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{ "description": "wanting something that makes me happy", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting something that makes me happy?
Hi guys, ​ Im currently struggling with my thoughts lately. I've found this sub so I figured Id just make an account and ask more then just close family/friends. ​ Little backstory: I'm 25 now Grew up pretty rough, parents rarely home due to work, trying to pay the house they wanted to secu...
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{ "description": "not accepting GF's religious beliefs", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not accepting GF's religious beliefs?
I been talking with a girl for a few months now that is near perfect in everyway. Things progressed very quickly. At the beginning, I didn't realize the role religion (Christianity) played in her life ... until a friend of hers told her that she needed to stop seeing me in a week. This was early on in the relationship,...
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{ "description": "reaching out to my friend when I was suicidal", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reaching out to my friend when I was suicidal?
Throw-away account ​ Some backstory (sorry if it’s long). I’m male, in my early 20’s, and my friend is female, and one year younger than me. We’ve been friends for seven years, having originally met online. I was home-schooled from middle school onwards, so I never had any friends outside the people I knew...
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{ "description": "not giving my materials to my colleague", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my materials to my colleague?
So I’m gonna dive right in There’s this girl in class with me who really doesn’t do much. She’s a slacker and is also a bit slow. She will ask the same question multiple times and has held back an entire class’s progress once or twice because the teacher had to just stop and work with her. I think I’d feel a bit diffe...
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{ "description": "liking the movie Friday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for liking the movie Friday?
Recently, I expressed to someone that my favorite movie is Friday. I think that it’s a hilarious movie, and there is a bunch of amazing actors in it as well. Now, I’m a white suburban girl, and because of this, this girl I used to be friends with says I’m racist. She said that using black people for my entertainment ...
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{ "description": "wanting my sister to get my new boots", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my sister to get my new boots?
About two years ago, my older sister came home from college, took a pair of very nice boots from my closet while I was gone, and kept them. I paid $300 for them because I wanted a nice, comfortable pair of boots that I could wear for several years. Once I realized they were missing, I asked for them back, and she sai...
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{ "description": "getting my friends fired/leaving them homeless for sleeping with my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for getting my friends fired/leaving them homeless for sleeping with my ex?
Alright, this story is kinda old but I still think about the morality of the situation to this day. So, when I was 16 I got kicked out of my house in a little mountain town in Colorado with no phone, no car, and really nowhere to go. Weird situation at home. First thing I did was walk about 5 miles to my brother’s ...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my friend constantly talking about her dead grandpa", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my friend constantly talking about her dead grandpa?
I've been friends with this girl since 5th grade, and my other friends have known her since preschool. This girl always used to burst out saying "My grandpa died from cancer!" whenever we brought up dead family members. Just recently, my aunt was diagnosed with cancer. They caught it early, so we don't know if she's ...
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{ "description": "being pissed off", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed off
I had just walked my Aunty home because she was walking around herself, looking for a party and she offered me a feed. I’m not one to pass when it comes to rib bones so I happily get one so that I can eat it at home. As I’m leaving her house with the bone in hand (she had no containers) a woman is walking past in the s...
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{ "description": "cancelling plans", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cancelling plans?
I’m taking a long trip in March, so I asked my cousin if he wanted to come to cat sit (we are both cat owners) while I’m gone. I promised I would pay for his flight (~$400) and pay him $200/week (two weeks). He sits on it for THREE WEEKS with no communication after several attempts on my end to get in touch. I finally ...
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{ "description": "not inviting children to my wedding/reception", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I do not invite children to my wedding/reception?
Throwaway, for reasons. I am a professional singer, and I have a side gig as a choir director for a local group of young children (a dozen kids, 6-10 years old) at a church. I absolutely love my work as a choir director for these kids, and I really do enjoy hearing them sing. I am in the beginning stages of plannin...
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AITA when my friend decides to rip my notebook when I took his jacket.
I know this sounds petty, but everyone said I deserved it. In my opinion l, my friend has some anger issues and always exerts them on me. He has been physical with me with little things like pushing me on the ground and stuff. However, after this I do not really know if I deserve it. Before, I used to take his jacket b...
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{ "description": "not letting my teammate intona group chat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For not letting my teammate intona group chat?
Throwaway secondary account just in case. I am in a club called Academic Decathlon and I've spent a lot of time recently with them for practice, as we had just finished our first round of competitions. So that's a solid few months of having my teammates around me nonstop and honestly, they're really cool people and I...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a girl the day before Valentine's day", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with a girl the day before Valentine’s Day?
So I started seeing this girl near the end of December. We spent quite a bit of time together throughout January. She left for a two week trip to visit family the last week of January. We have hardly talked while she has been gone. She is a sweet girl, but I have realized that I just don’t have the time right now for a...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my GF who hid the fact that she has herpes", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to break up with my GF who hid the fact that she has herpes?
Look everyone can get STDs and I know it’s not fair to those who get them and get rejected for it. But come on I feel like this should be disclosed as early as you can once you trust the other person. In my cause my gf of about a month just disclosed that she has herpes. We always had protected sex but I feel so sick ...
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{ "description": "getting a cat without roommate approval", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for getting a cat without roommate approval?
TL;DR: Bro and his gf promised I could get a cat before we moved into this house. Now that we have moved, they are fighting me about getting a cat again, despite it being my major stipulation for joining them on this lease. WIBTA for getting a cat regardless or their disapproval? ​ So, my brother and mysel...
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{ "description": "getting upsate my uncle trying to help me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA by getting upsate my uncle trying to help me
Background Story: I have not worked for a long time (3 years) because of the mental problems I experienced at the time And lately the situation at home was not simple, and my relationship with my father was not always good ​ A few days ago, my uncle contacted me about the fact that he had to meet with me...
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{ "description": "not inviting my parents to my band/theatre preformance", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not inviting my parents to my band/theatre preformance?
This semester I enrolled in my schools band program due to the instructor who's other art classes I take asking me to join because he needed someone to play saxophone. I said yes because he is my favorite teacher and it would get me out of a class I don't like. Anyway this semester he decided that instead of just band ...
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{ "description": "walking away when a homeless woman asked me for medication", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for walking away when a homeless woman asked me for medication?
I had to push my bike for a couple of metres because the path went through a passage through a mall, and at the exit there was a homeless woman with a dog collecting money in a coffee cup. She looked sad and her dog was cute so I gave her the spare change I still had in my pocket (like 1€). She said thank you and asked...
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{ "description": "being angry that my BF didn't give me a gift on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for being angry that my BF didn't give me a gift on my Birthday?
My birthday was last week, my boyfriend of five years came downstairs and wished me a happy and that was that, no gift, no card. I was half hoping he'd bring something out later and half already depressed and hurt that the person who means the most to me didn't even bother to get me anything. My mood was only compounde...
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{ "description": "feeling terrible for not winning award", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Feeling Terrible For Not Winning Award?
Alright, so, quick context. My school gives a series of awards to many of the seniors depending upon the number of things that they have accomplished over their high school years. Everyone expected me to win the "all-rounder" award. I've held the most leadership, lead the most initiatives, and worked the most and the...
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{ "description": "asking my friends to stop discussing sex", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for asking my friends to stop discussing sex?
I'm a flexible asexual. Basically, sometimes I'm entirely ace, fully repulsed by sex to the point of being physically sick when it's brought up. This can last anywhere between a few days, to a few weeks or even months at a time. I was going through a period of this when 2 of my friends in a large group chat starting ...
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{ "description": "not coming to my friend's birthday party because I feel anxious at parties", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not coming to my friend's birthday party because i feel anxious at parties?
my friend had a birthday party and invited 10 people. not that much, but i still hate social situations and am really socially awkward. i'm not diagnosed, but there's a chance that i have mild or not mild social anxiety. i just couldn't come to her party. i was so anxious and afraid that i ended up staying home. next...
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AITA for my reaction to this girl and her boob job?
Hi all, throw away account but long time lurker on my main account. It's a bit of a silly one which happened years ago but I'm curious as other people told me I wasn't very 'nice' but I didn't really care. Thinking back on it, I may have been a bit harsh, but wondered what you guys thought. ​ I was at a mu...
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{ "description": "not spending time with my dad on New Year's Eve", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I don’t spend time with my dad on New Year’s Eve?
I’m 14 fyi He came from Greece just to see me. He lives in Greece, and I live in a Scandinavian country. He visits sometimes in the year, and he came December 23rd and he’s going January 5th. We spent Christmas together and he gave me two books. I feel bad, because now I feel like I have to spend time with him. He sa...
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{ "description": "yelling at my father after the passing of our puppy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For yelling at my father after the passing of our puppy.
Today my little buddy was struck by a car because he wasn't tied up. My old man let him out and didn't tie him up to the cord. I don't know what happened except I heard crying and when I went upstairs I found out what happened. This isn't the first time this has happened to our family. 4 years ago we lost another dog t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my mother out of her abusive relationship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to help my mother out of her abusive relationship?
Obligatory I'm on mobile and this is a throwaway account Now, I realize the title sounds really bad - but there is a little background I don't have a good relationship with my mother. She was manipulative and neglectful to me and my brothers, sometimes borderline abusive. She would often disappear for days at a time ...
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{ "description": "ghosting a guy", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a guy?
This has happened awhile ago and I'm curious what you people think of it. A guy I don't know sent me a message on facebook and since he was friendly I answered him. He was quick to get to the point and wrote that he would like to get to know me and if we could meet. To make it clear: I never agreed to meet with him. W...
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{ "description": "confronting a friend for joking about having a crush on a minor", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for confronting a friend for joking about having a crush on a minor?
In SK it's considered desirable to have a youthful look (smooth skin, bright eyed, slim, look at kpop) and I have a close friend(22f) who keeps joking about having a crush on a family friend that is 17 this year. Some info is retracted for privacy sake. I know she is joking. While he is conventionally attractive I kno...
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{ "description": "cutting someone out of my life at a moments notice with no explanation to them", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For cutting someone out of my life at a moments notice with no explanation to them?
So, I cut my ex out of my life almost instantaneously within the past few weeks, months after we broke up and tried to remain friends, and I can't help feeling like I'm overreacting and its really my fault. I'll throw a tldr at the bottom but otherwise... So, within the past year I moved in with my ex to escape a fami...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at and blaming my brother's girlfriend for my spiralling mental health", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting pissed at and blaming my brother's girlfriend for my spiralling mental health?
Just a bit of relevant background first. I've been working through some self-image and mental health problems, and have recently taken the opportunity of being on holiday to expose myself to situations that are difficult for me to try and build tolerance. These include: taking spontaneous pictures and leaving the house...
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{ "description": "wanting different things from different girls", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting different things from different girls
I just moved to my own house and living alone I get really horny sometimes. So this week I decided to install Tinder to see what happened. Every girl I had interest in I sent a message saying like "I'm only looking for sex, if you're interested let me know". Like two days in I matched a really funny girl and we talked ...
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{ "description": "not allowing my 11-year-old daughter to have a boy sleep over our house", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not allowing my 11-year-old daughter to have a boy sleep over our house?
As I said, my daughter’s 11 and her friend group ranges 11-12. It’s mainly girls but there is one boy that I have seen around. She’s having a sleepover to celebrate her birthday this weekend. She invited the boy to the party but the plan was (or so I thought) that he would leave around 10 pm. The boy’s mom called m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive around my cousins wife", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to drive around my cousins wife?
A little back story. (English is not my first language so I will try my best) So my cousin got married almost two years ago. When I first met his wife, I thought she was great. But now after two years of knowing her I know that she is not a good person and that she uses people around her. It took me a while to realize ...
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{ "description": "being sad that my boyfriend will have to work when I get to see him after 8 months", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being sad that my boyfriend will have to work when i get to see him after 8 months?
hello, I'm in a ldr with my boyfriend for one and a half years now. The distance is Germany and USA. The last time i saw him was in August last year for two weeks and the next time will be in April. He works currently for a company with a contract, that means if he doesn't work, he will get no money at all. We thought ...
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{ "description": "returning an item and using the store credit to buy something unrelated", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for returning an item and using the store credit to buy something unrelated?
This may seem like a dumb post, but the way the cashier reacted made me feel like crap and I haven’t worked in retail, so I’m not sure if I violated some unwritten rule. I buy my dogs higher end food that I normally have to get through specialty stores, as big chains like PetCo don’t carry the brand. The store I go t...
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{ "description": "accepting a job in the entertainment industry that my girlfriend disapprove", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accepting a job in the entertainment industry that my girlfriend disapprove?
Hi everybody, first post here, desperately seeking to be judged by strangers. Little background: I (23M) am a professional photographer (and economics graduate) and from a year and a half work for a marketing company, a pretty big and famous one in my country. The company started really small, two years ago, I was wit...
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{ "description": "wanting to go out with friends in the night", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to go out with friends in the night
So last night I went out with my friends and we had to drop off my friend to his house early which resulted in me being 20 minutes late past my curfew. My parents are all upset that I was 20 minutes late. I currently have spring break and I work 8 hour shifts at work during the day and don't get to sleep in. Then I go...
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{ "description": "inquiring why one friend ghosted me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Inquiring why one friend ghosted me?
Within my group of friends, there is one girl who's name is Blue and two other gentlemen by the name of Gray and Green. We all live scattered around the U.S. and Britain, so online communication is primarily online. Green and Blue used to be in some form of long distance relationship, but are not any longer and largely...
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{ "description": "not wanting to deal with cloth diapers", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to deal with cloth diapers?
My wife and I are expecting our first child this summer and she is full on the cloth diaper train, I think its gross. She has a kid from another relationship, but really didn't get a lot of support with him, so our son is ending up being the "all the things i wanted to do" kid. I don't really have a problem with any of...
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{ "description": "hating my (probably) autistic friend's habits", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my (probably) autistic friend’s habits?
I say probably because no way is her family going to test her for it. She has self-stimulation habits (masturbating through pressure) some facial tics (odd noises) little/no social grace (no understanding of personal space, appropriate volume, wipes nose by running her hand over it upwards, told me she didn’t know how ...
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{ "description": "not responding to a text", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not responding to a text?
Backstory: I recently took a little time away from my girlfriend as she had very much so upset me by being crazy emotional and having disproportionate responses. After a week, we met up, I told her very nicely that she has to stop having such crazy reactions (not in those words) to minor things. She apologised, resolve...
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{ "description": "throwing a hissy fit over dog poop in my yard", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for throwing a hissy fit over dog poop in my yard?
The subdivision I live in is part of an HOA. The HOA rules prohibit people from leaving dog poop in yards. We even have signs everywhere saying to clean up after your dog. The cherry on the top is they installed these little poles that have poop bags in it. Anyways I caught someone letting their dog poop in my yard....
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{ "description": "writing a friend off over a potential misunderstanding on my part", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for writing a friend off over a potential misunderstanding on my part?
Backstory: So my friend (A) and I have gone to this music festival before (Rockfest in Quebec for those who are wondering) and mostly had a great time, besides her shitty not-boyfriend at the time. He was a bastard the whole weekend and really made it hard to fully enjoy the experience. This festival takes place in ...
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{ "description": "asking my mother to leave my room", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for asking my mother to leave my room
So here goes the story, I was in my room listening to some music and browsing on my laptop while my mother was in the living room (right next to my room) doing her work-related tasks (typing mostly) on the laptop. Right after I guess finishing her task she entered my room and asked me in sort of a loving way about what...
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{ "description": "trying to get my co-worker fired", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to get my co-worker fired?
Context: My job is to give citations in a downtown area of a certain city. My co-workers job is to fix the meters, collect money and be in the office during office hours. Me and my other co-worker who also gives citations have to text him whenever there’s an issue so he can fix it right away. The office is closed on Fr...
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{ "description": "calling someone out for being annoying despite having depression", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling someone out for being annoying despite having depression?
This involves 3 people who I will call by the animal names (besides myself) Me - Me, also someone who has Aspergers. (it's gonna be relevant) Wolf - The person I called out for being annoying. Apparently also has depression. Lynx - The owner of the server in which it happened. So how was Wolf annoying? Wolf was nutori...
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{ "description": "not wanting my parents to lie about my age", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my parents to lie about my age?
We go out to eat at buffets a lot because we have a large family and it's generally cheaper to go to a buffet than a sit-down restaurant. We usually go to a place called Golden Corral. They pay by age. (3-6, 7-11, and 12-15. Anything above is considered adult.) I am 14, my sister is 12, and my little brothers are 7 a...
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{ "description": "not telling my boyfriend details about my traumatic past", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my boyfriend details about my traumatic past?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. We've been dating for about 9 months. He's a wonderful, sweet, caring man who treats me well; this is our first significant argument. I was seriously abused (sexually, mentally, physically) for my whole life growing up, quite especially harshly from age 4 to 16. I don't like to thin...
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{ "description": "eating smelly foods in my cubicle", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for eating smelly foods in my cubicle?
So, for starters, I have anosmia (the inability to smell). However, I'm fully aware that some foods smell very strong and often "bad" in many people's opinions. I work in a department made up of a bunch of small cubicles, so I'd imagine smell travels fast throughout the office. Am I being an asshole by eating foods suc...
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{ "description": "not letting a stranger use my phone", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting a stranger use my phone?
It was last week and I was on my way home. 11.30 pm, sitting in the tram and listening to some music. A lady, around 40-50 yo with a big suitcase approaches me and asks me something. As I remove my earphones she repeats: "Hello, I want to call my aunt and tell her where I'm going. Can I make a call with your mobile pho...
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{ "description": "being upset at my girlfriend for sharing my past homelessness", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset at my girlfriend for sharing my past homelessness?
So, me and my girlfriend were shopping for some stuff, spending our Saturday really well, the mood was great, when we meet one of her friends in the same store. I don't hate her friend, in fact, I think she's pretty nice. We we're all shopping together when we started discussing how best to build a shelf. My girlfriend...
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{ "description": "refusing to give hickeys to my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to give hickeys to my boyfriend? (18f / 19m)?
So my boyfriend is a sucker for hickeys (no pun intended). He absolutely loves the feeling of them and every time I suck on his neck he fidgets and quivers like he’s having an orgasm. I really like giving them to him because it makes him so happy, but I also really don’t like the fact that people know that I gave it to...
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{ "description": "getting sucked in the dilemmas of a clearly shambled relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting sucked in the dilemmas of a clearly shambled relationship?
I would like to start out by saying that this is all happening in a friend group I've known in high school, so we would be alumni. About a year and a half ago I've started becoming with them since they were doing some (messed up) film project and needed actors so I was down to help. Then we all started hanging out more...
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{ "description": "leaving a puddle of water in my class", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I left a puddle of water in my class.
I’m in study hall rn unbeknownst to me my water bottle has been leaking for the last 10 minutes and there is now a huge puddle of water. When I first saw it my instinct was to pretend like nothing had happened so I didn’t say or do anything. Now I feel like it’s too late to say anything, and I’m already nervous about...
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{ "description": "declining to speak to the manager", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA - Declining to speak to the manager
I recently had a dispute with a friend that centered on my unwillingness to ask to speak to the manager of a customer service rep for an online retailer. I had expressed that the customer service rep was rude, but that I did not have time to go through the whole shebang of speaking to a manager. I said that I was angry...
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{ "description": "getting an ex-con busted for violating one of the rules of his parole? he was in the wrong but I could have easily overlooked what he did", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for getting an ex-con busted for violating one of the rules of his parole? He was in the wrong but I could have easily overlooked what he did.
Posting from a throwaway because my safety is potentially at risk here. For some background, I am a college student and took a part time administrator job for what could be called a half way house for ex-convicts. It's an easy job, good hours and I really don't have to do much. The owner of the house has a contract wit...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to walk around the back of the car when I drop her off places", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend to walk around the back of the car when I drop her off places?
24M and 25F, we live together. She can drive but it gives her anxiety to drive in the city so the only place she ever drives herself to work. I drive us everywhere we need to go, sometimes I'll drop her off at work if I need to use the car (it's my car) and I drive her around town occasionally if she needs to be somew...
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{ "description": "rejecting a guy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Rejecting a guy?
Hey there! Just as a disclaimer, I come from Sweden, so English is not actually my first language. So I deeply apologize for any mistakes I make in my grammar. Oh, and first post. Wooo... Characters in this ”thing” Me: as i´m writing this, I am currently 13 years old. I am male, but despite that, I have quote the fem...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone who doesn't reply to my text messages", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone who doesn't reply to my text messages?
I am 20F. My friend (20M) and I have known eachother for just over 2 years. We met in 2017 at university, studying the same degree. We've been basically best friends since then and spoke in person every day on campus and occasionally over the phone. However, I stopped studying at the end of last year and we've spoken...
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{ "description": "cuddling with my female friend while watching a movie", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cuddling with my female friend while watching a movie?
If this sounds absurd, it's because (imo) it is. But here we are. Last night it was a sort of traditional movie night at my friend's apartment. The place is packed and I've got a spot on one of the good chairs, and rather than sit on the floor a female friend of mine (let's say "Riva") comes over and sits in my lap. ...
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AITA if my wife, who swore she would not live with a dangerous weapon like an AR-15, gets a handgun for self defense so I then buy an AR-15?
Long story short. The wife is scared of “rifles” thinking they are unnecessary for civilians to own due to how dangerous they are. I agree they are dangerous, but they are also fun to shoot which is why i want one. My wife made a big deal about not having something so dangerous in the house. So i gave in said that’s fi...
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{ "description": "telling a friend that he's not attractive to me", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a friend that he’s not attractive to me
Basically I have a co-worker who turned to a friend(lets call him S). At the start we weren’t very close but we texted and went to parties/just hang out a lot. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable with unwanted advances, since he’s straight and I’m bi so I’m not overly touchy. He also has another close friend (lets...
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{ "description": "being upset at my mom's boyfriend for getting us a dog", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my mom’s boyfriend for getting us a dog
My mom has been dating this guy for 8 months. They argue a lot and to me it seems like their relationship is not secure. This week he got a purebred German Shepherd puppy for me and my mom, mainly me. I didn’t know that was happening until I saw it in the house yesterday. My mom hates dogs and won’t let animals into th...
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{ "description": "informing my mother and stepfather of my brother inviting our biological father to his wedding", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I informed my mother and stepfather of my brother inviting our biological father to his wedding?
Might be a long post, on mobile and somewhat emotional, so bare with me. Me and my brother are fraternal twins. I am a woman and he is a male. Not long after we were born, our biological father bailed. My 20-year old homeless mother was left with two infant children. My grandfather (bio dad’s dad) housed us until my m...
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{ "description": "telling my wife she acted like a bitch to me because I tried to give input on my daughter's college", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for telling my wife she acted like a bitch to me because I tried to give input on my daughter's college?
I did not go to college, but I'm doing something that I like and feel like i'm doing pretty well for myself. My wife did go to a top school. So she does know better than me but still. ​ Anyway, my daughter was speaking about colleges she would maybe like to go too. So I do know about some schools, and whi...
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{ "description": "not wanting help", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting help?
Tl;dr at bottom I have a particular coworker, let’s call “Sweet But Annoying” (SBA), that I can’t stand when they ask if I need help. It’s not that I think I never need help or that I have never needed help before, but for some reason SBA grinds my gears when they offer. To offer a little back story, I have been at m...
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{ "description": "saying my boyfriend has white privilege", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for saying my boyfriend has white privilege?
English is not my first language and this is my first time posting here, sorry for any language/formatting problems, etc. I am Asian and my boyfriend is British. We are in a long distance relationship. While we were texting the other day, the subject of race came up, and I jokingly said that he had white privilege (w...
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{ "description": "cutting off my best friend in this situation", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off my best friend in this situation?
Relevant to this situation is that my (26M) girlfriend (21F) has a severe heart condition, underwent two heart surgeries, is on several medication for it and has to be very careful about not getting stressed and/or scared due to how frequent her afib attacks are. My best friend (22M) is aware of this and has known her...
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{ "description": "being mad at my grandparents", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my grandparents?
Bit of a backstory, I am adopted. My adopted parents are amazing and I have been their kid all my life. I’ve never known another family. I do have contact with my bio mom, but don’t talk to her for various reasons. My parents also have 4 bio children (my brothers and sisters) who are younger than me. So my grandpare...
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{ "description": "making out with a girl on a new years party my ex-girlfriend invited me to", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making out with a girl on a New years party my ex-girlfriend invited me to?
So my ex-girlfriend (we broke up 4 months ago, we both wanted it) invited me to her New years party. I went there with a few friends, who were also invited. Most of the people there I did not know, but they were pretty nice. I noticed a girl who seemed interested in me and I started talking to her for a while. We came ...
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{ "description": "refusing any contact with my ex after we broke up", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For refusing any contact with my ex after we broke up?
The TDLR will be at the end but to make the long story short and just get some clarification, i need to know if i was the asshole after my ex and i broke up. We began dating in July of last year. This isn't the first time we dated and the only difference between then and now is that i've cut him from my life. Back in...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time with my mother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time with my mother?
My mother was an extreme drug addict in the past, and put me and my dad through a year of hell. I'll go into the specifics if someone asks, but I don't want to get too into it if someone doesn't. But needless to say, because of what she did I have a hard time trusting her and being around her, and I'm not even entirely...
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{ "description": "venting to my best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for venting to my best friend
So I have this bestie we will call her Rachel and I used to always talk to her and hangout with her everyday but recently she moved away. We still talk casually often and I love her to death but I have this problem. Every time I vent to her she mocks me saying why I’m being such a baby and such. She has vented to me mu...
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{ "description": "disallowing my ex gf to bring her new bf to the apartment", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for disallowing my ex gf to bring her new bf to the apartment?
Preemptive sorry for formatting on mobile. So, my ex and I we will call her C, are best friends, our relationship ended surprisingly well for what happend. She left me while we were trying to have a child, for her ex now turned new bf. She had been visiting her mother out east and ran into him at random while out on t...
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AITA For special treatement?
I'm a high schooler and taking some college courses at a local community college. It's been great so far and its really helped break me out of my shell, but this semester I figured I would take a public speaking course and get it out of the way. We've done two speeches before and mine have gone well, but today was th...
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AITA, or would I be an asshole, if I pressed for my boyfriend and I to get a particular dog?
This is dumb, and I’m sorry. My boyfriend and I (we live together) have been thinking about rescuing a dog and have been seriously looking into it for about 3-4 weeks. We wanted a dog that was about 40 lbs and a cuddler for me but athletic enough to go outside on hikes and play and stuff. Last weekend we went to a l...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my so called girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA breaking up with my so called girlfriend
so i'm 15, male and from Belgium (sorry for bad English). my friend was staying over ans all of the sudden a friend spams me at 11p.m. (he never talkes online only in rl) he tells me he found me a "girlfriend". my friend takes my phone and looks her up and sends just a simple hey. we text for a bit and she is really ni...
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{ "description": "leaving people behind in a different city", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for leaving people behind in a different city?
Since this is a throwaway, names & details might be a *little* different (I know one of these guys uses reddit, not sure about this sub). Anyways, myself and three friends (18/19-yo) took a road trip up north to a city roughly an hour and a half away, complete with a two-night hotel booking so we wouldn't have to ...
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{ "description": "expecting my gf to Cook & Clean at home", "pronormative_score": 80, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA To Expect My GF to Cook & Clean at home?
I'm M27, She's F24. Been together for 2 years and living together for about 3 months now. Before we moved in we agreed that she would do all of the cooking/cleaning and taking care of my place since she doesn't work and is trying to get an online business started from home. Because she isn't bringing in an income I agr...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable around the \"bi\" kids on my bus", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being uncomfortable around the "bi" kids on my bus?
Ok, first time poster here, so hey, not too rough! I'm a 13 year old Male 7th grader from TX if that makes any difference. At my middle school, the girls think its "cool" to be a LGBT+ . Not cool in as "neat" and move on, but cool as they pretend to be bisexuals and take pride in announcing it multiple times a day...
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{ "description": "not paying the insurance excess", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying the insurance excess
I live on a farm on a hilltop. My driveway is gravel and very steep. It's far from the worst rural driveway but you can't drive a sportscar up it. I am always warning people to be super careful if they walk up or down my driveway and to only do it if they are wearing good shoes. My sister has a sportscar. She came to ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to use my moms dirty diahes", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: for not wanting to use my moms dirty diahes?
My mom obviously needs to do better washing her dishes. There is often stuff stuck to them when she puts them out for use. Today we found a plate in the cabinet that had a deviled egg from Christmas stuck to the bottom. It has been several days since Christmas. I brought it up and she said that she needs a new dishwash...
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{ "description": "telling my ex to communicate with his kids", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my ex to communicate with his kids?
Ok, AITA here? Background. Together 20+ years. Ex cheated and then ran off with the woman he cheated on with and left behind myself and two kids. I’m over all this, but it’s not been an easy road. He pretty much abandoned the kids. I’ve worked with them and tolerated a lot of shit from the two of them (passive ag...
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{ "description": "taking my xbox account back", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking my xbox account back?
So I have have multiple accounts for my game. I let one of my best friends irl use one of the accounts because I didn’t use it very often. After maybe a month of him using it on and off I decided to try and go on it and he changed the password I asked what was the password and he told me. ( I forgot why he changed it) ...
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{ "description": "confronting my mom for inviting people to my birthday without my permission", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for confronting my mom for inviting people to my birthday without my permission
I'm on mobile, so sorry for bad formatting. Also, this isn't nearly as drastic as some of the other things on this subreddit, so sorry if this doesn't belong here. My (13m, turning 14) birthday is coming soon, and I've invited some friends to watch the movie Captain Marvel and maybe play Super Smash Bros Ultimate if t...
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{ "description": "not allowing a homeless vet to use the washroom at the hotel I work at", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not allowing a homeless vet to use the washroom at the hotel I work at?
I am asking because I feel like an asshole but I am also standing by what happened, so if I am an asshole in this situation then that's ok. I work night shifts at a hotel so all my interactions with this man have been around 3 in the morning. The first night he came in looking for a room for him and his dog, I told h...
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{ "description": "not inviting my cousin to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not inviting my cousin to my wedding?
Hi! So to start, the deed is done. My wedding was in May of last year and I stuck to my guns and did not invite my cousin, but my mom brought it up recently since we're coming up on our one year anniversary so I figured I'd ask; AITA? For my wedding my husband and I decided to have a smaller (40 person) wedding loca...
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{ "description": "being hypocritical to my younger brothers because I'm trying to set a good example", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA being hypocritical to my younger brothers because I'm trying to set a good example
I (23M) have two younger brothers 20 and 21. I used to smoke pot with my brothers and at school. Quit completely, for health and career reasons. Nothing wrong with my health, just know smoking cant be good for you. However, we all used to hit vapes and I quit that too... for the most part. I'm a hypocrite because while...
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AITA If bring my car to a shop just to get a problem checked without the intention of having them fix the problem?
So normally whenever I get car work done, outside of oil changes, I never do my work at a shop. Instead, if there is a problem that needs to be checked, I usually get it bundled with a oil change and I pay for the oil change and they'll check any issues I have for free. Then, once I find the issue, I'll buy any parts I...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move in with my best friend and his gf", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to move in with my best friend and his gf
We've been best friends for a few years and I love the guy but in the middle of January he met this girl on tinder and within two dates she moves in and they are trying to have a kid. Idk how old she is but he's only 20 and constantly blows off work to sleep with his gf. They are trying to get married and get a house a...
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{ "description": "asking a friend to stay at a hotel one night for a mistake I (very stupidly) made", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for asking a friend to stay at a hotel one night for a mistake I (very stupidly) made?
Throwaway, blah blah. So here goes: I have a friend from across the country coming to stay with us for a week. For some reason, even though I asked and confirmed times and dates multiple times, I kept thinking he was going to arrive tomorrow, not today. Everyone in my family is perfectly okay with him staying here ...
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{ "description": "wanting to watch a WWE show instead of hanging out with my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to watch a WWE show instead of hanging out with my friends.
So this happened about a year ago and due to recent events it has reminded me of the situation. So my friends (there are 3 of them) and I would always have problems when they wanted to hang out and I wanted to stay at home and watch wrestling. In fact, it happened so much that it seemed like they only wanted to hang ou...
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{ "description": "being this mad right now", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being this mad right now?
CONTEXT - I'm 15, my brother is 18. He drove us home from school. The garage door was closed and the alarm was on so my brother told me to enter from the back door to turn the alarm off and open the garage door so he could park. Now, our alarm is a little old, so for the key presses to be registered you have to press t...
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{ "description": "refusing to help my sister with her gift for my parents", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For refusing to help my sister with her gift for my parents?
I have a sister who is five years older. Our relationship has never been great. She thought her own poor life choices were a reason why I got further and not that I worked and got scholarships and good grades. It became even worse a few years ago. She didn't even come to my wedding. She told us it was because her you...
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{ "description": "blocking my Ex's number", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my Ex's number?
A few days ago, I got a next from a number in our area at around midnight. "Hello, is this still [my name]?" I figured I knew who it was, because I haven't gave my number to anyone, and one wouldn't know your name unless they've met you. I said yes, and asked who it was. [Start] Her: "[Her name] Who the hell would ...
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{ "description": "not wanting a mentally or physically disabled child", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting a mentally or physically disabled child?
My girlfriend and I are a lesbian couple and have talked about having children. I never really wanted a child but if it’s with my current girlfriend, I think I would be okay with just one. Of course having children is going to be way into the future as I’m not ready to have children yet. However, we were talking abou...
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{ "description": "throwing out expired food", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for throwing out expired food
Okay, this is my first time ever creating a post on reddit so if anything is wrong I'm sorry!! I'm a long time lurker of the bad roommates sub because, well, I have bad roommates. I thought about posting this on that sub but figured this is a more appropriate place since I am mostly wondering if I am the wrong in this ...
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{ "description": "telling a friend that she smells awful", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling a friend that she smells awful
Context: I sat next to a girl at lunch named neveah and she was a decent person I suppose but her hygiene was pretty fucking terrible every time She sat next to me that strong smell kept on coming with her I even took multiple long showers before and after school to make sure it wasnt me after finding out I tried to te...
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AITA? Broke up with my girlfriend the day after valentines after she made an account online to post pictures of me
I met this girl in my Spanish class. Within the first month of knowing each other she told her twin sister to tell me that she liked me. It was awkward to say the least, but I told her I was flattered and wanted to get to know her more before we got into any relationship After she asked her sister to ask me out for he...
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