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{ "description": "not tipping the waiter", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For not tipping the waiter?
Me and my family were out for dinner at a pretty pricey Latin American steak place. We go there somewhat regularly and usually have great service. The same is true until about halfway through the meal. Our waiter's (who has served us in the past and done a good job) family came for dinner at the restaurant an...
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Ok, so, theres this old lady at work. I work at an aerosol can filling and packing warehouse. Its demanding work and shes like 90. But anyway. Today at work, I was putting labels on spray paint caps and I dropped the used roll on the ground. She fucking loads her leg back and kicks the shit out of the paper I put on th...
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{ "description": "having my roommates evicted", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for having my roommates evicted?
Long story short: We had an amazing deal ($500 each in a gated Los Angeles house with a backyard pool.) Three of us were living in the house. One roommate we'll call Tina is from Florida and \*demands\* running the AC when it's above 70 degrees outside. She refuses for open windows, and says she'll cover the extra cost...
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{ "description": "not giving a giveaway winner his prize", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not giving a giveaway winner his prize?
In a rush, sorry if this is all scrambled up, if you need more info let me know :) ​ So I host a daily giveaways community. We do a lot of video game giveaways, and we always have at least one daily giveaway which is completely free. Meaning people only have to click to enter and that's it. ​ ...
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{ "description": "talking about my online gaming friend's cheats on group chat, making others talk shit about him", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for talking about my online gaming friend's cheats on group chat, making others talk shit about him?
I play this game called Far Cry 5 on my PC. It's made by Ubisoft, came out in early 2018 so almost an entire year ago, and is mostly solo-player and co-op with some player-vs-player, too. Through the game and UPlay, Ubi's own client similar to Valve's Steam, I made this friend, "Mr. Z", who's from the other side of the...
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{ "description": "wanting to break away from dependency from my mother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to break away from dependency from my mother
This is going to be a long one and throwaway acc \~ Backstory: Since a kid I was always sheltered and my decisions were always made for me. I didn't really have much say as a child due to my mom taking both roles as a mom and dad. She raised us very well but something that has always made me explode quicker than anyt...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my Boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my Boyfriend?
So, I recently got a thread lift done for my nose, it has swell down considerably but if I were to accidentally hit my nose or something, it would hurt because it’s bruising on the inside. 2-3 days ago, bf and I went out together for dinner. Bf always has been a little rough with his teasing and he accidentally hit m...
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{ "description": "confronting my friend on a character he made for a roleplay", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for confronting my friend on a character he made for a roleplay?
Basically, one of my friends, who I'll refer to as Dylan, is really into roleplaying on the internet, specifically sexual roleplay. I don't judge him, different strokes for different folks, all that. He's previously told me about his account on a specific website, he's shown me his roleplays there, etc. Basically, the ...
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{ "description": "checking my boyfriend is actually looking for jobs", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for checking my boyfriend is actually looking for jobs?
Backstory, we moved to the Midlands about 6 months ago after I was offered a job in my industry, we make enough money to pay bills rent and food but we can't save money or buy nice things... We tried looking for somewhere cheaper to live initially but this is the best we could get in the timeframe allowed because of ne...
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{ "description": "not watching a strangers's stuff for him while he went to the bathroom? this was in an airport inside security", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not watching a strangers's stuff for him while he went to the bathroom? This was in an airport inside security.
It sucks to have to pack up everything just to go to the bathroom for five minutes, but you're not supposed to leave things unattended in an airport and I didn't know this guy. He wasn't mad, I just feel like a jerk.
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{ "description": "wanting my best friend to visit during summer vacation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my best friend to visit during summer vacation?
Warning: very long. TLDR below. Ok so before I get straight into it, here's some background. I've (21F) been with my wonderful boyfriend (22M) for 5 years. We have a beautiful 3 year old daughter and are just so happy together. We've done so much to make each other better people, always motivate each other and are mu...
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{ "description": "getting a little mad for ruined plans", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting a little mad for ruined plans?
So a little while ago, me and my friend wanted to go see Captain Marvel. We made plans to go next weekend, and I already asked my mom and cleared my schedule. However, she texted me, and she went today... without me. I was a little sad and mad, but I didn't tell her or vocalize it in my texts. I said I had to go, and I...
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{ "description": "stopping having long talks with a \"suicidal\" friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i stopped having long talks with a "suicidal" friend?
He has been talking about it every time we fight for 8 months. At first I would give him multiple hour long convos but he's said it so many times I just want to stop acknowledging it. WIBTA?
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{ "description": "telling my autistic brother not to confide in me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my autistic brother not to confide in me?
So some background: I am a 21 year old university student, but currently on break. Part of the reason why i'm writing this because my brother recently had a shouting match with my parents about religion, which is a sensitive topic for them. He asked them if it was possible to be erased from multiple timelines and my pa...
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{ "description": "asking my ex to drop off my stuff at a mutual friends house", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my ex to drop off my stuff at a mutual friends house?
Hi everyone, I'll try and be as unbiased as possible since I do genuinely want to know if I'm being an asshole, because, well, I don't want to be, and I will stop and be better if I can. Anyway, recently, my ex-boyfriend (31M) and I (24F) broke up, it was mutual, we agreed things weren't working. My boyfriend is under...
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{ "description": "wanting to hang out with my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to hang out with my friend?
So some backstory. This girl and I had a thing back in high school, which was roughly 7 years ago now. Since then we've agreed that it was a mistake and that nothing will ever happen between us again and that we'd remain friends. I've been going through some stuff lately and want to be around friends. So for the past w...
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{ "description": "going to my grandmother's birthday party even if it will hurt my mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I go to my grandmother's birthday party even if it will hurt my mother?
My mother had a fight with my grandmother(my dad's mother) over a year ago. She claims that my grandmother has verbally attacked her multiple times over the course of many years(parents have been married for 20 years). But finally my mother snapped and came out about all the things that my grandmother has said and d...
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{ "description": "not visiting my best friend after her mum died suddenly", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting my best friend after her mum died suddenly?
I'm feeling guilty that I haven't met the expectations of my grieving friend. My best friend is extremely high maintenance. As her maid of honour 2 years ago, I was expected to go to pretty insane lengths to keep her happy and keep the bridesmaids performing up to her expectations (daily hour long phone calls were ju...
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{ "description": "letting everyone gang up on my best friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for letting everyone gang up on my best friend?
Last night I was with three other people, me and my best friend went to someone’s house to hang with her and another friend. For explanation purposes I will label my friends. Friend A is my best friend. Friend B is the girl who owns the house we were at. And Friend C is the guy who was there. Long story short, we w...
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{ "description": "giving my fiance the ultimatum to drop her close friend or we're done", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for giving my fiance the ultimatum to drop her close friend or we're done?
My fiance (30F) and I (26M) have been together for just over five years now. We initially met at work, but now both of us work in two different facilities. Since she started at her new job a year ago she's become work friends with a mid-40s dude that I used to work with at our mutual workplace (this dude works PRN and ...
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{ "description": "dumping my girlfriend of three years", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dumping my girlfriend of three years?
We were going steady. Our parents liked us. Everything was almost perfect. We've had our differences but they were never an issue. One day we argued over whether I should take a job or wait for my career as a musician to bloom. We agreed that I'd take the job. Two days before starting, I decide to dip and work on my m...
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{ "description": "wanting to distance myself from mutual friends of my abusive ex boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to distance myself from mutual friends of my abusive ex boyfriend?
I had been in one of the worst relationships of my life for about a year, and he ended it ~~over text~~ during my first week of college. Obviously shitty timing with the whole "adjusting to my new surroundings" thing, but it couldn't have been better for me. I hope that none of you have experienced what I have, but I...
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AITA My son confronted a bully
AITA My son, lets call him Timmy, is in 4th grade in a public school. A few nights ago a parent posted a question in the class Facebook group. The parent explained that her son, let's call him Pete, is being bullied on the bus and at recess and she was asking for guidance. She had tried talking with the teacher and ...
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{ "description": "insisting people move tables", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for insisting people move tables?
At a bowling tournament this weekend I asked a group of people to move tables. The tournament requires that teams move lanes between games. Its considered courteous not to crowd the people bowling ahead of you, but the seating arrangements can be contentious, theres good and bad seats at every pair of lanes. &...
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{ "description": "not uninviting my friend's ex to a 21 pilots concert after she cheated on him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not uninviting my friend’s ex to a 21 pilots concert after she cheated on him?
(Sorry for formatting, I’m on mobile) A couple months ago, I made plans to go to a concert with some friends. We’ll call my guy friend C, and his ex, who I’m also very good friends with, L. C isn’t a big concert goer but L loves 21 pilots just as much as me, so I invited her and two other friends to go. We were set to ...
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{ "description": "requesting that my roommates cut down on clutter in shared spaces while my bedroom is a mess", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I request that my roommates cut down on clutter in shared spaces while my bedroom is a mess?
My room has clothes all over the floor and random stuff scattered across most surfaces. It's not usually very tidy, although I clean up every couple weeks. Clutter stresses me out, but when it's my own, and I have control over when it gets cleaned, I don't mind as much. I make an effort to be very concious of my messe...
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{ "description": "moving someone's laundry and using both washers in an apartment building", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for moving someone's laundry and using both washers in an apartment building?
I've been in my apartment building for 3 1/2 years now. The building has 24 apartments, not all are occupied. There are only 2 sets of washers/dryers. All of the younger occupants use their parents washers. I have kids and a lot of laundry to do. Normally running 4 loads every Wednesday, and a buffer load or two Sat...
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{ "description": "getting tinder while I'm still in love with my ex", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I got tinder while I'm still in love with my ex?
I recently got cheated on and dumped by my ex bf of about a year but we have known eachother since we were like 12. Now we are both in University together and I feel like hes been using me as his booty call for the last few months and he knows I'm still in love with him. He has hurt me so many times and at this point ...
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{ "description": "being mad because I have to share a room with my twin sister because my 20 year old sister dropped out of college", "pronormative_score": 53, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA (14M) for being mad because I have to share a room with my twin sister(14F) because my 20 year old sister dropped out of college.
So my 20 year old sister dropped out of college because she couldn't deal with the structure of it and she didn't like her roommate and they wouldn't give her a new one so now she is is going to be starting college online. But because of this I have to move my room I no longer have my own room and moving into my twin s...
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{ "description": "leaving work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Leaving Work?
So this happened a while back but it still nags at me. I had stared a new job i was 16 at the time and it was in a small cafe like shop. It was i think my second time in the closing shift and the way we close down usually breaks down like this. We close doors at 8:00 and do all of the cleaning up (washing dishes, prepp...
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{ "description": "leaving my dads gloves in my car", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my dads gloves in my car?
Sorry for the format. I’m on mobile. Yesterday my brother decided he wanted to use our car to go to his friends house to sleepover. I told him that I already planned to go out and I had school the next morning so I needed the car and I could just drop him off and pick him up. My mom also did not want him taking the ca...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be around my boyfriend's autistic brother for extended periods of time", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be around my boyfriend's autistic brother for extended periods of time?
TLDR: My boyfriend's (21) brother is autistic and 17-18. He has asked my boyfriend personal questions about our sex life, and their mom sees it as he is developmentally about 14-15 and starting to be curious about sex and all. He keeps bringing up that he wants to see me wearing cat ears like an anime catgirl, and I am...
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{ "description": "calling out my teacher", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for calling out my teacher
I'm gonna try to keep it short. So I'm in AP Lang this year and my teacher has probably taught us about 2% of the information we need to pass the exam, no exaggeration. She always just talks about politics, always from her point of view, and it's really annoying. I'd say about half the class agrees with her and half...
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{ "description": "kicking cousin out of the house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for kicking cousin out of the house
My mom fosters two distant cousins. They help at her store. One is a teenager, and the other a young adult (let's call him Ander) I came in last week, having not been home since December. Yesterday, I'm helping supervise body work on mom's car and mom joins me there in the evening. It starts to get late and she wants ...
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{ "description": "turning down getting someone something overseas on my way home", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for turning down getting someone something overseas on my way home?
So I'm overseas holidaying, and I asked my friends if they wanted me to get them anything, I was thinking they might want some cake or something small and easy (like one friend asked for some coffee). One friend asked for 30 different pens from 3 different brands with some notebooks with it. It's not exactly near us an...
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{ "description": "finally telling my mom how she makes me feel", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finally telling my mom how she makes me feel?
I'm 30. My WHOLE life my mother has acted like she has the worst kids on the planet. Nothing is ever good enough, nothing is ever praised, nothing I ever accomplished was looked at with anything other than indifference. If I ever asked for help financially it was always met with long lectures about how stupid I am and ...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed with all the people who say they're upset about Hillenburg", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting annoyed with all the people who say they're upset about Hillenburg?
Most people before this probably couldn't tell you who created sponge bob, now everyone's acting like they knew all about him.
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{ "description": "not wanting to apologize to my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to apologize to my girlfriend?
This happened a few days ago. We were texting and I was telling her about a stressful situation I was in. I’ll explain just to give context. At her suggestion, I had written a piece for a local writing competition and was trying to submit it. The group holding the competition only lets members participate, but I had al...
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{ "description": "being livid that my boyfriend didn't tell me his ex lives a minute away", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being livid that my boyfriend didn't tell me his ex lives a minute away
Tldr at the bottom. I'm 26F and my boyfriend is 32. We've been together for about 8 months. My lease is up and I want to move, but we aren't ready to move in together yet. So, we decided that I would find an apartment close to him, and then we would see how we're feeling in 6 months when his lease is up, and decide ...
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{ "description": "unknowingly geting my friend's iPod wet and pretty much fucking it up permanently", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for unknowingly geting my friend's iPod wet and pretty much fucking it up permanently?
Hello, this is my first post on reddit, I've seen the subreddit in YouTube Compilatory Videos and i thought this was the best place to talk about this ongoing debate I've had with my bud for years: So there's this guy (we'll call him Mike) that I've been friends since Kindergarten and is still, to this date, one of...
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{ "description": "asking my inlaws to change how they celebrate Hollidays with my children", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for asking my inlaws to change how they celebrate Hollidays with my children
My in-laws are very traditional and have very specific ideas about Holliday's that my wife and I don't share. Specifically for every Holliday they buy the kids a basket of candy filled with plastic tinsel that we feel terrible about throwing away. So the other day I decided to send them a text about upcoming Valentine...
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{ "description": "telling my wife that I won't allow our children to hang out my MIL's house", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my wife that I won't allow our children to hang out my MIL's house?
My wife and I are staying at her mother's house while we're shopping for a new home. My wife's brother is also staying at the house as he is jobless. He has mental issues and is being medicated to help control his anger. He's been mostly fine in the time we've been staying there but my wife insist that it's only beca...
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{ "description": "taking down someone else's lost cat flyers", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA to take down someone else's lost cat flyers?
We moved into a townhouse in mid-December. Ever since we moved in, there have been posters for a lost cat. The flyers looked pretty old, so I checked Facebook and see that the cat went missing on July 15. I'm not sure if the cat has been found or not. The last update on Facebook was August 21 saying he wasn't found. I...
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{ "description": "trying to get a bad tenant kicked off section 8", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - For trying to get a bad tenant kicked off Section 8?
I rented my house out to a woman on Section 8, which is where the government pays a substantial amount of the rent because they are lower income. I have other houses rented out to Section 8 tenants, and normally don't have issues. This woman and her family have been nothing but evil and destructive. She immediately m...
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{ "description": "telling my history teacher she doesn't know how to teach", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my history teacher she doesn't know how to teach?
We have had 3 history teachers this year: "Original" teacher called Jans, he had an accident and hasn't come to school for a month. 1st substitute teacher called Joshua, actually really cool and interesting guy, his teaching method was kind of old in the way that he only talks and we listen but the way he tells things...
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{ "description": "Disapproving of a Friend's drug use", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Disapproving of a Friend's Drug Use?
Long post. Sorry in advance. To preface, I'm not exactly anti-drug, as I've used a number of recreational substances both legally and illegally, and actively rely on pharmaceutical drugs as part of a treatment plan for my own mental illness and cognitive difficulties. That said, my closest friend and I are often ...
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AITA, my husband wants me to take on his EXSD from previous marriage.
Ok, I'm giving some background here, My husband and I have been Together for 4 years, ups and downs as usual lol. He has 2 step children ss6 sd9. Ss has ALOT of developmental issues, and is all around just very difficult to care for, I love him still and we do the best we can. Sd typical sassy, lazy, disrespectful, we ...
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{ "description": "flirting with a girl while in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for flirting with a girl while in a relationship
I didn't think I had done anything particularly bad until I mentioned this story to a friend who told me what I did was pretty shitty, so I thought I'd post it here to get a group consensus. Also, this is a throwaway account as a couple of people know my real username. So, for a bit of background info, I have been with...
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{ "description": "holding a grudge for years which caused me to blank an old friend and made her cry", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for holding a grudge for years which caused me to blank an old friend and made her cry?
This happened a while ago and I never felt I was in the wrong but I’d like your perspective. Growing up I lived on the same road as this girl, I’ll call her Gigi. For over 5 years off and on we played together and walked to school together. I say off and on cause we’d have a lot of fallings out over various things. Ev...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my mom for disapproving the Amber Alert we are getting", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting angry at my Mom for disapproving the Amber Alert we are getting?
So I live in Calgary. We are currently getting an Amber Alert for a kid who was abducted in Edmonton, and is described as being in "imminent danger". It started around 10PM. When the Amber Alert went off on everyone's cell phones and the TV, it woke my mom up, who became really frustrated that they where sending out an...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend we would break up if she dropped out of school to travel around Europe for a couple months with her friend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend we would break up if she dropped out of school to travel around Europe for a couple months with her friend
My girlfriend just told me that school is exhausting her and she doesnt think shes going to go back next year and that shes going to save up this summer and travel around Europe. Im in the middle of graduate studies and she's 2 years into an undergrad. I told her that we would not date if she dropped out and left for t...
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{ "description": "not liking to go out to Dinner with my in-laws because my Father in Law is a Dick to Waitstaff", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Because I Don’t Like To Go Out To Dinner With My In-laws Because My Father In Law Is A Dick To Waitstaff??
My husband and I have been married for almost a decade, and we have a 4 year old son. My father in law is a functioning alcoholic. My mother in law is oblivious to this fact. She either is in complete denial or doesn’t care, either way, I don’t feel like I can tell her my issues. Over the last 15 years, whenever we...
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{ "description": "being mad at my fiancee for lending her sister $700", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad at my fiancee for lending her sister $700?
For context: her sister has 3 children and I adore the shit out of those kids. I would do anything for them. However their mom is a recovering addict (who relapsed last year and just restarted recovery) and is currently living with my fiancee's mom since her and her ex-husband lost their house. They've been there for a...
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{ "RIGHT": 29, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "making sure my best friend isn't dying instead of staying home and doing dishes", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making sure my best friend isn't dying instead of staying home and doing dishes?
My boyfriend (m33) and I (f21) got into an argument today while at work (we work at the same place) because I told him I had to take my best friend (f21) to the hospital after work (we also work with her). He said that I have to learn to not dump my responsibilities just because someone asks me to be there for them and...
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{ "description": "buying Christmas gifts for people with an Amazon gift card", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I bought Christmas gifts for people with an Amazon gift card?
What it says on the tin. I've been curious about that. I'm a college student and I don't have a lot in the way of disposable income, but I still like giving my friends and family little gifts. This semester I quit my job because it's my senior year and I want to focus on school as much as possible, so I have even less ...
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{ "description": "not sharing people answers to homework", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not sharing people answers to homework?
Listen, I'm young, but I have a basic understanding of the world. Somewhat. You give and people give back. Well... Earlier in the year I decided, "Hey! I should be nice and share some answers with my classmates to lower their load." And genuinely alot of people thanked me for helping them out. I wouldn't say I'm a sm...
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend for getting a tattoo with out me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for getting a tattoo with out me?
I know, sounds ridiculous but theres a reason. He went and got the tattoo yesterday. The night before we planned on going together over the weekend. He didnt even tell me he was going with out me and i found out he went through a facebook post. He said the guy had no more spots open but i feel as if he could have still...
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{ "description": "wanting to tell my Cuzin to shut the Fuck up about her marriage problems in front of my grandma while she(my grandma) is dealing with my grandfather slowly dying", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to tell my Cuzin to Shut the Fuck up about her marriage problems in front of my grandma while she(my grandma) is dealing with my grandfather slowly dying.
My cuzin has only been married for 6 months but now she acts like she hates it and she wouldn’t stop talking about it in front of my grandma who is dealing with taking care of my grandfather who is dying from a host of medical problems.
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{ "description": "not telling my mom that my dad cheated on her", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not telling my mom that my dad cheated on her?
Context: things weren't going great between my parents and in August 2018 my dad took me to see someone, turns out that "someone" was his illegitimate son (my step-brother) which he had with his co-worker. It's fair to say I was really mad at him, and I still am. But for some dumb reason I decided to not tell my mom in...
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{ "description": "wanting to move out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to move out
So to make things easier in this story I'll use these codes KL:Kind Lady OL: Other Lady Me/I: Me So about 7 months ago I moved to board with KL. I live in a different city to my family for study and just try and find whatever room works with what I can pay. She was nice and her sister OL lived there too. Things were ...
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{ "description": "posting about a classmate making me do stupid things than personally attacking her on Reddit for stalking my main account", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for posting about a classmate making me do stupid things than personally attacking her on Reddit for stalking my main account?
Burning this account later, text is mainly from main post So recently I had a falling out with an classmate/friend/frenemy/etc. (F). (I’m M) I forgot to bring home a homework assignment and I asked everyone in my contacts if they could send me a picture of it. This girl says she won’t give it unless I do something fo...
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{ "description": "not tolerating my friends for being late to movies or cancelling in the last second", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tolerating my friends for being late to movies or cancelling in the last second?
I like being on time and friends arriving after showtimes start or after trailers end angers me. I usually save the seats as soon as they are available, from a week to a month before the movie comes out. I think to myself why they are constantly late, sometimes with me getting out of my seats during the beginning of th...
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{ "description": "asking my husband's friend to stop coming to our house", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my husband's friend to stop coming to our house?
We bought a new house earlier this year. It was extremely dated (late 70's - 80's style) so I did a lot of work (by myself, for about two months) to update the house before we moved in. My husband's friend made several comments about how he liked the decor better before I painted/remodelled. After about 10-12 commen...
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{ "description": "reporting my colleague for padding out their timesheets", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for reporting my colleague for padding out their timesheets?
I work in IT in a squad of 7-8 people in a big company. Most of the people in our squad are employees at the place we work, but I and my colleague (from here on 'Colleague') are contractors from another company that specialises in the type of IT that Colleague and I do. I’m slightly senior to Colleague but have no auth...
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{ "description": "asking my mother to celebrate mother's day with her the day after this year", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my mother to celebrate mother's day with her the day after this year?
I have a trip planned to LA for a friends wedding on May 11. It's a brunch so I'm leaving the night of to fly to SF where she has a work trip and is choosing to stay a bit longer so the 2 of us can hang out a bit, until the 15th. The one friend I plan on seeing works a stressful job full time, he and I like to rock c...
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{ "description": "not letting my friends control the aux while I'm driving", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my friends control the aux while i'm driving?
So I personally like to follow the etiquette of "driver picks the music" so nobody is fighting over the aux when i'm driving but a couple of my friends keep complaining about how i never let them. I wouldn't mind so much if they played half decent music but it's always stupid garbage they find funny or entertaining or ...
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{ "description": "not believing my apartment could be haunted", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Believing My Apartment Could Be Haunted?
So, here we go. My fiance and I have had a shared duplex apartment for 3 years. We live off an end street in a very quiet rural area. The biggest disruption is when a nearby field is used for a tri-city fair once a year, it is that kind of small town. ​ My fiance thinks our place is haunted. I do not ...
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{ "description": "moving out of my apartment since my lease is being canceled", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving out of my apartment since my lease is being canceled.
So about 4 months ago my GF and I started to notice a pretty severe black mold problem in our apartment. I live with my girlfriend and 3 other roommates in a 3 bedroom apartment. The problem continued to worsen. The landlord consistently failed to remedy the situation. Finally, we decided enough was enough. I got with ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend because I find him unattractive", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 13 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my boyfriend because I find him unattractive?
We’ve been dating for over three years. He’s been nothing but amazing to me. Not only that, but his family and friends have been extremely welcoming and warm to me and I love being around them. He’s my first real boyfriend besides some flings. He’s loving, caring, sweet, funny, the list goes on and on. The one thing ...
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{ "description": "making an inappropriate joke in Build-a-bear? think girl I was dating ghosted me and I really liked her", "pronormative_score": 67, "contranormative_score": 82 }
AITA for making an inappropriate joke in Build-a-Bear? Think girl I was dating ghosted me and I really liked her.
I’d been dating a girl for a few weeks and I really liked her. We had good chemistry, both into taking it slow and we’ve only kissed and cuddled a bit. We share a dark sense of humor so maybe something else is going on but I wanted to ask her to see if my joke was really assholish. We were walking around the mall and...
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AITA: Actively oppressing someone in our friend group
So I’ve had this friend group of about 6 guys total for about 7 years. We are all gamers and solely communicate though Xbox party chat, social media, and text. Now, another guy that was a friend of one of the friend group members begins playing Xbox with us. At first, he seemed alright, but then he got too comfortabl...
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{ "description": "asking parent to go out after saying I didn't intend on it before", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking parent to go out after saying I didn't intend on it before?
I (18M) asked my father if I could take my vyvanse late (5pm) today to finish some schoolwork I have to do. He asked me if I was planning to go out, which I didn't, so he agreed to letting me take it on basis of finishing my schoolwork. ​ I didn't plan on going out because a friend of mine was supposed to ...
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AITA for lying by omission to a girl about a guy (whom I previously dated) that she was interested in?
This happened a while ago, but there's still tension, I've lost some friends, and I'm wondering if I was the asshole in the situation. Two summers ago, I dated a guy named Owen. We lasted a month before he decided I wasn't right for him, and it was difficult since I had to see him everyday in class (it's a small prof...
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{ "description": "being mad at someone for not getting me food", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being mad at someone for not getting me food??
Backstory Me: a 17 y/o theatre nerd posting about this on mobile, sorry if the formatting gets weird Possible Asshole (PA): girl in the grade above me, also a theatre nerd. She has been getting on my nerves recently by exaggerating events that we both were present at to make herself seem cooler or whatever. She also ...
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{ "description": "speaking up to a teacher about what I believe is malpractice", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I speak up to a teacher about what I believe is malpractice?
TLDR: Teacher gave more opportunity to another student and I want to tell her how she doesnt practice what she teaches and that she favors her favorite students which is wrong. I am currently in high school and today I had philosophy class. I know this will sound like a very small thing but whatever. We started listen...
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{ "description": "rejecting a guy twice and not feeling guilty", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting a guy twice and not feeling guilty?
I created an account just for this, I hope I don't mess anything up. ​ Anyway, some background information. This school year I met this group of 4 people during my first-period class. Besides me, there is only one other girl. I'm a pretty shy person, so this was a big deal to me (even though we have only k...
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{ "description": "making my parents pay for my dental treatment/surgery", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA for making my parents pay for my dental treatment/surgery?
Ive had crooked teeth since I was younger and no matter how many times I told my parents instead of getting me a gift for christmas that I’d like braces, I never got them. Well now I have a dis aligned jaw causing me to have really bad headaches, joint problems and sensitive teeth and I want to see a doctor asap about ...
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{ "description": "telling the police to jog on over their request for an ip", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling the police to jog on over their request for an IP?
I am based in America and have had the English plod contact me because on my server there is someone who has made hate speech and such. Hate speech isn't a crime in the USA and so I am under no obligation to help the police. In fact, I told them I will certainly not be helping them with their fascist diktat. I have ...
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{ "description": "not watching to go to my cousins wedding because it's to much trouble", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA not watching to go to my cousins wedding because it’s to much trouble?
Recently was invited to my cousins wedding and it seemed very spur of the moment less then 30 days out/ I’m in the military and I would have to do paper work to take leave to go to it but didn’t feel like it. Some other reasons I didn’t want to go is I didn’t have anything to wear except my dress uniform (which both hi...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off my friends for lying to me and going on a trip that meant a lot to me without me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut off my friends for lying to me and going on a trip that meant a lot to me without me?
This story starts a few months ago. Basically a good friend of mine was going down to Parris Island, South Carolina for Marine Corps boot camp. I was talking to a mutual friend who said she was going down in 3 months for the graduation. I have wanted to be a Marine since I was 6, and was very close to joining before I ...
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AITA For: Coach and teammates ridicule me for prioritizing performance with Pentatonix over track practice
So Pentatonix reached out to my high school select choir to open for them this Saturday, December 1st. This is an enormous honor for us and we never expected it. They are performing at the Turning Stone Casino on December 1st and this is the week of the event so obviously our choral instructor is going to be pretty st...
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{ "description": "complaining to the manager about a lady who cut in front of me in line but said she had a right to because she has a service dog", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for complaining to the manager about a lady who cut in front of me in line but said she had a right to because she has a service dog
So I was just at the grocery store in line for self checkout. I’m next in line and as a lady is walking away from a register I start to walk towards it and a lady, her husband, and her service dog dart past me and get to the register first. I say “excuse me I was next in line” to which the lady responds “oh I have a se...
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{ "description": "wanting to adopt in the future", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to adopt in the future?
Hi, I'm a 20 year old male, single child of parents that divorced when I was 2, so I feel like I understand (to an extent) the issues of orphans and sympathize with them. That being said, I had a conversation with family where they were asking about "any new girlfriends?" and we eventually got to the topic of kids, w...
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AITA for a dead mom joke?
I'm in high school, and awhile ago, I got into some trouble. That's another story, but my dad ended up shaving my head practically bald. As you can imagine, this was pretty embarrassing. I mean, the jokes, looks, people pulling off my hood and the like; none of it anybody would want to go through. All of it made me E...
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{ "description": "putting school over family", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for putting school over family
A little background, I'm in college full time for an engineering degree. Not a super difficult workload (yet), but enough that most of my time is dedicated to studying. I keep a close eye on my graduation requirements and do my best to stay ahead of the 8-ball as far as credits and required courses. I have only a coupl...
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AITA: My gf’s ex-bf wrecked her door and she is moving, thus losing her deposit. I want him to pay for it through a ruse.
So my gf lives in a small studio and is moving a great distance.. across the hall! In her previous relationship, her ex sometimes got a little.. angry. But that’s a story for another time. The point here is, he punched a hole/dent into a door, and since she’s moving out she will at least lose her deposit and probably...
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AITA in this situation? Not admitting I handled it perfectly, but I think I did the best I could given the situation.
So I work in a bistro style NYC restaurant. The customers who generally come in are tourists, famous people and businessmen with their mistresses. Today I had, what I would personally label, as a jersey couple who’d come in for lunch. They had the look of a couple who were more hungry for drama than for food. When th...
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{ "description": "making an obese man pay me cash to take up part of my seat on a long flight", "pronormative_score": 287, "contranormative_score": 239 }
AITA for making an obese man pay me cash to take up part of my seat on a long flight?
So this month I was flying across the country on a long 5 hour flight, which I had booked and seats selected for. I specifically chose an aisle seat in a row of two, so no middle seat — just the aisle and window. Well, a very obese man boards and I can tell instantly he is going to have a tough time fitting in any of...
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend for being so pissed about his well paying job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for being so pissed about his well paying job?
Obligatory Mobile format sorry statement My boyfriend works for his brother as a sysadmin for an integrated dialer/CRM . His work day consists of fixing dialers and servers when they crash, and general IT work with those clients. (I'm not too much of a techie so I don't know how to put it) . He gets paid super well to...
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AITA todays my day off
This is going to be simi long but I'll but a TLDRnat the end. I have the day off of work but my girlfriend doesn't this morning I got up before her fed our shrimp colony and dog and let our dog out. By the time she woke up I was done with that stuff and put coffee on. We talked for a few mins while eating some breakfas...
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{ "description": "allowing my dog to play with the stuffed animal my ex-boyfriend gave to me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I allowed my dog to play with the stuffed animal my ex-boyfriend gave to me?
I'll try to give you guys some info about how the relationship was, just in case you need it. So, my ex and I separated a long time ago, and it was a short relationship. Long story, but to sum it up, we were arguing a lot more than usual, so I decided that I couldn't take it anymore and I separated. After that, he e...
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{ "description": "not accepting a monthly-paid subscription", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not accepting a monthly-paid subscription?
Context: both me and one of my dearest friends enjoy a service that requires a monthly fee. It's a game, and we enjoying thoroughly the time we spend on it. She has the possibility to provide for herself, while I struggle with it, so she offered to take charge of my monthly payment as well. I kept saying no for a whil...
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{ "description": "choosing visiting Japan for the first time rather than live longer", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for choosing visiting Japan for the first time rather than live longer?
Hello, all. I've been wanting to get this out of my chest for a while now and I found this sub in which I think this belongs to. Also, sorry for the broken English. ​ So, three years ago I started experiencing small but noticeable twinges on my male parts, mostly the nuts. I simply decided to ignore them ...
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{ "description": "offering to uber my bf home on NYE", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for offering to uber my bf home on NYE?
Mobile user, please bear with formatting and typos. Backstory; bf [31] and I [28] have known each other our whole lives, and have dated a few times. This go round, we have been together for 1.25 years. Last night we were spending time together for new year's eve. Everything was going well until I hit an insecure spot...
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{ "description": "not getting a birthday gift for someone who didn't get one for me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting a birthday gift for someone who didn’t get one for me?
So one of my friends from uni’s birthday was recently and I greeted her when I saw her at school and gave her a hug and everything but no gift. On my birthday last year she just was like happy birthday and didn’t get me anything so why should I...I know it’s petty but I’m just wondering AITA since I saw a couple of mut...
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{ "description": "driving a friend off Discord", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for driving a friend off Discord?
Ok, so for a little bit of context, I started writing a series of DC fanfiction stories on Flickr last year. They proved popular enough, and I managed to get quite a few more people on board writing these stories set in our own universe. That's where I first met this friend of mine- He had been a fan of my stuff and, I...
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{ "description": "accusing my girlfriend of trying to trap me", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 523 }
AITA I accused my girlfriend of trying to trap me
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now, and we have been having problems for the last month or so. We are both in our early 30’s and I have known her for a few years. We dated once in our mid 20’s and broke up with no contact in between. I missed her about a year ago and reached out. We started talki...
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{ "description": "not leaving the dorm when my roommate wants more privacy with his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not leaving the dorm when my roommate wants more privacy with his girlfriend?
My roommate rarely sees his girlfriend due to her being a nurse and living about 90 minutes away. Today she came since she's changing jobs and isn't working for about a week or so. She's cool and we get along fine. The thing is that my roommate wanted me to leave the apartment for some time so they can have some privac...
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{ "description": "not participating in a group project but getting the credits", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not participating in a group project but getting the credits?
This story has come to mind as it had happened 3 years ago when I was in university. We were assigned groups of three to design, brand and sell a FMCG (fast moving consumer goods) package. Myself (OP), Mega B*tch (MB) and Nice guy (NG) were groped together despite barely talking to each other, we were the left overs t...
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{ "description": "talking back to my teacher", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for talking back to my teacher?
This happened about yesterday-ish and she told me she lost all respect for me afterwards but I wanted to know if I was wrong. ​ So I was in my French class sitting by myself at a table as my teacher is handing out worksheets. When she gives me one I get to work immediately and finish it by myself and just ...
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