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{ "description": "being visibly annoyed with my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being visibly annoyed with my friend(s)?
Joe is my fiancé’s best friend and I’ve considered him a good friend for years. He recently watched our cats while we were out of the country for a week. I agreed to pay him. When we returned home Joe was there so we watched some tv. I got a call from my family so I stepped into a different room to talk to them. Joe an...
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{ "description": "snapping at my roommate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for snapping at my roommate?
Lately, the wifi in my house has been a bit weak. My (23F) roommate (22M) works from home, so this was an issue. He bought a new router the other day, and asked yesterday if today was a good time to change it over. I said no, since it was a Sunday, so if there were issues comcast wouldn't be able to help, and I had wor...
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{ "description": "being irritated/disappointed in my wife for choosing a paint by number instead of using the art supplies I have already gotten got her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being irritated/disappointed in my wife for choosing a paint by number instead of using the art supplies I have already gotten got her?
Christmas 2017 I(m24) bought my wife (f22) several canvases and new brushes after she expressed an interest in painting more. A week or more ago she found a large paint by number that she thought she might like. I disapproved but tried my best not to scrutinize. She has not touched the paint supplies I bought her (I li...
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{ "description": "not trading shifts with a co-worker", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't trade shifts with a co-worker?
My birthday is next week. I took that Friday off since I don't have to work that Saturday, so I could have a long weekend. My co-worker sent me a message asking if I could trade Saturday shifts with her (so I'd work the 30th and she'd work the 6th). She didn't say why she needed to trade. I don't actually have any plan...
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{ "description": "giving a wedding gift 3 months late and not saying anything about it until it was 2 months past the wedding", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving a wedding gift 3 months late and not saying anything about it until it was 2 months past the wedding?
Throwaway account because too many of my coworkers know my actual account. Sorry if this is a bit lengthy. TLDR at the end. ​ Backstory: So I have a friend who is a coworker of mine and we've known each other for about 3 years now. We got along right away and although he is a work friend I consider him to ...
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{ "description": "joining a demonstration exclusive to the women of my school", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA for joining a demonstration exclusive to the women of my school?
I couldn't find the right words to put in the title but I hope the title is good enough. Anyways: My school has spent all of women's history month honoring it by doing little things and organizing a big assembly for the end of the month. The assembly is about honoring women's history and showing solidarity with the...
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{ "description": "taking my sister with me to my grandparents house without telling my mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking my sister with me to my grandparents house without telling my mom?
So just to preface, my mom tends to be kind of a short fuse in general. She tends to kind of explode over rather small things but usually it's just a bit of yelling and door slams. You know, marriage related loudness, I guess. She gets like this especially when she's had a bit of alcohol, and she's quite a lightweight ...
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AITA: absent Father is dying & extended family thinks i need to help when I don’t actually know any of them.
I hope this doesn’t turn out to be too long. I’m typing on a mobile. Maybe I am asking for validation, or for someone to say “wow you’re a horrible person”. I honestly don’t know. Important facts to know: *I was raised by my single mother, who was a single mother by choice. *I am the youngest of my fathers seven c...
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{ "description": "asking my dad for help with our bills", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my dad for help with our bills?
My boyfriend and I have been living together for three months now. Money is beyond tight. We never go out, never get to do anything at all. My dad is always asking me how we are doing. I was lying to him at first, but just scraping by wad staring to wear on me and I ended up telling him how tough things are. ...
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{ "description": "being upset when finding my wifes (supposedly fictional) notes about infidelity that exactly matches our life", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset when finding my wifes (supposedly fictional) notes about infidelity that exactly matches our life?
I was cleaning the hallway the other day and among the junk was a nondescript notebook. I flipped through it quickly to see who's it was to see what pile it should go into. Two things became evident. 1) It looked like diary notes from infidelity 2) it was my wife's. I was so shocked that I read the whole thing and ever...
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{ "description": "using a disorder I have as an excuse for getting away with something", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for using a disorder I have as an excuse for getting away with something?
When I was in elementary school, my case of Tourette’s syndrome was really bad, and I’d ended up making random noises at times. This one kid bullied me physically and verbally for most of 5th grade because of my Tourette’s and the fact that I have general anxiety disorder, and I’d eventually had enough. (I’d asked him ...
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AITA 15 years of friendship thrown away because I wouldn't put up with her bfs bullsh*y
I've been stressing over this for months now, there's 15 years of friendship and backstory here so I'll try and keep it brief and simple. Kind of a tl:dr at bottom. Best freind (we'll call her K) met this guy (call him W) on tinder about 2 years ago, had a few dates and decided to get a house together after only a f...
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{ "description": "wanting to establish paternity even though he doesn't want to", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for wanting to establish paternity even though he doesn’t want to?
So I’m 23, and 40 weeks pregnant with a sweet little girl. Her dad and I were together for two years, and split when I found out I was pregnant. He REALLY did not want me to keep this baby. We grew up in the same hometown but never really talked until we were both a few years out of high school and in the military. I’m...
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{ "description": "letting a girl cheat on her boyfriend with me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for letting a girl cheat on her boyfriend with me?
Recently I met a girl on Bumble, who as it happened wanted a casual non-exclusive situation, which was fine with me. She told me she was still in love with her ex and didn’t want a relationship, but she ends up drunkenly entering a relationship with another Bumble guy that confesses love to her. She initially feels li...
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{ "description": "sending a message after a first date saying I don't want to meet again because they looked very different (worse) than their photos", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for sending a message after a first date saying I don't want to meet again because they looked very different (worse) than their photos?
(Gender neutral language used on purpose) I have been jumping feet first into the dating pool recently (mainly app based) and have come to the conclusion that I have to arrange dates as soon as possible because a lot of people use old or heavily filtered photos and when we meet up it's different to expectations. To ea...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend when he told me I was laughing too loud", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend when he told me I was laughing too loud?
So I have what you might describe as a fairly loud laugh. It's not ridiculously loud, but it's noticeable and hearty at least. I also have chronic depression, among other things, so I don't usually laugh much, especially not a rib-tickling, belly-shaking, earth-shattering laugh to end all laughs. A titter or a giggle o...
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{ "description": "leaving my gf(ex) when she didn't let me host a party at my house because of the people attending", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my gf(ex) when she didn't let me host a party at my house because of the people attending?
I am currently second year in university, recently at the beginning of this year I made a new friend, let's call him Jin, and grew fairly close to him throughout the year. I am using my house as a venue for Jin's farewell party as he is leaving the country and has no where else to host a party. My ex had a history o...
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{ "description": "ghosting my friend of 5 years", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I ghosted my friend of 5 years?
Friend: Kate Ex-boyfriend: Jake So my friend Kate (of 5 years) was on the receiving end of an emotionally abusive relationship with Jake. They dated for 3 years. Whenever you spoke with Kate she would complain about Jake. Talk about how Jake treated her poorly etc but still stuck around with Jake because “he was ni...
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{ "description": "not wanting to listen to rap music in my house", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to listen to rap music in my house?
AITA for telling my stepson to either turn his music down or off this morning? When he showers he likes to have music playing. Its loud enough to where I can hear the lyrics 2 room's away. I also really dont like hearing the n word over and over again I finally after maybe the 5th or 6th song went up stairs and...
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{ "description": "telling someone they're not a virgin", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling someone they're not a Virgin?
So back when I was like 14 I attended this sleepaway camp. One of the girls there would NOT stop bragging about how much she had sex and hooked up with guys. She was THIRTEEN (but that's not the point of this story). So one day somehow our group got around to the discussion of virginity. For some reason the girl wa...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my friends liberal use of the words \"trauma\" and \"abuse\"", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed with my friends liberal use of the words "trauma" and "abuse"?
I'll try to make this as quick as I can, and this is an alt account because my friend has my main. In short, I have a friend named B who started becoming very... sensitive the last few years. Of course, I'm not judgmental about how people express themselves, but B is very, how do I put this... Tumblr-y, if you catch my...
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{ "description": "extorting a classmate who's worried about their grade", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for extorting a classmate who’s worried about their grade?
My friends and I got paired up with a girl for a history project . This girl is very smart and is in the top ten of class. The bad thing is that she’s not doing her fair share of work. We’ve been texting her asking if she’s done with her research but she always responds that she’s busy with another activity like Nation...
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{ "description": "being rude to my girlfriend's mother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being rude to my girlfriend's mother?
Sorry not a bombshell story but I feel guilty so I want some kind of validation one way or the other, I kinda blurt out things which is probably why I said stuff. so basically my 19 year old girlfriend has autism and despite having wild teenage years her mom is super overprotective to the point of obsession and it re...
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UPDATE: WIBTA if I humiliated this choir because of posts they made about me on social media?
Yesterday, I made a post asking if I would be the a-hole if I was to screw up this choir's performance. Today was the first rehearsal for the piece we're performing. When I got there, I talked with them about the posts they made about me. I gave them a description of how the posts were hurtful. I also told them that I ...
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{ "description": "not caring about something deserved", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring about something deserved?
Okay, here’s some backstory. I used to be in an after school club, and had a girl I particularly disliked in this club. She never payed attention, was annoying, and a bit obsessed with makeup, despite not being able to use it. She was a year younger than me, so we’ll call her Cailyn, meaning young girl. Okay, so Cailyn...
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AITA: Coworker doesn't like me, trying to do my job with out making them dislike me even more.
Okay. I (21 F) work at a grocery store. I am a cashier, as well as, and office assistant in the cash office. Most of the cashier I work with are just out of high school or in college. A handful of cashiers are retirees. Usually the cashiers my age rarely have problems with me and when ever there is a problem we talk it...
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{ "description": "telling a staff to return after my lunch break", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling a staff to return after my lunch break?
I work a full 40 hours a week, M-F at a not for profit agency who doesn’t pay me lunch. Every day I sit at my desk and eat my lunch. Every day I have to ask someone to return after my lunch time, every day I get some kind of attitude for it. Today I’m sitting at my desk, because I can’t go anywhere else since it’s co...
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{ "description": "not wanting to interact with my mom's boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to interact with my mom's boyfriend?
Sorry for any formatting issues, I'm on mobile. My mom recently got a boyfriend, which was back in November last year. He's a chill dude, I have almost no problems with him. Sometimes he tries to parent me around which bothers me but other than that, he has more perks. The thing about me is that it takes me a VERY lo...
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{ "description": "not letting my fiancé's parents have a say in the guest list because they are not financially contributing to our wedding", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my fiancé's parents have a say in the guest list because they are not financially contributing to our wedding?
My fiancé, "Milo", and I are getting married next year. We have already started planning our wedding, and have had the "financial talk" with both of our parents. We don't have an enormous budget, and want to have a classy wedding for our guests, so therefore we have narrowed our guest list to only 115 people. Just one...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my bf because of my brother", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I (M19) broke up with my bf (M22) because of my brother (M16)?
Throwaway because all of my friends know my real account. Sorry for the formatting, I'm on mobile. If you see any mistakes feel free to correct me, English isn't my first language. So some background, my little brother and me are actually half brothers, but neither of our fathers were ever in the picture. My mom was s...
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{ "description": "preventing my \"friend\" from getting a job wity me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for preventing my "friend" from getting a job wity me.
About a year ago I got a job at a movie theater, it was a great job over the summer but the hours were long and late. When the school year came around it was too much and was interfering with my school work so I wanted to quit. At this time a girl I was "Friends" with started talking about getting a job and asked me ab...
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{ "description": "being upset over getting called out", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being upset over getting called out?
So one of my friend groups has a FB messenger group chat. We post in there and I probably post about 50% more than anyone else because I throw in 2-3 memes a day. I don't put anything offensive because this isn't the group for that. I routinely get a couple emotes on my posts and never had any complaints or obvious ann...
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{ "description": "not wanting to participate", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to participate?
I am 15 and my brother is 14. My mom paid for me, my brother, and her to go to a Korean spa and sauna which was a new experience is for me and my brother. There are a handful of rooms to sit in lay in for some time and then in each locker room there is a hot tub area where you have to be naked to go inside. We went to...
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{ "description": "buying a fleshlight and subsequently making my girlfriend cry", "pronormative_score": 52, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for buying a fleshlight and subsequently making my girlfriend cry?
Alright please bear with me, we've been dating for about 3 months and it's been going great, I really like her a lot but we can't have sex. She suffers from Vaginismus which basically a condition where muscles in or around the vagina shut tightly, making sex painful or impossible. I should note she *never* mentioned ...
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{ "description": "minimizing contact with my friend over his behavior", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for minimizing contact with my friend over his behavior?
I’ve been in a relationship with my partner for 4 years and we are both students but in different universities. Naturally, when I got into uni I made a lot of new friends. I started to get along with this one guy at the start of my second year. My boyfriend met most of my friends but had not had the opportunity to meet...
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{ "description": "answering questions literally instead of telling the asker what they want to know", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for answering questions literally instead of telling the asker what they want to know?
Okay, so I'm a fourth generation Korean American. I don't know a lick of any languages other than English and a bit of Spanish I learned in school. I've never been to Korea, nor do I want to go. My dad is the only person in my family who speaks any Korean or has been to Korea. And the only thing I know about Korean cul...
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AITA guitar string thing.
So. I was playing with someone else’s guitar. Another friend (not the owner) wanted to play with said guitar. I handed it to him. 5 seconds later, the string broke. He blamed me. We settled to share 50% of the costs. I think he should have paid 100% am I the asshole for thinking he should pay 100% of the costs?
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{ "description": "getting upset that my gf's coworker slapped her butt when she thinks it's a joke", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset that my gf's coworker slapped her butt when she thinks it's a joke?
So my girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and have been for nearly half a year. Everything has been as great as a much as a long distance relationship can be. So I was at a family get together for Christmas Eve while she went to work and when I was about to leave she texts me "(male coworker's name) ...
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{ "description": "not wanting a friend to spend a week at my apartment", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a friend to spend a week at my apartment?
Some context: I lived in a house where I had four other roommates, and I got the short straw and got the room with no door. (Just a curtain suspended above the door frame.) One of my roommates started bringing her boyfriend over, more and more. Until eventually he just stayed there all the time and never paid rent, ...
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{ "description": "making a girl at the gym think I was creeping on her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a girl at the gym think I was creeping on her?
I recently moved into my own apartment instead of living in the dorms, and have begun going to a new gym. So, I went to the new gym for the first time after classes tommorow. The women in question here, let's call her Julia (idk her name) was at the gym at the same time. Coincidentally, I was following her a lot, wait...
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{ "description": "not changing my hair for my sister's wedding", "pronormative_score": 91, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not changing my hair for my sister's wedding
Let me just preface this, I am extremely happy for my sister to be getting married. She and her hubby to be are getting married in September of this year and I will be her bridesmaid! \-- I recently dyed my hair black. My natural hair is a very dark brown. Nothing major, right? Today I received a call from my sis...
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{ "description": "asking things to calm down", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking things to calm down?
Ok, so everything started on a weekend with friends, we were planning what to do on the next day. Two girls who one is my brother's gf and the other is a dear friend's gf were asking for all of us to go to a motel to relax and be on the jacuzzi. The rest of us weren't that much into the idea so we were proposing o...
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{ "description": "playing poker with my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA- For playing poker with my friend?
Plot twist- not a throwaway! Cut to this evening. My friend FakeName and I, two poor college kids, are hanging out without anything to do. He just learned to play Texas Hold Em poker so we decided to sit down and play for a bit. At the beginning, we didn’t play any stakes, just for fun. Now I don’t want to toot my ...
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{ "description": "taking chips from my brother when he lied about it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking chips from my brother when he lied about it?
Key Eldest brother (one who I took chips from) EB Middle brother (who moaned at me afterwards) MB And me Is me On weekends me and my 2 brothers (who are autistic so that may have influenced their actions) Get pizza for Saturday evening and Sunday morning. Last week we found out they are serving cheesy chips (me and EB ...
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{ "description": "Dumping Soda on a Guy at the movies", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA For Dumping Soda On a Guy at the Movies?
So when I was 16 I had just gotten my first girlfriend and having a car and it being summer we went to a midnight movie at our local theater. When we walked into the theater to my girlfriend's and I delight we were the only ones there and went right to the back row. Well, as the movie started playing three guys walked ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help out my friend financially", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help out my friend financially?
Background: This guy is an old friend from high school. He is not well off financially. I have known him from the 8th grade. Whenever and I mean whenever we go out, I pay for food, drinks and tickets(including for him) Been doing this for 6 years at least. At this point, he expects me to pay for him. He has paid for...
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{ "description": "using the disabled loos at work", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for using the disabled loos at work?
I've seemed to always have done this. I just prefer a bit more space when I'm doing my biz.
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AITA
so this happened today and a few of my friends say i should NOT have done this. a bit of backstory: i havent known this girl (who we will call friend) long, maybe a few months? well i know she’s a complete sweetheart with a big heart and wants to do the right thing. so heres the story. friend and another friend (Frien...
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{ "description": "hating my mom's boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my mom's boyfriend?
so my mom has been dating this guy, let's call him R, for about a year and a half now. i really don't understand what she sees in him. they met while she was trying to leave my ex-stepdad. R and my mom didn't become romantically involved until after the deal with ex-stepdad was over and done with, but R did give us a ...
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{ "description": "considering leaving my relationship, being my boyfriend can be so rude and hurt my feelings when Im drunk", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for considering leaving my relationship, being my boyfriend can be so rude and hurt my feelings when Im drunk?
Long story cut short- I've been with my partner for 6.5 years, & he's always struggled with having an addictive personality. 3ish years ago he got into using cocaine while out drinking. No big deal for me anymore, ex police based career so was super narrow minded, I now make an effort to be more open. Cocaine be...
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{ "description": "not helping my brother, even though I could've done easily", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my brother, even though i could've done easily
A little backstory:So, my brother and I were always close. He used to be one of my best mate. At age of 17, he became a victim of alcohol and drugs. He stole things from his own family (his Uncle and Aunt, his mom and dad died when he was younger). I stopped talking to him after the stealing incident. In December, 2018...
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{ "description": "using both earbuds in public while listening to music", "pronormative_score": 55, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for using both earbuds in public while listening to music?
I was at target trying on a pair of heels, I have my earbuds while I shop/go around (I take it off if I have to talk to a cashier or employee). This lady is passing by and she has one airpod, she says something and all I can see is her mouth moving, then I remove one earbud and tell her that I’m sorry but I couldn’t ...
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{ "description": "telling this girl losing a dog is not the same as losing a child", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 46 }
AITA for telling this girl losing a dog is not the same as losing a child?
This happened about a week ago and I'm currently dealing with the repercussions of it. I work in an office environment. Came into work one morning and as I passed our break room, I saw through the window on the door one of my colleagues, a girl in her early 20s (we'll call her kate), was crying in there. Two of my ot...
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{ "description": "wanting to have a backup plan for a group trip", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to have a backup plan for a group trip?
We’re a group of four friends (myself, X, Y, and Z) who were planning on taking a trip together. Y let us know that his aunt offered to let us stay at her house at the location where we’re headed free of charge. This sounded like a great deal, except for the fact that we know how Y is with his money. I’d hate for us to...
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{ "description": "not paying rent at my girlfriend's house", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not paying rent at my girlfriend's house?
About 8 months ago I was living in my hometown 2.5 hours away from my girlfriend. She quite literally begged me to move in with her, but I didn't want to give up the job I had making and saving money while living at home for free. She persisted, and said I could live with her rent free, as well. Knowing this would lead...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend not to go out clubbing on valentines day", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend not to go out clubbing on valentines day?
Iv been with this girl for over 3 years now, we generally get along pretty well. She is a bit anti social/finds it hard to make female friends so when she told me she was going to go out clubbing with a work friend I thought great she's socializing and is making a new friend but the problem is tonight she mentioned she...
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{ "description": "telling my dad that his girlfriend could be my sister and making fun of her", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA because I told my dad that his girlfriend could be my sister and making fun of her?
It's just insane, he's dating a nineteen year old. She's so stupid too, we barely met and she's already talking about 'I'd hope for you to be able to call me mom one day'. Keep in mind she's only two years older than me. I believe she has genuine mental issues if she thinks I'd ever think about her as anything more tha...
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{ "description": "\"stealing\" my friend's idea that I could have possibly thought of myself to MAYBE use in my group project", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for "stealing" my friend's idea that I could have possibly thought of myself to MAYBE use in my group project.
For some background, in my basic engineering class we are building a device that will propel a miniature foam plane with the goal of maximizing flight time. The stated rules are that "the glider can be modified, but no material or parts can be completely removed." Also whether or not the device actually works has no be...
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{ "description": "not \"forgiving\" people", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not "forgiving" people?
It's a little strange to talk about that, but let's go... I met a lot of people in my life, some good, some bad. But every time someone made something bad with me, I cut the friendship and even if after some time (maybe a year) the person come back asking for forgiveness I am allways like "Ok" (I don't keep hatred, I'...
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{ "description": "downvoting a post on this sub even though the guy is clearly an asshole", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for downvoting a post on this sub even though the guy is clearly an asshole?
I mean, the guy is a meanie asshole and I don't have the strength to put aside my natural repulsion of him and upvote even though the sub's rules clearly says so. I have to downvote because I disagree! And it's not like I'm the only one since the top posts of the subs are 99% NTA while the top posts with the asshole f...
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{ "description": "repo'ding a laptop from my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I repo'd a laptop from my friend?
About 5 months back, I sold my laptop to a friend. It had started collecting dust in the corner when I started working in an office so I figured that I might as well sell it and get some cash out of it. She was tight on cash at the time and asked if she could pay it in installments, which I didn't mind. It was $20/mon...
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{ "description": "getting free pizzas", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting free pizzas?
I ordered 4 XLs from Pizzapizza and the ETA was 40 minutes. I had cash on hand, but the driver came about 7 minutes late. Basically this chain offers everything for free if we they don't make it in time (40 minutes). The total was about $60 and my driver had rough English. He said he was only 1 minute late, but the app...
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{ "description": "telling my bf's \"bestie\" she crosses the line and disrespects our relationship", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my bf’s “bestie” she crosses the line and disrespects our relationship?
AITA? Sorry for the length...thank you for reading. A little back story: I have been seeing my boyfriend for going on 3 years and we have a beautiful son. The first time I ‘met’ her she made it clear to ignore and avoid me before I was finally introduced to her formally. (We were all casually hanging at a bar she sa...
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{ "description": "forcing my adult sisters to save some money before releasing their inheritance to them", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I forced my adult sisters to save some money before releasing their inheritance to them?
Hello All, ​ So my parents gave me $120K (40K for each of us) when they got a lump sum of money from a house sale because are not responsible with money what so-ever. They gave me this money to use some for my house and give my sisters their 40K when they get married/buy a house. My parents gave me full co...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because she always talked to other guys to make me jealous", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because she always talked to other guys to make me jealous
I broke up with my girlfriend because she would always talk to other guys to make me jealous, for the last week we were dating she also was mad at me but refused to tell me why and it made me absolutely miserable. But about three days after I broke up with her she said that she still wanted to be with me and I want to ...
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{ "description": "defending my parents", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for defending my parents?
My parents opened up a restaurant with my brother's in-laws (the wife's aunt and cousins). My parents provided the finances while the in-laws covered the cooking aspect. My parents let the in-laws design the whole restaurant and name it. It goes good for a month and a half, and then the in-laws just stop showing up for...
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{ "description": "being mad my girlfriend wont quit smoking", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being mad my girlfriend wont quit smoking
I started smoking 5 years ago. I was a pack a day smoker for a long time but recently decided to quit and switch to nicotine gum. I understand that it can be really hard to quit, this is at least my 10th time trying to put them down. The issue to me is that she never touched a cigarette in her life until shortly afte...
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{ "description": "always yelling back at my parents", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for always yelling back at my parents?
Info: I(F18) have very traditional, Asian parents. I have no freedom and I’m expected to do everything their way. My parents are always complaining about my appearance (hair, acne, skin) and how ugly I am. When I don’t do as well as others academically or in any activity they yell at me and say it’s my fault for not...
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{ "description": "not helping my so with her panic attacks", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not helping my SO with her panic attacks?
On mobile, sorry for any bad formatting For background, me and my girlfriend have been dating for over four years now. She always had periodic panic attacks, but they really ramped up once we started college. The problem is very obvious as to why she’s having these attacks, she absolutely overloads herself and refus...
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{ "description": "not letting him see his daughter", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting him see his daughter
Back in April of '18 I left him. We had been together for almost 4 years. Our daughter is 2 now. When I left I had to move to Arizona to stay with my mom and he stayed in California. I've always told him that I never want to be the kind of mom that would tell my childs father he couldnt be in the picture, and that he w...
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{ "description": "leaving home when my family might be evicted", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Leaving Home When My Family Might Be Evicted?
This will require a lot of context, and will likely be a long story. Context: Since I was 16 (currently 20, turning 21 in 2 months) I began to notice that my Mum isn't the best really. She takes care of us (my 2 older brothers and I), she loves us, etcetera but she seems to always be in a bad spot with money, relation...
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{ "description": "being frustrated and hurt bye wifes lack of communication", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being frustrated and hurt bye wifes lack of communication?
Hey reddit, my wife's communication has started to decline since she left for training. So some back story. My wife and I are both in the military. Last Aug she left for basic and after a few weeks home in Dec she left agian until April. We have two young kids and doing this by myself is obviously a challenge. I have ...
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{ "description": "yelling at a girl during a bonfire because she called my brother and myself stupid", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for yelling at a girl during a bonfire because she called my brother and myself stupid
Context: My younger brother (13) is a boy genius (knows the mathematics to put a satellite in space). His brain moves faster than his mouth and he has very intelligent thoughts and ideas. The only downside to this is that his brilliant mind never stops, which results in him talking a lot. Our family is also certain he ...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend doesn't deserve disability benefits", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking my friend doesn't deserve disability benefits?
TL;DR- friend uses his disability benefits $$$ to buy Gucci. AITA for thinking he doesn't deserve the money? Please excuse me for potentially being insensitive, if I'm saying something out of turn let me know and I will gladly change the wording. I'm super open to constructive criticism. So, I've been buddies and liv...
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{ "description": "going to a school dance with someone else because my current date has injured his leg to the point of surgery", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If i went to a school dance with someone else because my current date has injured his leg to the point of surgery?
First and foremost. The guy I'm going with is nothing romantic. He's in my group of friends at school. Brad (fake name) does gymnastics. He and the guys were filming something for a class. It was this short commercial video for a fake product. Basically Brad was running around school jumping over things and doing fli...
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{ "description": "choosing to name my son something my brother wants to name there child", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing to name my son something my brother wants to name there child.
Hello I'm having a little bit of a problem, my wife is 8 months pregnant and we have finally settled on a name for our son. We then find out that my older brother is angry about us using this name. My brother has recently had 2 miscarriages, (and is not currently pregnant) he was going to use this name after his fath...
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{ "description": "declining the invitation to a Christmas \"Family\" dinner from my mother, that suffers from cancer", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for declining the invitation to a Christmas „Family“ Dinner from my mother, that suffers from cancer?
For Context: My parents have been divorced for round about 5 years. I‘m currently 18 ( living at my mothers place ) so when they made said decision I was 13 and most of my teen-years were therefore heavily impacted by that. In these years both of my parents have equally tried, no clue whether or not intentionally, to r...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on the neighbor's kids", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the cops on the neighbor's kids
There is a open field right behind my house that people drive snowmobiles in, and I dont care about that. The problem comes on when the neighbor's kids (both of them are early teens and boys) drive a cross my lawn to get there, and you can get to this field from the street. I have repeatedly talked to the father and he...
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{ "description": "asking an unattended child to stop doodling on a cashier's paperwork", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking an unattended child to stop doodling on a cashier’s paperwork?
I am a bagger/cashier at $GroceryStore. While I was bagging, a child was at my friend’s register, which was closed for break. I kept an eye on them while I was bagging. After about 3 orders, I became concerned. She seemed to be alone, and she was doodling all over one of our notices, making it unreadable. I went over t...
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{ "description": "being upset about my father saying that he wants to exclude me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being upset about my father saying that he wants to exclude me?
I'm 14 (almost 15 at this point) and my parents visit a gothic rock convention every year. We own a caravan for cons that take over a day ( so weekend cons) or cons that are on the other side of the country. The caravan has a living room-ish area which can beconverted to beds, which is where my parents sleep, and an ex...
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{ "description": "being upset over the way my parents treated my ex", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset over the way my parents treated my ex?
So recently, my long time SO and I broke up. When we started dating she was my boyfriend, but she came out to me as trans. I really wanted to give it a try because I loved her- but we found we weren’t sexually compatible anymore, so instead of dragging the relationship out and resenting each other we decided to mutuall...
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{ "description": "wanting my best friend to work harder towards things they enjoy", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I want my best friend to work harder towards things they enjoy.
I’m a (18m) and my friend in question is also an (18m). Iv know him since the 7th grade we met playing online video games. At that time we both had the passion of playing together and “trolling” because that’s what you did when you were 12 on call of duty. He use to record YouTube videos of us prank calling and doing ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my boyfriend for being indecisive about living together", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed at my boyfriend for being indecisive about living together?
So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and we both live away from home while at university. This summer (starting in May), I have planned to stay in the town our school is in because I enjoy independence and would rather not live at home. I have been putting in a lot of effort searching for jobs for t...
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{ "description": "not waiting for a mother and her kid with intellectual disabilities when I was getting off a plane", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not waiting for a mother and her kid with intellectual disabilities when I was getting off a plane?
This happened many years ago and it bugs me to this day because I don't know if AITA and if I should handled this situation differently: I was travelling to Chicago for a conference, we landed and everyone got up to get off the plane. I was sitting in the isle seat and gathered my belongings and waited for my turn. T...
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{ "description": "lashing out at this Guy", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Lashing Out at This Guy?
This guy and I were dating for two weeks or so, but have known each other for longer. I felt he wasn’t always there for me in the past. He even straight-up ghosted me for 5 months over a disagreement. I guess that abandonment affected me more deeply than I’d like to admit. When we finally got together, my insecurities ...
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{ "description": "bullying a bully", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bullying a bully?
This happened on Thursday, I was at school doing rehearsals for our assessed drama performance and a guy known for making fun of people comments on our piece saying "You guys sound extremely gay". Me and my friend start saying things that he is always saying to other people, an example being "just look at you" which I ...
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{ "description": "having sex with a drunk girl", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for having sex with a drunk girl?
A friend of mine came over last weekend because she broke up with her bf and didn't have anywhere to go. I have a spare room and she asked if she could crash here for a day or two. I say yes and she comes over. After we spent some time talking about what happened I asked if she wanted a drink and her response was, "o...
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{ "description": "being pissed off that my friend didn't get me a bday present", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being pissed off that my friend didn't get me a bday present?
Throwaway; high school drama alert. This happened in our senior year of high school but it's basically ongoing. For my birthday, my friend of 9 years gave me a birthday card that essentially says "I'm sorry i can get you a present this year, I'll treat you sometime". Now, I am not one to complain about gifts and I was...
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{ "description": "not letting my sister borrow my new car", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my sister borrow my new car?
Context: My sister got her license when she turned 19 she is now 22 and has totalled 2 cars one of them being this past week. This week she has called me many many many names as I won't let her borrow my car. I just purchased this car 3 weeks ago, and with her history I told her I would not let her borrow my car to dri...
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{ "description": "not caring that her son died", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not caring that her son died?
(I grew up speaking french so I apologize for grammatical errors). When I was in high school, my sibling and I accidentally hit a car while we were backing out of our driveway. We went to our neighbors house to tell them what happened, but a woman we had never met before answered. We explain that we accidentally hit h...
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{ "description": "penning up someone's lost dog and leaving", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for penning up someone's lost dog and leaving?
My wife and I had a date planned with friends and, as we are leaving, we find two large dogs running around our yard. There's been some reports on Nextdoor of a similar dog missing North of us that no one can catch. We don't have a lot of time and Animal Control is closed. We have the choice to leave our gate open li...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to stop drinking entirely", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to stop drinking entirely?
Tl;dr at bottom of post. So I [26M] love my girlfriend [24F] and she’s awesome. Things are generally good between us. However, my girlfriend gets drunk 1-3 times per week every week, and honestly, I do NOT like drunk her. Sometimes dunk her is just annoying and unreasonable, and other times, drunk her is straight u...
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{ "description": "cutting off all my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off all my friends?
Backstory: I've been friends with some of these people since middle school, and we graduated high school together last year. Now my best friend since 7th grade is kind of the ringleader and is extremely stubborn and likes to avoid her problems, in addition to having extreme anxiety issues and doesn't get help for it (h...
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{ "description": "not wanting to continue a relationship with my parents", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to continue a relationship with my parents?
As a kid, I quickly learned that due to my mom's ultra strict Christianity and [infantilization](https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/general/the-causes-and-symptoms-of-infantilization/), I had to hide who I was to be able to have as close to a normal childhood I could. She would get upset with me the more clear it was I ...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend less time with my depressed best friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to spend less time with my depressed best friend?
I'm new to reddit and doing this mobile, but I would really like some advice (its kinda long) I am in my second semester of my 1st year at a University. As a music major, I am always in a classroom, working in the music lab, crying in practice room, or at rehearsal. I am very busy, so I value all my time I spend doing...
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{ "description": "having to tow someone from my spot", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA, I had to tow someone from my spot.
I'll try to keep it short... I come home to have lunch before I have to leave again for work. A car is parked in my spot that we (I have a girlfriend) pay for and I honk the horn hoping to get the person's attention. I wait for about 2 min and call the leasing office. I give them the plate number to see if they can c...
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{ "description": "not sympathizing with a friend whose fiance was arrested/may go to prison", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sympathizing with a friend whose fiance was arrested/may go to prison?
I have a close friend who I've known for two and a half years now. Her (21F) and I (20M) worked together for a while, but recently both changed jobs. We still work across the street from each other and live in neighbouring towns, so we see each other often. She's engaged to a man (23M) from Texas (we're from Canada). ...
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{ "description": "leaving a bathroom scale at my significant other's house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA if I left a bathroom scale at my significant other's house?
So I (28f) am very health minded and am attempting to gain more muscle and just be more fit. I've been weighing myself first thing daily, except for the days I sleepover at my BF's (30m) house. I suppose that I would like to weigh myself those mornings as well, except he has no scale.. There is room in his bathroom fo...
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{ "description": "asking this guy how tall he is", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking this guy how tall he is?
Not sure if I stepped in something here, or if this guy is a bit of a rough diamond, so if you'd care to judge... I met a guy for drinks at a trendy spot last night. We'd chatted on bumble first and I thought I'd sort of felt him out and judged him to be an easy-going and good-humored duded (maybe informative of why ...
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{ "description": "wanting to know when the medication for my sick kitten will arrive", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to know when the medication for my sick kitten will arrive?
I have a kitten that I foster through a rescue. She's had diarrhea that can get pretty bad, requiring daily baths as it gets on her legs and feet. I've been dealing with this for three months now. The rescue has spent hundreds on tests for this kitten at this clinic. Her vet decided to try this antibiotic that require...
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