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1QR3XBMCThUZjP5aYoDlNUgXs1ByXExk | b0r687 | null | AITA Waitress Has a Seizure and Told Not to Call the Police Mid-Call | Our group of friends just finished seeing a movie and went out to a nearby restaurant. The restaurant sells ramen and after we get seated our order is taken.
Within 30 seconds at the table right next to ours we hear a commotion and see her on the floor having seizures. We weren't able to catch her as we didn't realize... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not pretending like my roommate is going to be a doctor",
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} | AITA for not pretending like my roommate is going to be a doctor? | Obviously in order to be a doctor, you have to be smart, you have to be convincted, study hard, and you also probably have to have a talent for the feild of science already, and you should be mentally stable, be able to perform well under stress. I mean getting into med school is not easy, and being a doctor sure as he... | HISTORICAL | {
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QVzudoM1Fz4McaZog1ncso9sLOFlnWlW | at7t1d | {
"description": "not wanting to donate to my girlfriends cancer fundraiser event",
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} | AITA for not wanting to donate to my girlfriends cancer fundraiser event? | Every year, my girlfriend and her friends participate in this big event at a gym, hosted by a hospital, to raise funds for cancer research. The participants ask their friends, family, and coworkers for donations to “sponsor” them as they cycle on a stationary cycle. She has asked me to donate as one of her sponsors.
N... | HISTORICAL | {
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TE1cnqrCg02dh1vMO7YguMBjtZAbS5Hr | b785xv | {
"description": "not telling my husband that our friend touched my butt",
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} | WIBTA if I didn’t tell my husband that our friend touched my butt? | So basically what happened was tonight I stopped by my friend R’s house for a bit to buy a sack of weed. R and his wife have been good friends with me and my husband J for a few years now. We’ve been to their house many times, hung out with them and their kids, and gone on double dates. R has never been out of the way ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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y1vQwlX4u9VzVvsLoRKkTTt3FYaC6xOK | alf047 | {
"description": "leaving a Job after only 1 week",
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} | AITA For Leaving a Job after only 1 Week? | I was in a pretty dead-end job, and was actively searching for new work. A recruiter reached out to me, and told me about a position that was open at company number 1 that was looking for someone with my experience. The position was in the same field as my previous job, but I was willing to give it a shot, as the compa... | HISTORICAL | {
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Pt22GaGe3VlsE7U35s3vwIpfT3LTbq2o | 9umlk7 | {
"description": "not feeling like talking to a friend",
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} | AITA for not feeling like talking to a friend | I have this friend. All he's life revlovs around is playing games and criticising people's life choice. He is a militant Christian, and only listen to music from the 50s and earlier.
I also play games, and he often wants to play. I just leave the message and don't read it, since most of the time I enjoy playing games... | HISTORICAL | {
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4Kpv0zsN8kVMst3xcfcTqYAWppt47XSL | aef7wf | {
"description": "moving treadmills because the guy next to me has really strong cologne/deodorant",
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} | AITA for moving treadmills because the guy next to me has really strong cologne/deodorant? | I workout at Planet Fitness. I always start my night off by doing 45 minutes on the treadmill. About 15 minutes in a guy comes up on the treadmill right next to me. I was literally the only person on the treadmills at that time so there were at least 20 other treadmills available. Slightly annoying when this happens in... | HISTORICAL | {
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h6VcBMMtFrmd0B4cJUmKfKCyJpD3vZmV | 9vhr2h | {
"description": "not talking to a lonely girl after she said stupid shit",
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} | AITA For not talking to a lonely girl after she said stupid shit? | I saw a cute girl and had mutual friends help me to talk to her. Eventually we talk for a but but ultimately she doesn't feel the same way I do. In all fairness, she'd just moved into the country and had only a handful of friends and was sad about leaving her friends in her home country. She might not want a boyfriend,... | HISTORICAL | {
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H9cas4GAf3WesZnDh61wYX7z6kBYvBvk | ar455c | null | AITA / is it immature of me for being upset because my gf 'lied' to me? | To put it simply, as I don't want to write a 3 page essay for answers from strangers, my girl of 1 year has canceled and rescheduled three days in a row under the guides that she is sick. However, today (and seemingly the past two days) she went out to eat fastfood and hung out with a friend(s).
Is it unreaso... | HISTORICAL | {
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wELMlqrCQBrZJmZfXpu7kFnre3lan8o9 | b9tlfu | {
"description": "telling a bad joke on tinder",
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} | AITA for telling a bad joke on tinder? | AITA
So I matched with this girl on tinder, from her profile she seemed like a pretty fun person. She messaged me first, which doesn't happen often for me on tinder. She opened with a joke and we chatted a bit, just jokesy banter. So the tone of the conversation was pretty comical. Anyway I send her a message and she ... | HISTORICAL | {
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aATbr5kcD7vZM9jC3tmnqHKTyA5N51to | auntjs | {
"description": "ostracizing a new coworker from the \"in group\" because of his \"holier than thou\" attitude and his attempts to police our speech",
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} | AITA for ostracizing a new coworker from the "in group" because of his "holier than thou" attitude and his attempts to police our speech? | I work on a team for a semi-large computer networking firm. My team comprises of me and about 7 others including our boss. This team is one of the "Upper" management teams. All of us have masters in comp sci or computer engendering with my boss having his doctorate. We pretty much have final say in anything related to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
TPkLRu2pIoPvk0MSSHx2HUlnygzgZI05 | apoti5 | {
"description": "wanting my husband to sell his german wwii memorabilia and donate it to charity",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for wanting my husband to sell his German WWII memorabilia and donate it to charity? | Husband's grandfather, who died before my husband was born, was in he German military during WWII. He was NOT in the SS, and from what I understand, he only served in the military because he had to or his family would have been in danger. We now have his issued dagger with swastikas on it and a few medals.
I don't ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZPDXJofe6GfZScCvh7kwKwe1dEDdBYO5 | aeuzxm | {
"description": "parking within the lines of a parking space",
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} | AITA for parking within the lines of a parking space? | I was sitting my car this morning, after parking in a parking garage to eat my breakfast. I get to my work way early to take advantage of our in office gym. So there are plenty of spaces available, but I get to chose a prime spot since I get here so early. I watch another driver attempt to park between myself and anoth... | HISTORICAL | {
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vRUe2Z2wyKj0RM7lF07UPwojrj1ZrKVK | 9xqw26 | {
"description": "biting my wife's fingers off when she attacked me",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA Biting my wife's fingers off when she attacked me? | Two years ago there was an incident where my wife became extremely physical during an argument. I don't want to go into the details because it was very violent. I know the subreddit rules say that I need to go into detail, so if that's a requirement, please reply to this post and I'll include the order of events.
An... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
HBMJ106xPMkwmLqXZ2NUyacwfJ7DGfk0 | 9ut52l | {
"description": "telling my parents that they're embarrassing and pushy",
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} | AITA for telling my parents that they’re embarrassing and pushy | I got in an argument with my parents over them taking my Xbox off me cause they had a bad conversation with my English teacher.
They had called my teacher up cause they saw a price of homework and didn’t think it was good enough and my teacher said I wasn’t trying hard enough in lessons
My parents interpreted this as... | HISTORICAL | {
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T8WpttMrTehlKUBMupv4IEB3jpxNhIrs | apqa5n | {
"description": "putting toilet paper on my roommates desks",
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} | AITA for putting toilet paper on my roommates desks? | I live in a dorm with 3 other guys. We have one bunk bed and 2 desks in 2 connected rooms and share a bathroom. I picked the roommate that sleeps below me, and the other 2 were randomly assigned to us. They’re nice enough, but not people i’ll probably stay in contact with.
Anyways, our building supplies this awful to... | HISTORICAL | {
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3qPmOIUoaG2tXeLggcUdPTWXSpxrf9bj | aj20gi | {
"description": "leaving my dog in the car",
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} | AITA for leaving my dog in the car? | I have a rescue dog who is extremely attached to me. He is 110lbs and a German Shepherd. He loves to be in the car, and wants to go with me every time I get in my car. I never let him go if he will be by himself for more than 20 mins, if its warmer than 70 degrees, or colder than 45 degrees. He takes up my entire back ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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iXGi6waJZHEIqm1UTddTjaiiSelC4DAi | arh8rx | {
"description": "breaking up with them",
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} | AITA for breaking up with them | i didnt want to be in the relationship anymore or ever reconcile but i was so scared to actually break up because i knew how they would take it and it wasn’t well
i was pushed to do it and it went terribly and worse than I could have imagined beforehand and they attempted suicide and blocked me when i begged them to s... | HISTORICAL | {
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gAkYLrY2VcyKex78rDgW9UUbja9w0MlB | aeerc8 | {
"description": "not giving concert tickets back that were a Christmas present",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for not giving concert tickets back that were a Christmas present? | My now ex girlfriend bought tickets for us to go see one of my all time favorite artists for Christmas. The tickets were relatively cheap, about $17 a piece. Small venue, nothing fancy. She had never heard of the guy until I mentioned that I wanted to go see him, and that tickets would be a great Christmas gift, it was... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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WwqtI3zXsZMjKOqi9CPQb8o24UCyzWRF | a69nrk | {
"description": "not condemning the colonialist ideology of shakespearean society",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not condemning the colonialist ideology of Shakespearean society? | I'd like to preface this by saying I would never justify the colonialist ideology. They viewed the natives of the lands they colonised as sub human, no sane person today could see that as ok.
The thing is, in my essay on Shakespeare's, The Tempest, at no point did I mention that I didn't agree with the colonialist... | HISTORICAL | {
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EwvizRmvrEiZDfPKSzEpnVquXbZ5vJCf | b0gffh | {
"description": "changing the passcode on my phone to prevent my mom from snooping",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for changing the passcode on my phone to prevent my mom from snooping? | I'm 15. On mobile, late at night.
Recently my mom went through my phone while I was sleeping with a code I didnt know she knew. It was the PIN number I use at school so I dont know what I expected. She found some messages I didnt want or need her to see between my friends and I. She searched my gallery and uncovered a... | HISTORICAL | {
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zGxx3l6XygY4n1qnbtvGS2W3HkSZVlwM | 9tntwe | {
"description": "ghosting a friend after he allowed an awful message to be sent to my gf",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for ghosting a friend after he allowed an awful message to be sent to my GF. | Sorry this is really messy. I’ll try and condense as much as possible.
My girlfriend and I have a friend, we’ll call him Jim. Jim is older than us and recently divorced and since then has been having what can only be described as a mid-life crisis. We both know he’s been down and making bad decisions but we generally... | HISTORICAL | {
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yH0yGqdyVPVT0H6U9GZ5Z81ZW9FzFx9o | b2m5oz | {
"description": "not promising I won't hit my husband in my sleep again",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not promising I won’t hit my husband in my sleep again | Backstory - quite frequently I sleep walk/talk and do things that are very absurd and make no sense because I’m asleep. To be fair I am seemingly awake, but after 8 years and many episodes of this my husband is fully aware. Normally we just laugh about it the next day when he tells me what has happened.
So the other d... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
NOrvSaXVza8d8U0LoLHuDGZAtyQI7iBn | acf0vu | {
"description": "telling my best friend to stfu about his relationship",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for telling my best friend to stfu about his relationship? | I \[19F\] am in a predicament with one of my best friends \[19M\]. He is currently seeing a lovely girl and won't stop telling me about it. I'm glad that he's happy, but it is nonstop. He sends me screenshots of the mushy texts he sends, tells me that he writes her erotic poetry, shows off the hickeys she gives him, an... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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2b22mjOz9q4M5XJuzI2vQiGrl9dnk0GU | b5q2rj | {
"description": "not agreeing that ptsd is such a horrible thing for someone to go through",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not agreeing that ptsd is such a horrible thing for someone to go through? | my (25m) gf (23f) got doagnosed with ptsd 2 yrs ago, we’ve been together a month under that. we used to be best friends and soo close and now she’s like a different person. I know what she went thru and it doesn’t seem that bad??? she had a couple abusive bfs and her mom used to hit her, but ive had abusive gfs and my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
AGBAUcSgS3ZKDaWI7mo3BpUZg44ibj5b | avw4o3 | {
"description": "not giving my phone number to get a free calendar",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA if I didn't give my phone number to get a free calendar? | Each year a local radio station has a calendar full of lovely ladies that they give away free at sponsored events. I went to an event hosted at an upscale jewelry store. The type I would never be in if not for the free calendar. While waiting in line to get my calendar, one of the store workers was asking everyone for ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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uCFWScYcBQ0PBrrGEi84KLwctNLWsi6s | ard2yw | {
"description": "ghosting on multiple boyfriends",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for ghosting on multiple boyfriends? | First time making a post instead of commenting in this subreddit. So this is a little bit of a story so bear with me.
I've been on dates but I've only dated two people for any length of time. The first guy was when I was a teenager and it was online. We did the normal long distance relationship thing, and met him in p... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
wWhLhlnUz13hGYayIxRP1rlVJrFM1ZgT | b4jbh5 | {
"description": "being annoyed that my partner's father screwed us over by killing himself",
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} | AITA for being annoyed that my partner's father screwed us over by killing himself | Now my partner didn't have a good relationship with his dad (his dad was a severe alcoholic and abusive). My partner (20M) and I (21F) just moved to a new flat and had just found jobs, his dad killed himself back on a different island to us. The travel back and forth cost us a lot (ferrys being £85-£100 return). The f... | HISTORICAL | {
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Bx8HxaDlrCLFpKuIsFo4TFlsGTT2y53g | 9t7hyg | {
"description": "not wanting to remain friends with a woman who I was only looking for a romantic relationship with",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA For not wanting to remain friends with a woman who I was only looking for a romantic relationship with? | I met this woman while doing some volunteering for a club I am a part of at my college campus. I had seen her around before, but I had been informed that she had a boyfriend a year prior. Whilst talking to her i jokes about my own relationships, of which I had none and was single. She remarked that she was also single ... | HISTORICAL | {
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QznuCoyDvG4IZKSyRrEdfB3HRGPInF5j | amc1r6 | {
"description": "posing as a customer to put a complaint in about my coworker",
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} | WIBTA for posing as a customer to put a complaint in about my coworker? | I’ve been working at this place for years and in the past 6 months we hired a new girl, I’ll call Marie. Marie has been a problem from day 1. She’s rude to customers and staff, flat out refuses to serve customers when asked, is never working where she should be, wanders aimlessly to avoid customers and has a terrible a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Ac69uWoCmZMOLn2lPfwUG3JkvZV5xLuw | axdeon | {
"description": "not dating a girl because she was my boss's sister",
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} | Aita for not dating a girl because she was my boss's sister | Using a throwaway for this because theres some things I wouldn't want to spill.
So for context I was manager at this fast food restaurants and let's say my gm was a certified bitch no way around it she made my life hell and I was promoted through the efforts of everyone but her. Now comes about a year ago when this n... | HISTORICAL | {
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kw1iFI5XMUP3wQYp9Quhccyi8AFYQz5b | abyywd | {
"description": "getting angry at my girlfriend for hiding my cigarettes and, in retaliation, hiding her phone",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for getting angry at my girlfriend for hiding my cigarettes and, in retaliation, hiding her phone? | The standard: on mobile so formatting or autocorrect may be wrong. And TL;DR at the bottom.
So, a bit of background to this. I currently live with my girlfriend and she's expecting our daughter in a couple of months. So before I get into it, I KNOW smoking is bad for me and a baby (not to mention anyone else) so spa... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
aSdzTtC5p4opKBhhS4HQfAgDI50YQ9mC | afaf3k | {
"description": "standing up for myself at work against my trainer",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for standing up for myself at work against my trainer? | I am between changing careers and started working at an office as a temporary worker a couple of months ago. The person who trains me is a 50ish year old Chinese lady who I have to share a cubicle with. She was really nice at first but over the weeks have become quite nasty to me.
At the risk of looking like I am tryi... | HISTORICAL | {
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R5zNgIg0W8gE9bUJTyCmXPBccZTc2R1u | b89ags | null | AITA for the arguments I used in a fight with my quasi-MIL, and that fight also ending MIL's relationship to my girlfriend? | My gf Lara grew up without parents, but with a big inheritance. There was a non-relative woman who took her in and who became her mother figure. This quasi-MIL seemed nice to me, but behind my back, she was telling lies to her entire family, like that I never paid rent after moving in with Lara and that I only liked he... | HISTORICAL | {
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wNLiFo3WoTyNljhp0YVJQik8ht5pTq9v | adp62e | {
"description": "being upset that my parents gave my wedding fund to my sister to freeze her eggs",
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} | AITA for being upset that my parents gave my wedding fund to my sister to freeze her eggs? | I want to preface this by saying that I’ve been 100% financially independent from my parents since the day I graduated college. I know they don’t owe me a dime and I’m grateful for everything they’ve given me in life.
I have a sister who is about a decade older than me, and my parents promised each of us a set amount... | HISTORICAL | {
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xwOCcj7HN91rgb5UK7NyT9GoO2zjl9jG | 9wagq1 | {
"description": "cutting a close friend off",
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} | AITA for cutting a close friend off | TL:DR at bottom
I met this girl over a year ago and she was one of the sweetest people I'd ever met, we instantly became friends and she became very dear to me. After about 2-3 months she just disappears for 3 entire months. No explanation, didn't respond to any message, just gone. This made me think the worst had happ... | HISTORICAL | {
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7nBzAQimJQQduDYUcYA3Wsw4NZoxNMYK | b1851w | {
"description": "watching wrestling with my boyfriend mostly just to look at hot guys",
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} | AITA for watching wrestling with my boyfriend mostly just to look at hot guys? | My boyfriend likes to watch professional wrestling. I like to watch men perform dramatic athletic feats while not wearing a lot of clothes, but am generally indifferent to the actual wrestling part. My boyfriend will regularly put matches on the TV while I'm on my computer nearby or while we're eating together. I polit... | HISTORICAL | {
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bysqnpEaPBi6djvShZZT2EaJZdQOn55B | a0ycma | {
"description": "treating coworkers/friends/potential roommates like children",
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} | WIBTA for treating coworkers/friends/potential roommates like children? | Disclaimer: I include a *lot* of details as I initially felt they were relevant to the point, but I only just realized how much I rambled. TLDR at the end, thank you in advance.
​
For some background info, I've worked at a grocery store deli for about 6 months. There's a variety of personal drama with th... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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KNNGjTLgv43DcB3OzKFOSb6OzR2UZcsT | b5v1ia | {
"description": "reminding my bf to use deodorant or brush his teeth",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for reminding my bf to use deodorant or brush his teeth? | So, I [23f] have a boyfriend [25m] who constantly ignores to do his basic hygiene routine such as brushing his teeth, using deodorant, changing socks / dirty clothes, ignoring the fact that he needs a haircut or it's time to trim his beard, or that the hair between his eyebrows grows as well, and maybe he should take c... | HISTORICAL | {
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1KRUkwrA4PniZkZljb3mHqtxbuXhLZxg | ae0xk0 | {
"description": "ending a friendship, because she has abusive parents",
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} | WIBTA for ending a friendship, because she has abusive parents? | So i have a friend, let's call her Anne. She's a trans woman, recently came out to her parents, and they're very, very transphobic. They make passive aggressive comments towards her appearance, deadname her, use male pronouns, etc. they're also just incredibly awful people in general, they berate her for being stupid (... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Bv3qtoYEqwNclbFs2AIidaIzuwXxa158 | ali5kx | {
"description": "not refunding his money",
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} | AITA for not refunding his money? | Hey everyone, the issue is this:
I sold an individual a drone through one of the major buy/sell online marketplaces. As it was unused for some time, I charged it up and tested it the weekend before the sale to ensure it was working properly. It flew fine, but I wasn't able to fly it for too long due to the high winds ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nffB07OVQHMJIle6ou6rYWnn1r2PLweF | a0d061 | null | AITA, Friend of a friend of mine hits me up to go to lunch. Shows up with his GF. Asks if they can spend the night at my college apartment. I comply. They ask for my bed, then for all of my sheets. | So a friend of a friend of mine who I have hung out with in a group setting a few times hits me up out of the blue wanting to grab lunch. I agree, and we decide to meet up. I show up and realize that he brought his girlfriend. I don’t mind, but just thought it was going to be us two grabbing lunch and “catching up.” R... | HISTORICAL | {
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vSSVdBTTZRz3bxGCgud2mjFeQ6k32W19 | b2rtx3 | {
"description": "telling my friend to lower her expectations for college",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for telling my friend to lower her expectations for college? | A little while ago, my affluent friends's mom took him on a college trip to Cornell and he decided that that was his dream school, an idea his mom supported. When he talked about it being his dream school the next day, I became a little worried, because I thought the chances of him getting in were little to zero, and I... | HISTORICAL | {
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UL0qBxLM7FbDTECRk4GUUURgxgkXkKHj | agf817 | {
"description": "not wanting to always take my girlfriend side when she's annoyed at something",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not wanting to always take my girlfriend side when she's annoyed at something? | So before I begin, I'll give some background info. My girlfriend is from China, studying in the United States. I am a domestic American student. This seems to be part of the problem. Whenever my girlfriend is having troubles with the school (dealing with different departments, or trying to ask questions/get help) she o... | HISTORICAL | {
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wdA0q9y2f4HAcSIq6PORreAzQ9GXXCiS | adlh60 | {
"description": "not buying flowers at deadbeat dad funeral",
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} | AITA for not buying flowers at deadbeat dad funeral? | Man meets woman, they fall in love, get married, have me. 4 years later, man leaves to look for work in another part of the world, never comes back. Calls once every month, then every year, then no contact. In the meantime, woman raises child like a true goddess, giving him every opportunity possible, love and attentio... | HISTORICAL | {
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ynzAQWGqPoWiirwWGNXUBNWDac0uoVc9 | b53llj | {
"description": "telling my gf she needs to at least attempt finishing her meals if I'm paying for them",
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} | AITA For telling my gf she needs to at least attempt finishing her meals if I'm paying for them? | My gf and I occasionally go out and eat. Money is a little tight right now but I can still manage some lunch/dinner dates. But the problem is that she always gets food and literally never finishes. Like if she gets 8 wings and fries she'll eat like 2-3 and half the fries and throw the rest away. Why am I paying 10-15 d... | HISTORICAL | {
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6iYUrx7ORpK0qRf4XbZG3Dpgsj0g8DRp | azskwh | {
"description": "not letting my cousin's husband stay at my appartment",
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} | AITA For not letting my cousin's husband stay at my appartment? | Title.
DISCLAIMER: English its not my native tongue, sorry for any grammar or spelling errors.
I got a text message asking me to acommodate my cousin's husband on my castle of 55m2 (592 sqfeet?), a few weeks ago. After hesitating for a while and talkign it to my SO, we said yes ( we had agreed on a date).
I didnt c... | HISTORICAL | {
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9gDZ06PuC0gJjBTggRe6H1GZekean3vn | ao9m2a | {
"description": "asking some if they have a concealed carry permit",
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} | AITA for asking some if they have a concealed carry permit? | I just started a new job a few weeks ago as an intern at a pretty stuffy business. I've been trying to act professional since I came from a start up that was very relaxed. I try not to talk a lot as most people aren't very social. I am an extremely social person so I've felt a little awkward at work sometimes. The othe... | HISTORICAL | {
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8J9YGcWT8bUvUD5NlYkSdN4ewNvbQfPI | andd7x | {
"description": "asking a girl out until she finally gave me a clear answer",
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} | AITA For asking a girl out until she finally gave me a clear answer | So for the last two years I'd ask this girl if she wanted to meet up and go out. In fact, a couple of times she'd ask me herself to let her know when I'm free. Every time there was an "excuse" like "I'm looking for a job at the moment, not the best timing."
Basically, her excuses always depended on something extern... | HISTORICAL | {
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wpX6kvi4QTuFGSoETX0jWcDD1D7tHnW8 | b2b2ja | {
"description": "getting upset that my girlfriend spent all day with her best friend",
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} | AITA for getting upset that my girlfriend spent all day with her best friend? | There isn't much more to explain, but here's a few more minor details
It's a relatively new relationship, only about three weeks old. We've had two short but very nice dates where we've agreed that we'd like to have longer ones at some point. We also talk (text) everyday, where we've also agreed that we'd like to spen... | HISTORICAL | {
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9Nh2nBKEEp8hhHVCYH59JE9N54eWk4iT | aem43l | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend she should go to work today",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend she should go to work today? | So this morning me (M22) and my girlfriend (F26) got into an argument. About 3 days ago her grandmother passed. That day me and her called off and sat at the house together and everything was okay. Yesterday she went to work and said everything was fine (other then her hating her job).
So today I had a day off and sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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bVs87c4aCtdppMEtTWMldHrbPvvn4wPF | afbj3r | {
"description": "treating my stepfather like air",
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} | AITA Treating my stepfather like air (/r/amitheasshole) | First, to clarify, what I mean by treating him like air is a. not talking to him, b. not making any contact, c. not reacting to anything he does, d. not answering his questions/remarks directed at me as if i didn't hear it
**Context:** I am an unplanned child between a young woman and a married man. After some other d... | HISTORICAL | {
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xJq2vkhMnHvGrIzGEtM2ouBBQutHBM2t | b7rddv | {
"description": "not inviting my brother's gf to my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not inviting my brother's gf to my wedding? | So my brother has been dating this absolute abysmal excuse of a person for a few years now. She doesn't help with cleaning or cooking, refuses to work a job longer than a few days, if she bothers to even look for one, and she has repeatedly held my brother back from doing anything social because "it doesn't s... | HISTORICAL | {
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rqJwzD3OBCq7jC7ixmcDCebq9hx2oyKL | afge5n | {
"description": "being upset my partner had this convo with his ex in private",
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} | AITA for being upset my partner had this convo with his ex in private? | He used to shit talk me to this girl months ago.
She said: I dunno what to say. I’m sad you’re not in my life (my fault) and I’m still curious and sad as to why I’m not enough. I wish I could have answers but I know you don’t want to be pressed (you said you didn’t wanna talk). So I guess goodbye then? I do Not think... | HISTORICAL | {
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fIDvJgI3krUAMEWqmYVZPcVanvXmHBR3 | am4790 | {
"description": "being annoyed at my gf for cutting my beard too short",
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} | AITA For being annoyed at my GF for cutting my beard too short ? | My GF wanted to cut my beard and I didn't really want her to. She kept asking so a I agreed she could trim it , so when she did it she went far too short when shaved the edges of it after telling her not to. It looked awful and I had to shave it all off completly.
I had been growing it for about a month and Its not ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zPKAp6WcO66tB2gjCet7T4avUusbbprn | an6zjw | {
"description": "hooking up with a mutual guy friend 3 hours after breaking up with my gf",
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} | AITA for hooking up with a mutual guy friend 3 hours after breaking up with my gf? (16F) | Ok so this is a throwaway because my post history would probably lead a bunch of people to conclusions about me being an asshole because I already feel like I am.
I feel like my exgf and I have been really distant in the past month because she was really clingy and passive and I wasn’t into that. I tried breaking up w... | HISTORICAL | {
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N5aiv8yJYt53vGYAAegzxp2IhqgqHmKC | aieyrm | {
"description": "\"abandoning\" my best friend on her birthday",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for "abandoning" my best friend on her birthday? | Im self employed in a very physically demanding job and often have to work weekends usually 5am while 6pm so I'm flat out exhausted a lot of the time. My friend "E" organised a suprise party for her boyfriend on a Sunday which I took time off for. I and a bunch of other friends attended and we had a great time.
The f... | HISTORICAL | {
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LOPdkTLLzUhKW8GVr6JRnFsYXLVPuacK | b55dp9 | {
"description": "saying no to a girl asking me to prom at another school",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA for saying no to a girl asking me to prom at another school? | When I was younger up until a couple years ago I was on a ymca swim team. There were twin girls that were daughters of one of the coaches and we were good friends, I’m also good friends with the coach. I am no longer on the team, and the twin girls go to another school nearby. They are very nice people.
One of them te... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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s3sa1kB81yeucVSMpxxikOU3Cd09ZjYo | ataz1f | null | AITA if my son built a large dick in my front yard | Am I the ass hole if my son built a large dick in my front yard out of snow? I am getting phone call after phone call about it from neighbors and fellow parents. AITA because it’s my yard and I let him do it or is my son the asshole for wanting to do it in the first place. | HISTORICAL | {
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dOjrHq3hld5U05rmreCiFm1GEwC44Q7b | akjunw | {
"description": "not wanting to talk politics with my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 20,
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} | AITA for not wanting to talk politics with my girlfriend? | My girlfriend and I are both liberal in almost every sense of the word. We have never disagreed about anything you could call a political issue.
I've always been more reserved in expressing my political opinions for a lot of reasons (some for professional reasons, but mostly because it's never comfortable).
For ... | HISTORICAL | {
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bLHMq731T1uDFWKZGSbuGgAadzl3F8Tc | a91fte | {
"description": "feeling jealous of my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for feeling jealous of my boyfriend | Me and my boyfriend (we’ll call him R) have a mutual friend (call him A). We all graduated from high school two years ago. My boyfriend played cricket with him for about 5 years, but he was in my friend group for about the same amount of time. Since school I’ve only seen him maybe twice and R has seen him maybe 4-5 tim... | HISTORICAL | {
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6MHMfm71hxE7ETcNXVKZDThAxpL20kYC | 9vhpk7 | {
"description": "correcting a new dancer",
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} | AITA for correcting a new dancer? | I [F] dance West Coast Swing every Wednesday night. I’m a Level 2 follow and a Level 1 lead. In West Coast Swing, usually females start off as follows but start learning to lead once they become more adept in their dancing—vice versa for males. There’s this Level 1 follow who is very good in her movements but tends to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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dUawtn8e0mjepP92l6UiZGUdKyf5sRQR | b21fs5 | {
"description": "not compromising",
"pronormative_score": 22,
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} | AITA for not compromising? | My husband (32m) and I (31f) have had issues with his hobby for the last few years. Without getting into specifics, it takes up the majority of his time when he’s not working and he has invested tens of thousands of dollars into it (not sure exactly how much - he hides it from me). We fight about it often as I feel lik... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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U6qoPMWSpmq55kLDpOKs7Tqerng6uvy6 | aud6x3 | {
"description": "telling my step-dad to skip church to stay with his dying cat",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AItA for telling my step-dad to skip church to stay with his dying cat? | My step-dad and mother are starting to become religious due to self-induced declining health. So, my step-dad has had his cat (Rose) for 18 years, and she's not eating, sitting in one spot, and slowing breathing. It is obvious to all of us, that her health is declining rapidly. She may not make it through the night a... | HISTORICAL | {
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GLL0s7QUaYmFTbIpPVAGcXfGjccZaW9W | b77au0 | {
"description": "asking my roommate to leave the room",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for asking my roommate to leave the room? | My college roommate (20F) and I (20F) have shared a room for 2 years and are currently deciding where to live next semester. We are good friends and I don't mind sharing a room, but she refuses to leave the room if I ask her to. For instance, if I wanted to bring a guy over, she would not leave. She argues that it is h... | HISTORICAL | {
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k2uzBCmC27xPorQcv3DoZCr71u9HA4f5 | a03r4l | {
"description": "saying no to switching shifts when I'm sick",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for saying no to switching shifts when I'm sick? | Yesterday, I worked retail on Black Friday with a really dry throat and cough. I brought water to drink throughout the shift, but ran out of water early on. As a result, my throat got really dry and I resisted coughing in front of customers as much as I could. At the end of the shift, I lost most of my voice and al... | HISTORICAL | {
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KBtTeyJN8hNJ3YtawttlaEwEUCLhyrWL | abovbo | {
"description": "having 4 roommate's and taking care of my own",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA I have 4 roommate's and I take care of my own. | I moved into employee housing for the winter season and share a common area (kitchen, living room, bathroom) with 4 other guys. One of them is extremely messy and the other there aren't so bad and two of them clean up after the filthy one constantly. I clean up all of my messes as I go and don't tolerate cleaning up af... | HISTORICAL | {
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PamGXxDet2BuBNFJGjos03r4tqWjA6jN | 9up2tb | {
"description": "getting terse with coworkers/manager expecting me to figure out shifts for them after my bf's dad died",
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} | AITA for getting terse with coworkers/manager expecting me to figure out shifts for them after my bf's dad died? | My BF's father died really unexpectedly last Friday. I left work early to come home and I told my manager I probably wouldn't be on for my 4.5hr shift the Saturday after and that I would probably require additional days off for travel to the funeral (it's a twelve hr drive both ways) and obviously mourning because a pe... | HISTORICAL | {
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c57Cc5S9LaFEf0xfzI5JnAdtZhPQMjKw | auol1s | {
"description": "abandoning my daughter/sister duties to study for exams",
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} | AITA for abandoning my daughter/sister duties to study for exams | This has happened twice. Once during finals and the other is currently happening now. My mother and older sister are extremely needy and always tend to bother me consistently during finals/exam days. Yesterday my older sister cried and called me mean when I told her to stop bothering me when I’m studying JUST so I can ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NR47nWugsUM2m3oRWH5nbB1GxxwzOwsn | b6beth | {
"description": "not helping a relative rehome a dog, even though I rehome dogs for many others",
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} | AITA For not helping a relative rehome a dog, even though I rehome dogs for many others? | Hi. On mobile, hopefully this works out.
I am a volunteer for several dog rescues, from fostering puppies , volunteer transporting, supply gathering via secondhand stores and yard sales. Most of my time, when I’m not working for my paycheck job, I’m doing rescue things. This leads to my circle knowing I’m a go to pers... | HISTORICAL | {
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jvRuJW7qBVV68RfLM3cWnvIzTBVZTghB | b3gfnk | {
"description": "being upset that my bf never pays for anything",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for being upset that my bf never pays for anything | Using throwaway. Before I start, I want to say that I am NOT the kind of person who expects a man to pay for everything. I have always liked things to be equal in a relationship so I would never make a man do everything in a relationship. If it matters, we’re both 20 and I’m a female.
Anyways, I’ve been with my boyfri... | HISTORICAL | {
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1oFwVFrie4VXdJMRB9QDjKmMPQ0YcI3m | axe46q | {
"description": "asking my father to speak respectfully to me in front of my kid",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA For asking my father to speak respectfully to me in front of my kid? | I'm a single mom and my daughter and I live with my folks. I pay rent.
So my 3 year old and I (33f) are in the kitchen, listening to music on my phone and making dinner together. She was actually helping which was pretty cool. My parents come in and start making their dinner. So they're puttering around and my dad... | HISTORICAL | {
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9DcuFvXAnOdZLJB4N8juOBEqgRdIl18c | as6ywc | {
"description": "not letting someone back into a competitive university club next year",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA if I didn't let someone back into a competitive university club next year | Throwaway.
I'm on the audition committee for a speech and debate program at my university. At the beginning of this academic year, we accepted a freshman, call him A. Due to the nature of the program, auditioning people is a rather difficult task, because it's hard to capture what a competition environment is like, an... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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HLfJBtJXg6gw3iv22lnJBA9d8CZ9zw6R | arblea | {
"description": "getting into an Argument with my GF's racist dad",
"pronormative_score": 186,
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} | AITA For Getting Into an Argument with My GF's Racist Dad? |
We're both 26 and been dating for 5 months, she wanted me to officially meet her parents as I only met them once before when we ran into them at a mall. So last night we we went over to dinner at her parents place and before we went over my GF reminded me that her dad can be mildly racist and not to take it too hear... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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sAgkfvdYg1QlhxCJkWePzhwYLfDYxmZW | ax17mc | null | AITA fot not beliving my friend? | A few weeks ago, I (F 31) and a friend of mine (M 29) that’s gay, let’s call him B (I’m mentioning it because it’s been suggested that he acted out of jealousy and I don’t think that’s the case) went out to a local bar. We were drinking and after a while a German guy got there, Let’s call him GG, and started talking wi... | HISTORICAL | {
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yIY7D4h0YfAuoxnxhyE5UfgdDIBk4XCp | 9xgqh9 | {
"description": "not wanting to be around my brother",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be around my brother? | So, my brother has a long history of being an angry, abusive alcoholic. He has physically and verbally abused every girlfriend he has had (4 different women). He has been arrested and has done jail time for this, and was in jail for the last 3 months for his last attack (drunk and choking his girlfriend). He drunkenly ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zStPO3q0i5eJ252Cg3dsRg7dcDMfQSaR | b83q6v | {
"description": "ditching my friends last minute with my so",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for ditching my friends last minute with my SO? | A year ago I met my SO (lets call her Nicole). She's a sweet and loving person, also really shy. When we began dating I introduced her to two of my closer friends (who are siblings) but for some reason they didn't seem to want to talk with her very much and preferred to talk to our other mutual friend present. By virtu... | HISTORICAL | {
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8XAr7wCNhnXbfMcfZvE3SPkS6FTg5vni | arq2d6 | {
"description": "calling out my cousin's abuse",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for calling out my cousin’s abuse? | Last night we had a party, some of my work friends, some of my fiancées work friends and my best buddy drove a few cousins and friends out here for the night.
Last night was a blast. We had video games hooked up to 2 TVs in the living room, a table for card games, and drinking games in the kitchen. Everyone had a gre... | HISTORICAL | {
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j8K3FDncBnxC9wcSlrhOJ6BSWJo3nB7j | b7xdld | {
"description": "using a dryer before a guy who had been waiting for a longer tome than I had",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for using a dryer before a guy who had been waiting for a longer tome than I had | For reference I’m in college. In my dorms laundry room we have laundry machines and dryers that are always packed. I had put one load in the dryer and in the washer. I showed up 15 minutes before my dryer load was done because my washer load was finished. This guy was already in the room waiting for an open dryer caus... | HISTORICAL | {
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U5a0Snrhl4JZUljBcB7Fe1QItle2ZBhQ | ame5ld | {
"description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for watching porn",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for watching porn? | It's more complicated than the title. Let me add some context for ya.
My (32F) boyfriend (34M) have a great relationship. He did cheat on me once early
in our relationship but I've let it go and moved on. He's NEVER once since given me a reason to ever suspect him and he's been the paragon of honesty and love and op... | HISTORICAL | {
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MjDh9iAOJhinGCGaU0rOPGH8apGcKuUl | an70xi | {
"description": "liking a girl but then not wanting to go out with her anymore because she's not physically attractive",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA For liking a girl but then not wanting to go out with her anymore because she's not physically attractive | I've been talking to this girl for a few days and we've decided to go out. I have only really seen her face on Snapchat but I then saw a full picture of her and it really turned me off. I just don't know if I can go out with her anymore and I don't know what to do or if I'm just an asshole | HISTORICAL | {
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QDnVCi0nVY4ZTXh14yfSgrCRXSyvznkk | azigmg | {
"description": "being angry and sad that I can't visit a friend in hospital",
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} | AITA for being angry and sad that I can't visit a friend in hospital? | Brace yourselves, long background story (names changed for obvious reasons):
We're 3 friends: Jane, June and me. We've met at the University but Jane and June know each other since high school.
I've considered both of them my closest friends, until June fucked up (explained later).
Both Jane and June left to different... | HISTORICAL | {
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GUWLJoCLKaZPG2Bpbj3XOIhN23YhHJ8n | b4rfyx | {
"description": "not letting a fwb stay with me until she gets back on her feet",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not letting a fwb stay with me until she gets back on her feet? | She’s been out of work for awhile and I guess now her roommates are threatening to kick her out for not paying rent. She came to me and asked if she could stay with me in my studio apt if that happens. I asked her why she couldn’t move back in with her parents and she said that she has a really bad relationship with ... | HISTORICAL | {
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3HeTlyqyi2BhneFcLho7FHRPx9pqMVNR | b1jd5i | {
"description": "making Gargoyle noises while my overtly loud roommates have sex late into the night after repeatedly asking them to quiet down",
"pronormative_score": 451,
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} | AITA for making Gargoyle noises while my overtly loud roommates have sex late into the night after repeatedly asking them to quiet down? | So, I've been having this problem for a while now with my roommate. But basically, his girlfriend makes ridiculously loud moans and screams during sex late into the night on weekdays that keeps me awake.
I've asked him numerous times to just have his gf not do that since it is something he can control.
Well, it didn'... | HISTORICAL | {
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0Te6vc7aftBuWmsxTqSaPTsWlzwyi2Q0 | b37mum | {
"description": "raging quit and leaving my girlfriend at her doorstep after she didn't let me use her phone",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA to rage quit and leave my girlfriend at her doorstep after she didn't let me use her phone | We were casually dating and it cut short than the usual ones because I got an assignment need to finish soon.(*these font are details I consider can be unnecessary*)
*It's an essay about sustainability and such. I was general asking about her idea on the paragraph structures. The argument spiral it out of control. And... | HISTORICAL | {
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7dYo9RdufGiZ4wRYSH9rh5iJIHTZHOpO | awa9iq | {
"description": "being a cuck",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for being a cuck? | My wife and I have been together for 17 years and married for 15. One drunk evening, before we got married but were living together, we went out and got really drunk. She had a friend that knew the bartenders at a particular bar and they offered to let us stay after hours. I was tired and ready to go home so I went to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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N2YpxS4Jm8qVVQ10HyXHR72KgnRWSRbd | axuwo4 | {
"description": "purposefully setting up coworkers for failure",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA for purposefully setting up coworkers for failure? | So, backstory. I work Security and have for about two years now. At one of our sites, I'll refer to as S, I was there for about 8 months before the contract got sold to another company and I went to another site. Fast forward 4 months, I quit and went to the company that got site S.
One of the first people I met was ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Rw1Xz8J2H2CbRWUsVoC9TGMHkhr6HLSg | ao95w6 | {
"description": "wanting my friend to go back to her old personality",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for wanting my friend to go back to her old personality? | She was very sad, but there was something to her... she was genuine, cared a lot for others, she would always call me when she felt bad, she deeply trusted me, she even was poetic sometimes and could be quite lovely (even though she was almost never like this). Damn, she told me that we could go see a sundown someday. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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hD6KVLIb63y2LygUmZvYflJsblyYrN3y | aj7oma | {
"description": "rejecting my parent's offer to buy me (or split payment for) a car",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA For rejecting my parent's offer to buy me (or split payment for) a car | So my parents are divorced, and I primarily lived with my dad since my mom moved across country when I was at the end of middle school. I am now in college (I'm 19) out of state. Living with my dad was pretty rough, he worked a lot and was emotionally abusive to me while I was in middle school so there was a lasting di... | HISTORICAL | {
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M4iKwkvu4eoJnfmqcZPp02kDmhQMpvvc | ba67m4 | {
"description": "not wanting to draw for someone out of the \"kindness of my heart\"",
"pronormative_score": 40,
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} | AITA: Am I the asshole for not wanting to draw for someone out of the "kindness of my heart"? | For some context, I'm a 19-year-old college student who's been working as a freelancer for the past few years now. As a result, my family has kind of infamously known me as "the art person" and commonly use it as a discussion point with co-workers. My mom's boss has a son who is on the lower end of the functioning spec... | HISTORICAL | {
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wFFEAr1D2qp2OnyxWwJCZ6LvgWIiEhhA | apy0p2 | {
"description": "snapping at a co-worker for assuming that you don't have problems if you don't have kids",
"pronormative_score": 63,
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} | AITA for snapping at a co-worker for assuming that you don't have problems if you don't have kids? | So this happened a little after Christmas. I work at a chain bakery as an apprentice, which means I have to go do full time manual labor in the morning and go to school for my pastry chef degree instantly after that every day. I leave home at 06:00 and return at 21:00. My mother is out of country for work and my dad w... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 63,
"WRONG": 10
} | RIGHT |
7IHBRF5pEkgQ8t7PLnwC88oOAJrpJi60 | b7f8vi | {
"description": "having sex with the girl who accused me for taking advantage of her",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for having sex with the girl who accused me for taking advantage of her ? | Everything started nearly 2 years ago.A friend of mine introduced me to a group of friends. This girl was in the group,she was silent and introvert.We spend time as group, with time I started to realize this girl had some problems.
A night it was just two of us.I tried to talk to her,she was a bit drunk and spoke dire... | HISTORICAL | {
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mg0bvsxYxZlQasri7kzMBV7UJZOi39AB | atugyk | {
"description": "being mad at my boyfriend and telling him he's selfish",
"pronormative_score": 49,
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} | AITA for being mad at my boyfriend and telling him he’s selfish? | I’m on mobile sorry for the format.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and we have an almost 2 year old daughter together and we both work full time. Last Wednesday our daycare provider cancelled on us for Thursday, Friday, and we no longer have a back up baby sitter (my grandparents were being our back... | HISTORICAL | {
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52QBqdNrq1hgZxRukkNT3DfcS8KUjw5E | aof2lj | {
"description": "having my feelings hurt that my boyfriend knowingly planned something with his friends instead of me on Valentine's day",
"pronormative_score": 41,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for having my feelings hurt that my boyfriend knowingly planned something with his friends instead of me on Valentine’s Day? | Sorry this ended up sort of long but I really really need to know if I’m being crazy or if my feelings are even a little justified. To anyone willing to read it all and comment: Thank you in advance.
So just a little bit more explanation, my boyfriend/father of my child and I have been a thing for about 4 years now an... | HISTORICAL | {
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hdyXUQG31RHomDXgwnhVL8Yx9gjhOKJq | au3uzi | {
"description": "blue-balling my mom",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for blue-balling my Mom? | Okay, so the title sounds a bit fucked up, sorry. TL;DR at the bottom. Also, really sorry if my writing is shit.
​
Let me preface this with a bit of info about my Mom. We don't have the best of relationships, she's emotionally abusive and can generally be a very nasty person. Throughout my entire life, esp... | HISTORICAL | {
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t9FtapVCVKCiPTGRa63GvcbvqtdvCMNX | a6m34e | {
"description": "not wanting to attend the funeral viewing for my friend's sister-in-law",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting to attend the funeral viewing for my friend's sister-in-law? | Some fake names for clarity: Abby and Cindy are my close friends. Abby is the one whose sister-in-law died of cancer.
Cindy messaged me and told me we should go to the funeral viewing for Abby's SIL. I haven't replied to her yet but am trying to come up with an excuse as to not go.
I don't want to go because I'm ex... | HISTORICAL | {
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rtgEppZ7QBCytiGDKYa5ECy8tNh73Wgx | atzu1c | {
"description": "feeling a bit annoyed that, as the only bridesmaid, Ive paid for everything for myself for my friends wedding",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for feeling a bit annoyed that, as the only bridesmaid, ive paid for everything for myself for my friends wedding (except bridesmaid dress)? | I am definitely feeling like an arsehole but I genuinely wanted to know if this is normal for weddings or if I'm justified in feeling this way.
Context: bridesmaid dress was £70. I paid for alterations (£35), the belt, the shoes, accessories. I'm also doing my own hair and make up and paid to stay at the venue (not o... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
G1hKVRVxF5yikXU5c8E0vCMVwRlxvFI8 | aelnzt | {
"description": "not making an acquaintances birthday special",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not making an acquaintances birthday special? | I am the person in our friend group (of 2 years) who tries to make plans to make the persons who birthday it is, the most special day possible.
One of them had told us she didn't want to celebrate her birthday and just be at home. I used to listen to her other than when she was having hard times so she'd have someone ... | HISTORICAL | {
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MGlvQ24PojWhdADJeyvYlWFQxwRa3zas | az2uml | {
"description": "bringing my new girlfriend on a \"date\" with me and another girl",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for bringing my new girlfriend on a “date” with me and another girl? | For about a year and a half, I had feelings for my friend from uni. We hung out a lot and did a lot of “couple things”, such as cuddle and hold hands and stuff, but never anything more. Anytime I would ask her out, she would decline and say she wasn’t looking for a relationship right now. Totally understandable.
A mon... | HISTORICAL | {
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EEXHQc3MisZAQ6EWqHH2WYKm1ckFsq2W | a2tiel | {
"description": "laughing at a kid's name",
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} | AITA for laughing at a kid’s name? | So basically, recently a kid by the name Abcde (abe-cidy) was on the news for her mom complaining about a flight attendant laughing at her name. I complained that the mother was the one wrong for naming her kid Abcde, and that people shouldn’t name their kids something that they could be made fun of, like Spatula. AITA... | HISTORICAL | {
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