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tTuZfL6qCOnGjUnUaRDiQuxXBRJPlbGN | 9v85ak | {
"description": "telling the brother of my long distance GF that she's been drinking and driving",
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} | AITA Because I told the brother of my long distance GF that she’s been drinking and driving? | In the past thirty days, my girlfriend has either driven home drunk or has attempted to three times. Once successfully with a car full of friends, another time she was stopped by her brother, and again two nights ago before her friend told her to stay at her house instead. We maintain a long distance relationship which... | HISTORICAL | {
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8zS0JDP7eg7hGqisxLfZpq8Bze09H8KF | agaloc | {
"description": "being disturbed by my skeletal teacher or is it a normal reaction",
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} | AITA for being disturbed by my skeletal teacher or is it a normal reaction? | I fell in love with Ashtanga yoga a couple years back thanks to an amazing teacher who now has a different schedule. There are 2 other choices, a guy whose classes are uncomfortable full and who unintelligbly barks out poses like an auctioneer on red bull and this other lady who I heard good things about.
I have gone... | HISTORICAL | {
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7oNCskHsrdL0WkU6yIuOTpP9UHarpIkG | azz4js | {
"description": "saying men shouldn't be sexually harassed",
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} | AITA for saying men shouldn't be sexually harassed? | My brother says it's okay for women to sexually harass men because at worst it's just annoying, but men can't sexually harass women because they're stronger so it's threatening. I don't think anyone should sexually harass anyone, but he says if women stopped doing that it would be depriving men of 'aggressive flirting'... | HISTORICAL | {
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7Oj1EGKPJkFLcfawNAkwUvGW1OyAQhjb | b6fj6v | {
"description": "getting mad at how my friend acted in a strip club",
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} | AITA for getting mad at how my friend acted in a strip club? (NSFW) | ​
Im F (40) my friend is M (40). We'd been bf&gf on and off over the last 13 years. We've stayed friends and hung out when we weren't bf&gf, until the last 4 years, when we kind of drifted off and only saw each other out socially about once a month. We always still talked, and there are obvious feel... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "getting mad at my parents for being really strict, even if I live a pretty good life",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my parents for being really strict, even if I live a pretty good life? | Im a 18M who's lived a pretty decent life. I never had to worry about money or working, but still have a job. I also go to school full time and am also a student athlete for my school. I guess you could say that I was spoiled as a kid, but I was always grateful for the stuff that I received. Now I do believe that my pa... | HISTORICAL | {
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t1NcaAmIW1ETFQ9NFaXGkTxXFGGyzpvw | arswpk | {
"description": "buying my SO's groceries",
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} | AITA for buying my SO's groceries | So my significant other and I have been together about five months, and they have been having money problems basically since the start. Some context: we are both college students and neither of us have a job but both are currently looking.
Thankfully, my parents are well enough off that they can afford to send me to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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tkDEyoargj8abWSsB04BXQCYcvRjcOP5 | ay4s6i | {
"description": "not wanting to go to a party",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to a party? | So I'm a pretty introverted and shy guy (18M). I'm also in my first year of university.For the most part, I keep to myself, except for my friends who mean best friends who mean a lot to me (19 M and 18 M). They're pretty extroverted. They want to go to a party on Friday night I have a midterm test that night (they want... | HISTORICAL | {
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zziRxN4xjzSdSqmhgt3zIi34RSdd9nw9 | a8ofko | {
"description": "flicking my friend when he runs into me with his wheelchair",
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} | AITA for flicking my friend when he runs into me with his wheelchair? | We’re both in school, sometimes he will drive into me with his electric wheelchair as a joke (he has SMA). This is usually with his foot holder thing which is at the same height as my shins. So I then flick him in the arm or something. He then gets mad and says ‘stop flicking me’ that’s when I say ‘stop running into me... | HISTORICAL | {
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6yQjC8Sab4lYUy7cA217P1P7O1sbsnIu | apbo0v | {
"description": "telling my roommate to call her family outside of the room",
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} | AITA for telling my roommate to call her family outside of the room? | Alright, this has been eating at me for a while. I live with one other person in a shared college dorm room. For the most part, things are fine. She has the habit of calling people quite a bit, but I don't really care, as I can just put my headphones in.
However, there was an incident that happened a little while ago ... | HISTORICAL | {
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tX4LPDZlIGdFjasdwscl0tr8mGzVKghW | 9y6ag9 | {
"description": "allowing myself to get caught up in my friends bullshit",
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} | AITA for allowing myself to get caught up in my friends bullshit? | This is a couple days old but I’ve been feeling conflicted about it since it happened. So a couple days ago as I was leaving one of my classes I say bye to my friend, and another friend we’ll call G says “wow, you aren’t going to say bye to me? Ouch.” She didn’t mean it in a mean way, but it’s pretty annoying, and this... | HISTORICAL | {
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znYTg5LuehoccKG8iUlz0KVvGwSuN6qt | avx66q | {
"description": "stepping in my housemates arguments with her (ex)girlfriend",
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} | AITA if i step in my housemates arguments with her (ex)girlfriend? | I feel like im gonna get told im just looking for validation or like i should just know the answer, but ive grown up with the mentality of minding your own business, dont but in, leave it be etc.
But i cant. I found out when my housemate and her ex were together the ex was at times physically abusive. My housemate is ... | HISTORICAL | {
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6hM6st1SsyNwRksOq8gDak6VoHqAVmtH | b3ast4 | {
"description": "installing solar panels that reflect into neighbours house",
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} | AITA for installing solar panels that reflect into neighbours house? | There's a fairly long backstory here but its relevant to the post so bear with me (TL;DR at bottom).
Our neighbours over the back bought their house a few years ago and proceeded to almost completely demolish it and rebuild it much larger. We were fine with that - there was a lot of noise and dust for a couple of mont... | HISTORICAL | {
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HsElQwEJD62Vyp4V8cYL117rkAZiGnFl | a76xqq | {
"description": "being worried about my girlfriend's father's attitude on race",
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} | AITA for being worried about my girlfriend’s father’s attitude on race? | I am white and my girlfriend is black. She is the love of my life. Her parents (both black themselves) are kind to me but her father (a bank manager) hates young black men and Hispanics. He likes the fact that I am an engineer and said that a lot of blacks are wasters (he then went into racial slurs I am not going to r... | HISTORICAL | {
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EZC1NRKrG1XsK9ezY9k4JFhHOKvngh5Y | a0lew9 | {
"description": "chosing my friend over my boyfriend",
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} | AITA for chosing my friend over my boyfriend? | Hi, all!
I'm a girl and my best girl friend of the whole word is leaving the country to leave in Europe, she had a bon voyage party and my boyfriend made this big effort to go, because he does not like my friends at all. But he only stayed at the party for like 2 hours and then he needed to go home, I choose to stay t... | HISTORICAL | {
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OtV7euUxxvDiu21L0maPEOnj2olMCFff | ar36ui | {
"description": "standing up when an obese lady sits next to me",
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} | AITA for standing up when an obese lady sits next to me? | This is actually my first post, I really wanted to share this story because it has been on my mind for a week. I'm on mobile so I am sorry for the format.
To get to my school I have to take the subway, and transfer one or two time to get to my school.
So the first train trip I was running late, and instead of going to... | HISTORICAL | {
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pgjAERbRRP7oVzDv1fIUuQfIk1ZeS1xz | b2ptmj | {
"description": "expecting my friend to apologize after telling us to F off",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for expecting my friend to apologize after telling us to F off? | As a bit of background, my one friend is an extreme conservative. Radical right-wing. Everyone else in our friend group is liberal. Also, she was very self conscious but has become more defensive and starts conversations about politics at uncalled for moments all the time.
Note: all names are changed.
So, the night o... | HISTORICAL | {
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o40OJkNrJlkMhZDEBQAZz9D6PhXezvTT | 9u1ktk | null | AITA because of the problems in my relationship? | I started dating my girlfriend around 16 months ago, last June. That August I went off to school in another state (5 hours away) and was having a lot of trouble finding any friends and it was really tough being completely alone. Eventually I met these two girls who were pretty cool and we would just do homework togethe... | HISTORICAL | {
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44LHGr6YmZH9YU8BQLpmhpFzbx6UsnHi | aykh6m | {
"description": "taking a three week holiday",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for taking a three week holiday (one day happens to fall on my moms birthday)? | So it's been a few months since I've gone a vacation. I found a good deal on a Safari that I purchased, but realized I would end up missing my mom's birthday (granted I took her to Chicago last year). Granted the Safari packing only starts on certain days...I'd have to wait another month (not to mention my job doesn't ... | HISTORICAL | {
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m6FaGa4nPE4ZXh9NqWLt9FckhGgJW6Mf | b9eets | {
"description": "yelling at my friend for laughing at a girl who was crying",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for yelling at my friend for laughing at a girl who was crying. | So me(15) and my friend(15) were at a Christian camp and there was a girl(15) who liked him. So my friend and I decided to make a sort a joke out of it whenever she said or did something that showed that she liked him. We usually just laughed or said oof.
But on one of the nights at camp the girl said something at one... | HISTORICAL | {
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M5cHO5eWfi8lWHHfBhbtUW9r3ipe65Xi | akf1so | {
"description": "scolding a delivery driver who asked my wife if he could enter the house",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for scolding a delivery driver who asked my wife if he could enter the house? | Last night my wife ordered Pizza. When it came she was 50 cent short so she told the man to wait and she will get it. He said it was raining could he come in. My wife said no and went to get the money. I was in the Kitchen cooking my dinner and she told me so I went back out to give him his 50 cent. When he was walking... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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NXK8B2HWGJ1zxDJXjQxNgO0GWUhBicRi | au52ib | {
"description": "refusing to participate in a conversation my friend is dominating",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA because I refuse to participate in a conversation my friend is dominating? | Sorry I’m on mobile, on a throw away, and that this is a long one.
My close friend and I are both very fiery, passionate people, as are most of our friends. However, when we have conversations, either between the two of us or with multiple people, she dominates the conversation. She’s constantly cutting people off to... | HISTORICAL | {
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kCQnGzWjLt265j6XJ4yPKb60omFI4zqh | a3eeoz | {
"description": "buying a fur coat",
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} | WIBTA if I bought a fur coat? | For background, I am chronically cold all the time. It's to the point where I have been to several doctors to see if there is a medical issue, because if temperatures get lower than about 60 I feel cold down to my bones. My hands and feet stay cold for several hours even if I am inside and under blankets. My average ap... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 10,
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BUlLBjLtgyPhWDRaDBeXLeZSxrwk2ycw | 9ud1i5 | {
"description": "punishing my dog too hard",
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} | AITA For Punishing My Dog Too Hard? | The backyard of the house I live in has 4 chickens. Right now, all of them are ready for chicks, but we don't have a rooster so they're just nesting in random places.
It was getting late, so I tried picking up one of the chickens to move it to the coop (foxes, and all).
Chicken starts flapping and stuff, as they do ... | HISTORICAL | {
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1Y3HZPhgOdbqEJ2keguwhDft26nFsyst | ap7k4s | {
"description": "hating when people sit at my table without asking",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for hating when people sit at my table without asking? | I live in the US and in the south, if that makes any difference.
My boyfriend and I go to a variety of restaurants because we love trying new food. Hawaiian BBQ, Thai, pho, Cajun, pretty much anything. Often, living in a smallish town in the south, the restaurants that serve these foods are going to be small businesse... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 8
} | RIGHT |
6U4FegfoQQeEfr8LQH1BHjOmI2F68Jnc | amvlr7 | {
"description": "being mad at my stepdad",
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} | AITA for being mad at my stepdad? | I am on mobile so sorry for any formatting issues
My mom and stepdad got married in 2016. He’s not a bad guy or anything but I’ve never really liked him. I don’t really know what his job is but he works outside the country. Due to this my mom and him use FaceTime audio to talk regularly.
Earlier today my mom said to... | HISTORICAL | {
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4nG5yNjAwgXM3S5OP6sa19NkCYx2JTjo | 9ykw5j | {
"description": "hating Family",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For Hating Family? | I've made an alt account to post this as I don't want to be identified.
This story starts from, well - the day I was born.
My siblings are a good 10-20 years older than me, so they were in their late teens when I was born. One of my brothers who ill call J befriended my father who was an alcoholic and abusive asshole.... | HISTORICAL | {
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3UCkaeDdKKkQ6R1RtbpcBI1rguMdGAZN | a69yku | {
"description": "making a move on my friend's ex",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | WIBTA if I made a move on my friend’s ex? | Actively looking for input here, this is such a grey area.
My mate (call him K) and his girl, (call her E) broke up a few months ago. Fairly serious, they were together for a couple years but not living together or anything. Things were bad at the end, and of course I stayed neutral and supported K bc he’s my bro but... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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IYrRAd99FgBLpAy9ubkd1L2xRg5eBkZy | au4uas | null | WIBTA If ‘came out’ as gay to my stepdad, even though I am not gay? | Howdy do, throwaway account here. I’ll try to provide as much information as possible, and hopefully my friends who also use Reddit don’t think I’m the type to open up anonymously to strangers like this.
My stepdad is fairly vocal about his opinions on LGBT+ individuals, drag queens, and the like. Of course, because I... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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HxQvmCu0WK4fCZNfbL8meSK4YryIvtBb | b0hvdt | {
"description": "getting ice cream for my girlfriend when asked instead of instinctively knowing to do so",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for getting ice cream for my [M19] girlfriend [F18] when asked instead of instinctively knowing to do so? | So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a long time, close to 3 years now. For context, we both go to the same university and actually live in the same complex. I've had an extremely busy week, and she has been sick for the entire day of the incident.
​
I started my day with the usual how are yous, tur... | HISTORICAL | {
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bAxQEmn76eKGl8jauNnxJUszkdpxw85k | b7hbyd | {
"description": "picking up a box after someone else threw it on the ground",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for picking up a box after someone else threw it on the ground? | In the grocery store earlier I watched a man move an empty box off of the shelf to get what he needed and then throw it on the ground. I waited until he rounded the corner and picked it back up to put on the shelf. I looked up and apparently he had come back to that aisle for something and we made eye contact before he... | HISTORICAL | {
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6QgVgbdNzj1W4JdhBFSKliLRe2zclnBb | aq5yuo | null | AITA - Money down the shitter | Hi all!
So backstory, me (24f) and my SO (23m) have been together 2 years and we’re best friends for 2.5 years before we got together. We are both professionals in the NHS with very good jobs.
He has recently been accepted to go back to uni to do medicine, a 4 year degree for him. He has to pay £3400 initially but th... | HISTORICAL | {
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eujOar1YKlw61tMHkEMoknv7p7HjhinU | b9vufp | {
"description": "demanding money from a friend",
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} | AITA for demanding money from a friend? | Few days ago me and some other friends came up with the idea of buying a VPS to play minecraft in our own server.
We bought a very cheap one (imagine it costs us only 3 euros per 3 months each). So one other friend wanted to join us too, but when i told him about that very small payment he got angry and he left. AITA ... | HISTORICAL | {
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R9WGgOWI5CLT2R5kGUXluO1Y1OxD8lOr | alq5ab | {
"description": "not helping with my newborn daughter when Im on meds",
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} | AITA for not helping with my newborn daughter when im on Meds. | To help you guys understand i have Epilepsy and i been having pretty bad seizures since August.
My Neurologist gave me some pills to help control the seizures and i have to be on them every day.
The bad side about the pills is that the side effects are horrible(Dizziness,Drowsiness,Mood changes and i’ve been experienci... | HISTORICAL | {
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e6u0IDIV615aXEcvqq9lARONI38NKSRN | 9ww26q | {
"description": "getting really annoyed that my girlfriend constantly calls me",
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} | AITA for getting really annoyed that my girlfriend constantly calls me? | I'm not annoyed enough to say anything, and I feel like if I did I would be an asshole, but my girlfriend will always call me when she gets off work and when she gets out of class, mostly while she's driving, and then will vent to me for about 10 minutes every time she does. I literally say like 5 words the whole time ... | HISTORICAL | {
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I97GgnSD14QxvOsU1GxdFRIKYkVyttnd | b5c5tp | {
"description": "asking my fiance to spend some time with me because I feel neglected",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA because I'm (26F) asking my fiance (30M) to spend some time with me because I feel neglected? | My fiance has been really struggling with his work and I know his job hasn't been making him happy. He's been stressed out and overall just not happy. He comes home and he gets on his game station to play video games with his friends. I've been trying to be understanding and I haven't said anything for a few weeks but ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zJ7XR4gHL8Cn997AOQX1IEv20bSEccgL | a2su26 | {
"description": "being mad that my dad wouldn't co-sign on my car loan unless I bought a car he agreed to",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for being mad that my dad wouldn’t co-sign on my car loan unless I bought a car he agreed to? | This happened several years ago (just found this sub) and I still feel a lot of bitterness about it. I got in a car accident that totaled my previous car when I was 19. I was looking for used cars with my mom (she’s self-employed) and saw a 2002 Subaru for around 3 grand that appeared to be in decent shape and within m... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
WXy5iMoyFVODA9eG5d3KkQgeMwiHMUbk | adfbh6 | {
"description": "thinking I should not pay",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for thinking I should not pay? | Sorry for the long post, the full story requires some background.
I’m currently in college and was born into a well off family, enough to be considered top 5% of the income distribution in my country. It was not always this way though, my parents came from honest backgrounds contributing their paychecks to their respe... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 0,
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} | WRONG |
AtJDNHBn90rDcxyK5tGwbfmKW5i1Majr | ae449l | {
"description": "saying yes when my bestfriend asked me to cheat on her boyfriend with her",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for saying yes when my bestfriend asked me to cheat on her boyfriend with her? | So the other night or so an unsuspecting me was contacted by my bestfriend, let's say Taylor, telling me about how she was experiencing relationship troubles. Nothing out of the normal I would be happy to help her out and be there for her, then she started sounding desperate for someone to be there for her asking "plea... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
N9w1XHkoB7ygB82QTmFskhSB7lloJDNK | b97tww | {
"description": "not wanting my 5/6 year old sons to experience a family funeral",
"pronormative_score": 36,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for not wanting my 5/6 year old sons to experience a family funeral? | I don’t think of myself as a helicopter mom. I do focus, sometimes to a fault, on my kid’s psychological health. I remember my first funeral. It was traumatic and has stayed with me. My grandmother told my youngest son this year that he will die, and he had a legit breakdown. I handled the situation well, until he said... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
kIG4mhx86hpD5EikNaPVtGKMyUDq7WSS | apzheg | {
"description": "telling my roommate I can no longer be on a lease with him",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for telling my roommate I can no longer be on a lease with him? | I moved in with a friend of five years this time last year. I should note that, at the time we moved in together, he had been crashing on my couch rent-free for four months without even offering to help with bills or groceries. Being stupid, I thought that rather than kicking him out, I would help him out by paying the... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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PxS9vKnY4BYdQBM7zdRiodAj6RDHMo76 | a5c7aw | {
"description": "talking to a guy for a week even tho",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | Aita for talking to a guy for a week even tho | Right from the get go I knew I wasnt interested and would end it eventually
I didn't mean to lead him on i just didn't know how to say no.
Also how should I tell him I don't want to talk to him anymore. | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
0hyjmb50dGlVKknFdgCyUOQrY45eylWw | b0maza | {
"description": "always being against my girlfriends friends",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for always being against my girlfriends friends? | This is my first post on reddit in general so excuse me if I mess anything up. But, to start off, my girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year, I’ve never really been to fond of crowds and company so I’m extremely picky with who I surround myself with.
My girlfriend on the other hand, is the opposite. She lov... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
XMbT4ybpsCjbpfGKotDJwK6R9ITfxRmk | b5xs8n | {
"description": "showing a kid an anti vax meme and finding out he was unvaccinated",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA For showing a kid an anti vax meme and finding out he was unvaccinated. | As the title says I saw wondering if I’m the asshole in this situation. So be a kid I have in one my classes were just sharing memes and I showed him one about a mother not vaccinating her kids and some of them dying due to measles. After showing him it he said he was unvaccinated and said that vaccines cause autism. A... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
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} | RIGHT |
6qldnr7EQVXW5EvIr3yHGU7Enecebd9S | a5p9o8 | {
"description": "losing interest in someone after discovering he's disabled",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for losing interest in someone after discovering he’s disabled? | So yesterday I was on a hookup app. Received a message from a fairly attractive person. We both shared pics and found out that we’re a match. (All his pics that were shared of him didn’t display his disability.) After that, we start planning to meet. And right after the time that he sent me his location to meet him he ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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XYW2XzereTLbLRNpuL6YWQYS5ZBTMDwt | 9vqd9j | {
"description": "getting stressed and telling my girlfriend to stop being so nice? and to request for us to slow down",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA For getting stressed and telling my girlfriend to stop being so nice? And to request for us to slow down? | Backstory: I’ve only been in one other relationship and that one lasted a year and was fantastic. I thought that she would be the one, but then I was forced to move and we had to break up because long distance wasn’t working. Fast forward to today, I’m in a new relationship with a nice girl, but we’ve been dating for a... | HISTORICAL | {
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eitWP2WkzLeMSq17PFIVrjLgtKFhBGSh | axy1ie | {
"description": "cutting my mother out of my life",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for cutting my mother out of my life? | I tried posting this before but it was way too long so this is the super condensed version.
I stopped talking to my mother exactly a year ago because her relationship is toxic to her and everyone around her. Since entering this relationship she's neglected my two siblings (currently aged 13 and 14) to pursue her own ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ihrcCqwYQSZTXyAz4S4fOmzJNPB5NUP3 | 9xe0q6 | {
"description": "messing up over text",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for messing up over text | I was talking to a friend on my phone. I keep messing up because I really like them. I said some really weird stuff and felt super embarrassed. So naturally, I decide to confess.
Here’s what I said:
Whelp, I’m gonna cry myself to sleep after how much I messed up in that convo
Is it noticeable that I might have a cru... | HISTORICAL | {
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9SkyQm828kPy1uk0YODaCPuGmn6gVYIv | b1k40t | {
"description": "asking the black lady behind me in line at the drug store to stop playing soul music on her phone",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for asking the black lady behind me in line at the drug store to stop playing soul music on her phone? | So here's the story. I was waiting in line at CVS to pick up a prescription. I was pretty much the only white person in the line, and mostly everyone else was black. I am a white guy in my 20's. Obviously this does not matter in itself, but you'll soon see why this is relevant.
It was a bit busy at the pharmacy, and I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
lDXSru4ACN22b5DDKVZ9e4ba0NecKX4P | autrxs | {
"description": "being upset that my BIL and his wife missed my daughter's first birthday",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for being upset that my BIL and his wife missed my daughter's first birthday? | Info: my husband and I are currently having some issues with his parents (HP). This only involves us and our child, so we have been trying to be adults and keep it to ourselves.
HP, however, have made it known to his younger brother (YB) that we are ignoring them, refusing to go to family dinners, ect. Which we are, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
5xPrj1w1QWKBRNaL9Zcevds7wp6tDydh | akvl45 | {
"description": "being a tattletale at work",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being a tattletale at work | I work in a sales role and I am measured on how many people I can schedule to get in front of our software for a demo, they do not actually have to buy through me. I wasn’t doing great this month and started looking at other people’s successes from the past months in our CRM to get some insight into what was bringing t... | HISTORICAL | {
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CJysV5ZU0faEJQo6HE910tY6UlxihMDf | atj48e | {
"description": "calling an RA a \"motherfucker\"cause he accused me and my friends of something we obviously didn't do",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for calling an RA a “motherfucker”cause he accused me and my friends of something we obviously didn’t do? | Some context: We were playing a card game and having some laughs but we were being really loud. Despite that, nobody told us to be quiet. Then, we have a door to a balcony that has been locked for winter next to our lounge. Another kid walks in and opens it, runs outside for a couple seconds, leaves the room to go get ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
uZf8LvP9JphNm1I0FcIOhPrXAy9j3JtJ | an2wpn | {
"description": "ditching my gf to watch the game",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for ditching my gf to watch the game? | We've been dating for five months. Things have been a little crazy since the start, but if I'm being honest with myself I love it. She's nuts, but she's never boring.
She has a habit of over reacting to minor things then running off and shutting herself in a room. Usually I go and sit outside the door and try to co... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 3
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ae5qCc1svJxhlCWGnTSvi3GurmznS3Bv | aq3zen | {
"description": "hanging out my ex's house after breaking up with him? but I'm trying to comfort my best friend after trauma",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for hanging out my ex's house after breaking up with him? But I'm trying to comfort my best friend after trauma. | About a month ago, my best friend and my ex's (siblings) mother had committed suicide. We weren't broken up for very long when it happened. He was feeling guilty and responsible
One of the ways I tried to comfort him, was a kiss. But, he thought it meant we were back together. The whole thing was so fucked, but I had ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 9
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PT4A5PWhbXZis4l1o9Xp0nZnV2MYf8bY | alxn57 | {
"description": "trying to counter a suicide threat from an abusive parent",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for trying to counter a suicide threat from an abusive parent? | Yes, I know how stupid that seems. It's a long story.
TL;DR: Abusive mom threatens suicide, I try and get her to not do that, she doubles down on the threat, and it winds up looking even worse. I can't summarize, I'm sorry.
I live in a house I'm becoming increasingly certain is abusive, under my mom. We were fighting... | HISTORICAL | {
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4XUbcj1t7zqInjLt9Gr4hc1hHtUvIJJu | ae0n8h | {
"description": "telling an intrusive mom off",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for telling an intrusive mom off? | So backstory: I am F25 with a F26 wife. We have one daughter F1 conceived via sperm donor, and I have full custody of my sister, F11, and am working on full custody of my other sister, F14.
I was picking up F11 with my wife and youngest, and she had a friend’s mom who wanted to meet me. Apparently, this mom wanted to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GoBTw8DM1pvNofSVMaBFojMjS9PToyhN | b6yovf | {
"description": "asking my brother not to bring his husband to my wedding because of my fiancé's homophobic family",
"pronormative_score": 56,
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} | WIBTA for asking my brother not to bring his husband to my wedding because of my fiancé's homophobic family? | My fiancé and I are a few months into planning our wedding and we are now deciding on who we are inviting.
My fiancé comes from a super conservative and religious background but has thankfully grown way form that (otherwise I couldn't marry her!)
Her parents however are still super conservative and homophobic and de... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 56,
"WRONG": 945
} | WRONG |
iuAK7Y1XMkkix1tjreW3mnVBNRiBCQ1K | a90w9f | {
"description": "not wanting to host a party for my former high school club",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting to host a party for my former high school club? | I’m a first year in college, and I used to be a coleader of a club in my high school. Every winter, I offered to host a party for the club members, and it became a sort of tradition. I thought my responsibilities ended once I graduated, but some of my senior friends currently in the club hit me up and asked to use my h... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 2
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MKjqybUhzmHkWKfcPWcoDPgdUQIy4xms | aap4fw | {
"description": "ditching my sister on new years",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | WIBTA if I ditch my sister on New Years? | This is going to be a bit of a long one so warning in advance. Essentially my sister sucks. She's selfish and manipulative and the more she drinks the more selfish she is.
I have a long history of her being an asshole to me especially around drinking and I do NOT want to spend New year's with her. Originally my husban... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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NPOSRZZyvrD5JFIBb0bQ0gH8mg8cxLxD | a6ieuo | {
"description": "not taking pictures for my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not taking pictures for my boyfriend? | He lives quite far away and we don't see each other that often. In the beginning of our relationship, he would ask for pictures, and I said I didn't really like sending them. I would send try to send them for him though. I told him I would try and I did. Eventually my picture taking dropped off as I started to hate tak... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
XKBkXqqdfA4NwEFQjpYy649v9eAj2bSz | b46erc | {
"description": "pulling my son from tackle football",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for pulling my son from tackle football? | I like to think I'm right on this one, but posting to make sure I'm not missing anything. My son is 13, and his middle school is currently in off-season after their first year of football. He doesn't plan to join the team next year, because he's not as good as others, but he still loves to play along with other sports ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 17,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
U3QXzyM30DuYK40vDQ3kHmJQsODa1Q6I | a55g39 | {
"description": "syphoning my friends gas",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for syphoning my friends gas? | Just some background stuff. I always leave my home unlocked because I live in a small town and I’m stupid. About a week ago when I was a hour away from home, he says “I’m very sorry but, I borrowed $80 for an emergency”, I said ok but you are paying me back. 1 week later I wanted my money back and text him “do you h... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
TYo4SxiOT0cXfmrPWfTdwSzvJRjvoqif | aejcg5 | {
"description": "being upset my recent ex texted me this",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for being upset my recent ex texted me this? | I tried being nice and helping him though some shit but honestly he treated me like shit so I was done. But he invited me over and just played video games all night and didn’t let me play and ignored my advances on him, he cried saying his ex didn’t tell him happy birthday yet totally ignored my message, he insulted my... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
2ktLqL8WaiKY19FUkn9keShAxwGBcHXn | avvr83 | {
"description": "wanting a quiet night at home and getting a bit childish",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for wanting a quiet night at home and getting a bit childish ? | So I should preface that I'm already having issues with the neighbour (Noisy and smokes copious amounts of pot) involved in this story but I digress.
So this happened like an hour ago. I suddenly hear loud music coming from the flat underneath me. It's loud enough for me to feel the bass and hear the melody from belo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
l7cbCRd5u7eFTMrJGUikd4NDbyVRhnyJ | a32ag5 | {
"description": "not being sad over my dog's death",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not being sad over my dog's death ? | Little background before jumping at the question.
Before her I never had a dog in my life, I adopted her at a shelter, she was 5 at the time, no idea of her race but she was abused, was here for a while, fully sprayed, quite tall and very cheap. I called her Mary and I always wished to travel with a best friend around... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 8,
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"NOBODY": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
KeUpDA4jRt6hF5ippcPQFGXlvZyQCU3h | a84z1o | {
"description": "talking to a friends girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA For talking to a friends girlfriend? | Henceforth, My friend will be named Ann and he shall be named Richard (because he's a dick.).
Ann and I have been friends for a couple years. She had recently began to date Richard a couple weeks prior to when we decided to go on a short, overnight holiday (With a few more friends of course). During the trip Ann basic... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
8tZdABSCQLtYSwTKBRqdLma9BXWPqBKV | auitdx | {
"description": "questioning claims of racism",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for questioning claims of racism? | This happened years ago but I thought I'd share.
Friend = F
F started messaging me about how her college is racist and she is failing because of it. We are both Metis and have light skin, so it was odd. People can be very racist toward Indigenous People here but neither of us were noticeably Indigenous.
I asked for... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 12,
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"RIGHT": 12,
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} | RIGHT |
Xdzp0iD0IAHwcoRTxkt1QNTHSf6t5vVi | abqqyz | {
"description": "having a massive problem with fireworks in my neighborhood",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for having a massive problem with fireworks in my neighborhood? | As background, I have dogs that are terrified of loud noises, and I have a sensory issue with loud sudden noises that causes significant discomfort.
- Our neighborhood is on the outskirts of town. It is legal to discharge fireworks here.
- Our neighborhood is under an HOA, which forbids fireworks.
- Our neighbors th... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "making my Co-Worker work later",
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24Zl5YU9R6eFIqbztTruDwlUXBmyAn4l | 9z36up | {
"description": "getting a free taxi ride",
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} | AITA for getting a free taxi ride? | I went out for drinks with my colleagues after work one day this week and it went a bit later than expected. This meant that public transport (which I normally catch to and from work) was no long an option to get home. While I normally would catch an Uber, in my laziness I decided that catching a taxi would be easier.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "bringing up my sisters eating habits/very overweight",
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} | AITA if I bring up my sisters eating habits/very overweight? | I mean, she weighs 250 pounds at least (she’s only 5 6, she’s considered obese) and whenever I’m with her she eats everything and drinks a bunch of soda.
I don’t want to be an asshole but at this rate she’ll cut her life span in half...
Should I talk to her about it? Or just leave it alone. | HISTORICAL | {
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yE6LLilvKPkCNLToDXJghMEToLfg03PO | akonn5 | {
"description": "texting one of my exes while being engaged",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for texting one of my exes while being Engaged? | My fiancé has all my passwords, she generally trusts me and doesn’t look through my phone (probably mostly because i have my phone on me at all times) but one day she did and discovered that i had a very short conversation with an ex asking her to recover my email password that she stole. It went something like this
... | HISTORICAL | {
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YWThqJAMOwdDksEBdIWsBRQvWSuZwBfA | b1478y | {
"description": "venting using someones first name",
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} | AITA for venting using someones first name? | AITA for using someones first name extensively in a venting post on r/venting? Just first name, no age, last name, middle names, locations, appearance or any other personal information.
After I vented I told them and they told me to take it down after saying "You have posted my name and slated me for the whole interne... | HISTORICAL | {
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OCUYyivuPwun6QQ1l23BUbUzCF3r5LE4 | ak5my4 | {
"description": "ditching my girlfriend's family dinner to go study for a hard class",
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} | AITA ditching my girlfriend's family dinner to go study for a hard class | My girlfriend's parents got divorced and her mom's got a new boyfriend. Her mom wants us (girlfriend & me) to double-date with her and a few aunts/uncles tonight.
Girlfriend feels uncomfortable about the whole thing and wants me to come with her so she feels less uncomfortable.
I'm stressed with work and am als... | HISTORICAL | {
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A5WA0FpLHdFgnUOj0aZy1Dec0DC54Ogr | b8s70z | {
"description": "getting upset about my old ass car",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for getting upset about my old ass car? | So I own an old 80's Toyota. Paint is shit and haven't driven it for almost a year.
Having spent a good amount of money to get it where it is mechanically, it's now just sitting out there collecting dust, leaves, cobwebs, you name it. But I can dust off the ol' jalopy, turn the key and she'll start right up (assuming... | HISTORICAL | {
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Fnn8LKSGHTzWajWmKxTF505lasDmu9Ko | 9turr5 | {
"description": "defending myself about Borderline Personality disorder",
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} | AITA for defending myself about Borderline Personality Disorder? | \[TL;DR at bottom\] Okay, a little history first. I was diagnosed with BPD in my early 20s, which was unsurprising given my personal history. I'd had a pretty messed up childhood and was already dxed with a handful of neurological and mental illnesses. I was in a bad place, with a severe drinking problem, self-harming,... | HISTORICAL | {
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sxFXNDIRpoBmsw7XPjeXQ6KhXP4kIdsC | 9wtwoj | {
"description": "getting angry and feeling hurt by my guardian",
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} | AITA for getting angry and feeling hurt by my guardian? | A few things I should mention me and my guardian have a rocky relationship or one where it isn't really there at all in my opinion as I'll see them maybe a few times a day or sometimes not at all despite living in the same house. Me and my sibling have a small age gap by only a few years we also live in the same house.... | HISTORICAL | {
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2FRlR9LgF44XWsAaQ1n9oAHacJzDQpAs | arsw80 | {
"description": "writing an anonymous letter to my friend's pastor about the corrupt \"Mommy Group\"",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA if I wrote an anonymous letter to my friend’s pastor about the corrupt “Mommy Group”? | I’ve asked a couple people in real life (the thing outside the internet) what they think, but I know my age/socio-economic/political stances have brought me to friends who think similarly to me, and therefore would not be able to give me a non-biased opinion.
Background:
My best best friend in the whole wide world do... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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lj4WIddla6KjEmRtCcnRzRKau4eX9xLw | b1ye12 | {
"description": "not giving my STBXW the carpet shampooer",
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} | AITA for not giving my STBXW the carpet shampooer? | I bought my STBXW a carpet cleaner / floor shampooer probably 10 years ago. She's moving her stuff out today and says she wants her carpet cleaner. I say no. She says it's her's and I bought it for her.
I did buy her one, 10 years ago. We used it, and over time it wore out, the motor broke and it was thrown away. We... | HISTORICAL | {
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Cjy0JAjGoFhLRveZDCGvI2OxAAtwvbCY | b3imli | {
"description": "acting like a brat towards my dad",
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} | AITA for acting like a brat towards my dad? | I'm very not sure if this breaks the non violence rule?? I wouldn't call it violence exactly? I'm not sure please let me know.
Ok, i think this will be long so tldr at the end.
First time poster, throwaway, on mobile, english is my second language (i'm also 14 so don't expect much) etc. etc..
Backstory:
Been bulimic ... | HISTORICAL | {
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CqwZDq5xzkBLKQkWgW2mSjyxhijfOc26 | b0u054 | {
"description": "not returning the second pack of cookies I got from my workplace's vending machine",
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} | WIBTA If I don't return the second pack of cookies I got from my workplace's vending machine? | So today I (26M) was at work, and I wanted some cookies from the vending machine during lunch. The first pack got stuck and the machine kept trying to push them to fall so eventually two packs of cookies were now pushed and both fell. I said "Yes!" and offered a pack to my co-worker (35~45M) who was on the phone. He de... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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OQ2As2LZyaBI12zuhD0aZhKlT6ZLHkMc | aamjg3 | {
"description": "getting involved in a conversation between a mother and a child",
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} | AITA for getting involved in a conversation between a mother and a child? | I was in NYC this past week doing some business-related stuff. I went into the public restroom of the office building I was in, and there was a mother and a child (about four or five) washing their hands. The conversation went like this:
Mother: What do you want to eat for dinner?
Child: Something sweet and yummy!
Mot... | HISTORICAL | {
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R0AMMZcgVsWKxsEl97nZZhSjq0AwsxkU | b0iqym | {
"description": "being upset at my mom for asking others about my personal life before asking me",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for being upset at my mom for asking others about my personal life before asking me? | First of all, I'm a pansexual man who has been dating a trans man for just over 4 months. This is my first relationship with someone other than a straight girl.
My mom, in the past, has told others things about me that are very personal and without my knowledge. It often results in extremely embarassing moments for me... | HISTORICAL | {
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EfjGZnwo172ZaSPYAffm7qjlHFlAWgBA | as5d8h | {
"description": "refusing to wear the promise ring my boyfriend gifted me",
"pronormative_score": 16,
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} | AITA for refusing to wear the promise ring my boyfriend gifted me? | When we started dating I told my boyfriend I didn't want promise rings, I don't like it.
I don't really have a good reason, I normally like jewelry and wear them. I just don't like promise rings.
So we had Valentine's day plus our one year anniversary. He got us promise rings. I told him to get his money back I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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6jVC2MvTS7a7iYoxDYoIWptFw60Y56BN | aqr2km | {
"description": "being unresponsive to my friend that wants to hang out often",
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} | AITA for being unresponsive to my friend that wants to hang out often? | I'm at a college where it's common to be involved in clubs, 15+ units, and working on projects. I met a really cool friend last year, but it became clear than I like to be involved in a lot of stuff while he likes to relax, cook, play videogames, and just do school. Nothing wrong with that, but it's a big contrast to t... | HISTORICAL | {
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96ElRMdG26aROGzGYFcItYzzwA78ezij | anpcdn | {
"description": "asking my boyfriend to stop being friends with his ex",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for asking my boyfriend to stop being friends with his ex? | My bf(20) and I(f23) had a long conversation about our past relationships and just experiences. He told me he thinks he still loves his ex and he wonders if he made the right choice breaking up with her. No shit, he told me that right after I told him I was raped. Talk about insensitive timing. Naturally, I told him ri... | HISTORICAL | {
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FOzycpTFk9UV3j9k9gsoM24NACjb03vD | ami02j | {
"description": "being upset with my mom after she called a place I owed money to",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for being upset with my mom after she called a place I owed money to? | Let me start by saying I love my mother and we have a fantastic relationship.
In December I moved out of an apartment I was leasing, before my lease was up. I didn’t tell anyone except my boyfriend who I was moving in with. I still had three months on the lease and was planning on paying it in full this month.
Rece... | HISTORICAL | {
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qHeqLwIgsmwMXOO7pmg8RfI4pNWIpJMh | an31xu | {
"description": "wanting to call into work",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting to call into work? | I work Saturday, Sunday, and Moday on a 12 hour shift. Saturday and Sunday (yesterday) I've had this headache that made me feel sleepy, dizzy, and light headed. I work at a warehouse and this isn't good, right?
But my mom seems to think otherwise. She just gets so mad and insults me every time I want to call into work... | HISTORICAL | {
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cttxDJhHpG33gSZKsLa11RWewuxAhtvO | a5s73d | {
"description": "being jealous of my fiancè for buying a switch",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA For being jealous of my fiancè for buying a Switch | To be specific, 3 nintendo switchs. Throwaway for too much identifying information.
My fiancè works for a big company that rhymes with Malmart, and for those of you who don't know on black friday they get a discount that stacks on top of their employee discount plus the black friday discounts, which means a lot of sav... | HISTORICAL | {
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dLSWPk9VmNnAaCFZ8E6qePFOv0HB4eN6 | axr3rv | {
"description": "being upset that my boyfriend is about to get an amazing job in another state",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for being upset that my boyfriend is about to get an amazing job in another state? | My boyfriend (18M), we'll call him A, and I (18F) have been dating for nearly 3 years, and we are both going to school in different states, so we've been long distance about 7 months now. We definitely fight much more when we're long distance compared to when we're together, and it's making us both sad to be apart for ... | HISTORICAL | {
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LyzWcLCIBNQ2Y3MTT51wLClGuzHnCqC0 | ancesd | {
"description": "getting mad at my gf for changing our evening plans and ignoring my messages regarding them",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for getting mad at my (27m) gf (25f) for changing our evening plans and ignoring my messages regarding them? | Background - it's after work, I've had a long day and we have made plans to go for a run and play golf when we get home.
She's been out all afternoon with her mother and sister and I'm waiting for the train home. We're texting back and forth and we work out it will be slightly quicker for me to come to them and for us... | HISTORICAL | {
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dYezJsGYl1fxK96menHcZDQFUAVgmP7G | b7xhqn | {
"description": "throwing out a bunch of packed away stuff without consulting my wife",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if I threw out a bunch of packed away stuff without consulting my wife? | Okay, so my wife and I have moved quite a bit throughout our relationship, and as such, thinfs have gotten packed and unpacked and mixed around numerous times. We've been married going on 4 years, and together almost 8, and in that time, we've moved 6 times (needed more room due to pregnancy, helped family, landlord ne... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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4kI8dN5EIlQ5KMWZy85d2rlzUmdC4Usi | ahergg | {
"description": "yelling at my mom after she told me \"wasn't doing anything with my life\" even though I'm sixteen",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for yelling at my mom after she told me "wasn't doing anything with my life" even though I'm sixteen | My mom got my last semesters report card and my grades wearnt that good to say the least. I was failing multiple classes and was barely passing others. In my defense I have bad adhd and I had continuously asked her to schedule a doctors appointment to get me the proper medication witch I only received at the very end o... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZsmyiqBM0SLusAM6MtHO9ZnUa45PCgJk | 9wipbt | {
"description": "feeling upset that my girlfriend is more impacted over Stan Lee's death than my father's death",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA for feeling upset that my girlfriend is more impacted over Stan Lee's death than my father's death. | I know that I am the asshole because I blew up on her about it when I should have been calm and should have stepped away from the issue. Don't judge me on that, because I could not have helped that part, but I still need insight on why it's wrong/right for me to feel this way.
I have known my girlfriend (20F) for four... | HISTORICAL | {
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AE1w579uh2Vhur56JMc7TwG9DdbXc82b | am08j8 | null | AITA or is my mother the asshole? | This is a long story, so please bare with it
So me and my family have just moved, but ever since day one I’ve been constantly pushing me to get a job, to which I’ve already been doing, handing out CV’s and doing interviews and shit in the retail sector... even though after the Christmas rush not many need us, they w... | HISTORICAL | {
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H1sc8vW4990I5sf1FC5vfvItSbEe2JCx | b09kpj | {
"description": "not telling Tinder dates that I have a daughter until after the first date",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 14
} | WIBTA if I don't tell Tinder dates that I have a daughter until after the first date? | Hi all! I (23M) am recently out of a 5 year marriage with a woman that cheated on me. I have a 4 year old daughter with her, and while we're still working out the legal side of everything, it is looking like I will have primary custody.
I love my daughter more than anything, and don't necessarily want to hide her, bu... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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4azKxgNRLv9t5Sx5bvS4aKkx5EfrvZY6 | aet2df | {
"description": "asking my boyfriend to bring vegetables for dinner",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for asking my boyfriend to bring vegetables for dinner? | Slightly weird title. My boyfriend (or date idk) is a doctor and I'm a student. I asked him round for dinner as my housemates were out.
Me: Hi (bf) would you like to come for dinner? I can make cottage pie?
Bf: yeah I'll be over at 6
Me:also do you mind bringing some vegetables as we are running low in the house
Bf: ... | HISTORICAL | {
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jkBGdabkBNqwbKwSmilX2LajzsNLiZyv | b73xps | {
"description": "dancing and drinking? I am 16",
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} | AITA for dancing and drinking? I am 16. | So, last night was my birthday. I made a party, a really ''real'' party. All my friends were in our house. I live with my brother because …. its a long and b/sad story. I asked my brother the permission and he gave me.
​
So, while we were all having fun, barbecuing and everything. Around 19:00, my bfs fri... | HISTORICAL | {
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L1EnpsbYeQ1u3Aucbf1cwyHlvnS93iSq | aldsq5 | {
"description": "not allowing my children to use their phones to contact my ex",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not allowing my children to use their phones to contact my ex? | AITA? Backstory: My ex is a real treat. He gave my older kids eating disorders, tried to brainwash the kids into urine therapy through scaring them that cavities were cancer and we had an epic divorce full of him demanding dirt, which I wasn't about to pay to excavate from the yard. After the divorce he quit his job ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rlAldkrmSnFYOsc2kMIyPI6eBbKu1bB8 | ap7r4l | {
"description": "cutting off contact with someone I was afraid of",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for cutting off contact with someone I was afraid of (even though he'd done nothing to me personally)? | A bit of context: in high school, which I'll call LC, I got incredibly sick and basically had to drop out my sophomore and junior year. To be able to graduate on time, I needed to go to a special high school along with my old high school. The "special" high school is called OTA. It's filled with students who either wer... | HISTORICAL | {
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MqoHyydW103S7PBuHHo4D6dyCadW8J3n | a650gm | {
"description": "wanting to wait to date someone",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for wanting to wait to date someone? | Me (23F) and this guy I have been seeing (25M) have been talking/seeing each other for a few months now. I met him back in high school but never became friends until now, after high school and college. Everything is going well and he really wants to date me. The only issue is, is that he is leaving for work out of the... | HISTORICAL | {
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