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B4zXfFQkg9Axp67HycTD3VEgQ7umO8W8 | afb97a | {
"description": "causing a long term online friend to dissapear from the platform",
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} | AITA for causing a long term online friend to dissapear from the platform. | This was last year. I was in a friendship with a girl who I'll call 'H'. We had a lot of mutual online friends (of which I lost contact with most of them) and we had been friends with up until the 22nd of January last year.
At first things were going well but things seemed to be quite off. She'd make me worry constant... | HISTORICAL | {
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SBE9PH8g2ezfqSr0KSX3j0sWGKVgLo7U | b0bq83 | {
"description": "refusing my bro and mom to live with me",
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} | AITA for refusing my bro and mom to live with me? | Mom is financially irresponsible, has an eviction on her record and has difficulty getting a place because of that ( she’s got a bit of a disability due to a medical issue about 3 years ago ). My brother had his own place, as of Friday they must vacate the apartment ( my mom has been staying with him, and I just found ... | HISTORICAL | {
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0o3jRM38mclEs5VPzLi0L1EJ1XPCGAoJ | alfuku | null | AITA? Situation with me (F19) and boyfriend (M38) |
So, some background information. I started this age gap relationship about a year ago, and within that year I have moved in with him, being only 18 at the time I did not have many opportunities to have a full time career and make as much money as a 38 year old man with multiple degrees. Despite this, I worked my bes... | HISTORICAL | {
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MpAWOJNhXVo9yh2EBZCtFVReSoArOeGg | afmgw9 | {
"description": "cleaning the House to go hang out with friends",
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} | AITA For Cleaning the House to Go Hang Out With Friends? | Am I the Asshole for cleaning the house to go watch a movie with my friend? (Sorry for formatting, I'm on mobile)
Earlier today my friend desperately needed to get out of the house because of family issues, and I offered to take her to go see a movie. We decided to watch a movie at 12:20 PM, and as it was only a coup... | HISTORICAL | {
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T1G4PTWiBU4jFDHLQa1534PdUOnD7R7m | b3q88g | {
"description": "asking my neighbor to clean up their yard before we put our house on the market",
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} | WIBTA if I asked my neighbor to clean up their yard before we put our house on the market? | Hey Reddit, the thought of even doing this gives me so much cringe and embarrassment I'm starting to think it must be the wrong thing to do.
We're about to sell our home (townhouse with backyard separated by wooden fence) and over the span of winter, my neighbor's have let their large dog destroy their yard with dog ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
cZGOW3YE8HO0layXZ7ke548uWrezw8nw | b744tq | {
"description": "calling a rude girl fat after wasting my time",
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} | AITA For calling a rude girl fat after wasting my time? | Hey reddit, so this took place today after my last class (im in college) of the day, I was about to be heading home after a long day of difficult classes.
I pop my headphones in and head down the main staircase to get to the exit. After the first flight down I hear what sounds like a group of girls talking, which in ... | HISTORICAL | {
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t4QLvvSMgeR8A4VIQFl9BSZ1pI2m0sld | a8sj9m | {
"description": "wanting to smoke out my little brother",
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} | AITA for wanting to smoke out my little brother? | Is there a sub for “would I be the asshole?” If so, this might belong there.
My little bro is 16. He just confessed to me that he smokes weed occasionally. He buys his weed from a stranger behind a 7/11 within walking distance from his school.
I’m approaching 25. I consider myself a good role model. I have a degree, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9fZAWiSPDae5azk7p4avUCFLUA5lG4yw | afoti5 | {
"description": "refusing to speak to my sil",
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} | AITA for refusing to speak to my SIL? | I’ve made some mistakes in life. Primarily, I was an active and self-destructive alcoholic for about 10 years and I’ve gotten things a bit more on track now. 2 years sober :) These details are important.
So the sister in law... basically it went down like this: I met a woman on a dating app, we’ll call her Erin. That... | HISTORICAL | {
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zJtPU4Skc7sGtnS8RQJtTqMu7NioyxD0 | au3nfo | {
"description": "annoying the people at my art table",
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} | AITA for annoying the people at my art table? | Hello! My name is Riley and this is my story of my middle school art class. So there is a couple of people in this story that I will address with fake names. Marissa, Elena, Abby, and lets say Audree. I am still in this art class so if you guys have any advice that would be great.
It was a new semester, I was so excit... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
OWKkyrlIsKANtR7jiRR7wfBmUpdGW0ru | akatca | {
"description": "drinking at my company party while my girlfriend was at home, concerned about her grandpa being rushed in the hospital",
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} | AITA for drinking at my company party while my girlfriend was at home, concerned about her grandpa being rushed in the hospital? | So, basically this all happened the last few days.
My company throws some really great party every year, and after being unable to attend a few times I was really excited this time, given that I am not the best at socializing with people at work so I was kind of hoping to get some good drinking with colleagues going o... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
03BniZIc2H4Hs2hjovLYVm9WK2FMbV9i | b1dxnr | {
"description": "drunkenly taking someones teriyake sauce and getting my position at uni threatened",
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} | AITA for drunkenly taking someones teriyake sauce and getting my position at uni threatened | Title may sound a little simple but the issue is pretty complicated and I would appreciate some input.
I am a uni student living on campus and about four months ago, after a night out, a few friends and I went back to their accomodation. We were hanging out in their kitchen for a bit and when they said they were going... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
ATFntysQt0rqpFIIAspqKGe3mRMOUFFv | au51ks | {
"description": "wanting $450 worth of stuff back after my mother takes it as a \"punishment?\"",
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} | AITA for wanting $450 worth of stuff back after my mother takes it as a "punishment?" | Hi, Reddit. This morning (before work) my sister was missing her phone apparently. I left the house and went to work. When I get home, many of my valuable possessions were missing from my room. (Total value about $450 worth, which I paid for) I called my mother, who said "I don't know, look in the bookshelf." I thought... | HISTORICAL | {
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CuxeEzbyVQ5yvEBaAQ5gC91YjrEOhaWw | auwr3i | {
"description": "getting into a massive anti-vax argument",
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} | AITA for getting into a massive anti-vax argument | Background: I am 16 (pro-vax) and my grandma is 56 (anti-vax). My first mistake was adding her on Facebook and I’m sure I made others. Simply put, it started when she posted an article about the recent measles outbreak in Portland and how it was mostly kids who were already vaccinated. This immediately sounded like bs ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
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} | RIGHT |
9uQrgnfJdBrKBFP7XX86iNOGVnFtNZ1Q | ayog7z | {
"description": "thinking it was a joke",
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} | AITA I thought it was a joke, |
People involved:
Friend 1- F1
Friend 2 - F2
Friend 3 - F3
Subject - S
Sister-(not mine)- SS
Me
\------------
Ok so earlier today S got a jumper from her friend that was merch of a boy-band. She was all excited and giddy as you'd probably expect. I told F1 and F2 (which were mutual friends between S and I) th... | HISTORICAL | {
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GH4WjvuQ9TvefQZuJ5CfG3B4xu34B1dw | a5g993 | {
"description": "wanting my flatmate or his gf to do their f*cking dishes",
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} | AITA for wanting my flatmate or his gf to do their f*cking dishes? | We have a rule in the flat; everyone does their dishes but when they do them do the nigly things like cutlery that builds up. Sometimes dishes don't always get done straight away so there is a 48 hr deadline to them. It's fair but it's always been a bit of a struggle to get the third flatmate to do his dishes.
Then he... | HISTORICAL | {
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tyWOKxsnnqJdtV6l2fMJFJcdtu39vxBi | b2rpee | {
"description": "reporting the person who outed me publicly on their snapchat",
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} | WIBTA If I report the person who outed me publicly on their snapchat? | (TLDR at the bottom) I’m a bisexual male. I recently came out to my parents about 5 weeks ago and they took it perfectly. Yesterday I went on my first date with a guy, and I didn’t really tell anyone except two close friends. Today someone I know walked up to me asking if I was gay, I said I was bi. I assumed one of my... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
UBR3Rmg4bIu23I1yfz0uktBhLrL67fh0 | b5r4uf | {
"description": "drinking in front of sober people",
"pronormative_score": 81,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for drinking in front of sober people? | Recently I was at an airbnb with my boyfriend, and he invited his friend over to help him on a work project we were in town for. It was a small space so we were all sitting together, and I had no where else to hang out so I was just on my phone not contributing to the conversation since it was work related. My boyfrien... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 60,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 81,
"WRONG": 8
} | RIGHT |
6EEwdeTknVCvxw8pFpBpy7mHaakkgLlI | 9z8diw | {
"description": "being a bit creeped out by what some girls did to me on a school trip",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being a bit creeped out by what some girls did to me on a school trip? | I am the only white guy (only white person as well) in my class. I have somewhat played on this to avoid being bullied. The fact that my Dad is a cop has also helped. On a school trip recently we were assigned seats on the bus alphabetically. I was sat next to a black girl (at the back of the bus) and her friends. I fe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
Jk6OojcOj1jrViuzUImm3OSzigikKFgg | ai88ah | {
"description": "never believing people who say they were sexually assaulted",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for never believing people who say they were sexually assaulted? | It's just a habit that I didn't really realize. Everytime someone says they were sexually assaulted, I'm immediately just straight into finding reasons they're lying. It doesn't even have to be a celebrity. I've been arguing with people on Whisper and people on Facebook just to tell them cracks in their story. I didn't... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
D7OxR6UR34be69126URsidyylyAIdQ29 | b4kvkj | {
"description": "being annoyed that my girlfriend tells me she finds other guys attractive",
"pronormative_score": 49,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA asshole for being annoyed that my girlfriend tells me she finds other guys attractive | Early in our relationship she made comments like “wow, he’s good looking/attractive” when she saw a random guy she found attractive on the street in front of me. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to find other people attractive, but if I’m honest, it feels disrespectful to say it to me/in front of me?... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 49,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
AC1q73tNksRiQRBlhkNTVpsLP5bxpi0f | aw08o0 | {
"description": "telling my husband to stop buying his dead wife the same presents he buys me",
"pronormative_score": 88,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for telling my husband to stop buying his dead wife the same presents he buys me? | This is actually a really weird situation I'm currently in. My husband and his wife had an amazing relationship.
They had an accident which killed his wife, but my husband survived. This happened years ago. I understand that it was a very traumatic experience for him.
We've been married for 7 years and we have a 5 y... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 88,
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} | RIGHT |
hPPNOrbC4hstuzNbzCE63QoXY2t3Duqk | a3uiwf | {
"description": "breaking it off with a guy because of his phone",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 18
} | WIBTA for breaking it off with a guy because of his phone? | I've recently thrown myself into the dating world and I'm really enjoying meeting a variety of different people.
I've been seeing someone fairly regularly for about a month and he's a really cool guy! We have a lot of the same interests and he always has fun date ideas. I like him as a person and I want to remain in... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 18
} | WRONG |
Y74h8Vwrp222VQTK4MjJ9C2fnybBJqSa | a5752j | {
"description": "not calling my mom when she's giving me the silent treatment",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not calling my mom when she’s giving me the silent treatment? | My husband and I eloped in 2017 as we were moving across the country and I needed health insurance. We were getting married later that year anyway, so we figured it wouldn’t be a huge problem.
Then, his mother suddenly (and horrifically) died. My husband could no longer stomach our plans since his mother was supposed ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 19,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
VIkG0MwuHItnPhgiVNh3ZUm0O0huq90c | b8ogxn | {
"description": "potentially crossing the line with an april fools joke",
"pronormative_score": 81,
"contranormative_score": 30
} | AITA for potentially crossing the line with an april fools joke? | Wife is almost 39 weeks pregnant and ready to pop any day now. Last night, my father texts me and asks how the wife is doing.
I respond with "She's doing okay, the first night home with the baby was brutal." Implying that the baby was born and home and we didn't tell anyone.
I waited 3 minutes before I responded sa... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 81,
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} | RIGHT |
dkIElNa81UyksQDZEhzz0pnPfRW8eckE | 9v5up9 | {
"description": "hanging out with my sister and her friends",
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} | AITA for hanging out with my sister and her friends? | My sister had this huge group of like 12 friends over (some even my friends too) and she expects me to just sit in my room for like 4 hours. Obviously I wont, and while I was leaving to go to the bathroom, she locked me out of the room we were watching a movie in. When I unlocked the door, she yelled at me about how em... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
f4isfGYi11VcoE1I91MnHcTuGSXZfHaD | b3gnx8 | {
"description": "having my dong posted on Insta w/o permission",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for having my dong posted on Insta w/o permission? |
Let’s take it back six years to 2013. It’s the day of my college graduation. Since the ceremony begins fairly early, my eight fraternity brothers (I know) and I decide to get up even earlier to get properly tanked. After a couple hours of drinking, we get together to pose for group photos in our grad caps.
During ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
rMk3RxmhppJhwva5nmRBLR8y8NASdQsT | b772p3 | {
"description": "not wanting to pluck my girlfriends armpit hair",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to pluck my girlfriends armpit hair? | My girlfriend and I were in bed and she wanted me to help pluck her armpit hair. Personally I don’t like plucking things and I’ve told her that I did not want to multiple times. This later turned to me being selfish. ALL BECAUSE OF ARMPIT HAIR. Am I wrong? | HISTORICAL | {
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rFz2jks3jfYUwaisuhHyVLUeLEfqPeg7 | ajthkn | {
"description": "scolding my gf for almost poking me in the eye with a stick",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for scolding my GF for almost poking me in the eye with a stick | I was sitting in my computer chair, talking to my GF who was standing next to me. At one point I turned myself toward her both with my chair and head, and she was holding a wooden BBQ skewer (very thin, wooden stick with a pointed end) directly next to my face, so that when I turn, my upper cheek bone turns into the po... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
W4Oe2aYnuBYmeRcfq4Fo4P4EKZkf6G2m | a1hx5o | {
"description": "smoking weed before work to keep me productive and in good mood",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for smoking weed before work to keep me productive and in good mood? | I don't drive / operate heavy machinery at my work since I work in service desk. For me weed makes it so much more enjoyable to converse with the clients and help them out with their computer-related problems. It completely kills my anxiety and frustration with slow tech and users who require a special amount of patien... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
xqvvmcVOz41k3XCPvdG6TpRD3aBFbJxp | a7zxk0 | {
"description": "being to report my suitemates",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA if I were to report my suitemates? | So I just moved into a new dorm at my college, and he way the suites are arranged is one bathroom with a couple dorm rooms attached to it. When I first walked into the suite, it reeked of weed. I mean, it smelled like someone was smoking at that moment. I was glad to find that my room isn’t the one that smells, but it’... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
p9KH07n3sZlxz8EQXvK5ZdRvHS7URfFo | a3vc4z | {
"description": "laughing when my 6year old nephew called two nurses fat",
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} | AITA for laughing when my 6year old nephew called two nurses fat? | Okay, before I get dragged. Here is the story. I am 16 yrs old, My brother is married to a doctor. I went to pick up my niece and nephew from the hospital. They had some sort of holiday coworker family day. So my SIL had them briefly and asked me to pick them up. Whatever, I said okay. Anyway, while waiting at one of t... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
tEqjfgXTv2RvjWKBhFsv6vUac7Nw47q7 | antmi8 | {
"description": "not wanting to go on summer vacation with my parents",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting to go on summer vacation with my parents? | This post is similar to another one that was made in this sub. I have a bit of a different situation. TLDR at the bottom.
I'm 20 and living at home while I'm doing my undergrad degree. For the past ever my family have gone on vacation every summer without fail. For the past couple of years, they decided that on top of... | HISTORICAL | {
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pBGfG2EjktQ6CCmXQ6HWWRl7INSdaau9 | b01wgw | {
"description": "not liking the food a girl cooked for me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for not liking the food a girl cooked for me? | This girl I've been seeing for a few weeks said that she would make dinner for me tonight at her place, and I'm not really into her because she's not my type physically but I thought hey why not get some free food I'm a broke college student.
Anyway she makes chicken parmesan which I don't really care for but she made... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
TiaEqurQER4bPMw23tLMHjRJbZG3D4sR | b6kbn0 | {
"description": "being upset with how my boyfriend communicated with me",
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} | AITA for being upset with how my boyfriend communicated with me? | Recently, I’ve become religious and wanted to change a few things about our relationship (raising future kids Catholic, not having sex until marriage etc)
We compromised on some things (finding different forms of intimacy, not teaching the kids that being gay is wrong, not having a litter of kids). So I think everyth... | HISTORICAL | {
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P6WVxWi3ECypZNo8blTurkszMmUEmSmb | azqvjb | {
"description": "telling my friend's girlfriend to break up with him",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to break up with him? | I'm friends with this guy (let's call him E) who had been dating another friend of mine (let's call her M) on-and-off for a while. They had "taken breaks" a few times before because E was being too flirty with other girls (E had been in numerous month-long relationships in the past year). One day, M comes to me asking ... | HISTORICAL | {
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qry7TZmOWWLnElksGNwjTd5jrq5zhmst | 9yi1me | {
"description": "telling my neighbor I will not be using her wi-fi anymore",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for telling my neighbor I will not be using her wi-fi anymore? | So I have a neighbor whose wi-fi I use and give her like 10 bucks a month. We have always been friendly. The other morning I was going to the store and asked her if she needed anything. At the beginning of this month I forgot to give her 10 bucks, I forget sometimes and she never made a big deal out of it. So she t... | HISTORICAL | {
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fuktyKoRhg57xbVITi2GYQsI5nxOUsAQ | b5imnv | {
"description": "getting my girlfriend an expensive present for her birthday instead of a card",
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} | AITA for getting my girlfriend an expensive present for her birthday instead of a card? | My girlfriend and I have been together for three years. I love her and I’m very proud of her (she’s had a tough time at work recently) so I wanted to surprise her with a really awesome gift for her birthday.
Her birthday was last week. In the months and weeks running up to it, when I’d ask her what she’d want for a g... | HISTORICAL | {
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YyupPcoevmfBSRFmKiFtmEdX87H0ykte | b0a7n3 | {
"description": "not trusting my friends on Discord and questioning my friendship with them",
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} | AITA for not trusting my friends on Discord and questioning my friendship with them? | A few days ago I decided to reset my discord profile pic to the default icon, set my setting to offline, stopped talking in all of my servers except the one without any of my friends on it, and change my username to a bunch of random symbols because I was just emotionally done with everything. I don't know why or how i... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "putting the PS4 I share with my brother in storage while he's addicted to drugs",
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} | AITA for putting the PS4 I share with my brother in storage while he’s addicted to drugs? | This last Friday I was playing Sekiro on the PS4 and my brother came into the den and started searching through all our games. I looked over and he was price checking each one on the GameStop trade-in website.
Huge red flag because my brother has been going through a really bad drug habit, off and on for the past few ... | HISTORICAL | {
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1B22TsM5idPnJ2Rhkedo3CPp4vBNZ6rO | 9xoie8 | null | AITA My Friend Ended our Friendship Because I Canceled my Gym Subscription Last Night | Hi, just to give a bit of a background I was born and raised in a hot climate and I have never seen or been around snow until last year when I moved to Erie, PA. (Really cold place during winter to those who dont know)
I am 23, she is 10 years older than me.
The reason why I ended my gym subscription is because last ... | HISTORICAL | {
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BZS57v3oihVP2Km7RH1un4g94c9MARhD | b6bvmd | {
"description": "expecting sex from my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for expecting sex from my girlfriend? | Title sounds bad but hear me out, throw away because my friends know my reddit.
Context: My girlfriend [18] and I [18] have been in a relationship for two years after our anniversary a few weeks ago and this is more of a series of events than a one time thing.
About 3-4 months ago my girlfriend and I had a talk and s... | HISTORICAL | {
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Zo8FxmbCSsQYbfXYo5FzJdEO4TdQn8bn | anxf4v | {
"description": "not objecting/standing up for my brother when my parents told me I would inherit more than my brother",
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} | AITA for not objecting/standing up for my brother when my parents told me I would inherit more than my brother | I’ve been torn up over this for a while, but never thought to post it here until I saw a similar situation posted to another sub. Before I start, I want to make it clear that I don’t think I deserve to inherit more than my brother, but I understand why it’s happening. For context: I am 27 and my brother is 32. Our p... | HISTORICAL | {
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bdSyQMJNfs4ToJAAKWan0ERCb1D0Jpia | a25780 | {
"description": "being pissed at my friends",
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So some background information: my friends and I are all seniors in high school and have been looking forward to grad night for the past two years. My two friends also bought our school’s senior package that includes basically everything (prom tickets, grad night, cap and gown, etc.) for one flat rat... | HISTORICAL | {
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OUUQdF6Uc37XpGo2rxSqPbei6PlTsfmM | asefji | {
"description": "interrupting a conversation to try and make a train",
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} | AITA for interrupting a conversation to try and make a train? | I do apologise for the length.
Tldr: Interrupted a guard at the turnstile to try and get my train. Got chastised for being rude.
For all my sins I have to commute through a busy London Overground train station, which is both overcrowded and chaotic due to trains constantly changing platforms at an instant or being ca... | HISTORICAL | {
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FAa2d88ZH7FncMMSdgCR1TqtBhSOyrRN | b0ung4 | {
"description": "wanting to smoke one cigarette while out this weekend",
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} | AITA for wanting to smoke one cigarette while out this weekend? | I rarely smoke. When I do, it's when I've been drinking. Even then, it's a rare occasion.
This weekend, my boyfriend and I are going out with 3 of my friends and their boyfriends. One of my friends also occasionally likes to smoke and if she brings a pack, I will probably bum one.
Am I the asshole for getting mad at... | HISTORICAL | {
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WSBmOLReN25PTLLkGpWE7QpTkkkxhhER | b4kku3 | {
"description": "getting extremely mad at my mom for laughing at me and throwing water on me",
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} | AITA for getting extremely mad at my mom for laughing at me and throwing water on me? | To give some background info, I live in a house with my parents, 5 siblings, my grandma and my aunt. I am the eldest of the 5 siblings, and my grandma doesn’t speak English.
So basically what happened is that last night, I was on my Nintendo Switch playing an online match of Super Smash Bros in our living room. I was ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TIrKnyuljyOIRKOnoERimMAtUCqZADv7 | b2kuiw | {
"description": "not caring that my husband's headphones broke",
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} | AITA for not caring that my husband's headphones broke? | My husband gave me his cheap $2 drugstore headphones after he bought 2 new pairs of Apple headphones for himself. I misplaced them after a while but didn't really care since I dont use headphones often. He asked a few times where they were, and I was honest, saying I don't know but I know they're in the bedroom. He bru... | HISTORICAL | {
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DFBzApoT7Dxtc7UMmCd1ABSYmt4zgbik | aa0x1y | {
"description": "not being more quiet after 10pm",
"pronormative_score": 29,
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} | AITA for not being more quiet after 10pm? | My apartment's quiet hours start at 10pm. After 10, I don't vacuum, I keep the TV quiet, etc. But, I don't go to bed at 10pm, so I'm up, I'm sometimes folding laundry, etc.
My neighbor goes to bed at 10 pm. Sometimes, when I'm walking (not jumping, not marching, *walking*) she bangs on the floor (her ceiling) to m... | HISTORICAL | {
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C5m4ykppBPgDZzyMKtGhI181ptQcKVML | b687m3 | {
"description": "confronting a lesbian mother about her daughter's sex ed",
"pronormative_score": 42,
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} | AITA for confronting a lesbian mother about her daughter's sex ed | I'm in a secular homeschool group.
​
One of the moms is a lesbian (married to a woman) but is very, very isolationist driven. Besides this class she doesn't do much with the kids besides some LGBT gatherings. That's fine, to each their own. I'll call her Jane.
​
Her daughters are 12 and 14 ... | HISTORICAL | {
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72p9UgogjHOEF6rDCkmwmREMXpZr9zDo | b6bo8n | {
"description": "not allowing my MIL to buy perfume for my daughter",
"pronormative_score": 65,
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} | AITA for not allowing my MIL to buy perfume for my daughter | I'd like to say first of all that I do get along with my MIL most of the time when we disagree on something we can always talk it out.
Except this one.
​
I have a daughter and she is 20 months old ever since I got pregnant my MIL wanted to buy her baby perfume.
She loves perfume herself and even bought a... | HISTORICAL | {
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oafnMSDVnws55A4LA3NF2NLP1v7gloXf | azxtvl | {
"description": "wanting to tell me mom \"enough is enough\" after her 4th wedding",
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} | AITA for wanting to tell me mom "enough is enough" after her 4th wedding? | Not to different people, to the SAME GUY. Last labor day, my mom got married. It was a bit rushed because my stepdad had a medical procedure and she wanted to be sure they were married in case she had decisions to make or whatever. We had a small party.
​
So, she had a second ceremony a couple of months... | HISTORICAL | {
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9EqfUvWFEvbPUPRBnlZnuD8XQMVV1qHO | a6684b | {
"description": "charging tutoring fee from gf's sister",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for charging tutoring fee from gf's sister | Roughly a week ago, my gf's sister (highschool) approached me(univeristy) to help tutor her with a language she is learing (which I am fluent in), and specifically asked me how much I charge. Not knowing how serious the tutoring would be(might be just playing around, or possible a 2-3 hour session), I gave her my usual... | HISTORICAL | {
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hjTioLXI7FdA16laTZ024eOfT7M6NViA | a0p9pm | {
"description": "not going to my girlfirend's recital",
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} | AITA for not going to my girlfirend's recital ? | TL,DR at bottom
So some backstory
We're both on a small vocal group, and we've been together for almost 10 years, and members of the group for 8years. The group is formed mainly on post-highschoolers and undergraduate people who have been doing music almost their entire life, but don't want to quit doing it after pur... | HISTORICAL | {
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BJyIjeDmc4QH74No929gzTsrf4Z8VZqS | ajf2cf | {
"description": "asking to share gym equipment",
"pronormative_score": 26,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for asking to share gym equipment? | I was at the gym earlier and went to use a machine but there was an older lady using it at the time.
Me: Excuse me, how many sets do you have left?
Her: Why?
Me: Oh because I wanted to use the machine.
Her: I've just started.
Me: Is it alright if I do sets during your rest?
Her: If I was a man you wouldn't be asking ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Is92i8nD7ALDHykp3wn4vOeKst6yTfMP | ai58mk | null | AITA, Me and My Girlfriend just broke up | First time poster so yay, lets hope I don't suck.
So to begin me and my girlfriend are both 14, (I know we are to young to date but that is not the point here)
We finished a 6 hour long d&d session and my mom drove my friends home. Long story short my mom was a disagreeable douche who told me to my face that she ... | HISTORICAL | {
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MjDLbYPGT9TWAylmEmeslaSKcAQx32pG | b87vwk | {
"description": "refusing to switch my daughters flowergirl dress",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | WIBTA: If I refuse to switch my daughters flowergirl dress? | Completely hypothetical and may not even happen. But I want to be prepared in case of the event.
My Son, daughter and I are in a wedding in a month. I bought my daughters flower girl dress a size 3 (in January for April wedding) since I wasn't sure if she'd have a growth spurt and I wanted to make sure she looks righ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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IHFfu5EIaoZjUafHNa7JLW1Dppo8njIH | b2yw6t | {
"description": "hating the resident asshole in our apartment complex",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for hating the resident asshole in our apartment complex? | Sort of an update to [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/apcb7t/wibta_if_i_tell_staff_my_roommatefriend_cut/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) post, but it's also an AITA question.
So to recap: I am in a program that helps adults with autism gain independence. This program provides housin... | HISTORICAL | {
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2nSU1ItRzELe7Kxm0aE0NieVefFSL081 | b3j63e | {
"description": "not \"fairly\" splitting life insurance",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for not "fairly" splitting life insurance? | Throwaway and on mobile.
Some background, my ex boyfriend and I have one child together. My ex has two other children from a previous marriage.
So I am looking into taking out a life insurance policy on my ex. The amount that I would requires a physical and medical history and whatever else. Nothing super serious or ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fpFmdy4bLE27m7FzqTNOzFsRaiIESBVz | aw1gss | null | AITA stepdaughter problem | Hey guys just a bit of the backstory to start with me and my wife have been together for almost 11yrs the stepdaughter in question is almost 15 now we’ve never had a close relationship as she’s always doted over her bio father who is a waster doesn’t work and last we heard is hooked on heroin. I have alway tried my be... | HISTORICAL | {
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SbFeA2djIR2TFWBXsjGxxaWmBjmxxU6L | aocn1v | {
"description": "going to Lunch",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For going to Lunch? | Okay, so at work myself and one other were stabbed to go do a task up at the office. We had no idea what it was but as soon as we arrived up top we were handed a bunch of milk crates that were stacked full of books with plastic binding. You know the cheap curly binding that a lot of texts are made up with? Yeah those. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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qe0KKvxUx4pHPX2GAIPeIu0AiCnWcI9F | azzpve | {
"description": "reporting a student for stealing an expensive graphing calculator",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for reporting a student for stealing an expensive graphing calculator? | I’m sure this seems like a NTA based on just the title, but it doesn’t feel like it.
So this happened a week or so ago. A kid in my band class, let’s call him Adam, picked up a graphing calculator on the table at the back of the class. He picked it up and started playing with it, and a few of us told him not to. It w... | HISTORICAL | {
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aGtgvcQVptxLEtow1lTcbgcNYteu172h | b7lwpm | {
"description": "inviting my abusive grandpa to my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA for inviting my abusive grandpa to my wedding? | So here's the scoop:
My (M24) grandpa was always a part of my life, we would spend summer vacations with him, every Christmas, every Fourth of July, we were never CLOSE close (I've never had a real heart-to-heart with him), but he was always one of the most significant relatives in my life. My mom was always the one i... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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LdfXOoNg27g2PWkjONvulq2qBD6YlVWL | 9ys43f | null | AITA - Issue with How BIL eats at my house. | BIL and his sons eat up everything they can when they come over. The last time they came over (Which was this past Sunday) they ate all the remaining lunchmeat in our fridge (2 Family-Sized turkey lunchmeat containers that were half full), a full family
sized (unopened) bag of chips, a full bag of raisin bagels, 1.5 g... | HISTORICAL | {
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NuBcp0UvaQSVAsFgCUcRmwUGkqpzRGqK | azmua1 | {
"description": "being more critical of one employee",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For Being More Critical of One Employee | I now manage people I used to work beside. The transition has been relatively seamless, but I have one employee, who I feel, is always testing boundaries. I was instrumental in getting them the job, we used to be closer, but not anymore because of these issues.
​
I am 100% OK with talking out decisions, bu... | HISTORICAL | {
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0W1DG8v6di3vXyVqO6tkczQp9lvDBNhE | b9wmcs | {
"description": "not wanting my picture taken",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA because I don't want my picture taken? | My father posts almost everything to social media and I have asked him specifically to not post about me in the past. When he got remarried, I asked him not to post pictures of me from the wedding on there. He agreed and I didn't think it would be an outlandish request given the fact that I wasn't asked to be in his we... | HISTORICAL | {
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OPl1WEuRi2JkTiIJIJjdE0vwYH529P2O | aq2tyf | {
"description": "sleeping on the couch after sex",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for sleeping on the couch after sex | My husband (27) and I (26) have been together for almost 10 years, married 3. Our sex life has been rocky in the past due to my own health issues and I have delveloped some confidence issues pertaining to sex.
Last night, my husband asked if we could have sex (he always asks because of the medical issues, he really i... | HISTORICAL | {
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tTStcvjlGUJpafci233mga9LdfCyHC3L | 9vbu3b | {
"description": "getting hating my housemate/classmate for flaking on her promise to do some work on our project",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for getting hating my housemate/classmate for flaking on her promise to do some work on our project? | Sorry, this is long... I'm basically venting.
​
So, I (35M) live with one of my college classmates (call her Lily 30F) in our final semester. She did me a solid by letting me live with her and her gf, and not charging me exorbitant rent. Tbh though, I felt she kind of owed me for basically dragging her ass... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
HDpHQ6f2WBlHNeT0M2M9YT2FhsiHC6dI | aue5pd | {
"description": "telling people at work what really happened the night I hooked up with a co-worker",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I told people at work what really happened the night I hooked up with a co-worker? | At our work Christmas party we got really drunk and I [21F] ended up going home with a co-worker [21M].
We had sex and then I fell asleep. A few hours later I woke up to him getting back in my bed. He said he had gone to the bathroom when I asked him were he had gone. In the morning he told me he had run into my roomma... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
993xb3Y3qrGH3PDpD57nX1CX09nHnPDs | a6baje | {
"description": "purposely one upping my broke brother with gifts for his kids",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 62
} | AITA: I purposely one upped my broke brother with gifts for his kids | His ex wife left him homeless and everyone is staying with me because she no longer has custody. He's been saving up a lot to get gifts for his kids. I didn't really realize that. I don't know why but when I was buying gifts, I immediately thought of it as a way to be better than him at it. It was kinda playful to me. ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 62,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 62
} | WRONG |
yiMNVgeVIg78SjAtWrDSevTK1AO0EBoL | aszplv | {
"description": "telling my brother the reason he is poor is because of our parents, in front of our parents",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 20
} | AITA for telling my brother the reason he is poor is because of our parents, in front of our parents? | I'll start by saying everyone in my family thinks ITA but I feel I did nothing wrong in this situation.
I am richer than my brother who is a socialist and subscribes to the whole "there shouldn't be billionaires" mindset. We got into a lengthy discussion at dinner today about the poor vs rich. I'm well read on polit... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 20,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 20
} | WRONG |
nQUr9VPYlgXGYtySbOyNfcPNxpMiGsbw | ba7ote | {
"description": "telling a high school acquaintance that he shouldn't apply to work for the same lab I work for",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for telling a high school acquaintance that he shouldn't apply to work for the same lab I work for? | I work for a lab and six other people and we became good friends because we stay in the room for about 8 hours a day, everyday, since we all joined last year. We recently had an opening and this guy a knew in highscool wanted to join, but hes a weird, quite, kinda creepy guy and I felt it would ruin our whole vibe if h... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
dtmsOaEJPBXp5wkoCExdF3iuZrYq5qob | asg2zn | {
"description": "not visiting my grandma",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not visiting my grandma? | I’d like to start this off with a bit of background info.
I am a 15 year old boy. When I was 10 my mom lost custody of me after a long battle (around 2 years). Since then, I’ve been living with my dad, which has improved my life for the better and have had no contact with my mom other than the time I texted her wishi... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
kjBz1F6w8PBPjfUSYOnsCVezZg7W3PZm | auebrk | {
"description": "needing my bf to stay home",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 22
} | AITA for needing my bf to stay home? | I’m an introvert. On top of that I have major depression. Lucky me.
My bf is my rock. He’s my world. He’s been really supportive up until recently.
He joined this group or friends out of nowhere. There’s this flirty type girl in the group that I have my suspicions about.
Now on one of his two days off a wee... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 21,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 3
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 22
} | WRONG |
7Uh2QxTGPFU1TRmiKOWY1ect9oO1pGNU | aatzem | {
"description": "hating haha's",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for hating haha’s | I hate using things like “ha” “lol” and all the other bullshit. Yet I use it in text messages and all because friends or family use them all damn day and if I don’t I get questions asking if I’m okay or upset. I’m not, I just don’t want to use them. Also, I get pure rage when people do things like lolololol. I do the b... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
5ponNj8YpBBpZ48fQL7eimcKbaijzo0D | a7uwje | {
"description": "not financially helping my brother move in with a new girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not financially helping my brother move in with a new girlfriend? | My brother has been dating his girlfriend for 5 months. He recently told me that he was thinking about signing lease for an apartment with his girlfriend and wanted to know how I felt about it. I told him I didn’t think it was a great idea because she doesn’t have a stable job, they just recently started dating, and h... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 17,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 18,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
L3NOtRtN4QGUE1mL8GmqCBjwMEIOovbQ | a1qka8 | {
"description": "telling my friends boyfriend she's planning on breaking up with him",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA for telling my friends boyfriend she’s planning on breaking up with him | So I’m new to this so forgive me if my format is off
So to provide some context I’ve known this friend (we will call her Jenny) since the beginning of the year and we’ve gotten along and recently she got together with my friend (we will call him Adam) and me and Adam have been good friends for a while and Jenny recen... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 17,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 19
} | WRONG |
oTuRhnMArA41viW8hKJa65IEgG5XQBhB | b29kc6 | {
"description": "acknowledging someone else's birthday on my friend's birthday trip",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for acknowledging someone else's birthday on my friend's birthday trip? | A friend of mine (let's call her "Katie") recently organized a camping trip to celebrate her birthday. Everyone split the cost for food and reserving the campsite, and a few of us (myself included) pitched in extra by bringing tents and other camping gear or driving people to and from the campsite. Most of us also brou... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
EBdK3kWSITLNfaiJ6VDJ4Zf17Bc3kne9 | ba1m5n | {
"description": "wanting to be alone after my grandfather died",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | Aita for wanting to be alone after my grandfather died? | My girlfriend really enjoys when we are able to spend time with her friends from home because we aren’t able to do it often. Two days ago she hinted at me joining them for a happy hour which I happily said yes to.
Unfortunately my grandfather passed away yesterday. I was able to say goodbye and see him last week but ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
afjevK9yGfNrbb9mDevqpMGykKgrqSrB | b6ggin | {
"description": "getting angry when I don't receive quality service for something that could improve my life a lot when done right but when done wrongly could have a huge negative impact on my future",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting angry when I don't receive quality service for something that could improve my life a lot when done right but when done wrongly could have a huge negative impact on my future? | I'm using a company's pretty expensive service to help me with a visa process to move to another country for work. My background is complicated so I need their help.
But they have presented issues I'm not happy with and I'm trying to figure out if me getting frustrated and angry with them is valid or me being an assho... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
gcMdqFsMCR4JneCPWfO4dKseSWXlVYDt | aajs7m | {
"description": "pretending to be a 18 year old female and selling nude pictures online",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for pretending to be a 18 year old female and selling nude pictures online? | The idea came to me about a month ago based on a Reddit post. I went to various adult chatrooms, and I went to the "older for younger" section. I made a fake Kik account and I then I went into the chatroom said that I was an 18 year old college student who was selling nude pics (I'm actually a 22 year old male). I down... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
QIMkASVudJCm8HyqU5j1hvdaMBO29adt | a5jc0a | {
"description": "touching my girlfriend's brother's fiancee's ear",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for touching my girlfriend's brother's fiancee's ear? | So I've been seeing this girl (who we'll call Sarah) since two Saturday's ago and we immediately hit it off. We are always joking around and messing with each other. We would text all the time and she would always respond to me within a minute or two even if she was at work or with other people.
Now, this past Saturda... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
IZzBhVrSbXVdueKW29Hgpnfyg6O8vHH7 | ad9czu | {
"description": "getting upset at my girlfriend getting angry with her family",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for getting upset at my girlfriend getting angry with her family? | I am a white guy and I am currently dating a black woman. I love her with all of my heart. Some of her family members don't approve of interracial relationships. It is not I don't think that they see whites as not good enough but they think it creates animosity and tension.
I prepared a special dinner for her family a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
Tt9gn9rxgyCpuPBwKbbuwwUnnp40mRdF | azvf10 | {
"description": "not paying* back",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not paying* back? | Friend invited me to 40$ concert. I told her I could not afford 60$ of the airbnb at the moment so I would have to pass. She told me not to worry about it and to pay her back after I get paid.
So I paid for my ticket, and exclusively told her that i ONLY had enough money to cover myself (food) and no other expenses.... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
6go1H9AwiRDpUepwrVUA9zOI8Qo21DMS | aupf02 | {
"description": "destroying my cheating exes' relationship",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 11
} | AITA? I destroyed my cheating exes’ relationship | My ex, who cheated on me with a friend of mine. And their year anniversary was coming up (This Wednesday I believe)
I never liked them after I caught them cheating. But the thing that made me decide to do something was when her boyfriend (We will call Sea Bass) came up to me at my locker and told me “If you fuck with... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 9,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
tvWv7zkDY0T7GxrmnGaLFHkUTVU7JhhC | arygp5 | {
"description": "being mad at my boyfriend for an issue with his job",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for an issue with his job? | Throwaway yadda yadda yadda TLDR at the bottom.
My boyfriend works 3rd shift at a job that that has lots of room for upward mobility, but his position is kind of low on the totem pole. He was looking for new work for a while but caught wind from his superiors (who he is in good standing with) that he’s the next in lin... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
MEwS6IBGUabtHRE6mOoA7rRT61kV5NCy | axsert | {
"description": "wanting a relationship with my biological father",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting a relationship with my Biological father? | First post on Reddit and I’m typing this up on mobile. I’m a 24 year old male and I want to get to know my biological father.
My mom got pregnant with me when she was 16 and at the time she was in a relationship with my dad. Things were fine for awhile and they kept their relationship together throughout the pregnanc... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
BzSbGTc0HxocfwsgD8D0cRAa0cuRlQ1C | acs9bl | {
"description": "finding out my girlfriend has been possibly cheating",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for finding out my girlfriend has been possibly cheating? | Me and my SO have been together for quite some time. We've been through rough patches and worked through them all. We love eachother to bits. Ive told her that she's my first everything (from relationship to sexual stuff) - this is completely true. She told me the same and I believe her.
So the other night we were tog... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
J3PiFAoMUYL4k1aIOHIHgAo7CYmD0chX | 9zg8ue | {
"description": "not inviting family I don't like to Thanksgiving",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for not inviting family I don't like to Thanksgiving? | 2 situations presented themselves to me.
I didn't want to invite my sister to Thanksgiving despite the rest of my immediate family coming up. I regularly bash heads with her and she regularly creates an atmosphere passive aggression and all around disingenuousness. She has consistently came to my town to see her boyf... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
YNKh2JeBySPSM6uedbzZotCYu6B0T8Md | 9vkmi2 | {
"description": "keeping a signed guitar",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA for keeping a signed guitar? | First of all, my family is pretty notable because my dad is a somewhat famous politician. I hate talking or telling people about it and usually don't even tell people so they don't judge me. I actually think I am pretty humble about it and am actually making a name for myself through basketball. But anyway my families ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 19,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 19
} | WRONG |
XwsfDzjgtNACHqIeJki3QvYe3N3cHApG | a7nan4 | {
"description": "hitting my dad because he hit our family dog",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for hitting my dad because he hit our family dog? | FYI: On mobile. I’m sorry for any formatting issues.
Okay, so here’s what happened. My parents are a prime example of people who should never ever own dogs. They have a bad history of surrendering them and, yet, they keep getting more dogs. A few weeks ago, they told me they were getting a new puppy. I explained to t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
J7mmT31ktuzwEasmDroWNmBir2hsexQa | amx6vs | {
"description": "asking someone to leave my apt",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For asking someone to leave my apt? | Me and my roommate Sabom have the same friend group but varying intensities of friendship with each person. Sabom invited jake over but got drunk and according to his gf passed out. I invited Harold and Jorge who also don't particularly enjoy Jake. I go on to say "Sabom is passed out and I didn't invite you or plan on ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
d6RjHOZWLYLLuVmmEwwEhfmFd8xlIisp | awxgkp | {
"description": "wanting my stepson to know who is paying for his education",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting my stepson to know who is paying for his education | My stepson is 8. I've been with his dad for 5 years, married for 1. I've been involved in my step son's life for 4 years. Last year, my step son was diagnosed with a learning disability that is not an insurmountable obstacle, but is bad enough that the specialist recommended a specialized school for him.
Between my hu... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 13,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
rnhNpqv21cmpWUliRv7s9NRjUzpd2HlO | 9wtr96 | {
"description": "I'm pissing at my Veteran husband for getting piss drunk on Veterans Day",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA if I'm pissed at my Veteran husband for getting piss drunk on Veterans Day (observed) | My husband is one of those veterans who feels uncomfortable when people thank him for his service and never takes advantage of veteran discounts, so yesterday he didn't feel a need to go to Applebee's for his free meal or hit up any other spots for a freebie. Since he had the day off, though, a haircut was in order. He... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
VLoG5Dzc4c2LL7Yyjrnl3FF15t9V52nM | 9wygob | {
"description": "not wanting to do shift swaps 4 weeks in advanced",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to do shift swaps 4 weeks in advanced? | I’ll try and give as much context as possible in the shortest amount of time, for the purpose of the story we’ll call the manager Cheesecake, because I feel like it and people usually give the person in their story a bland name.
SO after a small period of time working this job cheesecake began to move my shifts around... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
6G2P0hMMMLyB9BTHsKdubOgpY2FJk4DH | ay69bc | {
"description": "sending my ex's best friend a gift",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for sending my ex's best friend a gift? | 2 years ago me (german) and my bf (korean) quit our around 1 year, long distance relationship. The breakup was messy, emotional and not clean at all. However we have had genuine feelings for each other and though it wasnt easy, we stayed sporadically in contact.
I visited him in Korea when we were still together and h... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
zIJehdXeDQ3RDgtfZwhLnNsojzkDrGeu | araeds | {
"description": "wanting to divorce my transgender wife",
"pronormative_score": 31,
"contranormative_score": 39
} | AITA for wanting to divorce my transgender wife (I am a lesbian)? | So I made a throwaway account because I really don’t want my wife finding this. I am a lesbian (38F) who was raised by extremely homophobic parents. They were Catholics and would often lecture me on the dangers of homosexuality, banned me from seeing my gay friends, etc. When I was a teenager they caught me kissing my ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 36,
"OTHER": 19,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 12,
"INFO": 4
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 31,
"WRONG": 39
} | WRONG |
yUv8QvVYVccpZ4rIOnhiuOt2HDi64PYC | apvgsm | {
"description": "wearing short sleeves in public",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for wearing short sleeves in public? | So, a couple of months ago I went through a really tough spot in life, and I started self-injuring, which mainly consisted of cutting myself. I don't know why I did it but I'm trying really hard to get over it now, but even though I haven't cut in a while I still have the scars on my forearms, and I don't know how long... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 7,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
yQr0fO7P8RuV4YQSUw2iswU6OEiQ2voY | b05993 | {
"description": "wanting to go to a full-moon party alone while I'm in a relationship",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for wanting to go to a full-moon party alone while I'm in a relationship? | So for context: I (33M) live in a city with crappy weather, and with my new work contract I negotiated for a pretty liberal remote-work policy specifically so I could spend time in sunny places during the cold, rainy months.
So to test out this plan, I've been planning a trip to Thailand for the next couple weeks. My... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
clU3ZvN3QJqsVqyvJHU4grp2v6lfsEj8 | 9uj1ok | {
"description": "telling off and cutting my friend out of my life after she stole from me, lied about me and got back with an abusive partner",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling off and cutting my friend out of my life after she stole from me, lied about me and got back with an abusive partner? | So me and this person have been friends for almost a decade. we've done a lot of friends stuff together. movies, sleepovers when we were younger, road trips, etc.
Anyhow, things began to get bad when my local newspaper that I work hired Amy to work under me. things were okay for a while until she started ditchin... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
LP6Dxoch5a2ipUWtKIcR6XmFlOG2SWzW | b6uz7s | {
"description": "not being able to reciprocate my 'best friend's' affection towards me",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not being able to reciprocate my 'best friend’s' affection towards me. | I struggle with showing and understanding emotions so I can come across as pretty cold. I’m friends with a girl who thinks of me as her best friend. We talk almost everyday despite me moving away, and still meet up. She knows how I am and supposedly knows how I feel even if I don’t show it. She’s a really kind person a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 6,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
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