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{ "description": "breaking my friend's trust and causing her embarrassment at school", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking my friend’s trust and causing her embarrassment at school
So I recently got back in town from a long hospitalization process and a friend of mine (I’ll refer to her as M) reached out to me and we decided to hang out at her house to catch up. I feel like we got a lot closer as the night went on and she ended up being my first kiss. When I got home that night she texted me th...
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{ "description": "being pissed at friends planning capabilities", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed at friends planning capabilities?
This is about a group going out eating to celebrate 2 peoples birthdays. Boba Fett: One getting celebrated Han Solo: other one getting celebrated Mr T: Boba Fett's oldest friend Kodo: half of the wombocombo planning it all So 2 weeks ago Solo's gf and Kodo texted a bunch of people about how we were gonna go out and ...
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AITA: BJ deprived (NSFW)
AITA : My gf and I were together for 2 years and a month. I feel a little bad for breaking up with her. I know she wants kids and we are 38 and 36 respectively. So she feels she is down to the wire for a healthy pregnancy. I learned about the 3 week mark that she did not like giving blow jobs and was never going to g...
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AITA for a Facebook request
In my school days there was a humanitarian action to collect money to a student's sick Dad. On our generations Facebook group two girls informed us about that und said that we should message them on Facebook (It was the only social media around) . Before I messeged them I thought I should first made them Facebook frien...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to stop sharing one of her favorite stories", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked my friend to stop sharing one of her favorite stories...
TL;DR - One friend likes to tell a 6 year story about another friend of mine that ends up making the latter sound unreasonable/entitled, and I'm wondering if I can ask her to stop. Backstory: I got married 6 years ago, had five bridesmaids, and there were a few things the MOH did that two of the other bridesmaids took...
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{ "description": "being upset that my GF started texting while I was talking to her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset that my GF started texting while I was talking to her?
We've been together 4 years. This is a sore point because she recently ended an affair where she prioritized texting her homewrecker at every opportunity. ​ Today we were driving to the store together and while I was mid-sentence, her phone buzzed and she pulled up the message and started writing a respon...
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{ "description": "rejecting this guy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for rejecting this guy?
So, I met this guy, let’s call him JOHN in college. Middle of my freshman year, I broke up with my hs boyfriend from home. The breakup was mutual and amicable at first, but took a turn once my ex heard I had started seeing other people after we broke up. So, JOHN, being a nice friend, moved a third mattress into his a...
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{ "description": "hooking up with a good friend's ex girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hooking up with a good friend's ex girlfriend?
Going to try keep this as short and as simple as possible but some context is needed. ​ One of my good friends broke up with his girlfriend approx. 3 months ago. He broke up with her because (from what he told me) he wasn't ready to commit to a long-distance relationship when she went overseas for a period...
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{ "description": "telling my friend not to assume everyone is straight", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend not to assume everyone is straight?
My friend and I were talking about a show we watch on a Discord server, and during the discussion he mentioned that he knows one of the characters is straight because they showed an interest in a member of the opposite sex. I realize that when someone likes someone of the opposite sex, it’s usually a great indicator th...
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{ "description": "asking why mum didnt wish her grandchild a happy birthday", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking why mum didnt wish her grandchild a happy birthday?
TL;DR at the bottom. I am going to start this by saying since my dad died she "forgets" stuff all the time. My dad has been gone 6 years now. I've begged for her to go to see her Dr but she refuses. I live an hour from my mum and I think because of this there is a lot of out of sight out of mind. In the weeks lead...
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{ "description": "wanting my neighbors to be more quiet", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my neighbors to be more quiet?
I've (guy) been living in my apartment (basement) for 6 months now with my roommate (girl) and have had minimal interactions with our upstairs neighbors. Upon moving in I quickly discovered there are very thin walls in this place. My neighbors often play music very loud, normally in the living room. It's often so loud ...
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{ "description": "wishing divorce on my sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wishing divorce on my sister?
My sister and I have a large age gap. She is 20 years older than I am. She met her husband when they were both in service and have been together since I was 5 years old. I just can’t stand him because he has such a condescending personality towards my family and belittling to others not like him. She has always bragg...
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{ "description": "refusing to play in any other position", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to play in any other position?
So I play FIFA pro clubs with a few friends every night or so. You basically make your own player and control that player for the entire game. We’ve done well over a couple hundred games and are in a top division, our usual tactic is for me to make a giant who gets crossed the ball for me to head it in easily. I rece...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend (also through text) (may require two judgements)
So a while back, I was getting pretty serious with a girl late into highschool (who now hates me and I am 100% sure her friends do too over this). The summer of the year before I went to college, I came back from camp, and she was distant. Lost her mind on me when I went to hang out with friends as well. A week later, ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed she never called", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for being annoyed she never called?
Sorry if the formatting sucks, I'm on mobile. Night before last, my daughter (7) was up at 4am with stomach pain and vomiting, but it seemed to calm down and she was fine all day, until about 6pm when she started saying it was hurting again, which progressed to full-blown sobbing her heart out and writing. I told my ...
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{ "description": "ghosting a girl who threw up all over my bathroom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for ghosting a girl who threw up all over my bathroom?
So awhile ago I (18M) went on like three dates with this girl (19) and I guess I should say from the start I wasn’t looking for anything as serious as she was. I live in Washington and admittedly I smoke a lot of weed (not just recreationally, I have an eating disorder+sleep problems) and she knew that and I think tha...
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{ "description": "asking my bf to slow down his drinking", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my bf to slow down his drinking?
So a bit of backstory-I come from a substance abusing family.Ive never done drugs or anything of the sort myself but most of my relatives are composed of functioning alcoholics, drug addicts or a mix of the two.He has never had a problem with my fears until now. Tonight he drank more than usual.Which isnt a problem fo...
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{ "description": "disliking the fact that my best friend hangs out with and is close to my ex-boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for disliking the fact that my best friend hangs out with and is close to my ex-boyfriend?
So, my best friend and I (both females) hang out in the same friend groups, and have a lot of the same friends. Well, a while back, I dated this guy we were friends with, but little did I know, I was rebound. He constantly made me uncomfortable asking for sex/making innuendos, and I told her all of this. When the guy...
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AITA in this arguement/debate over a TV show with another redditor?
I got into an arguement/debate with a redditor in an episode discussion thread for Umbrella Academy, you should check it out if you haven't btw. They seemed to think I was being kind of a condescending prick, just trying to see if that's the case. Spoilers for episode 4 of Umbrella Academy AITA https://imgur.com/a/o...
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{ "description": "asking to use my Dad's Fitbit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Asking To Use My Dad's Fitbit?
AITA? I recently downloaded an app that pays you based off how many steps you take. It requires a Fitbit to be connected to it. Unfortunately my Fitbit is 7 years old and no longer works how it's supposed to. My dad received a Fitbit as a gift, but has stopped using it, and it's been sitting in a drawer for months. I a...
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{ "description": "kissing my best friend in front of an old friend who \"likes\" him", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for kissing my best friend in front of an old friend who “likes” him
A little back ground; my best friend (T) is a guy and has been my best friend for about four or five years now. In high school we had a third mutual friend (M), who was actually one of my best friends. She likes drama and has a strong knack for making up stories to sound more interesting than she is. This is the main r...
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{ "description": "reflling the ice \"tray\" instead of the ice \"box\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for reflling the ice "tray" instead of the ice "box"
So my roommate and I got into an argument for when to refill the ice in the freezer. He believes that when you empty the ice box you should empty the ice tray into the box and refill the tray. My position is to refill the ice tray when there's no ice in the icebox, and therefore need to get ice from the ice tray. I un...
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{ "description": "posting the definition of a refugee on a Facebook status", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA Posting the definition of a refugee on a Facebook status?
So a little context, I was scrolling through my Facebook timeline and am still in groups for job posting in my city, I haven't unsubscribed since getting a job even though they are usually just filled by people looking for jobs. I see a post that irks me a bit "Times are getting hard here, I want to finish my degree. ...
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{ "description": "complaining about moths in my hotel room", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for complaining about moths in my hotel room?
Several years ago, when I was playing baseball in college, we took a road trip down to play a team in our conference. Being in Division II sports, we were never put up in the nicest of hotels, and in this case we stayed at Ramada off the highway. This trip was probably the 4th or 5th time we stayed here. We slept four ...
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{ "description": "banning a guy off a server", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for banning a guy off a server?
​ I’m part of a discord server that’s on the small side (30\~members, 15 or so are active). There is one user that no one likes at the moment. Let's call him A. I’ll give you a rundown of why we are considering banning him: ​ He’s started a conflict with another user. This user(T we’ll call him...
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{ "description": "having to isolate myself at times from my friends at a Disney trip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having to isolate myself at times from my friends at a Disney trip?
First post about a topic in general and I need feedback. I’m a sophomore in high school and I went on a trip to Disney last week as part of being in the school’s music program. I was randomly assigned to a room with 3 other roommates, one of them being a friend of mine that I got to know better over the course of the...
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{ "description": "making my mom give up our family cats", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For making my Mom give up our family cats?
Little background I lived with my mom two sisters and my asshole step father....Dick. Anyway we owned 4 cats 3 Siamese Simba, Timba, Kimba and our Russian Blue Houdini. We had them for years Simba for 18. Over time my sisters and I left the house. Our abusive step-dad DICK and... long story short, he hurt my mom and n...
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{ "description": "wanting to know my housemates travel dates", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to know my housemates travel dates?
Pretty simple question here. My housemate is planning on travelling abroad in March. I knew he was keen on a particular country for a while but had no idea he had booked flights until I overheard him discussing it with a friend. Now for some reason he's ignored my FB message asking for his return date. Even discussing...
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{ "description": "not being comfortable about my girlfriend inviting her friend to a party that convinced her to rebound with a guy while we were on a break", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being comfortable about my girlfriend inviting her friend to a party that convinced her to rebound with a guy while we were on a break?
Hi all, ​ Over the summer, me and my (now current) girlfriend went on a break during this past summer. We both saw other people and came to the conclusion that what we have is awesome. Long story short, we're back together now and doing well! ​ Prior to our breakup, we had two years of histor...
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{ "description": "not helping", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping?
Mom lives rent-free with a friend of her family, she's not in *the* best financial situation but she's not struggling either, she could pay rent if she wanted to. I left home at 18 (am 23 now living with my bf of 6 years). She helps us a ton, she's a great person I just wish she wasn't so impulsive so she wouldn't be i...
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AITA? Family friend roped me into catering for four hours on my day off and keeps telling me to do stuff for the party. Is it rude to say no?
I've been staying at a family friend's house for the past year. Her daughter is throwing her a birthday party. She told everyone I'd be helping her without asking if I was busy or if I was interested in catering and handing out appetizers for four hours on my only day off in the midst of finals. She asked me yesterday...
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{ "description": "flirting with my best friends crush", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for flirting with my best friends crush?
My friend has liked this girl for a very long time, probably around 3 years. He does talk to her and hangout with her but only in big groups of friends. She’s texted me the other day and asked if I was seeing anyone, I’m not dating anyone at he moment so I told her no. She responded later that evening by telling me she...
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{ "description": "being angry at a guy spending money I gave him to fix his car on drugs", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being angry at a guy spending money I gave him to fix his car on drugs? ( I damaged the car)
So firstly guys I am genuinely unsure how to go about this situation. Last week me and a couple of friends met up at our friends house to chill and watch the boxing. As I am parking my car i scraped my friends car pretty badly causing some damage to the side. One of our other friends family member works in a garage...
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{ "description": "not giving my so rides whenever they ask to and from their destinations", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not giving my SO rides whenever they ask to and from their destinations?
My SO does not drive. They have been practicing and have gotten close to getting their license, but I have the been the driver our entire relationship. I feel as though this issue is partially my fault as I have a tendency to say yes when someone asks for a favour even if it inconveniences me. I worry that I may have s...
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{ "description": "wanting my stack of wood back in Minecaft", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my stack of wood back in Minecaft?
I was playing with a couple of friends in Minecraft, and we started messing around and killing eachother. When I killed any of them, I made sure to get their items back. However, when I was killed, one of them made no effort to get my items back. I lost several items more than the stack of wood, but that is by far the ...
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{ "description": "prioritizing myself", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for prioritizing myself?
Hi, so kind of a long post sorry ahead of time. I am a dad of a four year old and a one year old. I have been getting up at 5am Tuesday and Thursday to go workout and do martial arts for 2 hours. I get home about 8:30 but have to get ready and go to work so these are two mornings my wife does the kids solo, getting the...
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{ "description": "flunking out on a \"movie\" date", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for flunking out on a "movie" date?
First time posting, if I do anything wrong, please tell me. So here's the story: I'm currently on exchange in a foreign country and speak that language just a little. Currently I am taking classes to become more fluent. I met this guy two weeks ago after we matched on Bumble and I met him once. After that it's been ...
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{ "description": "telling people someone's \"secrets\"", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling people someone's "secrets"
A ex-friend of mine (17F) told me I'm a "snitch", untrustworthy and a jerk due to me doing this: 1. Telling a boy that she called cute that "some girl said he was cute" 2. "Asking someone if doing a certain course was good for college, after my ex-friend told me it wasn't 3. Telling someone (18M) who just got back in t...
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{ "description": "asking an older man to move", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking an older man to move?
So I had a Redbox rental disc that was returning to the Redbox location. this location was in a Vons right inside the door opening and had two adjacent boxes. I was kind of in a hurry as I had to drive for an hour to make it to an engagement celebration. I went in but there was an older man with a cart fumbling around ...
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{ "description": "asking my family to stay out of my and my stepsister's dispute? and WIBTA if I refuse to cave in just to keep the peace", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I ask my family to stay out of my and my stepsister's dispute? And WIBTA if I refuse to cave in just to keep the peace?
Hello r/AmItheAsshole\-rs, Ihope this is the right place for my story. I don't want to reveal too many details because I'm certain friends, family and involved parties will recognize this situation. However, I am willing to answer any questions that I can if required. Now on to the story: there has been a huge blow-u...
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{ "description": "hurting people after a few warnings", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for hurting people after a few warnings?
I'm autistic, and get VERY uncomfortable when people annoy me by repeatedly touching me or doing something generally malicious and irritating (i.e. tripping me, knocking things from my hand, etc.) I can't stand it when someone's fucking with me. It overloads my senses and gives me lots of anxiety. So when they do somet...
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{ "description": "wanting my friends to stop talking to my ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting my friends to stop talking to my ex?
For context, my ex and I go to brother-sister schools and he is a year level above me. Our schools are only somewhat familiar with each other. When we were dating, my friend added us to a group chat with some people from both my and my ex's schools that I knew. My ex didn't know my schoolmates. We all got along well. ...
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{ "description": "telling my room mates that Im keeping you at arms distance for drinking my beer", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling my room mates that Im keeping you at arms distance for drinking my beer?
Backstory. Bunch of young guys living in a house. Im the "lightest" drinker of the house(people in my house are borderline alchoholics) I drink a 6 pack every 1 to 1 1/2 weeks. The other day someone drank the rest of my six pack no big deal. I asked each room mate who did it, no one wanted to own up to it. So I told th...
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{ "description": "thinking I ruined one of my best friends future relationship", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA I think i ruined one of my best friends future relationship
Okay so how it started was my friend, H, came up to me and started to talk about this beautiful girl that he liked so much and wanted to date one day. I told i was going to help him and be his middle man, and so he kept getting closer, by sharing and talking and thier language, until the girl, lets call her GF, decided...
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{ "description": "threatening an autistic kid and not standing up for him", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for threatening an Autistic kid and not standing up for him?
So, I'm currently in highschool and last Friday, I threatened a kid that if he were to ever talk to me, or any of my friends again, I would kick his ass. But in order to get the full story, I need to go back two years. Back in early 2017/late 2016, one of my friends, let's call her Carter, came to me in tears. Ca...
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{ "description": "being upset that my collectibles room was defiled", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being upset that my collectibles room was defiled?
Over Christmas my wife’s family came to stay. One member slept in my collectibles room after I asked that they stay in another room. Long story short, I’ve been cultivating this room for years now, it was an experience to enter, the smell, the aesthetic. My boy and I have spent many joyful hours playing in there. I...
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{ "description": "not getting the joke while others did", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I didn't get the joke while others did?
The other day I was on a gaming Discord and was chatting. So someone asked a question (forgot what it was) and then they said "Don't trust the person that was listed, he's a scammer". I told them no it's not. And then they called me autistic and called me an idiot because I "didn't know it was a joke". I seriously didn...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to say please after she tells me to pick up a Mentos", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking my friend to say please after she tells me to pick up a Mentos?
This is my first time doing one of these posts, so I’ll try to make it quick. Also, I don’t want to paint my friend in a bad way, so I’ll try not to make it seem like she’s not the bad guy. My friend and I were in class today sitting next to each other and taking an English test that she didn’t study for. I notice she...
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{ "description": "not wanting to celebrate my birthday anymore", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to celebrate my birthday anymore
My 31st birthday was Saturday. My family stopped celebrating birthdays when I was in elementary school; we would receive a gift and be told happy birthday but there was no party or cake or anything like that. So I have tried to work on my birthday every year since I turned 14. I have been married for 7 years and my hus...
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{ "description": "wanting to move my wedding date", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to move my wedding date?
I’m sure these types of problems are common so I’ll try to keep it short. A few months ago I proposed, and my Fiancée and her mother both wanted a specific family member who is in the clergy of our shared religion to perform the ceremony. I was ambivalent about the idea but kept that to myself and said that’s great. We...
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{ "description": "eating someone else's ice cream on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for eating someone else's ice cream on my birthday?
I turned 17 a few days ago and my grandmother bought us (me and my brothers) ice cream to celebrate. Someone else ate mine so I ate what was left and apparently it was supposed to be for my younger brother. So my dad yelled at me. Three times. AITA?
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AITA is it okay for me to want attention when i am sick
A couple weeks ago, me and my SO were having a stressful time, work troubles and low funds and other life stuff. He said he needed space which i understand and gave him, not without feeling a little anxious about it as it was pretty far out of character to not sleep together for a week. I got sicker than i have been i...
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{ "description": "kicking a girl's water bottle into her face because she bullied me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for kicking a girl's water bottle into her face because she bullied me?
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{ "description": "debating breaking up with my bf because his health problems get in the way of our relationship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for debating breaking up with my bf because his health problems get in the way of our relationship?
My bf constantly cancels plans with me because he has intestinal problems, migraines and depression. It really bothers me and it feels like I put my life on hold for him and get nothing in return. I feel guilty for getting angry, but it’s literally once or more every single week. I love him and all, but it’s just tough...
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{ "description": "choosing my friend over my so to be a business partner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for choosing my friend over my SO to be a business partner?
I'd like to preface this with our relationship - we've been together 3 years, two of which we've been living together. We're pretty serious about marriage but not about the when. Okay so I had decided to finally quit my job and start a company, but the law required a minimum of two partners to do that. Honestly I was ...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to stop talking to his friends over his headset", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my roommate to stop talking to his friends over his headset?
I am currently in a state university. I live in a 6 person suite with three rooms, 2 people per room. It is a small room, no bigger than 15’ by 15’. I like my roommate, he is a good guy. He has his quirks but overall I have few problems with him. Here is my dilemma. I like having a quiet room. I hate hearing my roomm...
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{ "description": "not helping a friend while I was drunk", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not helping a friend while I was drunk
Hey guys, this is my first time using this thread, so here goes nothing. ​ This past Friday night, my suitemates (college suite), a few friends and I were having a great time drinking and playing a bunch of different card games. It was overall a pretty good night. Then the friend I'm the closest to just ...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my gf for not picking up the phone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting upset with my gf for not picking up the phone?
My girlfriend and I sometimes talk to each other during her 1hr lunch break (no more than 10min and not everyday). Lately she hasn't be answering saying that she is tired of being on the phone since she has to call parents. For Vday I told her all I want is a phone call from her but she gave me the same reason. She me...
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{ "description": "using my fog lights in the fog", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for using my fog lights in the fog?
This happened a couple of nights ago but my anxiety is making me fixate on it. I was driving home from work at night and it was pretty foggy out so I turned on my fog lights. (Side note: I've probably only used them twice since getting my car, and I did see other vehicle also using theirs.) Eventually, while driving do...
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{ "description": "not doing the homework", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not doing the homework?
This might be a bit of a long post but I need to give some backstory. So sorry ahead of time! Im currently a senior in college, this is my last semester actually. I also live in Vermont, which has recently been hit with snow, accompanied by minor flooding. I walk everywhere, so this has not been fun. In fact, it's be...
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{ "description": "wanting the windows closed", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting the windows closed
My husband and I have a healthy, happy marriage, but we disagree on this. Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable. We have 2 children. The 3 year old is in her own room, the baby co-sleeps with us. A decision we both agree on, especially since we don't have another available room. It is Summer and has been hot. I am ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my parents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Yelling At My Parents
I currently live with my parents. My mom as an aggressive dog, Bella. We've had Bella for a few years, and she has become very territorial of my mom. She barks any time she hears any noise when my mom is sleeping, growls if anyone gets near her any time of day, and she bites people. She bites children, she bites anima...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friends for not adding me to their group chat", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my friends for not adding me to their group chat?
First, let me set the scene: I am now a senior in high school, however, I had to move with my family to a new school in a new town starting my senior year. Coming into this year, I knew I didn't want it to be something I just got out of the way before heading to college, i wanted it to be a year I cherished. I did qui...
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{ "description": "getting upset at some peoplw today", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset at some peoplw today?
I'm in an art class at school, and at my table I sit with three people who I'll call Bob, Sam, and Kyle. Bob is a senior, sam is a sophomore, and Kyle is a freshman. I'm a junior. I feel like I get picked on a lot by all three of them. They say really mean things about me a lot. I've tried talking about it to them but...
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{ "description": "not telling my brothers its my birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didnt tell my brothers its my birthday
Every year for our birthdays my brothers and I have been going out to eat for each others birthdays. I don't live with my family for reasons. Anyways I call my brother and tell them what time do they want to go out. Then they tell me they don't feel like going out today. I always remember theirs and remember to tell th...
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{ "description": "voicing concerns about my roommate/close friend's relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for voicing concerns about my roommate/close friend’s relationship?
Sorry for any formatting, I’m on mobile and this is my first time posting here, please bare with me. So like two months ago, my (F,21) close friend/roommate (F,21) got out of a 5 year relationship that was really abusive. This was a relationship that had started as a rebound after another abusive relationship. They ha...
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{ "description": "asking my friends for money when they request I edit their essays", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA to ask my friends for money when they request I edit their essays?
This thought spawned in my head after a conversation with some of my friends. I'm a first year English Education major with a decently heavy courseload that involves research and a pretty hefty amount of reading assignments (at least, hefty for a first year student). Even so, I dislike seeing other people struggle thro...
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{ "description": "being upset that my older sister is staying with my boyfriend and I over valentines weekend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my older sister is staying with my boyfriend and I over valentines weekend?
Throwaway for reasons. Also on mobile, so sorry. For some background, my older sister and boyfriend are best friends and have been for years. My older sisters boyfriend is a camper, and is going away for Valentines/Family Day weekend. My boyfriend and I live with my In Laws, who are also away this weekend. I had plan...
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{ "description": "exposing my mom as a racist bigot to all of her liberal dinner guests", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for exposing my Mom as a racist bigot to all of her liberal dinner guests?
A bit of background: My Mom is 100% Navajo and a hardcore neo-liberal Democrat. I am liberal Democrat which means we don't see eye to eye politically as she endorses socialism and I do not for obvious reasons. She pretends to be a liberal (or is just to militantly ignorant to know the difference) and speaks like she re...
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{ "description": "being in a relationship and not wanting to anymore but I don't really know the reason", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I am in a relationship and don't want to anymore but I don't really know the reason?
So first thing, this is my first post on reddit, made the account specifically to get this advice Second, this is a kinda long story i guess, so bare with me please. Okay so me (18F) and my bf (18M) have been together for over 2 months approximately, but we've known eachother since 2015-2016, worth to mention, it was a...
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{ "description": "using a freight elevator that specifically says no faculty or student use", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I use a freight elevator that specifically says no faculty or student use?
For the record I took the stairs, but had to take three flights of them. I kind of feel like this is one of those situations like using a handicap stall in the bathroom when it's completely empty. Depending on what ya'll think may influence me to use it. Keep in mind I have seen both faculty and students use the freigh...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with this kid on the bus", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to be friends with this kid on the bus?
I hate riding the bus to schools. It started last year when this kid sat next to me on the bus. He brought a Nintendo DS and I noticed that he was playing Mega man on it. So I asked him about it and we had a small conversation about the game. Ever since then, he started to sit by me every time on the bus. But he has n...
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{ "description": "wanting to end this friendship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting to end this friendship?
Firstly, I did make an anonymous account for this. No real reason, I just have mild trust issues and I'm not sure I want this on my standard account. Probably the most important piece of information here is that I'm in love with my best friend and have been for year. (I'm a dude, she's a girl, not that it matters) S...
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{ "description": "getting angry with my boyfriend for planning to use his mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting angry with my boyfriend for planning to use his mom?
My boyfriend and his mom don't get along to well, and for exclusivity sake, we'll just say there was some neglect, misuse of funds, and verbal abuse. They don't talk because he refuses to, and at least I think, for good reason. Whenever she visits, he hides away, clearly displaying his discomfort and mild hatred for ...
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{ "description": "denying my boyfriend from making extra money", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for denying my boyfriend from making extra money?
So my boyfriend [m24] and I [m25] had a snag in our 9 year relationship. There is a lot of background stuff going on with this but I will try my best to explain it. My boyfriend didn't have a job at the time so he would take commissions to write fictional stories for internet people. All of them were porn stories of s...
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{ "description": "making out with a girl who came on to me but was dating someone else", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making out with a girl who came on to me but was dating someone else?
Ok so full story is that me and this girl, lets call her Sarah, are friends. Sarah was a senior in undergrad at the time and I was a freshmen. She was also my carpool home when I went back home every couple months. So basically we started hanging out alone, ya know like doing homework together or smoking some trees so ...
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{ "description": "not saying hello", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not saying hello?
I had an argument with my parents about this & I want to know if they’re overreacting or if I’m in the wrong here. Just 20 minutes ago, I was working on a calculus review for an important final I got coming up today and in between a little YouTube here and there. Then out of the blue, the door bell does off and I...
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{ "description": "giving my classmates the opportunity to anonymously message a student", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for giving my classmates the opportunity to anonymously message a student
For some background information, the app was sarahah. A person would share their own link then other people would click on it to send messages anonymously. This was used to give thoughts about person anonymously. ​ So I had this batch mate that would constantly post about these messages on facebook. He cla...
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{ "description": "snitching on a girl who got me suspended by blowing something out if proportion", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA For snitching on a girl who got me suspended by blowing something out if proportion?
I'm in a post highschool graduate pet (dogs cats and other animals) grooming training school. Really good, takes forever to finish it's a whole year thing. Expensive and hard to get into. I took a picture of a dog (not the whole dog, just his fur) to basically show off my ***skillz***. It was super even and I was pro...
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{ "description": "trying to avoid my divorced mom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to avoid my divorced mom?
My parents got divorced about 2 years ago. As far as I know most parents kinda "fight" over who gets the children but it was different for us, she just left us. Didn't even want to take us. Whenever I meet with her it's not really fun, it's usually just boring and I am just constantly hearing bad and snarky comments ...
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{ "description": "asking people in a gc to stop sending videos of them smoking temporarily", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking people in a gc to stop sending videos of them smoking temporarily?
I'm a model, and my agency has a group chat where we're supposed to bond and what have you. But they constantly send videos of them smoking and it... For lack of a better term... Triggers me. When I was 15 I was going through a lot of really messed up stuff and in trying to find coping mechanisms, I found smoking. I ...
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{ "description": "telling my in-laws how I really feel about their blatant favouritism", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if I told my in-laws how I really feel about their blatant favouritism?
Below is a list of the evidence that my in-laws favour their daughter (23) over their son (29): 1. When he left for school, they immediately turned his bedroom into a study for his sister. 2. They sent her to a private high school and him to a public high school. 3. They have many pictures of her up around the house...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay in an expensive private school", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to stay in an expensive private school?
Hello everyone sorry in advance for bad English it’s not my native language. I am 15 years old and I come from a poor background. My mother works very hard to support me and my education, so she decided to surprise me by telling me that I would no longer be going to public school and instead I will go to a private on...
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{ "description": "returning a birthday gift to my ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for returning a birthday gift to my ex?
This happened 6ish years ago but I wanted to post something on this sub as I love it so far- So when this happened, I was partying at my sister's house and met her coworker. We had sex that night and continued to talk to each other and whatnot. I was hesitant to begin a relationship because my previous one had sever...
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{ "description": "being skeptical when someone on reddit says they're mentally unhealthy", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being skeptical when someone on reddit says they're mentally unhealthy?
I see a lot of memes about "depression and anxiety" on basically every sub. So much, it just feels unnatural, like, it's hard to belive that there are really dozens or even hundreds of thousands of people with depression and anxiety on a \~250k users sub for problems that affect about 5-10% the world population (unless...
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{ "description": "prohibiting my friend from coming to the game with me and his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for prohibiting my friend from coming to the game with me and his girlfriend.
We live in Baltimore, which isnt the nicest place. It's worse than Detroit or Chicago so you gotta be careful there. I got tickets to the last ravens game of the season and invited him. He invited his girl for the 3rd ticket. However, he insisted on wearing his Brady Jersey. Now I know you're already questioning his ag...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend goes way overboard when it comes to the social aspect of being transgender", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking my friend goes way overboard when it comes to the social aspect of being transgender?
This whole post is about to come off ignorant as hell. I'm totally supportive of her in every step of her journey but... wow she really just takes every single opportunity to shove "look at how gay/trans I am" in everyones face. It kind of irritates me because she's let it become 100% of her personality. Am I an assho...
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{ "description": "saying something about the previous owner breeding my horse", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I said something about the previous owner breeding my horse?
Tl,dr: bought a horse. Agreement was to pay half upon the decision that I wanted him and signed and sent the sales contract (which included she retained to free live foal guarantee breedings to him), and half when I picked him up. The way we talked about it was insinuating that he'd be bred in the future after he was t...
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{ "description": "being upset that my girlfriend got her flatmate a birthday present twice the value of mine and my present was delayed and then changed and she gave it to me 2.5 months late", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being upset that my (26m) girlfriend (25f) got her flatmate a birthday present twice the value of mine and my present was delayed and then changed and she gave it to me 2.5 months late?
I’ve been with my girlfriend 14 months. My birthday was the end of last year (December) and she said she’d organise a holiday away for us for a couple of days. I was super up for this and told her this. She then didn’t want to discuss dates about going away. I asked her a couple of times if she wasn’t keen to go but ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because she's so ridiculously close with her bff", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because she’s so ridiculously close with her bff?
I’m a girl in high school, I met this girl, let’s call her Jenny, in middle school. We got along, and liked the same things, so I asked her out. It was fine for about a few months before I moved an hour away to another city, I still visited her as much as I could. She said she wasn’t very comfortable with me living so ...
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{ "description": "thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend because her family situation will stress me out too much", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For thinking about breaking up with my [20m] girlfriend [20] because her family situation will stress me out too much?
So I’ve been with my gf for a bit over a month and this is my first actual relationship. Tonight she told me about something that happened and wanted me to come over to her dorm. Once we got to talking she laid some baggage on me that she hadn’t really talked that much about. I’ve had bad experiences with girls in the ...
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AITA my dad is forcing me to join a concert "band" that is made up of members that are just starting to learn their instruments
My dad is forcing me to join this concert even though I have 6 years experience playing my instrument. The type of music is the stuff that you would hear at a school concert (very slow out of time and out of tune) and NONE of the kids know what they are doing. I pretty much told him to fuck off and he is saying that im...
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{ "description": "turning off the lights and locking the doors in a stranger's car", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for turning off the lights and locking the doors in a stranger's car?
It's -20 C (-4 for my American friends) in Calgary. I pulled into a parking lot at school, and noticed that the car next to me had their lights on. This could mean absolute disaster, as cars already have a hard time starting in weather like this. So after quickly checking around for the owner, I checked if their doors ...
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{ "description": "keeping my marriage of almost 2 years a secret from my close friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for keeping my marriage of almost 2 years a secret from my close friends?
So I have been married for almost two years in March. My husband and I have been through a lot together and things haven't really been peachy always but for the last 3 years or so things have been really good. We decided to get married at the courthouse and agreed that we'd keep it quiet for awhile until we could affor...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that I'm not her friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a girl that I’m not her friend?
First off, this wouldn’t have happened if this little 6th grader DIDNT stir the pot. My friend and I were chilling and playing BitLife together after school and we saw my friend’s friend (who hates me) talking to the 6th grader . He’s known for being troublesome so I got a bit worried but I didn’t think much of it. Fi...
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{ "description": "constantly avoiding a girl in my school that smells bad", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for constantly avoiding a girl in my school that smells bad?
Now i don't know this girl but a few months ago i sat next to her on the bus and she smelled extremely bad and ever since than if i see her at school i actively try not to stand next to her and i think it's starting to get obvious and it makes me feel bad for doing this because i see her talking to other people who don...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my boyfriend for sleeping a lot while we hang out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting upset at my (21/f) boyfriend (23/m) for sleeping a lot while we hang out?
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple years. We don't live together and so we only get to see each other 1-3 times a week due to schedules. A lot of those days we can only see each other for 4-5 hours before I need to go home. I am the only one with a car and we live half an hour away from each other so I a...
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{ "description": "refusing to talk to my brother", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to talk to my brother?
Okay, I hope I managed to sum this up well. I made an account just to post this... here we go. My (only) brother [20M] recently moved out of my family's house (which now only consists of me, my mother, and my father) for good because he is going to automotive school and has his own apartment now. Last week, he called ...
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{ "description": "not making plans at NYE with an old friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not making plans at NYE with an old friend?
Just a quick one because this is on my mind and it's bugging me. 2 months ago a friend who I used to hang out with a lot asked me to let me know my plans for New Year's Eve. I said sure. We then didn't speak again for 2 months. I had no plans, but 4 hours before midnight I got invited to a party near my house (which i...
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{ "description": "quitting a job peer mentoring low-income and hispanic students", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I quit a job peer mentoring low-income and Hispanic students?
Hi everyone. I am a member of an [HSI-STEM program](https://www2.ed.gov/programs/hsistem/index.html) wherein I mentor Hispanic and low income college students as a college student myself. The persons picked to be mentors are successful college students who are doing well in classes and extracurriculars who are either H...
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