respective families, and even though it's a bit sad to not spend the holiday together we are both happy enough about the arrangement. This year, du...
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{ "description": "getting my ex-gf in legal trouble with the FTC", "pronormative_score": 93, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting my ex-gf in legal trouble with the FTC?
tl;dr at the bottom Context: A little over a year and a half ago my ex and I broke up after roughly 2 and a half years of dating. It was a pretty messy situation and I ended up moving back in with my mom. Since this time, she has repeatedly caused me significant problems one way or another, such as extorting me for $5...
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{ "description": "not inviting an aunt to a bbq and creating a rift in the family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not inviting an aunt to a bbq and creating a rift in the family.
At new years, my great aunt was being extremely rude to two of my cousins. She insulted their mother, saying she was too self centered to care about her family and show up (she was working.) They told her to lay off and that talking about someone behind their back is rude as fuck. She went of on them for being disres...
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{ "description": "feeling disgusted at the spending my best friend is doing at her wedding", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for feeling disgusted at the spending my best friend is doing at her wedding?
So, I'm from a SE Asia country where getting married is an extremely big deal. Like, from the moment a child is born the parents start saving for its wedding because it's really important in our culture. Recently, my best friend got engaged. And she's really excited about her big day. Theres a hundred different functi...
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AITA - Friend (F31) wants me (F33) discuss how I treat her at D&D - not IRL - and won’t accept that I have other stuff to deal with
A friend who spoiled our last two D&D sessions by getting steaming drunk (and then subsequently ruined a dinner party I hosted when one of my friend’s parents were visiting our continent) is sending me endless accusatory Facebook messages wanting to have a chat about how I bully, intimidate and belittle her in D&am...
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{ "description": "not speaking to my mother while she's in prison", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not speaking to my mother while she's in prison
My mom has been in prison for 3 years now and i don't write, call, or visit. She was charged with possession of meth and endangering a child (my little brother). I know what she did was wrong and she deserves her sentence, but i can't get over the thought of her spending every birthday, thanksgiving, and christmas alon...
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{ "description": "not wanting to watch my girlfriend's dog", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to watch my girlfriend's dog?
My girlfriend has just gotten a 5 month old puppy, who is usually mild mannered, however is not yet properly trained to relieve itself outside, somewhat frequently resorting to using her apartment floor as a substitute for mother nature. Before adopting this animal, I told her that most, if not all, of the caretaking w...
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{ "description": "trying to become a peacekeeper", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to become a peacekeeper?
For some background info, I live in EU, I'm 18-year-old athletic guy, I like planing my life financially and in many other ways. I'm saving for university and general costs of living. ​ The story wraps around one particular military program, that I have applied for, a training program that helps me to bec...
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{ "description": "telling my exgirlfriend I have feelings for her best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my exgirlfriend I have feelings for her best friend?
So we broke up almost a year ago, in March, due to things not working out the way we wanted, not from anything dire or situational. In a sense it was more of a mutual breakup. A little background: Her best friend had to leave our friend group due to unrelated circumstances, and I hadn't seen her in years. We used to t...
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{ "description": "not telling my Girlfriend the real Reason I broke up with her", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Not Telling my Girlfriend the Real Reason I Broke Up With Her?
My now ex girlfriend lives with her sister, and I would often spend time with both of them and sometimes just her sister. For the first two years, I was madly in love with my ex and the sister was always supportive. We all got along besides small fights between my ex and I or my ex and her sister. However, after year...
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{ "description": "kicking my cousin who may or may not have post-partum depression out of my wedding party", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for kicking my cousin who may or may not have post-partum depression out of my wedding party?
So I had 7 bridesmaids. One of them was my cousin. My cousin just had a baby this past December. My cousin has always been kind of lazy and a flake, but now with her new baby it’s even worse. She is saying that she feels depressed, sleep deprived, and fat. I’m thinking she could potentially have post partum depressio...
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{ "description": "not meeting my ((ex)) boyfriends mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not meeting my ((ex)) boyfriends mom...?
This happened awhile ago but I still feel guilty about it. However I'm not sure I was an asshole or not. The situation was that my online boyfriend who lived in another country next to me, went on a family trip to my country. Obviously with the intention of meeting each other, we were very in love. I was 16 and he 18...
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{ "description": "implying that my sister's bf's diagnosed paranoia might be why he thinks I'm out to get him", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for implying that my sister's bf's diagnosed paranoia might be why he thinks i'm out to get him
There's more backstory here but I feel like it might actually just cloud the answers(happy to expand on this if asked). My sister's bf thinks I am maliciously gaslighting him and trying to mess up his life, my response was that I don't really think about him all that much and maybe this is his diagnosed paranoia/anxiet...
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{ "description": "being mad about my friend keeping something I loaned to him at someone else's house", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad about my friend keeping something I loaned to him at someone else’s house?
I let my friend borrow a $150 piece of tech, as I wasn’t using it anymore. He then gave it to a friend of his to keep. The dude is responsible enough, but has 3 roommates and people coming in and out of his house drinking all the time. I texted my friend saying I’m not going to do anything about it (since like I said, ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my wife's ex buying her bras", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad at my wife's ex buying her bras?
My wife is still friends with an ex-boyfriend of hers and whenever I bring up that I'm not very comfortable with it, she says I'm being jealous and possessive. For Christmas, this ex bought her bras and gave it to her in person, with a sny remark about knowing her size. I complained there and then and said he had no ri...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut my mom off if she keeps smoking/drinking", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for wanting to cut my mom off if she keeps smoking/drinking
I've (25f) been debating giving my mom (50s,f) an ultimatum. Im tired of her chainsmoking when Im around and not having respect for my health. She also drinks 2-3 beers/alcoholic drinks on her normal days. This wouldnt be a problem if she didnt underestimate her limit (she weighs a lot less now but thinks she can handl...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate's mom to go home after she overstayed her welcome by 3 days", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my roommate's mom to go home after she overstayed her welcome by 3 days
\*\*Repost of my other post but wanted to fix the title...To start, I don't ever like being the bad guy...i normally go out of my way to avoid being the bad guy, but in this situation I couldn't hold my tongue anymore... ***For reference; K is my roommate, B is my roomate's son and J is my roommate's mother.*** K ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go back on Monday to take my Aunt's lawnmower back to the shop to get the Mower blade wheel put back on there", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go back on Monday to take my Aunt’s lawnmower back to the shop to get the Mower blade wheel put back on there?
I had a free day yesterday so I decided I’m going to go to mow the grass at my aunt’s but when I arrive, her lawn mower was gone. Turns out it was at a repair shop 2 miles from the house. No one at her house (her, uncle, or their daughter) was willing to take me down there to go get it to drive it back to the house. I...
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AITA
Am I the asshole if I refuse to talk to my parents about figuring out my sexuality? They just recently found out that yes, I think I like women as a women and they wanna hear all my thoughts so they can stand by my side and support me, but I just am so uncomfortable with it. Like I love and support gay people, but the...
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{ "description": "wanting to have aunts dog in another room during Christmas", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to have aunts dog in another room during Christmas?
Ok so my SO and I have two cats. We live in a rather large apartment and have therefore invited her family to celebrate Christmas at our place. Her aunt has a dog that she wants to bring. Problem is we don’t know how our cats will react to the dog and vice versa. We have tried to arrange a time when she could come ove...
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{ "description": "not \"reciprocating\" in my relationship with my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not “reciprocating” in my relationship with my mom?
i’m a minor living with my parents and my mom has been asking me for the past few months to read a tale of two cities which i have absolutely no interest in reading. yesterday during dinner she brought up the fact that i hadn’t read it yet AGAIN and compared me to her verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abus...
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{ "description": "not talking to girl, she says she is going to hurt herself", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Not talking to girl, she says she is going to hurt herself
So I met this girl in my high school, let’s call her M, it’s our final year and she is a new student. She immediately took an interest to me. We talked for about a month and I started to realize she seems kind of unstable. I also started hanging more with a really good friend of mine and I started to realize I wanted a...
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{ "description": "not inviting my housemate's boyfriend to my birthday drinking thing tonight", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I didn’t invite my housemate’s boyfriend to my birthday drinks thing tonight?
My housemate has a boyfriend who lives pretty far so he’s staying the weekend for Valentine’s Day so they can spend time together. I like him and he’s a very nice chill dude - he cleans after himself and sometimes gives me food if they have leftovers from cooking. Today is my birthday and after a very stressful week ...
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{ "description": "breaking things off with a guy after finding out how old he is", "pronormative_score": 41, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking things off with a guy after finding out how old he is?
So right off the bat, the title alone makes me feel like an asshole. But here's the situation: A short time ago I was out with some friends and was approached by a guy who asked for my number. We chatted for a bit and I found him charming and attractive; we agreed to meet up at a later date. We ended up going on a fe...
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{ "description": "using a macro to call my spot in League of Legends first", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for using a macro to call my spot in League of Legends first?
casual games usually decide what role you play by calling it in chat as soon as a party is formed. I was tired of people claiming the spot first without any discussion and it came down to who had the fastest response time. So my keyboard has macro keys and I created a macro including Enter for each position and just ...
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{ "description": "telling this kid that he's an asshole", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling this kid that he’s an asshole?
I was at thanksgiving dinner at my fiancé’s dad’s last week. Her dad had just gotten remarried about a year prior, and it was the first time I met the new wife’s son (25 years old). He told what he thought was an hilarious story about being in a restaurant the night before and dumping a glass of water on his friend...
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{ "description": "almost leaving my cousin I Vegas to not miss my flight", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for almost leaving my cousin I Vegas to not miss my flight?
So my cousin (39yo and the oldest there) and I (22yo and the you guest there) went to a bachelorette party in Vegas. Back story from the first night we were there. We arrived at 1:00am. We got our hotel room and went down to play some beer pong. I went up alone after a few. I forgot what room me were in and my cousi...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommate to help me babysit his nephew and nieces", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
aita for not wanting my roommate to help me babysit his nephew and nieces.
so I want to point out that he can not look after them. his sister asked me to babysit as I have experience and babysit the kids often. she will be going on a camp with her eldest kid and asked me to look after her 3 youngest, 6,3 and 1 years old over the weekend. my roommate has asked if he can join me and "help" ...
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{ "description": "refusing to go to church", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to go to church
I´m 18 years old male and I was raised in a Christian family. Mother and Father are both Christians. I was baptized and I was going to a church every Sunday with my parents when I was little. Around the age of 12, I started to feel uncomfortable in the community. I figure out that the people in the church are really te...
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{ "description": "skipping my BIL bday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I skipped my BIL bday?
I live with my sister and BIL. My sister just notified me yesterday that his bday is tomorrow. I went ahead and ordered the gaming mouse he's been talking about wanting from Amazon and got him a card, but I work tomorrow and have a game tournament with my bf in another city so I was planning on going there this weekend...
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{ "description": "claiming a prize I should've won", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for claiming a prize I should’ve won
I just got off this Spirit Airlines flight and I’m feeling a bit guilty right now. So we boarded and I got the middle seat assigned to me by the airline. This middle aged couple boards and asked me to switch seats so they can sit together (they had my two surrounding seats). I happily obliged because of course they ca...
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{ "description": "getting breakfast", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting breakfast?
So I'm a junior in JROTC and I went to a community service for setting up and helping a local 5k-10k run. After we had set up the over-all CO (Commanding Officer) who is the instructor in charge of the program at my school said that if we brought money we could go get breakfast at the nearby diner. I brought 2 cadets w...
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{ "description": "telling my gf I'll cheat on her if she continues to falsely accuse me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 34 }
AITA for telling my gf i'll cheat on her if she continues to falsely accuse me?
She has falsely accused me for months.. only thing different today was I told her if she continues to accuse me im going to do it. That didnt help, and she blew up saying you should never cheat on anyone, which she isnt wrong about. I would never cheat. Im just frustrated for getting repeatedly accused of something ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my wife wants to go on a 3 month vacation alone", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being upset that my wife wants to go on a 3 month vacation alone?
Basically my wife is trying to go back to her home country for three months alone. She’s told me she needs it and wants to extend her trip to attend a wedding and a family member’s birthday. I completely understand her needing to visit home since she left her country to be with me and is isolated. She visits for seve...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my sisters bf for his reaction towards a study I was a part of", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for getting angry at my sisters bf for his reaction towards a study I was a part of?
I can't go into details on anything so i'm just not going to use names or what the study was about because reasons. ​ I spent 6 years working on a study for a fairly large research institution. It was basically about human consciousness and the varying "levels" of cognitive abilities and how it relates to...
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{ "description": "wanting to avoid my hyper-anxious friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to avoid my hyper-anxious friend?
So pretty much the title. I (21M) am in college, and my friend is a 19M. For context, he lacks social awareness often can be irritating at times, but I know he means well. Basically, he has crippling anxiety all the time and constantly needs validation for every choice he makes. I’m talking topics where no one else cou...
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{ "description": "not staying later at work to help out", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not staying later at work to help out?
So I'm 17F, I work two jobs at a fast food restaurant and cafe. Basically between the two jobs I work maybe ten days and then have one day off? I work casual shifts for both which change weekly, but generally end up with a 10:1 ration of working:days off. Anyway, today I worked 7am until 3pm at my cafe job. At around 3...
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AITA for not 100% pleasing my spouse in bed?
Today my spouse and I took a road trip and stopped at a hotel for the day. We both haven’t had sex in almost a week due to being so busy with work and such. I can’t speak for all the guys here. But personally, if I have masturbated in a week or had sex with my gf, I will cum in like 4 minutes. So long story short. Th...
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{ "description": "calling my fiancé a drama queen", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my fiancé a drama queen?
Last night, my fiance and I got in a squabble. I was washing dishes (which is normally his chore, but he cut his thumb), and so he took out the garbage. By the time he came back inside 5ish minutes later, he was all pissy and started snapping at me about the things I choose to recycle. He thinks I recycle too much and ...
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{ "description": "moving on during Marital Separation", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA: Moving on During Marital Separation
Backstory: My soon to he exhusband was abusive and a cheater. He is in the military, and I caught him sexting and owning a tinder account while deployed back in January. He also had multiple affairs before this, that I dumbly forgave. We almost got divorced over a year ago as well, when the cops were called when he ass...
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{ "description": "forgetting my friend's birthday on my surgery day", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forgetting my friend's birthday on my surgery day
My friend doesn't know I had surgery today, but I supposed I could have texted a day before or after my surgery. I been pretty nervous about it, didn't tell her cause I didn't want her to know/worry. She went to sleep and her boyfriend messaged me that she was upset. I feel bad of course, and I don't want to make ex...
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{ "description": "beeing mad that my boyfriend doesn't help me with language issues", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for beeing mad that my boyfriend doesn't help me with language issues
This is my first post ever and I'm not a native speaker, so I apologize already for all the mistakes I will make, but I am kind of stuck in a situation, where I am doing everything wrong. So first a little backstory. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 4 years now. He was born in another country than I ...
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{ "description": "giving my cats away for my sick girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for giving my cats away for my sick girlfriend?
Okay so I have two cats that were formerly fosters. Long and short of how they came to stay was: Boo (the older cat) came to live with me as a very very sick kitten so she would have a comfy place to pass on, instead she got better and has been with me for four years. Coco I found this summer on a bike ride, as tiny as...
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{ "description": "not buying meat for my 9 year old daughter", "pronormative_score": 152, "contranormative_score": 73 }
AITA for not buying meat for my 9 year old daughter?
I’ve raised my daughter vegetarian from birth and a few years ago made the switch the veganism. Me and her father are separated and a few months ago she tried meat at his and liked it. He has her 2 nights a week so now she’s eating meat, dairy and eggs at his. When she told me I said that was fine, it’s her body and sh...
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{ "description": "debating politics with a friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for debating politics with a friend?
A friend and I were talking over the phone and the conversation turned to the Confederate flag. I said that it might stand for the south, but it mainly stands for racism. My friend disagreed. I kept on debating their opinion, and he started to get angry. We kept on going back and forth and eventually he called me a dic...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to share my home?
Me SO just bought some land and were in the process of looking at mobile homes. We found one with 4br it was pretty nice & we agreed on it But recently he’s been saying how his brother wants to go half on a duplex trailer ( we have restrictions in our county so only 1 trailer is permitted because of the size of t...
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{ "description": "having sex with a stalker that has ruined my life", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for having sex with a stalker that has ruined my life?
Throwaway. I was originally kind of dating this boy (Lucas). We weren’t official, but we agreed to be exclusive. Found out he was seeing another girl behind my back and having sex with her. I was really hurt as I didn’t think he was like that. Ended stuff with him and cut all contact. I met Harry a few months later. ...
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{ "description": "making fun of my boyfriend's penis", "pronormative_score": 59, "contranormative_score": 907 }
AITA for making fun of my boyfriend's penis
Upfront, my boyfriend has an awesome penis. Its not huge or anything, about seven inches (we measured) and fairly girthy- but it is really, really- even comically small when its flaccid (like 2 inches). In the privacy our relationship, I playfully make fun of it all the time and he doesn't mind because he knows that he...
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{ "description": "leaving my job after saying I would stay", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For leaving my job after saying I would stay?
I work part-time as a retail associate. I am currently 7 months pregnant. Before I started my job, I told my current boss in my working interview that I was 2 months pregnant, but wanted to continue working after having the baby. I also said that I was looking into daycares. Now, (1) after looking into daycares and (...
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{ "description": "binge watching series my boyfriend and I are supposed to watch together", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for binge watching series my boyfriend and I are supposed to watch together?
First off, my boyfriend and I are heavy gamers. We each have our own Xbox. He works a supervisor position and long hours so when he gets off he wants to relax and get on the game which I have absolutely no issue with. He works hard and deserves to do what he wants to relax when he gets home. Fact of the matter is we...
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{ "description": "being angry at my parents after they shamed me about my finances", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry at my parents after they shamed me about my finances?
So I am the oldest child in my family and have been working in the creative industry for a few years since I graduated. My brother, who I get on with very well, is also working, but in a professional and what I think most people would describe as a 'grown-up' job. We live in the suburbs of the capital city. A few year...
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{ "description": "taking a vacation the week of my birthday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking a vacation the week of my birthday
I live a few states away from my family and don’t see them much. This is more so my own doing as we’ve had a few spats on and off the last few years. I skipped going to Florida for Christmas this past year because I didn’t feel like driving back and forth and I wanted to relax for Christmas (I still hear about this), m...
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{ "description": "rather taking an elective I am interested in than a women's studies course", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA-I would rather take an elective I am interested in than a women's studies course
I am conflicted on whether or not I'm an asshole for this. So my girlfriend and I are both STEM people in our second year of college. That being said, we are both pretty progressive and open-minded people. She recently just took a course in feminist psychology and it really opened her eyes to sexism and objectificatio...
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{ "description": "cutting my friend off", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting my friend off?
I didn't know whether to post this on friendship subreddit cos we're not friends anymore. I just want to know AITA or am confused or what? It's pretty long (that's what she said) (I use humour as a coping mechanism, I apologise), but i really need unbiased opinions. It started in 10th grade, we were best friends sinc...
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{ "description": "not wanting to constantly help my girlfriend's mom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to constantly help my girlfriend's mom?
So this whole spiel doesn't have any "justice" or any serious conflict, I just really need to vent. I live with my girlfriend, who is still in university. Her mom is a single mom who runs a series of businesses that keep her busy pretty much constantly. English also isn't her first language, although she speaks it near...
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{ "description": "getting mad when my GF gets mad at me for no reason", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad when my GF gets mad at me for no reason?
We are on vacation in Edinburgh with a couple. Despite being very vocal about not liking to travel, it ends up being "my present" for every other occasion, and she never understands my under-enthusiastic reaction. It'd be like me giving her a videogame because I wanted to play it. Yesterday when we finally got to the ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend I don't want a friend to visit her", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aitah for telling my girlfriend I don’t want a friend to visit her?
So there’s me (m19), my “friend” poe(m18), and my girlfriend, sarah(f18). Me and poe have been friends for 3 years, and I met Sarah though him last May. Sarah and poe have been good friends for a while. Me and Sarah have been dating for 3 months now long distance and we had been together for like 3 months before tha...
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AITA Sister invites friend + baby on family vacation and i'm not okay with it
Hi Reddit, This is my (28f) first time posting so bare with me and play nice. Every year for the past 10 years my stepmom (65 f) spends a month in Florida in the winter to get away from the cold. She rents an apartment out and tells our family they can come visit whenever. We'd schedule when we were going to make sure...
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{ "description": "telling my so she had bad breath", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my SO she had bad breath?
Yesterday, me, my SO (Julia), and our friends went to a bar for a nice evening out. We all got buzzed a bit, Julia downed 4-5 glasses of wine, while I had two bottles of beer. Around 2 AM we got back home and started to cuddle and chat in the bed before going to sleep. And by that I mean she was full-on cuddling me at ...
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{ "description": "telling a rude lady her baby is ugly", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for telling a rude lady her baby is ugly?
I was in line at the supermarket earlier today. The lady in front of me, who was maybe in her 50s, had a baby in the front of her shopping cart. The lady had coupons for some of her groceries, but the items she actually had on the belt weren't the same ones listed on the coupons. (In other words, she had the right *bra...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk about/hear about my Fiancee's bowel movements", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk about/hear about my Fiancee's bowel movements?
I mean the title really says it all. My fiancee is very frequently making jokes/references/mentioning her bowel movements. She'll say stuff like, "It was so big it was out of the water." Or, "That really, really stinks." Generally I'll ignore it but this upsets her. I've even told her on multiple occasions that I don't...
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{ "description": "telling my grandma I'm an athiest", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA for telling my grandma I'm an athiest?
On mobile, worry for formatting issues Some backstory: So I (20F if it matters) am an athiest/agnostic. I was raised religious but not extremely. We went to church maybe twice or so a month and prayed in the evenings and all that. So I told my mom I didnt believe in God when I was in middle school and she... didnt tak...
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{ "description": "being upset at my so for letting his previous relationship effect ours", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset at my SO for letting his previous relationship effect ours?
Bit of background: My SO (47m) has been separated from his wife for nearly three years, but are not officially divorced. They have a 5 year old. I (28f) have never been married and have no children. I don't want children either, which works well for us. We have been together for just over a year and when we first st...
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AITA for refusing to go too the funeral of my gf's dad.
Background: I have been dating this woman for one and a half years as of now, let's call her "Lucy". We have a lot in common, care for one another, and helped each other get through a couple of rough patches in our lives. Last week, her dad died at the age of 74 of a heart attack. To be blunt, me and him have a shitt...
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{ "description": "wanting to be paid for a painting for a family member", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting to be paid for a painting for a family member
So I'm an artist (who kinda falls under the starving artist stereotype) and any artist can tell you that family and friends will want free art. My mom will buy me materials for a painting and the rest is on me. I've done so many paintings for her as well as gifts that she insists that I make for two of cousins for thei...
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{ "description": "telling my friend( 20) to not get serious with her ( m)55 boyfriend unless she was willing to be his caretaker later in life", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my friend (F)( 20) to not get serious with her ( M)55 boyfriend unless she was willing to be his caretaker later in life?
My friend is a college student and has been very serious about her MUCH older boyfriend who teaches at another college. They are very compatible with the same interests and passions and hobbies but she is SO young and she is talking about marrying him. He already has health problems and I really wanted her to be aware ...
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{ "description": "being rude to my neighbors", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being rude to my neighbors?
So, I’m not a particularly great story teller. But I’ll see what I can do. For the past few weeks I haven’t been going to church on Sunday. I looked into the history of the LDS church and decided I want out. That’s been going fine. Until today, when three of the neighbors (two 16 year olds and one adult) showed up and ...
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{ "description": "telling an ex-fb that I don't care enough about him to hate him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for telling an ex-FB that I don't care enough about him to hate him?
Mobile formatting yadda yadda I had a friends with benefits who I was seeing about 10 months ago. The last time I saw him was about 6 months ago and we must have met up about 5/6 times during that time. In October he messaged me asking if I wanted to go for a drink, and I replied saying I wasn't looking for anything ...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my so for not wanting to try scary films", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my SO for not wanting to try scary films?
We’ve been together for 1.5 years, currently live together. I (m27) enjoy sitting on the sofa with a bottle of wine watching scary things. Nothing gory like Saw or Chainsaw Massacre, things like AHS and A Quiet Place. Stuff with a bit more plot than just scary for the sake of being scary. Anyway, since we moved in ab...
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{ "description": "leaving someone who claims to need me even though she has no room for me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving someone who claims to need me even though she has no room for me?
About a year ago I met a girl in a Kpop Facebook group. We had been talking for quite a while but realized we lived about 30 minutes away from each other, so we decided to start hanging out in real life. At first, I was happy to have someone outside of the internet that had the same taste in music as myself but the...
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{ "description": "telling my dad he should find a real job instead of doing jack shit", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling my dad he should find a real job instead of doing jack shit?
I'm using a throwaway account for obvious reasons. So Christmas is coming, my family knows what they wish to have. We have always been quite wealthy. Money has never been a problem because my mom has a very well paid job. On the other hand, my father has been a self-employed person for the past 15 years or so. He says...
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{ "description": "asking for some space", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for some space?
this may be a bit long, and I’m on mobile, tl;dr at the bottom, etc. etc. so I went into a roommate situation basically blind last fall. when I met one of the other girls, we clicked hard and became fast friends. we would pull all nighters together for school, we went out a lot, made dinner together, all that. I noti...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my partner for always changing plans", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at my partner for always changing plans ?
Me 22F and my partner 28M have been going out for close to three years now . Things haven't always been the best but lately he's been constantly going on about how he's neglecting me while doing nothing to change the fact .. yesterday was a really important and stressful day for me and we haven't done anything together...
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{ "description": "not knowing how to make my girlfriend better", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not knowing how to make my girlfriend better?
For the past week and a half I've been planning to go over to a work friends house with a bunch of guys for poker night. I havent really made any friends since I've been here and I thought it would be a good opportunity. My girlfriend has known about it the whole time and hasn't had any problems with it until today. As...
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{ "description": "calling a coworker a rat faced goblin", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA Calling a coworker a rat faced goblin.
I have a feeling people at work think I’m an asshole for calling an older guy (50s) a rat faced goblin. The back story is I’ve been working on a weld line for lawnmowers since July. I’ve always worked around this person but not directly. He’s about 5’5” and has unflattering features with a giant beer guy and a speech ...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on my neighbors loud and aggressive dog", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling the cops on my neighbors loud and aggressive dog?
I live in an apartment building which is adjacent to a house. The people living over there have had two big shepherd dogs in the last 10+ years. First one they had for 8 years, then one day they literally got rid of it and got a shepherd pup. Now this shepherd pup grew out to be really huge and aggressive, and also l...
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{ "description": "asking for a divorce for potential cheating", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for a divorce for potential cheating
My husband (M28) and I (F26) have been married for 5 years and have been together for about 10/11 years. We have a five year old daughter. He also has an 11 year old son with his ex gf from high school. While we were dating, It was always difficult for me to accept that he had a son with another woman because it made...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my neighbor a ride to school in the morning", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to give my neighbor a ride to school in the morning?
I live in a house with some other dudes and we have neighbors with young children. A kind of friendship has been formed between the kids and a couple of my roommates. And I don't know when it started, but one of the kids has been coming over to our house in the morning and asking for a ride to school when he over sleep...
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{ "description": "yelling at my friend/partner for a project", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for yelling at my friend/partner for a project?
Okay, so I'm a college kid studying education. I have 20 credit hours and two jobs at the moment. My schedule is packed and requires careful planning an maneuvering when it comes to planning stuff. I get paired with one of my friends in an education class. We'll call her Alex. Alex and I have been friends for two years...
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{ "description": "not wearing shorts under my skirt to school", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wearing shorts under my skirt to school?
So this happened last year, with my now ex. But it keeps bugging me, for some reason. I'm a 16 year old girl, and I go to a public school in Colombia (if that's any relevant). My classroom is on the third floor, so I have to forcefully take the stairs to get to class. So it's class day, so I normally wake up and firs...
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{ "description": "completely cutting her out after she got a bf", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 100 }
AITA for completely cutting her out after she got a BF?
So me and this girl were really close. We both admitted we had feelings for each other but then things cooled off, and such. Then last night i found out she had gotten a BF and completely cut her out after finding that out, i blocked her on everything. Then her friends started texting me asking why i blocked her and i ...
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{ "description": "planning on making my roommate pay the entire electric bill", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for planning on making my roommate pay the entire electric bill?
So when fall semester ended I went back home to work and get money and my roommate stayed at our apt by himself. Now all the previous times I lived at the apt myself I never charged my roommates (previous and current) for electric when they weren’t actively living there (the electric is in my name, and I lived there ov...
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AITA or WIBTHA for saying something? Lady at gym.
So my boyfriend goes to the gym to take advantage of the pool. I had never been to the gym before so he invited ne along and offered to add me to his membership (which is an additional $10/mo per person on top of the $40/mo fee). We pay $50 and get full run of the gym but really only use the pool/hot tub, the smoothie ...
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{ "description": "being distant with my father", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being distant with my father
So I recently graduated and live at home. Well, I live with my parents, who rent a low-income home. I help contribute rent, internet, phone, etc. While I was away, it seems that the relationship and situation with my dad has worsened. Four years ago, he was diagnosed with cancer and underwent surgery. I am thankful th...
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{ "description": "going out with a girl in my school with no intention of being serious", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA: For going out with a girl in my school with no intention of being serious. (17M)
I am a senior in school right now and I have been feeling oddly lonely this past month. I feel like I don’t have friends I could talk to at home. Most of my friends are guys and I would really like some time to bond with a girl. It’s been a year since my last relationship. So WIBTA for going out with a girl in my schoo...
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{ "description": "asking to be with my friend for the finale of the game I bought him", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking to be with my friend for the finale of the game i bought him
so I got my friend a murder mystery game, danganropa (and yes, it's the first one), before he played the game I told him that I wanted to be with him "I do wanna be there when you have the trials in chapter 4-6, 5 and 6 at the very least" he just finished the 4th trial and figuring he either forgot, or was currently in...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet his brother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to meet his brother?
I am a 21 year old college student and have been going on dates with a guy for just over a week now. ​ Tonight he texted me and asked me if I wanted to go to a classical concert with him and his brother. I asked him if his brother would be upset if we didn't go and did another activity together. He said h...
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{ "description": "not allowing my gf to attend game night with my guy friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not allowing my gf to attend game night with my guy friends?
Gf moved here from out of state. She hasn’t made any real friends. Just some work people she went out with a few times, but they stopped. I’ve tried to help her. We both downloaded the meetup app and I offered to go with her to wherever she chose, but she never picked anything. I have this weekly game night wit...
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{ "description": "disliking my disabled sister", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for disliking my disabled sister?
First time posting, gonna try and not be ranty. My sister has some type of medical condition similar to Down syndrome but not Down syndrome. Best way I can describe it is she acts like she’s 4 and has a horrible short term memory. She’s 10 We have to take several precautions due to her being accident prone, and not ...
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AITA: Made Remark to Friend About Diet, Ended in Argument
Background: In past I have had some depressive episodes and expressed my feelings with my friend about how I felt about myself and what my problems were with my mental health. I am hyper aware of my actions and what my tendencies are, and my eating disorder has not flared up in at least four years. ​ T...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take an ancestry.com dna test", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to take an Ancestry.com DNA test?
First off, I'm on mobile, so, formatting, yadda yadda. My dad got the family a set of the tests as Christmas gifts. I think they're an interesting concept, but after going to school for cyber security/digitial forensics I've grown wary of people and companies collecting my information. I had actually found the kits a...
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