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{ "description": "going to work on a movie set the night of my son's surgery", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went to work on a movie set the night of my son’s surgery.
On mobile, so formatting and whatnot. I recently was booked to do background (extra) work on a movie that’s shooting in my hometown. I’ve done this several times before, but this movie is different. I’m a HUGE fan of this actor/director/writer’s movies, and I actually had to put in some effort to make my own costume ...
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{ "description": "making my daughter call my family once a week", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I made my daughter call my family once a week?
Our daughter is still too young to use a phone, so that's why it is hypothetical. The title maybe doesn't totally capture what I'm trying to say. My parents believe part of respecting your elders is that grandchildren call grandparents, not the other way around. I had a strict time each month that I spoke to my grandm...
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{ "description": "not telling GF about nudes", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not telling GF about Nudes
So GF and I have been together for a couple years. We have had a couple of issues with her being suspicious, and even accusatory towards me with regards to cheating. For the record, I have never cheated on her, I have never even come close to anything that approaches cheating, I love and adore her. That being said, she...
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{ "description": "talking on cell while pumping gas", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? For talking on cell while pumping gas
AITA? I was pumping gas and then I got a call so I answered the phone. A car pulls up next to me and a lady behind pumping her gas. She then says I shouldn’t talk on the phone while pumping gas because it can start a fire. I told her she’s more worried about policing others than actual fire because she pulled up next t...
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{ "description": "telling my pregnant wife that there is pretty much not a single circumstance where I would choose saving the baby over saving her", "pronormative_score": 475, "contranormative_score": 51 }
AITA for telling my pregnant wife that there is pretty much not a single circumstance where I would choose saving the baby over saving her?
I made the terrible mistake of watching a medical drama with my pregnant wife. We’ve been binging House M.D. and of course there’s a pregnancy complication episode where a dad is asked to choose between the baby and the mother (the mother was going to die either way it was just a little quicker). My wife said that she’...
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{ "description": "failing my classes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for failing my classes?
I hope it isn't too much of a problem if I use a throwaway. My family monitors my account, so I couldn't use that one. Here's the basic gist of my situation: I went to college this year and utterly burnt out. I stopped going to classes and didn't study for anything; just couldn't force myself to do it. I've since gotte...
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{ "description": "wanting to bring BF on road trip with friends", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to bring BF on road trip with friends?
Myself (34F) and 3 other friends 2 male 1 female have been planning a roadtrip. 9 days-ish around the redwoods and lake Tahoe. We've only discussed it once and have not even nailed down dates or campgrounds. I told my BF (who I have been dating for 2+ years and I live with) about it and he was also interested in going....
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AITA? Originally posted in response to "What was the most ungrateful way you've seen someone react after opening a Christmas gift?"
I was reminded of this situation from a post somewhere else and even though it happened a long time ago I'm curious if IWTA or not. I had just started college and was saving up to buy the ***perfect*** laptop for school. Everyone in my family knew how excited I was to make my first major electronics purchase, as we u...
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{ "description": "not wanting to plan/heavily participate in a second baby shower", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to plan/heavily participate in a second baby shower?
My friend had a baby ten years ago (at about age 25). We were super close back then and my mom and I spent a lot on the shower (probably $300-400 +), and her good friend did the whole baby pregnancy photo shoot for free. It was pretty huge. She got divorced about 5 months later, and she raised the child on her own. ...
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{ "description": "leaving my fiance", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for leaving my Fiance?
So 13 months ago I got with my now fiance. We jumped into a very serious relationship VERY quickly. We went on one date and then basically just moved in together immediately. ( I KNOW...I know..) I was completely infatuated at first and thought I was in love. She had just quit her job and was unemployed and was sufferi...
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{ "description": "expecting an ex-GF to text me back about plans we made to meet up 6 weeks ago", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting an ex-GF to text me back about plans we made to meet up 6 weeks ago?
I started seeing this girl over the summer 2018, and had a brief but very intense time with her. She had to move to the West coast for grad school in the Fall, and it was decided we wouldn't try to do anything long distance. Since then, we've only seen each other once, when she was back in town for Thanksgiving break. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my sister there on a shopping trip with my mom, my aunt, and I", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my sister there on a shopping trip with my mom, my aunt, and I
To preface this, I’d like to say my sister and I were once incredibly close(and still are) but our relationship has suffered because of her actions in the past. I love my sister very much, and enjoy her company most of the time. In addition, I’d like to note that my sister is currently being treated for her mental illn...
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{ "description": "wanting to keep our finances separate now that we are both employed", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to keep our finances separate now that we are both employed?
I met my boyfriend while I was in college. We’ve been dating for almost three years now, living together for two. I was a full time student and not working. When we moved in together I gave him some of my loan money as well as any extra money when I had it to contribute to bills, but he was the one to regularly cov...
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{ "description": "feeling uncomfortable in my boyfriends home and refuse to go", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling uncomfortable in my boyfriends home and refuse to go
Td;lr: boyfriends parents say bad things about me, the kids ( aged 7-9 ) and constantly fight with each other while I'm there. I'm no longer comfortable going over, AITA for refusing to go over or not? We are both 19, I'm English and he and his family are polish, this is important as his parents are quite catholic....
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{ "description": "refusing to report child abuse to the police", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to report child abuse to the police?
I know the title sounds bad, but please hear me out. There's nothing violent involved. I live in a place without "Romeo & Juliet laws". It means that when someone turns 18, they cannot have sex with people under 18 until both are major. I have two friends who are in this situation, and they told me while laughing...
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{ "description": "wanting to tell my friend to move on", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to tell my friend to move on?
a friend of mine is having relationship issues, the past 2 guys they've liked have both rejected them, not for harsh reasons mind you, just because they simply didnt want a relationship at that moment. but despite this happening months ago, there still upset about it, and every other day there posting stuff like "love ...
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{ "description": "breaking up a relationship because one part isn't faithful", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I broke up a relationship because one part isn't faithful?
There's a couple I know who are dating and the guy is head over heels for her but she doesn't feel the same. She's cheated on him at least once (in the last 2 months) and flirts with her ex's on a regular basis, as well as reminiscing about the times she spent with her ex saying "look I was actually happy then". She co...
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{ "description": "wanting my own room/private space and to not be a free babysitter", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my own room/private space and to not be a free babysitter?
I'm in school and due to financial reasons I'll be moving back in with my parents. My sister is also there and she has an 11 month old. I've been talking with my mom for the last month about how to make this work and we've 90% settled out the details. My sister called me today and I've just found out that she has an e...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed when my bf drinks my coke", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting annoyed when my bf drinks my coke?
We live together. I drink less soda than my bf and whenever I get a bottle he gets one too (I drink coke zero, he some other brand but it doesn't matter.) I'm speaking of those bigger bottles, like 1,5 liters. He drinks his soda fast and then goes for my bottle without asking. If I'm home it's not that big of a proble...
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{ "description": "hiding my laptop and PS4 when my family visits for holidays", "pronormative_score": 79, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for hiding my laptop and PS4 when my family visits for holidays?
So for general context I am 22, and the cousins are 7, 9, and 11. I live at home with my parents, and I pay rent. My room upstairs is mine to do with as I please per agreement with my parents and it has a lock on it that only I have the key to. So for the last several years my family hosts Thanksgiving and Christmas...
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{ "description": "stopping contacting a ''friend'' for 2+ months to see if there even is a friendship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA, if I stopped contacting a ''friend'' for 2+ months to see if there even is a friendship.
Probably a shitty title. ​ Long story short had this friend who I considered myself close with but for quite some time now our talks are at least in my opinion stale and lifeless and lacking any meaning to them and my ''friend'' has changed a lot too doing a lot of things I don't really can tolerate(Like ...
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{ "description": "actually caring", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for actually caring?
I will restrain from giving any character descriptions on both sides, but basically, the story is this - i have this neighbor/friend, with whom I'm on rather good terms, we do sports together, go out for a drink the usual... A little backstory: He is a single father, raising a teenager with ADHD and a ton of other d...
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{ "description": "hosting my wedding social on my ex's birthday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for hosting my wedding social on my ex's birthday?
Just some context! In my city, there's a tradition of throwing wedding socials to raise money for the bride and groom. It's basically a large fundraising party where everyone gets together and buys drink/raffle tickets to support wedding costs. ​ I'm getting married in 6 months to an amazing man -- we've b...
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{ "description": "telling my dad (who I've always been close with and who is recently divorced from my mom) that he's not invited on what I thought was a siblings-only visit", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my dad (who I've always been close with and who is recently divorced from my mom) that he's not invited on what I thought was a siblings-only visit? (I live out of state)
So about two months ago I booked a trip to Puerto Rico with some coworkers for this April. A couple of weeks later, my littlest brother (14, the youngest of 5) texted me to ask if I was doing anything the week of the trip. Turns out it's his spring break, and he wants to come visit me out where I live (a two hour flig...
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{ "description": "wanting an undisturbed break", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting an undisturbed break?
When I go on my break I let people know I'm on break and then I turn my radio off. Our work place is divided on this and as far as I know there is no black and white rule. Some say you need to be contactable at all times and others say your break time is your own time. I feel that when I'm having an unpaid break I'm...
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{ "description": "wasting my dad's time", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wasting my dad's time?
First time poster in this sub on mobile, sorry for any mistakes. For some background, I'm a college aged student who lives at home while I pay for school. I do chores around the house and chip in for groceries, gas, etc. I still haven't learned to drive (useless and unreasonably anxious in that regard) and have no car,...
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{ "description": "getting mad and taking it serious that two of my friends posted my phone number somewhere", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad and taking it serious that two of my friends posted my phone number somewhere?
Just what the title says. One day i go to school and they are like "Has anyone called you?" and kept insisting.Days before they were checking escorts online for fun and they came up with the idea to put someone's number in there. I've been called like 4-5 times by random numbers in the last month,but never got the ch...
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{ "description": "not answering my mother's phone calls", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Not answering my mother’s phone calls
My mother has a lot of mental health issues and lost custody of me at around a year old because of neglect/abuse to my grandparents. She would, according to my grandfather, lock me in a basement room with no windows all night and leave in the morning not coming back until seven or later at night, drink my baby formula ...
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{ "description": "cutting funding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Cutting Funding?
This one will be long, but I need outside perspective. I’m afraid all my friends and family pander to me. My husband is significantly older than me. He was married to his ex for nearly 30 years. He was incredibly gracious in the divorce (he felt he owed it to her after 30 years) and bought her a new vehicle, left her...
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AITA for beig upset about this?
So this happened a while ago. I still think about it sometimes though. I was having issues living with my mother after high school so we got into a huge fight (for financial reasons) and I ended up leaving. I posted online since I really couldn't afford to live on my own that I could pay 500 - 600$ for a room. I starte...
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{ "description": "not recycling at work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not recycling at work?
LTL, FTP. I work at a fast paced, very stressful company. Right now is our busy season and I have been slammed for weeks. I go through a ton of paper and post it notes per day. At my cubicle is a trash can (but no recycling). If I’d like to recycle something I have to stop working and walk some distance to the recycli...
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AITA Uncle threw my stuff outside and told me I wasn't welcome there anymore
I am a 22 years old, currently on my first year of college. This event took place last summer. I lived in a rural area and about a year ago got accepted to college which is quite far, like five hours of driving. Well, my mother asked if it was okay for my uncle if I stayed with him and his wife for a week until my dor...
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{ "description": "keeping pictures of my naked wife on my phone", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA keeping pictures of my naked wife on my phone?
I like naked women, and I like my wife, so obviously I like my naked wife. She sends me nudes or I take pictures of her nude so that when im out of town for work and we're sexting I have something to look at. Been doing this since we were dating, been together for three years, married for two. Anyway, at a birthday p...
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{ "description": "saying something to my manager", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I say something to my manager?
(throw away acct and changed names for obvious reasons) I started at this new job back in November so I haven't been there very long. Tonight three of my fellow coworkers were shooting the breeze with me while we were slow. Just general random conversation. One coworker, "Megan," says if she had ever had a son she w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend Christmas with my grandparents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas with my grandparents?
For a bit of context, I go to school which is dar from where my parents live, so I stay at grandparent's house monday to friday and only go home for weekends. And even though I love my grandparents, living with them is sometimes mentally exhausting and I was really looking forward to spending some time with my parents ...
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AITA for very rarely/almost never wanting to go to restaurants because my girlfriend makes food that's just as good, if not better, than restaurant food?
I've been with my wonderful girlfriend for a few years now, and we usually get along great, aside from this current issue. You can skip to the TL;DR if the exposition is too long. She's a self-proclaimed "foodie", which I honestly think is just selling herself short - she's a food genius. She can taste and smell a dis...
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{ "description": "asking my husband to do some of my chores", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my husband to do some of my chores?
My husband, then-boyfriend, and I started living together in college. Back then, our chore division was that he would take care of trash and dishes and I would do everything else. ​ When we graduated from college, he got a full-time job working 40 hours per week with a 30 minute commute and I went to grad...
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{ "description": "going on vacation instead of to visit my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went on vacation instead of to visit my boyfriend?
My boyfriend and I are both very lucky that we are able to work online and live a digital nomad lifestyle. Presently, I am in my home country visiting my family for the holidays and he is remaining in Asia in the last place we traveled together. At the end of January, he will visit his family in his home country for ...
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{ "description": "trying to sever contact with my mom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to sever contact with my mom??
Okay, so I messed up the formatting since it was my first post. This is a repost of the deleted one. I truly am broken up over this, and I’d like a third-party opinion. (TLDR is at the bottom) Before, During, and a little while after the time of my birth, my mom was a drug addict. From 0-2 yrs old, I suffered from ne...
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{ "description": "excluding my group members from my study guide", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for excluding my group members from my study guide?
So I am in this monster business law class that is one of the hardest classes at my school. It’s not really difficult but it’s a lot of material and studying. I have a group of 5 people that I’ve been studying with this past semester. We break up lectures and each do 1/5 of a google doc for a study guide. The idea is ...
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{ "description": "being livid at a superior coworker who denied me a major opportunity", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being livid at a superior coworker who denied me a major opportunity?
Some background. I recently passed 2 high level certification tests that give me the ability to take on much more responsibility and do more important tasks. One of those is to become an instructor for the national based program we work for. In order to become an instructor you have to demonstrate your mastery of the...
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{ "description": "not going down on her", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not going down on her?
So basically it was my birthday last week and this girl I’m seeing gave me a blowjob as my present. I was about to go and take a shower when she threw a fit because I didn’t go back down on her. Honestly I wouldn’t have minded but I thought it was a present on her behalf and her whiny attitude kinda ruined the mood.
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{ "description": "not giving my friend a $50 dollar itunes giftcard", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my friend a $50 dollar itunes giftcard
So I'm neighbor's with another guy my age, and we're both in high school. We don't really talk to each other anymore but a year before we would always walk to the store nearby and buy me food, candy etc. Nothing big but it happened a couple times. We recently fell out due to the fact that we had pretty much nothing in ...
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{ "description": "ghosting a serious relationship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for ghosting a serious relationship
This has been weighing on me. Need to know if I’m TA. I was friends with guy for a long time. I knew his history of cheating and cautiously entered the relationship. We agreed to keep our relationship a secret from our friends for a while. Didn’t want the pressure from them. Few months into our relationship, I see ...
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{ "description": "letting my buddy try my dip spit after asking if it was mint sauce", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for letting my buddy try my dip spit after asking if it was mint sauce?
The only redeemable part about his question is that I ate lamb (popularly pairs nicely) the night before and boasted about it. But come on... you can't learn from word of mouth alone. Relevant information: - Hawken Wintergreen, Long Cut. - I always use mason jars. - He didn't find it funny.
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{ "description": "not skating together with my daughter and my ex at my daughter's birthday party", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not skating together with my daughter and my ex at my daughter’s birthday party?
Little backstory: my wife and I got addicted to meth and got involved with dcfs. They took our 3 children (7f,5f and 3m) and placed them with my mom. Shortly after this my wife and I split up and she moved in with another guy. He was an old friend of mine so my kids know him but can’t see him because of our situation. ...
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{ "description": "having a cold attitude about mental health on social media", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for having a cold attitude about mental health on social media
I (32 F) have found myself increasing annoyed by my friends and family who constantly post on social media and/or meme about depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, etc. I am not salty about mental health conditions at all, I am actively working on mine. I am pissed because these people, despite having health insurance, are no...
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{ "description": "wanting the name of my baby Momma's other child father", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting the name of my baby Momma's other child father?
I really want to know what kind of shenanigans she will pull.
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to stop chewing with her mouth open", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to stop chewing with her mouth open
My girlfriend is wonderful in so many ways but when I first met her she didn't shut her mouth at all when chewing. I brought it up after like 3 months and she's gotten way better so props to her for that. But she still does it occasionally but on consistent things. For example she loves hot Cheetos and whenever she ...
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{ "description": "wanting my partner to wear a ring", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my partner to wear a ring?
My partner and I have a unique relationship. We have been together for seven and a half years, and we have a child together, and own a house together. But we arent married. He proposed to me 5 years ago and since then we have decided that legal/religious marriage isnt for us. Its sort of messy and antiquated. However...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to seek a job that travels and would take him away from his family often", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my husband to seek a job that travels and would take him away from his family often?
The background: My husband's mother works for a company that requires a lot of travel, she missed both of my children's birth the past 2 year because she was out of state. My BIL worked for the same company for a fee years with no experience in the feild and made more money than me and my husband have ever made combine...
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{ "description": "excluding one sister and taking the other on our yearly vacation", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I exclude one sister and take the other on our yearly vacation?
I live pretty far from the rest of my family. For the last three years I save up and take my sisters on a vacation. My youngest sis and I are very close. My middle sister not so much. The relationship between the two of them is sometimes outright hostile. I’ve included her the last three times more out of obliga...
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{ "description": "leaving my husband because of his mental illness", "pronormative_score": 188, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTAH for leaving my husband because of his mental illness?
My husband of 1 year (together 2.5 total) is very funny and sweet at times. At his core he is a dream. He’s also drop dead gorgeous and we have similar interests. But, other times he is such a bummer that it drains me to even be around him. He alternates between being the life of the party and a living rain cloud. When...
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{ "description": "being mad at my bf and going over his head because he didn't use my brother as his real estate agent", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for being mad at my bf and going over his head because he didn’t use my brother as his real estate agent?
I’ll try to keep this short, but my bf recently decided to buy a house and my brother recently became a real estate agent. Let’s call my brother G. The original real estate agent, let’s call her K, he was using didn’t seem like she had our best interest at heart. Wouldn’t even put in offers lower than the asking price....
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{ "description": "getting annoyed by people constantly asking me \"are you okay?\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting annoyed by people constantly asking me "Are you okay?"
For context- Fractured my arm 2 weeks ago, been wearing a cast since. Every time i see someone that i know, they go : "Are you okay?" I dont know if im the only one but its kinda annoying
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{ "description": "being insecure about a fictional character", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being insecure about a fictional character?
My bf is obsessed with a character on a show he watches. It’s a daily thing for him to talk about her. Physically she’s pretty much my exact opposite. He will have entire conversations discussing how she might be feeling in situations, yet is totally confused when I get upset over things that would be completely obv...
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{ "description": "reporting a property to Airbnb, should I have just written a bad review", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting a property to Airbnb, should I have just written a bad review?
I stayed in a property that had no heating on in winter. The owner was away, and in her info guide she had specifically said to not touch the heating so I couldn’t turn it on. The room also had no light, only a lamp and there were lots of other minor issues. I am very hardy and can stand the cold, but it was 4C during ...
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AITA: Red Tree Loving Nazi
Red is my very favorite color. I thought the Christmas trees Melania put up were very pretty; BECAUSE THEY ARE RED. My opinion of her trees has literally not a fucking thing to do with politics. Today I learned, via the Facebook, that I am in fact, an asshole; and apparently a white supremacist. I am so glad someone to...
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{ "description": "\"ruining\" my girlfriends birthday", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For "ruining" my girlfriends birthday?
Sorry for the novel, but I'm so confused. I (36m) and my girlfriend (30f) just got 100% custody of my (5f) daughter as my ex wife is moving out of state at the end of the week. Prior to this new custody arrangement, we have had primary physical custody of my daughter because my ex works M-F 9-5 and is single. I work f...
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{ "description": "asking for a reason all the time when my gf says no to stuff", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for asking for a reason all the time when my gf says no to stuff.
So I ask a lot of questions and for my gf to try stuff with me, or for us to do things together. When she says no I always like to know a reason why, I don't like when people close to me just say no without giving a reason for stuff. For example I wanted her to try a coffee I made today and she so no thanks. I just wan...
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{ "description": "refusing to give my cousin english lessons", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to give my cousin English lessons?
Hi. So I’m 18 and just finished my A’levels. I’m planning to spend some time tutoring students in science, because I really like teaching science subjects (physics, chemistry and biology) and I’d also earn some money. Right now I’ve got a total of 9 students, and I work 6 days a week from 4pm to 8pm with a one hour br...
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{ "description": "telling my female friend to break up with her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my female friend to break up with her boyfriend?
I'm using throwaway because my friend is using reddit. My friend have really abusive boyfriend. He controls what she does on internet, where she is, who is she friends with etc. He don't want she to be friends with me (I'm male) because he is afraid she will love me instead. I met her week ago (we don't see each oth...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a Knicks game", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to go to a Knicks game.
My girlfriend and I are going to New York next week. She wanted to go see a Knicks game at Madison Square Garden, not because she's a Knicks fan but because she likes basketball at Madison square garden is an iconic arena. I looked at the tickets and they are $90 a piece for almost back row nosebleeds. She tried to jus...
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{ "description": "asking bf to change his socks", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking bf to change his socks?
There was a very unpleasant smell in our livingroom, earlier this afternoon I caught a whiff of it in the kitchen when we sat there. It was cornered down to his feet smelling foul after being in the same pair of socks for two days, working/walking around in his sneakers. I ask him to please change his socks? He doesn’t...
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AITA My job seems to think every aspect of me belongs to them
I work for a pretty large company and strongly suspect them of continuing to invade my private life; emails, blog posts (inclusive of but not limited to Twitter), phone calls, text messages, etc. Even going as far as attacks on my personal network; tried to use a VPN on a few different occasions and my connection got i...
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{ "description": "yelling at someone whose car I hit", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at someone whose car I hit
So I was driving to school, and I was stuck in traffic behind an L300. The L300 in front of me suddenly braked, so I stepped on my brakes as well. There was about 10 feet of distance between our vehicles, so everything was good. But a six-wheeler truck hit my car from behind, and my car, being a smol (Toyota Wigo to be...
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{ "description": "assuming my cat will be fed along with the other animals without my specifically asking", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for assuming my cat will be fed along with the other animals without my specifically asking?
Obligatory first time posting, on mobile so sorry for format, tldr at the end I [21f] have lived on a small farm with my parents and brother since I was 3. The animal numbers fluctuate, but we typically have sheep and goats, chickens, cows, and pigs outside, and dogs, cats, fish, etc inside. At present, there’s two s...
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{ "description": "cancelling a babysitting Job due to illness", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Cancelling A Babysitting Job Due to Illness?
I received a request from my aunt last Saturday, asking whether I would be available to babysit for four hours. Her daughter is six-years-old and super well behaved. I really never have any problems from her. I accepted and everything was fine. ​ Tuesday night, I became violently ill (TMI: diarrhea, nause...
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{ "description": "trying to distance myself from insecure people", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to distance myself from insecure people?
I’ve had friends who I really liked, but decided to keep distance or even cut all ties with because of their insecurities. What I mean is that these are people who would get actually upset whenever I hang out with someone else and “not invite them” (regardless of whether this other person is a mutual friend or not). Th...
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{ "description": "not wanting people parking in my parking spot", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting people parking in my parking spot?
I live in this pretty big appartment complex with 300+ units (2 bedrooms and 1 bathroom), and a garage build but some units have parking spots in front of the buildings, I do not know if every unit have a parking spot or not, but mine does and is pretty well located, almost in the entrance door of the block I live in, ...
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{ "description": "borrowing money from my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for borrowing money from my girlfriend?
Repost since my original was too long. Catchy title, eh? So the shortened story: At 31, I financed my first car (before that I had a jeep that I bought in the early 2000's for cash.) Having never financed a car, I failed to find out if they added the cost of sales tax and registration and whatnot to my financing cost...
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{ "description": "kicking out my transgender daughter for self medding", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for kicking out my transgender daughter for self medding?
For context, i did not kick her out BECAUSE she is transgender. Just wanted to clarify that. Back in March, i found out she was DIY taking HRT. (no prescription) Now, I'm not against her taking hormones if she feels that's necessary in her life. I'm happy if she is. The issue is estrogen can cause blood clots, and se...
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{ "description": "deciding to break up with MY GF DUE to MY part time job", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA IF I DECIDE TO BREAK UP WITH MY GF DUE TO MY PART TIME JOB
I am a college student in an Asian country. Me and my gf have been together for over a year and I love her so much, she does as well to the point that sometimes I don't deserve her. I come from a kinda poor family background so sometimes if I am lucky, I get some online admin jobs to make ends meet. Last few months, I ...
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{ "description": "cutting off my emotionally manipulative best friend right before her birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off my emotionally manipulative best friend right before her birthday?
For context, my best friend (B) has been in a weird codependent fwb-but-not-really situation with her physically and verbally abusive alcoholic ex that she drives everywhere because he doesn't have a license. He's made her cry countless times, flirted with other girls while they were dating, and he broke up with her bu...
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{ "description": "sending a \"happy new year\" message to an ex almost 6 months after a bad break-up", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if i sent a “happy new year” message to an ex almost 6 months after a bad break-up
I’m in desperate need of different viewpoints on this so i don’t do anything stupid. Info: i’m 19, she’s 19, we’ve been friends since age 12 and after 6 months of being SOs i broke up with her because i couldn’t stand being long distance (uni). But i know we’re both back for new year’s and wanted to check on her. Woul...
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{ "description": "decreasing my participation in my friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for decreasing my participation in my friendship?
I'm not really sure where to start but I guess I'll start here. My (now ex) roommate (we will call him Alan) and I met online before our first year of college and we applied to room together with 2 other people. We lived together for a year and during that time he and one of my other roommates (Harry) got in a huge fi...
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{ "description": "being upset at giving up my parking spot", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at giving up my parking spot?
So to provide context, I am referring to a garage parking spot at a residential home at which I am a tenant. When I visited the potential apartment, I knew that I would be living with the two landlords (husband and wife) and that I would have a spot in the garage. Fast forward a month later, their son moves back in due...
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{ "description": "not visiting my great grandmother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not visiting my Great Grandmother?
Today my family was going out to visit my Great Grandmother but I decided I didn't want to go. My family asked me 'why?' which is a fair question so I told them about how I didn't want to see her because shes super transphobic and i'm trans. I have been out for years and kept visiting her even though she refused to res...
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{ "description": "making a good salary and not letting my so not work", "pronormative_score": 75, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA if I make a good salary and wont let my SO not work? (We have no kids)
So me and my SO just moved in together. She doesn’t have a job while I am a software engineer, so I make a pretty good salary (not in Silicon Valley, I live in the Midwest) so I’m pretty well off. We don’t have kids, and aren’t planning on getting any. I make a good salary that can support us both easily, and have us...
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{ "description": "moving to a new country when my family is struggling instead of being there", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving to a new country when my family is struggling instead of being there
So I’m now living by myself at a big city 20 hours away from my hometown. I told everyone that it’s because there’re better career opportunities, lower rent and it’s exotic and fun. Which are all true but the truth is I couldn’t stand living with my family anymore. And I hated my hometown so much. My younger brother ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a certain restaurant with my mother due to a disabled server", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to go to a certain restaurant with my mother due to a disabled server?
I am not sure of the server’s disability, but when he speaks he comes really close and a) spits on people’s food because of a speech impediment b) is sort of aggressive (he’s not threatening but it’s definitely too close for comfort) and c) touches your arm if you’re not paying attention. Last time we were there, I p...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "breaking up w/ my bf via whatsapp", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up w/ my bf via whatsapp?
We were almost a year together, he was still living with his parents. He was a dentist and worked in the dentist office of his father. He avoided that I met his parents. I sometimes said "Hi" to his dad, but that was it. I think the parents didn't want to meet me. They are Russians and maybe they wanted a russian girl....
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{ "description": "asking out a girl who is non exclusively dating my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for asking out a girl who is non exclusively dating my friend
The title is pretty much it, but a bit more backstory: I’ve had a thing for this girl since September and we have a friendly and flirty dynamic. I was really attracted to her but couldn’t tell if she was into me and didn’t shoot my shot earlier, which I should’ve. We were at a party a few nights ago and she was danci...
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{ "description": "being upset that my roommates meow at me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my roommates meow at me?
I live with two of my best friends. I love my living space, spending time with them, and so forth. But what I cannot stand is the fact that they insist on meowing. It's consistent. It's in the morning when they wake up. It's when they walk through the door coming home. It's when I walk in the room. It's to each other w...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to slow down", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my wife to slow down?
My wife is a middle school teacher, and also directs all of the high school's theater productions (3x per year). She also tutors kids a few times throughout the week, frequently not getting home until 8-9pm during peak theater season. On top of this, she's constantly auditioning for and acting in plays/musicals of her ...
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{ "description": "eating at a party without my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for eating at a party without my friend?
Today I went to a surprise birthday party for a friend (friend B) that me and my friends had planned for about a month. We planned everything, including what to get. A cake was one of the items we brought. It was a small party, just 4 people including myself. I had been in charge of buying an ice cream cake, and had s...
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{ "description": "holding out cash at bar", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: holding out cash at bar
So I was at a bar for my friends birthday. I went to get a drink and pulled out a $20 while trying to make eye contact with the bartender since it was pretty crowded. I figured having money ready would make transaction go faster. The bartender comes up to me about 5 minutes later saying something like ‘flashing around...
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{ "description": "not staying the night", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not staying the night?
So I’ve known this girl for a little under a year now and we’ve been friends with benefits for that amount of time roughly as well. Tonight she hit me up to come over since her parents were away and after we do the deed she almost expected me to stay the night, which I had told her before I even showed up that I was mo...
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{ "description": "getting upset both of my roommates bought the exact same shoes as me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for getting upset both of my roommates bought the exact same shoes as me?
So a few months ago I stumbled onto the best shoes I've ever worn. They look great with all my clothes, and I really enjoy wearing them. [Superga White Hi Tops](https://www.superga-usa.com/collections/mens-high-tops/products/2795-cotu-white) ​ I've gone through a few pairs, as I wear them every single day....
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{ "description": "telling my mom to stop being bitter about her best friend getting re-married", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I (21F) told my mom (45) to stop being bitter about her best friend getting re-married?
My mom can never be happy for anyone, especially her supposed best friend. This all stems from her friend eloping and getting married before her and my dad did, but my parents were only marrying because they got pregnant with me. Prior to that, my mom didn't want to get married. So they set a date but her friend gets ...
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{ "description": "kissing her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kissing her
So I moved to a smallish city and I have had a horrible time meeting people. I'm definitely as lonely as I've ever been. I meet a girl in one of my classes and we start hanging out. She's sober so I'm definitely excited to have someone sober to hang out with. We study, grab dinner a couple times, and cuddle. She compli...
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{ "description": "being mad at dad and phone use", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at dad and phone use
I'm on mobile so formating stuff, first post and all on Reddit so sorry if I make a mistake Some context: in sixth through eight grade I had barely any friends, so I turned to books. I just read and read and read all afternoon every afternoon after finishing homework. It was really sad. High school comes around and I ...
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{ "description": "beeping my horn", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For beeping my horn?
So this just happened and I don't know what I did wrong. So I was driving home nearly there and to get down my road (which is one way) I have to turn right on the high street where theres and KEEP CLEAR box. So I see the two cars in front turn right and I go to follow them, all of a sudden the car waiting at the keep c...
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{ "description": "telling the claims generalist that a car crash was my friend's fault", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I tell the claims generalist that a car crash was my friend's fault
My friend recently ghosted me. I don't know her reasons for certain, but I can make a good guess; it's probably because I told the claims generalist the truth about what happened during a car accident we were involved in. My friend, let's call her Anne, was the driver, and I was in the passenger's seat. The car Anne w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to live next to my in-laws", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to live next to my in-laws?
TLDR: My spouse and I recently unexpectedly inherited their grandparents' house, which is next door to my parents-in-law's house. My spouse wants to move there and I think it's weird. AITA? This is my first time posting on Reddit, so I apologize if this isn't formatted right/on the right subreddit/whatever. Trying to...
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{ "description": "being incredibly angry at my friend when I learned his feelings towards gay people", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being incredibly angry at my friend when I learned his feelings towards gay people?
Hey guys, so my friend of more than 10 years came to confide something he was struggling with recently. It turns out he was pretty devastated that his son came out as gay. When asked to explain, he said it could be because he went wrong as a single father. Also, he mostly said he feels terribly sad that he won't have a...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to pay half after I cracked his phone", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if I ask my friend to pay half after I cracked his phone?
Sorry for formatting I'm on mobile. Context, I was in school and we were in the yard and I was at the other corner of the yard going with my friend to the bathroom, when I was coming back to my friend who's phone I broke i was jogging towards him as he was recording me. So after jogging towards him and he's still rec...
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{ "description": "being upset that my mom ignored me while driving", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my mom ignored me while driving?
I'll try to keep this short. I was a passenger while my mom was driving and was talking about some prison and something about readmittance rate. As I was saying that they only included people who could reoffend (not people who have passed n such) she said, "wow that's amazing". I was very confused and asked about what ...
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{ "description": "not yelling my boyfriend I took a pregnancy test", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I don’t yell my boyfriend I took a pregnancy test?
So I 19 (F) thought that I might be pregnant with my boyfriend’s (19) baby. I never told him I thought I could be pregnant and the test came out negative. It was a spur of the moment realization and he’s in another state rn, and it came up negative so it isn’t like an intentional hiding type thing. There’s no way he wo...
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{ "description": "laughing my ex", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for laughing my ex
I have a former girlfriend, we were together a long time ago (13 or 14 years old more or less), when we decided to end the relationship, everything was normal. We are friends now, but she likes to remember when we were together, and whenever she writes to me we end up talking hot things or writing crazy things, she al...
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