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{ "description": "cutting out a friend without telling them", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting out a friend without telling them
Earlier this year I (25F) hooked up with a guy at a party who’s mutual friends with a lot of my friends. I gave him my number but didn’t hear from him, so I figured he wasn’t interested especially as we were quite drunk. Several months later after reconnecting at various events we both attended we started seeing each ...
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{ "description": "liking a tweet", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for liking a tweet
So a bit of Background my girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and within the recent year have been in sort of a rough patch. We broke up because I thought she was too controlling and she was adding too much to my stress while being a hypocritical about the whole thing and I was growing bitter towards her. We...
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{ "description": "commenting on my aunt's facebook post not being christian", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA If I commented on my aunt's facebook post not being Christian?
My aunt (by marriage) shared a post of an electric fence that said, "Why build a wall? A bad ass electrical fence would be way more entertaining." We're from a small community and church is important to that side of my family. We are Lutheran. There is some tension due to some due to her husband and 2 other siblings d...
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{ "description": "breakupping with my so because they don't like dogs", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA: if I breakup with my SO because they don’t like dogs
Maybe this should be in r/relationshipadvice sorry in advanced Anyways, I’ve been with my SO for a while, we’ve had ups and downs, nothing any normal couples wouldn’t experience. We’re both in our late 20s and have been living together for a couple of months. I’ve always imaged having a dog once I’ve had my own pla...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mom to take money from my savings account", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting my mom to take money from my savings account
This past Sunday my mom and I got into an argument and I yelled fuck off in my room while vacuuming. I assumed she couldn't hear me but she did. So she sent me a text a few hours later where she said that every time I swear or act angry she will charge me 25 dollars. I glossed over that part until I saw she moved 25 do...
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{ "description": "reporting a student cheating of my college math exam", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for reporting a student cheating of my college math exam?
TL:DR at the bottom. Okay, so it’s my first year of college and I was an engineering student (engineering classes are hard as shit) and I was really freaking out about finals. I mean, full mental breakdowns after classes, getting 3 hours of sleep a night, the whole stressed-out-college-student fiasco. My GPA was too...
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{ "description": "trying to do my classwork work during lunch", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to do my classwork work during lunch?
I'm in tenth grade, and I got put into honors Geometry this year. Because it's the class that's right after my lunch, I usually eat as quick as I can, and go to the classroom and do the classwork. When the period starts, I do my homework and chill. During lunch, my teacher is usually in the classroom helping other stud...
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{ "description": "telling my brother to get up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling my brother to get up.
So my brother is slothful. He is lazy, gets bad grades,never study, almost never do chores(parents have to yell at him), and all he does is play fortnite and claims he's professional troller on the internet . I couldn't take it anymore he needed to get up, he need to do something productive you can literally smell the ...
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{ "description": "not asking my gest friend about her break up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not asking my gest friend about her break up?
My best friend (f/20) broke up with her boyfriend today and she sent me a voice message about it. I responded with: “are you okay?” which I thought was a natural response, since I first wanted to know how she’s feeling, before I ask about the details. She got really upset by my message and basically told me I’m a bad f...
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{ "description": "being okay with my girlfriend going to a different college than me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being okay with my girlfriend going to a different college than me?
So I (m17) had a brief discussion with my girlfriend (f18) about college and how she has opportunities to go to a different college than me. We're really close and have been together for quite some time and I believe we are extremely involved in eachothers lives. I am restricted financially and going to a local coll...
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{ "description": "ghosting someone after they make me uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting someone after they make me uncomfortable?
(Sorry for formatting and grammar, I'm on mobile and I'm also exhausted) Some background- There's this guy I talk to who I like. But I see him as a more brother figure, or just a best friend. He is really attracted to me even though I'm a lesbian and I have a girlfriend. That being said, he doesn't mind showing his...
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{ "description": "refusing to take another shift on my day off", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because i refused to take another shift on my day off?
So i work at this ice cream shop and most of the people who work there are kids from the college that i go to. this week is our spring break and most of the kids are on vacations and requested the week off. i was also supposed to go on vacation but my trip got canceled so Im just staying and picking up some extra shift...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf because she lied about a guy", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Breaking up with my GF because she lied about a guy?
long story short. I've been dating this girl for a three months now. a couple weeks ago she was high on cocaine and drunk. I was drunk but not high because I don't touch that shit. heres where it gets risky. The guy she cheated on her ex with, she still keeps in contact with him. (not her ex but the guy she cheated wit...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my bi girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Breaking up with my bi girlfriend?
Backstory when me and my girlfriend first got together she told me that she was bi but she’d be exclusive with me, So now on to what happened, fast forward 4 months from when we started dating she started to hangout with this girl, me and her meet this girl at the same time while hanging out with some friends and the...
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{ "description": "not picking up my girlfriend to spend the weekend with me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not picking up my girlfriend to spend the weekend with me?
Hi everyone, first post so I'm sorry if I violate any rules. This past weekend, my girlfriend and I planned to spend the weekend together at my mom's house in NJ until Sunday when we would both go back to Brooklyn, NY together. I'm on vacation from my job so I came to NJ earlier on in the week to get some errands out ...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate on the other side of the wall to stop playing music at night", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my roommate on the other side of the wall to stop playing music at night?
It's not unusually high, there are just unusually thin walls. And this guy likes to make music, so I can basically hear him tweak on the bass every single night.
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{ "description": "dating the girl my friend used to like", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dating the girl my friend used to like
So my friend had a crush on a girl, then told me he wasn’t into her anymore. A week later the same girl messages me first and we talk for about 3 weeks and we start hanging out and I end up asking her out. My friend reveals that he does still like her and gets really upset with me. I don’t really know what I can do. Bu...
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{ "description": "ruining a potential relationship", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ruining a potential relationship?
Alright so I’ll try to keep this short. I already know I’m kind of the asshole here but need some advice. I met someone online about a month ago and we’ve been on 3 dates so far. He’s gone all out for me every time and I think he’s an all round lovely person - super sweet, good upbringing, good job, very smart and ve...
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{ "description": "refusing to support my husband's political career", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for refusing to support my husband's political career?
We live in a deep red state and he intends to run for the house as a democrat. Except his views clash with just about every person here and the odds of him getting elected are close to none. I hate to be so blunt but if he pulls this off it would be a MAJOR upset. He compares himself to Alexandria Ocasio-cortez but sh...
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{ "description": "refusing to help/support my friend with her breast explant surgery if she refuses to tell her fiance about it", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I refuse to help/support my friend with her breast explant surgery if she refuses to tell her fiance about it?
Hi all! I have a friend (mid 30s) who recently was engaged. I consider her a close friend and recently she told me that she would need to have her implants (she got them in her 20s) removed due to a complication. I'm the one closest enough to her that she is willing to share this with/ask for support during this ti...
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{ "description": "reporting my roomate for hotboxing the entire apartment", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for reporting my roomate for hotboxing the entire apartment?
So, I am back, and again drugs are mentioned. This new guy moved into our apartment a while ago. He seemed really reclusive which I didnt mind at first. Then he very OBVIOUSLY started smoking weed in his room. Not just a little. Daily. Multiple times. It wasnt an issue at first because when the weather was nice he wou...
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{ "description": "getting Hugged at the Bar", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - Getting Hugged At The Bar
This all happened less than an hour ago. I was at a bar I frequent and talking to some people I know, suddenly I feel someone from behind me hugging and starting to grind against me. I know a lot of people at the bar, and assume it's a friend of mine, but when I look down at the shoes I do not recognize them. I loo...
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{ "description": "hating when people insult me without proof", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating when people insult me without proof?
I'm so god damn sick and tired of people just insulting me without reason. I just got back from work, in the middle of snow, and I pull out my phone, and the first thing my grandpa says is "so the only thing you like to do is be on that phone". Or when we were moving some stuff around in the shed, so I go up to the top...
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{ "description": "being upset with how my boyfriend handled my birthday", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset with how my boyfriend handled my birthday?
It was my (23F) birthday on the 7th of March. My boyfriend (27M) and I have previously had a serious argument over Christmas. He didn't get me a gift and I got him one and I ended up feeling a little frustrated that we hadn't communicated to each other what we expected on Christmas. We resolved that argument however an...
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{ "description": "slapping my 5 year old cousin", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for slapping my 5 year old cousin?
My cousin was visiting and like all 5 year olds, he was acting quite naughty. Trashing lots of rooms, I kept trying to make him leave my room and make him eat his dinner downstairs but he wouldn’t do it. Then, he threw a bin at my face and I just lost control and slapped him in his face in a rage of anger and then I sh...
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{ "description": "telling a dropout retail employee about my plans of furthering my studies once I get my board exam results", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a dropout retail employee about my plans of furthering my studies once i get my board exam results?
This happened 2 hours ago. I work part time at a retail store & was told to help another retail worker at another store (under the same owner, different brand) to take the empty boxes out to the dump. On our way to the dumpster we made some small talks, the usual. He then asks if i have any plans on furthering my s...
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{ "description": "not moving home when my dad was dying", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not moving home when my dad was dying?
So last night my father passed away. He had been put into a care home for dementia but he passed away suddenly from congestive heart failure. As soon as I got the news I dropped everything and flew home. I never left the home when I got here and was with him when we passed. When he was put in a nursing home I asked my...
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{ "description": "not helping a friend win a bet", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping a friend win a bet?
This happened last summer but I just found out about this sub so I am just posting it now. So a friend of mine who I am not really that close to, more of a friend of a friend asked me to pitch in the championship game of his adult baseball league. For whatever reason this league allows a ringer for the championship ga...
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{ "description": "excluding my friend's boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for excluding my friend’s boyfriend
So before all this happened, my friend , Taylor, and her boyfriend, John, were a part of my friend group and we were all very close to each other. Then about six months ago, John started staying up really late to call us and play games with us while also ignoring Taylor. Sometimes when we played it would just be him ...
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{ "description": "thinking that my friend should've told me about an opportunity to do an exchange with a school outside the country while I was absent", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking that my friend should’ve told me about an opportunity to do an exchange with a school outside the country while I was absent?
Last year I was absent for a week of school and before I left I told my friend to inform me about anything school-related. While I was away, they had the opportunity to submit a letter to do an exchange with another school outside the country (and it is very affordable), but I did not know because I was not there. I t...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to hangout with a guy she has hooked up with", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to hangout with a guy she has hooked up with?
Pretty much what the title says. I'm trying to understand. Throwaway account just because I feel like an asshole.
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{ "description": "not taking a stand in a company scandal", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if i didnt take a stand in a company scandal?
So I work part time in a company that organizes local conferences. Recently, my bosses found out that someone was leaking information like our insider Gmail IDs and unreleased ticket dates to a competitor. Following this, they interrogated all of us. I didn't even know this was happening, so I got removed from the su...
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{ "description": "insisting on a particular balloon artist for my birthday party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I insisted on a particular balloon artist for my birthday party?
So when I was a kid, there was this balloon artist in my town that I adored and would see him at every Chinese New Year street festival making these fantastic balloon animals. When I was 8 I cried so hard when the whale I got deflated and my mom said we had to throw it away. We took a picture of it with precious film s...
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{ "description": "not allowing a coworker to take over my office place", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't allow a coworker to take over my office place?
We work in production where our old office is located right next to the manufacturing rooms, therefore it's very convenient. About 8 months ago, me and a few people joined that manufacturing department (I just changed departments, was already in the company for a year) and the manager organized a new room for our offic...
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{ "description": "not feeling sorry for my fiancé's sister", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not feeling sorry for my fiancé’s sister?
So basically on Sunday we went to my fiancé’s parents to celebrate his sister’s birthday. The whole time we were there she mocked me in various ways(my religion, the holidays I take and our car) and no one said a word to make her stop. I was very hurt by it but kept my cool until we got home where I explained to my f...
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{ "description": "telling a woman she needs to control her children", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 58 }
AITA for telling a woman she needs to control her children...
I went to get groceries and there was a woman with 3 kids who were probably between 3 and 7. At first I felt bad for the mother because she looked really stressed and tired out. The kids were running around and they knocked into me and my daughter multiple times. As I walked past the woman I said to her ‘you really nee...
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{ "description": "coming home from school and taking a break", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for coming home from school and taking a break?
So I’m in middle school, 8th grade, and of course this happens on Valentine’s Day. So I went to school this morning, there’s was a lot of drama and stuff because Valentine’s Day, there’s was a 2 hour school delay too, so classes were weird, I had helped shovel snow off the school walkway and stuff, so day kinda sucked...
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{ "description": "being \"just friends\" with a guy", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being "just friends" with a guy?
I met a guy through a dating app and when we met in person we had a nice talk but I wasn't attracted to him (for context I had been in a ltr for 10 years and this was my first date since we had broken up about 1.5 years ago so I have not been dating in over 10 years I am worried I have forgotten/never new how to date p...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that he is hanging around my abusive ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend that he is hanging around my abusive ex?
Kinda long, TLDR at the end. A little previous context, I'm 25 now, but when I was 17 I dated a 24 year old who mentally abused me horribly. I'm still affected by some of the things he did to me, which included locking me out of the bedroom in winter without a blanket or the heat on. I shivered to sleep several nights...
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AITA for telli g mt boyfriend to return the cheesecake he bought me for my birthday?
*we used to share our Reddit and Facebook accounts, that's since changed. Tldr at bottom So, a little history. I was raised by my grandmother and lived with her my whole life. When she got older and sicker we switched roles and it's the single most rewarding thing I have done with my life. She passed away a year ago...
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{ "description": "telling my ex she couldn't have my Facebook Password without asking", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my ex she couldn't have my Facebook Password without asking?
AITA for this? This relationship was over a year ago at this point; but sometimes this question still bothers me. At one point my ex did have my password but I changed it after she blew up after a misunderstanding and refused to accept my apologies for multiple days afterwards despite admitting she knew I did nothing w...
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{ "description": "taking my nephew to a prostitute behind his parents' back", "pronormative_score": 41, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for taking my nephew to a prostitute behind his parents’ back?
​ So my 19 year old nephew is back from his sophomore year of college. He’s a great guy and I could sing praises about his character all day. He’s everything I would wish for if I had a kid of my own. We’ve generally been close as uncle-nephew. We text each other once a week or so, we play games together, I...
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{ "description": "having beef with my grandma when she hasn't really wronged me specifically", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having beef with my grandma when she hasn't really wronged me specifically
Hi, so I'll just get right to it I guess. ​ My grandma is really old. Like, we know her time is coming soon. My dad reminds me of this almost every time I'm in the car with him and talks about how I should visit her more since she's lonely and old. ​ My mom on the other hand really, really dis...
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{ "description": "making my best friend cry by being honest", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for making my best friend cry by being honest
So this was like 30 minutes ago, me and my best friend were playing truth or dare, i asked her as a truth to say her closest male friend and her closest female friend, closest male friend doesnt matter, but the closest female friend did. So her closest female friend had messaged me a few days earlier saying she didnt ...
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{ "description": "slapping a boy after he took my phone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Slapping A Boy After He Took My Phone?
Important things about me: 1. I have terrible anxiety from people taking my things (expensive things *like phones* are even worse), 2.I’m a high school girl so there are many classes in the day and everyone’s schedule is different (this is important) 3. The only time i will allow someone to use my phone is when i tru...
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{ "description": "being mad at my bestfriend for leaving me on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my bestfriend for leaving me on my birthday?
My best friend is a lesbian and we and two other friends went to a place called main event (arcade games,bowling lasertag, etc). A girl came up to her and asked for her number and this was cool I thought it was great she was talking to a girl. I expected her to say something like "oh well im with my friends birthday pa...
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{ "description": "confronting my girlfriend about rarely messaging me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I confronted my girlfriend about rarely messaging me?
So I know that there was a post about relationships recently but hopefully this is unique enough. So I [20F] and my girlfriend [18F] are in a long-distance relationship, with me living in America and her in New Zealand. She's in her first year of pre-med at university so of course, she's busy. I totally understand that...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a political debate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go to a political debate?
First, yes I’m very political and use to work in politics. I now work in a different field but still stay in the political loop. It is election seasons in my city and mayor is one of them. Personally, I can’t stand the current mayor and know who I am voting for already. My candidate has been very helpful with my ne...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friends to talk about their periods to me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my friends to talk about their periods to me
I live with a female friend who I consider close like a cousin. She's a lot more open about her emotions than I am, and I don't mind listening to her talk, so we have a good dynamic. She has talked to me about her period in the past and it's always made me a little uncomfortable but I've never said anything because I d...
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{ "description": "not paying for this app", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not paying for this app?
Brace up, this is going to be a weird ride. TL;DR: I got an earthquake warning app that sometimes gives false positives, which scare some of my coworkers. I could get the paid version to get rid of false positives, but I make a matter of principle to not pay for apps. I live in Mexico City, which was hit by two str...
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{ "description": "using comic sans to reply to my ex-wife", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA because I use comic sans to reply to my ex-wife?
I am recently divorced and my ex is still an last-word, overbearing control freak. I am minimizing my communication with her because after 25 years, if I never speak to her again I wont care. Hitch is we have mutual custody of a son and must maintain some level of communication. If I format all my answers to her email...
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{ "description": "getting pretty fucking sick of my cousins", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting pretty fucking sick of my cousins.
So my extended family recently moved and are now basically neighbors with us, they used to live in another country. And now they and they're two kids, which I'll just give age ranges for anonymity sakes. (5-6 y/o boy, and 9-10 y/o Girl) The older girl is fairly well tempered and just occasionally gets a little annoying...
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{ "description": "feeling entitled to an iPhone XS", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for feeling entitled to an iPhone XS?
I'm moving back to the States from working abroad the past few years. I now need a phone and a plan. I'm going to add a line to my dad's family plan and pay him per month because it is a lost cheaper than getting an individual plan. The phone company had a special for the past few weeks, where if you add a new line you...
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{ "description": "'being around half-naked girls' even though my girlfriend doesn't want me to", "pronormative_score": 470, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for 'being around half-naked girls' even though my girlfriend doesn't want me to?
Notice the quotation marks, since those are Sarah's (my girlfriend) words, not mine. So, I'm a competitive swimmer, and recently some kids at my school have started a water polo team, and asked me to join. I said sure, since all my clubs (FBLA, Investing Club, DECA) ended a few weeks ago. It's not too serious as of no...
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{ "description": "blocking a friend of 3 yrs because they got mad I stopped talking to them for a day", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking a friend of 3 yrs because they got mad I stopped talking to them for a day?
So background on this: I have dated this person twice in the past. The first time was 2 years ago and then again from September to January. Neither time was very long, but we do have a connection that I havent really found with anyone else. He also lives on the other side of the country so we rarely see each other in ...
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{ "description": "quitting a board game", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For quitting a board game?
Me and my usually gaming group were playing terraforming mars. For those that don’t know what that is the basic goal is to terraform mars and end with as many victory points as possible. Part of the gameplay includes things called generations where everyone takes turns going in a circle playing cards and using abilitie...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my ex-boyfriend while walking the halls in school or seeing him in class", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to talk to my ex-boyfriend while walking the halls in school or seeing him in class.
Hi, guys! I find myself in a pretty shitty situation and I'm not entirely sure if I am being an asshole or not. Here's the situation I find myself in. First a little backstory... I met my ex-boyfriend at my then thirteen year old sister's summer soccer league tournament (she turned fourteen in November). He was a few...
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{ "description": "bringing up cheating rumors to my friend before his wedding without ALSO (or first) confronting his fiancé", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for bringing up cheating rumors to my friend before his wedding without ALSO (or first) confronting his Fiancé?
Background: I (male) am good friends with both parties here. I’ve been friends with my buddy since Elementary school, and have been friends with his now-Wife for the last 6 or so years they’ve been together. They got married last year. During the Bachelorette party and festivities surrounding it, some potential emoti...
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{ "description": "not letting my wife work a 'spend the night' nanny job", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not letting my wife work a ‘spend the night’ nanny job?
For context my wife is a part time worker Tuesday, Wednesday, and Friday for like 3-5 hours. Every other day she is off. I make enough money for us to live comfortably and he money goes 100% to whatever she wants. She was approached by an old client of hers,whom she used to babysit her kids before we got married and...
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{ "description": "accidentally going into a diner near closing", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for accidentally going into a diner near closing?
Setting: New Year’s Day, greasy little diner that serves breakfast and lunch Players: me, my boyfriend, our two friends We walk in around 11:40-11:45 and are directed to seats by staff (this is important). The waitress (W) comes over, literally drops menus onto the table, and starts to walk away without saying a word...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my friend?
Disclaimer: I'm not really "mad", just a little pissed so it's nothing too serious. So, my friend and I are in 11th grade, we have a course system in school and unfortunately we don't have many classes together (only 2). We usually have a class together on fridays, so I'm always looking forward to that, but recently ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on holiday with my family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA; I don't want to go on holiday with my family?
Title says it all really. I was kind of forced into going on holiday with my Brother, sister and their partners, however I really don't want to go and would rather spend the week relaxing in the comfort of my own home. My brother doesn't like plan changes - and usually gets very annoyed if I change simple plans like a...
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{ "description": "feeling like my best friend doesn't care about me as much as I care about him", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling like my best friend doesn't care about me as much as I care about him?
We've been very close for more than 2 years now. A few months back we started living in the same city after being apart for a year, and I was super excited and made all sorts of plans for the (8ish) months that our time here would overlap. We live around an hour from each other so weekends are the only time we can meet...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my job without notice", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to leave my job without notice?
So, I am new to this sub and not sure if you guys are cool with posting about a situation actively progressing. Long story short I work in research, but am not a student. I followed my husband to a foreign nation that has labor laws preferential to hiring those with citizenship to that country. My boss jumped thr...
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{ "description": "being upset with the girlfriend of a friend of mine", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with the girlfriend of a friend of mine.
So last year me and my friend went to a festival and we really enjoyed it. So we decided we would go next (this) year again. A couple of weeks ago we reminded eachtother of the ticket sale that was going to start soon to make sure we were still going. Now his gf knows that we wanted to go and she knew what weekend it w...
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{ "description": "making a facebook account to tell a married woman her husband was sending me money and jewellery in exchange for sexual photos while I was a minor", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I made a facebook account to tell a married woman her husband was sending me money and jewellery in exchange for sexual photos while I was a minor.
I'm no longer a minor, and haven't had contact with him in 6+months. When I was 16-17 I met a guy online who I grew to be friends with. He'd offer me gifts and money, and being young an naive I accepted. We were friends on Facebook- I've since deactivated- which is how I learnt he and his **wife** got **married in Dis...
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{ "description": "reporting my roommate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting my roommate?
Let me start this off by saying my roommate and I have been friends since kindergarten, and I believe this is why she thinks she can act like this. I go home about every other weekend and I have told her that its ok for our CLOSE friends to lay on my bed while watching movies, hanging out, ect. and if the need a plac...
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{ "description": "being mean to my depressed friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mean to my depressed friend?
So, my friend (17F) has problems with depression. She's cutting herself for I don't know how long. She never been like this, it all started when she met a girl who taught her to do drugs (she smoked pot before, but now I'm not sure what else she's into.) I live far from her, so there is not much I could do for her on...
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{ "description": "setting multiple alarms in the morning in my college dorm", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for setting multiple alarms in the morning in my college dorm?
So I’m deaf in one ear, and sometimes I’ll find myself waking up sleeping on my one good ear, so I won’t be able to hear my alarm. So in order to fight this, I set 3 alarms in case I don’t wake up to the ones before it. I have class at 9:15am so I set the alarms for 8:30-8:45. The problem is when they go off, my roomma...
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{ "description": "not siding with my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not siding with my friend
I was having coffee with a Mom gal pal of mine. Her husband and my guy both work as chefs at the same business. It's one of those members-only club dealios. One of the servers has been there for 30+ years. He's established a shit ton of rapport with the guests after so many decades. The guests also like to give gifts w...
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{ "description": "telling my friend her actions were shitty in this conversation", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA - For telling my friend her actions were shitty in this conversation
AITA - For telling my friend her actions were shitty in this conversation ​ Some backstory / context - said conversation takes place in an MMO in the situation where a guild has splintered due to differences in opinion - my friend went to support the other guild, I stayed with the original guild. &#x...
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{ "description": "being irritated with my friend for dumping her relationship troubles on me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being irritated with my friend for dumping her relationship troubles on me?
I know there’s a debate on whether FEELING something makes one the asshole, but I plan on going into therapy when I get older and I’m probably going to hear a lot of crazy and unreasonable stuff. It’s just that I don’t want to make this behavior okay in the present when it will not be in the future. So, do I need to ch...
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{ "description": "being mad my sister seemingly doesn't care that I'm home from school", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad my sister seemingly doesn't care that I'm home from school?
I'm a junior in college, my sister is a senior in high school. ​ I got home from school for winter break on Sunday. My sister was out when I got home, so I didn't see her, and I ended up going to bed before she got back. Monday, she left for school before I woke up, so I didn't see her then either, nor did...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friend to cheat off me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my friend to cheat off me???
I sit next to one of my best friends in my marketing class. I’m pretty good at that class (average like a B on quizzes and tests), and she really tends to struggle and fails nearly every assignment. Lately, I’ve noticed that she has been cheating off me on the quizzes and tests. I kinda want to call her out for it, and...
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{ "description": "not wanting to host my best friend's babyhower #5", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to host my best friend's babyhower #5?
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{ "description": "not attending the final ride out for a biking friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not attending the final ride out for a biking friend
I am an avid biker, don't drive a car, never have. I Lost a friend to a motorbike crash on Monday and haven't been able to face riding a bike since. My best friend is giving me shit saying he would have wanted you there and the rest. I just can't bring myself to throw a leg over, mostly because i am scared. I am attend...
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{ "description": "staying out late after telling my girlfriend I could be home early", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for staying out late after telling my girlfriend I could be home early
My girlfriend (25 year old female) and I (23 year old male) got in a bit of a fight last night. It was a Friday night and she worked the next day so she had decided to stay in for the night after 9 and I had plans with some friends. We live together and I try not to leave her alone on these nights because she also has ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my ex-gf", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my ex-gf?
First off I’m on mobile so sorry if there’s any formatting errors or anything like that. Secondly I’m sorry for the long read, tl;dr at the bottom. I dated my ex for two years, through junior and senior years of high school and then a little into college. We had a great relationship. Minimal arguments and the ones we ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to attend my soccer games anymore", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to attend my soccer games anymore
So I’ve been playing coed indoor soccer on Thursdays for the last 5 years on and off. I started dating my boyfriend in 2017 and the first year together I became flakey when playing. Well now that we live together and I’m used to his company I’ve gone back to playing every Thursday. I’ve been playing with these same ...
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{ "description": "accepting free drinks in bars without 'giving' anything in return", "pronormative_score": 54, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for accepting free drinks in bars without ‘giving’ anything in return?
For context I’m a 22 year old female and I would consider myself decently attractive-ish? As a result I regularly have guys come up to me in all kinds of bars and clubs offering me drinks, which I’m totally okay with as long as I watch the bartender make it and it goes straight to me to avoid any tampering. Well I rec...
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{ "description": "calling out on short notice", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for calling out on short notice?
I’m 21 years old and I work as a direct support professional in a single staff group home for people with developmental disabilities. Being single staff means you’re on your own to get everything done. My typical work schedule is: Sunday 7am - 9:30pm Monday 2:30pm - 9:30pm Tuesday 8am - 9-30pm Thursday 8am - 1pm Beca...
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{ "description": "not telling a friend that he was lowkey cheated on", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not telling a friend that he was lowkey cheated on?
So my best friend confessed that she lowkey cheated on her boyfriend. I say lowkey because even I don't think it's cheating. She told me that a mutual friend of ours convinced her to meet him because he had alcohol (a brand that she really liked and given her circumstance of leaving the country I understood why she ...
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{ "description": "\"stealing\" my friends phone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for “stealing” my friends phone?
Ok so my friend is really careful with her phone. She puts on the heaviest case, constantly changes her screen protector, and never lets anyone borrow it. Last week I was going on a plane ride and I needed to call an Uber. My phone was dead so I went over to ask her if I could borrow her phone. No one was around, so ...
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{ "description": "not being interested in my SO's disfinctional family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being interested in my SO's disfinctional family?
Looking for some sort of confirmation regarding my in-laws. First off, my so is on the same page. Her family live about 50 mins away from us. We don't regularly visit because in general we don't feel welcome. We value hosting, serving people drinks and food when they come over and conversing. My in-laws are nothing l...
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{ "description": "cutting out close family friends entirely", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting out close family friends entirely
Sorry for any formatting errors or grammar errors, I’m on mobile. BUT we have a close family friend, I’ll call her E, who has been in our lives for about 10 years now, but has of course always been closer to my parents, and seeing as I don’t live with them anymore I don’t see her anymore so it made things a bit easier...
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AITA in my relationship with my late grandmother
To give context, I was adopted by my mother's parents who I have lived with since I was 2 years old. I'm now 19 years old. I've always loved my grandfather more because, at least in her later years, my grandmother always came across as very bitter, she was very intolerant and when I was younger I did pick up a few of t...
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{ "description": "yelling at a girl who locked her car door as I walked past", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for yelling at a girl who locked her car door as I walked past?
I was walking home from the liquor/grocery store and I was approaching a curb ramp. My area is becoming more gentrified, and more people think they can just park anywhere; it's annoying. There was a girl, on her phone, texting and parked right in front of the crosswalk. I did not want to walk through the grass, since i...
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{ "description": "refusing to let a man and children in after close", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to let a man and children in after close
(Sorry about format in advance) So this is something that just happened and is weighing on me. I am the closing manager where I work and we have a front lobby and delivery. My lobby closes an hour earlier than delivery. Tonight I got an order for pick up about ten minutes before my lobby closes. The promise time for th...
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{ "description": "wanting to see my friends promotions and wanting a life", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to see my friends promotions and wanting a life?
Im 17. A few of my JROTC buddies are getting promoted to high ranking leadership positions. I missed school yesterday and im busy on Wednesday and Thursday and theres no school Friday. I have to make it up today. This school is an online school where you go once a week to a physical building. Im already gonna drop out...
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{ "description": "not letting a friend's \"friend\" stay with me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting a friend’s “friend” stay with me?
So a little back story on this. Recently became single and reached out to some old friends to try to rebuild my social life. One of these is an ex, we’ll call her Ashley, of mine that we’ve managed to stay good friends over the years. She introduces me to a friend of her’s, we’ll call her Sara, to basically knock the r...
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{ "description": "asking my LDR girlfriend if I could hang out with friends during \"scheduled call time\"", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my LDR girlfriend if I could hang out with friends during "scheduled call time"?
First post here so hopefully it's not the wrong format etc. ​ My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for about 2 years now. We see each other every month or so during a weekend. Because we're both in college and usually have busy schedules with classes and homework etc., we set up sc...
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{ "description": "ending my dnd campaign", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I ended my DnD campaign?
I posted before on here with a lost throwaway account, btw this is also a throwaway account because I think some of my friends are Redditors as well. ​ Alright so context, my group and I have been playing together for almost 2 years this April or May over discord and the website Roll20. About six months ag...
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{ "description": "wanting my gf to take a shower after any workout", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting my gf to take a shower after any workout
Most times my partner goes and works out, she comes home and instead of taking a shower, she just sits on the couch or lays in our bed. If she feels she didn't work out hard enough, then she won't shower before going to sleep either. AITA for asking her to take a shower before she sits/lays on stuff, so that they don't...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf because I don't like her way of dressing", "pronormative_score": 40, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf because I don't like her way of dressing
I have been together with my gf for over a year. Overall, she's a nice person and I don't wish any bad on her at all. For the past 2 months, my gf has been starting to go out more frequently with her (female) friends. It would be a "girls night" so I never got to tag along. I never had an issue with it since she had b...
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{ "description": "getting married first", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting married first?
So I have a pretty close friend group of around 5 or 6 people. All of us get along super well except one of them. The one who can’t get along is pretty bossy and wants things done her way even though we are all adults and can make our own decisions. So my friend always talked about how she wanted to get married and st...
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{ "description": "telling my dad it's wrong to want to kick me out over keeping my job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my dad it's wrong to want to kick me out over keeping my job?
I'm 22, and I recently got a DWI. I'm now(or maybe not) living with my dad, and my stepmom. I no longer have my car, I have to figure out how to make money, and move forward. I've had a job 3 YEARS, and he want's to kick me out because I want to go back to work. I have a ride there and back, he has to do nothing to hel...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to leave my family
I (20F) live with 2 families in one plot( main house and a separate entrance to another smaller house at the back). I personally don't mind this because we live relatively peaceful but I am not happy here. I am the first of my family to go for a degree(1 and a half years left) and my mother is basically pushing for m...
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{ "description": "arriving with my stepmom about church", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For arriving with my stepmom about church
So a little backstory I(15) told my stepmom(43) that I was an Atheist, now mind you I didn’t just tell her out of the blue she asked me if I believed in god and I said no. But despite this she still forces me to go to church with he because I could learn something, I’ve tried telling her that it would just be a waste...
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{ "description": "wanting to meet up vs pickup for Valentines", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA (and weird) for wanting to meet up vs pickup for Valentines?
So a woman and I have been dating for the last 4 weeks. Valentines is always the toughest holiday to navigate for a new relationship. So last weekend we had a date where she drove up to me and we went out to one of my favorite restaurants. She was a little hangry but things settled down once we ate and had a little bit...
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AITA told my brother off for not picking the bathroom door and not answering me before opening it.
Today, I woke up and the electricity was off for some reason. I wanted to take a shower and I heard someone walk in. Then I heard it again. I snoozed and when I woke up again I geared the door. I thought the second time I heard the door that it was opening and the person using it before I snoozed was done. I went over ...
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