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"description": "being Rachel in this Ross and Rachel dilemma",
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} | AITA for being Rachel in this Ross and Rachel dilemma | I’m basically Rachel, and my boyfriend is Ross.
One Saturday morning I told him “Hey, I don’t think this is working out. Me and you have tried tones of times to make it work and it isn’t working.” ‘Ross’ said it is working we can make it better. I said “it’s not though come on, we said we would give it one last chanc... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not just listening",
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} | AITA for not just listening? | So my girlfriend and I were just got off the phone two minutes ago. We were talking about how her and her friend were getting into a falling out situation and it was stressing her out and she was talking to me about it and I tried to talk to her and give her some of my own perspective about it. I gave her my opinions o... | HISTORICAL | {
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vYSeltsAS99JiwS9F6toQ9W8dVvxgfnc | awtd44 | null | AITA because I don’t this I am | Over the past two years I have been dating a very nice man, he has three kids from his previous marriage and I have one. She has since found a boyfriend as well.
So last night there was a birthday party for my boyfriends niece and his ex was going to be there. He asked me to drop him off and come back a bit later t... | HISTORICAL | {
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Dizy5TaFtnrk6M3Las31NgKKqYQK4Mae | arn30z | {
"description": "getting mad at someone who complained about a recent amber alert",
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} | AITA For getting mad at someone who complained about a recent amber alert? | So here in Ontario there was recently an amber alert regarding an abducted little girl. It was sent to most people in the area in an attempt to find and save her and the guy was luckily caught and will be facing punishment. The alert went off near midnight, I was awake so I didn’t really mind, but not everyone was okay... | HISTORICAL | {
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5n1VLJyDpWvpDknnkKXRwznkENuIjt6t | b346wy | null | AITA- dyed my hair at boyfriends request, I hate it and blame him | I have long brown hair that I love and my bf for months has asked me to dye it red. I finally went and got it done and I hate it. It looks nothing like the pictures I showed the lady and I now have bright red highlights all throughout my hair. I hate this look so much. It looks like a cheap wig. I told my boyfriend I h... | HISTORICAL | {
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wvUCI9UipTm4tFOvM6ywb2hUb6tf6S1Z | b1bilr | {
"description": "explaining my mother that the idol my sister idolize haas been found in a scandal",
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} | AITA for explaining my mother that the idol my sister idolize haas been found in a scandal? | SHORT RESUME: This is going to be more easy to understand if you have seen the last news that had been spreed about the kpop band Big Bang, more specifically one of their members) My sister is a big fan of kpop for like 5 years now, she has like a lot of bands and one of them pass to be Big Bang.
Last night,after watc... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "calling out my english teacher for trying to push her views on us through essay questions, and saying Im \"off topic\" for disagreeing with her",
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} | AITA for calling out my english teacher for trying to push her views on us through essay questions, and saying im "off topic" for disagreeing with her. | So some backstory, in my English class we are studying a text by a Nigerian women, it's basically a collection of short stories with there own characters focused around the lives on women in Africa during certain events.
We where given the essay topic
"Jumping monkey hill highlights the pressures women are placed und... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"description": "not letting my daughter get a new coat",
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} | AITA for not letting my daughter get a new coat? | My 6 year old daughter recently confided to her grandma (my mother-in-law) that she doesn’t like the coat that she currently has because it’s black and she wants a pink one. The coat that she has is a very nice, very warm, very expensive Columbia coat that is in perfect condition. It’s a hand-me-down from a family memb... | HISTORICAL | {
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9txYL2Mi6LYr0HMpdAzaQ6ueX2GDsFwu | a3no4s | {
"description": "never giving to charity",
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} | AITA for never giving to charity? | So when I was a youngster I did an internship in a charity. During that time I learned several things about the charity business in general. Nothing secret, things that many people already know, but they were things that made me uncomfortable nonetheless and so I decided that day that I would never give money to charit... | HISTORICAL | {
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0eZbKa0EAGsz18WeVU2aKIpLAG3AbnEB | af2j2x | {
"description": "getting upset that my so other decided to start smoking",
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} | AITA for getting upset that my SO other decided to start smoking? | To set the scene a bit, I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 24. Me moved in together a few months ago, been together about a year and a half. I've always made it clear since the start of the relationship that I don't want to date smokers. She had told me she had smoked when she dated an ex years ago but she ended up not liking... | HISTORICAL | {
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1WZKMyQNyAHcHdU8Gbpaymj4atcd6xFn | aonue5 | {
"description": "telling my mom to stop helping homless people",
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} | AITA for telling my mom to stop helping homless people? | Naturally more context.
My mother has bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder, I'm not sure which but something is obviously wrong.
She keeps bring sketchy homeless people to live with her and she's currently got a restraining order from the last one. He stole her stuff all the time. Threatened her, punch... | HISTORICAL | {
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9oE3aY5BO93vjeM2Q2WV40ozWph5m9tr | aj6h8w | {
"description": "potentially ruining my friendship group because of dating one of my friends",
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} | AITA for potentially ruining my friendship group because of dating one of my friends? | Some context:
In December, a bunch of us went on a night out for my coursemate's 21st birthday. After a great night, I ask if two of the three friends in this group want to go back to theirs or mine (they both live together) and play Mariokart. One girl (A) invites me back and the other girl (B) is fine with it, but ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
ZcCJ1RwoMaLsq3miAxmZc0mrO2C5KnVE | b9kl8k | {
"description": "not letting my friend sleep with his ex",
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} | AITA for not letting my friend sleep with his ex | Ok so I’ll start with some backstory, Me and my best friend got invited to a party recently and we both decided to go and try to have some fun but he was kind of sketched out because his recent ex gf (they had a very messy break up) was also going to the same party, but I told him that we probably wouldn’t even see her... | HISTORICAL | {
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b2I5MgtY7tP24clRAOQVEHlScY6bhw4t | ap8pno | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for my son's lessons, while our other children get theirs paid for",
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay for my son's lessons, while our other children get theirs paid for? | Background: My husband and I have three kids together: one from his previous marriage (17) and two from our marriage (14, 16). We obviously love them all equally, and treat them all the same. The two kids from our marriage are in out of school sports, with one getting private swimming lessons and the other being invol... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
DSDzhcJMO8N7rsms01DaRsDwVV04btRb | b9d5h4 | {
"description": "refusing to do what my boss asked me and not oush my product live on a friday",
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} | AITA for refusing to do what my boss asked me and not oush my product live on a friday? | I work in a type of web agency and I am the lead developer on a short list of people working in IT. As such I am just about the only person able to push our code to a production server and make it public to the world.
Yesterday (the last day I work for this company of the week) my boss comes to my desk and asks me to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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R99kONNGXoevXfaEtaIzayNtgYyPdSy7 | b0lt0d | {
"description": "choosing to buy a cheaper pair of vans through a different retailer after receiving help in-store at vans",
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} | AITA for choosing to buy a cheaper pair of Vans through a different retailer after receiving help in-store at Vans? | My wife and I recently booked a 3 week trip to go to Europe this summer and have been getting new stuff in preparation. This past weekend we went to the mall to find new shoes that would be ergonomic, low profile, yet fashionable to match the few articles of clothing we’ll be bringing. Keep in mind, we’re trying to sav... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
WJuMDBCNuZxCREpqub4YuV8VdrEyqkh2 | a5x1nt | {
"description": "still having resentment over this person who reported me in school for being a creepy stalker",
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} | AITA for still having resentment over this person who reported me in school for being a creepy stalker | I used to fancy this girl a year below me, and at one point I decided to step up my game a bit and tried to flirt and hang out with her. Later on, as it was around time for my exams, I decided to like and comment on her *recent* posts, such as any pictures that she uploaded and all. Not all of them are pictures of her,... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
6nbPMCwSxTPblrVk7G5wrSx51weJFQiY | b512pz | {
"description": "leaving a game 'early' to go to bed",
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} | AITA for leaving a game 'early' to go to bed | So, last night my family and I and a family of 6 who are family friends were playing a game (11 of us in total) which isnt very serious and no scoring involved, just a but of fun. Bare in mind here i had already lost out for being forced into a pair with the youngest person in the group as they thought it would be 'fun... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
v5PyOf0AzRpZbCMaUmyMbTsjKsSYcaDa | b10lu1 | {
"description": "uninviting my friend from my house over spring break",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for uninviting my friend from my house over spring break? | Firstly, I'm very new to this sub, so please let me know if I'm breaking any rules or leaving anything important out.
Kinda long backstory that I apologize for, but I think is all relevant:
It's my first semester ever at college, and I meet this really awesome guy named Tyler. We end up spending nearly all of our fre... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | WRONG |
vbA72e0YhiFxUx5V0sMYSpv5ZMqTWZtT | afy72n | {
"description": "breaking up with my gf about blood donation",
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} | AITA For breaking up with my gf about blood donation? | I'm a blood donator and this discussion is dating about half a year back and is going on from when my gf found out that I donate blood.
She has her own opinion about donating based on anegdotal stories she heard from her family - and is strongly against it.
According to her, some members of her family did not recive b... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
2cThqANCHtimQyeFxU5f75nSZBupN8Fr | apom5d | {
"description": "telling my roommate's friend to shut up",
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} | WIBTA for telling my roommate’s friend to shut up ? | Ok so I live in a small apartment and have one other person I live with, we will call him Billy. He has a friend that I would say Im acquainted with at this point, we will call him Jake.
Jake comes over at around 7 p.m. last night to record music with Billy. Billy is on his PlayStation playing a video game so Jake sta... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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LAN0EXdOTqioJUWGBwglpqhsAAWnJT0d | 9yux8c | {
"description": "telling my group to work",
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} | AITA for telling my group to work | Freshman in college. I'm in a group with nice people but end up doing most of the work (used to it from high school too). First presentation only one other person made their slides, I did everything else. Well I think the others did some things like 10 minutes before that preso. For the first one though the others some... | HISTORICAL | {
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ROSsUQ5zrw2ayfoUF8jTEeQ9JO0ZPhl3 | a1gj74 | {
"description": "reporting drug addicts to my police friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for reporting drug addicts to my police friend? | At our school we have a police officer assigned who makes sure everyone is ok. I overheard some kids in the playground speaking about drugs and using them. I took a stand and let my police friend know. He had the drugs taken away and will be speaking to the kids parents. He told me I did a great job. | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ytoBxGaCYI8lbwvRIYCEEFb6FanaDdbC | amwwtv | {
"description": "cutting my mom, and siblings out of my life",
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} | AITA for cutting my mom, and siblings out of my life? | My mother and father were never married and never intended to have to, when I was around 2 my mom went to prison and my dad one custody of me, never heard from her till I was around 13 years old and met her for the first time around 15. I’d go visit her and my siblings on holidays and a few other times thru out the yea... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
Sso4olm65Dkc8OCLPolRId5t8fkPx6MU | b09w3d | {
"description": "making jokes about my wife with my friends",
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} | AITA for making jokes about my wife with my friends? | Longtime lurker here. Anyway, I've been married a year and a half, and when I'm with friends I like to make wife jokes, like you'd see on Married with Children, the ball and chained, no sex kinds of jokes, you know what i mean. It's been no issue between me and my friends, they make the same jokes about their GFs, its... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 72
} | WRONG |
ElmN0N9R2Nwe28ve3LNzN5J9Lxw3cbsl | akg34q | {
"description": "wanting to set conditions for the house that is under my name for my girlfriend and her family",
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} | AITA for wanting to set conditions for the house that is under my name for my girlfriend and her family. | My girlfriend and her mom have been wanting to get out of this shitty house they have lived in for the past 10 or so years. I am up for that, I want them out of a house that is falling apart. My girlfriend started looking at house a few months ago and this is where the fights started. Her family is not financially wel... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
33p2etIDdnv9GetLx9NsoiBSVAXPYAFe | 9zr6y4 | {
"description": "buying gifts that I can use too",
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} | AITA For Buying Gifts That I Can Use Too? | For clarity, I still live at home currently and I am involved in the household and the farm that I live on. Every year I go out with the meager amount of money I make during the year to buy gifts for the holiday season, just like any other poor college kid. However, when I look for gifts for my father, or my grandfathe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
0zfo1khw5suC6rZJD85fwHMq63OjJuEG | ap7ftw | {
"description": "asking my mother to leave me alone",
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} | AITA for asking my mother to leave me alone? | So about an hour ago my mom came out of her bedroom and walked up to me crying. We have been going through a cervical cancer scare so I was prepared for the worst, but then she says that she is an alcoholic and needs help.
This was pretty apparent to me since she was almost always consistently drunk. She cried for an ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
9eHCEhd1LyTSbG3CH7Qic5HY0vojlOec | anvjjo | {
"description": "holding my friend's stuff until he paid me back",
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} | WIBTA If I held my friend's stuff until he paid me back (READ BEFORE YOUR DOWNVOTE) | TL;DR at the bottom
So, I live in close proximity to a comic shop and I and my friends love comics, they live far away so they tell their order, give me the money sometimes before or after, I have a friend who owes me about 39.75$, which is a decent amount at our age.
He's been paying recently, but he still knows as ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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TTwiOlZbtASP58llqaSLpvrErow4PzSm | 9wrjca | {
"description": "not wanting to work after my two weeks",
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} | AITA for not wanting to work after my two weeks? | I work at a small local restaurant who desperately needs workers. I’ve been there for about a month but I ultimately decided to quit because I have another job that pays better and I’m exhausted all the time. Also the kitchen smells like cigarettes and there’s a language barrier. I put in my two weeks notice a week ago... | HISTORICAL | {
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Y8JHMksBJcg5MUE3oyBmGZUwFn5up7kz | a0yp28 | {
"description": "picking sides in arguments on a Discord Server I own",
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} | AITA for picking sides in arguments on a Discord Server I own? | So, I own a Discord server and there is a lot of arguing on the server. So there are three main people in these arguments, Me and two other guys. Let’s call them Bob and Joe. So Bob is involved in every single argument on the server. Usually when there is an argument between Bob, Joe, and I I tend to side with Joe. It’... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
E7SxnNkhgrvE6m4KepDeJTEJqL64jnKV | a1ecb6 | {
"description": "spending most of my time with my boyfriend",
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} | AITA for spending most of my time with my boyfriend | My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little while now and it’s very serious and we have made a lot of future plans together. Before we started dating I only had a few friends and my “best friend” lived in another town about an hour away from me so it wasn’t too far but it wasn’t like I could just go to her house a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
XpOeP1TwKiLTvsTn35hhXKEGEMmiBXFU | atzlzs | null | AITA - Is it me or my boss and should I find a new job? |
I really like what I do, in theory. I don't want to go into much detail, and I made a throw-away account for this. That's how much I like my job, I guess.
My boss, though, lately, has put a lot on me. He likes to over-promise things to new clients, so there's a lot on me there with trying my best to meet unrealisti... | HISTORICAL | {
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2PaG2AsBk0dXCEq6PvBxkco9NMI3TXKE | 9v1wco | {
"description": "cutting contact my friend after getting turned down when I brought up a relationship",
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} | AITA for cutting contact my friend after getting turned down when I brought up a relationship? | A couple of my friends and I had a bit of a get together over the weekend, and my friend was going to be there. We'd been spending more time together, flirting, etc and hinting at each other, so I thought this would be the obvious time to ask her out. Full disclosure, we'd already slept together multiple times at this ... | HISTORICAL | {
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pAbXTRDNFsVzJAQP40ZGCjSR0uabZOvt | aqpb3l | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for a ticket for a concert I wasn't planning on going to",
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay for a ticket for a concert I wasn’t planning on going to? | Long story short: my friend’s older sister reaches out to me and asks if I’d be interested in going to a concert with friend for friend’s birthday. The sister says “I want her to enjoy the concert with one of her friends which is why I’m reaching out to you can you help me plan”. I say yes, I’d be happy to go and I can... | HISTORICAL | {
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44dFYtN4plyUc0hvQQlDGxwAL5jfZVXz | avz7pr | {
"description": "publicly leaking a story about a 'mean girl'/bully who just became slightly famous",
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} | WIBTA if I publicly leak a story about a 'mean girl'/bully who just became slightly famous? | The 'award' story reminded me of this incident. Somewhat similar. And I imagine I'll probably be met with more backlash compared to that. Disregard the username though it's a throwaway from a while back when I didn't really know what the word meant.
The full story definitely won't fit, but the watered down version - I... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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lHC8xIbkVWoel7WgLXXkiZv3fe3NP7t8 | aiu452 | {
"description": "disliking friend after family member passed",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for disliking friend after family member passed? | Back in October, my great aunt unfortunately passed away due to complications with bone cancer. She was in her seventies though, and she had accepted her death. Before her passing was actually really sweet, but we're not here to talk about that. Obviously I'm heartbroken, but I still need to go to school. Now keep in m... | HISTORICAL | {
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qAQJTiJTdP5Ra2dnnqL4f9gnG5OduqkW | am9xi7 | {
"description": "not wanting to do volunteering for a competition with my class",
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} | AITA for not wanting to do volunteering for a competition with my class? | What's going all everyone, long time lurker, first time poster in this subreddit.
Ya'll always end up making the front page, so it's not to actually have a reason to jump into the mess. That being said, let's get to it.
I'm in paramedic school at a private college, this is my second time attending. My first attem... | HISTORICAL | {
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XK7YQofn8JBym4x6sONLd7lcE1eEsBW2 | ajewrs | {
"description": "not liking some of the relationship my Gf has with her gay bf",
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} | AITA for not liking some of the relationship my Gf has with her gay bf. | Ok so ive being going out with my gf for like a month and a half and shes not exactly the nudes sending kinda person even to me and im okay with that i understand her not being comfortable with that kinda stuff but shes is perfectly ok doing sexual things in person. Anyway she was telling me how her gbf(Gay Best Friend... | HISTORICAL | {
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49IoR0rHqjnfOGnAzltq8GRfV6Q8ePAF | arzbpu | {
"description": "refusing to drive my mom to the hospital",
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} | AITA For refusing to drive my mom to the hospital? | So I turned 18 almost a year ago, got my licence and bought a car with the money I saved up from working while studying high school.
I started college and decided to quit my job as the hours were too much and I wasn't able to focus on my studies. I found a different job that pays a lot less but I can choose when I wan... | HISTORICAL | {
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EvStTOBkF7ESqRqb5bBmneNrZ6ULMhza | b19fh2 | {
"description": "asking my roleplay partner to do some of my ideas instead of only theirs",
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} | AITA for asking my roleplay partner to do some of my ideas instead of only theirs? | Mobile poster here, sorry for any issues! Tldr at bottom, would like to hear HONEST feedback!
Im an avid roleplayer who enjoys lengthy roleplays and multi fandom roleplays!
I have a current roleplay partner who has a lot of common interest with me, and we have a lot of universes we've made over the past year and a h... | HISTORICAL | {
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s2hLS3raKVkznsX9hWatZhyhtHur7TNL | b4q8mu | {
"description": "not wanting to be friends with someone that only wants to be friends on their terms",
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} | AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone that only wants to be friends on their terms | Terms may not be the correct word but in my mind it fits the situation. Slight backstory in that we became friends 5 years ago but stopped talking, then for just over the last year we began talking again.
When I say terms on the friendship it’s because it seems very one-sided, any time I ask if they want to go see a m... | HISTORICAL | {
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pYqUZpvzge0TO2KcwjhwKK3HpnaFqTFk | b3gupe | {
"description": "kicking all of my roommates out",
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} | AITA for kicking all of my roommates out? | I’m in college and I moved in a house with my girlfriend and 2 of her friends this this past year. The house is very close to campus and it’s cheap. It’s a great setup.
Anyways, my girlfriend and I broke up around December. There’s no fucking way I want to live with her let alone her friends again next year.
I’m assu... | HISTORICAL | {
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zrSucZS9t9pWSvkH9rWYBYsPIuitHpVh | aphyml | {
"description": "leaving a potential threesome after yelling at both of them",
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Okay okay this just happened. Met this girl on tinder, we both had rainbow flags on our bio. We matched and had a great conversation! She invited me over to have a smoke (Mary Jo) and I told her I'm looking for people my age to hang out with and chill cause I'm in a ne... | HISTORICAL | {
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MV0WzPu0rGceUSCtNWRifYNcaQwFn5pu | ay1i3a | {
"description": "stopping all kind of communications with my best friend (male) because he got engaged",
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} | AITA for stopping all kind of communications with my best friend (male) because he got engaged? |
I have been friends with this guy for almost 2 years. I am 24F and he is 27M. We have been friends platonically, but we once tried to be in a relationship, but it did not work out. He moved to NY while I moved to TN. I have always been in love with him while we both started dating other people. We remained best frie... | HISTORICAL | {
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chOvtEf2kgZlgYRbBUwJsnd4QWEYzVoA | azxb6k | {
"description": "getting my friend, who has severe learning difficulties to pay for all my drinks and not paying him back",
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} | AITA for getting my friend, who has severe learning difficulties to pay for all my drinks and not paying him back? | So basically one of my closest friends since I was a young child was another child a few doors down from me. He has quite severe learning difficulties, but not that bad. For example he can hold a conversation easily but has no hope of ever reading or writing that well (he can text as long as you keep it very simple) an... | HISTORICAL | {
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rMvDcm7PY3ZbOb6BRPRdxOO1TRGoRhpb | aj6t5c | {
"description": "going behind my SO's back about her roommate/landlord's negligent dog fostering",
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} | AITA for going behind my SO’s back about her roommate/landlord’s negligent dog fostering? | I feel like shit for doing this, but I couldn’t get it out of my mind.
My SO has been living with a girl (known now as L) who is the owner of the house. L has a dog who is a high energy mixed breed. He’s notorious for destroying things around the house (doors, socks, etc.). On average, she walks him less than once p... | HISTORICAL | {
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ENXHTQ4xNgHa4nKXa1LQOyywWJnRA2gI | ahxrjo | {
"description": "just wanting to live my life and support my politically-minded friends the best way I know how, which is not wanting to go full-on socio-political about everything myself",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for just wanting to live my life and support my politically-minded friends the best way I know how, which is not wanting to go full-on socio-political about everything myself? | I was always brought up to look at both sides of issues before coming to my own conclusions. And while I agree that there is quite a bit wrong with the US political system, I also don’t feel the need or compulsion to voice or express or proselytize my personal beliefs about political or social issues. If someone asks m... | HISTORICAL | {
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Czdx2EJkMq7D73mzOsvEfEQPTLiEA0FU | a9x60b | {
"description": "cutting ties with my sister that has aspergers",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | WIBTA if I cut ties with my sister that has Aspergers? | I know it sounds horrible, but I just can’t convince myself that her being my sister is a good enough reason to keep being in her life. I know her Aspergers is partially to blame for some of the issues I have with her, but just because there’s a reason for the behavior doesn’t mean I should just have to be ok with it. ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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fmtgLAS5MXlG6E1zSp170uyThPNepuzx | b216mq | {
"description": "making a bad joke",
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} | AITA for making a bad joke? | My math class has all-or-nothing quizzes that you have to retake until you get everything perfectly correct. On the most recent one (which was relatively long), one person in my class turned in their quiz, which the teacher promptly looked over and returned, asking the student to re-examine for mistakes (to save them f... | HISTORICAL | {
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Z5m1SavhYZchYd7fJ2shKdSbH00wV0xq | b81gqt | {
"description": "not going to bed when he wants me to",
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} | AITA for not going to bed when he wants me to. | So my (22f) partner (24m) has to get up early because he starts work early. He aims to be in bed by 9.
2 months ago I spent a month going to bed at 8 so we could have a bit of a snuggle before bed. For that whole month I would make sure I was in bed early and he would just continue to do his own thing (video games, p... | HISTORICAL | {
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lSeLLVKhOXVAVWvUvVw0zwlPxmjAOVro | afdxqy | {
"description": "not giving my sister a slice of my pizza",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not giving my sister a slice of my pizza? |
So basically tonight my parents where going out to do something and me and my twin sister were like okay let’s order food since this doesn’t happen very often. My parents didn’t want to pay for our food because there where leftovers in the fridge ( which is understandable) so we had to pay for it ourselves.
Now My si... | HISTORICAL | {
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mASmgScKwnIOusEQ7kX92Fn2sdUKX6WP | awig5q | {
"description": "not getting my license while my wife does the driving",
"pronormative_score": 24,
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} | AITA for not getting my license while my wife does the driving? | AITA for not getting my license while my wife drives.
This is a topic on my mind a lot, and I get judged quite a bit for it by my(29M) wife's (28F) family, as well as my own family.
When I was in high school, like most teenagers, I was looking forward to getting my license and driving. At 15 I started in drivers ED, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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WCeowYtWUhgnBl9E276O9pN79PK1p7r0 | arqhuc | {
"description": "distancing myself from a friendship on the rocks",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for distancing myself from a friendship on the rocks? | Me (17M) and my friend, who I'll call T (18M), have been friends since freshman year, and are seniors now. We've both been through some traumatic shit through the years and bonded through that, as well as music and memes. Junior year, T moved out of his grandparent's house with his mom, switching to independent studies... | HISTORICAL | {
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rheYAUlO8Xez9YWGT6hwByIDnNIqzSyI | 9u8313 | {
"description": "hating my boyfriend's video game habits",
"pronormative_score": 24,
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} | AITA for hating my boyfriend’s video game habits | I (19F) drove two hours to see my long distance boyfriend (21M) and he has pretty much spent the whole afternoon playing video games and hanging out with his roommates. I have just kind of silently hung out because I’m very shy and don’t know them very well and all they have been talking about is the video games they p... | HISTORICAL | {
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ADWLYIC187f9h1JAdVT1WRdpuqfkvebS | a0crz6 | {
"description": "yelling back at my mom/older sister",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for yelling back at my mom/older sister? | They doesn't know what they're talking about half of the time, and even if I make a valid argument in a calm way, they don't listen and they still get mad. I could be minding my own business and they would have something to say about me. If my mom gets mad at me and I say something, my sister has to be a smartass and s... | HISTORICAL | {
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9r9rN5BIFwjyuRBqGZro2UmtOjFbt4ta | 9trjh8 | {
"description": "introducing my Ex to my Current Sexual Partner",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for Introducing My Ex to My Current Sexual Partner | OKAY so about a month ago I reconnected with an ex from a few years back after we bumped into each other on Tinder. Since then I have invited him out on three different occasions to hang out with some of my friends as we all got along very well back in the day. Everyone had a great time and it was entirely platonic as ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5HGhzFn1xbaFtIQTlicSXxKlqkDlCeup | b4eiex | {
"description": "selling my husbands motorcycle",
"pronormative_score": 16,
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} | AITA for selling my husbands motorcycle? | My son bought me a car because my husband wouldn't. The car was the only valuable personal belonging I had that belonged to me. I was in a car accident and the car was totaled but still drivable. My husband made a deal to sell my car to buy a camper for us to live in. He kept the money from the car sale, didn't buy a c... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 16,
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} | RIGHT |
RdqpmH88bXlL3BmnDZyCqET7D7dr528o | a2g163 | {
"description": "asking my moms friend to drop me off at college",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for asking my moms friend to drop me off at college? | I'm an only child (18M) and my mom has gone to another country to visit her father, while my dad is disabled and unable to drive. I come home on fridays (my roommate is able to drive me back home) and leave sunday. While I can drive, I'm unable to drive myself back because it's our only car, I do not have a parking per... | HISTORICAL | {
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NhV3tvzdZeE7u3KiX7FhpLfu82xratNm | acj0y9 | null | AITA mom offers to take kids overnight but wants me to pick them up first thing this morning. | I am feeling quite furious. I don't ask my mom to take my children overnight for the simple fact I would have to pick them up first thing in the morning. For me I would rather have them home then to rush out first thing in the AM to get them from across town. I don't drive, I take a bus or taxi.
My mom offered to take... | HISTORICAL | {
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qj7wELHQPgTjsPCvZWsJ9UHFADgM63s5 | 9toan3 | {
"description": "not crying when my brother died",
"pronormative_score": 30,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not crying when my brother died? | When I was ten my brother whom I'd met three times OD'd and while I did feel depressed about it, my dad claimed I was sociopath and said something along the lines of "You cry when I hit you, but not even when your fucking brother died." I legitimately cried when David Bowie (whom I've obviously never met) died, but no ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rptbs34FRQBxY1heMv8iIzZbxBAG41wh | b1wb9b | {
"description": "trying to get someone in trouble at work",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA if I tried to get someone in trouble at work? | Tl;dr: Guy called in with a problem and was hostile and made me cry at work. Should I tell his boss he handled the situation this way or just try to work it out the best I can on my own?
I'll start off saying I do not work with this person. We do not work for the same company and this was so far the only interaction ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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3JSghcQdsyuvmSGgNzWBjbrdNCWCjM8V | au29d5 | {
"description": "joking about a kid's soccer coach at a game",
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} | AITAH? I joked about a kid's soccer coach at a game | The game? Soccer.
Kid's ages? 7 & 8 year olds.
The guy in question is one of the coaches for the team my son's team played against.
Plot twist: It's the team my son played for last season.
Last season, the coach on my son's team yelled at lot, and not in a "I yell when I'm excited" way. That's the reason my so... | HISTORICAL | {
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O022EtCTIbmWsfA4kNmTaylcSSKT93o5 | b35l0s | {
"description": "not tipping the dog trainer",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA Am I the Asshole for not tipping the dog trainer? | My husband and I rescued a puppy earlier this year and hired a local company to train him, signing up for a trainer to come to our place for an hour once a week for six weeks.
We started off extremely impressed. We live in a busy, highly trafficked area where people are known for being late, and the rep who did our in... | HISTORICAL | {
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bDbF6AKAMWInuR8ArKL7ieEeBC3MfPk3 | afsc82 | {
"description": "not wanting my boyfriend to work at the same place as me",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to work at the same place as me? | My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months and we decided to live together for some time until he finds his own place. I’m afraid that living together and then also working at the same place is not going to work out | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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fFSvwijyYFEuHJWvMmyTPsm7HZsLZn2A | aamnjv | {
"description": "not wanting my brother to propose with my mother's ring",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting my brother to propose with my mother's ring? | So my parents are divorced, and my mother has 2 rings from the marriage: her engagement ring and the ring she got for her 25th anniversary. She told my sister and I years ago that she wanted us to have them when she's gone one day, just like her mother had given her her engagement ring.
Then there's my brother. He met... | HISTORICAL | {
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y56sAu35ohZOww1NxcUTy1IExjO3dssy | axsmq0 | {
"description": "being annoyed and potentially planning on ditching my friend at a music festival",
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} | AITA for being annoyed and potentially planning on ditching my friend at a music festival? | Me (26F) and my best friend (27F) are going to Tomorrowland winter in France for a music festival. Initially she added two guys onto our party group so the price would be cheaper, so we payed 1K each for 4 days of raving in the Alps. She has a history with one of them (they are two brothers) - they have a sort of sugar... | HISTORICAL | {
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VDZj6RnacWfl5pVZp63vxVrOpPaM38NL | aqreko | {
"description": "cooking my hamburger after it had already been \"cooked\"",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for cooking my hamburger after it had already been "cooked"? | tl;dr at bottom
So I'm visiting my family because my mom had surgery the other week and one of my parents' friends was there, who I had never met before. He's a pretty nice guy, and pretty funny. Anyways he somehow ended up cooking for us (I think he offered), which I thought was nice, and he was saying how he's cooke... | HISTORICAL | {
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1UIZdTmSUk27DzrvAbAQq3KxWp06oTQs | almg6n | {
"description": "calling a girl fat when she was roasting me",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for calling a girl fat when she was roasting me | She started trying to roast me and call me gay and some other things, I called her fat and some other things. I found out later she cried in the locker room | HISTORICAL | {
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eD94YK64eNdPfv2C0N2crZuYJ7qeTXgZ | 9uvgx3 | {
"description": "getting annoyed at a friend who asked me for even more money than originally agreed upon",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for getting annoyed at a friend who asked me for even more money than originally agreed upon? | It was my friends birthday. She asked me to come along to the movies with her and her family. I agreed. She asked me for $25 for the ticket. I'm super strapped for cash at the moment, so I asked if I could pay half this week half next. She agreed to this. I just sent my final payment off to her and she said to me that ... | HISTORICAL | {
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U5KMstlNzCovZJkjZ783uvGJGcahboUX | aeyp3p | {
"description": "making my friend homeless",
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} | WIBTA if I made my friend homeless? | TL;DR at the bottom
Me and my friend of 15 years moved in to a rented house back in 2017, he was a bit flaky with money for rent and bills so I covered it, then he caught me up as promised back in July. Since then I've had precisely nothing from him and had to try to pay it all myself, getting behind on some bills (fo... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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L8wHEBPBXm3BnyKXjajQ6xWKkrEnYV2X | at4gva | {
"description": "quitting my gym because they converted some classes to women's only",
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} | AITA for quitting my gym because they converted some classes to women's only? | My boxing gym recently changed its friday mitts class to womens only. Am I an asshole for halting my membership over it? I can't stand having blackout dates on my membership because I am male. I don't 'feel' left out. I am literally excluded for a nonsense reason. A male only class wouldn't be tolerated, so why is a wo... | HISTORICAL | {
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65BkwwK3l66mHi91LrZtT0IsQ81LDrPp | b8q0c4 | {
"description": "getting angry at my friend for spending more time with his long distance gf",
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} | WIBTA if I got angry at my friend for spending more time with his long distance gf? | I'm friends with 2 guys, we'll call them Andy and Marco. We're all currently 18. Us 3 have been friends with each other since we were very young, and we've always thought of each other as our best friends. This has been changing recently. Andy met a girl online who lives in another country, and they fell in love. She l... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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9fFFUpERdWSFMmhMkJmbdxt3cwXantFG | al6l2n | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with my friend",
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} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with my friend? | Sorry for the long post, TL;DR at bottom.
I'm currently a senior in high school, and I made my friend "T" in 6th grade when he was in 8th. Over my 7th-8th grade summer, I lost touch with him, before having him call me when I was at my Grandmother's for that summer. We started hanging out again over my 8th grade year, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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4IdJFmPYN4k945eKAHgeuIiTOMjw4dEI | b524ct | {
"description": "trying to cancel my vacation when friends invited a stranger",
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} | AITA for trying to cancel my vacation when friends invited a stranger? | Diving right into it
I and a group of my friends (6 people total) have gone on summer Vacation together a couple of times. We are a very tight Friend group as we have known each other for 15 years since we were around 5 (this will be important later).
Important Background: the main organizer of our previous trips sug... | HISTORICAL | {
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XzWzp7paN2aLzPdw7xhdmL9HLdCF7Xeg | abuz8b | {
"description": "being annoyed with my neighbor parking in front of my home",
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} | AITA for being annoyed with my neighbor parking in front of my home | AITA for being upset that my neighbor parks one of his 6 cars in front of my home on the street parking. Although I know it is not illegal for him to park in front of my property it is a bit annoying to come home everyday seeing his vehicle parked in front of my house. They have 4 spots in their driveway that are const... | HISTORICAL | {
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eXKjWdZjhFNpr9cEzVnlMBZZnVhW7IEq | ae5iut | {
"description": "messaging a friend who I thought was being emotionally abused",
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} | AITA for messaging a friend who I thought was being emotionally abused? | Back story; his wife hasn't worked in years, he's always been the sole income. A year ago, she complained she didn't have any input in he budget, so he let her take over.
They moved away from the big city, because "the public schools are better out here for when the kids (6,4,2) start school" In the space of 3 months,... | HISTORICAL | {
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MY8iKzKHmvpkuolIY2vQEuWP97Q7LYVb | a5z25t | {
"description": "telling my friend how I felt about something that happened a few days ago",
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} | AITA for telling my friend how I felt about something that happened a few days ago? | I basically got mad through text and said I didn’t like the way he treated me when we were hanging out a couple of days ago.
I texted it to him and he said I was annoying and he said he didn’t want to bring up the fight that I had with my friends. However, he was being rude in other ways when we were hanging out like... | HISTORICAL | {
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Dc8mZdmM8EJ2rhyBP4IrSrI45WkXURwj | b182cp | {
"description": "telling someone I don't know that their spouse may be involved in an emotional affair",
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} | AITA if I tell someone I don't know that their spouse may be involved in an emotional affair? | Grad student here. Our class size is small, so we get to know our classmates well compared to other grad programs. Since we started seven months ago, I've noticed one of our married students (Sally) hanging out a lot with another guy in our class (Jake). Sally's husband (Terry) is back home working, and they've been ma... | HISTORICAL | {
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nmuQ2G3xFvolryTsLlIQvBewgT5t8mOs | as4ih4 | {
"description": "charging interest on the money my parents borrowed",
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} | WIBTA for charging interest on the money my parents borrowed? | Alright so story time. First time posting so excuse any fallacies within my post. I’m 19 and I live with my parents and two younger siblings. My parents and siblings bank accounts were placed on a hold due to some bills that my parents had been neglecting to pay. My account is in my own name, so it wasn’t affected, and... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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Zsf9FUtMSqIs0b9FAqq99hKTwKd7tZmh | aady5t | {
"description": "telling my best friend about his brother's shit talking and ruining their relationship",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling my best friend about his brother's shit talking and ruining their relationship? | So a few years back I was hanging out with my best friend's brother (we'll call him Adam) who was just going on and on about how much of an asshole my friend (We'll call him Billy) was. I asked him if he really believed that stuff and if he wanted to reconsider his words given the severity of the accusations and the fa... | HISTORICAL | {
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OX5vipZLDRNubTfvglJ0QjeXmFrXG9EZ | ayfcwd | {
"description": "not cleaning up after my younger sister's pet Macaw",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not cleaning up after my younger sister's pet Macaw? | Context: I'm 24m, my younger sister, whom we'll call "K", is a few years younger.
We've had this Macaw in our family for about ten years. She was originally purchased by our mom, but has always been closest to K, as well as an older sibling whom is no longer living at home. This Macaw lives outside in a large cage du... | HISTORICAL | {
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cXAceMvcVCeOpFwUcSfmaROHuNdj6fje | au8ede | {
"description": "saying PETA needs to change back to its original ways on r/animalrights",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for saying PETA needs to change back to its original ways on r/animalrights? | I am all for animal rights, but I believe PETA takes it to the extreme. My post is on my profile, and that's the one that got me banned. I will post the image in a few minutes so check my profile for that too.
For those of you who somehow don't know, PETA claims to be for animal rights. However, they have done things ... | HISTORICAL | {
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m4etuCMwshrF1ar0SEAJIWXmIvAQlvdd | b2tx5o | {
"description": "posting this caption on FB of pic of my son ? \"idk sometimes I wonder if he could be jakes lol crazy we thought they'd turn brown or green by now\"",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA for posting this caption on FB of pic of my son ? "Idk sometimes I wonder if he could be jakes lol crazy we thought they'd turn brown or green by now" |
Picture of my 8m son who has awesome bright blue eyes like my little brother. Mom is Hispanic and I'm white with green eyes so its really cool to us.
It's 100% a joke and I'm sure everyone will know I'm kidding, my gf and brother know I play around alot too. Iv said it in front of them so they wouldn't care.. Gf cou... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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f914UUz7GkAPqnDoyIKvKZNGBOzIdphG | ba7vru | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend not to refill his wine glass at my house",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA if I told my boyfriend not to refill his wine glass at my house? | I’m in college and living at my parents place at the moment and every know and then my boyfriend comes over for dinner. While I want him to feel at home I’m also bothered by the fact that he fills up his wine glass maybe 2-3 times.
If it was my wine and my money I wouldn’t care, but it’s my parents and I feel like it... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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5KGxvJu77HO6NgWr0jkbuar2mDdzfwlV | b7ejkf | {
"description": "telling my brother I was depressed",
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} | WIBTA If I told my brother I was depressed? | Obligatory sorry for the format.
I'm a 17 y/o in a bit of a situation. Life has been pretty shit for the whole of my family really. Mums got cancer, and if the treatment doesn't work for her, she has six months to live. Dad... doesn't like me and wants me out of the house the second I turn 18. I'm trying to join the ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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L1E0GUfPY5pinzhzXLUdDCqcT56ctLU5 | b2x36k | {
"description": "pushing my girlfriend to workout when she doesn't want to",
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} | AITA For pushing my girlfriend to workout when she doesn’t want to? | We’ve both wanted to get in shape for a long time, winter has passed and summer is fast approaching, and we haven’t done anything workout related. Each time she leaves the house, and I build up the energy, i go for brisk walks or do push ups, and begin to motivate myself to do it every day, and do better.
So when my gi... | HISTORICAL | {
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r0Hs7nniEuFh6CKEHKK7zuLyV4UDEPxf | aazws6 | {
"description": "breaking a promise to my boyfriend that he's already broke",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA if I broke a promise to my boyfriend that he's already broke? | Me(17F) and my boyfriend(18) have been together on/off for 2 and a half years. Both times we've "broken-up" it's been because of a female friend of his convincing him to leave me. I know we weren't perfect but he never tried talking to me but whatever, we were both 16 so who cares right? He text me on my birthday askin... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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3N9eaY3aFBvw4ewpzXUmxN55N6BmVW5U | aeokcg | {
"description": "wanting no military uniforms at my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 420,
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} | AITA For Wanting No Military Uniforms At My Wedding? | My SO and I are ready to make our 5 year relationship official.
A bit of background, we met online and were long distance for 3 years before spending 2 years together travelling back and forth. We are planning a K1 visa and are ready to start the 90 days this year for a September wedding.
His BIL was in the Marines... | HISTORICAL | {
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YP9RM549WY8ExqUkS81qwCd4g21TRQuZ | aqm0jx | {
"description": "hooking up with a few girls within 3 months and pissing off my now love interest",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for hooking up with a few girls within 3 months and pissing off my now love interest? | Ok. Back story. I work at a climbing gym. I met a girl there in September who is also my coworker. We started hanging out/hooking up for about three weeks. After a night of climbing with her and another female coworker, she ghosted me. I now know it’s because she thought I was flirting with my other coworker but in rea... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
X7zHkst0JNZDB6ux5JRZ2XNI0OcYK353 | azjw7a | {
"description": "telling her not to bring her kid to my house anymore",
"pronormative_score": 164,
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} | WIBTA if I tell her not to bring her kid to my house anymore? | Been dating a woman for about three months now. Everything’s been going great. She has a son who is 14. I met him and thought he was a good kid.
He stole money from me last night though. I have a jar that I keep spare cash in. Just change and like extra $1s and $5s. I noticed after they left it was almost em... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 164,
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} | RIGHT |
HMej8pbOFPUI5RxmCgpWgnsMexR4nqVG | afmrm8 | {
"description": "subtweeting my friend/boss and calling him racist",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for subtweeting my friend/boss and calling him racist? | So I (F, 24 y. o. then) worked in this company where I was introduced by my friend when they were looking for a copywriter. My friend Ann was already working there and she was friends with Dan, the guy who ended up being my boss (not the CEO, just a manager). Normally I wouldn't befriend a boss, but because of Ann we h... | HISTORICAL | {
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9RwH7mRzVPKVRheA6kML1xNvykvzLpt9 | a9ejfy | {
"description": "almost causing my soon to be bils to lose their inheritance",
"pronormative_score": 17,
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} | AITA for Almost Causing My Soon to be BILs to Lose Their Inheritance | My fiance has a very close relationship with his 3 overprotective older brothers. They have made their distaste for me very clear. A few times they've tried to get fiance to break up with me. Once fiance told them about our engagement they stopped talking to him for about a month. Things seems to have settled down. The... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
M5cSBlrcWff4udCPBlweUUt1OBiutfmm | a7wawd | {
"description": "reporting my Girlfriends roommate for Obsessive shoplifting",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA If I Reported My Girlfriends Roommate For Obsessive Shoplifting | My girlfriend "Amy" lives with a girl she knows ("Kate") family. The family is nice enough, but their daughter Kate is horrendous, she and Amy used to be friends, but lots of things that have happened between them, has caused a rift (it is not worth going into detail).
Amy just told me that Kate is a kleptomaniac, an... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
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} | OTHER | {
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GXwAIeV1gqC3AmtyGw8H1cowRslt0Yzz | b7u9xz | {
"description": "going to a party when my mother didn't tell me yes or no",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for going to a party when my mother didn't tell me yes or no? | AITA? This friday I (F16) went to a party at a friends house, I was grounded after I invited my friends the week before to my house for lunch and they spilled some oil on the floor and the wall, my mom grounded me for a month. But a friend was planning her birthday party so I really wanted to go (besides we were going ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NMXOUc2CttZ2NdELwu7uHX8tY7bL404m | b3s181 | {
"description": "not wanting my MIL to get my daughter involved with horses/horse riding",
"pronormative_score": 44,
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} | AITA for not wanting my MIL to get my daughter involved with horses/horse riding? | I love my MIL (and SIL who is also super into horses) to death, but this issue is really starting to bug me and my fiancé.
We live in an area where a lot of people (mostly women) are OBSESSED with horses and riding horses and owning horses just to say they have horses and just.... horses.
I have never been interest... | HISTORICAL | {
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VSLcZ8lQAdHTNgym3UCawC856jmhKDw0 | aniqul | null | AITA- left bar as friends were arriving to meet | Last weekend i was out with my SO for date night and we were trying to meet up w friends. They said we are taking an Uber to Bar X in 15 minutes. We took an Uber there to meet them. And waited. And waited. I texted hey has anyone accepted your fare yet? No response. 45 minutes passed. I then texted sorry we are tired a... | HISTORICAL | {
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U4TjfEDzBwDEZGXdy6Um0geQMd3xfVw1 | b0g9aa | {
"description": "getting a lot of beads on Bourbon Street last week for Mardi Gras? (i.e. I flashed my boobs a lot). fiance is very upset with me",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA for getting a lot of beads on Bourbon Street last week for Mardi Gras? (I.e. I flashed my boobs a lot). Fiance is very upset with me. | The story really is that simple, a few friends and I drove to NOLA for Mardi Gras last week. I promised myself I'd behave but a few hurricanes and I was bra less and boobs out in a competition to collect as many beads as I can.
Fiance is pretty upset (not like breakup upset) but he still thinks that at 26 I should ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 19
} | WRONG |
Ht3lUAQnSvz7iNSLR4sQXXBHu3SB9PEF | aq2i3h | {
"description": "flipping out when my ex and my housemate snogged at my birthday celebrations",
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} | AITA for flipping out when my ex and my housemate snogged at my birthday celebrations? | There's going to be a lot of context here so feel free to skip to the TL;DR. It's one of those memories that keeps me up in the evening and I want to make peace with it.
I had an ex-boyfriend (call him Dave) who I dated for 2 years. We had been friends in the same close-knit group since high school and ended up da... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "texting my roommate that I'm moving out",
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} | WIBTA if I texted my roommate that I’m moving out? | My roommate and I used to be close friends. Then she overstepped some boundaries and tried to get overly involved in my personal life. We ended up having a big argument, and then she ended our friendship. I would have been fine remaining friends (even though I was starting to realize she’s a bit wacko), because I was p... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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