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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my cousin's baby shower", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my cousin’s baby shower?
Okay, so I’m very close with my father’s side of the family, but not very close with my mother’s. My mother’s cousin is having a baby shower in April, and she really wants me to come. I told her I didn’t want to because I hardly know her, and she was really upset. She’s done this multiple other times when trying to bri...
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{ "description": "trying to fix my bike", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to fix my bike
Alright so here is the back story, I always ride my bike to school and it's a nearly 24km ride there so I don't pay full attention the whole ride, Because it snowed that day the roads were kind of slippery. when I tried to take a sharp turn I fell, I was alright because the snow kind of softened my fall but my bikes l...
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{ "description": "saying feminism is not needed in modern days society", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for saying feminism is not needed in modern days society?
So basically my sister was talking about how women are so oppressed and that they need more rights but I said that men and women have equal rights and feminism is not needed. She got really mad after I said that saying that I am a big asshole and a sexist asshole. So reddit am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "not letting my 14 year old sister befriend a 20 year old man", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my 14 year old sister befriend a 20 year old man?
Hello, I am a 19 year old married to a 20 year old. We had taken in my 14 year old sister from my unfit mother and parenting has been hard. My husband was raised as basically 'do whatever you wanted'. His mother let him do anything he wanted whenever. However I was raised kinda like normal kids with restrictions. A...
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{ "description": "making my friend change the date for a kickback on the friends he invited", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my friend change the date for a kickback on the friends he invited?
As college students, me and my group of friends were trying to set up a kickback in our large-ish room. Most of us had never gotten drunk with each other and wanted to do it with people we were good friends with. Just a few buds, ready to see what we are all like buzzed. However, one of my 3 roommates just said this th...
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{ "description": "kicking my boyfriend out", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for kicking my boyfriend out?
I live with my sister and her boyfriend (our names are on the lease). My boyfriend and I have broken up at least ten times throughout the course of our relationship so he’s been in and out for about a year. Today was the final straw though. He’s always been mentally, verbally and physically abusive - but only when he d...
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{ "description": "telling off this girl", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling off this girl?
I fucked up. I realize I’m the asshole, but I’ll tell this story anyway. I’ve known this girl for awhile. We’re in the same class, but don’t know each other well at all. I would call us acquaintances with some mutual friends until I hung out with her. I was meeting with a friend at his place and she was there. We h...
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{ "description": "not wanting him to meet my parents", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting him to meet my parents?
Ive been friends with benefits with this guy for over a year. Lately we’ve been a little more romantic. This semester hes living with his parents and going to school out there. This weekend I drove almost 2 hours to see him and meet his parents. They were very kind and I had a great time. I talk about my parents (most...
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{ "description": "requesting that my roommate be quiet", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for requesting that my roommate be quiet?
So I'm a student at university and I share a closet-sized room with another person. I always study in my room, because the library isn't close to where I live. This has worked out because my roommate usually goes to the library to study. I also have pretty severe ADHD, so I have tried going to the library but I can't g...
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{ "description": "wanting to quit working together with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to quit working together with my boyfriend
Hey all, my boyfriend and I talked about this yesterday. According to him I get attached and emotional over things that are slightly stupid. So here's the story. I met my boyfriend in April last year. We talked for a while on a dating site and very soon the fact that he was one of the leaders of a project came up. The...
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{ "description": "thinking my gf is overreacting about me looking at old friend's profiles on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my gf is overreacting about me looking at old friend's profiles on Facebook
So my long term gf went through my phone which I don't care and went on my FB account and asked who these girls were on my search history. I told her they were old college friends that I was curious about what they were up to. I have not had any kind of relationships with them. Now she's mad at me and will barely talk ...
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{ "description": "telling my S/o that she doesn't understand what being \"poor\" is", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA telling my S/O that she doesn’t understand what being “poor” is?
First a little background on this. My S/O and I have been together for 2+ years and are very happy together, but we have our differences. The main one is our personal and families financial backgrounds. She grew up in an middle-upper middle class suburb, parents both had stable jobs and money really wasn’t ever a worry...
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{ "description": "lying to my friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for lying to my friends?
I tend to lie to my friends a lot. Just because it's easier. I'll ignore all calls and texts for a week and then lie and say my phone was being was repaired. Or some excuse of the kind. I go through phases where I feel like isolating myself completely and just staying home. Usually when I'm upset. My relationship with...
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{ "description": "not liking all of my SO's Instagram posts", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not liking all of my SO's Instagram posts?
She is always asking me to like her photos but I think if you like everything, then you like nothing. She says I should like all of them to let her (and others) know that I support her. I might just delete Instagram all together.
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to go out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to go out?
Hello, I asked my girlfriend (of 8 months) to come out with me and my friends tonight to celebrate my friends birthday. As she's had a busy week at work and a stressful week due to her room at her dormitory being repaired due to water damage, she said that she would stay in tonight. Later on she told me that she had...
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{ "description": "not helping my friend move", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I don’t help my friend move?
I’ve helped people move in the past, multiple times. It’s the worst experience ever especially in Florida weather. The last time I helped someone move it started pouring and we still had to finish the job. Point is, I hate moving. My buddy just asked me if I could help him move some stuff he can’t move on his own. I...
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AITA in how my relationship ended?
My fiancée left me today and i just want to know if I handled our situation well. I made a previous post on this subreddit in regards to my clinical depression and how it's been affecting me and the people around me. The short rundown of it is that I've been feeling guilty about not doing enough for everybody, despite ...
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{ "description": "splitting the internet bill", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA splitting the internet bill
So my roomate when out of town for work voluntarily. Hes been gone for the last month. Am I an asshole to still ask for his half of the bill even though he has been gone? I would still pay my half if I went out of town because that was the agreement.
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{ "description": "throwing away a large order of meat and cheese that my mother left out for 3 hours", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for throwing away a large order of meat and cheese that my mother left out for 3 hours?
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{ "description": "using the unfiltered utterances of my narcissistic and now dementia-ridden mother to understand and heal my own ctpsd", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using the unfiltered utterances of my narcissistic and now dementia-ridden mother to understand and heal my own CTPSD?
As the title says my mother who is nearly 80 is suffering from dementia. I feel deeply sorry for the physical limitations and the mental pain this is causing her. I try to spend more time with my parents now than I used to in the past, but I live 1000 miles away and have two jobs so this is not easy and limited to 3 we...
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{ "description": "explaining to a vegan activist exactly why Im not vegan", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for explaining to a vegan activist exactly why im not vegan?
Anonymous for the voiceless (Google them) were doing one of their protests in my city recently, and since I had time to kill before my train arrived I stopped to investigate. One of the protestors struck up a conversation with me, and for the most part she seemed pretty chill. She talked about how we exploit farm anim...
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{ "description": "not letting my dog interact with some stranger's dogs at the brewery", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not letting my dog interact with some stranger's dogs at the brewery?
I was at a brewery last night and my dog was just laying under the table relaxing. Some lady walks her two huskies from across the place and around a partition over towards our table. When I saw her coming, I got up and stood in the way of her dogs and waited for her to catch up to them because they were on bungie leas...
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{ "description": "telling coworker I won't drive him anymore with no notice", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I tell coworker I won't drive him anymore with no notice.
I've been driving a co worker to work for the past 6 months, he pays me 20$ every two weeks to drive him. We both started working at this place at the exact same time, and in that time I have bought myself a motorcycle and a car. He's done nothing for himself but smoke a ton of weed and call in sick 2-3 times a week. ...
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{ "description": "wanting my wife to eat my vegetarian cooking", "pronormative_score": 56, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for wanting my wife to eat my vegetarian cooking?
A couple months ago I decided to become vegetarian, but my wife still eats meat and thats fine to me. I do most of the cooking and so I always cook vegetarian meals. My wife likes the vegetarian food but wants me to cook some non vegetarian food for her aswell sometimes. For example when I cook meat free sausages she w...
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{ "description": "not feeling sorry about a meme I sent to a friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not feeling sorry about a meme I sent to a friend?
I'll go ahead and give some background before I start. I'm in my sophomore year of college and am in a pretty big organization on campus that organizes fun campus-wide events for students. The organization is pretty exclusive and is capped at 80 members at any time, and we're all in one big group chat that is very acti...
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{ "description": "trying to save a young girl from her abusive father", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for trying to save a young girl from her abusive father?
Hi everyone, I live in a cul de sac neighborhood where everyone knows each other, except for one creepy weird man (who I have long suspected is a child molester) who lives alone with his small daughter (7ish years old). This guy doesn’t talk to anyone. Never comes to any of our neighborhood get-togethers. Never smiles...
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{ "description": "not indulging my wife's insecurities every time", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not indulging my wife's insecurities every time?
My wife of 14 years likes to become sentimental and say things like, "You know I always look at you and think, 'Damn, he's good looking'. Do you ever think the same thing about me?" I say, "Of course I think that." Then she asks me to tell her examples of when I've thought it. Usually I sit there, racking my brain to c...
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{ "description": "taking away my boyfriends access to the Netflix DVD plan and telling him he longer gets an input of what is ordered", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for taking away my boyfriends access to the Netflix DVD plan and telling him he longer gets an input of what is ordered?
Context: Boyfriend an I live together. I pay for the following: Netflix The additional DVD plan Amazon Prime 3 additional prime channels, one of them being HBO which is an extra $15 a month, because HE wanted it for Game of Thrones. I’ve had the DVD plan for 6 months. He and I both really enjoy horror films, and w...
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EVERYBODY
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{ "description": "hating children", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating children?
At every family gathering ever, when around children, I've been sitting on my phone looking at Reddit or listening to music. This child then (usually) proceeds to stare at me like a child does, then trips and gets hurt. After the kid gets hurt they run to their parents crying and for some reason says I hurt them, prob...
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{ "description": "not inviting my dad to my hs graduation", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For not inviting my dad to my HS graduation
My parents divorced back when I was 14. My mom told me she was cheated on by my dad and it was a final straw, so they ended it. I wasn't too affected by this at first. I just remember being hurt about the lack of time he spent with us. He would rarely see us once every two months, and the one time he had Christmas with...
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{ "description": "thinking the okay sign near the groin is not racist", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for thinking the okay sign near the groin is not racist?
Obligatory apology for formatting, I’m on mobile. So for context my sister is passionate about politics, she leans left, and always advocates for me to get involved in voting and stuff like that. She keeps up with a lot of political news, and all that jazz. I lean left, but am not as involved in politics as her. Ever...
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{ "description": "telling my sister she's never felt like a sister to me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For telling my sister she's never felt like a sister to me.
I've been fighting with my sister a lot over simple and also major things recently. She's is 22 and i'm 17 I have on many occasions yelled at her and gotten into pretty nasty fights. One such fight was when she wouldn't move her car so I could go meet a friend (the minivan I drive was blocked in by her car), and I had...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "telling my Sister not to give up guardianship of our Dad", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my Sister not to give up guardianship of our Dad
To start off I have a bad relationship my Dad and have had near zero contact with him since he and my Mom divorced when i was in my early teens(im 34 now) But he has been in a bad way for a couple of years and my sister was given guardianship over him. A couple of weeks ago, my Aunts started coming out of the woodwork ...
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{ "description": "banning family members who have traveled to New Zealand from seeing my newborn baby", "pronormative_score": 150, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I banned family members who have traveled to New Zealand from seeing my newborn baby?
First of all, I’d admit that thanks to having an autoimmune that went undiagnosed for 27 years, I know I can be paranoid about catching diseases because I’ve always gotten the worst case scenarios health-wise. My parents recently became very mistrustful of medical information after they discovered the anti-vaxx movem...
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{ "description": "secretly hoping that I'm sterile so I don't have to reproduce", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 89 }
AITA for secretly hoping that I’m sterile so I don’t have to reproduce
Me and my fiancé have been trying for a child for a year and a half. Thing is, I’ve never wanted to give birth. The thought alone terrifies me. I really want a child at some point but I want to adopt, I’ve always knew that since I was a child. My fiancé, on the other hand, says he wants to raise his own child that look...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not wanting partner's sister's boyfriend at our wedding", "pronormative_score": 112, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not wanting partner's sister's boyfriend at our wedding?
Actually it's more AWTAs for not wanting him there. My girlfriend and I are getting married in May. We're having a very small, informal wedding. It's maybe one step up from eloping. We'll have personal friends, my Mom, Dad, brother, brother's fiance, my girlfriend's Mom, and her sister. Altogether, less than 15 people,...
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{ "description": "constantly asking my mom for privacy", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for constantly asking my mom for privacy
Hello, im a 13 yo male with a single mother I've been asking her for many months to not look in my phone cause i really do not like her doing so, as it builds up my anxiety etc. (Which she deemed as something i made up to make people feel guilty if they said something to me) I use discord to talk with a few chill peo...
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{ "description": "taking someone's laundry out after waiting for several minutes I use a machine", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For taking someone’s laundry out after waiting for several minutes I use a machine.
Both machines have wet, clean clothes in them. I’m sitting here waiting to use a machine but my gf says it’s a dick move. What do you guys think?
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{ "description": "being proud of my promotion. while my friend/colleague hasn't had there's yet", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA, for being proud of my promotion. While my friend/colleague hasn't had there's yet?
On phone, so sorry for formatting. I recently got a promotion from work, going up from employee to supervisor. I'm technically now bar manager at my work place, and i personal believe I deserve it. I worked hard for 18 months for it and im proud off myself. Now tbh I've been a bit of a boast about it, only because I'...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go see my sos family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go see my SOs family?
My SO and I have been living with my family for around a year now. Before that, we went on a holiday for a while with her family but both her and me ended up coming back home because of her family drama, especially her dad. Her dad is a complete and utter abusive asshole who has physically and mentally abused both my g...
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{ "description": "no longer being the godfather", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for no longer being the godfather
Friday a guy messaged my best friend (the father of my “godson”) on facebook and let him know that he had sex twice with his “babymama” around the time the child was conceived and that she ignored him when he asked for a dna test. When we looked at pictures of the guy it was obvious that he was the father of the child...
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AITA? friend gets mad at me for blocking them after i had warned them several times not to send me lewd art
ok so, this is my first reddit story but i wanted to share this somewhere. i've been friends with a person for a few years now, and they're alright. however, they are a little... how should i put this.... a little unruly, stuff like smoking paper and cigarettes, underaged drinking and openly discussing how they'd li...
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{ "description": "taking a coworker to HR and getting them in trouble", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a coworker to HR and getting them in trouble
I work for a large company in an office of around 600-700 people. Being a very corporate environment, most of the time politics is a sort of off-limits topic. Over the last 2-3 months my desk mates who sit near me (two women in their late 20s) have started to listen to a feminist podcast. They talk about this podcast a...
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{ "description": "cancelling dinner plans on my 18th birthday", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for cancelling dinner plans on my 18th birthday?
Hey guys. This is my first post on AITA, and I came here because I can’t figure out if I’m the asshole in my upcoming story. So for my 18th birthday, I had plans to go to brunch with my family at an upscale restaurant in a nearby city. These plans were cancelled because my twin brother had a last minute party the nigh...
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{ "description": "telling my gf this is a lie", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my gf this is a lie
We were having a casual chat about whatever and it came to answering the door to random people. She said she mostly never answers the door, which i knew immediately as bullshit as she always answers the door. I tell her that I know she always answers, and she thinks for a bit and says she does, and that she was just th...
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{ "description": "not maintaining a relationship with my birth mother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not maintaining a relationship with my birth mother?
I am adopted. I've always known & don't recall a time when I didn't. I also never had any real urge to seek out my birth parents. My parents are awesome, my extended family loving. It just never came up. My family was my family & I was cool with that. Fast forward to 2000ish. I'm in college on Long Island and...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to talk to his ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to talk to his ex
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now but before we were together he had a girlfriend for about 2 years and from what he’s told me she didn’t treat him very well and while he’s admitted he wasn’t great to her either (not abusive just neither had a lot of trust for the other and both had very high expectations) I’...
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AITA - Adults should be able to do group projects!?
Okay..so I will write the extended version and include a TL:DR at the end. I am in the last year of my grad program for counseling. I am taking a trauma class and we are supposed to co-present a chapter with a partner picked by the teacher. As I am in the process of moving I reached out to my partner six weeks before ...
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{ "description": "calling my mother racist", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my mother racist?
A bit of backstory: I live at home still, with my girlfriend, and for a while we have endured listening to my mother saying incredibly racist remarks such as that she would never date Asians, saying Aboriginal Australians should “piss off” to the desert, Anyway, so just over two weeks ago we were out for a birthday d...
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{ "description": "letting my brother go bankrupt", "pronormative_score": 57, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my brother go bankrupt?
My siblings and I had kind of a traumatic childhood. After the last of our parents died, we stopped speaking much. I have a brother (48) and a sister (43). My older brother was always very aloof about how well he was doing. He went to a good college and got a high paying job and for years he made more than me while I...
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{ "description": "wanting my gf to cook for me Daily", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA For Wanting My GF to Cook for Me Daily?
We're both 22, and I have my own place. She moved in about 6 months ago and she's in grad school so basically has no money. So We agreed that she could live with me rent/utility free if she'd pack me a lunch everyday for work and she'd make dinner nightly and we'd go out 1-2 days a week for dates. We rotate cleaning, ...
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{ "description": "quitting my job with two weeks notice even though I know months ahead of time that I will have to leave", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I quit my job with two weeks notice even though I know months ahead of time that I will have to leave?
So I graduated last May and have been working full time at this job since September. It’s in a very busy, very under staffed doctors office where the owners act like we are disposable. 6 people have been fired since I started, most over very minor things. We walk on eggshells. I am currently trying very hard to get int...
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{ "description": "totally ghosting", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for totally ghosting?
So basically this girl is in town, I met her while traveling and now she is in the country I’m currently living. She had really early flights to get her like red eyes but she landed and we made plans to meet for dinner. We had been talking on messenger a bunch and really connected, she actually is rly nice and cool. An...
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{ "description": "being a little miffed that a girl I'm seeing wouldn't come to the door to get something I'm dropping off for her", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being a little miffed that a girl I'm seeing wouldn't come to the door to get something I'm dropping off for her
Long story short, we had a bit of an accident the other night and I was using my lunch break to go pick up and then drop off some Plan B because she's had a shit couple of days(got suspended from work, could lose her pharm tech license, not really feeling so great because she finally started taking her meds again, lots...
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{ "description": "getting very angry about my husband's mistrust", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting very angry about my husband's mistrust?
Okay so loooooong story short. Two years ago on December 13 I discovered that my husband had been cheating for 4 years with a total of 8 different women. We have three kids and a life I mostly love and I love him as well so I made the decision to work through it and build a new marriage. We did intensive therapy, he di...
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{ "description": "telling my mom that she should not take my sister to a trip to Los Angeles", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom that she should not take my sister to a trip to Los Angeles?
So this is my first post ever, and english is not my mative language, so sorry in advance. Background: Some time ago, my 16 year old sister (S) created a fandom account, after that, she started uploading videos to YouTube and she has done really well, her videos have views and now she has like 23k subs. She likes to ...
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{ "description": "defending my sister against my mom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for defending my sister against my mom?
My family is going on vacation in a few months. My sister+BIL are paying for themselves, my mom offered to pay for me. I thanked her numerous times. Yesterday, my mom sent me flight info. I was at work so I didn't really look at it. My mom texted me: > Mom: Did you get my email? Me: About the trip? Yeah Mom: ...
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{ "description": "telling my mother/landlord that Im not comfortable with her offering people she knows the spare room in my apartment", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mother/landlord that Im not comfortable with her offering people she knows the spare room in my apartment.
Throwaway: Back story: My mother came into a lot of money when i was around 12 and didn't do anything with it, when i got older myself and my brother told her to invest this money as its doing nothing sitting in a bank account, she bought an apartment, and living/going to college in the same city, she offered me and m...
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{ "description": "refusing to be involved in a family argument not involving me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to be involved in a family argument not involving me?
For context, this happened around 1-2 years ago and we've made up since long ago. But, I've always keep wondering if I was the asshole here. ​ My brother got caught by my parents with weed. This lead to a big verbal fight between him and my parents for several days. However, my parents (especially mom) wer...
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{ "description": "telling my mom I have homicidal thoughts and urges", "pronormative_score": 40, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For telling my mom I have homicidal thoughts and urges.
I am a man in my 20s, and I have been struggling with homicidal thoughts my entire life. I have never told anyone this. Besides a few fights i have never acted on my impulses. I love my mom more than anyone in my life, and we can usually tell eachother anything. Recently my thoughts have been more specific. Ive been i...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play computer games with my cousin", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to play computer games with my cousin?
So, I am 16 and my cousin is about 12. About a year or so ago we used to play a lot of TF2 and Minecraft together via Discord, but at some point the other things in life got in my way, and I just felt too tired to talk to him in general most of the time. He has much more energy than I do, it seems, and so is much more ...
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{ "description": "hating my stepfamily, especially my 11-year-old stepsister", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating my stepfamily, especially my 11-year-old stepsister?
Okay, I really am going to regret this later. Let me set the stage. I am 17 years old and I have divorced parents. I go one week with mom, one week with dad. I absolutely love my mom. We've had our rough patches, but we're close through and through. My dad is okay. He cheated on my mom, causing the divorce. He marri...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to join my phone plan", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I want my husband to join my phone plan?
So before me and my husband got married we were on separate phone plans. I had my own and he was on his mom's with his dad and sister. He never paid his bill, his mom did. His argument before we were married was it saves him money and we're not married yet. I thought that was funny that a 30 something yr old still had ...
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{ "description": "telling my bf to remove a former fuck buddy from his friends list", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for telling my bf to remove a former fuck buddy from his friends list?
My bf isn't a redditor but we sometimes scroll through this sub together, so if he happens to be reading this... Hi M... ​ We got into a big fight over some chick who he told me was a former casual sex partner. He told me they weren't even friends, they would do things then she would leave right after. He ...
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{ "description": "wanting more initiative and work from my wife", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting more initiative and work from my wife?
Long story short: Wife and I have two special needs children, and I used to be in the military until I was separated due to not making rank twice. Our medical benefits and ABA homecare that was so critical to our two kids evaporated six month later and we lost all help regarding our children. Life has slowly deterior...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from my helicopter parents", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for distancing myself from my helicopter parents?
Hello everyone! This is my first time posting in this subreddit so sorry if this isn't the correct formatting. I'm Aria and I'm 17, and in 8 days I'm moving to a university dormitory on my own on the other side of the country. I've never really clicked with my parents, and I decided that now would be the best time to n...
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{ "description": "\"body shaming\" a \"friend\" of my wife and wanting to get the money back", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for "body shaming" a "friend" of my wife and wanting to get the money back?
Title should actually be "Are We The Assholes" because my wife and myself are involved in it the same way. Cutting half the backstory, since I hit the character limit hard lol. Wife's (F)riend makes poor life choices, asks to stay with us for few days, we agree, wife's a cosplayer, has closet full of costumes and pro...
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{ "description": "defending myself against a perceived negative comment from someone I haven't talked to in almost a year", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for defending myself against a perceived negative comment from someone I haven’t talked to in almost a year?
The backstory for this post is a little muddled, but the jist is that this dude and I have known each other since freshman year of high school. We go through high school with some minor hitches, but ultimately come out as friends. I gradually distance myself away from him, however, because he repeatedly shows himself ...
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{ "description": "kicking a dog", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA If I kicked a dog?
Almost every morning this dog charges me and scrapes, slobbers on and gets dirt on my trousers. It's become a game for it. It's happened at least 20 times. The owner, a single mother of two I think, has apologised but refuses to keep the dog inside when she's out dropping the kids to school. The police laugh it off. ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my boyfriend didn't tell me to not go over", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset that my boyfriend didn’t tell me to NOT go over?
TLDR at the bottom Context: been together approx 2 years. VERY stable and healthy relationship (imagine at worst a cold shoulder followed by hugs in a few hours, never any “fights” only discussions). Both in our mid-20s. My parents left on a trip for the first time since i was born. He is one of the main caretakers o...
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{ "description": "pushing my grandmother when she stood behind the wall and pushed me/scared me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pushing my grandmother when she stood behind the wall and pushed me/scared me ?
So last night I am sitting behind a couch next to where my grandmother sleeps. I was playing with my dog and when I attempted to get up , I slightly fell and hit the couch( barely made any noise ). I go to talk to my mother in the kitchen . A few minutes later I am going back to my grandmas room and she pushed/grabbed...
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{ "description": "kicking my friends/roommates sister off our Hulu account", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for kicking my friends/roommates sister off our Hulu account
My roommate and I share a Hulu account that we each pay $6/month for. My friend added a profile for his sister to use. She doesn’t contribute to the account because in my friends reasoning “she’s 14 and has no job and no money”. I wouldn’t have a problem but the thing is, Hulu only lets 2 videos play on an account ...
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{ "description": "asking my landlord to fix damages left by the previous tenant before he got his deposit back", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my landlord to fix damages left by the previous tenant before he got his deposit back?
I just moved into a room in a house of five total people, all in their twenties. The guy who was in my room before me had been there for over seven years and is moving to another part of the city. All of the other roommates are good friends with him. The guy asked me before I moved in if I wanted him to leave any of t...
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{ "description": "hanging out with office colleagues instead of going out with girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hanging out with office colleagues instead of going out with girlfriend?
Few days ago my colleagues planned a Sunday outing and I was in. My girlfriend was out of town and returned on the same day and I wanted to meet her too. So on Friday I told my girlfriend about this conflict in schedules and asked her to let me know if it's possible for her to meet me on same day since she'd be tired ...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my so", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting angry at my SO
My SO (M) and I are normally very close and have been so for about a year. We have no trust issues borrowing each other’s phones and know each other’s passcodes. I didn’t intend to snoop around, but I found he had a Tinder account today on accident when I was borrowing his phone. I shouldn’t have been on his phone, b...
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{ "description": "spending time with my friend's ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for spending time with my friend's ex?
Buckle up folks, because this is going to get confusing. Okay, there are five main players here including myself. My friend whose ex is in question (we'll call her Steph), the ex (we'll call him John), me, and two of my best friends (we'll call them Jane and Bev). Steph and John have been on-again, off-again for around...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be in my half siblings life after our father left them", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to be in my half siblings life after our father left them?
My father had an affair with my mother and I'm his first born. He stayed with his wife and had two children, a boy Les and a girl Em. He had very little contact with me and I've never spent one-on-one time with him, only with him and his family a hand full of times. I was raised by my uncle and grandmother and had didn...
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{ "description": "putting £5000 into my girlfriends bank account", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA for putting £5000 into my girlfriends bank account?
We've been together for 8 months. I'm very lucky and was born into quite a wealthy family and now work part time for the family business - earning around 65k per annum. I'm 20. My girlfriend is 21 and came from quite a poor family. She works like 70 hours a week in order to pay for her flat and education. She only ea...
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{ "description": "cancelling my plans with friends this weekend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cancelling my plans with friends this weekend?
Hello all, I am having an issue with one of my friends (Lets call him Dave) and thought I'd see if I am handling this properly. To start I am quite upset and have decided that I will not be attending an event this weekend that we have planned awhile ago. What happened: Two weeks ago Dave invited two of his friends...
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{ "description": "freezing my guests", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for freezing my guests?
To put it simply, I get hot VERY easily. I get so hot that I start to feel ill, sweat profusely, and have trouble thinking clearly. I am not sure why, but I have always been like this. My girlfriend I keep our house around 65 degrees because that is honestly the max temperature I can tolerate. I'm really not exaggerati...
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{ "description": "telling my wife she was \"cuntfused\"", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 77 }
AITA for telling my wife she was “cuntfused”
Hear me out on this one obviously the title sounds bad. I was on vacation with my wife and a pair of friends in Switzerland. We were on a train together and the topic of mansplaining came up. My wife and our female friend thought mansplaining was a fair term and that me and my male friend were chronic “mansplainers”....
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{ "description": "being annoyed someone spoiled something", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed someone spoiled something? (WARNING, Dororo manga spoilers ahead!)
Before you read, if you are currently watching the Dororo anime and don't want it spoiled like I was do not proceed! ​ So basically I made a meme on the r/Dororo subreddit that gained a bit of attention, in the comments someone decided to post a spoiler but apparently they only suggested it could happen. T...
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{ "description": "refusing to oay my ex child support", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 362 }
AITA for refusing to oay my ex child support?
Hey guys. Please hear me out before making a judgement - I know it sounds awful. I was with my ex girlfriend (I'm a girl too) for 8 years. In the last year, we had a baby. It was a mutual thing but she carried the baby, etc. I was never too sure about having kids until recently and I decided I'd love to have a fami...
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AITA? Neighbor and Fallen Trees
I live in a state where if a tree falls on your property it's your problem. It doesn't matter if the tree belongs to a neighbor. Last year my neighbor's GIANT (70+ feet) tree fell. It smashed my fence, messed up my new (6 month old) siding, and punched a few holes in my new 1 year old roof (new plywood, etc.. complete...
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{ "description": "injuring someone and feeling angry at her", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for injuring someone and feeling angry at her?
for a little bit of background, we were practicing in our concert band. I was running across the room when i really shouldn't have been, and i wasn't looking where I was going. She was sitting, and i stepped directly on her ankle, twisting it as i fell over. I was fine, but she was clearly in a lot of pain, and she sta...
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{ "description": "being mad at my psychology class for changing an exam date", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being mad at my psychology class for changing an exam date?
We would have had one of our exams for psychology tomorrow; however, the date was pushed one week back, which was discussed on a group chat I have with the members of my psych class (we're only 11, so it's not that many). When I read through it, their reasons for changing the psych exam were: 1) We haven't had time to ...
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{ "description": "confronting my girlfriends roommate about her animal neglect", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for confronting my girlfriends roommate about her animal neglect?
Original r/Advice post [here.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/amxzba/how_can_i_address_potential_animal_neglect_with_a/) ​ I'll provide a quick synopsis for those not willing to read the whole thing. We'll call her Karen got a dog this past May. She was great at feeding him, taking him out for ...
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AITA: Newlywed husband (32M) wanted to wait til marriage for sex and just surprised me (27F) with micropenis on the honeymoon.
So, we only dated for six months. We've been engaged for another six and just got married on Saturday. I literally just got back from my honeymoon a couple hours ago. My husband isn't a religious guy, he just says he is "old fashioned like that." We got close to fooling around a couple times but it never went far. I tr...
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AITA: Walked out on dinner plans with friends
We planned to go out with dinner with another couple. When my wife and I arrived at the extremely crowded restaurant with about an hour wait, our friends texted us. They said that they would be there in about an hour and to look for their cousin (whom we didn't know) and get seats for six. They've pulled this stunt be...
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{ "description": "referring to myself as fat when around other, fatter people", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for referring to myself as fat when around other, fatter people?
I work in a casual environment where people spend a lot of time blowing off steam, chatting, taking a few minutes to watch a YouTube video, etc. Swearing a little here and there is perfectly accepted, so long as you're not going off and screaming obscenities at clients and the like. Because I work in a place in the M...
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{ "description": "being salty about my aunt not pitching in for my graduation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being salty about my aunt not pitching in for my graduation?
I know how entitled that sounds, but hear me out. I don't live in the US, but all my paternal family does and throughout my childhood they've made me understand they have a better income than my family does, and they resent my father for not moving away with them (he'd the 'doctor of the fsmily'), so they don't speak...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my best friends destination wedding", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my best friends destination wedding?
Throwaway account, blah blah My best friend is getting married, and he let us all know that his wedding is less than a year away - 11 months, but it's in Italy. I'm not super tight with his wife, she's fine, she just has never really cared to get to know any of his friends in a real or meaningful way. I've tried ha...
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{ "description": "raising my voice at one of my roommates", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for raising my voice at one of my roommates?
Obligatory on mobile and English is not my first language. For context: We were talking about problems in the appartement. Things were getting a bit heated and I tried to say something and say my personal opinion on the matter. My roommate interrupted me multiple times so I said in a sharp voice: "Will you let me...
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{ "description": "not doing the dishes when I am the only one here", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA, for not doing the dishes when I am the only one here?
AITA, I live in our University's nicer housing option which comes with a full kitchen. We have dishes we all share together, and we are pretty chill about dishes being dirty or let out. If this happens three of us will talk and decide who should do them, but our fourth roommate is different. At college I feel like w...
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{ "description": "calling my coworker immature", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my coworker immature
Me and my coworker are friends outside of work and we sometimes hangout when we both have days off at the same time. She recently said shes looking for a new job but that when she does find a new job she's not actually going to quit. She's just going to be a no call no show and never come back with no prior warning. I ...
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{ "description": "disliking unjustly successful people", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for disliking unjustly successful people?
I mean there is an argument to be made if anyone can be unjustly successful so no debates on success needing to be justified and even if they can be just or unjust the determination of that would be opinion so with those aside. I flat out feel predisposed to really dislike someone for being unjustly successful. I can'...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend, due to me buying or not buying things for myself", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend, due to me buying or not buying things for myself?
So, TL;DR; in the end. I plan on moving out this year and save money for that. Though, I still spend a bit on hobbies, etc. cause it's still some time till I move out. Recently, I talked to a friend of mine about all kind of that (new kitchen, couch, etc.) and kinda went offtopic to a hobby of mine: Bowling. So you s...
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{ "description": "writing hurtful things about my best friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for writing hurtful things about my best friend?
Title is a bit misleading, but accurate nontheless. ​ Recently me and my best friend, who we'll refer to as J, have been going through some problems. Girls, grades, a bunch of bullshit that would have probably blown over within the next month or so. We are both at college, and we room together on campus. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date a girl who isn't exactly my type who I dated before and had a falling out with", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to date a girl who isn’t exactly my type who I dated before and had a falling out with
Lowkey scared of posting in here cuz posts like these usually tend to lean to YTA (if you guys decide it, totally understand; Kinda feel like an asshole for it but I’m not 100% of that mindset). I hope the title isn’t misleading since I’d rather get more into it in the post itself. Also TLDR-ish summary at the bottom ...
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{ "description": "blowing off my workmates \"religious\" request", "pronormative_score": 239, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for blowing off my workmates “religious” request.
I work in a very intense environment, with 12 staff. I’m the direct supervisor of 4 of those staff. All staff, bar one, are white-anglo. The other staff member is Syrian and Muslim. Let’s call her Zara. I am her direct supervisor. Generally I think we’re pretty mindful. We always order halal food, and organise to go ...
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