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{ "description": "refusing money from my colleague", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing money from my colleague?
Forgive me, this one is a little trivial but I still want to know that So I'm working overtime today and the team suddenly decides to get pizza and chicken. We chipped in with whatever we're comfortable with, but we come up short so I decided to double my share out of my own accord because I can afford it, it's been ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at this seller", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed at this Seller?
Last week of January, I'd found a guy selling Ram on FB marketplace. We scheduled a meetup. Early the day of, he asks to reschedule. Fine. We make plans for two days later. He misses the meet time and messages me 15 minutes late. Apologizes to me and says his work pulled him out of town. I assure him it's no problem an...
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AITA in this relationship?
Throwaway. I've had an on and off relationship with my best friend since high school many years ago. We finally decided to go all in on December 2017 and get together because even when we were off again, we were still best friends. I know now that it was a completely flawed relationship, and I wasn't happy for a long...
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{ "description": "asking my so to uninvite family for thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my SO to uninvite family for thanksgiving?
My mental health hasn’t been great lately. SO’s family invited themselves over for Thanksgiving and at that time I was feeling ok about it, but today I felt way too stressed about a lot of things and had a breakdown. I couldn’t bear the thought of entertaining and pretending to be happy, not to mention cooking and clea...
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{ "description": "judging what my wife watches on television", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for judging what my wife watches on television?
Before you weigh in, know that my wife judges what I watch. My wife watches television shows which I feel are the lowest form of entertainment. Shows like sister wives, teen mom, and keeping up with the Kardashians. She judges me for watching shows like Futurama and the Simpson's because they are cartoons. We have a 7 ...
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{ "description": "not wanting this girl I'm talking to to have phone calls with her ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting this girl I'm talking to to have phone calls with her ex?
I've been talking to this girl for a while and we both like each other. Her ex has contacted her recently and been asking to call her, she asked how I would feel about them talking on the phone and assured me she doesn't have feelings for him anymore. I told her that it's her life and I have no right to tell her who to...
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{ "description": "lying while playing a board game with my 97 year old grandmother", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying while playing a board game with my 97 year old grandmother?
I play a board game called Rummikub with her. She is still pretty smart for age but she is just slower than me and I can beat her pretty easily. I know she enjoys winning though so sometimes I lie and hang on to good numbers that I could win with so she can win. I feel bad about this. I know she wants to win so bad but...
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{ "description": "getting my dad's job offer rescinded", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting my dad's job offer rescinded?
Sigh. I think I messed up. My parents do not live in a very populated US city, they're around 60yo, and my dad's been laid off from his old job about half a year ago. He's been applying for jobs and finally got a written offer. The offer is for the same amount that he's been getting for years: it's a decent amount bu...
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{ "description": "telling so to change shifts at work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA telling SO to change shifts at work
TL:DR- SO works 3rd shift and takes care of LO during day. Lack of sleep has taken a toll on their mental health. Backstory: SO and I have under 1 yr old child. Daycare is expensive. I work 1st shift (630-230p). They work 3rd shift (10-6a). Our bulidings are close enough for baby trade off in mornings. SO watches baby...
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{ "description": "not decreasing the price for my helpful cousin", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not decreasing the price for my helpful cousin?
[AITA] New to this sub, hi yall. Im just going to say here, that Im really young and naive. My cousin have been helpful of me since Grade 8. Helped me move on on my ex friends and included me in several groups and made me copy her assignments since I was quite the loner kid and shes one of the popular kids. In return...
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{ "description": "wanting to call out my dad on how much of a piece of garbage he is? AITA for thinking my dads a piece of garbage", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to call out my dad on how much of a piece of garbage he is? AITA for thinking my dads a piece of garbage?
Don't get me wrong, I love my dad. The only respect I have for him tho, is that he is my father, not for the person he is. It's always been that he seems to only care about himself. My parents are about to lose their house because my dad has yet to find a job and my mom is about to lose all hope in him. Besides financi...
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{ "description": "putting off talking about getting back with my ex till after my vacation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I put off talking about getting back with my ex till after my vacation?
Side account because I don't like posting feels stuff on my main. So my ex texted me last night that she still has feels for me. We always had an on again off again relationship and in the past neither of us have been the most healthy people for each other. Especially me. I am not against trying again, because I am ...
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{ "description": "thinking my boyfriend should value our time together even if I don't sleep over", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For thinking my boyfriend should value our time together even if I don't sleep over?
So, my boyfriend and I live about a 15-20min car drive apart. When we spend time together, most of the time he comes pick me up and then drives me back home (I don't have a car available to drive most of the time). The problem I have is, that he's only really willing to do this, if it's for a longer period of time say...
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{ "description": "thinking my cousin is creepy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for thinking my cousin is creepy?
My mother died this week. She was cremated. When one of my cousins found out, he sent me a text that said "Are you holding on to your mom's ashes or did you want me to?" I think that's about the creepiest thing I've ever heard. I mean, WTAF? Is this a thing? Do random family members pass around "cremains" (ugh, t...
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{ "description": "telling him to go back to his own country", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling him to go back to his own country?
I know how bad the title sounds, but I promise, there is a lot more to the story than it seems (tl;dr at the bottom). Posting this on a throwaway and [insert obligatory mobile apology here]. My ex and I recently broke up about 2 weeks ago. Ot wasn't that long of a relationship, but we were still in the standard honeym...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my dad", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my dad?
I know the title is vague, but the issue too long and unclear to shorten. The whole thing is "AITA for getting mad at my dad for taking his thing that I asked for back without telling me and risking damaging expensive equipment?" I am a Twitch streamer who takes it very seriously, I was using a webcam that I wasn't ha...
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{ "description": "sleeping with someone not knowing they're technically in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I slept with someone not knowing they're technically in a relationship?
Y’all hear me out Backstory: Everyone in this story is a senior in college. We’ve all been in the same friend group since freshman year. For this story I’ll refer to the girl as Anna. We’re not hella close, but we’re cool. One night our group got together at Anna’s for a wine night like we usually do to drink and ha...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from my toxic best friend and not telling her why", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for distancing myself from my toxic best friend and not telling her why
So I have had a girl who I used to consider my best friend. To help with the flow of this story I will call her R. For reference R and I had been friends since 5th grade, and I am now a junior in high school. During middle school I was very anxious and R was pretty much my only friend expect for one other person. I no...
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{ "description": "being ungrateful about christmas gifts", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being ungrateful about christmas gifts? (old story but I'm curious)
Okay, so the basic setup is this: My immediate family (parents and brothers) live pretty far away from my extended family (grandparents, cousins, etc). Like, a plane ride away. So we usually only see them around Christmas and other special occasions. One Christmas we were opening presents and my brothers got quite a lo...
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{ "description": "not wanting my parents to surprise my twin sister with a visit for our birthday", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For not wanting my parents to surprise my twin sister with a visit for our birthday.
For my and my twin sister’s 30th birthday, I made plans with her boyfriend to fly in and surprise her, since I live in a different country and we haven’t spent our birthday together in years. She will be THRILLED, knowing her. I told my parents when I booked the ticket, and they asked if they could come along too, and ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play games with a friend that is bad at every game", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to play games with a friend that is bad at every game?
Hello everyone, so here is the story. I have a friend in my group of friends that is a bit slower than the average person but he is a good guy and I only mind it when it comes to playing video and board games with him. It is very frustrating because no matter what game we play he always needs help with figuring out wha...
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AITA today?
Every year I get my mother in law a nice bday gift. She needed new couches so I got her some. She needed under garments and a vacation bag, I got that the following year. Every year I get lotion and body. AITA for expecting a little more? Today is my bday. My SO typically replies, “ugh, here we go again.”
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{ "description": "not wanting to have to live with my dad anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to HAVE to live with my dad anymore?
I'm a highschooler whose parents have been separated for 2 years. My dad cheated on my mom since my younger brother was three, and I found out on...get this....a vacation with him in Colombia. Their separation agreement was that my brother and I would live with my mom for a week, then switch to my dads house. Standard ...
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{ "description": "getting in a fight my mom for not letting me to go the gym when they let my older sisters to go the the gym", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting in a fight my mom for not letting me to go the gym when they let my older sisters to go the the gym.
So I recently turned 15 I'm a Male and my problem is I have a very feminine body build like I'm not talking boobs or anything I'm talking about my body frame is just very small and I get mistaken for a butch girl all the time. So many people on reddit said go to the gym it won't have right away affects but it will get ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take part in my parents dispute about my alimony", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to take part in my parents dispute about my alimony?
So this is going on for 2 months now. My parents have been separated before I was even born and I didn't have a strong bond with him in my childhood. So as I'm 18 Years old now I'm trying to rebound with him and visit him atleast 4 days a week. He lives in Berlin and I live in Brandenburg (Germany, 45km away). For the ...
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{ "description": "being really annoyed about my aunt promoting my cousins school trip to cambodia", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being really annoyed about my aunt promoting my cousins school trip to cambodia
The situation is this: my cousin has signed up for a month long school trip to cambodia to build houses and water suplies. To do this she needs £1500. Ok. Fine. But then my aunt comes on the family chat having started a go fund me for this shit to essentially beg for money from family members and on top of that goes on...
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{ "description": "being sort of angry that I wasn't invited to a soci get together", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA I am sort of angry that I wasn't invited to a soci get together.
My friend's friend decided that they would have a get together at an ice rink. In the end I wasn't invited. I can see why as I wasn't a mutual friend and if I was invited I probably wouldn't have gone. It still sort of hurts. Am I too entitled in thinking this way or what. I feel like I may just be a VS (Validation See...
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{ "description": "not replacing my friends bong", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not replacing my friends bong?
Saw a post earlier about someones dog eating their friends shoes, made me remember this story from a few years back. For some backround; in HS my friends and I used to hang in my basement all the time and play video games, smoke some pot, etc. For friends of mine whose parents were less okay with that, it meant ownin...
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{ "description": "going after a better education", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for going after a better education
I'm going to go away to uni in a different state for a couple of years and my girlfriend and her mother thinks I'm selfish because I'm giving up my apartment and quitting my job for getting a education in a field where I think I'll be happier then I am now.
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay 2 tickets on a urban bus", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to pay 2 tickets on a urban bus?
Tl;Dr at the bottom. There are those urban busses that go from my house to my college and vice-versa, since I live far from the college I always get on the same bus (that follows the same path, going or coming). But today I was in the middle of the city, distant from both my home and my college, and since the bus only ...
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{ "description": "being upset/annoyed at my boyfriend for always commenting on how messy my car is", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being upset/annoyed at my boyfriend for always commenting on how messy my car is?
My car is pretty messy. I’d put it at a solid 7 on a scale of 1-10. There’s a lot of stuff, like clothes/shoes/random crap. A few water bottles here and a couple of empty fast food bags. Nothing super gross though, like rotting food or pests or anything. I’ll usually clean it out and vacuum every few weeks. I, persona...
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{ "description": "ignoring someone who I used to be close to", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring someone who I used to be close to
So a while ago, a girl (24F) who I (25M) was friends with told me she was interested in me, and we had a physical relationship going on. But she later said she couldn't be in a relationship with me due to her being religious and me not. I was disappointed, but I accepted that if that was the deal breaker, then that's j...
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{ "description": "feeling bitchy over the fact that I didn't get invited to one of my long time friends birthday party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For feeling bitchy over the fact that I (M18) Didn't get invited to one of my long time friends (F18) birthday party?
So i've kinda been thinking this through and i just feel somewhat annoyed/angry over the fact for this happening. Earlier tonight I talked to one of my friends after she told me she had a pretty bad week, of course I wanted to know why, and it was quite odd for me as I quickly picked up, that there was a bunch of bac...
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AITA 4 telling my regular one night stand roommate that another girl would come to the apartment and expecting it would go well ?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. This would belong on r/TIFU as well. Please excuse any mistake I would make, English is not my native language. I’ve been banging my roommate (let’s call her A), for over a month and a half now. We made it clear since the beginning that we were not a couple and nothing more than sex shou...
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AITA For apologize to an ex 8 months after the fact?
I recently sent a message to an ex of mine. Whom I broke up with some time ago (about 8 months) we were together for about 6 months. I felt horrible about the way I went about breaking up with them. I had just sent a text saying it wasn't working out, and poof I was gone. So i sent an apology and explanation, saying ...
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{ "description": "wanting to know how much a job would pay", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to know how much a job would pay?
This isn't a long story, and there isn't much drama, but I feel it merits asking. This started roughly a week ago. My roommate's parents are helping with some kind of horse race event or something (They are old money farmers) and my RM is asked to help out for some money. Also for context, it's important to note that,...
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{ "description": "calling my mother out on a major lie she told me my entire life", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA: Calling my mother out on a major lie she told me my entire life
My mom is a narcissistic asshat who abused me my entire life...like it took my friends from Australia screaming over Skype for her to even get me medical attention when I desperately needed it. Anyways... So today I had to go to the emergency room (I was talked into it by my MIL (I'm not used to people actually caring...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time with my bf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting to Spend Time With My BF
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years by now, But I am starting to drift away from him. I love him, but at the same time, there are incidents that are pushing me away from him. And though I try to push my feelings away from them, I still dwell on the hurt it causes. In the past, the arguments will start...
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{ "description": "commenting on a FB friends school related post", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for commenting on a FB friends school related post
A brief background to our relationship - we are "online" friends who met about 25 years ago online. We used to chat a lot but when our third friend passed away about 10 years ago we really only kept in touch posting on each others social media. Over the last few months this friend has been posting a bunch of things...
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{ "description": "not asking my dad about his health while he's in cancer rehabilitation", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not asking my dad about his health while he's in cancer rehabilitation?
First, I want to say that I've never had a close relationship to my parents. I like to visit them every now and then, I'm very thankful for many things they've done for me but somehow I don't feel like I'm deeply connected to them. I've never talked to them about any emotional stuff, relationships and rarely tell them ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "orchestrating a plan to get bad roommate to eat bad food", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA because I orchestrated a plan to get bad roommate to eat bad food?
Pretty long so TLDR at the bottom. AITA because I orchestrated revenge on a roommate? Wasn't even my roommate but a friend's. Bad Roommate (BR) was crashing with my friend who had a spare room. He didn't pay rent. He didn't help out around the apartment and he would eat food that wasn't his. Like all of it. The last ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "walking out on my job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for walking out on my job.
Tl:dr at bottom It was a busy Saturday night shift working at a local tex-mex chain. One of those shifts that immediately has you shift into gear as soon as you clock in. Within a few minutes, I had my section full and got sat with an extra table. I was almost frustrated just having to take them given I still had a bu...
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{ "description": "not being satisfied with my sex life", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being satisfied with my sex life?
I’m a guy and i love variety. My SO doesn’t. She prefers missionary and no foreplay. I love eating her out but am never allowed to because she hates it. I love doggy but she doesn’t. She doesn’t like foreplay. She doesn’t like me playing with her boobs- the only thing she likes is if i gently suck her nipples. She says...
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AITA? Is it me or just you?
AITA... I’ll start with a little bit about myself. I’m a single working mom of 2. My problem is I don’t drive. I live with my parents. Note: I pay rent. My mom who doesn’t work gives me a ride to work. Note: I pay for the gas. For her generosity I buy her Starbucks every morning. It usually costs me around $6 for the b...
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{ "description": "snapping at my mom in front of family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for snapping at my mom in front of family?
Throwaway 'cause there's some personal info here. Quick background: me and my parents, especially my mom, have a rocky relationship. We bicker, she doesn't support my hobbies, doesn't ask me about school, and occasionally singles me out or makes jokes at my expense in front of my younger brothers (11 y/o twins). Ever...
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OTHER
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not letting our room to my sister despite that she has an exam tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not letting our room to my sister despite that she has an exam tomorrow?
I'm on my phone and not native English speaker, sorry for that. So, a little backround. My parents are divorced and my sister (19) and me (21) go at my father's 1/2 weekends. I'm an university student with two jobs and one theatre activity so my weeks are pretty busy and I only have the weekends to relax and enjoy my...
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{ "description": "legitimately checking my classmate's test paper", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for legitimately checking my classmate's test paper?
This happened a long time ago but i got this flashback and im bugged by it so i just want to hear your thoughts: My classmate is like the jesus of our classroom, he is a helpful person and a calm boy. He's also one of the most respected ones due to his deeds. He's cool and all, but when it comes to tests and activitie...
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{ "description": "telling my mother my sister got a second job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my mother my sister got a second job
My sister and mother always had an "uncomfortable" in my opinion interest in my love life. I admit I'm kind of a shut in who doesn't go out much and my love life is pretty much non existent. But every time I talk to a girl they ask me a million questions about it and i find it intrusive and annoying and any time I ask ...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "calling out a referee during the middle of a football match", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling out a referee during the middle of a football match?
Today, during the middle of a game of football, our goalie(who is new to the game) ended up picking up the ball outside of the box. This gave the other team a quick direct kick, which ended in a goal. At the moment, our team was stunned by the goal(between the penalty and the goal was about 2-3 second...
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{ "description": "not rushing to my wife's side to go to the hospital with her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not rushing to my wife's side to go to the hospital with her?
My wife rang me whilst I was at work to say the doctor wants her to go to the hospital for what she explained are tests. I asked if we could go without a booking, assuming it wasn't to go to ER or anything like that and she said yes it will be fine as the GP will notify the hospital we are coming. So with my work, I ...
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{ "description": "kicking a guy off a computer because his headphones were too loud", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking a guy off a computer because his headphones were too loud?
Ok this is rather minor and inconsequential but I'm kind of feeling bad about it. I work in a Library, usually in the computer section, which is beside the study area. It being a Library, quietness is expected. Anyway, there's this one guy Jason, he's been coming in since I started work there 11 years ago. Jason is h...
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{ "description": "not being a good team mate in a fortnight scrim", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being a good team mate in a fortnight scrim
Using a alt bc the team that I'm part on knows my reddit account through it being connected to discord. So recently there was a few scrims that were public and great for experience run by two for nite esports teams, Atlantis, and Secret. I was part of the duo Atlantis scrim. Not semi finals or finals I was in qualifie...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for bailing on plans last minute", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for bailing on plans last minute?
Me and a friend were going to go a concert and less than 24 hours beforehand she bailed. I had asked her about it months in advance and she said she could and go and double checked multiple times and then she decided to tell me she would rather do something with her parents instead of something we had been planning for...
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{ "description": "not inviting an established member of my friend group to an event I am hosting", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I didn't invite an established member of my friend group to an event I am hosting?
Please note: Some (minor) details have been changed to maintain anonymity, but nothing pertaining to the actual moral issue here has been altered :) ​ Hi everyone, So here's the story: I am a 23 year old that just graduated with my undergraduate degree, and am hosting a small get together to celebrate. I...
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{ "description": "laughing when my coworker mispronounces things", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for laughing when my coworker mispronounces things?
Background: I (27F) have the same job as my coworker (23F). We both work in Recreation in a seniors independent living complex. I've been there for 2.5 years, she has been there for 9 months. Much of our job consists of running programs, driving the bus, and basically being in front of people (seniors and sometimes the...
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{ "description": "calling a neighbor a \"see you next Tuesday\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA (WITA) for calling a neighbor a "see you next Tuesday"?
This happened a while ago, almost two years ago, so WITA (was I the asshole) applies more than AITA or WIBTA. I used to live in an apartment complex. You needed a key but some of the maintenance guys had a code they could use to buzz themselves in. One of them told me it one day and I basically used the code in lieu o...
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{ "description": "arguing with a ref after a youth basketball game", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for arguing with a ref after a youth basketball game?
I’m a fifth grade teacher. I also coach basketball in my school district for middle school aged kids. It was a home game and we had a new ref. First he made my boys take off their under shirts. They were wearing black, white, and grey undershirts. These are pre-teen boys who kinda have low self-esteem and were not comf...
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{ "description": "yelling at a golf team on a golf course", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at a golf team on a golf course?
I frequent a well maintained municipal par 3 golf course near my work. Yesterday after work, I met a friend there to enjoy a casual round. There was a group of 12 younger dudes playing in foursomes. Totally normal. Then I see them teeing off from different areas than the actual tee box, elongating the holes (longest ho...
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{ "description": "not inviting some family to my brother's coming home cookout for sake of my mother's mental health", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not inviting some family to my brother’s coming home cookout for sake of my mother’s mental health?
TLDR: momma drama, affects my brother’s coming home cuz I didn’t invite some close fam. My mom was a single parent for most of my childhood. She’s sweet, loving, honest and extremely loyal. She tends to get caught in the middle of the family fights. Every time something happens, people drag her into it. Since she wa...
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Aita
I hate my uncle's new wife he married her for money and now that they blew through the money there broke and have nothing and she abuses her dogs and is very rude to her baby and my Uncle's kid
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my ex and their mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cutting ties with my ex and their mom?
I broke up with my ex of 7 years. There was a lot of abuse coming from both ways. After going to therapy for a few months, I came to the conclusion that I could not continue my relationship with them. I ended the relationship. ​ I had a good relationship with their mom, I helped her and she definitely help...
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{ "description": "not picking my friends group", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not picking my friends group?
Basically, we were given groups in a project thing and she was put with people she absolutely dispises. For some reason, I was able to pick my group as I was a leftover. I felt really bad for picking another group when she was begging me to join hers. But the thing is, shes been changing a lot and becoming nasty, so I...
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{ "description": "regularly using restaurants feedback form to get free meals", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for regularly using restaurants feedback form to get free meals?
I eat out pretty often, and of course, some of these experiences are bad. About a year ago was the first time I used the site on the receipt to tell a restaurant about my experience. It was a pretty terrible experience at popular pizza place in the US. I got an email apologizing and asking for an address so they could ...
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{ "description": "wanting to date my ex's and my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to date my ex's and my Friend
So I (30M) and my ex (30F) who dated for five years have been broken up on and off the past two years and officially done for eight months. We moved to a city together when we first started dating and have a lot of the same friends. The reason I bring this up is that a few years back we tried to open up our relations...
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AITA For pretty much always saying no to going out when my friends ask.
AITA: The other day my bestfriend invited me to one of my friends party. But I dont like going out (which he knows) so I lied and said I have been sick the whole week. Anyhow my bestfriend comes home from that party and sees that im online on steam. He start writing to me and going off on me. Pretty much saying that,...
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{ "description": "going for a drink with an old mates ex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going for a drink with an old mates ex?
The old mate in question I was friends with in college when I was 16 and we were close for the 2 years we were at college but lost contact after that. Within that time she was with a boyfriend whom I also became close friends with but there was nothing romantic between us at all. They since split up a few years back an...
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{ "description": "lying to avoid covering shifts on my days off? the person I care for at work is completely disabled", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying to avoid covering shifts on my days off? The person I care for at work is completely disabled.
Posting from a throwaway because I feel like a major asshole and my default account has vaguely identifying info. I work as an at-home caregiver, my job involves working one-on-one with a single client multiple days a week. She has other people who also work for her as well as friends and family that know how to assi...
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{ "description": "dropping out of college when my sister paid for the tuition", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for dropping out of college when my sister paid for the tuition?
When I was 15, my father(65) died to prostate cancer. He had a modest job and didn't make much money. Regardless, he had always been frugal and managed to save up. When he died, he left me with around 25k in the bank. I had always gone to a private school(the norm in my country), so most of that money went to my mother...
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{ "description": "turning down the tv in the room next to mine since it was keeping me up", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for turning down the TV in the room next to mine since it was keeping me up?
So, my (17M) twin brothers (12M) are playing video games with a couple friends at 11pm. I was in my room attempting to sleep, but the video game noise was keeping me up. I walk into the room and decrease the TV volume and then one brother throws a fit. My mom tells the boys it’s time to turn off the games and go to sle...
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{ "description": "attending a liar's wedding", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for attending a liar's wedding?
My uncle is getting married this weekend. Everyone knows except his kids. And ex-wife. His ex-wife has some dirt on him that could get him fired from a job he's about to retire from in a few months. So he hasn't told his kids because then his ex would find out etc. I am friends with the kids (my cousins), we love an...
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{ "description": "reporting potential harassment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for reporting potential harassment?
I went out with some friends, halfway through Susan typed in the group chat that she saw a security guard had touched Brenda's waist on the pretext of helping her get through a door and she saw it. And then she claimed the guard was acting creepy and had approached her too. I asked which one it was because there were m...
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{ "description": "lying to my mum", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for lying to my mum?
I always get in arguments with my Mum because I am terribly depressed constantly and she refuses to do anything about it. She complains that I’m so negative I say it’s because I’m depressed and she gets upset at me for being depressed, and the cycle continues. I don’t specifically blame her for refusing to take me to ...
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{ "description": "confronting something that was hurting me months after it started", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for confronting something that was hurting me months after it started?
I’m currently in an argument with my friends boyfriend because I confronted him on why I wasn’t okay with their relationship. Long story short, I had a thing with him, it didn’t work out, he dated my friend shortly after. I felt used as a way to get close to her. I never claimed he did use me I just said that I felt ...
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{ "description": "telling my parents how I really feel", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my parents how I really feel?
Hello, this may be a bit long and I'm horrible at English so please excuse any mistakes in this story. This is my first post to Reddit so I have no clue if I need to do anything or not, I’m very clueless as to how this site works. Anyways, I’m on this subreddit because I feel bad for what I’ve done even though I did a...
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{ "description": "getting into a light argument with my friend... over pokimane", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting into a light argument with my friend... Over Pokimane?
TL;DR I told him that he had a crush on a piece of shit (Pokimane), but I feel like a hypocrite because I like Belle Delphine. ​ My friend has one of those celebrity crushes on a Twitch streamer, Pokimane. A while ago, unknowing that he liked her, I linked him to a video exposing her and all her wrongdoin...
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{ "description": "yelling at my GF and refusing to apologize for it, even if that means she will break up with for over that", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for yelling at my GF and refusing to apologize for it, even if that means she will break up with for over that?
I want to give you guys a little idea about the context, so this post is probably going to be a little long. My gf (19f) and I (21m) have a LDR. This obviously brings some difficulties, as we only see eachother every three months or so. We're both in uni, but she has been struggling alot with motivation and anxiety. S...
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{ "description": "trying to improve a friendship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to improve a friendship?
So, my best friend of 2 1/2 years and I have recently ended our friendship after I texted her telling her my feelings about how I was feeling left out. I will refer to her as “S” occasionally. Before I get into what i said, let me give some background. Before the summer ended, she was very adamant that we hang out. We...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend regarding his lack of Christmas gift", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend regarding his lack of Christmas gift?
Background: white European female, boyfriend male Indian, both in early 30s. Both atheists. So although I’m an atheist, I enjoy celebrating Christmas with a tree, lights and spending time with family and friends, oh and the gifts are really a nice part as well (giving and receiving). As my boyfriend is Indian, befor...
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{ "description": "ignoring this guy who really wanted to be my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ignoring this guy who really wanted to be my friend.
So to preface this, I always make friends with the “awkward” kids, because I understand it and I can be on the weird side to people myself because of my mental illnesses. So I make friends with a lot of people who don’t have many other friends but me. In high school, this kid used to come up to me and always spout ran...
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{ "description": "consuming edibles I got for my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for consuming edibles I got for my friend
I work at a dispensary, spoke with a female friend of mine that I'd get her some goodies as a Christmas gift. Shes a mom with like a 6 year old daughter. I talked with her that we'd have a visit for the holidays. I didn't want to come off as desperate for her company , so I didn't want to bother her. I ended up eating...
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{ "description": "team killing in a very close game", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for team killing in a very close game?
This is CSGO(Counter Strike Global Offensive), so there’s that info for you guys. Info: I’m GN2, so toxicity is common, whatever. Every fucking game I get throwers, assholes, or people that are mad at my .9 KDR. I got battered by my team for being 11/13 20 rounds in. I get domed by a deagle off spawn every round, so a...
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{ "description": "saying what I said", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying what I said?
I student teach- read observe someone else teach- two times a week. Lately the discussion has been antibiotic adherence, antibiotic stewardship, prevention of antibiotic resistant micro-organisms, and barriers to treatment. The instructor asked for my input as I am still practicing. I stated “often times, poor or impov...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my friends cancel on my bday because its the saturday after valentines day", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if i get mad that my friends cancel on my bday because its the saturday after valentines day?
**so some context;** so my birthday is February 16th. My usual group of friends almost always goes out on saturday nights. the group consists of me, my friend (we'll call him M), his GF (B) and her friend (J). So recently M and B have been having some fights and i guess theyre trying to make a better effort in the rela...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my boyfriend wants to spend NYE with his friend instead of me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting upset that my boyfriend wants to spend NYE with his friend instead of me?
So me (27F) and my (37M) boyfriend talking on the phone about what we want to do for New Year's Eve, I was saying that I miss having house parties and asked why no one ever seems to have parties anymore and he said it was because I'm getting old. So that made fell shit as I'm quiet self conscious about hitting my late ...
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{ "description": "telling a couple crying in a car on the sidewalk to move", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling a couple crying in a car on the sidewalk to move?
okay, so first parking on the sidewalk is for some reason an extremely common thing in my country, so every time I see someone doing this I get pretty angry and act the same way. so today I got of the bus as usual and started to walk to my house, after maybe 100 meters the sidewalk gets narrower and there is a fence (...
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{ "description": "being weird", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being weird?
Short version: I'm very socially awkward, a girl (now gf) has started dating me despite knowing and now she's trying to change me and I got annoyed and told her off. ​ long version: I had very little contact with other people as a child (and teen), basically only went to school for tests and required atte...
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{ "description": "getting angry at one of my best friends for nearly making out with a girl I recently dated", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I get angry at one of my best friends for nearly making out with a girl I recently dated?
Strongly suggest you [read this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/a2oa0u/aita_for_ignoring_a_girl_that_im_trying_to_move/), since it´s about the same girl. I´ll try to make it short. Yesterday there was a party were all of my friends and college classmates were going. It started off early and I go...
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{ "description": "calling a really conceited girl \"ugly\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For calling a really conceited girl “ugly”?
A little back story: Theres this girl in my class who constantly interrupts the class and always does her makeup in class in front of everybody. Everybody just lets her talk down on them because shes pretty, shes never asked me because i sit in the back of the class and mind my own business. I rlly doubt anyone likes h...
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{ "description": "ignoring a happy birthday message and continuing to ignore an old friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ignoring a happy birthday message and continuing to ignore an old friend?
I’ve had this friend for almost a decade. Very good friend, we always have fun when we’re together. We live in Cali. She went to a tour of Europe in January and had plans to return in November. She invited me and said I would go but I only wanted to go to Paris and she said she’d be down to meet me there. She’s persi...
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AITA? I spoke with a friend about sextoys, my girlfriend is upset.
me and my girlfriend are both pretty active in the kink scene, but have always been and always will be in a monogamous relationship. The other day, I mentioned that a friend of mine (a woman) had purchased a similar sex toy to what we have. I was just trying to make conversation with my gf. I honestly don't know why I...
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{ "description": "driving away my best friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for driving away my best friend?
I had this one friend, and we did almost everything together. Our friendship had always been really special to me, because he had always been there for me. He supported me through all of my downs, and I tried my best to do the same for him. He was even my wingman when I had a huge crush on one girl in our friend gro...
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{ "description": "saying I dont care about my biological grandparents", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying i dont care about my biological grandparents
A little bit of backstory. My dad was given up for adoption when he was 3 weeks old. He was quickly taken into a big loving family that raised him his whole life and gave him a normal life. I never got to meet my grandpa who raised him and his mother died when I was 5. My dad and mom have been happily married for 25 ye...
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{ "description": "not wanting my sister-in-law and her newly injured child to travel and stay with my family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my sister-in-law and her newly injured child to travel and stay with my family?
I love my sister-in-law and her children. Their family lives 18 hours away so we see them 2 or 3 times a year (if we are luck). Recently my sister-in-law has been struggling with stress and anxiety. She has good reason for it and she is trying to get help. My in-laws thought it would be a nice treat for her to get awa...
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AITA Is it considered offensive to give your negative opinions on someone?
Basically a social-based question. Is it considered offensive to give your negative opinions on someone? For example I've given negative but constructive opinions to others but they took this offensively. Yet when I took offensively another person giving me a negative opinion without reasoning, they said "oh it's an ...
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{ "description": "getting mad over gf and friend putting sticky notes all over my car in the middle of our college parking lot", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad over gf and friend putting sticky notes all over my car in the middle of our college parking lot?
This is really petty and light but I can’t help feeling mad. Basically my friend who will call M is going on a date with a girl named G. When they’re on the date, my gf and friend told me they were gonna follow them to their date and sticky note their entire car. I never really gave my reaction, I never told them “hah...
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{ "description": "taking my little brothers switch controllers", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for taking my little brothers switch controllers?
So I have 2 little brothers, one is 13 and the other is 11. 2 summers ago I was lucky enough to win a Nintendo Switch in a crane game at an amusement park, so I took it home and set it up in my room (I’m 17 at this point). However, we only had 2 games for the system: Mario Odyssey and BoTW, I finished Odyssey fairly qu...
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{ "description": "being amused at pissing off the religious guy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being amused at pissing off the religious guy?
Just as a quick context. I work in the fast food industry and normally close to closing time the kitchen staff like to play music while they clean. This is usually on phones in a plastic cup close by them so the rest of us don't have to hear it and they can make the cleaning less tedious for themselves. Well, (fo...
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{ "description": "banning someone for making my friend cry and definitely not doxing them", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for banning someone for making my friend cry and definitely not DOXing them.
This happened about 2 weeks ago, and my Discord is pretty split on the matter. There was this guy (M) who was pretty annoying, but he was secretly cyber-bullying my friend (B). No one would listen to her, even though she told us about it. We thought it was just M being M. We were talking one day and B joins the Discord...
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{ "description": "switching groups for our class' group assignment", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I switched groups for our class' group assignment?
In one of my small classes of 11 people, we were instructed to work in groups of 3 to complete a short assignment. We're all pretty friendly with each other. This 1 girl that was sitting right by me in class looked to her right, where I was sitting, and asked "Who wants to be in my group?" and the girl in front of me w...
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{ "description": "saying Jesus or Jesus Christ, taking the name in vain, even though I'm not a Christian", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I say Jesus or Jesus Christ, taking the name in vain, even though I'm not a Christian?
I started saying it along with "Oh God" or "God Damn it" or "What the Hell", etc. Then I realized that by saying that instead of "God", I avoid taking that name in vain, which I guess is better for me since Jesus has no religious significance to me. But I guess that some Christians might get offended, Also, WIBTA...
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