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{ "description": "not wanting to be one the phone with my gf", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to be one the phone with my GF.
I’m an introvert, so is my GF, but she constantly wants to call/text me. Like everyday. We’ve been together for a few months and I’ve already told her (multiple times) that I hate being on the phone. But everyday she ask if I can call her. She’ll literally leave my dorm, then text me form her car and ask if I can talk....
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{ "description": "not letting a parent watch his child", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for not letting a parent watch his child?
Some back story I work as a martial art instructor teaching people Tae Kwon Do etc etc... The ages range anywhere from 4 years old to 60, how ever the majority of the class is under 16. Most parents stay to watch their kids learn but the one in question has been recently put on trail for multiple counts of child lu...
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{ "description": "questioning my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for questioning my friend?
Context: I've been chronically unwell for a long long time. My friend comes to my house when I'm not well enough to go out. She used to invite me to go out with her but since she moved in with her boyfriend recently, she's just been coming to my house and going out with him and other people, until I asked her why she d...
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{ "description": "being frustrated when my girlfriend falls asleep", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being frustrated when my girlfriend falls asleep
As the Superbowl is nearing I'm wondering about this: Often, when my girlfriend and I (both in our early twenties) do something in the evening that's rather passive - like watching a movie or tv - she falls asleep. It doesnt matter what we watch, and on bad days, she'll fall asleep at 9pm. If we do different things, ...
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{ "description": "abandoning my best friend to protect my mental health", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for abandoning my best friend to protect my mental health?
This is a throwaway account. Pardon me, this is kind of a long story. So there's this girl - Let's call her Alexis - who I have been best friends with for three years. We met in our freshmen year of University, and we are both Juniors now. For a while, we were extremely close, to the point where I actually considered ...
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{ "description": "\"forbidding\" something for my (now ex) girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for "forbidding" something for my (now ex) girlfriend?
This happened a while ago (6 months) but I still think about it a lot, still wondering if I was wrong or not. A little bit of backstory first (I'll split this in two parts, first what led to my decision to forbid her something, and then why I did it), we where in a 2 year relationship (we had a relation ship before th...
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{ "description": "ignoring Facebook marketplace messages", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ignoring Facebook marketplace messages?
I honestly can’t tell if I’m in the wrong, or if the potential buyer (pb) is a choosing beggar. I am admittedly very bad at answering texts or messages if I’m not close to the other person and it’s not pressing. I put a Nintendo 64 on Facebook marketplace, and after getting a few scam attempts, I basically started igno...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my toxic friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to leave my toxic friendship?
Hello everyone! For this stories sake the people in this story will be called Eleanor & James. I've known Eleanor & James for a few years now as we all work at the same job. I have more in common with James and not much at all with Eleanor which is probably why i get on with him better. Anyway, i never real...
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{ "description": "not taking care of my sick girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for not taking care of my sick girlfriend?
So I started dating this girl in college. I'm bi and she was the first girl I ever dated and things were going pretty well. I was her first kiss and we were pretty into each other. So during the weeks leading up to finals week, she found out that she had mono and it was a pretty bad case. She didn't tell me just how ba...
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{ "description": "no longer waiting for my group members to split up the work and just doing a large chunk of it when its due soon", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for no longer waiting for my group members to split up the work and just doing a large chunk of it when its due soon?
This one is a bit long but I'll try to keep it short (also on mobile so formatting issues) I'm a really good student, or at least I try to be. I get my work done, I study hard, I participate in class a lot, you get the picture. One thing that I'm not good at is group projects. I used to be good at asking people how we ...
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{ "description": "mowing my lawn at midnight", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA for mowing my lawn at midnight?
So, yes I’m on a alt for many reasons. My neighbor and I used to be good friends. We would shoot pool together and drink beer. We didn’t really get drunk, but just enough to have some fun and relax. I got a job working night shift about 5 months ago and our friendship fell apart. We were never joke together so we j...
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{ "description": "calling animal control to pick up my neighbor's cat", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I called animal control to pick up my neighbor's cat?
So my neighbor's have two cats. They say one is an indoor cat and the other one is an outdoor cat. The outdoor cat is very sweet and I don't mind her hanging out on my porch for some shade. She's started bringing dead animals on the porch and just leaving them. I talked to my neighbors and they just said "we can't cont...
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{ "description": "for drifting away from a friend after getting rejected", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for for drifting away from a friend after getting rejected?
I met her a while back and we just hit it off, becoming really close and really good friends. Relatively recently I started to develop feelings for her and figured the best thing to do was just come out and tell her. Unfortunately she told me she didn’t feel the same way, she just saw me as a friend and I accepted it, ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to celebrate my birthday", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I don't want to celebrate my birthday?
My father really wants to celebrate my birthday tomorrow. I get he cares about me and all that stuff, but I personally hate holidays. I think they're shameless corporate cash grabs that have been robbed of any real meaning or history they may have once had and produce unnecessary stress. Like how Christmas is an extrem...
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{ "description": "asking a woman what a Labia is", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking a woman what a Labia is?
Two weeks ago I was visiting my cousin in Philly and we went out to a real waterhole. My cousin started telling me a story when he went out to a beer garden and this girl started peeing right in front of him. “ Her Labia was staring right at me” “ what is a Labia” I asked him. He wouldn’t tell me so I asked a female...
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{ "description": "thinking that my friend is a little overboard with his workouts and his constant Facebook praises about himself", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for thinking that my friend is a little overboard with his workouts and his constant Facebook praises about himself
Close friend of mine has always been the athletic type though he was also a gamer. Though in the last few years when most if our friends became distant with their own relationships. He filled the void by becoming hyper active in gyms. He regularly posts on Facebook about his super healthy food and is super strict worko...
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{ "description": "keeping a list of all the girls I've slept with", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 52 }
AITA for keeping a list of all the girls I've slept with?
I (22M) have a journal with a list of the names of all the girls that I've slept with (slept with 15 girls). This includes committed relationships (2), fuckbuddy scenarios (3) and one-night stands/hookups (10). Every time I have sex, I make sure to write the name of the girl down with a rating of how good looking I t...
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{ "description": "forgetting my youth friends child and wifes birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forgetting my youth friends child and wifes birthday?
My best friend from young age (15-22) and I life in different counties since 7 years. Meanwhile he is married and has a child. He made me the godfather of the child 4 years ago. However, I only see them once a year and do not really have a deep connection to them. It is not the same friendship anymore as we life very d...
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{ "description": "not loving someone who isn't even actually my sister", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not loving someone who isn't even ACTUALLY my sister?
I'm on mobile yadda yadda. But something's been bugging me for about a year and I need some outside help. TLDR: My "sister" is not my dad's child but begs and pleads for money and I want her out of our lives. AITA for just wanting to convince my dad to cut all contact and let her go? I'll give you guys some back stor...
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{ "description": "being upset my boyfriend is wanting to help me get into shape", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being upset my boyfriend is wanting to help me get into shape
I (19F) recently got into a really selective dance school and at our second rehearsal we were all told we got ‘a little too festive during the festive season’ and needed to loose weight. Now I’m 5”7 and 136 pounds (62kg) and pretty happy with my size, and lot of that confidence has to do with my boyfriend as he helped...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to college in my hometown", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to go to college in my hometown?
Me and my wife currently live ~13 hours away from my hometown, in a state I hate. Ive pretty much resigned myself to living here for the rest of my life cuz my wife would be extremely unhappy otherwise, but before I spend the rest of my life here I wanted to get a Bach degree in Computer programming and/or game design....
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay?
So my boyfriend and I live together and we pay everything 50/50. He will even ask money back when I forget my wallet and he has to pay 10 euro's. I am much easier with money and actually never ask anything back not even from friends. Because my boyfriend and I both have a pretty good income. So last month he got a par...
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{ "description": "refusing to do a job because I dont like the way the owner wants it done", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I refuse to do a job because I dont like the way the owner wants it done.
I do handyman work, mostly painting, on the side. I have a long time client who happens to be my landlord and is often frustrating to work with. Currently he wants me to paint doors and trim work inside an apartment with tenants currently living there with a two year old. He is notorious for short cuts while always cla...
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{ "description": "selling Yeezys my friend lined up 40 minutes for", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for selling Yeezys my friend lined up 40 minutes for
When a new pair of Yeezys got released, a friend of mine (let's call her Stacey) lined up 40min to buy them. When she got to the front of the line she found out they didn't have her size so she called me and asked if I wanted a pair. I said sure because I genuinely thought they were nice and wanted them (but also didn'...
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{ "description": "thinking my girlfriend is milking her dad being in the hospital", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA if I think my girlfriend is milking her dad being in the hospital?
My girlfriend's dad, who does not like me one bit, had a stroke suddenly and had to rush to the emergency room. As of today he is still in the intensive care unit, so my girlfriend is worrying too much about him. I told her over and over he is going to be fine. He is being taken care of and her sulking is not going to ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to conduct my mothers marriage ceremony", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to conduct my mothers marriage ceremony?
A few days ago, my mother asked me to conduct a marriage ceremony for her, since I'm ordained and can legally marry people. She has apparently been talking to a man in prison for the past 7 months, but this is was the first I heard of him. This guy is in prison, I have no idea how they got to talking, my mom has been...
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{ "description": "asking my parents to take better care of my laptop without breaking another one", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my parents to take better care of my laptop without breaking another one?
The last laptop I had was a Toshina and I loved to pieces, I had it from 2013 and took amazing care of it. By 2017, it was still working perfectly as I take really good care of my things. My parents broke theirs and asked if they could use mine; because I didn’t use it much anymore I said ok. Within a few months, the ...
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{ "description": "bringing a girl to a party where my ex was", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for bringing a girl to a party where my ex was?
So my ex had broken up with me roughly 3 months prior after a rough relationship but we soon decided to be friends. A few months after I started talking to someone and brought her to a party my ex was at. I didn't know how to tell my ex or even if I should tell her that I was seeing someone new beforehand. The girl I b...
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{ "description": "not wanting Snapchats from my friend after she had sex", "pronormative_score": 76, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting Snapchats from my friend after she had sex?
So I'm a guy and she's at uni, I'm on my gap year. Recently she started seeing a guy and keeps making it painfully obvious that he's "the Irish version of me". I thought, great, that's fine none of my business and I'm glad she's moving on. We had a small on and off thing in school a few years back but still managed to ...
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{ "description": "kicking out a couple who brought their baby and toddler to my wedding because I wanted a child-free event", "pronormative_score": 337, "contranormative_score": 82 }
AITA for kicking out a couple who brought their baby and toddler to my wedding because I wanted a child-free event?
This couple I’m not very close with but the wife is a long-time family friend so I felt that I should invite her. To be clear, all of my invitations stated that there were to be no children at this wedding. But she and her husband showed up with their infant and toddler (who I think is like 3-4). At the actual weddin...
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{ "description": "telling my partner to get a job", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Telling my partner to get a job?
Me and my partner have been together for 8 years, and are pretty inseparable, I am the step dad to her little girl, and consider her my own. We met at university, she dropped out after about a year and I continued on for a second before also leaving. Her reasons for leaving were pretty much a nervous breakdown caused ...
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{ "description": "trying to ruin her marriage", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to ruin her marriage?
So, a little background. Names have been changed for obvious reasons. I had been dating/living with a guy named John for about 4 years. His sister Jane married her high school sweetheart, David. David was smart, kind and had supported her through multiple career changes, medical problems, and just seemed to be a great...
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{ "description": "not making my older sister a sandwich", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not making my older sister a sandwich?
I was hungry so I made myself a ham and cheese sandwich, and right when I started eating it my older sister tells me "You couldn't have offered to make me one?" So that I would make her one also. I tell her "Dude just make one, the bread ect. Is right here" she then tells me how no I should have offered to make her one...
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{ "description": "not helping my parents with house work", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not helping my parents with house work?
Three weeks ago, my parents asked my to help them with cleaning and working on the roof of their second house they want to sell. I told them that I would try to get off work that day but there was no guarantee. I tried to get anyone to cover my shift, but no one could, not even my boss. I told them the day before that ...
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{ "description": "not going in to work on my two days off", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going in to work on my two days off.
So ill keep this short and frigging simple. I work at a car dealership and run their carwash as well as detail cars on the side. Recently the car wash has been breaking down alot. Before on storm days or or when it was a quick fix id come in one of my days off to make up the hours, which are Monday and Tuesday. Somet...
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AITA - my partner has asked if his brother could stay with us for a while and I said that I wasn’t sure.
My partner’s brother recently relapsed on meth and wants to get away from where he is currently living as he blames that situation on the reason why he relapsed. I really don’t feel comfortable having him stay at our house if we aren’t home however my mother and sister made me feel guilty about it. They asked how I w...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my father", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting ties with my father?
I was diagnosed with Aspergers (or Autism 1 as it’s now called I believe) at the age of 7. For those of you who don’t know, Aspergers is on the higher functioning end of the autism spectrum, and someone with it normally exhibits anti social tendencies, angry behaviour, sometimes higher intelligence, a tendency to becom...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pick my boyfriend up at 1am from the airport", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to pick my boyfriend up at 1am from the airport ?
My boyfriend was on vacation for three weeks and his flight gets in at 11:15pm. It’s international so he’d have to go through customs and wait for his luggage (big city airport). He planned to take me out after my work the next day. Well, my commute is 1:45-2 hours one way if we go to his apt after I pick him up. ...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend I'd be less attracted to him for getting a tattoo", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend I’d be less attracted to him for getting a tattoo?
I saw a similar post earlier so I thought I’d ask a question that’s been nagging me. For my entire life, for some odd reason, I have had an aversion to most tattoos. Ever since I was a child and my mom was skimming through a magazine I’d see a tattoo and say “eeew what is that?” For some reason this has followed me to...
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{ "description": "agreeing to help a member of the opposite sex study for a difficult exam while being in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for agreeing to help a member of the opposite sex study for a difficult exam while being in a relationship?
Basically, my boyfriend and me have a policy of not getting too friendly with members of the opposite sex. Throughout the course of our relationship I've cut off all ties with my male friends so that my boyfriend wouldn't feel threatened about losing me to someone. I mostly agree with such an arrangement, since life is...
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{ "description": "wanting to have good time with my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to have good time with my friend?
Ok so I’m staying over at my best friends house over the weekend. As I’ve done so many times but Ive never had a car, And I just recently got my very own one. And he doesn’t want to do anything, and it’s killing me. I came here to spend a good time with him and go out and eat explore and have fun.but all he wants to do...
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{ "description": "saying \"left SIDE PASS left SIDE PASS\" and also for asking some people if they're beginners", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying "LEFT SIDE PASS LEFT SIDE PASS" and also for asking some people if they're beginners?
I dance West Coast Swing. Yesterday we had a workshop and then a social. Before the workshop was a beginner lesson. During the workshop, we worked on fun stuff with the left side pass. One of my friends kept turning to his right side, so I told him "LEFT SIDE PASS. LEFT SIDE PASS." After that he did it correctly. Anoth...
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AITA For Apparently Being A Toxic Bf
Ok so I have been "digital friends" with this girl and one day I asked her out it took a while for her to respond but eventually she said yes as back then I used to roleplay (ik creepy) I asked if she can rp put on a collar she asked me why and I said it would be hot as I have a slave kink (weird as fuck right) So We ...
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{ "description": "thinking about my personal goals now that I have a new born daughter", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking about my personal goals now that I have a new born daughter?
So basically, I am a first time dad (22) living with my wife Nat who is also a first time parent (21) and my beautiful baby Amy who's barely a month old. Now, my greatest passions in life were playing soccer (since i was once a semiprofessional player in high school) and playing xbox online (big time halo and gears fan...
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{ "description": "reporting former teacher on FB", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA Reporting former teacher on FB
My high school speech and debate teacher from 7 years ago posted on FB pictures of two of her boys in the bathtub. They're both really young (3 and 1 or 2 years old) and they were both naked in clear bathwater. You couldn't see their genitalia, but you could see EVERYTHING else, including their bottom. Most of the pos...
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{ "description": "wanting a better significant other", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting a better significant other(SO)?
Been sick and off work past two nights. SO doesn't want to get sick because she is a nurse. They called her off work tonight so we both happen to be off. During our txt convo, she asked if I needed anything and I told her I didn't think so and that I just took some meds. She then continued on to say soup would help a...
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{ "description": "purposely advocating for the least popular consensus in these posts", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I purposely advocated for the least popular consensus in these posts?
I mean, it's great to get unanimous NTAs or YTAs, but do you think it would be productive to argue from the other perspective? OR would this just be considered trolling? Because in every situation, there's never a clear asshole. We only ever hear the perspective of the poster, which more often than not, is made to flat...
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{ "description": "having this financial view on vacation", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for having this financial view on vacation?
My gf and I are starting our new jobs. We have MASSIVE amounts of debt but we both have jobs where we can live comfortably and make good sized payments on our student loans. Now because of social media she constantly sees all our other friends in our field going on lavish vacations and what not. She recently shared t...
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{ "description": "telling my fiancé I don't want his incel friend to be his best man", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for telling my fiancé I don’t want his incel friend to be his best man?
So me and my partner have been together for over 4 years and he proposed to me a few months ago. We’ve had our ups and downs like any normal couple. The biggest point of friction has been his incel best friend but it's never been a dealbreaker for the relationship just friction. When he told me he wanted that guy to be...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my best friend because he always makes fun of my height", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my best friend because he always makes fun of my height?
sorry im posting from phone so format might be all weird, but please bear with me. also please forgive my English. some backstory before i start. im a short guy, like 5'4 short, and ive always hated myself for being short. my height has always given me problems with it comes to dating, and i was bullied for being sho...
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{ "description": "calling out my cousin over damaging my property even though she may get physical hit because of it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I call out my cousin over damaging my property even though she may get physical hit because of it?
(Using throwaway) I am [M18], my sister is [F22], my cousin is [F7] and her parents are [M and F both mid 30s]. So my cousin and her parents came over yesterday. She was bored so was hanging out in my room playing with my things. I was busy with things so I wasn’t really paying much attention to her but then I notice...
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{ "description": "not being with my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being with my friend
Before i say anything, i just want to apologies for my layout as this is the first time I've posted to Reddit. Ok, so I'll start with some back story, I'm in year 9 (I'm 14 for those who don't live in the UK) and at lunch we can go anywhere we want but you can't eat in the majority of the school. so my friend and i...
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{ "description": "not taking my friend his keys after he left them in my car", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not taking my friend his keys after he left them in my car?
For a little backstory, I'm currently a high school senior, and every morning my friends and I congregate in my car before the first bell rings so we can finish homework/talk without having to sit in the commons of our school, which are usually really crowded in the mornings. This also happened today, and today also ha...
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{ "description": "cutting this friend out of my life", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting this friend out of my life?
I've had this friend for quite a few months. She didn't really have any friends, so I started spending time with her. People didn't seem to like her, and she was alone most of the time, so I felt kind of bad for her. I thought she seemed pretty intelligent, had interesting things to say, and I just assumed she was mis...
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{ "description": "wanting to stop being freinds with someone \"because he's black\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting to stop being freinds with someone "because he's black"?
Recently my girlfriend of 2 months left me for my friend. We weren't super close friends but I had known him for a while and see eachother quite often. I really liked this girl and thought it was going well so was surprised when she broke up with me. I found out a couple days after we broke up that this friend made a m...
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{ "description": "frequently turning down my friend's invite to tag along", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for frequently turning down my friend's invite to tag along?
Whenever I try to make plans with my good friend Heather, she is \*always\* busy, but Heather is a nice person and always invites me to tag along. While I initially appreciated this, I am starting to get very frustrated. Yes, she invites me to parties or events and they can be fun! But it often requires me rearranging...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay at my girlfriends house when her dad is here", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to stay at my girlfriends house when her dad is here?
I can't say I really have a problem with him other than the fact he says stuff about our relationship mostly when he's drunk, if I could I'd have a word with him and tell him how it is but for reasons I can't, anyway the situation usually is he goes to his girlfriends for 4/5 days every two weeks which gives me and gf ...
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{ "description": "being upset at not being invited to my sister's wedding even though I've been clean for over a year", "pronormative_score": 82, "contranormative_score": 68 }
AITA for being upset at not being invited to my sister’s wedding even though I’ve been clean for over a year?
Please bear with me through all these details. Long story short, I got addicted to opiates, and then heroin, after a car accident a few years ago that left me with chronic pain. I am not debating my assholeness when I was at my worst. I know I was bad. I lied to my little sister (who is now 25 and I’m 28), I stole m...
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{ "description": "talking over my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For talking over my friend?
So, apologies, first reddit post. Something happened today and I really need to get some closure. For background, my friend A. and I have been friends for years, we’re both girls and juniors in high school now, and she’s the kind of person I know I can trust with anything. So, for years, we’ve had a close relationship,...
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{ "description": "attempting to distance myself from friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for attempting to distance myself from friends
Hi, I’m a 15 year old male here. I’m stuck in a large group of friends that I’ve been in since entering high school. They’re decent people, and I don’t hate any of them, but they’re all very loud. I tend to eat my lunch alone in a specific spot, and they all fill in, one by one, till the area is bursting with chatter. ...
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{ "description": "taking off and leaving my date behind", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking off and leaving my date behind?
so I (24M) met this chick through a friend,we have known each other for some years but never actually hung out. The other day, I saw her after a long time and there were a lot of good vibes, so I just asked her out and she said yes. We went for a couple of drinks, it was pretty good we talked a lot were both quite r...
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{ "description": "lying about my virginity to my fiancée", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA asshole for lying about my virginity to my fiancée?
I’m 30 M getting engaged to my 26 F girlfriend of a few years. She has personally wanted to wait until marriage to have sex and that’s something I’ve been fine with. She’s never really made a particularly big deal about it, just something we discussed early in our relationship. The issue is, I’m embarrassed to admit, ...
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{ "description": "avoiding one of my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for avoiding one of my friends
So my friends and I are all in high school and there’s about 15 of us. We have this one “friend” named Gerald who we only see every 1 or 2 months. We only see him when our school has a half-day and we all decide to walk to a nearby restaurant. He always tags along even though none of us really know him outside of thes...
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{ "description": "closing the train doors", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for closing the train doors?
I take the train into the city so I can get to college. Today, it’s 2 degrees celsius outside, there’s frost on the ground and the fog is so thick you can barely see two feet in front of you. I also have a skirt on today and couldn’t find any proper tights to wear with it, so I’m sitting on this train basically freezin...
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{ "description": "keeping my FWB's number", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for keeping my FWB's number?
A few weeks ago, my (M22) friend with benefits (F20) came over to my house to have sex. She stayed over for the night but she said she has to leave in the morning. The next morning, we were having breakfast and she kind of made me feel shitty by saying she's going to go home but also saying things like, "But you probab...
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{ "description": "purposely not tutoring a girl because she rejected me", "pronormative_score": 83, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For purposely not tutoring a girl because she rejected me?
Junior in high school here. Not necessarily the most popular person out there. I honestly don't look very nice and I am quite awkward. Still working on my confidence because I got bullied a lot during middle school. That said, I am fairly well known and respected at school. I am good at studies, and I offer to tutor a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pool baby shower gifts with my mum", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I don't want to pool baby shower gifts with my mum?
Hello reddit, just need a quick opinion to help me to decide whether I'm valid in what I'm feeling or whether I'm just being a prick. My favourite cousin is pregnant (I know we shouldn't favourite family members but we all do), and her baby shower is this Sunday. I've recently got into crocheting and wanted to make a ...
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{ "description": "not helping friend on a accidentally deleted project", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not helping friend on a accidentally deleted project?
(Sorry for bad formatting I’m on mobile). So, 3 days ago at 1am my friend blows me up on discord, explaining how he deleted his project and needed my help, but I had to still work on my mathematics project, and study for a very hard test I had the next day. I asked him what he needed help with, if he had try to recov...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to know my online banking password", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my gf to know my online banking password?
We had a conflict yesterday. We want to describe both sides in detail, point by point, to stay neutral for more accurate feedback. To preface, we each have personal bank accounts plus a shared joint account for shared expenses. This arose because we were trying to log into his steam account to play The Witness. Sh...
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{ "description": "not wating to spend time with my bf after midnight", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wating to spend time with my bf after midnight?
So my boyfriend and i have been friends in five years and recently started dating. Hes very romantic but after the first few month i discovered that that he likes to smoke and be 'adventurous' (mind you we are both 14) it didn't really change our relationship though. So last week I said yes to climb on a roof with him....
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{ "description": "hating my niece and nephew", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my niece and nephew?
I literally hate my niece and nephew. We used to have to live with them and my nephew (although he's only 8) would always hurt me and punch me. His mom hates me, so I was too afraid to ever report it in case of the "my child would never do that" bullshit. And I could never fight back because we had no place to go. We w...
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{ "description": "not contacting my friends long distance boyfriend to tell him that she committed suicide", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not contacting my friends long distance boyfriend to tell him that she committed suicide?
I'll try to keep this short, my (33m) friend (28f) died by suicide a couple of weeks ago. We knew she was in a dark place after going through a rough patch last year but it was very unexpected. A few weeks before this we talked about how she wants to turn her life around and start working on herself, she seemed hopeful...
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{ "description": "not inviting my step-mother's siblings/relatives to my wedding ceremony, even though they're invited to the reception", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not inviting my step-mother's siblings/relatives to my wedding ceremony, even though they're invited to the reception?
I'm really struggling with this and could use some outside perspective. There's going to be some family background because my family is complicated, but bear with me. Thanks in advance for your time. My step-mother has been in my life for almost 26 years. And I really do think of her as my mother. She has been ther...
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{ "description": "being kinda stalkerish", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being kinda stalkerish?
I'm in my schools theater club and in our workshop there are 4 handprints. They have the names of the hands and the year they graduated in the middle of them (2010). I decided to take a picture of it, find the persons hand on facebook and send them the pic. One of them responded "How did you get this", I said "I'm a cu...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend talking to some guy online about dildos and sexual stuff", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I don’t want my girlfriend talking to some guy online about dildos and sexual stuff.
So, long story short this is not recent, it happened a few years ago, We were both about 14 at the time, but my friends and I were having a debate whether or not I was the asshole in this situation. So at the time I had been dating this girl for about 6months, and I really liked her, she had a really nice family, some...
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{ "description": "not letting my girlfriend ask questions in the middle of my story", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not letting my girlfriend ask questions in the middle of my story?
So today my girlfriend and I were talking about acid, she’s never done it before, and I’ve done it about 10 times. I’m no expert but I have a broad enough knowledge to speak intelligently about the subject and the tripping experience. So I’m about 1/3 of the way through of my story (~15 minutes in total so we’re tal...
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{ "description": "not giving my father a loan of 40k", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my father a loan of 40k$
So a little background. I'm a 17 year old living in Finland with my parents. I have always been close to my grandpa because my dad took me and my brothers to see him often especially after my grandma passed. My granddad was very friendly and generous to us and wanted to help us and the only way he could help us was oft...
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AITA - It’s okay?
So, this happened last night and I am still wondering if I am the asshole.. I am getting ready for bed, and decides to climb in bed to sit next to me. He’s holding a cup of water and some cookies. He accidentally kneed my right knee - which almost caused him to almost lose balance. I am rubbing my knee because that h...
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{ "description": "biking on the sidewalk and telling a woman off who got mad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for biking on the sidewalk and telling a woman off who got mad?
This happened a couple days ago and I feel like I'm NTA but that woman seemed really pissed, and I think this sub can let me know if I was in the wrong. I routinely bike to the grocery store over the weekend so that I don't have to rely on my parents to get me food/snack items that I want to eat. (I'm a high schooler)...
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{ "description": "accusing my father of stealing my xbox", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For accusing my father of stealing my Xbox
So about a month ago, my father took my Xbox (a Christmas present from my grandparents, whom of which we live with) and took it to a pawn shop to get a loan from it. I didn't know what happened or where it was for two days until I started asking about it. He told me he lent it to a friend to play with for a day and for...
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WIBTA if I'll refuse teaching a friend of mine some techniques from my PUA days?
Long story short, I used to be the kind of man the incels would call a "Chad". I realized that seeking multiple sexual partners with 0 emotional attachment was detrimental for me and began getting my shit together. Yesterday night I have been at a party with friends. Two of my friends were commenting about their inabi...
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{ "description": "resenting my coworkers success and badmouthing him to our boss", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA For resenting my coworkers success and badmouthing him to our boss.
I am a mid level executive at a firm with multiple other positions each like my own, each trying to get ahead and eventually get promoted. One of these coworkers recently revealed that he makes 350k dollars a year, 50k more than myself. That includes bonuses and incentive pay. I lied and told him I make the same, but ...
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{ "description": "letting things go easily", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting things go easily?
It was the week in school where we establish in-school businesses to raise funds (which would be donated to a charity). We were in a hit in the first day, (making more money that any other booths). The second day, our facilitating teacher (who's like the one who managed the businesses) called us names (non-English off...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to prom if my boyfriend doesn't dress formal", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go to prom if my boyfriend doesn’t dress formal
I’m on mobile so sorry if the formatting is messed up. For context, I do not attend my boyfriends school because I am homeschooled, but nearly all of my social circle goes there, especially my best friend and I have attended the football games and past school dances. So today while talking about what dresses I like, m...
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{ "description": "not attending my graduation ceremony? update", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not attending my graduation ceremony? UPDATE
Hey all. After giving it serious thought and consideration, I am going to attend my graduation ceremony. Apparently they’re going to read a bio or speech or whatever of whoever they’re hooding and I’m going to include gratitude towards my grandma taking care of me.
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{ "description": "asking for a customers help when unloading their truck", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for a customers help when unloading their truck
I work at a thrift store helping people drop off their donations. This guy came with a truck full of big boxes, gets off, says “everything.” And just sits in his car. Normally I would just shrug and do my job but I felt like this was a little disrespectful and my coworker is a 55 year old retired man, the guy was young...
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{ "description": "telling my sister who helped build my company that I'm not making her ceo", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for telling my sister who helped build my company that I'm not making her CEO?
So I run a pretty successful tech company, and am planning on retiring soon. My younger sister [44F], let's call her Julie, has been hinting for a while she wants to be CEO. But quite honestly, I don't think it's a good idea. So, the thing I always make a distinction between is the role of an entrepreneur vs the role...
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{ "description": "feeling bitter towards my little sister all the time", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for feeling bitter towards my little sister all the time
I am a 21yr old trans man. My little sister is 12. My sister is a smart, wonderful kid with a lot of natural talent and ambition. She's only a kid and already she wants to grow up to be a /neurosurgeon/ of all things. She's in the archery and art clubs at her school and gets good grades and would probably ride horses...
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{ "description": "not forgiving him", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Forgiving Him
The backstory behind this is he used to be one of my two best friends, but I couldn't look past or forgive him for doing something to one of my girlfriend's best friends. They had broken up and everyone had went on thinking it was her fault, but fast forward a few months and I start talking to the girl as friends becau...
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{ "description": "taking my Cat back and cutting off my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Taking my Cat Back and Cutting off my Friend?
Hi, guys! First post. Thanks in advance and I apologize, but this is a long one. A cat followed me home one night (we'll call her Fluffy). I wandered around the city and he just kept at it so I brought her into my apartment for the night. I took her to the vet and he was not microchipped. I posted flyers for a found c...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off a friend?
This happened a while back during boys night, where pretty much all of the boys just hangout and have a great time. Anyway, for this particular boys night, we decided to hit up the state fair. So we took two cars there, I drove one, and my friend (let’s call him will, not the friend in question) drove another car. In t...
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{ "description": "pursuing a girl that my friend/roommate has also expressed interest in", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pursuing a girl that my friend/roommate has also expressed interest in?
For a few weeks I have been interested in a girl I met in one of my classes this semester. Because of this, when my roommates and I hosted a house party recently, I invited her hoping to interact outside of a classroom scenario. At the party, one of my roommates met her and also decided that he was interested. This doe...
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{ "description": "thinking my boyfriend is too clingly", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my boyfriend is too clingly?
First post, also on mobile. I'm sure I'm going to mess all kinds of formatting up. We are both 22, been living together for about 3 years now. Met in high school, but didnt start dating until we were adults. I should add this was/is our first "serious" relationship since high school.Throughout this time he's always be...
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{ "description": "refusing to go to an english competition in order to stay with my grandma", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to go to an English competition in order to stay with my grandma?
As the title says , I refused to go to an English competition just to stay with my grandma , and here is why : I was raised by my grandma and my aunt , and my cousin was like my brother . Sometime later my cousin left to get a job out of my country and my aunt left for the same thing , but in a different city. Grand...
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{ "description": "refusing to go to the wedding of a man that accused me of stealing", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to go to the wedding of a man that accused me of stealing
My partner of 5 years just received an invite to the wedding of my ex-boss. We both started to work for this man at the same time, I'll call him Dean. During my employment, it was my job to run the food side of Dean's business. This was the first time Dean had owned his own business, and although both my partner and I ...
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{ "description": "knocking over a nearly finished jigsaw puzzle", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for knocking over a nearly finished jigsaw puzzle?
This person called "Sam" asked me to go get something from their drawer for them. So I go to Sam's room and in front of the drawer is a tv tray table with a large piece of cardboard on top. On this cardboard was a nearly finished jigsaw puzzle. So I carefully moved the table and open the drawer. A few seconds later...
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{ "description": "telling off two annoying young women in a restaurant", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for telling off two annoying young women in a restaurant?
I took my wife and teenage son out to an Applebee's today. There were two young women, late teens or early twenties, seated at a table near us. The whole time they were being loud, obnoxious and making crude jokes. Really low brow toilet humor. I don't feel comfortable repeating this trash talk, but just to give you an...
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{ "description": "choosing a guy over my best friend of four years", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing a guy over my best friend of four years
This is a long story, so bear with me as this unfolds. For four years, I've been extremely close friends with this girl who I'll call M. She's always been very intense and opinionated, but that side of her never reared an ugly head until a few months ago. Recently, I became friends with a guy. I'd kind of known him f...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my friends wife", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for sleeping with my friends wife?
One of my college friends, let's call him Dave, is married to a woman we'll call Cindy. ​ Dave and I ran in the same circles and we were friends, but we weren't close. We never hung out without any of our mutual friends being there. Cindy also ran in the same circles, which is how Dave and her started dati...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend alone in the street", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for leaving my girlfriend alone in the street?
This happened a few ago and it still gets brought up when I make an impulsive decision. In the words of my girlfriend, I have a “hero mentality” and I’m going to get myself killed one day. When I see something happening, I’ll run towards it and not away. I was out with my girlfriend one night, when I heard someone ye...
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